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Logisticsrichtofen_1/r/seduction03/11/25 01:25 AM
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Lifestylerichtofen_1/r/seduction27/05/26 06:16 PM
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Nigga is acting like someone forced him to🤣
/r/seduction23/07/26 08:16 PM
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If you’re going to the gym to meet people, u fucked up.
/r/seduction17/07/26 02:36 AM
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😂😂
/r/seduction29/06/26 04:42 AM
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Totally understand. I’m doing it for me, not her. I’m doing it so this never happens to me again. And you’re right; I shouldn’t keep her at the back of my mind during all of this essentially. That’s gonna prevent me from moving on. I am thankful for whatever she told me and that she ended things. Without that, I wouldn’t have had the fire in me to fix these things which I myself knew needed to be fixed. Thanks for the mature and thoughtful response.
/r/seduction28/05/26 08:50 PM
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Thanks for the amazing response. I think you hit this head on. She literally said she has so much fun with me and it’s hard to end it because we have great chemistry. She said in her heart she wants to stay with me, but logically she knows it isn’t right for her. Like you said, she was def quietly observing and saw the concerns as patterns. As for the future, I’m trying to work on fixing some of these things as to ensure a woman never leaves me again due to not being able to see long term compat…
/r/seduction28/05/26 05:25 PM
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I mean I don’t think im playing anything tbh. She is the one who ended it. I’m just tryna save my dignity by not asking her to hang after she said she’s not tryna continue.
/r/seduction27/05/26 10:45 PM
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I haven’t spoken to her for about 2.5 weeks. We hung about twice after she ended it and hooked up one of the times. But, it’s been 2.5 weeks since then and I have no plans on hitting her up because I feel it’ll make it hard for me to move on if I see her again.
/r/seduction27/05/26 09:41 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction27/05/26 09:13 PM
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How long do you think she’d take to do this (if she even did)? I did lowkey chase a bit at the start I won’t lie bc I was pretty surprised. Doesn’t help my case.
/r/seduction27/05/26 08:57 PM
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This is great advice tbh. The right girl will align with me, and vice versa.
/r/seduction27/05/26 08:22 PM
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That’s lowkey exactly what it was. Just sucks because I was finally ready to settle down, then I cause this upon my own self by ignoring little signs. Guess I know better for next time.
/r/seduction27/05/26 07:24 PM
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Yeah I think you could be right. I am also the first person she went on a date with in a year, so she might have been infatuated after getting back in the scene. Then the initial feelings subsided and she probably realized she wasn’t as into it as she thought due to specific reasons.
/r/seduction27/05/26 06:42 PM
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Yes future goals, child hood, just anything that isn’t surface level. Hmm why did you wait for her to steer? If you were curious, you could have also done so right? Anyways, I guess I was just trying to gauge how serious you guys were, that’s why I asked my question!
/r/seduction27/05/26 06:24 PM
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How were your conversations with her in general? Were they surface level? Did you guys get deep?
/r/seduction27/05/26 06:09 PM
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Same thing happened to me over the course of 6 weeks. Started hanging out almost every single day, and as we got more serious, she started really thinking critically about things and realized we might not be compatible. Totally sucks as I really liked her. At this point im working on myself a lot and trying to make sure this never happens again to me. For me, it’s more about becoming more mature and long term dependable and less of the “fun guy”. Not sure what the reason is in your case, but som…
/r/seduction27/05/26 06:01 PM
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Bro this is too long lmao no one is reading this.
/r/seduction18/04/26 05:41 PM
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Plaid shorts, also sneakers with jeans (unless you know what you’re doing)
/r/seduction02/04/26 03:28 PM
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You not helping a struggling woman to carry a box is you just being a dick. I don’t think you understand what it means to be a “bad boy”.
/r/seduction18/03/26 07:01 PM
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Good advice. Basic but good.
/r/seduction11/03/26 04:01 AM
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“You caught my eye” is absolutely not too much to say bro
/r/seduction07/03/26 04:44 PM
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Cats are cute. Girls like cute things. I have two cats, and girls adore them.
/r/seduction02/03/26 03:29 PM
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I need to go more sober too tbh
/r/seduction26/02/26 04:23 AM
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It means “noun”. Can be used to substitute for any noun
/r/seduction26/02/26 02:57 AM
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You just hyped me up I need to run some generational sets tonight 😭
/r/seduction21/02/26 12:14 AM
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Shitty how so? Control what you can. Make sure it’s very clean, smells good, soap/towels in bathroom, you have clean dishes to give her water with, etc.
/r/seduction18/02/26 01:27 AM
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Let’s say you go on a date, and things go well. Now, you want to take her home, but you can’t. It’s way easier to invite a girl to your place than to invite yourself to their place.
/r/seduction18/02/26 12:17 AM
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My friend does this all the time and the key is being very social. Make friends with guys there, then you guys can wing each other. You can do this by making conversation with them. Keep doing this, and you’ll get confident enough to even approach girls when you’re alone. Helps to have a drink or two sometimes as well; don’t overdo it though. Bottom line is, repetition is what will make you more confident and with practice comes confidence.
/r/seduction17/02/26 11:55 PM
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Weed and mushrooms are not things you should do on a second date at all in my opinion.
/r/seduction16/02/26 07:02 PM
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I know right wtf?? Lmao
/r/seduction12/02/26 08:00 PM
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First of all, change it to drinks, not ice cream. Optimize for a spot where you can sit next to her, and initiate touch. Be flirty. Then go to a second bar close by where you can make a move. Then invite her back to yours. This is not super detailed, but lmk if you have questions on any of the specific things I said.
/r/seduction11/02/26 07:18 PM
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Hmm I mean 8-9pm isn’t too late for dinner. But if u insist on staying in the car, I’d probably take her on a nice drive, park up, then have a convo. Once you build some tension, say “let’s move to the back” or something
/r/seduction11/02/26 06:01 PM
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How late? Is there no way you can do an evening date? Well if it must be a car date, you gotta somehow get her in the back I’d say lol. Be confident, have a convo, then maybe ask her if she wants to hang out in the back. There’s only one implication of hanging in the back, so if you’re scared of being bold, ask if she wants to watch something with you in the back on your phone/laptop. Sounds like a lot tho, so I’d be confident and ask if she wants to hang in the back after some time.
/r/seduction11/02/26 05:50 PM
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Car date? What do you mean? Why can’t you go to a cocktail bar or something? Questions I like to ask: What’s the worst date you’ve been on? What’s your type? What’s your favorite compliment to receive? Don’t ask these asap. Have a conversation, and build into these questions.
/r/seduction11/02/26 05:40 PM
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It’s not BS advice. This advice is not for you if you have a girlfriend. This is advice for someone who has not yet hung out with the girl, and is trying to hang with them.
/r/seduction10/02/26 04:57 PM
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I’m giving him advice which has worked for me. If he doesn’t wanna use it, he doesn’t need to.
/r/seduction01/02/26 05:06 PM
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Don’t think that’s the case. Do you want him to show up without following up?
/r/seduction01/02/26 04:35 PM
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How is that lame at all? It’s exactly what I would do, and what I have done in the past.
/r/seduction01/02/26 02:24 PM
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Monday evening text her, “hey we still good for thursday?” That’s it. Don’t over explain, etc.
/r/seduction01/02/26 11:24 AM
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Mr Olympia 😭
/r/seduction24/01/26 04:27 PM
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Flirty/deeper questions that can open doors: “what’s your type?”, “what’s the worst date you’ve been on?” Physical contact. Always plan the first date at a spot where you are sitting next to her. I like to do a nice lounge/cocktail bar with couches. This opens the door to being more close and physical. You can start by brushing knees, lightly/playfully hitting her shoulder, etc. As tension builds up, you progress and put your arm around her. Then if that goes well, make a move. I typically like …
/r/seduction16/01/26 10:03 AM
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Get drinks with her and be flirty. Go to a second bar and make a move, and ask her to come back to your place. Yeah you can bring up that you think you’ve seen her at your gym. Just be confident and nice.
/r/seduction15/01/26 09:26 PM
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Night game or?
/r/seduction03/01/26 01:39 AM
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DM me. Also open to run night game in nyc.
/r/seduction31/12/25 07:55 PM
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Nice. What other spots do u normally hit?
/r/seduction28/12/25 07:26 PM
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Was it hotel on Rivington lol?
/r/seduction27/12/25 05:45 PM
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I don’t think it’s crazy. You are literally down for the same thing my guy.
/r/seduction14/12/25 06:52 AM
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say hi, hug them, then ask how they are. don’t go in for a kiss in my opinion. that can come later.
/r/seduction19/11/25 10:48 PM
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can i please have a kiss is crazy. you have to set it up properly like you said.
/r/seduction11/11/25 09:40 PM
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disagree. you can go in for it, or you can ask.
/r/seduction11/11/25 08:57 PM
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yep this is basically exactly what i do, down to the 8pm time lol
/r/seduction10/11/25 11:09 PM
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that’s what i do. do you not drink? u guys could do mocktails too.
/r/seduction10/11/25 08:06 PM
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id say make sure you have two spots selected for your date. make sure both spots have couches or seating where you are directly next to your date. this is crucial so you can engage in some physical contact (hand over shoulder, hand on knee, etc). spend some time at the first place, build some rapport, then tell her you know another nice place nearby that u wanna take her. this will almost feel like a second date of some sorts (not really but now you’re going to a new place with someone you are f…
/r/seduction10/11/25 02:11 PM
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Yeah i tend to ask if im skeptical and the results are decent tbh.
/r/seduction05/11/25 02:18 PM
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She just texted me saying ty for last night and that it was nice seeing me again, if that changes anything
/r/seduction03/11/25 03:57 PM
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Trust me bro, I totally feel you. It’s a shitty feeling to vibe so well, then nothing the next day. I’d say wait for a couple days, then double text her. Let me know how it goes!
/r/seduction03/11/25 02:55 PM
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Tale as old as time. Girls when they are out and drunk with friends are much different than when they wake up the next morning. Wait a couple days then double text her saying “let’s get drinks next week” (at this point u have nothing to lose).
/r/seduction03/11/25 02:46 PM
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It will be a bit hard to change your image in her eyes as you’ve already been hanging with her. You can’t abruptly change bc she will sense something is off. Do this slowly: respond slower to texts, don’t show as much interest. Basically gain some respect and make it seem like you are fleeting and aren’t tied down. Let her know what she could be missing out on.
/r/seduction03/11/25 02:28 PM
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Not sure if you’d be able to put this behind you. I have a friend who was insecure about this girlfriend’s past, and it would repeatedly cause issues. If you are okay with her having a kid and want to pursue her, you must get rid of your insecurities. Otherwise, I’d say cast a wider net and don’t invest too much in it if you can’t deal with her past.
/r/seduction03/11/25 02:16 PM
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Yeah idk if it’s worth the effort, time, and money to wait for her to come around. I think I might just send the text as a Hail Mary bc I don’t care enough if I don’t see her again. I think she’s warming up a bit tho, bc the previous dates she didn’t wanna come over, but this time she came over for 10 min to play with my cats, and then we went on a walk. So im conflicted bc maybe if I try as I have been, she will incrementally warm up. Who knows tho..
/r/seduction03/11/25 02:00 PM
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Okay so I can’t really ice her out yet. I guess I gotta hang out w her again (which will take some texting) and then say it.
/r/seduction03/11/25 01:50 PM
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This is great. I am going to try this. I went on a date with her yday, but didn’t text her after. Should I say what you said above today? Or should I text her tomorrow?
/r/seduction03/11/25 01:03 PM
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Sounds crazy but this girl not giving in makes me like her more lmao and I do find her on the prettier end of the girls I’ve been with. What you’re saying makes sense tho. Might have to drop this soon if it continues.
/r/seduction03/11/25 12:51 PM
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So your advice here to to just be straight up with her right?
/r/seduction03/11/25 12:48 PM
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That makes sense man, ty for the response! How would you suggest I put her on the spot? What would you say? Isn’t ghosting her a bit also “walking away”?
/r/seduction03/11/25 12:43 PM
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Yeah you are def right. Thing is, I can actually see myself dating her so im mad conflicted. Ofc I wanna smash, but I do see more potential than just that.
/r/seduction03/11/25 12:41 PM
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I think me admitting that I might kinda like her might scare her off bc she said she isn’t looking for a relationship rn
/r/seduction03/11/25 12:40 PM
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How would you go about this?
/r/seduction03/11/25 05:38 AM
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Sounds good im going to do this. Appreciate the advice boss
/r/seduction03/11/25 03:33 AM
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I think this is good advice. Thanks for responding! One question, we basically text every day, but it’s only a few texts on each end (i tend to take longer to respond). Should i keep up the texting? Or would you not text her for a couple days as part of the mini black out? We went out a few hours ago and I didn’t text her after bc I was annoyed, but wondering if I should text her tomorrow.
/r/seduction03/11/25 03:21 AM
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What would you say to her? I know for a fact that she’s going on dates with other dudes and is prude with them too. She recently moved to this city, and i also know im the only dude who she’s been out with multiple times. However that doesn’t really matter if nothing comes of it. Really not sure how to navigate this bc I asked her what she’s looking for, she said not a relationship but also isn’t into hooking up. Seems like she’s just having fun meeting people but also could be open to something…
/r/seduction03/11/25 02:54 AM
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If you’re at the club, it’s a numbers game. Go up to a girl, tell her “excuse me, you look good”. Feel her response out and go from there.
/r/seduction26/10/25 01:40 PM
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