riordanajs Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	PSA: You probably don't have autism.	Inner Game	riordanajs	/r/seduction	06/04/25 08:14 AM
16	RSD Tyler's hotseat at home, does anyone have any experiences?	Resources	riordanajs	/r/seduction	30/11/25 12:50 PM

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2	How do I become a top notch fuckboy? Do you now? Or do you want to stay in your comfortable identity and magically get girls sucking your dick? Do you want the identity or do you just want the result. Consider what is the journey from who you are now to who you need to become. What you need to give up, what you need to sacrifice. What is your lifestyle in that situation? It will clearly require a process. Are you ready to do the process, ready to fall in love with the process, without guaranteed outcome or progress? Just for the wo…	/r/seduction	07/07/26 05:52 AM
2	If I built a Duolingo but for social skills, game, etc, would you guys use it? I agree, the field is the only real thing. You can still practice. It’s bit like sports, you do different drills in practice and even though none of the drills are same as the real thing, they help you perform in game. Yet, by only doing the drills you will not get good, you need to play the game, as well.	/r/seduction	07/06/26 06:57 AM
17	If I built a Duolingo but for social skills, game, etc, would you guys use it? Sounds like a fun product, don't know if it would be more entertaining than educational, though. There's https://manupgame.com/ and this one I found hilarious when it came out.	/r/seduction	04/06/26 08:54 AM
1	RSD is Back! Owen's Last Game Program might have some. There's some infield in Hotseat at Home, of course.	/r/seduction	17/05/26 03:08 PM
1	Daygame in Sweden, my experience Gothenburg has a sizeable me/na population with the usual negatives that come with it. Daytime advances from men would usually come from this group and everyone knows the stereotypes by now.	/r/seduction	17/04/26 02:56 PM
17	Is the life of promiscuity worth it? You need multiple ROI’s. Doing it for only sex isn’t a large enough payout. The social skills learned and the person you can become are the real payout.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 03:59 AM
2	Is the life of promiscuity worth it? It is. But not only for the sex. You have to get multiple ROI’s for the time and work investment that building great social skills takes. Then again, you can probably see how great social skills can help you in professional life. A lot of how you will end up doing in life will depend on your social circle.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 03:57 AM
4	Best hobbies or jobs to get girls? Sound insight. It takes a certain kind of person to first build a social circle to draw from. Nate that I mentioned in the original comment started from nothing as an ex financial analyst from NY, so that's why he's a good example. I've followed his story from the beginning and it's been amazing to see what a dedicated guy can do.	/r/seduction	06/04/26 07:19 AM
15	Best hobbies or jobs to get girls? Ultimate ”game” profession is a club promoter. Promoters have the access to both venues on one hand and girls on the other. They get to choose who are invited and who are not and when you get better, you’ll get private clients among the rich and famous. For reference, look up @miamipromoter_nate on IG. Others are DJ (especially strip club one), bartender and bouncer. Anyone who is a facilitator of fun, basically.	/r/seduction	06/04/26 06:30 AM
17	How do I ask for fwb the right way? They are bound to ask something along the lines "what are we?" at some point. You can either be honest at this point, or do what players do and tell them how you really like them, but can't really say right now, as you don't know where your life is going in general or so. edit: It's called situationship by the youth nowadays.	/r/seduction	09/01/26 11:18 AM
2	Finally approached Modern women change men more often than trad women change shirts... And have side guys etc. If she wants to fuck you, she will leave her man to do that, or betray him... Next time, don't show interest, just befriend her and when a man leaves a woman to the friendzone, she will be baffled and often makes the move herself. If not, female friends are a great asset. She has friends who she might introduce to you, as you're a cool guy, and she gives you social proof as a wingman and in your ig feed. …	/r/seduction	31/12/25 08:49 AM
1	Is it weird to hook up with your ex? If she was appalled, it would be not because you hook up with your ex, it would be because she would think she can't measure up to your ex. The one thing women can use to hold power in relationship is pussy, and if a man can get pussy from somewhere else, most women are uncomfortable with the shift in the power dynamic.	/r/seduction	23/12/25 11:04 AM
1	How to act in a relationship? What you learn in the game helps with maintaining a relationship. Instead of gaming the field, you game her. The key for a man to remain desirable in a monogamous relationship is keeping yourself in shape, active and social. You don't fuck other women, because cheating is wrong, but you need to know and feel inside yourself like you could, if she left you. If a woman ever feels like she's the best you can get, she'll start acting like she owns you.	/r/seduction	23/12/25 05:22 AM
2	Why all these alpha males on YouTube still unmarried or still figuring it out PUA didn't start with The Game, or Neil Strauss or Mystery, it was popularised by them, and David DeAngelo and RSD... But it existed way before and Ross Jeffries might be the real OG, from 1992: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d28usWdvmSg	/r/seduction	24/11/25 07:44 PM
1	35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start? When a woman wants money for sex we call that a whore. And I don't know about you, but I prefer to get my sex for free.	/r/seduction	24/11/25 04:36 AM
-1	35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start? It does help with getting laid. Work makes you logical and serious, the exact opposite of that modern women want. They want cool and fun, relaxed and confident. Providers are not attractive the least, as women make their own money now.	/r/seduction	23/11/25 08:16 AM
1	35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start? RSD's classic The Hotseat at Home would be optimal for learning the ropes. You could try to aim at being a promoter, they have the greatest access to a conveyer belt of beautiful women. Just don't get hooked on cocaine. The only thing that really matters with women is your frame. Just for getting laid the best guys are complete degenerates, who have fun and care shit about anything. Start by listening to the OG's like Owen Cook, Charisma in the Void (Jeffy Allen) and Michael Sartain on Youtube. …	/r/seduction	23/11/25 08:07 AM
1	Seducian as being Austist, How? One of the OG legends of the game is Owen Cook, who is on the spectrum. You can find him on Youtube. He has a son who is a lot more autistic.	/r/seduction	17/11/25 08:30 PM
1	Do you guys eat 🐱for 1 night stands Pretty much this. I have to trust the woman before doing it. Fingerplay and squirting is another matter.	/r/seduction	25/10/25 09:45 PM
1	Are women after 25 harder to game? https://imgflip.com/i/a8v8jr	/r/seduction	12/10/25 02:12 PM
-2	Are women after 25 harder to game? This might have something to do with the fact that high status guys start dumping them after 25... And they feel like they need to settle. Let mr. hoe_math explain it to you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sUUaVQjvSGc	/r/seduction	12/10/25 09:50 AM
1	I think I am becoming a "Bad Boy"! 31M A couple of points here. Yeah, dealing with women at a club can make you jaded, it's not an environment condusive for constructive interactions. This is what feminism on steroids has done. There is no collective pressure for women to behave or grow as people, so most of them don't. For more information, check out hoe_math on YouTube, he'll spell it out for you: https://www.youtube.com/@hoe_math If you make one single mistake during the dating process with them (talking stage here) they bail out.…	/r/seduction	12/10/25 07:29 AM
34	Broke deadbeats who pull beautiful women...how do they do it? Fun is the currency of the social life. Fun leads to more fun and sex is the most fun thing. Also, these people have nothing to lose, so they are not clingy or desperate, but aloof. This makes them seem like a prize. Women have two categories for men, one is the provider, who get the dating treatment, and other is the fun guy, who get the sex without commitment. You know which one you want to be.	/r/seduction	26/09/25 06:46 AM
1	130 Cold Approaches In: Is This Worth It? Yeah, it's worth it. It's not about the result, it's about the person you become when you keep doing it.	/r/seduction	04/09/25 10:51 AM
20	Cold Approach Will SAVE YOU. Yeah, my thoughts excatly. Nothing compares to cold approach in building social skills. Cold approach is also a great way to build and widen a good social circle. It's a no brainer.	/r/seduction	24/08/25 06:22 AM
2	Hostel Seduction Strategy Think party places for young people. Ibiza is obvious, but there are many less obvious.	/r/seduction	17/08/25 10:16 AM
10	Hostel Seduction Strategy You'll almost always find more men in hostels whan women. Men are more adventurous and less in danger in such places, especially in big cities. Things are different in beach bungalow places and other youth targeting beach destinations. There you'll have a better ratio in my experience.	/r/seduction	16/08/25 10:15 AM
1	Thanks to this sub i get to enjoy my fwb walking around my room naked .. Thanks seduction! Winning! Nice!	/r/seduction	07/08/25 06:11 PM
2	If a girl your age who has a boyfriend and lives next door is pushing her luck to be friends with you, what’s her intention? Remember that having female friends (as in: you put her into a friendzone) can get you access to her social circle, which may open opportunities.	/r/seduction	03/08/25 05:46 AM
1	19m here. Is it normal to not cum during sex? It could be the condom. Do you use it for handjobs and blowjobs too?	/r/seduction	25/07/25 06:48 AM
2	For 40s Men Old RSD instructors are in their mid forties and seem to have little problem approaching young women. Look for Owen Cook, the Jeffy Show, Madison Social Influence and Todd V Dating on Youtube.	/r/seduction	11/07/25 08:20 PM
19	Think i fumbled badly. im very depressed The problem is that the game is real whether you know the rules or not. I used to be a hardcase as a newbie and it sucks. There's no real shortcut here, best thing would be to speedrun the first six months in a blurry of action, concentrating only on getting dates. What general culture calls crush is known as a oneitis in our subculture. Oneitis is a clitch in your consciousness, where you think one woman is somehow special as you refuse to see her realistically and often put her on pedestal. Th…	/r/seduction	03/07/25 05:44 AM
1	Date bailed what's next? Another date, then another and another. Also, do something cool and post about in socials, if you want to cultivate fomo.	/r/seduction	28/06/25 10:02 AM
2	its 35 yo a good age to start, or its already too late? Well, I didn't understand shit about social dynamics. I had been in two long relationships where I was the mostly nice guy, and those had lasted, looking back at them, mostly due mutual co-dependency and corresponding traumas. So when I started going out and being the "hi there, how's it going" guy, there was a lot of harsh, brutal and short interactions where I was ignored very quickly. I remember going home after more than one night crying and smoking weed to cope with the pain. I started goin…	/r/seduction	22/05/25 07:41 PM
12	its 35 yo a good age to start, or its already too late? I started 10 years ago at 35. After some painful lessons I got to a decent level, had my fun and now I have a young spouse and a soon two-year old son.	/r/seduction	22/05/25 04:32 AM
2	How does the 'bad boy' thing work in practice? It's not about being a bad boy, it's about strength. Check the video, hoe_math explains it far better in it than I could in a short Reddit comment. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RB1Ed_kvZNM	/r/seduction	22/05/25 04:12 AM
26	The blind should not lead the blind I think you just summed up Reddit, if not the whole internet...	/r/seduction	04/05/25 07:36 AM
12	I approached a milf at the library That's well done, and for your own and for civilization's sake: don't fuck married women, the divorce rate is abhorrent as it is, without us making things worse. There's more than enough single women, so stick with them.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 05:00 PM
9	I stopped talking to her, but now she wants to talk! You just discovered one of the underlying social dynamics. Whoever wants the least is wanted the most, basically. If you stay uninterested, she will continue to pursue you for at least a time being.	/r/seduction	18/04/25 08:40 AM
5	Handsome man game? The transition from intermediate to advanced means you don't think about it as game, you just live it in your daily life. Sounds like you are good looking enough that they notice you, so you just need to talk to them and be normal, you will get the chances to escalate naturally, at that point.	/r/seduction	14/04/25 04:09 AM
4	Is Studying 'Game' While in a Relationship a Form of Cheating? You should. Men have this tendency to stagnate when in a relationship, not only in social skills, but also in things like the gym. Yet, these things were the ones that she got attracted to in you. You can only keep a woman if you could replace her with another of similar hotness in about two weeks. If the relationship dynamic becomes lopsided, she will lose interest.	/r/seduction	14/04/25 04:01 AM
8	Update: How to go from cuddling to sex Good on you. It'll get better. :)	/r/seduction	12/04/25 11:16 AM
2	PSA: You probably don't have autism. Thanks for the insight. It's useful to get diagnosed for sure, if you're not wrongly labeled. The article I posted is about that, and getting labeled by a professional might also have detrimental effect. And yeah, I wholeheartedly agree with your end statement, I'd say people with slight neuroatypicality should pursue self improvement and especially social skill training as part of their self treatment.	/r/seduction	06/04/25 11:12 AM
1	Do good looking men get shit tested as much as the average guy? It's not as much about the hotness of the guy. It's more about the hotness difference. Women who are 10 will shit test everyone. 9's will shit test almost everyone. When you get to difference of 2 points in hotness in favour of the man, there will be no shit tests at all. Can you imagine even a really hot stewardess shit testing Drake? Didn't think you would. How to be higher in the male hotness chart? Look up hoe_math's self maximize. Then look up Owen Cook's 1 of 1 concept.	/r/seduction	06/04/25 09:08 AM
34	How to go from cuddling to sex Edit as this is important: It won't be smooth. It will be awkward, sweaty, clueless and silly. You're horny teenagers, not porn stars. Just go with it and have zero expectation. 1st: Bring a condom. Do you have one at hand? 2nd. To know what she likes, you could ask. But you're 18 and probably don't know that much about looking for subtle cues with innocent, yet seually subtexted conversations. And women, for some reason, like to appear mysterious, so you need to learn to read them. Basically yo…	/r/seduction	06/04/25 09:01 AM
6	Apart from Models, what single dating book most positively affected you? Not maybe considered a classic dating book, but Manson's The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck works also in dating context.	/r/seduction	01/04/25 04:30 PM
1	She did it, but I can't do it The key here is that you put extra meaning in to the interaction and she does not. She can talk to you as she is just asking for help with gym equipment, she doesn't need to be smooth or for it to go well, nor does she have any expectation or pressure for a certain outcome. All the pressure in the interaction from your side is in your mind. You can have an intention when you talk to a woman, but you shouldn't have any expectation for how it will go. Drop the expectation, let go of the outcome an…	/r/seduction	31/03/25 03:55 AM
2	Do girls not like nice guys at all? Women like men who make their pussy feel good. It is as it is, if you really want to know why, study evolutionary mating psychology, these things are way beyond our conscious mind and much earlier adaptations than neocortex.	/r/seduction	29/03/25 09:54 AM
2	Hobbies that could make you better with women? Live action RPG scene, the one where you dress up as your characters and play act like theater has more women than men, at least here in Finland. And many of them open to flings in the games, as well.	/r/seduction	29/03/25 07:53 AM
1	Why do girls give strong, obvious indications of interest and then act rude/make you feel stupid when you approach, and how do you deal with this? It's about the vibe you give off. She doesn't reject you, you have rejected yourself and her at the same time. If your intent is 100 % make her have fun and be attracted, you'll slay. If it's wishy-washy hope that you'll be good enough and she won't reject you, you've already admitted to yourself and signaled to her that she shouldn't like you. She wants you to be a good man and a leader, she wants to go home with a great man, so you have to be one. It's a bit like a 10 coming to say hi to you a…	/r/seduction	29/03/25 07:47 AM
8	For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my dating Good list, nice that you bring up logistics, it's such an important and overlooked part of the game.	/r/seduction	24/03/25 10:04 PM
1	How to recover from a side hug? I agree with everything else but with the second chance part. You can get second chance in certain situations, when in the mood, women are in the moment and won't think about what happened in the awkward first date. You're right, however, that setting up a second date by texting with at best a lukewarm girl will almost invariably fail.	/r/seduction	19/03/25 07:21 AM
2	How to recover from a side hug? You're overthnking it. Is this the only girl who you're currently messaging and meeting up with? Your post gives vibes of desperation and scarcity. How about finding more women in your life and then this kind of situation won't bother you anymore. You can ask her out for another date, sure, but you have to man up. Nothing is ever quaranteed, so you need to be happy with whatever happens. As long as you let her define your mood, she sets the frame and you're in the effect not at the cause. This p…	/r/seduction	19/03/25 07:15 AM
1	Didn’t use protection I'd take chlamydia and gonorrhea tests as well, those are the most common ones.	/r/seduction	17/03/25 05:14 AM
1	I built a game that help you pass her sh*t tests I played a couple of rounds, this is great. :D	/r/seduction	11/02/25 08:55 AM
1	I’m tired of taking Ls It gets better, sometimes it has to get worse before it get better, though. Push through this and the game gods will reward you. Remind yourself you're playing for the skillset, not for temporary results. The Game is Real, whether we want to play it or not... https://youtu.be/4XEUTjuLByY?si=FWZ86Qws-HPZT7hD	/r/seduction	20/01/25 05:51 AM
2	You guys helped me get laid Nice!	/r/seduction	20/01/25 05:38 AM
1	Does experience actually matter in the long term ? Experience matters, but the age you get the experience at as a man matters a lot less. If you start at 28, go out 3-4 times/week and actually approach, you'll get good in a year, easily. By the time you're 30, you'll be saying no to good looking women. If you find it hard to start, find a bootcamp or an accountability group to get you started and keep you going. Getting into a relationship without having to confidence that you can replace your girlfriend with someone at least as attractive will …	/r/seduction	26/12/24 11:34 AM
7	Till when should a man pay? My policy is that before we've had sex, I pay for nothing, or offer her nothing. After sex it's different, as she's invested properly in to the relationship. Edit: I come from the Nordics, so things might be different in other parts of the world, here this seems like a good strategy.	/r/seduction	26/12/24 10:30 AM
1	Bars/clubs are a waste of time to game, here are my reasons We game in bars and clubs not because it is easy. We game in bars and clubs and do these other things because they are hard.	/r/seduction	24/12/24 06:17 PM
4	Does love still exist or is it all a game? If you are asking whether the old way of pairing, where everyone basically finds someone, has a crush and ends up together and dating monogamously is still true? This is rarer by the day. Basically about 20 percentage of the most eligible men are wanted by most women and attractive men will not commit. This leads to them getting most of the female attention, while bottom 30 percentage of men haven't had sex in over a year. You talk about game and love like they would be mutually exclusive. In re…	/r/seduction	22/12/24 10:46 PM
11	What does it mean when she says "I don't want to ruin our friendship" Social proof will activate the targets RAS is what I mean. RAS is, in addition to other things, in control of our selective focus, which is a base layer feed on how we place value on things. (https://traumaresearchuk.org/ras-reticular-activating-system/) In this case the woman's RAS is focusing on the "beta" or friendship qualities of the guy and ignores all the "alpha" or mating qualities. If the guy would get social proof, her RAS would start focusing on the "alpha" or mating qualities. Now as…	/r/seduction	29/10/24 05:39 PM
30	What does it mean when she says "I don't want to ruin our friendship" This. And the funny thing is if he gets more women attracted to him, this girl will change her mind as well. It's called RAS, people should check it out.	/r/seduction	29/10/24 04:27 PM
42	An indifferent man You have to have your priorities straight. Think through what is actually important for you in life and put your limited amount of fucks towards that. Then you won't have any fucks to give to unimportant shit like this kind of shittest drama from women. Contextually, get good enough with the process of meeting women, so if a woman pulls this, you know you can meet another. Then you naturally won't give a fuck about any particular woman. Edit: Mark Manson's book Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck is…	/r/seduction	20/10/24 09:00 AM
14	Just walked back from the club alone again and feel so depressed and don't know what to even try anymore. Good advice. I would add that the indifference is a gimmick or acting indifferent. It comes from becoming a man that is completely at ease with himself and naturally doesn't give a fuck whether a particular woman will like him or not. I know this sounds harsh, u/Timely_Fishing2560, yet I want to be honest. You're a young man, part of the most expendable demographic, that's why we send you to wars. We also live in a time, where virtue signaling as being against masculinity is viewed as good. The …	/r/seduction	19/10/24 09:50 AM
0	Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭 My advice is don't spend a dime on a girl who you haven't had sex with. There's a social dynamic behind this. If you invest earl, especially when broke, you'll have a lot to lose, so you'll come off as desperate. It's a complete turn off to the woman. You need to get them to invest (either time, emotions or favours, if not money), that's the only way she'll have incentive to get a relationship going. There are so many things I could go in this post that stand out to me, but most important for yo…	/r/seduction	06/10/24 07:58 AM
15	Is Models by Mark Manson basically saying you should act like you have Asperger’s? What spectrum people often seem to lack is subcommunication, making them appear kinda robotic. According to Owen Cook/RSDTyler it's possible to learn smoothness as slightly autistic person, so maybe there's hope? To be fair, there are also other reasons why a person can lack subcommunication, for example lacking proper socialization does that as well as some personality disorders.	/r/seduction	03/10/24 12:36 PM
5	Who are the big guys making content nowadays? RSD changed with the times, it's called Self Mastery Corp nowadays. From the oldies Owen/Tyler, Julien, Jeffy and Madison are still on board. Freetour is going strong and Owen just started a podcast. Owen, Jeffy and Madison still do bootcamps, but you have to reach out to the specifically about that now, it's not on direct offer in any web page. What it looks like from the videos is that they're living their best life, actually. And that makes me wish I would have gamed more before settling down…	/r/seduction	01/10/24 05:28 AM
1	How the hell am I supposed to succeed being neurodivergent? You should know that the biggest PUA legend is an autist. His name is Owen Cook. He has two YouTube channels, go check him out. We all have our struggles, and as men we need to overcome them. Most men who have an easy life never find real meaning and often turn to drugs or other self destructive behaviour. Yeah, it might take half a year of going out consistently while sober, doing set after set, but trust me, there are no shortcuts, there are no hacks. The faster you accept the mountain you hav…	/r/seduction	28/09/24 07:11 AM
2	Tired of being walked over. I wanna attract as many high value women as possible. Approach a lot and then approach come more. I used RSD Tyler's six steps: Approach all In daygame this means basically any woman, attractive or not. In nightclub just talk to anyone, men, women, groups... whoever, just get energy moving, get out of your head and build momentum of action taking. This also gets rid of decision fatigue, as you will talk to everyone. In a typical club, there is bound to be women that like you and you like. Minimise time between interactions To keep the momentum buil…	/r/seduction	23/09/24 02:15 PM
2	Owen Cook vs Todd Valentine The programs do help. What I like about Hotseat is that it's exercise based. But exercises only take you that far, it's like football, the drills in practice improve your game, but you need to also play to be good. It would be best if you have a wingman/wingmen group that you can practice the exercises with and then go apply infield together. A lot of newbies make the mistake to take in shit ton of info in hopes they'll get good with that. I did this mistake in my youth. When you go out and talk…	/r/seduction	01/05/24 05:36 PM
3	Owen Cook vs Todd Valentine As I indicated I have bought Hotseat at Home, but not The System. I was talking about the people behind the programs, they've both paid their dues working in the field day in and day out, and posted their infields in YouTube in the good ol' days. That said, digital programs will only get you so far. You need to get infield experience and preferably a bootcamp/immersion from one of the og's, like Mystery, Owen, Jeffy, Todd, Alex, Luke etc.	/r/seduction	01/05/24 10:19 AM
14	Owen Cook vs Todd Valentine They're both og RSD artists from the Project Hollywood days, so you probably can't go wrong with either. There's a lot of bad press about that group of guys, but most of it is clickbait/ragebait sensationalist yellow page garbage. Both of these guys are REALLY good, comparing them as pick up artists is like comparing Kobe and LeBron in basketball, that level good. Either of them can teach you to be good, so pick the one who resonates with you. I'm partial to hotseat at home as it's worked for me…	/r/seduction	01/05/24 09:18 AM
1	It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalities Ten years ago is quite a good landmark, that was when JulienGate happened. When a popular pickup artist becomes the most hated man in the world (real headline), it's hard for the scene to bounce back from that. Altho it might have already been in decline. Any movement needs people pumping energy into it to work. Another big landmark moment was the removal of infield from YouTube about 5-6 years ago. Now anyone can claim to be a dating coach just by knowing the lingo, 10 years ago it was "infield…	/r/seduction	26/03/24 09:45 PM
2	What’s something money buys that quickly increases SMV? Bootcamp. As a man, your smv is mostly dependent on your character and how you act. Bootcamp is probably the quickest way of doing that. I recommend the old RSD guys (Owen, Jeffy, Madison).	/r/seduction	26/03/24 08:51 PM
1	What is the best possible way to open a conversation, as in how to approach someone randomly? Funny unrelated to anything statement or random story. Look for women who seem bored and lighten up their day with something like that. It'll get it moving.	/r/seduction	06/03/24 10:21 PM
18	Help! Other Guys bombard every girl I approach Sounbd advice, it will work if you can keep the frame. You can also shove the other guy into his head by saying something along the lines of "oh you want her, go ahead, show your best moves". :D You can just leave and talk to other women, leave the other guy to make fool of themselves and if your vibe was good, the woman might even come and talk to you afterwards.	/r/seduction	20/02/24 07:34 PM
7	Help! Other Guys bombard every girl I approach Jeffy has a videos about this. His advice is basically to ignore them completely and only concentrate on the woman. You can find multiple of his videos about conflict in the club from here: https://www.youtube.com/@CharismaMastery As for your buddies, they do this out of insecurity, take it as a compliment, you're better at game than them. And get better wingmen. The gay joke, for example, works fucking great if the vibe is right, the women will sense its a joke and roll with it. If it comes fro…	/r/seduction	20/02/24 07:30 PM
5	How to seduce someone you are in the friendzone with To get one woman, you have to be good with seducing women in general. More you obsess over one woman (called oneitis) the less like she is to be attracted to you. Go fuck 10 other women and you'll build a bit of swagger, which might get her attracted. Might not, though. Women as friends are also a great asset, and might open a door for you to date her friends.	/r/seduction	19/02/24 09:04 PM
2	Suggest some books, resources, experience to improve game, confidence, understanding women's nature and more Agreed. Canned routines can be used to spice up your game. And you can get laid with them, but you won't feel like they like you, but a character you play. Better to learn to be "natural" (for a lack of a better word).	/r/seduction	19/02/24 09:00 PM
1	Hitting on women feels exactly as if I was asking a random person for $1000 Take them off the pedestal and simultaneously work on appreciating yourself more. When you approach a woman, you should fell like you're offering them 100 000 bucks, anyone but an idiot would be delighted to get it. Easier said than done, I admit.	/r/seduction	19/02/24 08:54 PM
1	I approached a girl for the first time (in almost 4 years) Continue normally. If you make a big deal out of her not giving you her number, it'll come out as creepy. She didn't reject you, she just wants to get to know you better, build more rapport and vibe. So just do that. And don't mention your webdesign job. It'll come off as compensating. Same with the muscles, you don't build muscle to get women, you build it for yourself. Most successful I ever was with women was when I was a broke ass unemployed, overweight stoner artist. So called 'alpha men' (…	/r/seduction	19/02/24 08:52 PM
1	Dating 20s vs 30s Cold approach is your friend. And while most of us don't feel at home in nightclubs, you have to think of them as a lead list of attractive women. Daygame at festivals, happenings, sports events, whathaveyous might also work, as those would be pre-selected to your interests. Nowadays in Germany coffee shops might be better option than bars, if you herbalise.	/r/seduction	15/02/24 08:45 PM
2	Lost this super hot girl at club. How do I get over it? Take heed and decide: never again. Next time you are about to chicken out from asking a girls number, remember this regret and use it as a motivation to keep going.	/r/seduction	14/02/24 07:33 AM
4	Suddenly, I have a lots of female friends... Good thing or? Female friends are an asset, for sure, in many ways. They give you social proof, get you into parties and will attract people into your parties and when you get closer to them, their social circles open dating/hooking up possibilities for you. Also, if you go to a high end club, having a few girls with you will get you in smoothly. Being in a club with girls also stops you from being in a chode crystal, which could happen with an only guy squad. Going deeper, just having female energy around you…	/r/seduction	03/02/24 10:10 AM
11	"Be authentic" is terrible advice I agree, it's essential. Being authentic while finding a way to express it in a relatable way is a good middle path. The whole be yourself is at the same time the best and the worst advice, it's great for people who have gone through the journey of self discovery and self improvement. It's horrible advice for people who think they are their persona and ego.	/r/seduction	09/10/23 05:12 AM
110	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. Yeah, you learn social skills not to screw it up with the ones who actually have compatibility and do like you. It's not a manipulation game, it's becoming your best self and presenting it well.	/r/seduction	02/08/23 11:03 AM
49	I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs. Women almost always want positive attention. The added benefit of daygame is that very few people talk to strangers out and about. Just by approaching you can show you have some balls.	/r/seduction	04/07/23 09:07 AM
3	This girl set me up perfectly Nice! Well done, mate. Remember the energy, it's clearly working.	/r/seduction	21/06/23 07:11 AM