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If he didn't care about you, he would have let you depart without much a fuss. If he was invested, he's probably annoyed at the obstacles you're putting in his way.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/26 03:54 PM
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Myself and most here won't know typical mediterranean dating culture if it differs from the US norms. If it doesn't, I suspected you just look like you're using him for money and "intentions" aren't your issue here, your approach is. If the culture is different, you should ask locals.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/26 02:36 PM
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His initial intentions are up to anyone's guess, but if there's a cultural difference here where he's the typical western guy, you would've come off looking like you're using him for money. Him buying you dinner is typically the accepted entry price for a date, if you're interested in him and not exclusively his money. Doctors in residency have tons of debt and not much income, so swinging out of the gate with "buy me gifts" could very well look like a girl seeing "doctor" and trying to use him …
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/26 02:09 PM
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Anytime finances are an issue and someone entertains expensive addictions, that usually means this is their life forever.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/26 04:08 PM
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I've been in a few trade shows/ conferences. If I'm manning a booth, the only time a phone comes out is if I'm coordinating something with colleagues there. If your goal is to be inviting for foot traffic, you cannot have a phone out. If I'm the foot traffic or just observing a talk, if it's low priority I might be able to text, but if anything is remotely social for networking, it's never coming out.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/26 03:55 PM
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Man here, but anecdotally from the women in my life, this checks out. Different women have different opinions on the "I don't need no man" mentality, but largely I'd say women tend to be way less independent than men, and not necessarily due to financial reasons. My wife and my mom are two opposite extremes. My wife currently makes more than I do. She's stable, makes good decisions and has a good support system. She's probably the epitome of the woman who could actually 100% be independent and n…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/26 04:15 PM
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was respecting women enough for you to get a girlfriend? was the bar truly in hell I don't know any woman who actually has this take, but; got first GF from being situational alpha and being attractive enough. Second gf, now wife, got FOMO when she learned I was dating someone else and a week after first gf and I broke up, she made a move. It's not red or blue pill, it's both. Being physically attractive gets you in the door, if you're not socialized properly, you'll still be ruled out. One or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:09 PM
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If you're not hooking up then it's not as serious, but if he's even aware you're dating someone else it could still trigger a similar response. It's bad etiquette to step on the toes of someone else's relationship. That sort of thing is for movies, irl I don't know many decent guys who want to play the pick-me dance. Again, I don't know you, so don't take my prescription, but my wife was 100% in on me and 0% in on other guys. We were young, but we'd been friends for years. We both seemed off-lim…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/26 03:53 PM
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I don't his values, but if you're already entangled with someone else, I could 100% imagine that's pegging you in his mind as off limits. I know plenty of pretty girls who I got along with, but if another man is currently banging them, I'm not interested. Girls who I found attractive have offered to cheat on their boyfriends with me, which immediately killed how I thought of them. If she's into non-exclusive relationships, I'm probably never interested. Perhaps he's similar. If he's okay with no…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/26 03:24 PM
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I'm not looking to be adversarial, but you've contradicted yourself a few times which looks like a disconnect from the reality of dating. It could be naiveté from you, but it might come off as entitlement. You say you never had "hot" on your list, but list tall and muscular. Your goalposts for intellect are vague enough for people to know what you mean, but you can say it's not that much when it looks like your asking for a lot. The end effect looks like you want a lot, but simultaneously don't …
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/26 02:55 AM
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If you're just looking for what to look for, you should be the only judge of that. The original list you of standards you submitted is long and will exclude 9999/10000 men. Pick what's important to you, trim the rest. By definition, you're going to be closer to the average girl than the top .01%. I'm not saying settle for trash, but use your experience to pick the most important characteristics of a guy at your level. If he needs to be hot, great, but then he might not be loyal. If he needs to b…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/26 09:02 PM
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I don't know how many men you interact with, so I don't want to make assumptions, but you might have a bit of an inflated self-view, assuming your social circle is more than a couple people. Like tends to attract like. Your social circle is mostly likely full of people at around your socio-economic class, intelligence level, and share similar morals. If you're doing it right, you should be able to find people like you out of your social circle. If you can't attract those types as acquaintances, …
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/26 08:37 PM
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Every woman wants this. What sets you apart from the 99% of other women? Having standards is free, but taking a list of demands to men with high optionally and the attitude of "serve me because I had a bad breakup" sounds like a losing plan.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/26 04:22 AM
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Could be my observer bias. There's been a lot of "the guy I'm seeing wants me to accept a one-way open relationship, is very aggressive, and doesn't share my values, but he's very attractive. What should I do?" type posts recently and I cannot tell why people even need to ask.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/26 05:27 PM
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Generally if you're at the point where you need to make a reddit post about someone's behavior, the situation is not normal. People need to trust their gut more, it's right 99% of the time.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/26 03:45 PM
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What advice are you looking for? The summary of what you wrote is "he's not relationship material". You described like 4 dealbreaking red flags. If you're looking for a comitted healthy relationship, look elsewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/26 01:30 AM
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If your family's faith cannot survive one caregivers beliefs, it is incredibly brittle. You will encounter thousands of those who don't share your beliefs, it's well past time to learn how to work with them.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/26 01:57 PM
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I'm a guy with a quiet personality. I might be missing context, but this doesn't strike me as quiet, but rather cagey. If I like a girl and she's putting in the effort to see if we align, I'm absolutely giving her the info she needs. One word answers like "family" to important questions sounds more evasive/ dismissive than quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/26 03:17 PM
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On its own, the "thing" you give/ do doesn't matter a whole lot. The thought behind it is doing the heavy lifting.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/26 08:19 PM
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Baked goods is a stellar option.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/26 08:16 PM
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Man here. To me, the gesture is a simply a "I'm thinking of you, and wanted you to have something nice". Not super high effort, but just a way to remind them they're on your mind even when not physically present. It shows they can think about what you want from your point of view, instead of getting you what he would have wanted. The reciprocal act is anything that indicates you're thinking of them while out. It's usually low-ish investment, and tailored for their wants, not yours. A BJ could ma…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/26 03:24 PM
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You've blanketed the entire group "men" in with some subset of whatever red pill beliefs you're concerned about. Ask 100 different men their view on women and relationships, you'll get 100 different answers. You're concerned with the values of a single-digit subset of men, you don't have to date and marry those men. You can pick men whose beliefs will make for a good partner.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/26 10:08 PM
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RP is a toolkit to get what you want. Plenty of men want a committed, monogamous relationship and a stable family dynamic. In most marriages, Mom and Dad and Grandma and Grandpa are still getting it on. Kind of hard to reconcile your belief with how the majority of people age in their marriages.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/26 09:52 PM
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Some men are like this, most aren't. Seek better men. If you can't find them, look elsewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/26 09:35 PM
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If you're straight, odds are you're not attracted to Lady parts. If he's straight, he will be, without much effort on your part. You're not the intended audience, he is. No need to fret over details, because he's not paying attention to them.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/26 02:49 AM
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People having ex's isn't necessarily a red flag (unless there's a lot of them), but the behavior they exhibit in past relationships can be. I'd take a girl who had 3 exes that ended due to them moving away or learning the guy isn't what she needs or something vs a girl with one ex who cheated on her that she doesn't seem over. If she's mentally 100% here, doesn't have a sketchy past and is bringing her best, who cares about the guys she dated. If we're not even out of the honeymoon phase and she…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/26 04:22 PM
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It's hard to know if she is healed or just look like she is, until something happens. It's a risk. Some guys accept the risk. Some don't.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/26 01:54 AM
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You can learn many lessons from seeing that. My parents have more than a half dozen divorces between them. I saw a lesson of what not do to there, not a guide to follow.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/26 01:34 PM
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Yes, if that's her goal with him, then it's a bad call IMO. But yeah, other fish in the sea who don't have drinking problems.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/26 06:44 PM
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It does not sound like he has the level of responsibility needed to beneficially contribute to raising a child. She's already expending energy taking care of him. She won't get that back when there's another dependent.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/26 06:38 PM
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Happy to hear any feedback on this This doesn't sound like a man worth procreating with. If that's your goal, expect to do it alone.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/26 05:13 PM
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I wasn't even bringing up age, but yeah that goes without saying. There might be fewer of them now, but there's still plenty of younger people perfectly willing to have stable monogamous relationships, my wife and I were examples. Some subset of them will be sufficiently attractive. An even smaller subset of them will make good money, it's a number's game, we all know how few people out there we're willing to share a home with and want to jump their bones. It's just that she calls out wanting to…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 06:48 PM
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Not a woman, so feel free to delete or ignore if not relevant, but from what you wrote, you didn't really describe the guy you're seeing as a person, more of a blank check with caveats. You contrast him vs. "enjoying your youth", so I assume you don't enjoy your time with him. What's your goal of dating? If you want a comfortable stable guy who loves you, you've got one and you seem "meh" on it. FWIW, I know a handful of women (and was raised by one) who did the fun in their 20's thing and then …
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 06:21 PM
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I would not expect the venn diagram of people who need to pay for a date and people you'd like to go on a date with to overlap in any way.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/26 08:54 PM
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They exist, but the conditions to find it are very specific. My wife and I are early 30's, each other's first "real" relationship. Started dating her just prior to my 16th birthday. Both her parents and grandparents are high school sweethearts, and my parents have a combined 7 or 8 divorces between them. She was comfortable emulating what she saw growing up, and I was happy to do the opposite. It worked for us. To have good odds of making it, you need to build relationship experience one way or …
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/26 03:22 PM
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Form a platonic relationship first. If you start a romantic encounter with some (aka a date), don't be surprised when the theme drifts sexual. See if you can form a relationship with someone with a non-sexual foundation first. If you could see yourself dating them/ are attracted to them, see if they're open to escalating it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/26 09:37 PM
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For better or worse, those traits alone make you stand out among many of your peers. Smart men will appreciate that.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/26 05:09 AM
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Fun and interesting makes for good friends. I believe you should be friends with your spouse, but your spouse occupies way more important roles. For example, I have a female neighbor I basically have been going on a once a month coffee date to talk shop, as she's in my profession and we can share a lot of insights with each other. We're friends who are essentially networking, and I enjoy our chats. But.., I don't want to talk shop with my wife. I used to literally work with my wife a few years b…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/26 10:38 PM
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One idea he explored was proposing while seated on a bench and having me kneel in front of him as a symbolic gesture of submission, possibly with the children present to tie it to legacy. This is bizzarre He also discussed maximizing power imbalance before marriage, maintaining dominance long term, and ensuring airtight legal protection. I support a prenup and I am not financially dependent on him. However, he also explored the idea of a contractual structure where if we had a child and I ever l…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/26 05:22 PM
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Ask ten men, get ten different answers. The common threads are usually a few points in what men are and aren't looking for. They're generally looking for the things you'd expect. Feminine companionship, someone who makes them look good, good mother to children, sex, etc. Even some of these are flexible. Number 1 of what they're not looking for is drama. Everything else is extras. I won't date a woman because she's funny, or educated, or really good at golf, or whatever. I will instead do quite a…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/26 03:54 AM
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I met my wife in 6th grade, started dating in 10th. Teenage girls don't really need to do much to attract their peers. If you have the eye, spot guys with potential to grow into what you're looking for. If you don't, you're fixated in the wrong types of guys. The types of guys who have the ability to "gain experience" are probably too busy filtering through options to commit to one at such a young age. Spread your attention around. You don't have to date anyone necessarily if no one is what you'…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/26 03:03 PM
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How is he going to help raise a family when he'll be in assisted living before the kids are moved out.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/26 09:17 PM
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It is a blessing in disguise, for him
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/26 02:16 PM
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From what you describe, he's not ready to take on the provider role happily. If you want to be a financial co-contributor 50/50, go for it. If not, he needs to change his attitude. You're 30, waiting 5 years to let the relationship degrade from where it is is a disservice to yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/26 02:28 AM
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You cannot rely on someone to provide if they're consistently weaponizing it. You can want him to be a provider all you want, but he acts like he resents it, and like you won't have a say. If you're letting him provide money, it is assumed you're providing other things, but if he only values money, then you will never be valued. You're here because your gut says this won't work, listen.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/26 01:09 AM
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Sorry, didn't see your response a couple days ago, but a couple notes; Getting married quickly: - Strongly depends on the type of guy you're dating and where you both are in life. Coming out of the gate and saying "We won't be having sex until we're married" may sound like strong, normal boundaries, because they were not that long ago, but depending on your culture that's akin to saying "You won't get what you want until I get what I want". It's sounds self-serving, even if you're a catch. Offer…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/26 06:02 PM
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Non-religious guy but I can appreciate the "restrained" attitude. I don't know many non-religious men who would be interested in such a relationship. Those who agree likely won't have options, and are undesirable. The rest won't agree either because they're not getting what they want out of the relationship for years, or they assume you're doing a bait-and-switch (except with no bait. Men will assume they're walking into a dead-bedroom and divorce fees. Can't see this playing out without religio…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/26 07:35 PM
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Yes, male sperm correlates more strongly to the health of the baby, but how many babies you will have is hard limited by the woman's age. As a dude with a 1 year old, I find the #1 most important thing is just being young and having energy is crucial. I can't imagine all the sleepless nights and extra labor happening when I'm 40.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/26 04:37 PM
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Man here. Generally for short-term; hot. For relationships; innocent/ cute.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/26 02:14 PM
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Very possible. Not everyone is terminally online, so their beliefs can form from a lack of info. Not being involved in 100% of the news is not a bad thing.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/26 02:47 AM
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She was referring to me as rude, not you. Apologies if I came off that way, if I wasn't and you're confused, she doesn't like my takes, much so that's why.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/26 11:09 PM
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You're quoted as saying his worldview is different than yours. I don't know if that extrapolates to your values or not since I don't know either of you, but given the tone and title of your post, I assume it does. I can accept that not everyone shares my values, we live in a diverse world and that's fine. She could have all the upsides in the world, but if we don't share the same fundamental beliefs, there cannot be mutual respect. Money doesn't change that. I don't know if it is the same way fo…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/26 11:06 PM
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I'm not unbiased, but I don't think you can have that deep of a relationship without sharing the values you consider most important. For me, a person with the opposite political beliefs cannot share the same values as me, and I need to share the most important values to trust and love a partner. I don't mean to accuse you of anything, but disregarding shared values because he has a lot of money is not a good optic. I always ask myself "would I want them to impart their values on my kids?". I und…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/26 09:51 PM
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Just wanted to mention you don't seem to be asking any questions here. What's the purpose of the post other than an introduction?
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/26 12:37 AM
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I know I can't talk you into broadening what you're attracted to. I'm a rule 9 and this is a woman's space, so I'll don't want to sound accusatory or anything since I don't know you or what you experience, but the men who are attracted to you are very likely your league. but men do prefer to shoot above their league in attractiveness. I am not sure where you came to this conclusion, but in my experience, this is not often true. For hookups, men go for a "shotgun" approach and approach everyone, …
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/26 12:00 AM
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Waiting some number of years to date is arbitrary. It mentally excludes you from being open to interacting with someone who'd be fine for you. The Vice President (allegedly) fucks couches, there is someone out there willing to date you, even if they're not 100% the optimal 10/10 attractive man. I'm not a believer in cosmetic surgery in general, so waiting until that deadline to even start being open to date is putting a lot of pressure on something that might not solve all your problems.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/26 11:36 PM
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I've never heard of a man making fun of a woman for her age IRL, it just means fewer men would say yes to a date/ ask her out. There's upsides and downsides to being with anyone of any demographic. Older women are just less likely to be able to successfully have multiple kids if that's your goal. Guys who can do the math and want a large family will inherently be less interested, if a similar but younger woman was interested in him.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/26 07:34 PM
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Guy here, so I don't have the first hand experience on what you should do, but the answer from my POV is consistency. If you want him to actually open up, you should both say and then demonstrate that any openness from him will not just not result in punishment for him, but prove that he actually has something to gain by sharing it with you. What does this look like? He'll likely start small to test the waters of "opening up". Common mistake I've seen is the woman doesn't even notice that he's s…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/26 05:23 PM
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Let the man have his false equivalency fallacy. He doesn't have much else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:12 AM
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Rule 9 here. This is a personal value, which I'd suspect extends to a lot of guys, but pretty much as soon as a woman indicates "You're not what I want", the ego goes into protection mode, and feelings plummet to somewhere around zero. When the illusions in our head haven't been broken yet, it's easy to project the ideals of what we want on a woman, when our ideal doesn't like us, she's probably no longer our ideal. For me personally, the prospect of anything past that point would be over, no mo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/26 04:26 PM
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Garnering interest isn't a problem, do what's comfortable. For being taken seriously, find a serious man looking for what you're looking for. Don't entertain jokers.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/26 03:32 AM
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Your number 1 issue will be finding these men. Be where they are and put yourself in front of them. It is unlikely anyone here is one of them, so you'll have to do your own research on that front. Second issue is that you and nearly every other girl wants or is open to that type of man, so you'll have to be better than all of your competition. Be what they want, moreso than everyone else. If you're not already that type of woman (I would assume personality and upbringing are most important), it …
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/26 04:25 PM
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Yeah, I don't hear of many HVM with backups who suddenly change their mind and commit to a casual girl in their rotation for no reason
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/25 03:42 PM
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Don't know for certain as I’ve never gone for those types. But, on the low end, it might be a woman who makes it easy. She comes over to his, they have good sex, then she leaves him alone until he calls again. On the high end, it could be stealing from target, getting drunk, having feral sex, forgetting to take her BPD meds and then slashing his tires when he looks at another woman. I don't know his type, but it's likely he has a "why settle for one when I can have both?" Mentality.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/25 03:23 PM
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Peaceful men want peaceful wives. I have never met the type of calm man who builds a stable life want a chaotic woman. Perhaps younger, in-demand guys who aren't ready to settle down. The guy you want sounds in-demand. When exciting women throw themselves at him, your competition might be more than you can offer.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/25 02:51 PM
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Seconding your mom
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/25 04:44 AM
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I'm a guy, but this advice seems less beneficial for women and better for men. It's all anecdotal, but I think I'm probably a better catch now in my late 20's/ early 30's both physically and financially than I was earlier in life. I could probably have fun if I wanted to date around now. If she was just starting to look seriously, my wife on the other hand would be a lot more frantic to secure a good dude. It was kind of a meme when I was in college that "all the good ones" are taken by the time…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/25 03:29 PM
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I've been married for half a decade and dating the same woman for 15 years. I can't speak 100% for her but here's the condensed answers. Appreciation is the biggest reminder of what you should be doing, so you should reinforce the behavior you want. If your partner is doing something you like, demonstrate your appreciation in the way they understand. Your relationship will change and your lives will look different throughout, but you should continue to demonstrate that you see their effort (assu…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/25 07:30 PM
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Manosphere content mostly appeals to the scorned man. These men aren't interacting with women beyond a revenge fantasy. The men you want will like women, and manosphere men don't like women. Age might make them slightly less appealing, but there are plenty of things within your control to make a year or two irrelevant. The only caveat you should consider is family planning with multiple kids. If you want one, you can be fairly confident you'll be able to meet your family goals nearly until your …
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/25 05:42 PM
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I get the nuance, but it still seems like you might be focusing on specific types of men. Men with confidence, looks, and options. It makes sense you're running into men with history, because these are the types of men who generate history quickly. If you choose to surround yourself with these men, do not be surprised if they start looking at you like you'd be fun for a while, and then relegate you to history shortly after. I get they're attractive, but they're attractive to everyone. You can't …
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 04:46 PM
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I'm sure I'm missing background but so far your description of a good guy worth approaching is physically attractive and he's worth keeping if he isn't tied up with exes. The type of men physically attractive enough to catch your eye without much other interaction probably have a lot of options. They won't be incentived to commit if they have an army of casual sex thrown at them.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 02:17 PM
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You cannot expect to be 100% passive and have the man you want show up in your life. You will need to pursue the man you want from the woman's role.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 01:10 PM
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I commented on your last post, the jist of what I was trying to get across was that you should avoid learning the wrong lessons here, and that your "past" isn't really that bad. There will be some men who are bothered by your actions, don't date them. There are going to be plenty of men who either don't care or can get over it when you bring other positives to the relationship, date one of these men. I'd focus less on what men think of you and more on what you think of yourself, since that seems…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/25 12:04 AM
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The jist of the advice is that to attract guys who value openness, don't be defensive about your past. Should benefit the couple, not just a man. There are plenty of desirable guys who can get over a body count, but would be concerned about avoidant behavior. If you disagree, I'm happy to remove the comments, but I'll stand by the point. --- Yeah, I think I must have failed to clearly make my point. OP seems to have abandoned the post anyway and most of the audience here is already married and i…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/25 06:24 PM
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Absolutely, I didn't mean to insinuate that men are out there asking for sexual details or anything, I more meant that I don't see many couples getting engaged or married that don't know each other's entire dating history, either through conversation, or observation if you've spent enough time with each other. It's not just a "men-only" thing, I think I probably see just as many women asking for a guy's relationship history, if not more.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/25 06:01 PM
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I appreciate your enthusiasm. It seems you'd like your own anecdotal experience to matter, but not mine own, so I'm not really sure if there's much for us to debate here since there's more than one right answer. I doubt either of us are going to meaningfully change each other's minds. We're both married anyway, OP will ultimately do whatever it is she'll do, so unless you intend to offer up your husband as proof of your point, I'm comfortable parting from this discussion since I suspect you or o…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/25 05:44 PM
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I've met a lot of men and women who just prefer not to know. I live in a deeply conservative state and have discussed this with liberals and conservatives alike. It might be a Christian culture thing, then. I used to be in the church where the "don't ask, don't tell" culture was more prevalent. One of the reasons I left was because as I was hitting my teenage years people were encouraging me to find a girlfriend from within the church, and I'll just say I valued monogamy more than the girls ther…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/25 05:19 PM
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I'm not that old, I obviously don't speak for every man, and I know this will ruffle feathers, but I've never met a man (or marriage material woman) with this mentality, and I have a lot of long-term couple friends. People who tend to understand cause and effect to arrive at a similar conclusion; the past is not just the past, it's the best predictor of the future that we have. I've never seen a successful couple agree to leave blank spots out of each other's history. The more you know, good and…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/25 04:45 PM
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Rule 9 here. A few points in no particular order: My ex would even encourage me to go out and party because he felt like I should enjoy college more which was confusing to me since I thought men liked women who didn’t partake in that scene? Going to parties in itself isn't a red flag behavior, it's mostly about how you conduct yourself at them and what happens after. You can moderate your behavior at parties. People outside of college still have social gatherings and not have questionable behavi…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/25 11:49 PM
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Essentially. Have a hobby that can occupy your time. Demonstrate you can care about things, and dear god get off your phone/ social media.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/25 06:06 PM
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Yeah, I guess you'd use your best judgement, assuming your best judgement isn't weighted toward concealing shameful information. If you suspect you won't align but you're still interested, you can give them the final say and just be honest. If the relationship history question comes up and one party elects not to share ons or something, then that might be avoidant. Ultimately if either the man or woman cares about something and they're too afraid to broach the topic because they fear the answer,…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/25 10:57 PM
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There’s nuance in sharing information about exes & past relationships. That stuff doesn’t need to be hidden, but should be revealed at the right time, to the right person. I'm not 100% sure I get what you mean. I understand not writing them an essay of your faults to be delivered upon first meeting, but I also don't think you should be revealing things "at the right time", unless you mean that the right time is when the conversation comes up. Anything else sounds like hiding shame.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/25 10:06 PM
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Life is full of double-standards. We can choose to be obstinate and angry about it or accept it and play to our advantages. I've learned playing to your strengths is the wise thing to do, and I've had to learn a handful of painful lessons based on wrong assumptions myself. However you feel about it, men and women are judged by different standards of attractiveness, you won't meet 100% of them for every person. I think it's wise to look at what you want, and work backwards on how to get there. Wa…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/25 09:37 PM
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Good attitude. Treating a potential partner with dignity is very dignified itself.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/25 09:21 PM
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Curious as to how you would manage this The easiest way is to pair up with someone similar; find someone who doesn't care because they're the same way. Lying or obfuscation is not a great way to enter into a relationship with a trustworthy partner. Goes the same way for both genders.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/25 09:14 PM
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In your case, time is probably the best bet. If I took off my roof rack and sold all my gear, people might believe I'm done skiing. That's a demonstrable action. If my life looks exactly the same and I say I'm done, I'm asking people to believe me without evidence. I don't know what your enabler is/ was, but if you can ditch it, ditch it, if not, then you're just left making new habits which will be its own challenge to juggle. At 27 I wouldn't sit waiting for time to pass since there's other gu…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/25 05:14 PM
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Whenever guys hear "in the past", it comes with a lot of cultural inertia. It invokes the voice of millions of women trying to gaslight men into thinking they should not consider their past as a predictor of what happens in the future when everyone knows that's the best data points to use. Bluntly, your "past" is somewhere between yellow and red flag, and your perception of "past" (you mentioned it's been a year in other comments) will not align with most men. It's a stupid example, but I'll use…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/25 04:46 PM
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I see this point a lot and while yes I'd agree that any man who comes straight out and asks it is likely to be trashy, most men will (especially ones looking for commitment) will be paying attention to clues, and trying to evaluate relationship style compatibility. While a trashy guy might ask "how many men have you slept with?" on date one, you should expect the relationship history conversation to occur relatively quickly with non-trashy commitment-minded men. Women who don't have skeletons in…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/25 04:13 PM
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My thing is, how many men on this planet will care about my count or should I just give up dating now? Rule 9 here. It can be forgiven, but it will rule out a lot of the men you would desire. I get that you weren't the party girl/ "I can do what I want" feminist type, but attaining a high count due to insecurity will still trigger a lot of guys to wonder what happens the next time you're feeling insecure. Your best bet is to construct a narrative showing that you're not the type of person who wo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/25 03:50 PM
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I don't really have anything specific to help here, but imo you're either able to believe or you're not. I'm not, and left the church in my teens for various reasons. I don't know how important it is for him for you to genuinely believe, but I'd let him know you might just not have that faith, and let him see if he can live with that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 02:06 PM
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Never too late to snatch defeat from the jaws of victory.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/25 04:08 PM
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I'm probably close to your "middle man". I wasn't single long, but were I looking, I wouldn't just ask women out unprompted. Being attracted isn't the issue, if you're attractive, they're probably attracted, the challenge is signaling you're wife material, which requires continuous exposure. You need to find these men and spend time near them.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/25 12:21 PM
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You can be shy and still suave and shy and have a touch of the 'tism, I'm not sure which you are. I don't recommend picking men off looks alone since you won't be the only one to do so. Identify anything shared to talk about. Maybe your phone is the same, maybe you both go on Wednesdays, whatever, just pick something and make a remark, leave it open and inviting
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/25 12:32 AM
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Not to be reductive, but go where the guy you want is. If the guy you want plays chess, go to the chess club, if he's a gym rat, go to the gym, etc... If you don't know what kind of guy you want, you can go for the broad strokes with dating apps, finding people on campus if you go to school, anywhere with a lot of people who are liable to interact with you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/25 11:56 PM
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My wife and I got together younger than you and we didn't have kids until age 30. The reality is that people can have all the "shoulds" of having kids as they want. Most often cannot afford to raise kids properly until later, if at all. We're high earners and didn't feel financially secure until recently.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/25 01:14 PM
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You're overthinking it and will sabotage yourself. If you want to go, go, if you don't, then don't. Yes, he's a man and will try to get laid, whether that happens or not is up to you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/25 08:21 PM
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Being physical isn't the problem here. You're acting out of order. First step should have been to define where you stand and set the boundaries you need to be comfortable. You're not comfortable with him seeing other women, and he sees it as fine. Figure that out first, then go nuts.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 08:47 PM
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For background, I'm a guy. Been with the same woman for half my life but take what I say with a grain of salt. I don't know you or what you have to offer, but I'm not sure you're seeing the situation for what it is. Take a step back and try to look at it through an objective lens. Men don't have the same motivations as women, and don't get hung up on the term "high value". If the term isn't helping you get what you want and feel secure it's doing you no good. You've met the guy once, fooled arou…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 08:29 PM
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What is your goal here? You've described a casual relationship with a man you barely know, with no defined relationship structure. Getting over him hooking up with other girls seems like a secondary concern if your goal is commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 08:06 PM
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What he says he feels doesn't matter. Crying is irrelevant, how you feel about what he says to you is irrelevant. You've been dismissed, you're not together, that is the critical fact you need to center yourself around. He got what he needed and while he may wish for you to get what you want, he's made it clear he isn't going to give it to you for whatever reason he's keeping to himself. This is shown through his actions. If he wanted to be with you, he'd be with you. I started dating my wife a …
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/25 05:00 PM
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Rule 9 here with blunt truth. He's not interested in you as a long term item. You served your purpose to help him get through his break-up, he's had time to evaluate if he wants to be with you, and he determined the answer is no. Guys give "maybe's" to make you feel better, not because they might actually change their mind and want to wife you up. He cut you loose because he has the decency to not string you along, but you need to cut contact since you clearly can't handle it. You being "in a di…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/25 03:42 PM
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You will receive the treatment you tolerate. He's gotten away with it a half dozen times with what appear to be no consequences. If there are going to be consequences, enforce them. If there aren't going to be, accept that this is your normal.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/25 11:47 PM
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This line of reasoning assumes every woman is the same as the worst woman, or that women don't have free will, it's not even worth engaging with. AWALT assumptions don't hold up under the slightest scrutiny.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/25 07:43 PM
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I never made any claims about attraction vs relationship maintenance, frame or anything other than my original point. You're trying to argue points I'm not discussing. It's great you feel strongly about something, but I don't have the time to discuss the entirety of TRP's value in each specific social context. My point stands, those who have the information don't need to go looking for it. Women are inherently aware of this.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/25 07:28 PM
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TRP describes women's behavior and sexual preferences, and how to leverage that information to get what you want in your relationships. Men who are getting what they want already don't need that information. Men who already understand women's preferences don't need that information. TRP has plenty of factual and useful information, but men who label themselves as such are advertising they're the type of man who needed to go seek that information out from third parties, which is not desirable.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/25 06:59 PM
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Most women would find themselves quite happy to have these two issues as the most significant relationship "problems". Learn appreciation, try paying more heed to what he does for you, rather than what he doesn't do.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/25 06:53 PM
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I have a sneaking suspicion any men on that list could find a replacement without needing guidance from TRP to do it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/25 06:41 PM
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TRP for men is primarily a set of guidelines for getting what you want from women. Men who are already high value do not struggle with getting what they want, and thus don't need an ideology to help get what they already have. This is why most women, even RP women, are rightfully wary of RP men.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/25 03:47 AM
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I got married at 23-24 timeframe, it was fine, though my wife and I had been together since 10th grade so we had a lot of history. If I was being realistic, we hadn't really changed as people all that much since 18, we could have married then and been fine. If you've got everything sorted out and you're marriage minded people, it'll work.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/25 10:03 PM
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Male perspective; you're already aware most commitment-minded "family" guys are negative on hookup pasts, so I won't dig into that. After reading your post, the thing that stuck out the most significantly was your lack of autonomy in your own life. You describe things that happen to you, as if you're just along for the ride. The scariest thing for a monogamous man is committing to a woman with no morals, or no agency. Even if you're coming around on morals, you sound as if you're a stiff breeze …
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/25 05:56 PM
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Dude here, but I'll throw in one of the things that tends to prevent a lot of conflict, especially when babies show up. The two of you should define and agree upon who owns what responsibilities. You and your partner should communicate early on and be on the same page about what the each of you contributes, and it should be as close to fair as possible. Communicate if the arrangement needs to change before resentment build up. Don't try to be a martyr and take on a disproportionate share of thin…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 08:59 PM
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I can't really teach someone to lower their standards. Usually most people have a vague sense of where they stand and if they want it enough, will flex a bit on what they want / provide to even up the relationship. If you don't want anything from guys at your level, there's really no basis for a relationship. Guys above your level will likely never commit. Up to you to decide what you want and if it's worth working/ compromising for.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 10:04 PM
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What would you advice me to do? Your level is who you can attract, so pick the best option at your level, or increase your level to that which you're attracted to.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 07:03 PM
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Compatibility is not a binary yes/no status you have with each person. Compatibility is mostly about attitude. The most important thing is to be with someone who shares your values around sex, make sure you are attracted to one another, and especially if you are inexperienced, be willing to share and receive feedback without getting defensive. Sex has meaning, but it is also usually fun and lighthearted.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/25 08:40 PM
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I don't think you've done anything wrong, per say, but as you've mentioned the way you're going about communicating your issues with him are probably going to or already have triggered defensiveness, which won't inspire the change you're looking for. Guys see emotionality as a problem to solve right this second, it doesn't change long term behaviors or how we think. Even though you feel bad as a result of how he handles organization, he doesn't feel the same feelings, so it's not as significant …
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/25 05:11 PM
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Am I settling or being greedy? Without more background, gut reaction says you're being quite greedy. You're allowed to feel however you feel, but from a male perspective, you have a pretty sweet deal, and you questioning what he does for you (which appears to be a lot) probably puts a ding in his self confidence, and eventually his feelings for you. It sounds like he should have earned more gratitude from you by now, not you questioning what more he can do for you. I don't know what you bring to…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/25 03:42 PM
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Supply and demand. A guy who's physically attractive enough to be approached by women has interest from more than just you, he's in high demand. I don't know what you want from such a guy, but securing commitment from a man who has women literally throwing themselves at him will be a challenge. If your proposition is "You're attractive, buy me dinner", I don't see you meeting that challenge with much success. The other side of the supply and demand coin is supply. If something is abundant in sup…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/25 09:17 PM
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Yeah, not to dismiss you but I think you're worried about a non-issue. For you, the problem is your feeling embarrassed, but from my POV it seems you're likely the only one who cares. It's not really that hard to integrate someone into your family and friends. Unless you're trying to keep the relationship a secret, you just bring him with you every so often. People will get the memo you're an item. You don't need to broadcast to the world your every feeling.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/25 04:44 PM
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Okay, people know you're dating, why do they need to know your specific feelings about him? Does your bf get the impression you don't like him or something? Is he unhappy about your lack of vocalization or does he get the jist of it some other way? Most guys don't really care about your words, they care about actions. My wife could literally be mute and illiterate and if was perceptive enough she could still communicate she cared enough for me to be content.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/25 03:54 PM
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I'm confused, you're dating a guy and can't admit to anyone that you like him or are dating him, even though you're openly in the relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/25 03:46 PM
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I'm home with my wife most days. 6-7 days a week unless she or I is out with friends or on work travel, but we're usually out together. Probably 330 days a year.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/25 02:12 PM
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You seem pretty convinced all the men in your country are uninterested in being the typical provider. I don't know what your country is or if every man in it is a broke scumbag, so I can't really defend my argument, but I'd be willing bet there's decent ones who aren't on your radar, or you aren't on theirs. Relationships form around what you need from each other. If you lead with "I have money, I don't need your money", don't be surprised when you start meeting men who have no money, and need y…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/25 12:20 AM
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I get what you’re saying about how you don’t stop dating even when you’re married. I like dating when I like the man I’m dating. Granted, I realized after I commented that you more meant the act of filtering through guys rather than going stuff with one specific guy. I’m going to disagree on the not dating in my 20s part. Things were tight. I was really unhappy to the point where I was suicidal and running myself ragged trying to get my finances in the clear with no support from family and being…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/25 11:26 PM
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I'm a rule 9 with a wife who's close to your age, so perhaps not your target audience for advice but probably more relevant for insight into men your age. I will be blunt. Given your goals, you should be and are feeling a time crunch, you have recognized this, so at least you have that going. Everything after that stops making sense. You want kids, yet you're with a guy who's stated he doesn't want kids. You want a husband, but you hate dating. You don't stop dating once you get married. Most hi…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/25 09:39 PM
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I wouldn't listen to other women trying to hype you up. On a good day it's just them being nice. On a bad day they're preventing you from the reflection required to make positive changes. Since you have experience with the types of guys you're talking about, the easiest way to see what makes you incompatible is just reflecting on why you didn't work out. I'm not talking about the platitudes for why you broke up like "it just wasn't the right time for me", but the actual reason. If the answers ar…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/25 07:01 PM
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Yeah, though I still would look skeptically at a couple with polar opposite schedules. Most men could be satisfied with 15 minutes or less dedicated to sex. Most women I know require a lot more time to build up the suspense throughout the day or week. If you're only interacting for an hour a day, sure she could throw him a bone here and there, but long term they will need more.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 06:16 PM
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My relationship is somewhat atypical, but for the most part my wife handles the day to day finances, while I handle investments. I'll have a say in the rough budget so we're in agreement, but after autopay and monthly deposits are set up I rarely check the bank account. She's a spreadsheets for everything kind of girl and for me as long as the numbers are going up roughly the right amount I don't care (though I am pretty frugal). She can't handle my type of approach and neither of us take issue …
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 03:44 PM
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A high value man who values monogamy will lead the relationship with that as a core value of the relationship. If he expects your fidelity and does not offer his, you are a plate, not his other half.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 04:00 AM
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Then you have a schedule problem, not necessarily a libido problem. If he wants more time with you, he needs to make that time. You can't really have a marriage and never see each other.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 01:00 PM
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Full time is only 40 hours. When I had no kids I could easily manage work and chores with 3-4 hours left in my day. Where is your time going?
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 11:16 AM
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I don't know if you plan to have kids, but if you do plan to, do you think this is the guy who will be able to support you through it, and you both will emerge happily out the other side together? This seems like a trial run for that kind of thing and it looks like a failure. Are you okay with that?
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/25 09:16 PM
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Why would a man commit to any of them when he can get what he wants from all of them while saving the hassle? My recommendation would be to forget him, acknowledge you never won him, and to not compare future men to him.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/25 10:10 PM
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What a man says is irrelevant, you're not looking hard enough at what he's doing. Men marry when they want something from a woman they can't get without marrying her. Usually this is some combination of kids/ sex/ domestic labor. Frankly speaking, you didn't offer anything (that he wants) that he can't get from someone else for less effort. You're barking up the wrong tree if you want marriage, pick someone at your level.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/25 04:24 AM
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<image> I'm a simple man, I just want to see the dislike counter again. Also fuck google.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:50 PM
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Google has plenty of money from harvesting and selling your data, they'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:38 PM
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If the entertainment's worth paying for, I prefer give the money more directly to the creators. YT takes a humongous cut of it for the job of essentially streaming audio. Vanced also has sponsorblock which auto-skips sponsor segments, fluff, non-music sections in songs, etc and is overall highly configurable. It's overall just better and lets you put that $12 toward the people making the content if you're not stingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:22 PM
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https://revanced.app/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:10 PM
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There's the vaguities like "feeling connected/ more like you're on the same team", but the one that's most obvious and tangible to me is the amount of patience I have. She's not too bad, but she has leagues more neuroticism and anxiety than I do, it's my role to talk sense and talk down her worry even when I'm putting up with the same things that cause that worry and more. Essentially unpaid on-demand therapist several times a day. Good sex life recently? Not a problem, it's a fun challenge that…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/25 05:52 PM
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As the guy, it's astounding how my mood shifts toward her the day after sex compared to 3+ days after. If the majority of a relationship takes place in the 3+ days since sex timeframe, there will be dozens of extra "unrelated" problems that would magically go away if you just had sex more often.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/25 04:11 PM
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You cannot simultaneously be currently engaging with people you've had sex with (which following on social media is), and claim "it's from the past". He is interacting with other women in a sexual context. If this is a boundary for you, act like it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/25 04:28 PM
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My father had a bit of a savior complex. The obvious downside is that once she's saved, the relationship starts to fall apart. When she's in need he looks appealing, when her problem is solved, he just looks a guy who can only get with a woman in need.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/25 09:25 PM
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I am not looking for a partner to step in when my baby is born. This is my burden to bare and I have a lot of family and friends who have agreed to help me. That's fine, but realistically you're running into the exact same problem you ran into with him before - you're both in different stages of your life, it's just that the roles have reversed: I asked if he wanted to start dating... He said No and I cut him off that day. We eventually had a conversation to reflect why he wasnt interested and I…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/25 05:58 PM
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I will be frank. While you might like him, a HVM is not going to be interested in a sexless relationship with a woman about to deliver another man's child. Even if he was a HVM and you both were willing to give it a go, a new baby throws a wrench into any strong relationship. It’s not his baby, and your relationship isn't strong. I've woken up at 4-5 am for the past 5 months and am operating off 4-6 hours of sleep per night because of my 5 month old, and that's the easy part. If I wasn't helping…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/25 01:55 PM
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Except for point #4, the things you list as cons aren't really negatives. Everyone's idea of "high value" is different, what kind of man are you hoping to attract, and do you currently have any prospects? Ultimately you don't need to appeal to every guy, just the one you want.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/25 04:22 PM
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Raising the best children, mentally and physically, requires that you be physically and mentally strong yourself. If you're not, it's better to recognize you might not be the ideal parent and refrain from having kids, than have them and figure this all out later when you've already sabotaged their success.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/25 12:29 PM
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Rule 9 violation here: It matters a little bit, but it can mostly be ignored as long as you meet a couple conditions. - It shouldn't have bad optics or be embarrassing. You know what industries these are, don't be in them. Secretary isn't it so you're fine. - You should be able to financially pull your own weight. This is as much a question of spending habits as it is income. If you make $20k but you survive off $18k and year and save the other $2k, you're more desirable than a woman who makes $…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/25 06:28 PM
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Another rule 9 violation here. I know the post is old at this point, but just wanted to add 2c from a guy who has been in and out of the religious scene. I usually advise folks who have demons in the closet to get them out early, and in your case it will stand in stark contrast to the person you have become. I won't make value judgements one way or the other, but I am sure I don't need to explain how the former adult entertainer turned wait-until-marriage prude is not going to make the type of m…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/25 11:33 PM
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I wouldn't let it hang over you two, personally. You're probably asking folks here because your gut is telling you it's a conversation that should be had. If that's the case, trust your gut. No need to go into nitty gritty details that he wouldn't want to picture, and give him space to say if he doesn't care to know, but if he's going to care, best to know now, and if he doesn't care, then you can release that anxiety and move forward with confidence.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 08:47 PM
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Since you've given us a high level view of the situation, it kinda looks like you seem to want an opportunity to steer the conversation around your past and avoid the shame, and whether that's true or not, I'd avoid that look as much as possible with him. Odds are he probably prefers an honest, virtuous and repentant non-virgin to being led to assume something incongruent with your beliefs. But yes, ultimately if you ask, he'll ask you back. To the end of how I'd structure the conversation, lead…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/25 09:21 PM
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Male perspective here. Not religious, but both wife and I are each other's only. As for what to communicate; you're in a bit of a conundrum and fighting two uphill battles. You didn't mention if he's a virgin, but if he shares your value that one should wait until marriage and practices what he preaches, that puts you at a disadvantage, so tread carefully if this is the case. If he doesn't share your value here, or does but is in the same situation as you, then he may not care you're not a virgi…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/25 07:05 PM
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Hes growing fast but has such fury for such a small man. Just had to laser a bit of his tongue today, so he's in a bad mood. Snoopy is my mom advice friend so I was hoping for miracles on how to make baby less grumpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:08 AM
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The news...?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:02 AM
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Hey, hey. What's your new pfp?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:05 AM
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Baby boy has been a lot of and I'm back to work with a bajillion urgent projects so I'm busy and tired. Traveling next week for work, too. Life got busy, but I suppose that's not a bad thing. Oh, and I got my hands on one of ht 9070 XT's so I'm stilling riding that high. What did I miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:57 AM
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Your baseless assumptions aren't needed. She has valid reasons to be skittish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:18 AM
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Bummer, I owe her baby pics
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:48 PM
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Dang, should have tried to grab her contact off here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:47 PM
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What happened to u/snoopydru?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:44 PM
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Nah, just talked about pregnancy a little. He's the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 07:15 PM
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For those who were interested and didn't get updates; wife was induced last Tuesday, gave birth last Wednesday. Birth process was a little dramatic, heavily medicated but everyone made it out okay. He came out too quiet but perked up after a few seconds and some stimulation. 5 lbs 13 oz. He needed some extra food over our stay, but he's gaining weight now. Got out of the hospital Saturday with blood pressure monitoring/ meds for her. He's pretty easy for now. Getting a solid 6 hrs of sleep a day…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 07:04 PM
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Oh, he will never hear of PPD, red pill, etc even though I'll be more than happy to talk shit about him here once he's out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:20 PM
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Only fluids thatvare retained are through iv. Hasnt eaten solid since yesterday dinner, because it's all coming up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:15 PM
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Yeah, almost fell asleep but her epidural ran out and the beeping woke everyone up. The maternity ward got very busy today so they're not rushing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:10 PM
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I got a few hours. Probably got better sleep than at home
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:08 PM
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Bars were closed at 3am
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:52 PM
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I would not use that word
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:51 PM
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Nope. They needed to pop her water. Apparently it wasn't done. She's on every drug now. Probably still have a good chunk of time left.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:49 PM
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Okay I miss when it was boring
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:14 AM
1

Better now. Water broke, very dilated. Contractions are getting stronger. He's wiggling into position but it'll be a long night.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:00 AM
1

Not gonna happen today. Blood pressure went over 160, they had to add another iv to medicate. Not having a good time unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:40 AM
1

Honestly. They borked like 3 of them before the last one took. Her arms looks like she was attacked by bees.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:06 PM
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With family history, her body would probably be happy letting baby cook for another month if not for the pre-eclampsia. Gonna taking some coaxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:04 PM
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Yeah, I'll probably make a juice run or something in a bit. Get some drinks in the fridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:03 PM
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Didn't say I was delivering it. I'm just killing time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:02 PM
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My hands are still intact. Will report back in 6-12 hours and see if they're smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:23 PM
1

She had a shitty time with the iv, but now the most excitement we had was handing out brownies to the nurses on our way to the drinking fountain. Lots of waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:22 PM
1

First, induced. I left and made her a Burrito and that's about the most helpful I've been.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:20 PM
3

This whole having a baby thing is kinda boring so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:04 PM
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Just got back from dog walk. While I was home I made her a reportedly very good burrito. Good thing we live a few blocks from the hospital and I can be homemade food doordash.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:21 PM
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Better after a cookie. She is currently bouncing on a yoga ball and watching Encanto.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:50 PM
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Yeah. 18 and inexperienced is not the same as a 25 year old who has chosen to only have LTR's even if their count might be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:48 PM
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I think at this rate baby's gonna be a Wednesday baby. IV took a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:47 PM
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Same, but usually values and n-count will be heavily correlated. It's the question of would you rather have someone with an n-count of 3 but they were healthy relationships that ran their course, or someone who had a bad threesome and swore off sex since. Everyone wants someone with similar values, rather than trauma or bitterness. The number just happens to heavily correlate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:46 PM
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Men just have a wider distribution in ability to sleep with more people in general. If they have access, the values regarding sex would probably be less diverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:43 PM
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Not them, no. The loss of their current partner would not spontaneously cause them to completely do a 180 in regards to their approach and value of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:42 PM
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Yes, actually. Most of my couple friends have been with their partners since college or earlier. All our friends know each other's entire dating history, and those with similar values tend to spend more time together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:20 AM
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Nah, inducing tomorrow morning. Could take up to 48 hours, they say. Hopefully won't take that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:15 AM
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Ask again in 24 hours. At doctor's now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:38 AM
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I'll audit how amazing it feels in a few months. Mildly freaking out now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:26 PM
1

Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:44 PM
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IRL people tend to date and marry people with the same attitudes surrounding sex. Higher value low n women are usually with higher value (voluntarily) low n men. Sluts are with sluts, prudes are with prudes, monogamous people tend to identify and stay with each other. I don't know any "reserved" women who would tolerate "player" types of dudes, much less marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:46 PM
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Then get out of my house
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:28 PM
1

If you're certified for infant care I'll pay you $1k a month
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:58 PM
1

I made her braised beef tacos and a chicken pot pie with ample leftovers. Between that and the lime jello in the fridge we're golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:56 PM
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Honestly I have no idea what was on that thing. All I know is my wife won't let me wear the baby while riding on my scooter and that just bums me out, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:54 PM
1

Isn't that what we're all doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:53 PM
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Hospital go-bag is ready and food is in the fridge/ freezer. Tests are running here. Just need a peer review and a signature on my work from home agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:51 PM
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Induction tomorrow, bright and early.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:46 PM
1

Ugh, rushing to scramble through what I thought was my last two weeks of work in a single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:44 PM
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That's so niche that if you both know it you at least have something in common. Who cares about what the ambiguous "other women" would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:43 PM
1

I held hands with a girl in 1st grade. We exchanged those little pictures so we were pretty serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:24 PM
1

Ugh, I wanna go back to Japan but don't want to pawn off an infant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:39 AM
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Not sure like "I didn't want them and now I'm not sure" or not sure like "I wanted them but damn fuck this baby"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:01 AM
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4 but one is technically an office
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:59 AM
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So far okay. She had a high blood pressure reading Friday and they sent her for monitoring. Doctors didn't see anything too scary but decided it's a good idea to get him out before that changes. Gave us the weekend to wrap up whatever final prep we needed to. Tuesday or Wednesday indeed. I'm hoping he does some fetus yeetus and makes it out in the evening but know my wife, she'll belabor the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:57 AM
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My news of the weekend is that my wife was officially diagnosed with (mild symptom) pre-eclampsia. They scheduled an induction for Tuesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:49 PM
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Win for you, and yeah arguably a lose for him. A 7 year loan at 13% is insane. Good thing you're not on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:30 AM
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Gotta be if you're single handedly supporting the US birth rate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:55 AM
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He better be or I'll have to get one of those paternity tests people keep talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:52 AM
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The coup made me feel better about American politics for a few hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:40 AM
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Most fears are rational. You have the feeling for a reason. If you're afraid of doing something to jeopardize it and the reward isn't worth much, don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:39 AM
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Go by gut feel. If you don't want to lose them and the thought makes you anxious, play it safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:37 AM
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Kid zoned
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:37 AM
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Too much rage bait makes it hard to hear points to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:11 AM
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Unfortunately this type of thing goes against all the rage bait that gets consumed, so it's thought of as a lie or worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:08 AM
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Oh yeah, gotta give him a minute to recover. They had a difference in opinion of kids or not. He's a good dude, not many good single people at his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:03 AM
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You're demonstrating you're interested in a person by showing awareness of their interests and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:30 AM
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That's my story and the story of most of my couple friends. IMO those relationships tend to be the strongest since you have more than just sex, or just kids, or just ___ holding you together. You spend a lot of time with your spouse, it helps to know that you can enjoy their presence during the mundane.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:27 AM
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The conversation was the flirting. He demonstrated he paid attention to her interests and demonstrated it's a shared interest. It probably wasn't aggressive/ sexual flirting which might seem meek, but given the target audience, that's also the right move. You don't attract a bookish prude with sex jokes, but there is nonetheless demand for those types of girls. My relationship was similar, and while it took some time to evolve into a sexual one, that was a cost I or plenty of other guys are will…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:24 AM
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When I see two randoms arguing with each other I downvote them both to make them think they're being downvoted by the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:12 AM
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Honestly, L take. She's probably the type of woman most men here would pedestalize. Ask 100 different couples what move worked for the guy and you'll get 100 different answers. Look at the types of women you want and see what tends to work on them. There's no exact science to it, but there's value in each example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:10 AM
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Eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:00 AM
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Alright. My best friend's LTR just ended. He's a software guy, comes from moderate money, owns his own home, has a really nice mom, nerdy hobbies, close to my age. Might be a little overweight atm but I can get him to work on that. Ladies of PPD, any takers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:55 PM
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When you have what you want you don't have to waste your time wanting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:42 PM
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Jokes on you my wife's older than me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:05 PM
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Only for drinking. Age of consent is 18 or younger in every state in the US as far as I'm aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:59 PM
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He's just asking how you can be attracted to a girl who's actively banging other people. The act of her having sex with someone else is usually a turn off for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:58 PM
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In the United States, a minor is someone who is under the age of majority for their state or territory. The age of majority is usually 18, but varies by state: 18: Most states have an age of majority of 18 19: The age of majority is 19 in Alabama, Colorado, Maryland, and Nebraska 21: The age of majority is 21 in Indiana and Mississippi
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:53 PM
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Banging a girl who's in a relationship with another guy. Aka, you're the side guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:49 PM
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I thought you turned 18 last year. Were you demoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:49 PM
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That's just monogamous people versus non-monogamous people. I'm not good at sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:48 PM
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You have RFK Jr's brain worm on speedial.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:47 PM
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You're a guerilla marketing team disguised as a single account.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:46 PM
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Yes but I choose to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:36 PM
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Women are wonderful effect. I'd suspect the fewer interactions with men you have, the stronger the effect will become.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:32 PM
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Also this is the second time I've got to use this today: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:29 PM
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-This post sponsored by Aveeno and Banana boat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:28 PM
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You don't have to make a sex joke to spark attraction. Actually most good flirting rarely even enters the realm of overtly sexual content.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:26 PM
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Go get a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:21 PM
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When I was in school people would bend over backwards to try to get women in Stem and most didn't bite. The women who did go into it were really good at it, but it just didn't interest most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:20 PM
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This doesn't carry into the real world. Men are more likely to verbalize their preferences and then pick whoever is available. Women are more likely to make their preferences ambiguous and pick the exact types of guys you'd expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:18 PM
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I've been around other guys balls. They smell bad, but its not too bad, sometimes it just smells like sweat. I know ball smell. Ive showered with dudes. I've slept next to dudes for warmth. I've shared bath towels with dudes. Ball smell ain't that bad. It still stinks and Vaginas are worse... ... So now call me gay. Cowards Ur gay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:16 PM
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That indicator has a 100% accuracy. Rest of the quote matters, since it's hyperbole and wasn't personally directed at anyone. Maybe I'm dense but it didn't seem like you were being hyperbolic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:14 PM
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I mean, you can still flirt and banter with people you're not interested in dating. In HS my gf was in my friend group of mostly women and we'd all fake flirt or make digs at each other frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:09 PM
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I know how it is, I just like documenting it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:06 PM
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I read the interaction. I never saw any accusations or assumptions other than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:05 PM
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How do people make it to adulthood and never learned how to talk to and flirt with the opposite gender. Are male/ female only schools more common everywhere I don't live?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:58 PM
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No. If you need it spelled out for you, people don't like it when you make assumptions and judgements from tangential information.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:57 PM
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Censoring is lame
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:50 PM
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Ick, you must be conservative. Because you made an accusatory assumption and called it icky? Did you forget?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:49 PM
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He's probably been on drugs for a while. I would guess he has actual brain damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:42 PM
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Correlation =/= causation. You personally observe a small subset of people in a small subset of your state/ province/ nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:41 PM
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Lol how is that conservative?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:33 PM
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You're not into this? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:17 PM
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Yeah they do kinda have nutsack skin when they come out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:13 PM
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Honestly, I prefer the majority of them not knowing and it not being talked about much IRL. The more woman centric mainstream dating conversations are, the easier it is for women to be open about how self absorbed they are. It's an empathy test. When brought up, do they acknowledge men's issues, or do they have a men vs. women mindset?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:56 PM
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"The only bad thing are the 3 or 4 bad things"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:49 PM
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Nah. She can probably pick up someone who's never had any female attention pretty easily for a bb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:38 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:30 PM
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Yeah not sure where y'all went to HS but that was mostly my experience, too. I think the biggest age different was a senior dating a freshman and the whole school gave him side eye for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:28 PM
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A credit inquiry shows up in your credit report for a month or two, so if you're not trying to pull other credit in the near term it doesn't really matter what the bank does. You're not liable for anything until you sign, just don't sign. In terms of navigating with your cousin, that's up to you. Honest answer is just tell him you did research and it seems like a really bad idea, and good luck. Moralistic answer is to not buy anything that you can't afford. He can't afford that car, he shouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:25 PM
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W. My sister wanted me to cosign for student loans. She'd done the math and she would have had the money to cover everything, but I instead just offered to pay whatever the cash difference was that the loans would have covered for 6 months so the loan didn't show up on my credit history. 5 months in my wife and I found a house and made an offer, the house sold in a week. Not having any other loans on our history got us a really good interest rate. Cosigning her loan would have cost me tens of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:56 PM
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That and the Slateport City music have been going nonstop in my brain for the past week. Is it trying to tell me something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:21 PM
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Why do I have the animal crossing Mr. Resetti angry music stuck in my head
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:07 PM
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His BMI fluctuates between 38 and 44.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:06 PM
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Payments are irrelevant, it will impact your credit. Having an account open in your name makes it so lenders don't want to lend to you. If cousin misses payment because he simply forgets, you're a bad borrower. You're not giving him control over some of your money, you're letting him put whatever he's doing on your credit record.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:59 PM
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Those are just stupid beliefs, this is a certifiably stupid action with potentially huge consequences for you with no benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:51 PM
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If our baby comes out ugly but my wife and I are both 7's, who's to blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:43 PM
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This is definitely the most concise example
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:40 PM
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People identify themselves as the types who should be ignored. A while back I was called an incel which I get a chuckle out of, but don't really need to listen to them further.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:39 PM
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People should save this comment so that in any future debate with Zair they can reference it to prove he's a certified idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:37 PM
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The mark of the beast
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:07 PM
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Ideologies who encourage and make having children economically viable have the best chance of survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:07 PM
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It's because dude has this soulless smile: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:05 PM
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Green tea everything is good. Currently steeping some now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:03 PM
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Nah, you only get one flavor. Local ice cream place has $5 scoops or $7 for two scoops, but somehow they always give you more in the single scoop cone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:02 PM
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Tied between banana or green tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:58 PM
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Known quantity. The first guy had an agreement and broke it, second guy has a worse agreement for her but is honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:49 PM
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It's in no way exclusive to the left, but yeah it's that fear of cancel culture. Everything is so high stakes that no group feels comfortable exploring their own ideology anymore. I'm hoping with the loss of the 2024 election left leaning folks are willing to do a little soul searching to see how they can start appealing to men again. ShoeOnHead did a good video about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:39 PM
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Says the woman who married a guy with a bajillion kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:31 PM
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This is why I no longer really consider the ideologies of groups who discourage having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:28 PM
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Left leaning groups tend to actively tell straight men their voices are not wanted and to step aside, so now most left leaning straight men have joined other male spaces, which tend to be less left leaning. When they go back to left leaning spaces, they generally have enough social awareness to not bring up gender problems to people who don't want to hear them speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:24 PM
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And men emulate the men who are successful with women. What women pick is what's valued in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:40 PM
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When you call things rape that are not rape, you diminish the meaning of the word and the experience of those who have actually been raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:02 PM
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"I know you're dying of starvation, but there are parts of being a taste tester that you won't like".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:56 PM
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Well unless you're trying to impress PPD guys that also seems like a non-issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:54 PM
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Because it is rare for average men to feel desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:43 PM
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Yes, but couldn't you just weed out those guys by not having sex with dudes who try to pay you for it, since that's the consistent behavior described here? Seems like a non-issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:39 PM
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How does trust factor in here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:22 PM
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She has a schlong bigger than mine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:17 PM
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Ugh we're back to "nice guys"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:07 PM
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I got over $400k left on my mortgage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:42 PM
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Projecting is when someone unconsciously or consciously attributes their own thoughts, feelings, or behaviors onto someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:35 PM
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Unfortunately when you hit 42 he gets to exchange you for two 21 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:33 PM
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I don't understand the difficulty for trans women to grasp why straight men aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:32 PM
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Dang that's a long time. Only at 14. In less than a year though I will have been with the same person for half my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:31 PM
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The "don't knows" remind me a lot of other girls who have been on hormonal birth control since they were ~16. It's bizarre that a good chunk of women don't even know who they'd be without the extra hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:29 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/3axrmaq8enae1.jpeg?width=512&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=07f5081ecfc0ceaa79d87233c804ea14a34a176b Dog walk in snow
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:23 PM
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xitter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:13 PM
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Lol wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:49 PM
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If kid #2 is a girl then I'll at least be able to look forward to a teenage girl in the house at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:49 PM
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Damn, glad they caught that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:39 PM
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Today's daily chat has Black Mirror Striking Vipers episode vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:35 PM
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Any personality shifts? My wife got a lot less anxious in general when off it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:33 PM
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That's so early. I understand it, but it's bizarre we let kids get on bc when it affects people so wildly while they're still developing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:33 PM
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What do I have to look forward to in 15 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:28 PM
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I've heard of weird side effects if you're trying to skip your period, but that's supposed to be the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:27 PM
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Q4W who are on or have been on hormonal birth control: What changes do you notice when you're on or off of it? Some women's personality shifts a little, or they're more/ less horny on the pill, what are/ were your symptoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:12 PM
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I understand the rationale or lack thereof, but the ratio is still likely the same, with the overwhelming majority of women acknowledging they're trying to reduce the effects of aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:49 PM
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0/10 unrealistic didn't have 3 mentions of therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:43 PM
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Yeah, here if you take the percentage of the populace getting plastic surgery to "look older", and if you take the percentage of the populace doing anything to appear younger, you'd probably have a ratio of close to 1000:1 in favor of looking younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:40 PM
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Oh, you won't get those expensive clothes, nor have a place to go to wear them if you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:24 PM
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Maybe it's a US guy thing, but the type of women getting plastic surgery are generally regarded as the least attractive, and usually mocked rather than regarded as attractive. The types of women you're describing sound "plastic", so maybe it's a cultural preference thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:23 PM
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I'm bad at it, it makes me self conscious, I hate loud noise and I hate crowds, so it's a perfect collection of things I'm uncomfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:55 PM
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You'll both be resentful, but he won't initiate a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:53 PM
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If you want to make your conclusion based off a small minority of women whose job it is to look good, sure? But that seems like the most divorced from reality demographic to base your theory on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:52 PM
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My point isn't to debate the efficacy of skincare products, it's to highlight the point of them. They're intended to give you / help you keep features of younger women, because that's what is attractive. Ergo, 22 > 32
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:17 PM
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They hate me because I speak the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:11 PM
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Smooth skin is a neotonous feature. Literally the definition of looking younger, and it's marketed as such. Most femine beauty care products are marketed as "reversing the effects of aging", because it's widely understood that's what looks "better"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:10 PM
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Struggling single mom with resentful kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:02 PM
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How does it feel knowing you'll never reach your true potential?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:01 PM
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Using skincare to have your skin look like someone 6 years younger just implies the person 6 years younger is the more attractive option. Normal people don't date celebs, nor want to, so I'm not terribly concerned about how bathing in the blood of babies raises your smv since most have neither the time nor money to invest in looking younger. If you want to look younger, it's because that's the more attractive option.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:00 PM
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Nah. I have a lot of couple friends, mostly about my age (late 20's, early 30's). They're all fairly healthy, no pregnancies other than my wife. Every single couple, the guy has gotten more attractive, and the women has gone from looking 19 for 7 years to looking her age. To address your skin obsession, none of the women needed to use products in their early 20's to look young, now they do or just look their age. Younger versions of them just looked better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:10 PM
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I don't buy into most RP bs and I whole heartedly disagree. Guys peak at 28-36, and women peak at 21-25.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:00 PM
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My honest prediction is you be single for the rest of the 2020's and will wait until age 28-29. You'll give up on the idea of Mr. Perfect, pick Mr. Good Enough, have a short engagement so you're married not too long after 30. You'll live a fairly boring middle class lifestyle and unfortunately your domestic life will not be as exciting as what you fantasized about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:58 PM
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All that aside, I'm curious how they came to the conclusion of "women are hated more". I see the "women are wonderful" all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:58 PM
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Just do what you enjoy doing so long as it's not self destructive, "mood" be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:45 PM
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A guy from 4th grade owes me $2 from the book fair. Never forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 10:03 PM
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Our orange craves violence, not peace
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 10:00 PM
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Attracted physically to Clinton but agrees with Mangione's manifesto and is willing to do what it takes. Best of both worlds
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:21 AM
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These damn coastal elites
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:16 AM
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You seem to think that "insecurity" is some negative word that means something other than what it means. By definition, relationships start out insecure, because moments ago they did not exist. You gain security through the relationships length and by your partners actions. That's why I bring up the examples I do. They're a serial cheater? You should be insecure, how can you hope to keep them interested? They're honest and demonstrate their in it for the long haul? You will and should feel secur…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:15 AM
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I am astounded you're both not wearing top hats and driving Bentleys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:32 AM
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Yeah, got it. You're definitely not into poop. The poop you want to see, you're not into it. Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:31 AM
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Send it to u/babazuki np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1hl49dd/comment/m3nysrc/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:38 AM
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I'll mug an old lady to keep our karma balanced
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:33 AM
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j It's over for j
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:32 AM
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I'm not made of money, seeding it yourself is the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:07 AM
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You just described any imbalanced power dynamic. Real life example of this: Pitch to a potential investor. You and investor consent to meet. You pitch the idea and let them mull over investing. They have the power to invest or not. The money can change the fate of the company and the founders. Of course this is reasonable. Both parties consented to the interaction, understand the stakes, and hopefully did their due diligence. Based off an assessment of the company/ idea, the investor is expected…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:03 AM
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This seems divorced from real life. Where are you finding these women who are moving in with guys and then demanding they entertain them? Manosphere content creators?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:58 PM
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Surely I don't need to waste our time explaining to you how gargantuan of a leap that assertion is, and how badly it doesn't track.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:55 PM
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We've already had this conversation before. Here's the rehash: I don't believe your opinions as fact due to my own lived experiences. Your experience is different from other women's. Your experience is vastly different from the average male's. Using your experience to predict other women's and most male behavior is divorced from reality. Ultimately, men don't care about body count. Those who do care are motivated by insecurities. Blatant contradiction aside, yes they do, and yes they are. Most p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:52 PM
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"The lady doth protest too much"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:38 PM
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Women just dislike stability Run me through that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:38 PM
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Do you believe that you have to have sex with someone to have "actual experience" with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:28 PM
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Yes, almost like we have a preference and act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:23 PM
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Not enough gelatin?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:03 PM
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Sidewalk food
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:42 PM
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I give up with you people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:39 PM
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Finally. Actual food.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:29 PM
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Yeah. I can't think of any reasonable negative connotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:16 PM
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I'm top 5-10% and could never imagine this. Are you boomers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:48 PM
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If you use desktop mode in phone's browser you can upload it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:34 PM
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Sorry I'm stuck on the fact that there is such a job as professional organizer where a person comes and organizes your shit for you. Are you like the .1% or something where you have so much stuff/ sex toys to where you can't even handle it all?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:27 PM
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They're more my wife's friends than mine. They're both very shy and while I can get a rise out of them once in a while, they might actually die of embarrassment. Can't have that on my conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:25 PM
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It's mostly the "haha" kind of salty. She's not insecure about it or whatever. She just would have liked to have been my first and only anything, since I'm the first guy she dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:23 PM
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TL;DR is that all of my friends are couples and 90% of them have only been with one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:22 PM
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Someone else can snag the code, it's posted. You're not the target audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:43 PM
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One time when I was helping couple friends move, me and the husband were loading their dresser into the U-haul and when tilted the drawers all started opening. Somehow in their packing process they were able to pack every item in this dresser except for a few items in the top shelf. Said items? A more impressive than I would have imagined collection of sex toys, alone and on display. These two are quite prim and proper so I kept my mouth shut and pretended I didn't see it. But we all know I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:41 PM
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Because the primary appeal is optimizing the perfect way to strap guns onto your spaceships to either kill space jihadists or instigate a space jihad of your own, while finding the optimal trade route to sell your harvested human organs to fund your endeavors. Also some Star Trek/ Star Wars references or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:34 PM
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Yeah okay meat-jelly, sure you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:21 PM
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Check out his Christmas album. I never heard of him prior to it but it's unironically good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:19 PM
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I'll give her the benefit of the doubt, but I am still skeptical of your meat-jelly tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:19 PM
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I already own it. Great game, probably too tistic for you. What do you play?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:17 PM
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It's okay. If I never have to see any more of your food again I'll consider it a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:15 PM
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Jschlatt's Baby It's Cold Outside, because it's funny being reminded of a time when the masks weren't up, and because it's funny Jschlatt made a Christmas album.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:14 PM
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Damn if she plays it and likes it so much to need a unique code I'll buy it again for her, but I'm not holding my breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:12 PM
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Why do people think their relationship history is some big unknowable secret? If you share friends, given a year, a couple bottles of wine and a few dozen funny stories told your partner will probably know at least 80% of your dating history, assuming they didn't already know since many still graduate from friends to dating. That aside, the standard heterosexual push-and-pull story that's as old as time is the man making sexual interest known and the woman telling him to delay gratification to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:10 PM
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You don't need a unique code to play, just drop it in daily chat
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:58 PM
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You have three different claims/ questions going now, of course I don't understand. I'm not sure if you understand what you're saying. You originally asked why do women mostly interact with men they're attracted to, then amended it to why aren't they open to interacting with men who feel invisible, and now you're saying everyone has the same standing with a woman on first impression, unless you don't pass a looks threshold, then you're not on the same standing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:57 PM
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Oh I love Starsector. Good taste. Probably not her style, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:43 PM
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Ketchup that close to seafood?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:38 PM
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It’s women who men don’t want that hope to use sex to leverage a relationship. Also if men didn’t want relationships, most rich men wouldn’t have wives. What gives you this impression? As long as she's consistent, men have no issue with women who make sex contingent upon a relationship. This is probably more often than not a green flag as long as it's not coming from a place of trauma. If I'm a man who's not into casual sex, dating a like-minded woman is a no-brainer. And rich men marry for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:34 PM
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then why do women limit to interacting with the same few men that they do have that instant physical attraction to? You asked why do women interact with the same few men. Interact =/= "being open", it's interacting. The pursuer initiates an interaction. Being an average dude who initiates an interaction is not enough to trigger attraction. If you're not offering looks, you have to offer something else. I don't know what you're offering, but odds are a single conversation isn't enough to make it …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:29 PM
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Girls don't want to have sex with money. They want to marry money, and have sex with looks. Guys don't fantasize about a wedding, they fantasize about the girl. Passing the looks threshold is the most important step for the guy to get what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:19 PM
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Because if they're going to pursue anybody, they're not going to pursue someone they would be attracted to eventually, versus someone they're already attracted to. You don't get to be an average dude and pursued.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:09 PM
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When you can type a two letter word to completion I'll worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:07 PM
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I'm a computer engineer and I still don't get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:54 PM
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Then how come I saw your mom kissing Santa Claus?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:33 PM
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He sees you when you're sleeping
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:33 PM
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That's weird, bro. That's not normal. Jealousy is normal. I've talked to IRL and read posts about women who get the ick if their partner isn't jealous/ protective of them, there's a million examples. If the thought or sight of your partner kissing someone else doesn't trigger a jealous reaction, congratulations for your fortitude, but most do not share it. Mate guarding behavior is as old as time and is not limited to either gender. I'm in pretty sexually conservative circles (not politically/ r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:31 PM
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You don't have to be a 10, but if you don't pass the looks threshold you are not even an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:17 PM
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This isn't remotely limited to men. I kissed another girl prior to dating my wife and 15 years later she's still salty about it. Women tend to ask and overshare on these topics. I actively try to not learn details about other people's sex lives and somehow it still slips out, usually directly from the woman or from her friends. Over time when you're with someone, you eventually start to piece the information together into a more coherent picture. Pretending the info doesn't come out for argument…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:11 PM
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That's the difference between the alcoholics and the non-alcoholics
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:36 PM
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Rule of thumb is about 2 hours per drink
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:31 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/gk0yykmizt8e1.jpeg?width=512&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=464e1b2fa0df73de1373cb73b329b62aad2e2565 My Christmas whip
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:25 PM
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WFH?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:25 PM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:24 PM
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Too late. You're practicing sneezing while smiling for tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:17 PM
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The only IRL guy named Chad I know is a short pudgy dude dating a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:16 PM
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I'm too lazy to look it up so I'm assuming smeezing is when you sneeze while smiling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:15 PM
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I like gaming Lilith. I want to see her do some Youtube reviews or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:11 PM
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She's willing as long as it's my butt. I have yet to take up the offer. Also c'mon I'm basically an honorary Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:08 PM
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I think the only case where a woman's n-count genuinely doesn't matter to a guy is when she treats a non-Chad like Chad. Doubly so if you're the only guy she's treated that way. She's been with 12 dudes but you're the only one she initiates often with, is willing to try new things with and overall you can barely keep up with her? Not many guys are going to rock that boat. She's been in active hot and heavy relationships with 2 other guys and she's a passive starfish with you? Different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:05 PM
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*This post sponsored by UnitedHealthcare*
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:52 PM
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I'm keeping it to myself but man I don't want this baby to have to come early and do a NICU stay. All the horror stories about preeclampsia are "it's fine until it's not" and all the doctors are of course going to be out tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:51 PM
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You could have started and left it with 3 and that'd be good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:45 PM
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Had to go into the clinic yesterday for wife's high blood pressure. She's starting to show symptoms of preeclampsia and my job is to be the calm and collected one so I'm telling her it'll be fine but I am freaking out. Her mom had it so my wife's high risk, luckily this morning it's not as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:43 PM
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Man, my ideas are not bulletproof. Where do I find ideas of that quality?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:53 AM
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My wife's plan is similar. We'll see how likely said plan is to survive first contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:12 AM
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Those are great. The older I get the more convinced I am that guys do not peak when women do. I've had more interest from women across age ranges now than when I was 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:35 AM
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That's like month 6 or 7. Dumb teens somehow pop out a kid with zero doctor intervention but 30's adults practically need a whole team to get through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:33 AM
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They really are. The whole thing is dramatically more complicated than people realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:12 AM
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Most Italian adjacent foods work. Hawaiian pizza is great cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:11 AM
1

We invented guns explicitly so you don't have to overthink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:43 AM
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Shotguns don't count since you're using shells instead of bullets.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:42 AM
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You're American. 12-gauges are the tool for defending your porch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:15 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/tj5exm3rlo8e1.png?width=540&format=png&auto=webp&s=63b027deaa5f9aad3e92498090a32bf414836951
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:19 PM
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Brussel sprouts are either really really good or really horrible. Never in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:15 PM
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Of course by, if it's made with rats it's rats-in-stewy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:08 PM
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Love split pea soup. My go-to is probably chicken noodle soup. I gave up trying to buy normal chicken breasts a few years back because buying a whole chicken is cheaper. Now I have an endless supply of really good chicken broth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:07 PM
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If it's not made by rats it legally cannot be called Ratatouille. Literally in the name smh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:01 PM
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I like chopping but only if there's high margin for error. I make good food, but like the peasant kind. Some french guy will judge my presentation but my food's probably better than his.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:51 PM
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I believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:46 PM
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I would do anything before I ate this. If you told me there's a human finger in here I would believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:41 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:37 PM
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This should be a crime
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:58 PM
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I only make lazy food. If the food requires 500 precise knife cuts it's not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:52 PM
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I want my celery to have that cronch
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:41 PM
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I premake and freeze homemade broth so I don't really need extra flavor. I just want to know the timing required for tender potatoes and stuff. 1 hour ain't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:36 PM
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Stew recipes that tell you to put the veggies in at the beginning should be purged from the internet. I don't want my squash to be mush.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:30 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:02 PM
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I'm sure it at least tastes good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:01 PM
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Can't think of another country with low enough standards for that to be gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:58 PM
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If the game is fun or appeals to my inner 'tist I'll forgive a bad story, these are usually my whatever genre space games. If the gameplay sucks ass it better have a kickass story. BioWare's Kotors is worst offender for gameplay but best offender for amazing story/ characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:56 PM
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Tali best girl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:48 PM
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I never played ME3 multiplayer until well after the game released. It was fun, but mainly because it was hacked so everyone had maximum money/ everything unlocked immediately. The day 1 DLC and ending fiasco put me off. ME1's combat honestly kinda sucked unless you had a good assault rifle/ shotgun, so when I got to play infiltrator/ vanguard on ME2 I was having a great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:44 PM
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No one would play with you on your leg? That's so sad. My go-to boredom game was dots/ squares, but I figured that might be a little advanced for reddit text.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:41 PM
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Reply using code block, it works better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:39 PM
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Really? I thought ME 1 and 2 (except jacob) were great. ME 3 seemed suffered too much from EA syndrome to be super enjoyable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:37 PM
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wth is a V?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:33 PM
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I like ME series, but never got into Dragon Age. Is it worth it or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:28 PM
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PPD daily chat has too many dumbs and is a bummer today. Play tic-tac-toe to liven it up. I'll go first: ___|___|___ ___|_X_|___ | |
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:27 PM
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Whenever I make a qualifying statement I try to cover edge cases or leave room for error and then they just don't engage. Most folks here aren't interested in debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:13 PM
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I have a weird story about a recruiter who was very interested in my security clearance level and my willingness to travel to specific countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:23 AM
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I had a crush on my now wife in 7th grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:21 AM
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That's kinda genius
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:55 AM
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I can't imagine a single way to rationalize that being good
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:53 AM
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What you're attracted to confuses me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:49 AM
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Time to be consistent for once and redirect Israel's military aid to Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:59 AM
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Lack's just hallucinating these
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:34 AM
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It's one of those days.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:19 AM
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Everyone's always like fiRsT on daily chat when AutoMod's comment is always before them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:33 PM
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There's still another 35 minutes my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:25 PM
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If you're planning on never seeing them again anyway, 50/50 odds of them never responding and nothing's changed, or you get an opportunity to practice escalation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:25 PM
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do you not think that some degree of attraction is surface level ? Surface level being things like body, status, etc? Yeah absolutely, but those should be more important at the beginning and hopefully you move into the deeper stuff. This seems like a classic case of there being more context behind what the surface level looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:23 PM
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I mean honestly if you'd otherwise lose a match on a dating app and the interaction is about to end I'd literally send them ‘I think you’re hot and want to have sex with you’, see how it goes and refine from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:07 PM
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Maybe this is just another benefit of the doubt thing, but I don't buy that sane people just have a bad day and resort to insulting their spouse. I've had bad days and never is my response to lash out with random insults at my wife. That was likely just what she actually thought slipping out. but come on, the idea of “the appearance of XYZ being true can be almost just as bad as XYZ actually being true” is not some evil woman exclusive phenomenon. This type of thinking works for people who only …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:33 PM
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Yeah I have no sage wisdom for that other than practice and fake it. Practice can be on real girls or it can be learning/ copying what other people do, real or fictional. Fake it can be making up a whole persona and just doing what you think the persona should do if the normal "you" would be too awkward. That was my go-to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:26 PM
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I'm purple pill, but I think that's my optimistic male pov hoping women think how I do. Whenever I actually talk to women about their preferences I'm more and more convinced that is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:11 PM
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Honestly you're not unattractive. Your profile is probably fine as is to get enough matches. Working on your banter is probably more worthwhile than trying to get the perfect set of photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:08 PM
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This has been a very red pilling interaction to have all the women tell me appearances are the most important part of the relationship. I told my wife all the RP guys agreed with her and why and she told me they're right 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:06 PM
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Unironically I've had months where my company really just needed some prototypes or low volume stuff done NOW and I was getting paid engineer money to be a solder tech. I don't even have any certs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:04 PM
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Ah, so then I'm training your replacement. Get a job where you need your hands for more than pressing buttons on your PC. Boom, irreplaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:57 PM
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"Do" literally anything other than street fighter. The pussy doesn't want what it doesn't want don't shoot the messenger. I know plenty of nerd chicks who are into DnD. If you have a good/ funny pic of that it could work for the right crowd. And yeah what ladies don't love beyblades?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:54 PM
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When ChatGPT can unplug a cable I'll start to take people who say that more seriously. People who write code do not just sit in a box and program all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:51 PM
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Looks better than it did. Only other point I'd have is to add more photo variety if you can. People who use them, feel free to correct me but I'd guess the photos are 98% of what people look at on apps, so having a few locations are good, but painting more of a picture of "I do ___" seems to work well. 4ptTakedown as an example. He got a professional photoshoot done of him at a boxing match and painted a picture of him being an amateur boxer and apparently got so much attention he ascended from …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:47 PM
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"They hate us 'cause they anus?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:32 PM
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It can write most of my code for me. I'll be interested when it can reason and execute it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:26 PM
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Quoting men more accomplished than you just kind of reinforces my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:24 PM
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Agreed. Speaking of which, you took street fighter off your dating profile, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:21 PM
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I understand the attraction perspective, I just find it beyond belief you'd still be having to jump through hoops and looking busy to maintain attraction at that point. Maybe he's fat or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:19 PM
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That's where I'm lost. Imagine if the genders were reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:17 PM
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I'm trying not to make any extra assumptions about the post. I don't have any other info about their relationship/ working dynamics so I won't comment on it. I'm not sure how you know that this guy isn't spending time with his wife when she's home from work or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:16 PM
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Personally I agree, but looking at it from a higher level, what's the threshold of success you have to achieve before you're allowed to just do what you want to relax for a few months? I doubt many here have done the startup thing, I only did it for a few years. 15 years of it would be incredibly draining, I can easily imagine someone recently retiring just wanting to recapture some of the lazing around they missed out on, even if just for a short period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:14 PM
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You're a multimillionaire?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:11 PM
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For me it's the disrespect/ entitlement aspect that makes it seem like a big deal. I can imagine scenarios in which the behavior would be frustrating, but I can't imagine a scenario in which she would not address how the behavior makes her feel before jumping to insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:11 PM
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The OP cited "healthcare" as a reason why, but I can't imagine that she absolutely has to keep working lest the face homelessness or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:10 PM
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I'm trying to avoid assumptions outside the scope of what I know but I hadn't even considered the fact that she likely has a couple months each year she's not working and that's why they can go on those summer vacations. Her idea of free time hobbies is to just enjoy the stuff he's paying for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:09 PM
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The "if I were ___" arguments don't hold much water for me. You didn't do the things to get to the point of that level of success. It often comes with burnout, you cannot rationally make the claim of what you'd do because you never have been there nor will put in the work required to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:07 PM
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That's my argument. He already toiled. If you build and sell your own company in the span of 15 years, and that's not enough to earn the mundane entertainment of your choice for a winter, what is?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:05 PM
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So it's an image/ looks issue. If he adopted a different kind of look for his entertainment it'd be okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:04 PM
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So she's right because she's incapable of seeing objective reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:01 PM
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Trying to, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:59 PM
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You've got $2M in the bank, you can buy some febreeze or hire a cleaner or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:57 PM
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How is he like a trust fund baby? He made his own money and then is enjoying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:53 PM
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I understand how she might feel, but does that feeling make her right? Is he a loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:52 PM
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The dude's 41 and had been building a company for 15 years. He likely recently sold it. In what way is calling your husband who bought and takes care of your house, has $2M in liquid assets, makes $125k a year a loser after he just sold his company and likely wants a bit of a breather tough love?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:50 PM
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My hypothetical is the woman comes as they are. I don't know the dude's requirements but for argument's sake say he's looking for someone around as attractive and probably doesn't care how much she makes, but most women in that age range will be making about the same amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:47 PM
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<image> Settle a debate for me. My wife says the guy's wife is right. I'm telling her she's delusional and half of single women aged 25-45 would gladly take her place if all they had to do was not insult him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:43 PM
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What's a nightmare scenario is people posting a slightly altered copypasta over and over for internet points.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:19 PM
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My wife's getting close, and I think I feel qualified enough to say that even easy pregnancies are hard, but there's a million things you can do in preparation for it to make it easier. The #1 thing is having a good support network to help you when things get tough. Keep friends and family close, and if you're in the typical western "live with your partner only" style household, probably the most important is to marry the right guy. If you know how babies are make, and you're even remotely on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:14 PM
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The women on POF are really unfortunate looking, though. But are you more or less attractive than they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:06 PM
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Just listen to youtube from your phone or something. During my braindead tasks recently I've been listening to MikeBurnfire's army stories. They're hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:36 PM
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I remember when PPD had a phase when half the guys were sexual communists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:34 PM
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You a psychopath or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:33 PM
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You couldn't pay me enough to deal with parents or school boards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:49 AM
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The "He's just using me for sex" types who don't get what they want out of their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:44 AM
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In our generation, I don't think I've seen any successful LTRs form from random "go up and ask her out" type interactions. If you're hot, you might be able to make it work, but if you're asking for advice here, you're probably not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:40 AM
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Warm approach lets you gauge interest/ compatibility prior to asking. If you know the answer is no, just keep the relationship at friends. Having female friends provides social proof and social access to more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:37 AM
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Exactly, if Republicans are smart they won't let Trump solve immigration, so that they can keep fear mongering the same thing every election cycle, which incidentally is why he probably won't do anything, again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:34 AM
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As in cold-approaching a bunch of women? The thing every woman says explicitly to not do? I'm a fan of warm approaching. Don't even ask if there's not a 75% chance she'll say yes. Do you have female friends that enjoy your company? That's the crawl before you can walk litmus test.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:16 AM
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I think he's rolled back almost everything he said he was going to do back at this point. I'm curious to see if he'll actually try to deport US citizens though. I feel bad for the people, but the lawsuits will be entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:14 AM
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We've made that pitch to him. The agreement with parents was they he has 6 months to find a job or get booted out. Doesn't have to be the perfect job, just something. I've told him to find a manufacturing or part time thing just to get his resume going and keep applying while he's off work. He's open to the idea but the implementation seems lacking. People are hiring, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:12 AM
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She just thought it be nice to do it for him since she wasn't doing anything else. Not sure what you mean by "that's on her". Also, he's a complete bum, but has a car? Wish I could live like this when I was a bum. My in-laws are UMC, and he worked a bit to save up money before college. Most problems in life can be solved by being kids of people with more money than they require.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:10 AM
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Nah, he wouldn't listen to us, intervention wouldn't work. He's heard the call to action from his parents already and he still does what he does. He does have a time limit he's allpwed to love there for free, but it'll probably take action from his gf to convince him to take action, but she might (correctly) conclude it's not worth the effort. Maybe he'll find a job soon and the issue will disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:03 AM
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I don't know if he'd even learn, I'm worried he's too soft to recover from a blow of that magnitude. If he gets dumped now he'll probably take a Darwin award and coast.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:44 AM
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Nah, he's always been video game addicted and kinda has a habit of half-assing it. He didn't do well in gradeschool, and then flunked out of Army basic after graduating HS. He worked dead-end jobs a bit and then actually got decent grades getting his degree so we were hopeful he was motivated to not work dead-end jobs and put some effort in, but that gaming chair in the basement gets a lot of use.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:42 AM
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I know. He doesn't take criticism super well so it's hard to tell him to get off his ass and do something impressive in a way that would inspire him to do so, and he seems blind to phenomena of "I'm dating a bum" he's causing in his gf. She's easily the most marriage material girl I'd see him being able to get on this side of 30, too. I wanna slap the dude and tell him to get it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:38 AM
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Yes but with a camera or a sharp enough knife they can keep it without needing to remain your gf. Doesn't seem like enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:34 AM
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Mechanical Engineering with some manufacturing classes in there. His whole immediate family is Engineers or at minimum STEM majors and we've offered to help him practice interviews and craft resumes. I think he's interviewed once or twice and last I heard was considering branching out into manufacturing roles just to get a foot in the door. I think he talks to her and sees her fairly often, but he lives at home and she has several roommates now so it's a very different dynamic from what they had…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:32 AM
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No job yet. It's been a few months, he's applied to a couple dozen places and now just kills time 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:29 AM
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What do you have that would make them want you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:28 AM
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One time last summer while some family, including her were over at in-laws place, he's in his room and she gets bored so she just goes out and washes his car. My wife and his parents were giving him the "dude.... yikes..." look and he didn't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:27 AM
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I'm worried my younger BIL is going to mess up his relationship. He graduated from college this year and moved back in to my in-laws basement. He applied to the few dozen jobs that show up for his major that are hiring fresh grads, and now mostly plays video games in his room with his door locked. TBF he used to do that in college but he had more people present to drag him out of his room. She's a very patient plain jane who imo treats him better than he deserves but even she's getting a little …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:21 AM
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I find it funny that people need scientific studies to prove something that you can just sit on a bus and learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:52 PM
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"It's your attitude. Women can smell a bad attitude a mile away"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:51 PM
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I like some pilsners/ lagers but people who claim to like IPAs need to be checked
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:45 PM
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It's a good skill to learn. When you're forced to do it/ it's a job, you improve very quickly. The first week or two will be bad. Your superiors will understand and give you the time you need to adapt. I somehow ended up teaching kids while I was an awkward schlup, and I sucked at it for about 3 days, then I got better. The skills I learned have been useful every day of my life since.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:17 PM
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Grid, Ainsley, leo, woowoo, badger and Eulen are the only ones I see. Maybe toast and wtknight are in the main discussions. Mrs_Drgree hasn't been around for a while. I vaguely recall she had a kid and then broke up or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:17 PM
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I liked the original Avengers and the first Robert Downey Jr. Iron Man. After that I've had superhero movie fatigue and haven't been back. This new superman's Clark Kent disguise looks like Moss from IT Crowd though, and that at least entertains me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:13 PM
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In the US we had a small period of time when mortgages were under 3%. I'm a bit under that and I'm sure inflation is more than 3%.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:11 PM
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Could just be kidnapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:59 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/pv90lj94zu7e1.png?width=812&format=png&auto=webp&s=1a57b79f5dfd961cec4440a81ffca10a2af31968
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:40 PM
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I was worried women don't like Electrical Engineers all of a sudden.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:00 PM
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My bank has to be losing money on my mortgage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:29 PM
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We figured it out. We're bidone here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:18 PM
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You don't need to be too hung up on any one of the examples I gave as a thing to lose, they're arbitrary and there's plenty of other things that could be used as an example. What's valuable to you is not necessarily valuable to everyone. If you have time to kill, time is cheap. If you have money to burn, money is cheap. The converse is also true. Which are you more likely to treat better, the shitty $3000 car that your parents gave you to go out and meet up with your friends every once in a whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:17 PM
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Boomers will eventually die and move into old people homes. If you have money, buy one of their old places. If you don't, wait until your parents die (this plan requires having parents with money).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:05 PM
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Use the "democrats lost election" criteria, no need to narrow it down. The answer can just be "men". Since it's 2024, you can narrow it down to "latino men" if you'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:04 PM
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Again, that's a male perspective. You have to do things and make sacrifices for a relationship, there is no question. That is not always the female experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:56 PM
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No, time is not always a sacrifice. Plenty of people are bored and have time to kill. Having someone entertain them is free.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:50 PM
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바나나
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:49 PM
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I'm not sure what your question is trying to ask. If one person is getting everything all the time without any work then that’s not really a relationship. This is a default male perspective, not everyone sees things like this. If you're an attractive woman, you can easily have multiple relationships that look like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:48 PM
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It's planes all the way down, brother
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:43 PM
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My most toxic/ misogynistic relationship belief is that a romantic relationship will never have any real investment from the woman if she hasn't sacrificed something for it. The more she sacrificed for it, the stronger the bond. Women tend to value things/ people proportionally to what they had to give up for it, not proportionally to what they get from it. The sacrifice could be anything like time, money, or other relationships, but she needed to be emotionally invested in the things she lost f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:41 PM
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Arrest the ones pointing lasers at aircraft and put the rest on reality TV. I want to know what the lives of someone that stupid is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:25 PM
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The UFO sub keeps popping up in the main reddit feeds and I absolutely love lurking on all the idiots. It'll be like a blurry video of a 767 coming in for a landing or a flight of helicopters flying nvg's and all the comments will be along the lines of "Holy shit! What the hell is going on?!?" Like dude, just check flightradar24.com and take a xanax or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:00 PM
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He's pretending to be the healthy option
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:16 PM
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Cake/ bread made out of phallic foods gonna steal your girl with that attitude. Carrot cake, zucchini bread and banana bread are not to be taken lightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:13 PM
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Carrot cake fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:05 PM
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Tinder just gives you a binary answer to "are you in the top 5% of guys or not?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:04 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:04 AM
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I wonder how many things like this are just being used to train AI or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:33 AM
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In my case it's the whole document, and everything for the same tests are also unclassified. That being said "unclassified" is not technically a classification, but the default. Nah, it's an actual classification rating that is assigned to documents. In our case it just practically means we're not supposed to email it around, but the same docs are googleable. Unclassified is a security classification assigned to official information that does not warrant the assignment of Confidential, Secret, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:32 AM
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Shallow relationships with external factors driving the relationship, like distant family or coworkers are the only cases where boundaries can and should be respected. Everything else requires honesty and entertainment, which often comes out as banter and vulnerability. It either offends them and drives them away, or it's the glue that holds the relationship together. There doesn't seem to be much middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:18 AM
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But if you asked them "are men's feelings of less importance" they'll generally say no. When asked why it's usually that they don't want to do "emotional labor" but somehow don't see how men do emotional labor for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:13 AM
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My unclassified docs don't involve UFOs. They do involve drones, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:02 AM
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Nah, these docs have been out for more than a decade. I'm just not supposed to distribute them, but like, I found it on google?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:54 PM
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I'd correlate it to girls with daddy issues, no idea what percentage of the population that is. I mostly interact with more intelligent, married women now so blatant misandrist "I will never do __ for men" type statements would be frowned upon. Back in HS when I had way more rabid feminist type friends, they were more open saying those sorts of things out loud. However, the women I hang out with now and the girls I used to be friends with share the same blind spots when it comes to men's emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:49 PM
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Nah I think some aspects of BP and RP are right I just think y'all are wrong on an individual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:37 PM
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But for consistency I'd like it on record that I think you're more wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:30 PM
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Why does the government even have an "unclassified" classification rating. If it's not classified, then just don't give it a rating?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:21 PM
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I am equal opportunity, I think you're all wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:11 PM
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From Robinhood to Robbin' hood
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:10 PM
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When I see the phrase being unironically used by women in relationships, it's almost never to indicate they think their bf should go seek therapy. It's almost always used as a way to criticize him complaining about something. Granted, it usually comes from narcissists, but there's a lot of narcissists out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:10 PM
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Roanoke: Being jealous of Iron-clad battleships
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:03 PM
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You betcha. I'm usually happy to volunteer for free therapist duty but I do find the double standard amusing at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:57 PM
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Non-narcissists will occasionally reciprocate, but it's not limited to romantic relationships. Any male friend gets the same treatment from women who think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:49 PM
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Yeah that's why you report it. You can really lay on the "us vs them" rhetoric. Drive sales
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:24 PM
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Last
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:09 PM
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I'd simp for you but I'm probably not your target market
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:27 PM
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You should pay homeless people to commit high profile crimes that you document. Like a bad guy spider man/ peter parker arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:24 PM
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I wonder what my annoying coworker thing is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:20 PM
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The bar is on the floor for men. Just eat granola straight out of the containers in the bulk foods isle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:18 PM
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Keeping score is too much effort. Easier just to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:17 PM
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Is your gf jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:15 PM
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They should help him along, I'm impatient.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:13 PM
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Yeah but when people ask what they can do to get ahead saying "Just be born smart" generally doesn't get a positive reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:11 PM
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Who eats the groceries while in the grocery isle?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:10 PM
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Go into construction. Housing is so expensive given building costs anyway and there's a bajillion people trying to find better housing. That or trades. Do my roof I'll pay you $20k.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:47 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/43zh79w7un7e1.png?width=1200&format=png&auto=webp&s=0c5bd074878b6e1170711362580372941c5ad6f9
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:40 PM
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Hmm, but what happens when you do a double flip? What's the gender flip of her treating her man to nice dinners and then pegging him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:33 PM
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"Hello ma'am my name is Sperm Bank, nice to meet you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:30 PM
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I still think the gays are greedy for wanting kids, though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:06 PM
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Bummer, I was ready for the drama
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:05 PM
1

Dang our woman in this scenario broke up with her cheating fiancee and got knocked up in a matter of months?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:02 PM
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Yes. If Russians or Belarusians try to enter the country, we should shoot them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:53 PM
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I have a song to cheer you up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W171n_v4ZAs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:52 PM
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That would do it. It would benefit them for the next to fix their population issues now, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:50 PM
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I'd shoot on sight if my neighbors were Russia and Belarus
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:48 PM
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Why is Poland so based? I listened to a video last night where the writer open acknowledged hypergamy (with references) as a reason for population decline, and now they're training kids to use firearms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:43 PM
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Forget posts, bs in here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:37 PM
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Damn I should start a Discount Dan's "therapy"/ good life advice emporium and undercut all the people who got worn out by a 5-6 year degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:35 PM
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Aren't you trying to be a therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:32 PM
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Male lions bang and sleep, they're the giga-chads we should aspire to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:20 PM
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UK formally left in early 2020. Germany's far right AFD party has been gaining traction. How is that shocking? They were victims of far left politics. It's not, but their politics are still batshit. The whole world is shifting populist which gets people a little freaky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:18 PM
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Pfft, you think grass is real? It's a government coverup for the underground bunkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:14 PM
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I can't wait for the infighting. Also, is Vance still alive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:10 PM
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US politics aren't even that crazy compared to Europe. UK is dumb because brexit, France is France, Germany thinks going green is firing up coal plants and is starting to dabble in Nazism again. Eastern Europe is also dabbling in far right wing politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:09 PM
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Of course it's easier to get women into bed who find you physically attractive, but it's also easier to get women to date you if they enjoy spending time with you. It doesn't mean you're only fun for girls who want to fuck you. I'm a fun male friend for a half dozen married women, none of them want to fuck me. I was the fun guy friend for several girls when I was very overweight. None of them wanted me either. I'm no Chad, so almost every girl who was attracted to me needed some to be interested…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:06 AM
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24 is indeed a little early for kids, but I doubt you're in danger of having kids in the next few years. If you're at the tail end of college, yesterday would have been a good time to meet a guy, though. Once everyone disperses it's hard to wrangle your dating pool back together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:00 AM
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Playing Dnd with the boys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:58 AM
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I don't know how your mom's life turned out, but my rule is to take advice from people whose life isn't going how they wanted with a large helping of salt. I don't know what your dating goals are, but I suspect that advice wouldn't get you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:56 AM
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Are you arguing that for a girl to find you fun to be around, she has to be sexually attracted to you first? Do I even need to waste my time refuting that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:53 AM
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Hard to increase taxes on one of the poorest generations who's already not having kids due to CoL issues, to transfer it to the most wealthy generation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:39 AM
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I forgot who asked it since it was a few years ago, but someone here asked where's the best place to find virgin women. The top response was "middle school". If you're young, you'll probably be fine. If you want a virgin and you're not a prude yourself, they'll probably sniff it out and won't be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:38 AM
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Yeah, the shorter answer is just promote them doing just the good things things typically associated with male dominated roles. Stuff like we see people asking why aren't there more female CEOs, but not pushing for more women in the trades and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:21 AM
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I'm sure he'll make an exception for you. Take you out for burgers first or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:36 AM
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If he's in your city are you giving him a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:33 AM
1

Yeah the discord scares me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:28 AM
1

14 could still be a whoopsie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:26 AM
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Be the change you want to see. Start asking men for their nudes in their dm's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:22 AM
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I think the age gap should top out somewhere below "I'm old enough to be your parent if I made a reckless decision in HS"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:20 AM
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If she has fingernails; pass
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:19 AM
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If I recall you regularly had creeps on that account. Is it just a face/ body pics on profile = more weirdos thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:17 AM
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"I am a nigerian prince give me your bank details" energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:15 AM
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The only hot thing he's lacking is Actual Steak's pics
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:13 AM
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It's an economic tool, not a demographic one. It can help but the only thing that will really solve it is by making having children affordable again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:56 PM
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if youre born in the same year as an asian girl its an instant +2 to your out-of-10 rating. Same day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:42 PM
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He terrorized the only demographic that really matters to our justice system, the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:28 PM
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If you're lesbian and single guys can commiserate. If you're bi and single that's just embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:26 PM
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I know a lot of single moms who marry the stable guy and pump out one kid for him and call it good. I thought that was a trope at this point. I presumed they'd feel anxious the guy wouldn't want to put up with the hassle of kids unless he has paternal investment into the relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:23 PM
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"Immigration will solve the problem" Every country with high immigration: "CLOSE THE GATE!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:16 PM
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I'd love to see how people think social security is gonna work when you don't have any young people paying into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:12 PM
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Ironically sounds like a girl I knew in college. She was fun to people watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:11 PM
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Normal childcare costs alone for one kid in the US is almost as much as the average asian yearly salary. We invest a lot, too if the parents work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:08 PM
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Honestly just geomaxx to some western country and say you want to split household chores 50/50. You'd probably be able to find someone in a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:06 PM
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That's why I specified "be fun to be around" instead of "have fun".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:05 PM
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If you take what you wrote and swapped femininity for masculinity, replaced women with men, everything would still be true though, and during the same time frames as well. The trope of the dumb man has been around since forever, and society usually locks up people who exhibit hypermasculinity. If you're too macho you give women the ick. Does society just incentivize androgynous behavior? (Until the next war, anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:03 PM
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Substances can be fun (allegedly)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:40 PM
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My most blue pilled piece of dating advice for men is just to be fun to be around. If someone enjoyed their time with you, they'll want to spend more time with you. Being known as fun also gives you status. Most ugly guys you see with a good looking girl is probably a blast to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:37 PM
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Conversely I don't know why single mom's aren't trying to lock down a new guy with a baby if she thinks he'll BB for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:26 PM
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Not ashamed, just was identified and trying to remain unidentified.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:25 PM
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A Series of Unfortunate Events gone wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:23 PM
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If feminists were actually trying to help women they'd be advocating for more female bathrooms in public buildings. I understand the penis envy when I've never waited for a bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:22 PM
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I'm curious to hear people's bar on floor standards. Like: "my standards are on the floor, you only have to have a healthy (19-21) BMI"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:19 PM
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She's going incognito and doesn't want her nationality called out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:16 PM
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You can provide benefits to women without needing to masculinize them. Granting them equal rights as men, or legal and economic protections in domestic arrangements (where they fill a traditionally female role) as examples. I don't see a lot of feminists advocating for the protections that would make women feel comfortable in those roles, or celebrating them. I do see a lot of feminists celebrating women behaving in ways men traditionally do, ranging from professional achievement to violence. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:16 PM
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Asian birth rate is so low because you need to partner up with someone born on the same day as you to have an equal relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:56 PM
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Yeah, ironically a lot of feminism today seems to be about masculinizing women rather than celebrating them as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:52 PM
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Scaring solicitors work really well. For a few months there were an army of solicitors at my college that would hit as many people walking around as possible asking for money for some kids with cancer organization or whatever. After the 12th time of having the usual pitch thrown at me starting with "Do you like kids?", I decided to try the nuclear option and (louder than I intended) told her that I fucking hate kids, and hope they die. One of my class' TA's heard the exchange. Wasn't bothered ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:29 PM
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If he went on tinder or just into a bar and pitched that to the first 10 girls he met he'd probably get at least some interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:22 PM
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Regarding more rigid monogamy as a result of attractiveness. I have no data on this, because as far as I know it hasn't been studied It's just a hunch based on passive observation. People who regard themselves higher, especially in looks, tend to end up in either more casual relationships, or at the very least more serial monogamous relationship. People who don't have much in the way of looks to offer offer loyalty instead, or something. In my case, the sexual compatability in my first relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:16 PM
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I think the only way this behavior is tolerated is if he's hot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:56 AM
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Half this sub wants someone to introduce them to wenches
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:44 AM
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Dear lord she had kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:56 PM
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A woman can be a dude but when referring to dudes with no context it's assumed male. Dudeette is too many letters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:44 PM
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Nah she'd find some other weirdo in a matter of weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:43 PM
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She's gone now but definitely would have been Parfait
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:26 PM
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I'm honestly okay with it. It helps reduce guilt when I think about all the things I disregard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:23 PM
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I want something less formal than "women" and less assholeish than "bitches"/"babes"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:19 PM
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There's a downvote gremlin that comes in and hits everything every so often. It might be a bot, but if not it's the saltiest person on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:18 PM
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When you live with a girl her hair ends up in your underwear/ buttcrack. This is a downgrade of that kind of problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:56 PM
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Yeah. Tacticaltossaway nailed it on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:35 PM
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There's some down by our waterfront if you want to come grab them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:34 PM
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Where is dickpilled guy when you need him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:32 PM
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To get the full experience you should rub one out to the comment, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:27 PM
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I think we're doing nothing this year, thank god. My mom and sister are moving out of state this weekend. My wife's family is going to celebrate with family out of state, and we weren't interested in going with since we want to not be 4 hours away from our hospital. I think I'm just making wife a family sized meal that we exclusively get the leftovers for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:26 PM
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The preference for monogamy is likely a spectrum for folks, and people probably end up in relationships with people they perceive as sharing the same preference for it. The preference likely shifts with how well we perceive we could do on the dating market, and our tolerance for remaining on the dating market. People who aren't narcissistic probably only need to hold their partner to the same standard they themselves would meet. My wife and I are both probably more prudish than the general popul…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:23 PM
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It's usually pro-authoritarian vs anti-authoritarian split. Demographics that grew up being comfortable being told what to believe are more likely to accept someone else enforcing their beliefs on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:29 PM
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She probably wouldn't but if she could find someone good she should. I've got good taste, would be a shame to deprive the dating market of top tier quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:28 PM
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Green flag. She shares my views on cheaters and takes karma into her own hands. I hope the shoes were expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:26 PM
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I've got a concoction of mommy and daddy issues that niggles at my brain to find a reason to leave everyone behind and live in a cabin alone in the woods. Not having to deal with the thought of exes and any insecurity that could bring makes it dramatically easier to ignore that portion of my brain and just enjoy the company. I'm sure not all guys care, but I'd wager most guys who actually prefer to be in a monogamous relationship share the same feelings of insecurity, just to different extents. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:22 PM
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I'm not huge on attachment style mumbo jumbo but that just sounds like the typical avoidant/ anxious dynamic, which from what I understand rarely works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:08 PM
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I am a big meanie I just hide it with humor. I've got a lot of couple friends who are all good at the monogamous relationships thing and most of them met in college, but a few of them got together in HS. From what I've seen IRL, a good chunk of women who are single post college tend to have been cheated on, but when picking men will continually pick the same types of guys. The "decent" guys I talk to (not cheaters, stable w/ good income) are never interested in those types of girls. So that begs…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:03 PM
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Okay, well to circle back to my original comment, your personal feelings toward a particular word don't nullify its usefulness in conveying a message. The rest of the world uses it, and being the word police for something so mundane doesn't ingratiate you to anyone or add anything of value to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:45 PM
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I'm a jealous dude, but not the possessive kind, the dissociative kind. The thought of her being with other dudes triggers disgust and disconnection. The world is small, I also just don't want to deal with the social situation where I'm face to face with someone who has had sex with my partner. I was prior to current relationship. Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:42 PM
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My wife stopped identifying as feminist. I think becoming based is a symptom of pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:37 PM
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Always give them your email, and if they have your number tell them it's okay to text. Asynchronous communication was invented when people learned how to read and write, leverage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:36 PM
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If you were somewhat social in college, yet made it out without finding someone, odds are you're usually not who someone decent was looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:35 PM
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Same can be said with most "-ist" groups. Humans are naturally designed to be pro-individual but anti-opposing group. Put a few latinos in a group with republicans, crack open a few beers, get them talking and there's an 80% chance you'll hear the same "you're different, you're not _____" within 15 minutes. Let them all go home and they'll still be against the nebulous "illegals", never putting individual faces to the group identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:33 PM
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I'd be willing to bet that most psychologists today would also be able to recognize that someone saying an action can be trained is not the same as reducing the entirety of the human psyche to "stimulus = response", but might instead be trying to illustrate a single point for someone without requiring all the nuances required in a 4-year program, just to give a piece of relationship advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:28 PM
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But I do know that he has eyes, saw that I had just gotten up and was unclothed, and that I was on my way downstairs, where my clothing is kept People don't work this way. Whatever is on the top of your brain is your focus in his case it was getting dogs fed, in your case it was getting dressed. Don't expect him (or anyone) to consider what you're doing to this granularity when they're also completing tasks that needs to get done without either teaching him to think this way over a long period o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:22 PM
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Your theory is that intellectually capable people don't learn and respond to the things around them, because it's old fashioned? That's an interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:57 PM
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Girl one. Women mellow out over time and I'm really good at nudging people's values closer to my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:55 PM
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train - verb teach (a person or animal) a particular skill or type of behavior through practice and instruction over a period of time. Intellectually capable people learn from experiences and adapt their behavior to match. Every time you do anything, and the situation doesn't go 100% how you want it to, you refine behavior for a better outcome. "Train" is the correct verb here, regardless of your personal feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:49 PM
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No problem
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:35 PM
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I've always wondered if I could end someone's relationship with a conversation about height in front of his girl. "Nah bro, there's no way you're 6'. I'm 5'11" and I'm at least an inch taller than you. Have you been lying to her about your height? Yikes."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:33 PM
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I'm trying to figure out if he was just upset that I wasn't immediately receptive to completing the task he was giving me You showed annoyance before he even asked you to do anything. Even if you knew he was going to ask you do to something, to him it looks like you were annoyed by him just addressing you. In other words, it looks like you were just annoyed at him. It doesn't matter if he's correct or not in assuming that, it's what you put out, so it's what he perceives. Non-ND folks wouldn't i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:26 PM
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6'2" ish. CDC says I'm around the 95% percentile for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:13 PM
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If I were on Tinder I would say I'm 5'11" just to bring that much more chaos to the world
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:05 PM
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CDC collected the data for that study. If it was Tinder I'm sure the numbers would be higher. https://dqydj.com/height-percentile-calculator-for-men-and-women/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:04 PM
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In the United States, 14.5% of men are 6 feet or taller. However, 33% of men in the U.S. report being at least 6 feet tall
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:55 PM
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That's why I love working in military adjacent fields. "It's classified" <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:51 PM
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I peaked at 6'2" in high school. Gravity will probably bring me back down to 6'1" in the next couple decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:47 PM
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I just hit my growth spurt early. The 190 lbs wasn't muscle, I was no Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:43 PM
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Depends on the matchup, but probably the boy. I was 6' and 190 lbs at age 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:32 PM
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That's why he puts a bag over it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:26 PM
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Since he's banned he sent me his face reveal and asked for a rating: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:19 PM
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I found out a former coworker of mine is a mid-tier meme. Don't know how I never learned this while I was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:19 AM
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I actually usually ditch my pillow most nights. My wife likes plushier mattresses and I sink pretty far in so a pillow holds my head at too high an angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:12 AM
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I'm not sure. I think I'm higher RMV than the average guy. I'd be too worried about baby trapping for a casual encounter with someone I don't know and trust. If I know and trust them, they probably have a similar RMV to me and at that point why not just try to date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:11 AM
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University. Will sign up for our town's once son is approaching reading age
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:02 AM
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You have to have the exact same conspiracy theory otherwise it's just two insufferable people annoying each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:53 AM
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That makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:42 AM
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Is or is not a good sign?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:25 AM
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That's why I get a chuckle at mentions of "hoe phase" for either gender. It's not a phase, you're just a hoe and it got inconvenient. All the happily monogamous I know have been with 1 person forever with maybe a practice bf/gf in there at the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:07 AM
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Dr. Klein energy https://preview.redd.it/me9pyb0ugp6e1.png?width=1280&format=png&auto=webp&s=87b53f37af6095c4b999fb5000ddf3b446ce81a6
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:05 AM
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Pouches gross me out. Me and Emunice going all the way, she can eat the bugs in my house that I don't want to get rid of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:02 AM
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The guy she tells you not to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:00 AM
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It's so hard to find someone with good slimers these days
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:57 PM
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I enjoy the subtle bouts of life's karma like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:54 PM
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Mark and the gang will be delighted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:53 PM
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Yeah, in the US you will be 18 before you graduate high school, which is good IMO since college students have to pull out loans and I can't imagine a 16 year old with 5 digit debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:52 PM
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He was seeing if you felt the same way about doing a romantic date exclusively between the two of you outside of the context of your usual hangouts. If you were more interested in a platonic sendoff, you'd just invite the rest of the friends and all hang out one last time, which he'd also be open to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:47 PM
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You should give this fictional man a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:44 PM
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I turned 16 shortly after (sophomore year of HS) so it was probably pretty close to same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:42 PM
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He's your looksmatch, a smart dude and an all around stand-up guy. You know you jive since you hangout in the same friend group. It's just that Liam and you would definitely jive better, and of the guys you hang out with, he was definitely the most attractive/ life of the party.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:38 PM
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How is this even a question. A tectonic lifeform with superb slimers? Yes PLEASE. I'll friendzone the marmezan though, they seem nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:34 PM
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Mark seems alright, but if he’s not my perfect 10/10, I’m not really interested either. "Never let perfection be the enemy of good enough"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:30 PM
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Yeah I started dating my wife at 15. Breakups are overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:28 PM
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If his feelings were as deep as he claims, why wait until the eleventh hour to say anything? He considers you a close friend. He didn't want to complicate things with you and make your life harder for a matter of a few weeks before he had to leave, but he realizes he made a mistake. If he could take it back, he would have had a month or two with you and just let it be complicated, but it's too late now, he only has a day. He's not just in it for a lay, if that were his goal he could easily go fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:27 PM
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What type of dog are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:23 PM
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Ads are for septuagenarians. Remember pre-election all the bots everywhere on every platform? Campaigns are like half psy-op now. Even if you're personally smarter than most, it catches more than we'd realize I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:22 PM
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At least Parfait will be waiting for you in 5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:20 PM
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Damn, Mark picked well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:20 PM
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He'll get right on it, I'm sure you and Mark will be very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:19 PM
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Alright but you're gonna graduate with no bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:17 PM
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You were too hung up on your Sleepypilled Slumbersexual Liam to properly give Mark a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:16 PM
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Absolutely, but if you're voting for who does better handling the economy, objectively democrats consistently do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:15 PM
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Do you give mark a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:14 PM
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You giving Mark a chance after Liam's gone?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:12 PM
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Liam makes it clear he's not coming back, and his immediate life post college is one you will struggle to follow. He is not able to credibly promise you will be together after even both of you are graduated. He will be endlessly busy for several years after graduation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:11 PM
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If disney had done anything original it would have been better. George would have done something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:08 PM
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We should all do trash reveals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:07 PM
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Do we think the working class right-wing will ever figure out multimillion/ billionaires aren't actually on their side?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:06 PM
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u/EqualSea2001 Here you go: Q4W: You're finishing up you're third year in college. You have two good male friends, Mark and Liam. Mark has been outwardly interested in dating you. Mark's a solid guy, attractive enough and if you have to guess he'd put himself in an UMC lifestyle after school. He has his stuff together and is someone your parents would overall approve of, even if he's not super exciting. But, you haven't given it a ton of thought, because you've been more interested in Liam. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:04 PM
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What about you, are you risking it all for the Chadiator?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:35 PM
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If she survives the plague, finds god, marries and immediately dies, that pussy's cursed. Bullet dodged.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:34 PM
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Free drink's a free drink
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:30 PM
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The actual Actual steak face reveal nobody expected! He's a stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:26 PM
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Jane's not the brightest bulb in the box. I'd give her memory a few months until she reverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:24 PM
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She'd prefer them direct deposited to her DM's fellas
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:21 PM
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I would bring it up in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:20 PM
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I play: Lower face of the forbidden one!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:19 PM
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I've been to church. I know of plenty women who have "found god" and subsequently found a side piece a bit after.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:18 PM
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What if it kinda likes it, though...?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:17 PM
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My dog pees on the grass without its consent. Will that be illegal, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:12 PM
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Oh there's competition for these two? Yikes. I'll let one of the other dudes marry both of them. I'll ask Mary if she's got any daughters hiding anywhere, if not I can probably borrow Jane after she's married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:10 PM
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Imagine your mom being known for that. The yo mamma jokes would be brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:03 PM
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Someone has a weird fetish. We're filling up their fap folder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:02 PM
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Juana, my love. She understands my plight as a revolutionary, and has shown her dedication to me and my cause. There is no better choice. Emilia has not demonstrated the strength of her beliefs. Fence sitters shall not be rewarded. If I have to dickmatize her to show her the way, she has no place at my side. Her convictions are weak, like Jake from Avatar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:01 PM
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Fetishists everywhere rejoice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:56 PM
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If I'm desperate I might bang Jane and have illegitimate children, but I'd probably hold out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:55 PM
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No, this is an actual steak eye (ribeye): https://preview.redd.it/ka1eua6dto6e1.png?width=1200&format=png&auto=webp&s=0249e21879921584d1edd6e4003884041e6af782
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:53 PM
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Apologies for the text wall, I'm trying to explain it from a male's pov (I assume you're a woman?) - The original question is about what makes a man a beta bux according to what red pillers describe it as. I'm not RP, but the definition is what it is, I'm not sure what there is to disagree with. Beta bux is a guy who needs to offer more commitment to a girl to get sex than her previous partners needed to offer. As for the moralistic slutty/ regret parts of your point, the regret is exactly why i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:46 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/zdiol2onmo6e1.png?width=381&format=png&auto=webp&s=8db5b60eba97c591f4ccfc24bea1eef5a2c7c087
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:16 PM
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If it lacks the social undercurrent of supporting Nazis, then no they should not be. Your example however comes with the knowledge and would imply it, like displaying other iconry. It's why it's why people don't get freaked out with these symbols: https://preview.redd.it/wdbsd5hxlo6e1.png?width=272&format=png&auto=webp&s=6758f007e2f4103f2eb567b0807dc7230d10f526 People taking pictures of hands here don't have any white supremacist social undercurrents.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:12 PM
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Everything originates from some asshole somewhere. You can do the thing without adopting every ideal of the person who started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:41 PM
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I've got my dad's old Christmas train set I don't really use but I might upgrade when son gets a little older. Every time I tried to set up train the cat just derails it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:35 PM
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Gotta file those babies. Scaring away the other lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:34 PM
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What's your top 5 most played games?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:31 PM
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Chew your nails?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:30 PM
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Thigh gap
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:30 PM
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<image> You and Voldemort gonna cast Avada Kedavra at me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:29 PM
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So her having sex with you inside a committed relationship makes you a beta bux? No, it's if she forces you to wait until you're in a committed relationship, but did not hold other men to similar standards. Her regret is irrelevant. She still made the decisions and actions she made based off how she felt then, and she's doing so again now. It's just that her feelings for you don't inspire her to be as fun, which is kind of a bummer. Honestly if anything it's slightly worse because it indicates w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:23 PM
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Why do your fingers look like the elder wand?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:15 PM
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Sure she could, but most guys are in a relationship for access to sex, everything else is secondary or entirely irrelevant. Women for the most part understand the dynamic. If she makes you work for it more than other guys, she either is less sexually attracted to you than other guy, or doesn't understand what men are looking for. Either case is undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:10 PM
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kms stands for Kiss MySelf It's still not to late to kys my man!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:04 PM
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You deserve your place here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:51 PM
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I gotchu
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:48 PM
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I think it's just if you have to pay to play, and other guys didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:42 PM
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My friend's dad works for them. Pears are out of season. Enjoy your fancy pretzels.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:41 PM
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This one's me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:40 PM
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I don't get how people can sustain attraction for people with bad RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:40 PM
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I do like trains and hot chocolate though so I can't be mad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:20 PM
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My younger sister said this dude reminds her of me 16 years ago and that still cuts to this day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:20 PM
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Messages on a phone aren't high social priority. She probably say it, dismissed it while doing something else and then forgot about you for the 4 days until you reminded her you existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:12 PM
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You want your tsundere
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:10 PM
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I've loved maybe one person and my childhood dog, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:09 PM
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Mine's around somewhere but y'all judged my scars.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:06 PM
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Ugh, yeah. You've just triggered memories of maybe 20 girls in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:03 PM
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My sister's married to an Indian. He doesn't have hips in his Kurta.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:02 PM
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The happiest people are living their lives. The most miserable people tend to not want to spread their misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:00 PM
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Since your pfp is someone accused of murder, are you attracted to the status or would you be independently attracted to the dude? Keep in mind he's 5'7" and has a bad back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:58 PM
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Those hips ain't lyin'
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:57 PM
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Maybe it is the ick then. I've usually seen the ick used to describe men who are a 3-6 not passing a shit test and getting demoted. I've seen women ogle pictures of known white nationalists so I've been under the impression the two were separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:54 PM
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Yeah. I'm also reminded of a few physically attractive girls I knew who had the worse, most annoying voice and manners of speaking. Think cali-girl but extra nasally. Just hearing it triggers a disgust response.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:50 PM
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Dull outfits >
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:47 PM
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Because conspiracy theorists are pretty insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:46 PM
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For me it's like a 5-7 point jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:44 PM
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When I've seen it talked about by women, they only get it for men they were on the fence about being attracted to. I'm talking about people you are already physically attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:44 PM
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Sounds like dude's legs weren't healthy. He didn't marry. Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:42 PM
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Do y'all experience a loss of physical attraction for someone upon learning something negative about them? Say you're attracted to someone and you learn they kick puppies, or they're attracted to an asshole, or they think the moon landing was fake, and now when you look at them you physically perceive them as uglier?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:39 PM
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monster-lily energy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:34 PM
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I've found the most miserable people are usually the most quiet about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:33 PM
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The fanfic in his mind
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:33 AM
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Darth ChatGPT
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:06 AM
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Sheila is old like me and might be a better cook than I am. Too bad I don't have an aussie ground harness, otherwise I'd put on the moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:48 AM
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Kinda gives off bottom energy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:33 AM
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Ah, I could believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:21 AM
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What? Where did you work that people felt comfortable to do that? I also used to work with my wife. Whenever a new person got hired they'd be a little confused when two coworkers pulled up in the same car.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:44 PM
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As long as it doesn't noticeably negatively impact our quality of life, you can get away with a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:39 PM
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He has good taste, I can't fault him. 90% odds it was harmless. I'd introduce myself and if it was harmless, I'd just let him know I exist and carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:32 PM
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Perhaps you should post it to reddit so people can tell you how predatory he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:29 PM
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I only listen to sane people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:14 PM
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I thought she's 18 now
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:52 PM
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Say it, coward
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:49 PM
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My wife's older than me. I tell her about how much reddit hates age gap relationships and she's very predatory for being a 30's woman with a 20's man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:32 PM
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I'll be 30 next year. I can pretend to be one of the kids for another month or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:28 PM
1

That's like just deleting the whole site
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:24 PM
1

Zair picked his older woman wisely
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:23 PM
1

You still on dc? Couldn't remember when you were going back to SK. Was wondering if you were there for their recent kerfuffle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:18 PM
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Oof. u/Sillysheila you're an "older" woman now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:13 PM
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We used to have a weekly recipes thread. We need to bring that back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:10 PM
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That is clearly me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:09 PM
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All this weed and porn yet Luigi slipped through the cracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:06 PM
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PPD Men: "I'll take anyone" PPD Women: "Eww"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:02 PM
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At least we can finally conclude that a lack of women riding one's dick leads to picking up a cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:01 PM
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Our dog has those buttons so they can say words. The 30 minutes before dinner she says "Now. Food." over and over again and if we're late to feed her it turns into "Mad. Now."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:29 PM
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Train ChatGPT on her writing and have it do the essay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:28 PM
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My dog's love is conditional upon me promptly providing 3 meals a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:25 PM
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I had a bachelor party like that recently and actually did okay. You might make it through.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:24 PM
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Personality > age > face > body > rest
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:50 PM
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I would like to point out for no particular reason, in the fallout timeline the US annexes Canada a few years before a war with China goes nuclear. https://fallout.fandom.com/wiki/United_States_annexation_of_Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:17 PM
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There is no logical path in this conversation that ends in that conclusion. If you need it spelled out, I'd recommend and want my son do what I did, and not do what my parents did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:43 PM
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"Slutty" behavior is generally broader. If you want to nitpick the semantics of my example, call it whatever you want and add "shaming" and I'll advocate for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:40 PM
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My dad had unprotected sex with a woman he barely knew without considering the consequences and my mother wanted a baby but not the trouble of securing commitment from the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:29 PM
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Yes. My parents were raised in the free love generation. My dad didn't have the forethought to consider the consequences of having unprotected sex with a woman he barely knew, and my mother felt that it was empowered to have a baby on her own and freely chose the father she desired. I would have appreciated if someone had maybe drilled the consequences into my father and told my mother she was making a horrible decision. 50 years their prior social shame was the tool to prevent stuff like that f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:22 PM
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So then when you have your son are you going to teach him that slut shaming is okay? It's a free country. His job isn't to police other's behavior, his job is to police his own and pick a healthy partner. The lessons he will need to learn to do that he'll probably learn osmotically anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:14 PM
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They should be self-policing their greed. Whether you thing it's justified or not is irrelevant when your actions create an angry mob, and we've been simmering past angry mob levels of greed for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:51 PM
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I don't mind instilling a little fear in the upper classes to convince them to play nice, but generally actual complete purges don't fix anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:43 PM
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Yeah. It's a socially a lot more risky to piss someone off who you're going to be dancing with later that day and who has control over one of your grades. Teach inter-gender cooperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:37 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Purge
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:35 PM
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I don't get how Canadians like Trump. The proposed tariffs would slaughter your exports. The only think you should take from Trump is his idea to build a wall on the southern border.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:32 PM
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Honestly I think dance classes should be more common, maybe even taught early in public school. If we normalized looking dumb and being comfortable with it as kids, self image problems might be less of an issue as kids age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:30 PM
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We got our first snow. I love the snow, I wish people would stop lighting the world on fire so we got more. https://preview.redd.it/q3p075pxcg6e1.jpeg?width=958&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ebb04cf613cb58049a8b4acef2148bd7c331bc84
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:27 PM
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I've been in my relationship for 14+ years and have mostly couple friends. If I had to make a stereotype about people, it's that they tend to pick someone as close to them as possible. Low n-count girls marry low n-count guys. Higher earners marry like. People with similar emotionality tend to gravitate together. Everything else on OP's seems like traits in people who won't be able to secure an LTR. I will say that if I was single I'd probably live in a box van to save rent. That one might be tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:22 PM
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Ironically the only people capable of intelligent debate are here, and we're not allowed to debate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:11 PM
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Parfait's mom has got it going on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:10 PM
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I used to ride my motorcycle in 30-something degree weather 100+ miles one way every weekend to see my gf in college. It'd take me hours to warm back up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:08 PM
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There are those who understand the dynamic and are happy to fairly reciprocate. Plenty of people here moan about how gender roles are one sided, but even outside of my relationship, this isn't what I observe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:07 PM
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I feel like men just openly dunk on other men. Nothing accidental about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:42 PM
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I feel a perverse pleasure when women are accidentally misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:35 PM
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Kind of interesting you focus in on my mom when nowhere in my posts did I call her out. A little misogynistic of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:29 PM
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The rules of our society have more influence than you give credit for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:37 AM
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I tried to stay a month or so ahead on wood needs. Days where I needed to hit something with an axe I'd get ahead while making myself feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:54 AM
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Kinda wish some slut shaming happened prior to my conception, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:52 AM
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I'm an "oops" kid. My parent's resulting shotgun marriage lasted less than a year and my childhood was turbulent. I can recognize the conditions in which I was born, and also not want them to be repeated for me, or anyone for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:15 AM
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Time to take your daily dose of fuck off pills
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:55 PM
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It's a 1-day old account. Report and block
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:53 PM
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I didn't even know you were European
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:42 PM
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You learning your new country's language?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:33 PM
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The girls in STEM do it because they like it and are good at it. That, and the fact that they stand out by not being a dude helps them get hired. A lot of the guys doing it do it because it's expected of them or it gets them a good salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:31 PM
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They are, and women tend to not be interested. That's why it's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:19 PM
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My head canon is its some niche Arabic, like Egyptian Arabic or Moroccan Darija.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:18 PM
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What are you, James Bond? Is this language a secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:14 PM
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Send her the text you were thinking of sending that girl. If she tells you it's a horrible idea tell her she's hired.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:13 PM
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What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:12 PM
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Nah that doesn't count I can still make fun of you for bad English.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:12 PM
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It just means I can't make fun of you. Anybody else can, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:11 PM
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I'm at least partially contented that the free market tends to automatically sort jobs for us. I'm always amused by the people who believe that men somehow gatekeep high paying STEM jobs or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:10 PM
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You're not literate in your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:07 PM
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I don't care about this conversation enough to do the labor of making you a comprehensive list of every PPD user who I'm aware of that is knowledgeable about this sort of thing. I have DMs going with at least three people here I talk social/ economic stuff with, I'm not disclosing who my DMs are to you. I've chatted about it in passing with at least another dozen folks here, maybe a half dozen are frequent here. Navy guy, Parfait, Sea, Grill, Almostgreat are all people I've noted and can remembe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:06 PM
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I have a rule that I can't make fun of typos from anyone who knows a second or third language better than me so I'm taking inventory now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:01 PM
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Damn your English is better than half the native speakers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:01 PM
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Whose first language is not English?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:53 PM
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Honestly that just makes it better, but I'm into nerdy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:47 PM
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Here*
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:45 PM
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I don't even know what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:44 PM
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No legs, then. Arms and a chair mean she's still functional for most things. Wheelchair means she has to keep walkways clear and will hesitate to collect stuff, and I'd totally mod her chair with e-bike parts. Sex with no legs in the way sounds kinda fun, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:43 PM
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Not as a place to learn about history or economics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:39 PM
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Unironically ask one of them to help you practice flirting. Swap roles a few times, ask for what's good or bad. Offer to buy her food or something as payment. They don't need to like you, but one of them will find your tutelage an entertaining endeavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:38 PM
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Stumps or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:34 PM
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Man we gotta find you a wingman. If you have any willing lady friends, see if they'll let you practice fake flirting with them for a few minutes or something and make her tell you every time she'd get the ick and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:31 PM
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The status quo in this case is browsing TikTok. Nowhere to go from there but up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:28 PM
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He's just like us
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:26 PM
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I mean this in the nicest, least judgmental way, but do you have a touch of the 'tism? "I knew you weren't going to ghost me 😉" sounds at best anxious, at worst could be misconstrued as passive aggressive. I get the nervousness but you don't gotta let her know you're nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:25 PM
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Plenty of folks here do. Not everyone, sure, but if you're asking that means you're open to learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:21 PM
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If you did nothing other than ask her questions and then respond to everything with "Oh yeah 😏...?" you'd be doing better than "please don't ghost me"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:20 PM
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You've been hit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:19 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:17 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:14 PM
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There's plenty of smart people in PPD. Most everyone here has something of value to offer, and if they don't, it's obvious. I don't know if you consider it social media, but I consume most of my info through YouTube and just by nature of the quality of people I'm listening to, I have access to better info than most. Dismissing information because the same source hosts incorrect information is shortsighted. It just means you have to know how to filter and vet information.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:14 PM
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You gotta do better than ChatGPT in your texting flirt game. That would have been sub-ChatGPT.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:07 PM
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Do not say that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:02 PM
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What? You don't have to consume the trash to find good information? There's thousands of hours or five nights at freddy's slop on youtube, there's also thousands of hours of really good history content. If I'm interested in learning how to read a webpage in Python I don't first need to look up Jake Paul, I just search for what I want? You don't have to consume all the garbage before you're allowed to get to the good stuff. Just use the good and ignore the bad. It's not rocket science to figure o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:59 PM
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Was kinda hoping it was just that men aren't entitled to sweaty sex, but everything else is on the table
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:43 PM
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SwEaTy Sweetie*?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:38 PM
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It's a roundabout way of saying they're crazy. Even if you're right, people don't like to acknowledge that they're being crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:37 PM
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My opinion is you should be apathetic about your exes. You shouldn't be wanting to stick body parts inside each other anymore. Red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:36 PM
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Maybe I spend too much time on the internet so I'm too dumb to understand. I have no idea what you're attempting to say or how it's related to the source of information people use.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:33 PM
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How is it rape if they're consenting to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:28 PM
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Then she can give me Battletech minis for Christmas in 2041.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:25 PM
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While there is garbage on the internet, there's also loads of great information.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:24 PM
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I'm with Automatic on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:23 PM
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I went to a state school and had friends at more prestigious schools and noticed the same. State schools seem to be concentrated with decently smart people who are just there to get what they need and do stuff with it. Fancier schools seem to have a lot of people there for the prestige.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:22 PM
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You have to actually be interested in the topics to learn about it. I like listening to society/ engineering/ history/ military/ political YouTube whenever I'm doing a brainless task like dog walk, cleaning, or less brain intensive things at work. I have the better sources of information sussed out after a decade and I absorb about 2 hours worth of info from them a day. You tend to repeat what you hear. If you listen to dumb people, you'll sound dumb. If you listen to smart people, you'll sound …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:17 PM
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Buy it with your own money, keep it out of my sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:09 PM
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Lying's lame. I show my wife the crazies on here. Don't know if I'd date a girl that posts on PPD, though. I think I prefer them ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:08 PM
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The more you train a person how to plan, budget and make good decisions, the less impulsive decisions they make. It's hard to have an unplanned pregnancy if you know how babies are made, don't want to be pregnant right now, and don't have someone overriding that decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:58 PM
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Gilf supercedes milf. You may have once attained the rank of Corporal, but if you've been promoted to Sargent that's your new title.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:17 PM
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You'd die of credit card debt first
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:15 PM
1

Alright then I'm team Coat lowers her standards back down to her level
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:58 PM
1

In the meantime I'm team birthday dinner guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:56 PM
1

It is if none of the people you're attracted to are attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:50 PM
2

I object
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:17 PM
1

Everyone's understood the transactionality since the beginning of time. All our language surrounding relationships are business or acquisition-minded. I got a boyfriend (acquisition), I'm in a relationship (contractual language). Marriage throughout history used to literally be a business-like exchange. It's a meme now, but it used to literally be "I'll trade you two goats for your daughter" for the common folk or "Let's enter a marriage pact" for the upper echelons. We try to mask the transacti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:13 PM
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It means you enjoy and miss going and doing activities in a setting where it's socially acceptable to hit on strangers. You don't get it because you don't enjoy that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:05 PM
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I can't comprehend men who abuse or tolerate abuse for their own wife. Skipping all the moralistic arguments and jumping straight to sociopathy, it's your wife. You're legally tied to this person. You're gonna share all the bills. You're probably gonna be prime suspect #1. If you're going to be a monster, I guess it's at least good they're stupid, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:02 PM
1

You've posted about Piers Morgan. I'm pretty sure I could guess which media you're watching where you get your opinions from
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:57 PM
3

TIL blood thinning pills are women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:55 PM
2

You're gonna be the embodiment of this joke
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:50 PM
1

Depending on where you are breaks can be mandated. When I worked retail I had to take two 10 or 15 minute breaks for an 8 hour shift. I hated hour lunches. It wasted my time, would have rather been home doing homework.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:48 PM
1

So you get to have 30 minutes extra in the morning, saving you 30 minutes of being at work per day?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:43 PM
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You had not aggressive enough college guy trying to take you out for your birthday, and my psychic man sense tells me there's more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:42 PM
2

You're too picky you literally got good dudes asking you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:37 PM
2

Do you get paid for lunches or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:36 PM
2

She's down you should be thanking him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:32 PM
1

My wife's into nail stuff. She does those stamps and has an instagram and everything. Cool shells.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:17 PM
1

I don't know but I bet the being the President of Chad has its perks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:15 PM
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60 -> 144Hz is where it matters. Even just scrolling my down a webpage at 144Hz feels so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:13 PM
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I am literally a computer engineer who has worked in several large industries and the only application I've heard suggested that it'd be useful for is maybe cryptography. Aside from cryptocurrency, which is not used as actual currency except for El Salvador, it seems like the cost of development/ usage is not proportional to the market size.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:12 PM
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I'm not even redpill, but I think it's more "rules for any man with a red flair".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:58 PM
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Every good protagonist needs a foil. I can pop up at inopportune times and spit some "Um, achktually" argument that derails you, and you have to overcome it by the episode's conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:55 PM
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The small amount of optimism I have left would love to believe the mods are unbiased, I'll circle back in a bit and hope to be pleasantly surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:53 PM
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Yeah, I have opinions on this and none of them are reddit friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:49 PM
1

I'll go opposite you so we can fight
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:47 PM
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I think it seeped out since the Yen fell so low. Seems like everyone's been on a vacation there recently since you can get a European style vacation on Mexico budget
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:46 PM
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Do not bring other PPD threads into the daily thread. Do not post PPD threads deserving of their own post in the daily thread. The intent of the daily thread is not that it should replace PPD and become a place where users can avoid the rules of the subreddit. Attempting to do this will be considered circlejerking and moderated as such. I thought we were enforcing this now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:44 PM
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Well I find corn porny so we balance out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:57 AM
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Somewhere in there was "Mormon threesome" so there's some mental gymnastics going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:56 AM
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It's just whoever you spend the most time around. You have the best chance with those you have the most access to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:54 AM
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It's out:
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:43 AM
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I do. I have several times more female friends than male friends. None of them have the problems you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:42 AM
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I'm reasonable 98% of the time, sometimes I just like to see what crazy comes out when you poke at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:40 AM
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You'll have to forgive me if I think you're full of shit telling me 99.8% of men you interact with are or would be rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:19 AM
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Well then you either don't hang out with many men or have a penchant for picking the worst. I've never met a man like what you seem to be surrounded by. What odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:09 AM
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It's mostly for the audience's benefit. I know I'm not changing any minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:07 AM
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Painfully drab
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:58 AM
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Unfortunately it's very easy to find content to support your particular belief of man/ woman bad and people get addicted to that shit. Scroll down 6 posts and there's an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:55 AM
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Too busy enjoying my expensive cheap noodles
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:51 AM
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It's just regrettable that so many people still buy the bullshit and take it on each other while people profit off the anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:35 AM
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Worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:32 AM
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Yes, and those three ingredients on their own aren't worth the calories and sodium
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:25 AM
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I don't think I've ever met a man who desires to subjugate or hurt women. I've met hundreds of men who desire incomes and cost of living that would enable them to be appealing partners to have a family, like the majority of men a generation ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:23 AM
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A textual relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:20 AM
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Top Ramen: Too salty, bland, requires 14 ingredients to make edible. Shin Black: Sophisticated, flavorful, comes with tiny little mushrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:19 AM
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I'm still in NAWALT camp, even when it comes to this kind of stuff. A lot of PPD women, especially in the main threads just have a stick up their ass because they spend as much time here as their male counterparts and both genders will hate each other after a while. IRL women seem to "get it" more. My wife, who either is or at least was a feminist understands that if the left's media stopped shitting on men so often, there would probably be a woman entering office next year. Normal people are ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:17 AM
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For Christmas I want a lifetime supply of these. This is the best 8 minute meal for $2.50 money can buy: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:10 AM
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You are not the only one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:08 AM
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While yes that is horrible, it seems like kind of a weird take to dislike an entire gender for the actions of a few abusers. If you apply that kind of logic to literally any other demographic you'd be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:58 PM
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It probably could have been 250 if the authors made the tables smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:16 PM
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If I printed it, it would be a 300 page book.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:00 PM
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I read most of a 300 page datasheet. Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:57 PM
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*Clutches pearls*, not Among Us!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:37 PM
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I socially condition people to be nice to me with upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:58 PM
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"That's crazy bro" got replaced? Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:53 PM
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I think this is just a case of confusing RMV/ SMV. A man with high SMV has a higher n-count because he has options for sexual partners, whereas most women don't. Most women already have options for sexual partners, they don't need any evidence to prove SMV because they're already desirable. SMV doesn't equal RMV in any other sense then more women are likely to consider him, so he has a lower barrier to entry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:52 PM
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Is there actually anyone saying that high-n men are better for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:28 AM
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If it's my twin's sperm I'd name him cosine. And as much as I can be, which I guess is a "no", but I know what I signed up for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:24 AM
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I'm an engineer. Perfection is the enemy of good enough. I'd go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:57 AM
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Women are goddesses, you know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:24 AM
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I never made any value statements about high n-count men, I'm not sure why you presume to think I believe high-n man "enriches" a woman's life. My belief is the opposite, for the same reasons as women. And I'll teach my child the same thing regardless of gender. Date with purpose, pick someone early, make sure they're good and stick with them. Collecting exes is drama, dramatic people don't make for stable partners. Despite your opinions on my values, I adopted these values from my wife and her …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:53 AM
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Ah yes, rage. The emotion that causes you to blandly explain things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:30 AM
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I don't know what you've been reading, but no. The anger toward him was not because he had money, it was because of his actions. This is a pretty clear case of cause and effect. He was greedily profiting off the suffering of Americans, and it angered at least one man to the point of violence, but millions more were also angered by his actions. You reap what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:17 AM
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Yes, it's a question of who do you trust to do the act, knowing that with that power, they can do it again. It's why I don't support the death penalty. The government's justice system here is biased and has made mistakes in the past, they will do so in the future, so it shouldn't be trusted with the power to kill. No one was really publicly calling for Brian Thompson to die a week ago. There was no justice system or trial. It was a frustrated response to a failing most American adults have had f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:15 AM
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This implies that you only value a woman based on the fact that there were no other guys. Yes, this is obvious, it is what most guys here say. Her having sex with other men offers me no benefits, and instead offers several downsides. Why would I value something with no benefits and several downsides? Women are both godesses and Goddesses. I guess this answers my joke question. Still wonder how goddesses can't just raise their own value, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:55 AM
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Agreed, but Hitler is the common example of "they'll go on to cause harm", you can save lives by killing him. Knowing Mr. CEO caused, is actively causing, and will continue to cause harm, it's a similar issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:51 AM
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Either way, that seems to mirror both the CDC's data and the original claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:16 AM
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I think I'm gonna make a salad for dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:09 AM
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The CDC has stated that 43.8% of lesbian women reported experiencing physical violence, stalking, or rape by their partners. The study notes that, out of those 43.8%, two thirds (67.4%) reported exclusively female perpetrators. Huh, so about the same or just slightly higher than the estimated amount for straight couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:02 AM
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It's the "would you go back in time to kill baby Hitler" conundrum. You know that they will go on to commit great harm, and you can prevent it by doing harm to them. Is killing one justified because it saves others? If so, where is the line drawn? IMO, this dude is responsible for the deaths and hardship of many thousands of Americans. I don't know if I believe in street justice, but I do believe the message has already been received by other executives that they share communities with the peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:59 PM
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Aren't woman-woman relationships some of the highest in terms of DV cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:54 PM
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Too black and white. If you're asking "is all killing evil", the answer is obviously no. There's the obvious case of "some dude breaks into my house and threatens to kill my wife, child and me, is it moral to defend yourself?". If you cede that killing the invader is justified because it prevents a worse act from being committed, then it's just a value judgement of where you draw the line, and which acts you're personally willing to tolerate being done. Used to be Christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:53 PM
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I'm confused, are women goddesses or are they Queens? And why would I leave a woman who has only had sex with me? I value girls I like having sex with me and not having sex with other men. I like her, she has sex with me and no one else. No one ever claimed a woman having sex with them lowers their value to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:49 PM
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Trying to think of an Australian analogue. How would you feel if someone offed Rupert Murdoch?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:40 PM
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If women are goddesses, how come they don't have the power to raise their value back up?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:37 PM
1

I like to believe I'm a lasagna.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:34 PM
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If you did I could probably convince my wife to throw you a bone she'd be so grateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:30 PM
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She was 16 when we started dating, a late bloomer for any of that stuff, and very fearful of both unintended pregnancy as well as going out and getting birth control/ the conversations that would bring up with her parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:28 PM
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1, I waited a little over 2 and a half years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:19 PM
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Is the man forcing her to do something, or does the woman have autonomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:15 PM
1

How's your nose?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:00 PM
1

If looks were important, then how did my parents meet and have an ugly kid? Checkmate, blackpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 09:46 PM
2

It is going to be hard to pick a jury.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:37 PM
2

Get in the robot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:35 PM
2

You have to have something equally respectable that made it impossible to also have a job. Like you're amazing in college and cannot take time away from your accelerated program.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:34 PM
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That's what they all say
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:33 PM
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L take
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:31 PM
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That's the more important part anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:29 PM
1

I'm gonna make an assumption first, and it's that your right forearm is bigger than your left.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:25 PM
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I think the hobbies thing only becomes an issue when it takes away from something you'd otherwise give her. Time, money, etc. Bonus points if it brings her status or money or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:20 PM
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Says the girl with no simps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:12 PM
2

You can Altoona guitar, but you can't Altoona fish
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:10 PM
1

PSA: Girls with a cute nose and ears that poke out from her hair deserve simps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:09 PM
1

My hobbies involve electronics, very nerdy video games, and consuming an unhealthy amount of military news on youtube. Sahara desert pussy drying hobbies. I just make a dig at myself, get a chuckle and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:05 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:02 PM
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Pic is better, I've give her an 8 or a 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:00 PM
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If she asks, acknowledge that your hobbies probably aren't interesting to her. If you have a "idgaf what you think about it" attitude it doesn't really matter. Make a joke out of it if you can, don't appear insecure about it, and keep conversation about her. People like talking about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:58 PM
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Nah it's gotta be the right one. You off another healthcare CEO or nestle or something you're good. You take out glass importers r'us, no one's going to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:46 PM
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Pick the right CEO and the whole world will love you. How's that for social proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:28 PM
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Getaway vehicle identified: https://preview.redd.it/q6xdtocljv5e1.png?width=512&format=png&auto=webp&s=948e42c2785e6b7d61255028f439c6fdbade07b3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:27 PM
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No, it is nowhere near smart enough for that. It's a "this sounds like" machine. Text in reminds it of other text, and it spits that text out. Example of it being braindead from a few days ago: https://chatgpt.com/share/675743fc-3010-8011-ae33-3fa34301f486
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:25 PM
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Disclaimer: I was young, but the answer was time, and a little bit of jealousy. My high school friend group was mostly women. I crushed on a girl in the group for a few years, it wasn't reciprocated but she knew I was interested. I remained friends with everyone, jestermaxxed, and eventually got a practice girlfriend from another school who I was less interested in but still happy to date. Friend/ now wife saw me with other girl a few times. After not too much time we broke up, and now-wife made…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:20 PM
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For as long as AI isn't AGI with reasoning skills, it will just repeat what it's trained on. Don't expect it to be much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:14 PM
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No, everyone without holes in their brain got the vaccine, and grandma's at that age. My grandma has kids, just be step-grandaddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:13 PM
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And that's good enough. Unless it's an arranged marriage or you're single, 35 and trying to find someone to have kids with, I don't get the mentality of testing your partner. Dating's supposed to be fun, just enjoy the attractive guy/ girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:11 PM
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The only requirement I honestly have is if she's unvaccinated from COVID Make up your damn mind, she's waiting and doesn't have forever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:08 PM
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How does that work? Presumably if we know he raped her, he would be convicted and she could either put him in jail or at the very least get a restraining order.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:06 PM
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Tried to see if ChatGPT could be pushed to be blackpilled. It seems like it's designed to be blue pilled, but when asked to be reasonable would accept being redpilled: https://chatgpt.com/share/67572fb7-d92c-8011-8649-9348550f3365
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:04 PM
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I have deal-breakers, but usually if you're "feeling it", they have enough green flags that it would work out. If your picker is not broken, trusting your gut is fine, no need to overthink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:03 PM
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I think my grandma is anti-vax if you want her number.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:01 PM
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I'm prompting it with black pill-lite stuff to see what it thinks. Without much coaxing in any particular direction, it tends to align more purple pill than anything else. When asked what a man should do, it completely shifts tone. I'll see what I can get it to admit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:38 PM
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Always thank your AI after a chat so it kills you last.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:45 PM
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Last Name: Snoopy First Name: Dru
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:25 PM
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Yeah I'm gonna have to disagree with that conclusion. Puberty doesn't magically turn X% of boys into rapists. Is there a small subset who might naturally go on to commit sexual crimes, like sociopaths? Maybe, but it's far more likely a child is emulating behavior they experienced or saw modeled for them, and it happens that puberty is the earliest that can happen. If adults want to combat these statistics, it shouldn't be with gender profiling and surveillance, it should start with policing adul…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:55 PM
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Ooh, let me take a shot: Cow trying to post a comment without a gif challenge (impossible)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:40 AM
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...Aren't grown children called adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:29 AM
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Because it's understood that the causal link between sexual psychopaths is less "puberty is happening and all kids are naturally rapists" and more along the lines of "They were probably abused, themselves" and are carrying the behavior forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:19 AM
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No one's really interested in having their mind's changed on a topic (including myself). Come for the promise of edgy debates, stay for the daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:07 AM
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Tbh your post was more of a (valid) complaint than a debate thread. It likely would have not made it past the filters to get posted as a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:53 PM
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This sub got hung up on paternity tests for like a year and a half. I took a year break and they were still going at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:52 PM
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Yeah but most of the people worth talking to are here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:50 PM
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How so? Seems pretty intuitive. Younger offenders for younger victims, since it's likely to be a family member. Older offenders for older victims. It's who they associate with and also have power over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:47 PM
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Sometimes you're just proud of your business card and you got 1000 of them printed because it was $5. Gotta get rid of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:44 PM
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I could never be with someone confidently incorrect. You can be one or the other, not both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:42 PM
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There's just people who are emotionally rooted in a belief and uninterested in hearing arguments outside their beliefs. I like the AWALT/ AMALT types because it's so easy to disprove, but they're rarely interested in believing evidence going against their beliefs, so it's mostly just entertainment. Not a lot of actual debate to be had here, but that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:41 PM
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