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Hahahaha you are so right! That's a great idea!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:51 PM
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Gosh yes. Not about my body directly but still the same kind of tactless insult. I was twenty, and I was getting dressed one morning, had on a lacy floral bra and my (then) boyfriend commented that "it just wasn't doing anything for him." Like dude, that's not the purpose of a bra, but darn it, that cut me deep for some reason and I still think about it occasionally. I should have just told him that HE wasn't doing anything for me, either. It would have saved me several years of misery. The divo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:00 PM
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First of all, hugs to you. I know how hard it is, I've been through something very similar. It's been 3 years since I found out and I'm still dealing with their childish, cowardly choices. A lot of the advice on this sub is going to help you get through this time. You are better off without them, they've shown their true colors. Most likely you won't get that respect and truthfulness that you want. You'll get lies, blame, and excuses. You keep your head high and move on. Now is the time to focus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:05 PM
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My ex hated reading. He claimed he couldn't ever read more than a page of a book. That alone caused problems but he also discouraged me from reading! He'd taunt me if I'd mention something from a book that didn't agree with his view. And I did try to get him listening to audiobooks, but he didn't like that either. He was intimidated, I believe. So now I know having a partner that likes similar content is extremely important to me. And I also agree with you OP, readers can be more interesting. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:57 PM
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Hiking, and once it's warm I'll add biking and kayaking. I read/listen to a lot of nonfiction, which I've really come to enjoy the last few years. I workout 4-5 times per week. I also try one new food or dish per week. And I try one new experience every month. This helps me grow new skills and stay socially active. I work full-time and am raising three kids. But still, I practice self care! I eat healthy, take care of my body, and meditate. All these things have become part of me, and as I grow …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:38 PM
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Yes!! It took me so long to learn this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 06:18 PM
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I think alot of times men revert to their old behaviors! Since you can't ever really change a person. It's a waste of our precious time and health either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:55 AM
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Exactly this! My ex begrudged the fact that I was fine with or without him. I suspect it made him feel insecure 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 02:59 PM
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Yes!! Because once you've invested in yourself, you realize there's no reason to be around people that don't add value to your life! I love that this sub reinforces this idea. Sometimes we need the reminder and/or encouragement. Thanks all you lovely ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 01:43 PM
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Same here! Your ex sounds like mine!! My house is much healthier now, too. The peace is incredible. I only wish we'd split up sooner, when I think of all that time I wasted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:37 PM
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Yes omg the phone hiding is a Giant. Red. Flag. My ex was fond of deleting his texts too. And we all know they trash talk to gain sympathy (and sex) . Pathetic 🙄 Glad to hear you got rid of him! And now we know better than to put up with that bullshit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:34 PM
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This was a few years ago, but I still cringe to think about it. I took back a cheater 🤦‍♀️ Then I stayed after I found out he was still seeing the same girl! Lesson learned, thank God. I'll never give anyone a second chance to disrespect me again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:26 PM
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I was talking to a (former) male friend about how I was looking to date someone with similar values as me, as in, non-drinker/smoker, eats healthy, stays active, etc. He kept saying "You gotta give a guy a chance!" Uh, no l I really don't. Then he says "I was going to say you're a 10 but with that attitude you're maybe a 9.5" As if that was going to make me lower my standards hahahaha 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 07:48 PM
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I'm embracing it! This sub has really helped me stay strong. Just knowing that there's so many like-minded ladies out there is so encouraging!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 04:42 PM
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Yes!! Absolutely this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:25 PM
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Thank you! This a great way to defeat unhealthy thinking patterns and habits!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 05:08 PM
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I think the only way to avoid this is to not have male friends, period. As soon as I was single, they all came out of the woodwork omfg it was awful. One of them even said something like 'I'm trying to be first in line.' Ugh, no thank you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 10:49 PM
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Same here! It definitely is a lot of work, but it's so worth it. My house is much more peaceful without my ex. I wish I would've left years ago, but I thought "staying for the kids' sake" was a good idea. It's not. I realized having no relationship is better than being in an unhealthy one. OP, I don't know what your situation is, but consider what you are teaching the kids by staying. That's what helped motivate me and kept me from going back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 02:30 PM
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