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| 4 | Women have no idea what an average man isblue eyes Random one to call out. The average guy here (Scotland) does have blue eyes. I don't really care about eye colour but it would be more picky of me to prefer a colour other than blue. And assuming you're in the US, your population has one of the highest prevalences of blue eyes in the world. It isn't uncommon at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 04:47 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about surnames in a marriage?I think people should do what works for them. My husband and I kept our names and we've given our son both of them. If he wants to drop one or change it entirely when he's older he can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 07:25 PM |
| 2 | I dont believe maternal instinct is a noble traitas for disabled adults they are almost always cared for by biological kin or paid professionals. the general public and women in general do not feel a maternal or cute urge toward a massive clunky disabled man the way they do toward a child Why do you want "the general public" to be providing care to a vulnerable adult instead of a paid professional or their loved ones? Why is that an expectation that you have? Paid professionals are people from the general public who have decided to go into tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Should conditions that affect only women, like painful menstrual periods, legally qualify for workplace accommodations?Here (UK) holiday pay and sick pay are distinct and separate categories. At my company everyone gets the same holiday entitlement (bar a few extras you get with promotions or additional length of service), and then sick pay is a separate thing on top of that. Everyone also gets the same sick pay entitlement (again, slightly dependent on length of service but everyone over 2 years service has the same). So if you have a health condition you can take the time you need, but also get all the same ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 03:58 PM |
| 11 | Do women have a thing that they want to be the only one a man does it for?No, I think it's because a lot of the guys on here say they won't date single mothers because [insert rant about how single mothers are essentially the worst people in existence]. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to deal with all the things that come with being a potential step-parent, but there's no need to make out that single mothers are basically deficient as a person in some way, which is what the common reasoning seems to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, be honest: is a guy wearing apple watch/smart watch a turn off on a first dates?I doubt I'd notice or care tbh. I couldn't pick an apple watch out of a line up for one thing, so I don't know that I'd necessarily know they had a smart watch on unless I was purposefully trying to look at the face. I'm not really into watches though anyway, they're a neutral functional accessory and don't add to or detract from someone's general attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 02:43 PM |
| – | How good do you think woman can actually filter men?Not going 50-50 I disagree with this. Everyone I know who's in a shitty relationship is with a guy who's the breadwinner. He thinks he's owed her subservience because he pays for stuff, she thinks she can't leave because she's not in the financial position to do so. When kids come along these guys mostly seem to expect to just continue to pay for whatever they normally pay for, but for the women to somehow pick up all the child-related expenditure, leaving the women with nothing. If she dares tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Conveniently ignoring the fact that the figures vary wildly and it could be significantly lower than that. Also funny how you try to blame the mum and not the absent father in those cases where the criminal was raised by a single mum. Also, the UK isn't the best case study, as criminals are disproportionately immigrant, and immigrants tend to be more traditional (ie married parents). The vast majority of criminals in the UK are UK nationals, so whether or not immigrant families are more traditio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?one will ultimately provide more. Like paying for dinner, doing the chores, etc Women are still unemployed more than men and I guarantee you it is a man doing the providing. So you've listed chores as a way to provide but then say you guarantee men are doing the providing. In relationships where the woman isn't in paid employment it's normally because she's caring for the children. So she is providing childcare, and in most cases chores as well. So neither is "the provider" in this scenario sinc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:21 PM |
| 10 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Almost everyone in prison was raised by a single mother You appear to be lying I've slept with loads of people. Now I'm married, in a decade long relationship, raising a child with my husband. Whereas you're... What? Cry wanking in a basement every night about how no one wants to shag you? Really giving back to society there 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely expect your partner to lay down their life for you if push came to shove?No I don't expect it. Practically speaking, if it's a choice between the two of us then it makes more sense for me to die - I'm worth more dead than he is (by about 2.5x) so he'd at least get the consolation of a chunk of money to help him through his grief 😅 although complicated now by the fact we have a baby - I expect my husband would think I should be the one to live since I'm breastfeeding. But the financial aspect is still a key consideration there I reckon. Going to aim for us to both jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 09:52 PM |
| 7 | Who gives more and who takes more: men vs womenI disagree with your guess. Generally I think it's probably more even across genders, but quite dependent on the individual person and general dynamic. I'm a woman. In my friendship group I tend to host and do the cooking (although not always), but with family it's a more shared responsibility, so I'll have meals provided by family several times a year. I don't know if this counts as "just because", because realistically it is reciprocal. The only free labour I've had is babysitting, but the bab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 12:13 AM |
| 9 | The reason some men are not being good fathers could be that they are not allowed to be responsible and spend more time with their kids and more importantly have no expections to raise their children.If you have to wait around to be given a role, then you aren't fit to be a parent. I just had a baby. I didn't hand my baby to the midwife and say "okay, let me know what you need me to do" - I spent the pregnancy researching, my husband and I attended classes, we had access to all the same information as each other. So when I had my baby I just did what needed to be done. As does my husband btw - he doesn't wait around to be given a role. He uses his eyes (and ears and nose!) and brain and take… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:56 PM |
| 6 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)I already have a job and simply don't have the time, energy or desire to earn money doing anything else. People have offered me money for baking cakes, making quilts and having sex, but whilst I enjoy all of these things I'd prefer to keep just doing them on my own terms and not try to monetise them. Same goes for taking sexy pics/whatever else goes into an only fans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Is your partner meeting your standards for the house chores, cooking and cleaningIf I ever witnessed someone blowing their nose on a pillow case I'd leave the relationship immediately and never talk to them again. That is absolutely horrifyingly disgusting and I actually can't fathom how you could ever look at or touch him again after that 😅 the thought of it is making me feel queasy. Peeing in the sink, if it was a one-off emergency and they cleaned the sink and surrounding area thoroughly afterwards .. but if it was ever done "just because" I wouldn't be in that relationsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:32 AM |
| 0 | Ladies, have you even not been into someone despite them being good in bed?There's a lot more to a relationship than just sex. Having good sex together means you're compatible for hook ups, but doesn't mean you're compatible for relationships. I hooked up with a guy a few times who was perfectly nice and excellent in bed, but it wasn't any deeper than that - he was a kinda hippyish vegetarian who wanted to live in a van, I have a stable job at a bank, had my own place, enjoy skinning/gutting/butchering animals for meat. We enjoyed our hook ups but were mutually disinte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:51 PM |
| 16 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison Populationhttps://www-bbc-co-uk.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-cumbria-64950862.amp?amp_gsa=1&_js_v=a9&usqp=mq331AQIUAKwASCAAgM%3D#amp_tf=From%20%251%24s&aoh=17646924610321&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com https://www.theguardian.com/society/2017/aug/24/woman-jailed-10-years-false-rape-claims-jemma-beale Perjury and sexual assault cases are definitely not punished. Stop lying. There are cases where the woman was caught and punished. I can't be bothered linking more but you ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:25 PM |
| 6 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.So you're expecting her to read your mind. Which is just what you're saying women do 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:13 AM |
| 5 | Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys?Nope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 03:07 PM |
| 13 | Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys?Yes my ex had a fleshlight type thing. My husband had a variety of toys when we met (butt plugs, bondage stuff, cock rings etc) and we've continued to add to the collection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 02:08 PM |
| -1 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf...obviously not if they're not paying child support they're due to pay. I don't know why you've written this as if it's some sort of gotcha. Neither parent should be able to get away without paying child support if they're due to pay it, and avoiding it does make them a shitty selfish parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?Or they're not lying. Just because you agree with one person's take doesn't mean everyone with a different opinion is lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 10:10 AM |
| 0 | How polarized you are in gender wars? How often do you support "male side" in arguments?I rarely agree with guys on this particular sub because they're mostly straight up batshit (not so much all the comments but certainly most of the posts). But then I also think most of the posts from women on here are straight up batshit. In general I agree with the "male side" on a few issues and have waded in on them - off the top of my head, recent examples: The whole paying on dates thing. We should all just split. I don't think it's valid to say the person that did the asking should do the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.No, men cannot and do not unconditionally love women. They may cling to them out of desperation because they're afraid of being alone, but that isn't love. It's just pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Would you prefer if men put as much effort into their looks as women, or if women put as little as men?The second one, but really it should ideally be a bit of a middle ground (which from my perspective it is, certainly amongst my friends/family/colleagues) where people are mostly comfortable and practical but will make a bit of additional effort for specific occasions. I find this is currently the case for men and women in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither.Nah. Used to live near a swingers club and we talked about going but then realised we actually can't be bothered going and trying to have sex with other people 😅 the sex we have together is the best sex we've had, so no real benefit in opening things up. That's one of the reasons we went monogamous in the first place. We have said maybe when we're older and empty nesters if we're in need of a hobby we might take up swinging, but more as a couples activity to do together rather than opening the r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither.He can do it. Had a baby recently and breastfeeding hormones are doing their best to sabotage sex, so while I could probably rally for 10 million, I reckon he'd get a lot more out of it than me right now 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 09:46 PM |
| 5 | Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither.My husband and I have discussed this before and are in agreement that if anyone is crazy enough to offer us millions for a shag, then it's really in our best interests as a couple to accept that 😅 besides which we were together for months before we were monogamous and had threesomes separately and together during that time with no issues, so I don't think it would have any negative impact on our relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 09:36 PM |
| 2 | To both men and women: Tell me your requirements for a partnerAtheist lefty slut, beloved by grannies, animals and children. Enjoys food, rock/metal gigs and camping. Able (and willing) to manage their own finances, work a washing machine/dishwasher/hoover, and cook a meal (but happy for me to cook the majority of the time). Non-smoker, light/occasional drinker, more appreciative of a cosy night in than a night out on the randan. A fellow millennial who can work a computer because I get fed up of having to teach people in work how to open task manager and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date an NBA player or a nerdy tech geek?Not everyone has the bank of mummy and daddy pay for their thousands of dollars of Lego when they're 12, so maybe when they're older and have their own money they indulge a little in the hobby. It's not really any different to any other model building, like Warhammer etc - which plenty of adults also do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Are you really young or something? Most adults don't "party much" so it's not a deal-breaker to many women unless they're 19 probably. And no one dates a clone of themselves, so you're always going to have hobbies that aren't in common with each other. I don't personally enjoy Warhammer or 3D printing but it's not a negative that my husband has those hobbies. Just like he isn't into embroidery but he doesn't think it's a negative that I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Is it a red flag if a man doesn't own a home?No, not a red flag to not own. A compatibility issue if they didn't want to ever own though, or wanted to wait until they were much older. I bought my own place when I was 25 and then later my husband and I bought a place together. I rented for 7 years prior to that and there's a lack of stability - your landlord can decide to raise rent or sell up or whatever - and I didn't want to have children while I was renting due to that. It also makes things really tricky if you want pets as a lot of ren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:43 AM |
| 6 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Is it specifically her getting down on all fours you have a problem with? Because there are other positions for anal too, are they okay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you have so much confidence or ego?I have a great life, and I judge that by what's important to me and not what's important to other people. I could scroll social media and it could tell me I need to have a gigantic house and a 6 figure salary to be happy, or I need 11 kids and a tradwife lifestyle, or to have washboard abs and hang out on yachts or whatever lifestyles people try and sell online. But I'd rather focus on achieving the things that actually make me happy, and not what someone online tells me should make me happy. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 04:46 PM |
| 14 | Women, how do you feel about normalizing male nudity, or men wearing revealing clothing?Because a dick pic is personal and directed, as it's sent to a specific person. Whereas out and about it's not (unless they're purposefully flashing someone, which is really the irl equivalent of a dick pic and thus objectionable). And wearing tight or revealing clothes is completely different to waving your naked wang in someone's face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 05:36 PM |
| – | Is it true that women view average-sized guys as small?These people are lying. They're not having sex, they're sending a dick pic and asking for feedback, and the recipients are saying whatever they know the guy doesn't want to hear because they're annoyed at the unwanted dick pic. Guys who actually get sex don't ask for feedback on their penis, because they're not that fucking insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 09:02 AM |
| – | Is it true that women view average-sized guys as small?A 9" dick sounds absolutely miserable. Would genuinely hate to have sex with that (sorry for anyone reading who has a massive dong, know you can't help it). Just ouch, really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Why use dating apps for casual sex when there are bars/clubs?I've done both. When I was hooking up from bars and clubs I was a student and I was out all the time with my friends, and the hook ups were just incidental because that's where I happened to be spending my time. When on tinder I worked full time and while I'd still do bars/clubs occasionally, my social life was far more geared towards going out for dinner with friends, or having a night in together, or doing stuff during the day like hiking or whatever. I didn't want to drag myself out to a club… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?literally I don't think you know what this word means I've already said my looks standard is higher for a relationship, and I know lots of people who are married to people more attractive than the ones they hooked up with. It's extremely common. And those threads are full of people saying the standards are the same or lower, you're just ignoring them. You're just determined to exist in a little self pitying spiral so fine - just give up, be alone, never have sex. It's not going to matter to anyo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?But when I search for threads about the same thing, I immediately see lots of comments saying the standards are the same or they just need to be passable for a hookup. So you're cherry picking and ignoring the balance. You can't just pick out the comments saying standards are higher and decide that means standards are higher for everyone. Because that's fucking stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?I can't access that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?Then I'd tell you that you're just determined to be miserable. Because it isn't true at all. These things have all happened to ugly men. I know this for a fact because I've both seen these things and initiated them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?If you need it explained then that's probably why you're never going to get it. It can start in so many ways, and it's generally a vibe, some banter, or right place/right time. It can be someone leaning up to your ear to talk to you at a club or party, or friends discussing sex until you both decide to give it a go together, or a stranger asking for a chippy chip then taking you home with her, or putting your hat on her head, or people being explicitly upfront on OLD about wanting hookups and no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 11:17 AM |
| 3 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?Don't just paste me the same thing again you lazy shit. If you have to just copy and paste the same fucking example over and over then you don't have an argument. In the real world, the bar is lower. Significantly lower. One random person on Reddit who has a higher bar doesn't discount the thousands of real life examples of beer goggles and post hook up regret and sneaking out of someone's flat in the morning so you don't need to talk to them, or even just no-regret hookups with no real attracti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?These women can tell me "lets just hookup and see where things go" and I'll happily accept that proposition, but I'm not good looking enough for that. That's not actually how it works though. I have never once ever said that to anyone. That's not how casual sex generally starts. Sounds like you're approaching people to date, which is then what you get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?In my experience it is the case. I've certainly never been in a relationship with someone I didn't also have casual sex with, and as I said everyone I know who had casual sex ended up with someone they started out casually banging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?Again, not the premise of the OP - which is that you can have a relationship, just not casual sex. Attraction is different to everyone and everyone has different thresholds and limits. I've had casual sex with people I found ugly but were a good laugh. I would also certainly never have entertained a relationship with most of my casual sex partners. A relationship needs a combo of compatibility and some level of attraction, so if he can have relationships (which he apparently seems to be able to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 09:02 AM |
| 4 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?She's quite simply incorrect. Looks are not the cost of entry for casual sex. It's much more about being in the right place at the right time. But lots of guys count themselves out of casual sex because they overthink it. I met up with a fairly ugly guy once - who I was meeting for the express purpose of a hook up - who had good chat which is why I'd gone for it. Until we met in person and then he was irritatingly self-deprecating (clearly didn't believe he was attractive enough for casual sex) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?It doesn't back up the premise of the post though, which appears to be that women are happy to get together with people they wouldn't have casual sex with, they just won't have casual sex with them. Which is not the case in my experience. He's purposefully removing himself from casual sex considerations by only dating for a relationship, thus will only attract people looking for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 08:37 AM |
| – | What are the signs of a cheater?Most of these are just signs of someone who wants sex too! Can't text or call at certain times Phone on DND When I was on tinder I worked really long awkward shifts and I couldn't have my phone out during work hours because it wasn't that kind of job. So I had really specific times I could text or call. Won't add you on social media Would never add a casual sex partner on social media, because I had no interest in doing so. I only add actual friends or family. Can only hang out at certain times/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 07:58 AM |
| -1 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?There's nothing different. Everyone I know who had casual sex, got into a relationship with someone they started out having casual sex with. If you're only dating for relationships then that's what you'll get - people who are also looking for relationships, not casual sex. And I've known some incredibly ugly and awkward guys who have had casual sex, so if you're not getting any then you're probably just never in the right place/right time, or you've locked yourself out of it because you've decid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 07:46 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many women say their low sex drive in marriage was due to lack of emotional attunement & burden of household chores, yet immediately start enjoying CASUAL SEX after divorce with men they share no emotional connection or household chores with?Because chores aren't a way to get sex. Obviously. But being a lazy pig and leaving all the housework to your partner is a turn off in most cases. For some couples it is absolutely about the chores. For the couples where they're both tidy, it's probably one of the many other things that can impact sex life. Did you actually need that spelled out to you? Are you legitimately that stupid? Or just trolling? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many women say their low sex drive in marriage was due to lack of emotional attunement & burden of household chores, yet immediately start enjoying CASUAL SEX after divorce with men they share no emotional connection or household chores with?There's a difference between someone being an actual adult and just doing chores because they need done, and a child who does chores for the express purpose of being rewarded. The latter is not attractive. Now obviously I think anyone in a relationship with someone like that should just leave them rather than be in a sexless relationship filled with resentment. But apparently in these situations neither party can be bothered leaving since they just sit and stew in their own resentment instead - … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:21 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADMaybe it makes a difference to him? It's okay for people to like their hair and be happy with how they look and to find it jarring when they don't have that any more. I don't think guys need to get hair transplants or whatever, if my husband goes bald I'll still fancy the pants off of him. But if he wanted to get a hair transplant or wear a hairpiece or whatever because it's the look he prefers then I'd be supportive of that. I'm going through the post-partum hair loss stage just now and I'm she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 09:46 AM |
| 2 | What’s a fair exchange when one partner is the homemaker and the other provides financially?Heavily dependent on where you live and your circumstances. When I was single I rented a flat by myself with no one sharing. I bought my first flat by myself although I was with my husband at that point and he later moved in, but the flat I bought was nicer and bigger (both two bedrooms but the new flat had a bigger kitchen and additional bathroom so more suitable for 2 person accommodation) and it was cheaper than the rented flat by about £100 per month (even though the one I bought had factor'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 09:38 AM |
| 0 | The 50/50 model is a bad deal for women. It's just a roommate situation with sex, and it becomes outright exploitative if you have kids.I don't think you understand what 50/50 means. It's 50/50 in finances (if you earn similar amounts - realistically if there's a drastic difference in income you should split finances proportionally) and 50/50 in effort and time. In a 50/50 relationship, you wouldn't be splitting finances and then left holding the bag for chores, because that's not what 50/50 means. It also doesn't mean splitting every single task equally down the middle, because that's not practical or sensible. You do things ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 09:16 AM |
| 4 | Women, seriously, what the hell is so important about wedding photos?What a very weird point of view. For a lot of people, weddings are one of the few times all their family will be together (aside from funerals which isn't really a photo moment). They're busy and fun days, and unless your guest list brought cameras or now, sits with their phones out, you simply wouldn't get spur of the moment photos and generally wouldn't have photos of the event at all. I can only imagine you've either never been to a wedding or you've only ever seen novelty wedding photos, bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Women, seriously, what the hell is so important about wedding photos?Desperate for what, exactly? And why tacky? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Women, seriously, what the hell is so important about wedding photos?... You think pictures of a couple getting married look tacky and desperate? Why? Is this a judgement you hold for all photos, or just photos of major life events? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 04:50 PM |
| 2 | How many are looking for a financially equal relationship?That's what I wanted and that's what I have. We earn about the same so we have a joint account for joint expenses - mortgage, food, utilities, dates etc. We pay sole expenses from our sole accounts - we each have a car so handle the car expenses individually, and do our own mobile phone expenses. We also do gifts from our sole accounts but we agree a gift budget beforehand for Christmas and birthdays. For anniversaries we just tend to go for a meal so that's from the joint account. We have a cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 08:14 AM |
| 8 | What if men were shown more compassion?Andy's man club is specifically male-only and there are groups around the country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 07:55 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Go have a look at some of the food related subreddits and you will see that no, people in general do not seem to eat vegetables! Just saw someone post a "meal" of mince, chips and bread 😫 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many modern TV shows and movies include anti-male themes? Why is it socially acceptable for today’s media to portray men so negatively?Star Wars prequel: men are weak or hateful, Rey is badass who can do anything. Realistically there are 3 kinda main characters - along with Rey you have Finn & Poe. Poe is basically a very cool badass who can do anything, and Finn is more complex but essentially is a good person at heart who wants to do the right thing and when confronted with hard situations fights his urge to flee in order to do the right thing. It's really on you if you've just laser focused on Rey being badass and completely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 10:17 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What people find physically attractive can and usually does change over time. I don't know if ppd men don't understand this because you're all convinced that only teenagers are attractive and you'll still only want teenagers when you're 60, but for normal people physical preferences do actually change over time. Like, when I was a teen blonde and fresh-faced Legolas was where it was at, but as I got older Pippin swiftly overtook him. It's also quite reasonable to expect that someone who's young … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 09:45 AM |
| 2 | What is it you actually like about men?Same as with women, I don't like (or dislike) men in general. I like specific men based on their specific traits/personality, and that might be wildly different from the next man I like. Like, I have two male colleagues and I like them both but they're very different: one pretty much keeps to himself but when he does chat he's got a good dry sense of humor, he's honest and doesn't really put up with work crap. He also has a good appreciation for good food so we talk about food quite a lot 😅 wher… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?Yep. With my first bf we kept hooking up after we'd broken up - sex and attraction was never what didn't work about the relationship. With my second, I had a massive crush on him at school and then moved away and we reconnected later, and we hooked up on 2nd date before any kind of relationship talk had started. And with my husband, I met him specifically to hook up so hooking up is how we started off. The threshold for a hook up is a lot lower than a relationship though. I've hooked up with lot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 08:30 PM |
| 2 | I don’t think a women needs a expensive wedding ring even for $500If people don't want to wear a ring they shouldn't bother. But generally if you are going to wear a wedding ring you want it to be something durable and nice enough that you want to wear it for life. It's not just a woman thing either - my husband's wedding ring was slightly more expensive than mine, but the most important thing is that it's a ring he likes, will wear, and will last him. Same with mine. And no, no one needs that, but no one needs a car or more than one pair of shoes, food that t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 07:17 PM |
| 1 | do you think marriages where one partner is away for work often are more successful?I feel like COVID just proved that a lot of people are in relationships with people they don't really like that much. A relationship only lasting longer because they don't have to put up with each other isn't what I'd define as "successful". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Women in the past were not unhappy in their marriages, modern women's psychology have just adapted to modern societyI once read an excerpt from a book of letters published around 100 years ago. It was letters from women who wanted to be able to use contraception, and while marriage satisfaction wasn't the focus ("too many children" was the focus) there was a strong theme of deeply unhappy women stuck in shitty marriages with men they hated. Women who had been married off as kids, women who were in a marriage made only because they needed to get married and there was no love in it, women who needed to stop hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 10:30 AM |
| 0 | Most modern men lack the emotional maturity needed to raise a healthy and successful child in today's worldNormal men sleep with and date other women before meeting one they want to marry/have babies with. It's incredibly normal and standard for both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Most modern men lack the emotional maturity needed to raise a healthy and successful child in today's worldPlenty women do and then you all whine about them just settling. Or get butt-hurt about "husband material" which generally also means "father material", but is apparently the greatest insult of all time to guys on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 07:24 PM |
| – | Where do you draw the line between “being used” and “just a breakup”?I knew a guy who was in a relationship, where the woman had asked him out and he'd accepted, knowing that he didn't really like her and found her annoying. He would complain about her to others and admitted he was only with her because she'd shown interest and he thought he should be in a relationship. I'd say that's being used. Whereas if he'd liked her initially, only to break up with her because he realised he found her annoying in large doses - that's just a break up. Although I don't know i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 08:23 AM |
| 5 | How would you want to be told that your married partner is sleeping around?A direct message with some sort of screenshot is probably best. Early in my relationship a friend did send me a screenshot of my now-husband's tinder profile with just a kind of factual "hey, I was on tinder and came across this profile. May be nothing but I thought you should know" kind of thing. In this case, we both still had our profiles open as we'd recently had a threesome with someone from tinder and were considering looking for someone else, so I was aware and it wasn't anything shady. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 11:21 AM |
| – | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.You're speaking as if you never have - or certainly only ever for very short stretches of time. Do you have kids? Have you been the long-term primary caregiver of a child? Because it doesn't sound like you have. I certainly thought babies were pretty easy when I just babysat my nephew for a day or had him overnight. It's not the same as being there all the time. With people who have babies right now, in most cases the grandparents are still working. My mum works full time, sometimes 60+ hour wee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 09:35 AM |
| – | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.I wouldn't describe a baby that only can be put down if they're deep asleep or they'll cry as very calm though But this applies to almost all babies. Not throughout their entire babyhood, but it's a natural instinct for babies to cry when they're put down. It's normal and pretty much everyone will experience this at some point with their baby. Also my experience is when there is a strong support system. The new mom shouldn't also have to take out the trash, and wash the pump I don't take out the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 09:06 AM |
| – | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.If you don't do the dishes, you won't have any dishes to eat off of. You'll get smells and bugs in the kitchen. Dishes do actually need to be done, it's not a "nice to do" activity that can be neglected. You also need a clean, clear surface available for sorting out milk storage or prepping bottles etc, which you won't have if you just neglect the kitchen. Plus if you leave it for a few days it suddenly becomes a massive and much more difficult task. Whereas doing them little and often keeps it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 08:33 AM |
| – | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.I have a pretty "good" baby. He's not much of a crier, he's pretty chill in general. But it's still constant and hard. It's not "every few hours" it's 3 hours maximum and almost never that long (and certainly not during the day). Even when there's a 3 hour gap, with a newborn you have to feed them again 3 hours from the start of the last feed, not the end. When they're little they don't feed efficiently. So they wake up, need changed, then can spend nearly an hour feeding, then need changed agai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 08:25 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵16 or 17 - I've never been on a girls trip but I have had a few trips with mixed girls and guys, with mixed relationship statuses. Going to assume that's probably a red flag to this guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 07:39 AM |
| 2 | People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women.Realistically until they're in nursery or school, that's always going to be the case. Even once they're sleeping through the night you still need to be actively caring for them like 12 or more hours a day. And even once they're in nursery or school, it would be pretty shitty parenting to just wash your hands of your kid and leave it to the other parent because you've been at work. If you don't want to parent, don't have kids. If you want kids then you need to take responsibility for them. Childr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 01:02 AM |
| 8 | People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women.Babies sleeping doesn't always mean the parent is getting a break. Obviously as they get older this is a bit different but certainly in the early stages! We're 7 weeks in and my baby is asleep on me. I can't sleep because it's not safe to do so. My husband and I have been trying to put him down for the past 7 hours and the most we've managed is 10 minutes before the screaming starts. My husband had him downstairs for a couple of hours so I could rest, and I took over about half an hour ago so he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 11:54 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think the employee is a worse parent. I'm seeing many useless older teenagers/early 20s people enter the workforce and it's partly due to this kind of coddling, where their parents do everything for them. When I was 17 I got myself a job and I got myself there and back again with my own money and not relying on lifts from a parent. A 19 year old should get themselves to and from work. And little kids can fly unaccompanied (or they could, don't know if that's still a thing) a 16 year old defini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 10:40 PM |
| 5 | Men are fundamentally unsuitable for long term relationshipsToo much to lose for the average Joe Judging by the amount of asshole average to below men I've encountered, they clearly have never received this memo. Assholes be assholes, whether it serves them well or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 10:13 AM |
| 6 | What’s your advice to men who are too empathetic?Create boundaries. Consider people's actions separately to how you feel about them - for instance, are you just tolerating this behaviour because you like them/want to be friends/don't want them to leave? Or are you genuinely happy with what they're doing? I think this can sometimes be a difficult distinction for people to make so it can require a bit of thought - sometimes considering what you would tell a friend to do in your situation can be helpful. And learn the value of the word "no". It's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 10:05 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵They can be a slippery slope but if you're sensible with it, will be great for your credit score and handy to have in a pinch. Watch though - I don't know if it's the same where you are, but with my bank in the UK if you're responsible with it then they keep automatically increasing the limit just to try and tempt you to spend more. I now have an £11k credit limit I never applied for, when I think it was probably about £1k when I originally opened the card 😱 so it can be easy to sucked in over y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 09:33 PM |
| 6 | What makes a guy boring?Why do you keep mentioning kids? Realistically you're going to make a decision on whether or not someone has a boring lifestyle before you decide to date them, so kids are irrelevant here, unless you're dating a single parent. Yes your life may become a bit more monotonous for a while when you have very young kids, but that's a decision you make together, so you kind of opt in to it. But you need to have a personality before that (or you will never have one, and just be one of those people who h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 09:43 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My husband has said to me that it's nice to know what it's like to have a number one fan, and that I make it very clear how attractive I find him, so hopefully I can help with this 😅 I compliment him all the time. Any time I think he's looking particularly fine, or I just look at him and remember how hot he is, I make sure to tell him. I touch him all the time. If he bends over he gets a bum grope, slap or hump. I like to ask him to flash me. And I come in and ogle his naked soapy body when he's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever been shamed for sleeping around?Not really. Probably on this sub but not anything specific I can recall. Never from a person I knew in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever benefited from gender-specific privileges?I'm currently on maternity leave. My husband had to go back to work yesterday after 5 weeks off (3 weeks off which were holiday leave and not actual paternity leave), but I won't have to return to work until July next year. Technically we have the option to share leave, so I could sacrifice some of mine and he could take it instead. But since I'm breastfeeding it's not a workable option. It would be far better if he was allowed a longer time off, with better pay, alongside what I'm offered - ins… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Do you basically use hookups to get with men who otherwise wouldn’t consider you?Considering I initially met my husband for a hook up and now we're married, no. I just hooked up with people I wanted to hook up with. Hooking up was my only motivation, and just so happened that one of them led to more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 06:54 PM |
| 7 | Therapy is harmful and doesn't actually help women. Men should not go to therapy.I found therapy very helpful. How helpful it is will depend on your issue(s), what you're looking to get out of it, how much you engage with it, and how good your therapist is. Mine talked me through specific tools that I could use to help myself, and I found it helpful to have the accountability - "I know she's going to ask me about this next week so I need to make sure I do it". I didn't enjoy it - in fact I dreaded it every week. But it gave me practical tools to manage the symptoms of anxiet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 10:33 AM |
| – | Sexual compatibility isn't a real thing.Hard disagree. Sexual compatibility is very real. It encompasses a range of things - from your libidos, how you handle not having sex (are you both on board with dirty sex if you're not in the mood or are you comfortable to not have sex without it feeling like a rejection etc), what kind of things you like and dislike, how you view sex in general (is it super special magic to have only with the love of your life or is it a fun activity to be shared with any amount of commenting adults etc). Thes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing?I never did see anyone with a fish pic on tinder. Dunno if that's because I live in the UK or because I live in a city or a combo of both! I wouldn't have a problem with it if I did see it, but overall I disagree with many of the points you've made: I don't know many people who fish, but most of them actually don't like eating fish. My 9 year old nephew can fish, and when he caught some big ones he wanted to eat them out of pride (despite not normally liking to eat fish). His dad (my sister's hu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 10:59 PM |
| 9 | How would you react if you found out the man you were dating had a 'slut phase'?Your the one who said you'd throw a guy away if he became vanilla farther into the relationship. Maybe learn to read before trying to have discussions online, because that's not what I said. Also what do you kinky women even want? You are so proud to go around online talking about being "kinky" and disparaging vanillas sex but I notice when I ask about your sexual proclivities, even online, you go mute. Sounds like you are ashamed of your kinkiness, you can't even name it out loud. Where the fuc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 01:30 PM |
| 15 | How would you react if you found out the man you were dating had a 'slut phase'?Sexual compatibility is a must for a relationship. There is literally no point in continuing an early stage relationship without it. Men are the first to complain when they're not getting their sexual desires met in a relationship, but somehow you're pulling me up because, what, as a woman I should just put up and shut up? So you want men to cater to you sexually That's not what I said. I don't want someone to just cater to me regardless of their desires. I want to be with someone who's sexual d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 12:50 PM |
| 3 | No women should be excited to get married in 2025I don't see the point in being excited for marriage as a general concept, but being excited to be married to a specific person you have that kind of relationship with is different. Statistics and trends aren't absolute and generally I think it's stupid to base your relationship goals on statistics - do what makes you happy, not what seems like it might have the best outcome statistically. My husband shares equally in the chores in general. Currently he's doing most of them because I'm recovering… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 09:43 AM |
| 16 | How would you react if you found out the man you were dating had a 'slut phase'?My husband and I met during our respective slut phases and do all our kinky stuff together. In any case, I base my relationship happiness on whether I'm happy in that relationship, and not on how someone acted in previous relationships. If he wasn't sexually adventurous with me I wouldn't want to be with him regardless of what he'd done with others in the past - if he was vanilla with me then we wouldn't be compatible. It's meaningless whether or not he'd been consistently vanilla in the past. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 08:45 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵But that has literally nothing to do with how you look in comparison to them. Basing attraction on whether you look nice together in pictures is disgustingly shallow and is exactly the kind of thing men on here accuse women of doing (and very strongly assert that it's a bad thing). But suddenly if a woman's using it to shame herself for how she looks it's not only fine and dandy, it's the only way she can show she loves someone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 07:34 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I can’t imagine most women who actually love the dude they are with would want to have the comparison photos, How is this anything to do with love? Caring about how you and your partner look in comparison to each other is just shallow idiocy. You certainly wouldn't think it was about love if a woman wanted a guy to put more effort into his appearance for the comparison photos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 05:58 PM |
| 34 | What do you think separates women who have good experiences with casual sex from those who don't?I had almost exclusively good experiences with casual sex and I reckon some of the reasons are: I was genuinely only looking for casual and had no other expectations. I'm pretty confident about what I want and happy to communicate it. I would have open discussions before meeting people and only agree to meet people who fit in with what I was looking for and could also communicate openly about what they wanted. I don't have any shame around sex or any sexual hang ups. I was raised to be an atheis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 04:01 PM |
| 3 | If I want to know what kind of men women truly find desirable, should I look at (A) husbands OR (B) the men you are crushing on, flirting with, swiping right on, hooking up, having sexual flings, FWB and situation-ships with?No. You're taking your own personal experience and equating it to all mediocre looking men. That's a mistake. Plenty mediocre looking men get flings and ONS and have people crushing on them. Why you specifically don't get that is unknown. Maybe it's your lifestyle, the particular area you live, the type of women you're attracted to. There are so many variables. I will say that a lot of guys on this sub are incredibly sexually damaged - puritanical when it comes to women's sexuality and massively… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 10:22 AM |
| 4 | If I want to know what kind of men women truly find desirable, should I look at (A) husbands OR (B) the men you are crushing on, flirting with, swiping right on, hooking up, having sexual flings, FWB and situation-ships with?No, I've seen plenty of guys get laid and have flings and be crushed on who were all shapes, sizes and levels of attractiveness. You just ignore that because no one wants to have sex with you specifically, so you make up stuff in your head to justify why it's happening. The guys on this sub invent all sorts of theories and checklists and logic to try and make themselves feel better. But actually in reality women casually bang ugly guys all the time. There's no logic, no checklists, the theories … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 10:04 AM |
| 0 | If I want to know what kind of men women truly find desirable, should I look at (A) husbands OR (B) the men you are crushing on, flirting with, swiping right on, hooking up, having sexual flings, FWB and situation-ships with?Depends on the person really. I met my husband on tinder and we were hooking up at first until we fell for each other, but my sister did say how he is the epitome of what I find attractive. So he's a good indicator of what I find desirable. But I have also had crushes and hook ups with guys I didn't find desirable - crushes where I found them desirable temporarily because something triggered a crush, and hook ups with a range of people from those I thought were hot to those that I thought were u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 07:31 AM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You're a man who apparently can't keep a relationship - I put no stock in your opinions on what you think women want. I'm a woman and I'm married, with most women I know married or in LTRs. Women in general definitely prefer stable and chill to toxic and "exciting", except if said woman happens to also be toxic, or a bit young and stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 07:24 PM |
| -1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You sound like you are still very young, and have terrible taste in women. Most relationships do not require drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 05:59 PM |
| 7 | If women claim to hate guys who pay for sex workers then why do they buy male hookers for bachelorette parties?Probably not the same people. I've never been to a hen do with strippers nor do I know anyone who's been to one. It's not common at all. Whereas I do know quite a few guys who've been to strip clubs as part of a stag do. Seems to be a lot more common. And the majority of clients of male prostitutes are other men. Women are just a lot less likely to pay for sex than men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 02:02 PM |
| 4 | Women, do you think men who work from home are less masculine?You're still both working though. Before COVID more men worked from home than women. Now it's slightly more skewed towards women but only by a couple of % (27% of men in hybrid working environments compared to 29% of women, in the UK). It's just not a gendered thing and I'm pretty sure you're the only person who thinks it might be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 06:46 AM |
| 3 | If most women don’t care about size & can’t orgasm from PIV, isn’t PIV sex inherently misogynistic?It shifts depending on where you are in your menstrual cycle. Considering how obsessed you are with how male and female anatomy fits together, maybe you should take some time to actually educate yourself on how they work. Might help you get over some of your issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 12:38 PM |
| 2 | If most women don’t care about size & can’t orgasm from PIV, isn’t PIV sex inherently misogynistic?And cervix is 6 inches deep right ? No. The cervix can be deeper or shallower depending on the person and the time of the month. The cervix is accessible by fingers in most cases, for most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 12:26 PM |
| 26 | If most women don’t care about size & can’t orgasm from PIV, isn’t PIV sex inherently misogynistic?Things can still be pleasurable when they don't result in orgasm - PIV still feels good and is fun. And good sex generally does involve a mix of focuses, for most people good sex isn't just a case of sticking it straight in and doing PIV and nothing else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 10:06 AM |
| 27 | Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally.Oh shut the fuck up with this bullshit. Honestly do you not have anything better to do than just bleat nonsense you've scraped up from someone else? No one is loved unconditionally. It's just not a thing. If it were people wouldn't abuse or kill their pets, children, spouses. Get a grip on reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 09:39 PM |
| 8 | Women with messed-up/morally problematic interests are shown more grace than men with nerdy/unusual but not morally problematic interestsPorn can cause a lot of physical harm. Prolapse etc. So where do you draw the line? Is it: porn can permanently physically harm women so you don't see it as a problem, whereas you view women watching a documentary as morally wrong so that is a problem for you. Because that seems to be what you're saying. Based on your previous threads, you have some real deep problems and need to get some help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 10:53 AM |
| 3 | What do you think about the 45% of all men who have never approached a woman?Stop misrepresenting the data. You keep going on about it as if it's all men when it's nowhere near, and as if not approaching women in person somehow means they don't approach at all - for younger people in particular OLD is a particularly popular way to meet people and for all you know every single one of those guys in the study have approached via OLD. Basically you don't know anything, you're blatantly lying about a study to make it seem like a big deal, and then you're making up a bunch of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 10:18 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?I read his post. My response still stands. It's a moral issue and not one of attractiveness. I don't see why you would assume this means I haven't read his post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 09:06 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?So, I've explained to you why you're naive - you don't seem to have a grasp on how the world actually works. Lots of people go to sex workers for all sorts of reasons and most of them are not related to looks or the ability to get sex. You're just throwing out "naive" because you don't have an argument, and you have no basis or explanation for it. So come on, why are blue pillers naive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 07:56 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?It's not rejecting someone because other girls have already rejected him, it's rejecting someone for using sex workers. There is an enormous difference. And nope. Take responsibility for your own actions. You choose to do something that makes you a bad person, that's on you. To blame someone rejecting you - that's just pathetic. And people who use sex workers are not exclusively or probably even mostly people who can't get sex elsewhere. Plenty of people in relationships cheat with sex workers, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 07:54 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?You are deeply naive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 07:43 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?I don't really get your point. People can and will do what they like, that doesn't mean I have to date them or pretend their choices are okay. And yeah, I can say "just don't have sex". It's far better than the alternative, and they do have a choice. There is the choice to do it, or not to do it, and they chose wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 07:20 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?It is morality. There are plenty of people who can get sex for free who still go to sex workers. From all walks of life, all levels of attractiveness, all socioeconomic levels, all relationship statuses. Therefore it's very obviously not anything to do with "lack of attractiveness to get sex naturally", it's purely a moral issue. They're generally scummy people regardless of what they look like. It's not virtue signalling to be aware of this - in fact all the guys in the comments who don't seem … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 07:17 PM |
| – | Free the Nipple is the only example of women, as a group, advocating to give up their gendered privilegeBut women do get charged more for health insurance anyway, and if your car insurance laws were the same then men would still get charged more. So it doesn't make any difference. Do you understand what I'm saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 07:10 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?What government records? Everything I can see agrees that sex trafficking does in fact exist in the Netherlands. So whatever fake records you're referring to probably are meaningless, yes. https://home-affairs.ec.europa.eu/policies/internal-security/organised-crime-and-human-trafficking/together-against-trafficking-human-beings/eu-countries/netherlands_en https://www.coe.int/en/web/anti-human-trafficking/-/greta-publishes-its-third-report-on-the-netherlands https://www.state.gov/reports/2024-tra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 03:28 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?I just don't think people who pay someone for sex view sex in the same way as me. They see it and the person's body as a commodity, otherwise it would never occur to them to do it. Therefore we're fundamentally incompatible. Not to mention the risks of sex trafficking etc - you have very little way of knowing if the person you've bought is there by their own free will or not and it's disgusting to me that anyone would even consider sex under those circumstances. And just from hearing and reading… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 12:41 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?You still can't be confident of anything. The Netherlands has problems with trafficking just like anywhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 12:23 PM |
| – | Free the Nipple is the only example of women, as a group, advocating to give up their gendered privilegeBut women do get charged more for health insurance than men, so I don't get your point. There aren't extra expenses for men and not women. Women pay more for healthcare, men pay more for insurance. I don't understand how you're not getting this. It's illegal here to charge men more for car insurance just because they're men, but they still pay more anyway because when they're looked at individually they're riskier. Just like it may well be illegal on paper to charge women more for health premium… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 11:00 AM |
| – | Free the Nipple is the only example of women, as a group, advocating to give up their gendered privilegeBecause they're statistically more likely to need it. And women pay more for long term care insurance than men because they're statistically more likely to need it. Some articles I've seen said women do pay more for their general health insurance premiums too (up to 30% more) because they're statistically more likely to need it. And young drivers who have just passed pay more than older drivers who have just passed, because they're statistically more likely to need it. It's all the same, so agai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 10:23 AM |
| – | Free the Nipple is the only example of women, as a group, advocating to give up their gendered privilegeWay to completely miss the point. The exact same thing can be said for men paying higher car insurance premiums. So how exactly is this discrimination or privilege for either party? Men use car insurance more because they cause more accidents than women and obtain more damage to their cars that requires insurance. Women pay more for healthcare because they use it more (both because of female-specific healthcare like pregnancy, and because men are just less likely to seek healthcare even when the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 09:53 AM |
| – | Free the Nipple is the only example of women, as a group, advocating to give up their gendered privilegeOn the health/car insurance thing. I'm in the UK so it's a bit different because it is already illegal to charge more for car insurance just because you're a man. However, instead they look at individuals and your driving performance - so men get charged more anyway because they're worse drivers - https://passmefast.co.uk/ And even though in the US you can't charge more for health insurance based on gender, women still pay significantly more for their healthcare, because they use it more - https… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 09:39 AM |
| 1 | What do women even offer?If it is all women in your circles then yes, that will comprise of people you have chosen to be in your life. Unless you have absolutely no female friends at all and don't really know these women, in which case you're probably just making up their personalities since you have no way of knowing what they're actually like around other people. Men tend to have personalities, women? Not so much, at least not some original ones This just isn't true though, and demonstrates that you have no personalit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 09:33 AM |
| 1 | What do women even offer?I don’t choose to surround myself with them, they happen to be in groups I am in as well. So you do choose to surround yourself with them. You could go and make other friends. It is true about men being in similar boat, except the men are also expected to do everything when courting a woman only for a sliver of a chance to get into a relationship with somewhat decent woman (decent in a very broad sense). That’s why there is a dissonance of between the fact that not only men have to put in all th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 10:57 PM |
| 1 | What do women even offer?If that's what your social circle is like I refuse to believe you're any more than as basic as that, and you're just fooling yourself into believing you're not. Not one person in my social circle is like that, because I'm an actual person with an actual life and the people I choose to spend time with are the same. If you choose to surround yourself with boring and passive people then you're probably the same, you just don't have the self reflection skills to realise it. There are swathes of men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 10:37 PM |
| – | Would you date a man who is unemployed or starting his own business?My husband was unemployed when I started dating him, didn't bother me. He had some savings and also got benefits and was able to live sensibly within his means until he got a job a few months later, which is the more important thing. My ex was employed but shite with money and racked up debts, and I'd far rather be with someone unemployed but able to manage their finances than someone employed but reckless with money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 10:56 AM |
| 0 | Would You Date A Man With The Following Qualities?No No Depends on the extent. Fine if they dislike the gym, aren't sporty etc. But should like some outdoors movement at least (walks, hikes, canoeing/kayaking etc) and be willing to run around with kids. No No As long as I'm satisfied with our sex life. I've never known the frequency of porn usage in any of my relationships, they could all have watched it 3x a day for all I know. No No Yes Yes No Yes Probably not No No Yes No Yes If we got on, were compatible and were at the same life stage then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’s... Okay, why don't you go tell that to OP since my response is due to him placing all the blame for this squarely on women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Does it matter what kind of porn a guy watches?Obviously nothing illegal but tbh I neither know nor care what kind of porn my husband watches, it's not really something I think about. I guess it would be an issue if he was getting something from porn that he needed to feel aroused and it started to bleed into our sex life, if it was something I wasn't into. But that hasn't happened so purely theoretical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, In an AI Utopia with UBI, What Kind of Guy Would You Chase?Would change literally nothing for me. I was financially secure and my husband was unemployed when we met. I obviously had absolutely no thoughts of him providing or anything like it, so if we'd had UBI and been on equal footing financially it would have made no difference. He's a hot dimpled ginger who's great in bed, sweet, kind and funny and was willing to try eating eel on our first date. I'm always going to find those things attractive no matter how the world changes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sInteresting considering that there has been a push for teens to determine what gender they feel like and undergo transitioning at that age. If this acceptable, why is it not acceptable for a teenage boy to decide whether they want to or not? They're different scenarios and not relevant to this conversation, since I'm not pushing for kids and teens to be able to get surgery. You can't get gender affirming surgery here until you're over 18 and I'm pretty sure you need counselling etc first, which … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do You Feel Guilty About Anything You Have Done to a Man?I answered the question. What else are people going to feel guilty about? If you do something to purposefully hurt someone else you're probably less likely to feel that guilty about it, since the kind of people who go out to purposefully hurt others can normally justify it to themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 01:04 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do You Feel Guilty About Anything You Have Done to a Man?I once accidentally elbowed my husband in the head when I turned over in bed with too much wild abandon. I apologised profusely and stroked/kissed his head in penance. In general though, not particularly. I try not to treat people in ways I'll feel guilty about (men or women). If I've been a bit grumpy about something I'll apologise. If I make a mistake that's impacted someone else I'll apologise and try to fix it. But like most normal people I'm not really out here doing lots of crappy stuff I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Who pays?I would always split on first dates, or pay for one part while they get the other. For me or was never an indication I wasn't that interested, I just feel really uncomfortable letting people buy things for me and also I think it's an unfair and outdated expectation to just expect guys to pay for dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sBecause everything you say shows that you don't actually care about men's issues, you only care about dismissing women's issues. You're refusing to address any men's issues on their own merits, and focus on them only as a way to attack women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 10:41 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sUgh would you just give it a fucking rest. I do not agree with circumcision. I think it should be banned aside from medical necessity. However, you clearly do not care about circumcision. You care only about whether women grovel and apologise about it to you. If you actually cared, then you would be arguing against the man in your post waxing lyrical about circumcision and defending the right to do it. Instead of responding to all the women who state they're against it with repeated whining abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sIt's their choice and if they are happy with it then so be it. I'm not talking about adult people of an age to get cosmetic surgery, making that decision for themselves. I'm talking about kids and teens who absolutely should not be subject to societal pressure to engage in permanent body modification that negatively impacts sexual function. That just shouldn't be a thing. If they choose to do it when they're an adult that's they're decision. If I find that less sensitivity helps against prematur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 08:12 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sNo, you just don't actually care about men's issues. You just don't like women. You have no interest in making anything better for other men. Bit sad really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 07:57 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sAgain, not comparable and not relevant. Moving out or not is nothing at all related to the sphere of bodily mutation. there are circumcision that simply splits open the foreskin and it remains there hanging. That sounds absolutely fucking barbaric and any man I know in his right mind would be wincing hard at that thought. Less sensitive does not mean losing pleasure. I would know as someone that was circumsized 25 years ago and I still feel intense pleasure. Your singular experience is worthless… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 07:03 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sPlenty of people in western society live with their parents well into adulthood. Also not comparable since it's not lopping off a body part. Besides, it does not kill sexual pleasure to be circumsized and it arguably makes it less sensitive You do realise this is a contradiction, right? It does kill sexual pleasure, by making the penis less sensitive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 06:48 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sIf they let their husband decide, they’re using the “I was just following orders” excuse, which hasn’t been valid since Nuremberg. Don't be ridiculous. When something is the cultural norm across your entire country and it's being recommended by doctors, you're not "following orders" if you leave it up to your husband to make a decision on it, as something that he has knowledge and experience of and she doesn't. Yes, my friends are from the UK so they already knew they were firmly against it. But… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 06:42 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sI disagree with it for teenagers unless it's medically necessary. If they want it as a cosmetic thing when an adult they can go for it and consent at that point. But if it's seen as a "rite of passage" then they're at risk of being pressured/coerced into giving "consent" because they feel they need to when it's not what they actually want. It can cause lifelong issues and change sexual pleasure, it's not at all comparable to getting ears pierced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sNo, it's not good enough - it doesn't at all address the claims you've made. Try harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 03:47 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sThat's quite clearly not the case since I've given several examples of initiatives that I applaud, that do not center women. I'm not familiar with Earl Silverman but from a quick read that doesn't sound at all like what happened. He got ridiculed by police (mostly men) didn't get funding from the government (mostly men). Do you have evidence for women cheering over him dying? As I've only found condolences and criticisms of the government from women. Mens shed is a massive organisation, and that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 03:34 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sProbably because it's almost never in a constructive way and is usually used as a way to derail efforts for women's issues. It's almost always framed as "women have this so it should be taken away from them" or jumping on the back of something about women to go "what about men", instead of starting an actual constructive discussion in its own place, under its own merit, and not as a complaint about women. On the rare occasions it is done properly, the reception is significantly better. I used to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 03:16 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sThey can do. Almost every woman tears or is cut during labour, and it can lead to lifelong problems. Not just with their external genitalia, but with cervical prolapse etc and a number of other complications that can lead to sexual dysfunction and incontinence. One of the popular treatments to resolve prolapse can cause lifelong pain, inability to have sex, scarring, infections etc. You're not helping yourself with your insistence on viewing this is as some sort of competition - "men don't have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 12:31 PM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sMothers do the majority of any admin relating to their children. That doesn't mean they made the decision on their own, or at all. I've seen a lot of women say they left it to their husband to decide, because he's the one with the penis, and he decided on it. Now I'm not saying that's right - I'm in the UK so circumcision not much of a thing here but I certainly wouldn't be having a baby with someone who was set on getting it done. But the problem in the US is it's too normalised and it's offere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 11:27 AM |
| – | Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’sLiterally every time I argue against circumcision in males, it's been a guy passionately arguing for it and why it's great and beneficial and I should keep my nose out. I frequently see women, whether feminists or otherwise, say male circumcision is wrong. But men continue to fight to uphold it and protect their right to do it. So maybe it's them you should be discussing this with, not some imaginary feminist bogeyman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Why do some women seek Egalitarian marriages instead of partial or full Financial dependence on a man?I just don't want to be with someone for the sake of them buying me stuff. I was raised to look after myself, pay my own way, and to not accept other people paying my way for me. Other people aren't piggy banks that I can just shake when I want to buy something - if I want things I want to work for them and earn them myself. And I would much rather pick a relationship based on how compatible we are and how much I like them, rather than based on how much they make. I think that would be a very po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Women, how do you feel about men who live with their parents?Privacy, independence, learning to cope on your own. I moved out when I was 18 and loved it - I didn't need to as my family home was close enough to uni and work to travel in, but it was great. Good for the social aspect as well - people are more likely to go out and get involved in social events at uni if they live down the street as opposed to a half hour/hour train ride away, plus the social aspect of flatmates (which also teaches some good lessons about living with people you're not related … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 08:22 AM |
| 12 | Why do women usually judge women and men sexually more harshly than guys do ?Your observation skills are quite poor if that's what you've observed. It's extremely common for men to harshly judge any type of sex work that women do (though doesn't stop them voraciously consuming it whilst simultaneously claiming it's the downfall of society). Guys do care if women are bisexual. I've actually seen a ton of judgement of bisexual women from guys on this sub. Plenty of men will still date/sleep with bisexual women because they fetishize it. When I was on tinder, half the women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 11:39 PM |
| 5 | Women here give wildly contradictory answers depending on who they want to defeat in a argumentIs it not more likely they're just different people, and the ones answering one aren't aware of the stats on the other or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 03:27 PM |
| 1 | What's are your standards for short term involvements/flings(if any)?Personally liking someone enough to sleep with them a few times and liking them enough to actually spend a proper amount of time with them is a drastically different thing 😅 most people are fun in small doses but I'm never going to catch feels for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:20 PM |
| 7 | Do women actually reject men for being too big down there?Well not an outright rejection but I tried to have sex with someone once and we just couldn't do it because he was too big, so ended up stopping and not trying again. That was girth not length though. I haven't rejected anyone on length. Haven't ever seen any ridiculous sizes but there's been a handful where we needed to go a lot slower and it was limiting on positions due to length, so didn't reject in the first instance but declined to go back for more as it just made it a lot less fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 10:58 PM |
| 0 | Would you like to have a husband who is still a virgin?No. I was an adult when I got married, and had experienced a varied and active sex life. My husband was the same, and that's one of the reasons we're compatible. Adults in their late twenties or beyond who haven't had sex have very different outlooks on sex to me. They might be religious, they might believe sex is super special and must wait for "the one", they might just not really be very sexual, or like many men on this sub they desperately want sex and are very bitter and hate women because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceYes that's madness to me, because I know lots of couples where neither drive and a mix where one or other drives and plenty of men in relationships who don't drive. But I don't live in the US so car/driving culture is different here. Although I would expect even in the US it should depend on where you live. I wouldn't have thought someone living in, say, Manhattan, would be as strict on a driving requirement as someone in backwater Alabama where you can't get around otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 01:49 PM |
| 2 | the game plan for women?I never really had a set plan. When I finished high school my plan was to get a degree and I had no real thoughts beyond that. While doing my degree I thought I might move abroad, but then I didn't. I got together with my now-ex while at uni and after a while plans morphed into maybe buy a house, get married, have kids. That didn't work out. By that time I was 25 so my plans were to save up and either move abroad or buy a place myself within a year or so. Ended up saving up and buying myself a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 08:45 AM |
| 10 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceThat's so specific and unlikely it's a very silly reason not to be with someone who can't drive. In most cases you'd have plenty of time to get there in a taxi or whatever and not even need the ambulance, so at most it might happen to you once in your life. And people do get taxis to the hospital for labour. People have given birth in taxis. They won't know you're in labour when you order it so they definitely won't refuse to come as they'd have no reason to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 10:27 AM |
| 6 | At what point does sexualization become objectifying and dehumanizing?But it's not "completely understandable" at all. It's rather a signal of a dysfunctional relationship. Jesus Christ no it's not. My husband and I objectify each other all the time - we grope, flash, make sexual innuendo etc throughout the day. But if one of us is having a hard time and talking about something that's important/upsetting etc we both have the respect and courtesy to listen to the other and not randomly inject sex into that scenario. I don't find it arousing when my husband is upset… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Dating outside of your education level.I don't really care. I went to uni but I don't think it's given me anything particularly amazing and niche that I'd feel the need to have in a partner. My previous LTR was with a guy who'd gone straight from school to an apprenticeship (electrician) and it was never an issue. Also, my husband went to uni and has the same job at the same company as my sister's husband, who didn't go to university, so while that's just one example, I don't feel uni is necessary for living a certain kind of life et… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 02:29 PM |
| 24 | What makes a woman want to sleep with a man, regardless of intentions?Getting sex is what they're getting in return. A woman sleeping with a guy isn't "giving her body to someone". It's a mutual decision between two people to do a fun activity together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Women saying that very few men being "worthy" of relationships is a terrible implication for womenAnd what? That doesn't contradict people saying there aren't many worthy of a relationship. Whether they know beforehand or find out through experience, it still all gives the same result. Whether someone is worthy of a relationship or not has little to do with upfront attraction - otherwise no one would ever feel the need to end relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Women saying that very few men being "worthy" of relationships is a terrible implication for womenWhat's your point and how is this comment related to anything I've said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 01:31 PM |
| 3 | What % of men do you think are both unsuitable as relationship partners?"Not for me" should cut it though. Why wouldn't it? Most people aren't for most people, realistically. There are very few people you'll be properly compatible with to the level you need to be for a successful and long-lived romantic relationship. It isn't a critique or a failing on the part of the people who don't fit that bill - it's just life! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 11:00 PM |
| 2 | What % of men do you think are both unsuitable as relationship partners?Yes, there are lots of non-ambition related examples (or examples of too much ambition!) Maybe it should be substituted with “incompatible”, or some other word that doesn’t prop up the man artificially. It's not propping them up artificially though, they're still a great person and would be great for a relationship with a compatible person, if that's what they want. You seem to be seeing this as some sort of rejection or something that's a negative for the guy, but in a lot of these instances th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 10:52 PM |
| 5 | What % of men do you think are both unsuitable as relationship partners?But I still find it a little bit odd, when women say, “he is great! but not for me.” “Great” implies relationship material. And the “but not for me” typically implies an unmentionable lack of physical attraction. Great doesn't imply relationship material though, and "not for me" doesn't apply lack of attraction. I know lots of lovely and attractive guys who I would never date, because we just wouldn't have compatible lifestyles. Example - I knew a guy once who was hot, lovely, funny, good compan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Women saying that very few men being "worthy" of relationships is a terrible implication for womenI didn't say they did. You're the one saying these so called worthy men are the ones cheating, when they aren't. If they cheat it simply means they aren't worthy and the relationship should end. The whole point of dating and early relationships is to check how compatible you are as partners and to check they're worthy of the relationship - that's why so many relationships end, because most of them aren't right for each other. If you're both suited to eachother, worthy of each other, faithful to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:33 PM |
| 4 | Women saying that very few men being "worthy" of relationships is a terrible implication for womenHow did you get that from my comment? Random leapy leap there. I don't think most people choose someone they know is going to be unfaithful to them. Unfortunately you can't generally tell in advance, unless you think clairvoyance is real? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 03:36 PM |
| 4 | Women saying that very few men being "worthy" of relationships is a terrible implication for womenPeople deem different people worthy. I think there are very few people worthy of being in a relationship with, but who I consider worthy will be an entirely different set of people to the next person. Premium men are faithful, because unfaithful men aren't premium. The problem you have is that you seem to have a very narrow view of what you think makes a man worthy of a relationship when it probably isn't actually what anyone else means when they say that. Given that you automatically assume the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 02:59 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Dry shampoo and keeping on top of trimming help a lot with this. If I let my fringe grow a little too long I spend all day touching it to move it out the way so it ends up looking crap. Keeping it the right length and giving a spritz of dry shampoo every day (even if I've just washed it) keeps it looking nice and full! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 10:32 AM |
| 11 | How Do You Rank a Man’s "Sexual Market Value (SMV)"?There is no ranking. This isn't how attraction works. People don't have a little mental spreadsheet where they tot up a list of points and go with the highest ranking person. People might have an idea of how much different things matter to them, but at the end of the day it generally comes down to actual chemistry and how you get on with someone even if they don't tick the boxes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 10:28 AM |
| – | What is the reason that women have longer sexual experimentation leashes than guys do?Sharing lingerie and vibrators is news to me, I have never come across that in all my life. And being in a cubicle while someone pees is no different to peeing at a urinal in the presence of other guys. It's not like they're standing there staring at each other's bits - you can't actually see anything. In terms of wedding dress dressing - wedding dresses are very fiddly garments and often require a lot of the same attentions needed from the days when women needed a maid to help them dress. Fiddl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 11:37 AM |
| 17 | How many of you have ever mocked a guy based on dick size or know a woman who has?Probably when I was younger, but I'm a lot more conscious of the impact of words and not just throwing things out as insults now. I suppose a similar example is, here it's very common for people to go "ugh that's so gay" when annoyed about something. And if asked they'd probably say there's nothing wrong with being gay and they don't have a problem with it. But they're using it as a insult or to indicate frustration, so it reinforces negative connotations. It's the same with casually throwing ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 09:38 AM |
| 4 | Women, would you find it inappropriate for a man to cold approach you at a nice restaurant?Yes I'd find it really inappropriate. I don't want to be hit on when I'm with my mum and I'd find someone incredibly odd if hitting on me while they were meant to be out with their parents. Even if parents weren't involved, when you're at a restaurant generally you're specifically there to enjoy some food with the people you're there with, and it feels like it would be intrusive for someone to approach. Only exception would be maybe if you were both alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 07:04 AM |
| 9 | Why do you think some women settle for relationships with men who don’t share domestic responsibilities according to their preferences?It was up to her standards. Neat enough means acceptable levels of tidiness: "Enough" adverb to the required degree or extent She's also not a neat freak by any stretch of the imagination - my standards are far higher than hers. But his standards essentially don't seem to exist any more and that wasn't at all evident from when he lived on his own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think some women settle for relationships with men who don’t share domestic responsibilities according to their preferences?Only doing your dishes every 3 days is "filthy pit" standard. That's disgusting, messy and impractical. If you're dating someone and you see them two days in a row and you've done your dishes both days, then there's no reason not to continue that just out of courtesy when you live with another person who shouldn't be subjected to your filthy habits. If you're that gross you shouldn't attempt to live with other people. This is the same in non romantic relationships - it's not actually okay for fl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think some women settle for relationships with men who don’t share domestic responsibilities according to their preferences?If you're keeping it clean several days a week then it should always be clean. How messy are you that your whole house suddenly breaks down into a filthy pit if you don't clean it for 1 day? If you're hiding that level of messiness but making the effort to clean several days per week while dating then that is deception! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 09:41 AM |
| 3 | Why do you think some women settle for relationships with men who don’t share domestic responsibilities according to their preferences?People normally date for a long time before they move in together. If you uphold that level of cleanliness for potentially several days per week for a year or more then suddenly stop it when she's no longer a "visitor" then yes, that is deception. Or at the very least ridiculous - if you could keep it up for that long before then how has it not become ingrained habit? I'm a fairly neat person, not super crazy about it or anything but I like to keep my space clean and tidy. I might do a deep clea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 08:17 AM |
| 3 | Why do you think some women settle for relationships with men who don’t share domestic responsibilities according to their preferences?I'm just responding to your assertion that somehow personal appearance and cleanliness are comparable, when they're not. However, for cleaning really people should be retaining the same standard in terms of ability to clean. I think most people are reasonable enough to understand that their house is not going to be totally tidy every minute of every day. But if you display that you can wash dishes effectively, hoover, dust, do laundry, clean bathrooms to an acceptable standard then that same eff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Why do you think some women settle for relationships with men who don’t share domestic responsibilities according to their preferences?No, because they're not talking about levels of attractiveness, they're talking about levels of household effort. By that logic women and men should continue to put in the same levels of domestic effort they displayed during the dating period. Grooming and makeup are irrelevant to this discussion - no normal and reasonable person expects men or women to consistently put the same effort into their appearance every day for their entire life, because it's impractical and stupid (and personally I'd … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 07:23 AM |
| 17 | Why do you think some women settle for relationships with men who don’t share domestic responsibilities according to their preferences?You can't always tell. I remember when my mum and my stepdad didn't live together, his flat always seemed neat enough. They were together about 5 years before they properly moved in together. Turns out he's an enormous slob who's gotten worse as he gets older. It's just much easier for people to hide this before they live together and then by that time often I think the tidier person of the couple already feels they've invested too much time/feeling into the relationship to leave "just" because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Dear women that think, that men should support equality for women, against discrimination of women. Do you recognize discrimination of men? In which aspects? Did you say against it?Circumcision. I think the NHS here will only cover it for medical reasons, but people can still get it done privately for whatever reason and imo I don't think it should be allowed. Should be medical necessity only (unless you're an adult and want it and go through normal cosmetic surgery routes I guess, similar to how women can go get labiaplasty if they want). Paternity leave/pay. I get to take a year off work and most of it is paid as my work have a generous policy. For men at my work, they g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 10:18 AM |
| 13 | How often do you find yourself initiating intimacy with your partner? And when either of you isn’t feeling it, how do you handle that?We're physically intimate in some manner every day, usually at several points of the day. Fairly evenly initiated. We like to touch, kiss, cuddle, even if it's not going to lead to sex. We both think it's important to have frequent physical intimacy that doesn't lead to sex so it doesn't build the expectation that touching = sex and therefore days with no sex = no touching. From reading various threads across dead bedrooms, relationship advice subs etc I think this is where a lot of people go wr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 09:55 AM |
| 6 | Can there ever be a consensus on penis size for women ?Research isn't a consensus. You're supposed to use your brain and realise that, and not overthink yourself out of a happy relationship because you're hung up on some numbers that have nothing to do with you or your actual relationship. Focus on the person you're having sex with and communicate with them to make sure they're having a good time. That's what actually matters, the research is meaningless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 11:31 AM |
| 1 | How true is the notion that you all are lonely as well because of a lack of good options for boyfriends, not because of a lack of options in general.Most people work with other people and get social interaction from that. The rise in homeworking doesn't help with this (and at least on Reddit I see an increase in people moaning about the necessity of interacting with their colleagues), but most people see their colleagues regularly and are happy to socialise with them through the day. It's still pretty social even if you're not particularly close to your colleagues, but plenty of people have decent or close friendships with those they work wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, I agree that women are just as shallow as men for looks but not all men need to be "Chad" to be physically preferred.... Yes, that's exactly my point. Again, I'm questioning the extremely weird notion that women having sex with men they're not attracted to somehow makes them morally better than women who don't. It obviously doesn't do anything of the sort, which you have just agreed with, even though you've written it like you're somehow disagreeing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 12:32 PM |
| – | As a woman, I agree that women are just as shallow as men for looks but not all men need to be "Chad" to be physically preferred.Lololol "charity work". Says a lot about your mindset. It isn't charity work, it isn't "generous", and it isn't pity sex to have sex with someone you're not attracted to, you absolute weirdo. It's mostly just circumstance and horniness and/or desperation and/or alcohol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 10:20 AM |
| – | As a woman, I agree that women are just as shallow as men for looks but not all men need to be "Chad" to be physically preferred.It's normally men saying that though. And if you thought it was women saying it, why on earth do you equate women saying they're having sex with people they aren't attracted to as them "pretending to be better than they really are"? It doesn't make anyone a better person (or worse really, it's probably morally neutral), and no one normal would ever think it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Misconceptions about men and women "just being friends"I'm not really sure what point you're trying to make with your comments? Not the person you asked but my parents are in their mid-to-late 50s, and my mum's closest friend is a guy. She's also really good friends with his wife but was friends with the guy first. Friendships do drop off as people age but certainly when I was younger she had a big mixed friend group with men and women. My dad has a fair few female friends. My grandad has a mixed gender friendship group. I know other people whose pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ?What are you even talking about? You're just ranting irrelevant shit now, what's the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ?That's a horrible instance of someone and her friends being dicks. Not actually relevant to the conversation at hand. And body shaming actually doesn't prove size matters - it proves that she knew what you/guys in general are insecure about and knew to weaponise it. Really shitty thing to do but again, not actually relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ?I'm not reading this wall of shite Big penises HURT They are UNCOMFORTABLE They are not pleasurable Ergo, smaller penises are better. It's nothing to do with that individual or what experiences I have had. It is to do with the fact that larger penises are physically too large, and are therefore not penises I want to be having sex with. There is nothing that can change that, and no experience that will make that different. I don't need to suffer through any more painful dicks to know this for a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ?No, I know none of you listen or care about women's experiences because you're all convinced you know what you're talking about. Which demonstrates to me that you're probably shit in bed because guys like that always are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ?You’ve never experienced great sex or orgasms so you internalize that as fact when that doesn’t mean that I've experienced great sex and orgasms. And I know that larger dicks do not give great sex. Even when the guy is great and not doing anything that would cause the sex to be bad, the larger penis makes it less pleasurable. I can make comparisons between different experiences and come to informed conclusions based on that. That's all we can do. I have enough experience to know that larger dick… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ?Pretty sure the OP never has. And even for those who have, easy to excuse yourself by assuming it's just a size thing instead of recognising personal failings in terms of actually being able to make sex pleasurable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ?What an incredibly stupid question, statement and opinion. If all my experiences with large sizes were great and orgasm central, then I obviously would state a preference for large sizes since that's clearly what would then be doing it for me. Why on earth would someone go "well this felt amazing, have me exactly what I wanted. But I've decided I have a preference for this other thing that doesn't"? That would be ridiculous. Average penises feel better. They are more enjoyable, the experiences a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 02:52 PM |
| 13 | There is a certain behaviour ("damselling") in public that I see exclusively done by women. What is the real reason why those women are doing this?You make it very clear in your post that you think anyone visibly struggling with something is just faking it or putting on a show. I'm under 5ft. Luggage racks on trains and overhead compartments on planes are absolutely too high for me to comfortably reach, particularly hoisting a heavy piece of luggage directly over my head. I don't really like asking strangers for help so I will just go for it anyway (and if I know I'm going to be in this situation I try to pack as lightly as I can to make i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 12:32 PM |
| 6 | Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ?Not everyone wants above average dicks in their life either 🤷 or realistically, most people probably have a comfortable range and it encompasses below/average/above. Lots of different things impact how a penis feels as well - general shape, girth, angle etc - all which can make a substantial difference in feeling even between penises of the same length. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 11:27 AM |
| 8 | Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ?Jesus Christ. I've had a lot of sex, I've encountered a range of penises. I know my own body well enough to know what I like and dislike, and I certainly know my own body better than some random dude on the internet who has likely never seen or interacted with a naked woman irl. Just because a study or trend suggests a thing, doesn't mean that 100% of people conform to that. You surely must be aware that's not how it works, so why do you seem hell bent on insisting it does? People have different… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 11:11 AM |
| 13 | Do you feel threatened by women more attractive than you?No. I've never been in a jealous rage in my life, it's just not a way I ever spend my energy. People like who they like. If I like someone and there's someone else they like better it's no skin off my nose, regardless of how attractive the other person is. I also wouldn't assume that just because people are laughing and chatting means they're into one another - this is actually how normal people interact with each other, believe it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 11:19 AM |
| 11 | What are some of the biggest misconceptions men have regarding women's attraction to size?Hah a wince was my exact reaction 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 09:17 AM |
| 6 | Why are mismatched libidos a problem if sex is not that important and you would rather be single than in a bad relationship?Again, they are extremely unlikely to be the ones who have a problem with their partner having a lower libido than them. Your question is flawed and makes incorrect assumptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 04:32 PM |
| 11 | Why are mismatched libidos a problem if sex is not that important and you would rather be single than in a bad relationship?The women who think sex is unimportant are unlikely to think it's a problem if their partner has a lower libido than them, so it's a bit of a weird question. If you're bothered by someone having a lower libido then by definition you think sex is important. Ergo, your question is aimed at people who are unlikely to exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 04:25 PM |
| 8 | Why are mismatched libidos a problem if sex is not that important and you would rather be single than in a bad relationship?This isn't a thing that women specifically dislike - most people dislike it. People have different priorities for relationships and if you're going to be in one, you should be in one with someone who has similar priorities to you. Sex is important to me in a relationship. If I was single, I would be having sex, so I expect the same in a relationship. People who don't think sex is important should be with someone who agrees. And that's not to say temporary issues aren't fine - sex is important bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 04:15 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: For $1 million, would you be willing to permanently forgo sex/romance? If not, how much would you need?You can live in a mansion, fly on a private jet, have your favorite celebrities perform privately for you, travel the world on a luxury yacht, etc. None of these are things I would count as life experiences, or things I have any particular desire to do. Even if I was rich right now I wouldn't do any of those things, so seems a little silly to sacrifice my relationship to do things I have no interest in. Alternatively, I'm curious what your response to the follow up is. Imagine a time before you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 12:13 PM |
| 11 | Q4W: For $1 million, would you be willing to permanently forgo sex/romance? If not, how much would you need?No, not for any money. My husband means more to me than money, and imo money can't replace actual life experiences - sex/romance being one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 12:02 PM |
| 1 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themI don't really care if you believe it's the case. I've seen it happen in other relationships, where I certainly had no rose tinted glasses about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themI fully agree with that, and I would never put up with it. I saw it at home when I was growing up and I was determined I would never live like that. But for a lot of people it's not that simple. The behaviour doesn't start until they're already heavily invested for instance, and they don't want to "waste" the time they've already spent. Or it's all they've known and they think it's normal and unavoidable, but that doesn't mean they won't want to vent about how difficult it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 05:40 PM |
| 0 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themYes. If you could read, you would realise I had addressed that. The difference is barely anything if and only if the other person picks up their end of the chores. The difference is enormous if the other person doesn't pull their weight, which seems frequently to be the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 05:10 PM |
| 0 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themA weirdly large amount of difference. I'm a very neat cook, I prep strategically to use as few dishes as possible, I clean as I go so it's never a daunting task (even without a dishwasher since I never had one until I was nearly 30). My clothes are small and light and I averaged one load of washing per week when I lived alone. My husband uses every dish available and can't clean as he cooks as it stresses him out, so the kitchen is an unmitigated disaster once he's finished. Things left out, dis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 04:17 PM |
| -1 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themYou do know that pressing the button doesn't serve a purpose, unless you also do the work of - scraping the plates, loading the dishwasher, unloading at the other end and putting everything in the correct place. Sorting laundry where necessary, doing stain removal stuff where needed, adding to machine, removing from machine, hanging out to dry, ironing what needs ironed, folding/hanging and putting away. Reducing it to "pressing a button" is just dismissive, since doing either of these chores ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 01:30 PM |
| 10 | Do women generally experience shame about sex and their sexuality?Mature men of the type that people actually want to spend time with don't do this. It's nothing to do with shame, it's basically just not being an inappropriate, immature arsehole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 12:07 PM |
| 6 | What part of a man's personality are women attracted to?It's a connection and vibe thing more than specific parts of their personality, unfortunately it's not really a tick list "if you meet these criteria I'll be attracted" Like, I like humour - but it needs to be humour on a par with mine. We both need to find each other funny and have a sense of humour that's relatable to the other. Kindness and a laid back approach but paired with self respect. If they're nice to people and don't get too het up about the little things, but don't accept being trea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 12:51 PM |
| 3 | How do women in relationships react when they meet a man significantly more attractive and more successful than their current partner?What is your metric for this relationship being "decent but nothing special", because then you go on to talk about dates but nothing lavish. You do know that's absolutely nothing to do with how decent or special a relationship is? I'm not with my husband for his ability to shower buckets of money on me. Earning about the same is pretty much ideal in LTRs. In addition, when I met my husband he was unemployed. So literally every person I met was financially better off than him. We were seeing othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 09:07 AM |
| 2 | how much internalized shame do you think you experienced from purity, sexual, and ect expectations?None. I wasn't raised in a puritanical culture. I don't live in the US or a very religious place which I think helps. I also come from a long line of atheists so I never had any kind of religious undertones to my upbringing. My mum is a scientist and very matter of fact, taught my sister and I about sex and how to have sex safely and make sure it was on our terms etc and not being pressured into things. Very much open and honest conversations with the assumption being that we would be having sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 08:54 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I stayed at a hotel in the US once and the only food they offered for breakfast was sugar-coated donuts and a horribly sickly orange juice 🙈 I probably can't really judge given I come from the land of fry-ups, but at least if I eat a fry up it keeps me full all day and has token veg in the form of beans and tomatoes 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 10:58 AM |
| 0 | Whats the true minimum?Minimum height. I'm under 5ft and have never met anyone I thought was too short. So none. Minimum fintness level. Able to do normal everyday activities, go for walks etc. Minimum income. None as long as they live within their means. My husband was unemployed and on benefits when we met, but he lived within his means which is the most important thing. Maximum amount of unappealing male hobbies. I think it would be more about what the hobby is than how many there are or how gendered it is - I'm no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 08:08 PM |
| – | In your opinion, how would you like men to introduce sex into the relationship?I don't think I can help you with that. It's just natural. Like, there's a whole scenario with body language and closeness and stuff, and I've never found it anything but obvious what to do when I'm in that situation. It's kinda normal human behaviour and I don't think people on the internet are going to be able to teach you that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 11:27 AM |
| – | In your opinion, how would you like men to introduce sex into the relationship?I think if you're afraid of getting a sexual assault charge from kissing someone on the cheek that you're consensually on a date with, then you need to go to therapy before you start dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 06:07 AM |
| 3 | In your opinion, how would you like men to introduce sex into the relationship?His message is just a bit random and weird. Unless you've already established through chat that you're meeting up precisely to have sex then I think it's best initiated in person. You can see how the vibe is and go for it when it's appropriate instead of just messaging out of the blue when the recipient might just not be in a sex mood. If I'm initiating sex with someone I don't know well then I'd use body language and cues firstly to show that it's on the cards (sitting closer, leaning in, progr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 11:47 AM |
| 7 | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menIt's very different being called beautiful by someone you're on a date with though, and someone who doesn't even know what you look like and is just trying to get lucky. They aren't comparable things! Yes we all obviously want to be desired by the person we're dating, but being objectified as basically a walking fleshlight is not actually the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 05:36 PM |
| 5 | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menBut you're not going to find her attractive anymore. You'll just be sticking with her out of what - obligation? No one wants that. Far better to be with someone who isn't so rigid about a physical attribute that can change constantly throughout a person's life (hell, women's weight can fluctuate by half a stone every month just due to periods etc). But you're not above average. If you were you'd have people interested in you. It's almost like weight doesn't actually determine whether or not you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 01:46 PM |
| 5 | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menBut why, what's the difference? Fat is fat, right? So if you don't find it attractive, you're not going to find it attractive in context either. So you're a bad bet for a relationship. Depending on where you live, the majority of people in your dating pool are likely to be fat already or get fat as they get older. So it's a pretty high and unrealistic standard. And I don't necessarily think people should lower their standards, but if your standard cuts you out of dating then you need to accept t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 01:02 PM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menIt's a stupid standard though and you're a bad bet for a relationship because of it. Like, there's no point in ever entering a relationship with someone whose sole standard is "don't be fat", because it's indicative of a shallow, short sighted view and it will likely end badly. Most people gain weight as they age, and there are so many factors that can influence how someone's body looks - age, illness, injury, pregnancy etc. You want a doll who will never change, not a person. So buy a doll and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:45 PM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menYou need both. You can't rely on one person to fulfil all your emotional needs - it's probably a large factor in poor mental health for men. Loads of guys go absolutely off the deep end when their relationship ends because they suddenly have absolutely 0 support network. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:40 PM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menYou're missing the point - it's not that the individual person is desired, it's just that the guy is so desperate he'll literally hit up anyone with the right genitals. That isn't desire, it isn't anything to do with the recipient. Like, I've had guys slide into my DMs on various platforms over the years, starting the conversation with "hey beautiful, hey sexy, hey gorgeous" etc. When I have no pictures of myself on those platforms, so they have no idea what I look like. This isn't me being desi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:36 PM |
| 1 | What's your cutoff for sharing a high value man?Not necessarily. The majority of homeless people aren't rough sleeping - they're people who are between living situations for a variety of reasons. They could have the exact same financial status as someone renting or in a flat share etc but just haven't had the opportunity to organise the same for themselves (perhaps they got kicked out of living with family at short notice, had a relationship breakdown, needed to escape abuse etc and are in a temporary situation until they can get sorted). You… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?Assuming you live close to each other, frequent the same places, that isn't hard, but my point in general is that it is easier to have sex frequently with them than meeting new people every two days It's not though, due to all the reasons I listed above. I'm speaking from my personal experience, you know nothing about it and can't possibly comment on what's easier or not. It's definitely easier to just grab random sex off tinder than maintain a relationship. What does this even mean? How is it m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?It is certainly easier, you are together, and many will have sex every day or multiple times a day in the beginnings of a relationship and for some time Literally never been in a relationship where I saw them every day at the beginning, and I don't know anyone who has. Most people won't see their partner every day until they live with them which could be ages down the line. Relationships don’t really require much more than a close friendship, I'm sure you had friends, and it isn't that hard You'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?Actually you can, but in a club where the men aren't busy, or coupled ..etc Again, ease. I was an adult with a job and didn't fancy having to go to a club every time I wanted a shag. That's effort and expense, plus very limiting on the days. I often spent my weekends with friends so would tinder during the week. I definitely wasn't about to head to a club during the week. And there are coupled men in clubs, and men who are just there to hang out with their friends. It's not the same thing. Rando… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?I find it hard to believe you don't understand how it could be easier on tinder, but okay: Comfort of your own home to scroll through options, only engaging in conversation with people you've matched with and are theoretically looking for the same thing, so it removes a need to cold approach. It also widens the pool, because you're not limited just to people you might encounter out and about or people you already know. Plus makes it easy to filter out people you do already know, so removes the r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That's also what capitalism is, but without the benefits of socialism. Unlike capitalism though, all the labour would be benefitting society and it would be equally valued and you'd get actual benefits from doing it. Unlike now where often the people with the most necessary jobs are completely undervalued, underpaid and basically need to struggle to survive or raise a family etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 08:10 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You're making assumptions too, so you can't really criticise anyone else for doing the same. There are lots of ways it could be done. Could be allocated on a points system relating to skills/experience/education. Could be that people pick, say, their top 5 preferences - gaps are still filled based on skills/experience so you'd only get your preference if it's something you can do. Any remaining jobs go to those who don't have the skills to do their preferred role. For low skill jobs if there's l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Everyone can be whatever they want to be. They can't though. Not everyone is capable of doing the same jobs, and people would still need to have jobs in order to contribute to the running of society. Plus, just because you don't like a particular job doesn't mean everyone else feels the same. The argument I hear most often against socialism or things like universal income etc is "well there won't be any doctors or anything because everyone will just do easy customer service jobs". So while you s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Would you wait for a man for a man who said he wasn’t ready for sex, or would you simply break up with him?No would just cut my losses. Have never been interested in waiting a lengthy time for sex (or any time really) so we'd be better off with other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 11:26 PM |
| 6 | Would you wait for a man for a man who said he wasn’t ready for sex, or would you simply break up with him?Everyone is sexually compatible as long as they try and communicate. Not true at all. Some people just don't like the same things, and that's fine. No amount of communication will solve that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?Fair enough. I'd imagine lots of things can influence it. I was never brought up to believe sex is sacred. I'm not religious (come from a long line of atheists) and don't live in an area that's sexually repressive (I'm from the UK and in general from what I've seen of online conversations our approach to sex tends to be more easy going than the US for instance, where there still seems to be a lot of shame and stigma attached to sex). My mum is very practical and gave sex education early - we wer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?My parents broke up when I was about 2, my mum's been with my stepdad since I was 4 or 5. Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 12:11 PM |
| 4 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?Nope, never needed an emotional connection. All about chemistry. Not even necessarily physical attraction - I've slept with people I just met and didn't find particularly attractive, but the vibe was just right. Not sure what shaped my view on it, just never really viewed sex as a thing that required emotional connection. Where the emotional connection is there it brings a fun additional dynamic to sex, but it's not a requirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?Depends on the delusional thinking really. In this instance, not at all, particularly because I don't believe the delusional thinking you're referring to exists. I've known plenty fat people in relationships with gym guys/gym girls. It's not delusional at all for fat people to hold out for whoever they're attracted to, because they may well get it. And what isn't productive is people just settling for someone they don't like because some reddit dude thinks they're delusional. After all, the men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?Honestly, believing that "looks are subjective" along with hookup culture was the exact dangerous nonsense that fueled the body-positivity movement that told obese women that they didn't need to change and they deserved a guy with a six-pack just for existing. I think it's better for society if people just stayed in their lane and knew their place. Oh what an irrelevant little rant. Maybe people can just be attracted to whoever they're attracted to, and maybe that's nothing whatsoever to do with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?Yes its possible for a woman to be attracted to an average man, but she's definitely not going to be unattracted to the tall, jacked guy. But lots of women won't be attracted to that. Just because there are general trends in what are considered attractive traits (which realistically are often social and changeable - what's seen as attractive now wasn't necessarily what was attractive 100, 200, 500 years ago. Different countries/different cultures also have different trends in what they tend to f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?Looks are subjective though. There might be a lot of people who find that set of features attractive, but that doesn't mean a lot of people don't also actively find them unattractive, or are ambivalent to them. Also, people aren't just attracted to one thing (in general). None of my long term partners have had any resemblance to one another whatsoever, but I found them all attractive. Just because someone finds the tall/muscular thing attractive doesn't mean they don't also find a lot of other p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?Are they though? Or is that just based on your assumptions of what women are looking for? I've seen women I know hook up with a wide range of people, and in my experience there are huge variations in what individuals find attractive and go for in casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?It was 9 years ago, I can't remember who messaged who first 😅 I think I'm mostly attracted to people "on my level" but I find these kind of questions weird on this sub. The kind of people I find irresistibly attractive aren't the kind of people guys on this sub think I should find irresistibly attractive. I don't like guys who go the gym, I don't like tall guys, I don't like David Coulthard jawlines. Some of the features I find most attractive are ginger hair, dimples and a kinda scruffy aesthet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 07:15 PM |
| 9 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?No, I didn't want a relationship and was just hooking up with whoever I felt like with no real distinctions between them. Generally after 1st hook up they'd then be separated into "wouldn't hook up again" and "would hook up again", but just because I was happy to hook up with someone again didn't mean I would ever start to consider a relationship with them, it was more just on general vibe/friendliness and sexual compatibility. I didn't anticipate that this approach would lead to me meeting the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 06:04 PM |
| 8 | Why do so many women on here say they have lower physical standards for casual sex despite pretty much every study and most people's lived experiences saying otherwise?Or, as is much more common, they hook up via an app and continue hooking up. That's how I met my husband. My sister met her husband because she hooked up with him at a club and they kept hooking up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 05:45 PM |
| 1 | What sort of first dates/outings do you prefer ?Drinks or a fun activity, like pool. I personally wouldn't suggest dinner but I wasn't opposed to going for dinner if they suggested it, I like food. Yes I've approached guys for first dates. Mostly I was aiming to hook up rather than date so maybe that takes the pressure off a bit. Yes if I was chatting to someone I'd normally suggest to meet up within a day or so, don't see the point in dragging it out. I never really cared who made the first move and it's not something I was ever nervous of. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:47 PM |
| 3 | What do women value the most?Do you think men value the same things you do? I think everyone values different things at different times, and it isn't based on gender but on your personality and life circumstances. What do you spend the most free time, energy and money working and building towards? At the moment I'm pregnant, so both my husband and I are spending most of our free time, energy and money on preparing for the baby. Whether that's setting aside savings to prepare, or using our time and energy to get the house an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:35 PM |
| 10 | What do women even offer?In modern sense this means give them attention, energy, and wealth. Women repay this by giving the man sex They're frustrated because they don't actually understand functional relationships. The basis of a relationship isn't: man provides this, woman provides sex. You should both be providing reciprocal energy and attention. Wealth will depend on the couple as many people have none, so it's irrelevant to their relationship. For a modern couple with money though ideally both parties should be in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 11:55 AM |
| 17 | Women who ask their male partners to not use condoms are in the wrong morally.which respectfully, many men don't want to trust that. They'd rather just use a condom. Have you spoken to many men on this subject? Because in reality a significant proportion of guys seem to very much prefer to go without condoms if they can. I've seen multiple guys on this sub and others say they wouldn't be in a relationship with a woman if they had to wear a condom, because the only benefit of a LTR is for her to use birth control and him not to wear a condom. But realistically, as a woman,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 01:42 PM |
| 5 | Alimony Recipients Be Required to Do Domestic Labor.Alimony is meant to be a temporary arrangement to get someone back on their feet. Doing domestic work in return for it prevents that happening. So no, alimony recipients shouldn't be required to do domestic labour, as they should instead be spending their time looking for jobs/building skills/retraining etc to return to the workforce and regain financial independence asap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you hate a man if he divorced you for quitting your job?If I quit my job with no reason and no backup plan and no plans to find something else (and no prior agreement from my husband), I'd think it fairly reasonable for him to be unhappy with this scenario and potentially leave, since it would cause financial hardship and is a crazy selfish thing to do. If I got laid off that's an entirely different matter, since it would be no fault of my own. Besides which, if I got laid off I'd receive a year's worth of salary at least, so jumping to divorce after… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Realistically, what qualities would make you overlook a conventionally attractive man for an unattractive one?Well I'd need to find them attractive, even if they're not conventionally attractive. When I was younger, I quite liked two guys I worked with and they both liked me. One was tall, slim, defined jawline, probably what guys here mean when they say conventionally attractive. The other was short, obese, with a huge crooked nose. He's the one I went for. While he probably isn't seen as conventionally attractive, I found him very attractive. I thought his face was handsome, he had nice eyes and a gre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 12:29 AM |
| 24 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?Not really. I'm fine with a little bigger or smaller than average, and generally prefer it to be within that kind of average range. Bigger can bring discomfort and pain, and limit positions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 12:13 AM |
| 15 | Women on this sub, would you date someone who had a perineal urethrostomy?I hadn't heard of it so I've done some googling. Initial thoughts are yeah, can't see it being a problem. Doesn't seem to impact sexual function or continence etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her body"relationship gurus" sound like a bunch of quacks. It's not taking advantage of someone's hope. If you've set clear boundaries and they're sticking around then it's fair to assume they're happy with those boundaries. She could well be seeing other people on the side in the hopes of finding someone else for a relationship and not ever get hurt at all, and realistically if someone assured me they're fine to continue a sexual relationship when I'm not interested in anything more, then I'd assume th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 07:37 PM |
| 2 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyBut it's not true in this case. He's not doing anything exploitative or wrong. Yes she might get hurt but it's her that's taking the action to hurt herself, not him. There is nothing wrong with him having a sexual relationship with someone who willingly offers it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 06:51 PM |
| 2 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyThey're an adult and can make their own decisions. If they only want sex as part of a committed relationship they shouldn't have sex until they're in a committed relationship. Having sex in the hopes that will allow them to obtain a relationship is completely obtuse and they only have themselves to blame when it doesn't work out like that. Since in this scenario the man has communicated that they aren't interested in a relationship, if the woman then decides to have sex then he can assume she's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 06:06 PM |
| 2 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyGood god this is a batshit take. It's not "to repeatedly use" if they both want the sex. It's a mutual agreement to have sex with each other. If one party isn't happy that's all that's on offer, the onus is on them to move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 09:31 AM |
| 5 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyNah. She's a grown woman, she can make that decision for herself. For all he knows she could be sleeping with him and made peace with the fact he doesn't want a relationship, and is still dating other people on the side to find the relationship. If he's made his stance clear on not wanting a relationship then that's all he has to do, it's up to her whether she wants to accept what he's offering or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 09:29 AM |
| – | Pretending to be Wonder WomanIt's nothing to do with Reddit. I know plenty of people your age who have never been on reddit yet their husbands can't/won't cook. That's not to say it's everyone - my step dad is in his 50's and is an excellent cook (and my mother freely gives him credit for doing the Christmas dinner and all the other cooking he does. She would never try claiming she'd done the Christmas cooking, although she's also an excellent cook and perfectly capable of cooking a Christmas dinner. Unfortunately my stepda… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 01:21 AM |
| – | Pretending to be Wonder WomanJust before Christmas I was having a conversation with two women I work with. They were asking how my Christmas prep was going and did I have a lot of people to buy for? I said I only had a handful, my husband dealt with his side and I dealt with mine and it kept it quite easy to manage. They were both gobsmacked and went on for a bit about how lucky I am and how they wished their husbands would do that, since they need to do all the shopping for everyone. I'm a younger generation than them whic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 12:37 AM |
| – | Pretending to be Wonder WomanEh. Plenty people still iron 😅 I'm only in my early 30s and I still iron. Synthetic clothes aren't wrinkle proof in the slightest. Most of my clothes are synthetic or blends and maybe a third of my wardrobe looks good without ironing, another third I can get away with (but looks better if it is ironed) and the other third is absolutely unwearable unless I iron it. Judging by the fact most of the people I work with don't come in looking like they've just rolled out of bed, I'd say the majority of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Women do you want your partners to do this ?No I don't want any of this. • Paying for first dates I always insist on splitting the first few dates. Once you're more established you can take turns or treat each other when you want etc but definitely best to start off splitting the bill. • Buying flowers weekly without asking No. As someone else said this is a crazy amount of flowers! And a waste of money. • 'Sidewalk rule' I'm guessing this is where they walk on the outside of the pavement? Since people no longer chuck their waste out of w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 09:33 AM |
| 6 | Q4W who identify with feminism. Are there any priveleges that mostly benefit women you’re advocating to give up in the name of equality.None of the privileges you've listed apply to me particularly so I don't really see them as privileges, and some of them really aren't even privileges they're just random things. I've put specifics down below in relation to your post but added my general thoughts here first. I can't think of anything that I have that I would need to give up for men to be equal, but a major improvement could be made for men to try and make things more equal: Men should have equal parental leave to women. It shoul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 04:36 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How is it too many details, the OP asked for a description and seemed to want more than just "shiny, pretty" 😅 We discussed rings beforehand and I sent him a bunch of different examples from pinterest/websites etc and he picked from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 12:06 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Just over 3.5 years ago so not particularly recently, why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 11:47 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My engagement ring is a trilogy - round brilliant cut salt and pepper diamond as the centre stone, standard diamonds on either side and then pave shoulders. Wedding ring is a half eternity ring so the pave diamonds on both rings match up with each other :) both platinum, very thin and delicate bands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 11:09 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My engagement ring is a trilogy - round brilliant cut salt and pepper diamond as the centre stone, standard diamonds on either side and then pave shoulders. Wedding ring is a half eternity ring so the pave diamonds on both rings match up with each other :) both platinum, very thin and delicate bands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.How exactly is that going to demonstrate your point? Dating apps don't tend to be full of people showcasing who they're already dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Why don’t women find effort as attractive as men do?The post directly above this claims that men care about nothing but hotness, and as long as they find the woman attractive nothing else matters. So which is it? Maybe get together and get your stories straight before proclaiming all these contradictory sweeping generalisations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Where do you see women dating the fat unkempt neckbeards that say, "Heyyyy Sallyyyy!!!!" Where do you see men dating the female equivalent of a fat unkempt neckbeard? You don't, unless it's two of them dating each other (I know several couples like this. But I also know several fat unkempt weird perpetually single women who have never had a relationship/date whereas every very fat and unkempt man I've known, no matter how weird, has had at least some relationship/dating experience. None of them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?A betrayal of trust is a betrayal of trust. Who's to say they've not been checking your phone periodically since then but just admitting to 14 years ago to test the waters? It's never crossed my mind to betray my partner's privacy and lie to them, and it's not behaviour I'd find acceptable from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?Lying, hiding things, doing things in secret. Is a terrible basis for a relationship. It's exactly the same as snooping on someone's phone or whatever. It's a lack of trust and a betrayal. I wouldn't stick around if I caught someone doing either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?Excellent basis for a relationship, that. Just like anything else of that nature, if it's ever found out it would immediately be the end of the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?No, it is everything to do with facts. It is a fact that a paternity test request is almost always to do with a lack of trust, whether justified or not. You have no requirement to be in a relationship where your partner doesn't want a paternity test, but on the flip side no one has the requirement to stay in a relationship with a partner who doesn't trust them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?Yes. But your comments don't change my opinion, because they're basically paranoid ramblings and don't justify the idea of requesting a paternity test in every situation where you're expecting a baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?Chimerism can cause the mother to not show as the mum. In any case if you suspect chimerism then you'd undergo genetic testing of the child, not a paternity test. It's not a reason to have a paternity test. Secret sexual assault (your medical example counts as that) is also not a reason to test for paternity. Because realistically if the mum doesn't know she's been assaulted and has no explanation then you're just going to accuse her of infidelity and leave anyway for something that wasn't her f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?multiple There are not multiple scenarios. There are two highly unlikely scenarios which aren't calls for a paternity test, they're calls for both parents to discuss a DNA test for both of them, as both scenarios make it equally likely that the mum isn't actually the mum. It is a completely different scenario to just getting a paternity test apropos of nothing. because I’m aware of the whole host of other possibilities. But there aren't a host of other possibilities. You are accusing her of infi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?The partner would be aware of sperm donation. If he wasn't that counts as infidelity, so not relevant. The partner would be aware of adoption. Obviously. Since there's no pregnancy. This would maybe be more relevant to the child finding out their dad isn't their bio dad, but not the dad. Not relevant. Heteropaternal superfecundation would result from infidelity since she would have needed to have slept with both guys. So not relevant. Infidelity we've discussed. Paternity fraud also obviously go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?Such as? If you're thinking switched at birth, that would fall under the "reasonable reasons to get DNA testing (not specifically paternity testing)" because the child looks nothing like either of you or whatever. However, that also isn't generally applicable here (UK) because your baby stays with you until you leave the hospital. What are the other number of ways this could happen? Not counting any reasonable reasons to suggest testing (such as a swingers/poly lifestyle, pregnancy via casual se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 11:02 AM |
| 3 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?It's the only way to look at it. A paternity test is an accusation of cheating. Since it can't ever actually rule out cheating regardless of the results, then the requirement to have one means the relationship cannot continue, because there will never be trust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 10:22 AM |
| 3 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?So question is do you not believe it’s possible for a man to trust you very much and not believe you’d ever do such a thing, but also acknowledge that trust isn’t a reliable measure in reality and just as a backup verify what his heart tells him anyway? Or do you genuinely believe that if he gets one he doesn’t trust you at some pretty significant level and the relationship is doomed? Yep. If you're in a committed relationship and actively trying for a baby and surprise surprise a pregnancy happ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 10:17 AM |
| 7 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?How do you know though? I see a lot of guys say this, but realistically do you actually know if someone is playing games or are you just assuming they are because they don't want sex immediately? Unless you're only dating people in your immediate social circle then you won't know what her history is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 05:27 PM |
| 21 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?Well, I'm wifed up because we love each other and are really compatible and decided we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together, but yes neither of us are the type to play games and we wouldn't be interested in being with someone who was. I enjoy sex, and sexual compatibility is extremely important to me, so I never saw the benefit in waiting (certainly not waiting for some and not waiting for others). If I wanted to have sex with someone then I would. However, people wanting to take thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 03:28 PM |
| 38 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?But the reverse is not true. Uh. Well it is though. My husband is certainly husband material, and I shagged him on the first date. The difference between him and hook up material is that I kept seeing him and it eventually turned into a relationship. I was also more conscientious towards him. I remember a hook up getting really mad at me once because I hadn't bothered to text him after we'd hooked up (he messaged a few weeks later to pick a fight about it). When I didn't feel the need to message… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Women ,how do you prefer to split bills in your relationship and after *if* you have kids ?Dating: split things down the middle of a meal, if drinks take turns buying rounds or whatever. After a couple of dates can do turn about/reciprocal or continue to split for the most part. I'm not super fussed on what dates should be, but I don't think early dates should be too fancy or expensive, as they should be a relaxed atmosphere that's easily affordable for both parties and allows you to get to know each other. Grab some food, some drinks, play some pool, whatever. In a relationship: same… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 09:19 AM |
| – | Don’t women not really care about how a man dresses & isn’t wearing nice clothes just something guys y’all aren’t as physically attracted to can attempt to use to add points?You probably do subconsciously. How people dress and style themselves has a huge impact on how they get on in the world, from relationships to the workplace. Even if you're not aware of it, you have unconscious biases based on the appearances of the people around you and you'll be more likely to react favourably to people who style themselves in a way that's pleasing to you. If you asked me what someone was wearing 20 minutes after I saw them I probably couldn't tell you (unless it was very dist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 11:47 PM |
| – | Don’t women not really care about how a man dresses & isn’t wearing nice clothes just something guys y’all aren’t as physically attracted to can attempt to use to add points?Clothes and styling are immensely important. Have you ever seen the actors from Big Bang Theory on the red carpet? On the show they're styled to be as unattractive as possible, in unflattering clothes and crap hair cuts. But when they're styled to look good they look 1000x more attractive. Obviously that's from one extreme to the other so they probably look somewhere in the middle in reality, but clothes and styling make a gigantic difference. Clothes also send signals about personality. I would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 06:02 PM |
| 2 | What would your response to be to your date/partner opening up to you ?I've never been in a relationship where my partner hasn't been emotionally open with me. My husband and ex LTR partners have all cried in front of me. As has my dad, my stepdad, and occasional men I've worked with. It's normal and expected, and my response is the same as it is for women - give them whatever support they need in that moment and ensure to check up on them afterwards and make sure they're okay/see if they need follow up support. Depending on the situation it might also take the for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Feminism largely ignores women's part in shaping men and causing men mental issues.I am a man and women do any kind of work way better than men if only hired, I disagree with this, I think men and women can both be equally competent in their work, it's more down to the individual than gendered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 07:48 PM |
| 12 | Feminism largely ignores women's part in shaping men and causing men mental issues.That's not "needing a man" though. That's just needing anyone qualified to do it. Just because these are roles that were traditionally very hard or impossible to get into for women (for instance women weren't actually previously allowed to be police officers or firefighters, and restrictions on what they could do really hindered them from joining for a long time. Yet numbers continue to grow), doesn't mean women aren't capable of doing them. Lots of men in my work come to me for tech support. Wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:35 PM |
| 3 | How much is a decent price for an engagement ring?Very much dependent on taste and lifestyle. You want something that the recipient will like and it should ideally last a lifetime. But it should also be affordable - no point putting yourself into debt over anything relating to a wedding. I see people online talking about rings costing 3, 4, 5k or more and it's madness to me (I'd be terrified to wear it!) but I suppose for very well off people this isn't as much of a consideration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 01:22 PM |
| 2 | How much is a decent price for an engagement ring?Why? I have a 50/50 relationship and I got my husband his own engagement gift. That seems a better option all around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Why do women always seem to have a problem with another woman at work ?Yeah I work in banking, which is still male dominated in the upper echelons, but until you get pretty high up it's a fairly even split (at least in the bank I work for anyway). So probably a different dynamic as there's not really the sense you have to be careful as a woman or be better/work harder then a man to do just as well as him. Equal opportunities to do well but also equal opportunity to behave badly if you're so inclined I suppose 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Why do women always seem to have a problem with another woman at work ?I've just never noticed a gendered difference in it in my experiences. I've worked with bitchy and gossipy men and women! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 11:58 AM |
| 12 | Why do women always seem to have a problem with another woman at work ?That's because they're gossiping about you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs?I never really discussed politics with people I hooked up with so I'm sure I probably hooked up with people who don't politically align with me. I would never date or be in a relationship with someone who doesn't though. I don't feel like it's something that can work long term unless you really don't care about the world around you. That doesn't mean we need to be matching on everything - there are a few areas where my husband and I don't quite match up (I'm staunchly anti death penalty and don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 10:19 AM |
| – | In relationships where couples choose not to have children, explain why spousal support exists?95% of the population don't suffer or have anything to do with this. In the US alimony is currently awarded in around 10% of divorces, some of them involving children. So an even tinier percentage where children aren't involved. It's a very niche issue that will never affect you or really anyone you know, so why worry about it? It generally will precisely be in cases where a wealthy spouse has a stay at home spouse to do all the general household management. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Why do you on average like masculine men so much if they often times cause so much trouble?Again, a completely irrelevant rant. I don't give a fuck what men looking for success with women are looking for. None of my comments on this thread are intended as advice or a roadmap to follow. I'm merely answering a question. You seem to be the one getting all offended because you're taking it as advice, even when there is literally nothing whatsoever about any of this thread that suggests it is such. My words are proof of nothing of the sort, and it again highlights how dumb you are if you t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 08:01 PM |
| – | Why do you on average like masculine men so much if they often times cause so much trouble?🤦 Honestly I don't understand how some of you manage to get through life with this little brain power. Literally the very first thing I mentioned was his attractive features. And the OPs question is already assuming the men in question are physically attractive. He is asking why women like physically attractive men when that apparently makes them dickheads. How would it be relevant for me to say "he's real hot tho" when that's not actually the answer. I have met many attractive people in my life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 05:13 PM |
| – | Why do you on average like masculine men so much if they often times cause so much trouble?He really is ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 03:35 PM |
| – | Why do you on average like masculine men so much if they often times cause so much trouble?What the guy is trying to get at is, women, when asked these questions, will jump to saying, “He’s lovely and kind,” when what really matters is, first, if he’s physically attractive. The OP I'm responding to asked why women like men who have attractive masculine traits, when that apparently means they must be bad people. So my response is mostly focused on personality because it's a response specifically to the question; the question already assumes physical attraction is there. Besides which I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 03:33 PM |
| – | Why do you on average like masculine men so much if they often times cause so much trouble?Why is is frustrating when women talk about the good personality traits? I don't understand that at all. Why on earth would you assume someone wants to be with you when they find you ugly? If a guy said to me he likes women who are [insert personality traits here] I'm not enough of a moron to think 'oh I have those he must like me' when there are so many things that go into attraction and it's not a tick box exercise. No wonder you all complain about women ditching relationships for "no reason" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 02:05 PM |
| – | Why do you on average like masculine men so much if they often times cause so much trouble?Yes... why wouldn't we want to be with people we find attractive and nice? Bit of a weird thing to complain about tbh. Guys on here constantly complain about the thought of being chosen for their personality but not their attractiveness, since no one wants their partner not to find them attractive. So what exactly is the problem there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 01:23 PM |
| – | Why do you on average like masculine men so much if they often times cause so much trouble?What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 01:01 PM |
| – | Why do you on average like masculine men so much if they often times cause so much trouble?I don't think he is the exception, I think a lot of you guys like to think guys like him are the exception because it makes you feel better about yourself. You can't simultaneously claim that handsome/masculine men are nicer and kinder than other men because they're accepted by society, while also claiming that they're horrible people who bully and seek dominance over others. It doesn't work like that. So which is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 12:58 PM |
| – | Why do you on average like masculine men so much if they often times cause so much trouble?😅 yes, being kind must be a front when you can't fathom actually just being a kind person because that's who you are. He is a genuinely sweet and lovely man in all areas of his life. He doesn't have a workplace to bully anyone in - he works mostly alone, in other people's houses. He gets given sweets, money, tea, gifts etc by his customers because he's so nice to them. I know all his friends and family and, with his family he's the one "they don't know what they would do without" because he's so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 12:21 PM |
| – | Why do you on average like masculine men so much if they often times cause so much trouble?Sorry 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 12:05 PM |
| – | Why do you on average like masculine men so much if they often times cause so much trouble?Just because a guy looks masculine doesn't mean he has to be a dick, realistically. My husband can grow a magnificent beard, has a wonderfully full, hairy chest, has beautifully broad shoulders. The first time my dad met him he said to me afterwards "I like this one, he looks like a proper man". And he's also the sweetest, kindest person I've ever known. He isn't particularly competitive, he can be assertive if he needs to be but generally prefers a chill and laid back approach to life, he's fun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 11:47 AM |
| 2 | q4w: what is a skill that you learned that makes you insanely hot?I'm actually really good at BBQing and my husband humped my leg when I made low n slow smoked brisket, so I'd say he finds that pretty hot. He has a similar reaction to many other things I make, so possibly just being a really good cook in general. Also he says it's "weirdly hot" when I gut, skin, or butcher meat. Even just spatchcocking a chicken, he loves that I'm competent at it and have no hint of squeamishness. These might be things that are only hot to my husband 😅 but that's good enough f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 09:30 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADDeer are pests and are culled in a lot of places. Since they'll be killed anyway it's much more worthwhile to eat them! Plus, less wasteful and more environmentally friendly than farmed meat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 10:55 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI don't know if they'll have similar where you live, but where I am there's a Facebook group for people giving away game or selling direct to customers for lower prices. Game dealers pay crap so a lot of the hunters prefer to go direct to the consumer as it's less hassle. I've seen whole deer go on there for as little as £25. I got a bunch of rabbits once in exchange for a 4 pack of beer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:48 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD7.5 💪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 06:03 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🤣 haha indeed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 05:53 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI think ChatGPT fancies me 🤣 In the image, you have striking features that stand out beautifully. Your eyes are large and expressive, with a soft, warm tone that draws attention, accentuated by defined eyeliner and subtle eyeshadow. Your skin appears smooth with a natural, even tone. Your lips are full and well-shaped, with a rose-pink lipstick that suits your complexion nicely. Your hairstyle includes long, dark hair with bangs that fall just above your eyebrows, framing your face softly. The b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 05:17 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNo I don't think it's reasonable. Is this how he's always looked? If so why is she with him? If he used to be jacked and now isn't, why is she so shallow as to expect that his body won't change as he gets older? Shouldn't be in a relationship at all if you're not willing to accept that scenario and still remain attracted to your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 10:53 AM |
| 0 | It's significantly easier for women to cheat whereas the only time men are able to is when another woman encourages him do so.None of these men ever have the opportunity or time to cheat by themselves, That's not actually true though. Why do you guys sit and think "well I can't have sex with anyone thus it must be true for all men" Most men have sex, most men are perfectly capable of pursuing women and cheating with them (if so inclined), without the woman needing to make the first move. You all go on and on and on about how women never initiate and men do all the work to get sex. But somehow this isn't the case when t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Women, do you prefer passionate sex or do you prefer routine sex(with someone who knows you well)?Well you don't need to orgasm every time for the sex to still be better in general so I get it from that perspective I guess. I just don't personally think I'd be orgasming more from sex that felt routine, because there is a mental component to orgasms as well as the physical side. She may differ in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 08:41 AM |
| 3 | Women, do you prefer passionate sex or do you prefer routine sex(with someone who knows you well)?I don't really get this question because I'm not sure your example is comparable to anything in real life. My husband knows me very well sexually, we're both great at giving each other orgasms, and sex is hot and passionate, never "robotic". I can't imagine robotic/routine sex would lead to orgasms because it would be a turn off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 08:15 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNote use of the word "most". Just because you've seen a few takes from the odd woman doesn't mean anything. Most women aren't into that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhat makes you think she isn't damaged? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADBecause most women don't actually pine for that kind of guy, you all just like to believe it so you can pretend to yourself that's why women don't like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADA lot of women who are abused have other problems in their life that lead to this. Such as growing up in an abusive household, having mental health problems etc. this can make it harder to identify red flags, and/or their self-worth is so low that they don't realise it's unacceptable (or they think it's all they can get). It's the same as men who feel stuck in an abusive relationship. It's easy for us on the outside to say "well you should just leave. Well you should have just picked better". Bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 11:06 AM |
| 4 | Do you generally heed the advice that your father (assuming he has your best interests at heart) gives when it comes to interacting with men? Why or why not?Yep plenty of life experience and very good with women. Certainly wouldn't have wanted the kind of life I'd have had were I to end up with someone similar, since he's unreliable and flakey. But I've always been in relationships with guys who are genuinely nice, kind, good to their families etc, and my husband is no exception. My dad really likes my husband actually, I think he's pleased that I ended up with someone his complete opposite 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 09:50 AM |
| – | Do you generally heed the advice that your father (assuming he has your best interests at heart) gives when it comes to interacting with men? Why or why not?I'm not sure my dad has ever really given me relationship advice, apart from to say that men are a bunch of scrotes and I should join a nunnery. I did not heed this advice. I don't think he's in the best place to give relationship advice really, since he cheated on my mum then bounced around different girlfriends for years before marrying a woman he'd been friends with for a few decades. They were both alcoholics and had a destructive co-dependent relationship until her alcoholism killed her, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 08:20 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADFair! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 09:17 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADSometimes I feel like I spend too much time here so I'm quite gratified to find that's probably not the case then 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 09:17 AM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADBecause it's nothing to do with you. Worry about your own body, it's the only one that's really any of your business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 09:46 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'm not sure if I post enough to play this, but curious to see 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADUtter dickhead behaviour. Happens far too often that one of these wankers take out people who are just trying to get on with their day. If they crash they should just be left on the side of the road to die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 10:33 PM |
| 0 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNot necessarily, but it was really bad. And the older you get and the more in their head they get about not having had sex, the worst it's likely to be. Why would I bother with that? Why would anyone feel like I owe it to them to bother with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 05:46 PM |
| -2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIt's annoying unless you're both inexperienced. Most people don't want to be teachers, most people are bad at teaching and have no patience for it. Even if they can do it, it's annoying to have to do it. I spend a lot of my time at work teaching people stuff, I don't really want to have to do it in my personal time. Plus when I was like 19 I hooked up with a virgin guy in his 20s, he got super nervous and weird but still wanted to go ahead, then came immediately, got embarrassed and left. I was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 05:33 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: would you like being apporached in a bar when you are with your girl friends for a night out? If so, how?I never minded it when I was single. Some approaches that can work: Talk to someone when they're alone at the bar waiting for a drink, and you're doing the same. It's kinda low stakes because you both get company while you wait, and if either of you isn't feeling it then you can simply walk away once you get your drink. Generally if 2 or more guys approached as a group and integrated themselves into the group, at least one would manage to pair off with someone. This probably works best if you're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Curious what women view as "good guys"1) Women who tell a male friend "your a good guy, you'll find someone eventually." What traits would such a guy have and how would that make him desirable? I've never said that to anyone as far as I recall. There are common traits that good people have but on their own they aren't necessarily going to lead to attraction - there are a lot of other components to compatibility and attraction. 2) What traits do you yourself find desirable in a good man? If we're just talking about what makes someone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 04:03 PM |
| 10 | Q4A: What are your most "self-contradictory" attractions?I love to scoop my husband up in my arms, stroke his hair, make him feel warm and safe. But I also find it very attractive when he does the same to me. We take turns 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 01:58 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI love it, but I live in the UK and I think it's just standard to have a duvet here to be honest! I've occasionally slept in beds with just sheets & blankets when abroad and I hate it, so weird. Duvets are snuggly and cosy. We have a king size bed with a super king duvet so we have plenty to go around and it's just lovely. Easier to make the bed with a duvet too and it looks so much more inviting :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 01:50 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI sleep naked. Sleep routine is normally brush teeth/wash face, undress. Snuggle up in bed just before my husband comes through so I can watch him get naked from my duvet nest. Sometimes he treats me to a little helicopter action. Then cuddles/sex/reading/phone scrolling until it's time to fall asleep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 01:16 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'd call them out on it, just as I've called out women who've done similar. It's one thing to say you're done with relationships for a while or whatever, but going on about how one gender deserves less because you had an issue with one person is just a crap and unhelpful way to react to something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 01:07 PM |
| 0 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThank you for confirming my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 09:13 AM |
| -1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADBut then decided he never will again because what, they didn't fuck him or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 08:40 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI live in a city in the UK. I know precisely one person who knows anything about cars because he used to be a mechanic (and he struggles to fix things now because most car issues are now computer related and can't be sorted on the driveway). Literally everyone else relies on breakdown cover and the repair place. It's not the norm or the expectation here to be able to do your own car repairs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 08:38 AM |
| -1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIn hindsight, I would never do that again. Society and especially women don't deserve my help. They probably went to go fuck an alpha dude that very night. Maybe they can ask a bear to start their car next time. Where's that guy who was insisting men are selfless and happy to help anyone when you need him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 08:25 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThat's fair enough! I like jeans but not in the winter (too rainy here, I find jeans miserable in the wet). For winter walks and things I like my scruffy but comfy fleece-lined waterproofs but they're too warm if I go inside 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI wear dresses all the time in winter. I always have thick tights though, it doesn't get particularly warm here the rest of the year, and on the odd occasion it is I'd just not wear tights. There's something really cosy about a dress, thick tights, snuggly socks and winter boots on the bottom, with a cardigan/coat/hat/scarf on top ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Men dont love harderThat's hardly a failing of men though; it's not like they could do it if they wanted to and choose not to. And women who do it are generally choosing to do it - if they didn't want to they could just opt not to, after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 11:24 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHaha I know it was more tongue in cheek. Yeah I don't have any requirements like that. I guess I require someone who isn't dangerously underweight or morbidly obese but I'm neither. I prefer people whose general lifestyle and activity level is compatible with my own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 06:25 PM |
| 5 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIt's not really a standard but I love gingers and dimples despite not being ginger or dimpled myself. Despite this hypocrisy I managed to entrap my dimpled and ginger-adjacent husband. I actually genuinely don't think I have any hypocritical standards though, and that's not a lack of self awareness, just don't have any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 05:54 PM |
| 3 | How does a man’s lifestyle affect his attraction level.Neither. "Very active" is a no. I enjoy a healthy amount of activity but in general I embrace my fellow slug life people Anyone who earns 6 figures is probably immediately out because their work life balance is probably shockingly bad. And I've been scarred from working customer service as a youngster - people who earn a lot of money are atrocious people like 90% of the time There's a nice balance between "always has plans with everyone" and "never has plans with anyone" that neither of these ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 05:47 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThe OP is right though. The average age of first birth here is around 31, and medical advice states there's no problem to have kids in your 30s. If you're healthy and don't already have something affecting your fertility then it should make little difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 03:38 PM |
| 12 | Why do women expect men to use protect them?It's not anything to do with gender roles though. It's just incidental that he happened to be a man, and he's reading too much into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 12:48 PM |
| 15 | Why do women expect men to use protect them?I highly doubt she was. It's natural to seek safety in numbers. If you're perceived to be amongst others you're less likely to be singled out for anything, so just the action of grouping up together de-escalates the situation and actively prevents any "protection" needing to take place. It is absolutely wild that you're all pretending not to understand that, because literally every normal human being does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 12:27 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYou have no idea of the background though and are just assuming the worst because you're projecting your own weird ideas onto the situation. Like sure, maybe her friends are jealous. But having seen and been involved in these situations it's much more likely to be: the person chatting to the bouncer is a flirty drunk but is actually in a relationship so her friends were taking her away before she could do something she'll regret she's got something on in the morning and needs to be up early and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Do you know any younger, never-married single mothers? If so, how is their dating life?I can only think of one woman off the top of my head who fits this description, a woman I used to work with, although was a few years ago so not sure on her current situation. She was about 27 I think, kid was about 7. When I worked with her she was living with a long term boyfriend. Prior to that she'd been in a relationship for a few years with another guy at work who was lusted after by quite a few people (so I assume she was happy with her options). I don't think she ever had any trouble dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 10:34 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHow fucking stupid are you? They obviously can adapt - if you stick a single finger into a vagina then the vaginal walls press on it all the way around; it isn't empty space. Yet a baby can fit out of it, which is much bigger than a finger (or a penis). That doesn't mean larger penises are enjoyable. Just because something can fit, doesn't mean everyone wants it to. And just fyi, not wanting sex to hurt isn't "virtue signalling", it's actually just pretty fucking normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Question for the ladiesI wouldn't do it, and I don't think I'd continue to have a crush on a guy who was willing to cheat on his wife. Just gross. When I was single and on tinder I always turned down people who said they were married/in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 07:37 AM |
| 1 | How much does it matter that a man dresses well?I think the most important thing is being able to dress appropriately for the event/occasion. My husband mostly lives in cargo shorts and graphic/band tshirts. It's comfy, practical, and personally I think he looks good. For me it would only be a problem if he insisted on dressing like that to things like weddings, nice dinners, "events" that aren't just casual hanging out. While he's a mostly very casual dresser, he enjoys getting dolled up for events and will take any opportunity to put a kilt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: woman in the gym appears to be pinned under the weights and needs assistance. What do you do?I dunno, I've seen loads of men on this sub say they'd never help a woman under any circumstances, or only would if they were getting something out of it. So maybe this thread is full of the "virtue signalling" they all like to accuse women of so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 08:36 AM |
| 0 | Why do some women behave to attract sexual attention from men and lie about it?Just because you're aroused by something, doesn't mean the other person did that specifically for your arousal. Apart from the fetish vids, they're made to arouse people and aren't relevant to your post. My husband gets turned on by me wearing a significant portion of my "comfy practical" clothes. Am I meant to just buy and wear uncomfy impractical clothes out the house lest some man see me? No, because that would be fucking stupid. It's nice that he finds me hot in my leggings or whatever, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Would you be with someone after your partner sacrifice their life for you?my point is that you can't say that something isn't disrespectful I never said it wasn't disrespectful just because they won't know about it, you keep saying that. What I actually asked is why anyone cares. Why do you care so much about it? Why do you hate your partner so much that you want them to never ever find love, happiness, solace, whatever after you die? Why do you want that for anyone? And would you say that it would be disrespectful if a person hooked up with someone (especially if the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Would you be with someone after your partner sacrifice their life for you?Oh my God you're such a fucking idiot. Pissing on a grave MATTERS TO OTHER PEOPLE. It is not comparable to moving on with a relationship because it's illegal and disgusting. That is why you shouldn't piss on a grave. It obviously isn't going to matter to the dead person either because they'll be dead, it's still fucking gross though. Is it non-disrespectful no matter how much time has passed? How long would you wait? How the fuck am I meant to know how long? It really depends on everyone's indiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Would you be with someone after your partner sacrifice their life for you?But your point doesn't make sense because you're conflating two entirely different things. Peeing on someone's grave is disrespectful to living people, it's illegal, it's gross. Whether or not the dead person knows about it is irrelevant. But in terms of the dead person's imaginary feelings it's also a very different kettle of fish because one is a normal thing to do and the other is weird and vindictive. I wouldn't be with someone who was so silly and irrational tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 03:10 PM |
| 11 | Would you be with someone after your partner sacrifice their life for you?What a weird comment to make. How do you not see the difference in those things? How is pissing on the grave of the person you love going to help you move on and find happiness? It's a horrible and disrespectful thing to do and it disrespects everyone else there. That is fundamentally different from being able to find love and happiness and continue living life to the fullest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 12:25 AM |
| 18 | Would you be with someone after your partner sacrifice their life for you?But why? Men like to go on about how they're so logical and rational. Why hold a completely illogical and irrational fear? You'll be dead, it'll have nothing to do with you and you're not going to know about it. Why would that even register anywhere in your mind as a concern? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 11:19 PM |
| 16 | Would you be with someone after your partner sacrifice their life for you?Do most people fear this? Seems a very stupid fear. Of course I want my husband to move on and be happy when I die - I'll be dead, I'm not going to fucking know about it and what is the sense in him wasting his life pining? I would hope most people would be sensible enough to hold a similar position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 11:11 PM |
| 6 | Women, if a man left you because he wasn't the best you've ever had, would you be offended?Why would I be with him if he wasn't the best I'd ever had? I wouldn't be in this situation because I value sexual compatibility in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Rich, Handsome, and FaithfulThere's nothing wrong with minimum wage though. When I met my husband he was unemployed then on min wage for a bit. I bought my own place shortly after we met and I could afford all the expenses on my own, although when he moved in we then split bills/food, and he had a car, and we could afford holidays. We've had lifestyle creep over the years because our incomes increased, but he got a well paying job through pure chance and it wasn't something we would have predicted, since he'd spent his 20s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 10:16 PM |
| 5 | Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one.Wtf are you on. Have you never participated in family life or something? Were you just randomly hatched one day and now trying to learn about society from weird reddit subs? Genuinely curious, since your worldview is entirely fucked up. Since we all know unmarried people who function perfectly fine and are perfectly able to socialise with all members of their extended family. You must be a bit sheltered/reclusive/randomly hatched all by yourself to have not experienced it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 08:57 AM |
| 4 | Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one.I like my life as it is. But it wouldn't have any detrimental impact to me if they'd decided not to have me, since I would never have existed to know about it. I'm not anti procreation or anything - I want kids. I just think it's silly and self righteous to label it some selfless act when there is literally no reason to have kids that isn't selfish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 08:26 AM |
| 23 | Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one.First option hands down. Homeschooling your kids is guaranteed to turn them into little fucking weirdos, so that rules out option 2 immediately even without any other context. You could argue that having kids is the ultimate in selfish acts. Giving life to people who didn't ask for it just for your own gratification etc not to mention the environmental impacts. Almost everyone lives a selfish life, may as well choose the selfish option that makes you happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: are there any sex acts or kinks that you would do with a casual partner/hook-up/FWB but not with a long term partner or husband?Different strokes for different folks. I had a threesome with my husband and it was hot. For us, because it's a shared experience it's not something that made either of us feel territorial. We're both very sexually open, had threesomes before, and were confident it wouldn't cause us any problems. I totally get why it's different for others though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 02:09 PM |
| 12 | Q4W: are there any sex acts or kinks that you would do with a casual partner/hook-up/FWB but not with a long term partner or husband?Not in the slightest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?Obviously. I would probably suggest it, assuming I was stupid enough to have an unprotected orgy, which I'm not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 02:00 PM |
| 19 | Q4W: are there any sex acts or kinks that you would do with a casual partner/hook-up/FWB but not with a long term partner or husband?How childish is this guy. If a threesome is a deal breaker for him then he should only date someone who wants a threesome. If he's happy in the relationship and a threesome isn't a deal breaker, then it's fucking meaningless that his partner had one before. I've never spent my energy wondering or caring what any of my partners have done with their ex partners. It's meaningless and irrelevant to the current relationship. You need to decide if you're happy with the relationship based on what's hap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 12:13 PM |
| 27 | Q4W: are there any sex acts or kinks that you would do with a casual partner/hook-up/FWB but not with a long term partner or husband?No I've done far more weird/kinky shit with my husband than I ever did with hook ups, because we trust each other totally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 11:17 AM |
| 20 | Q4W: are there any sex acts or kinks that you would do with a casual partner/hook-up/FWB but not with a long term partner or husband?Not having a threesome while in a relationship is actually a reasonable boundary that a lot of men and women both hold. There's a high risk of it burning your relationship down if you're not both totally cool with it. One thing to watch someone you don't care about getting hot n heavy with someone else, quite another to watch someone you love. While it isn't a boundary I have, I can completely understand why some people would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 11:14 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Casual and LTR, what was defining about these experiences?Best Casual Experience: we just really clicked. It was hot and passionate and we just fit together. No awkwardness, no bumbling. Just sexy sex. Neutral: not quite on compatible rhythms, nice but not particularly exciting Bad: actively and purposefully disregarding my health and wellbeing (got stealthed). Best LTR: same as first one (my husband is my best casual and best LTR experience) but with love involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 10:10 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNah you can't really control what you're afraid of, I wouldn't mind. I'm fine with mice so I could sort it out. You only run into problems if you're both afraid of the same thing 😅 but that's not so much an ick, more "oh no we're being held hostage by a mouse" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 10:10 PM |
| 0 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThey might have working limbs but shit lungs 🤷 or be crap at walking down or over steep/rocky bits etc (whether through fear or lack of co-ordination). Or terrible sense of direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 12:10 PM |
| -1 | Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why?My husband and I are married and actively trying for a baby. If I get pregnant and he turns round and wants a paternity test then he's just accusing me of cheating when he has no basis for it. There is no point in continuing a relationship where there is no trust; I'd happily get the test so he knew it was his kid, but we couldn't be together anymore. Luckily my husband isn't a fucking psycho so this scenario will not happen. Good reasons for paternity tests: someone you're casually fucking gets… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Your cohabitating spouse or SO should have their own bedroom.Having a TV in your bedroom is a terrible idea. Bed death and insomnia lie down that road. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 08:19 PM |
| 7 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHow do you get through life with this level of overthinking? She has an Etsy store. She's following mutuals to spread the audience. Obviously. A bunch of restaurants and food bloggers in my city follow my Instagram. Do they want to fuck me? Obviously not - they want to promote their content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 10:41 PM |
| 3 | If there was a test that could confirm cheating, would you make your man take it?No. I trust him and have never had any reason to suspect he's cheating, therefore have no need of a test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 10:36 PM |
| 17 | Childrearing is not just "work" and if you think that way, then you shouldn't have kids!How long for? What did this routine look like for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 11:39 AM |
| 36 | Childrearing is not just "work" and if you think that way, then you shouldn't have kids!Have you ever looked after or even met a child? I have a niece and nephew, who I love. They're great children - adorable, smart, funny, well behaved. Looking after them is fun and enjoyable and fulfilling. But by the end of a day with them I'm utterly exhausted. It is far, far more exhausting than my actual paid job. You can be fulfilled by something and want to do it, but still acknowledge that it is hard, and it is work, and it is neverending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 11:18 AM |
| 7 | For women with a promiscuous past. Is your settle down partner a Ned Flanders compared against the guys you pulled in the past?I met my husband during my promiscuous phase and we were just casually hooking up at the beginning. He's hot, a wonderful person and legit the best sex I've ever had. Therefore we're married. He is also safe, reliable, stable and kind. Mind blowing as this might be to you, but attractive and sexually competent men can also be lovely people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADPretty good, just in bed now scrolling Reddit while waiting for my nails to dry so I can go to sleep 😅 Made chicken casserole today with a whole chicken and managed to stretch it to 14 portions so feeling both frugal and organised. Plus I used carrots from the garden - gardening has been shit this year because constant rain = actual army of slugs so most things have been decimated. But I've managed a really decent carrot crop for the first time ever, so that's making me happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 11:38 PM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADGod you're a fucking moron. The chemical response isn't fake, because it literally happens. No matter what fakery caused it, it still actually makes you feel you good because your body and brain trigger a chemical reaction that makes you feel good. What about this do you not understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 09:42 PM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADBut they don't actually think you're hot, so what is there to feel good about? If some rando is waxing lyrical about how I'm the hottest woman on earth I know he's lying in an attempt to get his dick wet, so how does it feel good? When I was younger I went on whisper and my DMs were flooded with guys going "hey beautiful" "hey sexy" blah blah. And it's just like... You don't know what I look like, I could be a fucking bridge troll. They say it to anyone. Same with dating apps, they'll just say w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 09:40 PM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNone of that is real though. This dude doesn't care about you. I mean, it's all fake. ...The sex is real. He didn't pretend to have sex. That happened, and that can still trigger the chemical response regardless of how the people feel about each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 09:34 PM |
| 0 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADhttps://images.app.goo.gl/mE6u9zJeS8d1JKys8 Obviously yes 😅 In seriousness, probably neutral. They can look great if styled nicely and well fitting etc, but can also look crap. Much like any other garment. You need to have a certain brooding goth aesthetic to pull off a leather duster, but paired with jeans & a t-shirt most guys probably suit a kinda biker style jacket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIf you think only ugly women value the things you do, has it not occurred to you that you're probably ugly too and should just be with an ugly woman then, or accept being alone and just do what you enjoy? You certainly have a very ugly attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHands and forearms, dick, bum, the whole neck/shoulder/collarbone area. I basically worship every inch of my husband, he's so beautiful. We were on holiday recently and the sun has brought out these beautiful golden/ginger tones in his arm hair and I was absolutely hypnotised by it yesterday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 03:52 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD😭 wtf why, what a shitty person she must be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 03:48 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIf your value is lowered in someone's eyes just for doing what you enjoy then they're not the person for you anyway. You should be able to do the things you enjoy and find someone who values that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 03:32 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYep, I developed a crush on him when I was a kid watching Black Books 😅 and it never really went away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 09:42 AM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADDylan Moran is a beautiful beautiful man 🙌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 09:31 AM |
| 1 | People shouldn’t expect potential lovers to always spend money on them or to want to do the same activitiesHah yeah that is a good point, we do end up distracted by what the other is doing quite a lot 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | People shouldn’t expect potential lovers to always spend money on them or to want to do the same activitiesI hope you get that! Our computers are side by side but it is nice just doing our own thing together in whatever configuration :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 07:33 PM |
| 2 | People shouldn’t expect potential lovers to always spend money on them or to want to do the same activitiesAnd then it probably makes sense to be with someone who also prefers to stay in and watch a movie, so there isn't a disconnect in lifestyle 🤷 I like to do stuff but I don't like doing stuff all the time and I'm quite introverted - I had a busy weekend last week with two social engagements. So it was really important to me to keep this weekend empty of plans and have time to just chill out and recharge. It's great that my husband is on the exact same page as we're getting a nice weekend to potter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 07:09 PM |
| 3 | People shouldn’t expect potential lovers to always spend money on them or to want to do the same activitiesNo way in hell do all of these men really want to be out here going to a bunch of restaurants going to countless museums Are you genuinely under the impression that men don't enjoy eating out or going to museums? Because there are plenty of men who do. And for women who enjoy these things I don't think it's at all unreasonable to just date guys who also like these things. What kind of miserable boring shit doesn't like nice food and museums, like seriously? Not someone I'd want to spend my life … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI used to work with a woman whose dad was a blacksmith. He made things like decorative banisters and stuff. I think there are also blacksmiths making tools, replica weapons etc - I did a blacksmithing workshop once and we made jewellery, but the person that ran it also made swords. I also viewed a house once that had a forge in one of the outbuildings that was to be included in the sale. My husband and I were so tempted to buy it just for that and take up blacksmithing 😅 but yeah it is a pretty … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 07:02 PM |
| 4 | In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against menIn the UK they can draft women and did in WWII. Probably a few places either have no draft or can draft men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 01:06 PM |
| – | Would you still be interested in a woman that sleeps with you on the first date?it's generally accepted that women do on average want casual sex less/have lower sex drives than men. being in the right place at the right time isn't so much a skill but does require people to do certain things. If you sit in your house playing games and not interacting with anyone, or only go to places where you see other men, you will never put yourself in a position to be in the right place. I'm not unique but it doesn't mean every other woman on the planet is exactly like me. There are wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 11:13 AM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'm very into him, but I'm not sure throwing underwear is a generally good benchmark for attraction 😅 some people probably just aren't the underwear throwing type! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 05:32 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI've tossed underwear at my husband but would literally never throw a bra at a band/celebrity. Bras are expensive, very poor investment to chuck them at some rando. My husband gives them back at least! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 05:12 PM |
| 6 | Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractiveBecause neither of the first two are true. I don't feel insecure around anyone's body and I'm also all for people showing off their strengths. Posting shirtless pics isn't showing off a strength though (everyone seems to be assuming it's someone with a "nice body" - do you still think it's a strength if a fat guy posts a shirtless pic?), it's just douchey. Like women posting ass pics or whatever - also douchey. I attach a negative personality trait to it because people who do those things normal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 08:21 PM |
| 9 | Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractiveWhat are you talking about? Are you even paying attention to what you're replying to? I was looking for hook ups. I did not swipe right on shirtless guys because they looked like douchebags. I didn't care what they were looking for, but being shirtless = douchebag usually. How is that settling or anything to do with what he's looking for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 01:50 PM |
| 12 | Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractive😅 why is that settling? Settling imo would be going for a giant douchebag. Life is much better when you're with people you vibe with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 01:39 PM |
| 7 | Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractiveI left swiped everyone with a shirtless pic because I assumed they were a giant douchebag. And right swiped a guy for having an adorable selfie with a goat. That was despite being on tinder specifically for hookups. I vastly preferred people with cute/funny pics than stupid poser pics. Different people like different things and not everyone likes shirtless pics. It's not misleading to acknowledge that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 01:26 PM |
| -2 | Would you still be interested in a woman that sleeps with you on the first date?Yep, basically whoever is convenient. I once realised I wanted some sex while walking home from a night out so literally just picked up the first guy I walked past. Tbh I have a fairly low bar for physical attraction anyway and I don't find most people ugly, which might have something to do with it. I do get turned off by very rotting teeth, that's the only thing I can think of that I'd actively filter out (just wouldn't want to kiss that mouth) but in my lifetime I've only met a handful of guys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Would it better for the guy to suggest something else fun rather than doing a chore as first date?Yeah I saw that post and I thought it was weird how into the idea everyone was 😅 but I don't see weeding as relaxing. I like gardening but weeding is just a necessary and somewhat unpleasant evil. My husband obviously helps with it because we made the decision together to get a place with a garden and we both live here and use it, but I'd never ask a friend, family member, or (if I became single) a random date to help. My go to for dates was always suggesting drinks because it's low pressure, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 09:57 AM |
| 0 | Would you still be interested in a woman that sleeps with you on the first date?Okay, then what is the standard for you to choose who’d you fuck on a one night stand? Physical attraction, right? Nope, not for me anyway. Basically the standard for ONS is "they are present and I'm horny". They could be ugly or whatever, as long as they were available and up for it at the right place/right time then that was it. But then I did sleep with my husband the first time I met him too, he just had that magic combination of great sex, hotness, great personality that meant it could turn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 09:38 AM |
| 0 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI feel uncomfortable when people pay for me (unless it's someone I know really well and I know I'll be reciprocating, like when I grab dinner with one of my friends we'll often take turns paying) so I really hate splitting on dates. So definitely not a deal breaker as I'd always proactively ensure I was paying my way anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 11:52 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADOften when I go out it's with work colleagues. We like to socialise but we don't necessarily want twenty of our colleagues crammed into the living room. It's not really reasonable to just expect people to stay in the house all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 11:19 AM |
| 2 | If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are?Nope, because I'm not the kind of person to read a study and apply it to my real life relationships. Since everyone who does that is unhappy and unable to find sex/relationships (judging by this sub), and I'm in a happy relationship, my personal study shows that my way is the preferable one. Also, regardless of likelihood of cheating etc, I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone who views sex differently to me. Someone who's a virgin/very inexperienced is extremely unlikely to view sex in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 11:34 AM |
| – | Would you want to be a man?A cold approach isn't mandatory, plenty of men never cold approach and do just fine without it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 09:07 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMy dad's 5'3 and my husband's about 5'8. What's your theory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 08:15 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWell this wouldn't happen in the first place. My husband's a very lovely man so through the course of his working day he is often plied him with chocolates, biscuits, fancy teas, even the odd fiver/tenner/twenty. Usually by women. But he doesn't work directly with colleagues so sees them maybe a couple of times a year for training, so he wouldn't be in this position with a colleague and having it regularly from the same person. If it did happen he'd probably be a bit oblivious and think she was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 03:56 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhen I was single I was only looking for hookups. Most guys will come back asking for seconds, thirds etc and I wasn't adverse to repeats, but there were a few things that would make me decide against it: I would refuse if the sex was poor, if they were trying too hard to be affectionate, texting too much/expecting too much of my time/wanting to be seen again too soon. In my experience a lot of guys get almost immediately quite clingy and needy when they discover someone who'll have sex with the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 10:17 AM |
| – | Why do women often prefer dad bods over six-packs?I don't really like the look of six packs. I like curves and round soft flesh. It's far more visually and tactilely satisfying. I could probably get past that if it was just a visual thing - I've often found myself falling for physical features I once disliked when I'm attracted to someone. But, it's also important that people date those who they're compatible with. I'm never going to be compatible with someone who spends all week in the gym, eats clean constantly, spends their days dehydrating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 05:59 PM |
| 6 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?Okay. I can't really be bothered responding to this individually because it's getting ridiculous. When it comes down to it, do you want your wife to enjoy sex as much as she enjoys washing the fucking dishes? If so, good for you, hope you never fucking marry. If not and you don't view sex as a distasteful chore that unfortunately needs to be done, then why the fuck do you want to turn it into that for your wife? They are not comparable things. I can't even fathom how brain-dead you have to be to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Why do you assume bluepill=simp ?I don’t think these dudes are in danger of single mothers wanting them. Definitely not. In danger of making it onto some kind of watch list maybe! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 04:07 PM |
| 8 | Why do you assume bluepill=simp ?🤮 good god I hope he never has children or is ever within 500 feet of any if he views them like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 04:05 PM |
| 9 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?Yes, and your wife is welcome to leave you for it (or never marry you in the first place) just as you are welcome to leave someone with a mismatched libido. I don't think you understand that the thought of having someone reluctantly dragging themselves around in a relationship is downright abhorrent and exceedingly unattractive. No one wants to be with people like that, those people fucking suck. Washing dishes and cleaning the house is an exception to this general thing because you need to do t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 04:04 PM |
| 7 | Why do you assume bluepill=simp ?What the fuck is a fuck trophy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 03:15 PM |
| 10 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?Well again, arousal might not happen, it isn't a done deal. And even if it does, resentment can still build. There's the whole part between arousal happening and them getting into it where it's just like a chore they're not really into. The more that happens the more irritating it will be and the harder it will be to get aroused, the more resentment will build. Leading to them generally wanting less sex in general. Repeat until dead bedroom happens because sex is no longer ever on their terms an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 06:48 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMaybe I'm biased because I'm from the UK and self deprecating humour is basically the norm here for everyone, but I don't think it's a turn off. Even mostly confident people should temper this with some jokes at their own expense lest they appear arrogant. It's not the done thing to think too highly of yourself or outwardly appear to think too highly of yourself 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 06:31 AM |
| 15 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?It might not, and also way to ignore the majority of my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 06:21 AM |
| – | Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?Why would you just not get it in your mouth though? I don't understand why you'd get it in your mouth then spit, you'd still have all the texture issues. Just get them to cum somewhere else?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 10:52 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADDude, I'm married. To a tatted up dude if that helps. But go on :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 10:50 PM |
| -3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'm not taking anything personally, I'm just giving you some clearly much needed life advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 10:40 PM |
| 14 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?I dunno, just quoting from the OP as that's apparently a thing men go to for their SOs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 10:39 PM |
| -4 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYou obviously don't get out or have any kind of life whatsoever if it comprises you sitting alone cry wanking over your little notebook of body counts. Like, seriously. Get a fucking life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 10:30 PM |
| -3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYou really need to get out more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 10:26 PM |
| 44 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?If you're not aroused sex is painful and can cause injury. Plus doing something just because your other half wants you to is a good way to build resentment. Do you know a lot of men who wax lyrical about going shopping or to Winter bloody Wonderland With their gfs/wives? No. Obviously they complain about it. It's a chore, it's tedious, it's the subject of jokes and ridicule and something they make clear they don't want to do. So think about this - is that how you want your wife or gf to view sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 08:39 PM |
| – | Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?I don't understand why anyone would spit - if it tastes bad spitting isn't going to remove the taste. Surely it's more usual to just finish with your hand and have them cum on your face/tits etc if you don't want to swallow. This is what I mostly do anyway and no one's ever thought it was weird so I assumed it was the norm 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 08:23 PM |
| – | Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup?I don't care about prenups but realistically I would never be in the position where we'd need one. I would never date the kind of person that assumes all men are ruined in a divorce and jealously guards his financed Ford Fiesta like I'm in the relationship to take it away from him. Likewise I wouldn't be with someone who thought marriage was one big conspiracy theory against men, because those guys are idiots and I don't need them in my life. I've been divorced and it cost my ex nothing. He had … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 02:25 PM |
| 1 | quick poll: would you date and/or have sex with a virgin man that is middle aged?That's fair enough. I think it's fair to want someone inexperienced if you're also inexperienced; generally you will have different attitudes to sex etc than someone who isn't experienced, so probably aren't compatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 02:12 PM |
| 1 | quick poll: would you date and/or have sex with a virgin man that is middle aged?Wouldn't date him, no. I've been in enough online spaces to know that if there's one thing inexperienced men hate above all else, it's a woman that's had sex. Absolutely can't be bothered with the judgement and jealousy that would likely arise. Plus there's almost no reason I can think of for him having no relationship experience that would be acceptable for me. I wouldn't date religious people, wouldn't date people who view sex as only a special thing that happens when a mummy and daddy love ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 11:01 PM |
| – | Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women.I don't understand this mindset at all. Tinder is basically down to who advertises themselves well and it's nothing about who you are as a person or how attractive you are in real life. It's not settling if someone meets you in person, is attracted and falls in love, even if your profile might not have stood out to them on OLD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 11:49 AM |
| 4 | Would you date someone who is bisexual?Personally I don't really get this point of view. Your everyday dynamics shouldn't be anything to do with submissive/dominant and shouldn't have anything to do with your bedroom dynamic. In addition, there's nothing unmanly about getting pegged or doing anything else sexually submissive. I peg my husband occasionally and it's fucking hot - nothing better than a guy being open sexually. Guys who are overly concerned with being viewed as masculine are a massive turnoff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How problematic would it be for a 37 man to have braces?It wouldn't bother me, and honestly I'd be pleased for him as teeth can have such an impact on confidence, it's nice when people can sort the things that bother them. I'm biased though as I'm in my 30s and about to get braces and I'm very excited about it 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 08:49 AM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADOmg fair enough 😅 that is picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThey don't all serve the same types of food though. You can't possibly think all the food in all Michelin starred restaurants looks disgusting unless you're an insanely picky eater. In which case that's a you problem and not a them being a scam problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 08:36 PM |
| 14 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance, while seemingly being disinterested in real life romance?I massage my husband. I've never mentioned it to anyone irl because the subject has literally never come up in conversation. I gather other women probably also massage their husbands/bfs and just no one has personally mentioned it to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYes, and in my other scenario your doctor could have been wrong and maybe you're not shooting blanks. But it would be understandable to get a DNA test because the overall scenario brings doubt to the table. If I thought my husband was infertile and then I got pregnant I'd gladly take a DNA test in that circumstance. Just as if your wife was dying and an STD test might be the thing that saves her life, you should gladly accept that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 11:25 PM |
| 3 | While it can be annoying for women to be expected to shave their legs, I think it's preferable to the complete lack of uniformity of body hair grooming standards for menSo what do you think? Would you rather have: a) a single high-effort but predictable body hair grooming standard; or b) a multiplicity of standards, some high-effort, some low-effort, none predictable? B for definite. Everyone should just do what they like with their own body hair and fit their relationship standards around that. I like shaving my legs sometimes, other times I like to let it grow a bit. I simply wouldn't be with someone who expected me to shave all the time. I don't give a crap … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 11:22 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADAh ha yeah sorry swipey typing too many similar letters. No, because you're deathly ill and according to the doc the most likely scenario is an STD. Therefore you should test. But if your wife becomes pregnant the most likely scenario isn't cheating, therefore testing is an accusation. If you know you're shooting blanks and your wife gets pregnant, then you should do a DNA test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 09:09 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHow's it an accusation of infertility? It's kinda standard to test for different things to rule them out when diagnosing an illness. And what if your previous tests were done too early or done ineffectively - if it's the most likely issue then you should test for it. Just like, if infertility is the most likely option then you should get a DNA test. But if you have no reason to believe there's been infertility then there should be no reason to test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 08:36 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADtheres no way men are this hot and cold towards women They are, just fyi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?Nope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 11:25 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI don't think normal men would be upset tbh. I've showed some of the husband material stuff to my husband and chatted about it and he thinks it's ridiculous. He said "em these kind of guys are all looking for wife material so how is it any different?" And that he knows he's husband material because I married him 😅 But then, he's a normal guy who's had sex and relationships and we started our relationship with casual sex so he doesn't have the same crazy hang ups as guys on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 09:14 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHope you never find one :) kinda rooting for everyone to just get extraordinarily fat just to mess with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 09:06 AM |
| 4 | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?She's not actually saying that though, you're just making that part up so you can be annoyed about something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 08:55 AM |
| 13 | Why might women be so averse to using female (internal) condoms?The possibility of it doesn't make it worth it imo. And no one is honest about the potential issues you can have with them, which makes it all the more frustrating. For instance you keep banging on about it stopping or lightening periods, which is what most people say. But if you research it then actually you realise that it may stop or lighten your periods but you may also get much heavier, more painful, more erratic ones, particularly if you're on the non hormonal one. It's actually not unusua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 12:30 AM |
| 20 | Why might women be so averse to using female (internal) condoms?Because IUDs are fucking horrifically shit for some people. If I'd known how bad mine was going to be before I got it, I never would have. I got it taken out after a year and only had a handful of decent weeks throughout that time. It's not baffling at all to not want months of constant pain, being unable to have sex or orgasm, spending more time on a period than off it. It was the worst thing I've been through in my life - more painful than gallstones and pancreatitis, more painful than an ecto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 12:02 AM |
| 12 | Why might women be so averse to using female (internal) condoms?I'd rather be a few more percentage points sure of preventing unwanted pregnancy than not tbh. They've always been less available, less marketed, more expensive. Female condoms are relatively recent (compared to male ones) and only became available during my lifetime - yet I've never seen an advert or any kind of marketing for them. Whereas I see Durex ads all the time and have all my life. At the clinic they proactively offer free male condoms, but I've never been offered female ones or had any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 09:09 PM |
| 18 | Why might women be so averse to using female (internal) condoms?They're slightly less effective than male condoms which may be why some people have an aversion. I don't have an aversion to them, I've just literally never seen one in a shop. So they're less effective, less available, and I believe more expensive. So a pretty crap option. When I was single though I just had my own stash of male condoms though so I never needed to ask "have you got a condom". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 08:12 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNo it's really not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 03:59 PM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMen, on the other hand, really can put themselves in someone else’s shoes and understand something while also not agreeing at all. Can they? Because this sub showcases a whole bunch of men who are completely incapable of anything remotely resembling that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 01:26 PM |
| -2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADLove how men on here just make up scenarios to be annoyed about. You must have a really boring life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 01:23 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADFood & kitchen equipment. I like buying nice, quality ingredients and I enjoy trying new techniques and developing my cooking skills. My kitchen is well stocked for that with decent equipment. I also like eating out at nice places. My husband and I love a tasting menu, and we don't eat out that often but try and make it somewhere really good when we do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 09:07 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADOmg I used to have a manager who was always banging on about how on several occasions he'd been thanked after firing people 😅 he was single though so probably not her husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 04:54 PM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADLiterally saw someone say on this sub, about two days ago, that men who have sex with chubby women have low T It may surprise you to learn that people have different preferences, and just because you don't personally like a physical trait doesn't mean that no one in the world likes it. And if they like it, it probably has nothing to do with their hormone levels or how desperate they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 12:09 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADTbh I think it also partly depends on culture and location. I've seen a lot of US people online talk about expected prices for engagement rings and the price tags are fucking wild. Where I live the average cost of an engagement ring is under £1k apparently, and this tracks with the people I see around me who rarely have large or flashy rings. And while I've mentioned US price tags being crazy above, this presumably also tracks with location, since the US is a big place. So while the women you kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 10:07 PM |
| 12 | Telling men to 'be kinder to each other' is quite hypocriticalI've never seen anyone claim that all men are unattractive and lacking social skills. Whereas I commonly see men on here claim that all women are unfunny and uninteresting. Which suggests the problem is with those men in particular and not actually all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 04:48 PM |
| 9 | Telling men to 'be kinder to each other' is quite hypocriticalYou make it seem like the majority of men on this sub are incorrect and immoral in their views and actions. Realistically, it's the majority of men on here that make it seem like that via the things they post which are mostly terrible and paint them as really vile people. I'm merely presenting a honest picture of that. Regardless, I hope you don’t let the bad apples color your view of men in general It doesn't, I actually have no problem with men in general and think most men I know are generall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 04:42 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADAnd so what if they get nowhere in dating? If you care about getting nowhere in dating then the onus is on you to put the work in to fix that. Realistically you probably need to think of something other than cold approaching though because that's generally a terrible way to meet people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMen can stop approaching women if they want, no one is making them approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 03:32 PM |
| 15 | Telling men to 'be kinder to each other' is quite hypocriticalOf course we’re interested in women as people. You do not speak for all men and you certainly don't speak for the men I'm talking about, who would probably be the first to tell you that you're not interested in women as people either you just think saying it will help you get in their pants. A fairly common sentiment whenever any man suggests that women might be human after all. But I think you’ve misunderstood some of the RPers as well No. I haven't misunderstood a thing. Go and actually pay at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 03:27 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYes but if the chances are equal either way, why put the effort in to make sure you get scammed? May as well let them approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADClearly didn't read my original comment where I specifically stated that I have approached. So maybe go do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 02:41 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIf you're just going to be taken for a ride anyway may as well let them be the ones putting the effort in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 02:37 PM |
| 5 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhy wouldn't it be valid? Plenty men talk about how they'll fuck literally anyone if given the attention, so if you approach you run the risk of just being used by someone who doesn't think you're attractive or like you or whatever, they basically just want a fleshlight. I've approached guys when I've just been looking for a hookup, because then it doesn't matter if that's also all they want. But I think it's an entirely reasonable thing to worry about if you want a relationship with someone who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 02:29 PM |
| 32 | Telling men to 'be kinder to each other' is quite hypocriticalThis sub is full of men who insist that men are fundamentally disinterested in who women are as people. They don't think they're funny, or interesting. They don't care about the music women like, their hobbies, interests, their career, lifestyle. They don't need or want female friends. The only reason any man talks to a woman is to fuck her because women have no value other than that. They think it's ridiculous that any women would dare to think that a guy's talking to her to be friendly, becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 02:25 PM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAs a slutty woman I love sluts, I married a slutty man and life is fab. We had a threesome with another slutty woman and that was great. If we think of a new sex thing to try then we try it. It's all good lusty fun. Sexual compatibility is a huge important thing in a relationship, so I definitely couldn't go there with someone sexually repressed or with sexual hangups. Unfortunately some promiscuous people still fit into this (I know a couple of guys who were promiscuous while heavily judging th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 10:39 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhen I was on tinder I never asked anyone their height, which meant I did end up meeting some tall guys. I'm not going to hold it against them, it's fine for a hook up. But I find shorter men more attractive so it always ended up being the shorter guys I would accept to see again. I wouldn't absolutely rule someone out for their height - I did once have a relationship with a tall guy when I was a teen - but my overwhelming preference is for guys below average height. Just because someone doesn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 12:13 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI have always had a bit of a thing for DJ Qualls but he does have a very nice face so not sure if that will fit into your definition of unconventional. The problem is though that everyone has a different definition of what's attractive and what's conventionally attractive. I think Andy Samberg is a conventionally attractive guy - he's hot and a lot of people would agree with that. But I had a guy on this sub once get into a full on argument about how Andy Samberg is ugly and no one could possibl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 11:58 PM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI hate the moustache so much it really brings him down, so about a 5. He has lovely eyes and generally a nice face so if he was clean shaven maybe 7-8 but hard to tell with the tache in the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADFrom someone I don't know, last year probably a bit over a year ago. I was wearing a nice dress and two different women stopped me to compliment my nice dress :) it did make me feel good (so much so that I still remember it haha) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 01:32 PM |
| 5 | Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n cNot true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n cI disagree with your premise tbh. And not just because I'm not like that, but because it's so very removed from anything I've seen. You may live in a particularly shallow/materialistic area if that's your experience. women don't care about whether he is able to make her cum Don't they? I disagree with this too. Whether or not a guy can make her cum seems to be particularly important judging by basically every conversation anyone's ever had about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 11:56 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIt doesn't necessarily have to have penetration, obviously most men want that and expect that though Unless you're in a relationship or have a regular arrangement with someone, the chances of a guy agreeing to meet up and not get their dick wet are slim to none. And yes, you could give a BJ instead but that is so extremely far removed from masturbation that again it's extremely understandable why someone would prefer to just stay home and masturbate! then I think multiple people could also enjoy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 11:53 AM |
| – | Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n cSex and money aren't equivalent to each other. If someone wants a sexual relationship then you have no business getting into that relationship knowing that you don't want sex. You should be in a relationship with someone who also doesn't want sex, or have no relationship at all. If you want money you can earn it yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 11:31 AM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThey're different though. Probably not so functionally different for men because it's still somewhat the same action, but if I have sex with someone it normally involves some form of penetration (even if just with fingers) but (for me) masturbation doesn't. It's purely external and functionally very different from sex. It's also not strictly tied to lust for me. Sometimes I masturbate for pain relief, sometimes to help me sleep etc. I enjoyed casual sex so I do like both, but I can certainly see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 11:23 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHow can any honest woman deny that male attention is a huge female privilege Because this isn't what life is like for most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:40 PM |
| 25 | Old generations had some solid advice. Whenever I went out on a date, my mom cautioned me nver to take any gift other than candies, cheap chocolates, or maybe a rose or two, coz it woyld give men "ideas"My mum gave me fairly good advice. Never marry someone without having sex with them first If someone tries to pressure you into sex before you're ready, tell them to go sleep with "Palm and her five sisters" Always use a condom - when you have sex you're doing it with everyone they've ever slept with and not just them. The vast majority of my sexual experiences have been positive and I've never caught an STI or had an accidental pregnancy so I reckon that was all pretty good advice. We also had … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:48 PM |
| 5 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThis is a stupid argument though. Most people don't get together with people they knew when they were young. How is she supposed to date them at a point in her life when she didn't even know them. They're basically angry at women they knew at the time who didn't date them, and taking it out on someone they know now who wants to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:53 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADZair. Too young but I'm tickled by the "50 page yapology" 😅 and we both like to cook. I would like cute animal pics from sine but he's too tall for my short arse and I don't wanna fight his wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADUnique Afternoon. Mostly because Ultramega is a wee young thing. I like gaming, nice people, cats and books so both are fairly equally weighted on the "positive things" list so relative ages broke the tie 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 11:37 PM |
| 0 | Men here who are worried their LTR/wife had a 'wild past' or had hot, uninhibited, monkey sex or hardcore BDSM with her hookups but starfish, lights off, socks on, missionary sex with you.... I have a questionYou really think men get upset about this just so they can complain? Yes. I have literally never seen a man complain about this because it actually happened to him. It's all complaints from guys talking about a completely hypothetical situation they made up so they had something to get mad about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 07:52 PM |
| – | Men's addiction and dependence on porn is because of womenWe us Stop including yourself in this. You have done nothing for anybody ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Which one are you choosing to see again and which one gets the boot?Thanks I think 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Which one are you choosing to see again and which one gets the boot?If I had to see one of them again probably Glenn. The no sex bit is quite off-putting but not a hard dealbreaker for a first date, depending on the reasons (if it's - I don't have sex on a first date because im saving myself for marriage - then its going to be a dealbreaker). They both lose points for picking the date location and paying. I find neither to be attractive traits (first date should be a mutually agreeable location that we decide on together, and we should pay for ourselves or go 50… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 10:31 AM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'm the IKEA queen in my household. My husband has an aversion to checking the instructions which has caused him to run into many flat pack related difficulties 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 11:13 PM |
| 9 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menActually I think it's a mixture of women not always engaging with posts that you're looking at, and you not engaging in posts where women are having dissenting opinions. Or you see a dissenting opinion and assume it's coming from a man, which has happened to me on multiple occasions. I know for a fact women disagree frequently on this sub, because I've both seen it and been involved in it. Them not engaging with the posts you're seeing is the more charitable of the conclusions I can draw. All th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 03:54 PM |
| 18 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menHas it ever occurred to you that a) everyone doesn't see every thread and b) lots of times they just can't be bothered engaging with it? Whenever women talk about liking sex on here they get told they're lying anyway, so what exactly would be the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 03:30 PM |
| – | Do you agree that the bar is on the floor?I think it honestly really varies depending on the person. There are women who are in terrible relationships and praise the guy for 1 instance of bare minimum niceness despite the fact he's an arse the rest of the time. For those women, their bar is on the floor. There are also women who have massive huge standards who will likely never find someone who meets them - you could argue that their bar is too high, if a relationship is what they want. And then for most people the bar is probably in a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:31 AM |
| 4 | Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experienceThis is exactly how the job hunting process works for the vast majority of people. You always had to initiate contact with the company to get their attention, which is pretty normal but imagine you always have to, they never hit you up and ask you for an interview no matter what. Yes. This is how job hunting works for all normal people. If you've become very specialised/high up etc then companies may reach out to you first but for the absolute vast majority of people this isn't a thing. You also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 09:27 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYou don't know that it's the core problem though, it could be one of many factors. In the article you linked it stated that even in anonymous tests boys do worse in language based tests - and that may well be a fundamental difference between boys and girls, but it could also be because boys take longer to develop their language skills than girls. Girls typically learn to talk earlier than boys and learn to read faster. If boys get an extra year of language development before joining school could… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:49 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYou do know you can address more than one thing, and put more than one fix in place? Yes that sounds like it's something that should be addressed and changed to be fairer. But that doesn't mean starting school later can't also be a valuable adjustment to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:28 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNo .. they do better than children their own age who didn't start later. Yes he is more developed than children a year younger, but that gives him an advantage of being able to essentially gain a whole extra year of worthwhile learning, if normally the first year would have been wasted due to him being too young. You can think it's lazy all you want but if it works why not do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 06:31 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI think there have been some studies showing the benefits of that, that boys do tend to do better in school if they start later. My sister deferred her son's school start because of this and he seems to be doing really well, although he's only been in school a few years (not sure if you really see the full benefit until they're older). He was only deferred by one year but even in the space of that one year it was clear to see how much he'd developed - more time for socialisation, better speech, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Which trait are you getting rid of?This is probably also very dependent on where you live. I only know a handful of people who owned a place before being coupled up - most people need to pool their resources to get a deposit together etc. I know a huge amount of people who just lived with their parents through their teens and twenties, until they got into a serious enough relationship to buy a place together. So renting a 1 bed flat is very successful in comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Which trait are you getting rid of?Can I get rid of more than 1? Don't want 1, 4 or 6. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 12:23 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADOur aim is to eventually do that if I ever earn enough for it. I won't work more though - that's not necessary (or productive - only lower level staff are eligible for overtime at my work. It's of no benefit for me to work more than my contracted hours). However that would mean you’d have to pay for dates way more All our dates are currently paid for from the joint account. This would remain the same, I'd just be contributing all the money to joint account if he was no longer in paid work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 07:37 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIf you ever go to Reykjavik you need to get the cinnamon buns from Brauð & Co, they're to die for. They also have the recipe on their insta if you're not in a position to pop over to Iceland. Bit of a lengthy process but worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 01:38 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhat a weird take (from her). Maybe it's because I grew up with my mum and stepdad both being amazing cooks (neither of whom learned it from the other), but I've never felt cooking skill was particularly gendered. You can be a great cook as a woman, you can be a great cook as a man. You might have learned from a man, woman, both, or just been self taught. And also, even if you did learn from a woman why is that gay. People are so strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Which are you picking: my turn, I've tried making it interesting!Yes that's fair, although where I live rotisserie chickens are a bit crap 😅 weird mix of greasy and dry. Healthy enough but not fun to eat on their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Which are you picking: my turn, I've tried making it interesting!Well if you think jealous, possessive, boring, stupid, bitter, jaded people are 7s to 9s then I expect you're setting your bar too low and scooping up too much trash to find anyone decent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Which are you picking: my turn, I've tried making it interesting!I too am a bit of a foodie which is probably at least partly where this comes from. But overall, I get not always wanting to cook - we've all had days where we just picked something up or ordered in. But I need a partner who will prioritise a proper meal the majority of the time. I cook most of the time and I'm happy to, but if I'm ill or late finishing work or whatever then my husband happily steps in and I wouldn't want a partner who wasn't able or willing to do that :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Which are you picking: my turn, I've tried making it interesting!Isn't the numerical value system based on looks and not personality? None of them have a good personality because they all have massive deal breakers, and therefore whatever they look like is irrelevant, and whatever positive traits they might have are irrelevant. I can feel quite comfortable in saying this, because I'm married and I've had previous LTRs, and I've managed to avoid any of those negative personality traits in all my relationships (possessive/jealous, boring/stupid, jaded/bitter/pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Which are you picking: my turn, I've tried making it interesting!I get that. But lots of people don't cook at all, and the only mention of cooking in these posts was as an affection thing (and not just "they can cook") which is why I wanted clarification. I couldn't live with someone who can only pick up a rotisserie chicken and salad for instance, they need to actually be able and willing to cook. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Which are you picking: my turn, I've tried making it interesting!Okay, well in reality I wouldn't choose any of them but for the purposes of this hypothetical I'd go with the third then, maybe. Jealousy/possessiveness is an absolute no and I'm not sure I could live with someone I can't have a decent conversation with. But then 2 seems nicer than 3, I don't love the idea of someone being jaded and passionless, I think that would need to bleed into other areas of the relationship. Hmm. Tricky one, they're all a bit crap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 07:36 PM |
| 14 | Which are you picking: my turn, I've tried making it interesting!Question: Why is cooking a "gesture of affection"? Will the third one cook when he needs to? Like, if I broke my arm would we need to live on takeaway for weeks or is he adult enough to cook as part of his actual adult responsibilities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Who are you picking?Luke - on paper there's nothing wrong with him and I feel like we'd have the best chance of compatibility. No to Michael because he's an asshole and no to Nathan because I'm not into sporty people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 10:08 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADHooking up and dating aren't the same thing. And don't the guys on here always insist that men are the gatekeepers for relationships? So surely dating must be easier for men, if they're the ones getting to pick and choose the relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIf you're not finding it easy that's on you. I hooked up with this guy, wee 5'2 ginger dude who lived with his gran. Had so many women on the go that when I mentioned I fancied a threesome he was able to arrange us two separate ones with two different women that same weekend. I did talk to a few guys who were really struggling and it was always because they were overthinking it and ended up just being really weird and off-putting. Messaging far too often, being needy/clingy etc - no one wants th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 04:17 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOmg you're missing the point entirely. Yes, I messaged him and he said yes. But when guys messaged me they just did the exact same thing. They didn't put any effort in, they didn't jump through hoops, they didn't need to entertain. If you're needing to do that then it's on you, you're doing something wrong. Men who have sex just message like minded women who also instantly say yes and we move into the next step. It is literally no different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 04:06 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNo, guys are more likely to message first. But it's not any different if guys do message first as I've also noted in my comment. They're not actually putting any extra effort in. When I messaged first I didn't feel it was any extra effort or that I was hard done by in taking that step. I wasn't being proactive or showing any other extra amazing personality traits that you ascribe to men that get sex. They want sex, they ask for it, they get it. They aren't special. So you can think every man and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 09:47 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIf this happened to an adult, we would absolutely call it rape (or at least SA, maybe torture? Probably depends on jurisdiction) I don't think it's rape or sexual assault if it's an adult. Finding it hard to get a definitive answer but I think it's most likely GBH or assault - one case I saw was charged with attempted murder. I don't think it should be classed as rape, as it's a different type of crime. Even if genital injury occurs as a result of rape I would think it should be two separate cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 12:37 AM |
| 6 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADwhereas men being pursuers a high N can show stuff like being proactive When I (a woman) was on tinder, I messaged a guy first and asked if he wanted to hook up. He did. We met. We shagged. How exactly does that show proactivity or any special effort on his part? For the guys that messaged me it was the same scenario. They'd message, we'd establish right away we were looking to hook up, we'd arrange to meet. For people who have sex it isn't any effort, it's only this crazy imagined effort for pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?Firstly, your response isn't at all relevant to my comment that you're replying to. Secondly, I've never seen a man care or show empathy to a random woman upset that she doesn't have these things. This sub is full of men who are positively gleeful about women who can't find a guy to commit etc. In addition, if you're in a relationship and one person wants kids and the other doesn't then there is no compromise to be made there. You just shouldn't be together. Much like if one of you just doesn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?Yes way to completely miss the point. Well done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 09:46 AM |
| 3 | The current rhetoric is that men and women have unrealistic expectations for potential partners. What unorthodox or off-label quirks or unconventional features do you find attractive?With my wildly curly unkempt hair, freckles and lisp I'm feeling the love rn 😅 I'm a lover of an interesting nose. Big ones, little ones, noses going on a wander across someone's face. I'm bi and I find masculine women and feminine men attractive 😅 but I also find feminine women and masculine men attractive 🤷 and anything in between tbh. I prefer guys who are average height or below. As a very short lady, tall people are not an ergonomic option. I like a little chub, a little softness, a little … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 04:20 PM |
| 15 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?It doesn't have to be as extreme as "just lie there and let him use you as a wank sock every time he has an erection Yeah but when this topic comes up this is pretty much the solution that most guys seem to have in mind, which is an empathy killer. In the OP he specifically mentions someone saying she's tired. How do you acknowledge the issue and "try to find a solution?" If one party is too tired to have sex then the solution is you don't have sex, it's that simple. The horny person can go and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 12:12 PM |
| 43 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?or tell their boyfriend "they are too tired for sex" etc Are you confusing "having empathy" with "having sex". Because this sounds like you think the only way women could show empathy would be to have sex when they don't want to, or with people they don't want to have sex with. I'm also confused as to why you think women should have empathy for this. Men in general don't have empathy for women's sexual issues, so why do women in general need to give a crap about men's? Like imagine a guy said to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Women of PPD. If you are in a happy LTR, did your "fall in love at first sight" or did you fall in love over time? If so, what made that happen? Also, did any of you initially dislike / hate your husband / BF only to fall enough with him later? If so, how did it happen?I don't think love at first sight is possible. Lust at first sight maybe, but love builds over time. I met my husband on tinder. Neither of us were looking for a relationship and were just looking to hook up. But everything about him was so nice that we hooked up again, and again, until we realised we'd fallen for each other and wanted to be together. We initially texted for a bit longer than usual before meeting, because I'd matched with him just before going away on holiday. Didn't text loads … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 07:43 AM |
| 6 | What is something that were wrong about ?I've seen many people bring up Liz Truss as an example of why women shouldn't be in power, but all the shite male leaders we've had is apparently not a reason why we shouldn't have men in power. The failures of the men are attributed to them personally, the failures of a woman are attributed to all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 09:00 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI guess that touched a nerve huh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 12:31 PM |
| -2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI don't think virgin men are shamed on here for wanting virgin/similarly inexperienced women. That makes sense, why wouldn't you want someone with similar attitudes and experience? But there are plenty of men on here who have got experience who say that women with experience are whores/degenerates etc (but men with the same experience are not) and those women are fine to sleep with just not good enough for a relationship. They get shamed for being arseholes and hypocrites. Or they have no experi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 09:14 AM |
| 4 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYou're 22. What have you got that you're that scared to lose? Are you a secret millionaire or something? Find a partner who's on equal financial footing to you and you have nothing to worry about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 09:21 PM |
| 2 | What are your opinions on beards?I like beards. I like clean shaven guys too, not particularly fussy on whether or not people have facial hair, but I do prefer it if it's nicely kept/cared for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 09:17 PM |
| 0 | Do you think formerly promiscuous women are mostly disadvantaged in the dating market at least when it comes to getting commitment /marriage?Nope. Or maybe the woman who has fallen for one of her FWB/booty calls This happened to me and I married him. I know a lot of couples who started out with casual sex, ended up catching feelings, and it turned into a LTR or marriage. I don't think it causes a disadvantage at all, much as some of the men on here would like to think it does. Generally guys who are having sex don't have such puritanical views on women who have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Q4W : Build Your Dream ManEveryone should do it. You don't know when you might die and everything is so much easier if you have a will in place. Even if you're married. My gran died without a will and it took over a year and a ton of legal fees to settle probate. My grandpa didn't need anything from her estate so it wasn't a huge deal for him, but if you're relatively young, still working, relying on two incomes etc then you want that kind of thing to be sorted as quickly and cheaply as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W : Build Your Dream ManShort (+1) Dad bod (0) No previous children (-1) Street smart/not book smart (+1) Slightly comical/decent friend group (-2) College degree (-1) Net Worth 50k (-1) Around the same age (-1) Good looking guy (-3) Gamer (+2) =0 A degree isn't a requirement, I don't think it brings anything to a relationship. But my husband has one and I had the spare points so it's there. I didn't have to add anything I find undesirable so that's nice 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHey dressed like that you have all the leverage. Insist on only non marriage relationships to your many suitors, or whatever floats your boat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 06:59 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADAw no :( and you really would be a handsome goose dressed like that. Maybe if you ever move somewhere cold! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 06:58 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI googled it and it sounds good! Will keep that in mind for my next read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 10:47 PM |
| 7 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADhttps://preview.redd.it/a0bsoet16kcd1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=268f241e11ee2a40284b36a8a177c4709c23b51b There you go guys, just try a dapper wardrobe change and get those proposals rolling in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 10:11 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: What is the difference between having sex with a hot woman NOT striving for marriage and a hot woman who charges (time, energy, money) for sex?Why does it matter to you? If someone claims they've been publicly proposed to 30 times why is that anymore believable than being proposed to privately 30 times 😅 and realistically if people communicate properly then there shouldn't be a proposal, if the topic of marriage came up and one person said they don't want to get married. It's then about making the decision on whether you stay together unmarried or if the person who brought up marriage wants to leave. In any case it's all very irrelevan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 11:30 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: What is the difference between having sex with a hot woman NOT striving for marriage and a hot woman who charges (time, energy, money) for sex?This is only really a theory but given the amount of people I know who have been engaged/married (a fuck ton) and the amount of public proposals I've witnessed (1) I'm going to go out on a limb and suggest the vast majority of people do not actually propose publicly. So it's a bit of a weird line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 10:27 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: What is the difference between having sex with a hot woman NOT striving for marriage and a hot woman who charges (time, energy, money) for sex?What isn't self explanatory is why you think that's necessary. Why do they need witnesses? Lots of people like to keep things like that private. It's frankly bizarre that you're specifying that it needs to be public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 10:16 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: What is the difference between having sex with a hot woman NOT striving for marriage and a hot woman who charges (time, energy, money) for sex?What do you mean by publicly proposition? If you've not been proposed to via flash mob are you a low value woman or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 10:06 PM |
| 5 | Housework splitI don't think you know what you're talking about. You're blustering about as if you disagree with me and then you're admitting being in the right place at the right time is lucky - that's the same for everyone. You can put in all the work you want but if the opportunity doesn't come along at the right time then your path could look completely different. Someone earning less than me isn't earning less because they don't work as hard, they've just had a different path with different opportunities … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 08:56 PM |
| 5 | Housework splitidk what you’re talking about being lucky and ending up where you are Because that's how it is for most people unless they have a specific career in mind, which realistically most don't. Promotions aren't easier for women so don't talk absolute rubbish. My husband counts himself lucky to have the salary he does, and it was luck - he was unemployed when we met, then had a minimum wage job, and then was unemployed again, and then happened to come across a company that trained him up and gave a dec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 07:22 PM |
| 7 | Housework splithigher paying jobs generally have much higher stress and accountability and skill level Nah they really often don't. Generally the more you earn, the less you do. I've sacrificed absolutely nothing to achieve higher pay. I'm good at my job and I've worked my way up, but like the vast majority of people, I didn't intend to end up where I am. My choices just turned out luckier than the choices of those who earn less. I do most of the driving in my household, I absolutely do not count it as physica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 06:12 PM |
| 4 | Housework splitWe split our housework pretty evenly, because we both work full time. Earnings are irrelevant in this calculation. If one of us worked fewer hours, the one who did would pick up more housework. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:29 PM |
| 8 | Housework splitI think you're the bean counter if you expect your partner to work for the money you earn tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:29 PM |
| 9 | Housework splitI personally believe that the partner who brings more $ to the table gets to relax more at home Yeah but this is a shit belief for shitty people. Housework should be split according to time available, financial contribution should be split according to salary. I earn more than my husband. That doesn't mean he's my servant, or owes more housework to the household just because I happen to have more money. I actually like my husband and want his life to be as enjoyable as mine is. If you do not wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:51 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWeddings are what you make them, and you can make them as personal and enjoyable to you as you want :) I do think very large and structured weddings probably aren't great for the couple getting married, but you don't have to have a wedding like that. I've been to several small, informal, fun weddings that didn't break the bank (including my own). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Modern women use "having things in common" as a red herringNo, having things in common is quite specific and helps with general compatibility. My husband still brings up how excited he was when we'd gone back to mine and I'd put my playlist on, and I had a song on it that he loved that he'd never met anyone else that had heard of it. Plus just generally good overlap in musical tastes overall. As we have stuff in common we have a good relationship where it's easy to spend time together doing mutually enjoyable activities. We go to lots of gigs together, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 02:28 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThanks I quite like it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 08:11 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMy first time wasn't bad at all. Wasn't painful, wasn't disappointing. Was very fun and enjoyable. If you're properly ready for it I don't think there's a need for it to be bad. I think it helped that I only heard about the "it's supposed to hurt" bit afterwards so I wasn't tense and expecting pain which will definitely make it hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 07:59 AM |
| – | Women have no right to complaint about men who leave for younger women..Again, if that's your desire then don't get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 01:26 PM |
| – | Women have no right to complaint about men who leave for younger women..I'm saying if you're old and think your partner is ugly you probably need to look in a mirror and realise you're actually ugly too and you need to adjust your standards to that of an old person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 01:19 PM |
| – | Women have no right to complaint about men who leave for younger women..Most old people are ugly to those who are young. As you get old you really need to adjust your standards of what's ugly. I don't like pot bellied, wrinkly guys with hair like a monk but I don't mind if that's how my husband ends up, as I'll be old and ugly too and we can be old, ugly and in love together. Again: if you aren't prepared for that, don't get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:05 PM |
| – | Women have no right to complaint about men who leave for younger women..If you don't sign up for that then you're a fool. If you don't want the risk of your partner aging then don't get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:55 AM |
| 8 | Women have no right to complaint about men who leave for younger women..Someone being a perfectly decent person that you like doesn't mean you're going to be happy in that relationship. Your lifestyles might just not be compatible, you might have married young and grown apart etc. just because someone is a decent person doesn't mean there isn't still a reason for that divorce. But you marry someone knowing they'll get old. So divorcing them because they got old is fucking wild. If you don't want to be married to an old person then don't get married 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:46 AM |
| 13 | I think some people don’t realize they don’t love their partner until they end the relationship and experience somebody they truly desirequite average looking, kinda resembling Joseph Gordan Levitt Um excuse me, JGL is a stone cold hottie But yes, I do think a lot of people get in relationships because it's what they think they want (or they just feel the need to be partnered up) and don't really realise there could be someone they're better suited to, and it might actually be better to not be in a relationship at all than be with someone not very suitable. Isn't that the whole basis of why a lot of guys on here want very young a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 12:56 PM |
| 2 | What is the difference between being "strong and independent" and being an adult?Lots of adults aren't independent and don't seem to possess the capability to be independent. When I was at uni my friend, a 20 year old man, would take his laundry home to his parents. At one point, I had 4 flatmates and none of them paid their own rent. Three of them didn't work at all, or at the most picked up a summer job. One of them needed to open a bank account and took his mum with him because he didn't know what to do. Three of them got parental financial help with their first mortgage … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 12:44 PM |
| 1 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHMIn your opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 04:46 PM |
| 1 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHMWhy do you care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 02:51 PM |
| 0 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHMI think people are going to make poor financial decisions whether we think it's okay or not, and this random Reddit discussion thread is not going to change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHMYes but people aren't generally prone to doing that. I was reading a pensions thread a while ago and an astonishing number of people talked about how they'd forfeited their pension because that money is more important to them to have now, and they will just worry about retirement in the future or hope they die before then. People do the same for kids. And yes, if you're financially sensible it might not seem like a benefit to you, but for them it really is about how much they have to spend day t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 12:33 PM |
| 2 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHMYou asked what the benefit for men is though. Since "men in general" falls more into "most people" than just you, personally, specifically, it would seem a bit pointless to frame an argument based on your own personal circumstances. Like, are you married? Do you want kids? How much do you earn? How much does your wife earn? How much do you both have on your pension pots and what do those contributions look like? What jobs do you work in and what kind of benefits do you get? How much is childcare… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 12:24 PM |
| 2 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHMMost people don't think about that and just think about what saves them money in the short term. If you don't want your wife to stay at home, have kids with someone who doesn't want to stay at home. But you can't just blanket decide there are no benefits because for plenty of people, "saving money right now" is all the benefit they need to consider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 12:13 PM |
| 6 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHMYou cant see it in isolation, you need to factor in other costs like loss of insurance, loss of retirement, loss of future earning potential, mental stress on the breadwinner. Most people don't think about that. Most people aren't adequately prepared for retirement, most people aren't adequately prepared in case one of them dies. So why do you think they would take it into account for this situation? You need to provide very solid evidence as to why children benefit more from SAHM arrangement co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 12:11 PM |
| 4 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHM... Yes, they can. But obviously there are times where that isn't workable - for example the man has much higher earnings or simply doesn't want to quit his job. If me and my husband have kids and we decide a SAHP is best, he'll be the one to stay at home because he wants to and he earns less and has far fewer workplace benefits, so it would make sense for me to continue working. If the situation were reversed it would make more sense for me to be the SAHP. Most couples would consider these kind… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 12:09 PM |
| 7 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHMFor lots of people childcare costs as much or more than one person earns. So if the mum is the lower earner the benefit for the dad (and whole family) of her stopping work is more money. It's also flexibility - if you have a SAHP then if the child is ill then you've got someone there all the time. With two working parents it's a juggling act on who has to take the day off to look after them, and lots of jobs don't pay you for the time off if you need to take it. Even if you're losing out on some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 11:38 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYeah but if you just grow it willy nilly and do nothing to it, it does nothing to enhance your looks. Styling it and making your facial hair a specific shape/length does, and definitely isn't natural. It's the same effort someone would take for make up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 10:15 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYep I'm a lot less naive about it now and I wouldn't accept a number if offered one, but it was a hard one to learn because I always automatically assume if someone is talking to me it's just to be friendly and not anything more 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 02:02 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhen I was about 17 I worked in a shop, and this guy came in who I recognised - he went to a different school than me but we got on the same bus in the morning so I'd seen him most days for the past year or so. We had that moment of "oh hi, I know you!" And had a short chat. He asked for my number and I gave it to him because I genuinely just thought it was an overture of friendship since we had that recognition of each other. After he left one of my fellow cashiers was like "em WHY did you give… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 12:10 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'm not into muscular guys so probably a turnoff. I think the equivalent of makeup on a guy is probably facial hair and sideburns though anyway. You can do much more effective facial contouring with well styled facial hair than you can with makeup and can basically change your whole face shape with it. Same with hairstyling, as most men have short hair it can have a much bigger impact on their facial attractiveness than different styles of long hair (although for women things like having a fring… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 11:56 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADButter does make everything better tbf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What would you change about this woman's personality in order to date her?you say you're not interested in said race, Yes but I wouldn't say that because it's not true. Because there isn't a physical characteristic that I think is a barrier to attraction across the board. I've fancied and lusted after tall guys, short guys, fat men, thin men, bald/balding/full head of hair, a guy paralysed down one side of their body, a guy with a huge birth mark across his face, guys of all different races, skin colours, hair colours. I'm also attracted to women and the same applies.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:11 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADProbably because it's never termed honestly. Quite a lot of women prefer tall men, that's true, and I doubt anyone would argue if that's what people said. But what they actually say is that no women (not one not ever) like men shorter than 6"2 and they'll all happily cheat with a guy just because he's taller and if a guy happens to be tall then that is obviously the only reason someone likes him, no matter what other redeeming qualities he may have. Which is ridiculous and self pitying and irrit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 11:57 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIt's quite common. Not the done thing in my family (my grandpa always ironed his own shirts even before my gran died, my mum and stepdad live in outdoor wear and I'm not sure I'm either of them iron anything, my husband only really wears shirts for weddings and funerals and irons them himself) but I do know quite a few women who do their husbands ironing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 11:52 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThanks for sharing. As a short person who's never smoked this is good news for me 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:11 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: What would you change about this woman's personality in order to date her?But personality is the basis for a relationship. It has to be if you want anything at all long term. People get fat, get ill, get old, get injured, go bald/thinning hair (or start getting hair in weird places), get wrinkles, lose teeth, lose mobility. If they have kids they'll probably get stretch marks, their body shape can change permanently, get saggy skin, droopy boobs, c section belly. If you start sacrificing personality traits in order to have a look which is temporary, then that is the e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 09:29 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADAs a v short person I'm now hoping that's a thing 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 09:15 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: What would you change about this woman's personality in order to date her?Hilarious that guys on here insist that women are incapable of love and men are the ones who are romantic, want love/companionship etc. When there are men here, like you (and plenty others judging by what they post), who are basically fine with just having a trophy on your arm that has no personality, as long as it looks nice. Such romance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIt was was viral and trending on twitter multiple times in the past because of women. Doesn't change the fact I've never seen it and I'm sure there are billions of other women who never saw it either. And what do feminists check eachother on in the spaces you are in? I have no idea, people don't tend to announce "I'm a feminist and I believe this". So while I've checked women on things and seen women checking women on things (from the whole not wanting to pay on dates thing to lumping all men to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:29 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMaybe they just don't hang about in the same spaces as you. I only know about the "kill all men" thing because men on this sub continually talk about it. Have literally never once seen it come from a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Men see women as partners/companions; women see men as disposable accessories.Sorry to hear you've never had a relationship based on someone actually liking you. Hate to break it to you but lots of people do actually start relationships because of that. I'm not weaseling out of anything, you're just being bizarre at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Men see women as partners/companions; women see men as disposable accessories.You see if that so called love is conditional then by definition it is not love. Because it is fundamentally based on something else than the person himself. It is rather based on something he/she gives or offers you. So if someone beats you and you stop loving them then you never loved them? Or they start cheating on you so you stop loving them, you never loved them? Or you both grow, change, and become fundamentally incompatible? Be realistic please. This is just a fantasy guys like you have w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Men see women as partners/companions; women see men as disposable accessories.You're the only one who mentioned unconditional love, so I don't know why you're making things up to argue about. What is called love is nothing but animalistic hormones anyway Yes. So if you're at the mercy of these animalistic hormones and therefore in love with someone, you're probably not in that relationship just to use them as a resource, are you? So what was the point in your comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Men see women as partners/companions; women see men as disposable accessories.Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:44 PM |
| 7 | Men see women as partners/companions; women see men as disposable accessories.No, once again you're picking a few outliers and making your whole case based on that. Also "strong independent woman who don't need no man" is just a meme and plenty people say it as a joke without it meaning what you seem to think it means. Like, my husband says that to me if I open a jar by myself. It's a joke because obviously people don't get married just so they've got someone to open jars for them. The overwhelming majority of people get married because they fall in love and want to be wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:58 AM |
| 6 | Men see women as partners/companions; women see men as disposable accessories.You just told someone else off for assuming the views of some men can be attributed to more than just a few outliers. So why exactly do you think it's okay to take the view of a few female outliers and use that as your basis for your whole theory? Get a grip, think about the fact that love exists, and stop making stupid posts on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:13 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI think if women were just more flirtatious and physically touchy, their partners would feel “led on” if it didn’t lead to sex as often as they wanted it. I couldn't be in a relationship like that, I would hate to feel like I couldn't touch my partner for fear of him feeling led on if it didn't end up in sex. My husband and I are both really flirty and touchy feely, but there's no expectation or pressure for it to always lead to sex. We know each other well enough and communicate well enough to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 08:58 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: What are some examples of "Above and Beyond" behavior you have seen or would like to see from men?When I first started trying to use a menstrual cup, I got it stuck inside me (stupid short arms, and hadn't mastered the "bearing down" technique so couldn't grasp the end of it no matter how hard I tried) and he offered to help and successfully pulled it out. I know loads of guys who are squeamish about periods so not sure how many would have done the same thing 😅 Recently my uncle (mum's brother) died unexpectedly. My mum lives quite far away from me and my stepdad is currently away for work s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 05:31 PM |
| 2 | What's the most superficial reason that you have rejected someone in real life, or left swiped them on dating apps?Terrible kisser. I was maybe 15 at the time, he was probably 17 or so and in my friend's band. He was fun and nice and had the most glorious long, curly hair. But then came the kissing and it was just terrible and really uncomfortable. I tried to kind of direct it in a better way but it just wasn't happening. I felt like that was monstrously shallow of me so I went on a second date with him but spent ages dreading kissing him again 🙈 finally plucked up the courage and it was still terrible. Coul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 07:18 PM |
| – | Q4A: How connected are you on social media?I'm a woman 162 contacts - some of these aren't really contacts though, they're like taxi companies, work emergency cascade and probably my driving instructors because I never delete numbers. About 20 - almost exclusively on Whatsapp, a small handful on Facebook messenger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:04 AM |
| 3 | Men treat women the way women treat their moneyYep definitely just you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Men treat women the way women treat their moneyOr - and this might be a wild idea to you - they married someone that they love, and chasing someone rich never factored into the equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Men treat women the way women treat their moneyThe same is absolutely true of women, because if it wasn't there would be no poor married couples. But poor people marry each other all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 08:58 AM |
| 0 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsYou don't deserve the courtesy of neutral discussion because you haven't started from a neutral standpoint. You're just bringing crap to the table as if it's the truth. Since your mind is already made up what's the point in engaging with you in good faith, since you're not posting in good faith? For your information, I have plenty of relationship prospects and my exes have told me I've been an amazing bf Cool story bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsThat's because the women who've had a huge string of hookups have burned out their dopamine receptors by the time it's the next guy's turn (in other words it doesn't feel fun or exciting for them anymore). That isn't actually true btw. If you base your arguments on bullshit how can you expect to be taken seriously? Honestly the crap you guys come up with is astounding. Did you ever think this is why no one wants to shag you, because you're a fucking idiot? Just some food for thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMy dad is 5'3, my mum is 5'4, I'm 5'0. If only I was between their heights I could at least reach the middle shelf in the kitchen cupboards 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 06:28 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: What is your personal definition of a "good man"?It's quite telling that you immediately jump to assuming it's dishonest, rather than actually being sensible about it. People aren't attracted to everyone. Just because someone is a good person doesn't mean others will be attracted to them - there are so many other things that go into that, from physical attraction, to general lifestyle compatibility etc. The question specified that it was only about a good man and not what's specifically attractive to you. Being a good person is a fairly standa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 12:37 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: What is your personal definition of a "good man"?Kind and caring - good to their family and friends, respectful of people like service staff, not looking down on people or acting like they're inferior. Honest, follows through on commitments, takes accountability for their own actions. But also self respect and boundaries (there's no value in being really nice to everyone even if they treat you like crap, for example). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 11:35 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI don't think most people can accurately visually judge a penis size and will generally guess, and I think if most people saw a 5.5 inch penis then they would think it's big (or at least a decent, good size). My husband kindly measured his penis for me once as we were having this discussion. He's 6 inches. A mere half inch shorter would make little visible difference, and 6 inches looks huge. It also feels huge - we have difficulty doing some positions, particularly at certain times of the month… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think the the “Dating Experiment” post was removed?Wow, top 10%? He'll be chuffed to hear that. Tell me, what do you think makes someone top 10%? Because last I heard on PPD they needed to be rich, tall, ripped to qualify. Since he's none of those things, but just a really genuinely lovely guy, who I personally think is beautiful (but who in no way matches up with PPDs idea of what women want), where does that leave all of you? Are you going to have to admit it's just your really fucking awful personalities that mean no one loves you? And not ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think the the “Dating Experiment” post was removed?On dating apps, is your goal to evaluate men as a whole? Or whine about how difficult life is for women? Because that seems to be what you're doing here. Why do you think my goal on here would be the same as my goal on dating apps? What's the point of this question? For most guys on PPD, it is to find one good partner and leave the apps. If that is your goal too, then from everything you have said, you should be able to achieve your goal, right? That was never my goal on tinder tbh. I just wante… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 04:13 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThe UK has loads of attractive male stand ups :) Alan Davies, James Acaster, Jack Whitehall, Michael McIntyre, Russell Howard, Kevin Bridges, Hugh Dennis, Greg Davies, Rob Bryden... Probably more I've forgotten. We are blessed as a nation with handsome funny guys 🙏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | The sexuality of straight women is the driving force behind patriarchyThroughout history powerful people have married for money, more power, connections. Even if they're not with a golddigger a lot of these people will have strategic pairings that are based on others of the same social class/similar power dynamics, or someone who gives them something. There might be genuine love there but that's then exactly the same scenario as every other man who gets married, which the majority of them do, so not an indicator of success. There will be exceptions to this general… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 12:30 PM |
| 5 | The sexuality of straight women is the driving force behind patriarchyYou're talking about guys in power. Who do you think of when you think that? Go look at them - if you were a woman would you want to date them. Then who do succesful and hottest women date? Successful and hot aren't the same thing as powerful and upholding the patriarchy. They are different sets of people. Use your brain please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 12:00 PM |
| 0 | The sexuality of straight women is the driving force behind patriarchyLol I would absolutely deny that 😅 managing to attract a gold digger who would leave you the instant your circumstances took a drop doesn't "successful with women" make, because you may as well just see prostitutes and pretend that makes you successful with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 11:49 AM |
| 6 | The sexuality of straight women is the driving force behind patriarchyIts a genius plan from women to put men in an unwinnable situation Yes, we discuss it at the AGM 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 11:15 AM |
| -1 | Why do you think the the “Dating Experiment” post was removed?In terms of absolute badness like that, a very small minority. However, well over 50% were overtly sexual right off the bat without attempting a conversation. Almost everyone who had a halfway decent conversation, upon moving to Whatsapp, instantly sent an unsolicited dick pick even if there had been no prior sexual discussion. There are levels to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think the the “Dating Experiment” post was removed?That’s why everything else is a red herring. It doesn’t even really matter if you get twenty dicks pics in a day if you still can get multiple dates with decent dudes. Just block the dick pic guys and go out with the multiple other guys You do realise that time is finite? Right? So if you've accidentally spoken to the 10 people who want to be a dick, you probably won't have the time and energy to keep talking to people (unless you want to prove some kind of fake point for internet clout) so yes,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think the the “Dating Experiment” post was removed?How do you know? Oh because some guy told you so? That isn't actually evidence, just fyi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:42 AM |
| 0 | Why do you think the the “Dating Experiment” post was removed?Those were shown to us and not cherry-picked. The How do you know he didn't just have a text conversation with 7 friends and screenshot? Or the same friend 7 times? I'm not saying he did, I think it's fairly plausible that he had 7 decent chats, but it's hilarious that you're all SO determined to believe it's real when you're SO determined to believe anything women say is fake. I can show you a picture right now of the loch ness monster - does that mean nessie is alive and well and kicking about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think of girl's girls? Do you consider yourself one?I scrolled through some of the comments on the linked thread and there was a mix - some agreeing with your definition, but others definitely seeming to be on the disliking men side. So possibly a concept that's getting a bit corrupted 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think the the “Dating Experiment” post was removed?Mm gaslight, the term for people who can't be bothered with a constructive conversation. You're really just proving my point here. Women having dating on easy mode and still mess it up and complain. I matched on tinder with a normal, average looking guy. He messaged me and told me he wanted to rape me. How is that me messing it up? That is 100% on that guy being a total arsehole. Same for the guy who asked if I'd sleep with him for money and when I turned him down he called me an ugly whore (iro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 11:01 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think the the “Dating Experiment” post was removed?I find it amusing that the men on here are so keen to dismiss any claim made by a women, even when it's corroborated by thousands of other women. When one singular man posts some cherry picked examples and claims to not have received one single negative message yet suddenly this is undeniable "proof" and shows that all women are lying? Any logical reasonable person with more than a singular braincell would conclude that this one lone experiment isn't a trustworthy source and the data has likely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think of girl's girls? Do you consider yourself one?My answers are based on the description that OP provided, which doesn't appear to be the same thing you're talking about, since that specifically mentioned not enjoying the company of men, not wanting to hang out with them etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 10:45 PM |
| 4 | Why do you think the the “Dating Experiment” post was removed?I talked about the results of the experiment, and got nothing but guys misinterpreting, being general fuckwits, and contributing to the endless circle jerk. So what benefit would it have been for any other women to do it? You were all far too busy having self-congratulatory wanks to engage in anything close to a constructive conversation, so why the fuck would most people bother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think of girl's girls? Do you consider yourself one?People do and say such things to get rise of others Yeah but that's also a pretty unpleasant behaviour, it certainly doesn't put them in any better a light 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 06:20 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of men and what percentage of women do you think would be promiscuous if they are already in a happy relationship and they are “allowed” to be promiscuous by their partner?I don't think it would be that high - at their core people are generally kinda lazy and promiscuity is quite a lot of effort 😅 you might get a small % doing it for a short burst or whatever, but don't think it would be lots of people doing it all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think of girl's girls? Do you consider yourself one?That doesn't really matter. Whether or not they've made that decision for real, saying they have is just as weird/wrong/unpleasant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think of girl's girls? Do you consider yourself one?But do you not see how it's then different to come in off the back of that and make the decision that one entire gender as a whole is not worth your time? Which is essentially what this is saying. That isn't the same as just not ending up with opposite sex friends but being open to it should the opportunity present itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think of girl's girls? Do you consider yourself one?That's not what this thread is about though, or at least not how I'm reading it. It seems to be about purposefully putting one above the other because they think women are better than men. I don't agree with that no matter which way round it is. And there's a difference between having mostly male-dominated interests and therefore naturally having male friends, or purposefully deciding you don't want any female friends because you assume they won't have similar interests/aren't as fun/interesting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What do you think of girl's girls? Do you consider yourself one?I thoroughly disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think of girl's girls? Do you consider yourself one?Well, this thread is actually about women so really it would be implying that women need to have male friends if she wants a worthwhile relationship. But that's not quite what I meant in any case, I just think people aren't going to have worthwhile relationships if they're not open to giving the same consideration to men and women. If you, as a man, decide you don't want female friends because you don't enjoy the company of women, prefer men etc, I don't see how you can have a worthwhile romanti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 11:46 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThey have issues because their Prince Charming hasn't yet arrived, not because they are ugly, asocial, autistic incels. Big difference. Quite the assumption. All of them volcels, who, again, are so because they wait for the Prince Charming. There are "volcel" men on here too, and while there are a few women holding off til marriage on purpose I am sure I've seen some who just struggle to date/have sex. Yes, but they are on the same side as PPD women. They aren't debating against them, but with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think of girl's girls? Do you consider yourself one?If I put all my relationships with the women in my life over and above my relationship with my husband, it would be a pretty shit marriage. He'd quite rightfully feel upset, potentially resentful, would probably also then prioritise other relationships over ours etc and there'd be no point in us being married. Same if I had a male friend and a female friend, and I give the woman support etc but not the guy, or I cancel plans with him to hang out with her etc because I think I get more out of her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 11:31 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThere are several women here who are vocal about their issues with dating, some female virgins etc. conversely there are men here who are attractive, have girlfriends/wives, have had good sex lives etc. It's not very balanced (the majority of posters are male for example) but there is a mix there. And really, what "power" does life experience give any woman here when most of the men assume anything women post on PPD is a lie anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 11:18 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: What do you think of girl's girls? Do you consider yourself one?I think it's just as weird as guys who do the same with only really liking/hanging out with other men. Normal people get along with both, like both, enjoy spending time with both. If people don't want to do that then fine but they can't really then expect to have any worthwhile relationships with the opposite sex, which is presumably a problem if they're heterosexual and would like to be in a relationship. One that knows her worth and value doesnt revolve around male validation I feel like I can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 11:14 AM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenYou're just a delusional little boy, you know that? You're so determined to live in your bitter little fantasy world that you can't even switch on your brain and think. Your top 10% (I see you've moved that from the normal 20%, clearly you're extra bitter) is a load of crap. Most men get sex, most men get dates, most men get marriage. Most people are, on the whole, mostly nice enough. I'd like to think guys like the "I want to rape you" guy are few and far between. What is hilarious to me though… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 07:22 AM |
| 2 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight Menbut odds are if the good-looking people were living the lives of ugly people and were treated like shit just like the ugly people, they'd likely be more aggressive too. Yes, probably. But since they didn't live that life and have therefore turned out nicer, why wouldn't they be the people others want to date. Should we date arsey or aggressive people just because they had a bad childhood? If we did then you'd immediately turn around and say it's our own fault for picking arsey aggressive people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 10:57 PM |
| 2 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenWhat double standards do I have exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 10:53 PM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenLike? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 07:22 PM |
| -2 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenI absolutely don't think all men suck, or most men. However arseholes are hardly likely to want to admit they're arseholes, and may not even realise they're being arseholes. I just tried to see if I could find any of your studies about ugly people being nicer and the only one I could find said ugly people are more aggressive than attractive people. So make of that what you will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:39 PM |
| 1 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight Menreading other men's experience What, them lying and pretending they aren't an arsehole? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:10 PM |
| -4 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenWhere did you pull that shite from. I've spoken to plenty ugly arseholes. I live in Glasgow, it's pretty much the majority of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | What would it take for you to make the first move?I think most men reading this post (and how I intended it) as making the first move when it comes to complete strangers, putting yourself out there to ask for a number, a dance a club, buying a drink at a bar, etc., I'm just reading this thread after your edit so I'll answer for this. Mostly alcohol and horniness ngl. Out of the complete non-tinder strangers I've hooked up with, I made the first move on about half of them. They also kinda need something that will 'let' you approach them. Like, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:40 PM |
| -3 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenUgly and average people can be arseholes too, someone having a bad experience on OLD doesn't mean they only swiped pretty people. Since this guys experience doesn't match any other women's then I suspect he has an agenda and is blatantly lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:16 PM |
| – | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenI honestly don't understand how you didn't get a single low effort or sexual message 😅 when I was on tinder I had a handful of nice pics, nothing crazy, no revealing pics (I was wearing an old man flat cap in one drinking from a floral china teacup ffs, there were no bikini pics/nights out etc). I never swiped on anyone with nudes/semi nudes, all just normal dudes with a range of looks. And sure, I got loads of matches and a ton of messages but almost all were overtly sexual immediately (the mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:31 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhat exactly am I meant to feel better about? I'm feeling pretty good. Did you completely miss all the times I pointed out that I have actually dated women? you are allergic to work Bit of a random assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:09 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYou're no longer coherent. Can you try and frame an actual sensible answer please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:55 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADDing ding ding Like actually do you think we need to fulfill a quota or something? You're still so very close but you don't understand it, why aren't women pursuing you? Because bisexual women prefer men men are doing all the heavy lifting for you. Why can't you see it? Because that's not what happens. I've pursued men and women, men and women have pursued me. I've dated and slept with both. It is purely a numbers game in that there exist more men that date women than women who date women. Why c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 03:45 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADAre you denying that seducing women is harder than seducing men? Not if they're already into you/with you. Sure, it's easier to man a random guy for sex but if you're already in a relationship then the default should be that you both want to have sex with each other and therefore it's not any harder to seduce the woman. Are you denying that getting women going is harder and requires more energy and effort than men? Are you denying that bringing women to orgasm requires more energy, time and effo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:40 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNo you're missing the very big obvious point. If I wanted to select only women I could. But I'm BISEXUAL and not a lesbian, therefore I have no need to select only women. I like both men and women and have dated both men and women, but obviously as there are far more men who date women than women who do, it makes it far more likely that the higher proportion of matches will be with men. How are you still not understanding this? Do you think for a women to be truly equally attracted she needs to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:20 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADAccording to your twisted logic they should be dating white people because that's majority. My logic isn't twisted, you're the one who apparently has no idea what logic even is. If a Muslim person only wants to date Muslim people then yes, they should probably aim only for where other Muslims hang out (btw white people can be Muslim too, you're mixing up race and religion here). If they don't really care about dating a fellow Muslim and are happy whether way, then it makes no sense to confine th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:18 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIn the ideal world, yes, but the hard reality is that men are the ones expected to sexually arouse women and lead the encounter, while women willingly go along. Why is that? I've never learned that, or expected it. Is it actual fact or just something you feel to be true? It's a good thing that's so easy for a man to do. Silly me for not realising that sooner. It is actually. If you stick with shit sex then you have only yourself to blame. Yes it is, most women think so. You are an outlier. I've … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 12:39 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIt is actually about statistics though. Why would I go solely to lesbian bars when I like men as well? I'm not a lesbian - the key is in the name "bi", I like both of them. Why would I cut myself out of a significant proportion of the dating market? Why are the men on this sub allergic to logic and facts? There are literally, numerically, more men who date women than there are women who date women. Therefore, given the larger pool of potential male suitors, bi women are more likely to meet and f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 12:31 AM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADTeasing, setting the atmosphere, doing lots of foreplay, paying attention to her reactions and adapting, angling the penetration, switching the thrust speed, switching the positions, dirty talking, holding off until she cums... This is all stuff the woman should be doing too. If you're doing all that and the woman isn't you need to find someone else to have sex with. It's not on the man to "switch positions" and set the speed, angle etc, it's not on the man to be responsible for dirty talk, fore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 05:45 PM |
| – | If "most men don't want a partner, they want a mom", then most women don't want a partner, they want a dad.A man who's always financially stable, older than you, has his shit together, buys you things, and never expects you to do anything in return? Sounds an awful lot like your dad. Sounds like the complete opposite of my dad tbf. Apart from "older than me", obvs. I've never met anyone who has his shit less together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 05:09 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIt's a numbers game. I'm attracted equally to men and women (so why would I filter out men when I like them too?) and there are far more straight/bi men than bi/lesbian women, so you're just statistically more likely to end up with a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 09:27 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADHow could I not notice people bumping into me and taking up all the space? Because it doesn't bother you when it's a man so it doesn't really register in your head that it's happened. Men just tend to walk in line more when space is scarce. No they really don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 11:39 AM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMen do all these things too, you probably just don't notice because you only dislike women. Basically, an annoyingly large proportion of the population has no spacial awareness and/or don't give a crap if they're in someone's way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADLoads of people don't like to go away abroad though. I'm thinking you're maybe American due to use of the word vacation? The majority of Americans don't have a valid passport so someone being able and willing to travel presumably actually does make them a bit adventurous compared to the average American. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 10:53 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMaybe most women you know are really bad at gauging measurements, I know I am. If you asked me to guess by looking what someone's penis size is, I couldn't give an accurate guess. But my husband kindly measured his for me some time ago so I have a bit of a benchmark, which I'm using to base my 4"-6ish theory off. But it will also depend on the woman. I'm not sure it matters but I'm quite a small lady, and even just past average makes certain positions hurt, more so at certain times of the month.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 08:59 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI get that! I hope you find someone (if that's what you're looking for) who can show you some genuine love and enthusiasm for your dick and help assuage some of that insecurity. I do think some good positive experiences can be the best thing for any kind of body insecurity. Matt not go away completely but gives you something nice to focus on when you're having doubts or worries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 12:18 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI think for most people there's an "acceptable range". For me it's probably about 4"-6"ish (but girth impacts that too, so the range might change based on the overall penis size and shape). So mostly I think "it doesn't matter" because really that encompasses most penises. But then if I encountered someone outwith that I might have a bad experience (although not necessarily, there is more to sex than PIV). However it's likely to be pretty much an outlier because it's really outwith the norm. I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 12:03 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADChandler was always my guy 💔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 04:10 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI once worked with a guy, who was trying to get fired in to two different women we also worked with. His impressive time management technique was to send them a group text flirting with them, asking them out (before the days of Whatsapp so you couldn't see that it was a group text, just looked like an individual one) but he seemingly didn't count on the fact that they work in the same team and talk to each other and therefore discovered that he'd sent them both the exact same text at the exact s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 03:47 PM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADOh definitely! I can't imagine it's a particularly conducive lifestyle for people in functioning relationships. My dad definitely fits into the "people with less commitment" bracket 😅 I have a friend who's an engineer and a very well brought up, somewhat posh boy. He did a few weeks placement type thing on a rig and hated it, he's much too nice haha. Definitely not for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 12:15 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYes I'd agree men are more likely to want to do it. It does make me think though - it's not necessarily the work that makes that the case as much as the environment or the fact that you're away for weeks at a time. I'm married and I'd never consider taking work that kept me away from my family for weeks at a time, and I know a lot of women who are the same. My mum did work in a different country for a bit which increased her earning potential massively and allowed her to negotiate much bigger sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 11:29 AM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThere is one! https://www.energyvoice.com/oilandgas/north-sea/225727/stats-for-female-workers-offshore-not-good-enough-says-oguk/#:~:text=In%202020%2C%20women%20still%20represent,exist%20in%20the%20STEM%20pipeline. We’ve been taking industry-specific steps to do this, and Shell’s Girls in Energy programme is only one example of the responsibility our sector is demonstrating in its efforts to attract a more diverse workforce. My dad has worked on the rigs all his life though and he says it's not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 10:06 AM |
| – | Q4W: How do good hookups get around dehumanization?I've just never felt that it's dehumanizing 🤷 I found casual sex to be fun and enjoyable, an activity two people are mutually interested in doing together. There's always going to be the odd bad experience, just like in anything, but in general I had a really nice time with the people I hooked up with. For the most part we'd be trying to make sex mutually enjoyable, chatting about what's good, what we like, doing our best to do good work for the other. We were friendly, respectful. Usually had v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThere are lots of religious people who take quite a delight in fucking people over. It serves no purpose and gives absolutely no motivation for people to be good, decent people unless they were already inclined to be good, decent people - in which case they would have achieved it without religion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:18 AM |
| 8 | Women Reward Results, Not Effortno I say it because I have eyes,and I can see. Most other women do too, and are also aware that this isn't just a well built man. I'm fairly sure you do in fact know this and you're just being a prick 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 08:18 AM |
| 9 | Women Reward Results, Not EffortBoth guys in the above pic will be see as athletic, not bodybuilder physique by women. Where are you getting this? Because as a woman I think you're full of shit. Neither of those are what anyone would term as an "athletic" build. They're both far too bulky. Athletic build is slim, lean, wiry generally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 07:53 AM |
| 4 | Women Reward Results, Not EffortIf you ask her to describe this "some muscle guy," she might envision a physique like Dolph Lundgren's in "Rocky IV." Literally no one means this when they think about "some muscle", he's very bulky and it's not attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 07:12 AM |
| 0 | Boys need a lot more than most GirlsYou're a fucking imbecile, just fyi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 09:21 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADBut man cry wailing in front of other men is almost unheard of in our parts. I don't think most adults do this, as in "cry wail" in front of other people. Yes occasionally with one person you trust but in general as adults I think the default is red eyes/voice breaking/bit of tears, maybe a few moments of more intense crying depending on the situation. So I wouldn't have thought most people mean "cry wailing" when they think of someone crying, unless it's a child. So to use your definition of cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 12:59 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWhat an odd take. I've comforted many crying men in my time and never had a concern that it would escalate to violence/instability. Sometimes you just need a cry, it's perfectly normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 11:59 AM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI've got a green day t-shirt that's 20 years old. It's massive and about mid-thigh length on me, so it's just for wearing around the house. Getting so threadbare in places and a few wee holes are cropping up but it's so so comfy 😭 I'll be sad when it eventually disintegrates! I'm not even such a giant fan of green day haha, I like them but have tshirts from bands I like better. I think it's just because it's so big and old and comfy 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 11:56 AM |
| 0 | Boys need a lot more than most GirlsNo, all the rest of it. However I can't imagine someone's dad "trying to stop her from being a hoe" is likely to give a healthy parent-child dynamic either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:56 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNo, your point is off in some crazy land because that isn't how normal men live. If you behave like this then you are the cause of your own desperation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:43 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADGetting rejected 10-20 times, begging women to even talk to you, getting your hopes up with a few numbers only for all of them to ghost the next day This is not how normal men live. Just live your fucking life and have fun with your friends. Begging 10-20 women to talk to you means you must reek of desperation which will be precisely why no one wants to talk to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Boys need a lot more than most GirlsFucking hell I hope you don't have a daughter, since you'll be destroying her entire life with that attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Is lying about your career in hopes of getting a ONS wrong or immoral?I have to say, when looking for ONS I couldn't give two shits what job someone did and I never even saw anyone's car so it would have been a waste of money them renting one 😅 It's probably not a good tactic if you think there's the potential to see the other person again and develop something more serious, because then they'll be annoyed you lied. But for ONS how will anyone know or care if it's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 12:36 PM |
| – | Women of the purple pill, if you met a guy whose IG was full of selfies, what would you think of him?I know a couple of guys like this (although not so much with the try hard lines, just the rest of it). They're nice guys, friendly enough. We're not really into the same things. I don't get "the ick" from it, I'm just not attracted to them, although that's not really anything to do with their Instagram as I knew I wasn't attracted to them before I ever saw either of their pages. We're just not the kind of people who would be into each other really. I scrolled the comments btw and saw you mention… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 08:16 AM |
| 0 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?What the fuck is your purpose in asking the question and all your follow up questions if you don't want people to actually answer? Did you just want everyone to go 'yes would be harder poor mens have it so bad why don't you come over for a pity shag?' I'd do fine dating as a man because I'm not a giant argumentative arsehole who thinks the world is out to get me, basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I skimmed the top level comments and not the discussion, how is that hard to understand? I really have a hard time believing that as a person on the shorter end of spectrum that you’d have it just as easy as you say. You can have a hard time all you want, since it's a hypothetical I can only really go with what I think would happen. I don't live in the US and I think the height thing is different here, our average height is shorter etc. I've never met a short guy who particularly struggled with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?It’s almost as if it’s a pattern. Almost as if people often read the comments before replying and then therefore reply in a similar vein as that's what's fresh in their mind. Pretty much human nature. I'm sure you'd rather believe it's all a big conspiracy though :) Read my first comment which included anything relevant about why it would be the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Oh hah, went on a ramble and forgot the question. No need for the condescending arse act :) In terms of relationships probably the same. Casual sex might have been a bit harder but maybe not, most of my dating/relationships took place before the advent of hook up apps and when people actually went out and met each other. With all the reasons in my previous comment I reckon it would probs be largely the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?I'm short (5'0) and look exactly like my mum. If I was a man I guess I'd be short and look exactly like my dad?? Although my dad is short (5'3) and he's never had trouble dating - he ran off with another woman when I was a kid and has pretty consistently had girlfriends throughout my life, until he got married and then his wife died (which was just under 4 years ago so a few years of being single and now he's seeing someone again) If I still looked exactly like my mum but as a man I would probab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 09:00 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS BE: POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR DAILY MEGATHREADNo maybe about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 11:50 AM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS BE: POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR DAILY MEGATHREADWhy does anyone choose to do anything? And dentists make much more money than probably 99% of people selling nudes or whatever, it's not exactly easy money (or long lasting money). It's a much better option to build a career or just have a stable job if you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 10:47 AM |
| 1 | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?Chill Wasn't aware I wasn't chill, it's just stating a fact. You're in a tiny minority of people/vegans. The vegan subreddits are mostly full of people who equate meat eaters to murderers and rapists and would absolutely not tolerate that kind of thing in their house. Even amongst more relaxed vegans - most people live in cities and don't have that kind of upbringing. Most meat eaters I know are queasy if confronted by their meat looking too animal like (as long as it's in the shape of a nugget … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 11:07 AM |
| 1 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADAbsolutely situational and specific. For instance - I don't like men who want a provider role - this is quite traditionally masculine and it's a con for me. But definitely a pro for other women who value that. I think the issue here is, if you ask me what pros and cons are in a specific man then I can tell you what my specific pros and cons are, which then you might read as a broad brush. But actually it's just me answering for myself, which I can do because I know what things constitute pros an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 05:23 PM |
| 2 | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?Yes I don't think I could date a vegan either. Thinking about the times I've killed lobsters, beheaded/skinned rabbits, plucked and gutted pigeons etc in the house or garden and I can't imagine a vegan would be willing to put up with it 😅 and I'm the same where I show love by cooking. I think I'd struggle to be with anyone with any kind of restrictive diet or even just a fussy/picky eater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREAD🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 04:44 PM |
| 2 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADAgain probs depends on the specific people, which you don't seem to be understanding. For sex negative anti porn men, the sex negative anti porn women probably have the pro of being "sex negative anti porn". Whereas for men who like sex and porn this will be a con. I've seen your reply to the other person saying you're trying to prove women can't do a pros and cons list. But your variables are far too broad. If you give a very specific man and a very specific woman and all their traits, then sur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 04:43 PM |
| 4 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADYeah but does anyone actually care about a few inches in height irl, if the difference is so slight they can't actually tell even when they've met them in person? You referenced this coming up on threads - has a woman accused a man of rape by deception because he was 5'10 and claimed he was 6'0? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 11:54 AM |
| 7 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADAgain it really depends, on the individuals involved. As per my example above - my attitude to work is a pro for my husband but presumably is a con for a traditional guy who'd like a stay at home wife. Oh, or - I prefer splitting bills 50/50, I like to pay my own way on dates, I don't expect to be treated by the man etc. this was a con for my ex, who stated that it felt "emasculating" when we were on a date and I paid with my card. Soo that could be a con depending on the guy, but obviously its … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 11:51 AM |
| 6 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADHow would you not know someone's height or dick size before you sleep with them 🤔 are they blindfolded or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 11:35 AM |
| 7 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADThere is nothing that would be a pro or a con for all men, or any one trait that applies to all feminist women. Like, I'd say I'm a feminist and I go out and work, don't want to be a SAHM if we have kids etc. Pros for my husband is that we currently have that sweet DINK life, and at some point in the future I might earn enough for him to quit his job and focus on other things, which he'd quite like to do. Whereas my sister is also a feminist and she was a SAHM for 3-4 years. Pros for her husband… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADI've never experienced a bad come down from MDMA. I've only taken it 3-4 times but each time I felt refreshed, peaceful and content for days afterwards. It was like a giant mental health boost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 06:10 AM |
| 4 | A feminist argument against going 50/50?I don't agree with doing some overall collective agreement about what standards people should accept in relationships. This isn't a workforce and there isn't a dating union. You just need to do what is right for the two people involved in the relationship. If you have an overwhelming disparity in income then financial contributions to the household could be on a pro rata basis, which covers the potential income inequality thing. If someone is unhappy with the amount of chores their partner is do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 11:15 AM |
| 50 | Q4W: Parallels between fathers and husbandsWhat the fuck even is this stream of horseshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Saving yourself for marriage - what is your opinion?I said bonding more to your first partner and the whole virginity thing is a social construct. So your response is irrelevant to that, well done. We know scientifically having sex is important for having healthy relationships because it bonds you. Then why the fuck would you marry someone without having sex with them? If sex is important for healthy relationships and you shouldn't marry someone you don't have a healthy relationship with - it's then extremely illogical and pretty stupid to wait t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 11:25 AM |
| 4 | Saving yourself for marriage - what is your opinion?many men and woman become attached to their first partners that is why taking someone’s virginity is frowned upon if you aren’t interested in them. Don't you think this is actually more of a social construct? We place an idealistic value on "virginity" and the "giving away" of your virginity is touted as some kind of special gift. This comes from purity culture and people not wanting others to sleep around, not because having sex for the first time is inherently special and somehow biologically … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 10:58 AM |
| 1 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADYes but you're making up a fake scenario in your head to be annoyed about and give justification that "husband material" means something bad, based on your entirely made up scenario. See how that's a bit pointless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 10:43 AM |
| 4 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADthen she calls him husband material because she settled for him, he's not the best for her but he's just good enough Yeah but is this just a made up scenario in your head because it sounds like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 10:24 AM |
| 3 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADThis is so stupid. 'Husband material' means you have more and are better than just ONS material. My husband was ONS material before I got to know him - I just wanted a shag, which I got. But that interaction immediately upgraded him from ONS material to 'regular casual sex' material, because there was more to him than just a one time shag. Then he became bf material as I got to know him because there was so much more to him than just a sex partner, then husband material because he's everything. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Saving yourself for marriage - what is your opinion?When I was a teen my mum gave me some life advice: never marry someone you haven't had sex with in case they're terrible in bed. Even if I hadn't been given that advice I wouldn't have waited until marriage - I really didn't see the point. Sex is sex, it's natural to want sex, and stupid to get married young. I'd have had no interest in waiting potentially a decade or more after sexual maturity to actually have sex. I think intercourse is a thing reserved for two people who love each other This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 09:33 AM |
| 4 | Saving yourself for marriage - what is your opinion?Your first time will be the most intense bonding experience of your life This just isn't true though. If people want to wait till marriage, fine, but why lie? The first time overall is no more intense a bonding experience than your first or five hundredth time with anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 09:23 AM |
| 2 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADObviously private conversations are by and large more frank than public ones. How do you know? Most people find it harder to say no to someone if asked by them directly, but will easily and happily ignore it if it's asked to a group. Stands to reason that people in a one on one conversation may be more inclined to lie and tell you what they think you want to hear. Whereas in an anonymous void they can be truthful without any real judgement. No. They straight up say things publicly that they don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 09:40 PM |
| 6 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADThe point is that these women would never say these things in public. How do you know? And even if not, why does that matter? Are things only truthful if they're said in private? If someone says something in public that automatically means they're lying and they say something else in private? And how do you know the things told to you in private aren't lies? Just because someone says something in private doesn't mean they're the ones telling you the truth. It's completely illogical to say "some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 06:17 PM |
| 10 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADWhy is it that you assume women who say things you agree with are telling you their secret truth, whereas women who say things you don't agree with are pathological liars? Has it ever, ever in your life occurred to you that just maybe different people have different opinions? I know this might be a mind blowing concept for you, but probably worth considering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you rather be stranded on an island with a man or a woman?It really depends. If I could choose the person I'd rather be stranded with a man - my husband. We camp, we've learned some Bushcraft skills, we can make fire and shelter and twine and know several effective methods for getting clean water. We did a week in the woods on a Bushcraft thing and a guy there told us we were like the perfect survivalist couple, as we worked so well together and had a range of skills between us 😅 If it was a random person then I'd pick a woman. In my experience when wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 06:51 AM |
| 18 | Killing “it” or killing “us”?You don't need to be a thug to up and leave your wife and kids. You don't have to be a thug to die unexpectedly, leaving your family behind. You don't have to be a thug for your relationship to just not work out 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 01:46 PM |
| 2 | What are men allowed to complain about today?You're just really making stuff up now. In another part of this thread, you were talking to someone else about boys falling behind in school not being addressed enough. If it was being addressed enough would you just turn around and say it doesn't count because that affects children and not men? I'm pretty sure you would as your responses on here indicate you're absolutely not willing to engage in good faith. If it affects men then it affects men. It doesn't really matter if it happened to them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:06 PM |
| 1 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADI dunno they just really like my cooking 🤷 the first time I cooked for them I made lasagne - they make theirs with jars of sauce whereas I do mine from scratch so I think that got me the initial brownie points, and they've liked everything I've cooked them since. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 03:24 PM |
| – | Why do so many women ask to be choked? Is it because they believe men enjoy this?You kinda are though. Many human activities involve harming ourselves for pleasure - drugs, alcohol, smoking, excessive meat consumption, 12 hour gaming marathons, risky sports, risky sex practices, driving fast cos you like it. Dunno why you're so hung up on this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 03:20 PM |
| – | Why do so many women ask to be choked? Is it because they believe men enjoy this?I dunno it just does 🤷 even just holding your breath gives a more intense orgasm, and there's nothing kinky about that/no danger etc as there's nothing stopping you from breathing again. The cells in your brain are fucking dying when you do this. Eh. Doubt most people continue it for long enough for this to happen. Sure if you're really intensely restricting oxygen that could happen, but the aim shouldn't be to go that intensely. Like yeah it's probably a problem if you're going so long you star… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 10:45 AM |
| 1 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADIt's never happened 😅 my in-laws think I'm a culinary wizard. My SIL helped me with Christmas dinner last year and was basically just like "I'm your bitch today, just tell me what to do and let me learn from you". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 10:25 AM |
| – | Why do so many women ask to be choked? Is it because they believe men enjoy this?That's not the same though. Asphyxiation gives an actual benefit for sex ie it makes it feel more intense. As far as I'm aware a skydiving dangerwank would not, therefore it's a stupid comparison. Yes restricting oxygen can be dangerous but it can be done very very safely (much like putting safety controls into adrenaline sports to help reduce injury/death). People have accidentally killed themselves when they've done it alone and tied something around their neck, as that's stupid behaviour (lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 10:02 AM |
| 5 | What are men allowed to complain about today?I've found that when women see that something happens to a child then there's sympathy but if you are an adult male, there's none. If a child complained to me about it then sure I'd be sympathetic, but it isn't children complaining. They don't often know it's even something to complain about until they're men. I personally have sympathy for the man and the consequences for his life, not some hypothetical child. I've encountered the sexual dysfunction it can cause. Yes while the initial incident … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 09:33 AM |
| – | Why do so many women ask to be choked? Is it because they believe men enjoy this?Because it is 🤷 most people are not doing it with the intent to be violent or cause harm. Yes, it can be dangerous when not done correctly (so really it is better if it is a person you trust choking you, rather than asphyxiation through other means such as putting something around your neck etc as that way lies the slippery slope to accidental death) but people indulge in lots of dangerous behaviour that no one thinks they're damaged for enjoying - bungee jumping/skydiving/Heli skiing - the list… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many women ask to be choked? Is it because they believe men enjoy this?It makes orgasms feel more intense. Plenty of guys enjoy it too. If you don't enjoy it that's fine, but it's just as normal as any other sexual proclivity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 12:16 AM |
| – | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADNah that's easy - if their driving is shite it's probs an Audi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 10:22 PM |
| 10 | Rationalizing a pump and dump"giving up sex" - or, you know, having mutually enjoyable sex because they wanted sex?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 04:00 PM |
| – | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADWell yeah, you can. Tbh I don't give a fuck what some random person had in mind when they designed my clothes. I don't wear them for the purposes of attracting sexual attention. I also don't understand what's wrong in your head (not you specifically - just everyone in general with this opinion) that this is even an issue. I have never once thought I was entitled to stare at someone for any reason but certainly not because I thought they were dressing sexy or whatever. I don't go around staring a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 12:41 PM |
| – | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADIt's nothing about being a victim, people who stare are just shitty people. Just because something is sexual to you doesn't mean the other person is doing it for sexual attention. You could use the same argument for staring at naked people in the changing rooms. You might find naked people sexually arousing but they're not doing it to arouse you, so just grow up and don't fucking stare 🤷 not that hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 12:23 PM |
| – | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADOr you could just not. I learned it was rude to stare when I was about 4, how have you never learned it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 07:19 AM |
| – | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADI would literally need to cut my boobs off to stop men noticing them. I have giant boobs. They're noticeable in everything. At least with cleavage out they can breathe a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 11:00 PM |
| 2 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADYou didn't say that though, you said "for other women" - do they say it's to compete or are you just assuming that's what they mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADI'd propose to him :) I offered to be the one proposing to my husband but he wanted to do it, and I wasn't bothered either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 06:24 PM |
| 2 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADI don't ever dress a certain way to one up or compete with a woman. It's just a kinda nice girly thing. Like, I went to the ballet with my mum and my sister and we all wore sparkly clothes because we were having a girly dinner and trip to the Christmas ballet. It was fun, we enjoyed being all sparkly together. Why do you have to assume everything is mean spirited? Do men only dress nice for sexual attention or to compete? Do you not ever dress nice just because it's nice to be all dressed up wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Rank these 3 men as dating prospects and explain why.None are dateable. I'm finding it difficult to rank, but I'd say 2 and 3 are probably tied, 1 is last. Number 1: I don't think I could be fucked with an influencer type, which is what he sounds like. I would like kids so also his not wanting other kids rules it out. I probably wouldn't want to date someone who already had kids either, although I'm not sure if that's a deal breaker. Number 2: Would literally be perfect with the hunting, fishing, outdoorsy, owning land etc but the long haul truck … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?It doesn't really seem like that is the case though https://ourworldindata.org/global-land-for-agriculture That suggests that grazing land for livestock (which in itself is often not natural - forests and all the related animal habitats would have needed to be destroyed to clear space for grazing land) plus crops for feeding livestock account for 80% of agricultural land use. While accounting for just 17% of global calories. Therefore if everyone went vegan, the land used would shrink massively,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?How? People can't live on animal produce entirely, so these "vegan appropriate" foods still need to be grown. Besides which, huge swathes of "vegan appropriate" food is grown to feed animals, so if the animals didn't need fed then a lot of that wouldn't need to exist (all of which involves the same death roll in rodents, birds, bugs). So sure, "vegan appropriate" food will cause death of rodents, birds and bugs. But raising meat causes all this death in addition to killing the animals for meat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 06:36 PM |
| – | A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that.I'm married, so not really in the need of a date. But thanks for the advice 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 08:17 AM |
| 3 | A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that.How is that in any way relevant? Walking into a bar and having some rando agree to sex doesn't solve loneliness. It's nothing to do with loneliness. If it was, then men wouldn't get so pissed off whenever sex workers or women they deem unattractive are suggested as a solution to their loneliness problem. Men can obtain sex easily if they're willing to debase themselves or do something they really don't want to do. Why is it suddenly enviable for a woman to be able to do the same thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 07:54 PM |
| -8 | A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that.The real world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 07:16 PM |
| -2 | A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that.That still isn't how the majority live | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 06:32 PM |
| 11 | A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that.Going to parties constantly for months on end, making some friends, have some fun but ultimately burning out on them, not going anymore because you decided they weren’t your thing anymore but still getting invited to them and knowing that, if you ever wanted to, you could go to a party on any given weekend should the urge strike This isn't how the majority of women live though. This is a very tiny minority, possibly one you've imagined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 06:12 PM |
| 6 | Can you prove women's alleged "mental load"?🤣 yes, when I was a kid I always used to wonder why my mum got so annoyed if I forgot to take something out the freezer. Now I fully understand haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:21 PM |
| – | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADIs it? Tbh I barely know anyone that's had a break up then got back together with the person so I don't have much frame of reference. I can only think of 2 examples off the top of my head and neither of them were the 1st case scenario (but neither of them were good relationships either and they probs should have just stayed broken up in both cases). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:54 PM |
| 1 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?How would you know if you've seen it though, realistically? If you don't think it happens you'd probably just assume they've always been attracted to that person. You're not going to know that they weren't and then developed that attraction over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:47 PM |
| – | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADI feel like "road head" must be a cultural thing. I could never work out how tf it was a thing but then I realised Americans mostly drive automatics and have giant straight long roads. Road head here would just block the gear shift and cause an accident 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:32 AM |
| – | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADYou are deliberately equating two different scenarios. If a guy said his wife left him in order to get together with a specific someone else and was then reaching out to him to attempt to cheat on this new person, then he would be rightfully told "omg leave her, you don't deserve that" etc. I know this is true because I've seen guys get this advice in similar situations Where it's "none of their business" is if you broke up for unrelated reasons, happened to have sex with other people while defi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:26 AM |
| 2 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?But no amount of personality will make someone go from a no to a yes I disagree. I've developed huge lustful crushes on people who I thought were unattractive when I met them, and thus went on to bang them. Sometimes their personality turns them hot 🤷 what was previously an unattractive feature turned to a delightful quirk etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 08:10 AM |
| 23 | Can you prove women's alleged "mental load"?and/or easily recordable, like a shopping list which you can write down on your phone. I don't really understand your point here. Sure you can write down your shopping list, it would be a bit weird not to. But in order to do that you need to plan what food will be consumed over the coming week. You need to have some awareness of what you have in the house or go and check. You need to have some awareness of what the people in your household will eat, and what time there is to cook on a given day.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 07:39 AM |
| 13 | Would love to hear different explanations for the difference in answersWomen are more realistic about how this will affect their life whereas men aren't, being less likely to be in this position or know a fellow man in this position. A huge raise/promotion drastically altering life circumstances. Most people have kids. A lot of people think it's more beneficial to stay at home with the kids while they're young. If your partner gets paid the big bucks then it makes sense for the poorer partner to stay home. They then have reduced pension income when they're old, few… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy dad's 5"3 and while he's never been physically intimidating to me he certainly could be (he's an angry/aggressive drunk, has broad shoulders and a skinhead and generally looks rough as fuck). I think it's more about presence and general demeanor than height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGoogle suggests that is not the case. I don't think circumcision should be a thing but it's a bit ridiculous to call it rape. Your point kinda gets lots in the dramatics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadraped Are men raped when they're born? I would assume no one marches against this because no one knows about it. What are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:38 PM |
| 20 | Why do progressives/feminists rarely object to grooming standards for men?How often do you see men reveal their armpits, apart from the gym or the beach? Ehhh only all the fucking time. Men wearing t-shirts often show their armpit hair as it pokes out their sleeves. This is normal, accepted, and no one comments it. Gym, beach, swimming, hot days with a tank top or topless, football in the park blah blah blah. No one gives a shit about men's armpit hair but women wouldn't be able to go without comments in a single one of these scenarios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLolol I've never heard a roofer talk positively about his job. They don't do it because they want to they do it because they need a job (which realistically is the case for most people in most jobs). If all the men were gone the population would be halved so all the heavily female dominated industries would see mass redundancies. Those people would need to find other work, and where they can't get something they want to do they'll do what they have to do. This is already pretty much how life wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadsuit. Suit suit and suit. Die of heat, hide all of your skin and body shapes... Be Scottish, wear a kilt! You might still die of heat but you'll look fantastic and your knees will get a breeze. I can't relate to the video though because I love my husband in his baseball cap and Costco shorts he looks so good 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo nothing like that scenario. I did get stealthed once which was shitty, but not anything rough/violent etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHard to say without actually having been there but I'd say a really bad encounter. It's a very blurry line with this kind of thing and she's obviously not given enthusiastic consent for the rough part of things, but she did willingly have sex and then doesn't appear to have tried to tell the guy to cut out the rough stuff. Since she didn't verbally communicate then I think it depends a bit on how obvious it was that she wasn't enjoying it I think, if it was very clear that she hated it and he pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, it was a long time ago now and I'm happily married to a wonderful and equally slutty man - he was one of the strangers I slept with and turned out to be a keeper. The kind of people who might see my sex life as "lowering my value" would never be the kind of people I'd want to be in a relationship with anyway, and since it's never been an issue I think we've all managed to successfully avoid each other :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 09:27 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've had plenty of great sex with strangers. First rule though - don't sleep with them if you're not getting a good vibe. She shouldn't have gone ahead with it when she was already feeling iffy, regardless of it just being a casual encounter. Getting good vibes doesn't guarantee a good encounter ofc but bad vibes will pretty much guarantee a bad one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?I'm a woman and literally every person I've met or spoken to since I've been of working age has asked what I do for work. It's a normal interaction that human people have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen overwelmingly choose form over function. So, I can see this as an argument for maybe day to day dressing "why don't women just dress like crap then they'd be practical". But women have this issue when buying functional clothes too. I like camping and spending time outdoors so I like practical outdoors clothes. I have a women's waterproof that is clearly a functional garment - it's kinda ugly but it keeps you warm and dry. Yet it still only has two pockets. I had to buy a man's fishing jack… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI reckon they generally don't start off with enough to be drunk drunk and then hungover. I don't drink much so I'm a total lightweight these days, 1-2 beers is enough to get me "merry" and I don't have a hangover the next day. If I was chasing that merry feeling I might do the same the next day and the next. But then I'd find that my tolerance was increasing so I'd need more to get me to that point. And then once you get to that stage where you're drinking a lot and getting hungover then you're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'd pick being alone for months, hands down. If you wouldn't then that's on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadhttps://www-cbsnews-com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/alissa-mccommon-teacher-charged-rape-boy-tennessee-unspeakable/?amp_gsa=1&_js_v=a9&usqp=mq331AQIUAKwASCAAgM%3D#amp_tf=From%20%251%24s&aoh=17109505723672&csi=1&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&share=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.cbsnews.com%2Fnews%2Falissa-mccommon-teacher-charged-rape-boy-tennessee-unspeakable%2F That took seconds, there will be more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell that's not true. But okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere's lots you can do about it - if there's an actual physical altercation you can report it. You can leave. You have the same options a woman would have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's not socially acceptable. But just like you have asshole men who won't accept no, you also have asshole women who won't accept no. It's not acceptable no matter who it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm kinda romantic, although not overly so. My dad's a flaky alcoholic who would go without contacting us for weeks, months, occasionally more than a year. So not especially close. He is in regular contact now but it's not really a father daughter dynamic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:01 AM |
| 4 | To the women who have dated or are dating a guy with less relationship experience than you, what is it like ?somethings not adding up 🤔🤔🤔 You obviously can't count very well then. This thread is specifically asking people who are in relationships with less experienced men. Therefore those that don't date less experienced men are much less likely to answer it. Also, the question specifies "less experienced" not "inexperienced" - they are different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 10:36 AM |
| 4 | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?Except it's usually as a response to someone literally asking what specific people like in guys. I can't answer that question for other people, I can only answer for me. And when I give my opinion then you'd have to be a total idiot to decide that I must mean "this is the opinion of all women who have ever existed" because that would be fucking ludicrous. And yes, plenty women do like taller guys, but guys on here talk as if you're doomed if you're under 6ft and you'll literally never have anyon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:55 PM |
| 6 | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?Conservative sexually. Not necessarily anything to do with left leaning politically. Again see point about the others who like casual sex. That isn't "acting like it didn't happen" that's a mutual agreement between two people to have sex and nothing more, much as some of the guys on here would like to pretend that doesn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:02 PM |
| 5 | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?How does me liking short guys give women in general a positive spin? My opinion and preferences ARE to do with me, personally, and are nothing to do with any other woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:00 PM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?Maybe you just hang out with a different demographic of women. A lot of the women on here are conservative or virgins so not likely to have been in a pump and dump situation. The others who do engage in casual sex won't see themselves as being pumped and dumped because the entire expectation of their interaction is no strings attached sex. So presumably your female friends are all having sex with the intention of turning it into a relationship, if they've been pumped and dumped. Which is a bit o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:54 PM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?It bugs me when people always assume you're lying when you tell the truth. I have no interest in lying on here - I'm anonymous, what would be the point. I'm also not interested in downvotes/upvotes - but you're saying you got downvotes for saying you liked taller guys, I've been downvoted plenty and had belligerent comments for saying I like short guys. It doesn't matter either way. But I'm a short woman. I like other short people. And sure, shorter guys can struggle but that doesn't mean they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadProbably varies by person but in general yes. I have spontaneous sexual desire, always have. Doesn't even need to be someone really really attractive tbh I've just always been a horny lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Looks, money, status... Is it true?Reworded: If your physical Prince Charming took you on an introductory coffee date tomorrow, what status and income level would you expect him to have? Be reasonable, and be honest; please and thanks. None. Status is a meaningless buzzword. And my husband was unemployed and on the dole when I met him. Personality and sexual compatibility are the important things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAddressed this already No you didn't. So just wear the female condom then so you don't have to mess with birth control or arguing with the guy about using one and protect against std or getting pregnant. Or just use male condoms so you don't need to mess around with birth control. I don't see how you're not getting this. Men's complaint around male condoms is basically that they don't like the feeling of sticking their dick in plastic. So a femidom isn't going to change that, ergo, a man who is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd if a woman doesn't want to use a female condom why would she want to use a male condom? Because male condoms are more effective, more readily available, and easier to use. Like, a whole fucking host of reasons to use them over female condoms. Obviously. If a man has a choice between no sex or the woman wears her condom, he's gonna deal with the condom. So just wear the male condom then. Since they're more readily available, more effective, easier to use. Addressed this point already No you d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have literally never seen a female condom available to buy, ever in my life. And if a guy doesn't want to use a male condom why would he want to use a female condom, which from all accounts seems to just be like a baggy condom 😅 I can't see the condom haters going for that. But if you look at the rates of men using men specific barrier protection vs women using women specific barrier protection we're beating the pants off women on usage rates. It's not a case of "beating" anyone. Condoms are m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 11:39 PM |
| 6 | Are Situationships for the most part, a result of women not being able to secure men they wish to date?Lol nurses and teachers make nowhere near that in the UK. From what I can tell by salary banding (from Scotland at least) you'd need to be a head teacher with years if not decades of experience. Average nurse salary is in the 30s. 100k here is richy rich. Salaries and what they get you are very different here compared to the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat is a good point that Reddit users are a minority of the population, but this is one of the most popular subs on the platform which is used by a lot of “normies”, I think that makes it a more credible look into the psyche of “average women”. But it doesn't, because it's still a teeny tiny sampling and there was a big variety in comments. Plus, you say it's one of the most popular subs - I'm very penis positive but I've never been on that sub until I clicked the link you posted. Maybe the maj… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadReddit users are a minority of the population in general. Women are a minority of Reddit users. That thread has a tiny amount of comments compared to how many users there are on Reddit and how many people there are in the world. I read through the top handful of comments and got a variety: women saying they love dick, women saying they love it if it's attached to the right person, women saying they find them ugly, women saying they find them ugly but also they think they're asexual, women saying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHas it never occurred to you that women who insist men/penises etc are unattractive are just a vocal minority in the same way that men who shout about hating women are a vocal minority? What is the use of settling for that just to get a relationship with a woman who is gaslighting herself into thinking she is attracted to you when no such thing exists? Like most points on here men just insist women are lying about everything, so you can continue down your "woe is me" path. I'm sure you know and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI never said it wasn't a luxury, I'm arguing that it isn't "worse than worthless". Just because not everyone is able to do it doesn't make it worthless. Doing something for the enjoyment of it is worthwhile, even if it happens to be expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI read a thing from a couple of years ago that said only a third of men eligible for paternity leave actually took it. If they won't even take a few weeks leave when they're entitled to it and it doesn't reduce the women's leave, how can we hope they're suddenly going to shift to wanting to sacrifice years towards childcare? Obviously that is starting to shift a little and more men are willing to do it, but even if articial wombs were invented tomorrow I can't imagine it making much of a cultura… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread-Employers can't use discriminatory mindset against you in the workplace like "i won't hire her because she may had kids later" -No more reasons for the motherhood penalty I feel like it would take a very long time to make the cultural shift to men being as likely to take time off/care for their kids. Employers aren't only thinking of pregnancy when they discriminate against women of childbearing age - there are years of potential disruption (many parents need to have one person quit or drop hou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI did my degree purely for knowledge/enjoyment. There's a lot to be said for just doing something because you enjoy it, rather than being motivated by money. If it gives you happiness and a good experience then it's not worthless at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 10:51 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathread2nd one. I like my boobs, wouldn't want to go any smaller than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDepends on the occasion and where we're going, but at least once a year we get up ridiculously fancy and go out for a nice dinner very overdressed. Last time, my husband was in a 3 piece suit and I was in a long white dress and the head waiter guy came over to say we looked fantastic and he just really wanted to know why, was it a special occasion - I think he thought we'd just got married 😅 Managed not to get food on ourselves though, neither of us are particularly prone to food spillage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes. It's also great because our national pastime is complaining about things, so we're never under any obligation to pretend that life is awesome and we're winning. The more things to moan about the better 🤣 positive things are totally a pleasant surprise (but we will probably still find a way to moan about them!) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Ladies - Did you feel more dependent on your man when you fell in love with him?Yes ish. I wouldn't call it surrender exactly. But although I'm perfectly happy and capable of functioning on my own, I prefer to be with my husband. In previous relationships I really relished the opportunity to spend time alone, but in this one I can take it or leave it. I'm not dependent on him for entertainment or whatever - we can be in the same room doing something completely different. But it's just nicer when he's there. Not sure if that's "being dependent" or just "enjoying someone's co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If all men magically became the average man, how would that change your life?Well if every guy suddenly has 4 billion friends I guess they'd be too busy to date, so I guess that's how my life would have been different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: If all men magically became the average man, how would that change your life?has the same friends Is every man in the world friends with every other man in the world? Or do they just have all the same friends because every man is exactly the same in this scenario? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 05:27 PM |
| 7 | It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide.Yes and the person you're responding to is answering based on that and you're just not reading it or not grasping it or wilfully ignoring it. If you talk about what you do for your partner then you sound like a dick. You're bragging about yourself and how awesome you are. Normal men don't do this either. It is normal, for normal men and women, to talk about what their partner does for them. "Oh my god she's a great cook", "he bought me these beautiful flowers", "she surprised me with a little we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadwhat a way to give your kids childhood trauma. Your parents have given you childhood trauma from being really fucking weird. How do you think nurses shower their patients? Do they get naked in the shower with them? You don't need to be in the shower with someone to give them a shower. Whenever I've seen set ups for people who might need assistance from a nurse/carer it's not a normal shower - it's like a wet room situation with bars/seat etc and the ability to be in the shower without being show… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt is absolutely 100% normal. If you only have a shower, how the fuck else are you supposed to wash your kids when they still need help? You can't stand there with the shower door open as you'll just get water all over the place, so it makes sense to just shower together. Even if you have a bath and a shower, it's perfectly normal to have a bath with your kids so why not a shower 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/24 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShowing with your parents is weird af tho... def predatory and not normal. What is wrong with you. It's perfectly normal to bathe with your kids whether that's a shower or a bath. If you think it's "predatory" then you have a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/24 10:18 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI could have really made them feel special if I had an LTR or at least some sort of attention from women. Thats their fault for making the wrong decisions and thinking a man such as myself will save them. Let them deal with it. This is deranged haha. Are you going around everyone who ever rejected you and being a fuckboy with them? Or are you just assuming every woman you meet would have rejected you in the past, they've made bad decisions in life and now think you're going to "save" them? Both … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 12:58 PM |
| 2 | I found an interesting video presenting a map of relationship states. I'm curious to know what the PPD community thinks about it.Bill Gates isn't attractive because he's an old man. Nothing to do with not being a bad boy. Ozzy Osbourne is probably a "bad boy" but is also not attractive, because he's an old man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:52 PM |
| 3 | I found an interesting video presenting a map of relationship states. I'm curious to know what the PPD community thinks about it.man's physical attractiveness, and his status, power, competence, and confidence. Why are these "bad boy" points? Are only ugly people nice or something? And only bad people confident? Like most of these things, it sounds Iike a bunch of brainless bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 10:54 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have one sibling (sister, 2 years older) we have a good relationship. We only live 20 mins away from each other so see each other quite a lot. We also have a lot of shared interests - cooking, baking, growing veg, sewing, learning a new language together - so we help each other out with things, swap tips and seeds and lend each other equipment. Me, my mum and my sister do occasional "stitch and bitch" evenings where we'll all bring a sewing/knitting/crocheting project and work away at it while… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAw shucks, thanks ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt is a good flavour! Cost was definitely a factor, we had a tiny wedding and it seemed silly to splurge loads on a professional cake when I can bake. But it was also so nice to have something really personal and exactly what we wanted :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDepends on the situation but in general probably chocolate. For mine and my husband's wedding cake I made chocolate sponge covered in milk chocolate ganache (underused but superior to dark chocolate ganache imo) with chocolate swiss meringue buttercream and super thin shards of chocolate on the outside. Chocolate overload and totally worth it ❤️ But I do also like fruitier lighter flavours. Last year I made vanilla cake featuring lemon curd and white chocolate ganache, and it was a delicious com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 11:28 PM |
| 15 | Is a One Night Stand the truest form of a woman showing Burning Sexual Desire?Not in my experience. I've had ONS with people I wasn't particularly attracted to, because I was horny and they were the most convenient person. And I've had burning sexual desire for people I haven't attempted to have sex with for various reasons (because the timing was inappropriate, or one or both of us was in a relationship or whatever). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHook up can be pretty much anyone, marriage needs to be with someone you actually like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 02:25 PM |
| – | women. opinions on masculine guys adopting feminine traits alongside their masc ones.Caring about something doesn't make it a requirement, obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 10:55 AM |
| – | women. opinions on masculine guys adopting feminine traits alongside their masc ones.What's the point in caring about anything? A nice bum is hot and a turn on. Yes it doesn't make the person but neither do any of the physical characteristics or individual personal characteristics that people care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNothing wrong with skinny forearms. Mackenzie Crook has hot af forearms and he's crazy skinny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:19 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMaybe only the women who'd had sex recently replied. I can imagine those who hadn't probably couldn't be bothered with the potential of ppd guys jumping down their throat about how they're a terrible person for having the wrong sex/chore ratio or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Things are only truly terrible when it happens to women.Thanks for the tips, will keep in mind :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Things are only truly terrible when it happens to women.We had one of those (or a long tyre iron type thing anyway, as far as I can tell they're similar) and it just wouldn't budge at all. I have roadside assistance at home so if I was struggling I'd just call them anyway, it's not like I'd just stand around waiting on a guy (or a woman) to help haha. But in this case we were on holiday, had managed to get to a petrol station, and there was a large and helpful guy working there who was happy to assist. In any case my car doesn't have a spare so I nee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 03:29 PM |
| – | Woman really don't like most men sexuallyConsidering men turn to sex with men in prison, I think you are extremely incorrect in your assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 12:33 PM |
| – | Woman really don't like most men sexuallyDo you also think men get off to gay blowjob videos like female blowjob videos? FFS can't you read? No, I don't think they do that. Because if they want to watch a blow job they can fucking watch het porn. Just as there would be no point in a guy watching gay porn if he's not attracted to men because he can just watch het anal porn. Whereas lesbian porn gives women something that het porn doesn't give. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 12:27 PM |
| 7 | Things are only truly terrible when it happens to women.I will keep that in mind thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 12:15 PM |
| 4 | Things are only truly terrible when it happens to women.Breast cancer gets more funding because historically it always needed more funding. Don't just parrot this shit, go and do the research. Breast cancer affects men as well as women, so a larger population is at risk of it. It is the most common type of cancer. While breast cancer and prostrate cancer both are more likely with age, breast cancer becomes more likely at a younger age than prostrate. Generally prostrate is extremely slow growing and you are more likely to die of something else in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 10:53 AM |
| 13 | Things are only truly terrible when it happens to women.With the tire situation a lot of women can't change the tire they cant break the lug nuts they can't jack the car up. Yes - I theoretically know how to change a tyre as I've seen it done and assisted with a tyre change. I can jack the car up fine. But then I really struggle to move tyres themselves - moving one off and away from the car, fine. But I wouldn't be able to get a spare one out my boot to put on the car, or put the old tyre back in the boot (without scraping up the back of my car anyw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 10:30 AM |
| – | Woman really don't like most men sexually1.And yet, the vast majority of amateur couples post videos that clearly show them having sex in good lighting Never seen a single one that wasn't awful and just distractingly shit to watch. The same amount of effort that it takes woman to type in lesbian into the search bar on PH, they could easily type in amateur and get off to that. Except it then takes much longer to find one that isn't shit when they could just click the first result for lesbian. A man watching 2 gay guys go at it, is vastl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 09:57 AM |
| – | Woman really don't like most men sexuallyIt's also been invaded by amateur couples that post vid of themselves having sex. Oh yay blurry dark video with awkward angles. Maybe people prefer the production value of professional porn? Heterosexual porn is far more diverse than the stereotype u presented. There are even sites like erotica that cater to romantic, sensual porn that woman desire Who goes researching porn? Most people just want something quick and free to access. Therefore on the mainstream sites if you're looking for that spe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 09:13 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadVery comfortable 10/10 I have atrocious periods so I can't live with someone without them knowing I'm on it, as necking pills and having a hot water bottle surgically attached to me throughout is a bit of a giveaway 😅 so it's pretty much a given that it will come up. In any case we have no secrets, no awkwardness. The man fished a menstrual cup out of my vagina for me because the first time I tried one I got it stuck and I couldn't get it back out 😭 and he sat in the bathroom with me, bloody pad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Women, what do you bring to the table?I'm in the UK so maybe the set up is different. I have no idea if scholarships are a thing here because they're never talked about, I only know of them from an American context. I never lived in uni accommodation because I wasn't eligible, but from everyone I know who lived in actual uni accommodation they still had to pay rent and do their own shopping/cook food etc. It's just like renting anywhere else except you have more flatmates and are close to classes. Meh, loans here are means tested wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 03:19 PM |
| 5 | Women, what do you bring to the table?Getting a degree (at least a college one) involves housing that is paid for, food that is paid for, etc. What, where is that?? 😅 I had to scrimp and save for a year before I went to uni so I could afford to go. I had to juggle a part time job around classes to pay for rent, and bills and food, like every other student I know. I got a student loan "for living costs" that didn't even cover the cost of my uni books. Where is this magical place where housing and food is paid for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 03:03 PM |
| 6 | Women, what do you bring to the table?Hah yes there are probably a lot of people talking shit on here, and that's the difficulty with posts like these as they're so rarely made in good faith. But I still do think it's subjective overall, what people bring to the table - my skills/hobbies and interests work really well for the life my husband and I have and the life we want - and may well be desirable to others with similar goals. But that's not going to suit everyone and that's fine, we all have different groups of people we're more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 12:22 PM |
| 30 | Women, what do you bring to the table?How do guys dismiss these answers? In the past I've seen responses such as: sex doesn't count because it's bare minimum/he could get someone else to sleep with him/go to a prostitute emotional support doesn't count because men don't need that organising things in the home/for holidays doesn't count because either men don't need/want that or if a woman is organising a holiday she must be a money grabbing bitch who's getting him to pay for it cooking doesn't count, either because men don't need th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 11:28 AM |
| 46 | Women, what do you bring to the table?But this time, let's ask women. "But this time" as if this isn't asked all the time on this sub 😅 Whenever this is asked guys just dismiss any actual answers as not being relevant etc. What people bring to the table is entirely subjective - the things you value in a relationship may not be what others value. To my husband I'm an entirely impressive woman who brings a crazy amount of stuff to the table, but to someone else that stuff might be dismissed as not important. In any case I started writ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 10:45 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen I was getting a referral to discuss possible endo a couple of years ago, they only had male obgyns. It was fine though, he was a great doctor, took my concerns seriously and explained all my options thoroughly. For physical exams he brought a female nurse in to chaperone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 08:53 AM |
| 4 | What turned you off dating people you were initially interested in or had dates with?That's quite a big assumption. And just because someone has shared something with you in a friendship context doesn't mean someone else might not share it in a sexual context. From OPs comment it sounds like she was interested in him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 12:53 PM |
| 5 | What turned you off dating people you were initially interested in or had dates with?Did she tell you about the 3-ways? If so, you never had a chance with her in the first place. Women don’t admit to shit like that in front of guys they like. Not true, obviously. Otherwise poly and swinger communities wouldn't exist. If someone likes having threesomes and then finds themselves attracted to a person, it is in fact quite sensible to tell them about the threesomes to gauge whether or not you're sexually compatible. I wouldn't want to be with someone sexually conservative, it would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 12:35 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe part that's in his imagination | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Surely they’ve heard about or even personally know women who lose respect for men when they become vulnerable No, never. All of my life experiences have shown and taught me that men being open about their vulnerabilities benefits them and is good for their relationships overall. Surely they’ve seen a lot of women use “ insecure “ as an insult . I've seen men use this as a way to insult women too but that's never convinced me that women should hide their vulnerabilities so I'm not sure why it wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 09:19 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: Do you ever want to feel sexy just for yourself?you feel some kind of way after you hit a pb. Untouchable. Same when you perfectly nail an eyeliner flick tbh. So rare, and so wonderful when it happens. Even more so when you manage to make both sides match 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEspecially if people were giving out valentines lol At my work for a few years they did a Valentine's thing where you could buy a heart shaped balloon and have it anonymously delivered to someone's desk. And a few times you could buy a "love letter" template things where you named a colleague and wrote why they were awesome, popped it in the box and they were delivered out to the recipient. It actually seemed to go quite well haha, I don't recall any drama. But then I suppose it wasn't a party a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 09:00 PM |
| – | Women are becoming increasingly less feminine and exhibiting masculine traits that most men find unattractive, yet due to desperation and simping they have no motivation to stopWomen have always been afforded more leeway to dress androgynously than men. That is slowly changing, but it is something they've had far longer than men nonetheless. Not really, things just go in and out of fashion. While in terms of somewhat current fashion (or fashion for the past hundred years or so), women have been able to dress more androgynously, prior to that there were big chunks of time in the past where men wore heels, powdered wigs, make up, frills, lace. Men cutting about in togas … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 08:49 PM |
| 7 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.This is hilarious. So basically you have no idea wtf you're talking about, you're just parroting nonsense you heard somewhere and what, it feels right to you? So you'll just suck to your guns no matter what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 12:27 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLast night, this morning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm hoping they'll be okay - between the two of us there's not much balding on either side of the family (only on my dad's side, everyone else keeps a full head of hair). And my dad's side haven't been particularly early to bald, and had lovely thick heads of hair up til that point. We shall see. If all else fails, I generate enough hair I could make them all wigs 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm hoping any children I get inherit my hair, whether they be male or female. My husband's family don't have bad hair but it's mostly thin and mousey. Whereas I have undeniably glorious hair. Although if they get my hair thickness and my husband's ginger tinge then they'll be unstoppable. All other features can come from his side of the family. Their teeth are fucked either way so braces are a definite no matter who they take after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 04:52 PM |
| 18 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?Whereas your tactic of picking something you're going to blindly believe and never at all consider there might be other reasons for something is such a good one. Noted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 01:03 PM |
| 16 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?When was the last time you say a "straight" man say he preferred lesbian porn? Well quite a lot of guys like lesbian porn 😅 but I assume you mean gay porn. I know a lot of women who prefer lesbian porn because it's gentler, nicer, more focused on female pleasure. Hetero porn is often for the male gaze and features acts which don't seem to be enjoyable/pleasant for the woman. I assume most lesbian porn is for the male gaze too but it's probably easier to find stuff that's to their taste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:37 PM |
| 14 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking specifically about the men, of which there are many on this sub, who insist that men are better than women in literally every way. Post pictures of half naked men and insist they're the most handsome creature to walk this earth and any woman who thinks otherwise is lying. However they do not seem inclined to actually date or sleep with men, and I would assume it's for the same reason the women in the OP don't date women. why are you folks upset that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:30 PM |
| 30 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?Men on this sub frequently wax lyrical about handsome and sexy men and then are offended and accuse people of homophobia and misandry if someone suggests they're gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:16 PM |
| 53 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?Presumably for the same reason the guys on here who wax lyrical about men (how handsome, empathetic, smart, loyal, and all-round amazing they are) and hate on women (how fake, fat, ugly, shallow, selfish, disloyal, stupid and boring they are) don't just go and date men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHaha no problem, it is definitely a good excuse not to get down on one knee! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI had no expectations. When we discussed marriage I did say since we were both up for it we could probably just decide we were engaged and no one needed to propose, but my husband said he wanted to propose so fair enough. He has dodgy knees so it would have been mean of me to expect him to get down on one 😅 nothing more romantic than a loudly popping knee as one gets into position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI love cargo shorts 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you have no reason to request one then it is a sign of mistrust. Same with a go bag, if there's no reason to have one it's a sign of mistrust. People who want paternity tests and people who want go bags should not be in their current relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 08:10 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOne of the biggest complaints on here from men is that women treat them as subhuman, so you're literally just agreeing with me here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPeople often find out about cheating, or suspect it. If you are in that position it's perfectly reasonable to leave the relationship and request a paternity test. I don't think it's reasonable to request one if you trust your partner. I think people who feel they need a go bag should just not be in that relationship, but if there's some reason they really can't leave at that precise moment it seems reasonable to have a go bag ready for when they can. I don't think it's reasonable to have a go ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's not relevant to the comment you're replying to, which is a simple commentary on logistics. Also, this thread is about having a go bag and actually being in the position to need to use it. No one has an issue with someone taking their stuff and leaving if they get hit. Much like no one will have an issue with someone requesting a paternity test if they've been cheated on. Trust is already gone in both these scenarios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 06:18 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThey write with disgust, with dehumanising language, with insults. Someone could say "oh I prefer guys with darker hair over blonde", or "I like tall women, they look so elegant". That's a preference. Or even "for me sex is a really special and intimate act - I only want to do this with the person I want to marry, and I want the person I'm going to marry to have the same values". Saying you will "only fuck and not wife" a "slut" a "degenerate whore" and they can tell because of her "thousand coc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread🙄 I don't have a go bag, was merely answering a question. Perhaps those with go bags are also fine with random paternity tests, in any case not at all relevant to the comment you're replying to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 04:57 PM |
| – | Women dress provocatively for male attentionA hijab is a head covering so no one is walking about covered from head to toe in one in the first place. I've been out in all sorts of revealing gear and not been hit on, and then been hit on when I have been basically covered head to toe, is my point. It makes little to no difference. Women are still approached, harassed, assaulted whether they're wearing hijabs, burqas, chadors or whatever. So, yes. They do still receive this attention. So again, why shouldn't women just wear what they want. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 04:27 PM |
| – | Women dress provocatively for male attentionSo then why do they also dress in attractive clothes outside of the home? Because they like them and wear conservative clothes when they go out. But they don't like the conservative clothes so why would they wear them. if it's wasnt for me or other men, they would have no desire to wear the same type of revealing outfits outside the house Or, get this, it's because it's what they like to wear. I don't understand how you find this such a difficult concept. People dress how they like to dress, for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you've just been beaten up and are in a hurry you're probably not thinking straight and are panicking a bit. Having a bag packed presumably means the important stuff is all together and you won't forget anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 12:40 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSensibly, I married a guy with dodgy knees and asthma so he's unlikely to get drafted 🎉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHey it's the men on this sub who keep calling my husband a chad. He's had casual sex with women he was attracted to, and had women approach him. Apparently that's only a possibility for the chadliest toppest tier guys, I don't make the rules 🤷 And obviously I do think he's hot af, but it's also the men on this sub that would insist he can't possibly be, being below average height and extremely gym avoidant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 12:28 PM |
| – | Why is it very difficult for people to accept younger woman are more attractive.But dating/relationships are about much more than looks, so of course people will find it weird if that's what you're chasing. You can't just base a relationship around the fact you think someone's hot; it's pretty much doomed to fail. Also, just because someone's 25 doesn't mean they're a 10. And just because someone isn't 25 doesn't mean they're not a 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 09:02 AM |
| 3 | Why is it very difficult for people to accept younger woman are more attractive.Tbh it's just quite weird as a 45 year old to be attracted to a 25 year old. That's a twenty year age gap. When I was in my teens I found other teens attractive. Now I'm in my 30s they're not. Even with a lesser gap - I work with a lot of guys in their early twenties and they're SO young. I can't imagine being attracted to any of them. They're basically still kids. They dress weird, they use different slang, they're obsessed with tiktok, none of them know how to do anything, they've barely start… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 12:29 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about the SMV flip?I think you're extremely naive to believe anything that comes from someone who makes a living partly out of conning gullible lonely men. You wouldn't believe the life presented to you by a female Instagram influencer so why do you believe in this? Because he's telling you what you want to hear? Or you're desperate to believe in something no matter how far fetched it is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 12:27 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the SMV flip?Pics frequently do lie. Are those women employed to be in that picture? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 07:01 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about the SMV flip?How do you know? Do you believe everything public figures tell you? Bit stupid but okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 08:32 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the SMV flip?Are they though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 12:46 PM |
| 0 | What do you think about the SMV flip?If our positive attributes increase our desirability in the dating marketplace increases. If those attributes erode so does our ability to get dates. Considering the amount of people who complain about women choosing drug addicts, criminals, ugly/mean/poor guys over them, this apparently doesn't actually track with real life experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere might be subtle differences you don't really notice. I think men and women's hands do differ a bit in terms of shape of nail bed, knuckle size, skin (men tend to have thicker/firmer skin than women), hair. It's just hard to tell why this is attractive or what's attractive about it, it just is 😅 probably some sort of subconscious biological thing. Realistically though unless your hands are noticeably unattractive then they're not likely to detract from your overall attractiveness. I could c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 04:11 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about the SMV flip?But then is it healthy to think someone always needs to be productive or doing service in order to be worth something? I get guilty if I feel like I'm not being productive, and I have a lot of "productive" hobbies (cooking, baking, sewing/quilting, growing veg etc). But then I also enjoy unproductive things like reddit and computer games and sudoku. And then comes the stress of feeling guilty when I've been doing "unproductive" things. When in this day and age where we spend most of our lives at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTall is subjective. My mum is average height for a woman but to me she is tall because she can reach a higher shelf than me 😅 Many women have told me they prefer tall man regardless their height? And what? Many women have told me they just like a guy taller than them regardless of overall height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 03:09 PM |
| 6 | What do you think about the SMV flip?Yes, and that's difficult, but also why we should try and move away from this service and value idea. It was seen a lot when things happened such as mines or shipyards closing down - whole towns of men who suddenly feel like they lack a purpose and all they do is sit around drinking and getting angry, and it doesn't do anyone any good. It's fine to want to be busy and want to do stuff but people can always learn a new skill, take up a new hobby. My husband hates feeling like he's not being produ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 02:34 PM |
| 4 | What do you think about the SMV flip?It's not about value though. He's still a human being, he still has worth whether or not he's "contributing to society". Men can and do lose their jobs and continue successfully in their relationships if they don't tank it by behaving like a total dick over a prolonged period of time. A bit of adjustment time is normal and natural but then you need to start working through it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 02:14 PM |
| 5 | What do you think about the SMV flip?Some of us have even experienced it, when my value lowered in a relationship, I got cheated on That is meaningless. Overall you got cheated on because your partner was being a dick. If it was anything to do with "value" then rich, successful, handsome people would never get cheated on whereas that does happen. If you've had something happened that's knocked your confidence and then had someone cheat it's easy to ascribe it to some kind of value system, but it's bull. One thing I see a lot of guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't know why you'd doubt it's legit, he either photographs well or he's a really attractive guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm really short so everyone is tall. I'm constantly surrounded by tree people and therefore can't really tell specifically how tall someone is. I just know that I prefer it when I don't have to crane my neck to look at someone's face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHonestly I like most men's hands. Unless they're crazy hairy or moist and chubby. Reasonably clean and trimmed nails are also preferred. But in general most men just have quite nice hands. I can't really describe what it is that makes them attractive, and it's weird because I'm bi and I don't have a thing for women's hands, only men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 12:09 PM |
| 4 | What do you think about the SMV flip?I don't believe in SMV. People aren't objects. We don't increase and decrease in "value". Thinking this shit is probably what gives guys such a hard time dating in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 11:44 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADFair enough if you don't agree, but you can't say it's something women are getting wrong about the discourse when there are a lot of guys on here who make it clear that it's exactly what they mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 11:40 AM |
| 6 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYeah the fact you went straight to that and went into detail says a significant amount about you. That isn't a normal person reaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 01:55 AM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADthey think that men are saying that being promiscuous lowers their value as a human being There are plenty men on this sub who do in fact think this. Just like being fat, fit, tall, short, black/white/brown etc doesn't define someone's worth Again, plenty of men on this sub do think those things define actual worth. Possibly not so much the height bit but definitely the other stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 01:39 AM |
| 7 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWell you're fucking psychotic, well done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've clearly been cast out of the hive mind at some point. Before Christmas one of my co-workers was discussing at length her attempts to get a Stanley cup for her niece's Christmas present and I thought it was a sports thing 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 12:50 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf men are holding women to a certain standard of beauty, then it exactly means women are doing it for men otherwise said "standards" wouldn't exist Not really. As is often touted on this sub some women have "tall" as a beauty standard for men. Men aren't being tall for women, they just are tall. Like some men's standards include a certain bodyweight for women, but most women aren't maintaining a certain bodyweight for men. If women didn't care, then why do they say men have high standards in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 08:28 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut "men have high beauty standards" doesn't mean that women do their appearance for men. A contradiction would be: "Men have high beauty standards" "Men don't have high beauty standards" Or "women do their appearance for themselves" "Women do their appearance for men" Men can have high beauty standards that women don't give a shit about, and continue to do their appearance according to their own standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 08:14 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy is that a contradiction? Both things can be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 08:03 PM |
| – | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingDepends on the guy I suppose. My husband's never been on holiday with his friends (aside from camping within the UK) but I know guys in their 30s who go away at least once a year with their other guy friends. They also do tend to have a boom in late 20s/early 30s of having regular abroad stag dos to attend as all their friends start getting married. Not a regular thing as such but can last a few years while everyone gets married off. And maybe more a rich people thing but my uncle goes on a skii… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadProbably not loads. For most people I know, cooking generally equates to - pasta with a jar of sauce, rice and chicken with a jar of curry sauce, pie that's bought ready made and they heat it in the oven and maybe boil some veg with it. Someone at my work was hosting their first Christmas dinner last year and they were asking what kind of things they should do, and the general consensus from the group was to buy turkey ready-stuffed, buy pre-prepped sides, use gravy granules etc. Got a massive r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingIt's not really about where you're going though, it's more about the willingness to be out and about doing things, and having a social life. You could live in the most beautiful country in the world but if you never leave the house you'd struggle to meet and attract people. Equally you could live in a shit tip but if you get out and about and have a social life you're more likely to be meeting people and spending time with them. I don't think OPs point is that Ibiza is necessarily impressive, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 01:57 PM |
| 4 | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingYes, I think having a social life would do you better than the wage. If you had a really active social life but earned £25k you'd probably be in a better position for dating etc than you are now. But then the job and wage put you in a better position for your future overall. Definitely preferable to have both where possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingmoney to party at Ibiza. Think OP is coming from a UK angle. From the age of 18 quite a lot of people go on holidays with their friends to Ibiza, Lanzarote, Magaluf etc and will go every year as standard. Flights are dirt cheap, if you're sharing accommodation with a big group of mates it's cost effective, and from what I understand of it the drinks are cheaper than in the UK (depending on destination). I've lived in crap areas, lived in nice areas, worked retail and worked in a bank and have al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 11:54 AM |
| 8 | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingIf you're a £40k per year web developer I'd say that's middle class and not working class. Above average salary, white collar job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 11:46 AM |
| 41 | Your personality is mostly determined by factors outside your control and changing it fundamentally is EXTREMELY difficult, contrary to what other people might be espousingHowever, people (and especially women it seems – the ‘empathetic’ gender) do not care about your starting point and how much you have improved. They only care about your current results. Obviously.. why is this a surprise or even something that anyone is unhappy about? Why tf would anyone think it's a good idea to think "you know what this person is a fucking mess but maybe in a few years they'll be approaching normal". When people actually do that and it backfires everyone lines up to be smug a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 11:48 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: have you ever made it work with a woman who’s has a past?She is aware there is nothing better outside the relationship waiting for her. Having no one would be better. Sounds like a reason to never end a relationship. No, sounds like a reason to never have a relationship with anyone that thinks like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 02:04 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: have you ever made it work with a woman who’s has a past?She is insane to stay with you and I really hope she wakes up and realises she should leave and not tolerate such craziness. I was clear that everything she did for, did with or tolerated from previous partners is the base treatment I expected for the relationship to continue This is literally fucking mental. There's no point in relationships ending and new ones starting if you're just expected to put up with all the same shit again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her.No, Scotland! Is that a common personality type in northeast US or do you just know someone similar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people prefer casual sex while others prefer monogamy?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people prefer casual sex while others prefer monogamy?Then what is casual sex? Cos spoiler alert, that also involves "sexual relations" being made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people prefer casual sex while others prefer monogamy?In what way is it a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people prefer casual sex while others prefer monogamy?Not really. It's just sex where there is no relationship at that point. There might be an agreement not to have a future relationship, there might not. Even if there is an agreement not to have a relationship a relationship can still end up happening if the people involved fall for each other. The sex prior to that is still casual sex though as they've got no agreed commitment at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people prefer casual sex while others prefer monogamy?Unless they met the person they're monogamous with, through casual sex. If you wouldn't have met them any other way (for instance, not in your social circle, through work etc) then the casual sex does lead to monogamy in that case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 01:39 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her.I know 4 women off the top of my head that I've never known to be in a relationship, but I'm not sure if that's for lack of trying or disinterest - they've not had any failed relationships while I've known them but they may have had in the past. Then one who has trouble keeping a relationship. 1st: absolutely no filter and will say anything that crosses their mind, has no concept of personal boundary and will tell you all sorts of weird stuff about their own health/body when you barely know them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 10:46 AM |
| 21 | Would you LTR/marry a woman who has had an abortion?Your question is worded weirdly because at first it seems like you're asking it based on whether she's had an abortion at all in the past, but then you have this bit: My personal take is I would not. I’m ambivalent about others nuking their kids, but I would not be with someone who did that to mine. So you're assuming the abortion in question is your child. So if you've knocked someone up who you're not in an LTR with, you'd prefer to either be stuck in an LTR with them because of a baby or rema… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 02:06 PM |
| 0 | Why do women on this sub often say that they are not attracted to promiscuous men?I have no problem with promiscuous men - they're far preferable to virgin men as we are more compatible in terms of sociosexual behaviour. Lots of the women on here are more sexually conservative though and have noted they aren't interested in casual sex etc, therefore a promiscuous man may not be compatible with them in terms of sociosexual behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 10:32 AM |
| 3 | Why do you use makeup?I rarely wear make up. When I do it's because I want to accessorise for a particular occasion, much like wearing a particular bracelet or necklace etc. Isn't your natural beauty enough? Unfortunately I wasn't born with a glittery face or fun coloured lips, so sometimes depending on the look I want to achieve no, it's not enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?I've never seen anyone dress like that in the office or anywhere else for that matter. People don't dress like that here. It's also terribly ill fitting and baggy and not suitable for smart attire. In addition, it doesn't show her body shape because she doesn't have much of a defined shape. If I wear a tucked in shirt and a belt with trousers then my bum, boobs, waistline will all be incredibly accentuated. Good luck wearing something tight in high school gym class In school people often wore ly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?If you work in any kind of smart office environment then it's not appropriate to wear baggy clothes as it looks scruffy and unprofessional. A shirt and work trousers still accentuate body shape. Also a bit more niche but see gymnasts or most sports people. Divers. men wearing tight clothes is often weird and gay looking which is why I never wear them nomatter what - even at home or in the gym That's a you problem and very very strange. Many men have no problem wearing the appropriate attire for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:53 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?A) loose clothes are not always practical or appropriate B) I would literally need to be in a bag to hide my shape C) men don't have to wear loose clothes. Why is it fine for a man to wear bicycle shorts but not a woman? Why is it fine for a man to wear a tight sports t-shirt but not a woman? For men it's recognised as being practical for their activity but somehow not for women doing the same activity. Almost as if you're all talking utter bullshit and just want to try and control women's bodie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 10:28 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?I mostly wear sports bras and I still have very defined breasts and cleavage, because short of actually cutting them off no bra type is going to hide their shape. I was wearing one of those crazy padded Norway coastline suits on a boat recently, with several layers on underneath and you could still tell I have breasts and a bum and a waist. Not that I think we should be hiding the shape of our body anyway, but it's not that easy to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 09:24 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?The girl with the thong Is your gym set in an 80s music video? Been to many different gyms and never seen anyone cut about in a fucking thong. The guys that are vocal about women covering up are talking about the women showing ass-crease and nipple slips in public. They actually aren't. Guys on here have recently complained about leggings, long sleeved dresses that cover the bum, swimsuits/bikinis and shorts going down to mid thigh. Basically they want women in a full on burqa and nothing slight… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most menI've wondered if explicitly just asking "can I kiss you" would be okay in those situation, and asked on the seduction subreddit about it before, but the answer was overwhelmingly to not ask a woman for permission before you kiss her. I suppose the difficulty there is that some women will be absolutely fine with it, some might find it charming, but others will hate it - hard to tell which until you ask! I've had Christian counselors in the past, but did not work specifically on this iussue. Are t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most menI really struggle with this reading body language part. I think a lot of people do! Unfortunately if you've got one person who struggles with reading body language and the other also doesn't want to make the first move for whatever reason then you come to a bit of an impasse. Yes. Are there any resources for healing from this? Unfortunately I don't know if anything specific for this, sorry! I know counselling is derided a lot on this sub but I've found it helpful for working through things - if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most menWhat if the woman slaps me? What if that woman screams "creep" and say I sexually assaulted, and ruins my life? Both of these scenarios are incredibly unlikely. If the kiss isn't reciprocated then the most likely result is that the woman will move back out of the way and it might be a bit awkward but you move on from it. It's also generally quite easy to tell if it will be reciprocated, in my experience. I've never just gone and planted a kiss on someone that I didn't think would appreciate it, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most menHow does consent even work with a party smooch? Do people just randomly kiss each other at parties? Not the person you asked but basically yeah. You're drunk, you're talking to someone. It's probably loud so you lean in to hear them better, you're both chatting in eachothers ears basically so all one of you has to do is turn your head a bit and voila! You're kissing. As for consent it's generally relatively easy at that point for the kissed party to retract their head and back off from the kisse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?😭 I was drunk, sorry! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?You have sex, if it's good you see them again. If not you don't... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?Lol no sex is how I check if I want to see someone again 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:45 AM |
| – | Women, if you’re fatter than your dating profile pics, let people know or use newer photosHaha yes, I remember when I was on tinder and I came across an ex from a few years before. Since I had him on FB I knew his tinder profile pic was from his brother's wedding about 4 years and approx 3-4 stone prior 🙈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Women, what do you think is your responsibility in a relationship?The whole point in this sub is to have a discussion. Inserting your personal preferences and pretending they're gospel isn't a discussion, so I'm responding to your comments because I want to challenge your approach to this. in having a conversation with answers like "Oh, it's your assumption, personal preferences Then don't make assumptions or insert your personal preferences as if they belong to all men. Communication encompasses a boatload of things and it's vital in literally every single in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Women, what do you think is your responsibility in a relationship?When they say "communication", it's all about the demands, discussing her feelings, her needs, complains. That's your assumption though. I haven't read all of the comments but the ones I have seen tend to state "communication" as a catch-all. If you're filling in the blanks with something you perceive as negative then that's on you. Anyway, communication is never the first item in the list. For you maybe. You don't speak for all men and all relationships. I think this is why there's a lot of fru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think is your responsibility in a relationship?I'll just answer for my relationship with my husband, because every relationship is different and people need different things at different stages. Communication, emotional support, affection (physical, doing nice gestures, verbal affirmation). Pulling my weight in the household chores. Managing our finances (in terms of organising household bills/mortgage/grocery budget etc). Hold up my end of sexual activity in terms of initiation/active participation. Spend time with him. Dispatch any lobster… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:07 PM |
| 4 | Women, what do you think is your responsibility in a relationship?Not a single man wants this "communication" BS. But most women in this thread put this first. My husband likes and wants communication. His specific complaint about his ex was her shit communication. Just because you might want a stuffed doll that can't speak to you doesn't mean "not a single man" thinks differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 10:26 AM |
| 4 | What are your "sexual standards" for a man?Presumably the stats on penis size percentiles are gathered by doing just that, or do you think that's just their perception of inches? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 01:10 AM |
| 6 | What are your "sexual standards" for a man?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:56 AM |
| 7 | What are your "sexual standards" for a man?Actual inches, obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe in the idea of "just be her first?"Q4W: Do you agree with alpha-widow hypothesis? Do you think, based either on your experience or your friends, that the first good sexual relationship leaves a big imprint that is hard to move on from? Nope. I also tend to notice that most happily married women are with someone they met when they were young. And everyone I know who married someone they met when they were young has a shit marriage and seems to hate their partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 11:41 PM |
| 7 | What are your "sexual standards" for a man?I gave no numbers in the first place. Are you imagining numbers somewhere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 10:27 PM |
| 16 | What are your "sexual standards" for a man?Why is Viagra so common and mainstream if this isn't something affecting a lot of guys? If you want to see numbers go do your own research. It is a fact that libido declines as you age, if you want to argue against that you can go and do your own legwork. I don't give a shit about numbers or comparisons, or stats. At the end of the day you can't bank on your partner always being up for sex and you need to prepare for that possibility whether they're a man or a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 09:23 PM |
| 20 | What are your "sexual standards" for a man?Probably applies to the vast, vast majority of men though. It's not helpful at all to look at male libido from the angle of "they'll always be up for sex and never ever have any issues doing it", because that kind of mindset is where the shaming of men who can't do that comes from. As you age you're more likely to see a decrease in libido, likely to take longer to get an erection, likely to struggle more with maintaining an erection, less likely to be able to go again multiple times in one day. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:28 PM |
| 16 | What are your "sexual standards" for a man?Average and a bit on either side. The vast majority (like 90%) of penis lengths range from about 4 inches to about 6 inches. Any smaller or bigger and you're in really rare and unusual territory and I reckon would start to make day to day sex a bit more difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 05:57 PM |
| 47 | What are your "sexual standards" for a man?I like a decently high libido and enjoyment of sex because I'm the same, although this is more for starting off - in an LTR you'll both go through peaks and troughs in libido. So probably my standard is more - someone who doesn't equate every physical touch to be an invitation to sex, so intimate touching just goes out the window when sex isn't on the table. If one of you is ill/stressed etc and you can't have sex for a few months then it's manageable as long as there are still other forms of ph… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 01:37 PM |
| – | The Past Does Matter.And that's you, plenty men don't have that kind of hang up. If you want a threesome it's extremely weird to discount someone for a relationship because they've had one 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 08:48 PM |
| – | The Past Does Matter.Kinda stands to reason if someone is up for a threesome in general then they might be up for a threesome with you 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 08:26 PM |
| – | The Past Does Matter.Well if a woman is double teamed that means twice as many men were involved in that interaction than women, so there are definitely men getting threesomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 06:49 PM |
| – | The Past Does Matter.Threesomes don't equal a gangbang, plus men & women both have threesomes so your comment is entirely irrelevant. Most normal men find the thought of threesomes pretty hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 06:45 PM |
| – | The Past Does Matter.the long term embarrassment from friends and family? Why do you think your friends and family know or indeed care about the sex life of you or your partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 06:42 PM |
| – | The Past Does Matter.Lol why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 06:40 PM |
| – | The Past Does Matter.in which you have to forgive past actions regarding sex, It's not a case of having to "forgive" past actions, because they didn't do anything wrong. If your value/belief system prohibits casual sex then it stands to reason you won't be compatible with someone who enjoys casual sex. If you yourself enjoy casual sex and don't see it as some sort of moral failing then it shouldn't be any problem to be with a partner who has likewise indulged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 06:04 PM |
| 5 | What made you willing to hook up?It's a fairly common view on here, as well as the view that women all only want a hookup as a way to try and lock down a commitment. Obviously in the real world we're all different and some may hate casual sex/only like it under very specific circumstances while some love it 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 05:53 PM |
| 10 | What made you willing to hook up?For ladies who've had casual sex, what exactly was the thing that sealed the deal that made you go through with it? I wanted sex and didn't want a relationship. What about the guy made you choose him? It had little to do with any of the guys/ladies specifically, they were just whoever was willing and available when I wanted it. Where were you in life currently? I've done casual sex at two points in my life - when I broke up with my first LTR before I got together with my second (a period of arou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 02:22 PM |
| – | How do you split the finances?We earn about equal at the moment so split down the middle. We get paid into our own accounts and have a joint account for bills - we pay an equal amount into that and it covers mortgage, bills & groceries. It also builds up a surplus so we tend to use that for meals out etc. we have a joint savings account and if saving for something particular (like house deposit) we agree an affordable amount to save and do that. He's currently waiting on the outcome of a job application that would result in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 07:00 PM |
| 6 | Do you lovely ladies think you'll be able to pull off a alpha fuxs/beta bucks strategy in a post red pill world?I don't think alpha fucks/beta bucks is a real thing and it exists purely in the minds of sad men who spend too much time on the internet feeling bitter about why they can't get laid. I also don't think normal people think of dating "strategies" and have some sort of master plan of how their dating life will play out. This is thinking reserved for lunatic fringe sections of the internet (both men and women). People will continue to meet, date, fuck, fall in love, form relationships. Those unable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Are you more attracted to calm, easy going or energetic, vivid personalities?Calm and easy going. I find very high energy people a bit tiring and I don't really feel at ease with them. My husband is super chilled out and laid back, and this was one of the first things I was attracted to about him as he's such a comfortable, calming presence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 11:46 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh I love game so much. I have heard soaking it in milk for a bit first can tame the flavour a bit though if you've not tried that? I heard wild rabbits can be quite smelly/strong flavoured so last time I had rabbits I brined them for a few hours before butchering. Not sure if that helped with gaminess as such as I hadn't previously eaten rabbit for about a decade so didn't have much of a reference point, but they tasted really good :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Can advocates of casual sex propose it’s merits?In my eyes, it is in every way, shape or form inferior to LTRs. They're not comparable because people get different things out of them. LTRs are great if that's what you want at that time, but not everyone wants that. hindering the development of deep, meaningful connections. It doesn't have any impact whatsoever on deep and meaningful connections. People still build them if they want them. It’s just simply animalistic, hedonistic Yes that's why it's fun reduces sex, an action between two loving… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have tried so many forms of alternative birth control and they've all been awful, so unless we're trying for a baby there needs to be a condom. It's nothing to do with attraction and everything to do with not wanting to get knocked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA lot of it but not everything - sometimes people just don't want the same things. Like if you pair someone kinky with someone vanilla they could communicate all they want but they might just not enjoy having sex in the same ways the other one does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think the Scots are just shorter tbh 🤣 our average height is slightly lower than the US and the rest of the UK. So maybe there's less expectation on it? I'm not saying no one has a height preference as I'm sure there are those who do, but I think in general it's less significant. The whole height thing is just not something I was aware of until going on Reddit because no one I know ever talks about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't think I've ever met a short married man whose wife was from overseas. My dad is around 5'3 and was married to a fellow Scot. Out of all the relationships he's had I don't recall any of them being from overseas. And my wee papa, who's even shorter. But then I suppose if you're from the US (I assume, based on general sub demographics) then Scotland is overseas 🤔 maybe we just don't have the same height thing here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLoneliness is the uncertainty of being able to get any attention. This isn't loneliness. Loneliness is more about actual connections and relationships. Having people squawking around you giving empty attention with nothing behind it is meaningless and does nothing for loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 09:57 AM |
| 5 | For married women who have cheated on your 1st spouse but not your 2nd one, why did you not cheat on the 2nd one?You're not a friend if you just suddenly ditch all your friends of a certain gender just because you're in a relationship. Are bisexuals not allowed to have any friends at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 09:36 AM |
| 0 | Men protect their relationship from outside opinions more judiciously than women do.Well they certainly complain about their partners to other women plenty. I've been in many a conversation where a man has just out of the blue started complaining about his gf or wife, when we weren't even talking about that. Getting random digs in when something about the conversation reminds them of it or whatever. I've witnessed it in group conversations where other men are involved too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou sound like the women who have multiple husbands 🤣 Bit of a reach, why on earth would you think that? And my husband tells me and shows me he loves me and is happy, I have no reason to not believe that or say it. Bit strange to take issue with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread🤷 we're in love and happy with our relationship. Different strokes for different folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes we're both far more pragmatic than that. Hard to tell where the cut off would be but I think it would need to be genuinely life changing amounts to be worth it. However since this is an entirely hypothetical situation that will literally never happen we haven't put a figure on it 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread😅 neither of us would be choosing money over the other in this scenario. We'd be remaining together and making a small sacrifice in order to secure financial security for life. Both therefore benefiting from the big piles of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEach to their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEach to their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think it determines how much you love each other Lol it's not that deep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 11:17 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy husband and I have both agreed if we're offered a billion to cheat then it's our duty to do so, in order to financially provide for each other 😅 maybe that's greedy but hey, we'll be rich enough not to care if people think we're greedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 10:57 PM |
| 4 | What is the appeal of casual sex for women?You are probably not going to orgasm or enjoy it much, While an orgasm is a bonus, it isn't necessary in order to enjoy sex. I've had a lot of casual sex, some of it included orgasms, most of it was very enjoyable indeed. then there's the risk of pregnancy and higher risk of STDs. That's what condoms are for, and if the condom splits the morning after pill. As for STDs - I know two people who caught STDs while in a supposedly committed relationship because their partners cheated. You can live a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 07:34 PM |
| 0 | Women of PPD: would you consider it strange if a male friend/relative asked you to set him up with one of your friends? (Not a specific one, just a friend in general).I just can't imagine this scenario ever happening (I live in the UK too). It's very prevalent on US TV shows, but I just think it would be weird. I don't really know why 😅 although in fairness I'm of an age where I don't have many single friends and I have no single male relatives (aside from my dad) so there wouldn't really be much of an opportunity anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Are you sure you're aware of the consequences of men stoicly accepting being singleThat isn't the same thing as only being with someone because you don't want to be alone though. So not sure why you're bringing it up. I'm talking, going out with the first person who shows any interest in you regardless of whether you're well suited or whether you particularly like that person. To have a functioning open relationship then you kinda both need to like each other and be able to communicate and be open with one another. Not the same scenario at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 06:32 PM |
| 9 | Are you sure you're aware of the consequences of men stoicly accepting being singlehave a less serious open relationship with someone Most people can't manage this kind of relationship. Someone will always end up more invested than the other and then it just becomes messy. until someone you are really serious about comes along. Isn't this exactly what men on this sub are already complaining about women doing and how it's awful behaviour? Or is it only okay when men do it? Fine if the woman is the more invested one but not the man? People are just choosing to forgo life There i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 08:03 AM |
| 7 | Are you sure you're aware of the consequences of men stoicly accepting being singleBeing happy/accepting of being single doesn't mean you'll never be in a relationship. It just means you're far less likely to end up in a shit relationship out of desperation, and actually be with someone you like - because you like them, and not because you were searching for a relationship. And you might never be in one and you might be happy like that, which is all good too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 12:03 AM |
| 123 | Are you sure you're aware of the consequences of men stoicly accepting being singleYes. I have no interest in being with someone who is only with me because he doesn't want to be alone. What a shitty, shitty basis for a relationship. We absolutely should be putting in effort throughout the relationship and maintaining that love and connection, to ensure both parties are happy and fulfilled and actively choosing to be with one another. Why would anyone want anything different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever used sexual tease for your advantage consciously?Yes I wouldn't want to be seen that way as it would hamper career development. Unfortunately in some cases I think people believe a woman has flirted her way up to her position but it's not actually the case (same with people assuming she's just a diversity hire or something when actually she's capable and that's why she was hired), but it will have the same negative impact on career. I would assume those who genuinely have flirted to get where they are, are happy with their lot, but I don't kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 12:50 PM |
| 5 | Have you ever used sexual tease for your advantage consciously?No 😅 I just don't think this is how life works for most women. For example I have seen plenty of women flirting to have work advantages or getting out if work simply because they are woman I have literally never once seen this in my life. Maybe it depends where you work but it just wouldn't have that kind of effect in my line of work. I've got work I need to do and I could flirt with someone till the cows come home, I still need to get my work done and I'm going to be the one who has to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 11:38 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadProbably nails done and makeup/lashes. I don't wear lashes day to day but I do if I'm out doing something nice with female friends and I always get loads of compliments on them. It's not just that they look nice, but I know a lot of women who can't put them on so there's a bit of admiration for people who do their own lashes 😅 Whereas I think straight guys are mostly either indifferent to or actively dislike false lashes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 01:51 AM |
| 1 | The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the sameHave you ever actually moved your body apart from occasionally lifting heavy things and thinking it makes you look manly? Things like leggings are more comfortable for working out in. This is why bike shorts exist (which men wear), anti chafing runners shorts exist (which men wear) leotards and leggings exist (which men wear). Are male Olympic athletes in their tight spandex shorts dressed for attention or is it because it's the most practical garment for exercising in? Do male ballet dancers we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 02:23 PM |
| 6 | When women consume media for men, do they wish to be like the MALE main character too?Not generally. I don't tend to want to be the female main character in things I watch either though. When women see a gun fight in shows, do they want the gun fight to end and for stuff to be peaceful, or do they also think "Wowww this is so epic" I enjoy fight scenes. I like rooting for whoever I want to win. There may be some movies where I don't want the fight to happen (for instance if I like both characters and don't want one to die or something, but I can't actually think of any examples o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 12:26 AM |
| – | CMW: Most women have little to offer a high value man in a long-term relationshipI don't 🤷 and I don't find money to be particularly important in my social circles. If every woman you know wants money you're associating with the wrong people. Judging by how money obsessed a lot of the guys on this sub are, I suspect it's often a case of like attracting like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 08:05 PM |
| 9 | CMW: Most women have little to offer a high value man in a long-term relationshipCooking/home care is mutual in today's society This suggests he doesn't value it as he thinks both parties do it. Not just OP either, quite a few guys on this sub have expressed the opinion that cooking doesn't count as a thing - reasons have varied from similar to the above, where they think everyone cooks, or that everyone's a shite cook, or that there's no longer any point in cooking because they eat out for all their meals, or they hate food and just want a beige nutrition paste that fuels t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 05:46 PM |
| 15 | CMW: Most women have little to offer a high value man in a long-term relationshipIt's just a stupid question though. Are the people on this sub ever going to date each other? No. So then why do you care what women on this sub bring to the table? We're all different and we bring different things - both because we all have different personalities and skills, and because men value different things in their partners. The OP dismisses cooking as something that's brought to the table, so that's obviously not important to him. But my husband finds my cooking ability extremely attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen my husband was furloughed over lockdown and I was working full time I still did stuff around the house because I'm not a giant arsehole. I live here so why wouldn't I contribute to household tasks? I would be doing a lot more if I lived alone and worked full time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 12:03 PM |
| 4 | To women who have had both casual flings and longer-term partners, did your attraction to your long-term partners ever match up to your visceral lust for your flings?I've not really had visceral lust for any flings right off the bat. Like, on tinder you basically pick a bunch of guys out of a line up and it was whoever was available when I was available and wanted sex, not really much to do with them specifically. As strange as it may be, that kind of proper lust is the kind of thing that needs to be built (for me anyway). When I was a teen working my first job I got to know one of the guys I worked with and really lusted after him - that turned into a relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you want your son/hypothetical son to have children?I don't care. I don't have kids yet and my husband and I considered just going into fostering instead of having kids at all. So I'm not even concerned about my "legacy" never mind that of my hypothetical child. There are a lot of reasons not to have kids so if my hypothetical son doesn't want them I'd be happy with that. If he does want them, I'd be happy with that. If he wants to adopt or have step kids or whatever I'd be happy with that. It's not really something I care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 11:26 AM |
| 2 | How would you feel about a man making you wait to make you feel special because he "likes" you too muchIt's really telling that you think perfectly normal behaviour must be a lie or "virtue signalling". Gosh how much of an awful, grasping, selfish arse must you be to think enjoying a coffee date is virtuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 09:27 AM |
| – | Women cannot be trusted to speak honestly and accurately about their preferences and standardsIf this were true, every narcissist, psychopath, and petty criminal would be incel, Not really, presumably whichever women are attracted to them don't find them to be "losers". When I see guys who are thuggish/drug addicted/generally rough types, they tend to be with women who are the same. They attract within their circle. If you have a shit personality but you're trying to attract normal people you're not going to get anywhere, you need to go find other shit people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 12:22 PM |
| – | Women cannot be trusted to speak honestly and accurately about their preferences and standardsHow can you be so sure? Do you know these men? Do you anything about what they are like and their experiences with men? Well since it mainly seems to be guys on here who have three issues and talk about this and the ones who do come across like total arses, I'd assume at least some of that bleeds through into their irl persona. Being a conventionally unattractive man is like being a hakarl salesman. It's not impossible per se to find a taker but it is incredibly difficult and not necessarily ach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 12:16 PM |
| – | Women cannot be trusted to speak honestly and accurately about their preferences and standardsNah. It's a ridiculous victim mentality you want to have where you insist you're just not rich enough or naturally attractive enough for us horrible shallow women. You don't want to admit that maybe it is actually your personality or your social skills or that you're shooting far above what you should be aiming for. So instead "waaah women are LYING". A lot of women I see on this sub are quite honest about wanting a partner who earns a good salary. You take them at their word so why not the ones… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 11:20 AM |
| 7 | How would you feel about a man making you wait to make you feel special because he "likes" you too muchIf you're not happy in a "situationship" then end it. That goes for men and women. It doesn't matter what previous relationships looked like, it doesn't matter what other people do. If you're not happy then don't put up with it. If you're not married/have kids/own property together/have a lease then there's no way you can be "stuck". Just go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 04:52 PM |
| 15 | How would you feel about a man making you wait to make you feel special because he "likes" you too muchI couldn't really give two shits about what someone did with previous people they dated. Literally the only thing that matters is if I'm happy with how they're treating me in that moment. You mentioned in another comment things like coffee dates/walks. They're perfectly acceptable dates. Whether or not he has the money for fancy dates is irrelevant since I pay my own way on dates, but I do think it's exceptionally weird to go on a "fancy" date with someone you're not actually in a relationship w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Women: have you ever exploited a man's interest for you own gain?No. If I'm out to dinner with someone I split the bill (or we pay for what we had if there's a big disparity) regardless of whether it's a date or if I'm out with friends or co-workers. And I wouldn't hint at or accept a random gift from someone. I can't imagine saying to someone "I need new shoes" unless it's "hey [husband] I needed new shoes so I've got some in the basket, do you need anything before I check out". I wouldn't even let my co-worker pay for my chewing gum (he was going to the sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 02:02 PM |
| – | Women, can you describe the guy with whom you've been the most in love with? What was it about that person?My husband. I met him on tinder at a point where I really wasn't interested in a relationship and was just looking to hook up. We grabbed dinner beforehand and the first thing that stood out to me was that I ordered eel and he was happy/excited to taste it. I really like food and I enjoy people who are adventurous and not squeamish when it comes to trying new things. I know a lot of people who'd refuse to eat eel just out of squeamishness so that definitely endeared him to me. I also liked that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:45 PM |
| 17 | Question for women: Why do you disagree with the manosphere's explanation of the "MECHANISM" through which dating apps & hookup culture destroy dating, courtship, and formation of relationships? Do you have alternate explanations?When a man is investing that much time and energy, he will be selective. No he won't. Have you ever met another man before? Plenty guys will just hit on anyone and everyone at the bar/club until they find someone to go home with. There's no selectiveness about it. And there's a reason there's a whole trope around waiting until it's near closing time and just picking up whoever's desperate enough to go with it. Plus the whole thing of "beer goggles" and next day regret - picking people up in bars… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 11:03 AM |
| – | If muscles dont matter for women why are strippers/exotic dancers muscularSome of you posters man...christ. I could say the same about you. I'll repeat really slowly for you. Click. The. Link. You. Posted. You there? You clicked? You made it that far? Scroll. Down. Read. You may need to attend some sort of class first to get that down. It's okay, I'll wait. Get to the part. ON THE WEBSITE YOU LINKED TO. That states very clearly that they have resident drag queens every week. Did that work for you? Have you been guided to the right part? Can you now accept that you're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 12:41 AM |
| – | If muscles dont matter for women why are strippers/exotic dancers muscularhttps://www.dreamboys.co.uk/ I literally just googled it and didn't click on any links and the first thing mentioned drag queens. If you follow the above link, scroll down to the 4th item on their website where they talk about the stripper and drag Queen show they do every Saturday night So maybe instead of accusing people of lying just learn to actually read? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 12:30 AM |
| – | If muscles dont matter for women why are strippers/exotic dancers muscularHa. I live in the UK and I've never heard of dreamboys. Just googled it and the first hit is about their show of hot guys and drag queens. That tells me right off the bat that they probably have a large appeal with gay men. How is it entirely catered to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 12:17 AM |
| – | A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag"that he's unattractive, that he suffers from social anxiety, that he lacks the necessary social ski I'm sorry, is your argument that women should find this a prize? Why would anyone go out with someone who they find unattractive and who can't engage with them socially? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 08:42 AM |
| 5 | Nuances on friendship between men and womenJust shows your argument is stupid, not based on reality, and only worth being dismissed. Because if you had an actual point you wouldn't need to resort to such ridiculous exaggerating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Nuances on friendship between men and womenBecause every man with female friends who moved, has been moving their heavy stuff for them. That's not actually true though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Question for women: What profession, if any, do you find most attractive in a man?I don't find any professions attractive. However for a relationship I'd prefer professions that allow for good work life balance - my husband and I both work 35 hr weeks, weekends and bank holidays off, plenty of holiday allowance through the year. Wouldn't want someone who needs to work away all the time, is constantly working overtime/extra hours/staying late or having to do work on the side during holidays etc. So what's attractive to me is a mindset of "work to live, don't live to work". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 07:52 PM |
| 7 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?Forced to work, 100% I moved out at 18 so I needed to get a job before that, so I've always been "forced" to work so I could support myself. With your work, it's fairly tolerable to do something you don't like so you can get some money in. I wouldn't find it tolerable to have to marry someone I don't love just so I could survive. Living with someone and having the expectation of sex etc is far more intimate and intrusive than any workplace. You're also reliant on one person for everything, and e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Hinting vs. TellingAhh okay that makes sense. basically just wrote it off as she’s mad at herself for something she meant to do and forgot to, which I experience myself very often but to me it’s never about getting help it’s about beating myself up for a mistake I understand this perspective, but I also think it's just still nice to offer in these situations. Like, even if the intention isn't to get help and help isn't needed (and the offer of help is declined) if someone has verbalised they've forgotten something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Do you think people find you boring?People at work frequently tell me I'm the most interesting person they know 😅 so from that I gather that they don't find me boring. What do you bring to people that prevents their boredom with you? I have quite a lot of hobbies/interests so often can find common ground with people which serves as a good start to conversation:) What about you makes you stand out? Fedora collection? Star wars trivia? I stand out to different people for different reasons! For instance my 8 yr old nephew thinks I'm … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Hinting vs. TellingI’m curious what are your experiences with this dynamic, when does communication become mothering? I think when you need to tell people to do obvious stuff it starts to cross into mothering (cleaning up after yourself, sticking a laundry load on when the basket is full etc). I'm pretty lucky that I've only really observed this dynamic from seeing it in other couples - out of the two partners I've lived with, my ex was decent with housework and my husband is brilliant with it; no mothering needed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSkinny fat is hot. When I say men don't need built muscles to be attractive, I literally and genuinely mean men don't need built muscles to be attractive. Cue all the people responding who just can't seem to understand this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadhttps://images.app.goo.gl/b4NjoWYxdpvZ9e5Q8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd it is disproportionally used by women against men for points they hate. How can you tell? I can't even see upvotes and downvotes on this sub apart from the ones on my own comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't understand how men can't understand they don't need built muscles to be attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 01:16 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: How would you react if you discovered a man you liked wore a toupee, shoe lifts, etc?At 5’10, he is taller than you in heels. He has also since removed his shoes, and he now stands eye-to-eye with you I'm not always super observant about what people are wearing, but I definitely think I'd notice if he had 10 inch lifts on. I'd probably call out the bulge thing just because it's such a random thing to do and I'd assume it was a joke. There's no need for someone to be giving themselves a bulge in their jeans (IME most men are growers not showers anyway so it seems a bit pointless)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 08:19 PM |
| 51 | Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it.Make-up irl generally has far less power to make someone look "unrecognisable" without it. The kind of really heavy make up that's totally transformative looks great under professional lighting (and often touched up in photos/on video as well) but actually face to face with someone it doesn't tend to look as good and generally people will wear lighter make up than that when they're out and about. You can't use an image of Jennifer Lawrence in a touched up professional photo with professional lev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that it’s because of the way genitalia are constructed that the human mind perceives sex/cheating differentlySeriously have you guys never heard of condoms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 11:50 AM |
| 4 | “Women are hornier than men”She really doesn’t. No women wants a dick pic. Ever. Especially an unsolicited one. Um. Yeah, I don't want unsolicited dick pics but I've always enjoyed the occasional solicited one, and I have taken pics of my husband's dick for my own amusement/perusal. I'm sure I can't be the only woman in the world who has similar feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 11:38 AM |
| 1 | There is no presumption of cheating and no paternity test. (That's why, presumption of cheating does not justify being against the test).On the other hand, a negative result does not guarantee that the woman is unfaithful, since: Exchange in the maternity ward; Chimerism; Open relationship; Rape; Changing relationships when she is already pregnant with her previous partner; Any other possible circumstances that I haven't thought of. A negative test would absolutely convince any man that the woman was cheating. I can guarantee that a maternity ward switch or chimerism would never cross his mind for a fucking moment. The relationsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 07:18 PM |
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