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Socialization makes a difference too. Remember that GenX was raised with absolute minimal adult supervision, and typically were walking ourselves home since second grade to an empty house. I feel like this is such an important point. Parents are so protective of kids that they think locking them up in their room is better than letting them run around, drink, hang out with friends, and maybe getting into a little trouble. In reality letting their kids sit on the internet 8-12 hours a day is far m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:43 PM
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Its really only important that you don't meet the threshold for short by women's standards (probably under 5'8). I do really feel for guys that are shorter than that. All things being equal obviously height is an advantage but if you're 6'2, ugly, and socially autistic you aren't going to be slaying strictly because of your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 07:06 PM
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Video games develop a lot of skills that are rewarded in the 21st century. Solving intricate puzzles, making tough branching decisions, weighing micro and macro decisions in economies, the list could go on. The time spent that could be used for learning social skills is 100x more beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:13 PM
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It's easier to just check out and stop trying, and live life for yourself. Sure, it's lonely, but so are relationships. At least this way personal safety, contentment, and eventually peace are 100% obtainable. I used to think like that but my life has gotten so much better now that I have responsibility and somewhat of a meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:12 PM
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And here we are folks, on Reddit shitting on Instagram. Not saying you're wrong, but just doing the same thing on a different platform. Having discussion is a lot better than staring at pictures of hot people all day fueling people's jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:09 PM
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If you want an example of what instagram has done to the world, look at the world of weddings. I can't believe how bad its gotten even just for proposals. Every proposal has 5 different angles of people filming it. If I were to ever propose (which is 95% not going to happen) its going to be me, the girl, and some place in nature where there are no other cameras or people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:06 PM
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Inception if I want an action movie Dazed and Confused if I want to drink or get high
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:09 PM
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a tiny bit but I just shave that shit off every week
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:23 PM
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I used to hook up with a girl like once every 2 weeks and she would bring me $50 worth of edibles every single time for no reason other than I mentioned I sometimes like them. The simp levels are crazy across both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:06 PM
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This should be pinned when you click on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:09 PM
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God why do we keep doing this. Its just non stop incels/blackpills spamming shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:34 PM
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No society isn't fair and it never will be. Unless we lock down every aspect of a person's freedom we will never achieve equality of outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:32 PM
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They oppressed women and used them as breeding cows for the past few millennia. How exactly are men oppressing women today? This is kinda like saying your past ancestors owned slaves and you should be punished for that today.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:38 PM
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Nailed it on this one. I have pretty much stopped going for white women cause they aren't worth the effort. The entitlement that white women have is unreal. Hispanic women have proven to be much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:02 AM
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Yeah no shit, statements like that scream entitlement. Some people have the value to be saying shit like that and still end up with what they want though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:11 PM
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She was "serious" about school in undergrad and "serious" about school in Biz/Law/Medical school. The amount of times girls tell me they are going to x law school/medical school is laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:21 PM
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I mean yeah I think everyone cringes at old shit they used to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 06:36 PM
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Its not your choice as to how others in your age bracket are using it. Even if I choose not to use social media or OLD (which I don't for the most part) it is still going to affect the market around me due to others using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:58 PM
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It will collapse eventually although it will probably be at least 20 years before that happens. Sexless low value men will cope with video games, drugs, alcohol, and other stimulating activities. In another 5 years we will start to see consequences of the current smp technology has created. At this point there is nothing that is going to take us back to where the dating world was pre internet and social media era.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:48 AM
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Obviously OLD is terrible for men. Its a market where 80% of the users are male and women get to have their choice of their top picks. Unless you are a Chad there really is no point in using OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:16 AM
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You can still treat people with respect and be considered a "good man" without having to defend m'lady's honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:47 AM
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But if the 5'7 man works out then he will be able to defend you when the 6'2 man can't. Dangerous dudes don't see a skinny 6'2 dude walking and immediately stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:30 AM
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The whole "size intimidation" is definitely a thing, without a doubt. I mean yeah 6'2 who lifts can beat 5'7 who lifts but, would you actually feel scared walking around with a 5'7 guy who has spent years in the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:18 AM
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Not it is like if a 5ft2 woman only want a 6ft2 dude, it is a bit unfair to the dude who are taller but not above 6ft Very likely that a 5'2 girl can't tell the difference between a 5'10 man and a 6'2 man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:13 AM
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Did you know being 6-feet tall in the United States is the 84th percentile? Defintely not true for the younger generation. Atleast 30% of gen z is over 6 foot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:08 AM
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I told you, and many others here that at the end of the day, women just want a man who is taller than them. Thats most of it, but they also want men who are similar to their social group. If all her male family members are tall and all her friend's boyfriends are tall then she is also going to want a tall man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:05 AM
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Speaking as a woman who dated shorter men in the past, and is now with an averagely tall man, you feel a hell of a lot safer if you're walking home at night in a dangerous part of town with a taller man, than a shorter man. Being short doesn't really have anything to do with strength. A 5'7 man who lifts will still beat the shit out of a 6'2 man who doesn't life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:59 AM
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People operate on self-interest, if something doesn't benefit them then they generally won't do anything about it. People that sit and complain about how other people should operate are proving the point that they are self-interested because it would benefit themselves more. Its adapt to the current situation or drop out, complaining will never change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:44 AM
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I enjoy parts of the decline too but its certainly at a cost. I've gotten to the point where I don't want to start a family and raise kids in the future environment because I know they will likely suffer. The sex and freedom is nice but it has ruined other aspects in life that I think would have given me more fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:11 AM
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Its just sad. Women are taught nowadays that posting sexually explicit photos in Instagram is an normal thing to do and then with that comes the dopamine rushes from gaining hundreds and thousands of likes. Go to any college aged girl's Instagram and you will see tons of skimpy photos of them. On a side not I watched a documentary about how women get recruited into porn and nearly all of them said being a sex object was empowering LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:55 AM
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Dudes that get so little attention in real life that they are willing to pay money to get a little attention on the internet. Simps really aren't paying for the porn they are paying for the fake human interaction with an attractive female.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:20 AM
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I mean I'm sure its true. Although the experiences one has as a trans man vs an actual man are completely different. I would imagine much of the feeling trans people had being viewed negatively by society was mostly due to being transgender and not being an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:22 PM
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Well yeah obviously people who aren't taking care of themselves should take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:25 AM
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For some it can and for some it can't. My desire for different fat asses doesn't pass my desire to build a lasting relationship with people I enjoy being around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:36 AM
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I’m not advocating for riding the CC by any means, but I wonder about the headspace of someone who makes it to 30 with no/next to no sexual partners. Not really that hard. Be in a few relationships and don't do one night stands. Likely less than 5 sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:38 AM
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I think a male’s SMV is mediated or moderated by his status from things like a cool job and salary, but salary probably doesn’t moderate female SMV (for straight males) in the same way. Status is the most important thing, 100k Instagram followers is more important than a 100k salary for a guy's SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 01:46 AM
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Cause its a circlejerk sub full of dudes that are bitter about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:24 PM
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On tinder and Instagram, yes absolutely. Walking around in town, a little bit but not even close to online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:21 PM
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Uh, so? Why do you think these factor in dating? All of those traits would be a plus for someone I would look at dating. You're telling me you really don't give a shit how much a woman makes at all? I would love to go on trips with partners because we can afford to due to both having large salaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:18 PM
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I wouldn't say they are rewarded, they are just taught by msm and social media that having tons of sex while you are young is what a woman is supposed to do. The only way I could see them being punished socially is if they live in a very conservative area and even then it would only be by their parents and older generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:12 PM
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The question was why are they not getting approached and asked out? Personal appearance is going to have a lot to do with that. A man isn't going to approach and ask out a woman he finds ugly just because she may be reading a book he also is interested in. If you are just generally asking what makes a woman low value besides physical traits then things like low ambition, laziness, unpleasant to be around, etc. are all factors that can contribute to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:09 AM
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Are you saying that tattoos and piercings lower YOUR sexual attraction to the girl, or that you believe she is inherently a lower sexual value, society wide, because of those things? Both, 90% of people that get tattoos would be better off without them. Tattoos really only add attraction to people that were already attractive without them or to a small percentage of people that really enjoy them. Tattoos are pretty correlated with other negative low value traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:58 AM
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fat, tattoos, piercings, short or dyed hair, looking unfeminine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:07 AM
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The prospect of surgery on my tools is definitely pretty frightening lmao... Not even 1/1000th of the fright of an unwanted pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:43 PM
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If following those rules genuinely makes you happier then there is nothing to critique or discuss about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:41 PM
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Women need men to keep society running, men need women to keep them from going insane and destroying society. Both need each other equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:54 AM
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Oh yeah I'll add in tattoos, nipple piercings, and tongue piercing. Tattoos are the biggest hoe indicator by far
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:43 AM
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Unless we have a major reversal of technology then we won't ever have higher fertility rates again. Every developed country will end up like Japan in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 05:01 AM
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Its the same as telling a guy to go lift. Its the easiest thing a woman can do to gain value and give how fucking fat our society is it will most likely put you above average just by being skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 06:05 AM
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Entitled people both men and women are the worst. Younger people just can't accept that some things in life aren't fair and they never will be. They think complaining about it enough will solve their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:46 PM
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Its a sub where people come to complain about their problems because they think it will somehow fix them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 07:26 PM
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The people they are in contact with are people in the same class. Most people spend time with others that are similar to them in things such as economic status, education levels, political ideology, race, religion, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 06:42 PM
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Pretty much everyone ends up marrying someone within their class. Plumbers marry school teachers, doctors marry lawyers, etc. Most "Hot girls" are at least middle class and most likely UMC or UC. Its pretty rare that an UMC man will settle with a fast food cashier cause she is hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 09:16 PM
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Being able to earn respect in a business environment without having to prove as much as a women would have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 04:38 PM
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Yea being one of the most powerful men in history is considered being a failure. I don't care if you hate him or not you can't say winning the fucking presidency is a man being a failure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:35 PM
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Dark hair, dark eyes, tan skin. Basically Hispanic girls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:34 AM
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No, but they will have sex with them any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:33 AM
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The phrase is correct, but it isn't talking about the blackpill. Winners are the ones that work the hardest. Yes, some people are climbing a 1000ft mountain and some are walking up the stairs due to their situation but it doesn't change the fact. Winners are the ones who go out there and do something, losers are the ones who sit on the internet and complain about the winners all day. You can complain about how unfair it is all day long, but it will never change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:31 AM
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I don't know why anyone gets mad about FDS or TRP. Both are such a minuscule part of our current culture that it isn't hard to avoid either type if you want to. I know most in the sub are really interested in this kind of stuff but 99% of society doesn't give a shit about pills and SMP ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:33 AM
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Like <.0001% of women have ever even heard of femaledatingstrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 05:35 PM
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Up until 10 years ago I would say all biological, but with the ease of "look how awesome my life is presumed to be" due to social media I would say its half social half biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 04:36 PM
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Yup OLD, social media, technology has changed the game entirely. To all the people saying that all the previous generations say the same thing, its not comparable. This is an entire new game, you cant compare the 50s to the present, you probably cant even compare the late 90s to the present. Everything is different, this is unknown territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:53 PM
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It doesn't anymore because women are graduating with degrees more and are taking the higher skilled and higher paying jobs that men all used to have. In response women aren't going to care if a man who is an engineer making 100k a year when in turn they are making atleast 60-70k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:45 PM
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I don't know how you can say women don't have an equivalent. The equivalent is the exact same, a women can absolutely go from an awful body to one that is 100x better. Every time I go to the gym its probably about 65% women that are all on cardio and leg machines (with the occasional 5lb arm lifts) while the rest of the guys are all working on chest and arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:40 PM
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Lifting is just the easiest way for a guy to raise his value. Anyone who tells you muscle automatically = girls is just wrong though. It is just one factor that makes a man more attractive. The thing I like most now that I have muscles is just the more respect I am given from both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:56 PM
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You aren't wrong in that the other stupid counterparts to MGTOW should be quarantined along with it. However reddit is a private company they have the right to do whatever the fuck they want to their own company. There is no civil rights on this site. You are using a free product built by a company. If you have a problem with it don't go on the site.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:07 PM
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Welcome to media 101, extremely socially liberal until it goes against bluepilled ideas. These subs were all eventually going to get quarantined or banned eventually. This sub is next on the list too probs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:01 PM
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Women (and men) don't understand the time and effort it takes to put on muscle without steroids. Every single one of those actors used some sort of steroid enhancement. So many people think that people who use steroids are those 300lb bodybuilders benching 600 and blasting several different compounds into them. Steroids are insanely common among the fitness industry, just about every Instagram fitness model is on some sort of compounds. The only ones who look like absolute monsters (aka the ones…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:06 PM
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I totally agree that men are treated like complete shit compared to women in just about all aspects of media/online presence. But I also don't blame women who don't want to be with these below average men. There are winners and losers in every aspect of life- careers, health, and relationships/sex. Some people are dealt with two aces and others are dealt with a 2 and 3. Having said that I really do feel for these low value men who have struggled all their life with physical and emotional intimac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 05:14 AM
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You make a good point. Some of the men here love the fantasy that as soon as a woman turns 35 her dating life is over, it isn't actually like that. The wall in my opinion is really just losing the social privileges that young women have. When you are a hot 25 year old woman every man on the planet wants to fuck you. You are going to get treated much better in society/get away with more things than the average person will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 11:28 PM
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Depending on the girl it can look good, but I don't really give a shit. Its all going to come off anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 09:12 PM
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But they all flop.Only Captain Marvel didn't because it was riding the Endgame hype. If you believe that then what would your explanation be? Are producers really that stupid and believe they can make profit off them? Do they really care about the feminists agenda so much that they are willing to take on millions in losses? In a world where money is king I don't believe these very experienced producers are making hundred million dollar movies just to prove a point to the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:55 PM
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We are just scratching our heads wondering why Hollywood keeps pushing for movies that cost them money. Not really, Ocean's 8 made 230M, the female ghost busters made 90M, Wonder Woman made like 700M. The only reason these movies are pushed is because they can still be milked for profit. I agree they all suck but I would gladly make a shitty remake for millions of dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:32 PM
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Movie companies get influenced thinking that people want all-female reboots (female fight club is in the making ) etc. Most of these movies still make money though. I would think a few of them completely flop but wouldn't they learn from all the past female remakes that have come out in the last 10 years. I don't think producers would take heavy losses just to prove to media they aren't sexists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:25 PM
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If they actually banned all blackpill/incel posts they would have to remove 3/4 of whats posted here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:40 AM
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We will see, I wish we could make bets similar to sports on stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:49 PM
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I'm always curious about this assertion, if marriage is so risky how come only the people who have anything to lose are the ones who engage in It. Because people are not rationale. They fall into pressure from family, friends, society, etc. because growing up they were taught everyone is supposed to fall in love and get married too right? You are right that UMC and UC are the ones still getting married, but I do think that their marriage rates will fall in the future too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:44 PM
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What do you expect, marriage is too risky for most nowadays. It's a product of the rapidly changing society we are currently living in. I personally don't think we will ever see a rise in marriage rates again and the number will only continue to drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:09 PM
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I think it has caused more of a polarization then ever. With the rise in Instagram and social media it has really created extremes. Gym membership and fitness has gone through the roof in the last 10 years but the ones who haven't hopped on the "trying to look as beautiful as possible" have dropped to the "fat slobs and given up on health" category. I would agree that the average person has gained weight and become less attractive, but in the last 10 years there has also been an big increase in …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:55 PM
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The people in their lives become NPCs on which to enforce their vision of the perfect relationship, the perfect wedding, the perfect home, the perfect family. This is probably the thing I hate most about social media nowadays. If you go on any platform everyone there is beautiful and has a perfect life. People will literally take trips to places strictly for instagram pictures to "prove they have a great and fulfilling life." A few years ago I took a family trip to a very cool mountainous area a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 07:05 PM
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Being nice and polite isn't rewarded in society. Being immoral in the eyes of society is all just perspective to some people. Unless you really believe in karma, there is no incentive to treat people fair and just. It all comes down to personal beliefs and principles. The trade-offs really are just all about who you want to be. Do you wanna be the guy who does the "good things" and get punished and left behind by society or do you wanna be the guy who does "immoral things" and capitalize on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:03 AM
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Men that have low face fat, strong jawlines, and long pointy noses. There have been studies that show women's top preference is white men with dark hair, dark eyes, and tan skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 07:25 PM
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It's really just a strategy for low value individuals both men and women. They think if they are nice enough to the individual that they will "score enough good points" to hook up or have a relationship with the person. It's really a strategy that is found in many aspects of life for example politicians do this a ton.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 07:18 PM
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My main preference is no insecurity so I guess that could be more associated with type B.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:43 AM
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No, I am pretty introverted myself. She can still be fun to be around even if we aren't going to bars, clubs, nightlife.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:33 AM
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Women that are fun to be around. I like someone who you can make fun of and joke around with that won't be super insecure. Although if she is dumb as rocks she will never be anything more than a fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:29 AM
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There are a ton of shoes that add 1-2 inches without needing to put in lifts. It seems like more and more athletic shoes have really thick soles and many formal dress shoes will add good height too. But I do agree, there is nothing wrong with wearing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:47 PM
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They should really change this sub name into MenvsWomenDebate. There is no pills anymore its just men shitting on women and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:06 AM
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Drunk "rape" would be a way bigger thing that it is. I have seen nearly every one of my Chad friends get blackout drunk at a party and average looking girls who he clearly does not want to hook up (even while drunk) basically pull him into a room and have sex with him or have sex with him when he is half asleep. One of my friends actually got herpes from some girl doing that. But he can't complain cause no one gives a shit if its a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:45 PM
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Love these men vs women science insults
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:37 PM
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I always wonder why companies make any sort of controversial ads. It is very likely they are going to capitalize on it so why bear the risk. Just be like every other commercial that has one representations from every race and gender so no one flips shit. Having said that, there is literally nothing wrong with this ad lmao. Every company should hire a few of these twitter feminists to test their ad out first before the release it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:41 PM
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Its getting to the point where I can't even read this sub. Even on the statistical and studies posts the comments will be like, "My experience is completely different, I don't believe any of this."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:33 PM
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It depends on their economic status, similarities to the country they are immigrating to, and overall looks. Height is an attractive trait so in general they are going to have a harder time than taller men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:31 PM
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Glad to see that PPD is finally making some studies and statistical posts. People on here sure do love to talk about how they defy statistics because they have different personal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:27 PM
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The most realistic one I can think of is Kathy Bates who plays very independent characters in positions of power and barks orders at people in nearly every role she has. All the female superhero "badasses" who beat up men like its nothing are just so unrealistic. I can somewhat get along with the 6'4 250lb male superheroes who beat the shit out everyone they come across, but when its a 5'5 skinny woman its just cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:05 AM
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I dont think it did, I don't doubt that a percentage of them have just completely given up, but there is most likely a reason they have given up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 01:38 AM
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Yes they really do. Its not as bad as the incels wanna tell you, but I think that study that showed 30% of men haven't had sex in the last year is good enough evidence to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 01:13 AM
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The fact that I wasn't born earlier. I graduated high school right when Instagram, twitter, snapchat, tinder, etc. really started to take off so I have always been around it. I think the only way I could've avoided our social media/OLD dating scene would have been to marry one of my HS girlfriends and that certainly was not a viable option. I'm not saying its impossible to find a reliable and stable relationship nowadays but it is alot more difficult than it was 5-10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:40 PM
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Would everyone feel better about themselves if some of the women on this sub just admitted that OLD is easier for them? I don't know why these posts keep coming up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:22 PM
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I love how this sub used to be red vs blue pill and now that the reds won it is pretty much blackpill/incels vs everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:21 PM
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Is it really that hard to understand that there is an unbalance in the online dating world. Average women will get hundreds of matches/messages while the average men will not. I agree that it gets annoying hearing the same complaints over and over again, but a lot of the points are true and this seems like the place to discuss this as this is a sub all about sex, relationships, and the marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 04:40 AM
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You are making a lot of assumptions. Who the hell said that men are more likely "crawl back into a woman's life and say they've changed and they miss her?"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:47 PM
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Everything works in theory, and then 10 minutes later the real world happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:40 PM
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Yup, I always say we don't live in a perfect world, we live in the world we have. The trade-offs really are just all about who you want to be. Do you wanna be the guy who does the "good things" and get punished and left behind by society or do you wanna be the guy who does "immoral things" and capitalize on the unequal world we live in. Personally I think both are appropriate depending on the situation and context.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:00 AM
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If I was going to have a LTR than I want it with a women who at least has some ambition, wealth, and isn't a burnout. If its a hookup then idc if she works at McDonald's as long as shes hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:59 AM
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I would continue hooking up with women just like I am now, but it would be 10x easier and with better looking women. After I got bored I would find myself a LTR with an upper class women who is very attractive and has a very solid career to settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:46 AM
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If there was just male birth control literally all this would be solved lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:16 PM
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Yea I don't think it really matters to guys what a girl wears. A guy would rather see a girl wearing tight yoga pants and a tank top than wearing a $200 dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 07:51 PM
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The loneliness epidemic affects both men and women alike. The only real difference is nearly any woman can make a tinder and have a few swipes to have sex with at least an average man (and possibly go on dates) while men can't. Almost all of my posts on topics like this talk about how much of a danger technology and social media is to kids and young adults. It really does seem to be driving us apart. It takes away the need to interact with humans and replaces it with all the "wonders" technology…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 10:49 PM
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Online dating was a great idea that turned into a disaster. I do agree with a lot of what you say but the problem is the huge influx of availability of top tier men on these apps. Girls have access to such a larger amount of high value men that they can go on dates or hookup with many of them while leaving some of the mid tier and nearly all of the low tier men left out. I promise you nearly every average young woman can make a tinder and have hundreds of matches with 10-20% of them being top ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:00 AM
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Yea I understand the point of it is mainly just to think and try to apply it to decision making but it could at least be realistic scenarios. I don't know why trying to answer scenarios like these would ever add value to one's day to day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:09 PM
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I remember being in class and the teacher gave us a scenario something like we were lost at sea with 3 other guys and we could all eat one person and survive or none of us will if we don't. I wanted to raise my hand and say "when the fuck will I ever be in this scenario," but I also wanted to make an A so I shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 08:53 PM
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The majority of women on PPD are not an accurate representation of the majority of women in real life. This is a niche sub all about sex and relationships, you are going to have skewed answers compared to the average person. Just google female height preferences and you will see hundreds of studies that say differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 08:09 PM
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That automatically assume women only want a guy taller than them. How do you know that women don't prefer a guy who is at least average male height?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:36 PM
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I was saying what makes 5'6 that standard cutoff for women's romantic interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:28 PM
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lol reminds me of an intro to philosophy class I had to take one time. I hated going through scenarios like these cause it's so unrealistic that it doesn't even matter what you answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:26 PM
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I always think we are done with the 6ft+ posts until a wave of 5 of them come every few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:06 PM
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I enjoy seeing people debate the crazy topics that come up in this sub. This whole sub has turned into "here is my experience and that must be how it is for everyone so if you disagree with me then you are wrong." No matter what anyone says here I will always use TRP and statistics to aid my dating and sex life because that is what has proven to work for me. So many on this sub forget that statistics outweighs an individual's experience. Guess what ladies if you honestly don't care about height …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:02 PM
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When it comes to women's romantic interests, it's actually 5'6. lol how did you come up with that arbitrary number, your experience doesn't establish a societal standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:50 PM
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It is partly true. Unless a woman is 5'9 or taller she isn't going to judge a man on her height she judges a man on his height compared to other men. A 5'2 girl is shorter than nearly every guy but it doesn't mean she doesn't want a guy who is similar height to all her friend's boyfriends and other men. Having said that a 5'2 girl is going to have no idea how tall a 5'10 man is, he can claim 6'1 and she probably would believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:42 PM
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no shit? Just like girls will alter their photos to hide fat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:38 AM
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Don't use apps cause you have no chance unless you are actually a Chad. Girls will get 20x the amount of likes an average guy will get, there is literally no point. Guys will have much better success in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:45 PM
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There is a big difference between thick and fat. Thick means bigger ass, legs, or boobs without extra fat around the stomach. It doesn't mean they want a girl with more fat in her face and stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 07:45 PM
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She is just a female beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 10:09 PM
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Sometimes it can mean attraction, I have definitely become more attractive through lifting. I just mostly mean little things like people are nicer to me, they seem more friendly, treat me more seriously, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 12:37 AM
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This study is bullshit. I think buff guys are gross. I've always preferred skinny men. Statistics trump your personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:37 PM
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I've met guys who looked like they lifted weights 4+ times per week and was astonished to find out they had never set foot in a gym Most guys can have the shredded look with a low body fat percentage. It really isn't that hard to have a 6 pack and look like you have muscle when you are skinny, but you aren't going to get any special attention with a shirt on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:34 PM
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Who the fuck is actually disagreeing with this? Women find attractive men more attractive than non attractive men, no shit. People lie in public contexts to seem better/nicer than they actually are, no shit. This is all common sense. Don't listen to what people say on the internet, look at the statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:31 PM
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Woman just have easier lives than men if they choose to. Sometimes that means a little easier sometimes that means A LOT easier. No man on earth is selling his nudes to thousands of people for 50 dollars a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:12 AM
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lol I know this post is trolling but if they are actual 4'10 and bald at 18 with ALL those problems then they are truly the .0001% outlier and have no shot at life regardless of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:06 AM
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I do understand the tremendous advantages of technology, I just believe it starts to have diminishing returns after awhile and most of us in the modern western world have reached that point. I understand self control is the biggest factor but I don't think there is any other way to explain just how much mental health issues, suicide, depression, anxiety, mass shootings, drug abuse rates, etc. have risen in the last 10 years as social media has become mainstream for everyone. If you truly do not …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:00 AM
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e. You aren’t reacting to the “world we live in” you are creating an algorithmic approach to dating and women because unknowns seem to really scare you guys. How is it not reacting to the world we live in if it is a system that works? TRP was made for average guys who are struggling and can't figure out why the blue pilled media they have been fed isn't working for them even when the whole world is telling them it should. It is taking those "unknowns" in the world and telling young men the way t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:50 AM
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I would love to be blue pilled nice guy beta who everyone loves and still gets lots of girls who don't cheat on him, use him, etc. The problem is that isn't how it works. TRP is a reaction to the world we live in. Don't hate the player hate the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:31 PM
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I do agree that porn is a large part of the problem especially since kids growing up have unlimited free access to it whenever they want. Kids 40 years ago didn't grow up thinking you are suppose to cum on a girls face, they had to figure out what to do on their own without "learning from porn" even when it teaches kids the wrong thing. I'm a firm believer that our advances in technology (mainly social media) has destroyed people's overall happiness and mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:44 PM
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Women prefer to have sex and spend a small amount of time with a high value man (even if she is just girl number 4 to the man) over spending all her time with a lower value man. In this technological day and age it is now possible to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:57 PM
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Girls who aren't insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:40 AM
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I know how the game works. Its just crazy how its true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 01:52 AM
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Yea even on this sub I think most of blues understand this but its still preached at a mainstream level. Last week I saw my friend say probably the worst thing I've ever heard about women and then go on to have sex with a girl who was in a 2 year relationship. Shits crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 01:40 AM
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You're going to get a bunch of answers from 35+ women who are married and aren't apart of the SMP who claim its not real. TRP real philosophy (not what some random dumbass user claims) is most certainly effective in the modern day marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:07 PM
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Feminists have conveniently ignored that because American feminism has always been about serving the needs of UMC educated white women. Yea this is 100% true. Every single "feminist" protest you see is just full of college and middle aged MC and UMC white women. Every single university in America is full of UMC white girls majoring in journalism and "fighting for inequality and justice" when they have their full tuition paid by daddy and have never been outside their 95% white communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 06:10 PM
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Alpha and Beta are real terms that have real meanings. Most sane people don't walk around saying they are alpha. If they do they are probably insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 05:55 PM
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lmao getting 1 step closer to 1984 I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 05:53 PM
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I just want to go back to before social media/OLD/advanced technology in general. I'm just so sick of everyone being addicted to their phones and only doing things to get Instagram and Facebook photos so they can show off their fake "happy and best life" they have. I just wish I had been born 25 years earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 05:47 PM
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lol I never knew NJ was that bad. 55k in my state will get you a really good living honestly. Another reason I will always hate the Northeast.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:25 PM
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It's a really good idea to live at home just starting your career cause you can save a shitload of money. Other than that there are obviously a list of cons. Do you really want to be taking a girl back to your house with your parents there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:00 PM
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I think both are to blame. I'm pretty sure there is a lot of evidence out there that shows social media platforms are partially built to cause addiction in their users. But like anything you can argue its the individual's self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:55 PM
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The real MGTOW is pretty much made up of all men who have been burned some way in past relationships by women. When they find others just like them then its easy to rationalize their thoughts. The other "trolls and asocial guys" are most likely just joining in for like you said trolling or bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:59 AM
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Basically the same as a male beta bux. A woman who puts in way more resources/effort to the relationship than her partner and receives far less. It doesn't just have to be money, it can be anything that adds utility to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:46 AM
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I think it's more a combo of "sunk cost fallacy" and the women being too afraid/low self esteem to break up and hit the dating market again. Great way to put it. I think both genders experience this quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:39 AM
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Its a terrible platform that drives young people to insecurity and depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 01:21 AM
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I still enjoy some of the posts but it isn't even red vs blue anymore. Just looking at the the new tab nearly every post is making an assumption as to how women have x thing easier or better and then all the comments are either women saying how they actually have it worse or men arguing that they are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 11:57 PM
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This sub has turned so much into men vs women. Seems like every single post is just arguing to who has the worst situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 10:40 PM
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Cause 95% of girls that say that are just like all the other girls. They are saying it to differentiate or feel better about themselves. You can have other likes/hobbies that are different than most girls and still be/behave exactly the same in the SMP. AWALT is 95% true with 5% actually being outliers (or girls who are actually different).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 10:06 PM
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yeah keep worshipping your glorious leader lmao I never even said I liked him, I was just defending him being alpha. I swear this is what happens every time people can't separate fact from their feelings. He is big, rich, powerful and has been his whole life, tell me how he isn't an alpha male?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 09:55 PM
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lol whatever makes you feel better. He obviously is a huge alpha male you just don't like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 05:15 PM
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He built one of the biggest brands in the world. He then went on to win the presidency despite so many odds and so many people that hate him. He says and does whatever he wants and follows through with it. He is also the most powerful man on earth right now, I don't think there is anything more alpha than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 05:57 PM
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.Trump is an alpha ,just an ugly one. Trump is the biggest alpha male in our lifetime. I don't care if you agree or not with him, but you can't disagree that he wins at everything he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 04:13 AM
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In my experience all the best looking girls were in the business school. It's not where all the short blue haired feminists flock to. Not to mention they mostly came from well off families which means on average they are going to be hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 05:59 PM
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Are you aware that women are not autistic robots making our life decisions with a spreadsheet of pros and cons? That is pretty much how I make every important decision in my life. Planning and thinking about how a relationship is going to work is a very important thing to do in order to avoid disaster situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 04:02 AM
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Tell me how avoiding risking yourself to bail out someone else's bad decision is selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:46 AM
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Being smart about your decisions doesn't make you any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:53 AM
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I don't think its selfish avoid risking yourself to bail out someone else's bad decision. It's not a fair world, I wouldn't expect others to do the same for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:19 PM
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It is sad, but what am I supposed to do. There are more potential downsides than potential positives. What positives happens if I do help her? I feel better about myself and maybe a little recognition from others. What possible negatives happen if I help her? People see me and think I drugged her, people call the police on me, a group of guys come over and beat me up, (insert any possible bad scenario here.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:41 PM
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It's the girls fault for comparing herself although you can argue social media has brainwashed so many young people that part of the blame can be put on the developers. The reason so much of her value is based on looks is because that's how society is driven nowadays for young people. Young women value themselves on likes, followers, and how others perceive her. Obviously a young woman's value isn't solely made up of her looks, but its what gets her through the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:37 PM
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Unattractive women feel like this. Not young women. Young women are insanely insecure about their body and appearance regardless if they are attractive or not. No matter how good looking a young woman thinks she is there will always be hundreds of better looking girls to compare herself to when she opens Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:14 PM
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If you were walking home and stumbled upon a young woman drunkenly unconscious in the street, they are normal and dressed well. What would you do? Help her? Not my problem, there are too many risks associated with doing anything. Would step over both men and women, but 1 million percent of the time with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:05 PM
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He isn't wrong about women sitting in the middle of the bell curve. Men will always be the best and worst of society. Compared to men women do have an easier life if they choose. We will never reach a society where the majority of top leaders, CEOs, Innovators, etc. will be women. Likewise we will never reach a society where the majority of murderers, drug abusers, people who abuse power, etc. will be women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 07:09 PM
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Every post here is "they have it easier" or "we have it harder". Atleast 1/3 of all the threads on this sub are about how x group is marginalized. Complaining about unfair things in life will never make them disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 06:11 PM
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I don't even think this is dishonesty, it is more about a combination of social pressure from other women, and the media. It's really just young women spending 2 hours a day on Instagram and social media and seeing photo shopped women with 8 filters on that make the girl look like playboy model and then comparing that to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 06:08 PM
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Even when they have an endless stream of men who tell them they're interest and who tell her they're beautiful, women are still seeing themselves as shit and compare themselves, all by themselves, with surgically enhanced women Instagram has ruined the security of so many young people it's pretty sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 06:00 PM
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Going to a walmart in the deep south is like going to a zoo, there are some hideous creatures there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:37 PM
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It's definitely because of all the outdoor and nature activities that are possible there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:35 PM
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Colorado is the most fit state in the country by far, its a lot different story in the deep South.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 03:02 PM
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Jesus Christ an average of 171 is so absurd at 5'4. I feel like the median has to be less than that and it is just skewed by some next level fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 02:59 PM
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No one deserves a virgin. You can have a preference for wanting a virgin all you want as being a virgin or having a low N count is a desirable trait in women for lots of men. You can have whatever preference you want it doesn't mean you are going to get it unless you have the value to afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 02:55 PM
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2 years is usually long enough, anything less than a year is idiotic. Also they need to live together for a decent amount of time before getting married. Although any marriage will fail if they aren't open about their intentions and plans before they get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 01:00 AM
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She would be ruining the marriage from that second on. When you are married and make decisions without discussion like that then its already over. Marriages only survive when both parties are honest and open about their intentions with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:55 AM
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I grew up with both parents, but statistics prove a child has a better chance at a quality life (less crime, less poverty, etc.) growing up with 2 parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:57 PM
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Thank god, it really should be a 3 day event
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:29 PM
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Bow tie obviously indicates hes a Beta 3/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:05 AM
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TRP works if you actually apply the core concepts and learn want women really want instead of what bluepilled media teaches young men. All the BS about only dating virgins or only dating 20 year olds is just opinion. This is why so many people hate TRP is because some dumbass says shit like "if shes had more than 2 partners she is a broken whore," while they ignore the actual red pill philosophy helps guys gain SMV. Its not coping if it takes a guy who got no action to finally getting interest f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 06:52 PM
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I love seeing all the 30 year old women bitching about this article on twitter. I think everyone on this sub knows men are failing so obviously its getting harder for women to find a "good man." I'm guessing this is when all the reds say enjoy the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 11:49 PM
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Never knew people liked to take advantage of an ideology and try to make money off of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 10:05 PM
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Women with high N counts often bring along other issues. There is nothing wrong with wanting characteristics that often align with a low N count. Not to mention I would like to lessen my chances of getting an STD any way I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:25 PM
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lol didn't think we started purge week already.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:49 AM
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Its really just gonna be incels spamming posts every 2 minutes. I thought it was bad last year now there is 3x the amount of subscribers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:47 AM
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Definitely not, one thing I could not stand would be being smaller and weaker than everyone around me. I like being able to walk around knowing that if shit actually goes down I have a good chance to fight back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:13 AM
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Some people feel better about themselves when they shit on others and single moms are an easy target to do so. Having said that single mothers are a big problem and much of the blame is to be put on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 10:04 PM
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I'm not arguing that. I am arguing whether it is fair to shame people for thinking, or expressing certain things Fair enough I can't really say its fair or not fair, I just accept reality and make my personal judgement on the circumstances I'm curious. What do you think that people who shame men for the scenario I stated above are jealous? That would just be the virtue signaling group unless they are truly disgusted. Jealousy shaming would be like a guy saying "big muscles look stupid and no gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 06:19 AM
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I wish everyone in this sub would realize you can be as hypocritical as you want if you have the value to maintain it. Complaining about it gets you nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 05:51 AM
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I am talking about whether it is fair to shame people for being resentful. People can shame anyone they want for anything. No one can control what people think. I would argue that most shaming is just people expressing jealousy or virtue signaling anyway. I would agree with you that someone shouldn't "shame" you for being envious about circumstances, but its just my opinion just like someone disagreeing with your envy is their opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 05:40 AM
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Now that you have money and are doing better with women than this technically could be your "having fun and being crazy" part of life. You kinda just gotta accept how things are. Being envious of the past even if justified will not get you anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:47 AM
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Everything is relevant and everyone has their problems. Why in the world are people in first world countries committing suicide at such a high rate? I mean they have food, water, and shelter right? By your logic you shouldn't be complaining at all because there are people working in a factory 24/7 in worse conditions in a worse country than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:24 PM
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That is like one of the best things to judge a potential new relationship with a woman. Although the best way is to see her mother, if she has a good looking, hardworking, well put together mother then chances are she is going to be similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 02:54 AM
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The wall is real, but it isn't what the incels or alot of the reds will tell you. It just means that women lose many of their social privileges as they get older because they are in less demand. Its not at 25 its mid to late 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 10:24 PM
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The only semi realistic thing that could be done would be to ban social media and online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 10:13 PM
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Men still get just as excited, nervous, anxious, etc. They have just been taught to show less of it, this doesn't mean they feel less emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 09:58 PM
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As far as just the general world, women need men much more than men need women. Women generally aren't the ones going to war, building cities, curing diseases, and solving economic problems. Here comes the comments of I know x woman who is in the military, or who is this head position.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 09:53 PM
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Men definitely aren't less emotional they just hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:11 AM
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Its just more political bullshit. I don't care because most of the stuff posted on there was stupid but there are far worse subs out there that aren't getting banned because they fit the agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:07 AM
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Sex on the first date isn't really necessary as some girls will want to wait a little bit. You shouldn't call everything quits if she doesn't want to right away, but if it has been 5-6 dates and sex hasn't happened then its time to drop her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:45 AM
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Traditionally societies were ruled by 100% males because they were bigger and stronger and could do what they wanted without consequence. I have a hard time believing that the high status powerful men of ancient empires weren't fucking as many women as they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:37 AM
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Yea you definitely aren't wrong about video games being cost effective. Video games are just one way for struggling guys to cope with. There definitely isn't economic discrimination when it comes to gaming though. The rich low status men and the poor low status men are still coping with the same xbox or the same game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:32 AM
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in 5-10 years we will look like what Japan is now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:10 PM
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The core philosophy is good for young men who are struggling and can't figure out why. I would say at least half of the stuff posted on the actual subreddit should be ignored though. I can understand the hate on some of the posts there but TRP works for a reason, don't hate the player hate the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 12:58 AM
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If you do comment on this post, please include your IQ (145+) - I think this is the underlying problem with most views here. You're giving the opinion of idiots equal weight. lmao this comment reminds me of so many of my college professors. If you don't have x credential then your opinion is worthless. There is a very good argument to be made that once your IQ is past a certain level then it starts to have diminishing returns on happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:15 PM
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It literally just means they like the guy to be in control and take the lead. Nothing more turns off a woman during sex than asking permission to do something. It doesn't mean she wants to be fucked like a hardcore porn video.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 02:11 AM
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lol I still can't believe people don't understand that social media/OLD has changed the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 09:44 PM
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You are right about lots of dudes who don't put in any effort and still complain. They get into the incel mindset that no one except Chad is getting laid or having relationships. The thing I will say is that the bar to getting casual sex for a normal guy has raised significantly. It can get discouraging for guys who put in effort and still are struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 09:38 PM
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I think its pretty obvious that a western white guy can go from a 4 to a 7 or 8 in Asia or South America, although you are nothing more than a walking ATM/green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 07:20 AM
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You basically just describes a girl getting attached to a Chad when he is pumping and dumping her. I'm not a pickup artists but I have had women who are super into me and want a relationship when I strictly told them I'm not looking for anything. I still hook up with them, and they still express that they want more when we get together and nothing ever changes. Why should I feel bad about that? It's not my fault that she expects more even though I explicitly state my intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:49 AM
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Welcome to 2019 where her next dick appointment is just a swipe away. Hoes are rampant out on these streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:29 AM
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Yea majority privilege is another way of saying it. It's always beneficial to be in the majority regardless of the circumstances. I wouldn't say in America but in alot of countries whiteness is prioritized. I remember going to an amusement park with my Indian friend on a very hot day and he wore a hat and a long sleeve shirt and he said it was because his parents didn't want him to get darker which I thought was insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:33 PM
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It's funny to me, lighten up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:51 AM
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lol what? I grew up Christian, I have nothing against Christians I just thought it was funny. I never thought it was a badass comment, it literally just made me laugh out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:38 AM
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Any social media post that talks about how others should "act or behave" is expressing insecurity or their expectations onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:29 AM
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This might be the best comment I've ever seen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:12 AM
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Young women who grew up without a strong father figure in their life, AKA daddy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 08:50 PM
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You aren't wrong that he shouldn't be complaining about women's privilege in real life, but he also isn't wrong in complaining about women's privilege. But I mean this whole sub is about how the marketplace works so it seems like the appropriate place to make a thread about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:01 PM
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The reason so many don't recognize their privilege because is because they don't realize it. Being privileged doesn't mean you receive a check every week for nothing, it means you have social benefits that affect your life in a positive way. The same reason white people hate the term white privilege, because they don't have to live with the negatives that minorities have to deal with. I would agree that women have most of the privilege in today's sex and relationship marketplace. The bad news is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 05:52 PM
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This is the 2nd time in a row you've added stuff that I never stated when you respond to me. The original post was about how women like to be sexually dominated, there was never anything about "rape role play." My whole point was that TRP is there for a reason and its because it works. I know it has nothing to do with YOU personally, but it has to do with MOST which is why it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 05:27 PM
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but you do not have aboslute insight into what turns all 5 billion women on the planet on because there's so much variation there literally is no "normal. This is the whole reason TRP exists. It is about what works with the numbers. Just because you do not fall into the category doesn't mean the majority don't. I love how so many on this sub can't accept that just because you individually aren't apart of the group, the group still exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 05:39 AM
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I wouldn't say the average man is spending money on cam girls, he is probably watching free porn like almost every guy does. The very low value man is because he has no other attention. But yea if you are a normal guy and are blowing money on cam girls then you are an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 01:18 AM
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There are hardly any statistics or studies that are posted in this sub. Even when they are its just "no I know x person and they are the complete opposite." Its just projecting their beliefs and findings onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 09:47 PM
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I just don't get why people are mad at them and not at the men who give them money. You could make an argument that they are preying on the very low value men who likely are donating to them because they have no other female connection. Kinda like how old people get preyed upon by scams.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 09:42 PM
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I exclusively go for fat single mothers who put in their bio "My child is my whole world if you can't handle that then you don't deserve me. I am looking for a real man"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:32 PM
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I have a hard time trusting people. I think just seeing so many people act only in self-interest has turned me cold in a way. I've grown to only really care about my family and a few close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:28 PM
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When did I ever say that? I'm not saying that the women should be giving ugly guys sex, it's just a broken system that punishes the bottom and only rewards the top. Hence this is why they are complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:30 AM
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They are complaining because it isn't fair just as everyone complains about stuff that isn't fair. This is a sub dedicated to everything about sex, relationships, and the marketplace so this topic is going to come up a lot. By this logic why should anyone care about income inequality, racial discrimination, or any other topic where the top succeed and the bottom are punished? I guess they are all scapegoating their problems too?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:20 AM
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Broke bitches love New York. My college GF was obsessed with moving there. So true lol, I don't know why they think living there will drastically change their life. Personally you couldn't pay me money to live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 02:41 AM
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If you are a virgin then you are likely not desired by other women. Women want men who are desirable by other women, hypergamy 101. Also women enjoy sex too, inexperience is a good indicator of bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 10:00 PM
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I mean you could say the same thing about men. For a lot of people marriage is just what they were taught to do. Women will have alot of social pressure to get married when they approach 30+, especially when they are seeing all their friends getting married and having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 09:57 PM
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Redpill wasn't made for women. It was made to help men understand how to beat the system we have in today's SMP. Why would any woman wan't to follow redpill philosophy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 09:20 PM
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Neither are socially acceptable, but I wouldn't be posting pictures on social media or telling my friends and family that I'm seeing someone if they are just a fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:17 AM
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Dating? hell no, Fucking? absolutely. I would imagine the only social pressure I would get from fucking 18 year olds at 40 would be redditors calling me a creep which I can handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:07 PM
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Just watch the movie Mean Girls and you will get your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:12 AM
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Men are less likely to rotate best friends every couple of years. How can you say women have deeper friendships when it's pretty common they isolate members of their group I remember hanging out with a group of girls in high school and asking why x girl wasn't with them and they all said they weren't friends anymore, and I was like wtf ok? A few months later it was the same thing but with a different girl. It was so funny seeing girl A and girl B being best friends and hating girl C and then a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:08 AM
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I do prefer taller women. But it isn't a deal breaker if she is short although I prefer not too short like less than 5'3. If I ever do decide to have kids it would have to be with someone who is at least 5'6.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 06:02 PM
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You can afford to be as blue pilled as you want if you are a 6'4 dude with a model face. The problem is most guys aren't that and being blue pilled doesn't work for them. This is the whole reason the red pilled exists. This is the same reason you see ultra rich guys who are insanely far left economically. When you have already won then you can afford support the thing that most normal people cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 03:47 AM
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I'm almost positive there is a relationship to young men being more feminine and growing up without a father. A son needs both a masculine and feminine presence growing up to have the best chance in this world. I'm not saying they need to have masculinity shoved down their throat but they need a strong leader to look up to while growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 03:41 AM
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It's not that they are sensing someone being misogynistic they are projecting thoughts based on first appearance. The halo effect is a real thing and if a woman is being hit on by someone she doesn't deem attractive then she will assume he is a "creep or misogynistic" until proven otherwise. The biggest slayers I know are all pretty misogynistic but they aren't showing it unless they are just hanging out with the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 03:36 AM
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You can show your vulnerabilities to your woman. Just don't do it in such a way where you want her to solve them. I used to be emotional around partners but it drove so many of them away that I pretty much never show negative emotion anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 03:29 AM
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Why would you go into business with anyone who didn't have something to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 05:41 AM
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I think the only time it becomes meaningful is when you have someone that you care about more than yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 04:54 AM
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I used to get mad at all the man-hating feminist media, but now I get a pretty big kick out of it. Don't take what non statistical media and articles say seriously. People like to present themselves as better than they are online both men and women, it's just part of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 04:51 AM
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They are really common, even if a guy thinks he has a 5% chance of having sex then he will stick around. The best way to tell orbiters is if a girl gets out a relationship and then makes it clear she isn't going to have sex or a relationship with them. I have had girls tell about experiences like that and they are shocked when their male "friends" turn cold to them after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 12:00 AM
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Just don't get married, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 04:55 AM
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Is calling gym "chicken coop" banter or shaming in your ears? lol I would make fun of someone if they called the gym chicken coop
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:23 PM
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lol what are you on about. Men and women both cope I just said that women seek attention for it while men try to hide it. I'm not bashing any gender. If women had testosterone they would commit 90% of violence. Men are bigger, stronger and more aggressive of course they are going to commit more violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:10 PM
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Yea every since I learned the logic of opportunity cost I kinda have lived thinking about all the stuff I give up when I choose to do what I do. I think that it helps me to try and live a fulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 05:28 AM
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What the hell is swoleshaming? Anyone who is trying to shame you cause you are muscular is just jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 04:35 AM
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Men commit 90% of violence cause they have testosterone.....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:51 AM
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It will be just like every other dating site. I only care about the competition with other sites and apps. The best thing this sub has ever done for me is convince me to triple my investment in Match Group (owns tinder and nearly ever other dating site) and it has been my best percentage performing stock in the last 18 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 10:05 PM
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Yes they are arrogant, they have won the game of life at that point. You can do whatever you want. When you have that power most people are arrogant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 09:39 PM
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I've always hated English accents, so if I ever meet a cute British girl than she automatically loses a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:46 AM
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I would just define it as a high value man who is attractive and is fully committed to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 08:36 PM
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I would agree with you but it rapidly increases as women approach the wall. I believe a vast majority of 24-27 year olds still think they are going to get the man of their dreams. If they are still single past that and see all their friends getting married and having kids then reality will hit them pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 08:22 PM
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How is it useless if it's correct? He isn't going to change the way the world works by making posts on reddit. The way you win is not by complaining about how the system is but adapting to what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:00 PM
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Half of the posts here could be answered with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:48 AM
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Almost everyone is unhappy. The difference is men cope and hide it while women will seek attention for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:28 PM
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Reminds me of a time in high school when some kids got caught drinking at the school and all the football players got off pretty easily and the rest got suspended. It isn't fair but its just how the world works. Some people have power and some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:25 PM
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It isn't my biggest selection criteria, it is just what I enjoy most in women. It isn't just humor, it is the ability to not take yourself to seriously and not get offended when I make fun of something about her. I don't specifically seek out women who are fun to be around, I spend time with women I meet and if I don't enjoy being around them then I move onto the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 12:57 AM
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My favorite feature in a women is simply that she is fun to be around. I try to take things not seriously unless it needs to be and I enjoy someone who I can make fun of, joke with, and do fun things with. It works best with women who aren't insecure. It can be hard to find a woman who isn't insecure in today's age though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 12:49 AM
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I don't know why you would need to identify as being part of TRP. I guess I would consider myself "redpilled" cause I identify with a lot of their belief, but I still think a lot of the shit posted on that sub is stupid. I just take the good parts out of it and ignore the bad parts. I'm not going to defend something I disagree with just cause its considered "redpilled."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 03:12 AM
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It depends on what your definition of better is. Men are going to be on the more extreme end of everything. This means that almost all the violent criminals, abusive people, immoral acts, are going to be men, but the ones who invent life saving drugs, solve major economic problems, and go to war to protect the ones they love are almost all men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:50 PM
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This sub isn't a debate sub. No one ever changes their mind, it is just here is my experience and that must be how everything else is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 04:21 AM
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There aren't any real consequences, girls aren't filing reports of harassment when they reject someone. I think it is just the fear of humiliation of a girl running back to her friends and saying "omg this creep keeps trying to hit on me." I have been with girls at bars and seen this exact scenario when a dude was literally just talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 04:16 AM
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I think a lot of men get discouraged from trying to talk to women cause they don't want to come off as a creep. Every girl i've ever met has told me countless stories about "creeps" making them uncomfortable when some of the times it really is just a guy shooting his shot. Not to mention MeToo and feminist media makes everything worse too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:29 AM
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The biggest hoe indicator by far is tattoos. Especially if they are in shitty places like their thigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:06 AM
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Deleting social media will do wonders for your mental health. I have taken month long breaks and I do feel much better. However I do agree its almost a necessary to have instagram/facebook/twitter if your goal is to spin plates. Almost every girl under 25 is addicted to social media and the first thing they are going to do after meeting you is look you up and see you aren't a loser. It is great to show that you are fun, social, have friends, and generally aren't a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 04:05 PM
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This idea that OLD made women pickier and less apt to settle with bottom barrel men (because what, we didn’t have eyes before?) is pure delusion I wonder how many older posters here actually believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:27 AM
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I went from having some empathy to basically none when I became successful with women. When you see how the game is played in 2019 its hard to have empathy. The biggest slayers I know don't show any empathy towards women and in fact alot are pretty misogynistic. Hearing young attractive women complain about not getting their way when it comes to dating is a lot like how you hear white people claiming they are being racial discriminated on. It's hard to take their complaints seriously when they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:43 AM
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Anyone who thinks that Chad is not real is delusional. There are plenty of top tier guys who are fucking a different girl 4-5 nights a week. Female celibacy is also increasing just not nearly at the same rate as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:26 AM
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she has casual sex out of relationships she has a tattoo she is single still at 30 Bro good luck with any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:22 PM
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Almost all of them without fail devolve into drunken bullshit and without fail probably a dozen of them will have one girl run crying and bawling out into the night away from her friends and the party. I've spoken to bartenders and they notice this too along with a very specific host of problems that come up when attractive UMC white girls decide to party. This is every single college campus in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:45 PM
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women today work hard af to make it seem like they're totes happy and content and living their best life. but on the inside, they're BROKEN. In theory it does work, but this is the reality for many. Although you can say the same thing about men being broken. Given the odds I would take a woman at having a better chance to optimize her enjoyment in life over a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:43 PM
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I don't blame the men either, it's just sad that they have no idea about the truth. I'm not saying every single woman loves assholes and bullies, its just preached everywhere that all of them love the sweet, caring, gentleman when that is far from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:08 AM
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Yea I totally agree, it is really sad. I basically stopped caring about anyone except my family and very close friends awhile ago because I know if push comes to shove they will take any chance to get ahead of you at your expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 09:01 PM
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Feel bad for the men who never learn this. Sad that men will be nice, respectful, and a gentleman and will never learn that it won't help them. Thank god I discovered TRP early.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 08:57 PM
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Sex dolls and escorting services are such a small percentage (less than 1%) of "the new sexual market" that it doesn't even matter. Especially in places like the US where it is still illegal almost everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:01 AM
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As far as getting sex then yes the young gay man is much better off. I still think a young gay man will have a harder time or just as hard of a time finding a fulfilling relationship. Not to mention I would think just in general it is harder to live as a young gay man than a young straight man in this world, especially depending on their environment and location.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 12:59 AM
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There are only male feminists because they think it will help them get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:59 PM
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No, If a girl goes home with a guy after a night out the guy is expecting to have sex pretty much every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:47 PM
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Are people really using an app that gives them an attractive rating? No wonder so many people are insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 09:13 PM
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People in general don't like to admit they have privilege. They hear that they are privileged and think "I worked just as hard as anyone else from the ground up how am I privileged?" People don't put together the social privileges they have. It's the same reason lots of white people hate the world white privilege, they aren't realizing the social privileges they live with because they have never had to deal with the negatives of being in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 08:56 PM
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This whole subreddit is just people projecting their beliefs onto others and assuming that is how the rest of society is and when someone disagrees they just say you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:22 AM
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Yep this 100%. A pre wall woman is treated 5x better than a post wall woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 03:03 AM
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I don't think if you let sex crazed 16 year old boys be around nearly naked classmates that nobody will care after awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 07:30 PM
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Bruh my high school literally made some girls wear a t shirt over their prom dress cause they were "showing too much cleavage". The guys also weren't allowed to have any facial hair either. This was all at a public school too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 07:26 PM
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lol I've been thinking the same thing for years. Why the hell would you pay money for just nude pictures of a girl you will never meet when you can find pretty much any porn video you can desire for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 07:24 PM
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The same stuff is going on at Harvard as it is going on at state school. That is what most sorority girls do. What does this have to do with Chad. I never said they are going home with the 6'5 football player every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 07:05 PM
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lol I don't think you know what university weekends are like anymore. UMC girls are almost all in sororities (cause they can afford to) and are going to bars and frat parties every weekend. If you go to any college bar on a Wednesday-Saturday night then you will see thousands of girls barely dressed, drunk, and going home with random dudes. Even the girls that work part time are likely going out atleast once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:52 PM
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The rich college girls who go to big schools are the sluttiest by far. Getting an undergrad degree really isn't as big a deal as people think (even if you go to Harvard). The UMC girls who don't have to work while going to school have lots of time to slut it up Wednesday-Saturday night.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:33 PM
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Ultra left wing women are disdainful of and hostile towards men. Everyone knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 04:51 PM
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TRP users leans right wing while the bluepill users leans left wing. Improving yourself enough to where you can finally get laid has nothing to do with politics. On top of that in general more men lean right wing and more women lean left wing and in-turn more men are red pill and more women are bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 04:49 PM
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Every social media platform you go on is filled with "men should do x thing", "men are wrong because of x thing", "men are not entitled to x thing". 2 movies where the lead actor is a female fantasy doesn't disprove the message of "men are privileged misogynists who don't respect women" message that is pushed through bluepilled/feminist media. I'm not saying all media and society is like that but TRP helps people who are taught that stuff and have no idea that being nice enough to women will not…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 02:11 AM
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TRP is good for average men who wan't to get laid but are struggling. It also helps young men wake up to alot of the BS they are fed by society and the media. As far as the actual subreddit I think there are some bad things on there and people who do have success in getting more girls and relationships shouldn't live by what people are posting on there. It seems like most of the stuff posted on there are 20 year olds who finally got laid and think they are the ultimate slayer now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:31 AM
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I never said men are entitled to sex and relationships. I also never said women don't have mental health issues too. The difference is men are testosterone filled and will commit more acts of violence compared to women. You can't tell me people who commit shootings aren't fucked up in the head. Anyone who commits a murder is fucked up mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:20 AM
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I've been saying that there is going to be major consequences for this in 10-20 years on nearly every post I see about failing men. The real answer is I dont know what it will be and I don't think anyone does. I am almost certain though that we will see a rise in suicide, depression, anxiety, acts of aggression (including mass shooting and terrorist acts.) I entirely blame it on social media, OLD, and technology in general. I know this sub and reddit in general like to shit on incels, but if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:07 PM
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I do think it has deflated the average girl who isn't having casual sex and only wants a committed relationship, although that is rare in a younger girl. Most of my friends are average to above average guys and alot of them just don't want to date. I am the same way. Why date a girl that you have to be exclusive to and spend money or time that you don't want to when you can just have a couple of fwbs. I am still friends with my fwbs and I hang out with them outside of the bedroom. I just don't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:08 AM
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Women do like older men, but in a 2-5 year gap not 20
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 12:26 AM
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Even if you told 15 year olds they had to pay for all that they would still have as much sex as they could. 15 year olds are dumb and their hormones are going crazy, they most certainly are not capable of making rational decisions when they are about to lose their virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:59 AM
2

The US economy has been in an expansion for the last 10 years, It is doing the best it has in 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:29 AM
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I'm sure telling this to sex crazed 15 year olds will stop them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:57 AM
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99% of these teenage girls are not going after 40 year olds, if there is an age gap its likely that the guy is late 20s and the girl is late teens to early 20s. You have to have some age where people are considered full adults. I don't know why so many posts are about how society sees one thing when its "hypocritical, shaming, or not fair to me." It isn't going to change a thing. If I am 29 and I really want to fuck a 19 year old then I am going to regardless if twitter or reddit thinks its wron…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:31 AM
1

Nowadays girls are taught to be thots. When all your 16 year old friends are twerking, taking photos of their ass, sleeping with tons of dudes, posting slutty pics then you are going to do it to. Music and media elevates that even more. It's insane just how degenerate 16-25 year olds are nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:16 AM
4

90% of lead actors in movies nowadays are tall good looking white dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:23 AM
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Attractive people are idolized in general. I'm sure there are thousands of better actors than Brad Pitt but he is going to get the big new role because people wan't to see a good actor who is beautiful over the best actor who is ugly. Take that now and put a decently attractive woman into any nerd group and she is going to be idolized cause its so rare. People are shallow and looks matter alot in our Internet aged society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:14 AM
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Why is everyone so obsessed with empathy? Even if you people who complain about your problems (even if they are valid) get your empathy you are still going to be stuck in the same position as you were before. It's best to accept whatever you are having problems with and work on improving things that can be fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:07 AM
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She either is trying to lock down a man who doesn't want to commit or she is a super feminist and thinks "women can propose just like a man can." 97% of the time its the first
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:57 AM
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Doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 10:15 PM
2

I went traveling with my family a few years ago and my sister kept talking about how much she hated the place and then posted Instagram pictures with captions like "This place is incredible." I wanted to bang my head on a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:54 AM
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There is nothing wrong with it?? I know for women under 25-30 alot of the ones who have done tons of traveling are either instagram thotties or using daddy's money so that is a bit of a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:44 PM
1

I guess, I just can't understand how someone else fucking your partner gives you pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 09:58 PM
1

I can kind of understand most fetishes but the two I absolutely cannot get is cuckolds and furries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 09:32 PM
2

It is definitely a product of kids getting raised on the internet. There has always been a hierarchy of men getting the most sex and relationships towards the bottom where there is little to no sex and relationships. The internet has just taken that and expanded it 100x. Young men growing up nowadays can see that if you really are a good looking guy then you can get a girl to come have sex with you on an app in 10 minutes. This becomes super depressing to young guys because they feel like they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:37 PM
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Alot of Chads are great charismatic people. It is easier to be a confident, positive, and uplifting person when you are good looking because society and people treat you better. There are also alot of Chads that will have LTR and get married while being faithful. But there still are lots of Chads that will fuckzone girls or cheat on them constantly while still being the positive and uplifting person. Most Chads I know just have tons of short term relationships where they don't really cheat, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:22 PM
2

Having broad, defined shoulders is about the best thing a man can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 05:41 AM
7

My hands have calluses from lifting and I've had lots of girls say they love my rough hands lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 12:06 AM
3

I've wanted to make a topic about it too. Race has such an impact on the smp (with proven studies) and I don't know why we can't have a mature discussion about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:39 PM
15

The wall isn't saying women after 30-35 can't get dates. It is just saying that women will lose a lot of the attention and privileges they had when they were 23-28 because that is when they are at peak demand. The revenge fantasy is about the women who complain "where have all the good men gone" when they can't lock down a high status man their age because they are all choosing the 23-28 year olds. Women are still getting dates and men interested in them when they are past 35, they just aren't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 09:35 PM
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They are just hitting the wall. It's hard to go from a world where you have it all to losing most of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:45 AM
2

They are very helpful to seriously depressed people. People who are so depressed they lay in bed all day, go a week without showering and have serious suicidal thoughts. Not the I'm having a few bad weeks, maybe anti-depressants will help me type.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:52 AM
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Women in their 20s are at their peak demand. They likely have way more options than women in their 30s. You can afford to do things like not even respond to someone when you have other options to rely on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:43 AM
1

Yes it does. Its my biggest fear of getting married but the biggest reason I won't is because there is no need to. You can have a normal "married lifestyle", without needing a contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:01 AM
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My point is that these people crying about this are getting nowhere. You aren't going to fix hypocrisy on the internet. It's not fair but it isn't something that should be worried about and all it does is add on to the "what's the point, other's have it easier than me" mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:31 AM
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You people who actually care about these social media and Reddit posts are part of the reason that contributes to you being unattractive. Yes women get treated better online. Why? I don't know, maybe cause some internet losers still believe they have a 1% chance of fucking them. You can either sit there and cry about how it isn't fair or just accept that's how it is and move on to something important. Focus on working on yourself rather than crying because my life is so hard and everyone should …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 10:32 PM
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They are both hypocritical and it doesn't matter. You can want whatever you want in a partner but unless you are able to obtain the partner you want, then you may have to lower your standards. I like tattoos and am planning on getting quite a few soon, but I don't want to have a partner that has tattoos because generally it means they are trashier in my opinion. Call me hypocritical all you want but it doesn't matter if I am able to get the partner I desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:14 AM
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News organizations use clickbait titles to get more clicks on their site, it's just what they do. Women (and men) need to understand dangers when they go out clubbing or in a rough area. The world isn't all sunshine and rainbows, you can't expect to go to rough and sketchy areas and nothing happen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:27 PM
1

My life has gotten so much better since I stopped caring completely about politics. It doesn't seem like anything changes anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:56 PM
2

High school is mostly about finding friends and fitting in. Kids don't know shit about the world before they graduate. It's not hard for either if they can socialize well and "fit in to society". Prior to graduation of high school I would say its all about the environment you grow up in (parents, economic status, location, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:43 PM
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Its harder for the average man than it is harder for the average woman by far. However top tier men have higher range for success than top tier women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:37 PM
1

"Everybody Love Everybody" - Jackie Moon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 05:56 AM
2

Every week I see a country themed wedding on facebook where everyone is wearing jeans and boots lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 05:48 AM
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ask her father for permission lol do people still do this. Her father has 0% say in what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 05:45 AM
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A lot of people are still getting married and the guys aren't asking for prenups. Most people outside of Red Pill, Blue Pill, Purplepilldebate, (insert niche subreddit here) have normal dating lives. While the rates are definitely declining it's still a thing people do. The age at which people get married is increasing too so that may have an effect on your perspective. But there is also people like me who see marriage as an outdated thing that can fuck you over if you aren't careful. I think a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 05:43 AM
3

It's all in your head. Going to the gym consistently doesn't make you worse off in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 11:09 PM
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This post is like a incel/ loser older guy's fantasy. Women can still be attractive well into their 40's. You have to accept that aging is part of life. Stuff like this is why people have so much FOMO and will do anything to feel like they are living in the moment. It's honestly probably just all in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:52 PM
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Its all defense tactics cause they don't want to admit they are getting played. People don't like to admit any negatives about their life unless they can play a victim cause then it isn't their fault and you should feel bad for them. Every time I see shit like this I just laugh it off cause I stopped giving a shit about how I'm seen by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:12 AM
1

I don't get into them hardly at all in the beginning. Usually it will be meet > hang out > hook up then do the same thing a few days or weeks later. I have to really hit it off with them to want to talk or see them more immediately after we meet. I really hate trying to maintain a conversation on snapchat or text all day with a girl I have only known for a little while.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 02:59 AM
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texting their female employees links to pornhub lol I can't imagine anyone being this stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:15 PM
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She's a modern day entrepreneur. You can argue all you want about morals and ethics of it all, but she knows how to make a fortune. She reminds me of all those shady businessmen in the 20s and 30s who made a fortune off prohibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:10 PM
1

Of course you aren't born with it. People are born with better chances based on their genetics, but it is still something that you learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 02:49 AM
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Yea I do, I just don't care. I'm not actively pretending like we are going to have a relationship, but I'm not going to stop having sex with her just cause I don't want a relationship. I'm not leading her on, but she can believe whatever she wants. If she wants to keep trying to get a relationship and we keep having sex then that is on her. Orbiters are just the exact same thing but for women who won't have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 12:46 AM
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Its kinda the opposite here, most people take pride in their city and say the people are the nicest/best. On a side not Vancouver is probably one of my favorite places I've visited, altho the property prices there are unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:38 PM
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I've heard Toronto is the worst city in the world for women. I'm guessing cause its very liberal/feminist compared to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:29 PM
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We gotta be a close 2, with as cheap as you can live here with internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:23 PM
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If you bulk up enough and don't wear teenage clothes and don't have a teenage haircut then you won't look unmanly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:20 PM
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Why should I feel bad, when women do the exact same thing to orbiters. If I actually care about the woman then no I wouldn't do something like that. If she is just good sex then I would keep doing it cause there is a good chance there is 3-4 orbiters getting strung along just like she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:15 PM
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Yea a lot of non Americans don't understand how different cultures can be. Missouri dating and sex culture is going to be much different than New York and both are going to be much different than California. I spent a lot of time in Texas and even just going from Dallas to Austin to Houston I have had different experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:05 PM
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Yes they are, "There must be a good reason she is with him, especially if she is better looking than me," is what she thinks. In a sense it just means he has some sort of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:14 AM
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Stock market performance has nothing whatsoever to do with the number of currently active users. The number of active users are unknown, except on a global scale (which isn't entirely helpful, lol). The value of a company is its price per stock times its outstanding shares. When the number of active users goes up so does the revenue a company brings in, therefore unless bad investment decisions are made then the value of the company is going to increase and is reflected on the stock price. Do yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:15 AM
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The top 10% of dudes are still smashing these chicks, AND the unattractive chicks. I saw a first hand a couple nights ago of going home with one of my friends and her group and one the girls who could be a high school linebacker (6 foot 220) brought home a 6'3 jacked dude who was better looking than me. I immediately thought "damn this must be her night to get Chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:39 AM
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Not even just approaching. A lot of people are freaked out when you just say hi, how are you to a random stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:30 AM
2

What 2%?? Online dating is literally the most popular way people start dating right now. If you are over 30+ then profile numbers will probably be less than 18-25 age range, but still its alot. I own stock in Match Group which owns nearly all of the top online dating sites (including tinder) and it has been my best percentage performing stock in the last 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:28 AM
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For top 20% men its the best it has ever been. For women its stayed the same or roughly gotten worse. For the bottom 80% of men its gotten way worse especially for below average men. If you are a top 20% man with todays technology you can get just about any woman you want. For women they have more options cause of technology but aren't happy cause they can't get a high status man after being pumped and dumped by them. We are going to have some series problems in society when this continues for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:48 PM
1

If you are a really fat dude then getting skinny will definitely improve your dating. Also if you are tall skinny Chad and get jacked then you will probably go from getting most girls to getting any girl you want. Although if you are average skinny fat guy then getting ripped won't do that much for you. I agree that if your dating life does improve a ton its because a change in confidence and other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:15 PM
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You can't stop ignorance. But if we are being real I have never heard someone in the real world say AWALT or AMALT. I talk about red pill core ideas with my buddies all the time, but I never actually say red pill. People saying that shit are just a bunch of reddit users in a niche sub. Now if you are talking about Feminism or far left media then I dont really give a shit cause I don't read it or go after women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 03:58 AM
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Duh, men are bigger, stronger, and driven by testosterone. This guy honestly is just probably oblivious. The deal is if you are a big strong man then women will most likely see you as a potential threat especially at night without many people around. I can understand him feeling upset when he had no bad attention, but it is how society sees people. I was shopping one time with my black friend and I was walking around with my hands in my pockets and he started telling me about times he was confro…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 03:52 AM
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Woman 2 and its not even close. 85,000 a year is still a really really good salary assuming you don't live in a very high COL. I am a pretty basic person and do not need someone to make 500,000 a year in order to do fun things. I go to the gym 4-5 days a week so I would much prefer my partner to do the same or at least be in decent shape. I don't care what school she went to. Most of this is based on the fact that number 2 sounds like she is much more fun and interesting to be around than number…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 10:18 PM
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This is and technology in general are definitely by far the biggest reason for sexlessness. I laugh every time I see explanations for this being the economy, or the political situation, or MeToo, or whatever. Don't listen to anyone above 30 when they try to talk about the SMP for kids and young adults nowadays, they don't and will never understand it because they did not grow up in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 11:55 PM
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lol thats so crazy. Sex and relationship talk aside, I have never seen any feminists protests, events, or club rules like that in my current state. I have a hard time imagining that there are that many crazy feminists out there running stuff, but maybe I should spend some more time in liberal areas. But then again it doesn't sound like it would be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 04:43 AM
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You are spot on about the liberal areas compared to the conservative ones. Its funny whenever I see guys on here shitting on feminists/liberal women for doing this crazy thing or whatever and its so foreign to me because of the area I live in. I have spent time in liberal areas and in conservative areas and I have found it to be much easier dating/getting laid in conservative areas. This is all assuming you are an average looking guy, although it may be better in liberal areas if you are a 10/10…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 03:51 AM
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Another stupid voiced opinion that 99.999999% of people won't take seriously. I can't believe people are actually taking this seriously or getting angry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 08:55 PM
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We will continue the same pattern that is happening now. Rise in sexless men, rise in single mothers, also probably a rise in sexless women. Developed nations will continue to have a population decline as less and less are having kids. Technology and social media will continue to destroy our relationships and simple interactions with humans in general. Continuing rising in people with anxiety and depression (especially Young adults 18-30). \ I'm really interested in seeing what the consequences …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 12:02 AM
1

The range for a man is much higher than it is for a woman. If you really are a top 10% male in terms of looks, power, or status then the world is yours. You can do just about whatever you want and have sex or relationships with just about whoever you want. This is why you see more male CEOs, politicians, etc. I would say that this extends to personalities also. Its rare to see some men who are so passionate about things like their work that they are devoting 100+ hours to it a week, but the numb…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 12:38 AM
1

Yep this is spot on. These people have literally no idea what it is like for a 20 year old male growing up today. Relationships and sex are so radically different than when those people grew up. Everytime I see an article like this I just laugh and take absolutely nothing from it because they are writing from an unknown perspective on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 12:28 AM
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Compared to the average person, yes a young attractive girl can have an easier life, but they aren't living life on easy mode, getting their "Stacey rewards" just for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 11:00 PM
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Attractive people are treated much better in life than unattractive people especially women. It doesn't mean your life is easy, it just means its a boost that helps it be easier. It's the same as if someone is born into upper class instead of lower class. It is a privilege that people don't like to admit they have because they still have to work hard like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 10:12 AM
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They will if they get to have sex with a cute girl where they are a rarity in STEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 10:04 AM
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The people that are saying shit like that are incels and bitter guys. But if you are a young girl and want an easier life than most (compared to your average joe) then yes its very doable. You need to become as attractive as you can and have a fun/outgoing/bubbly personality that guys want to be around. There are tons of beta STEM guys and nerds in general who are rich and more than happy to buy you things if they can call you their girlfriend. Also who the fuck actually pays for pictures of gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 05:35 AM
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I could see places like eastern Europe being better where the women still appear to be conservative, but are likely still having tons of sex. Although if you are a white guy and really just want sex then just spend a few months in South East Asia or South America.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 05:25 AM
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It's literally just to make people feel better about themselves lmao. Everyone knows the vast majority of people prefer fit over fat in their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 09:59 PM
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Don't listen to what women say on the internet, do what works......... We really need to get back to some actual discussion on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 12:16 AM
1

I still don't know these white people who you are talking about that are saying "we have to keep black people off the streets and away from our women." I'm assuming you are talking about 75 years ago then yes, but how the hell is that going on today? White people aren't getting bit in the ass by the system because their great grandfathers were racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 12:09 AM
0

wut
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 09:20 PM
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Some people like to spend time doing things on this earth with people they love.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 08:29 PM
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"He would be criticized for venturing into a subject he's not supposed to lecture anyone about." I still don't know why people give a fuck about stuff like this. I am not going to read a book about becoming a man from a lesbian because I don't believe she could teach me anything of value. I am criticizing her, just as you said the man would get criticized if he did the opposite. I'm just not going on twitter or reddit to bitch about how she isn't qualified to write a book like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 08:28 PM
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I still want to know how the system is coming back to bite them in the ass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 08:20 PM
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lmao you are just hanging out with racists if they are saying OMG they are taking our white women. Most white people don't say that shit. White people are still privileged in ways just by being in the majority though. The system isn't turning on them, it may be on twitter where people just talk shit, but it isn't in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 05:13 AM
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Yes marriage is declining. Most of my friends (both male and female) are within the age bracket of 20-30 and most of them have not have significant long term relationships that will end in marriage. For males it honestly is not worth the risk of having a government contract. And for the females they can't find a stable man that fits their criteria (call it hypergamy or whatever you want to it's just been my observation).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 09:59 AM
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Jesus, I gotta get off this sub for awhile
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:59 AM
1

UBI won't happen for atleast for 20 years (Yang isn't going to get elected and even somehow if he did there are still way too many variables right now). The only thing is that it would cause even more people (mainly men) to completely drop out of society and dating and settle in their virtual world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 09:32 PM
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Why though? Do they really believe people on this sub can't have a serious discussion about race as it has to do with sex and dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 02:03 AM
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How serious are the mods about race posts? I really want to have a serious discussion about the racial impacts on the smp, dating, and sex, but I don't want to be banned lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:53 AM
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I think we all know the reasons for failing men (porn, video games, hypergamy, higher women's standards, tinder, etc). I honestly don't believe there is a solution to fix this. There are too many variables that will never line up. I'm more interested in a discussion about the impact it will have 10 or 20 years from now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:51 AM
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It's not the cause, but it is a way to cope that makes it even worse. It's an addiction that so many young men are growing up with now. Why go out and try to get real women when you can watch unlimited porn with way hotter girls than you can get. Why go out to a club/bar/party and socialize when you can play your favorite game. These people over 35 have no idea how radically different it is for young men growing up today than it was for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:53 PM
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Every time I see stuff like this I just laugh. Of course they think its men's fault. "There is a lot of evidence that sex culture is making women unhappy." It is making men unhappy too. Everyone on this sub knows that the top 20% of men are winning while the 80% are losing and women are unhappy cause they can't get a relationship with a top 20% man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:45 PM
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The social policies of the left are going to come back and end them alive. In 10 years when all these toxic masculinity preachers can't find a good man they are probably going to cry about a new problem. Right wing and left wing both have there problems though. Its crazy to me how if you identify as a republican or democrat you basically have to sign on with all their beliefs, Either way I don't care, my life got a lot better when I stopped caring completely about politics. It really doesn't aff…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 11:48 PM
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Its just to make them look more attractive or just formal attire for women. Also generally taller women with longer legs are considered more attractive which is why all female models are like 5'9+.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:11 PM
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There is no way rates are the same as pre internet with unlimited porn/video games/online thing that guys can cope with instead of actually talking and having sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 04:10 AM
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A lot of people on this sub and reddit are a bit delusional. 98 out of 100 guys in the real world have never heard of MGTOW. These niche subs and followings aren't what the average person out there is following. Dating is still a thing for most people. Yes, are the incels, mgtow, feminist etc. rising but it is still a huge minority. Romance is not dead. Now if we keep seeing this trend continue then I would have a conversation about this in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 04:07 AM
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Im sure the study is inaccurate and I never really trusted it to begin with (Also 136 sample size lol). But I do believe that it is at least 20% and may well be 28 or 30% or even higher. I think the point is there has been a giant leap in male sexlessness and it is continuing to grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 03:59 AM
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If she is like college aged then she could just be really naive, but it's likely she knows they are orbiters before she broke up. Either way she just wants to say boohoo me, some of my male friends want to have sex with me. Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:29 PM
2

Sure why not, you can say both it doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:24 PM
1

Yea thats why I said willing to give up all those sacrifices. If your partner specifically tells you to do all of that and you do it just for him/her then I don't have sympathy for someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:20 PM
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Of course not. What world are you living in where women have to make that many sacrifices. The only men who can afford to do something like this are extremely high value men. And any young woman stupid enough to give up all those sacrifices deserves what she gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 11:01 PM
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Absolutely a lot of men have just given up trying for real women and settled for virtual ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:37 AM
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Yes working out is worth it. You won't go from getting no action to slaying every girl just by getting ripped, but it is one giant step to becoming more attractive. I guarantee you that if your are really thin and put on muscle you will become more confident and get more respect from everyday people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:38 AM
2

Yea 25 is kind of the upper bracket, I would say it's mainly kids under 22 which shows just how insanely fast technology impacted our society. Your husband is an outlier when it comes to OLD. Yes some people can have success with apps if they are short, low status, and not super attractive, but the overall picture is that it hurts men like him more than it helps them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 09:53 PM
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I would assume the more advanced we get then the more social settings will be replaced by technology. If women are becoming more picky due to all the factors (OLD, hypergamy, more low valued men, etc.) then more men will essentially drop out of even trying places like that to get women. I would think clubs and bars are past their peak and will be slowly declining.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 09:45 PM
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Instagram is definitely not useless in raising status for a college kid trying to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 09:38 PM
2

I never said they weren't. What does this have to do with dating and sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:37 AM
1

Yes there are. Spend some time in the South, there are plenty like that. Obviously if you are living in Portland or (insert politically liberal city here) there will be much less.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 01:12 AM
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I've said this before, but for the people under age 30 it is like 90% because of technology. Technology has made people disposable, it has made them extremely anxious, and it has made them depressed. Alot of the posters here are older and don't understand just how much of a difference in how a 25 year old grew up vs a 35 year old. Once you get past 30 that is when I would say 2,3, and 4 are a bigger part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 01:07 AM
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Not surprised at all. In my university its honestly somewhat rare to see couples walking around. From my experience its the frat guys that are fucking all the chicks, while the average guy or lower tier frat guys getting laid every now and then and then a bottom third that are probably getting no action at all. I blame it 100% on the internet and technology. Guys can cope from not being laid with weed/alcohol/video games/porn and so they just choose to stay in their comfort. The younger generati…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:51 AM
1

If we tried to have growth without deficit spending it would not workout at all right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:40 AM
1

Of course he has the right to do so. Either partner can end a relationship at anytime for any reason they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 03:41 AM
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I'm still pretty young so I wouldn't say I have ever been in a real LTR, but even if I do when I'm older I just can't see the purpose in getting married. You can have kids, live together, have a married lifestyle without having a government contract. I just couldn't live with myself if I married a girl and she cheated on me a few years later and now you have to get divorced and possibly her taking half your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 11:18 PM
5

Attractive women have it by far the easiest, followed by attractive men and then a huge drop to unattractive women and then a ginormous drop to unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 01:48 AM
6

Find out and break up with them. I don't know how anyone is with a partner that they don't believe that their partner desires them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 12:57 AM
1

Yea in high school the varsity athletes are basically the highest social status you can get. When I was in high school I was on the varsity football team in a very football oriented town and all of my friends would just go after the hottest girls a year or 2 younger than us and it didn't matter what we looked like cause they all wanted to date the varsity starter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 12:38 AM
1

This is fake lol, but anyone who actually lets their wife fuck other dudes is seriously pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 04:25 AM
1

Why do people bitch about this kind of stuff. Why does it matter if it is socially acceptable to publicly objectify men and not women. If i'm with my friends and we see a girl with a nice ass we are all going to talk about it, but i'm not going to post it on twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 01:05 AM
1

No but I know many people like this and have seen many instances of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 06:48 PM
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The thing about a woman in her mid/late twenties that is a virgin is that there is most likely a significant reason she is a virgin. Either super religious, awful social skills, medical issues, etc. I wouldn't have an issue if she was 24 and just had never found someone she really wanted to have sex with. But if she is 30 there has gotta be a red flag reason why she is still a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 05:14 AM
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You would be surprised, if there is even a 1% chance that the guy thinks he can hook up with the girl then he alot of them will buy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 05:10 AM
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For most guys no their status isn't how many followers and likes they have. I will say though if you are an average looking guy and have like 15k+ followers from being like a video game streamer or something then that will definitely boost your status, college aged girls are obsessed with how many followers they or the people they know have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 03:04 AM
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A few celebrities doesn't prove your point. There were plenty of people who found Tall built guys like Jason Mamoa attractive while also finding dicaprio attractive too. Women as a whole have always preferred masculine men. 16 year old girls crushing on justin bieber doesn't mean that women as a whole prefer pretty boys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 07:37 AM
2

When were pretty boys favored over masculine men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 07:29 AM
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Pretty sure everyone on this sub knows this already. Attractive men are masculine, attractive women are feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 07:19 AM
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Single Mothers are a terrible thing for society. Kids need both a masculine father figure and a feminine mother figure during development to have the best chance of being of not being fucked up later in life. A lot of the time single mothers are just women who have been with shit men and aren't terrible people. They still want the best for their kids, but a lot of the times they just don't realize the child needs both a mother and a father. The single mothers that piss me off are the "I'm so str…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 07:15 AM
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Yep this 100%, I don't know why this sub overanalyzes shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 10:41 PM
3

Any young woman (or man) who leaves a life in a fully developed country to join ISIS is 100% brainwashed. Of course they realize they made a mistake after they have been abused and probably raped by terrorists. I don't think this has anything to do with the pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 06:32 PM
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It really just comes down to people disagree with the way it works. Like you said alot of people think TRP focuses on controlling women and other negative things towards women. In the end it just comes down to people getting worked up about things that don't affect them. If a young man discovers TRP and in a year he is completely a whole new confident person who is doing well with women and succeeding in life then he isn't going to care if some women on the internet call him an asshole or say hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 11:41 PM
1

I do think many people that are in better situations are sympathetic (or empathic not quite sure which the right one is) to others that are worse off but it doesn't change anything. Most people aren't motivated to devote part of their life to helping homeless people when they see a beat up freezing homeless person on the streets. They may give them a few dollars but they won't buy them clothes, food, give them shelter, etc. The same goes for ugly low value people. They may feel bad about them bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:11 PM
3

Alright I will make sure I keep a general ledger of all the dollar amounts I buy for partners so I can show to my new partners that they mean more to me than my ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:41 AM
2

What are you expecting the man to buy her? So if he spent 500 dollars on gifts one year for his previous girlfriend and only spends 300 the next year on his new girlfriend than she is worth less?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:30 AM
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Do what you want but I hope you have the value to afford these pointless standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:22 AM
2

wtf how would she know how much money you have spent on previous partners
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:14 AM
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You can have as high of standards as you want. Your value will determine if you can find a partner with your set of standards. Don't live your life based on what your friends think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 04:15 AM
3

It just simply means they are immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 09:32 PM
4

All the virgins are at the slut walk white-knighting hoping that they will score enough points to get one of the girls to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 04:53 AM
5

They don't want actual rape, they want the hot, dangerous, mysterious guy who pursues her relentlessly because he is obsessed with her. It's just fantasy. Why the hell do you think 50 shades of gray is so popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 04:51 AM
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It's really not that hard to be a top 20% woman. There are so many fat and nasty women that as long as you are in good shape (basically just not fat) and take care of your hygiene that I would say this would likely put you in the top 20%. Now as far as being a top 5% women (aka the instagram girls with 5k+ followers) I would say it takes alot of effort and some genetic help. It is much more difficult as a man because of genetic issues. Top 20% men are all mostly 6ft+, not balding, have broad sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 04:47 AM
1

It really just boils down to a lot of men don't get it. Men who are genuinely nice to women and people in general that are not doing it to slide in already get it. The ones who are nice to women in order to get sex do so because they believe that is what will work. They are low value beta guys who are resorting to a tactic that they think will work. If you look at male feminists or guys who go to women's events (like the huge women's march) like 90% of them are ugly, short, timid, beta guys. Abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 03:01 AM
2

Yes they are. I think most of it is that hot girls under 30 finally understand how much they are desired and are getting the most out of it. If collectively men stopped doing this crap then it would fix itself but its only going to get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 02:52 AM
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Yes, why the fuck not. You gotta be socially aware if the girl is into you or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 11:04 PM
1

lmao best coach ever with the best quarterback ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 09:39 PM
3

lol this girl is delusional. A rich and powerful NFL player is going to get whatever girls he wants. Wtf did she think she was getting herself into. The only reason this is a story is cause the girl wants to show off and wants sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 09:37 PM
1

lol it's really just an opinion so I can't change your mind. But you better be a very high value person if this is going to be a big deal for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 12:02 AM
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Yea it's really not that uncommon. I'd say like 25% of my classmates are either over 25, have kids, married, or engaged. It's not all 18-20 year olds getting drunk and partying every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:32 AM
3

Kissing is great cause I'm always able to tell just how much the girl is into me. I do enjoy a nice make out session even if there is no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:29 AM
1

Obviously someone if there's a market for it. Its definitely not mainly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 05:49 AM
5

People are empathetic in ways that don't matter. Someone will be walking down the street and see a guy in a wheelchair and think "oh I feel bad for him I hope everything is going ok in his life," and then continue walking on not giving it another thought until they see another situation like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 07:40 AM
7

Why does it matter? Women vastly outspend men. Men don't buy candles, essential oils, expensive towels, (Insert pointless overpriced item here).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 07:35 AM
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It's a fantasy but he isn't wrong. It will never happen but if collectively men wanted to they could all rise up and do whatever they wanted to with women. Just look at places like Saudi Arabia where men already do whatever they want. Do you really think if men and women were physically equal in strength and size that they would be able to run their society like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:54 AM
1

I think its just the norm so most people aren't going to venture off. Girls that can pull off curly shoulder length hair are so sexy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:28 AM
1

I've pretty much become completely apolitical and it has made me happier. Politics are really important and a lot of people are really passionate about it, but it just isn't for me. To me it just seems like a ton of shouting and nothing ever getting fixed. Im a male and leaning red, but also a little bit of the black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 06:21 PM
1

I'm not huge into TRP, but I don't understand any arguments against it. If you are a struggling guy and this helps you become better at getting sex and relationships then go for it. If the argument is the tactics are manipulative or immoral then I would just argue that it didn't work before and now it works so it doesn't matter if its immoral. We don't live in a moral world we live in the world we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 01:15 AM
2

If your a male and you don't grow up with a strong father figure there is a good chance you are going to have some issues later down in life. For the most part kids need both parents growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 01:05 AM
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I would agree with you for people under 35 and especially people under 25, but older than that I wouldn't say 40 year old divorced women are thinking like this even if their facebook rants get likes and comments from their friends. I think people who have had iphones and social media their whole lives are in a whole new category and should not be treated the same. I would definitely agree that it has caused a rise in anxiety and depression. People, especially teens and early 20s compare themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 12:50 AM
1

Most of the women that are my friends I tried to get with/ hook up with when we first met. Once I realized it wasn't going to happen there were a few I have actually gotten to know pretty well and I enjoy hanging out with them more now cause I'm not trying to get with them anymore. Though I hang out with my guy friends way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:26 AM
1

It has a broad meaning. Some of it has to do with looks and some of it has to do with how a guy acts. For example I was watching the college football championship last night with friends and all of them were calling Clemson's quarterback a fuckboy because he has long surfer hair and you don't typically see that in a college football player.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 10:48 PM
0

It's pretty obvious, when a woman sees a man with a girlfriend or wife they think that there is good reason she is with him. It makes the man more high valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 11:20 PM
1

Pretty much every person in high school drinks to be drunk???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 06:07 PM
1

I would 100% disagree. When I was a senior in high school I became very depressed and started drinking quite a bit. I was a somewhat popular kid in my school in that I was cool with everyone and had lots of friends and attention from girls. I was pretty good at not telling anyone about my depression but when I would drink it would all come out. I only got angry a few times at people, I would mainly break down and cry and try to talk about shit going on. It took me my entire year to learn that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:05 AM
5

Who gives a shit what an A-list celebrity says. Most of them don't have a grasp on how normal people live anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 11:10 PM
1

Yes abandoning morals will help you get farther in life depending on your goals. There are consequences associated with it though. For example if your friend needs your help to move some things you can tell them "fuck no I don't want to," but then you are likely damaging your relationship depending on how you feel about them, so it may be in your best interest to help them out even if you really don't want to. You keep doing things like this then you will most likely end up with no friends and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:08 AM
1

Maybe its because I'm from the South but I have literally never heard anyone use the word Cis. I really never hear about far left feminists sprouting that there are a million genders either. I only see it on TV or Youtube, I guess it's just more prevalent in liberal areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 12:40 AM
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I'm an average looking white guy and as bad as it sounds I do think that it adds to my SMV. Obviously though there are non white people that are way more attractive than white people. This weekend I actually hooked up with a mutual friend I had hung out with a few times who is black and she seemed super into me even though I only consider myself average looking. It is possible that she was so into me because I am white. For the most part I haven't had white girls be that into me even though I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 10:45 PM
1

I've seen it a few times, but I would say it's pretty uncommon. Even though I don't really like the term Beta bucks, anyone who spends money to talk to a girl on tinder is a total bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 09:40 PM
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40% seems like a ton. I definitely think there are a lot more young virgin men than people think. I have many friends who are all 19-23 and are either virgins or haven't had sex in at least a year and most of them are 6 foot+ average or decent looking guys. A lot of it has to do with them being not as social as they could be, but I do think the bar to getting laid has been raised extremely high. In some of my college classes I had to take stereotypical nerd courses and I would say half of the cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 09:37 PM
1

This guy is a dumbass, just lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 01:48 AM
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All it takes is practice. You get out there enough then you will learn what is creepy and what is not. If you happen to do something that the girl finds creepy then you learn not to do it again and move onto the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 09:14 PM
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I mean technically incel just means you can't get laid even if you try. If a woman wants to have sex she can do so any night she wants with a few swipes. The term incel doesn't have any relationship aspects to it, it is strictly about sex. A woman who can't get a man to stay with her after sex is not an incel, she is just a low SMV person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 08:47 PM
3

Who gives a shit whether it is considered wrong or not. You meet people and you talk and sometimes you hit it off and sometimes you don't. You have to be smart enough to pick up on social clues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 08:42 PM
2

lol I was drunk when I wrote that I guess that I just didn't notice that. I just assumed it was a man because you don't see many women posting pics of their biceps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 05:58 PM
3

Yes I can so without a doubt that doing masculine things (such as lifting and being more assertive) has helped my life in dating and in general. As far as you giving up more to be more feminine it all depends on what you want. If you want more attention from males interested in relationships then yes it may require you to be more feminine. If you are happy with how your life is going regardless of relationships then fuck what everyone else has to say. Just know that relationships require comprom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 08:55 AM
2

To be honest good luck convincing that for something that affects less than 1% of the population. And like someone else said why should they care it doesn't affect TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 08:42 AM
1

I'm not trying to be a dick but your biceps look like a normal skinny guy who doesn't lift. Just try to eat as many calories as possible and add protein as much as possible. I tend to try and eat 2 protein bars a day which are 21g of protein and honestly taste like candy bars. Also when it comes to the gym be as consistent as possible, it took me 9 months of going 4 times a week to really see results at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 08:32 AM
1

C) I'd give it a week and if there is no chance of sex then cut it off and stop wasting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:35 AM
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Pretty much every female friend i've had I have either had sex with or tried to. I have a few female acquaintances that I will have a casual conversation with, but never actually hang out with outside of school/work. I'd rather hang out with my guy friends if there is no chance of getting laid to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 07:03 PM
0

yep this x100. Nothing is going to change if there is not a significant people backing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 05:08 PM
0

More empathy would help no doubt, the problem is it just isn't the world we live in. Most people do not give a shit about a random person and their problems. They may feel empathy towards them, but most of the time it passes and they go on with their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 06:00 AM
1

This is ridiculous, I don't know what point you are trying to make. If you are getting messages like this you are getting trolled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 05:11 AM
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Nope, It depends on your own morals. No one is obligated to do anything even if many may think you are a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 07:20 PM
0

Why should I care how he represents us as a country it won't affect my life or anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:51 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:46 AM
0

Not "I'm literally shaking" posts on this subreddit, but still plenty of people bitching about him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:44 AM
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It's all opinion, I know plenty of people that support him. There is no evidence of sexual assaults it doesn't matter how many people think he is a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:41 AM
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Reddit and social media in general, but also some here on PPD. The amount of posts i've seen along the lines of: "I'm literally shaking, I've never been so angry" are absurd considering the fact that there is a 99.9% chance nothing will change and it will not affect their life in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:35 AM
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