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| 97 | [FR] Entertain yourself | -marathon- | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 12:50 AM | |
| 1 | The beginning of my Mansformation journey. Thanks seddit | -marathon- | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 08:32 PM |
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| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/25/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Noticed seddit has a new mod. Any chance you can share some info on the new guy? | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 04:01 AM |
| 2 | How do you respond to: "I'm ugly?"Most of the comments here are giving you one-liners, but the underlying idea behind these is the same: Agree and amplify. You can check out some more examples/discussion about this from your fellow sedditors by using the search bar | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 07:54 PM |
| 1 | I'm a cowardThings will get better man, I'm pulling for you dude. Remember to internalize the sidebar material, get out frequently, and step outside your comfort zone. I'm going to looking forward in seeing your one year followup post. Don't let me down | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 09:44 AM |
| 1 | What is the easiest way to get good?The easiest way to get good at anything is to go out and try it yourself. You can read all the stuff you want about what not do, but I guarantee you will forget almost all of it when you go out in the field. But if you go out and just try something and it fails, you will most definitely remember what not to do the next time around. Learn from it and make changes as you see fit. Now try again. I have an easier time getting better when I’m the one involved in the social interaction, not someone el… | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Need help!What do you do? Be a man and decide whether you want to have sex with her and risk breaking up the group, or move on and find another woman to sleep with. We can't make that decision for you because it depends on whether this is congruent with who you are and what you value. Not only that, but we don't even know anything about your social circle or the boyfriend. These kinds of details play a part in deciding what to do as well Also, specific questions like these belong in /r/askseddit | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Sober at a frat parties, energy levels lowI know that feel dude. When I’m sober and I feel that I’m out of energy, I remind myself of my long-term goal: To bring out the good vibes to as many people as possible. Reminding myself that I’m doing this for a reason puts me back in a good state. Or a 5-hour energy. Maybe both. To not eat yourself up on how obnoxious all the drunk people are being, realize the world is your playground. So play in it. Entertain yourself. For example, I might say/do some dumb shit to my drunken friends just to … | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 08:45 AM |
| 6 | Could Seddit give me a couple tips for chatting up girls before/after class?In scenarios like these, it’s generally a good idea to first talk about something you both have in common because you need to build comfort. So talk about your class, professor, homework assignment, upcoming campus events, etc. Ask her what she thinks about it and include your own input. Make sure you smile, make eye contact, crack some jokes, and stray away from negative things. This will frame you as the person who brings in the good vibes. Better yet, involve your other classmates into the co… | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 08:17 AM |
| 6 | High School ProblemsPersonally, I would just end it and suggest you stick with high school girls. You can always hook up with 21 year olds when you're older, but your time is pretty limited in hooking up with high schoolers. Also, the web of lies is going to bite you in the ass one way or another With that said, your question wasn’t whether this is right or wrong. So here’s what I would suggest: lead the interaction. For example, if you’re worried about alcoholic drinks, strongly suggest going to non-alcoholic plac… | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 07:00 AM |
| 1 | The power of being the hostDefinitely, dude. Being a host is such an easy way to build up that social proof I remember reading a post on here where this guy was just talking to his women friends at a bar. This caught the eye of a female across the room. Long story short, the guy and stranger do the deed in the parking lot and she makes a comment about how the girls must be all over him. The guy goes what do you mean? She tells him about those girls he was talking to earlier and he laughs, saying those are just his friends… | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 05:45 AM |
| 6 | Just letting everyone know that we're one of the largest and most visited subreddits!I agree with ThrowawayPUA. If you want a subreddit with quality content, making it a default is one of the worst things you can do to ruin that. Unless you have heavy moderation like r/askscience, your subreddit will be littered with memes, valueless comments, and more people who don’t read the FAQs. Check out the default subreddits and see it for yourself, dude. I mean just imagine the huge influx of females and white knights with their “just be yourself!” advice. Feels bad, man Even having a p… | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Quick Tip for your FaceTo add on to your post, I've gotten hypertrophic and discolored scars from acne and little scars from other shenanigans. What I’ve found to fix these up were these silicone sheets called ScarAway. I just slapped it on my scars all day and now they're pretty much gone. It’s a slow process so you’ll have to use it for several months, but to me it’s worth it. It’s like 27 bucks on amazon and you get 12 weeks worth of sheets (assuming you use one sheet per week). You can also pick it up at Walgreens… | /r/seduction | 30/05/12 04:32 AM |
| 4 | 33f tells me that I'm a bad boy. Thanks Seddit :D (I'm the yellow.)Hey, I’m glad you’ve gotten some value out of this subreddit, but I’m going to have to downvote this post for the following reason: I don’t see any value in these kinds of posts. One could argue that this is meant for inspiration, but when you read many of the inspirational posts on here, you can tell some effort was taken in writing the post. You, on the other hand, posted an image of a facebook message. The image doesn't really provoke a good discussion either. We really don’t need this kind o… | /r/seduction | 30/05/12 03:56 AM |
| 11 | Vocal projection: Make sure you're not holding your breath.Good tip. Just to add on to your post, here's a pdf by toastmasters that gives some good info on how to add strength and authority to your voice: link One of the things I've done to improve my speech was take a video of myself talking about something that I'm interested in. At first, watching and hearing yourself on video is incredibly awkward, but after awhile you'll get over it and instead will pay more attention to improving your tonality and body language. | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 10:02 PM |
| 19 | Done with undergrad. Now what? Transitioning to young professional life.Hey man, I graduated a year ago and I was in a similar situation as you. I didn’t feel in control of my life and I didn’t have the faintest idea on how to move forward. If you’re interested in reading my background, you can dig through my submission history to find my post about it. Here are some things that I’ve done and have been doing, which has led me to live an awesome life thus far: Define your purpose, create your goals, write up a plan, and follow through Being in college and going throu… | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 11:32 AM |
| 3 | "You're skinny." Suggestions for getting past this shit test?This isn't the link to the interview, but this is a part of a commencement speech Colbert gave where he talks about the rule of saying "yes", which he learned doing improv: Here's the video: video Here's the transcript (The relevant part is found near the end): transcript | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 12:58 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Be Aggressive!Hey man, thanks for taking the time to write this post. Don’t let the votes deter you from writing FRs. Meecham123 is right about the many or so lurkers that will benefit from your post, even if the upvotes don’t show it. About a month ago, someone wrote an FR where he just went up to a girl, said hi, and then asked for her number (Major props because it sounded like a big step for him). That’s all he did. That post got almost 400 upvotes and almost 100 comments. Therefore, I don’t believe for a… | /r/seduction | 14/01/12 10:08 AM |
| 10 | [FR] (NYC) Cold pickup at bar, SNL with 36DDD girlWhat the fuck is up with the hate in here? TofuTofu took the time to write this up and, like his approach or not, he got results. I certainly got some value out of reading this, thanks man | /r/seduction | 12/12/11 01:46 AM |
| 3 | I'm not afraid to talk to women I just don't have much to say...You're telling me that from the day of your conception up to now, you have done nothing you have enjoyed, felt passionate about, or even felt curious about? I don't believe you. If you have a genuine interest in yourself, the person you're talking to, or even the world in general, you most definitely have something to say. Karaktor also has the right idea. To add on to his comment, I made a post that can help you get started in asking questions and such: here's the link You got this, man. | /r/seduction | 12/12/11 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Forever Alone Community's Thoughts of Seddit. What does Seddit have to say?The OP posted a link that contained very thought out answers from people in the seddit community. A lot of these answers, in fact, address the issues that these FA posters are bringing up. So, to answer your question, what I have to say is what the seddit posters have already said in that link | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 09:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hitting the clubs on college nightOh definitely, couple that with some eye contact and a smile and that approach is golden. I’ve also experienced what you did to Asian HB9, but they also get in close and lean into my ear saying some sweet nothings to kind of cement their intentions. Works too. Oh the possibilities! | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 09:32 PM |
| 23 | FR: 8 sets opened, 2 K-closes, 1 LMRI got nothing constructive to add, but I thought this was a good read while I enjoy my bowl of pho, hungover | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 06:46 PM |
| 8 | Tall Muscular White Guy Game vs. Short Ethnic Guy Gamedamn...That's a little too harsh for my style | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 06:25 PM |
| 2 | My first full close. Tonnes of advice for new people inside.HEY EVERYONE! SILLYMALLARD GOT AN F-CLOSE!! Haha, kidding aside, high five dude | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 06:11 PM |
| 1 | OKC -> Friend ZoneI haven't dipped into online dating, but come on man. You can't let one mishap get to you like that | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 06:03 PM |
| 2 | [FR] F-close. This shit is too easy.Honestly, I was becoming worried for you if you didn’t F-close soon, considering how open you’ve been with guys when you go out. Good job | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 05:55 PM |
| 0 | How much fashion matters?Lots of good advice here. To give you a better visual though, google up a PUA named Mystery. Guy has a weird wardrobe, but it works for him | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 06:38 AM |
| 3 | My first full close. Tonnes of advice for new people inside.I'm pretty sure ISw3arItWasntM3 has that shit locked down. Reference post | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Analyzing a scene from ShameI remember seeing that post awhile back. I'm glad you were passionate about it, but that was way too hardcore for me man, lol | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 04:01 AM |
| 39 | My first full close. Tonnes of advice for new people inside.18 months is a pretty good investment if it means you're now living a better life | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 03:09 AM |
| 7 | Really nice rejection.I’m going to have to say it depends here, but to play it safe, one should take asad16’s advice. When I first started out, I got blown out by this really good looking HB. A guy comes up and says how he and a couple other guys have approached, but she wasn’t having any of it all night and then he just walks off. I felt fine with that. Another time I got blown out and this friend of a friend said something that made me feel like fucking Oliver Twist looking for scraps to get by, even though his int… | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 11:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - The PullDefinitely sounded like a fun night, nice. You mentioned that this wasn’t an engineered interaction, which is great because this serves as a reminder out there that you don’t need to bury yourself into a lot of theory to have a good time | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 10:50 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Hitting the clubs on college nightAwesome that you followed through with your goal. I like that you were forward and let your intentions be known with the Asian HB9. Next time though, try striking up a conversation with him. Entirely possible that he was way too shy to start anything, but you never know unless you try. I don’t think I’ve read an FR from a female since I’ve been here, so thanks for taking the time and initiative. | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 10:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Entertain yourselfhaha, well, I'm sure Tony Montana can hook you up | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 10:15 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Entertain yourselfI agree, as long as you believe you're making improvements. I like your positive attitude and hope you keep it going in your endeavors, man. | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 10:09 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Entertain yourselfThanks for using a part of your time to read my FR | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 05:59 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Entertain yourselfWelcome to /r/seduction! I like it too :) Have fun tomorrow! | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 05:50 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Entertain yourselfI’m glad to hear it. Be sure to tell us how the advice plays out when you go out! I really appreciate the compliment, but I came from a very unlikely background. I was the shy kid in high school that watched anime, read books, and played video games. I approached only one girl in high school to be my girlfriend. It did not end well. In college, I did okay. It most definitely was not because of my game though, but more about my looks. I hate having to think about it, but I spent more time fearing… | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 05:49 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Entertain yourselfHave fun, man! | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 04:21 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Entertain yourselfThanks! Definitely keep us updated about your goal. It was great being able to actually process the words that came out of my mouth that night lol | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 04:15 AM |
| 16 | [FR] Entertain yourselfThanks man, this means a lot. I put a lot of time into it and I'm pretty stoked that someone enjoyed it | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 04:12 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Had trouble flirting with the counter girl.Thanks for the post. It reminded me of something. Before I started seddit, I had a really hard time making conversations with strangers. I had that mentality where what I said was way too mundane. What a ridiculous mentality that was. We watch TV and play video games and notice all these neat characters having that cool ‘zinger’ or that outlandish conversation. Reality is, a lot of people don’t have those ‘zingers’ or whatever. Most people certainly can’t even think of those on the spot. Don’t s… | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 03:17 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Number closing a hottie by talking about video games -- Day GameNice, another example of why people here say that it doesn't matter so much as to what is said, but how it's said. Tyler from RSD was able to pick up women by talking about taxes. Anything is possible. Keep up the good work man. | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 02:15 AM |
| 2 | How to fix a bad first impression.Reddit had some problem earlier today so a bunch of people couldn't post anything | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 01:55 AM |
| 33 | [FR] Entertain yourselfHey man, thanks for reading this. When I first started out, I just opened up everyone, everywhere. Guy or girl. Guy/Girl at the cash register? Ask how their day’s been and always give them some encouraging words. Standing in a long line for lunch? Make conversation with the person next to you. Make a comment about the line or the restaurant you’re at and then lead in with how their day has been so far. What I like to do when I’m stuck sometimes is go through the 5 W’s (one H): Who, what, where, … | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 01:47 AM |
| 1 | What do I say to theseAs notlurkinganymoar suggests, accept the compliment with a simple “Thanks.” Also realize she went out of her way to say something nice to you, so return the favor. For example, you can then make a comment about something she’s wearing. Or ask her opinion about something relating to the student event you’re both at. Or even “Thanks. How’s your night been so far?” | /r/seduction | 12/11/11 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Guy friend says he wants a wingman but really just wants someone to hold his hand through it. Advice?You are a great friend because it sounds like you are going out of your way to help him reach his goals. The fact that you continue to endure his presence when he continually is a Debbie Downer in your life, speaks volumes about how much you value this friendship. Much respect. It sounds like he really needs to restructure his mindset here. He’s not taking accountability of his own actions and instead blaming external factors for his shortcomings (ie, blaming the terrible wingman). When he does … | /r/seduction | 11/11/11 12:25 AM |
| 6 | Mindhacks for Outcome DependenceThere’s a trick that I use when unproductive ideas, such as social anxiety, pop in my mind: I imagine that this unproductive idea is a person. Not just any person, but the most despicable person I will ever meet. Now whenever that unproductive idea pops in my head, I imagine that despicable person trespassing into my mind and before it opens its mouth at me, I say right to its face, “Shut up and get the fuck out of here. I’m not going to listen to your shit.” Then I go along and continue whateve… | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 05:05 PM |
| 6 | I have the least proficient game.Hey man, it’s good to see that you are interested in improving yourself. The seddit community has given you a bunch of solid information to get you started, which can be found in the sidebar. Don’t spend too much time reading, though. Once you’ve read a couple concepts, start going out and approaching women. When you start approaching women, your mind may play tricks on you. Before going up to that girl, your mind might shout out nonsense like “This isn’t my thing”, “She’s too hot”, “I’m not rea… | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 02:55 PM |
| 1 | A pattern I came up with, field-tested with some success. I would like to hear your opinions.Definitely trying this out. Thanks for writing it up man | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 04:14 AM |
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