| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Advice for when she goes cold | 100hourslave | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 08:18 PM |
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| 2 | The more attractive the girl, the less she’ll care about how attractive you areNah. | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 10:20 PM |
| 1 | LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTIONLOL I think we all try to believe that man. | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 05:58 PM |
| 6 | What’s your go to first date idea that isn’t dinner and/or a movie ?"mansplaining"... I think you did them the favor. | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 04:37 PM |
| 2 | LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTIONTbh I don't do oral on the first fuck for my own protection. I talk to them and get a feel for how they are and then introduce oral into the picture if I feel comfortable risking her sucking my dick let alone me going down on her down the line. But that's just me and my thought process. If a girl is easily fucked by you, she was easily fucked by other guys. | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 04:32 PM |
| 1 | LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTIONDamn man you took the dive and ate her out risking std's and another dudes cum, well alright then. | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | EXACTLY What To Do When She Goes COLD 🥶If youre around care to update? Same shit happening to me. | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 07:46 PM |
| 2 | My goal is getting a girlfriend I like. How should I act?This should literally be the answer to every single question asked here. | /r/seduction | 06/03/20 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Questions for people who overcame difficulties with loud music venuesWhere are you trying to get her to go when off the dance floor? My game goes like this: - Find girl who I'm attracted to, try to establish eye contact, if I feel she's receptive then easy approach, if she's not receptive then pass, if no eye contact cuz she's not looking then approach when opportunity arises. - Say "hi my name is X, I think you're pretty cute so I wanted to come say hi" - If she's receptive then I'll try to build a lil rapport with basic observations/questions for a couple mins … | /r/seduction | 06/03/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Questions for people who overcame difficulties with loud music venuesAre you talking bar/club scene? That's easy, you talk for a couple minutes then escalate to dancing. Then escalate physically while dancing till you start kissing. That's the mistake I used to make early on was trying to get to know them. It's not a date, it's a fun night out so treat it as such. Also don't stick to one girl, do your thing and move on unless of course you got her wanting to go home with you. | /r/seduction | 05/03/20 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Brain chemistry and cold approach pickupDo you workout? If so did you immediately start injecting steroids because your muscles didn't grow in a single day? Why look to meds after a day of trying to approach people? Treat it like any other single thing in your life you try to get good at and practice, consistently, over a long period of time. This is no different, you just suck really bad at it in the beginning. But there is zero reason why you can't get as good as you want to be if you put in the time and effort. | /r/seduction | 03/03/20 10:28 PM |
| 0 | What are the best modern seduction/pickup books of today?Models. Read that and only that. At the same time stop looking on here, at youtube videos, google, etc. All you need to do is read Models. | /r/seduction | 03/03/20 10:13 PM |
| 3 | I feel uncomfortable sometimes!!LOL | /r/seduction | 03/03/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Banter Books / Learning Banter?Models. | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 08:30 PM |
| 62 | You have nothing to lose, but everything to gain!Wow I never thought about it in that way. It's actually riskier to NOT talk to that person because you risk losing out on any number of benefits they could potentially bring to your life. While you only risk simple embarrassment and some time wasted if shit goes south when approaching them. | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 05:53 PM |
| 46 | Interesting shit test yesterdayThe fucks gotta be wrong with a woman who is 38 going after dudes who are 20... JESUS. EDIT: I edited "someone" to "woman" because of the dudes replying about them banging girls half their age. I wasn't talking about you guys, but you're all still just as creepy. | /r/seduction | 19/02/20 03:39 PM |
| 1 | is there a fine line between a sexual predator and someone who picks up?Jesus christ. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 10:08 PM |
| 2 | To what extent is Models by Mark Manson obsoleted by dating apps and age range 18-30’s excessive texting and social media habits?This sounds like a case of paralysis by analysis. Drop OLD, the apps, and get out there with some friends on the weekends and start actually meeting women. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Long time lurker, I HAVE to speak up on how to increase your success with MINIMAL effort and there is no BS trick - it's a simple path that doesn't include anxiety.Amazing take. I'll second joining classes. Salsa is THE PERFECT class for a single guy who wants to get into picking up girls. It teaches you to be in control, be confident, lead, and, well, learn to dance. Not to mention it's very social so you get to improve is that aspect as well. | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | A Girl said 'I don't know you' when asking her out?Uhhhhh you're approach line was a bit off and you're reaction was also too sudden. I'll give you a real life example of when this happened to me: I was about to leave a bar when I saw this girl standing by herself against the wall. I walked over to her and simply said "hey I think you're cute but I'm actually on my way out right now can I grab you're number so we could go out later", or some stupid shit like that. She looked me up and down and said the exact same thing: "I don't even know you". … | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 11:00 PM |
| 10 | What is the best thing to ask for after a cold approach (snap, phone #, IG) ?I'm a 30m and I've always gone #. I pick up girls as young as 24 and as old as 40. Never asked for social media shit in my life. Rules might differ for younger guys though maybe you get their tiktok or whatever the fuck that is haha. I also try to avoid social media altogether with girls because you're floating in a sea of other dudes. A # separates you and in my experience is not some "personal" thing girls will be weirded out to give out to someone they like. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Too much push/banter?Focus more on trying to connect with them. Make them laugh and play off what they say sure, but you're trying to build rapport and build a connection with the girl, not put on a comedy show. You want to focus on things you have in common and make her attracted to you through that on top of the physical attraction. Sounds like you're good at superficial banter but need to work on the more down to earth parts of the conversation. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Got a girls number today, want to know how to proceed?- Text next day. - Flirt/joke back and fourth a lil bit, around 3 or so messages. - Segue into setting up a date with specific time, date, place. - Text her a little here and there between now and then. Every other day works just for a lil flirting/joking around. - Use date to get to know them and build rapport, drinks are good for this. Either kiss her during the date or when you're walking her to her car, always kiss on first date. - If it went well set up second date and fly little bird fly. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to when a girls says “You’re cute”?Np brother. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Men should not pay for the date.Because that's what men do man, we provide. An exception is If a girl asks YOU out, then she should probably pay because she asked you. If you ask a girl, you're going to be paying because you asked her. I think your situation was a set up blind date? If that was the case I'd still pay because it's just being a good dude. If you can't afford to pay for you and your date, then pick dates where you can. It's NOT about the money spent bro, it's about the act of providing. The monetary value is mean… | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Men should not pay for the date.I don't think I've ever actually been on a date where the girl A) told me I have to pay, and B) didn't protest a little bit, or try and pick up the tab herself when I paid. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Men should not pay for the date.No, no you don't. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 09:15 PM |
| 2 | How do you prevent them from losing interest when there's a long wait before a date?Ditch online. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 09:13 PM |
| 2 | How do you be romantic without being clingy?"Women always seem to want romance, even when in a relationship" Uhhhh yes, especially in a relationship. Romance isn't about being clingy, it's about making the girl feel amazing. A good example is I just had a date with a girl who mentioned she liked cheesey romance. Instantly put an idea in my head and so after the bar we went for a walk. I found a nicely lit up christmas tree (I know it's fucking Feb) next to a skating rink where it was just the two of us. I stood us next to it, slowly raise… | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 08:44 PM |
| 4 | How to respond to when a girls says “You’re cute”?First off I'd start with simply saying "thanks". Then I like to let them lead the conversation and observe their "game". Seeing a a girl try to work me is always fun because it teaches you that all these tricks you read about don't really matter, they just want to get to know you. Most just go on to ask you regular questions but sometimes they'll surprise you with jokes or more interesting conversation. Those ones, if you find attractive, you engage with and over time set up a date/get number/on… | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 05:41 PM |
| 3 | How to date multiple girls at once?Take girls out on week nights and save your weekends to go out and pick up other girls. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 05:31 PM |
| 18 | Cold approach levels the playing field.Preach brother. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 04:59 PM |
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