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Don't apologize for being forward, try and talk to her again later date and show interest. Getting number from mutual friends is not something that I would do. Don't feel frustrated over her saying no, because it may be a infinite number of factors. Saying "You're a cool lady and I'd like to hangout again" is way better. If there's no spark sober, then it is what it is.
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:55 PM
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Then don't be ugly and awkward. /r/mfa, /r/fitness, and join a toastmasters.
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:48 PM
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Sup
/r/seduction01/10/15 04:02 AM
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Sorry. She's just not intrested, and its not worth the effort to win her over. You made it this far, find more cool people! Its good she told you, now the time can be better spent.
/r/seduction11/10/14 02:52 AM
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I think saying that you like his confidence and that what he's doing is pretty cool, but tell him that he is over doing it a bit.
/r/seduction22/09/14 08:12 PM
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Why in the name of hell is this required? Honestly, you're not going to really make progress in life unless you see it as your own inadequacies, rather than blaming your race for it.
/r/seduction30/08/14 10:43 AM
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Lift weights, consider dressing more maturely, practice fomal speaking. I've been mistaken for being 7-8 years older in my late teens with that.
/r/seduction25/07/14 12:26 PM
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Same boat. Good luck! Museums and all age music venues might work pretty well.
/r/seduction16/07/14 01:32 AM
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Them being attractive is not important. Just go up to them and say hello!
/r/seduction31/03/14 01:08 AM
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Sorry about that! I meant it in a very joking way, I wasn't accusing you of anything!
/r/seduction09/03/14 04:40 AM
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Talk to random guys who you think are cool / doing cool stuff like you would girls (minus the sexual interest) Or with sexual interest. Here, we don't judge.
/r/seduction08/03/14 09:26 PM
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Thank you! I would like to rephrase, I feel like I become a dud/a slightly more innocuous version of myself, and I don't feel like I treat the person as I would treat others (I feel like I'm being a little cold or just overly cautious). I say dishonesty because if I was truly faithful to being the individual I actually am, I wouldn't be affected at all by anyone's opinions. I do not lie or twist to give a better impression, but rather I give off a subdued one. Secondly, how do you think one shou…
/r/seduction06/03/14 02:00 AM
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I apologize for the scatterbrained post. I was asking for more help with being true to myself when I find myself in the situation of dishonesty. Also, I'm asking if I made any major mistakes in my actions. Thanks!
/r/seduction06/03/14 12:55 AM
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I felt like you talked too much, do you think allowing the girl to talk more and directing the conversation is more appropriate for a date instead? I'm just curious, not being critical of you.
/r/seduction28/02/14 02:47 PM
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I think that you mean every male as an individual can get any girl, but they have to be willing to become an awesome version of themselves.
/r/seduction12/01/14 01:18 AM
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No, that has the implicit that you expect them to buy the next round. If you're with a male friend, that's what most people would do.
/r/seduction29/12/13 01:21 PM
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Hmm, on being nice, focus on being kind. Don't be nice to just 'conform', or because it's convenient. Nice implies subservience, while being kind is genuinely good morale standing. Don't treat women any different then men. Open doors for all, act with prose and with manners to everyone. When a girl asks of you to do an out of the way favor, imagine a male equivalent doing it. Only do it if you'd being willing to do it if you would do it for the male equivalent.
/r/seduction29/12/13 03:17 AM
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Ah, the old 'Probably isn't the axe murderer' clause. Silly how looks can be deceiving... To be honest, just have fun! And if you're going to hit on girls, have no shame!
/r/seduction29/12/13 02:59 AM
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Or 'I'll buy this round'.
/r/seduction29/12/13 02:57 AM
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I disagree on the part about self-deprecating humor, if you pull it off right, its more social proof about how confident you are. It also can be used to highlight your best qualities. Although, arguably, play it smart, tread lightly when playing with fire.
/r/seduction23/12/13 02:21 AM
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Rejection is fine, but not approaching is not! Keep it up, work on both inner and outer game.
/r/seduction08/12/13 02:52 AM
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Success=/= wealth.
/r/seduction29/11/13 03:56 PM
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Establish yourself as a sexual being and not a friend. Women who put you on the friend zone should be considered a no go. There's plenty of girls out there. Do it! Become interesting and fun to be around, build on your inner game! try /r/highseddit
/r/seduction25/11/13 05:00 AM
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...They're not? I guess you're going through a false Beiner-Meinhof effect where you start to perceive something you think is new, and not remembering the observations that goes against your theory.
/r/seduction25/11/13 03:34 AM
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Everybody shits.
/r/seduction23/11/13 03:56 PM
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Awesome, thank you.
/r/seduction22/11/13 03:18 AM
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Do you think saying 'I find you attractive, but I would love to get to know you better.' would be apropo apropos?
/r/seduction22/11/13 03:06 AM
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Approach sets. Opening sets is like leg day. JUST DO IT.
/r/seduction13/11/13 03:25 AM
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Read the FAQ.
/r/seduction10/11/13 07:21 PM
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...What if she doesn't like Listerated Pepsin gum? Any good guides on Kino escalation? It always feels awkward and clumsy.
/r/seduction09/11/13 02:53 PM
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Yup. On that read as well.
/r/seduction09/11/13 02:57 AM
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Sounds good. It's a definite on my reading list. Any others that you recommend? It doesn't even have to relate to PUA.
/r/seduction09/11/13 01:09 AM
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Hm, I think it might be when I speak, I don't do it with that intention in mind. Thanks for the self-reflection actually, didn't think of that.
/r/seduction09/11/13 01:03 AM
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Sounds good. I'm looking to fine tune it so I can become exceptional. I think I do need some more well rounding as well, but I need some specific guidance.
/r/seduction09/11/13 12:57 AM
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Thanks, but I already have this down the bag. I'm talking about being able to control the ebb and flow of the room just with my oratory skills. I've already got a basic knowledge of simple concepts, along with confidence, intonations and overall warmth. Although I have that, I feel that I could definitely improve. I don't need a beginners guide, more like polish. Thanks anyways though!
/r/seduction09/11/13 12:47 AM
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Mate. You're smart, probably funny, and somewhat attractive. Go grow a pair, don't forget that you can always become better, but don't forget how far you've come. Now go out there and win!
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:50 AM
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Well... At least you found the shit you really enjoy?
/r/seduction07/11/13 01:42 AM
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Agreed! Also, try and have them wing with you and open sets with you!
/r/seduction04/11/13 12:54 AM
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Try, if it fails, NGAF. End it on your own terms.
/r/seduction03/11/13 01:25 AM
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I think the OP means the ones you find incredibly attractive, like objects of your desire, not just women who look feminine enough to cause arousal. So he's saying in terms of girls already somewhat average, or tolerable, and not just the top of the crowd.
/r/seduction31/10/13 11:50 PM
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What if she does have a twin. :P
/r/seduction28/10/13 02:59 AM
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I enjoy the wisdom. I've heard someone say that there's no girl that can make you better, or want a miserable human being as their date. Improve yourself, make your excess in happiness the happiness of others.
/r/seduction26/10/13 07:57 PM
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Look for qualities that you don't like, and make them positive: For example, I don't like sarging unintelligent girls (Although I'd take a nice idiot than a smart asshole anyday.), so instead ask a question like 'do you like books?' I get that it's a bit clunky to ask, and isn't a indication of intelligence, but it's useful to hear the reply to probe them. Edit: Although was pschr says is probably much better. Connect with them in brand new hobbies and such, do the fun and step out of your comfo…
/r/seduction26/10/13 07:55 PM
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How would you use humor to step into kino? I am told I am charming and funny, but completely unsure of what to do from there.
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:22 PM
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