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Appreciate it brother! My problem lies in approaching, as I don’t approach random women because a. I don’t go out often and b. That isn’t too common here in the U.K., and I’m not saying that as in “if I do it I’ll stand out positively”, it’s largely a social circle game, or so I think and have been told I’ll definitely not stop, even though it’s fucking aids. Good luck to you with whatever you need and want to accomplish my dude 💪🏻
/r/seduction21/01/22 10:28 PM
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Appreciate it, well the date was supposed to just be an attempt to just get sex at least and maybe a potential relationship cuz she was an old friend. Problem is finding a way of getting women to chase and finding them in itself is a problem as I live in the U.K.
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:57 PM
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That last bit is something I’m realising and seeing more often in books/videos - your thoughts shine through your body language. Appreciate it man, I’ll paste in some more info I’ve put in a different comment in case you haven’t seen it - Hmm, I ended up saying “aight” to her when she messaged me about her not being able to come, then she continued with a “sorry 😭” and I said “aight next time” (well, it’s translated, aight + chill combined I guess), now it’s a bit late to message about that, but…
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:11 PM
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Hmm, I ended up saying “aight” to her when she messaged me about her not being able to come, then she continued with a “sorry 😭” and I said “aight next time” (well, it’s translated, aight + chill combined I guess), now it’s a bit late to message about that, but I still haven’t responded to any of her half assed snaps that aren’t specifically directed/catered to me. Lmao she ended up sending a bath being filled with water one time, I bet she thought I’d be led by thirst into responding to it with…
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:10 PM
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100%, that is my problem, I know it, but the problem is meeting new women or people in general. I live in the UK and I’m not sure if it’s the same as in more sociable countries. On top of all that, I’ve graduated, so that opportunity is kinda gone to socialise. Here it seems to be that it’s mostly a social circle game - you will have a harder time to make new friends if you don’t have social circles. Appreciate it :)
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:43 PM
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She is an ‘old friend’ from somewhere we both went if that makes sense, I’m 22 right now for reference, and I had her on snap for ages, but I agree, snapchat is the biggest trap for men in terms of giving away their precious attention.
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:36 PM
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By asshple I mean just focusing on hook ups, not looking for anything serious even if the girl is extremely into you, all that shiet. I can’t fucking wait 3-6 months from now when I’ll probably become more confident with my body and start posting pics, the last laugh so to speak, yes I’m a spiteful fella. I just can’t get myself to a. Take pics of myself and b. Post them online, few reasons which I won’t get into, but I just really want to finally get some experience under my belt.
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:22 PM
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From my excessive research - even if you don’t last long (you shouldn’t, everyone who is saying they last for ages are either a. Lying or b. Fucking unattractive bz’s). You could go for round 2 as soon as your schmeat is good to go, in the meantime just go back to square one - caressing, kissing, maybe oral, etc. That’s what I’ll be doing at least
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:58 PM
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We need James to teach us
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:56 PM
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Amazing book, I’m not done with it yet but i am nearly finished. Although I’ve not actually been throwing myself out there, my mindset did change for the better and I changed as a person kinda, naturally, not faking it. I’m more confident and I just feel better.
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:55 PM
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Any advice on putting yourself out there more as somebody who has some self esteem issues with taking pics? I’m working on it so I’ll get over it soon most likely, and then get on dating apps as that seems to be the only ‘real’ way to meet and talk to more women, without jeopardising your career. For reference - I’m 22, feel free to glance at my recent posts to get the gist of my situation.
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:51 PM
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How do you use that to your advantage?
/r/seduction16/01/22 12:23 AM
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Appreciate it, I did that, kept it short. Well ‘friends’, we did talk and know each other but it’s not like friends friends if you know what I mean. My problem is just putting myself out there
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:39 PM
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I guess what I’ll end up doing will depend on how much effort she puts in. If she’s gonna try to just make me waste my time even by giving her attention through messages, then I’ll pull the plug and to fully radio silent. If she puts in more effort and actually reschedules, I’ll consider it, and if she ends up coming up with an excuse then I’ll probably delete her
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:26 PM
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Feel free to share the knowledge lol, I want to ascend
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:23 PM
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Appreciate it! Right now I’m working on myself - some self esteem issues, I.e. not changing my profile pics for past 4-5 years, at least now I’ve got that tiny bit of extra motivation to make an explosive ‘comeback’ once I put more muscle on 🤞🏻
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:07 PM
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Funny thing is I have a pretty chill relationship with my parents and when I’ve told them about this when they came back they said “and they’ll have the audacity to call men ‘pigs’ and then do something like this” hah This was on snapchat mainly, I don’t send snaps every day but do you think going radio silence is gonna come off as me being ‘angry’? What should I do if she actually does message me? Edit - I also don’t talk to many other girls because I don’t put myself out there, some self estee…
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:05 PM
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This is on snapchat mainly, I don’t send snaps every day but do you think going radio silence is gonna come off as me being ‘angry’? Thanks
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:03 PM
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Lol so more than half of the reasons consist of some form of manipulation/deception for self gain. I love being born into this fucked up generation.
/r/seduction15/01/22 10:55 PM
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How should/can I be more fun? I’m currently 21, studying, if that’s of any help. I rarely go clubbing though
/r/seduction10/08/20 10:22 PM
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It sucks for me, I come from a country where it’s normal, and I live in the U.K. now... How should I try to ‘branch out’ and get into more social circles? I’m kinda an introvert but can be some what extroverted, I rarely go out clubbing or anything like that
/r/seduction10/08/20 10:21 PM
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Thank you, great input. Thing is I just don’t know how to actually get more friends outside of my so called friend circle, and it makes me feel as if I am missing out on my youth (I’m 20 right now). I definitely care less what people think, but I still think it hinders me in social settings.
/r/seduction30/07/20 04:27 PM
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What do you mean by ‘not safe’?
/r/seduction30/07/20 02:38 PM
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Thanks, any recommendations on how I should talk to a girl? I also meant a different language as in a foreign language, because I don’t know a lot of flirty things to say in a language that I’m fluent in :/
/r/seduction30/07/20 01:38 PM
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Any advice on getting into more social circles? It’s unfortunate for me as I think this difference in culture where I’m from and the UK social culture probably impacted me in a negative way :/
/r/seduction23/07/20 01:48 AM
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Thank you for the sources, it is a little disheartening to read those comparisons, considering that I come from abroad within Europe where people seem a lot more approachable, and due to living here for a long time, I might be becoming the same and hence not trying more. Would you say flirting and teasing can be applied similarly regardless? As in, the general tips on this sub can be still practiced or does the UK culture change this as well?
/r/seduction22/07/20 11:51 PM
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Good advice, do you recommend anything on improving delivery/ changing tone etc? I have a deep voice too and it makes me come off serious
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:28 AM
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Any tips on the delivery bit? That could be where I am struggling
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:26 AM
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It’s not that little Points if you get the reference
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:24 AM
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Tips on improving that?
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:19 AM
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I avoid giving too much details, it’s a throwaway account but I wouldn’t want my friends coming across this and finding out I’m on reddit asking for advice how to flirt or even interact hah
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:17 AM
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Do you have any tips on learning/developing my ability to spot double meanings/sexual innuendos?
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:13 AM
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Tips on teasing or where can I learn how to tease?
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:12 AM
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What deep topics would you say are the ones that stood out for you? I’d guess future goals is up there
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:34 PM
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Any recommended novels or books or even online videos that go over this?
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:29 PM
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Thank you, appreciate the positive vibes :) About posting in ask women, I did do that a while back, but most of the time my posts get deleted because of the application of the not all women will react the same rule :/ Edit:Ironically I thought this post would get deleted because I was sure it would have been posted before I will try to give it a go but im still uncertain whether British people are just more closed in
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:29 PM
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I live in UK and it is weird, people don’t seem too approachable like abroad might be just me
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:26 PM
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I live in UK and it is weird, people don’t seem too approachable like abroad might be just me
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:26 PM
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What exactly did he respond with? I get the double meaning but did he just say “woah relax” or something different, in a playful way
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:23 PM
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I don’t think improv is that big in UK :/
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:22 PM
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Any tips on teasing? I think I suck at that and ‘escalating’ sexual tension
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:21 PM
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Thank you that’s some good advice, but I think my weak point are my conversational skills when trying to ‘show off’ or be more interesting. I don’t have many ‘interesting’ hobbies but I wouldn’t be able to talk about them About friends, I struggle meeting new people once I settle in a group, it might be a ‘cultural’ thing here in UK as it seems to me people are less approachable here Any advice for this?
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:14 PM
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Do you know where I could look to improve my teasing/flirting/being cocky and pretty much everything you mentioned? I think I struggle most with people who i dont consider in my main ‘friend group’ and I filter what I say
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:10 PM
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I am confident but Im a little ‘split’ on being open to everyone and approaching more people, I have to build a relationship first but I find it difficult to approach new people, not sure if it’s a cultural thing here in UK because other countries seem more open
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:08 PM
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Thanks, I don’t want to ‘memorise’ things or fake it, but rather I want that to be part of me if that makes sense, i just don’t know where to look to improve
/r/seduction16/07/20 05:21 PM
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Any tips on being more flirty?
/r/seduction16/07/20 05:19 PM
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Where should I look in order to improve this?
/r/seduction16/07/20 05:19 PM
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Do you have advice on improving this?
/r/seduction16/07/20 05:18 PM
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Do you have any tips on developing that? I think thats also a weak point for me
/r/seduction16/07/20 05:18 PM
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Any tips on flirting or where to find info?
/r/seduction24/06/20 11:26 AM
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