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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 42 | When generic male #62594 calls himself a “King” 🤡This is gold I love this woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 08:07 PM |
| 131 | Needle spiking in Australian clubs this past weekThat's actually good shout. Incels and mgtow openly talk about harming women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 04:30 PM |
| 38 | Needle spiking in Australian clubs this past weekThis is such a Noah get the boat moment Makes me so disappointed with humanity. There are tons of things you can inject people with and make them sick. What's wrong with the "experts" victim blaming much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 04:29 PM |
| 69 | 11 yr olds are getting groomed and traumatized by porn on a mass scale. How is this acceptable??? How has people just accepted the fact that children are introduced to endless videos of women being raped and tortured for male please,and that's the new normal??I have to say this is really sad and I really feel for kids these days | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | How long does it take you to say that you love someone?The anxiety bit speaks to me so much. Gives me sort of better idea when I am ready myself. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 09:40 AM |
| 2 | “Men aren’t loved unconditionally, women are”I got covid and that's where our relationship began to fall apart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:59 AM |
| 7 | I really wish men could understand and accept that yes, your genetics do determine a lot of your value! Regardless of whether or not you can "control" it.For me, health is important factor, both myself and my partner. I am fairly active person and want to live long healthy life. I do not want to look after sick person. I do understand people can get sick throughout their life, I would stay loyal to long term partner even if he would get long term sickness. I just don't want any of it at the beginning of the relationship. Also genetically obese people or anything like that is a no for me especially if someone can't control it. I don't want kids bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 09:53 AM |
| 81 | Please, sign this petition!! https://t.co/vtYfrSVCGT?amp=1I can't click the link, can you post in on comments pls? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 09:43 AM |
| 73 | “50 Shades of Grey” was horrible and it’s tragic that it led so many young women to BDSMIt's sad it's written by a woman as well. How traumatised she must be to write something like that and see it as good thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 04:33 PM |
| 163 | “50 Shades of Grey” was horrible and it’s tragic that it led so many young women to BDSM"tragic" this is the word I needed to describe this book. It's really sad that abusing women got so much more mainstream and normalised. And yes, I had bdsm partners in past as well. Not because 50 shades of grey. The podcast about it goes really well into the topic as well. If you haven't heard it, I really recommend it Edit: Someone asked what podcast but the comment isn't there anymore. FDS has own podcasts, I usually listen to them on Google podcasts but I am sure they are in other places as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 04:27 PM |
| 12 | Surprise Anniversary Dinner… THIS is what high-value effort is!Aww that's so sweet. They look so happy, I wish them many happy years together. And here my pickme ass asked for just a romantic dinner at home :') I took trash out, no more LVM for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 11:32 AM |
| 61 | Women boss up after their break up. Then men go around doing the same shit, business as usual. ☺️In my first relationship, I was with useless ZVM with anger issues. As teen I was uch a pickme and I tried to be compassionate, encourage him to have some ambitions and go to uni, exercise so he isn't fat slob. I haven't pushed these things on him but it was rather "look I do this cool exercise want to join". He ended up having worse anger issues so we broke up shortly after. Then after break up he suddenly starts exercising and decided to go to uni. Erm what an energy sucking ZVM. Throughout th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 11:28 AM |
| 105 | Apparently all girls want to have violent sex 🙄 It's not cool enough to be vanilla /sSo hard to upvote. The picture is so wrong on so many levels. Just normalising abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 10:19 AM |
| 2 | A Question For Those Who Like to Interject “Not All Men” into conversations about bad men. Someone do the math.Calm down there, so do you guys want to start ww3? Because that's how you start ww3. I don't need to see what's in comment section I can already imagine haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:45 PM |
| 7 | 🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛♂️)So concerning that a medical professionals are psychopaths | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Never try to change a man.For pikmeishas, how to find out he was LVM: After break up he will do all to improve himself, go to gym, get that new haircut, start looking into education or career change, eating better etc These scrotes always make me go mad. Like seriously, you could have just been a better partner and then the relationship would have survived. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 09:36 AM |
| 34 | Audacity of FathersAnd then men have audacity to complain for women to be picky about their partners | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:25 AM |
| 5 | The more you become aware the more things like these are not funny. It’s just misogynistic really.Let's start with "that's what she said" joke. Like... That's the most boring and uncreative joke someone could make. I always sigh with disappointment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 10:06 AM |
| 5 | What do I need a boyfriend for??You go girl! I never heard about such toy but I am adding it onto my wish list. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:16 PM |
| 25 | What do you do when you remember your ex?I just remind myself what sort of ass hole he was so I immediately move on and spend my time on something more productive | /r/askFDS | 29/05/21 07:52 PM |
| 2 | This person could not legitimately see the glaring red flags. Comments are filled with women telling her to run and she's still confused. Don't let this be you.She should have bailed when he has picked his place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:53 PM |
| 27 | I don't even know how we could protect ourselves from deep fake porn. This is just so sickI have found more recent article on it: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-57254636 Scotland being leading country when it comes to law against deep fakes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:58 PM |
| 12 | Porn, and the patriarchy, has truly destroyed morality because now NVM engaging nec*ophilia should not be KiNK SHaMeD.There are many men that would fuck anything or wank off to anything. Have you read that story of guy fucking coconut 🤢 That story is not safe for life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Can we take a sec to acknowledge how fucked up it is that the word "incel" has been turned around on women? The incel movement is responsible for mass violence against women. It would be like calling a Jewish person a Nazi.Incels started from a woman as well. A woman made it but men eventually overtook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:50 AM |
| 20 | Porn, and the patriarchy, has truly destroyed morality because now NVM engaging nec*ophilia should not be KiNK SHaMeD.That's my fear as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:46 AM |
| 3 | And this is why it's important to date a man who is trustworthy.So there is even greater danger of dating. You never know if your ex will take all the pictures of you and make revenge porn out of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:30 AM |
| 6 | And this is why it's important to date a man who is trustworthy.https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-57254636 So basically someone could take some pictures or a video of you and generate porn out of it with you in it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:28 AM |
| 4 | Aditya Roy Kapur 🔥🌡️🌋Gosh these hip lines and so beautiful smile! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:27 AM |
| 14 | And this is why it's important to date a man who is trustworthy.I know this goes against FDS but if men were different I would have casual sex all the time. But the reality is that I am so heavily put off by men I doubt I'll date any in a while. They have literally made me lesbian I have seen a Facebook post of this guy, he has put it as cover picture. It said: "I don't watch porn but I wank off to your profile pictures". Instant block. Deep fake porn is also becoming a thing so I have removed all pictures of myself apart from 1. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:25 AM |
| 8 | But we know that will never happenThey would start screaming that what happens to the baby is their choice because they pay for it too. Just scrotes thoughts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:14 AM |
| 47 | Boyfriend trying to be ‘alpha’Eww I wouldn't touch that guy with 2 meter pole I hope you are out of this relationship already . | /r/askFDS | 21/05/21 06:18 PM |
| 12 | Why do men LIE like this? REALLY? You've NEVER heard of any sex based slurs for women? "Scrotes" is BY FAR THE WORST? This is why I cannot take Redditor critics of FDS seriously.What about femonoid? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 06:12 PM |
| 18 | Y'all men are tired 🤣🤣🤣Please don't give this man anymore views. He is just going to earn out of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Is my idea of consent difficult to understand and follow?Ah I have learned to not even start dating anybody like this. It was conversation among ex friends :) I have dumped them for having sick beliefs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 07:25 PM |
| 12 | Is my idea of consent difficult to understand and follow?I am going to use this line next time thanks. I'll use their anus as example next time I speak to some prick haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 06:47 PM |
| 11 | Is my idea of consent difficult to understand and follow?Thanks, just needed some validation for being put down over it so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 06:27 PM |
| 5 | Men sending her hatred online launched her career. Stay mad.Omg I am so going to get this book too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:49 PM |
| 25 | Wife is in critical condition in the hospital, man blames lack of resources for fathers while spending paternity leave playing video gamesWhat the actual f... He said that he was going out in the pandemic. That prick brought covid home. So he took time off to take care of her post prengrancy and then instead went out with his pals and made her even more sick. That's abusive af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Hard factsA good example are books by Anne rice. Just so likeable male characters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:32 AM |
| 1 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.I just want to wear a pretty dress. I'll just marry myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:30 AM |
| 2 | The sad truth.I still get death threats from guy I rejected 4 years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Yep, not falling for it.That's fantastic news! Going to stay single for ever. Its going to extend my lifespan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳This post and all these comments just want me to "Noah get the boat". I don't want to be in this planet anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Women aren't funnyOr that's what she said jokes. I hate those, so gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoWhat the heck, I wouldn't touch that bath tub with 2 meter pole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 10:23 AM |
| 15 | Low effort meme but it's for LVM soOh lucky you, my ex just ate plain rice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Some of y’all are still pick-me’s, you just hide it betterI fall into that but I also appreciate it a lot when someone points it out to me. It's a lesson hard to learn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 08:56 AM |
| 4 | Moved away from ex LVMExactly! I can only come out of it better and stronger6 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:16 PM |
| 6 | Moved away from ex LVMThat was my reaction as well haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 09:35 PM |
| 13 | Moved away from ex LVMHe was ashamed that the relationship fell apart because 1 date a year was too much for him so he didn't want anyone to know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 09:31 PM |
| 3 | This song is awesome and I thought y'all would like it too!Omg really needed to hear this one. I live this song | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 05:40 PM |
| 5 | How to say to a man that his date idea sucks and you want him to put in effort?Block and delete. I wouldn't want to babysit a man and tell him how to behave like HVM | /r/askFDS | 04/04/21 12:59 PM |
| 18 | The more insecure a guy is, the uglier he will make you feelThat's the thing with my ex LVM. He clearly lacked any common sense, i was clearly more intelligent than him. I like all sorts of random facts, I am fact Wikipedia. My ex would always question my knowledge. He would start an argument with me and then fact check everything I say, it was from big stuff to how to extend life of light bulbs. I was never wrong but he always managed to doubt myself. | /r/askFDS | 31/03/21 12:00 PM |
| 135 | Saying that FDS is an echo chamber is like saying that group therapy is an echo chamber.I have voiced here opinions which do not agree with FDS. We had respectful conversation about it. While not frequent, opposing opinions do happen as well. No one have shredded me for such opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 09:20 PM |
| 159 | Men be like: Don't sleep with drunk girls. Not because they aren't able to give their consent freely, instead it's to avoid a "false rape allegation".I have heard it so often. The same goes with "I am afraid to talk to women so I don't get accused of harassment" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Is there actually any good reason to get married if you don't want kids?For me it's just so I can wear pretty dress i want to make. When it comes to legal stuff it might be different by country. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 02:31 AM |
| 10 | For women to feel safe in public spaces, men's behaviour has to change | Rape and sexual assaultHave been waiting for this for too long I have been cat called since I was 9. I have just read a comment about guy fucking trees. We need some sort of therapy for men really | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 02:23 PM |
| 7 | What have you been spending your money on since you’re no longer wasting it on a terrible relationship/dating?Since we broke up and don't do 50/50. I spend way less money on literally anything. Previously I have struggled to keep to my budget but now I am easily left with plenty of money at the end of the month. I have very tight budget because I want to buy a house next year and at the moment I am saving way more than I have planned :) I have also treated myself to box of alcoholic chocolates my ex was never bothered to get me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 04:32 PM |
| 19 | Have any of you ladies actually gotten an orgasm from men?I can vouch for good kisser. Ex LVM would open his mouth as wide open as possible and followed by licking up and down like dogs in cartoons. He have complained how hard is sex because I have asked him to rub my clit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 04:24 PM |
| 127 | Pickmeisha (probably a scrote🤡) shames women‘s day and calls women insecure hypocrites who „criticize“ menTbh child marriages and domestic abuse prove that feminism is needed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:37 PM |
| 11 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving TrainwreckThat's basically my mum because my dad told her to not work and she was just fine with it. As kids, we have begged them to divorce because the whole situation was abusive to them and us. They didn't. My mum got sick and he left for someone else. My dad still gave money to my mum but she was to prideful to accept. Now I am blamed for not wanting to help her financially. I want a house, and life of my own. Makes me feel really awful. I resent both of my parents | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | "it's not honourable that you are not helping your ex" a text from my mumThanks, couldn't get approved in askfds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 09:48 PM |
| 42 | Reminder to myself and others: Just focus on yourself honey.That's me as well. I have learned so much what I don't like in a relationship. I wish those relationships have never happened but at least I have learned from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 09:35 PM |
| 2 | The negative neurological consequences of BDSM, written by a psychiatristI do need theraphy but I am looking to sort of few things first. You might be right, fixing my past traumas might change these things about me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:07 PM |
| 5 | The negative neurological consequences of BDSM, written by a psychiatristThanks, I'll try to find something to read about it as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 15 | The negative neurological consequences of BDSM, written by a psychiatristOk guys, I am one of these women and I am completely convinced that what I did in past was damaging to me. Any idea how to undo it? What do I do to not find it arousing anymore? This is literally the only thing I can make myself get off to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 10:24 PM |
| 6 | “Your body is more than a vehicle for desire” YES QUEEN. Breasts👏🏻don’t👏🏻exist👏🏻for👏🏻grown👏🏻men👏🏻. End of.Ah I had some hope that with silicone stickers they would give me a break :( I am not even attractive and rather flat chested. I have been cat called since I was 9. I am just fed up by this point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 10:19 PM |
| 9 | “Your body is more than a vehicle for desire” YES QUEEN. Breasts👏🏻don’t👏🏻exist👏🏻for👏🏻grown👏🏻men👏🏻. End of.Thanks I'll have to get one of those | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 07:02 PM |
| 4 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.It definitely is a horror story. I found it quite upsetting :( I really hope she will get better and out of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | INCELS KILL. FDS DOES NOT.I so want to see proof that we are in any way the same as incels. I don't know where people get that from | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:27 PM |
| 4 | INCELS KILL. FDS DOES NOT.he said, adding: “I was angry that they would give their love and affection to obnoxious brutes.” After he killed people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:25 PM |
| 26 | “Your body is more than a vehicle for desire” YES QUEEN. Breasts👏🏻don’t👏🏻exist👏🏻for👏🏻grown👏🏻men👏🏻. End of.My only problem going bra less is guys starting at my nipples :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:01 PM |
| 27 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.My ex would eat steaks at least once a day. Steaks here are expensive. A good portion of his money went towards food. It's so... Comical when I see men and their meat talks. Look at my meaty juicy sausage that I have grilled last summer. Are you even straight by this point. It's as if beef is their personality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:49 PM |
| 10 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.My ex would purposefully pick items from shop with more plastic packaging. Like... There is a carrot literally there on its own without any plastic packaging. What stops anyone from buying that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:45 PM |
| 16 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.It's really sad that we cannot express our ideas without being harrased. Incel and mgtwo groups openly speak about harming people, heck, I have seen men seeking advice to have sex with children. And here we are, just sharing dating advice. In handbook it says that consent goes both ways, we have to respect it too. We do not speak about harming anyone, just supporting each other in finding partner that is right for us. Protecting each other from physical, emotional and sexual abuse. I am confused… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Finnish folk song about LVM, I thought you guys might enjoy itLyrics here : https://lyricstranslate.com/en/k%C3%A4ppee-worthless-weakling.html Original : https://youtu.be/aX4EiTnTIZA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:08 PM |
| 9 | Pornography is not the problem.What I have read some story of sex worker. She said that the porn have to get more and more extreme, otherwise videos will not get as many views/doesn't sell as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:16 AM |
| 8 | Never mention that you're a foodie or that you like to cook on OLDI have always written that I look for a guy that would cook for me. I wasn't aware of FDS then and I have picked wrong. My ex did really cook but his idea of a meal was plain rice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:03 AM |
| 16 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.I have made new account just so I don't get doxxed I have seen how hostile people are towards FDS so I am not taking any chances. My main account is like 2 years old | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:50 AM |
| 26 | "A high value man won't wait 3 months for sex"3 months isn't even long | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:25 AM |
| 54 | From /AskReddit about which subs give useless or even dangerous advice. Lol.This is it, they just feel threatened, otherwise they wouldn't demonise it so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:32 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inHopefully this weekend. Landlord is doing all the referencing now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:06 PM |
| 10 | Instead of marriage, and romance. I kind of just want a sisterhood for life.I want to buy a house in about year time and rent out a room to a woman. This makes me so hopeful, I hope I'll get so amazing experience as you did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 6 | Instead of marriage, and romance. I kind of just want a sisterhood for life.That's my dream as well. What I really want to do is grow a veg garden and make cool BBQs and mini food festivals with all my crops. Would like to share all of it with my girlfriends. Your idea of such house is great as well. I am looking now more into finding girl friends with same or similar values as me. At this point I don't care if I am single for ever Edit: also my another dream is that the world would get better so we could share our info without getting doxxed. I am sure there are some w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:48 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inMy ex is annoying me, I just can't wait to move out. We both work from home and he always cleans up house during working hours. I can't do that during work hours. He cleans up a couple of things, calls it a day and says that I don't contribute with cleaning. At the same time he never cleaned some things in house in entire time we have lived together. He equals taking trash out or taking dishes out of dishwasher to being more than cleaning all kitchen surfaces. Honestly how do I just stop getting… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Am I LVW?Aww thank you I am so sorry you have went through such horrible time as well :( I hope you got better friends now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 09:10 AM |
| 5 | Am I LVW?In that situation I couldn't leave anywhere. I was at my ex house in different country so I felt trapped. We had such code as well but I couldn't get to him and he sort of avoided me whole night | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Who taught men to say "sorry you feel that way"?That's literally my ex, I just keep learning how shitty that relationship was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:09 PM |
| 27 | Reddit: Feminism will destroy societies - Reality: Countries with a strong sense of gender equality have the highest standards of living, and even men are trying to escape patriarchal hellholes to live in those very countriesAlthough not perfect... I am looking at you Scandinavian countries. I really wish I could live there, things seem to be better over there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:30 PM |
| 43 | Why do they call FDS female incels?It's voluntary celibate rather than involuntary. It's not hard to have sex with a guy. I just don't want any STDs from any scrotes. I had guys lie to me about their STD tests. I have to pick more carefully And it's not just about sex, I am looking more for best friend or companion if you like. I don't think there are many men out there that can provide good sex and be a good partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:15 PM |
| 41 | Hey ladies 👋, I wanted to try something. List all the hobbies that women can't have as they are feminine or hobbies they can have and will be respected forFlying airplanes, I have been told so many times that I can't be a pilot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:16 PM |
| 29 | That’s her 2nd one??She needs FDS ASAPI came to say this. Like literally... What does he bring to your life?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:15 PM |
| 17 | Ex LVM downgraded to ZVMEven though I got sick a year ago, I still have to take medication to keep symptoms under control. I had more palpitations than usual, I guess it's due to recent stress :( Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:12 PM |
| 26 | Ex LVM downgraded to ZVMMy ex was exactly the same. I was bed ridden for a month. He came up to me and said that if I would have exercised, I would get better. So I got out of bed just to walk around my flat and I had massive breathlessnes/cough attack. I just couldn't breathe properly and I had to go to hospital. He never said that I am lazy again but I had to fight it that I am lazy and sadly I eventually gave in and walked around. I can't wait till finally I'll be able to block and delete him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:10 PM |
| 7 | wOmEn ArE tOo eMotIoNalThere is no such reaction when female animal gets neutered | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inHe just went out today to meet some people. We are in very high risk covid area with new strain. I got sick with covid last year that left me with lots of complications that I struggle with. He couldn't even wait a week for it :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Scrote wants something casual but wants to choke you and exploit your trauma. 🙄 The repulsiveness and audacity is off the charts.What app is it? Are people not ashamed to put these things next to their face? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Why “50/50” is so often still unequal...12 rules of life have very damaging views though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:04 PM |
| 35 | Ex LVM downgraded to ZVMNo, I am super worried about my health :( I am waiting for all the paperwork for new place to be finished | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:50 AM |
| 11 | Write a list of all the reasons why your ex is awfulHe was lazy in relationship. He didn't want to share some chores like cooking. He wanted to do cooking separately because he wanted to eat just plain rice. How would that work out if we were to have kids He have never put any effort in. I have always planned everything. He has never planned a date with me. Our only dates were his friend idea or mine. The only date he took me to was to restaurant and he took me along because he didn't want to go alone He didn't trust me when it came to my knowled… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:49 AM |
| 17 | Saw this on Facebook earlier. These replies, omfg.I got breakup on valentines day because I have dated to ask for something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 10:25 AM |
| 9 | If most men can't help being attracted to teen girls "because of their biology", then most men should not get to be fathers.Proof that I should get a dog instead of a boyfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Finally HVM on a dateAww congratulations! I am so happy for you! :D I wish you many more dates like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 52 | Why were/are these “headache” jokes so popular? She’s literally faking being ILL just so you would stop forcing yourself on her because her saying NO isn’t enough for you. The comments are something else too. The only one making sense got downvoted hard.That's so disturbing. We live in rapist society | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:19 PM |
| 23 | If most men can't help being attracted to teen girls "because of their biology", then most men should not get to be fathers.There is this anorexia fetish. It is so gross and disturbing I have never went into that rabbit hole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:17 PM |
| 28 | If most men can't help being attracted to teen girls "because of their biology", then most men should not get to be fathers.I came to the same conclusion. I don't think I want to date men anymore. There are too many weeds in the meadow I can't imagine having a kid with a man. I have completely given up on having kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:17 PM |
| 115 | It makes me nauseous to think about how many men share this mindsetFBI should investigate. They are not even embarrassed or shy about it. They know that society finds it wrong but they have absolutely no morals to thinks the same. What the actual f | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:17 PM |
| 2 | If men want traditional wives, they need to be traditional themselves by being full providers but of course, women that desire that are gold diggers.Wow that's crazy! Thanks for recommending it to me. It will be on my to watch list for this weekend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:14 PM |
| 13 | I found a new turn off for me: men not knowing the female anatomy down there (2:35). You have the internet, look up an educational diagram or read a book for christ’s sake!The Black dude in hoodie is HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Ex LVM tries to use me as his theraphistOmg me too! I'll be out on 6th of march as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 09:05 AM |
| 6 | Proud of myselfOmg! That's amazing news! I hope you'll have amazing first day at your new job :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 08:12 PM |
| 19 | Most Toxic SongsSomeone like you by Adele You don't want someone like you, you want better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 07:47 PM |
| 28 | If men want traditional wives, they need to be traditional themselves by being full providers but of course, women that desire that are gold diggers.It's exactly like the argument that men died in war. Well guess why women couldn't participate. There were many skilled women that could participate but were not allowed to. there were many excellent pilots that were women in UK in WW2, they were better at flying airplanes than men did and they did so in conditions men wouldn't risk. I have watched amazing documentary about them but I can't remember which one it is. There is free documentary called "flying dreams". Their story is really inspirin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 07:42 PM |
| 10 | Proud of myselfAww I am proud of you! My ex have recently broken up with me as well I was blind. Just think of all the doors that have just opened! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 06:48 PM |
| 47 | Man "pwns" woman who asks what men have to offer by showing her his neckbeard nest and "brown cuddling pillow" LMAOOI was going to say that. I would be scared to touch it I have something to cuddle to sleep as well. I wouldn't judge him if he wouldn't compare brown pillow to a woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 06:41 PM |
| 21 | If men want traditional wives, they need to be traditional themselves by being full providers but of course, women that desire that are gold diggers.Oh yeah I completely agree with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 06:33 PM |
| 64 | If men want traditional wives, they need to be traditional themselves by being full providers but of course, women that desire that are gold diggers.These women who stayed at home to clean and cook were very depressed though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 06:24 PM |
| 6 | They always blame the mothers. Where were the fathers to teach their sons how to be a decent men?That's noah get the boat moment There was other post with picture of tinder profile with a guy and his kids. Now I understand why he is a red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:11 PM |
| 24 | Ladies, What is the worst date you’ve been on?So this dude at work was crushing on me real hard. I wasn't into him but I thought.. Oh well, let's give him a chance and see if anything comes out of it. So he took me to taco Bell because he remembered me saying that I like taco Bell. We have ordered meal for 2 and he just sat there... I ask, why don't you eat? It was so awkward that I was the only one eating. He said that he doesn't like spicy food and he ate before coming. We had some non spicy food there. I wasn't aware that he doesn't like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:42 PM |
| 12 | This Child Abuse Expert Says Many Abusers Started by Watching Mainstream Pornhttps://www.therecoveryvillage.com/process-addiction/porn-addiction/related/pornography-statistics/#:~:text=40%20million%20Americans%20say%20they,internet%20porn%20users%20are%20women It doesn't seem like it's 99% Which is sort of good news | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:15 PM |
| 11 | This Child Abuse Expert Says Many Abusers Started by Watching Mainstream Pornhttps://www.covenanteyes.com/pornstats/ I have found interesting and sad statistics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:13 PM |
| 10 | Women, be aware of what LVM calls "Kino".The very first orifice in fetus is ass hole so for some time, we are all just ass holes. Some people don't grow out from this stage. Thanks for sharing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 09:52 AM |
| 13 | Companies Capitalizing Off Of Sexual Exploitation: the 2021 "Dirty Dozen" ListWhen I have first discovered red pill, I went to their sub to check out what it is about. The very first post I have stumbled upon was a guy asking how could he have sex with underage girls legally in specified country. We all know how that ended | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 09:47 AM |
| 16 | Men and their fragile egosAt my previous job I had exact same thing. I work in make dominated field too. The way I think about it is.... I want to learn things, if I do, I'll progress in my career. Its normal to make mistakes. It's just a job, don't take it personally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 06:49 PM |
| 53 | Ah yes, to be already 17 and struggling to empathize with the issues 50% of population face! Of course feminists should teach you how to see us as human <3That's so much better than my ex. If he didn't see something, it didn't happen. Oh yeah because... Guys really do experience sexism aimed at women /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 06:21 PM |
| 64 | What could motivate someone to add this to their profile? Are pickmes that desperate?This is so gross 🤮 Why would anyone want to be a plate 🤮 And why would anyone want to eat from somebody's body 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:20 PM |
| 5 | Plot Twist: Scrotes are the biggest gold diggers around.Yeah exactly Falling for it feels only fair but it so isn't. I am definitely not going to feel guilty for not wanting 50/50 next time The problem I'll have in future that I am planning to buy a house in a year time. I don't want for guys to gold dig me so I am not going to go easy on that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 08:58 PM |
| 16 | Why is Hair Pulling and Choking (aggression) in Sex the Assumed Norm w/o Consent?I think it is because of porn Porn is shallow and sadly it passes onto their sex life. The most frustrating thing is, a lot of guys want to have sex, sprinkle it with kinky. So in past I was like... Yeah sure cool, let's do something crazy and wild. Make both of our wildest fantasies come true! And then I would experience the most boring sex ever. I think that men don't want to have fun sex life. Just get off and that's it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:07 PM |
| 27 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inSo my ex LVM have broke up with me. We are living together and I'll be able to move out in like 2 weeks. Landlords suck. I hope I'll be able to negotiate shorter stay since I don't want to deal with my ex anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:31 PM |
| 5 | Today is Meme Free Monday!Same, it's like comedic relief in films | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:35 PM |
| 37 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI think they are here to make screenshots, repost in their subreddit and karmawhore. Oh sweet sweet echo chamber. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:33 PM |
| 16 | Why is Hair Pulling and Choking (aggression) in Sex the Assumed Norm w/o Consent?Tbh we have been together for way too long but also thanks to this I found FDS so I guess its not hard loss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:47 PM |
| 39 | Why is Hair Pulling and Choking (aggression) in Sex the Assumed Norm w/o Consent?My ex LVM said that talking about sex is so shallow. What the...? It's so hot to talk about sex, it could be sort of mind foreplay before sex. It's not shallow at all, if anything, it shows that someone wants to put effort into relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:39 PM |
| 35 | Plot Twist: Scrotes are the biggest gold diggers around.I am in this story and I don't like it. So... I have just realised what sort of low life my LVM was. I got sick with covid. It took me months to recover. I have been bed ridden for almost 2 months and because of it I lost my job. It took me 8months in total to fully recover and only after that time I could look for job. I couldn't get any money from gov because he had so much money in his savings. So I was out of any income, luckily I had lots of savings. Do you think my ex ever helped financial… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:34 PM |
| 80 | Why is Hair Pulling and Choking (aggression) in Sex the Assumed Norm w/o Consent?Just something this post touched on, if whoever you are with, man, woman or a potato. If they don't like asking about something when it comes to sex, that's a red flag. Asking something shouldn't be a turn off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:17 PM |
| 10 | "Would you punch a woman in the face for 1 billion dollars?"That's so sweet and wholesome. Looking for guy like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:23 PM |
| 9 | Men’s magazine glamorizes 20 year age gap between old scrote and beautiful woman for their “modern love” edition. 🤮I would be afraid to have sex with him. He could get heart attack any moment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:01 PM |
| 1 | The BarOmg what a sick burn This dude definitely stalks the sub or at least I hope that some men do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Gaslighting 🚨 Never, ever, EVER allow a man to weasel his way so deep into your psyche that these sentences seem like reasonable responses. They are MANIPULATIVE through and throughI obviously need to save this and put it as my phone wallpaper. Half of this is my last relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:05 AM |
| 4 | This was from 84’ imagine how it is today...When I was a kid I have discovered my dad's stash. I was kid I was stupid and somehow I have ended up on that page and there was this woman where her entire body was so beaten up. There were so many purple patches on her body. Like... What the actual fuck. I have just reminded it myself and I am so grossed out. How the heck does this stuff sell. Its actually scary that there are men that buy it and consume this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 01:46 AM |
| 12 | Ladies, in your experience, what are some examples of sneaky condescending behaviors/words that a LVM will usually throw at you as an attempt to lower your self worth?Projecting their insecurities on you. I have been eating pretty healthily, I don't eat sweets, I don't eat much of red meat. My ex would always come over weekend and he would sometimes see me eat meat. He would go through my sweets cupboard (I still buy sweets, it just takes me very long time to go through it). He would frequently claim that I have unhealthy eating habits and didn't believe me when I said that I eat healthily. Only whe we have moved in together (mistake), he finally began to que… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 01:25 AM |
| 39 | 50/50 is a scam, exhibit #126272I have made this mistake as well. My ex was earning more and eating more than me yet we paid 50/50. I ended up paying for him as well. I feel so stupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Gift swap from my ladies' book club ❤I need to cross stitch it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 07:21 PM |
| 6 | Just me?I feel like this is my future | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 07:08 PM |
| 5 | This is a REAL MGTOW scrote video giving advice on how to verbally abuse and manipulate women!! So many trash males out there. Ladies, watch out for this scum!🤮These people don't deserve to ever have a partner. Like... What sort of purpose does it have?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 11:58 PM |
| 8 | So trueThis is so true. So time came to meet ex LVM with his friends for first time. I was his first gf and the way it looked was as if he is showing his new car to his friends. Felt so gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 11:34 AM |
| 18 | I’ll just leave this gem here.That is... If they know what's uterus. I think I had to teach all men female anatomy. It should have been a reason to break up really. I am cringing so hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 11:25 AM |
| 8 | A message for the female lurkersYou are so right! Why I have never connected the dots! I have watched this BBC documentary called no more boys and girls. It's specifically looking into gender neutral education. It dissects the impact it has on girls and boys in school and it's really sad. The biases have a real impact on these kids and then their future life. https://youtu.be/wN5R2LWhTrY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 11:05 PM |
| 4 | Have men always been so bad?Ah nevermind then That's sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 08:03 PM |
| 92 | What is something a man did that he thought was cute and romantic but was gross and insulting?I got a card for valentines. There was some text well crossed out. It said merry Christmas :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InOmg made me laugh. I literally have imagined him picking himself up and throwing out hahha Thanks I needed this <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:54 PM |
| 19 | A message for the female lurkersOh that makes so much more sense now! Thanks for the explanation :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:34 PM |
| 55 | A message for the female lurkersI have been brought up in pathological family with heavy generational trauma caused by men. I have also been diagnosed with autism so I am naive. All of this makes me a gold nugget for abusers. All of these things were normal for me previously and this community shows me what the world actually is like. It's hard to digest all of these things all at once. In the end I have lived my entire life with mindset that was very damaging to me. FDS teaches me better so I think I'll eventually get there, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:59 PM |
| 23 | A message for the female lurkersI have read entire handbook and it was eye opening. It's hard to sort of absorb it all at once. I am still sitting here shocked that it's OK to expect some things in relationship but it all makes sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:49 PM |
| 90 | A message for the female lurkersSame, it has opened my eyes. Like... Why did I put up with those dudes, they literally brought no benefit for me. I should have looked for a friend instead. It makes me feel a bit stupid that I didn't realise it before. I thought of opening myself up to dating women as well. Even lesbians orgasm more often than straight women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:38 PM |
| 18 | A message for the female lurkersThis is such great analogy. I am exactly like op, I haven't met HVM (yet). It literally brought tears to my eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:32 PM |
| 122 | A message for the female lurkersI have been a lurker but decided to join few days ago. I am on exact same line and I was about to write the same post. What I am still baffled is, do such men actually exist? I don't share all of the FDS values. I ask for less and I guess I am pickme. Even my low standards seem to be too difficult for men and I don't ask for much. HVM in my eyes (or just HVM for my lower standards) seem like magical, non existent unicorns. I am really happy to hear other women meeting HVM. So far, I have found v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:30 PM |
| 44 | “It’s fine if she’s legal.” This is so problematic.Men started catcalling me since I was like 9. Obviously as a kid I didn't understand anything because... I was a kid. Grossssss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:49 PM |
| 31 | Have men always been so bad?I think it have always been bad or even worse. It is still a case in some countries but in past it was acceptable for old men to marry kids. Women now have more rights as well. It isn't perfect but it feels like we are sort of moving forward. As time goes by, we encounter new problems, like radicalisation of men into red pill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:47 PM |
| 178 | “It’s fine if she’s legal.” This is so problematic.My ex LVM had a ZVM friend. He told me stories how he waited for girls to turn 18 to have sex with them. He didn't see anything wrong with it. He didn't understand why it is predatory and I just couldn't find ways to explain it to him anymore. No explanation made sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:44 PM |
| 42 | Bridging the orgasm gap – it is not just biologyI literally had to explain this to my ex LVM. The sex was so boring, I might as well got toy and it would be more fun by myself. When I told him what I need to enjoy it as well, he said "sex is so difficult". I don't know if you have based this post on this article : https://blogs.iu.edu/kinseyinstitute/2019/01/24/how-often-do-women-orgasm-during-sex/#:~:text=Likewise%2C%20on%20average%2C%20women%20said,30%25%20of%20the%20time). But there is interesting note : "On a side note, it’s worth mention… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 09:19 AM |
| 6 | I didn't message her or anything. I feel dreadful for her since she is pregnant and having to deal with this guy.Omg this is so sad. The guy is heartless. I wish I could help but I don't think I could. I have never been pregnant either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:13 PM |
| 10 | One of the Worst Valentine's of My LifeI think you have dodged a bullet there. What if you'd accidentally break something more valuable? It just happens to everyone. If he already reacts like this over tiny things, what would happen if something more valuable would break I am not surprised you cried there. You were walking on egg shells. With this extra anxiety you are just deemed to make mistakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 01:39 PM |
| 12 | Drowning in red flagsThat's like immediate red flag. It just makes me feel iffy when they refer to women as 'female' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Why FDS is Crucial if Motherhood is a GoalI don't want kids simply because I have this fear of HVM turning LVM and I wouldn't like to bring a child into such relationship. I have experienced bad family and no one deserves it. I think a dog is enough for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:01 PM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InThank you, just from lurking this sub I have learned to love myself more, thanks to posts like yours. It means a lot to me. Time to get myself a dog | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:10 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI am not spiritual but always appreciate those. I think it's very similar to "better late than never" I am sort of glad that I didn't waste more time with him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:08 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InYes you are right, it opens all sorts of doors for opportunities. This time I have far better resources to make sure that I pick right partner for myself. We were together for 2 years. Not crazy amount of time but enough to get attached | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!I have been lurking this subreddit for a bit and finally decided to join, I had to do it with new account though. First off, I wish this sub was here in my teen years, it would save me a lot of trauma. What made me join is my partner that puts no effort into relationship, accuses me of asking him to mind read or manipulating him. So for entire of our relationship, which comes to 2 years, I said I'll make something nice for our anniversary and you plan something nice for valentines day. Our first… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:13 PM |
| 4 | The moment when a ZVM realizes he’s Zero Value 🤦♀️😂I thought I was the only one. I am glad I have joined this subredddit. My LVM was driving dangerously, like almost got us killed once. He wouldn't acknowledge it when I have asked him to drive less aggressively. He has changed his mind only after his friends sat in the car and were pissing themselves from fear of their life. He shouldn't have gotten driving licence. I don't know what's with some men and lack of common sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | The moment when a ZVM realizes he’s Zero Value 🤦♀️😂My boyfriend, or rather ex LVM now, all he does is learning about stock market or things for his job. Occasionally plays some game. I am not even joking, he doesn't have any other hobbies. Also he was a fan of Jordan Peterson and thought that he is doing heavy philosophy. I mean forget these people as partners, don't they just want to do something with their life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 01:42 PM |
| 89 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI am so sad, my boyfriend broke up with me because I wanted him to plan something for valentine's day. He said that's too much for him. That's literally 1 date a year he had to do. He got me discounted card for Christmas for valentines day. Definition of LVM I had to create new account as I found it a bit risky to join with my main | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 01:27 PM |
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