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Are you able to see someone about it?
/r/MensRights02/09/23 01:10 AM
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That must have been hard on you, break ups are never easy. I hope your able to heal and get better from it. At least your day ended well. It looks like you count the blessings, that is a very optimistic mindset.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 11:29 PM
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Oh! Okay.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 11:25 PM
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You have panic attacks? 😥
/r/MensRights01/09/23 11:25 PM
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Thank you for asking. Well it just started and I am going to the library to study all day. I am not academically smart and barely made it through high school. I have no idea how I am gonna do this😅 But hey at least I am getting Biology out of the way. Next semester will just be other things I am horrible at😃 At least once I get basic ed done I will not have to worry about subjects I suck at.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 05:29 PM
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C++ console is that new? I’ve only ever had x-box.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 05:23 PM
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Damn, that doesn’t sound like a good morning. I hope the day gets better. Maybe you could try to do your favorite thing.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 05:21 PM
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That’s messed up, I don’t know why people think ghosting someone is expectable. It is so rude and inconsiderate. I am sorry you had to go through that. From the sounds of it she doesn’t deserve you anyway. You gotta find better. There is someone out there who is gonna love you flaws, personality and all! ☺️
/r/MensRights01/09/23 05:18 PM
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That’s cool! What is Germany like? I heard the people are super sweet.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 05:15 PM
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I’ll pray for you. You got this, never stop believing in yourself!
/r/MensRights01/09/23 05:14 PM
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I’m sorry you had a shitty day, I hope the meme made it better. Are you okay?
/r/MensRights01/09/23 08:44 AM
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The world does go around a cycle. It will get so bad to a point we’re there will be people standing up against it.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 08:04 AM
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Was it Minecraft because I can get lost in that for hours😂. Also anything wear I have to build or create. Don’t let me be on your team if there is any shooting because I have shot my teammates on accident before💀. I hope you start feeling better. I know the real world can be tough at times, I definitely felt that way today, very helpless and rung out. It’s tough no doubt about it, but without a storm we can not see the rainbow after it. Good times will come, try to smile and laugh about the litt…
/r/MensRights01/09/23 06:59 AM
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Oh yeah that’s a good idea, pretty late. Well goodnight.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 06:06 AM
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Do you want to talk about it?
/r/MensRights01/09/23 05:11 AM
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Sweety, pls don’t ever except abuse just to be with someone. I understand your lonely, but being treated like that will only make it worse. Dating apps are not healthy. I would suggest to stay away from them. If you really want to meet someone and find a good community of people and become friends with them. You will eventually find someone, but I promise you dating apps never go well. The best people you can meet are the people that focus on their lives and try to become better. Those people ar…
/r/MensRights01/09/23 02:29 AM
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😎Roger that
/r/MensRights01/09/23 01:56 AM
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“If everyone in a room doesn’t like you, you leave that room” The story of my life🎶 I leave my heart open but it stays right here empty for days🎶
/r/MensRights01/09/23 01:55 AM
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Teach me your ways🫡 But then again if I don’t work I can help people…
/r/MensRights01/09/23 01:49 AM
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How come you said the same thing twice?
/r/MensRights01/09/23 01:48 AM
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Hold up! I need you guys. Doonnn’’ttt llleeaaavveee!😱
/r/MensRights01/09/23 01:48 AM
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I’m a born worrier too, I get it from my mom unfortunately😂. It’s okay, I don’t understand them either. I’ve been on one date before that’s it. I thought I was gonna pay for my drink, but he ended up paying and I was very confused. I think what makes dating so hard now a days is everyone has different expectations, some are more traditional and others more modern. Not to mention the weird labels they’ve come up with. Communication is key, other then that there isn’t much else you can do. I am ha…
/r/MensRights31/08/23 05:26 PM
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No, I really wasn’t trying to. I was concerned about how upset he seemed then I tried to lighten the mood. I guess it did not mix well.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 04:15 AM
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I am so sorry this happened. That’s a hard one. Though it was wrong I understand why it happened. That must have really been hard on you. To be honest I only wish you had left so that you could be safe (I understand why you didn’t though since you have children and considering the way she is). I hope you get through this and pls find someone you trust to open up to and help you through it. You need it right now.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 04:11 AM
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I want to have sympathy since I don’t know the story, but it is hard to have it when someone cheats. Why did you? (If you don’t mind me asking)
/r/MensRights30/08/23 08:49 PM
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They should have kept no gender or name. That would have been great, take the race out too.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 08:40 PM
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I want to be able to understand…
/r/MensRights30/08/23 08:33 PM
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I don’t want us to separate😢. What about all my friends I made in high school? I never would have made great memories without them there.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 08:25 PM
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Hopefully it is, I hate quotas. What a stupid concept.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 04:46 PM
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It’s okay (the ruminating on Reddit part), there are a lot of people on here who can understand you. I bet you are very desirable, pls don’t say that about yourself. You know the sad thing is a lot of women just would never walk up to a man, so if their had been someone interested in you you would have not known. Do not feel bad about yourself because of it. Also as far as your friends I am sorry and I get that, I had a friend of 8 years. I became homeless and didn’t have the time to text her. I…
/r/MensRights30/08/23 04:44 PM
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I don’t have any nails🥲
/r/MensRights30/08/23 04:33 PM
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Oh my gosh! I am sorry. That was so cruel, to take your children away from you after all that. And to think the law, actual people did not see any problem and just helped her. It’s so messed up. You don’t deserve that, no one deserves that. I wish I could change this for you, to get your kids back and the life you lost from her, but all I can do is be here and comfort you. Have you seen anyone about the suicidal thoughts?
/r/MensRights30/08/23 04:32 PM
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Huh interesting. What an odd take on it🤔. Well I guess everyone interprets each emoji as something different. Hard to communicate over text properly anyway.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 10:33 AM
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I have never used it like that…don’t you even laugh so much you cry? Like joy.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 09:21 AM
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Is it just me or do people misunderstand what I am saying a lot…maybe I should stop leaving comments…it always seems to come off wrong. In real life if I said it no one would be bothered, but online I seem to annoy people more.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 09:16 AM
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Yeah, I didn’t really realize it till he said something. I am sorry. I was quoting him saying “blah blah blah” cause I thought it was funny😓
/r/MensRights30/08/23 09:11 AM
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Damn that does not give me hope😥
/r/MensRights30/08/23 08:58 AM
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I know right. This is happening to me, a girl my sister knows, and my sister’s husband…I swear finding a job these days is a nightmare
/r/MensRights30/08/23 08:57 AM
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I’m curious is it?
/r/MensRights30/08/23 08:55 AM
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Yep. I have been trying for months and I have only done walk in interviews when I am lucky enough to find one. Still no call back from those. Not to mention my last two jobs were crap because of my bosses had nothing, but drama trailing behind them.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 08:55 AM
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👍🏻
/r/MensRights30/08/23 08:52 AM
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Well that’s mean
/r/MensRights30/08/23 08:48 AM
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What can I say I am good at making people dislike me, I am that charming😏✨
/r/MensRights30/08/23 07:58 AM
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Also I am not very beautiful…
/r/MensRights30/08/23 07:07 AM
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Funny…I’ve never been interested in “hot”. Just cute and smart. Intelligence is the most attractive thing you know. As long as the person doesn’t treat me like an idiot I am good.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 07:06 AM
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I’m okay. Thank you, that was very sweet of you. It is not showing up as disliked or liked on my side so Idk. I found in life someone will always have an issue with you. I have learned to smile and walk away. Social skills are important for everyone…because if you don’t have them you tend to be an outcast. The world is made of beautiful people and average. If your beautiful/handsome, you can get away with anything, heck even if your a murder as long as your hot people will still want you. But if…
/r/MensRights30/08/23 06:57 AM
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I am sorry to hear that. That’s tough. I get what you are saying though. I am always the one acting like a loud oaf running up to people I know and tackle hugging them as I yell “HI GUYS!” or OORRRR I yell group hug and just start pulling everyone in. Oh and there was this girl in high school that I used to run full speed at (don’t worry she was a friend😂). Once I finally got to her I’ll be going so fast I would pick her up and spin her around. Then there is when people hug me. I rarely have any…
/r/MensRights30/08/23 06:32 AM
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To be honest this is usually why I hid my humor on social media, it comes off wrong. It’s not something you can communicate over a screen, sorry.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 05:59 AM
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Huh? I wasn’t. I was asking if you were okay. I was laughing because you sound like me…at the end. I was not trying to be condescending.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 05:58 AM
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I knew someone like this. It was low key stalker, but she made it cutesy…she called the man and his wife answered😂. I’m like serves you right stop harassing people you don’t know. I used to say “That’s kinda stalking you do realize that right” her answer “everyone does it”💀 oh yes just cause someone shoots a person makes it totally okay for you to do it.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 05:13 AM
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Hey we are in this together, it’s much more comforting knowing someone else understands how it feels. You are enough and very much needed.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 05:09 AM
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Life can definitely be challenging can’t it. I guess that’s the fun of it😅
/r/MensRights30/08/23 04:32 AM
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Oh yeah! Sorry I misunderstood. It’s nice seeing the posts, they make me think I am not alone in some ways. That someone understands what it is like. I guess as much as I am trying to help them they are helping me too without even knowing it.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 03:47 AM
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Charity work? What is that even supposed to mean?
/r/MensRights30/08/23 03:35 AM
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Is that a good thing?
/r/MensRights30/08/23 03:34 AM
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Wait so is it bad or good that I am okay with this💀
/r/MensRights30/08/23 02:50 AM
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Are you okay, sweety? That’s a lot of blah blah blah at the end😂
/r/MensRights30/08/23 01:52 AM
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I love changing the tire it makes me so happy. Does it make you happy?
/r/MensRights30/08/23 01:46 AM
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💀we don’t die, geez a little over dramatic aren’t we. That would be sad if I never had men approach me in a platonic way (I don’t mean that I don’t want men to approach me in a romantic way, it just has never happened). I am pretty ugly🤣😭 Edit: guys I am saying geez to them saying “we are gonna die if they come near us”. This is nothing against you guys😭
/r/MensRights30/08/23 01:45 AM
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I’ve actually never had a man make a move on me, I am normally the one to do it😅. Kinda makes me feel undesirable at times or maybe I am just hideous😂. I mean I don’t mind making the first move, no one really ever initiates anything with me in any type of relationship anyway. (Bbuuutttt I recently have this friend who will ask me to hang out and check up on me, that’s really nice☺️) You guys must feel like me, when no one ever initiates anything with you it makes you feel unwanted and not enough…
/r/MensRights30/08/23 01:39 AM
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That is true
/r/MensRights29/08/23 07:28 AM
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They need to be the ones to be willing to work with us
/r/MensRights29/08/23 07:02 AM
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I can’t think of pros and cons of being a woman honestly. I just think I am human and humans have issues and struggles. I don’t think about my gender that much I suppose. I have walked late out at night. Was it smart? Probably not. At times did it create an issue? Sure, but I chose that. I’ve never let fear control my life so I can’t really say what you typically hear since I don’t care. I’ve never been cat called though I most likely would feel numb toward it anyway. I don’t get “sexualized” I …
/r/MensRights29/08/23 06:58 AM
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Good to know
/r/MensRights29/08/23 05:49 AM
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It’s so freakin messed up and unfair! I want it to freakin stop! I am so sorry you are going through this, no one has the right to take your things from you like that.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 05:46 AM
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What kind of men’s spaces do you want?
/r/MensRights29/08/23 05:31 AM
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What a sad devastating number…
/r/MensRights29/08/23 04:00 AM
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Mental awareness? The awareness that you give people mental issues? Is that it.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 03:53 AM
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I don’t really have a boyfriend, but I like to make my dad lunch. I make both my parents tea when I am making mine. Sometimes just my dad and me though.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 03:14 AM
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It definitely causes suffering because those people do not care for anyone, but themselves and will not lift a fingers to help them. Europe was woke far before the US was. Funny how wherever the women are there is the homeless…wonder why. It’s it like there is a pattern or anything right
/r/MensRights28/08/23 07:02 PM
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There are ones for men or women?
/r/MensRights28/08/23 07:12 AM
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I am so sorry this is happening. I don’t know what your circumstances are, but divorce is always a sad thing. Do you have a prenup?
/r/MensRights28/08/23 07:11 AM
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You just gave me more ideas thank you. I love this sub.
/r/MensRights28/08/23 04:37 AM
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Idk if I call loosing everything you have to family court as safety when it leave you homeless and vulnerable.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 03:01 PM
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We need to change this😔
/r/MensRights27/08/23 02:19 PM
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I know why they do these things, what they don’t realize is it is counter productive. Instead of attracting the food guys they are pushing them away and letting the bad guys in. I think a lot of women do not realize they do this. It kinda baffles me. Oh and the looking away isn’t anything against you. We are just self conscious around the opposite sex. I have a hard time meeting the gaze of men compared to women. It is a self confidence thing.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 07:04 AM
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I am sorry for your friend, I hope he comes out of this okay. I hope he is not gonna become homeless or anything. Right?
/r/MensRights27/08/23 05:49 AM
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Spread the word. Make people see it. It’s going to be hard, but all change is we can do this!
/r/MensRights27/08/23 05:48 AM
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I’ve always done it and I don’t think any of them saw it as flirting🤔. But they also see me acting that way with others around them so it is pretty obvious I am not flirting 😂. I have to say online it is totally different. Everyone thinks I am flirting with them online, but I am just trying to make them happy.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 03:54 AM
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Don’t overthink it. I was with my dad once grocery shopping and told a guy he had amazing fashion sense and I loved his outfit. The guy looked confused at first then smiled, my dad was so embarrassed 😂. Don’t think about it to much, just be natural. I compliment men and women all the time on small things. They never seem to get the wrong idea.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 03:51 AM
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How dare he?! I am sorry for sounding rude, but that is not his place. He is there to help you, not lecture you about what subs you follow on social media.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 03:23 AM
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And sadly it is so common because there are no repercussions for it. Also men and boys are taught “your so lucky”, “she’s so cool”.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 03:03 AM
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A horrible vicious cycle. It’s so messed up that anyone could ever harm a child.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 02:58 AM
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I never had brothers and I don’t have a son, but I was raised to love others regardless of their outward appearance. I was raised to be respectful and mind my manners, no many are taught that anymore. Something my father always said was “Try putting yourself in someone else’s shoes, you think you can do better? If not you have no room to judge.” He said that in many different ways, but each time I interpreted it as that. That we all make mistakes, we all struggle and want to be cared for so why …
/r/MensRights26/08/23 07:26 PM
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Some people have issues and need to mind their business. It was none of that woman’s concern weather you want to engage with someone or not. Especially with them acting like that.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 07:16 PM
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I am so sorry. You should have never gone through that. That is no mother, THAT IS A LITERAL MONSTER. Thank god your out. Your right that is going to be hard to recover from, but therapy will help you cope and heal a little. You were just a child, you are not dumb or ever were. You were just a child you had no way of knowing. I understand you don’t trust women, that is okay, when you go through something like that it makes it hard to trust anyone much less the person they are associated with. I …
/r/MensRights26/08/23 06:35 AM
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You know there is a balance. Is some of the MR post like you said, yes. But you have to think this is one of the few places they have to vent so of course it looks bad when your constantly seeing it. But these are actual people’s lives. And I disagree with the feminism statement. Look I am a woman and have gotten into debates with feminists and not one of them saw men in a good light. I have never met a feminist who actually cared about men’s rights. Your right this subreddit needs to do somethi…
/r/MensRights24/08/23 05:36 AM
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Sir, pls do not let her bully you. If you get a good lawyer then you could win against her.
/r/MensRights24/08/23 05:20 AM
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Prenup
/r/MensRights24/08/23 02:33 AM
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Even though people are kinda dissing this, I actually see it. Women do not trust other women. I have talked about it with my girlfriends and they say yeah the person to screw you over will most likely be another woman, not a man. I will never understand why some women are just so mean when it is really unnecessary.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 10:20 PM
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Definitely caused by women
/r/MensRights23/08/23 10:17 PM
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What is with my generation making everything abusive?!😭 that is NOT abuse, that actually mocks the people who do struggle in abusive homes.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 06:51 PM
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I know and the sad part is if it had actually happened to them they would not be saying this
/r/MensRights23/08/23 05:18 PM
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What the hell is wrong with them?! How can you say that, he was just a kid! That’s not a reward, that is a heinous act!
/r/MensRights23/08/23 05:18 PM
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Have you seen a therapist before, you could try a male one if your not comfortable around females?
/r/MensRights23/08/23 04:53 PM
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I see. I have never heard of this, though I am coming at it from the Bible. I would also have to research it more because I learned to never use Wikipedia in my schooling, that it is unreliable and you need multiple sources. You have made me curious though, sir.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 03:46 PM
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Yeah I am getting tired of it too
/r/MensRights23/08/23 03:41 PM
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I grew up in a Christian community where most women did not do that. I definitely haven’t. The world is a big place, you might be surprised. I understand why they are worried, the laws need to be changed. I would say to never let a woman disrespect you, if she is willing to do that while dating it’s not gonna be a pretty marriage.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 03:37 PM
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Well I am sorry if you have only seen bad and unhealthy ones. I’ve seen healthy and happy ones, people who adore each other. Through thick and thin. It is definitely a gift. Some people just didn’t get into a healthy one and need help finding their way.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 03:36 PM
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Ah I am not part of the Catholic Church so I do not know anything about that. Can I get your recourses on this? I would love to look into it.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 05:02 AM
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You definitely need some healing first off from leaving the relationship. No matter how you look at it when you leave any kind of relationship it leaves scars and pain which needs to be worked out. You should take sometime away from relationships to figure yourself out. I have only been in one relationship my whole life and I am taking my time to work on myself. When we leave relationships we often learn not so great things about that person and ourselves. You can not do anything about that pers…
/r/MensRights23/08/23 04:54 AM
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Marriage was created by God. It is a Holy Act.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 04:05 AM
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No we can’t do better, no one is better then another person. Marriage is hard because it takes a lot to humble yourself. For once in your life you have to realize everything you say and do affects this person like no one else you have ever had in your life. You have to be a team and lean on one another. You have to look to God together and fight. Though it is hard, it is a gift. That person you choose will be the greatest person in your life, they will be the person you want your kids to be like…
/r/MensRights23/08/23 04:04 AM
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I think it’s because a lot of people crave for marriage and to make a family of there own. Not everyone wants that though, both men and women. Some people get married and never have children. It just depends on the liberal. There is this idea if you don’t marry, you were all alone. Just because you’re not married, does not mean you’re all alone because you have your friends, siblings, parents, and all those people are relationships that you have. Even the Bible says is not good for a man to be a…
/r/MensRights23/08/23 03:58 AM
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I can see why you would.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 01:50 AM
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“Hard times create strong men, strong men, create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times” where does this quote come from?
/r/MensRights23/08/23 01:45 AM
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🤣🤧
/r/MensRights22/08/23 10:58 PM
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It’s all good
/r/MensRights22/08/23 10:57 PM
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Oohhh! Okay I did not know there was an equation that was supposed to represent that.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 10:29 PM
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I am sorry it sounds like you had a tough childhood
/r/MensRights22/08/23 10:20 PM
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Okay I will😂. I know a few women who want to hand it off though as a present😂
/r/MensRights22/08/23 10:13 PM
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I’m sorry, but I don’t know what that means😭
/r/MensRights22/08/23 09:59 PM
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YOU ARE LIVING MY DRREEAAAMMM
/r/MensRights22/08/23 08:45 PM
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Men and women are the same species
/r/MensRights22/08/23 08:44 PM
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This is GOLD. You are an amazing father, you have done so much for your kids by doing all that for them. so many people in this world need that genuine push to be better. Real love is when you tell someone something they need to hear, not what they want to hear. You did exactly that for your children and that’s amazing. They will be able to walk in life with their heads held high because of what you did. Thank you for sharing about your family. That was a treat.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 08:32 PM
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You know you just made a memory come to mind😂
/r/MensRights22/08/23 08:28 PM
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I bet if you told me about yourself I could find something. We all have it, that one thing. Though you might not see yourself as much, I see you through God’s eyes. It is your imperfection that makes you wonderful and beautiful. Every time you don’t like something about yourself it is what someone loves or envies that you have. Remember there is always something to love inside of you.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 08:28 PM
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You have won, so many people wish they could have that mindset to not care what other people think. I am definitely one of them, you have my respect.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 08:24 PM
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That is definitely something to be proud of. It takes a lot to get there, you have to go through a lot of life and strife to be there.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 08:23 PM
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I hate cyst, I am sorry. You got to deal with that, it sounds uncomfortable.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:59 PM
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What’s pilonidal sinus?
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:54 PM
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Your welcome. I hope this finds you well and if not I hope you get well. Have a wonderful day.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:53 PM
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I understand. I did not think of it like that. I can see where you would see it as a negative constantly having it used like that. I want you to know I think your strength and men’s is great. Not because of everything you said. Every time I see examples of men’s strength it just blows me away. I marvel at how someone could me made so strong without even really working out.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:52 PM
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It’s good to not need much in life, that is true happiness. You’ll never find it in things.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:47 PM
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“Soft piece of impure metal” had me dying. I get what you mean though. Most men if not all normally have to go through things alone. Having to go through stuff alone can make you resilient and strong or break you.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:46 PM
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A lot of people are saying no periods😂
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:39 PM
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Awe come on it’s not that bad. It’s fun😂
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:38 PM
3

I was about to be shocked and ask how, but it just hit me😭
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:37 PM
3

Hey it’s not that bad😂
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:37 PM
2

That fact you guys can come together and do anything. Yeeesssss.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:35 PM
3

That made me laugh, that is so great. I fall out of trees. I know it’s a talent, I am that good 😏
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:29 PM
1

Had to what? I am a little confused.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:27 PM
2

That’s amazing. Those are all very good things and we need people like you in the world. Keep doing what is good and right🙌🏻
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:27 PM
1

It is always a good thing to be able to not care what others think, someone worry have an issue with what you doing
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:24 PM
2

How come?
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:22 PM
5

Yyyeeessss✊🏻
/r/MensRights22/08/23 05:36 AM
8

I don’t know many men who aren’t that’s for sure
/r/MensRights22/08/23 04:51 AM
2

Men typically do want that though. Although usually the virgins do too.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 03:44 AM
2

Well, each gender is different. We are not the same physically or psychologically. There are things that come naturally to us more than others. Some of those things are amazing. There are things that we can marvel that and be proud of, not because it makes us better, but because it makes us an important and useful puzzle to society. Because that’s what society is, a whole bunch of people with different talents like a puzzle piece working together. I as a woman do not have certain attributes that…
/r/MensRights22/08/23 03:42 AM
19

That was beautiful. I noticed that, too, whenever there is a car stopped on the side of the road or you see someone struggling to carry some thing, a man always steps in. I really admire when men use that strength of theirs to help others and the desire I have seen to do so in so many men. Thank you for sharing this with me.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 03:35 AM
3

I’ll take your word for it
/r/MensRights22/08/23 03:23 AM
2

I was speaking more of characteristics then physical attributes. Something you are proud of that is is a part of you. That you are grateful for. It depends on how you look at it. If you think it makes you better then everyone else then of course it is arrogant. But I never said such a thing.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 03:21 AM
4

No…
/r/MensRights22/08/23 03:13 AM
5

Wait are you serious?
/r/MensRights22/08/23 03:12 AM
0

Oh…okay
/r/MensRights22/08/23 03:11 AM
8

Oh yes. I have always loved how men always seem to be team players, even when they are the opposite team, they have great respect for teammates and fellow players.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 03:09 AM
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Funny thing is I am the younger generation 😂. 20 years old and gonna be 21 next month. And thank you for that, I definitely feel you on that point.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 09:24 PM
8

I don’t think your lazy, sir. It sounds like you are a hard worker. In my opinion I would stay at home and build up my assets because it is only going to get more expensive if they do not stop raising minimum wage which in return raises everything else. As for the dating, don’t worry about it too much. Someone will come along your still young. Everyone acts like 30 is old, but it really isn’t. Also you can try going on dates with women where you don’t spend anything. If they have a problem with …
/r/MensRights21/08/23 07:56 PM
1

Oh my gosh, you could have support days! You could pick out a day every month or maybe every week if you want to and gather with your friends. You can talk about each other’s struggles that you go through, but it could be everyone’s assignment to pick someone in the group and research to find ways to help them. You could say, “do you want comfort or solutions”. That way if the person just wants to be listened to your just able to comfort them, but if they say solutions then you can brainstorm id…
/r/MensRights21/08/23 05:27 PM
2

Another huge thing is do not just talk to MRs about these issues. Go talk to people who don’t know. For example, I’m going to be taking a communications class at my college and they have assignments where you’re giving a speech. From what my friend told me when she went to that class you get to choose what you talk about. Things like that are perfect opportunities to bring awareness.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 05:13 PM
3

I have the perfect idea. Personally next year for men’s mental health awareness month in June I want to put together a group that is able to talk about issues they are struggling with. I want to hand out papers at my college and set this up. I think this is something that everybody could do, it’s just gonna take a lot of planning and figuring out how you are going to manage it. You might already know this, but men do not process normal therapy sessions the way women do. Woman do well with sittin…
/r/MensRights21/08/23 05:11 PM
16

😂😂okay that made me laugh
/r/MensRights21/08/23 03:42 PM
1

I thought they meant peeing when they said letting go. I was wondering why anyone would do that let alone come all together to pee in a body of water at the same time😭🤧 But the mean emotionally so I feel better now☺️
/r/MensRights21/08/23 03:40 PM
5

☺️of course
/r/MensRights21/08/23 01:44 PM
1

Your human, it’s okay to fail. You learn when you do so.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 01:41 PM
2

Yes I have noticed this even with hotlines. This attitude of “we want to help men so they don’t hurt others”. It’s sickening, in a sense they are not even doing it for the men because they don’t care.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 01:26 PM
7

Good job
/r/MensRights21/08/23 11:35 AM
2

I..I really wish I could help you. Is there anything I can say to make you feel better?
/r/MensRights21/08/23 11:34 AM
8

Yes I posted this because of the numbers. I really don’t understand why they are saying this because “men are not good active listeners” which has no weight to how you react. If no one is physically threatening you then you should not raise you hand to anyone. I understand they are trying to say there are a lot of variables that make it hard to tell the exact numbers, but that is with all statistics. Your never gonna get a perfect answer so embellishing it with those things is quite unnecessary.…
/r/MensRights21/08/23 10:16 AM
1

Oh…I heard the laws are not so good to men there. Is that true?
/r/MensRights21/08/23 09:41 AM
3

Yeah, definitely. I totally want to move to South Dakota or Montana. I would love to be a teacher in Japan too. What country do you live in?
/r/MensRights21/08/23 09:32 AM
-1

I am not gonna do that just cause some stranger says that. Not to mention I’ve heard that one before
/r/MensRights21/08/23 09:25 AM
1

True, but even neighborhoods are no longer safe. I live in La County. There are so many homeless and people on drugs. Not to mention everyone is let out of the prison. Last time I walked at night in my neighborhood a guy was watching me and tried to hide, that’s when I turned around straight back to my house. I haven’t done it since. It just sucks that we (we as in normal men and women) have to stay in because of people like that. My parents are always kinda concerned how I seem to lack fear. I …
/r/MensRights21/08/23 09:08 AM
5

I put it in with it.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 08:41 AM
4

Um…I might sound stupid right now…but how do you get the link💀
/r/MensRights21/08/23 08:36 AM
3

Well I was hoping they wouldn’t have made it woke, but of course they did. Also I just found it ironic how the best scene according to all the clips I saw from the commenter was of the “patriarchy”. It kinda felt like “so much for the trying to make the patriarchy look bad, they actually successfully failed at making it good”. But oh no we can’t have men and women loving each other, women need to want to be alone and make six figures, be a girl boss. Feminists are just power hungry teenagers in …
/r/MensRights21/08/23 08:35 AM
7

Well Idk what “jackass” wrote this article, but it was an eye opener for me.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 08:30 AM
3

Sadly I am noticing that when women comment on it on Instagram
/r/MensRights21/08/23 08:27 AM
9

That’s f**ked up!
/r/MensRights21/08/23 07:38 AM
1

I did not, but there is this conservative commenter who used to be woke posted about it. She went through the whole plot of the movie and what happened then talked about her views on it.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 05:09 AM
7

Sweety, you need to get that checked, that is not healthy. It’s okay to want to help, but you need to take care of yourself first.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 02:48 AM
4

I do not agree about sleeping around being okay, but it is people’s choices. If it bothers people then just don’t be around it, why is that so hard for people?
/r/MensRights20/08/23 01:53 AM
1

I am sorry that so many men feel this way. It is hate in the heart that creates crime and selfishness. It is like a disease that spreads. Love is an action you do despite how you feel for someone else, a selfless act. I am sorry this has never been presented to you.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 12:02 AM
1

Burning coals is a metaphor.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 06:24 AM
2

Surprisingly enough it was always compassion and empathy. “If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty, give him water to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head, and the LORD will reward you.” Kindness destroys wrath.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 12:37 AM
1

Look I know what it is like to be hit, have things thrown at me, be belittled by the people who should never do that. THAT is why I told you to fight back because I never did. I stared at the ground and let it happen, I was too young to understand. I was saying that because I don’t want anyone to be alone like I was, but I am not going to have someone say I am just flirting with them and INSANE because I was trying to help.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 12:32 AM
2

I am not hitting on you💀 I was trying to be encouraging, but nevermind. I’ll drop this conversation😐
/r/MensRights19/08/23 12:12 AM
2

Well anyway I don’t think I’d be scared of you I bet your nice🥰
/r/MensRights18/08/23 11:58 PM
3

As someone who is very quiet my version of fight back might not mean what most people think it means. I have a strange way of handling things, but they seem to be affective in conflict.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 11:56 PM
1

Just out of curiosity by intimidating do you mean it is deep?
/r/MensRights18/08/23 11:51 PM
1

I am sorry that this is the case. I would like to give you something helpful, but right now I don’t have anything on the top of my head.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 11:50 PM
2

Don’t let them throw that false narrative at you. They will tell you not to fight back, but that is a lie. You don’t have to throw fists to fight back, you just gotta make your voice heard. It’s gonna take courage, but you can do it, I know you can. Politicians always try to use race (may it be black, white, Hispanic, etc) and gender to their advantage by spreading false narratives about gender and race. It is this divide they rely on. If we all hate each other they can use it. If we come togeth…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 11:22 PM
3

If they are putting their hands on you then you walk out that door. Respect is a must, you don’t put your hands on others if you have an ounce of respect for them (“women” are not the exception to that rule)
/r/MensRights18/08/23 11:10 PM
1

I can’t tell you came far🙌🏻
/r/MensRights18/08/23 11:05 PM
5

Oh my gosh, sweetheart, I am so sorry. I would say for starters if they try to hit you either grab their wrist or better yet back up. Never ever let someone else put their hands on you like that. If you have to get big and scary to make them back down do it. By that I mean speak with authority and demand they do not raise their hand to you. If they continue tell them if they do not stop then you WILL PROTECT YOURSELF. If you are scared of women then do not push yourself too much to be around the…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 10:57 PM
1

The thread was illustrated?
/r/MensRights18/08/23 10:15 PM
1

I am sorry. Would you like comfort or solution? I learned to ask that now because sometimes we don’t always know what people want when they come to us with problems. Sometimes all they want is a listening ear and other times they want advice and solutions.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 09:49 PM
1

My heart goes out to you, to be 40 and feel like you have never had anyone is hard and a agonizing feeling I can only imagine. He shouldn’t have treated you like that, he should have been there for you. The world truly does have cruel and sometimes evil people. I hope you are able to find someone who truly values you. It’s never to late to find a partner. There was a couple in my church were the wife hadn’t married at all till she was 50. They were married for 5 years before he died of cancer. I…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 09:46 PM
4

I’m sorry you’ve had to have a few psychological issues. I hope you’re doing well now. It is often are struggling that makes this more understanding oddly enough. Well I’m happy to hear from you and I hope your day goes well.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 09:07 PM
1

I agree there are statistics that shows kids do better in homes with both parents. A lot of that has to do with the way men and a woman raise their children differently which is needed. Women do the nurturing part where they’ll have a child read a book or go through a lesson. Where is the man, take care of their children and have them learn through experience and play. A lot of people don’t actually realize that what the man is very important. There is a balance to everything.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 08:52 PM
3

Wow. Beautiful put, your very smart, I don’t usually see people talk about there is a time and place for everything. Do you know a lot about psychology?
/r/MensRights18/08/23 08:42 PM
1

That’s so awful. Is that common for people to divorce because one looses a job? Till DEATH do us part mean nothing to anyone. When my parents started out my dad was working at a fast food place and going to school for computer programming. This went into the marriage also. My mom worked as a vet tech while he was going to school and working when he could. I know a couple where her husband was not working for TWO YEARS and she supported him. I grew up in the church where men and woman had medical…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 08:40 PM
1

I am so sorry, that is not right at all. People who love you should not use you. I hope one day you meet someone who would never do that. Who knows maybe God could be that being (He is not really a person) for you. I don’t know if you believe in a creator or not, but I do hope you find solace.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 08:31 PM
2

Okay, thank you
/r/MensRights18/08/23 05:43 PM
2

I used to think it was exhaustion too. I guess I learned something new☺️
/r/MensRights18/08/23 05:39 PM
1

You guys don’t even trust your friends?
/r/MensRights18/08/23 05:36 PM
2

To be honest I am trying to figure that out. I don’t have any degree to change those things. What is blacklist? As for the volunteering what kind are you thinking of that would help men? Right now all I have in my head is the men’s mental health department. I am very bad with law stuff.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 05:35 PM
1

I am not a leftist. I am not trying to move any groups to one side at all. Emotions don’t make you any less of a man, but I understand there are women who do not make that easy. I wish no one would respond poorly to another persons emotions. Sadly they do. How do you think this could be changed? (The way women and society respond)
/r/MensRights18/08/23 05:27 PM
2

Your right I don’t know. There are very few things I know how to change it. One of them is creating a safe space, the other is holding the people around me accountable. Do you have a suggestion?
/r/MensRights18/08/23 05:12 PM
2

I hope so
/r/MensRights18/08/23 05:09 PM
1

I hear you, how do you think I should do that?
/r/MensRights18/08/23 05:09 PM
1

And thank you for telling me how you felt about it. I know that is hard.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 05:06 PM
1

How would you like us to lift our fingered to do something? This is something that I never know quite how to handle so your advice would be appreciated.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 05:05 PM
1

Thank you for your thoughts on that. I think your right, there are so many things in culture that is causing men so much pain, we need to get better. I hear you. I am simply here to listen🙏🏻
/r/MensRights18/08/23 05:04 PM
1

Maybe you could create a space with your guy friends to talk and work through these things. It is important to open up to someone you trust and feel safe. For me that is God because He is not going to judge or a counselor who can help me through it. For you it might be different. I am sorry that women have weaponized your emotions which must make it hard to trust, I understand.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 05:01 PM
1

Emotions are human. Yes women are emotional compared to men. But you guys are human and they are still there. Trust me, I am not trying to feminize you at all. But to be able to fix problems, you must be able to face what’s causing the issue, a lot of times it comes down to your emotions. Also, as you notice, I didn’t say you have to talk to somebody. You could also journal, the whole point is to understand yourself better. When you block yourself off from your motions it can create a disconnect…
/r/MensRights18/08/23 04:58 PM
2

That is not what I am trying to do. I am sorry you have gone through this. I am well aware this happens, but I can’t sit around and do nothing to create change can I?
/r/MensRights18/08/23 04:50 PM
3

No. We have the same advantages as men in society, there is not wage gap and women are offered more positions then men in STEM. It’s illegal, all laws are against it. By law, it cannot be so! The court system, that women can say whatever they want with no repercussions, a woman can say anything about a man and she will be believed, a woman is viewed as victims because of this it creates uneven scales, my brain is too moosh to keep going
/r/MensRights18/08/23 06:59 AM
-2

No it’s not because AI is taking all our American jobs away from us😭. Stupid tech and advancements are gonna leave us with nothing😔. Soon robots are gonna be taking over other industries, putting more and more people out of work. What is wrong with us, what do we think we are doing😥 We are already loosing jobs in America because of stupid Biden why are we making it worse by having robots do everything. We are going to make the economy collapse.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 06:35 AM
3

Wow, I’m really sorry. To actually blatantly say something like that out loud, I can’t imagine. You’re not alone there are people who understand you. I am actually lost for words right now. I’m sorry.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 08:12 PM
1

Also answer this. Why is it when someone cares and stands up for people the first thing this generation does is try to make them feel bad for it? I think you need to reflect on why you feel triggered by someone caring because they have a father and men in their life that they love.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 07:57 PM
1

You can believe what you will. I am not gonna waste energy to convince someone on the internet of my character and morals.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 07:53 PM
2

It’s okay😂. Lass? Isn’t that Scottish?
/r/MensRights17/08/23 08:52 AM
2

Yes it’s not that..I just am…damn what’s the words. The first part caught me off guard.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 08:50 AM
2

😦I-I don’t know how to take that first part
/r/MensRights17/08/23 08:47 AM
2

Don’t say that😭. Hey your sarcasm is like my dad’s 😃
/r/MensRights17/08/23 08:38 AM
2

I see. Okay then🥰
/r/MensRights17/08/23 08:26 AM
5

😂see it doesn’t matter what I say I am not liked well so I volunteer to be the punching bag.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 08:21 AM
38

We are all connected to nature thought. Nature is connected to all living things. Why in the world are they turning it into a weird fantasy goddess thing. What makes me ponder is how egotistical you have to be to think your “divine”.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 08:20 AM
1

Well if it makes you feel better my ex best friend was talking about these two guys which wasn’t weird at first. Then she started to say how she loved the one guy and he was so sweet while she was trying to decide on this other guy. She said she loved one of them, but couldn’t decide. I told her “that isn’t love if you’re treating them as options. I also want to remind you that you are constantly saying men don’t treat you right. But what is it that you are doing right now that is any better tha…
/r/MensRights17/08/23 06:36 AM
2

I would hope that there is. I do want to start a family one day when God wills it.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 06:04 AM
1

First off, you DO NOT deserve that at all, secondly, God made you and loves you, third, God has no gender, in the Bible God is written as “he” because we cannot grasp the idea of a gender less spirit because that does not exist in the mundane world. Your kind? What is that even supposed to mean. So what your white, that doesn’t make you any different. You are a human being with a heart and they should be ashamed of themselves. That is bullying and we don’t need that in this world.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 05:38 AM
6

Yes they are. Are you a Christian by any chance?
/r/MensRights17/08/23 05:31 AM
3

Oh I understand, that’s admirable. I like your take.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 04:03 AM
1

Idk what that even means Okay now I know what it means. That is your opinion, but it is a fact that I do care. Bbyyeeee!
/r/MensRights17/08/23 04:02 AM
12

That is not funny at all. I’m happy that you’re okay and I hope that didn’t mentally affect you really bad. I have never had to deal with something like that, I’m kind of a homebody or I like to be out in the woods so I don’t get socialize much. I also have never been to a club. I feel I can’t say much for this situation due to my lack of experience in this area.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 03:42 AM
3

Can you explain a little more because the last part confused me?😅
/r/MensRights17/08/23 03:38 AM
6

I am sorry😢. Are you okay? That might be a stupid question 😅
/r/MensRights17/08/23 03:36 AM
6

That is a lie. Women are not oppressed. At least not in America, I don’t know about other countries because I do not look into that. Life is tough. That is just the reality. The whole feminist argument that women have to worry about rape so we are still oppressed is irrelevant. From the beginning of time till today there has always been a rape, that is not something you can get rid of. There is a huge difference between the suffering of life and oppression.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 03:33 AM
20

That is a very good reason, you have respect for your man🫡😉
/r/MensRights17/08/23 03:24 AM
36

So many men get groped in clubs too, why don’t they get any protection?
/r/MensRights17/08/23 03:22 AM
1

What the hell?! Your defending yourself, she is assaulting YOU. And why aren’t other women stepping in to stop her? I always hear men need to keep other men accountable (which is totally freaking unfair) yet a woman doesn’t have to do anything if another woman is hurt a man?! Like what the hell!😤
/r/MensRights17/08/23 03:21 AM
1

God sent his only son to die on the cross to save humanity. God also wasn’t the one who made hell in a sense, hell did not exist before we sinned. Our actions is what caused there to be a hell because when we send we were separated from God. Think about it if someone abused you, flogged you, and tortured you could you call out and ask God to forgive them. Would you still have love and compassion for someone who blasphemy your name and wants you dead simply cause you spoke truth and love. Loving …
/r/MensRights17/08/23 03:12 AM
2

Thank you
/r/MensRights16/08/23 09:27 PM
2

😂 true
/r/MensRights16/08/23 09:26 PM
2

Sir, pls leave. I am not trying to be rude, but that is majorly disrespectful. First off, she’s not considering how you would feel with a whole bunch of men seeing a lot of her body, secondly, she cannot ask you to do something that she is not willing to do herself. It goes both ways. I am not saying that leaving is a solution, but if you can’t talk to her and be vulnerable about how she treats you is making you feel than that is not a healthy relationship. Also be confident in your body, as som…
/r/MensRights16/08/23 09:06 PM
5

Bikinis are literally just underwear and a bra, the only difference is the name. Growing up I always wore one pieces and swim shorts. Last year I got a bikini and immediately regretted it, now I just wear a giant t shirt over it😂. I don’t understand how women can be comfortable walking out into public like that. The only time I didn’t wear the shirt over it was at my parent’s house when I was in the pool alone. If someone was with me I put the shirt back on.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 09:00 PM
2

Yes may us all, no matter our appearance it’s the inside that matters!🥰
/r/MensRights16/08/23 08:09 PM
3

Agreed. I do believe good men are strong and kind. That is a very predominant attribute of what God calls men to be in the Bible. It is not just that, these movies are degrading, can build poor self esteem, shame, humiliation in their own gender, and for some of not all anger. These need to be stopped, don’t see these movies so they loose money on them, eventually they will have to stop making them. I don’t watch much else, but anime anymore. Or shows I’ve already seen that are older. They are j…
/r/MensRights16/08/23 06:41 PM
2

Yeah, that was disgusting. What bothers me the most is these men had no chance to fight back and they had such horrific deaths.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 06:10 PM
2

I think it is already going there, I have meant plenty of bad men, but I refuse to assume something of someone before I get to know them. If they prove to me they are bad then that is what it is, if they prove to be good then there you go. When I first meet a man I never think oh I have to be careful because men are dangerous. On the contrary with both men and women I am cordial and realize that I do not know this person yet, so I should not fully trust them. I in general do not think all men ar…
/r/MensRights16/08/23 06:08 PM
2

Oh that guy. Now that rings a bell. He would sometimes eat his victims right? Quiet sickening and disturbing.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 05:55 PM
8

The sad part is feminist would say it is different because men are stronger and have the advantage, you can’t hurt a man. They never think there is more to it then just being strong. It is about morals and principle. If you don’t want it done to you then don’t do it to others. If you want it done to you then idk you have some strange problems.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 05:52 PM
5

That’s creepy😬. Who in their right mind does that?
/r/MensRights16/08/23 05:48 PM
1

True, but usually I leave a comment then it explodes with the haters😂
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:51 PM
3

It bothers me to no end that they will not look into the case for evidence. It is innocent until proven guilty, not the other way around. That’s law, they need to be held accountable.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:46 PM
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Thank you for that. You are appreciated for caring about what I have to say, I find it rare when people do. And I get why they would be a little offended, i think most people do get offended with such things. I guess the whole white people are inherently racist just gets to me so much. I know for a fact it bothers my dad. He gets really angry and sarcastic about it. I don’t get why they have to divide by race and gender, why they want power so much.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:42 PM
3

Do you know a 42 year old programmer with l5 from the Netherlands hhmmm?🧐
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:37 PM
3

😂that was oddly specific
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:36 PM
3

Awee! Thank you, you too, darling🥰🫡
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:32 PM
3

I love that, yes🥹. We need to stop comparing each other. We should simply except each other’s burdens/pain and be there for one another. Thank you.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:29 PM
4

Oh and thank you for asking.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:26 PM
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Because I care. You are human are you not? Do you not matter too? You are God’s creation just as us women are. God made you perfectly in His image, God gave me a father, he gave me brother in laws, and a friend, he gave me men at church who looked after me and were great people, should I not care for them? How about the countless fathers, brothers, uncles who all love their families, is their love not worth something? Should you turn a blind eye to someone else’s pain or give them a hand? I have…
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:24 PM
1

Thank you for your understanding. I don’t know what made people dislike my comment so much😂
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:12 PM
1

Yeah, but I am used to it now. It happens a lot and I am too stubborn to shut up😅
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:11 PM
3

I see your point. I guess I am looking at it from my religious point of view and what God would think (not that I know because I can’t possibly know what is on his mind, all I can do is make conclusion off of what I do know). I do acknowledge that women in society have it a lot easier then men. Sadly as many good relationships I was surrounded with I have seen cases where women are horrible to their husbands and nothing is done. As a little girl I had a neighbor who was a very nasty woman and my…
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:06 PM
2

Who is Jeffery Dahmer?
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:52 PM
4

Dang you really used a morbid example😭. I mean it isn’t wrong, but still.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:51 PM
2

I think the problem is in valuing men AS MUCH as women are valued. I don’t think it will be easy to change, but nothing is impossible
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:50 PM
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It’s okay that we have different opinions. That doesn’t make me a troll. No need to put each other’s opinions down. I didn’t mean it as a negative toward men. But the Bible does say humans are incapable of unconditional love that our form of unconditional is only a mere fraction of what it actually is. Since we tend to take actions that serve ourselves and if they do not serve ourselves in some way then we tend to not do it.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:44 PM
3

Agreed and of course, any time.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:41 PM
2

I think he holds both men and women accountable. He tells you what you need to hear rather then what you want to hear. I have learned a lot from him. He has made me grow and he is my inspiration. I have seen videos talking about men, being there for them. But I don’t think he has a gender bias and that is why he speaks to us both. That is why he doesn’t care if we don’t like it because we need to hear it. 🥰
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:40 PM
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Thank you. Yeah I think men do too. My dad doesn’t have guy friends, it is such a struggle for him to make friends because he has bad vision and is color blind. He can’t watch sports because he doesn’t understand what’s going on (when we had soccer games growing up my mom had to literate where we were for him). He isn’t into things like cars because of his vision. All the typical stuff that men like my dad can’t do. It makes it really hard for him. I know that growing up he had some friends thou…
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:37 PM
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I don’t know people are weird. I said something about about white people being seen a supremacists and inherently racist. I talked about both men and woman in this case, but said white men are targeted even more then white women with race and it got downvoted too. It was because they thought I was down valuing white men’s struggles. Even though I literally said they tend to have it worse. So yeah sometimes you can’t win and ya gotta be okay with that I suppose. I don’t really consider myself an …
/r/MensRights16/08/23 09:13 AM
3

I couldn’t agree more. We are so much more beautiful when we work together
/r/MensRights16/08/23 09:03 AM
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I question weather any of us are capable of unconditional love. I think the only true unconditional love in this world is God.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 09:02 AM
0

That doesn’t really help though
/r/MensRights16/08/23 09:00 AM
1

I am a little confused about the example statement. Example of what exactly? Yes I do acknowledge white men are treated like the problem even more so. Men in general are treated like they are monster which is not the case. But I am saying as a white woman who has experienced this that as a white person in general you will be seen as a supremacist.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 08:38 AM
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Of course🥰. That is my hope too.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 08:31 AM
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First off I would like to say as a woman that kind of content does not make me think less of men and actually infuriates me to no end. For a while I asked the same question to myself because it gets on my nerves and gets me down when I see others being treated poorly like that. A lot of the time I think of my dad when I see how men are portrayed. I think about how angry and hurt he must be to constantly have that stuff thrown at him since my eldest sister is a feminist and is disrespectful. I re…
/r/MensRights16/08/23 05:29 AM
3

I never heard him say that.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:46 AM
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They definitely should not get priority hiring. The best person for the job should get it. Basing it on physicality is a foolish man’s game as the saying goes.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:05 AM
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You don’t have to be mean. I obviously didn’t know. If someone doesn’t know something you should politely tell them. Pls be more respectful in the future.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:48 AM
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Why wouldn’t I? I believe in people, I believe they can change and be better. The only way you can see change is if you are the change. You must work inward to reach the outward.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:25 AM
3

So many deaths😢 This is so sad there are so many suffering, all alone, they need someone
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:23 AM
1

Wait why? What did I say?
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:21 AM
1

Oh😳…thank you🥰
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:19 AM
2

Oohh I see! I can’t imagine giving up on my beloved country. We are America, the home of the free and the brave. I want us to become brave once again and FIGHT for this country. I ain’t letting it go down. They can cancel me if they want, I am not giving up. We WILL get better. In God I trust.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:16 AM
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Even though there is division I think deep down you guys care very much about each other. There are always gonna be different views in the world. As long as they do no harm to others I think it is okay. A man choosing to never marry does not harm anyone, just as a man wanting a family does not either (this can apply to a woman too). Everyone has their own path to walk and I pray that we find our way.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 03:10 AM
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It’s okay, darling. We all go through it. Just focus on yourself right now. Let God bring her to you and be certain on what you want in her and the boundaries you have. You need to be content with yourself first before bringing someone else in the picture with you.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 02:57 AM
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You have a strong sense of right and wrong. A good back bone. I hope you do well in life.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 02:55 AM
2

Just use good character judgement and talk about what you guys want in life early on. That way your are not in a one or two year relationship and find out there are huge dealbreakers.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 02:54 AM
3

Oh no I know what he means. My dad knew a few people who married someone from across the seas and brought them back. Those women ended up divorcing them because they were just using them to get to America. It is not like it’s impossible. But it is the same thing were you need to make sure they have a good character. No matter where you go their are people who will take advantage of you. So just be careful, sir.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 02:52 AM
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Perfectly said
/r/MensRights16/08/23 02:49 AM
2

You good sir have an amazing head on your shoulders. Amazing advice might I say 😌
/r/MensRights16/08/23 02:48 AM
4

Hey kid, don’t give up, all hope is not lost. We have to fight for each other, fight for the America that our parents grew up. I know I am going to. I am a 20 year old female and I am going to college for psychology. I want to help marriages so that people can learn to communicate with each other. I want to support and push to be an inspiration that will drive men and women to be there for one another. One day I will create a men’s Mental Health Department, Hotline and clinic. When I get older a…
/r/MensRights16/08/23 02:38 AM
2

I think Jordan Peterson is more of a typical psychologist where he holds both parties admirable. He is very smart and admirable. He very much cares for young men.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 02:18 AM
1

Does he ever say farewell🤭
/r/MensRights16/08/23 02:15 AM
1

💀I-I GOERGE WASHINGTON! Mwahahahaha!😈 He is definitely alive today mhm mhm I don’t recall him from history at all. Do you? Naahhh! He is the greatest activist of all time🥹
/r/MensRights16/08/23 02:11 AM
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So just cause you see a father and daughter together it is pedophelia, not to mention incest. Wow what a world we are living in now💀. Only a decade ago this would be an unimaginable assumption to make and seen as outrageous. Now it is normal, like seriously what the hell!
/r/MensRights16/08/23 02:01 AM
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I can’t imagine what it is like that all men want is for women to love them, to be raised to want it, and they reject even the thought of wanting them to exist. That’s so sad because I possible can’t see why women wouldn’t love men the way men love us. We are supposed to lean on each other not tear each other down. Are we not meant to protect each other, men safe guard women from danger and women create a safe haven for a man to come to.😢 That’s so awful, I feel bad that there are men so hurt an…
/r/MensRights16/08/23 01:41 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/MensRights16/08/23 12:54 AM
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For the longest time I struggled wanting to be a welder or car mechanic because I love getting my hands dirty plus they make a lot, but I keep being pushed toward a psychologist, sexology (this is used in marriage counseling, also I talked to a sexologist once about sexless marriages and found it sad/interesting. I would like to learn more about it and use it to help and in a way better myself for the day I ever get married), and child education. It something that worries and bothers me everyday…
/r/MensRights16/08/23 12:49 AM
1

I don’t see anything wrong with the man staying at home homeschooling the kids and taking care of the house if that is what the couple wants. Each to their own.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 12:41 AM
1

What happened to the other comment?😂
/r/MensRights15/08/23 08:33 PM
2

My fellow Christian! Hhiiii!😆
/r/MensRights15/08/23 08:19 PM
2

This comment is confusing to me. Is that sarcasm😃 or am I just stupid 🥴
/r/MensRights15/08/23 08:18 PM
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To hell! That is not the way we are treated. I have never seen a average woman be treated as bad as the kens were. That movie was awful. Plus I think when it was about the traditional family unit both the men and women were happy. The men did not feel lonely, God bless, and the women had purpose and love for their men. What is so wrong with that? There is nothing wrong with it, but feminists want to destroy the family unit. Well I will not have it, men and women need each other. We are both valu…
/r/MensRights15/08/23 08:16 PM
1

I agree.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 08:11 PM
2

Oh and thank you for your enthusiasm. I hope I can really make it work.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 08:10 PM
1

That’s okay☺️. I honestly am worried about it though because I am very bad at the law part. You kinda need to know that too. I didn’t know what alimony was till senior year, I thought it was some kinda song or maybe moaning😭. I walked into the room and told my dad it sounded nice, what is it. He started to laugh and explained it then I was like “well that doesn’t sound so nice! Why in the world are you paying for someone to break their vow?!” 😂. I also just started learning about the court syste…
/r/MensRights15/08/23 08:09 PM
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We need to protect them like they are our sons, brothers or fathers! Men’s rights is also nothing like mgtow. And I don’t know what the red pill thing is.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 07:53 PM
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😂 yes. Well pro life and body choice are the exact opposite. But I get your point. Lumping groups, even just people, together is not a bright idea.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 07:51 PM
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Jordan Peterson is awesome.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 07:49 PM
6

What is red pill?
/r/MensRights15/08/23 07:46 PM
1

Asking what you bring to the table man or woman is stupid. People lie. How about you use your insight of character like a normal person and figure out weather they are worth your time. I don’t know what is going on in men’s and woman’s heads these days. You bring to the table who you are, if you don’t like that then leave. A relationship is not a business transaction, it is a team effort, a partnership. Two people coming together loving and working on each other, using each others strengths and …
/r/MensRights15/08/23 07:23 PM
1

Pretty sure it means your taking the toll of somebody else’s emotions. Usually psychologist are considered emotional labor because it is very draining and exhausting. Those women are using it wrong.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 06:26 PM
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Of course. I am not the only one too. My two friends who are around my age see it and some of my older friends are worried about men’s mental health in America. Me and my coworker/friend are constantly talking about the poor condition America is in for men from the way they are treated to the way they are seen.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 06:16 PM
1

That’s messed up! No one should hit another person. I am sorry they do that, could you grab their wrist to stop them and tell them to not touch you.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 05:52 PM
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Yeah…I know😔
/r/MensRights15/08/23 05:50 PM
1

Oh no, I meant eventually once I get my degree I want to open up a men’s mental health department
/r/MensRights15/08/23 05:49 PM
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Thank you that helped a lot!
/r/MensRights15/08/23 07:04 AM
1

Oh I meant the unconditionally respected. Sorry I didn’t clarify. Attacked? How? By how I mean in what way? Sorry I am not trying to make it sound like I doubt you, I am just curious, but if you are not comfortable telling that’s okay.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 06:51 AM
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I can’t imagine not feeling love toward someone even if you don’t know them. The want to see them happy simply because they are a precious human being. I hate seeing others suffer, it tears me to shreds to here some men’s stories. I think men are great and phenomenal. A precious part of our society. I simply can’t understand how we have so little compassion today. Even without religious morals how can it be this bad. It is not right 😔 Personally I feel very protective over guy friends, male fami…
/r/MensRights15/08/23 04:35 AM
0

I guess I am the opposite of that then.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 04:31 AM
1

The poor men😥. I hope that vile monster is behind bars now😡. No one deserves to be violated and experience such a atrocity💔🥺
/r/MensRights15/08/23 04:24 AM
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Your first mistake was doing online dating, sweety. That’s not a good idea, most people on dating apps are not the best. I suggest getting to know the people you meet in person and go from there. As far as the money that just depends on what you want to do, but I am telling you if you already have gotten to know each other a little without dating on mind then go for it. My first date was at a nature preserve. I prefer nature over a restaurant date any day. Picnics too, I love picnics.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 04:04 AM
2

Oh my gosh! I am so sorry. Have you been able to find out where your children are? Are you okay?
/r/MensRights15/08/23 03:58 AM
1

Well hopefully I can change that soon. If you can give me pointers, sir?
/r/MensRights15/08/23 03:46 AM
2

Oh no! Oh hell no, fuck feminism! I might only be 20, but I have a goddamn brain that Christ gave me. I ain’t about to get brainwashed by some stupid Barbie movie and the joke Disney is. Screw that! Bring back the traditional family😤 Sorry for the cussing🥲
/r/MensRights15/08/23 03:44 AM
2

Men are the best😭! So sweet! He needed a hug when he got home😭 I remember when my dad would get home late at 5 (he left for work at 5am too) and my mom would still be doing our homeschooling with me. I would hear the front door completely interrupt my mom with the lesson run out and yell “daddy!” as I hugged him. Then I wouldn’t let go and hold onto his leg. At that point my mom could not get me back to do homework. I would sit on my dad’s lap and we would watch history shows together or somethi…
/r/MensRights15/08/23 02:46 AM
1

Men are not monsters in the slightest, some of them are the biggest sweethearts you’ll ever meet. I agree I am more irritate-able every time I see a woman make a comment about men being horrid on social media while she might as well be Carella Deville. Also society would fall apart if we did not have men. Men are probably the most important part of the family dynamic and society because they are the leaders. They have an amazing natural instinct to protect which makes them suited in so many ways…
/r/MensRights15/08/23 02:36 AM
1

I was raised to just be respectful. It was never about gender.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 02:32 AM
1

I’ve never heard that in my life
/r/MensRights15/08/23 02:26 AM
1

Men go there own way. It is about walking away from marriage and relationships with women. I do not agree with it or feminism. They are driving us apart. I do not want to be driven apart. I am worried.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 02:25 AM
1

I’m sorry your dad never played with you. I hope you are doing well.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 02:23 AM
2

I want that to change. We can make it change. For our children. One day I will have kids and I want my sons to be cherished the way my daughters would be. I want everyone to value each other and cherish one another.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 02:21 AM
1

That’s not true. I care, God cares, you guys aren’t alone. We are here, we all can be here for each other. Men are important, you guys are our fathers, brothers and friends. We need you.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 02:19 AM
1

This is not what I was expecting 😭 what the hell is this?! And how is that a good thing?
/r/MensRights15/08/23 01:52 AM
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I am not a man, but yes I notice it. I am very concerned for them. I think they are scared and made to feel worthless by our society of today so they are giving up on themselves. We need to fight for them. I don’t really know how, but kindness can never go wrong. Please be there to support your friends. And if you ever need help don’t be ashamed to ask. Men have it harder now because now women treating men like dirt is seen as empowering, the court system has them terrified of the idea of marria…
/r/MensRights15/08/23 01:44 AM
1

Dear lord! Americans are so obsessed with being victims it is so annoying. Actually Europe is supposed to be just as bad.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 01:06 AM
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Okay so what? They chose that life, that’s on them. Why the hell do they expect to get payed when they haven’t been working? They could choose to be at home with the child or not, that’s on them. A company wants the most qualified, that is reality. If you don’t have the years then they probably will not want you that’s no one’s fault, don’t blame them for what is fair just because you chose something else. These women who complain about this don’t even stay home with their kids or long or even h…
/r/MensRights14/08/23 09:29 PM
2

I am so sorry. I hope if they didn’t apologize that at least you found peace.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 07:58 PM
1

What is biotech? What do you do in it?
/r/MensRights14/08/23 05:35 PM
1

I am happy you are getting out of there. I am so sorry you gotta go through this, it just isn’t right.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 05:34 PM
1

You poor thing😥. I am so sorry this happened to you, sweetheart. You need to leave or at the least demand respect. She is interrupting you and discriminating against you. That is not right, no one deserves that. You need to find a better job and report her.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 05:32 PM
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No one treats white women as we are angels. Actually we are usually treated like we are the problem along with white men (do to racial issues). You know “white people are the root of all evil” none sense. I would say your just at a disadvantage being white, but the men have it worse since they seem to find more stuff to attack them with. Such are the democrats. I get a lot of feminists calling me a supremacists or racist. They will use anything. I have been called cum, paste, white bi**h. I was …
/r/MensRights14/08/23 05:14 PM
2

Motherhood penalty 💀, what is that?
/r/MensRights14/08/23 03:39 PM
3

I love this comment it holds so much truth🙌🏻
/r/MensRights14/08/23 10:14 AM
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Sad thing about this is that this is ignored when the “wage gap” is brought up
/r/MensRights14/08/23 08:22 AM
1

Nnnoooo! Don’t say that!
/r/MensRights14/08/23 08:19 AM
2

😂😂👌🏻perfect sarcasm
/r/MensRights14/08/23 08:19 AM
1

That’s so messed up. As humans we all have the capability to be greedy. No one gender is more greedy then another. It is about character.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 07:43 AM
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Darling, I am sorry to say this, but if you want them to be your friends they need to RESPECT YOUR point of view too. If you are always agreeable you never know who your true friends are, there is an advantage to being disagreeable. You said it is not like you to not say anything, then don’t do that and say something. You can be respectful and talk about your point of view. Sadly you are right misandry/sleeping around has become common place in society now. The sexism is revolting I agree. I am …
/r/MensRights14/08/23 07:41 AM
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Sir, no woman should treat you with such disrespect. Pls leave her, she does not care for you as a person.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 07:31 AM
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