I know this question does not get asked enough with actual genuine care. I remember once someone asked me how I was doing and I said “oh not that great” they responded “you know when people ask you that they don’t actually want to hear how you are doing, your just supposed to say good”. It was a depressing situation like many others I have had. I felt humiliated, so I told my self if I ever ask that question no matter what I am gonna be encouraging.

I will listen when you need it.