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Please develop I will buy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:27 AM
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Jokes on him the garden has been properly aerated from all that movement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:32 AM
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It all boils down the the mental health of the individual. There would be no need for any individual to seek this kind of content if they were fulfilled in their own lives. When boundaries and standards aren't taught in schools, or by parents, about human decency, this is the result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:12 AM
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This is the most unattractive trait for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:24 AM
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Everything else aside her outfit and hair are fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:15 AM
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Too much screen time, tv show and movie watching is a cause of Dissociative Identity Disorder too. DID could mean many things, one is blending reality with fiction. It's more popular than people think, and I highly recommend doing research on the topic! It's super interesting if you don't think about the real life impact. Ex. Is the famous internet cat killer/murderer I will leave unnamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:53 AM
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Him "Why would I marry someone who already acts like my wife and potentially risk losing my freedom and income while I wait for my dream girl to land in my lap?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:17 AM
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It's a day they actually have to think about someone other than themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:07 AM
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I have the same diagnoses but work every day to fix myself and avoid as many people as possible until I can control my emotions and thoughts. Although some terrible therapists/doctors caused more trauma in some sessions, the content given to me on paper was invaluable. To anyone else suffering from these diagnoses....there is a way out, you can control your own brain!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:39 PM
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2 Woman (totally brainwashed by the patriarchy) doctors minimized my assault. Vet all doctors before telling them anything, just because she's a woman...doesn't mean she'll care. Doctors are still business men at the end of the day that make $$ per appointment now, so a lot of them who are money hungry will try to stretch out the number of appointments as much as they can, so they give you little to no answers in the first few sessions. Vet everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:39 PM
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I think in this case and in that time, alcohol and smoking were so normalized that it's believable enough for her character to abuse them. Personally, I went through a wild binger all by myself in my apartment a couple times due to having no one to connect to. To each their own, drugs don't differ because of your gender. If someone wants to escape, they'll escape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:51 PM
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Are you freaking kidding me, what about Hedy Lamarr???? An beautiful actor and the actual inventor of wifi technology and a plethora of other achievements??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:48 PM
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I've been there. Stay strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:26 PM
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Give yourself some time to process the break up. He sounds like a bullet dodged. Read the handbook!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:22 PM
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18 and 14. Wow. Great how a law protects literal pedophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:07 AM
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Thank you! I'm grateful for where I'm at. Unless families start living in the off-grid woods or something there's literally no avoiding porn. It's everywhere. And yeah, I was the same way, thought I had to act like a porn star for a guy to want to stay with me. Glad those days are over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:38 PM
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Trigger Warning ** It's really sad how the patriarchy affects everyone. An 8 yr old boy has no idea the damage that could do to his brain, let alone an 8 yr old boy with no proper guidance from his parents. The entire situation is sad. It's child abuse for an underaged person to view pornography. I sincerely wish him the best and hope he heals from his past traumas, just without me as his therapist. He ended up sexually abusing me as a result, forced me to have sex with him on my period which wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:23 PM
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I'm a bird, I'm a boss, I'm a bird, and a boss, and I shine like gloss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:17 PM
3

Wow thanks that means a lot <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 10:41 PM
5

Remove "It may sound silly,", and keep "My cat of 12 years..." :) No more doubt even if it's just a reddit comment. My pickme friends did the same thing, I had to filter who would stay in my life by telling them i'm making major changes. One of them straight up laughed (she's living with a balding fat confederate flag flying redneck), I hung up and blocked. Another was on the same page but couldn't leave her lvm, she didn't laugh at me but was curious why I wanted to level up. She make serious $…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:19 PM
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Well to be honest it broke me. I was alone in my own apartment at the time and was reading the handbook. Every word resonated. I was in shock, I cried for days. I was so angry at my parents who completely failed me. Then I realized it wasn't them that failed, it was their parents that failed them. But it wasn't all my grandparents fault, it's the whole system. Patriarchy is global. My parents are from 2 different countries, it's all the same men are better bullshit. I used this knowledge to help…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:10 PM
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No angry. No explain. Leave only. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:02 AM
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If I decide to have kids....we're going to the woods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:17 PM
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Remember when fashion magazines were just about fashion? Pepperidge farm remembers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:16 PM
3

a fucking pinprick worth of splooge and 2.5 minutes I can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:57 PM
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REMEMBER LADIES, BEETHOVEN WAS DEAF AND STILL WROTE MASTERPIECES. NO EXCUSES!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:41 PM
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LOL GIRL JUST BUY IT YOURSELF even at full price!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:40 PM
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LOL HE'S STILL BOASTING ABOUT HIS HIGH SCHOOL ACHIEVEMENTS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:37 PM
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Leave if you can. If you're over 18, just go. Cut contact. Change your number. I know it's a pandemic but people are still renting out their places and being safe about it. If you're not 18. Start planning for when you are. Get a job, start looking at neighbourhoods you like. Imagine what kind of lifestyle you want, and GO FOR IT. Save up for freedom! Focus all your time and energy on that. During this time, placate her as much as you can when she's being un-motherly. Keep a journal or blog with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:54 PM
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When our fathers fail us. (No hate, mine failed me too)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:26 PM
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And when you're routinely treated like an idiot, you begin to internalize it. The patriarchy banks on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:25 PM
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Send this to every girl and woman you know. THIS is why this sub exists, amongst many other reasons. Men like this, you have no idea what you're missing out on in life. You could travel the world with that money, go to historic places, learn about other civilizations, but no. You're so insecure with yourself you need to demean and control someone you think is lesser than you. Do us all a favor and don't procreate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:41 PM
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There are still plenty of HVM that would prefer a HVW who has a manageable illness over a pickme any day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:08 AM
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The fact there's a subreddit called breakingmom and not one called breakingdad says a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:38 PM
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I'm in the same boat. Practice patience with yourself, it was never your fault no matter what ANYONE says.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:45 AM
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The date lasted from 8pm to 12am. Yes I spent 4hrs with this dude because I DidNt WaNt tO bE rUdE. Hahaha good times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:37 AM
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k
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:33 AM
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I'm now selling Scrote-Be-Gone, it's spray that shoots up to 6ft so you can spray 'em as you spot 'em. It's composed of self awareness, responsibility and commitment. It smells like his Father's accomplishments. It also has a button which emits a high pitched harpy-like screech, in case your scrote didn't get why you sprayed him. (This is a common occurrence)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:30 AM
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YUP. I thought, oh he's from France, they're more blunt? Hahahaha! But even being a pickme I texted him immediately after the date saying that I felt %0 chemistry, and blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:15 AM
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Haha story time! YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. Here's what happened to me for waiting: I stayed over an hour waiting for a guy in my pickme days. Because he went to wrong location with the same name. I was like okay, no worries everyone messes up! He then split the bill, and I paid $42 for waiting for an hour and a man that later pinched my ankle and called me fat. Throughout the night he kept making an imaginary checklist with his hands and "checking off" all my "qualities". You know, cooking qualit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:51 PM
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Exactly. HVM want to take care of their HVW!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:39 PM
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"If I was in a forest would I care" is what I ask myself when I'm self conscious! I carry the same mindset! As long as I think i'm beautiful, why must I convince anyone else? I'm enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:41 PM
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What I wish I knew as a teenager: Not all of us are meant to be or have to be in a relationship. Not everyone has a soulmate like Disney tells you. People are chameleons. The sooner you realize this the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:17 PM
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I like to serve good people wonderful food that I've cooked because I love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 08:28 PM
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e x q u i s i t e
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 06:05 PM
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Reading the title fast I was preparing myself for a lost baggage reclaim story lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:56 PM
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boy bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:30 PM
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It was a combination of an unearned sense of superiority, unnecessary oppositional behavior, and inexplicable misdirected hostility, all poorly concealed under a thin veil of self-serving liberalism. EVERY. SINGLE. PHIL. MAJOR. EVER. You sound like a real goddamned free thinking person, loved your post, saved it so I can picture you slamming your drink down and leaving. What a move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:12 AM
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Avoid phil majors in general, I swear it's the surefire way to become the asshole in the room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:06 AM
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I agree, I read some of these stories with my girlfriends lates one night. 10 Most Wanted Criminals wanted by the FBI Some of them get away too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:42 PM
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He is the type to need to see that yes! I have been a financial queen so my cc limits are high enough to play around with :P I will make sure to check the cancellation policies for the furniture companies before clicking order so I don't put myself in worse place. Wow this was great to plan but DAMN I can't wait to be truly carefree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:51 PM
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K I hatched a plan. I will buy new furniture online with him as a "joint decision", immediately cancel the order after he sees I bought it. Have him help me sell my nice furniture. (And he won't throw I fuss if he figures out i'm leaving because he'll think "she just spent so much $$ on new furniture, she'll be back." But he wrong, I'm gone. I got till nov 1st so this could work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:11 PM
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yoooooooooo...damn i wish i was more petty like that....he did cheat on me with ten different pickmes...hmmmmmm decisions decisions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:55 PM
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Come through like this but with heels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:41 PM
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Nothing he can do I have all the receipts under my name!! He can buy whatever he wants when i'm gone lol. If it sells great, if it doesn't, great! Just a cash bonus for me at this point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:35 PM
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It's amazing what happens with a smile (even under my mask). Ever since I started dressing better and paying attention to details and warmly greeting people first, it's like the whole mood of the place changes and people are happy to help me! So important to dress the part when your face is half covered nowadays! People want to help people that look like they would appreciate their help and, in return, share their appreciation for the help!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:32 PM
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same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:25 PM
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I thought about it! He has no job and lives off daddy's pocket so he never leaves....literally never leaves. But even if I could, I want to start fresh with my own furniture! All my choices were impacted by his shittiness that I don't even care about the small chunk of change I've lost in the bigger scheme of things :) edit: actually....there's nothing he can do if i choose to sell them...haha i'll post some on craigslist and see what happens, if he asks i'll just tell him "YoU dEsErVe BeTTeR fU…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:25 PM
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Yes!!! I have already donated %90 of my wardrobe and HE HAS NOT NOTICED THAT MY CLOTHES ARE MISSING LOL!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:21 PM
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GIRL IM DOING THIS NOW HE HAS NO IDEA but I have to wait t'ill nov 1st!! He thinks he has me chained because of the nice furniture I bought but... honestly I see it as a loss and a lesson to not buy furniture until I build my own house and settle in it. I am becoming a minimalist and living out of my suitcase for a bit! (Something i've always wanted to try)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:05 PM
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dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:50 PM
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Same girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:35 PM
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Yes! He's so reliable and useful. Always here for me when I need him. Always carries my stuff too. He's so strong, and can lift more than he looks like he can, so he really surprised me when carried 3 watermelons and a 24 pack of fresca. this is him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:01 AM
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Here's an artist that answered that question by creating the vagina wall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:31 AM
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They're portraying this perfect woman as the cure, as though only the perfect one can cure them...of themselves. Which sucks because there is no perfect woman, this is damaging for a young girl/boy to be bombarded with their whole lives. Don't be perfect ladies, be yourself. If you try to save him, you will fail. We all can only save ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:18 AM
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I hope he has learnt from this moment, for the greater good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:51 PM
9

Breakfast for him though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:44 AM
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Wayyyyy back when in my pickme days, a guy texted me 1 hr before our date at red lobster (-_-) if he could be an hour late...because he needed to shower...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:42 AM
2

Celebrate that you'll never do any of that again and that you've found your way out of pickmetown. Every time you cringe try to remind yourself to think of the boss you'll become. It was like that for me too, soo many cringy flashbacks, but I just force myself to envision my future without that noise. Picture yourself after all your upgrading :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:39 AM
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He exploits vulnerable people for $$$. No hv psychiatrist will ever back him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:26 PM
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lvm & pickmes form a huge industry huh...talk shows, clothes, makeup, alcohol, drugs, festivals, concerts, cars, phones....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:24 PM
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YES YES YES YES YES YES I LOVE YOU!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:16 PM
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This describes my gorgeous pick me friend perfectly lol. She brought her beautiful bed sheets to his place....he's 50+ with kids and said he left his then wife because "all she did was watch tv." And he gave my friend herpes. And he's ugly and dusty af and was eyeing ME behind her back AND FLIRTING WITH ANOTHER GIRL RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER. I tried to get her on the FDS train but she's still stuck in her pickme ways....I wish her the best! Sucks because I really thought more of her! :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:12 PM
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Me, sitting here thinking back on my $200 sushi first date with a well established man who gracefully thanked me for my time, and accepted when I told him at the end of the date that I had a nice time but didn't think we were on the same life course. Still paid for my taxi home....Boy level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:02 PM
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Wow what a story, thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:02 PM
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YESSSS AT ALL OF THEM I AM GREEN FLAG GLEEING WITH JOY What a nice caring man! This is a genuine nice guy before that term got ruined!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:01 PM
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Honestly girl just scrub anything that identifies you as a woman online, nothing good will come of it. All my handles are neutral and non-gender identifying. I get no messages!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:56 PM
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I am so glad I didn't have any babies in my long term forever girlfriend scrote relationships. oh. my god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:52 PM
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Girl you sound bored and lonely, which we all are! Every time I want to text an ex, I can't cause I deleted all social media and all phone numbers from my phone! I AM FREE. My phone is literally a blank canvas reserved for my most loyal high value friends. When I feel bored and lonely, I go to the dollar store to get some cheap molding clay and make tiny sculptures. $2 to preserve myself, a great deal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:48 PM
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Yeah if I hear that, you're blocked on the way out. Means he's still stuck being a boy being torn away from the ball pit/playground/toy r us. Noooo moooooommmm! Please 5 more minutes? EW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:41 PM
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Me in photos before FDS! Totally dead and lost, but now i'm single, vibrant, and full of life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:37 PM
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BOY BYE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:34 PM
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Amen LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:30 PM
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Unlike those women who DRIVE A PRIUS LOL, I can CHANGE A TIRE. BET YOU CAN'T STEAL THIS! HAHA WHAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:30 PM
10

HA been there done that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:25 PM
4

suspish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:26 PM
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I'm instantly in love with her, thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:26 PM
5

please watch this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:24 PM
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KELLY STAMPS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:23 PM
2

SAME! I AM FREE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:29 AM
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I'm just happy to be alive and healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:30 PM
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Wow i'm so fucking glad i found this sub lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:44 PM
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Okay...go chill for an hour then go back to real life then? Wtf? Fine he's "burnt out" but honestly how much recovery time do you need? If he didn't have a family he could chill his whole life away but his wife and kids are being negatively affected by his behaviour and he still wants to chill?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:33 PM
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I AM THE SUNSHINE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:26 PM
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Trigger Warning but Happy Ending I sat through my grief, sadness, anger, and rage, for weeks. The first 5 days, I was so depressed, crying so hard that salt came out of my eyes. White powdery salt, my cheeks were red and my lips totally swollen for these days. I had to force feed myself. I had no appetite, but I knew that this was just my body's response to being fucked with for far too long. Fucked with for far too long, and I could of done something about it if I knew all this? Ugh. The initia…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:54 PM
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I just get up and leave without saying anything. Practice at home for former pickme recovery, it's hard to do it in the moment when you haven't practiced. Sit in a chair and get up and walk, sit in chair and get up and walk, SIT IN CHAIR AND GET UP AND WALK. Put on an annoying youtuber and sit in front of it then close it and get up and walk away. **edit: Hmm well if you don't want to lose your seat in the show, I would suggest saying "Thank you for your company, but I scheduled this evening to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:14 PM
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QUEEN STRATEGIES!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:58 AM
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Interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:18 PM
3

Sometimes small towns are super trusting and have a huge sense of community so it's easier to say yes because you feel a bit more protected than you would in a big city.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:35 PM
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Smh = "So much ham" he's mad because he had a lot of ham he didn't get to share with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:23 PM
2

QUEEN SHIT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:12 PM
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YES I LOVE IT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:58 AM
7

QUEEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:37 AM
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HOW DO WE SEND HER OUR COMMENTS SO SHE CAN LAUGH THIS WHOLE THING OFF? THIS IS EXACTLY HOW A PERSON'S SELF ESTEEM STARTS TO CRUMBLE!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:32 PM
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There's that famous saying "boys will be boys", I prefer, "fools will be fools". Although "boys will be boys" is so true, my naive former self had to live it to realize it. Porn is expanding the fool pool. But, I have faith in those that can recognize their own foolishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:52 PM
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"but there's no debating people who've decided their way of thinking is correct." YES. THIS APPLIES TO EVERYONE!!! There's also no changing someone who hasn't realized they need to change! You can't change or argue with anyone who is completely satisfied with their lives in any form!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:44 PM
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Old pick me me: Okay well maybe his birthday isn't a big deal to him! After FDS: If his birthday wasn't a big deal to him then he wouldn't of mentioned it was his birthday to add more pressure on you to "give him a good birthday". He really said he has no plans anyways? PffFFFFT he sounds lonely and bored and wants a beautiful woman to entertain him on his birthday. Boy bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:00 PM
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Because he has no self worth, you ain't the only one he's bugging, I %100 guarantee that! GOOD RIDDANCE QUEEN!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:22 PM
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Still peeved that the main rich "hvm" husband dude Nick didn't tell the love of his life, Rachel, any of this shit before he put her on a plane to visit his entire family and warn her of the shit they could pull. Like oh he's rich so he was just protecting himself? Yeah right his character could already sift through the pickmes, why did he keep all that from Rachel then? And then...Rachel ended up fixing all the problems by herself? What kind of message is this sending to impressionable people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:38 PM
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"He drove me home erratically and speeding," Why do people feel they have the right to do this at all? Endangering themselves, you, and all the other people on the road because of what? Hurt feelings? Grow the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:32 PM
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QUEEN!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:29 PM
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It's like their subconscious is trying to tell them to clean up their act lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:04 PM
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"They don't know all our tricks yet."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:03 PM
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There are some messed up people in the medical field....One doctor asked me in the hospital if I'd like to come home with him so he could take "nice" pictures of me. I complained to a nurse and she didn't believe me, told me to stop smoking dope. I wasn't smoking anything...I was there for a broken arm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:59 PM
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Sometimes it takes time for someone to come around. When you're training to be an acrobat at age 20, you'll need to stretch and practice everyday for many years to get to the level of acrobats that have been training since they were 5yrs old. When someone's trapped in a toxic mindset for so long...some their entire lives, it's hard to change. I applaud everyone who's trying to level up out of toxicity, women and men included. It's a rough and long road but, being proud of who you are, is better …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:57 PM
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If your richer parents pay for your whole life, and you've never had to deal with "no", you have no say in the type of person you end up being or woman you end up with. Hell even if they pay for part of it, like a new car (but you pay insurance and gas!!) or a new apartment (but you pay the rent and bought the furniture!!) NO. You're a man child and will always be as long as your parents still buy you shit. Buy your own shit you can afford with your own money you made, you popcorn shrimp eating …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:50 PM
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They only want to do anal because it's not meant to be done. That's all it stems from...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:42 PM
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Same. I look polished and like I have my shit together, but in reality i've been abused for years in all sorts of ways. Similar to yours. I would recommend listening to yourself, your inner self, of what you truly want out of life, then focusing all your energy on that. That rage inside will turn into powerful good vibes one day. Keep reading the handbook and maintain your body and mind for healing. Keep eating healthy and keep up good habits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:13 AM
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Live the life you want one step at a time. Learn the things you want to learn constantly and consistently. Memorize the handbook. Your future will become your present if you let it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:05 AM
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This is critical information that is rarely talked about. Men go through this too. Some people get stuck in old mindsets/trauma loops they can't get out without this information being shared. Wishing well to everyone on their journey of healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:41 PM
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I did this for a friend's birthday. We had a whole spa day and I pampered her all day. Gave her a facial, a haircut, a dye job, a manicure and pedicure. She took me out twice after to nice restaurants and had drinks on a local beach. I gave my ex a blowjob and he cheated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:17 PM
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Those 11 year old actors...I hope they get future therapy. if they choose to seek it and if it's needed. In an ideal world this movie and many others wouldn't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:08 PM
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Forgot the duvet cover, did he tuck the raw duvet into the bed? Hey he's trying! Just a few more youtube home decor videos and he'll get there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 09:58 PM
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$0.99
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 09:53 PM
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penis deletus if you delete the penis is he still worth it? the answer is no. Congratulations, now you can find a penis attached to an actual decent & useful human being on this earth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:17 PM
1

Doesn't get simpler than this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:54 PM
40

Nobody wants hot dog on ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:25 PM
1

THIS COMMENT!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:16 PM
2

It sucks because omegle is actually such a cool idea...if only creeps didn't ruin it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:15 PM
39

She's gorgeous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:13 PM
2

I exist in a different realm, small talk doesn't happen anymore :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:04 PM
16

Open gate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:52 PM
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Pfft my fully covered headscarf and all muslim friends get hit on by muslim men all the time....It ain't the clothes. And even by non-muslim men.... Some comments my friends have told me: "Oooo I wonder what you're hiding under there" "Are you sexy under there?" "Are you a virgin under there?" EDIT: This comment is getting a lot of attention so here's more crap that has happened... One of my fully covered muslim friends got her hijab yanked off by a man in public. Police report and everything. W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:09 PM
3

well that's a hasty generalization if i've ever seen one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:59 PM
3

You: "I can't swim." Him: "Come swimming with me." You: .... Lifeguard: blows whistle "Sorry, he's over the audacity limit of 1, please leave."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:08 AM
15

Yup! My breasts are uneven due to an eating disorder when I was younger. Which was prompted by abusive parents, which was prompted by their abusive parents...Which was prompted by theirs....which started because of mass corruption and the whole darn patriarchy...so why the fuck am I going to pay $$$ to "fix" them? I didn't think they were ugly until I started browsing social media....created by men.... I could invest that $$$ in my community or start a business! And note that most plastic surgeo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:15 PM
8

I've been doing this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3e_eUd9h83A to greet people and it gets the warmest reaction! People are taken aback in a good way because it's so peaceful and respectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:02 PM
7

what the fook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:18 AM
1

YES!! IT'S LIKE STRETCHING A MUSCLE I'VE NEVER STRETCHED BEFORE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:10 AM
3

%9000
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:08 AM
5

QUEEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:45 AM
14

b r u h
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:08 AM
95

Yes, and to check out your body and "show off" their body lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:38 AM
4

Born ugly? Ew! Get plastic surgery! Wear makeup, ew not that much makeup, are you trying to be pretty or something? Desperate whore. Born pretty? What a bitch! She probably got plastic surgery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:36 AM
5

"Omg. You didn't reveal to me you were underaged, I don't date children. But, if your mother needs a day off, give her my number so we can talk babysitting rates."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:59 AM
20

ME AT THE GROCERY STORE TODAY ME EVERYDAY ME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:35 AM
1

I was in the same rut. I date 2 hrs max when I start getting feelings. Then I save the gushyness/anxiousness until I get home. I walk through my door and explode all my emotions outloud, I talk it out, to let it out. Then on the next date, stone cold. Works like a charm (for me) but takes practice and patience. Once I feel more balanced again, I find that I need to do this emotional explosion less. It's not about hiding your emotions, it's about exposing them to the right people at the right tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:29 AM
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They actually named it "Ms Right"... Burrell Communications Group on wiki: "The company was established with the intention of forging an authentic and respectful relationship with the African-American consumer, and to tap into how the black aesthetic could also appeal to the general market consumer." So a well respected company is doing this? A bunch of people gathered and felt that this was it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:41 AM
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Learn about the whole car! I'm car shopping and wow there's a lot of messed up crap from automakers that get glazed over or just left unchanged for the next models! The more you know, the less a LVM mechanic can ruin your life or bank account. Change your own oil! Change your own fluids. Buy a scan tool and learn how to read car problems! Learn stick! Don't you want to be able to hop in any car, say in Italy or Cuba and be able to drive? I sure do! https://www.carproblemzoo.com Is great for read…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:03 PM
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