What... the FuCK? 🤡😳

saltedjellybear · 2020-11-30T00:54:05+00:00

Again another man who only considers his pleasure. Don't men have sex for the pleasure of/passion/connection with their partners? This subreddit can be a very upsetting eye opener, lol

jgtjc · 2020-11-29T23:57:40+00:00

All too common in today’s age. At least he was honest. No real life woman can please him, now. He’s damaged pornsick goods. I just can’t believe it only took a few weeks to get this bad. Wow. If a guy consistently isn’t tripping over himself to have sex with you when you offer, unless he’s sick, it’s game over.

2020-11-30T00:03:46+00:00

Why do women entertain jokers like this? Call them their boyfriend? The fuck?

Careful who you sleep with. You’ll catch feelings and stay with a loser like this trying to “fix the problem”.

meshellella · 2020-11-30T00:21:20+00:00

Dude has an addiction and gaslighting you into thinking you’re the problem. Get the hell out of there.

Ready4theRapture · 2020-11-30T00:30:08+00:00

If we haven't had sex in a while, my vagina literally feels like it's going to tear when we have sex again because my vagina just naturally tightens and contracts and kind of shuts herself off, but he says it feels great for him (which I believe). So I know that that's not the problem.

Well, as long as he feels great. Totally not a problem /s

OMG I hope this is fake. This woman is looooooooost. She has no issue with the fact that he treats her like a sex toy and takes pleasure in her pain, she's mad that her services are no longer required. She still hasn't clued into the fact that the dude has no emotional connection with her, that's why she was so easy to replace with his hand. She's really trying to fight her way back to sex toy status. Jesus be some self esteem.

lightningboltx · 2020-11-30T00:08:41+00:00

simple, you leave.

SnailWithAKnife · 2020-11-30T00:33:21+00:00

"I LiKe GiViNg BlOwJoBs JuSt As MuCh As I LiKe BeInG pLeAsUrEd MySeLf" 🤡

Lmao. Sorry, that just screamed pick me to me.

Anyway, this is not uncommon. Way too many men are so addicted to porn and jacking off that they have death-gripped themselves. They can no longer even have sex like a freaking normal person. Jesus.

Diamond_fairy · 2020-11-30T00:18:34+00:00

This is beyond ridiculous, try to imagine the rage if gender were reversed!

There's nothing to fix here, just trash to dump.

Adawritesrules · 2020-11-30T01:21:29+00:00

Porn sick limp dick scrote. There’s enough out there that you can line up and tie their small limp dicks together and form a loop around earth. Don’t kink shame me.

honeybeeroll · 2020-11-30T01:41:44+00:00

Dude, why is she having painful sex with him!?!? She said due to her vaginismus, if they haven't had sex in a while, she feels like her vagina is tearing AND HE ENJOYS IT. what the fuck!? There are things you can do to treat vaginismus, having painful sex is not fucking one of them. I can't believe that their sex life is great, like you can't tell me he's putting in a lot of effort to get her off everytime if he said point blank he'd prefer to jack himself off than have sex with a woman. What a loser. And yeah you haven't moved past those porn issues 🙄. I really hope the comments told her to throw out the whole man. This is such a level of disrespect that can't be fixed.

lollykpops · 2020-11-30T01:20:11+00:00

Jesus, he puts the person he 'loves' beneath his hand. Sweetheart if you're reading this, He is with you for convenience Please leave him

VeronaMoreau · 2020-11-30T01:54:13+00:00

This is literally "porn sick, limp dick"

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-11-30T00:29:35+00:00

There's a lot to unpack here but she should just throw the whole man out.

Imagine bragging about your vaginismus and thinking it's cool for your boyfriend to say that feels better for him when your vagina is so tight it feels like it's going to tear and it hurts you.

Platipus6 · 2020-11-30T02:18:53+00:00

Oh. My. God.

He binged SO HARD while she was gone he's driven his brain off a cliff.

It's 50/50 - his hand, and he's rewired his brain to only be aroused by 2D porn.

He's a lost cause. Option 3. Dump him and let him enjoy his relationship with porn.

randomgirlimok · 2020-11-30T03:03:13+00:00

It’s also very possible he cheated on her while she was gone and was avoiding sex until he got an STD test or something

sweetpotatocupcake · 2020-11-30T03:20:21+00:00

If those comments told her to "communicate" I swear to god..

aquarieux · 2020-11-30T04:12:03+00:00

Men have been death gripping their dicks since they were teens and will still crave and prefer sex with another person. The fact that he developed such a strong preference for his own hand over being with her in under a month makes me think he's cheating, tbh. Or is he is explicitly choosing his porn addiction over her, which either way, get up, get out, move on.

letsberealforamoment · 2020-11-30T01:47:44+00:00

This guy is more broken than a horse with a busted leg. Time for her to dump him...he is broken forever now.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-11-30T05:52:50+00:00

His dick is broken. Also vaginas aren't supposed to be really tight during intercourse. If they are, it's a sign the woman isn't aroused enough.

eluriaeve · 2020-11-30T00:04:13+00:00

Holyyyy cow. I don’t even know what to say about this. How can he think this behavior is normal or ok?

SuitablePerformance3 · 2020-11-30T00:29:48+00:00

He's cheating. Also extremely porn sick and possibly red pilled.

pinkcloudzzz · 2020-11-30T01:36:54+00:00

[deleted]

DreaSoares2634 · 2020-11-30T01:52:25+00:00

He's sick! GET RID OF HIM!!!!

2021NOTIMEFORBS

KateJ1982 · 2020-11-30T05:23:52+00:00

"What do I do, how do we fix the problem?" Well Sis, you don't. He doesn't seem to think there is a problem. In fact, while he was willing to accept oral from her, he didn't even offer to try give her pleasure in any way. So what magic words does she think the internet can offer her to make this man start caring more about her than his porn addiction?

Four years. She has invested 4 years into this porn sick loser.

Poggersisms · 2020-11-29T23:56:11+00:00

Say it with me, ladies.

P.O.R.N!!!

2020-11-30T04:34:09+00:00

I wish I could add a picture to this comment. I told OP to leave-and some Scrote sai she’s needs to “communicate” and made an analogy saying I’d advise her to leave someone with an alcohol or drug addiction....

Unfortunately I can’t comment anymore, but yes, I would fucking advise her to leave! Luckily others replied to him on the thread essentially saying he’s an idiot.

petit_rouge · 2020-11-30T04:55:40+00:00

“Oh, did I mention he’s addicted to porn?” Hmmmm wow you don’t say...

A man that prefers porn over you is not a man that deserves you. Why would you want a dude who chokes his dick to the point that he can’t enjoy sex with his partner?

And I’m going to take a wild guess here and say she gives him BJs but he doesn’t usually return the favor 🙄

Gourmay · 2020-11-30T06:39:47+00:00

I would tell him to enjoy his hand then and ask if he's cool with her getting with other guys, since he no longer wants to have sex with her, or maybe women as a whole apparently.

I was with a guy with a death-grip problem once, I gave him a chance to discuss it and fix the issue, he didn't and I got out of there fast. This is bare minimum stuff.

SuccessfulAppeal333 · 2020-11-30T03:11:29+00:00

She needs a new vibrator that will complain less.

:)

DallasOMalley · 2020-11-30T01:13:58+00:00

So, we know lot of LVM are liars, and will use whatever the safest explanation is for them. This means the vagina-blaming excuse is just the excuse he believes is least likely to disrupt the status quo, and it's probably only 10% - if any - of the whole truth. (I know, that's dumbass logic, but I've seen LVM do it time and time again.) The other 90% is probably something we'd rather not consider. 🤢

SirCrowDevoidOfCorn · 2020-11-30T06:39:18+00:00

[deleted]

LadyGrimes · 2020-11-30T05:39:50+00:00

Yeah, no fucking words here.

chateauduchat · 2020-11-30T06:09:16+00:00

Yeah, well Chad, your dick isn’t as big as my dildo. Blocked

AllTheBeanToes · 2020-11-30T14:20:58+00:00

'we moved past this' yeah right. She just shut up about it that's all. Disgusting. I'm so grossed out males jerking off, I don't care if I'm shaming. Nothing is a bigger turn off 🤮🤮🤮

ItsFreezen · 2020-11-30T15:40:44+00:00

Because he's cheating.

Proud-Purpose · 2020-11-30T16:14:10+00:00

Why didn't you initiate sex with a non-dicklet on your business trip?

I bet this is a "tiger mom" type of pickme who makes a boatload of money and buxes him.

Delilahh12345 · 2020-12-01T02:16:55+00:00

Honestly, if he continues down this road he's in for some huge amount of trouble. I once heard of a guy who lost feeling in penis and it started to retract into him because of how much he abused it jerking off to porn.

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-12-01T00:23:11+00:00

Leave his ass with his hand

Title	What... the FuCK? 🤡😳
Author	Ok_Ad_67
Upvotes	295
Comments	82
Date	November 29, 2020 11:52 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/k3kbk4/what_the_fuck/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/what-the-fuck.329636 https://theredarchive.com/post/329636

Comments

2021NOTIMEFORBS