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NICE FOR WHAT?SuitablePerformance3/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:16 PM
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🔥🔥FINE AF FRIDAYS🔥🔥SuitablePerformance3/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:47 PM
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Please read the flair guide available in the wiki on our about page for how flairs are given out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 07:27 PM
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You're already flaired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:18 AM
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The FDS handbook. Which can be found on our about page.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:59 PM
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You don't need to go that far. The fact that you think he's lying is reason enough. Being unsure and confused is a sign of abuse, it's a red flag that something is not right. 3 months is no time at all to know someone, especially a man, and the fact he's already shown to be untrustworthy is frightening, you need to leave him. When you're in the situation you can't see the issues for what they are, it's why we say leave at the first sign of fuckery. Hindsight is 20/20 and you'll look back wonderi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:11 AM
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Read the handbook and dump him. There is nothing to salvage anymore, you've shown your hand and now he has certain expectations.
/r/askFDS29/08/21 03:21 AM
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These are the rapists libfems are trying to fight for. This is what they think. You can't buy a human being. Every story was disgusting, no humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:45 PM
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Please read the handbook, there are sections on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:47 PM
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Trauma isn't special. In fact it's something a majority of people go through, primarily women to be honest. That means it's not an excuse to use your hurt to hurt others. Men are just weak and sinister, they like hurting others when they feel small because it makes them feel better. It's pathetic. And yeah I'd drop these "friends", don't allow low value people into your life, it just makes you miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:30 PM
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Hi sorry that sub takes a while to go through messages. You need to be an approved user to comment and give advice since it's more sensitive in nature then FDS, what with people asking personal questions we want to make sure the advice is solid. we usually approve users who have a good FDS comment history and are familiar with the handbook/able to give good advice. Individual people can post to ask for advice and those get manually approved. Posts take a while to get approved but you can always …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:26 PM
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Because they want to hurt you. It's as simple as that, they like your fear and they like what it could lead to even more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:15 PM
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FDS as per the handbook suggest dumb fox credo. Anything else is just conversation being had in the sub. What we are is the handbook and sub rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:01 PM
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This is a sub for personal dating advice.
/r/askFDS27/08/21 07:38 PM
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You've been flaired meaning you're free to comment and make posts, however post approval is at the discretion of mods. Not all posts go through, we do have the sub rules and the handbook which will be your best guides on having your posts go through. Note that posts about dating advice or your current dating situation will not be approved as we have askFDS for that, TXT exchange posts, post breaking a sub rule etc. And sometimes we just have too many posts a day so we try to keep to a certain nu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:23 PM
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You're flaired!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:19 PM
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I explained it in the post. We have a flair guide in our wiki as well as a glossary of terms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:19 PM
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The flair guide in the handbook is how we assign them. Of course we are still discretionary with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:51 PM
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Have you checked your home feed? Maybe rejoin the sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:27 PM
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There are very few people who have disciple flairs, their posts are handbook worthy and they are longtime users. Again, not everyone will receive these flairs, it shouldn't take away from your experience here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:46 PM
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The flair guide can be found in the handbook. Flairs are assigned by us on those merits listed, not everyone will get those flairs, don't let it take away from your experience here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:03 PM
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Girl. Why the fuck are trying to be this dude's therapist? Do you need all that baggage? This sounds like some nonsense, he ghosted you and now he's back claiming his mom has cancer? Either he's lying, playing you or both. Dump him, block and delete and read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:24 AM
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Exactly. I feel like people take the notion of red flags too lightly, it's not just a fun catchphrase, it's a blarring sign of fuckery and future pain. So when you see one, you get out and don't look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:13 AM
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Yes!! Being in a state of confusion and/or anxiety is a sign of abuse. I will repeat this until I die. If you are unsure, anxious, confused and/or already making excuses for behaviour then RUN. And another note, my sis is glowing in literally every way. What a gorgeous woman, and considering what type of advice she's giving to fellow women, she's gorgeous inside and out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:37 AM
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There was once a story where a woman was sleeping and her disgusting scrote tried to cut the BC implant out of her arm. He had a knife on his hands and even tried to lie. He had been wanting to get her pregnant but OP didn't want to, apparently he also hated her son and wanted to kill him. She was confused on what to do here... I've read another where a woman would give birthday BJ's for her husband, except they were special since he'd be on the toilet taking a shit. And another where the woman …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:23 PM
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Cut off low value relationships at the start. There's no reason to keep orbitors around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:42 PM
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Learn and grow form this sis. Make sure you block that scum and the rest of those losers too. Walk forward and don't look back. For everyone else, please know you don't need proof to dump someone. If they're no longer meeting your needs or you don't feel secure or good when you're with them, that's reason enough to end the relationship. You don't have to stay in a mediocre relationship, or any relationship that you're not completely happy and satisfied in. Not wanting to be in the relationship i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:41 PM
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Girl I have never meant this more but RUN!!! He's not who he says he is, he is a legit terrifying lvm narcissists. Block and delete. Long distance relationships are not relationships unless you meet in real life and deal with each other that way. But this guy? Meeting him will only lead to pain and God forbid worse. Please read the handbook, what a scary situation. Srsly block him on everything, this man is a danger to you. Don't give him a reason, don't interact further. Block him everywhere an…
/r/askFDS20/08/21 07:57 PM
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Please message modmail with suggestions. Posts like this don't help us. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:45 PM
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Read the handbook for one, crushes aren't good for you. And two workplace romances are the worst, you'll always be the one to lose something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:42 PM
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I would recommend it for safety reasons(you have quite a bit of info on your profile). This post goes up every week from now on so you'll get plenty of chances to ask for a flair. We want to make sure the users are legit before assigning them so brand new accounts will need to be seen commenting in the sub for a bit before getting a flair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:05 PM
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Don't bother explaining yourself. Just block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:07 AM
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Never. I repeat never give men your phone. Do not even allow them to see it, not your phone, your keys(fucking apps out there that can scan them now and they'll have a copy), your damn makeup bag idc. Do not share info with these men. Stay woke everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:03 AM
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Exactly. A literal cesspool. Anywhere but woman only spaces I don't read comments, it's just pathological how men's delusions shape reality. Depressing af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 09:10 PM
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It was just locked so there wouldn't be any more scrote comments. This way it can stay up but not get bombarded. Hope this helps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:58 PM
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"I'm too rich"... Yeah sure bud, you and your whole six "figs" you bought at Costco.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:51 AM
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Sounds amazing! You'd definitely be great at it, if the opportunity opens up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:47 AM
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Why are you continuing to speak with someone who offends and upsets you? He's negging you but also remember that once someone puts you off, you no longer need to give them the time of day. Block and delete.
/r/askFDS18/08/21 01:32 AM
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At this point I've stopped using Uber and rideshare services entirely. They let men with violent records work for them and don't take reports seriously. I've been harassed multiple times while in an Uber, I'm not doing it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:42 PM
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People keep saying they don't look alike but Jesus fuck how similar does the resemblance have to be before it's weird? They look like they could be fraternal twins already. He's a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:20 PM
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Honestly it was beautifully shot but what a loser. A whole movie about a literal lvm ruining his family's lives, shaped up as some wholesome heartwarming family story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:05 PM
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If you have to ask and if you're in a state of confusion over it then something is wrong, and your body/mind is alerting you to it. Also you're comparing your current bf to your nvm, you can't make a good analysis like that. Because all you'll be thinking is how much better he is instead of judging him based solely on his actions. And lastly I notice you didn't mention the red flags with your new bf, that alone tells me you're unwilling to critically examine what's worrying you. Rethink your sit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:13 AM
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Girl run. You met online, he has tons of issues and a veritable incel. Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:06 AM
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Read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:04 AM
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Please post this to r /askFDS, also many women here can give you personal advice but not everything is the official FDS stance. What is written in our handbook is our stance, everything else is conversation between like minded women. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:05 PM
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Is this a child? That's the only way I can excuse the stupidity. Grown men are so fucking fragile. Get a job and get off the internet you pathetic fuckers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:28 PM
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Very interesting, make it a post! Always happy to learn about women's history on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:11 PM
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The options are quite bleak aren't they. Submit to rape or they'll murder us. Frankly what these losers don't understand is that these threats they think are so new and scary have been there since the dawn of humanity. They've always been raping and murdering us, nothing's changed for them. But we have, we continue to fight back and to say NO. So shut up you useless incel fucks and move out of the way already, we don't care about your pathetic asses and never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:28 PM
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There are no good men on Reddit. They'll spam us with death and rape threats, I've unfortunately had to see many images of violent and graphic things they post to purely harass us. Do not share anything in real life, do not share identifying info. If you want to be on FDS make an alt account. Turn off dm's; go to setting and then account settings, from there you can turn off chats and PM's. I also encourage you to turn off google search for your username which you can also do in account settings…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:06 PM
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TRP tactics are a trip, very sick individuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:36 PM
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This is actually a tactic, they take you to multiple locations to make it seem as if you've been on multiple dates and like you've known them longer. It's all emotional manipulation. That's why you set the time for the date and you keep to schedule, you make the rules and he can follow them or he can leave. Another reason these scrubs are afraid of dinner dates is because you actually have to be personable and an adult when at dinner. They can't use the location to fake a personality, the dinner…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 05:13 AM
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A hike date is pretty much code for murder. You'd think with the popularity of true crime and the stats being what they are that women would know better but the I remember how hard patriarchy works to convince them otherwise. Constantly making films/shows/music etc telling women they're overreacting and that everything is peachy keen, men are just little fluffballs who would never hurt you./s It's damn messed up the level of gaslighting going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:16 AM
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No problem, you can always check out our sister sub r /FemaleLevelUpStrategy where we discuss things like this all the time. Work, career, life, mental health etc. Woman only of course.
/r/askFDS12/08/21 11:49 PM
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For anyone who still balks at dinner, or thinks "but I like xyz", please remember it's not about your character. I'm sure you're great and loving, the purpose of these vets is to make sure you're not giving away that loving nature to someone who will use it. What we're telling you is reactionary to how men are acting, we didn't come up with these observations by looking through a globe and reading the stars, no we saw how men were acting and starting adding things up. These are low value dates a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:47 PM
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"I don't want nobody crazy" Sir you ARE crazy. Looking like a scrub while she looks like that. Trying to gaslight and act stupid at every turn. I could feel her dissappointment through the screen. She should sue for time wasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:40 PM
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This post has some good answers.
/r/askFDS12/08/21 06:31 PM
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Even couples counseling itself is awful and doesn't work. How can you open yourself and get real advice when you're next to your lvm and/or abuser? The men lie and the therapists let them. Individual counselling all the way, with special attention to vetting your therapist and making sure they have practice with abusive relationships or whatever your circumstances are.
/r/askFDS11/08/21 09:52 PM
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Because the entire field is basically snail oil salesman tactics. There is no such thing, and especially even worse if it's a man doing the coaching. Read the handbook.
/r/askFDS11/08/21 09:21 PM
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The Handbook and what the mods say is our stance. Everything else is conversations happening in the sub. You won't get a clear stance as everything is situational and depends on personal preference. The main take away is that the man be HVM in characteristics and how he treats you. And through vetting properly is how you might find an HVM, however leveling up your own life should always be the priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:19 PM
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You can always message modmail with concerns, DM us or try and reach us through one of our comments with a question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:12 PM
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A "relationship coach", yeah that's a red flag of scam artist if I ever heard one. Edit: After checking your post history I'm telling you to stop posting about this. People can ask for advice but you need to show a willingness to change and want better, instead all I see is someone unhappy in their relationship who keeps making excuses hoping to stay in it. You're wasting your time.
/r/askFDS11/08/21 09:09 PM
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Being in a state of confusion is a sign of abuse. If you're anxious and unsure that's a sign of abuse. If they have you questioning yourself then you need to get out immidietely. This type of abuse is akin to what cults use to groom people, it's overwriting your reality to suit theirs and make you pliable to their wants. It's why we say leave at the very first sign of anything fishy, hindsight is 20/20 and you'll see it for what it was when you look back. But the you right now can't see that, be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:33 PM
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What friendship? He's using you for free therapy. Read the FDS handbook and make a change, you shouldn't feel afraid to assert your boundaries firmly. And if he balks and gets offended then he was never a friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:10 AM
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Yes it is bad. The only man who will be attracted to you is a predator. Read the FDS handbook.
/r/askFDS10/08/21 01:45 AM
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If "empowerment" involves serving men then these women need to wake up to the brainwashing. Because it's gotten ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:33 PM
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I'll tell this to everyone. Make sure you have everything in writing, if you contributed or worked on something make sure you email and cc your damn supervisor on what you did and how you're doing in the projects. If someone says something to you then shoot them an email reiterating what they said. Use a professional email or phone when interacting with the workplace and don't give people your private number. They can reach you if they pay you for your time, on your work email(make sure you say …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:32 PM
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OP, if you have suggestion then please message modmail. Mods are the ones who make decisions on flairs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:13 PM
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She's a pretty messed up PickMe who takes joy in bullying young girls, the caption kinda fits her lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:52 AM
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Op, this sub is for personal advice.
/r/askFDS06/08/21 07:31 PM
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With all that meticulous planning , she could of hired a good divorce lawyer and gotten the better deal out of it. What a waste of time and intelligence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:28 PM
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With men and women we advocate not keeping people around who cause you stress and hurt you. The difference with men is that they are a more immediate and intimate danger. We know exactly what type of hurt they can cause us. And the statistics back it up, it's usually someone you know. I'd vet my friends as ruthlessly as you vet potential romantic partners. People should be adding to your life, not taking away. And I understand, the world has a way of making women question their gut reactions. Co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:08 AM
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No problem, sometimes we need a fellow woman to confirm our gut feelings, the world has a way of always making women feel crazy for their feelings so it can be difficult to navigate. Keep trying and keep learning, it's all for your benefit and to have the best life you can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:04 AM
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We've always advocated not sharing any personal or identifying info. It is a sub rule, we also have the Internet safety tips post in our new subscriber guide section of the handbook. I'm sorry this happened, however I advise everyone to practice safe internet browsing and interaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:54 AM
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Brought to you by Seth Rogan! No relation to Joe Rogan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:08 AM
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She's what we call a libfem in her approach to dating, however the clown she was dealing with was fresh from the circus. Hope she learned from this, I sincerely hope everyone here knows better than to do any of the things she did when dealing with this situation. Her best decision was dropping him, should of been the only decision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:03 AM
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Please post this to r /FemaleLevelUpStrategy. You'll also get more helpful advice there!
/r/askFDS06/08/21 01:58 AM
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Being treated well should not have anything to do with your looks. You're human first and foremost, men have brainwashed women to think the disgusting way they treat us is normal. It's not. A man loving, respecting you and taking care of you is bare minimum and that's what all women deserve if they want to date men. Any less then that is not worth your time. I'm sorry to hear about your recent struggles, you're a brave person and you deserve the world! Continue reading the handbook and leveling …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:30 AM
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He is a bad person. He is manipulating you and disrespecting you. Please try and get away from him. Also please post this to r/ askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:23 AM
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He's not your friend period. Frankly you're not safe with him, if he's willing to push your physical boundaries when you're conscious and cognizant then he's willing to do worse to you when you're inebriated. Read the FDS handbook, and drop this clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:18 AM
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This is a sub for personal advice.
/r/askFDS05/08/21 01:36 AM
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This is a sub for people willing to change. I feel for you but we can't help someone who doesn't want to leave their situation. When you're ready try again.
/r/askFDS05/08/21 01:35 AM
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This was removed and you reposted it. It was removed for your safety. Please do not share personal or identifying info on this sub, we get a lot of psychos harassing and stalking us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:27 AM
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What happened was rape, gaslighting and abuse. This is a lot of very heavy and psychological along with physical abuse he's put you through. I'm very sorry this has happened to you, I think the book Why does he do that by Lundy Buncroft could shed some light on some of this for you. As well as narcissistic abuse and how they groom you to be victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:24 AM
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Exactly. It is not the job of the oppressed class to fix the issues created by the oppressor. As women we work through navigating a truly agressively violent world. I see too many women speaking of equality and we're the same, and we're both accountable. You cannot hold us to the same standard, it is in no way comparable. Women do not have institutional power or even individual autonomy in this world.They work everyday to take that away, with social conditioning and punishment and reward. Punish…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:29 AM
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Please post this to r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:16 AM
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Being a productive member of society is too much for these clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:43 PM
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You know people love to complain about confessions given under duress in interrogations(rightfully so in many cases), as well as other things. And yet they can't possibly fathom the same being true for sexual encounters. Because they feel as women are not allowed the basic right of consent. they already see us as property, also they act with that in mind. But we're human and we fight back, and then you have that dichotomy because we are resisting their narrative, yet all they feel is anger. Ange…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:41 PM
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I just want you to know that some pathetic scrote saw this and reported it for promoting hate against a vulnerable group.... Which LOL, scrote is not a protected class. Stay classy sis, know you have them seething just because you have a good one in your life and they could never measure up. Edit: lol it's at 3 reports now Honk Honk into the night scrotes 🤡🤡🤡 (a truly god tier saying a fellow fds sister came up with)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:34 PM
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Lol. Not even worth the effort to care, they just get banned and deleted. Now back to the secret radical agenda of yeeting men off this planet....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:52 PM
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It's called love bombing. I advise people to read up on it, it's another manipulation and abuse tactic that can be just as harmful as being strung along etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:30 PM
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LVM!! Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:46 PM
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Well that was the best thing I've seen today. Also HO HO HO MOTHERFUCKER! Truly the meaning of Christmas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:16 AM
73

It's ironic because that's exactly what men are currently doing, and having the audacity to call it equal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:55 AM
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If he wanted to he would, he's stringing you along and playing lukewarm. Is this really the best you expect for yourself? always tell yourself you deserve the best and anything lower isn't worth you time. Read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 12:20 AM
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It takes us a while to get to people on that sub as it's all manual, try posting again and @ me to approve it. What you're seeing on the male front is simply the automod message and is juts a part of the message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 12:19 AM
1

Read the handbook and dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:51 PM
1

Girl what in the actual fuck. Are you telling me a grown man is farting in your face and you still don't know what to do? Dump him, read the handbook an stop letting people treat you like shit. You deserve better and you can be better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:50 PM
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This is not it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:48 PM
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If someone crosses a boundary that means you leave them. Boundaries aren't there for others to break them and stay in your life, what's the point if you keep these people around? This man does not sound HVM at all, even with just the small amount you shared here. Inconsiderate, a liar and has poor impulse control. Read the handbook and rethink this relationship, boundary breaking always escalates, they're testing you and what they can get away with. Don't let him, you have your standards and bou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:13 AM
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If someone crosses a boundary that means you leave them. Boundaries aren't there for others to break them and stay in your life, what's the point if you keep these people around? This man does not sound HVM at all, even with just the small amount you shared here. Inconsiderate, a liar and has poor impulse control. Read the handbook and rethink this relationship, boundary breaking always escalates, they're testing you and what they can get away with. Don't let him, you have your standards and bou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:12 AM
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Dump him, he was never HVM, just pretending to reel you in. This will only get worse, believe me.
/r/askFDS31/07/21 04:00 AM
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Drop her immediately. Jesus, this is how women are continuously gaslighted and manipulated, you can't even get a reprieve form this shit in therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:48 AM
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Np and I'm sorry to hear that, he sounds like absolute scum.Your new post has been approved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:56 AM
1

This is good but we don't support bdsm in any fashion here, as is shown in our handbook and our automod on every post. If you want you can post this again without that part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 11:44 PM
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What utter clown shit, and to still stay with him. I hope she wakes up, that's just self harm at that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 08:00 PM
1

The handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:36 PM
2

This sounds like PickMe nonsense, sis wake the hell up. One he's your supervisor so this is innappropriate and unprofessional, and two why do you need to chase a man, one who seems a serial flirt. Read the FDS handbook, you're better than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:41 PM
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Means he doesn't care about you. Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:39 PM
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We've said time and again, don't explain your standards to men. Live your life and your standards, dumb fox all the way. If they don't meet up to them then block, delete, ghost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:36 PM
1

You have a situationship. Just drop him, he's using you for easy access and emotional support therapy. Read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 09:47 PM
56

She's an energy vampire and a major pickme, drop her before she causes you further psychological pain. Major narcissist with this one, she's only using you as a free therapist. Good luck on your healing, don't be afraid to cut people off, especially when they're getting in the way of your mental health.
/r/askFDS27/07/21 05:14 AM
5

I like how you included 'man' as a slur(i mean it's true??). A whole vibe lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:10 AM
2

Read the FDS handbook, don't ask men out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:22 AM
1

You know, I once read a report that said the highest clicks for porn sites was right before work, so before and around 9:00 am. These men were getting off to violent shit and then going to work and carrying those images, aggression and entitlement when interacting with their female coworkers. So they were seeing these women in this light and they see their partners in this light as well. A man going for a woman who looks like his favourite porn means he's going to act with her exactly like the a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:18 AM
1

Reach out if you want to, but make sure you ditch this rapist freak. Never speak to him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:13 AM
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Questions like this belong to r /askFDS. I'd recommend reading the handbook as well, as it is a good starting point for advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 01:44 AM
1

Op, that's great you're happy. Please post this to r /FemaleLevelUpStrategy, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:06 AM
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You're 18, go have fun, go to school. You don't need to be worrying about relationships right now. Also don't be so open with men, read the FDS handbook. And frankly you don't owe this orbitor anything, it's not like you're obligated to date your other friends just because you talk are you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:03 AM
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From your previous post it sound like he's breadcrumbing you and wants a forever gf. Rethink this relationship, I know you're holding back on telling us the red flags but what you've said alone raises alarms.
/r/askFDS20/07/21 12:14 AM
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Please read the FDS handbook, there's nothing wrong with you and getting a man shouldn't be your focus. If you find a good one sure, but you shouldn't shape your life or identity around it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:12 AM
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OP, this is more suited for r /FemaleLevelUpStrategy, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 05:26 AM
96

Jesus Christ! Absolutely sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:53 AM
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Girl, he hates black women and fetishized white women. What more do you need? Dump this freak and read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:44 AM
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If it's at the point where you think they're cheating, then that's is reason enough to leave. Vetting doesn't have to be you staying until you find proof. It's your life, you set the standard. It's true that we can ever be 100% sure, however we can definitely weed out the most degenerate ones. And we always say to be ready and most important WILLING to leave. The biggest issue I see is that even when women recognize and acknowledge the flags, they stay. You can't just be ready physically and fin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:36 AM
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Continues to go through, she got a barring order for three years and it expires in one year. That means he can take her to court again after a year. Absolutely depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:21 AM
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I love how mad the scrotes are at this. The reports are wild!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 12:14 AM
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Read the FDS handbook and post this to r/ askFDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 12:06 AM
1

Read the handbook, he's a predator who used you. Block and delete him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 12:02 AM
1

Read the FDS handbook, why stay somewhere you're unhappy when you were better off alone, and you could have a better relationship with a better man in the future?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 12:02 AM
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Read the handbook, and have him send you money for the uber. If he balks then he's not the one. Next time post these question to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:47 PM
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OP please block out the sub names and post this to r /FDSSUPERFANS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:10 PM
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I agree, not to mention adoption having it's own plethora of issues. It seems anything pertaining to vulnerable people, women and children is rife with abuse and exploitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:56 AM
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It's unregulated and as all things takes advantage of the poorest women out there. Women are treated as wombs and the money they get isn't enough to excuse what happens(mind you it's rare for them to get properly reimbursed, and the pay is not equal to the action ever). A lot of the procedures themselves are not as safe as they lead you to believe. Doctors still won't diagnose endo and PCOS in women. They still say we have anxiety when we go for an appointment and women still die disproportional…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:54 AM
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Girl this is amazing lmao!😂😂😂 Some of those were legit scary, who needs a horror movie when you have a scrote???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:05 AM
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You're a kid, focus on friends and school. Don't chase guys and read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:02 PM
1

"That's innapropriate", "You seem immature" Frankly you're starting from an emotionally vulnurable place where you already feel like you're losing. No matter what you try to say to make a comeback, you'll lose because you are deeply invested in it. You need to get emotional distance, what he thinks doesn't matter, neither does the rest of the coworkers. This is a job, things should be professional and office politics aren't something you should care about or engage in. They do nothing for you as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:00 PM
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Read the handbook. You keep posting here, you need to start putting in the work to change.
/r/askFDS17/07/21 05:53 PM
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Never give men the benefit of the doubt. Assume the worst and hope for the best, he has to prove that he's not a douchebag, you don't do the work for him. In this case he knew what he was doing, he wanted to see if he could get easy sex from you. Block and delete.
/r/askFDS17/07/21 05:39 PM
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I don't play scrote games period. There's no winning with an idiot, they'll just talk you in circles, they have no logic just words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:38 PM
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I understand the sentiment, and honestly if you're going by the handbook and what's written there as an explanation then it's fine. It's more so people making posts and trying to guilt other users for how they use the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:16 PM
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I'm sorry but did you say 5th c-section??? Good Lord!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:49 AM
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Looks like an age gap relationship. We don't support that here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:47 AM
51

Great advice, very important when going out, a lot of people just look over your shoulder and get your info.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:39 AM
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He is being disgusting and inappropriate. Make sure you save copies of everything he said in text and don't respond to him outside of work. If he contacts you then only reply through work email to keep records of it. Otherwise ignore him and only talk to him if it's work related, of course stay professional but you're not obligated to go after him and be nice beyond basic decency.
/r/askFDS17/07/21 01:27 AM
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The heck are your parents doing? It's not your responsibility to raise these losers, that's the parents job. I'm sorry you have to go through this maybe ask for a lock on your room and keep the space clean?
/r/askFDS17/07/21 12:04 AM
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You need to vet the guys better, it sound like they're losers and fuckbois. Please read the FDS handbook,and I'm glad you have good stability in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 11:47 PM
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There's nothing to say, unless you're going to leave him. Read the handbook and dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:23 PM
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If they had that same enthusiasm but instead called out men for being the reason porn and human trafficking exists. If there's no demand then there's no supply, guess who's creating the demand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:49 PM
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Dump her. She's causing you stress and anxiety. We advocate vetting your friends just as much as potential love interests, you don't want to invite people who cause drama or hurt you into your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:30 PM
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He's using you for sex, but he's also manipulative and wants you to be in love with him. He's a typical LVM, read the handbook and dump his ass, don't forget to block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:28 PM
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You have a case of internalized misogyny but also looking at yourself in the male gaze. I get it, we've all suffered under viewing ourselves as objects because that's all we've ever been portrayed as. Honestly it's going to take a lot of work and introspection. The best thing that helped me was immidietely stopping myself when I think like that and inspecting why I'm thinking those things, then I acknowledge the reality and how it isn't true. Working on your self esteem but also de-centering you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:27 PM
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Any time they bring it up point out that the question itself is based on sexism and entitlement. Put it on them, why would they not allow women to speak on women for a minute? When everything is male dominated and controlled, is there nowhere women can have a say. Ask them why they can't sit down and listen to women without making it about men? Is it because they don't care about women? And you seriously need to start reading feminist literature, especially ones that are radically feminist. The …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:23 PM
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Don't tell men your baggage. 9/10 they always use it against you. Far as they're concerned you've been treated like a Queen and they better do the same or get gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:54 AM
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She needs to leave. All I see is a recipe for future financial abuse. If she really makes that little and this is his attitude then it's only going to get worse, he resents her already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:25 PM
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You'll never be first for him, it will be his kid and he's only HVM if he puts his kid first. You have to think about if you can handle that if you're ready to have a your time split between the ex, the kid and you, and if it goes further if you're ready to be a stepmom or have interactions/a relationship with his kid. It's a lot to think about beyond his HV characteristics, and being HVM is not something you'll know this early on in the vetting process.
/r/askFDS15/07/21 09:59 PM
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Hi OP, please post this to r /askFDS, also check out some of the handbook and book recs, I know not everything will apply to you but a lot of the lessons there can be applied to all relationships and the way people treat you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:37 PM
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If any of those guys actually were interested they would have chased you and shown you, we don't chase men here. Girl read the handbook, this is still very much pickme mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:35 PM
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Good on you! Every step you take like this is another form of self love. You choose yourself and one day you won't even have to think about it, taking care of yourself first will be natural to you. I confess I'm not quite there myself, I no longer tolerate disrespect and my boundaries are rock solid, I cut people off at the first sign of suspect behavior. But as women we are still socialized with the guilt and fear of displeasing people, it's hard work to break away from that type of indoctrinat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:00 PM
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Read the handbook, and post his to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:51 PM
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It's pure pickmeisha nonsense. Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:47 PM
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All men have is audacity. I don't bother listening to them and always try to go to women if I need help or someone to do a job. If I'm paying I don't need to have some loser messing things up every step of the way because all they have is ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:05 AM
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It is absolutely sick and predatory. He shouldn't even be in such a position of power, this and many other personal reasons is why I don't trust cops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:09 AM
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Hasn't Facebook become a pretty big hub for trafficking as well? Hmm looks like they've been under fire for it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:26 PM
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He's nothing lol. Just bland bread that they kept trying to pass off as the hero of the story but he was so boring as a character it was like trying to pass off oatmeal as a steak. He was pretty much a Gary Stu, and since he was so bland pretty much all the losers out there could pretend they were him. Still makes me mad that a dynamic anti hero/ Empress ending storyline like Danny's got the shaft it did. Bad writing never wins imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:36 PM
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Op, please post this to r /askFDS, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:22 PM
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Op, this post is better for r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:21 PM
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Girl the red flags are blinding me. This man does not care about you. Communicating his plans is so bare minimum it's downright sociopathic for him to constantly not do so. He crosses your boundaries because he likes it, likes disrespecting you. Read the FDS handbook and dump this guy, you've already wasted 6 years on him, don't waste your entire life.
/r/askFDS14/07/21 10:14 PM
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Read the FDS handbook, you're trying to destroy your relationships over a guy? Girl wake up. If he actually wanted to, he would woo you the proper way and go the extra mile. Dump him.
/r/askFDS14/07/21 10:10 PM
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He sounds insidious. Real psychological mindfuck levels of narc.
/r/askFDS14/07/21 10:09 PM
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Seriously, ask a man what he thinks of women or what his standards are and it's like a flood of bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:20 PM
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OP, great on you for leaving. You've taken the first step, now you have your life ahead of you. Free from bullshit, it'll hurt for sure, but way less than being actively treated like shit on the daily. Now the hurt will be a memory instead of a thing that happens everyday. Also please post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:18 PM
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OP please post this to r /FemaleLevelUpStrategy up strategy. Also happy birthday! Wishing you all the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:16 PM
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Read the FDS handbook. He's not respecting your wishes and trying to blame you. Also staying over at your place is not appropriate, especially in your parents house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:15 PM
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Girl run. He sounds sketchy and borderline like a trafficker. Read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:12 PM
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This question is good because you let them talk, you put the ball in their court so to speak instead of being the one telling all. Always let men explain their scrotiness to you or they're more than happy to and you don't waste your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:12 PM
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Read the handbook, 50/50 is not it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:09 PM
2

She sounds messed up, total low value PickMe. I'd distance myself form her if I were you, these escorts of people add nothing to your life and just pull you down with them. She out you in danger tonight or at least tried to. The man was a creep and she wanted you to sleep over? Nah. Don't trust her, put yourself first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:51 AM
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Men pretty universally hate Captain Marvel and yet love Wonder Woman. It's an interesting phenomenon but it's great for seeing the scrote in a man. I personally really loved Captain Marvel, went on premiere night with my sister and even got a poster. Lol it makes them rage that I won't have any of their bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:45 PM
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Best unstable. Block and delete. Don't bother engaging with men, you just lose energy. Glad you left him though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:43 PM
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It's trauma bonding. He's all you know so your mind keeps going back to him. Read the handbook, block and delete him. Get rid of anything he ever gave you or that reminds you of him, get some distance. Find a hobby and start focusing on yourself. Don't let this man back into your life again, it's self harm honestly and you shouldn't put yourself through that.
/r/askFDS13/07/21 07:33 PM
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OP, the last page has the sub Reddit name visible. Please remove it and try posting again, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:18 PM
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Just dump him. It might take time and effort but it's better than staying with him. Also read the FDS handbook, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:34 PM
1

No it is not. He sounds like a creep. Read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:29 PM
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He sound like a loser. I don't what you have to talk about or do here that you haven't already before. You tried this relationship, it didn't work and he didn't respect you. Stop giving second chances to people who don't value you. Please read the handbook, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:28 PM
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Read the FDS handbook, and get a new perspective, they don't signify your worth as a person, that's only something you can do for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:26 PM
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Girl, from what you said alone you need to dump this pathetic loser. He's a predator and a creep. Dump him, block and delete. Read the FDS handbook as well. He's gaslighting you and manipulating you, it'll only get worse. Get out now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:41 AM
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Tell everyone in your neighborhood what he did and how he made you feel unsafe. Don't sugercoat it and don't show fear. Tell your family and your friends. Next time he approaches you have 911 on speedial and make sure he knows that. Tell him if he contacts or goes anywhere near you again then you will be calling the police. In the mean time, buy cameras for your exits and windows(especially any basement doors) and make sure everything is good and locked tight in your house. Get a bat if you don'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:55 AM
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Hanging out? You two aren't friends and you certainly aren't teenagers either. The dates should be just that, dates. Where he shows up and impresses you, and you vet him. He has to take the step and formally ask you to be his gf, you're nothing before that and you owe him nothing. Truthfully you made a lot of missteps here and I see some flags so I don't know if it's a salvageble situation. My best bet is to make it known you don't consider yourself to be in a relationship until it's been made o…
/r/askFDS12/07/21 10:51 PM
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The thing about relationships and dating is that it's not supposed to cause you stress. That's why you employ the strategies and vet ruthlessly, blocking and deleting and stressful situations and men. What you had here was a good start. You can't employ scarcity mindset with dating, you can't grab onto the nearest good thing because you don't think there'll be anything better. You have to continuously go after your maximum benefit. Think about it this way, you didn't really know this man. HV cha…
/r/askFDS12/07/21 03:34 PM
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First of all, do not move in until you are engaged or married. Also look at your financial situation, would paying impact your finances negatively? Would it take a huge chunk out of your pocket and yet make no difference in his? He owns his home, you pay for nothing until your name is on that deed. And even then you pay the minimum. If he's not ready to support you and our future family on his sole income, then he's just not ready to be married or even entertain being with anyone. Check out some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:27 PM
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Yeah you need to seriously rethink this relationship, this man sound like bottom barrel scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:29 AM
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He sounds like he was following a PUA script. Even if she's not aware of these things, glad she escaped. This man was an absolute narc and he had only sinister intentions for her, to systematically break her down and abuse her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:46 AM
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Just block and delete. No point interacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:51 PM
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It's pure lies is what it is. They're lucky if they can make $200 a month, if that. Not to mention the fact that they're losing out on everything, now their nudes and whatever else is online. They've ruined their future job security or any potential opportunities because people aren't as "woke" as men want you to believe. A McDonald cashier makes more than they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:33 PM
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He's red pilled for sure, also note the majority of the questions have to do with contact info, basically stalking info. Either way this is pathetic and incel af, goddamn losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 12:21 AM
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Very important to understand what your boundaries are, even more important is to stick to them. If anyone ever crosses them then it is not something you need to work on, it's an immidiate block and delete. This is because abuse and ill treatment usually starts mild at first, you won't know what's happening and it'll become your new normal(our brains are very adaptive). So you leave at the first sign always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:29 PM
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Dump him and read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:24 PM
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The full head of hair and muscles, a scrote could never lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:22 PM
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Your friend is a clown, she needs a wakeup call because her descent into libfem pickmeism will just end up with her hurt. Also please post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:10 AM
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No, you're very much on the mark here. Men start manipulating you from day one, already he painted her as a crazy ex before they even started dating. She was now in a position of having to prove herself and not stepping over the line he established. Just shit all around. The absolute bullshit here is sad, and she's totally bought into it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:15 PM
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OP, please post this to r /FemaleLevelUpStrategy. Also yes he is, men always try to downplay your efforts in the office and even steal your credit. Make sure you only ever interact professionally with them, don't bother being friends with people at work. Keep a firm no nonsense tone with men and always have things in writing, always have a paper trail of convos and interactions. E.g ;send an email after an interaction reiterating what went down(be professional) and always have emails if you're d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:31 PM
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I'll break it down for you. Basically he lowballed you initially because he's looking for a a bangmaid to pass the time with(also looking for a sugar momma, I've seen this type before, total losers). He started the negging early because he wants to have you dependant on him, if you were weaker then you would have been jumping through hoops to "keep" him, he wants someone to finance his life and be his second mommy. Which is why he was saying that lucky to have me shit. The moment you rejected hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:24 PM
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Post this question to r /askFDS, and read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:18 PM
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There's a lot here, but basically she spent the rest of her life watching her mouth and her actions, so the Nigel she's so in love with would never break the fantasy and hit her for real. The threat was always present though, and it always coloured their interactions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:13 PM
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Block and delete. Read the handbook, and next time post things like this to r /askFDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:03 PM
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Read the FDS handbook, we even have it on every post that we do not support or agree with the porn industry or bdsm. Seriously stop surrounding yourself with low value men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:10 PM
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Please read the handbook. Many of your questions are answered there and it is mandatory to read before participating. Having said that, you need to work on your confidence. Dating isn't something that should be stressing you out or something you feel you need to do.
/r/askFDS08/07/21 05:58 PM
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OP,next time post questions like this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:00 PM
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OP, he's negging you and you need to steer clear of him. Never give men the benefit of the doubt, protect yourself first. They know, he got away with it so long because he knew you'd be unsure and wouldn't say anything. Read the handbook and next time post questions like this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:59 PM
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Men and women are different. A man's version of low value often involves abuse and assault. Those are not things you can push aside, and they are a failing of his core character and male socialization.
/r/askFDS07/07/21 03:03 PM
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Read the handbook. 17 yr age gap is just gross.
/r/askFDS07/07/21 03:02 PM
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All of this is red flag after red flag. Do not have relationships in the workplace, frankly your best bet is to keep your personal and professional life seperate. Seriously, set back, give yourself a reality check. This isn't worth it. Also post this to r/askFDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:42 AM
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Anytime you break off a friendship and a relationship you should watch how the people around you act. Frankly why were they silent when she was acting this way? I think it's a good time to re-evaluate who you have in your life. Vet your friends just as ruthlessly as you vet any potential partner in your life. Life's too short to waste one drama and bullshit. If they're not adding to your life, growing with you and standing by you then it's not worth the trouble. And just in general, always remem…
/r/askFDS06/07/21 07:42 AM
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This shouldn't even be a question in your mind. This person doesn't care about you at all, drop her and move on. You can't be friends with people who deny your basic human rights.
/r/askFDS05/07/21 11:52 PM
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Don't go and drop him. Scant details here but last minute and he didn't confirm? Also why are you the one checking in with the restaurant? He should be planning and wooing you. Reread the handbook, get back to vetting ruthlessly.
/r/askFDS05/07/21 11:50 PM
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Read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:10 PM
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OP, questions like this are fine for this sub,you don't need to post them again to the main sub. Please do not do that next time.
/r/askFDS04/07/21 06:55 PM
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Leave. Major personality disorder red flag with that reaction. A lot of times HV characteristics are because men want a trophy wife or a placeholder. They'll pretend as long as it serves them and then switch up. You've caught a glimpse behind the façade and your gut is telling you something is up, listen to it.
/r/askFDS28/06/21 02:59 AM
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Don't do it. It's unprofessional and it always leads to disaster. Read the FDS handbook, always keep the office and your personal life seperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:45 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate it. And yes being critical in what we consume is essential for everyone but especially women and young girls. These are the things that shape our thought processes and guide our journey into pickmedom from a young age. It takes so much time and introspection to break away from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 10:09 AM
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I've sent you a message to speak about this OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:53 AM
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Yes. Language has done a trip. Everything has been softened to create a more bening perception of the act in people's minds. And it's always used exclusively with men, and with women it's always with negative tone and connotations. It's a real thing that really alters the way you yourself perceive things and how you judge others. Every media source conditions you to think like this when you look at people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:20 PM
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Interesting language they're using, they've put the crime in very bold phrasing before the fact that these were criminals they did this to. I've noticed that when it's a male killer it usually goes like this " female victim who was shot by male perpetrator" or other variations of this. Usually distancing the male from the crime and using softer language, here the language is harsher and they directly say what these women did in a negative tone, when describing their actions. Now you might not no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:07 PM
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OP, please post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:56 PM
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Sounds like he's triangulating you with her. Read the handbook and post this question, sans the voting, to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:27 PM
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OP, message mod mail with concerns, there is no need to make a post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:14 PM
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OP, this would be better on r /FemaleLevelUpStrategy, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:04 PM
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OP, please post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:26 AM
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Looking forward to it! We definitely need more strategy posts on finance and laws, they are so important in relationships. Edit: I think it would also be useful to add on the difficulties of women being financially stable and dating/marrying in your post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:11 AM
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Of course! If anyone wants to add anything in the comments or even make their own post in their country's/regions laws then I'd be happy to add it to this post as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:08 AM
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He's an absolute loser and a scumbag. Please read the FDS handbook, as well as the book "why does he do that" by Lundy Buncroft. Also post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:30 AM
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Best you can do is make a a post about it somewhere and pressure/publicly shame Facebook. But honestly Facebook is a breeding ground for trafficking eight now so I doubt can be done. Sorry you have to see that crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:26 AM
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OP, please read the FDS handbook, and follow the steps and guides to dating(especially since you're inexperienced, it's better to have a guideline so you can build good strategies) and post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:21 AM
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Move on. You're already confused and anxious about it and that's never a good sign. If he wanted to he would have, his lack of interest is crystal clear. Your time is precious, and if he comes back with excuses then bye. Just block him. Also post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:19 AM
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Block and delete, it's not your job to take on a stranger's baggage. Is this what you want your life to be? Reread the handbook and next time post questions like this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:02 AM
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OP, next time post dating question to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:53 AM
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I want you to know from the bottom of my heart that it wasn't your fault. Everyone in your life failed you, and I mean everyone. You were a child and they led you like a lam to the slaughter. That man, may he rot in hell is an absolute sicko and pedophile. I'm glad you eventually got out and divorced, it must have taken a lot of strength. As for continuing the cycle, have women ever had any other option? Media , the news and the world constantly tells us to stick with such men, to give them chan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:58 PM
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OP post questions like this to r /askFDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:18 PM
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OP, there's some good and bad advice being given here. I would suggest you handle this with professionalism. There is no more friendship to be had from this woman, she's made her feelings on you clear. This is a pickmeisha and a lvw. Ignore her, her feelings are not your responsibility or you baggage to take on. You are only ever responsible for your own life. Don't engage with her besides work but don't ignore her either. If she brings it up tell her you believe it would be better if you keep t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:18 PM
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OP, next time post questions like this to r /askFDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:03 PM
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Please check out r /FemaleLevelUpStrategy for leveling up as well as r /smartchickmakebank or even r /finance and r /frugal. Also read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:54 AM
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Yep it's called love bombing. Please read the FDS handbook, and also check out the podcast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:52 AM
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Read the FDS handbook. Also it's 2021, tell him to use his phone alarm. Or just dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:51 AM
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First of all read the handbook, second imo his ass, block and delete. Online dating for two years? That's not even a real relationship. Move on from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:48 AM
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OP, this isn't worth the worry, he's making you anxious. Dump him. Also post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:24 AM
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OP, post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:33 AM
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OP, I see from your history that your main issue is that you had a bad friend group. While I understand that you've made multiple posts with bad takes that have had to be removed. Remember the scope of this sub and please stop derailing conversation in even other users posts. You've been warned before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:20 PM
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Read the handbook, and next time post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:54 PM
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It's a recipe for disaster. The whole thing's is awful, read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:37 PM
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First definitely read the handbook, this guy is a literal loser and a clown. Forget his feelings, he cares nothing about yours, he's just using you. Slowly move your stuff out and get friends and relatives to be there when it's done. Be extremely safe, this is the time men are most unhinged. Also please post his to r /askFDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:34 PM
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You look very happy. I'm so glad you're out of that and wish you nothing but the best. However I will be removing this as we get a lot of stalkers and harassed here, they'll try to doxx anyone on this sub. Please delete any identifying info in your history of you want to participate here or just make an alt, thank you and all the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:32 PM
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99 bottles of scrote? Pull one down pass it around lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:15 AM
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Covid has forced women and children to be trapped with abusers. They're the ones who are suffering the most, not to mention government's trying to push banning abortions and women being forced out of the workforce because of shit employers and even shittier useless men who won't do anything at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:00 PM
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Yeah she's a PickMe and seems to be going through something as well. I'd suggest trying to show her the stats on OLD sexual assault rates, as well as the stats on men who have STI's. Maybe some FDS content and generally things like that. Having said that you can't change her if she doesn't want to change. So maybe keep yourself at a distance from her if that's not something you can be around. Also post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 07:21 PM
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That man was an LVM from the get go, and basic decency and not being an asshole are not high value traits. They're literally bare minimum. This guy's was a clown through and through, glad it's over. Read the handbook, OP. Always leave at the first sign of a red flag, all of those things alone should of been a block and delete but together they're a blaring red flag of mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 07:18 PM
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No, you're being desperate and a PickMe. Just let it go, live your life and focus on yourself. Please read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 07:16 PM
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This is truly a horrible situation OP, and I'm sorry you're going through this. Please post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:39 AM
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He's not a friend, he's an orbitor. Meaning he's going to orbit until you show a moment of weakness and try to sleep with your, or worse. Drop him, he adds nothing to your life and just stresses you out. Also please post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:36 AM
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OP I get what you're trying to say but you haven't read the handbook, as this is FDS and courting and not chasing men is what we're about here. Please read the handbook, the sub rules and check out the podcast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:08 AM
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OP, we do not accept solicitations here and it's dangerous for our users to join unknown groups. If you want to be part of this community then read the handbook and our sub rules before posting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:03 AM
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Girl I- This entire post though lmao.💀😭🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:21 PM
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Read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:15 PM
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It's like a twilight zone episode when you catch a group of actually good looking men. Like spotting the tooth fairy or something lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:44 PM
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You're fine to share books,shows etc, our rules are for Reddit and involving subreddits and users. We're heavily monitored and they're just waiting for a reason to ban us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:41 PM
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Great post OP, this is definitely something we should all be considering, it's not just starting to really plan and invest. You have to be aware of the obstacles in your way and how they will affect you, as well as trying strategies to circumvent them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:37 PM
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Next time post personal dating advice question to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:23 PM
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FDS is against asking men out, no matter how you spin it. None of what you did was worth the effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:20 PM
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It's in the handbook for a reason, you're acting desperate and it's not good for you. People can see it, heck I can see it in the short paragraphs you included here. You need to get over your crush and focus in yourself. At FDS we also advocate for leveling up ourselves and keeping this PickMe mindset where you think you need a guy doesn't do you any favours. And it puts you in a worse position when you try to vet, because you're already too eager to brush away his faults and make excuses. Calm …
/r/askFDS10/06/21 05:46 PM
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TW! This place is evil honestly and the men on here are sick. The mod mail is always full of rape threats and death threats, the things they try to post are horrific(dick pics and violent images).Once I had to stay off of modding for a week because of the shit I saw. I wish I could report every single one of the sick fucks to the authorities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:31 AM
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No. All you will do is make him feel better about hurting you, if he reads it at all. Don't waste your time writing paragraphs to men, or explaining yourself. Read the FDS handbook.
/r/askFDS10/06/21 12:34 AM
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Your history shows you just got out of a relationship. You shouldn't be dating period right now, and the fact that you keep posting asking about dating advice doesn't speak well to your frame of mind right now. You're being a pickme, you need to stop and re-evaluate. Take time to yourself, figure things out. Read the handbook and find some healing, it's absolutely not the time to be involved with another man, you're too vulnurable.
/r/askFDS09/06/21 10:37 PM
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Didn't the real life Z go to jail for multiple counts of trafficking, as well as murder?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:31 PM
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OP, please post this to r /FDSSuperFans, thank you, note you have to join to post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:02 PM
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Honestly my face has gone past RBF, and straight into a sneer of disgust lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:38 PM
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That was cold water on my face. " The culture does the grooming and the girls being groomed will date the boys being groomed by the porn industry." So chilling. An entire society being set up for the rape and degradation of women on all ends. Wow, I've know this for a while but the way she said it really just brought it home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:50 PM
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Wow, this is definitely shocking and yet a great decision on your part. You've done amazing off of Reddit and the content you bring to the world has reached places we couldn't on here. It really is time for a lot of us to start contributing outside of Reddit and creating content and spaces women can go to outside of here. You'll be missed but I look forward to seeing your future content on the website and on your podcast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:33 PM
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All broke scrotes have is audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:17 AM
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OP, post this to r /FemaleLevelUpStrategy, this sub is for personal dating advice.
/r/askFDS09/06/21 02:20 AM
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OP, please post this to r /FDSSuperFans, thank you. Note you have to join the sub before posting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:50 PM
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Yes. And OP, post these to r /askFDS,thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:13 PM
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OP, please post this to r /FemaleLevelUpStrategy, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:36 AM
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I'm glad! The second one in the series will be coming soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:37 PM
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Thank you! If you haven't already then definitely check out this post on personal finance. I think it would help you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:33 PM
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Very proud and happy for you. I hope your life continues to get better and you find healing. We love seeing women put themselves first and truly live happy fulfilled lives. Everyone here is cheering you on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:30 PM
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Sis you don't even go here. You've got fuck all FDS participation in your history except for when you were dancing for Reddit men's attention on the SW post. You don't even have a flair. The other mod let you have your say despite not having one and nobody agreed with you.You've read the handbook, participated? Why are you even lying? If you don't like it then leave. You're done here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:53 PM
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Personally it would depend on your own financial situation, the current deal seems fine as long as you're only paying for those two things(vet/food) and nothing else. Although if he's making that much more than you, yeah you might need to look at this again. Our point is that the man should be taking care of you, should be doing everything to make your life better. Does he take you out? Buy you gifts? Romance you? Just because you're together doesn't mean that type of effort stops. Also please p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:47 PM
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I agree so much. I also think the state of women's helplessness is created by the culture and the system and enforced onto women and girls. They want us to be helpless and clueless but at the same time the systems in place are not in our favour even if we do try. You really have to arm yourself with knowledge. I also posted this smartchickmakebank!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:55 PM
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That woman gave fantastic advice, and the clown who responded should go back to the circus. Edit: So many clowns in that thread, god save us from libfems and pickmes who open the door to our assaulters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:25 PM
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Yes, we have to do the most to make sure we have a good community here so that the users can enjoy it. That means vetting people, it means practicing what we preach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:00 PM
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Np, just resubmit it without it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:49 PM
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That's attempted murder,and if she dies it'll be a homicide case(who am I kidding tho, cops don't care). She needs to GTFO, and file a police report. This man is a sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:14 AM
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He told you what he thinks of women...and you. Complete sociopath, nobody who can have such an opinion is alright. I'd dump him, he won't change and if anything he'll actually get worse, he tested you here. To see if you'd stay after he told you who he is, you stay and he ups his game(treats you worse) Also please post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:18 AM
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Read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:15 AM
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It's not. Frankly even just by what you've said I already see multiple red flags, and we don't even know the true inner workings of their relationship, it could be much worse. Don't look at others to judge your own standards, set your standards and boundaries and accept nothing but the very best. Anything else is selling yourself short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:08 AM
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OP remove the photo, we don't allow identifying info for user safety. We have a lot of crazies trying to doxx and stalk us here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:02 AM
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I'll definitely be addressing these in the next part as they're important to women specifically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:01 AM
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Lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:25 AM
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Exactly. I've added your advice to the post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:20 AM
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Reddit men are like what happened to the gremlins when you fed them after midnight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:13 PM
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Men who don't take care of the women they claim to love are straight up losers. Wastes of space honestly. Miss me with these video gamers, dusty af.😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:30 PM
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Don't worry scrotes, Reddit cares about you. We all know that's your only friend lmao.💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:24 PM
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Sis, pump the brakes. You're being a pickme here. The guy hasn't even shown interest, he should be chasing you. Not the other way around. Having crushes is a waste of time and energy, you've built up a fantasy and it's not based on reality. Give him your number? Be real, men don't want to be chased. He'll see you're easy and treat you like shit, and you don't even know he's a good guy. You don't know someone you see here and there. Read the handbook, try and kill this crush.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:04 PM
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You described a lot of what it is. It's basically faux empowerment choice feminism. Women who think adding the word empowerment to something somehow makes it empowering. It's the state of liberal feminism as it is today, where women act exactly as the patriarchy wants them to and yet still think they're feminist. Feminism is for women, by women and about women. It's not a bat signal for the world's issues, though we've always been on the forefront of human rights issues. And no it's not about me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:59 PM
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He's raping you. Coercive rape is a thing. He is extremely abusive. Please read up on DARVO, negging, narcissists and gaslighting. Also check out the book "why does he do that" by Lundy Buncroft. This man is a danger to you, I am so sorry you are going through this. Please read the handbook and post this to r /askFDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:51 PM
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Nothing. You already are, it's not going to change. Dump him and move on. Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:46 PM
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They are not affiliated with us in any way. We get a lot of people blatantly ripping us off and pretending to be us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:36 AM
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OP, you have a selfie in your profile. Please either delete it or make an alt account just for FDS. We have a lot of stalkers and creep harassing us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:36 AM
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They do though, if a man really wanted the child the courts would be in his favour. Not to mention the bullshit of keeping families together and parental alienation, which serve to keep a woman attached to her abuser. These men don't want their kids, and the ones they have they abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:33 AM
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These are the type of men that shouldn't exist period. There would be no loss if they were gone from this earth. If anyone can report these sick fucks, please do so. I hope to god those girls are safe and away from these freaks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:55 PM
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Your boyfriend is manipulating you and gaslighting you. Please look up on negging,gaslighting as well as DARVO. Read the FDS handbook, and check out the book "why does he do that" by Lundy Buncroft. I'd rethink this relationship, he seems pretty insidious. Also post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:50 PM
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Please post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:45 PM
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OP, post personal question to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:49 AM
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She sounds idiotic. Reaching out and explaining yourself could be life and death for women. When you leave a man and the year after that are one of the most dangerous times in a woman's life. They're unstable. I find myself thinking if your therapist is a libfem, I dislike therapy that doesn't acknowledge the difference between men and women, including status and the ramifications. You can't paint us in the same moral brush, because we're not the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:03 PM
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FDS says wait 3 months for anything intimate anyways. I'd suggest not saying anything, men will often become Even more skeevy when they find out you're a virgin. They'll do anything and everything to get you. It's not about honesty for you, it's about safety and not ending up with a bad guy. So wait, you don't have to explain yourself to them about this, your no should be enough. When you're more serious, as in he's proved himself to a good level and is about to propose then tell him. This will …
/r/askFDS01/06/21 08:06 PM
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Exactly, stop letting men manuever you around. They're trying everything in the book to make into something they can control and fit into their life(use). There's some great insights in the handbook, but basically your standards and boundaries have to be on lock. For example no calls or texts after 9:00 pm, your time is precious and having long af convos with this guy will not endear your to him in the way you want. He'll see you as a therapist, fit you into a certain frame in his mind. YOU cont…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:58 PM
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I believe the mod running one of the top women centered subs is actually an MRA supporter irl. They're doing this on purpose, trying to control the narrative and spread misinformation. That's why we need woman only spaces desperately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:30 AM
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Absolutely sickening. What a deluded creep. And I never really expected shit from Reddit admins so no surprise on their inaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:28 AM
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Sis you don't need a man. What we do here is let women interact and share advice. We try to give strategies for those who are dating and for those who are married etc. But we also say you can just be on your own,vetting will never be fullproof, men can and will switch up. If you want to live your life without one, then go ahead. Live a beautiful amazing life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:10 PM
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Read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:07 PM
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yes, all men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:17 PM
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I've noticed an increasing trend when I go online shopping or just looking for clothes, the women are posed sexually or provocatively, despite the consumer being women. What's the point of it? I want to see how the clothes look, I don't want to see her in the male gaze. Just another form of psychological terrorism, we can't ever rest with this shit. Also "seeking floral arrangement"?? The innuendo is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:34 PM
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Hi, yes you have to join the community first, but I manually approved you so you're good. You can post now and it'll go through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:10 AM
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💯. Check out u/electroloop post on the matter, there's some great tips there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:59 AM
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GIRL. Lmao 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:54 AM
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Ah....the field, an oldy but a classic. Right up there with the nest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:45 AM
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OP please post this to r /FDSSuperFans, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:44 AM
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It's a huge red flag. It means he's always in need of validation and attention from women. Also desperate for sex and whatever else he's doing in there. Post this to r /askFDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:05 AM
1

Just regular misogyny and hatred of women making them angry and violent over us talking with each other. Nothing new. I'd recommend reading the FDS handbook and some of the book recs, also check out the Podcast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:03 AM
1

Read the FDS handbook and sub rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:58 AM
1

You don't. He either likes you or not. Don't bother with crushes or even going after men. It never works, you come off desperate and like a PickMe. Read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:56 AM
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Clown shit. Fucking peanut butter and cheap chocolate in return for getting beat. There's no words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:39 PM
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Tiktok is mostly full of young kids, this shit should be illegal. Grown adults need to get their creepy asses of these apps and stop grooming these kids. Absolutely abhorrent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:32 PM
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It's just misogyny and hatred of women sis. They hate you because they can't stand you being happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:28 PM
1

Sounds like he has a forever gf on his hands, he's had you for less so why would he ever do more? You deserve better than this, do you really want to be supporting him and doing the majority chores? Read the FDS handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:22 PM
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I'd read the handbook. A coffee date is an immidiate no from the get go. I'm glad you've seen that it's not worth it and you don't waste time next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:17 PM
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This is creepy and harassment. Block and delete, if he contacts you then tell him not to contact you again or you'll take action. Also please post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:10 AM
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This is if you have access to his phone or other things, probably in a later stage of the relationship, but it's an interesting tip I found out. Check his history. If you're on Chrome, even if he deletes his browser history you can see it in Google activity. Just go to data and personalization and from then on check "manage activity". You can see what he's doing across his Google accounts or even narrow it to just chrome. Also check his tabs, and his word search. Searches and key words are autom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:04 AM
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This site used to host one of the largest collections of CP, along with a myriad of racist terrorist movements and subs. It used to have subs called deadeyes about raped and abused women. A lot of these things have been removed, though not nearly enough. Sadly what you see now is actually a better version of this place. It's probably the nostalgia making you think otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:48 PM
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Don't text him again, block and delete him. Also post this to r /ASKFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:51 PM
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100% future faking along with love bombing, and hot and cold actions. Dump him, block and delete, reread the handbook if you need to and check out the book "Why does he do that" by Lundy Buncroft.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:49 PM
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Why would you think he was HVM based on not even a handful of dates? Sis you went to a walk with him AND let him in your home? He showed you basic decency by not taking advantage of you (raping you) that's the bare minimum. Just block and delete at this point, none of this was good. Next time don't get so emotionally attached and have better boundaries with dates. Post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:09 AM
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Please read the FDS handbook and post this to r /askFDS,thank you. Also your ex bf was a major scumbag. You don't need to do anything that makes you uncomfortable or hurts you, if a man can't put you first and care about your comfort then he's not worth it. Your body is perfect as is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:04 AM
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We don't support porn in any form here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:01 AM
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Men who get upset you don't drink are usually rapists. Drinking is a way to get your vulnurable and susceptible. I always recommend you don't drink when you're on dates, also a great way to vet. If they show any sign of being upset or uncomfortable or worse, then ditch them, they're creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:52 AM
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I don't know why people think generalizations are bad, and that only anecdotal evidence of one occurrence is proof of something. Not that this guy had a leg to stand on with his scrote rage and his so called proof was actually in your favour and not his. Men only care about generalizations when it gets too close to home. people are most defensive when they feel called out. And it's also funny how they agree with the same generalizations women make, only when it comes from another man. Guaranteed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:34 AM
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Also don't forget the multiple locations in one date thing. It's a way to make you think you've been on multiple dates and know this person longer.He might even want to go an "adventure", don't do it, as humans we get emotionally attached to people we go through things with. Dinner dates are the best way to stay objective and not get manipulated as easily. It puts them on the spot, not you. Touching you is also to desensitize you to their touch, make you feel more comfortable with them despite n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:36 PM
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Incredibly sad and heartbreaking. Men and their violence ruin our lives, I hope she finds healing from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:37 AM
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Read the FDS handbook. And yes he is a dusty and you were a PickMe(taco bell? Jesus) and potentially still are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:34 AM
1

Please read the handbook OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:31 AM
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Hi OP, please post this to r /FDSSuperFans, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:30 AM
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💀💀💀😭 This got me though lmao. And honestly they can't say shit against this, because this is exactly how they talk to women. Difference is they're fully serious with what they say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:53 PM
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This was very powerful, I'm glad you put it into words. How many of us hear these things every single day, day in and day out. It's exhausting living in a world that both treats you like a second class citizen and denies your humanity.Or maybe it's the fact that we're human at all that they hate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:53 PM
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He didn't have sex with anyone, he raped them. Prostitutes can't consent, it's a power dynamic and the fact that money is involved. Not to mention their circumstances. He sounds like a scumbag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:25 PM
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My advice is on boundaries. If you're vetting someone make sure you set up physical boundaries. Don't let them touch you unnecessarily, predators often violate your personal space and constantly touch you to desensitize you to their touch. It creates a false familiarity and comfort association to their touch. They also do it to further push your boundaries. Pay attention to where they touch and what they do when you show discomfort. Is their first instinct to put their hand on your thigh? Drape …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:17 PM
1

Read the handbook, it answers a lot of your questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:27 PM
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On the other hand I've noticed PickMe come into the popular culture vocabulary. I've seen people use it left and right, and not at all in the right context It's so bizarre, girls are out here throwing Pickmes at each other without even knowing what it means or why we say it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:32 PM
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The actor for Spike was also a creep, he wrote a love song about Michelle Trachtenberg (Dawn's actor). It seems everyone on that show was creeping on the only underage girl there, sick freaks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:50 PM
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Dump him, he sounds like a loser. Please read the FDS handbook and check out the podcast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:47 PM
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That's why I called his fragile ego the size of Mars lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:02 PM
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And for the love of god, don't send essays or paragraphs either. Just block and delete, there's nothing you can say that he doesn't already know. No, you won't be having the last word and no you don't need closure. Block and delete,move on, he told you everything you needed to know with how he treated you. Don't argue with them either, don't tell them how to treat you or what they did wrong. It just gives them the answers on how to play you. If they don't impress you then bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:01 PM
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I'm rewatching Buffy the vampire Slayer and Bones. All the guys in Buffy are creeps with an extra dose of freaks. It makes a whole lot of sense that Joss Whedon created the Xander as a character to reflect him, especially since Xander apparently got together with Dawn in the comics. Yeah the same Dawn whose actress wasn't allowed to be alone in a room with Whedon because he's a creep. Don't get me started on the rest of them, with pedophile Angel and rapist bdsm freak Spike, or fragile ego the s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:37 PM
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These men are negging you. They're intimidated,they are trying to put you down, and lower your self esteem. They're not worth shit, imo the only response should be walking away. Nothing for you there but wasted time. But I think there could be discussion on how to handle remarks like these in a professional setting, since this happens so often to us when we're working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:25 PM
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Men don't change. You want to be one of those women who says he changed when he eventually slips up again? You know how this story goes, it's a tale as old as time. He already wasted yours, don't give him any more of your time or your life. He doesn't really make you happy or fulfilled and your life's not better with him around. Dump him, choose yourself. Read the handbook and the book recs, and focus on yourself and leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:03 PM
1

You can't, he already had you. Coffee dates and walking? Girl. I understand it's pre-fds but why would he bother to pay now when he knows he can get it for free and cheap? I'd just dump him and move on, if he's willing to split then he's LV, nothing here for you. Move on and reread the handbook, it's not just about the guy paying, HVM is more than that and if you're going to be dating you can't be this emotionally attached to nothing(which 3 or so dates is nothing).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:57 PM
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Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. I think he wrote what he wrote as a last ditch effort to seem important to you, to make you remember him in death like you couldn't in life. I hope you heal from this and know you're better than anything he was or said. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:45 PM
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Leveling up isn't a straight line sis, sometimes you stumble or take different routes. As long as you're trying, at the end of the day it's not about impressing us or being the perfect FDS lady, it's about YOUR maximum happiness and benifit. Which this man was not, don't beat yourself up, focus on yourself and how next time it'll be different. Good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:43 PM
1

Welcome OP! Glad you're here, please read the sub rules, and the handbook before posting. Also check out the FDS Podcast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:58 AM
1

It's done. He told you what his decision is, if you do anything at this point then it's just desperate, he'll have the high ground and resent you if you get into a relationship. Please post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:57 AM
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OP, please read the FDS handbook and post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:22 PM
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I can't stand OLD, they use women as the product,never forget that. They're full of desperate and even violent men who aren't really screened. It's a scrotes catalogue. They foster a fast food approach to dating, and namely women. They make men think that all those women they swipe on are actually available and attainable to them. It's all very psychologically manipulative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:48 PM
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Considering how women are conditioned into sex pozzy libfem bullshit, the porn usage and subsequent kinks must be truly depraved, for women to be getting divorced. Everyone is telling them to be open sexually, and these mf still must be pushing the boundaries beyond all reason for this to be happening. I hope more women wake up, these men are a lost cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:05 AM
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First off, you didn't do anything to deserve being abused and even if he didn't abuse her, it doesn't mean you were the problem. He's the problem, always has been, and always will be, he's rotten to the core and people like that don't change. I'm sorry you went through what you did but I think you need to move on from him and heal. Block and delete, destroy any access he has to you. Please read the FDS handbook, and I especially recommend the book "Why does he do that" by Lundy Buncroft (I'm sur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:13 AM
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Is there anything more fragile than a man's ego?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:54 AM
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Very well said. At the end of the day it's another way women are commodified and objectified. They will always find ways to make money off of us and to use us, plastic surgery is a booming business. Big money for what amounts to willing mutilation of people's bodies. There's no surprise that the industry intersects with the Hollywood and porn industry. Both of which also use women's bodies in one way or another. It's insane that the world has told women that all they have to offer is their bodie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:33 AM
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Complete LVM, dump his ass, he's either settling for you or using you. Read the FDS handbook before posting, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:09 PM
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Hi OP, your ex bf sounds like a nightmare, anyone making you do something you don't want doesn't care about you. And trust me he knew, men aren't stupid they always know, I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Please read the handbook and post this to r /askFDS, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:54 PM
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No, if he can't put in the effort you want this early then he's not worth shit. Why settle at all? He's a stranger relatively and you're thinking way too much about him, he had his chance to impress you and he failed, onto the next one. Please read the handbook and post this to r /askFDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:52 PM
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He was the real eye candy of Criminal Minds, hands down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:50 AM
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Omg Rosewood! He has a perpetual hot smolder but when he smiles..damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:49 AM
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That's the true indicator, no wall for this man lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:46 AM
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Hi OP, glad you're here! Please read the handbook there is also a book rec list ("why does he do that" is a game changer) and definitely check out the FDS podcast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:48 AM
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Food and places to go are nowhere near the same league. He's pushing off the planning onto you, completely different. I'd give the handbook another read.
/r/askFDS08/05/21 02:32 AM
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He should ask your preference, especially if you have food intolerance and other things. He should of all the planning and show initiative but asking you what type of food you like is par for the course. His plans should be with you in mind afterall.
/r/askFDS08/05/21 02:29 AM
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I wouldn't accept activity dates anyway. They use them as a bonding tactic, when you go through something with someone even a date you emotionally attach with them. Dinner dates are easier for women to vet men and it's harder for them to put on an act.
/r/askFDS08/05/21 02:17 AM
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He's already asking you to plan shit? Girl. This is the time he's supposed to be impressing you, and this is what he comes up with? He's got his best behaviour on right now and he's till looks like a damn clown. Drop his ass, don't employ scarcity mindset with men and, don't justify behaviour for literal strangers. You're looking for quality, not to waste your time on another typical lvm.
/r/askFDS08/05/21 02:01 AM
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AskFDS is for personal advice OP, not for theorizing, that's the main sub.
/r/askFDS04/05/21 04:33 PM
1

Please read the sub rules, askFDS is for personal questions, not a place to discuss FDS ideas. Our stance on this is clear in the handbook.
/r/askFDS25/04/21 01:56 AM
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Probably because he's a predator using his influence and manipulating them??? It's always the case imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:57 PM
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Canada, and I think some Ameircan states. The bill s supposed to make it so statutory rape is not as harsh if the person was 18 at the time of the sexual act. Or if someone of the age of 14-15 has sex with someone who is at most 5 years older.It does have a lot of holes to though. Because does it also apply to a 17 yr old having sex with someone 5 yrs older? What can be argued in court? And of course there is the constant push to further change the law.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:29 PM
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An addition to your edit, that men are also fighting to lower the age of consent (passed some places) as well as abolish the sex offender registry. Wonder what the fucking endgame is huh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:44 PM
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I think it's a grift. Grooming the next generation of young girls once the current generation figures out that it was bullshit and they were abused. They also try to keep older women from warning younger women and girls by pitting us against each other. There is no such thing as sex positive, there is just exploitation of women and girls. What the hell is wro g with valuing yourself? Why do men get to set out to value. I thought we were moving away from our value only being in our bodies, and ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:04 PM
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Maximum 4 yrs or even 5(which is stretching it). Life is very different with any more years added, the imbalance is too much. Note this only applies once you hit 25, if someone is five years older than you when you're 24 and under than that is disgusting. If some is older than 1-2 years if you're 18 and under also disgusting. And if some is above 18 when you're 18 and under then call the police, they're fucking sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:00 PM
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Blaring red flag. Controlling behaviour like this shows that he doesn't care about people. He only does what he "should" do because that's what society says. There is no genuine feeling in him to care or take care of others. Infact, he probably resents any effort he spends that's not on himself. Men like this only get worse with time, or they snap and end up murdering their partners. He has some severe cognitive dissonance. Very stranger and sinister behaviour especially since there is no empath…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:25 PM
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Men have stolen our labour, wether it be physical, emotional, intellectual or even spiritual since the dawn of humanity. Women have been at the cornerstone of evolution, continuing to create and push for change all the while men steal the spotlight. The more I learn about women in history the more mad I get at society as a whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:56 PM
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He's an absolute creep and a sicko. It's crazy that they don't think they've committed a crime, when their behaviour and the way they felt about committing the act is obvious serial killer pathology. Male socialization truly breeds violent and unstable individuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:56 AM
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That was so damn iconic. Quintessential FDS in action. An aspiration!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:19 PM
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I report so many people but I know the mods are swamped. Also every time new users come in we get swarmed with libfem/pickme sentiment. And sometimes even seasoned users say the most sexist things, a quick check in their post/comment history really clears up why though. Also dear god if I see another comment on here, or of users saying elsewhere: "I don't agree with everything FDS says", like who are you justifying yourself to? Some random Reddit troll who you don't know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:43 PM
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Oof. Just checked her post history and her recent one...big yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:37 PM
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Haha child negligence, sooo funny/s. Damn I know it's a trip being stuck with an lvm, but can you at least not let him treat the kid how he treats you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:44 AM
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Sis I'm sorry but yikes. That site is a cesspool and there are way better things to do with your time. Please read the handbook as well as the book recs. 'Why does he do that' is a good start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:06 AM
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Yeah lol. Like I'm sorry because the other user seems nice but yeah she also seems very naive. There was no way they were genuine,not on that site. She needs to reread the handbook and save her energy next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:04 AM
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These are the type of guys crying online about men's rights. Damn pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:20 AM
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God bless you sis, but no this idiot kidnapped a store doll. I don't even think it was that kind of store...just extremely pathetic and depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:18 AM
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Yikes yeah. Report their asses. And the point is to have a space for women run by women. That's important, that's so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:50 PM
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Those are ads placed by Reddit. They're everywhere unless you pay for Reddit gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:38 AM
8

Can you not use the "r" word?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:03 AM
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We have stalker subs, even subs trying to be an offshoot FDS and we also have people stealing the logo and the name to try and make online store etc. It's wild honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:02 AM
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Daily reminder to people that your chats are not private. Admins can view what you write, and they do so. Never share private or identifying info anywhere. If you're telling a story then fudge the details, for example he wasn't from New York but LA. Also scrub your history every couple of months. And you can turn of your DMs if you want, just got to settings then account settings, scroll down and turn off chat directs and messages. Edit: Also delete the metadata from any photos you post or just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:05 AM
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Ew wtf,report her username to the mods. That's absolutely disgusting low value behaviour. But yeah lol, I had one user call the users on that sub stupid and at the same time accuse us of the same thing. They're honestly on something, the tone policing is unreal. I report their asses, I've seen PickMe energy on 3 seperate posts. Especially one where a user was trying to talk about the damagea.of porn and the hypocrisy of men. The Pickmes of course raged at the assumption of "all men", raised thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:45 AM
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Lmao I think I remember those users, they really felt some type of way because we were calling out the reality of SAHM. If you're not ready to level up then then damn why even comment, just to go whine to other subs about those mean old FDS ladies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:14 PM
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This was amazing to see. God, their words, you feel them deep down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:03 PM
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Very beautiful. Wow, I'm just so happy for them. They're both free and they built each other up. She's gorgeous and I'm so happy for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:57 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/m2elv8/what_dominique_sisley_vice_said_she_was_writing/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Couple posts made about this. Basically pickme reporter wrote a hit piece about FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:52 PM
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Hell even the regular harassment women get online and irl period. It's crazy how priveleged she must be, or maybe just out of touch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:50 PM
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Good luck! Hope everything goes well! And yeah at this point I feel like that's the only surety, it's like they hold us prisoner with our wombs. Pisses me off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:47 PM
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Sent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:46 PM
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Sent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:45 PM
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Sent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:43 PM
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You know the one comment I made that got me the most rage messages? ... I said :"Men aren't funny" And I stand by it, as far as I'm concerned that shit is the 11th commandment in the Bible. Holy words really. I'll repeat them night and day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:33 PM
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OMG💀 Also who's abusing her? Or is she lurking on here lmao?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:31 PM
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Ugh the which would you date question pisses me off, makes you want to be petty af. Like tell him: I like guys who are good looking, but it's okay I still want to be with you because you're funny. Watch his ass rage at that. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:05 PM
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Sent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:40 PM
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That's because of what's happened recently, a lot of new users have joined up. And yes it was created when GC got banned by the mods of GC. Phenomenal effort from those ladies and what they've managed to do, all on their own time and dime without any pay. The site's not even a year old but there are a good amount of circles(subs) to join. Of course the user base is not as huge as Reddit but it's slowly coming up. It's not everybody's cup of tea but it's pretty good. It's meant to be a woman cent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:18 PM
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Sent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:16 PM
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Sent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:15 PM
2

Have you checked out ovarit.com ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:46 AM
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Well known and used tactic. Put women at the front of these things to take the heat. If you want to attack feminism or women centered spaces, use women. If you want to have someone take the fall for what's currently going wrong, use women, they do this a lot in politics and business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:43 AM
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They say that like it's a bad thing lmao. Kink is basically rape, and rape culture wrapped up in bullshit reasoning, and lukewarm allure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:40 AM
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The same old shit, don't they use this same reason to hate on teenage girls? Because they're soooo mean and catty./s Fucking pathetic whiny ass fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:37 AM
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Exactly lmao. In which case, god bless the user for that quick wit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:19 AM
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Hope you get picked, sis. Picked for what too? Like do none of these Pickmes understand they're a pump and dump at most? Men are not good people, they'll use your time, energy, body and even your very soul and leave you high and dry. The moment she's not useful to them she's out, but for now they use her as an attack dog towards other women. I see this tactic a lot, have the women in your workforce attack other women in defence of men, so you can't be called out for misogyny and also as a gotcha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:13 AM
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Literally. She's THAT backstabbing PickMe friend we've all had at one point. She'll leave you alone drunk at a party to go with some guy, or even start talking down to you in a group of guys to impress them. Embarassing af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:11 AM
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I don't know what's happened to journalism honestly. Like it used to be that there was some real hard hitting investigative journalism out there, and I'm sure there still is but it's not mainstream anymore. Anybody can write anything now and call it journalism. Where are the qualifications? Where's the standards? Do they have checks and balances or can they just say whatever. For people with so much power over public opinion it's messed up how unqualified most of them are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:09 AM
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Yeah that part stood out to me immediately. She was also demanding too, felt like a teacher handing out an assignment. No graciousness,no genuine interest, no conversation, nothing. Just "hey wyd, come over" esque, very scrote speak energy imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:07 AM
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Sent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:58 AM
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Sent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:04 AM
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Hey thanks for the reply, I just wanted to make sure you were alright with what the site is about. Glad to hear you want to join, it seems you chats are off? I go to your profile and it's not showing me the chat option to DM you the code...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:00 AM
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Sent it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:22 AM
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Your history is really sparse so can you check out ovarit.com and see if it fits and if it's something you like or agree with first? Also one of your subs is kinda catching me off guard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:08 AM
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Hi your account history is kinda sparse so I don't know if you would like it, can you check out ovarit.com and see if it fits with you? Let me know if it's something that would interest you after you check it out and I'll send you an invite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:06 AM
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Sent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:04 AM
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Sent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:03 AM
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Hope you like it! It's still new as it was only created a month after GC was banned but the ladies have done a phenomenal job and engagement is pretty good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:19 AM
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Yep, and I read the rebuttal on Ovarit and all the receipts from them too. She really stabbed them in the back big time! The whole situation was shady af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:18 AM
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Sent it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:17 AM
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Sent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:16 AM
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Sent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:15 AM
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My chats are turned off but I just sent you an invite. Please remember to read the sitewide rules as well as the rules for each circle(sub). Glad to have you and hope you enjoy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:32 AM
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I'm on Ovarit myself so I won't be completely deprived of a female centered space but yeah it'd be pretty devastating to lose all this. This space and the conversations we have with each other's the solidarity, being able to actually speak and not get derided for it, it'd be a blow for sure. I don't know how we'd all assemble again but I hope we would. Edit: If anyone would like an invite code to Ovarit please let me know here as my dm's are turned off. Also please remember to read the sitewide …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:35 AM
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Considering the new statistics being published about the UK, where the majority if not all girls under 18 have experienced harassment and abuse... it's downright disgusting how they downplay our everyday terror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:43 AM
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And what's the issue too? Society is constantly trying to push abortions and at the same time outlaw abortions. Plan B ruins women's hormones as do birth control pills. Every contraceptive is detrimental to women but if men have like a second of discomfort the world's about to end? Fucking cry me a river.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:10 AM
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I don't like the word handmaidens but it's literally what she's doing because she's not just being a pickme for men, but the entirety of the patriarchy. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:08 AM
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Please! Always make people aware of these dishonest journalists, they could ruin lives. Ah who am kidding, they could ruin WOMEN as that seems to be the only people they target.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:00 AM
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This is exactly what they did to Ovarit. Dishonest and deplorablerabe journalism. The end piece wasn't even good. And I'm embarrassed that both articles were done by women. They lied and deceived their interviewees and then wrote hit pieces, fuck them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:58 AM
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God. Horrifying. I am sorry that happened to her and for her loss. I hate these men so much, geriatric fucks can't step into the grave fast enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:17 PM
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I hate him. I hate his whiny little voice and his audacity. I hate how she looks like she's going to cry and that he made her feel that way. And I hate that he's subtly laughing. Fuck him, disgusting scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:06 PM
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It's fucking tactics used to break people being questioned by police is what it is. It's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:42 AM
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Also how can you be pro life and in the same breath take money from child services? Frankly why is child service itself a cesspool of abuse and sexual abuse? Have kids you don't want for what reason? Put it them in the system and have more victims created. How about instead of focusing on the one thing that doesn't mean shit, they fucking take care of their citizens and their poverty rate? Their affordable housing. Healthcare for all. Look at your freaking pandemic which is still in full swing y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:41 AM
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Truly horrific. This is what they do, wait for people's eyes to turn away and try to pass this shit under the rug. Fucking old men can't just go into that good night already, they have to make sure they screw women over first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:34 AM
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The Article: *Arkansas has passed a new law banning nearly all abortions in the state, a sweeping measure that supporters hope will force the US supreme court to revisit Roe v Wade but opponents vow to block before it takes effect later this year. The state’s Republican governor, Asa Hutchinson, said he was signing the bill because of its “overwhelming legislative support and my sincere and long-held pro-life convictions”. Republicans employ new ‘extremely aggressive’ tactics to ban abortion Hut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:33 AM
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Period. Men benefit from patriarchy on all levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:58 AM
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Just sent it to you. My chats are turned off because of trolls so that's why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:57 AM
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Exactly. In your personal life, definitely put your foot down. No means no, it's not a conversation. You leave period. You can't argue someone into treating you right. And on the macro level, it's not up to us either. Women are always doing the good work and we lead human rights movements, but that happens with us pushing against male power to succeed. Men have to be better and do better, it's not women's jobs to facilitate or oversee that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:55 AM
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Ovarit is pretty good. Engagement is great. Would you like an invite code? I can send you one if you're interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:53 AM
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Sis are you on Ovarit? Because you should be, love your stance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:48 AM
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I don't think the onus will ever fully be on women to change men. That has to come from them and you can't really expect the disadvantaged group to teach their suppressor how to be nice to them. However there is something to be said about not accepting low value or abusive behaviour your, this only works if you stand by your words though. Say no and mean it. Either they change or you're gone. And you can say no and walk away too. You don't have to wait for people to change or even accept them if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:41 AM
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Also if sex work is work then why isn't housework work as well. And why isn't it treated accordingly and payed accordingly hmm? It's almost as if men only push things that benefit them. It benefits them for women to see worth only in their bodies. And it works for them to have SAHM, as well as all women not be recognized for the fact that they work 2-3 jobs, that they're out there working 40 hr weeks, then coming home and doing the majority, if not all the cooking and cleaning AND taking care of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:33 AM
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They just want to use us. And I agree, that other user who was defending the guy saying "we don't know if he watches porn!" BULL FUCKING SHIT. The majority of men watch porn. And IF he had said "sex is sacred, I only masturbate to her, I don't watch porn" he would have been downvoted to shit. Agreed, didn't care for that PickMe not all men bullshit but I don't want to speak to those types of users either. The issue is with porn users. They've created the demand. They are directly responsible for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:22 AM
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I've read so many stories of guys pressuring their gf's into OnlyFans, or even just posting their pics and videos without their knowledge. Intimate partner sex trafficking is one of the most common types out there. The men pimp their gf's and wives ,and now with online can work, they purposefully go after women and girls to "date" just wo they can pimp them online. It's truly abhorrent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:13 AM
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Like I said, leave it. They're tone policing and worrying about the wrong things. I know you're trying to have a real conversation and I wish we could get back to that. What are your opinions on this? I wrote another comment down below that encapsulates my feelings on this. Would be interested to hear you're thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:50 AM
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Hmm very interesting. So it was wordplay that makes people think woman was create storm man. When in actuality they were created equal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:35 AM
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You get pennies on OnlyFans for what you have to do. And these you girls ruin their lives, their photos and videos are stolen and placed everywhere. How are hey going to get jobs? What if they decide to change their life? They're all so damn young too, this shit is being peddled to girls not even out of highschool ffs! Women and girls are worth more than there bodies. Our bodies are not here for male pleasure. Our pain is not here for male pleasure. Stop letting these men, who are the direct rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:31 AM
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Weren't both Adam and Lilith created together but she denied him and then that led to Eve? And I feel like Eve also has connotations of power dynamics, because she comes from his rib, so she is both God's daughter and Adam's daughter. But your point on the culture being the reason for these ideologies is very important. People forget where and when these texts were written and they can't adapt them to real world relevance or even critique them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:24 AM
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They say that but in practice it's actually the opposite. And the men who do want them do so for the reason of "using" them for their sick fantasies or just to become their pimp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:20 AM
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Leave it. This user is worrying about the wrong things. This is a discussion on the hypocrisy of men who won't "wife" porn stars despite being the biggest consumers and defenders of the industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:18 AM
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Yeah, just uses other people's work to come out with Reddit level conspiracy arguments about men being soooo disenfranchised. Like lol, cry me a river you glorified incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:32 AM
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Add Jordan Peterson to that. I was just purchasing a book on Amazon and I saw his trash on there, he called himself one of the greatest most influential minds in the world...on the cover. 40 million copies sold. I truly despair at the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:14 AM
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Watch out for the squatting rights in your area. Some men are fucking leeches with how far they'll go. Don't even let them send mail to your house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:33 AM
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Exactly, he had the audacity to ask "what's a scrote". Absolute tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:13 AM
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Yeah, it's hella frightening. Our brains are really adaptable and can accept an abusive situation as the new normal. It's why the frog slowly dying as the water turns boiling is such an apt metaphor. It's why FDS says leave at the very first sign of a red flag(it can be anything) no ifs ands or buts. I don't care if you think he's a catch or appearently HVM, DUMP HIM AT THE FIRST SIGN OF A RED FLAG. *Also being in a state of confusion is a sign of abuse. If you're feeling afloat, or unsure and a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:12 AM
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I reported him, and probably other users as well. He was a racist pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:08 AM
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Men age like an old leather couch and curdled milk. Fucking delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:47 AM
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Yes, this. I always walk on the side of the street when walking with my mom and sister now that I'm more grown, beforehand they would do it for me. But now I feel so protective, my mom is older and my sister is a new mother(I would've done it anyways but still) so I always want them to be safe. When somebody really cares and thinks about you, they'll show it. Matching your pace and keeping their mind on you in public is super important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:46 AM
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It's very cultish. Usually in cults, you have people who go out and recruit, they might lose themselves as a friend or even a potential romantic partner. Their main job is to get you in the cult, and then the entire cult reinforces the brainwahshing and gaslighting. It takes three days for a person to succumb, and they have nowhere sane to turn to, everyone is parroting the same messages. Sounds very fucking familiar to the female experience in this world, everywhete you turn the same messages a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:44 AM
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You're a scrote. As your comment history can attest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:17 AM
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Don't forget that what people call emotional and verbal abuse, is called brainwashing tactics in other senerios such as cults and torture. They do this shit to prisoners in fucked up places. They break people down. So no, you are not weak,or emotional,or overreacting when someone is actively trying to break down you sanity. What they are doing is repugnant, they are absolute scum and they are aware every step of the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:12 AM
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Anyone who posts photos of their kids in their dating profile is an instant no to me. Exactly. If they can't be bothered to care about their children,imagine what type of treatment they'll give the poor woman they con into "dating" them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:27 AM
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It's really gross to exploit and expose your kids like this. We already know these apps are full off degenerates, why would you put them in harm's way like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:46 AM
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Spoilers: I hate that they stayed together. It ended with a whimper, her saying she would never leave. That she was the only person who would stay but if he's not careful he'd burn his bridges. Like are you for real? After this man verbally abused and physically intimidated her for the better part of 2 hrs. Something that seems to be a regular occurrence. He does not and never did respect her,and that scene of her in the tub and him talking that disgusting mess about taking advantage of drug add…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:38 PM
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That's why Malcolm and Marie pissed me off so much. I hated the way that man screamed, talked, even chewed when he talked to Marie. It was a movie that was really the epitome of "struggle love" as well as a man using a woman, definitaly manic pixie dream girl vibes with his type being a certain kind of "damaged"woman he could use as a muse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:58 AM
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That image..just why sis 🤮😭 It's true though, ugly mfs have no room to talk and yet it's all they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:01 AM
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They always give the true feminist lines to "villains", it's to make it seem like those ideas are as bad as the villains are. It's subtle but very pervasive. Edit: Also notice how this plays into the Madonna/whore complex with how they're dressed and act, as well as the evil older woman and innocent shy younger woman dynamic. You aren't slick you Hollywood scrotes. Thank god I see through this conditioning the older I get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:18 AM
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Wow, even the commercials can't lie about how shit the industry is, she's not making shit and they have the audacity to make it seem like something we should be aspiring to? The world's gone crazy, no it's been crazy for a while it's just that this shit is out in the public now. It's all so deranged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:46 AM
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Not to mention the rampant pedophilia, grooming and bullying of actual children. Like grown fucking adults harassing and threatening children, makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:50 PM
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I don't think it's that she didn't appreciate you, it's that this man has his claws so deep in her I doubt you'll ever get her back. He's already isolated her and taken away her close friendships, I assure you he is an abusive evil man and I have nothing but sympathy and sadness for your friend. Edit: I do want to say that her dropping you is better for your personal peace of mind in the long run. You can't save people until they want to be saved and the situation would of just burdened you and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:39 AM
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I love it, it's very sweet, both the message and the ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:42 PM
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I agree. I don't do any of those things, and I can't be with someone who does. All that time and money spent on nothing, if anything it's spent on further destroying your health. Can't understand why people would risk themselves and their mental and physical well being for a quick fix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:21 PM
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Exactly, it uses the exact premise that will get you the worst results. A woman initiating? That's begging for an fwb/forever gf situation,no thanks! And the ads are all over YouTube for me, and they're supposed to entice women to join too! All I see is horror stories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 08:46 PM
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The bumble ads have been crazy, women are being told to make the first move, they keep saying the pandemic was a "wake up call". One woman said the love of her life had her wait an hour on her first day, another went on a walk date and it rained (checking the forecast not a thing appearently). One woman feeling flew to the guy, it was all sorts of crazy. The ads are brainwashing at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 08:37 PM
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They think that we'll just sit there and take it too. Women are fighting all over the world, if you up your agression we'll up ours. The only reason this ex positive and silencing of women is happening more and more is because society itself is focused on being nice, being placating and keeping the "peace". "Niceness" has become what we want to embody and we deride and attack anyone who deviates, women have to bend under this new control narrative even more than men. But if you want a fight? You…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:27 AM
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Yup. Where I'm from you have to make sure not to cause "undue or excess harm". Those pieces of shit can and will sue you for everything you have if they make it out alive form the situation. It's lunacy that you can't even defend yourself without losing your livelihood or your freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:44 PM
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Respecting women and considering them human beings isn't limited to people you are obligated to. You should be doing it period, not just when it personally affects you, can't stand the whole "now that I have a daughter" or even "if you wouldn't want it to be your mom/sis etc". Stop it. All women are people, start seeing them that way and get out of your head. Men live life in such a self centered manner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:05 AM
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Imagine being this psychotic and so openly too. Really messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:58 PM
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Imagine flaunting how big of a pornsick loser he is. And the fact that he doesn't have sex with actual women. Also making it all about him at the end and trivializing the issue in the beginning, stfu with that verified user woe is me horseshit. All that porn was a human rights violation and thank fuck it was deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:06 AM
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I mean, it was just this week but the sphaghetti in an old ice cream tub, along with greasy chicken wings on newspaper and a single fork is pretty up there. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/kddvqz/ion_see_shit_wrong_with_this_exactly_why_we_dont/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:48 PM
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she had such low self esteem Precisely the reason they were attracted to her, rather than her attracting them. Abusers and predators can spot easy "prey" and potential victims. They're on another wavelength truly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:12 AM
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Yeah the "cool girl" responses were not it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:10 AM
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She shoulda called the cops. Fucking creep. I have no doubt if she let him in and refused him he would of raped her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:41 AM
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Translation: He wants a woman completely devoted to him, who only cares about him, cooks and cleans and also indulges in every sick fantasy and kink he has with enthusiasm. Oh and he's not looking for commitment because he's not at that point in his life yet but love doesn't need a piece of paper to exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:52 AM
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Yeah the whole thing was so off. "I was planning on making dinner", so it's not even a date, he's just telling her come if you want but don't expect anything. He really thinks he's something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:17 AM
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I have no problem being a woman. I prefer it, what I have a problem is being in a society that tells me being a woman is wrong and punishes me for it at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:42 AM
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Not to mention that they do this to literal children. Shit starts young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:23 PM
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I PM'd her, hopefully she comes here, or at least reads the handbook which I recommended she do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:58 PM
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Lol , if the mods are men then 💯 the advice is catered to their maximum benefit and anyone who says otherwise is banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:55 PM
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I'm seeing a lot of this on FLS too, screenshots of lvm shit and things that don't have to do with FLS, also users who are banned here going there to post(so rude) because they can't here...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:54 PM
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You know what's sick though, that someone as selfish and predatory as this is in charge of vulnerable people's mental health. God forbid any of them be women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:47 PM
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Pretty simple. He's looking for mommy 2.0 and a bangmaid. He future faked you, and when he "settles" at 30 it'll be with a woman he can use, who he'll 100% cheat on and degrade, ultimately sucking the very soul out to her. You gotta stop giving men the benefit of the doubt, and stop thinking they're complicated or just stop thinking about them in general. You do too much work trying to guess the motivations and reasons for a man doing smth, it's easy for him to manipulate you if you've already d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:46 PM
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Major red flag. If he's calling them crazy then he made them that way. Sounds like a narc. Edit: The best thing I can say is try reading some of the recommended FDS books like Why does he do that and Gift of fear. As well as keeping yourself busy, get a hobby or do more things, talk to your friends more, start journalling. Remember you're not actually missing him, he didn't really make you happy. You're missing what you thought the relationship was, you're missing a romantic memory that's in you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:38 PM
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The only way this loser can feel masculine is if he oppressed women. There is nothing else to him, he is a fragile creature with a fragile ego. He's going to end up alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:51 PM
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Oh yeah. He gifted them to her and they're on her property, he has no rights to them and if anything he committed a crime going onto her property and inflicting damage and theft.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:49 PM
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👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:51 PM
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Please don't link.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:28 PM
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Yep! Seen some users on here get upset because they think they're being rejected by Feminist subs, and while libfem and pickmes certainly don't want to hear the truth, the issue is more insidious than that. These depraved losers have purposefully gone out of there way to create seemingly feminist or when spaces, in the name of continuing to brainwash and gaslight women. The true tragedy is that young women and women in general might go onto these subs hoping for a safe space tot all among their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:27 AM
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Hi you posted this twice! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:54 AM
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Seconded. Also please cross out the names of the people as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:53 AM
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What. Just what. They're even letting their stupidity show on LinkedIn, disgusting. Absolute loser, I would never hire him, he's basically told the world he's a misogynistic idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:52 AM
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Absolutely disgusting, they're even using TOR now, really? Where literally most child sex trafficking rings are hosted and the rest of that shit is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 12:22 AM
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Lol they think they're important or smth and that their opinion has value 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:45 PM
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Say you no longer want to pursue anything, and tell him not to text you again if it's that important. And then block him and don't let him have access to you. Truthfully ghosting works just as well. And he can ask but it's not his business, you already said what you said, you don't need to repeat yourself to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:36 PM
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Only when you're protected by marriage laws! Seriously. It's not worth it otherwise and this is why marriage is important, there is more legal protection for you then not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 10:50 PM
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*punishes kindness from women It really doesn't pay to be "nice" as a woman. It just means you get fucked over even harder than the rest of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 10:45 PM
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I am disgusted by everybody but your landlord. Absolutely disgusting and deplorable, and it's fucking sad that it's the norm and not the exception. I hate the state of the world so much. It's our nightmare and I will never not be impressed by the strength of women. We are so strong, this entire world is a battlefield and our strength of character and tenacity are unmatched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 10:38 PM
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First off that's wonderful of you. And yeah I doubt it'll happen in our lifetime but we can still lay the groundwork for the next generation. The fight has only recently really started and is slowly gaining traction. All we can do is not let up, to continue to push.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:32 PM
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I also said that while we work towards that end goal we should also help women in the mean time. There is no reason we can't do both, it's not either or. It's about helping women. Personally I contribute to women's shelters and sign any anti porn petition I can find, I also try to give other women info, pornhateswomen is a pretty good sub for that. We can all do our part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:20 PM
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Why don't we just work to take it away. More and more women are waking up, and men themselves are too(though it's self serving on their end because of ED). It might take longer but it's better and more worthwhile to fight for. It doesn't mean we can't help women in these conditions in the now but the end goal should always be eradicating this human trafficking and exploitation business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:43 PM
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I assure you, there is no world and no way buying and selling people for sex will ever be safe or secure. There will always be exploitation, when a person becomes a commodity then they are no longer seen as a person by those using them, either by buying them or consuming them as entertainment. They have been robbed of personhood and rights in one way or another, and the harms that this type of injustice does to society is drastic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:35 PM
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No should of been his daddy's job. But all these losers have daddy issues because they're dad's are just as scum as they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:01 PM
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A depraved meninist at that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:34 AM
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Omg I noticed that! Or they're sometimes weird in that they try to justify something awful as if they're naive to it. Or maybe those are just Pickmes, have one in FLS who keeps going on about "sex work being a choice and she respects women's right to choose" 🙄 I just corrected that naive train of thought an directed her to pornhateswomen so she can maybe begin to educate herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:33 AM
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And it'll be a correct assumption. Change the person not just the space. Be better don't just look better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:25 AM
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Nah once I saw your user I knew you were for real! I remember your posts and comments!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:16 AM
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lopsided russet potato Yoo 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:21 PM
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It's crazy though because if we did we wouldn't want to look at him because he's unattractive he'd go nuts. He'd call us shallow and whatever else, but we're just expressing our opinion aren't we.😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:59 PM
3

Libfems versus FDS lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:18 PM
10

Those emojis are pissing me off and turning me off at the same time lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:17 PM
2

Truly, maybe it's just how society has become but why does everything need to be a production and for public consumption?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:44 PM
16

What and idiot! Not only inserting himself where he doesn't belong, and has no business being but also showing how truly stupid he was. Unbelievable wth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:40 PM
3

Lol I found it sus on the DM me part because so many men are trying hard af to larp on here, but then I saw who you were and I know you're OG. Seen too many of your comments and posts to question you! Great post sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:28 PM
24

Yep!! One day he'll stop asking, and she'll be on here asking us how to make him stop but she still loves him. What's sick is that he obviously has no love for here, doesn't even see her as human at this point either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:27 PM
1

Hmm, yes that is definitely heroic and I'm glad everybody got out safe. But again, I think you're confusing the scope of what we mean when we refer to HVM and that this is a dating sub, we focus on relationship aspects... maybe next time you can elaborate on why you found it HVM and what qualities stood out to you and how that relates to relationships. It would spark more discussion that way as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:02 PM
12

Sis needs to get the heavy duty bug spray for this job!! 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 11:45 AM
4

She added another comment which got promptly removed saying some damn rude and disgusting shit about not having sex for free and "at least getting something out of casual sex" and some other deluded things. I directed her to pornhateswomen for a reason, hopefully she'll wake up from her privelege and realize how awful and dehumanizing sex work is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 10:30 AM
14

I was hoping it was a joke! It's funny in that context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:55 AM
10

Yep. Tik Tok filters are on smth else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:42 AM
4

LOL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:37 AM
4

👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:29 AM
10

Don't link please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:54 AM
13

Are the LVM paying her for this or smth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:19 AM
1

No problem. I've just been seeing it a lot lately even in the comments. Unfortunately our sub is under a microscope, even though this platform is full of downright terrorism towards women, we're perceived as the problem 🙄 we just gotta be careful and follow the sub rules that are there to protect us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:31 AM
1

You can just put a space between the r and the rest of the sub name. Or even omit the r, that way it doesn't turn into a link. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:07 AM
2

You just did it again... Even the mod asked you to stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:52 PM
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Especially since police make us jump through hoops and still don't believe us. You really have to have everything in order for them to even begin to care, sad as that is. If nothing else you make your case indisputable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:51 PM
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Can you not link them in your post though? I see this a lot lately and stuff like that could get us banned. Also it's pretty much fact that those subs are ran by men. The mods are men, and the community is libfems and men. Nothing new, same old shit on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:25 PM
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Lmao it's a copy paste, just got the same message. Block and delete lol. Edit: For anyone who wants to know, you can turn off chats and messages. Just go to your settings, then go to account setting, scroll down and you'll see "turn off chats" and just press it. Stress free from then on, the losers don't even know you can't see their messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:38 PM
9

A lot of the mods are appearently banned from here so double lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:34 PM
9

Socialization and societal gaslighting is the reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:34 PM
18

Wow, someone with actual logic speaking. It's like the 8th wonder of the world. Very insightful and a great explanation. And of course some fool had to come out thinking they have such a witty quip to "take them down".🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:32 PM
5

Thanks for the laugh. Truly it was a great joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:19 PM
20

I love FDS, more women should find it. Queen energy. I've seen women on here backtrack and try to defend being part of FDS and say how they don't agree with everything blah blah blah. I love how you're so unapologetic because why should you feel ashamed? That response must really piss them off, I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:18 PM
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It's because they love taking women who don't want them. If a guy you've been like that with constantly purses you it's because he enjoys pushing boundaries, the fact that you're saying no is what gets him going. And that type of trash assaulter needs to stay far away from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:10 PM
1

Yeah seems the type to go back to him just for lack of backbone to say no and seem "bitchy'. She's still suffering under her cool girl image. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:08 PM
11

Honestly why though? Why lower your standards? For a literal waste of years filled with dissappointment, abuse and lack of orgasms??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:03 PM
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Why in the world would she stay consider taking him back after finding that out? He's a psychopath, he's going to kill her. He's telling her exactly what he is, because if she ever tries to coMMuNiCate with him after this then he'll tell her she knew what she signed up for. I sincerely hope she sticks to her guns and doesn't let him near her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:38 AM
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Yeah, I get that. But I feel like LVM are just using this as an excuse for their walk dates. Truly even in these times, all a walk dates'going to get you is a shit relationship. Better to steer clear for a bit, or just keep ruthlessly vetting. If they wanted to, they would put in effort, hell they'd makes fantastic picnic with wine and dinner in a gorgeous location if they wanted to. Or they'd do a video date and have dinner and wine sent to your place so you can have "dinner" together. While th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:16 AM
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You should've unmatched when he offered the hike date, sounds creepy. And also he's already trying to make you chase him. Not only is he low effort, he's downright lazy and thinks he's a prize as well as petty from that last message. If he wanted to go on a date he would have asked you to dinner with a time and place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:46 AM
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It really is though, I wasn't ready when it switched to the guy's, it was too much especially after seeing that beautiful room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:53 AM
3

I think you can just crosspost it if the other sub allows or even download the vid and post it wherever you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:13 AM
3

Totally agree, which is why I called the situation sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:07 AM
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Ew what the heck, the audacity. Is he trying to argue a stranger into a relationship?? And future kids?? Creep for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:35 AM
3

Also because you don't want to let them know where you live. Until a good couple.monthw in they should be unaware of your address, it might seem extra but you really can't take chances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:00 AM
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You can just ask one of the mods underneath a comment of theirs. They're the ones called ruthless strategists, so just ask when you see a comment and hopefully they approve you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:58 AM
1

There's a post on it from way back, you can just google FDS flairs if you really want to know :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:57 AM
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Me neither, but appearently buying a man a video game is peak relationship status among the Pickmes and lvm now....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:51 AM
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Total idiocy and I snooped on wgtow and appearently the mods think we're a cult and brainwashed, and no longer accept content from here or rhetoric from here 🙄🙄 They're all banned from here too, what a shocker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:23 PM
7

Is this a step forward to forcing women to get pregnant. Fucking Handmaid tale shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:12 PM
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I think you should watch the video, she goes into what you've mentioned here but also challenges it, she keeps it nuanced. You might enjoy it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:23 PM
12

I was about to say, that comment is so off base it's not even funny. Like seriously in a world of men who hurt women as easy as breathing, you're gonna say other women are the major problem? That's some internalized mysoginy right there, possible PickMe too, I know we warn about Pickmes and kinkmes being dangerous to us but women are not the enemy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 08:25 PM
13

Can we stop with the PS5 already like wth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:40 PM
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In terms of crime statistics, anyone who strangles you is more likely to murder you. So frankly if you've been strangled, then that man really and truly does not care for you, let alone love you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 11:38 AM
1

FeMalEs 🙄 I know this was originally written by a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:03 PM
6

I just got another one lol, damn is it a busy day for scrotery today or what??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:43 PM
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Lol just got one too. Said he was so happy more men were waking up and hating women. Like lol, are they that delusional and unaware of their own history?😂😂 Men have been our bane since day 1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:34 PM
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Okay,but I have eyes too, and I don't feel like staring at a troll in my day to day. So kindly move along while I look out for an ACTUAL attractive man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:24 PM
2

I don't listen to male artists a lot. Only a couple that never sing about women. It's just too much bullshit in lyrics for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:19 PM
3

Yep. My memory is shit, I write what happens every day to remember, and I mark important dates on multiple calenders. It's been years so I memorized those birthdays, but I still make sure it's written down so I don't forget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:16 PM
12

Honestly, why brag about having so little self respect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:07 PM
16

Wow. Ugh of course people can be silly, but this is just sad. Seriously can't they grow up? Only finding enjoyment in talking about women in a derogatory manner and nothing else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:08 AM
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Wow, it's so cliche though, he lives with his mom and with her, and she bought him a PS5. It's crazy how similar all these stories are sometimes, useless lvm taking advantage and cheating. I'm both surprised and pleased with her show of backbone though, hopefully she doesn't fall for this garbage again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:14 AM
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He's already playing mind games with someone he barely knows. So gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:38 AM
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"I'm a FeMaLe myself" lol okay, thanks for making absolutely sure we knew that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:11 AM
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What the other ladies said, don't answer it directly. They're just fishing so they have a blueprint of how to act for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 11:00 PM
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That's not FDS, that's the guy. FDS lets you see the bullshit and not waste any more of your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 10:48 PM
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Either that or stringed her along for an ego boost. They're not as smart as they think they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 08:06 PM
8

Was not prepared, let me tell you. So gross lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 07:00 PM
2

Yep. I've never been physically assaulted but I have had uncomfortable situations. Once when I was about 13 yrs old and a man followed me home, asking for my email and the like. That one was scary, and another with an Uber driver who took my phone from me and kept asking if I "had a boyfriend, he could get me a job, he lives nearby". Shit's scary, and my sister has been through worse. It just pisses me the fuck off, fuck everything. Oh also getting my butt slapped by disgusting boys in middle sc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 06:16 AM
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Lmao!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 06:05 AM
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Lol he doesn't have money 😂😂😂why is it always the brokies with the most attitude. I know all men have the audacity but the broke ones have this special zest and delusion to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 06:02 AM
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Second this. The more reports there are the less chances he has to hurt another woman like this again. If nothing else you'll make the administration aware of him and maybe other women will feel more comfortable coming forward. It's disgusting, you have to be wary at every corner, every time they're in positions of power they use it to hurt and harass women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 05:54 AM
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Tis the season. All the lvm are showing their true leech nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 02:22 AM
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Yup!! Sometimes I say I know. Can't believe how triggered men get, like you have the compliment and now you want to act up? They really can't even stick to their own games, they literally backtrack so fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 12:49 AM
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Honestly I feel as if I saved myself a lot of time and hurt. Instead of having to learn these lessons the hard way and getting used and abused I learned from my sisters here. Truly saved me, I feel I am better equipped to deal with men and dating as well as boundaries. This has also helped me have better relationships as I apply FDS to everything, work and family and friends too. It's given me strength, it's like having a hand on your back urging you forward and also reinforcing you sense of wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 12:45 AM
33

And if plans change you'll let her know if it's relevant. How is it relevant or her business if you've already answered negative? It's so weird and borderline harassing at that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:06 PM
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My mom and I went to the doctor together as we were doing errands together that day. We decided to share our appointment, and the doctor waited until I did my urine test to ask my mom whether I was sexually active, despite me answering her question to her face. This was years ago, but I was 19 at that point so I don't know where she got the nerve to do something so rude. My parents are not involved in those affairs, and my mom was the one who let me know what she did. So disrespectful and rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:05 PM
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Why do they put FDS with actual terrorist groups. Those other subs are horrific, and the most harmful thing you'll see here is us occasionally making fun of men. Most time we're rightfully calling out disgusting or absuive behaviour. Honestly don't even bother with most of Reddit, it's all men or male pandering. Even WGTOW has become trashy, they changed to say male bashing( not even, they've gone full libfem) is not allowed and FDS content( called us a cult and brainwashed lmao)is not allowed e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:02 PM
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First of all, your family should be ashamed of themselves. You actually stayed with the kids and are doing your damn best to take care of them. And if they won't say it, we will. You're doing fantastic, you're a great mom, I know it's been a struggle. I know it's been a lot of suffering and a lot of hurt, but you're doing it. You have your kids, and you have yourself and you are amazing. Don't let men or anyone else make you feel less for doing one of the hardest things out there. You stayed. Yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:07 PM
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I meant in a general sense, but if those are your circumstances( which I don't pretend to know anything about) then I think you could really benefit from doing research and truly learning about this issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:00 PM
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I was about to say. He really can only have a young woman he can groom and exploit, anyone older sees right through him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:55 PM
2

No problem. It's difficult to make judgements without really doing the research. You know it's bad superficially but our own privelege stops us from really understanding the truth of the matter. For us it's theoretical, but for most women and children, it's daily life. The least we can do is hear their stories and try to help them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:48 PM
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There is absolutely no comparison between working and being a literal sex toy. I don't know what more to say to you, I have made some posts showing articles for a great website called fightthenewdrug.org, which you can check and inform yourself further. I think you're coming at this from the wrong perspective, with your own privilege and circumstances clouding your judgement on the harsh realities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:54 PM
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Lol miss me with that. I woulda walked out and ghosted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:45 PM
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Personally, while I think the world will never be perfect, porn itself cannot exist. In any way. It cannot ever be ethical, to sell a human body in the manner that porn does, in a sexual manner is to strip that person of personhood. It doesn't just create a supply and demand that we all live under in terms of jobs. We all enter a social construct when we are in the workforce and when we obey the law, we expect to receive something in return for capitulation. And even then, there is mass exploita…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:38 PM
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Do they even report these videos? They're all in possession of child pornography, why tf are they protected just because it's their "job". Porn is a human rights violation. It's mass exploitation and selling of women and children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:26 PM
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Are men just gay or what? I know the anal obsession comes from their need to hurt women but still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:41 AM
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Total copy paste too. Also get out of your mom's basement once in a while you scrote. Maybe actually look at the outside world with your own two eyes for a change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:20 AM
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It's kinda funny because it always comes off so cringe. Thank god I grew up in an age where I could do the dumbest shit(man was I embarassing) and not have my every action/word scrutinized by the public. Or have it be immortalized on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:02 AM
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Lol if I'm gonna work then it's gonna be at my job, where I get payed for my time, and don't throw away my dignity and self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:54 AM
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You know what's funny? Meryl had a tough time getting into acting because she was considered "ugly"by the industry, truly they are deluded. From the film itself to the behind the scenes actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:50 AM
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So he started an unsolicited sex conversation with someone he barely knows and he thinks she's not mature? Ffs just what type of koolaid do thes men drink, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:42 AM
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Dump him sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:35 AM
7

"she will do anything I ask" He's a depraved sicko who's got his bangmaid on lock and still wants more. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:40 PM
8

Excuse me but what the actual fuck? Is that all the mom had to say? Are his friends as sick and grotesque as he is?. Absolutely disgusting, how can someone be so deluded? He abused and raped her, groomed her from a young age and used her. Half she found a way to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:35 PM
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The article still tries to toe the line with the "it's not a porn issue but a child abuse issue". Porn is the issue, commodification of human beings is an issue. If you turn people into products then there is no way for there to be any sort of human rights. It doesn't matter how well you treat them,they are a product, therefore they are property. Porn is human exploitation, degradation and dehumanization. It's disgusting that the company owned 100 websites, and that it's based in Montreal. This …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:25 PM
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Sometimes I just wonder at that sub. It's either mass trolling or an indicator of how stupid society has become. Like come on now,really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:33 PM
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Truly sad. Can't imagine spending your life with scum like that, what's the point? Honest to god, what's the point if everyday is misery?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:17 AM
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"no advice wanted"... Just wow. Sorry I feel for her but just Ugh, she won't ever leave and God forbid they have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:34 AM
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We're all here for you, any advice of legal, emotional or even logistics please post or reach out in the chat room! I'm so happy you've broken free at least emotionally, he doesn't own you, never has and never will. You're a Queen and you will get through this!💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:49 PM
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They really mean jack. If you live together you're already common law, but common law is "equal" so you have everything theoretically split down the middle unless you hire a lawyer. Marriage itself isn't that great for women but it does offer you something at the end of the day. Whether it's the respect of the commitment or some financial security (please make sure you know your marriage law in your country and specific region). It's still a gamble financially though and depending on what type o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:47 PM
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They're brainwashing tactics. Seriously if you want to help a woman in an abusive relationship, hire a deprogrammer, even if you have to isolate them for 3 days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:43 PM
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Ok Michael we all know you're sending dick picks like it's your job...speaking of which,why don't you get one and mind the business that pays you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:39 PM
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InTeLLeCtuAl... Lol they don't even know what that word means 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:35 PM
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Lol they do though. They think the video games translate to real life and actually think they can drive like that, or even fight like that. They're mad delusional 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:32 PM
8

Even worse when they do feed that bullshit to their daughters. Pickmes and libfems have serious issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:50 AM
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Yep. She's so far up the clown's ass that I don't know what to say. Her only hope is dumping him by some miracle, or him dumping her and being free. Maybe she can work on her self worth afterwards but for now...yeah just no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:42 AM
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Yep the laws are really unfavourable for the one being assaulted you have to make sure to not cause "undue harm" or use " excess force", and the other party can sue the hell out of you for perceived damages. It's completely wack, can't believe I could face time or money loss for defending myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:34 AM
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Omg he's doing duck lips like he thinks he's hot shit or smth, accentuating his "assets" lmao 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:31 AM
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Big time. Majourly disgusting behaviour, they can't even push this one aside because the backlash they could receive if she went public with it, is too high to keep the guy around. Y'all need to start using social media to your advantage sometimes, it doesn't work in every case depending what the situation is. But it certainly puts these companies in a spot, and creates more pressure for them to conduct themselves better with future female employees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:30 AM
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And in the darkness there is always light. But seriously, in a sea of shit I'm glad at least some women out there are getting justice and being allowed to protect themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:54 AM
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Lol y'all make it seem like men's asses aren't regularly covered in shit. Mf's don't even wipe or wash, so this isn't anything out there for them, more par for the course. At least she got exposed to his dirtiness upfront and walked away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:53 AM
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At this point you're not even reading what she wrote, or simply choosing to ignore it. She more than addressed everything you said and provided insight. Your point of view is just as biased and based on what you have personally experienced. Either add something so we can all engage (you've simply reiterated what she's already said) or stop derailing and trying to start an argument over nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:47 AM
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He's cheating. Also extremely porn sick and possibly red pilled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:29 AM
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Yep. I now have 20/20 vision and perfect clarity, trash all around me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:57 PM
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Yes. We're so vulnerable when we go in there and then they break us down even further. Where are we supposed to go? Where can we get a reprieve? Truthfully this sub is the only place I've found that validated my feelings and allowed me to speak without shutting me down. It's helped more then years of therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:55 PM
5

Yep. Not only that but the comments too. I almost have carpal tunnel from pressing the report button so hard. Keep seeing so much libfem PickMe shit it's getting trying. Love this sub, but just wow, if you're new or even an old member, remember what this sub is for. It's not for everything, it is a specific way of dating that provides maximum benefit for women. It is a radical feminist sub. We are not inclusive to everything and anything, so if you don't like it there's the door, no need to argu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:49 PM
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5 yrs maximum. Anything more is a no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:42 PM
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She sounds wack. I would report her because she could be seriously harming those who are more vulnerable(not that you weren't but you navigated it really well).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:39 PM
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Yep. I haven't been in therapy for years because of how fucked up I got treated by the therapists/psychologists, not to mention the misdiagnosis and large doses of medication that I didn't need. I'm building myself up until I'm ready to ruthlessly vet these people, plus I want to be settled down so I can have some consistency in the process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:38 PM
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Yep. Especially on the records part, she could be misdiagnosing her and creating future problems for her with other therapists and her life. Srsly libfems and Pickmes are dangerous in all walk of life, they're partners in crime with the patriarchy and men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:39 PM
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One, I'm glad you got out and I am sorry it got that far. Also, I would put your son in therapy stat. You can't give positive reinforcement to a negative action, he's emulating what he's seen but that has started curiosity in him. If you're not careful he'll follow that curiosity down a dangerous path, so a good psychiatrist/psychologist would be due. Someone more informed than you needs to deal with this, it's trauma on his part too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:37 PM
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LOVE BOMBING!!! Seriously, they're doing it on purpose, the goal is to unsettle you and create a false closeness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:34 PM
14

That's disgusting. He's a rapist, no way men talk like this without feeling it in their hearts and fantasizing about harming women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:32 PM
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💀💀💀 I would have completed it with the meme too lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:40 PM
15

He really said "sorry but I need you to heal me from my divorce".... Loser for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:38 PM
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Lol and their demons are "their ex dumped them years ago" or some other crap, you ever notice how they use truly insignificant things and call the trauma? I'm not trying to be rude but I could write a book for each women about the amount of shit they've been through in life, I never see them act like it's the end of the world like men do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:37 PM
18

Not a lick of sense among them. Just brain dead, porn sick and scrotified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:35 PM
1

Lol imagine if they knew what that word even meant 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:31 PM
16

Spot the rapists🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:27 PM
11

Drop him, block and delete. So pathetic, you never need to pay for dates, they're the man's way of wooing you. They show his effort and if he doesn't pay or treat you, or even show you a good time then what's the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:22 PM
26

Less fear in the world. Right now it feels like we're always keyed up and frightful, I'd imagine those who have been in abusive situations understand what I'm talking about. Always waiting for the other shoe to drop, but if there were no men? Peaceful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:21 PM
25

Every loser who never got picked to be on a team...in grade school. Srsly they're so envious it's pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:42 PM
18

Fragile tiny little men. No backbone to speak of, just jelly and jealousy all day long. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:41 PM
17

100%!!!! Also he's going to dump her very soon. He's trying to see if he can squeeze out the last bit of soul from her and then he's gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:01 AM
3

It's okay. I was just so shocked and wasn't prepared. It's sick that this stuff is in the regular media and treated as normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:53 PM
19

I don't want to see these things on here. So horrible. Wtf I almost vommited, that poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:12 PM
7

Get'em
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:10 AM
9

I think the handbook has a nice selection of book recs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:52 PM
23

I'm glad you followed your gut. Maybe he had a reason and maybe he didn't but that's not your problem.wveling up and asserting your boundaries takes practice, and I am glad you stood your ground sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:38 PM
42

Pickmes, Pickmes left and right. Anything for those views and male validation points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:31 PM
72

Psycho! Wtf who says that! He's crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:20 AM
38

I'm gonna say that either he's a loser of a dad and an lvm or he's dedicated in which case you'll never be first. You'll end up being a step mom with all the expectations that come with it, and will so be secondary to his life. You'll have to deal with the biological mother as well. It's a really complicated situation and honestly I couldn't do it personally. I want to be the first priority, not the add on. Edit: I completely missed the 40s part,he is not "normal", he wouldn't be into you if he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:56 AM
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He doesn't want her to be safe. He's on here to get sympathy points. He's probably heavily edited his story to seem better and yet he still comes off as a complete creep. He is actively working to make her feel unsafe, he is abusing her. The only advice I have is for the woman to leave or to tell a hospital staff what he said to her. Even then he was right in saying she has no power, and I don't put it past him to have worked towards this outcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:23 AM
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He's already abusing her and has driven her to extreme depression and PTSD. Absolutely disgusting. Now he'll take away her power even more because of whatever diagnosis and medication she receives. This poor woman, my god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:31 AM
15

Girl I'm sorry but he raped you. You didn't consent to that, and from the sound of it he was going to get even more violent and uncontrolled. I'm so glad you got out, please block him on everything, change any locks and private your accounts for the moment. He seems very unhinged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:55 PM
9

Loyal to what? There's nothing to be loyal to if there's no relationship. Fucking clowns just want to string you along,sleep with everyone and still have you at their Beck and call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:10 PM
98

So rape by deception. Thanks for letting us know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:17 PM
4

Lol! But yeah, it is just pandering to men. It's a waste of time, it doesn't add anything to your life at all. And it's a horrible message to send other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:06 PM
12

I think they haven't read the handbook or don't agree with or idk. There is absolutely nothing wrong with ghosting or blocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:43 AM
53

Lol, fucking Gollum over here!! Like damn, invest in a mirror because that's beyond delusion, that's medical in nature now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:27 AM
125

Honestly. I've never met an actual funny man, they're always so cringe and boring. Their humour is pretty much first grade level too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:27 PM
5

I was about to say. I don't know what is even going on with those comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:20 PM
44

Lvm don't care or respect your manners. They just see it as a way to take advantage. Personally just block and ghost. You don't owe a stranger anything, and it doesn't make your rude to not respond. That's how these things work, you have the option of not responding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:19 PM
113

Don't even respond,if you checked his profile and didn't like what you saw then block and delete. Why waste effort on these lvm? It's not worth the stress and bother it takes to type those messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:59 PM
3

Wow, I'm so glad you're safe. I don't know if you can help her by stating you're a survivor of abuse on your social media or something like that? She might look further, but again these evil men really twist women up.If you're not comfortable though then don't do it. Your safety and happiness first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:00 AM
2

Girl, this man is horrifying. If you stayed he would have raped you and beaten you. He already assaulted you on your first date for fricks sake! And yes it is assault if you didn't want it, you didn't expect it or consent to it. And then he gaslighted you, demeaned you and made you compromise on things you said are important to you. Hell no, imagine being married to this scrote, it will be literal hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:52 AM
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I think a lot of women have some cognitive dissonance with mistreatment and abuse. They try to rationalize what happened and try to make it their faults, especially when the men are actively working to create that dear and uncertainty in them. Another good thing is if he treated someone else like how he treats you: if he did this to your mom,sister,friend, other women, or even other younger girls(I'm always protective if younger girls and I get so livid at the thought of anyone mistreating then)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:29 PM
5

Is that a picture of Mathew McConaughey?? Lol, that means he's probably the living picture of a dungeon troll in real life and trying to hide it. 😂😂 The delusion of scrotes for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 04:29 PM
11

Your user name tho 👌*chef's kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:25 PM
37

It's crazy what some people will call their right hands. I mean he can have unsatisfying sex with himself but does he need to broadcast his pathetic fantasies? Really now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:11 AM
18

Yep any time I watch something I just immediately notice how the plot treats women, how the character interact and I check out a little bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:11 AM
52

I feel you, currently watching Sex and the City and just Ugh, I wish the scenes were only of the 4 women. I hate every man they bring out, also watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer again and I loathe Angel with a passion, fucking 200 yr old sicko perving on a 15 yr old. Every time they try to make him seem "sexy" I wanna beat the shit out of him. Watching shows and films after FDS has made me even less tolerable of NVM and the propaganda thrown at women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:54 AM
2

Right? My sister's hair,skin and general colour was just so popping when she was pregnant, she never wore makeup because she looked so good lol. And yeah this woman is a whole clown. It's sad is what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:44 PM
7

What the fuck was that last part?? She does what??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:38 PM
3

Can't you take a joke?? Obviously you don't understand humour. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:43 AM
83

Christ girl! A fucking body to him as well as a therapist. It's damn sad how brainwashed she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:55 AM
86

That's an appropriate reaction from the bouncer. Clubs are already dangerous enough for women, having a man in the restroom is very dangerous. Glad they took it seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 08:17 PM
46

I wish she coulda got his face. Shamed the shit out of this scumbag. It's the least of what he deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 04:09 AM
57

I get it. It does help with awareness. It's just so frustrating to see, like fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:38 AM
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What the fuck. Call the cops. Why post it online? Get this fucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:02 AM
16

Honestly, not even friends. Unless you've vetted them and trust them, I wouldn't trust them with that information. Been burned by those before. I hate it because the things we get upset about are normal, but they make it seem as if we're suddenly 'psycho'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:19 PM
17

This is one of the most pervasive abuses. It's so hard because it leaves you feeling crazy but I want you to know you're not. What you're feeling is valid. I think you should drop these people, it's not worth the stress they're bringing to your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:19 PM
14

There are some posts on here that a lot of still struggling Pickmes flock to. And then they get real mad when you say things that are peak FDS, forgetting what sub they're on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:17 PM
12

Girl I am abstinent until marriage (I am bisexual, so either a man or a woman), even in dating, I'm not doing it. Those are my standards, that's my truth. If people don't like it it's their problem, I don't even give justification or past history, this is my choice.i completely understand being fetishized for this, they always think they're that magical one that'll make me change my mind(lol). They get real pressed when they find out that's not the case. Less time spent on lvm though so 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:29 PM
3

That sounds scarier then you're making it seem. I would keep a copy of all the texts and block him on everything. Also clean up your social media of any geographic identifying pictures, any metadata on your pics as well. He seems like a stalker and obsessed. I would take it more seriously, tell him also that you never want to hear from him again. That way if you do end up having to take action you can say he is harassing and stalking you, the wording is important, you have to make it clear you d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:25 AM
10

Maybe direct this energy to the guy messaging you and not here. You posted it and now you're getting an opinion, just because you don't like it doesn't make it any less the truth. Block and delete, this is so full of red flags I don't even know what to say. And what she said wouldn't sting unless it applied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:18 AM
11

Block and Delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:58 AM
13

He looks like he wakes up and dies everyday. It's morbid, a walking corpse for real. Crusty, musty and dusty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:15 AM
9

Considering all the porn about "breaking" powerful women I don't think so. This is a pornsick misogynistic society we live in. Simply being female is enough to warrant the attention. While the attention might present differently, it's always there when they look at you. Hell they take pictures of regular women and created deep fakes of their nude bodies, it's about power,not sex. They thrive off of hurting and humiliating women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:22 AM
7

There was a post where the OP(this was an FDS post too) said that because she used to be into kink, her current partner(then fwb) participated (hit her) but then he grew to love her and is hesitant to do so. That since she overcame her trauma and he never liked doing it that he's a good man. I was flabbergasted at the upvotes to it because that sounds like the most messed up shit. To be aware kink is wrong, that lvm are lvm and not understand that your boyfriend is a piece of shit, It doesn't ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:16 AM
1

That's because Melanie Trump is a narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:27 AM
14

Don't kill me lmao 😂😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:16 AM
7

Yes. I think it's a good idea too. I'll ask the mods about adding something to the handbook, and we can all contribute causes,organizations and movements. I know we're dating oriented but I feel like it's such a good use of all our time. Helping each other everywhere, providing opportunities for other women to be free too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:57 PM
2

Period. Stop policing, that's the mods job, just go about your business. Women get enough hate and judgement in the real world. This is a freaking haven, just let us have one thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:54 PM
2

That's all I'm saying. I keep seeing women on here just misinterpret or completely change the words to vilify someone. Just say you don't agree and go. You don't have to trash all of FDS and say comments like that are what gets us hate... Edit: Like damn everybody makes disgusting rape jokes and those are supposed to be funny outside of here, but someone says on thing and they all jump down her throat? For what? For who? The male lurkers? Some magic men approve of us prize? This ain't twitter wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:49 PM
3

Block and delete. The moment they show their hand you're out. Not worth the energy. Also you shouldn't have to teach someone how to treat you, they'll just mirror you and pretend to be your ideal guy for a bit before returning to their LVM traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:17 PM
17

Wow the advice was pretty reasonable, they gave her some good legal advice too. Hopefully she listens, you never know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:01 PM
11

Wait what lmao, they're reporting you for mental health because you don't want to talk to them?? True scrotery for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:09 AM
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One of my life goals is to find some genuine long lasting friendships with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:06 AM
12

"Acts of service" y'all mean basic life skills men aren't expected to have, and don't want to do so they're foisted onto women, because we're always used for our labour????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:01 AM
2

Wow... the lengths women have to go to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 12:08 AM
15

Wait what? Can you elaborate on the Stevie Nicks thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:32 AM
8

No a stress test doesn't have to be manufactured. It's simply providing a term for naturally occuring situations, it's giving you examples of how you might interpret actions undertaken during those stressful situation. And frankly I don't care what scrotes say or what they label us, dating is completely different for women. You could be brutalized, raped and murdered, or enter an abusive relationship. Vet ruthlessly and selfishly. Nobody here is out to manipulate people, we're just saying take e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:18 AM
2

That's why FDS is so important. Each woman subbed is another woman liberated (hopefully).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 04:15 AM
14

Completely agree. And I saw that thread, the OP was on some other shit she was so rude just wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:23 PM
15

What the fuck did I just see...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:10 PM
8

Why is this being downvoted? Like lol, I don't see how any of what OP said constitutes as a good role model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:46 AM
1

Good for you! I always get a chuckle from the messages I get and then press the block and delete button.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:37 AM
14

I don't get it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:32 PM
16

Tell em we want nothing to do with their sour grapes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:51 PM
6

You remember that one dude ,Nava something who basically dm's literally every FDS member?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:50 PM
13

🤮🤮🤮 Ugh what a psycho, he actually sounds deranged but also that he thinks his thoughts are normal. Skin crawling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:25 PM
2

Why is it always paragraphs though. Just block and delete these creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 08:56 PM
9

Yeah, it's honestly hard because if the man is legitimately a danger to you, (it's more often than you think,men are extremely unstable)not having texts could hurt any case you want to build. I feel like in that case you let a couple of texts in, and then take them to file a police report. There you say you are blocking him so the police are aware. If he goes further you have everything on file and can get a restraining order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:47 PM
4

Yep, I actually have a YouTube track that is called "holiday music playing in the next room", love it and studying to it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:19 PM
6

Phew! Glad you're safe girl. Sounded like a major creep and predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:39 PM
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YouTube is pretty sick, rife with pedophilia. The kids YouTube is actually so bad, can't believe they make it seem like it's safer for kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:33 PM
17

He'll be back on his bullshit within the week. I actually feel sorry for her, she had a real chance to get out and instead she's gonna be in a constant struggle of him pretending to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:25 PM
5

Yeah lot of reposts lately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:40 AM
3

That last part 🤦🏻‍♀️ how can someone be so stupid and unaware. It's literally so fucking sad how just dumb and delusional this guy is. For fucks sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:38 AM
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I'm fully aware women help perpetuate the very system they suffer under, however since they are the oppressed class which this type of system is targeted against it's not as easy as saying that everybody is guilty of it. Women may contribute and perpetuate it but they don't benefit from it, not really. And while everybody calls themselves a feminist, I rarely see any true feminism in the world. Her comment was nice, it was hopeful and positive but that's just not the reality from where I see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:48 AM
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The guy was never a nice guy. He was just using you for easy access as horrible as that sounds. And never send nudes, for your safety and peace of mind. You are not a product, if they miss you then they can come see you in real life. I hope you blocked and deleted that LVM, also please read the handbook and the books in it. I think it would really help you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:48 AM
7

I feel that. Sometimes I go whole weeks only listening to instrumental music. I listen to scores ,classical music, and to study I listen to those "magical tearoom", "library sounds " etc. There a re a lot of beautiful composers, even just on YouTube out there. And the music is full and varied. And then of course there is Holliday music. Specifically Halloween and Christmas, always pretty free of any type of relationship stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:45 AM
6

Henry Cavill is trash though. Absolute LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:28 PM
3

Exactly. It doesn't matter if a child or young person flirts. You as the adult should know better. It's your job to keep your hands to yourself,not anyone else's. And remember what happened with the Kardashians? Their lvm scrote husband practically assaulted Jordyn and then these Pickmes went on a witch hunt against her. It's disgusting that people were actually trying to turn against her when we all know what went down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:07 PM
3

Fucking period. And don't forget those types of environments, with Hollywood and the like, are always rife with abuse and sexual abuse of young girls. I don't trust any of it. Edit:grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:58 PM
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We don't really attack 18 year old in relationships with old men here. FDS is against age gaps, they're predatory and abusive. The man is trash, I hope the young girl leaves him. Society really brainwashed and pressures young girls to go out with old men, but the men are always taking advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:55 PM
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https://g.co/kgs/8Ay3bb This the guy? Can't believe the positive reviews. I just reported a lot of them, they seem fake as shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:13 PM
5

Whoa! I hope you dropped that PickMe for real. She sounds dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:05 PM
3

That's great. Next time though don't bother. Seriously you'll feel better. I know it might seem like you're getting the last word in, or taking them to task but it's not worth it. They just thrive off of any attention you give them. Better take your energy and focus it on something else. And honestly men can't stand being ignored so blocking is its own revenge. He suffers and you stay unbothered. Win win situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:46 PM
2

I hope you at least blocked and deleted him after all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:42 PM
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Girl why are you bothering? You can't argue with scrotes, they don't care. All they have in mind is getting sex. You're writing paragraphs for a dumb piece of crap who has no respect for you and is already gaslighting you. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:36 PM
9

Um okay anyways. I was talking about the continued double standards I keep seeing. It wasn't about dating men, it was about making every single argument about their feelings or using 'what about' arguments. And which OP are you talking about here? Because the person I commented to didn't say that at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:35 AM
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know it's useless at this point but sometimes you gotta take a stand against this garbage. Even if you get downvoted to hell. Kudos for standing up to these demented individuals and pornsick ideologies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:46 PM
16

Exactly. Sounded like the whining of a broke ass lvm whose wife does everything for him. And she's only 2 months in recovery! I couldn't imagine my sister going back to work that early. She'll be slaving away at work and at home and never see her baby. He's a piece of shit. Just divorce her and save her the headache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:47 PM
16

Lol these are the FDS scrote memes: food edition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:19 AM
17

Lord!!! Lmao that's really the shock you get when you see an lvm for what they truly are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:46 AM
12

Not to mention all that stress makes you lose hair like there's no tomorrow. Skip out on the bad skin, falling hair and bodily aches ladies for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:18 AM
14

It's funny how he underlined Merry Christmas to make it seem like he did something. This man is an insult to intelligent lifeform.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:17 AM
12

Wait "all lives matter"... Is she for real with that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:14 AM
16

Exactly. I've started school this year to switch my career and I would still go all out for my loved ones. Hell I've already bought my Christmas presents and since my sister requested a painting, I bought canvases, brushes and the works to practice with to give her something beautiful. Something like $200 worth of materials she'll never know about because the point is her happiness, not the dollars I spent. That's what somebody who loves you does, shows effort, shows thoughtfulness and attention…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:21 AM
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I hope you dumped him. To ask that on your birthday is extremely disgusting. He's already pushing your boundaries to lower your standards, seeing what he can get away with. Fucking no thank you to the whole man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:09 AM
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It's actually pretty common. A lot of refilled dudes have never been near a woman. However the majority often plays head games.Emotional manipulation, often abusive action. Think what you want, but don't mistake your compassion for their reality. They don't think and feel like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:53 PM
7

I would take this threat as seriously as I would facing down the barrel of a gun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:01 PM
10

Life is too short to waste on lvm, scrotes be scroting after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:41 PM
12

Happy for you sis! You did great. Now you've got a whole world out there for the taking. It's gonna be amazing I promise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:39 PM
3

He's a creep. Look into him of you want but nobody here cares for that scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:26 PM
17

Lmao imagine having "incel trash bag" as a personality? From what I read mofo doesn't even know the meaning of the word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 12:35 AM
16

Imagine the guy posing for this with full pride though. Like ugh you're grotesque and you really feel the need to flaunt, what I'm assuming, is your fictional girlfriend? 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:08 PM
9

Wow what a scumbag. Girl don't even worry, if someone is that awful, at 2 months in then you dodged a massive bullet. This isn't a man who aligns with your values and morals, he showed himself as unworthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:35 PM
9

Thank you, will be giving it a listen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:33 PM
11

Lol they orgasmed, it was just with their "gal pals" and their own trusty selves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:42 PM
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Lol don't. That lack of faith will protect you, only the true HVM will ever make it on your radar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:28 PM
5

God I hope. It's terrifying what having such a public, influental figure be a victim of this, can do for all of us. For any woman. They can just call you mentally incompetent or use any history to take away your agency. Horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:52 PM
10

Preach, your know he didn't even give her direction? He just told her to stand sexy and just be a body. And when she was 16 and had an extras role, where they didn't know what to do with her, he told them to put her in a bikini and to dance on a table. Depraved loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:51 PM
6

The only soulmates I'll ever have is my dogs who give me unconditional and unwavering love. And any children I may adopt who I will love beyond comprehension. Not some man pretending so he can manipulate me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:35 PM
5

Okay so she has no love for her. Good to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:21 AM
4

It's a depraved world out there for real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:51 PM
12

Lol they don't get points for basic human decency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:42 PM
10

The only things that are empowering are things men hate and actively try to destroy. If men love it then you know it's another part of the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:33 PM
3

Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:28 PM
12

To elaborate, you have to press the return button twice to actually get a paragraph break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:18 PM
10

All the way in never-ever-land!! Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:33 PM
15

I hate people who push boundaries, like really loathe them. I've given you an answer, stop acting like a child and pushing me by repeating your question or getting into a "debate". That's why I drop people so quick, I have no time for that crap,ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:31 PM
13

I'm always taken off guard by the picture lmao. It's always such a stark contrast to the bio and what they're asking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:20 PM
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"Oh no I won't be allowed to coerce and force women into something they don't want!" Fucking rapists all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:18 PM
2

Yes I do that too! One thing I also found is once I rewrote the memory and invisioned standing up for myself that while it made me sort of feel stronger it didn't erase the shame. I couldn't get last just why it happened and why I let it happen. I had to confront my feelings of shame and guilt and forgive myself. I had to really understand why I felt that way and make peace with it; say yes I was hurt, yes somebody else hurt me and there's nothing I could have done. But what I did do is walk awa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:12 PM
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I think you need to understand context and the deeper picture. Many women pretend or take back what happened to them to save face in the public. The truth is that he beat her, you can't erase the crime and the hospital record as well as the police record. You should be more concerned with why they are trying to push this narrative of innocence and why you seem to believe it. Really confront why this is so important for you, and why you seem to think questioning the story is the most conducive wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:07 PM
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I usually delete any and all evidence, pictures texts literally everything. And then I sort of do a weird aversion therapy where I don't think of names or even the faces. I try to look forward and at the present. Although I do get those moments when you're just doing whatever and an embarassing memory comes back to you. I think the shame is what makes it stick. Not because you miss them or care about them any more but the shame and guilt haunt you. You yourself aren't completely okay with what h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:16 AM
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I'm so glad. We're all here for you! The chat rooms are open as well as Dms or even if you want to make a post, FLS would be great to post on as well for any sort of advice or encouragement. You've taken the first step and your life is going to be amazing,because you're in it. And because you're finally your own number 1, I know it won't be easy,but you can do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:45 AM
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Yeah, compliments and the like aren't wrong on their own but you gotta look at the intent behind it. A lot of the times men will just love bomb or excessively compliment because it's easier then being a real person. The end goal for them is having sex with you, using you etc. It's not that hard to just give empty platitudes, we all do it at work. But that's why it's something to watch out for, they're not genuine. They're not seeing you as a person and are just going through the motions. You hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:11 AM
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Yep. I feel bad because the child doesn't deserve it but I know what type of man they're going to be, and I can't feel much after that. This sicko is raising a sociopath this way, one who will go on to abuse countless women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 11:45 PM
3

Yeah both of them need to keep on moving on. The further away from us they are the better. Dumbasses actually think we give a crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 11:44 PM
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Right? Like I'm not exaggerating feeling like scum. You look at their face full of trust and love and it's just... how sick do you have to be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 11:43 PM
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That's the one! Fucking scum. And all of them were still officers by the end of it. Absolutely depraved, from those rapists to their bosses to the culture at large.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:55 PM
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Unfortunately I do know which is why those scum will never have my respect. All these institutions keep talking about how they're protecting us when they're one of the highest committers of crime. They're just legally protected from repurcussions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:52 PM
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I love all the 80shorror. I'm not a fan of horror but the old movies really have that camp vibe which I love. And they're not actually scary lmao. It's great to just have a marathon of all the oldies and goodies; Michael Meyers,Hellraizer, Underworld, BeetleJuice, Pet Semetery, Witches of Eastwick,Ghostbusters etc. If you want some good fun ones there is: Gremlins, Casper, Goosebumps,The Little Vampire, Hocus Pocus, Halloween town The Witches, Twitches, Practical Magic(highly recommend), Addams …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:44 PM
14

A literal dungeon troll 🤢🤢 Absolute pathetic scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 07:39 PM
9

👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:24 PM
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Ugh ew, that's something you can buy for yourself or even a stocking stuffer. How is that remotely appropriate especially considering what you got him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:18 PM
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Yes. I think it's important for people to know which is which because if they have the wrong info, they won't be able to recognize the abuse, and might excuse it since it doesn't "fit". There are also different types of gaslighting and other form of abuse, it's not all black and white. It doesn't have to be either, it's abuse, it's brainwashing tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:07 PM
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It sounds very interesting, will def give it a watch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:05 PM
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I'm pretty sure it was a woman who originally did this, which makes it incredibly more sad. Her eyes did look dead though so I'm assuming the man in her life forced her thinking it was some high "enlightened opinion". 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:05 PM
12

What the f did I just read... 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:02 PM
7

Omg this reminded me of one of the skits from A Black Lady Sketch Show. So damn funny lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:02 AM
6

That's exactly my concern. I wouldn't trust anything unless it was female only. I'm looking for a genuine friend, not some thirsty lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:25 AM
5

You know I also miss the nostalgia of a handwritten letter. It would be so sweet to recieve letters from a friend and fellow woman just talking about life and what's going on in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:24 AM
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I feel you on this. Most people enjoy drinking or partying and that's not my vibe at all. I'm 25 so unfortunately that is a lot of the age demographic, I wish I could meet women who meshed with my more introverted vibe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:23 AM
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Me and my sister watch Gilmore Girls and literally spend all our time talking shit. I mean I loved it when I was younger but just wow, it's so bad my god. And lmao FDS really does need some meta chat, I just worry about it being overrun or smth but it would be pretty neat. I think I might try the bumble thing, after though, things are back up covid wise in my area. I am also really attached to the women only pen pal thing or worldwide chat. I think it'd be interesting to talk to ladies from acro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:20 AM
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I don't even wanna read it. But if it's what I assume then yes, like that loser lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:30 AM
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Exactly. You perfectly went into the specifics of what I was trying to say. And it's just the lack of self awareness and delusion too. It really makes you realize how mentally and emotionally weak men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:30 AM
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You have problems. And internalized mysoginy. Go get some therapy. Your hate of women is showing and it's not pretty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:23 AM
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The man acting like he's your kid is tho lmao. At least kids are teachable and genuinely loving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 11:56 PM
11

Omg 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 10:21 PM
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That's funny because they fear the description and yet they want all the 'benefits' of the feminine role. They want to be chased, pampered, taken care of financially etc. All without contributing a damn thing. They are the ones who literally what to be 'kept princesses' and still pretend they're the man of the household. Fucking delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 10:18 PM
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Honestly, don't buy into the lie that you'll be happy with a man. Like you're happy now, society is just gaslighting and manipulating you to change that. They can't stand that you're happy because that means that there is one less man happy. Men need women. And that's why they've built this whole patriarchy, they are the ones who benefit from women. Save yourself the stress for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 10:16 PM
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I just saw ur username omg another Sansa fan! Can you believe the horseshit they had her spew about her being raped making her a better stronger person?? And the hate from the pathetic lvm fanbase, fuck em Sansa is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:45 PM
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Definitely, I think we both took each other the wrong way but at the end of the day we are both for women.What matters is that we are two women free of the patriarchal mindset and that's a win in any of our books. Love to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:40 PM
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No problem. Seeing things like this make me hold onto my secret dream of adopting more and more. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:01 PM
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It's not politics, I have seen him in his interviews, in the way he talks and what he says. He is lvm. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 05:27 PM
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I'm pretty sure UK has an epidemic of rapes at the moment. Groups of men attacking and raping women, it's getting real fucked up. One woman was charged for defamation or some shit Idk because she filed a report against her assaulter. The police are in on it there too. It's like this in every country, in some way or another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:26 PM
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This study acts like a third aren't raping women already. Because universities and colleges are a breeding ground for rape and assault, and the school's always protect their scrotes too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:14 PM
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That's just so false I don't even know what to say. And yikes the "left", you've been advocating women taking up guns to protect us from men and now this.... just we all keep our politics outta here most of them time but defending the lvm, talking about the left and whatever else. Can you just stop? You're deraling all the time trying to push an agenda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:08 PM
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Exactly. And I hate how they made a point to always call Caroline shallow as if that made her deserving of all this pain and if she lowered her standards she might get picked 🤮🤮 not to mention the racism with Bonnie(Julie had problems). But ya toxic show man. And wasn't Caroline also a victim of this type of crime?? The magic babies hijacking her body and her being coerced to keep them. Absolutely horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:05 PM
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I read it on another post but you're not 'spoiled brat'(which ew at that terminology) That term is another way to infantilize woman and make it seem like being treated right is special. Being treated right should be the standard. OP is getting exactly what she should be, her husband is doing right by her as he should. That's what a relationship should be. For you as well, you'll find someone who loves you and knows your worth and he'll show that to you everyday but it doesn't make you spoiled, j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:30 AM
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Always let people show you who they are. And take fucking note when they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 12:46 AM
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Ew, it's all about him. She's the one who was betrayed and suddenly it's all about this loser's feelings. Fucking blubbering and shit, so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:18 PM
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It's one of my hard boundaries, don't know how you can marry someone with completely different politics. Like those are some heavy core values and beliefs to disagree on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:54 PM
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I'm so sorry girl! You deserve so much better and I'm so glad you're getting out! Remember to be safe. And that what you're doing now is so important and that every step you take from now on will be to your happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:34 PM
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I'm not saying that arming ourselves is wrong I'm saying it's not realistic. Tell me honestly do you see some sort of mass arming of women? Or even them taking initiati e, or wanting guns? And this argument also places all the pressure on women, as if having guns will somehow make us equal. The system and institutions in place that perpetuate the dehuminizatiln of women and make sure second class citizens is what needs to change. I also doubt this is going anywhere, you feel strongly with your s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:27 PM
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Queen! I know it's never as easy as a lot of people make it seem but I'm loving the energy of you guys, very inspirational. I know you all can do it! 💕🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:21 PM
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Those two are not equal. Sorry we don't want brain dead violent psychopathic potential pedophiles,because that's what porn does to their brains. Sorry we don't want to contribute to the human trafficking and abuse of women. But for them it all boils down to MuH PeNis amiright? Always about their pencil dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:14 PM
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Lmao right? Like it's not Chad you delusional lvm, it's the actual grooming and maintenance of appearance. But these incels wouldn't know anything about that since they look like they wake up and die everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:02 PM
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Ew he's so gross, he actually expects it and then has the audacity to say "wow". Like wow what you pathetic little man child? Grow up, and leave women alone, you're just wasting their time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:59 PM
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Where and when do you see women collectively using guns? You're the one acting brand new. The guns are in the hands of men just as with everything. Please stop this rhetoric, just say you like guns and go. Don't pretend it's something that is protecting us or that women even have wide access to, even if we used them we'd be lynched on the court of public opinion and the actual courts as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:48 PM
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That's great. No pressure, it's all on your own time and terms. You're great for even considering leaving. You're strong and worth it. I really hope you get everything you deserve and don't have to put up with it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:43 PM
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She's probably white, add to the fact that she's married to a man so she's straight passing. Makes me think she's one of those people who doesn't mind minorities being oppressed, but suddenly has an issue when she might face the same treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:18 AM
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It's not just about guns, it's about actual racist crazies walking around with military grade equipment. Like I don't care if you have a hand gun,but these assholes want rights to have semi-automatic rifles like that's normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:12 AM
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That's disgusting. And that PickMe needs to GTFO, he's utterly depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:28 AM
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"What the hell is wrong with not settling for someone who won't treat me right?Or to my standard? If it works for your then fine, but some of us want better for ourselves." And if they don't get it then reassess the relationship with the person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:23 AM
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Compulsive heterosexuality is a helluva drug
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 11:33 PM
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Exactly, they're not here for us, they're actually actively trying to harm us on a daily basis. Also Happy Cake Day! 🍰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 11:25 PM
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That is horrifying and so scary. Glad you're safe but ugh what a creep. Fucking psycho for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:35 PM
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Ugh he's so full of himself. It really comes across.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:30 PM
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She's banned now. The mods got back to me. She really said some messed up things and started raving at me. I'm so glad they banned her, this is supposed to be a safe place for us. This is why I don't frequent outside of this sub, it's filled with those type of people. Glad to see she won't be here any longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:00 PM
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She really needs to leave. The man is emotionally abusive and he'll get worse. Also why raise a baby near such a toxic person? She'll be doing more harm than good staying with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:53 PM
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Honestly all the advice we gave her was in good faith. Some of the ladies were so lovely I was shocked she had a problem with them. I was more firm so I thought maybe it was just me she had a problem with(lol the continued harassment makes me think she does) but she went off on all of them. The mods took down all her rants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:51 PM
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💀💀 Jesus that is some next level delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:28 PM
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She's literally attacked me on all my comments after I commented on her post. And they attacked all the commenters on their post too. One even called her out and said why don't you direct this energy to the lvm men in your life instead? Idk why she's here if this is how she chooses to be. I blocked her anyway, don't need that negativity in my inbox.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:27 PM
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This is exactly how I feel, they really make you feel crazy because you trusted them to have your back but instead they play games and shift the blame onto you. Dropped those friendships and I feel lighter and more at peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:04 PM
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You have problems. Get some help. I'm just going to block you. This is abusive and harassment. You disgust me and this is the type of pickme harassment we stand against. Why sub to FDS if you hate women so much and are resistant to change? Low value behaviour. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:52 PM
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She just attacked me on seperate posts. Like stalked my comments and started harassing me. Never seen anything this toxic on FDS. Reported her to the mods, bad energy for real. Wait did you draw it? Because if so it's gorgeous. Edit: Holy crap she is relentless, she is harassing me non stop. Just going to block her. She's obviously deranged, wish we could report someone for harassment on the FDS report button.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:46 PM
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You have problems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:36 PM
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Ew what a fucking loser. He's really on the internet for his hurt feefees because noone cared about his dumb opinion in real life. He probably got called out and shut down, and he needs to go back to his echo chamber and oldest friend Reddit to assure him he's right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:03 PM
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Omg y'all I can't with these 😂😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:38 AM
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Wtf did I just read? Men really are both depraved and mentally challenged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:37 AM
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Wow I came back to check this post and she's attacking everybody. I called it on the internalized misogyny and being in competition with women. Never seen something this toxic on FDS before. Edit:I love your icon btw, super cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:07 AM
1

Yooo not the backstreet boys😂💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:20 AM
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So the problems is with men specifically. They themselves are the problem. They really can't even imagine women as people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:54 AM
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It's a human rights violation is what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:21 AM
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Omg 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:55 AM
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Omg I love it! Aesthetic af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:56 AM
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Lol that was funny. Itsy really true tho, they're golddiggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 08:13 PM
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I genuinely wonder when women say they are lonely? Like how, you have family, friends etc. And if you don't then get a pet, but don't for one second think a man will make you less lonely. All they'll do is drive you insane, abuse you and drain the life out of you. If you're better off without them then don't bother chasing them. if you're lonely then work on yourself, try and make friends, get some plants or a pet. Being lonely isn't about not being in a relationship, it's something inside you t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 08:06 PM
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No fool, you just keep forcing us to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:10 PM
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🤦🏻‍♀️ someone give a PickMe a brain for real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:43 PM
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Lol we never know ,we all come from all walks of life. All I care is that our energy is seeping into the mainstream. It's still dusty out there but there is light and hope coming through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:07 AM
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Lol sis there's no shame. Sometimes I don't read the posts either, especially the askreddits because they make me livid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:12 AM
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Okay she took the video so she has evidence but now she needs to leave. It's not going anywhere and she's not gaining anything. Leave sis, don't just post videos online,actually leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:33 PM
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Six months... And he hasn't said it? Girl like we all have different measuring sticks but I'm sorry that is not it. You should be his queen in all ways and this is not HVM at all. Paying for things and planning dates are the minimums but the true HVM quality comes from within. And not saying I love you even if it's some word hangup is too strange. I would give it a month, be very ruthless with how you see him and if there is no true change that makes you secure and happy then walk away. Don't wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:57 PM
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How long have you been dating? You can't even know if someone is HV a year in, and even then you're always vetting. Never compromise, never give in, keep your standards bigh. Don't plan dates, don't pay, don't let him come over (they freaking move in sometimes).And let me just say if he wanted to he would applies to everything. So if he's not then something's up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:51 PM
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It's bestiality. It's disgusting and she should dump him. I know this man has become porn sick and probably not too far off from being refilled. They go hand in hand a lot of the time for real. Her and the dog should GTFO outta there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:33 PM
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This is the exact type of thing I was trying to explain on another post when someone came for me saying "everybody gets hurt/heart broken or breaks hearts in relationship but cheating is gross, low behaviour is low value..." It was like she didn't read the part that I don't believe a word out of an lvm, and frankly if by some miracle the woman did cheat I highly assume some type of abuse was going on from the lvm, and I'm thankful they don't have to deal with the lvm anymore. I see to many men a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:30 PM
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This is a PickMe in too deep. She didn't come to Reddit to be told to drop him. She is continuing the trend of seeking outside validation. Her self esteem is so low that she lets that guy treat her like this and is looking for internet stranger to tell her it's alright that he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:19 PM
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It's askreddit levels of ridiculous. Like for real go there if you wanna play these games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:44 AM
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Stop harassing women on here. Freaking low value behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:34 AM
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Agree to disagree is all I can say here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:29 AM
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Lol girl this ain't the sub for men's tears and being overcritical of women when men do way worse. Also getting your heart broken, breaking hearts is inevitable? This isn't high school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:22 AM
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Like I said I sincerely doubt their stories. And it seems every trash man shares the same crazy ex, cheated on me story. They use it for sympathy and to lower your barriers, make themselves victims in need of care (therapist/bangmaid).And most of these men are abusive POS, if those women cheated, and that is a big if I know a lot of them had to do that to escape. Even just emotionally. I give women the benefit of the doubt, for men I give fuck all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:19 AM
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She's better than all of them. For all the shit they talk they can't even touch her feet let alone the rest of her. Trash people, trash society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:15 AM
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Omg that's inspirational! An FDS lady who knows the horror that is men becoming a justice! I'm rooting for you! That's such an amazing goal. You can definitely do it, not doubt in my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:56 AM
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It's a man sis. Look at their profile and previous comment on FDS, I might even say they actually are 16.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:25 AM
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Not his fault? Um what? All our parents cooked for us, even when we were capable because that's what parents do. We all learned and became self sufficient, this grown ass man has no fucking excuse. And don't blame a mother for lvm, they try their damn hardest which is the entire point we are trying to make here. Edit: Wait a damn minute further search shows some creepy loser shit with you. Also screw you for your rude ass reply on another post here, of course your bitch ass deleted it too.This i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:16 AM
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Omg I'm hoping you get it sis! All the best to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:21 AM
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I thought about that too. Just imagine you see some scrote shittery and you just subtly flash the woman he's with your finger. It's giving me life lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:20 AM
1

Exactly. Trust me they're both in the wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:29 AM
1

They're both pickmes and both equally bad friends. Her responses to me were vitriolic when talking about her friend. I think they both need to level up and mature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:15 AM
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Ok so why is she still in your life then. Why are you bothering? Why trash talk her online? Say it to her face, make your feelings known and then walk away. Be mature, level up. And also can you not refer to women as "whores"? I know you have pent up feelings on the situation but girl this is some messed up train of thought to have. Like this is supposed to be your friend and this is what you think about her? I think you're both in the wrong. Neither of you is a good friend to the other. The onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:05 AM
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I didn't want to put it that bluntly but I so agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:00 AM
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Girl what is going on with you? This is very low value behaviour, you're arguing and competing with your fellow women, your real life friend as well... And for what? Literally for what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 11:54 PM
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You need to read the handbook before posting though, a lot of this just ain't it sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 11:46 PM
3

Oh shit. Yeah I completely understand, these psychos are frightening. I hope you're far away and safe from him now though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 07:24 PM
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Real talk, when I said if it was a very big if lmao. Even then, someone with an ounce of quality would try and level up his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:19 PM
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Lol Reddit is anti women period. What you said was a true unpopular opinion, and not that drivel that's usually on there. You're home girl and au assure you we all agree with you. And yeah a lot of other subs will ban you for even commenting on here or just insinuating that maybe we don't treat women like trash. It's delusion for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:02 PM
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It's not your fault, as I said this is a very real game for them. Seen it too many times personally and through friends. You present a challenge so they'll do what they have to until they get you. One thing I want to say is please never go on a trip or anywhere isolated with a man you've known for only two months. The 3 month period is there as the first roadblock for lvm. It's at 3 months when a lot of them cut their losses and move on. Also when you communicate with them be firm, don't comprom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:34 PM
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Yo Natalie needs a therapist, stat. And for someone to take her phone away from her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 01:34 PM
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It's normal, if they're high functioning or are I'm assuming verbal and communicative then there is no problem. Like the other ladies said, it's a spectrum, and there are degrees of function or ways it manifests itself. I think you should read up on it especially because it's fascinating from a feminist point of view. Autism is usually treated as a male disease and was thought that only men could have not too long ago. To this day women are still not properly diagnosed, this also applies to ADD …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 01:30 PM
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For me I bring it up, I call them out on it. I don't yell, I don't argue. I simply state that what they did is not something I will tolerate, and to never do it again. If they do it again then I'm gone. We're done. Family is the only people I have given chances to and even then I'm pretty firm. I've asserted my boundaries with them and told them if they push it we're done. For example I'm extremely sensitive to touch and don't allow contact unless I initiate, even then I don't enjoy a lot of tou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 06:30 AM
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He's a rapist piece of shit. And the mother is a dangerous delusional pickme. Fuck the both of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 06:09 AM
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Yep. Madness. I hope with every fibre in my being that the daughter makes it out okay. This PickMe is a danger to all the women in her life and is actively putting her daughter in harm's way. Can't believe the nerve of her to ask advice. Like are you crazy?? Get him the fuck outta there, change your locks,file a report idc. It's honestly making me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:37 AM
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Exactly. Because it's actually really dangerous, it's not some minor argument. This man is threatening the safety of her daughter. Pickmes are dangerous for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:35 AM
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Wtf !! That is so disgusting. I really hate most institutions. They're not here for us so I'm not here for them. Just fuck, it's like the whole world is made to make women suffer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:04 AM
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Sorry but the mom isn't a prize either. That she would even consider kicking her daughter out. That she would even keep this piece of shit rapist around after he admitted something so disgusting. Wtf protect your children, protect your daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:01 AM
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Corrupt bullshit for real. Another reason to dislike police. I know they argue that women need police so they don't get raped. Lol it's always men who say that too, but police ain't ever done shit. Always too late and never on the woman's side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 01:24 AM
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I thought it was over? She said they already settled on giving him anger management lessons. People can still communicate what happened to them. They can still say I was assaulted etc. She doesn't have to go on a whole campaign but they can't stop her from saying her story. Megan Stallion told her story all over and they didn't do jack, and that whole thing was still being investigated at the time. It's a very sketchy and fine line as I said, it's not so clear cut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:31 AM
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Ew so he's a violent pedophile then? Disgusting. Good for you, don't make it easier for him to prey on other women and girls. If anything you give a paper trail to any other potential girlfriends, so they know to steer clear of this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:23 PM
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Yes I do agree. And he can't say anything about harassment, it's a fine line with social media and free speech. I've seen some downright horrific things be said and it's out of the police's hands. Unless someone is threatening violence and even then they can't do anything. He might try to sue for defamation but he would have to prove that the statements are false, which if all she says is that he broke her car window, there is no way he can do since that is the truth. Sometimes I think it's a la…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:21 PM
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I'm so sorry for her. That's truly sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 10:21 PM
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I do agree. There was a post on here of safety and things to buy as well as security measures I think OP can really benefit from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:32 PM
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Yep. I think someone else summarized the whole thing in the comments so it's better. But honestly it was so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:36 PM
2

God right? But you can always focus on friendships, I'd rather be alone than bothered and stressed. Do you still remember that heartwarming post about those 4 friends who bought houses right next to each other and spend the rest of their lives together? Or a Boston marriage, it's where you marry your best friend in a platonic way. Idk I think there's always ways to find companionship that doesn't come from a dusty man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:03 PM
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Right back at you sis! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:43 PM
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Please!! I honestly think all these are real. I know a lot of ladies call it incel fantasy but too many rapes and murders of women happen daily for some of them not to be real. They usually save these things for the dark web but honestly whose gonna check this anonymous account and stop them if this is real? It just makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:42 PM
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That is absolutely disgusting. I hope he gets what coming to him one day, if there is a god let all these pieces of shit pay. I am so sorry that happened to you, god you were so young. This world is full of scum and their name is men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:42 PM
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Yooo 🤢🤢🤢🤢 what an image
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:14 PM
2

Lol American citizens really are in an abusive relationship and being gaslighted to the extreme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:11 PM
2

It's like cognitive dissonance or just plain stupidity. They do know their lives got worse because of him right? And if they check the actual laws passed and destroyed under his term, that it's some dismal shit? That'll take another President's whole term to fix??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:10 PM
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You know whatever the politics of the poeple in America, I never understood why they let someone so clearly mentally challenged to become President. It's like really now? The whole world is laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:51 PM
9

I can see his pants. His dick ain't shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:48 PM
5

Lol all of them stole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:45 PM
6

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Can't take the Pickmes outta the clown carousal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:59 AM
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Makes me cheer the women who did it honestly. But then I know it's all clown lies for sympathy points. Can't trust a word outta their mouths, "crazy exes"= actually crazy dude. Of anything those women escaped these toxic losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:56 AM
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Yooo for real. 😭😂 Can't turn a ho into a husband lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:51 AM
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I mean we can make it literal too If he's so lonely I'll just bring out these 11 inch dildos, sure he might be scared at first but he'll grow to like it! And doesn't he love me enough to try??? 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:48 AM
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Lol can't be fishing in the trash pretending that shiny plastic wrapper to the left is gold. Gotta keep that self respect firmly in place ya know.🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:46 AM
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Sure as fuck not successful what with them stealing our ideas,time,labour energy and whatever else to get where they are. Name me a reslected,lauded man from history and I can tell you his ass stole that shit from a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:44 AM
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Girl I'm abstinent lmao. Marriage is the only time it's happening ever. And that doesn't mean stop dating lol, just means nobody is getting anything from me except my spouse. It's non negotiable. I also thank fuck I'm bisexual though,so my options are open. On one side: women, on the other: maybe a couple of magical unicorn men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:31 AM
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And that's why I will always hold the attitude of fuck 'em. Not wasting feelings on people who don't see me as a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:51 AM
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Nooo not the skidmarks!!!🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:50 AM
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Looks divine! Truly so happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:35 AM
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You mean outside of bed? Or outside of the house?Because you're doing all those anyway, you just want to humiliate and hurt women in public. You want the mass abuse and exploitation of women, beyond where it already is. Don't pretend any of you aren't hitting women, that porn isn't full of it, that murder rates,rapes and domestic abuse for women aren't astronomical. That we're not being terrorized daily all over the world. And I'm always packing something so just fucking try it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:46 PM
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Lmao you know the PickMes are diving in head first. 😂😂🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:36 PM
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I'm confused, don't they like hurting women? There are subreddits of people showing pictures and having fantasies of rape and other sick shit. S what they want to hurt and make you cry but don't want you to manipulate them with your tears???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:36 PM
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Probably because he knew it was him making you cry. Can't live with the guilt of being a scumbag. Or maybe it was something he couldn't control about you, narcs want everything to be about them even your tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:34 PM
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Why don't they have a"Don't rape" class exclusively for boys??? You know target the problem at the root.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 09:37 PM
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Never let a man dim your light! They're just afraid because we shine so bright! (Idk why that rhymed but still)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 09:30 PM
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Lol. I know we joke though but they really think,sound and talk like that. So brain dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 09:28 PM
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Will we ever know peace?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 09:15 PM
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Sweetie def has some good ones. 'My type' was unapologetic Queen shit. And they were mad for that too. 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:28 PM
2

Omg Rico Nasty!! I'm so conflicted about Azelea though, her songs are so good but she's just so Ugh. I listen to her anyway though. But I will def check the other ones out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:27 PM
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People think it's just for white women too but it's all women. It always is, I don't want to name the ones they use for WOC because they are disgusting. But it's just become so popularized to hate and silence women. I don't condone it,or contribute to it and I don't think other women should either. It's not funny, it's not even true, it's just another insult the culture has come up with. And yes I have been called Karen for standing against age gaps, porn, abuse, kinks. As if I'm the abnormal on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:22 PM
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Lol sorry, I was agreeing with you but just expanding on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:14 PM
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Any ones you recommend? I still love it too but it's damn hard. Don't really want to listen to PickMes either, it's the reason I couldn't stand WAP. The whole messages were some kinkmeaisha, getting beat up bs. I'm all for women expressing themselves and making the men mad but that was not it for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:01 PM
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Culture follows institutions and institutions influence culture. If the systems in place actively oppress and repress women, then the culture will reflect that. Change the institutions and get actual equality of opportunity and treatment, and the he culture will follow that. It's not that hard to understand and yet it's all about performative activism without any real change. Just a lot of talk and no action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:56 PM
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Agree, it's become a hate train for all women. They use it left and right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:12 PM
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What a scumbag. I hope the judge reads him for filth and gives him a wake up call. Or she sues him. The texts sure do help her case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:10 PM
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Right? He's probably married too. Absolute scum, and yeah you keep hustling sis. So sad you have to deal with this right now, and with unsupportive management. Hopefully when you get your dream job you also vet the workplace to see what their attitude on workplace harassment is. And remember HR is never your friend, document everything and make sure there is a paper trail. Good luck in school!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:19 PM
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What??? Omg put those scum on blast. I really hate these delivery services and riding services. They all treat their female employees like trash and don't even care about safety. So much harassment wtf. What is wrong with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:13 PM
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God what even happened to the world when all our new young adult films are coming straight outta Wattpad, how the hell are younger girls supposed to survive if even the shit romances are Wattpad levels. So many bad toxic movies in the last couple of years. Not saying anything of the quality because. 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:34 PM
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LoGIc and ReASoNiNg lmao. And not to mention all those misuses of argumentative point, they throw those out like candy as if they're doing smth. That shit is first year intro to philosophy level reasoning and even then it's still basic as frick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:28 PM
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Probably because he wasn't there. Or was so useless he might as well have not been. You know blame the only parent who stayed and all that because f*** women amiright??🥴🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:25 PM
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Um no and even your interpretation is another way of attacking women. Sorry but that doesn't exist, there is no entitled white women demographic. Older people, and especially men are extremely entitled but this has become too distorted. Frankly most women, and yes white women have always been extremely kind. And especially especially older women; white, black and everything else. You need to reevaluate how you see women because that's a toxic mindset to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:23 PM
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Covid has really opened my eyes to that too. I really prefer it, neither of us have to see each other and it's safer too, not just for covid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:19 PM
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Omg I'm so glad you got away, this made my heart stop for a second. And Uber is notorious for sexual assaults and not getting their drivers. Also they won't do anything even when reported, they just let proven sickos back into driving, free to prey on more women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:18 PM
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Fucking PickMe Prose. Romanticizing everything and anything. Edit: Omg I just noticed it's a nice guy and a PickMe talking to each other!!! Nice guy: He treats you like crap but you still always talking about him(what about meeeeeee!) PickMe: It's True LOVE!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:15 PM
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I used to enjoy rap but I realized most of them aren't that talented. If all their songs are trashing or objectifying women then I don't care how sick the rhyme or the beat is, it's trash and lacks creativity. So freaking rare to find quality rap. I do like Hopsin and Tech9nine and a lot of Nicki Minaj though, But maybe that's because I don't listen to an artist's whole discography so who knows?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:07 PM
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💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:03 PM
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Wow so it's really come to this. At least I know who the scum of society are by just a glance now. It's a positive, before I had to guess who was a sicko, now I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:02 PM
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Omg!!! At least this one is actually accurate though.😂😂🥴🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:01 PM
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Okay then! Sometimes Amazon Prime pays for itself,shipping, books, music, streaming and those deals of the day etc. I already have some books with Prime reading but I will be checking that out, that is for the recommend. We should start a book club/tv/film discussion flair lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 01:59 PM
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Can we just stop showing her? She's beyond help and as long as the money is rolling in she won't stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 01:52 PM
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This is like that show You or even the Joker. But the Pickmes and lvm are still glorifying it. They literally acted the way you're describing and even said these things out loud but they are treated as heart throbs. Society is so insidious,they really brainwash young girls to not only accept this garbage,but to want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 12:01 AM
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If they're not adding to your life, and even actively debilitating you and making your life worse, then drop them. You were more than fine before them, and you'll be better than fine after them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:31 PM
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Ew 🤢🤢 Hope she dumps him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 09:27 PM
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Me too. Had to drop a lot of friends when I moved my life and am working towards a career change. Even then I didn't drink too crazy though I had moments because of peer pressure,but realized they were toxic people and it wasn't adding anything to my life to be around them. Wish we could just have fun and genuinely enjoy each other's companies. Why can't a drive in movie party be a thing? Or a picnic party, going to the beach party, actually watching Netflix together and doing a little slumber p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:50 PM
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Projection. He told on himself pretty early on. Always listen and let people show you who they are. He can't have fun without alcohol so basically he's an alcoholic with poor judgement and will power. He'll try to bring you down to his level because he knows he's at rock bottom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:43 PM
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Lol right? Why don't you take the money you spend on working towards your potbelly, and use it to buy a bar of soap, and some moisturizer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:41 PM
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Lol let me do another one. "Prude" Translation: How dare you have boundaries and self respect and not immidetaly fall on my dick so I can use you and then never call you again. Or so I can use you for life as my forever girlfriend/fwb/ bangmaid on the side?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:39 PM
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"You don't drink?" Translation: I can't ply you with alcohol and take advantage of you??? Lol of course you're paying too though. 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:37 PM
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And it makes them ugly too. They think that because their metabolism is working right now that it'll work forever. Nah fam, you look pregnant and halfway dead before you hit 35, that's the reality of a poor diet and constant alcoholism or whatever else they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:36 PM
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Shh don't you know free speech only applies to men??? Can't be letting women get ideas you see. Also didn't they finally make it legal to wear pants in the late 2000s? Women were doing it anyway, but it was technically illegal up until 2013 or so I believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:32 PM
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Comment thread full of Dusty's and Pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:22 PM
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Sure you can do it. When you renegotiate your contract, tasks and salary. Since it's another job on top of yours I'm thinking they match your current salary, so double the pay,sounds about fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:22 PM
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Can't stand party hard, always raging people sometimes. It's like they don't know how to live or enjoy something, without some type of stimulant. Like heck can't you just have fun on your own?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:10 PM
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I think there is an app currently that you can program it to send out some mass texts if you don't check in with the app at certain time? I'm sure I saw it on Pinterest or something like that. But yes your idea sounds fantastic, any step we take to protect each other and ourselves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:53 AM
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You can place it on your back camera as well, or buy a case with a flap or even sew a flap for the back. If you use a case that is. It's kind of something you attach on and when you want to use the camera you slide it to the left. It's pretty nifty and small enough that it's not noticable. You can even place it on your tv, also you can check for camera around your area or room by turning the lights off and using the camera flashlight to scan the room. Camera lenses even tiny ones reflect light s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:38 AM
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I think someone posted about her here in FDS so you might be able to catch that thread, there were certainly some eye opening comments. But yeah cannot stand people who abuse women, and especially when they do it for likes or some misguided sense of seeking validation. I hope she wakes up and sees she is better than that,and apologizes to the women she hurt, but I'm sure doing what she is doing is making her money. Her fanbase is mostly all men so as long as they're signing her cheques I doubt s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:30 AM
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No problem. I think someone posted another thread on here giving examples of things to protect yourself with and the replies were just as helpful. Check it out for more. I certainly learned quite a bit. You're always welcome to share here and know we have your back 100%. This is a safe space for women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:26 AM
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I think it's because they consider marriage as locking down a caretaker. They've found a substitute mommy and so they think they are free to roam and do whatever. Men don't think like us and what we consider important or precious they consider as insignificant or as their due.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:53 AM
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Please change the screws on your lock(get larger thicker ones that make it harder to break in) and also maybe get an extra door jam/lock and a bat. I know this is incredibly hard and I can't even begin to understand what you are going through but you are so strong and wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:51 AM
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I know, it's so unfair and I hate that we have to go to these lengths and sometimes it's still not enough. But I'd rather have all of you safe than anything else. Sending you all hugs and love.🤗🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:43 AM
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I get it, the message you are trying to show an example of is 100% right and it's damn hard to find any sense outside of FDS anyways, it's always men's point of view or women agreeing so what can we do really. If anything this girl needs FDS and to stop seeking validation from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:38 AM
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That is disgusting, and I am so tired and freaking disgusted with the media and the words they use to say things. Stop being cowards and pandering, say rape,say predator,say pedophilia. Always downplaying the act, I'm so freaking tired. It's all about protecting the potential innocence of the man with "alleged" and not the victimhood of the woman. Every citizen has rights under law except for a woman who has been abused, raped or sexually assaulted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:33 AM
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Because they're entitled and think they are owed women's bodies no matter their status. Also they consider the woman they're with already theirs but they still want to mess around and "chase". I'm sure the cheating and boundary crossing, as well as lack of respect is what makes it so appealing to them though. Nothing like screwing multiple women over to get layed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:30 AM
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Oh my god I am so sorry that happened to you. He is a sick depraved piece of shit. Are you okay if I may ask? Are you safe? This is absolutely the place to speak, even making your own post or going into the chatroom. Please know we are all here for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:31 AM
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Saved! Very helpful and useful, especially when living alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:29 PM
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Yes. And not just that, they photoshop the whole body to create fake nudes. Pieces of excrement honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:28 PM
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Yes what the reply said, private citizens, regular everyday women like you and me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:26 PM
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Omg for real, I just saw that 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:22 PM
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Love it! I'm happy whenever I see this stuff, it just means you ladies out there, have some positive male role models and are not being hurt or disappointed by lvm. I really like that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:11 PM
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Thank you! Your post is inspirational and came at the right time for me. Like attracting like I think! Posts like yours really give me the confidence and knowledge that I'm on the right track. I've had my share of rock bottoms but hey you know what they say, the only way left to go is up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:11 AM
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Exactly! It's so hard when you love shows but hate the mysoginy in them. I mean it's not hard to just be decent writers and people. They act like they're doing something hard by adding storylines for women. And women are some of the biggest consumers of geek culture! They're the ones packing the comic cons and whatever else cons, making the art,writing the fanfiction etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:52 PM
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👸👸👑 We keep that crown up high and live our best lives!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:18 PM
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I could never reconcile it with who I am. I mean there is a show that actively treats women and women's storylines as less important or just as background noise. And I'm not gonna lie, season 5 was it for me, beyond that it was meh. But maybe that's because I honest to god love monster of the week type shows. Yeah it sucks that there is no space for us, a way to see ourselves in the show and fully experience it. The fans are varied and unique but they get payed dust. The cast and creators even c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:17 PM
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Omg reminds me of Little Women with Amy, "I'll have respect if I can't have love", she also knew her reality as a woman in the world and schooled Laurie on his privelege and assumptions. I feel the same, love is beautiful but if I want to spend a life with someone then respect is the key. It's what will withstand as the excitement and newness of the relationship fades and it's what will withstand through sickness and health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 08:38 PM
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