BuT fAlSe RaPe CaSeS (Check comments)

neverinne · 2020-11-05T13:25:47+00:00

"I need to go to the bathroom"
"You'll get raped if you go alone"
"Okay, female friends, come with me"
"LOL girls always gotta go to the baffroom in groups LOol"

Bovvsette · 2020-11-05T13:02:23+00:00

False rape cases are sooo common, because what woman doesn't enjoy putting herself in vulnerable and dangerous state, risking her case being dismissed but still getting the death threats, disrespect, name calling and stigma of being looked down on as that girl who got raped, as having sex is the worst thing a woman can do ever, even if it was not consensual. Every woman just wants to claim to be raped, because it's such a cool and not traumatic at all thing to happen to you. /s

The scrote logic is flawless as ever. More actual rape cases go unreported actually, because no one believes her and if they do, fuck her lifelong trauma, WhaT aBouT HIS fUtUrE? Just let him abuse you as some community service, but god forbid anyone knows and ruins HIS employment and relationship opportunities for being outted like a monster he is. Society treats her just as bad for letting him get caught as HIM DOING THE ACTUAL FUCKING CRIME. Especially if he was some loveable character, but actual piece of shit behind the scenes. Like, how dare you break everyone's illusion dream version of him, no way that can be true, you must be the one who wanted to be abused.

_xyoungbellax_ · 2020-11-05T11:50:47+00:00

I had a LVM said to me that false rape cases are more than actual rape cases despite knowing about my past assaults. I shut down that shit instantly and blocked him everywhere. He called me a feminist bitch in a public forum. I don't care at all. Thanks to FDS. What I do want to let him and male lurkers know is, most rape cases go unreported especially in cases of marital or incestuous. Not many countries still recognize those as rapes. They get dismissed because "come on it was your husband, he definitely had your consent, impossible" and in incestuous cases, it's usually a minor getting sexually assaulted day and night by her guardian but no one will believe her, one, because she's a minor, two, he's her legal guardian. With the other rape cases, women don't report mainly because of the bad name that may come to her family or harm that may be caused to her or her family. I've seen cases where a woman registered a rape case against the perpetrator, soon after, his allies gangraped her again or splashed acid on her face. Then in another, a woman's whole family was threatened to be shot point blank if she didn't withdraw the case. Yet, we have men who claim that false rape cases are more and therefore they don't want to risk paying for the first date without getting sex first. Logic? What's that?

Muffy217 · 2020-11-05T12:59:31+00:00

If watching 20 seasons of Law and Order SVU has taught me anything, it’s that you could live in a bunker and if a man wanted to rape you, he would find a way.

That being said, it does offer a little comfort to take some precautions. I live alone and have both a gun and a giant dog. It helps me to sleep a little better, but I still know that of someone wanted to get me, they would. What precautions do you all take?

Solaresa · 2020-11-05T20:18:54+00:00

Men: I will never let a man near my future daughter/s, not in a million years, I have a shotgun and I will literally murder any guy who looks at her.
Women: I'm nervous around men due to bad past experiences.
Men: um wow okay first of all, not all men are like that...

Men know what men are like. They just don't want to admit it.

perkytitssolidshits · 2020-11-05T16:11:05+00:00

Out of my close friend group (8 ppl) Four have been raped (including me-at 16 btw) the fifth was molested by an uncle as a child. That left 3 of us that got out of this sh*t.

Happens more often then people realize. It’s so underreported and sometimes forgotten (child assault) until later.

All because one crazy woman here or there reports a false rape (under 1%) all of us it really happens to don’t get taken serious by men. Things need to change. I hope all the men that don’t believe women have girls.

KitKat1705 · 2020-11-05T12:09:20+00:00

The accuracy of it all hurts.

entpgirl415 · 2020-11-05T15:44:24+00:00

Legit!! I never got this! People put so much pressure on women to watch ourselves in everyday life, but when we are open about being assaulted its our fault for not protecting ourselves to the max?? How does that make any sense? Its like saying people that live in countries where theres a constant state of war are at fault if they get hurt because they live there and maybe they should move or protect themselves more.... like what? (strictly a metaphor im sure its much worse living in a country with a constant state of war)

MonicaLSolis · 2020-11-05T13:44:32+00:00

Female rape victims are actively disbelieved. If you are a woman who was raped, the default is that you're lying. If you're a man who was raped, the default is that you're telling the truth.

NotSoBunny · 2020-11-05T13:56:35+00:00

It's the same when they hit you, it is your fault. You had it coming, but what about him. Oh, you're just irrational. I've had police officers try to take me to the loony bin for being too emotional after my ex-husband beat the crap out of me and my 1 year old. And leave her with him!

amievenreal99 · 2020-11-05T13:11:40+00:00

I had following encounter:

I joined a Facebook group after moving new to this town, because I wanted to meet new people. It was not a flirting or singles group, but one for going out and meeting people.

There was this guy who made 4 accounts just to stalk, harass and attack me verbally. When I made a post in the group to ask who the admin is and gave a description of what happened, the admin said he can't look into my PMs, so go to the police. I said I have screenshots, he said he can't check 'whether they are fake or not'. When I asked him if, in case of doubt, he'd rather build a paradise for sexual predators than believe a woman, he blocked me, saying I was being 'emotional and unreasonable'.

I sent this to a different admin of the group - a woman - but she ignored it.

I made a post about going out for dinner and is there any group I could join. A woman kept stating how I'm 'asking for it, if I'm posting so loosely (whatever that meant)' and told me to 'try out a flirting group instead' (no idea behind the logic).

After that, I left.

It's not rape. It's molestation and harassment. But the mindset of these people was the same.

DallasM19 · 2020-11-05T15:14:10+00:00

Yup. The detective also enjoyed adding : "if you're lying, I will charge you with criminal mischief" a day after getting out of the hospital. Oh, and because Canada, I went to one hospital and then drove an hour to another one as SA nurses only work at our hospital (that services a large area called the Niagara region) from Monday to Friday, as though women are only getting raped during business hours. Cool, cool.

lvoncreek · 2020-11-05T13:27:13+00:00

This is golden

Equal-Ear2312 · 2020-11-05T17:35:53+00:00

(non)Marital rape... Also. Because BFs and husband can do it too. What would society advise?

Don't get married? Don't enter a relationship? Don't meet with people? Live secluded in a bunker?

Society's favorite word: AlleDgEdLy

2020-11-05T18:35:52+00:00

Its depressing as fuck. I got attacked by a scrote after he rear ended me. Cops wouldnt do shit and I had to defend myself. I'm slowly getting over the trauma but now I'm afraid to go anywhere alone in my city.

Call_me_Charlotte · 2020-11-05T13:22:21+00:00

Justice for Mari Ferrer! :(

AlextheAnalyst · 2020-11-05T16:18:31+00:00

I love that gun and dog thing. Def gonna do that when I live on my own.

typeadhd · 2020-11-06T01:49:09+00:00

Men: highly improbable that she was raped and she’s probably just lying

Also men: well even if she was raped why did she go out alone and wear what she was wearing?? Even I feel unsafe walking home alone at night

just say you hate women and go

caytj444 · 2020-11-05T20:31:21+00:00

When things actually happen they trivialize the severity of it for you 😒

I remember when one said it is was irrational to be fearful of a stranger when men get hurt by strangers more. Okay? Does this make it a 0% occurrence for women?? Even if a violent attack didn’t take place immediately, that the following around and the comments made by men aren’t scary at our size?

I encourage ALL women and girls to take safe measures for your protection

2020-11-05T14:52:00+00:00

I think those types of people (best to steer clear of them for good) are projecting their own traumatic pasts in the disguise of "concerns" onto women who just want to live their life safely as best as they can.

PessimisticAna · 2020-11-05T18:04:10+00:00

Damned if you do Damned if you don't

-sIm0n3 · 2020-11-05T20:04:50+00:00

Damn this sh*t made me want to eat men (I kid). But seriously, the way some men speak is so aggravating.

Fitncurly · 2020-11-05T23:15:25+00:00

Holy fuck she nailed the societal gaslighting and misogyny right on the head!

CatusCactus · 2020-11-06T00:34:01+00:00

This classmate I had in high school told me he wouldn't be in a room alone with a woman because she could make a false rape case. They create this false narrative to be the victim

operaghost18 · 2020-11-05T17:25:08+00:00

I was raped on a tinder date where I just thought I was going to watch a movie.

spidertonic · 2020-11-05T21:45:44+00:00

Exactly!

intrepidis_dux · 2020-11-06T01:31:41+00:00

I'm sorry but this was so true it was funny. Not that rape is funny but I'm sure my ladies here understand.

Also considering getting my dog a gun now.

InnocentlyDistressed · 2020-11-06T01:41:47+00:00

Lol and people wonder why I have so much anxiety

snxwfall · 2020-11-05T21:59:50+00:00

THIS IS FUCKING FACTS

strangledandstarving · 2020-11-05T22:13:38+00:00

Holy shit this hits home. It’s so accurate, too accurate. God damn.

Platipus6 · 2020-11-05T22:14:14+00:00

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2020-11-06T12:55:57+00:00

This is so logical and accurate

Title	BuT fAlSe RaPe CaSeS (Check comments)
Author	_xyoungbellax_
Upvotes	8040
Comments	117
Date	November 5, 2020 11:50 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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