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17

Tumblr was there for me way before FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 08:15 PM
2

Video games make me motion sick but this is another reason why I don't game. I know myself well enough to realize video games are not a rabbit hole I need to go down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:32 PM
16

You have to get the right dog and the right training. Training is also a continuous process. Like people, dogs will forget what they learned over time. And yes, dogs can make mistakes. There's a big language barrier between us, words to them are like fire alarms to us. We practice doing specific things when we hear an alarm but if you go to a new place that has a different sounding alarm or different procedures, you might get confused and do the wrong thing. This is usually how most dog bites ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:34 PM
3

I tried to upvote you twice lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:27 PM
25

You were the "work wife".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:46 PM
5

That's apparently how he brings her up when he talks about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:34 AM
12

Apparently that's how he brings her up every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:04 AM
8

I'm not a huge fan of eating frosting but I still like the cake to look nice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 12:17 AM
16

I'm pretty sure these are for men to use on each other...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:35 PM
133

Add Ben Shapiro to your list. He's the one who thinks a WAP is a medical condition because his wife, who is a doctor, told him it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:28 PM
43

He thinks lobsters are a good model for human behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:26 PM
33

Right? Like how exactly is covid keeping you from working on yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:51 PM
8

I sent my friend a snack of pretzel dogs from clear across the country via Door Dash just because she was jealous of my corn dogs. If they wanted to they would...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:55 PM
14

Well that's the thing isn't it? A HVM wouldn't treat you like sex doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:51 PM
18

I'm sorry you had such a horrific experience. My time in the Marines has not been like that at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:27 AM
1

Been there, done that, threw out the t-shirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:51 PM
15

How to avoid offending a woman when paying for dinner: "Hey, dinner is on me." So easy. 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:47 PM
2

It would instantly make me suspicious. Like "why are you trying to butter me up??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:52 PM
2

It would instantly make me suspicious. Like "why are you trying to butter me up??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:51 PM
8

It would instantly make me suspicious. Like "why are you trying to butter me up??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:47 PM
7

It would instantly make me suspicious. Like "why are you trying to butter me up??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:47 PM
5

Or a giant neon sign with arrows...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:57 AM
3

Maybe it should be. JFC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:58 PM
11

Ironically, those pants probably give her better range of motion than say, ripstop. They look stretchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:45 PM
1

It could be like book editions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:57 PM
3

Pretty sure all those trash pick up artist manuals think they're diving into the female psyche but, as always, they can't do it without making everything about their dick. Which also explains how you end up with Freud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:22 AM
8

You could have a flashing neon sign with an arrow pointing at you and they'd still not be able to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:53 PM
35

r/homedefense has some good threads on securing your residence as well as advice on home security systems. I was also considering writing a post on how to select a martial arts school, if there's any interest in that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:00 PM
4

Is this what you're referring to? https://youtu.be/jOvjuRVZOQ4
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:54 PM
234

Should've told him he was behind...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:38 PM
26

Of course I'm finishing my plate. I want to get his money's worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:19 PM
2

Oooh, what masks do you use?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 01:20 AM
19

There's a scene in the Enola Holmes movie that calls this out perfectly: Men have no interest in changing a world that suits them so well. Also, every woman should learn judo and jujitsu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:54 AM
33

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 01:42 AM
21

Because mom is a real person and actually enforces rules, dad is their fantasy construct that let's them get away with everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:43 PM
6

All the characters he plays seem to be assholes too. Hmmm...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 11:37 PM
2

Awesome! I'll look into it. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 07:25 PM
31

Oh no, they think we not only already have equal rights and treatment, but that we get treated better. 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:49 PM
22

It probably depends on season, area and type of grass but just in case, there are some weeks in the middle of spring where I had to mow the grass twice a week. And don't mow the same day it rains, the grass gets like 4x heavier. Learned that the hard way. 😜😜😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:44 PM
1

I'm pretty sure "general legal immunity" = not doing illegal things! In his head it probably means "get out of jail free" card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:08 AM
3

*supposedly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:06 AM
8

What kind of contract could a lawyer even draw up for the situations he's imagining? A release of liability that every woman who crosses his field of view has to sign? How would that even work? Why would anyone want to hire him, much less "open new opportunities" for him, if he has to stop and whip out his stack of forms every five seconds because he ran into a new woman? Now I'm imagining him walking into a meeting with a bunch of clients or something and "Sorry, before we begin, I need all the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:59 AM
10

TBH, I've never really had to ask. Just sit for three minutes in silence and they'll start their whole tirade on their own. They can't help themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:11 AM
7

Any chance you have a link or would be interested in doing a write up or how to on the old phone camera thing? I have a couple lying around that I wasn't sure what to do with and this sounds perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:58 AM
20

He's playing a game that will leave him hungry so I would say it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:45 AM
20

Upvoting for Amelia Bedelia! Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:44 AM
32

If he can't afford $50 for this trash date, he doesn't even have reddit gold to dig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:43 AM
337

These look both delicious and gorgeous. You can pack my lunch any day. XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:09 PM
21

I like how he thinks lawyering up like this is going to "open up new opportunities" for him. Lol whut? New opportunities to find out what a dumbass he is maybe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:58 PM
23

I asked a guy what privileges I have that he doesn't and I'm still waiting for an answer five years later. He also recently accused me of being racist in a post I made of a picture of myself, about myself. Can't really wrap my brain around that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:14 PM
18

The crust looks store bought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:14 PM
65

Thank you for calling them terrorists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:11 PM
25

Oh no, they were trying to find 200 more idiots to come help them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:10 PM
1

Sorry, the Marines have already landed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 06:38 PM
2

Apparently the colander thing is Middle Eastern thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:35 PM
2

I know. Why do you think I joined the Marines? ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:40 PM
1

Yes, the skeletons of English long bowmen are easily identified because of the differences in their bones. IIRC, they are thicker and denser to adapt to the draw weight. You should def check out the Society for Creative Anachronism. They may be creatively anachronistic but they still like historical integrity. They'd at least be able to point you in the right direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:00 AM
5

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:55 AM
4

I gave up keeping track of calories. Too much trouble. I just try to eat a rainbow diet of fresh food and only eat when I'm hungry. When people ask, I just shrug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:55 AM
6

Oohrah! Get some!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:44 AM
43

IIRC, part of the reason women haven't historically been beating men is because training techniques have focused on men but now that the focus is shifting to women, they're starting to break their records. One of the things the US women's soccer team says contributes to their success is that their training plans were designed from the ground up for women and takes their cycles into account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:44 AM
2

AFAIK, you'd probably want to work up to an English long bow. You weren't able to find an SCA group that have any?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:54 AM
33

The video is all of seven seconds long. How would you react to some rando coming up to you and demanding to know how you could afford your car? I would definitely have told him fuck off and not answered the question. She also seems older so maybe she is a SAHM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:44 PM
5

If I ever get to the point where I thinking of hiring a PI, I'm going to need FDS to come do an intervention!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:59 PM
6

I thought it was going to be a pic of Mr. Bean...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:46 PM
3

Unless it has heavy artillery I get to fire off, I've had my fill of fields.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:12 PM
66

I love how so many guys participate in "No Shave November" but don't know what it's for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:00 PM
4

She's a the captain of a sea faring vessel. Of course she's salty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:43 PM
7

You should at least get a diploma out of it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:39 PM
6

Is this not the Oedipus Complex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:33 PM
1

That he got from someone not saying "Thank you for your service" and giving him a 5% discount...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:12 PM
2

I'll bet they have an actual dishrack or dishwasher as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:45 AM
1

It better be to a picnic and movie in the park or something!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:02 PM
6

See if there is a range in your area now. No reason why you should wait. Start taking classes and rent different guns so you can get used to being on a range, handling weapons and figuring out which ones you like. The range can be a good place for networking and meeting people. Ask the employees for recommendations in the area you're looking to move to, they probably have connections and may also be familiar with the gun laws there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:47 PM
13

They only like biology when they think it's going to benefit them. See all the guys crying about what women supposedly can't physically do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:37 AM
50

And don't have girls night when there are eavesdropping men around apparently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:25 AM
45

D (for dickhead): all of the above
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:23 AM
13

Wish I could've seen that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:37 PM
80

I've talked to a lot of men who think they could pin Ronda Rousey just because they know some BJJ. Seriously?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:36 PM
13

I bet he'd understand if he got testicle cancer...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:30 PM
145

Clearly, dad did raise a moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:22 PM
20

Should be a flair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:23 PM
20

It is more likely that is the problem but these types also refuse to go to the doctor so if they actually have a problem, they wouldn't know either. Another reason why men die earlier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 06:04 PM
19

Either that or refuses to go to the doctor...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:56 PM
6

Luke Wilson...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:49 PM
30

Ehhh, you do you. Imma stay off OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:48 PM
8

*and rapidly decompress...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:23 PM
18

Less than 95% of men can do my job at a basic level, even fewer can get to my level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:04 PM
23

This is my favorite! Also, zoos, aquariums and science centers. I'm also one of those types of people who has more than a passing familiarity about all of those places/things so it's a good way to see how they react to me either being more knowledgeable than them or if they're able to handle a discussion like an adult. Or, less likely, teach me something without being condescending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:51 PM
15

Nothing is more satisfying than punching a shit talking scrote in the face. (Boxing, mma, etc.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:10 PM
17

He's going to need a lot more than a hour. Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:20 PM
13

"I dunno, what groceries are you bringing? Nothing? Ok, you get nothing. Byeee!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:08 PM
3

The wall around the toilet...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:07 AM
3

I think we should start rating them, if only for our own amusement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:01 AM
1

He's probably get a neck injury and then find a way to blame the woman for his twiggy neck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:07 PM
10

Seriously! What is even the point of wearing underwear if it's missing the crotch? Wouldn't it just be a skirt at that point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:33 AM
3

Obviously, someone hit him over the head with a paddle. Unlike the moose, he's still "fukt up".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:43 PM
3

I once asked a "friend" what rights I have that he didn't. Still waiting for an answer five years later...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:29 PM
14

Yes, this is me. "Only if you like teeth!" Usually enough to shut them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:26 PM
18

I'm so glad I have a job where I'm expected to be intimidating and anyone complaining will be swiftly exposed for the sexist they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:18 AM
14

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:14 AM
1

No talking, just leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:54 AM
2

Especially when they put it like that. It's like saying "I'm into European culture." OK, but which one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:39 AM
3

Well, who else is going to do it? If he wipes it himself, it makes him gay, don't cha know? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:26 AM
10

He failed the adult human test...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:24 AM
7

I've had guys I wasn't even dating cry for me to do their laundry. Such babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:23 AM
8

The clone thing is pretty out there! That's not how cloning works!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:56 AM
17

Applying for jobs is hard enough, why the hell would I apply for a relationship? GTFO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:50 AM
10

In more ways than one...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:49 AM
4

That 'roid rage ain't helping either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:31 AM
7

"Naked and Afraid: Scrote Edition" - contestants selected for the skills and experience they think they have, not what they actually have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:07 AM
8

I like how the "report" button is right there. Hope you didn't sprain your finger hitting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:56 AM
3

There might be exceptions but if you're demanding the exception, you aren't the exception! Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:57 PM
2

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:25 PM
11

Clearly not. Couldn't even come up with a basic plan for a hike. Imagine if they got lost or injured. I wouldn't have shared snacks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:25 PM
17

If she loves Jesus more than anything else, she's not going to have time for whatever this mess is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:46 AM
40

I feel like hiking is one of those "how well do you do under stress?" sort of vetting tests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:33 AM
6

Good, you don't need that kind of negativity in your life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:48 AM
14

Let the girlfriend get the dog, he'd probably abuse it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:36 AM
19

And more likely to protect you too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:36 AM
64

Is a good test for people you think are friends. I told a woman I thought was a friend some personal information and it was all over the friend group in a week. Fortunately, I didn't really see that tidbit as a weakness but I'm no longer friends with any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:05 AM
11

Engage that rationality, sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:35 PM
8

"Not all men would... blah, blah blah." I always want to say "Yeah, well they weren't there, were they?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:27 PM
2

Yeah some of them are in some real denial about the quality of their facial hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:05 PM
8

I'll probably get down voted but this one doesn't look that bad, looks to me like it's being trimmed and combed at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:58 AM
96

It's a federal felony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:49 AM
3

There was a meme a while back that was just pictures of women being guarded by their hulking, huge dogs. I think they were originally trying to shame the dogs for not being conventionally cute or something but all I could see was how much those dogs loved their ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:58 AM
7

I spend a lot of time training and practicing to keep myself safe without going too far and accidentally killing someone. What do they think will happen if I didn't have to worry about that last bit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:55 AM
4

There's a group of women in India that already do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:53 AM
4

I hate "gonna".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:38 AM
7

It might be because "female" is an adjective and not a noun so a sentence with just "female" is grammatically incorrect. It's also dehumanizing. On top of that, are you saying I could be a female human or am I a female velociraptor? Cuz I know which one I would pick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:36 AM
1

I literally never heard this definition women started printing the phrase on mugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:27 AM
17

He's the one celebrity I could never meet. I would lose all hope for humanity if I found out his whole image was a front. His dog on the other hand...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:40 AM
3

Great news! The Dacia Sandero...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:33 AM
3

This is one of my problems: I just went through some rough times and got through it on my own. I had the support of some long distance friends but it's not the same. Now I'm afraid I'm just going to resent anyone who approaches me because they weren't there during the bad time. Let's hope I find a guy who's okay with moving at a glacial pace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:44 PM
14

Also arrogant to assume that just because I don't drink now, that I've never had alcohol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 09:16 PM
6

Before FDS, I had tumblr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:08 PM
19

-my mom, for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:04 PM
6

This is exactly what I thought of when I heard about reusable face masks. So many people are just not going to wash them. Almost scares me more than COVID.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:52 AM
3

Congrats on your Masters, sorry your friend couldn't support you the way you needed her to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:59 AM
2

I wouldn't even be able to get this far! Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:20 AM
5

Is supposed to be "men going their own way" but I like u/idiosyncrassy's better! ROFL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:53 AM
14

You might be thinking of the The Satanic Temple. They're great about taking the religious right's attempts to insert themselves into government and turning it back on them. They basically declared abortion to be a religious ritual in their IRS recognized church and therefore are exempt from the unnecessary regulations that conservatives are pushing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:51 AM
51

That's because the guys they're talking about above are Leftist In Name Only. Someone who really believes something isn't going to suddenly change their mind about it just because someone said something mean to/about them. It's like all those racists saying they weren't racist until a black person does something like, support BLM or kneel during the anthem or something, and now they hate all black people. They were never not racist, they're just finally admitting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:20 AM
5

The myth of MaLe bIOLogY strikes again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:34 PM
19

Hey now, Seattle is the capital of socks with sandals. ;-D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:12 AM
39

That species of bird specifically looks for those colors of blue, that's why you see so many of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:53 AM
111

And those posts are always about what they want women to do for them. They never talk about what they would do for women. Fortunately, we know exactly what that would be: Nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:50 AM
21

HE COULDN'T EVEN SPELL GOLD DIGGER! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:48 AM
2

When hell freezes over, that's when!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:41 AM
3

Right? This isn't a secret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:27 AM
6

I think they're talking about three kinds of pickmes posting about small dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:32 AM
1

I'm also a giver. But now they have to give first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:03 AM
5

I'm also a giver. But now they have to give first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:03 AM
6

Good on her for finding a subject she'll never run out of material on. Wonder how long she'll last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:43 AM
6

If a guy proposes to me with a chicken nugget, it better be because I asked him to. If I ask a guy to propose to me with a chicken nugget, one of y'all please come and smack me up side the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:19 PM
1

I'm flat as hell so when guys stare at my chest I always ask if they've found them yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:55 PM
3

Should start commenting every time you enter the same room "Smells like so and so in here".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:54 PM
16

Gross! This shit is why I never mention things like being in bed, changing or getting ready to take a shower. They never fail to start making gross comments. Give an inch, take a mile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:12 PM
1

Any idea where to get hot stock tips from women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:06 PM
11

Wait, so she was already married? That's even worse! LMAO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:01 PM
3

They've never heard of setting spray. 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:47 PM
6

Or they just stew in their helplessness. A few years ago, I was in a group of women who were the first in an until-that-point male only area. It was in an place that's always a bazillion degrees out so the women found scraps of cardboard to fan ourselves with. The men thought we'd all grown two heads. It had never occurred to them to do anything similar. YOU'VE BEEN IN THIS HEAT FOR HOW LONG?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:22 PM
3

YES THANK YOU! READING THAT LINE SENT ME TO OUTER SPACE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:16 PM
2

She should tell him to do all the name change leg work if he wants her to change her name so bad. He wouldn't last five minutes on the phone on hold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:09 PM
13

I doubt I'll ever get married but if hypothetical-husband wants me to change my name, he better be prepared to do all the work himself. If it's that important to him, he can fill out every form, call every phone number. I have better things to do with my time. I watched my friends change their names and was like "This seems tedious and stupid." For all that society wants to own us, they sure could make it easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:05 PM
3

People like to throw the word "crass" around. It does not mean what they think it means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:55 PM
5

Bet they'll just con women into giving their UBI to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:49 PM
3

Education level is not a protected class. They can call me prejudiced all day, I feel no shame in shutting down dumbasses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:58 AM
11

And break his finger. Seriously, I'd pin someone face first to the row in front of us if they tried to touch me like that. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:27 AM
15

Inspection = vetting I'm thinking about buying a house, I'm going to get it inspected out the wazoo first. Why the hell wouldn't I do that with a man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:32 PM
4

They want what they can't have
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:32 PM
67

You should watch it. It's a good movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:00 PM
4

This! And how many short male celebrities are there really? Not that many, the only ones I can think of off the top of my head are like Tom Cruise and... Danny Devito?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:59 AM
0

Gene expression is a wonderful thing...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:53 AM
12

One of my pet peeves is men who use the phrase "We are pregnant." Like really? When are you taking over the gestation? Will you volunteer to be the one actually giving birth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:35 AM
3

Male pattern baldness is inherited from the mother's side...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:23 AM
15

Conveniently forgetting that all those men had someone keeping their homes for them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:11 AM
7

When they ask, they're actually hoping you'll say they don't need to do anything so they'll seem considerate. BuT yOu SaId YoU DIdN't NeEd mE tO dO aNyTHinG!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:10 AM
18

They're probably full of shit and using "trust issues" to get you to go along with their controlling behavior. Also, if they got cheated on so many times, there's probably something wrong with them. It's like the "all my exes are psychos" thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:37 PM
18

I feel like there's a reference I'm missing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:05 AM
9

Cigar cutter...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:11 AM
16

Banana slicer...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:37 PM
31

Those two guys would still be looking even if she had a male with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:51 PM
11

It sounds like you should find a new vet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:01 PM
4

Yeah, I stopped pulling mine so tight. I'm not black but sometimes I wonder if I should be laying my tiny edges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:53 AM
2

And it wouldn't even be a first class ticket...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:50 AM
10

I like to think my boobs are way more considerate than most guys. They never get in my way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:29 AM
13

Oh you have no idea, the amount of complaining I hear about Marine Corps uniforms. One of my favorites things are "shirt stays". They're basically suspenders that attach on one end to the bottom of the uniform shirt and keep it pulled down by way of the other end either attaching to the sock or a stirrup around the foot. Apparently, they're very uncomfortable. They aren't usually worn every day but I hear complaining about them all time. I usually ask if they'd rather wear a bra instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:54 AM
3

Still good advice though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:33 AM
2

That is a good point. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:05 PM
13

He doesn't know what he wants, you don't seem to know what you want. You should toss him back. Also, if he joins the Air Force, kiss him good bye. Very few romantic relationships survive the first year in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:39 AM
13

Send pic of banana slicer. Delete. Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 03:40 AM
3

TBH, a half decent programmer/engineer could make that music thing happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 03:28 AM
25

You beat me to posting this! It's so sad Post Secret is so full of these kinds of secrets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:17 PM
27

This needs to be higher!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:02 PM
112

I don't see how those nails would prevent anyone from doing laundry, should they wish to do so. Unless this lady likes to do all her laundry by hand?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:00 PM
5

She looks abused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:13 AM
62

"Don't you gotta go save the world or something?" "As a matter of fact, yes. Good bye!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:55 AM
30

He didn't go to Harvard though, that's the best part!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:52 AM
9

Exactly, entitlement. They're so used to being catered to that they can't handle the ambient temperature not being exactly what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:42 AM
26

Guys need to understand this too: Low maintenance =/= low standards Just because you're "low maintenance" doesn't mean you don't have high standards. Just because you don't wear make up doesn't mean you don't take care of your appearance. Just because you don't drive an expensive car doesn't mean you don't get it maintained regularly. Just because you rent a tiny, crappy apartment doesn't mean it isn't cleaner and nicer when you move out. Just because you'd rather have a staycation doesn't mean …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:09 PM
56

See, that would be using logic...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:24 AM
3

It's just that I've learned that build doesn't necessarily mean much. It's the mind set that matters. It is nice when a guy can lift things though. :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:27 PM
7

Ehhh, if he's into martial arts, I'll give skinny and short a pass. I know a lot of skinny, short guys who are scrappy. Insecurity gets a big HELL NO though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:30 PM
3

It is. He's lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:31 AM
12

Girl, I'm telling you this as a Marine. He is lying about something. I saw your post on the other military sub and everything the other commenter said is correct. I'd be shocked if he's actually in Bagram. No one gets retrained this fast and there is no way you would retrain in theater. I'd say you really dodged a bullet but it sounds like more like a 155mm artillery round.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:27 AM
2

He's not a LVM but not a HVM by Handook standards. He did/does a lot of things right but could definitely have been more attentive in some key areas. His side of the family though, some of them just make me cringe. He did good putting a whole ass country between us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:07 AM
3

They all love sarcasm until it's used on them. Then they don't love it so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:51 AM
10

The only things he's flipping are burgers...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:40 AM
6

Somebody has to be the guy in the picture... 😒😒😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:36 AM
4

I know what you mean!
/r/askFDS29/08/20 01:09 AM
6

This should be higher! Also, do you think it would be helpful for OP to be open (in general terms) about his past behavior, why it was wrong and what made him decide to change?
/r/askFDS29/08/20 01:01 AM
36

And they love to throw their muscle mass and metabolisms in our faces when it suits them. Know what would probably fix all their medical issues? Not having a "dadbod".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:53 AM
6

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:50 PM
36

Have you considered donating (in non-COVID times) to hospitals, nursing homes, etc? They can always use some flowers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:18 PM
25

Piggyback ride!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:04 PM
8

I think getting a dog that matches your energy level is important too. If you get a husky but you can't put in the energy to give it the care it needs, you're doing a disservice to both of you. But conversely, if you get an English bulldog and expect it to run five miles with you every day, that's not realistic either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:01 PM
23

She's giving up her job to be a SAH mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:52 PM
0

I look forward to the day you put me out of a job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:25 AM
0

I am very well aware of what bootcamp is like because I personally experienced it. I can see how you think it's abuse but then I think you'd have to call any other kind of training for team sports abuse as well. There's a reason why kids who play team sports do well in the military. You don't think I'm sympathetic enough and that's fine. But in my life, being more sympathetic than I am now has never gotten me anywhere good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:35 AM
2

I acknowledged that recruiters target specific people in my original comment. Having been on several sides of the situation, I can say with confidence that some really are just that stupid and will never get any better. I didn't personally put any of them in the military but I don't deny that there aren't recruiters who would. If someone does have PTSD, some slack may be in order but as a commenter mentioned up thread, some people with PTSD also choose not to get help. How much sympathy should w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:11 AM
2

HOW COULD I FORGET ELLE WOODS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:42 PM
7

Rigid professionalism. Do everything by the book and give them exactly what they need, no more, no less. Do as much as you can via email or text so you have a record of what they said or did and can refer back to it if neccesary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 05:05 PM
13

It's a national restaurant chain that gives big servings of food for cheap. They try for a family friendly sports bar kind of atmosphere. The food isn't usually horrible but its not gourmet either. I guess it's a good place if you're a cost conscious family or a group of teenagers but definitely not the place to take an adult woman on a first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:28 PM
11

Quality, not quantity. Applebee's is not generally considered quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:19 PM
22

Apparently, a lioness in heat will bite the lion in the balls if he isn't sexing her up well enough. 😆😆😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:15 PM
10

They lose their minds because they think they can finally buy whatever they wanted as kids and don't have anything preventing them from doing just that. Coupled with complete ignorance of how money and finances work and you have some poor sap paying three times what their POS Mustang is worth. It's a stereotype for a reason. Recruiters deliberately target these types of kids of course, their ignorance is part of the reason they got recruited in the first place. So many people complain that their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:10 PM
2

One of my favorite things about Fury Road is how often the framing of the film subverts the male gaze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 05:35 AM
8

Would not be surprised. Also would not be surprised if he wasn't actually in the Marines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:37 AM
9

I really like scifi/fantasy/action movies so this list is going to be mostly that. Charlize Theron's character in "Mad Max: Fury Road" is really good. Basically steals the movie. In fact that whole movie is really good. I've heard "The Old Guard" is also excellent but haven't watched it yet. I thought "The Witcher" on Netflix had some good female characters. Everyone talks about Yennifer but Queen Calanthe is goals for me. She's not very feminine though. The show can be a little confusing becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:58 AM
25

AFAIK, the Marines aren't using stop loss right now. What the fuck is he talking about? Is he a contractor?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:47 PM
3

Re: the attempts to elicit sympathy - the looks of shock I get from just saying "That's unfortunate" in an unimpressed tone are the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:41 PM
7

I don't even like doing wifely duties for my own self, why the hell would I do them for someone else if I'm not getting something out of it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:21 PM
11

This! The crush is the problem. If they were always platonic, I would say proceed with caution but any kind of history is a red flag. Someone's feelings are going to get hurt. I have a lot of male friends and co-workers but I always keep them at a bit of a distance and I'll drop them in an instant if they start crossing boundaries. It's one thing to be good friends, the behavior described by OP is another matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:12 PM
6

In the US military, guys are expected to get a hair cut every week that costs, maybe $15. The amount of complaining I hear is ridiculous. I'm supposed to have sympathy? Why? They have no idea how much time and money I spend on my hair every month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:59 PM
3

Maybe he should taken his own advice and gotten the breast implants...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:53 PM
1

You didn't mention which branch you're in but the Marines have something called a Family Readiness Officer in each unit. Their job is to make sure families are receiving help and support, especially if your unit is gearing up for something. They often have family oriented events and couples workshops. Make sure your wife is aware of and has the contact info for whoever the equivalent is for your service branch. It isn't just for people with kids, you should keep an eye on the events and take her…
/r/askFDS25/08/20 06:05 AM
1

Also, FYI, anything not prescribed by a military doctor can get a service member in mucho trouble and kicked out of the service. If it's federally controlled, service members should be staying far away.
/r/askFDS25/08/20 05:26 AM
9

I don't know how to express my awe and respect for those who give birth over the internet without it sounding condescending. Just know that I hold you in high esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:40 PM
12

This is exactly what I'm waiting for! The more I learn about pregnancy and childbirth, the less I want to go through it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:30 PM
2

But there are humans who do? Maybe I'm missing the joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:07 PM
12

Or a heating pad...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:03 PM
15

Oh, they can be stupid at their jobs when it's something they don't want to do. Believe me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:02 PM
5

He looks like the kind of guy that let all the girls crushing on him in junior high get to his head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:42 PM
8

If men and women can't be friends and women can't also be friends with women, who can we be friends with? Anyone who believes those things can jump off a cliff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:40 PM
15

His genes aren't even worth passing on, if he's the result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:27 PM
27

My hackles go up immediately pretty much any time a male is nice to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:48 AM
21

Same! I joined when I was older so everyone my rank was usually significantly younger than me. That really helped with the not getting married right away thing. It opens your eyes to not just how little women get out of marriage but also how desperate males are for a bang maid. If there's a population of women who need FDS, it's the female E-1-3's. My god. I think you are being realistic and saving yourself a lot of time and money in the long run. Divorce is expensive! No one knows if they'll be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:13 PM
19

And make me a sandwich!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:25 PM
2

I imagine this is also how craziness like "women don't poop or fart" starts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:31 AM
2

Or: I think I can do better than my wife but don't want to divorce her. I'll get jealous and want to close the marriage as soon as my wife starts dating and sees how much better she could be doing than being married to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:51 PM
2

He thinks the behavior of lobsters is a good analog for human behavior. This is a long but AFAIK accurate summation of his "rise to stardom": https://www.vox.com/world/2018/3/26/17144166/jordan-peterson-12-rules-for-life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:06 PM
2

!!! I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO THOUGHT "BABY" WAS CREEPY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:39 PM
1

The rabbit should be surrounded by mostly celery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 03:51 PM
3

This is why I read fanfiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 03:50 PM
13

Been lurking for a while, literally made an account to comment. Everything you said above is true, I think the only thing I can add is that they usually have at least one alcohol or drug related run in with the cops on their record. But I want to let you live vicariously through me for a moment. I was a military recruiter for over two years in a major city with a big finance sector so I came across these guys with some regularity. I could always see them a mile off because their entitlement shin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:53 PM
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