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This is fake. We all know women hit the wall at 30 so why would good guys date teens? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:18 PM
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It's such a gross mindset. If a woman wants a baby, she will have a baby. She will choose the type of birth control she wants to take or is free to choose not to use birth control. Men need to step up and acknowledge everyone has the right to chose their type of birth control and if you are too ignorant to look after your own health and best interests, you have no right to bitch about things like "she said she was on the pill!!". Grow up and take responsibility for your choices and actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:30 PM
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What gets me is that these scrotes think bidets are hilarious. Why? Even dogs wash their asses so it really says a lot about how disgusting they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:12 PM
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"That's fine. I will walk you to the door." Then make sure once they are out and looking back at you so confused, you close the door gently without a word and turn the padlock immediately so they can hear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:24 AM
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I'm sorry that happened to you but I hope you also realized why you should never party with strangers and to always trust your gut. If johns can't take "no" for an answer when trying to buy sex, imagine what happens to the poor women who can't afford to say know to their offers of "making money". Some men have devolved so much they are ready to crawl back in to the sea. Stay safe out there xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:55 AM
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Not only that but it gives johns even more power over their victims. Like a lot of people, I go to the market daily to get fresh produce for my meals. This was just a few weeks ago. I left the office at 16h30 to buy my dinner. I was wearing a heavy jacket over dress pants and was wearing ballerina flats. My hair was pulled back in a bun and I was walking down a major street in broad day light. That's when this fat, pasty middle aged man thought it was a good decision to yell out of his lifted tr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:10 AM
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I listened to it and this is not what OP is talking about because at one point Nicole breaks down about the girls. Also, in the beginning she talked about how important reading was and she was encouraging the murderer to read more about the effects of divorce on children. About 45-60 mins later she talks about seeing the girls' play room the second time she was at the house and said "aaaw! That's so cute your kids have books" and it was not long after that where she broke down. The CBI interroga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:27 AM
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I like to lurk in the extreme subs and even have some comments in some less hateful TRP posts just to see where these extreme thought processes come about and I found this sub by some incel crying about how no one complains about this sub but their subs are always under attack. I thought this sub was going to be full of "extreme feminists" aka just man haters, and wanted to see what this community was like and where they stood. I was pleasantly surprised to see how loving, openly honest and supp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:40 AM
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It's called pimping. They fell victim to it at a young age but saw how lucrative sex trafficking is so they feel it "empowering" to pimp kids instead of letting men do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:02 AM
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I always call men out on that, especially if I am wearing heels and he feels the need to sprint. I simply ask him to come back to me whilst looping my arm around his, saying "can you at least pretend to like me when we are in public?" Sometimes it is met with an apology but more often than not the gesture is met with a cowardly quick glance around to make sure no one--especially the ladies--noticed. I do not tolerate being disrespected. We are either together or we are not. If you can not even w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:00 PM
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Yaaaas! A match made in Heaven 😘💘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:40 PM
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Lol! I'm an Aries. I'm really angry right now, but I'll get better. Just don't give me a gun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:00 PM
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We LoVe To StRaNgLe AnD bEaT wOmEn LiKe We SeE iN tHe PoRnS 🤯 Nevermind the fact this video was made by a male who called men out on their bs (what did you do?) Anyone reporting this is an abuser--what do mean? Victims can't fight back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:38 PM
20

Ooof!! 🤣😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:17 PM
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I am going to disagree. No man has the right to beat or r*pe a partner. No man has the right to cheat whilst in a committed relationship. No man has the right to tear down a person psychologically. Attractive people do not get a pass for being horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:44 AM
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I do not even make eye contact with them. Cute story: I was walking by a five diamond hotel in my city and made eye contact with one of the most beautiful men I had seen in ages so obviously I was all "tee hee!" and went back to texting a close friend of mine who mentioned her cancer came back. I excused myself from the busy side walk to text them back and that's when this incredibly handsome man tried to introduce himself to me. Firsty, I just watched you walk out of a high end hotel so you are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:22 PM
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Don't make me look bad in front of my bros...!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:04 AM
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But you tick all of the right boxes /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:45 PM
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Haha! I am happy to send some positive vibes your way. Even though I am single, I feel like a Melania Trump 🤣 No babies, I take care of myself xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 11:16 PM
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Aw shucks 😊 I am glad you found some inspiration there. I no longer do OLD and meet potential partners in person. At the market or at the dog park (I don't have a dog but I like to pet them and play with them when I see them!) I know the pandemic has left us feeling more alone and reliant on the internet. But be patient. Those safe face-to-face interactions still happen. It takes time. OLD is just instant gratification. We need to move on from that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 10:53 PM
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Even just taking care of yourself and doing what you want will weed out a lot of Low Value people from your life. I took a day trip to get my PADI open dive sessions in and it was a yacht that took the group out on the Coral Sea to scuba dive on the Great Barrier Reef. Mind you, I am terrified of water but I longed for this experience. I did it and got out there and then celebrated with an ice cold glass of wine in my bikini on deck with my mates. One took a candid pic of the moment and I loved …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 10:36 PM
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I had someone open with a similar neg. I replied, "Had you read my profile you would know that" That's when he knew he fucked up and he at least apologized. I wished him luck and that was that. It's convenient when the trash takes itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:19 PM
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Congrats! 💘 It's gorgeous xx Another reminder that if we want something in life then go out and get it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:07 PM
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How pathetic is that when a woman wears a gorgeous ring that it is automatically assumed a man bought it for her. I have a similar ring but mine is a sapphire as the centre stone. I wear it on my middle finger on my left hand and still have men ask, "what's that about?" Seriously? I don't ask you what your belt or shoes are "about" so why ask me what my accessories are "about"? The last HVM I dated simply complimented me on the ring and asked me if blue was my favourite colour. He knew I was int…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:06 PM
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I only date doctors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:58 AM
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Exactly what I was going to say. No self respecting person refers to satisfying sex as "fucking"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:21 AM
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I love everything about this post! Congrats on the milestone and treating yourself! You deserve the very best 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:52 AM
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This makes a lot more sense when you put it that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:05 AM
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Can someone explain this whole "love language" bullshit to me? Why can't adults just have a conversation about what they want? This whole song and dance about being mind readers is lost on me. Why can't adults just articulate what they want in a partner? Why do we all need to be mind readers based on rubbish "science" such as "love languages"? This is so absurd to me. If you can not have an open dialogue with your partner, then you aren't compatible. Can someone explain this mentality? Why are a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:51 AM
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That's a shame but it's alright, because neither do I. As for Luxy, when you register you will need to jump through some hoops. My only complaint is that it plays on insecurities but then again, it's meant for the "rich and beautiful". You can register for free and still engage with other users so don't be daunted by the membership prices. I was successful using it for free and being patient. Get your beautiful self over there and check it out. I am also curious to see you run the bot there. It …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:28 PM
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You don't have to be rich and I did not reply to anyone that was income verified, for the reasons you listed. My criteria were the same as everyone else here: have recent pictures, have a profile that describes hobbies and interests and be able to hold a meaningful conversation. Like, just be a good person and we can take it from there. I met someone offline that I have been seeing for a while but the last man I met on Luxy drove three hours to see me to take me out for my birthday, which was ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:22 PM
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I found a higher calibre of men on Luxy. There's still a lot of trash to sort through but not as much as on other OLD platforms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:03 AM
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These are powerful statements. What is the title of this book?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:10 PM
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*cold onion ring from the fast food you bought him FTFY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:22 PM
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r/YouJustGotTrolled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:15 PM
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Wtf did I just read? You can take a shower for some alone time meanwhile this POS demands unlimited time in the shower, refuses to run errands or help with the kids and demands unlimited "game" time. The rubbish some women settle for boggles my mind. Why bother? She was a single mother and is still a single mother but is now burdened by a "fiancé" that "needs breaks" that she has to coddle and whom refuses to give her "breaks". I bet he is also living in her house. Get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:02 PM
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Some bouncers can he pretty cool. I was at one club that we frequented weekly for one theme they put in. We all took turns leaving one person at the table to watch things and when we came back, some creep was sitting beside our friend who was too terrified to say anything. Then he started to "rub her back" Aside from this being disgusting behaviour the look of terror on my friend's face made me leave to speak to the bouncers. Since we came to this one theme night regularly, they recognized me. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:34 PM
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This made me cry. Thank you so much for such an insightful reply. You nailed it. Out of all of the self introspection I have been doing, this really hit home. I used to always try to fix the "angels with broken wings" and that's why I settled for nothing. Your very moving and thoughtful reply has made me more self aware. To make a difference in this world and to "meet everything with Love" is just a simple gesture of Love to give back to the Earth. Plant a tree. Keep a garden. Feed the birds. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:32 AM
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Aww thank you so much for your support. I appreciate it. It's alright about Mum; she had a terminal illness and is at peace now. It's nice to look back and share stories 💘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:44 AM
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Yes!! We can have a tiny zoo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:40 AM
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Thank you! He definitely is 💘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:39 AM
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Not even that. Lean protein and broccoli is great and keto friendly (but keep in mind he NEVER asked her what she wanted for dinner, he just asked if she wanted some ground turkey) and all he had to do was buy some Alfredo sauce or even a can of 0.89$ condensed mushroom soup to throw in there with some seasoning and it would have been a cheap, healthy and palatable (low effort) meal. Definitely not something I would want to make for someone or to consume in the early stages of dating but FFS!!! …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:34 AM
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Mum has passed but she knew she meant the world to me 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:34 AM
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My mother told me stories about how my father cried when I was born. He would leave work early when I was young to come home to play with me. My mother told me my father would come home with flowers for her and kiss her, then ask if "Boo" was sleeping. Then I would run up to "Daddy!" and ask to play "horsey" After a full day of work, he would come home excited to crawl around the floor on all fours while I sat on his back like I was riding a horse. He also let my mother relax on Sundays so we co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:00 AM
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I need to ask the important question: can I bring my cat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:29 AM
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No wonder she has been keeping tabs on you for three years. You've been hanging around lusting after her boyfriend for five years when they both made it clear they do not want you around. This is not an insult but sincere advice: please, please seek out therapy to discover why you are doing this to yourself. Why are you lusting after a man who does not want you? Why do you care so much about this couple? Why are you unable to move on from this "crush"? You will he happier and better for it once …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 01:31 AM
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My exact reaction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 01:27 AM
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If the vibe is that toxic, I agree. Some trainers think the old school drill sergeant routine will motive people to "prove" themselves but this just sounds like an all around miserable environment that I certainly would not be paying for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:28 PM
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Let's up the ante on that one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:21 PM
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You are very sweet for wanting to help 💘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:18 PM
3

No shit. Why is she still stalking his gf five years later? OP even admitted the couple made it clear to her they don't like her. This is insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:11 PM
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Lol! I followed the same link and this made my week 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:59 PM
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Them: "It was like throwing a hot dog down a hallway" Me: "I am so sorry you felt the need to tell everyone how small and inadequate you are"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:32 AM
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Exactly. It is socially acceptable for men to enjoy sex but a woman? Well, you're only to be used for fun and tossed away for a woman who only has sex because she has to, like "good girls" do 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:09 PM
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Ironic since they can figure out how to put it up, but not down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:27 PM
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This is the second time I have seen this comment and I am going to start using it now 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:26 PM
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My thoughts exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:24 PM
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Why would you stay with someone who refuses to take care of you in bed when you do everything he wants?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:10 PM
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LOL! You're talking about a 52 year old unemployed bartender. Calling adult conversations "drama" shouldn't be a surprise. Good grief. That poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:58 PM
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Not to mention that he wants to flake out of a 15 year relationship, oops! Pardon me. 15 years of dating, because commitment of any type scares him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:54 PM
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What a great way to start my day 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:47 PM
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Omg what a horrible sub! "If your comment is straight to NC or divorce it will be subject for removal" So in other words, the sub encourages people to stay in abusive relationships wtf?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:44 PM
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He wasn't disrespectful to his ex at all and did truly love her as a person but he was not in love with her. He had an ultimatum, and rightfully so. He knew he needed time to reflect on his relationship and did so, even taking time to himself and opening up to loved ones. Like most men, when they know they are in love and want to marry a woman, they know it right away. He made the right decision for all involved and respected his ex. He did not take her for a ride but truly took time to reflect …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 08:51 AM
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Too shy to ask for medical advice but allows her partner to abuse her breast? She is clearly feeling obligated to perform a painful sex act for this fucker who clearly can not respect the fact that she just had surgery to the body part he fetishizes and abuses. That's why she is "shy" around a medical professional that professional touched and assessed her body. This is her way of saying she does not want her breasts abused. Wtf is wrong with some men? She needs to tell her surgeon to at least g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:13 AM
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Exactly. If I wanted a child, I would birth one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:49 PM
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Cheers to the scrotes who think being a stay at home parent means a day of luxury shopping, netflix and gaming. That is exactly what a physically present but absent father is. Vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:37 PM
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She doesn't hide behind anything. She is vulgar and clearly her only concern is d*ck. She even called her partner an offensive name. She is filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:26 PM
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Exactly. Step aside. Next in line, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:20 PM
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There is no such thing. Men do not carry small humans in their bodies for nine months, have painful deliveries and have to adjust to no longer carrying a life inside them. It's the same crowd that believe men have their own PMS and menopause. NO! You do not have a uterus and will never experience the hardships that accompany that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:57 PM
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Medical studies have proven that porn is the anti-thesis to a healthy sex life and that community claims that discussion is "anti sex" 🤢🤮 Go away, incels. Nobody wants you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:53 PM
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And then he ran in to my knife. He ran in to my knife ten times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:22 PM
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This is so true. My ex treated me like I was disposable. I won't get into details but I will only marry again in the circumstance that I would need to be legally called next of kin. I will not build anything with any one. I will build my empire on my own and reap the fruits of my labour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:22 PM
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He is just a beautiful soul and is so humble. He donated his salary to the crew after filming the Matrix 2. This is a fact I discovered because my SO has a man-crush on Keanu and occasionally he will gush about him (so cute 🥰) I started watching more Keanu films lately and had forgotten how talented and truly wonderful this man is. You know they are HVM when they admire Keanu and act just as caring, selfless and noble as he does. Keanu is the gold standard for HVM. Hell, he is a Hollywood icon a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:03 AM
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That's terrifying. It seems that this is just the psyche of men. Most men are functioning and know that consent is required, like the OP mentioned, but it has opened my eyes to how it seems to be just instinct for men to want to rape women. Thankfully there are some men out there that are appalled by such abhorrent thoughts and acts. I am a survivor of DV and I actually feel a bit of empathy for OP. He realized his carnal desires and is reaching out. I hope someone tells him it is normal to not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 09:34 PM
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Sorry, no vacancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 09:26 PM
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A man child is a blessing? This had to have been written by an incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:49 PM
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I think it's a burial mound in a natural burial graveyard, so not as sketchy as it looks. It's common place to mark the grave with stones so they don't have traditional grave markers on them to make sure there is as little impact on nature as possible. Once an area is considered a graveyard, the land can not be sold or developed. It's also called conservation burial. This meme rings true, though. Just LVM and NVM things. If I wanted to have tea and a walk I would have suggested it or just go alo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:17 PM
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He flat out lied to her. He said he was taking her to a hotel and she was expecting an intimate time. He manipulated her to have sex in an alley and only after did he say he was broke and had no intention of taking her anywhere. He knew all along he had no intention to do anything with her but use her for sex. I don't know why women agree to being free hookers. Show up, get used as a warm place for him to masturbate and then find your own way home. Jesus. That sounds awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:52 PM
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We need to be friends! I usually do audio books these days but thanks for the link!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:36 AM
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🎶 The middle ages were magic 🎶 I have the audio book of From Here to Eternity. That is a good listen and when I put it on I couldn't stop listening. I even did a deep clean of my home during the listen. My place is spotless now. Btw which pin did you get? The cartoon one (which is so cute and looks just like her) or the Victorian one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:42 AM
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Please do! She has a few different topics she addresses in her videos but they are relatively short clips. I would recommend taking in a few different videos, including one of her TEDx talks. She's a fascinating woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:16 PM
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I completely agree with you and I think we all need some reminders from time to time. I am happy to have been able to give you a different perspective and I hope it helps you on your journey. Also, thank you for this post. I am certainly going to look in to these other recommendations to help me expand my ways of thinking. Stay safe xx Edit: The channel is Ask a Mortician and her funeral home is run by females. She is a feminist and also has a podcast called Death in the Afternoon with only fema…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:57 PM
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Thank you for the reply! I completely support her movement and it was out of curiosity that I started following her. Her talks made me feel so in control of my life but even more aware of my own mortality. That led to a period of me just being so grateful for Life and a realization that I need to really assess people to determine if they deserve my precious time. Life is beautiful. Don't let anyone detract your enjoyment of it or waste a moment of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:26 PM
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I enjoy Caitlyn Doughty, who certainly is not going to be everyone's cup of tea. She is a mortician that runs her own non-profit funeral home that focuses on low cost green options for funeral and burial, including advocating that a viewing of your loved one and the wake can take place at home in a shroud. There are also a lot of other morbidly educational videos she does about history and how other cultures around the world perform funeral rites. Not only is she empowering by how intelligent an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:37 PM
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NOOO!! I don't want to start over in the graveyard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:24 AM
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Exactly. Men need to stop preying on girls. Men should be dating women, not girls in school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:28 PM
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Correct but then she went on to say that any women he was texting are btches. Why name call other women? Especially ones you do not know and who most likely do not know the boyfriend is in a relationship? It's so juvenile and is not a good look. It also empowers men to call more women btches because that is what women call other women that they don't respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:04 PM
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Exactly. They demand women stop advocating for their rights to be seen as equals and then cry foul when women tell these same "traditionalists" to assume their own gender specified roles. So you are offended women tell these types of men to go to war and yet these same men actively inhibit women from fighting in wars they are too cowardly to fight? Makes sense /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:03 AM
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Exactly my thoughts. My partner would have physically thrown him out of our home a la Uncle Phil vs. Jazz method. Unreal that this POS was allowed to stay and even eat food cooked by the people he insulted in their own home. All that proved was to fortify his stereotype that Asian women are submissive and will put up with sexism and racism in their home while still serving men. He most likely loved being served and eating trash Western food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:52 AM
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He's obviously abusive and worthless but ladies, can we stop referring to women as female dogs? Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:17 AM
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Lol! That sigh at the end was great 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:20 PM
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And then to lye down and cuddle in his "new" bed and watch Netflix (had that one pulled lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:43 AM
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Well, yes, they are dumb thinking this will work but they certainly know what they are doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:30 AM
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Not only that, he received multiple awards for his manipulation tactic and even encouraged men to stay toxic. They know exactly what they are doing. Just block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:29 AM
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Because women aren't nurses, doctors, engineers, essential works and also house maids and mothers who grew and birthed small humans. Some mothers are raising babies all in their own because men cower and hide from their responsibilities. But please, tell us more how men need a break from from doing fuck all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:16 AM
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Touché
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:02 AM
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Oh gosh. I couldn't take it anymore once I got to (My man David runs this free class and I highly recommend you listen to it) 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:36 AM
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Lol! Imagine being this desperate for male companionship! Pleeeease just PickMeee!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:01 AM
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** shitload of side effects for women because as studies have proved, men can't handle the similar side effects of birth control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:59 AM
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Beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:57 AM
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Lol! Jazz 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:52 AM
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Imagine, a woman wanting to run away from a man they have spent less than 24hrs with in person on two dates because they demand sex on the third date. Bravo, scrotes. Bravo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:50 AM
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And more useful and powerful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:47 AM
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Oh this! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:46 AM
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Those Charles Mason eyes cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:43 AM
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Equality and a good man that respects that. Hands down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:42 AM
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Easy sex. That's all they care about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:32 AM
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Then once you do the dishes we can Netflix and chill 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:31 AM
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Not only that, let's play Devil's Advocate and assume this POS really wasn't attracted to her..who TF asks someone they aren't interested in to come over and cook for them?! 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:30 AM
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This is so true. I have face masks that sit just under my lower lash line and cover my chin. I haven't dyed my hair since the pandemic and wear it in a bun as well as not wearing makeup anymore. Why waste it if my face is covered? I have put on the "Covid 19" (the 19 pounds we put on during the pandemic lol!) and yet I still get approached and hit on almost daily. Do whatever you want because men will do whatever they want. Don't let them dictate how you live your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:43 AM
11

This fucker can't politely knock on the door during the day like a normal person but tries to discretely open the door at night? Why is this posted online and an Emergency Restraining Order not filed? What a psycho! This just reinforces my behaviour of making sure the first thing I do when coming home is to lock the door behind me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:51 PM
2

I am floored that you met those types of men on Tinder, POF, OKCupid and Bumble. I have used those all and have only met broke dirt bags trolling for sex. Before I met my current partner (met in person) I was using Luxy. There was a higher calibre of men there but still a lot of your basic scrotes begging for sex, except this time they have money so "you are missing out" if you don't fuck him. Naaaah. I have my own money and I am not interested in prostituting myself. Bye! I was going to say I a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:38 PM
1

High eight figured and he was on OLD? What app are you using?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:26 AM
28

LOL! Truer words have never been spoken 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:03 AM
8

Psycho is an understatement. He's also a cop so he has the means to find me and to have his ass covered. I really have no idea what goes through their heads except that rejection bruises their ego. I noticed the zombie apocalypse started during the pandemic and women everywhere are forced to deal with these pieces of shit contacting them out of the blue because casual sex is taboo at the moment so they are reaching out to all of their exes trying to "reconcile". They can go fuck themselves. Lite…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:01 AM
12

What is the reference to milk? Please, please PLEASE tell me it's the wine that is obstructing my interpretation but is this really a woman defending human rights by highlighting the fact that men are not men in society's eyes if they ask for help and in turn men are sexualizing her and sexualizing breast feeding??!! Please tell me this is not the world we live in 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:10 AM
14

True, true. I had one of these for a year and a half who used not one, but two burner numbers to get around being blocked. Like, wtf do you not understand about "Not interested", "I am in a relationship" and "fuck off"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:39 PM
1

How sad is that wherein we are all being "hit up" during a god damn pandemic? As for the lazy texter, don't even bother replying! They couldn't be bothered to formulate a full sentence and used acronyms you most likely had to look up and waste time on instead of speaking like a normal person, well there you have it. If you are not worth their time for even a full reply then just block and delete. Don't waste time with even snappy quips. They don't care and neither should you 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:32 AM
3

Lol! I love this comment. They demand "equality" whilst still expecting a mommy figure/porn star/housewife/non-existent female figure to cater to them while offering nothing in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:22 AM
2

This is exactly where I am right now. You are number 1 and we need to stop setting ourselves on fire to keep others warm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:15 AM
16

The way it should be! We are trying to get to know each other and you type "nm wbu"... You're too dumb to even formulate or even be bothered to type a whole sentence? Pish! Stop wasting my time. Even during the pandemic, LVM are coming out of the bushes with "new" numbers to avoid being blocked. Go away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:40 AM
44

Money; as this asshole pointed out. He also wanted someone to cook and clean up after them. Clearly the ex was a firecracker in bed but he left her to "settle" for someone who most likely coddles him to the point of even wiping his ass. The ex just wouldn't bend over backwards for him. Same story, different guy. Correct me if I am wrong but what rubbish human would publicly shame their spouse like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:25 AM
96

No, no. Only b*tches are gold diggers, remember? Also, can someone please find the wife and send her a screen shot so she knows what a dirt bag POS she married?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:17 AM
5

This needs to be a sticky note. Well said and I am sorry for your past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:15 AM
12

She made it up there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:10 AM
1

^ This right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:08 AM
32

But now it's "heyyyy" because they are still dumb and lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:07 AM
148

Meanwhile, they also expect their partner to clean up after them, do all of the household chores, maintenance, dishes and household laundry while they do nothing but pay their fair share of the bills. Nah. I'm happier living alone and not being a maid and sex toy. Bye! As if putting a label on your "relationship" means anything when you work full time and cook and clean up after another adult 100% of the time who also demands unsatisfying sex on the regular and that you pay for yourself and spli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:59 AM
3

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=lHQrrHRho2Y Just a reminder about scrotes and how awesome Daria was to get her own spin off show. Edit: settle down, Beavis. Also, I love when he's told off (twice, once by Daria) he just goes "okay" and wanders off. Every time I hear grown men say his "bros" I immediately think of Beavis and Butthead. That was cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:26 AM
12

Regardless of who is the higher income earner, also protect yourself. My partner is a practicing doctor and I make a fraction of what I assume he does (we don't talk about finances but he would give everything for me, and I would do the same for him). I am insisting on a pre-nup. It protects him, our marital assets and most importantly, it protects me. I love this man to death but I have been through the worst of it and fair is fair. Marriage is only in a man's interest. Protect what you worked …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:14 AM
20

You're so right. No matter how affluent your partner is or what they "claim" they want to provide you, never EVER leave yourself in a position that you could have your assets depleted and/or could be homeless. Ever! If you chose to move in to his home, retain your own and use it as a rental property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:08 AM
27

This seems to be so common. I shared my own comment and have seen others agree and other comments about men taking all they can. But women are have been conditioned by society to depend on men but they are the gold diggers?! 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:02 AM
9

Oh damn! I just made this exact comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:59 AM
39

Ah. Another age gap and "my income is my income but your income is our income" piece of garbage relationship. Good for her for knowing better, challenging his "logic" and then moving on. She is going to do well and I wish her the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:58 AM
4

So very true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:42 AM
16

Lol! "Liberal Muslim men"? Are you referring to the fuck boys that act like Western boys who smoke, drink and brag about casual sex but would never marry a non-virgin hijabi? It's nice to see more women are recognizing this. Most men of every culture are trash. Stay strong! My ex was just one of those men and after surviving his abuse I decided to focus on myself and to be a "spinster". Why on Earth would I ever invite another man into my life that doesn't add to my happiness? Because I have to?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:30 AM
5

You don't even have to be a feminist. Just telling a man that you are sick of their abuse or calling them out for it; asking if they would allow a female family member to be treated how they treat women, will get you banned. If you don't support oppressing women, you obviously don't support Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:15 AM
14

Not only that, I also had a mod here label me as a "Pickmeisha". I had to request the flare being changed. Like wtf? We are supposed to be here to support each other. I've already been through enough abuse and am working on recovery. I don't need this shit. I'm glad you posted because I wanted to let you know that you do have sisters who care and support you. Stay safe xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:04 AM
2

I really like the perspective of associating dating with job hunting and hiring the right candidate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:28 PM
3

Agreed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:21 PM
3

That's an interesting reflection. I think I used to also project my tendency to change for the betterment of the relationship back then. Now, I only change for betterment of myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:16 PM
2

Of course that's the answer because they expect women will coddle them like their mothers would. But please men, keep telling women they are mistreated by men because they have "daddy issues", as if male children aren't equally traumatized by an absentee father. Too bad most men are to daft to put two and two together. Men that are "momma's boys" and have issues that ruin their relationships with women are also the more likely to have an absent father or a non-engaged father. Of course their nar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:13 PM
4

Ooo! Clever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:42 PM
3

When I was doing the OLD thing, I used to get told I have "fuck me" eyes...whatever the hell that means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:25 PM
2

I used to use online dating and only once did I ever meet someone successful, well spoken and respectful. It didn't translate offline and we went our separate ways but that says a lot because I used OLD for 15+ years (I was a teen). I even used LUXY for a bit and still came out with nothing but duds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:18 PM
9

True true. I used to be a server and many times was "volun-told" to bartend. I hate bartending because even during peak times I was expected to be a concubine for the patrons sitting at the wood (at the bar) despite my actual job being to prepare drinks for the entire lounge and restaurant guests. I am the world's b*tchiest bartender 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:01 PM
5

Perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:48 PM
5

But does she play fetch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:47 PM
5

I completely agree! I was actually quite surprised to hear that commentary coming from a male. I have always been of the opinion that if I find it unattractive on me, it's unattractive on my partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:45 PM
11

I didn't realize I was subscribed to Penguin Facts. I like it. I am also coming back as a female penguin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:27 PM
19

I completely agree and believe the "3 month wait" should be extended if you are long distance or are dating during this time...especially if you are dating during this time. I have been with my current partner for more than a year and I still have thirsty exes and zombies coming at me during quarantine. Most men are disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:24 PM
173

I love how Keanu makes the rounds here. He is a class act all the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:01 PM
453

That breaks my heart. He was so devastated after he lost Ava and Jennifer. I wish interviewers and fans were more sensitive. It has taken him this long to find a new love so just let the man be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:58 PM
45

I wish humans were more like the animal kingdom, where males are just for procreating and in some circumstances, used for a tasty dinner afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:54 PM
39

Lol! We all know it's just men talking to men. This is so funny to me because I was just talking to my partner about unattractive traits in men (he has a man-crush on Keanu Reeves. Understandable. I am not a fan of facial hair but Keanu gets a pass on this) and we agreed on all of these traits you listed as being unattractive. Take care of yourself and present yourself with your most attractive qualities. If you're a man with a less than desirable jawline, grow a beard and for Heaven's sake! Gro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:30 PM
10

This is great advice 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:18 PM
46

Hmm...I simultaneously agree and disagree, reflecting on my previous experiences as a PickMe™️ A LVM who doesn't realize he is a NVM/LVM can be spotted right away by asking "all of the questions". The issue is the NVM/LVM that know they are shitheads, will lie and pretend to be whatever you want them to be and can easily temporarily mould themselves into a HVM by hearing the questions and knowing how to respond. It's a crap shoot, really. I do agree that it is important to make note of his answe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:11 PM
57

Not only that, have they even considered talking to their primary care physician about depression? Nah. They don't talk about how they feel because they are "men". The other argument that irks me is how men don't have resources like women have women's centres. Those centres are there because women, and the men in the lives of abused women, set them up and volunteer and support them. There wouldn't be so many women's centres if men just stopped abusing women. Also, there would be men's centres to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:54 PM
2

I don't understand what the mod is trying to say...? Is he a dirt bag white dude or a person of colour feeling like white people accept him? And why is race even involved? We made a post here praising the mod for their post and yet somehow race is being pulled in to this and we are STILL "less than savoury people" Wtf? Edit: wow. They made it a sticky just fuelled with vitriol. I'm done with the internet for a bit and am going to spend some time with my Love. Reddit can be such an awful place. O…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:48 AM
26

He doesn't lol! There's a comment here how the wife said she doesn't want all five of his friends over and so he has none over. His own "friends" refuse to visit with him unless in a group setting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:39 AM
14

I work hard. This is my house. Her friend comes over once a week. Dude is fast tracking his own divorce. Stay tuned for the "my wife served me divorce papers for no reason. Is she cheating?" post to surface in about six months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:35 AM
9

I'm going to disagree here. I read the mangas when I was younger and they were written by a female. Sailor Moon is the heroine backed by loyal female soldiers to right wrongs and triumph over evil. She was young in the beginning of the series being emotional, indulging in food and was known for being clumsy. Yet, when it came to defending people, no matter how much she doubted herself, she still found her strength and sacrificed herself to protect others. My only issue with the series is their S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:06 AM
5

Right?! I died reading that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:05 PM
24

Lol! Ten years post break-up and my scrote ex (who is now married) tried this on me last year. He has constantly tried to contact me by manipulating my brother into thinking they are still friends. So he finds me via Brother's social media. I recently realized that was how he kept finding me and spoke to Brother about it. He promptly blocked the ex. Anyway, I told the scrote's wife what was going on. Apparently she found out he also had a girlfriend on the side she found out about, so she was op…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:00 PM
4

"When people say 'not all men' they are referring to Keanu Reeves" Keanu is too good for this world and thus the "not all men" argument goes right out the window. Keanu is the epitome of a HVM and this meme is hilarious 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:43 PM
14

Lol! Then he proceeds to try the same cock and bull story on someone else who doesn't fall for it... 'I'm done going through stuff again. I'll cook for you and we can talk'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:19 PM
41

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:16 PM
4

Oooo! I never thought of that before and it's brilliantly true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:11 PM
3

Where do you find these??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:59 AM
-48

Exactly my point. You brag about a single man that was already prepared to pick up a passenger. But yes, call me negative for knowing what men in the male dominated biker community are like and why they carry extra helmets with them. You're missing my point completely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:44 AM
-22

Wow! Really?! In my country we need DOT (an international standard) approved helmets to be road legal ETA: your user name is so cute. I have Greek blood and I adore my kitty ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:35 AM
1

So do we accept this small boy as making a typo or just the typical Florida Man who thinks Nazis were a threat in his infant years of the 90's instead of the 40's? How are incels this stupid?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:09 AM
1

I understand they are Bratz dolls. Any woman has the right to dress how ever they choose and act how they choose. So many people here have missed the mark by ignoring these exaggerated features in these dolls are marketed by men to young girls. I stand by my comment that Bratz dolls are not appropriate to be marketed to young girls or to be seen as "female empowerment"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:12 AM
2

Mine, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:25 PM
5

Read this as: be a Stepford Wife for someone just using you for sex 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:24 PM
15

She's a nurse and working during a pandemic that could kill her and her "husband" buggers off on their date day to take someone else out for breakfast and ignores her completely. This piece if trash partner only works two days a week at a grocery store. NEVER settle for this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:21 PM
2

I completely agree. This world needs more love, not less of it. Be the kind of person you want to date and even more of a cliché statement is to be the change you want to see in the world. People need to stop hurting others just because they experienced it themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:51 PM
10

Exactly. He's just waiting for the right moment to cheat with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:44 PM
2

Thank you for your support. We need to stay strong and I appreciate your support xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 06:14 AM
5

You sound like you have come so far from where you were. Stay strong. You aren't broken or damaged or crazy. You're like all of us and just sick of the low effort and abusive acts of men. There was a lesbian comedian, and this comment is crass but true, who said women aren't sick of dick but they are sick of everything attached to it. Take some time for yourself and figure out what you really want from a relationship. Be kind to yourself and try not to equate sex with love. You'll get to where y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:59 AM
18

My partner is the same way 💙 Whatever he gets for himself, he gets me. Without me asking for it. That can be something as simple as getting me the same bottled water as he gets from a professional convention, to him wanting cell phone upgrades. I love him so much 💙 He is the most considerate person I have ever been with xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:03 AM
6

I was just celebrating the fact that a year post filing a consumer proposal (which broke my heart filing because I always had impeccable credit prior to my ex digging its claws into me) That not only did I apply for a credit card but was approved!! This will hep fast track me to the "800 club" where I used to be and deserve to be. Never, ever invest financially in a relationship! We are here to lift each other up and to support each other and to make sure we find a high value partner that will n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:55 AM
7

Good for you! It sounds like it isn't a control issue but you trying to get ahead of your anxiety by getting validation from men. I had the same issue and through my counsellor, discovered that I was looking for someone to show me love based on my prior traumas. This is a learning experience and you sound like you are doing just fine. Focus on yourself and your healing. Maybe ditch the dudes for a bit; when you unsuspectingly meet a LV, it will drag you down and stunt your healing process. Stay …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:53 AM
7

Oh man. My partner is going to be so bummed out when I tell them I just found out I'm an incel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:07 PM
3

I am glad we agree ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:24 AM
10

I agree that she should have just been an independent mother. She has the means to do so while also hiring help around the home without a man while inviting quality men in to her life to show what healthy relationships look like. I do disagree with you about boy toys. Just because men fuck around with women and use and abuse them; that doesn't mean we have to lower ourselves to that level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:20 PM
2

I agree and believe that was the point I was making in my comment is that ugly on the inside means you are ugly regardless as to how you dress up the outside. I feel this is important to recognize this as well when finding a partner. Makeup, clothes and fat and muscle come and go. If you're ugly on the inside; then you're ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:16 PM
22

Lmao! Twote 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:34 PM
75

Correction. She has beautiful make up, beautiful weaves and a "beautiful" wardrobe. She married a convicted rapist and murderer just to "get married, retire and have babies, in that order" at 36. There's nothing beautiful about someone so desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:32 PM
10

they have an older kid. There is no excuses, the dad sperm donor is a full on sociopath. FTFY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:06 PM
8

You did so well today. My situation had been so dangerous that I not only had to write my statement out but a judge wanted to meet with me remotely that day (years before Covid) I understand your pain but you did the right thing ❤️ Be safe and never, ever hesitate to call 999/911 or whatever your country's emergency line is when he or anyone affiliated with him show up or come near you. Stay strong and stay safe xoxo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:58 AM
5

You're the freak for calling him out on his bullshit "poor me" because you told him to stop using people? Yeah. You certainly are the freak here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:39 AM
6

Avoid! If they think that way then they are looking for someone who will submit to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:46 PM
16

She isn't even a pick me. She's a teenager who thinks the only way to keep a man is to blow him or cook for him. It's so sad that a young woman is exploiting herself like this just to get used by men. She's in for a long and difficult lesson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 12:03 AM
10

Lol! So he admits to using women in their twenties for sex and that men should hate women once they hit thirty because women become more cautious of the abuse men put women through when they were younger. Fuck. Right. Off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:27 PM
69

Porn stars and strippers work out a lot. This is the natural shape of an ass for someone who is healthy but not a health nut. I bet 100% of the men shaming her have Hank Hill asses. The nasty dogs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:14 AM
13

Not just men but apparently porn sick women who would rather hide their natural body than be happy with it. What a miserable lot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:13 AM
6

🤣😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:11 AM
2

I'm glad you got out quick. Never look back. It's hard, but it's so worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:49 AM
14

Good for you! I couldn't imagine entertaining a guest that had the audacity to stop talking. 1. Never tell someone what to do 2. Never EVER demand someone hosting you in their home to do what you want. Bullet dodged! I don't think I would have spotted this red flag had you not posted your experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:47 AM
14

They still don't take it seriously. Borris was hospitalized and on a ventilator. Trump sent his condolences once he realized this disease wasn't just a Democratic hoax to derail his re-election campaign (oh yes, this person is that stupid) However, once BoMo recovered, they both went back to a pissing match to see who could have the strongest economy. All measures of social distancing were lifted by both countries...who are supposed to be allies. Jacinda Ardern is by far my favourite PM. Mad res…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:31 AM
9

True, true. I told an Indian guy a year and a half ago I wasn't interested in him. He's a cop and horribly abusive when drinking. Surprise! I blocked his number. He messaged me from another, so I blocked that. Just last week, he messaged me from a third number and acted like we are old friends. I thought it might have been a colleague whose number I didn't have. Eventually he told me who it was that was messaging me...and that's the second time he pretended to be someone else from a different nu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:58 AM
16

I bet he would sleep with her given the chance but "never marry a woman like that". I have never met a man who indulges in porn, strippers, etc who has anything kind to say about those women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:47 AM
2

sings in Bette Midler voice Did you ever know that you're my hero? You are the wind beneath my wings Seriously though, thank you for the info. I really appreciate it 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:57 AM
5

Beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:38 AM
10

You. I like you 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:30 AM
2

Lol! No. I am just learning to cook, myself. My only recommendation is to note the texture. I didn't poach my eggs softly because I needed some firmness in the texture. But that is easy to adjust! So err on the side of caution and under poach the eggs because you can always cook them up. I have never heard of "meat cigars" though, so I am open to tips on how to make them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:49 AM
1

Good to know xo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:45 AM
14

You should have wished him the best in his future search for his shirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:45 AM
2

Me too! What is your favourite dish you have made so far? Mine is Shakshuka!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:26 AM
2

Who else carries that much cash? Plus "spoiling" her at multiple low grade retailers is an easy way to launder some of the money while keeping her happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:30 AM
9

This scrote "can't condone this behaviour" but somehow know about SA? Yeah, fxck right off. Another male who loves the sex industry but hates the women involved in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:05 AM
1

Can I adopt this person and keep them forever? I love the energy and this gave me such a good laugh ❤️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 09:50 AM
9

I second this. I don’t know if I’ll return to OLD for these reasons. I second this. I know I will never return to OLD for these reasons. FTFY ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 09:16 AM
50

Does not know that soap, shampoo and conditioner are separate products
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:44 AM
18

😔 Is there a backup media where we can reconnect when the inevitable happens?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:42 AM
12

Even during quarantine I was still being approached by men. At the grocers, the park...I don't even want to go back to the gym now that they've opened because I have no patience for thirty dogs. But yes, everyone here is an unattractive woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:57 PM
17

Or a fat b***h
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:51 PM
3

Absolutely. "Suggesting" FWB is him directly saying that he wants to fuck you and nothing more. Would that be acceptable if he said it that way? Your mutual friend is just confirming this scrote has been thinking about this for two years. You have a right to be offended and to feel degraded. Ice him out and if anyone questions it, simply tell them he disrespected you by propositioning you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:27 PM
6

Most men do this. That's why NSA and FWB and the new "situationship" are there. They want sex and any woman that is hesitant in just a physical relationship will be promised with the reward of a relationship. Why would anyone want to be in a relationship with someone who values sex above all else? 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:10 PM
1

Exactly. So what? I am an INFJ-A, which is THE rarest. I simply found it insightful into understanding myself more and enforced what traits in a partner I should look for. Also, it made me realize I need to practice self-care much more than I do. Some people just need to feel superior by being a special snowflake ❄️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:05 PM
6

I was just going to ask if she was Arab. Such a stunning and strong woman ❤️ Thanks for the share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:14 AM
18

To which I reply, "you should raise your standards if you have to hit on someone ugly and fat." Morons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 12:29 PM
53

And deserves a "ten"...because he is such an insecure incel man-child who only sees the value of a woman based on her looks. Assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:10 PM
9

Lol! I can not believe that looking the way they do, they have the audacity to tell women to submit to them. Not that anyone should ever submit to their partner but they offer nothing. Unattractive, broke, trying to scam money from women, misogynistic, shallow, entitled, lacking in education and a stable career, etc. All I see is a virtual fist bump saying "Scrotes and Incels unite so we can get laid again!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:38 AM
11

This is the most accurate and hilarious description of anything, ever 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:57 PM
11

The bot can't reply here but if you write an independent comment that says u/vredditdownloader then the bot will send you a DM with a downloadable link for the video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:42 PM
6

u/vredditdownloader
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:28 PM
24

Shhh 🤫 We love Keanu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:24 AM
32

I was in that exact scenario. Never again. I will always have my own "just in case" money that no one will know about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:10 AM
3

I can not imagine living in a country where it is allowed for an adult to go to a high school and tell teenagers they are whores and deserve to be raped. Not only is that harassment but he has the ability to carry out violent rape based on his gender. Would it be acceptable if an adult showed up to a high school with a gun yelling that the students deserve to be shot and carrying a sign that says so? This poor teenager defended themselves and other students against an adult who had no business b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:29 AM
6

Agreed. You can definitely hear how much of a pinnacle of inspiration she was when compared with Johnny Cash's older tunes. I am so glad I found out about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 10:16 PM
2

I watched the show and quite enjoyed it. How is it sexist? I have been a Shakira fan before she even made English music and her performance was tops in that show. I don't have an IG account so I can't see the post but can you give some more context on how this was sexist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:03 AM
14

Ladies, please love us knowing that we will always use and abuse you to make ourselves feel better 😂 Haha! Get bent lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 12:38 AM
78

Funny how they think it is acceptable to disrespect the female form (to females!) but demand respect from the women they just insulted for their own ignorance of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 12:24 AM
3

Right?! I am just seeing this post now but I am so glad to hear I am not the only one. A LVM that I haven't even seen in a year and a half randomly sms'd me. Last time he pestered me (via email) I explained that I did not have time in my life for him and to respect that I am seeing someone. Hadn't heard from until last week. He apologized for how badly he treated me and blah blah blah Really playing up this NiceGuy™️ act, you know? In reality, he is vapid and shallow and can not hold a meaningfu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:26 PM
2

What an obnoxious thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:21 PM
2

Please keep us updated :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 02:48 PM
26

She is already living her happy, single life and is throwing it in her un-loyal husband's face for pressuring her into an open marriage. He can't get laid and realized his wife's value only after he realized he isn't as sexy as she is. He is getting exactly what he deserves and without doubt, she will divorce him when he inevitably wants to "close" the relationship. He ruined the marriage and she obviously knows this. Good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:15 AM
9

Some men won't commit to a relationship because of something their mum may or may not have said before they even passed through the birth cannel? Totally logical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 10:06 AM
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Oh yeah! The "sixth" child (a daughter) who wanted nothing to do with him after he mistreated her and he dumped the rest of the 4 kids off on the 14 yr old and did not believe her doctor about her depression and anxiety related to being a "mom" meanwhile he, and his sons, could do whatever they wanted, whenever they wanted. I really hope that was a troll post because that was a doozy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:31 AM
9

Ih that's vile. OMG! They even have a sub for it 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:37 PM
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I understand the sentiment but this graphic is a bit tone deaf during current events. We are better than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:42 PM
6

Why even bother commenting on that verbal garbage? It literally says she was never missed until she was gone and that when she shone brightly, he looked at her with disdain. The meme then says to be the moon...less brilliant, muted and only seen by few since most people sleep and rarely notice the Moon as much as the Sun. The only thing that needs to be changed here is never accept that treatment from anyone. You are always the Sun and will always shine brilliant, even on the darkest days. Just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 05:15 AM
47

Why are you with someone who doesn't care enough about you to want to comfort you when you're sick?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:10 PM
6

Exactly! Never accept mistreatment from anyone. Period. After she left him crying alone; well that should have been a glaring signal he needs to apologize and his "humour" is not funny but incredibly hurtful. Imagine him making fat jokes about the natural plumpness of a pubescent teen and how damaging that would be to the child. He deserves to cry alone and contemplate why he thinks making loved ones feel terrible about themselves is funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:56 AM
2

Oh, damn!! 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:27 AM
6

Throw in a "you dumb bitch" and you're spot on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:01 AM
9

I stopped reading when I got to that comment. That doormat said she would have stayed to comfort him because that is what people who love each other do. You know what people who love each other do? Comfort their spouses when they are insecure about their body after the trauma of giving birth. What they do not do is call their 4 mos post partum wife fat and laugh about her insecurities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 10:00 AM
30

There was a guy in that comment thread who denied just that at the beginning of his comment, spouting off about gender equality and later revealed that he was a LVM by concluding that comment by stating he will not even consider paying for someone until 5-6 dates in so that he knows she's worth the investment. That's right...paying for a date is a financial investment to that joker that he will not make for weeks or even months after meeting someone. I have been dating a gorgeous man long distan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 09:21 AM
6

Isn't it though? And that whole communities exist to perpetuate men doing this to women. I wish that women would be more trusting of each other and supportive to help others get away from abusers but with communities like this, we seem to be moving in the right direction ❤️ Teehee! oink oink indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:26 AM
18

Agreed! I am so concerned about her. My first bf was EXACTLY like this, including the age gap and me being a naïve 21 yr old that when he was 29...everything is the same. He is grooming her to be his compliant sex toy and to put up with abusive behaviour. Mine groomed me for his abuse that left lasting effects which helped me fall in to a much more abusive relationship when I left him. He later married someone my age and tried to cheat on her with me. I laughed and I informed him I was dating a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:04 AM
6

I used to accept red flags like I was being handed red roses 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:56 PM
2

Keep your head, standards and heels high!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:54 PM
16

Queen Elizabeth stayed behind during WWII declaring her duty and loyalty to the people of England. She served as a mechanic as well as a truck and ambulance driver. That's right. The QUEEN OF ENGLAND was a MECHANIC in WWII. She's also the only living head of state to have served in that war and the only female Royal to enlist in the forces 🥰 Yet, we never hear about any of the sacrifices women have made serving their countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 12:51 AM
6

Stay away from ANY man that was born in or spent a significant time in North Africa. That area has millennia of culture, history, religion and political rulers that constantly reaffirm that men are superior to women, women need to be owned, controlled and kept in line. Also keep in mind that those are also predominantly Muslim countries and this misogyny is indoctrinated in to children while they are still young. Not too long ago two Scandinavian females were raped and beheaded in Morocco ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 04:41 PM
10

Wow! I can’t believe this person actually posted on the internet that they intend to be fat and lazy and will hookup with their ex’s for a mere $7 a month and yet somehow thinks everyone else has the same low standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:31 AM
13

I think this is really insightful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 12:35 AM
8

Right? Especially if you hate men to begin with haha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 05:55 AM
20

How do you support Kim Kardashian and not know her celebrity timeline? She was already a hit when she was with Kris and he cameoed in her reality tv series. And what makes you think Kanye is more caring when every Kanye fan knows Kanye is the most valuable person in Kanye’s life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:28 AM
7

Controlling and cheap assholes. They spend the money until the woman falls I love and turn out to be monsters. I am so happy for your aunt for being able to recognize a HVM and also for being able to bring herself up to her full potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 03:57 AM
12

You’re my heroine xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 03:54 AM
16

Stop projecting about your abusive relationship. Not all men hold their emotions inside until they lash out. Most are actually very well adjusted humans. Just because your partner throws tantrums and isn’t affectionate does not mean other women have to tolerate the same level of neglect and abuse. So certainly, run over and give your douche bag boyfriend a hug and a kiss. I have higher standards and a level of self respect that would never allow me to justify a partner’s awful treatment of me, s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 11:02 AM
20

Same. New kid at the neighbourhood liquor store carded me for a bottle of wine. He was maybe 19. A guy behind me chuckled saying,”he wants her number” But I was not having it. “I’m almost 40! You’re carding me when I’m old enough to be your mother?!” laughter erupts from the men in the store “He just wants a date, sweetheart!” So I took out my ID and the kid apologized immediately. The old, POS men that thought this type of harassment was funny to get a “girl’s” number also stopped laughing when…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 01:33 AM
3

Lol I’m with you. I think she just needs some more time to reflect on her past relationships. She says she doesn’t want to call this person an ex because they’re friends now...but he keeps telling her she needs a man :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:44 AM
2

Thanks for the reply. The video doesn’t come across that way at all but I’m glad you can find value in his work and that he does promote healthy relationships.
/r/seduction06/01/19 09:38 AM
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What a bunch of horseshit. If your dating success relies solely upon moving from a first world country to Brazil...you’re just a failure of a human. Of course women in a country like that flock to social status. Men: don’t listen to this trash. You don’t have to be a jerk to get attractive women. In fact, we prefer a genuinely good hearted man over anything else but if you are a good man but front like this video and other PUA “mentors” say, you’ll be over looked 100% of the time. Be better than…
/r/seduction05/01/19 06:59 AM
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