Nicolo_Ultra Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
800	Where's the Lie?		Nicolo_Ultra	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/20 06:35 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
102	Women Never Hit the Wall: A Field Study I’m 27 and get hit on by 17-19 yos all the time and have to reject them because THEY’RE KIDS! Hello you live with your parents and are in HS!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/22 03:26 AM
36	Ladies please be careful about who you have children with. She is pregnant but he is trying to dictate how she gives birth… also he doesn’t know about the umbilical cord? 🥴 Total yes, otherwise why would you have to preface it if you already feel like it’s effed up and starting defensively on his behalf? Dude’s about to become a father and hasn’t the faintest of sex—ed other than nutting and rolling over 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/22 07:14 AM
190	Is it just me or do men not know how to talk to women anymore? It seems like every conversation involves some sort of pick up artist technique instead of being genuine They feed each other the line of asking a fisherman how to fish, not a fish. Again invoking that we are prey they are hunting for, and not a human being with agency, personality, intelligence, and goals. They think we play mind games, but theirs literally make themselves go insane. Most of the RP stuff comes from a basement dweller with the IQ of 70.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 07:12 AM
125	What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage? No doubt, it’s the simple assumption that she will take his that pisses me off. I’m in an argument with a man on AITA who can’t understand why the baby should have the mom’s surname due to the couple not even being married! Boyfriend posted he is “thinking about it” but it won’t happen before baby is born. I just said, why would the baby have HIS surname if she birthed said baby and is single??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 08:19 AM
4	What theme would you like to see displayed more in movies? It is a little cheesy, life doesn’t look like a movie. But I appreciate that they were supposed to be “dark” characters but had a better relationship than in the sitcoms of the average American family from earlier years. Didn’t notice that til I was an adult either.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/12/21 10:11 PM
101	What theme would you like to see displayed more in movies? Yup, Gomez is an example of the best husband a woman can find. Attentive, expresses romance often, cares about the home and the children’s welfare deeply, never seems to let the “honeymoon phase” die and constantly dates Morticia. It’s funny it’s seen as a dark comedy, but it’s really a romance (IMO).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/12/21 08:40 AM
86	My HVM was actually just a golddigger A lot of these “Ivy League” dudes are just set up for success by their parents and have still been coddled and possess almost no life skills; ie Mommy did everything and now you have to. You don’t have to be a genius to get a degree, but these guys think it makes them look great on paper.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/21 03:24 AM
91	I have no words I have a very specific custom hair towel too, that’s also just for my hair. God forbid my man touch it (or use it to dry his ass as this OP might have - murder in the building). I read this post to C and he cackled and said this guy better just cut his loss now cause he committed one of the greatest sins: don’t touch a woman’s washroom things unless asked.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/21 07:26 AM
187	They always tell on themselves on Twitter … Vile Japan is actually making the woman’s tiny community somewhat a mainstream thought and middle aged women are going through with it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/21 01:01 AM
3	There's a "promaledatingstrategy" to contradict FDS. Men really don't know how to act when women have had enough. Nope! Now calling us “scrocettes” as if we want to be associated with their unwashed balls. All they do is reverse script and play the infamous male devil’s advocate - so tired it’s beyond dull.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/08/21 07:15 PM
42	This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable. My instant thought - OK BYE!! Seriously, where’s the logic in locking yourself in a prison you bricked up? Nothing is worth this hot mess dumpster fire. Also, call his mom cause I want to talk to her…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/21 02:02 PM
11	What's with all the stupid guys? Yup, growing up mommy did everything, get married only so wife can do everything, pawn off tasks at work to motivated others so they can jerk around. Everything will still get taken care of, so they’re not stretched to do it. If you always have a safety neck, you don’t have to plan contingencies, you’ll always have a soft place to fall. I think a lot of this behavior stems from motherly coddling. They want their daughters to be ambitious and tough to stand up to sexism later in life, but they le…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/21 06:28 PM
214	I’m just so tickled seeing this. Yes Queens, yes. This just in on Double Standards, issue 15809: Call any 40yo man a boy and it’ll be considered a huge insult resulting in various obscenities thrown back. Any woman of any age though - just a girl 🤦‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/04/21 10:15 PM
57	Tiny quick vetting method: MEN AND CATS They say cats are a good lesson in consent. If a man hates “cat ladies” or uses it as an insult, or outright hates cats in general, I know what kind of man they are and stay clear. My boyfriend fucking loves my cat and respects their boundaries... and also mine! It’s a casual green flag for me 🤷‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/04/21 12:31 AM
161	This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us" Men need women, some women just like to have a man around. Men who are single are bitterly lonely, when I’m alone is when I find myself most content and at peace, motivated, energetic. Sigh, always projection you’re so right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/21 08:31 PM
81	Just because he makes 10x more doesn't mean he's HV How many times do we need to chant “if he wanted to, he would” before our fellow ladies get it?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/03/21 09:06 PM
85	Not even if Dean provided me with everything I've ever dreamed of in life. Women were really truly scammed by LibFems - apparently calling yourself a slut, and assigning property rights of your precious reproductive organs to your scrote, is empowerment. Where did it all go so wrong; I want to weep for her and her sub-zero self-esteem. I want to weep that this is online for naive, precious young women to see.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/21 08:38 PM
157	Yep. Just to “holes” apparently. I think if 50% of men had vaginas instead of penises, they’d date themselves and we’d be free of them. They think they’re attracted to feminine qualities but then ridicule us for all of them, so what do they really want besides a vagina to masturbate into?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/21 12:32 AM
19	PATRICK, what is u doing honey??? I was born in Feb, should I apply? /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/21 07:39 PM
67	Why don’t they understand this lol Nagging appears to be the ultimate form of gaslighting. Your wife isn’t “nagging” you to clean your dishes, but if she has to tell you to, or ask more than once, you’re the one who’s fucked up by not being an independent, competent adult.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/21 07:23 PM
27	Say no to easy men 👀 Most guys’ only requirement for women is “don’t be fat.” They break that rule all the time anyway because they’re desperate. Their bar is so low that they expect ours to be, too. No thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/21 10:13 PM
35	Thought you ladies might like this. Men mad that women are focusing on themselves instead of men. And I’m so glad they talk more! I’m 25 and have a lot of emotional labor, love, and physical/financial assists to protect. I’m 3 years in with a HVM but I’m still taking notes. Can never be too well-informed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/21 12:12 AM
12	I love the “Here’s my hand with my new ring I bought myself” pics. This is my “here’s my hand with the keys to my new house I bought myself!” pic. Resolve to evolve, sis! Here’s to our new year! Congratulations!! Way to take care of, and treat, yourself! I also bought my first home all on my own in 2017 at 22 years old, and recently bought a new car. We don’t need a man to get us barefoot and pregnant, and make us financially dependent on them. I have the utmost confidence in modern women to support themselves and live on their own terms. You may want a man, but don’t ever need him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/20 09:30 PM
15	Just broke up with an otherwise HVM due to porn use... If he needs so much variety than a monogamous relationship just isn’t for him! He should stay single. But then they get offended at this though because obviously they aren’t hot enough for regular casual sex (like women are) so they consider this recommendation one of celibacy, which is an insult. Can’t have it both ways...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/12/20 09:32 PM
162	Thank you all! 💋 I did it this year, in quarantine. Added 5 figures to my savings, bought a new car, and got my BMI back down to 20. 2020 might have sucked but I certainly don’t! Cheers ladies, go forth and thrive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/20 06:52 PM
44	💯 Love takes commitment, trust, and continuous work. Adoration is short term, cheap, and can be bought. Really shows where their intentions actually lie.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/20 05:27 PM
126	Yet another example of women bearing the emotional load. 😑 I hate this meme so much and it’s always labeled as “wholesome.” What’s wholesome about a man who does nothing for his family during the holidays, even with a prodding wife? My boyfriend placed my gifts under the tree a couple days ago while I was at my mom’s and they’re the most beautifully wrapped ones under there, ribbons and bows and lovely foil. He thoughtfully picked out and wrapped gifts for my parents and sister and BIL as well, weeks ago. He doesn’t need to be told shit, he values effor…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/12/20 11:49 PM
54	LOL Being shamed into a having to always wear a bra lest a man see a shadow of a nipple (which they also have??) isn’t even on their radar. God forbid you have to cover your mouth outside, Brad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/12/20 11:12 PM
34	My good guy friend of many years confessed feelings for me, then I learned he is still chasing after his ex. When I asked why he would compromise our friendship if he still is obsessed with his ex and commented he has been acting unhappy lately...this was his response. Blocked/deleted. Well we all know the reason why he would.. Cause you see... what will he do with his lonely penis ALL winter!? In the dark and the COLD? When he has watched almost every porn he can find and is BORED? Hello, kind ma’am OP, why are you ignoring his penis this holiday season while he pines for an ex? 🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/20 09:52 PM
18	My mom had her birthday yesterday. I bought the cake, the balloons, ordered the food. My cousin and brother even admitted I was the only one who knew her exact birthday. Of course everyone enjoyed the food and cake. Right? It’s not like a woman’s brain is especially programmed to remember things well, birthdays, appointments, chores. I don’t magically remember all those things to the date, neither does my mom or sister - we have phone reminders, address books, grocery lists and chore charts. If you’re not making an effort to remember all these things, they’ll be forgotten and missed. Strange how every woman in my family is a “mind reader” and has a “crazy sharp memory” but none of the men do. That shit’s no…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/20 08:21 PM
30	When it comes to custody, men fight hard for the right to... I really appreciate your thoughtful post. This was so true in my case. I was 14 when my parents divorced. My mother graciously gave my dad custody every other weekend in order to keep child support lower, however he never stepped up to parent. I would go to his house and we’d sit on the couch all weekend, watching Spike or whatever he wanted, there were never any fun outings or plans, I ever cooked dinner for us both when I was over there. I begged for a laptop just so I could complete homework …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 10:12 PM
22	Imagine the audacity of thinking 30k is enough to justify this behavior. Makes me think of those “$20 bucks is $20 bucks” memes. Do they even care who (“what”) they’re fucking as long as they cum? I swear most guys are romantically homosexual and basically 50% sexually homosexual. As long as their dick gets wet I suppose 🤷‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/11/20 02:33 AM
202	Imagine the audacity of thinking 30k is enough to justify this behavior. He loves fucking an asshole more than the woman he vowed to love for the rest of his life. I feel so fucking sad for her. There would literally be no coming back from that, divorce and then she gets her half of that money anyway. I bet $30k he's gay.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/11/20 07:46 PM
50	This poor girl. They justify their degenerate actions by saying they’re “evolutionarily visual creatures” but then ream women for being shallow (hypergamous, 80/20 effect) and not giving ugly men a chance. The visual creature in any situation only depends on whether they’re trying to excuse men or vilify women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 07:27 PM
59	And here we have NVM/LVMs who whine about paying for a first date huh A m a t e, babe. Not me, I don’t need these obviously... 😳	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 12:45 AM
265	And here we have NVM/LVMs who whine about paying for a first date huh I carry a large satchel type of purse most of the time, I make sure to keep about 10 tampons/pads in the inside pockets. I make a conscious effort to buy in bulk and restock my bags with them often. I barely even menstruate because of my BC. I consider it common decency to take the time and money and be prepared for a fellow sister in need. I’d like to see a single guy compete with that level of forethought and empathy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/20 10:36 PM
18	BuT fAlSe RaPe CaSeS (Check comments) A study commissioned by the European Union found that Sweden has the highest incidence of reported rapes in Europe. And an Amnesty International report on rape in the Nordic Countries was highly critical of Sweden for an abysmally low conviction rate for rape cases. And yet somehow Scandinavian countries have the "happiest populations" of anywhere else in Europe, or on Earth. Are they only counting male happiness? Because I find it hard to believe those women are super happy about it being Rape …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/20 04:21 PM
12	It should be considered child abuse to teach daughters to be "good, submissive wives." You sound just like my mom! She is a beautiful, driven, independent woman who raised 2 beautiful, driven, independent women. All 3 of us have the deepest love and respect for one another and the men in our lives only add to our love and respect, or they are discarded (mom has had to do this once already). Your daughter must be so appreciative to have you <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/20 08:14 PM
9	Never let anyone tell you how much you worth!! And the second projection is they believe women will compare the sex with them to everyone before them like they do, but they won’t actually stack up. Cause the fact of the matter is they know they’re bad at sex and don’t want to put more effort than necessary in. This is evidenced by the orgasm gap. Maybe if men put more effort into being a good lover, they wouldn’t be pressed to worry about past competition.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/20 05:31 PM
10	GENTLEMAN?? Am I reading this right? Looks like some PUA shit! A lot of men literally get off on the power play of actively making women uncomfortable, self-conscious, and/or scared. They get an ego boost of being dominant and intimidating, because in actuality they are weak, emasculated boys.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 06:16 PM
3	The Bar is Low You know it was him, I’m so sorry you went through that! Good men care about you as a person and your health just as much as (hopefully more than!) the intimacy. My boyfriend is meticulously clean, he even washes his hands with me before we get down to it; hell his finger nails are just as manicured as mine. I’ve never had any issues down there and I believe it’s just proper basic hygiene between the two of us. I can’t believe some men can’t be assed to be clean for us.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/20 10:04 PM
8	The Bar is Low Women are literally putting their health and lives on the line when they allow these men to have sex with them. No wonder yeast infections and UTIs are so prominent! It’s not you not taking care of your lady bits properly girl, it’s his dick pounding bacteria into it 🤦‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/20 09:39 PM
30	FDS got me like Wow that is so kind and generous of you! She is one lucky girl! On a side note, I know FDS preaches marriage (to a HVM) as the end goal, but I'm starting to see marriage as a bad deal for women. Not sure what this means for my future but I will not risk being tied to someone who ends up a different person down the road, where I do everything for myself and a whole other person, leeching my valued energy. I'm very independent and refuse to lower myself down from priority 1. We'll see. Anyway, kud…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/20 07:04 PM
61	I felt this in my soul. This comment absolutely sent me	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/20 06:06 PM
18	Standards? Whats that? Right!? I would have noped both! Rather be delightfully alone than with anyone who causes me stress.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 02:50 AM
146	I don’t think Taylor really cares what you think, Stefan. “It’s strange to think...” It’s fucking strange that you, random man no one cares about, is thinking about the remaining eggs in a celebrity woman’s ovaries who has accomplished more in less time than you ever will in your life. Does the audacity never end?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 12:37 AM
22	LVMs be like One of my heros, and the ultimate HVM imo. He literally treats Robin like a queen (which, come on, she totally is) and helped raise talented, driven, responsible men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/20 05:24 PM
8	I hope she peed after sex, because if a man lives like this, he for SURE doesn’t wash his dick Right, I can't believe (if this is actually real, hard to believe the whole story) she stayed the night. I would've taken one look and broken up on the spot. What functional, responsible adult let's their living arrangement get to this point?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/20 08:40 PM
11	It's not your responsibility to make your or any man feel like a man Congratulations!! That’s a huge accomplishment and please don’t ever downplay your wins, we rarely get to revel in them. I’ve always been the more successful partner in my relationships, I don’t care if it scares men off or makes them feel small - they weed themselves out. I’m with a guy now who started from the bottom when we met and now he’s earning almost as much as me because we support each other; he’s helped me in some areas, and I’ve helped him out with his career options. If they don’t s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 09:54 PM
80	Well... Oh my god the amount of times you see advice from man to man, where husband hasn’t gotten any bedroom time in awhile (read: one week probably) is “well, pick up some of the chores dude” or “when was the last time you washed the dishes?” Like it’s not fucking rocket science you’re childish behavior is making you unsexy and turning her off, but also magically doing the dishes one time in a year isn’t enough either. If I started turning down sex from my partner something serious is up and he’d bett…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/20 05:40 PM
181	Man Up, Or Shut The Hell Up. Takes half the time and resources to provide for myself alone. If he’s not adding, he’s just subtracting. Don’t make your life a losing game, ladies.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/08/20 02:01 AM
41	Nobody cares. Just. Turn. Off. Please. Projection, always. They can’t relate even if they tried. They’re constantly trying to woo and flirt up any woman who might sleep with them. They assume women feel that way about them, as if we have demonic testosterone ruling our every thought 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 04:48 PM
25	When Picasso was 45 he had a 17 year old lover, whom he later married. When asked about the age gap he said that he was in his prime and she was in her prime. I guess?? Do they think they only have to offer money to be worth it ? If so, I guess that’s when they’re making the most (but almost none are even at the “luxury” status to pull that type of woman then). It’s so sad, most men post-30 I see have some sort of beer gut and are graying/balding and have face wrinkles. That’s not “prime,” honey; you should be in a crypt. I know so many steaming hot women in their 40’s, can’t say I know one man who even passes as attractive at that age. They all think…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/20 01:56 AM
154	This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodged They literally project so hard!! If you want to figure out why a man is doing something, just think about what his insecurities are. Women have abundance, men don't. That's why they get so jealous of other men hitting on their dates, texting them, popping up on their IG comments. They're desperate not to lose the only woman they currently have on the line. Women aren't jealous of other women (well, confident/mature women), we just accept defeat and move on to the other hundred men waiting to swe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 04:22 PM
82	yOuRE DaMAGinG hiM bY nOt ALLowiNg hiM tO fUcK yOu wHeNeVer He wAntS reGardLess Of yOuR fEELingS Or better yet, just masturbate all day and leave women tf alone.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/20 09:20 PM
19	Facts 💅 I have my house that I own, my car I own, my successful career, my wealth of family and friends, my youth and beauty, and my fulfilling hobbies. If a man doesn’t dine to take from that and only add his wealth to it, he [might] be worth it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/20 03:47 AM
23	IF HE AS MUCH AS QUESTIONS FEMALE REPRODUCTIVE RIGHTS... DUMP, IGNORE AND BLOCK IMMEDIATELY Except you though, right? Cause what would his peepee do?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/06/20 09:31 PM
31	6+ years with a man and no ring? I mean, I have a filler too, is that bad as a woman? He’s a good boytoy, handles half the chores and bills, good fun and all but I don’t want to get married because I want to be able to leave easily if/when he drops the pretense (which let’s all face it, men usually have one and it can take years before they drop their good behavior, once they think you’re in a “sunk cost” situation).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/05/20 02:28 AM
50	Big shock here Reminds me of that AITA post about OP's pregnant wife being annoying and demanding. At one point he was like "and I totally help around the house, I do just as much as she does" and all he said he does is take out the trash and laundry (just his own laundry, I'm sure). The delusion is real folks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/20 04:27 PM
11	Ladies Beware the LVM in Disguise What dude could say this in sincerity, considering 90% of them would drop a friend to fuck their girl if they had the chance? The audacity...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/20 02:37 AM
114	A woman for our times Reminds me of a weekend I had no obligations, woke up to put coffee on and make crepes, took a shower and took my breakfast to bed. Booooi was the live-in mad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/20 06:07 AM
68	I just dumped my LVM thanks to FDS and he is outraged Lol kind of seems like he was trying to red pill you and you turned it around and red pilled his ass with a nice, swift dumping. Hilarious! Stalking is scary, I hope you're safe and thriving now!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/20 04:18 PM
17	So the worst part of being a gay man is dating other men? Sounds about right I don't know that it's purely testosterone, he really was raised well and has an amazing mother and is just all around respectful to everyone, but his medication has side effects of lower libido and ED (thankfully, the latter hasn't happened yet). But think about how men act when they're horny, how they embarrass themselves for just a chance at having sex, "post-nut clarity" and all that. Honestly, and I'm not stating this as fact, I believe most male depravity in thought and action boils down t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/20 05:07 PM
28	So the worst part of being a gay man is dating other men? Sounds about right I’m with a man who has a low sex drive due to medication he’s been on since he was 18. Rather than being a typical pornsick horn dog like most men my age, he’s the sweetest, most empathetic and secure man I’ve ever met in my life. We have an amazing sex life, but sex isn’t all we think about. The non-sexual intimacy is off the charts and it makes me feel so secure with him. Honestly, I will never date a normal-to-high T man ever again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/20 04:35 PM
77	Sorry boys, your PP ain’t that special 💅🏼 They go full hamster spinning mode and say that taking the same dick x amount of times doesn’t do anything, but taking x amount of different dicks totally does. Where is the logical part of these men’s brains? They’ve never heard of dildos apparently either (or just don’t want to acknowledge them, because it hilariously emasculates them).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/20 06:39 PM
65	Is it rude to say "i want to be financially independent so that a relationship is a pretty thing in my life but not a requirement." Rich men love gold diggers. Poor men hate them, but only because they can't afford them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/20 04:50 PM
44	Just some classic LVM behaviour. That sweet, sweet admission of what all of us here already know - you need her more than she ever needed you, bro.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/20 02:29 PM
1	Reading FDS and pinkpillfeminism subreddits as self sabotage FDS generally recommends not hooking up and saving sex for a committed and exclusive relationship, since studies show that women self-report less sexual satisfaction (including orgasm) received during ONS and casual encounters.	/r/ExRedPill	13/03/20 08:42 PM
24	She speaks the truth. 😂😭 Honestly I get oral every time I have sex and that is a dead firm standard for me. It works wonders at weeding out the losers. I'm happy to pleasure them, but ladies first.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/20 03:15 PM
37	Michelle Pfeiffer at 61. Where's that supposed Wall again? Honestly the best feeling in the world is being happy, healthy, successful, and beautiful, all on your own even into later adulthood. Makes men straight up lose their minds.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/20 07:42 PM
8	Queen shit: My mother. In case you're wondering if men actually care about other people unless they have some sort of claim to them (wife or daughter): A child with a biological mother who is living with a man who is not the child’s father is 33 times more likely to suffer abuse. (Source: Dreamcatchers for Abused Children)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/20 04:05 PM
2	Man using his girlfriend as a literal sex doll; she’s worried about offending him for not wanting sex 6 TIMES AN EVENING. Ugh. Sex is a type of physical touch, I always want sex, therefore physical touch must be my love language. But cuddling and hugs and dancing and handholding don’t count as physical touch because I don’t care about those, only sex. Wait a tick... why do I only seem to gain validation and feel love from sex??? cries in limp peepee	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/02/20 11:14 PM
26	Man using his girlfriend as a literal sex doll; she’s worried about offending him for not wanting sex 6 TIMES AN EVENING. Ugh. As soon as a guy says that I'm out, ain't nobody got time for that. His idea of "physical touch" never means just hand holding or cuddling like a woman's might.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/20 03:14 PM
24	We are really expected to be work mules from birth My parents were told I was going to be a boy but I wasn’t, even still my older sister was groomed into being maternal quickly and even tried to breastfeed me when my mom was asleep or busy once I was born. She was fucking five years old, and somehow she felt compelled to intervene in the caretaking role of mother at five fucking years old.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/20 04:40 AM
6	First time being actually single These are the stories I love to hear, that revolve around you ladies and your accomplishments. You go girl! I can't wait to see more stories of promotions, raises, weight loss, buying or redecorating homes, getting a new pet, awesome vacations!! These things add intrinsic value to your life that isn't reliant on a partner. You have to be able to support yourself and thrive on your own so you don't get trapped into being dependent on a man (at which point abuse is at it's highest risk).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/20 07:36 PM
45	It’s all about expectations SO many dudes can barely wash their own ass, much less even manscape for us, that this needs to become a battle cry and NOT a request.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/20 04:31 AM
28	Don't settle for this, that doesn't have to be your fate My partner still freaks when I have a really good one like after edging and my vaginal walls and pelvis are still quivering 5+ min later. “Still!?!?” Yeah buddy, still experiencing bliss, hold on a sec I’m savoring this. Like the best orgasm I’ve ever seen him have was not that special looking in my eyes but I guess they don’t know what they’re missing anyway.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 11:50 PM
59	Don't settle for this, that doesn't have to be your fate Isn’t it wonderful to be a woman and be able to orgasm as many times in a row as you’d like!? Poor men, kinda feel bad for them. They get like a 3 second micro-orgasm and they’re done for awhile.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 08:12 PM
38	Curved 😂 Mama’s boys have never needed manners at home so they enter the real world without them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/20 08:31 PM
26	Ugh... horrible. That's where the class-A r/niceguy response comes in. This guy spends weeks, months, years looking for a chick dtf a gross, middle aged, married man and when he finally gets a response to his standard "hey" message, and then immediately asks her "wanna fuck?", and she says no??? Oh my god that was his first potential crumb of pussy in ages. How do you possibly respond to such a let down? "Stupid fucking cunt, you're ugle af anyway." *Proceeds to close phone and cry in sexual frustration while ha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 08:24 PM
114	The cockacity!!!! Kicked him out of my house. As they say, ain't nobody got time for that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/20 05:17 PM
240	The cockacity!!!! Story time! Asked a bf if he could handle making dinner 3 nights a week on the days I go to the gym (he didn't do anything after work, we had normal M-F 8-4 jobs), he said he has no idea how/what to cook/what groceries we have. I told him that he'd figure it out no problem. He responds: "I'm sorry but I just was never taught how to cook. I don't know how. You probably won't even like what I cook so I don't see the point." When I mentioned that pasta, or a salad, or literally anything that simple…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/20 03:59 PM
31	Why do men even want forever girlfriends? Idk, I don't find any man worth the risk of marrying. Just lucky I don't have to I guess, because I don't want kids (I'm a firm believer a woman should never have a kid out of wedlock, for both her and the kid's financial well-being and protection). Millennials in general, but I find particularly women, aren't finding anyone of quality to spend the rest of their lives with anymore. The amount of LVMs out there is just too damn high.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/20 07:28 PM
79	Enough said The audacity and probably a momma's boy for this poor bitch to raise. Sounds amazing, sign me up. /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/20 06:13 PM
23	sHe CaN cOnTrOl HeR wEiGhT bUt I cAnT cOnTrOl mY hEiGhT They’re so pissed that heavier women have no problem finding quality partners but no woman will entertain their 5’4” ass and there’s nothing they can do to change reality.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/20 10:46 PM
17	Can I get an AMEN ? You want boyfriend privileges? Better lock me down, fast. You want husband privileges? Better get that ring on my finger.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/20 07:23 PM
55	Where's the Lie? Tbh I'm bi too and I've never heard of it before... Hopefully a sis can explain.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/20 06:55 PM
22	The Catch-22 when trying new sexual things with men you’re dating. I see this so often because the only real way men gain validation is through sex. That's it. So when you've done something with another partner and not them they think automatically "I'm not as good as them, she doesn't love me as much as them." It's so FUCKED. I'm into some pretty male-degrading things (with their consent of course) and have done them with a lot of partners. My boyfriend let me indulge myself when I asked but turns out he didn't like it; so I've never asked since. Do I resent h…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/20 04:19 PM
29	Even if he’s rich/famous, you still hold the power to choose a better man Hell yeah sis, I’ve got my OWN damn money. Don’t get taken advantage of, put on an allowance, tricked into being barefoot and pregnant for your entire youth so you go back to work at 40. A man should provide, but you should too! Don’t give a man any leverage over you, he’ll use and abuse it every fucking time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/20 11:08 PM
144	Felt like this belongs here Never fails! I’m 100% pro choice but would never tell a casual partner that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/20 03:00 AM
6	The math just doesn’t add up! Neg you into obsessing over him and eventually crushing on him. Classic Girls just love assholes! /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/20 05:24 PM
5	Your mom? A real man doesn’t need another mommy because he’s a man, not a child. Can we cut it with the “daddy issues” fetish and go back to recognizing the true horror of men’s mommy issues in 2020? Pls	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/19 08:06 PM
5	Getting PMs from male lurkers and incels Lmao screenshot request please! Pretty sure everyone here (women on reddit in general) have gotten these before and know the gist.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/19 02:49 AM
1	Many manosphere men think marriage is a bad deal, so why do they simultaneously shame and mock women who stay single and collect cats? Shouldn’t they be glad there’s one fewer woman on the market looking for marriage? It’s a pretty regular occurrence. Of course, they’re not 8/10s and women men typically seek out, if you want a 8/10+ bimbo then yeah, she’s gonna have a high n-count obviously. That’s the consequence of having certain preferences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/19 11:24 PM
5	Many manosphere men think marriage is a bad deal, so why do they simultaneously shame and mock women who stay single and collect cats? Shouldn’t they be glad there’s one fewer woman on the market looking for marriage? Cause they assume if they had the abundance that most women have, they would've done the same thing (and they're right). They can't imagine an attractive, smart woman being 30 with a 1-2 n count anymore (yet I know loads who are simply single at that point after a failed LTR). They're just projecting their priorities on women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/19 12:23 PM
1	Q4W of PPD: How long would you date a man before requiring marriage? Agree on that. I don't care for marriage since I don't want kids, but I've already told him if I ever want to, we'd have a prenup. Plus I have too little faith in men's faithfulness these days that it seems like I'd be getting married just to make a breakup more complicated later. Why would I make my life harder than needed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/19 08:17 PM
4	Looking for reformed red pillers who can answer questions on what led them to the community and their experiences inside and outside the community I did this, too. Definitely harrowing. Basically lost all my trust in the male gender... eventually had to realize you can't ensure you won't get hurt, just do your best to enjoy the ride. Currently in a healthy and loving LTR but will probably never be able to be 100% vulnerable with a guy ever again.	/r/ExRedPill	19/03/19 03:38 PM
6	Wife opens up relationship to fuck another guy. Wants to close it when it falls apart At least you admit men who play the field in their younger years are likely to cheat in marriage. Most red pill guys like to think they’re holier than thou compared to women. But you’re right, if you’re not both low expectation virgins when you get together you’ll probably be another statistic; such is life.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	11/03/19 03:16 AM
1	Wife opens up relationship to fuck another guy. Wants to close it when it falls apart So what are the stats on boys? A woman doesn’t want to marry a Don Draper serial cheater type either.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	11/03/19 02:53 AM
26	Wife opens up relationship to fuck another guy. Wants to close it when it falls apart That’s ridiculous dude m. There are almost no virgins past 18 in Western countries. And the ones that are, require their male mate to be a virgin too. If it’s that big of a deal to you you’re gonna have to go monk mode.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/03/19 08:36 PM
1	Lament of the CC rider. Marriage used to be a goal with a deadline. No longer the case. There’s not a single reason to get married in the 21st century and the people that pressure others to do it are purely running off Life Script™️.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/03/19 08:26 PM
1	Lament of the CC rider. Also, you should break up with your gf; if you really feel that way. Stringing people along is just as bad. She should have the chance to find someone who wants to share their life with her.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/03/19 07:37 PM
1	Lament of the CC rider. They can, easy peasy.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/03/19 06:53 PM
2	Lament of the CC rider. Better just not to marry ever, as a woman I would never either. There’s just so little trust left in the decentness of other people.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/03/19 06:10 PM
-1	Lament of the CC rider. Early 20s seems extreme, no reason not to have fun. But I agree you don’t just magically go from ONSs to marriage in one relationship.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/03/19 04:25 PM
3	Lament of the CC rider. Women initiate divorce at a rate of 80%, so they fuck around young and the majority also get married... and then when they lose interest they divorce their man and 9 times out 10 they are married again shortly after. Maybe not stable (I don’t think they care if it’s stable) but women can get a man very very easily, and fucking around doesn’t prevent them from marrying.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/03/19 03:44 PM
-5	Lament of the CC rider. No just whine about it I guess; you’re right.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/03/19 03:07 PM
1	What do you have to offer to men who you deem must wait for sex versus men that you jabe sex with right away? Guess I’ll return mail my pussy, thanks mods.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/19 01:56 AM
-9	Lament of the CC rider. How many of you guys are still with the first person you had a LTR with? It could’ve been your fault it failed, too; just like her. This us vs. them mentality doesn’t solve a single thing about the modern dating market because we’re both hypocrites.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/03/19 01:51 AM
-1	Lament of the CC rider. You totally can, everyone in Western countries do this.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	09/03/19 09:31 PM
4	What do you have to offer to men who you deem must wait for sex versus men that you jabe sex with right away? If you go the RP route, your opinion makes sense. But women like sex too much to willingly control their sexual desires in my experience, it's not a manipulation technique it's just attraction. Basically if you're an attractive guy, I'll sleep with you immediately because I'm attracted and turned on and I need sex. If it turns into a relationship, all the better! But if you're not attractive to me, I'll wait to have sex because you don't turn me on (basically a beta bucks situation and future de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/19 05:58 PM
7	What do you have to offer to men who you deem must wait for sex versus men that you jabe sex with right away? Women who make men wait have been conditioned from their young years by society or family to believe one of a few things: Men only want sex, so if you put out on the first date he will leave you 100% of the time. Men view women who have sex on the first date as a slut, so she will no longer appear as "wife material" Sex should be this deeply intimate, purely emotional experience that you should only enjoy with a life partner (i.e. waiting for marriage types.) Modern women are absolving themsel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/19 05:43 PM
-1	Q4W: Why do women have so little empathy for men who don't make the first move? Really sucks, if true. There are maids and nannies on hire but you guys will always have the obligation of approaching and the rejection that follows. (I don't agree you always have to approach btw, women approach more and more in modern times. Replying as if I did agree)	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/19 05:31 PM
4	Post-wall women asking where are all the good men? (x-post from r/The_Wall) Who would get married over 40? I don’t think they want husbands, I think they just want a comfortable non-committal LTR to get regular sex; and I feel like men prefer that too. CC doesn’t exclude them from that option.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	08/03/19 02:47 AM
1	How do relationships even work Well he's shorter than me, a bit of a beer belly, going grey, etc but I find him more and more attractive the longer we stay together. Certainly not an 8/10 but I don't love people for looks so who cares.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/19 06:21 PM
1	How do relationships even work Yeah I worded that sentence weird I guess. No he's gotten a bit a beer gut over time. He's self conscious about it but I find it endearing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/19 06:18 PM
10	How do relationships even work I think the most sturdy and long lasting relationships are the ones where both people feel like they lucked out, they both think they got "the catch." My boyfriend and I are both pretty average looking although conventionally attractive, maybe 6/10s. And yet he's the only guy I see, you stop isolating little faults at some point and just see an incredibly handsome face. I find his dad bod stunning, and his little belly he's getting beautiful. I'm also not that fantastic looking, yet his eyes jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/19 07:52 PM
10	How to show more affection to a girl your with? I guess it depends on who the girl is. Did you just approach her at a bar? Have you been on a couple dates? Is she your LTR girlfriend? "Nice Guys" are guys who come off way too strong and overtly sexual, to a girl they either hardly know or who they've been friends with but are obviously trying to transition to a more romantic role. You don't have to be that guy. A girl you cold approached? Something casual, but that shows you're interested. "You have a really great smile." "I dig your sense of…	/r/ExRedPill	06/03/19 04:43 PM
2	#loveSTAYS, too bad it didn’t stay for her. Looking for the heart of a lion AKA brave, protective, sexy alpha male Who's not afraid of a little work But you've got to fill those handy beta roles too, waiting on me (and the KIDS of course) and providing the resources. I want (feel entitled) to both. And no doubt she's got a handful of matches to choose from...	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/02/19 09:22 PM
1	Females in this subreddit? As long as he does the same, hell yeah.	/r/MGTOW2	20/02/19 04:22 AM
2	Females in this subreddit? I’m sorry you were taken advantage of; it happens often unfortunately. The best rule is to never get married in the first place.	/r/MGTOW2	18/02/19 01:55 AM
2	Females in this subreddit? Thankfully I have that from him, and am that for him. Hopefully it’s not as rare as you think it is. Thank you for your comment BumKnickle.	/r/MGTOW2	18/02/19 01:35 AM
2	Females in this subreddit? That’s why marriage isn’t the answer. I’m a woman, and also would never get married - what’s the benefit? Laws are in the way, there are almost no perks and far too much to lose.	/r/MGTOW2	16/02/19 05:52 AM
7	Females in this subreddit? Definitely both partners should subscribe to this! A solid foundation for life together.	/r/MGTOW2	15/02/19 06:57 PM
2	Females in this subreddit? I don't enjoy that one, they're usually too tradcon for me. I don't subscribe to RPT and neither does my boyfriend. But thank you for replying.	/r/MGTOW2	15/02/19 06:52 PM
17	Females in this subreddit? I'm a woman. I subbed to this and the OG MGTOW subs to get an unfiltered male perspective on romance and life. It's been super helpful to me so far. I want to know how to treat my partner like a king, show him that he's the prize, basically do everything for him that men do for women that we don't acknowledge or appreciate. What do you guys want out a romantic partnership? How can I make that happen? From what my partner's told me all of his exes have been total psychos and yet he still wants to…	/r/MGTOW2	15/02/19 06:38 PM
1	CMV: Women don't experience attraction the same way men experience attraction I’m saying they’re attracted before they have sex; obviously, otherwise why have sex? Are you being deliberately obtuse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/19 05:27 AM
1	CMV: Women don't experience attraction the same way men experience attraction Well to be frank as soon as I see LOL I know you’re done with rational debate. I don’t know how to explain sexual attraction/arousal to a woman who apparently has never felt it, I tried above but apparently failed. You’re stuck on your opinion and that’s ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/19 02:26 AM
2	CMV: Women don't experience attraction the same way men experience attraction I wasn't lying, there's no reason to. But now you also just sound like a LARPer. If I was an older woman getting that much action I certainly wouldn't be wasting so much time on Reddit, much less in these trollfarm sexual theory subs. It must be a hobby, so enjoy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/19 09:33 PM
1	CMV: Women don't experience attraction the same way men experience attraction Oh, my bad I just assumed since Reddit is something like 60% male. Well maybe you just have a low libido? That doesn't sound normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/19 09:21 PM
1	CMV: Women don't experience attraction the same way men experience attraction Ok, we've devolved. (And yes they definitely do. We also have wet dreams, too; shocking, I know!)	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/19 09:15 PM
2	CMV: Women don't experience attraction the same way men experience attraction That's an opinion not based in fact. What's the difference between a man seeing a woman and being sexually attracted to her physically (not acting on it) and a woman seeing a man and being sexually attracted to him physically (not acting on it)? No sex happened but both felt sexual attraction. If you want to get nitty gritty, a man popping a boner is the equivalent to a woman getting wet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/19 09:11 PM
1	CMV: Women don't experience attraction the same way men experience attraction Physical sexual arousal, attraction to the male form, the anticipation of pleasure.. that seems like sexual attraction to me. It's what happens before sex. I would call those symptoms sexual attraction. Do they really differ so much from male sexual attraction?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/19 09:02 PM
1	CMV: Women don't experience attraction the same way men experience attraction It seems impossible to initiate and have sex without some level of sexual attraction. Can men do that? I don't know any woman who can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/19 08:26 PM
-1	Why has my ltr (2 yrs) been being so weird about anal and even normal sex recently? Butt stuff should also feel good for her. I don't like assuming, but if she feels she's not benefiting you're either rushing anal or not good at it.	/r/askTRP	12/02/19 05:35 PM
1	If a man wants a lot of sex, he should love carousel riders. What would the scenario be if the girl is the buyer and the guy is the salesperson and his life and body are the car? Do girls just joyride? I'm sure this happens, but I can't imagine a scenario where a woman analyzes the responsibilities and expenses of marriage before doing it and deciding it's a bad deal. Why do men have this "why buy the cow when I can get the milk for free" but women don't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/19 03:51 PM
1	For all the women who say men are insecure about their wife's sexual past, how would you react to the following scenario Of course you are... when you’re RP’ed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/19 01:27 AM
9	For all the women who say men are insecure about their wife's sexual past, how would you react to the following scenario We're both human and people change. That's why dating exists, so you find the right one (can't say I believe in the "right one" though). And she didn't end it, he did. Certain things changed that made them incompatible. So life goes, dude. You're projecting your insecurities quite strongly. This is why it's so important to constantly be working on self-improvement. No one should ever have to settle, man or woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 07:44 PM
8	For all the women who say men are insecure about their wife's sexual past, how would you react to the following scenario No, I can honestly say I don't get the jealousy and insecurity you display in this situation. Maybe men are more insecure about being "settled on." This thought wouldn't even come to mind if I was being treated well and felt loved. My partner is good friends with two past sex partners (hook ups, not exclusive/LTRs) that frequent our bar. One is on our trivia team with us, another we see at happy hour occasionally. Both are nice women and I enjoy their company. My partner is with me now, why do I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 07:03 PM
3	Why do guys get into relationships with women who spent their youth fucking around? Never marry a virgin woman, she can never become the sex kitten you want. That's how men who have little experience with women end up in dead bedrooms after marriage. You can have standards concerning her sex life (we all know she will), but trust me, unless you get married between 18-20 your virgin wife is probably always going to be virginal in bed... when she lets you touch her, that is.	/r/askTRP	06/02/19 03:13 PM
2	Why is hypergamy bad? My gf can't fathom why I look at other girls and actually have thoughts of having sex with them. It's basically mind of every man on Earth. She says, that she thinks only of me, obviously she notices attractive men, but sex is "only for me". Yeah, no. She's also looking at other men and thinking of having sex with them. We have no control over finding other people attractive. Humans are polygamous by nature; monogamy is just a necessity for civilization to thrive. That was a shit test, my friend…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 02:42 PM
1	People commonly say that women mature faster than men, false women's path to maturity is smaller or nonexistent. They came to my high school, they were only 10mi away. Best employers I ever had. Got my internship from my college’s job fair. Internship became a job.. as it goes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 02:03 AM
1	People commonly say that women mature faster than men, false women's path to maturity is smaller or nonexistent. Job fairs	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 01:09 AM
1	People commonly say that women mature faster than men, false women's path to maturity is smaller or nonexistent. You can look further down the thread and I explain. I didn’t say it was easy, but definitely doable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 01:08 AM
1	People commonly say that women mature faster than men, false women's path to maturity is smaller or nonexistent. We’re not discussing who’s more mature at X age, but who mentally matures at a faster rate. I don’t think men really “settle down” and mentally mature until they either have children, because they have to, or until they’re near 30ish. For women, it’s similar but a little earlier, maybe 25.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 12:43 AM
1	People commonly say that women mature faster than men, false women's path to maturity is smaller or nonexistent. Right outside D.C. I’ve been busting my ass since I was 15, started at a family farm and then went on to a gov’t internship when I was 18; I had the 20% down saved by 21. Did my bachelors in 3yrs instead of 4 and applied for every scholarship. It was hard, but doable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/19 10:34 PM
1	People commonly say that women mature faster than men, false women's path to maturity is smaller or nonexistent. Rookie numbers I guess compared to this crowd, huh? For the D.C. suburbs it's definitely not a big income.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/19 08:21 PM
1	People commonly say that women mature faster than men, false women's path to maturity is smaller or nonexistent. MD represent!! I live in MoCo, it's still pretty pricey but definitely not as outrageous as inside the District (not counting Potomac...).	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/19 07:11 PM
3	People commonly say that women mature faster than men, false women's path to maturity is smaller or nonexistent. Agreed, except for the marriage bit. Not doing that or children, probably partly thanks to this sub. Most guys my age are not yet career orientated or financially stable, they're still mostly into video game-filled weekends and clubbing. That's cool and they should enjoy it, but I need someone who has it a little more together than that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/19 07:04 PM
2	People commonly say that women mature faster than men, false women's path to maturity is smaller or nonexistent. I make about 70k in Maryland, US; promotion coming in July. My partner makes about as much, slightly less; lives in same city.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/19 07:00 PM
8	People commonly say that women mature faster than men, false women's path to maturity is smaller or nonexistent. It's less about what they're into and more about indicators of maturity. Financial independence/literacy, emotional intelligence, ambition and grit. I'm ahead of the curve I guess; I have a high paying job and bought my home last year at 22 after graduating - I didn't happen to find boys my age who could match me here. Many of my guy friends from high school or college are either still working on their bachelors going on 5+ years or are back living at home with mom and haven't established a prof…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/19 06:27 PM
5	People commonly say that women mature faster than men, false women's path to maturity is smaller or nonexistent. Being a 23 year old girl who finds it extremely difficult to find common ground with 23 year old boys, I'd agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/19 06:00 PM
2	Family Breakdown in America. What is the solution? No thanks, you can't negotiate desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/19 08:21 PM
0	Mic Drop Never experienced it myself, and it wouldn’t happen ever if guys weren’t total simps towards woman and had higher standards for themselves. People take what you give them.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/02/19 01:06 AM
-9	Mic Drop NPC response; could’ve called it.	/r/PussyPassDenied	02/02/19 12:42 AM
-5	Mic Drop Super sad dude, really?	/r/PussyPassDenied	02/02/19 12:37 AM
4	another divorce Q for men Well, assumptions are pretty much the name of the game in this sub... Never mind there are plenty of women who make more than their male partner and actually pay more than 50% of the mortgage/bills (myself included).	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/19 08:59 PM
-2	Mic Drop ....Because this didn't actually happen. This is the saddest hyperbolic storytelling I've seen in awhile. r/thatHappened	/r/PussyPassDenied	01/02/19 07:33 PM
1	Enjoy being alone and lonely ladies, you've earned it. There are plenty of childfree women who don't want marriage; for them, and their male counterparts, there's certainly no rush.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	01/02/19 06:35 PM
1	Doesn't hypergamy work both ways? I’m just saying I can flip your double standards bro. You said men don’t cheat because they don’t respect their wives; that’s bullshit. They definitely don’t respect their wives or they’d be chaste and loyal. Evolutionary biology only goes so far, we are a high-intelligence species and should act like it. Guess what, women are just as polygamous as men and will lust after beautiful creatures without leaving their partner or being unfaithful. Hypergamy only works because there are so many thirsty…	/r/askTRP	30/01/19 10:56 PM
1	Doesn't hypergamy work both ways? No, I think the RP “frame” is faked confidence. You guys seem to try so hard and constantly question yourselves on moves to make with women. So yes, you guys fake it to make it; maybe that’s not wrong, but to me it seems miserable.	/r/askTRP	30/01/19 12:46 AM
2	Doesn't hypergamy work both ways? That’s a cop out, you have the wherewithall (or should) to control your impulsive urges just as a woman can. It’s not feminine OR masculine to be monogamous, both genders want variety and can expect to have it within boundaries (polyamory, if that’s your thing). Men cheat because they don’t respect their woman. You guys wonder why a chaste woman won’t settle down with you, well this guy’s comment is it.	/r/askTRP	30/01/19 12:41 AM
2	Doesn't hypergamy work both ways? I don’t know, the whole frame thing and pseudo confidence is an instant turn-off to any woman I know. We all want what we can’t have, finding a person who can provide the big three (loyalty, friendship, sex) will almost always keep both sexes in a relationship despite hotter/better people around them.	/r/askTRP	29/01/19 09:48 PM
2	Doesn't hypergamy work both ways? Everyone is polygamous and monogamy isn't natural. Women and men can love their partners and yet still lust after/want variety in their intimacy. It's whether you act on this urge where people differ.	/r/askTRP	29/01/19 05:15 PM
3	CMV: A "Career Woman" would be one of the worst type of people to date. It's a different feeling? I take that as you've been in sole-provider role before? Why would someone ever take care of another adult (not counting for SAHM/SAHD) that has the means to bring home their 50%? Blows my mind, the things I read on here sometimes. Regardless of gender I'm sure I would feel taken advantage of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/19 03:39 PM
5	CMV: A "Career Woman" would be one of the worst type of people to date. Why even just go Dutch? I make a little more money than my partner so I quite often buy the whole meal (rest of the time we split, yes), buy nice gifts, take him away for the weekend. It's always expected for men to provide for the woman but I want to contribute my share, too; thankfully he lets me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/19 01:30 PM
2	“Just because we smile at you doesn’t mean we’re into you, we smile at men all the time just to be polite” No, it's likely an IOI less than a quarter of the time (even that seems super generous). Women are social creatures, we smile at everyone. In my opinion, you never know when you're about to meet a new friend and smiling immediately projects confidence and shows I'm approachable.	/r/askTRP	20/12/18 04:05 PM
1	Q4ALL: why do men marry the woman who is boring in bed and then get surprised when they land in a deadbedroom a few years later? To some, they may find it difficult. Many devout religious folks wait until marriage to have sex and find that they are sexually incompatible and, unfortunately, quite awful at it and don’t know how to please a partner in bed. You could figure it out together but many of those folks wind up over in r/DeadBedrooms. Sex doesn’t always just happen naturally, varied experiences and learning from others can benefit you greatly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 10:41 PM
1	Q4ALL: why do men marry the woman who is boring in bed and then get surprised when they land in a deadbedroom a few years later? Effort and enthusiasm are easy, I wouldn’t know how to have sex without them. Doesn’t mean it’s a fantastic lay, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 10:38 PM
1	Q4ALL: why do men marry the woman who is boring in bed and then get surprised when they land in a deadbedroom a few years later? I could counter that marriages are fake, at least in the “fairy tale” aspect. Doesn’t stop them from trying to attain it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 04:21 AM
0	Q4ALL: why do men marry the woman who is boring in bed and then get surprised when they land in a deadbedroom a few years later? People get better at sex the more they have sex, and the more partners they have means they can have better sex with different types of people. It’s simple. Not to say two virgins couldn’t have good sex together, but that’s all they know, each other. It doesn’t mean either knows how to have mind blowing sex, just relative good sex with each other (the mind doesn’t miss what it’s never had).	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 04:16 AM
10	Am in a LTR, but recently met somebody else.... Hooking up with strange will cost you your LTR, choose wisely friend.	/r/askTRP	13/12/18 01:53 AM
3	Q4ALL: why do men marry the woman who is boring in bed and then get surprised when they land in a deadbedroom a few years later? Ok. And I covered that, by saying they're rare. You're probably not be as amazing as you think; illusory superiority and confirmation bias are two super common cognitive biases. One partner might find you amazing and another might think you're unoriginal and lazy. It's all subjective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/18 01:47 PM
0	What are your dating preferences, and where do they come from? Gay macho men, and then lesbian porn of course. Never been a fan of hetero porn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/18 03:19 AM
19	Q4ALL: why do men marry the woman who is boring in bed and then get surprised when they land in a deadbedroom a few years later? I equate it to porn stars. Most men take advantage of the service, but they don't really respect the job instelf or performers. I don't know that a virgin, or very low n-count (read: wifey material), would make a very good sex kitten. I'm sure they're out there, but they're rare. The hot sex fiends they dated when they were younger probably don't seem high enough value to marry. They later found the respectable, "she'd be a great mom" woman and decided to trade that for a rockin' sex life, not r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/18 08:53 PM
5	What are your dating preferences, and where do they come from? The macho man thing is kind of overdone, in my opinion. Maybe one of my porn preferences, but definitely not my dating preferences. All I need is a guy with as morbid of a sense of humor as I have and wants to fuck all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/18 08:36 PM
1	Women want men as much as men want women... just not for the same reasons Have you ever actually you know picked out another person that you found attractive, made an approach with this person and initiated the entire relationship from meeting to fucking on your own? I did exactly this with my partner. Can confirm it was a little more of a challenge than my previous SMP experiences and helped me empathize more with the male dating experience. But well worth it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/18 08:13 PM
1	What would happen if men acted collectively? Is that really dishing though? Just encouraging them to do what they are already aiming to do themselves? Their sub does not seem happy from hat I've seen, they are so preoccupied with women it's like 90% of the top posts. Anyway, it's no water off my back; have a good one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 08:22 PM
8	Q4W: Why Do Women Keep Denying Their Own Hypergamy? Because menz are above wanting nice things. Moral angels really. This is it. They'll say or show you anything to try to prove this. I don't even know what hypergamy is anymore because they'll use any scenario and somehow force it into that box. I think men are pissed off in general, they are programmed to have sex often and with as many people as possible - sow their oats, if you will - but women are getting increasingly choosey. My hypothesis is they are so upset about this that they are trying…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 08:12 PM
5	What would happen if men acted collectively? Good, I like this more cooperative tone -- it becomes you. That was condescending and not acceptable. I didn't personally insult you so why did you go there? Don't dish if you can't take, sorry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 08:03 PM
2	What would happen if men acted collectively? It has not been mine or any other woman I know's experience that work, homemaking, and childcare are all split 50/50 between both partners. Either one person does the first, while the other does the latter two, or both work and one still does more than half of the chores involved in the latter two. I love my man more than anything and he moves heaven and earth for me because he knows it, that's why I'm content to feed a little extra into the relationship. Nothing really old fashioned about us in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 08:00 PM
2	What would happen if men acted collectively? Of course women still do this. My partner and I both work (I even make slightly more than him), but I cook the meals, pay the bills, do the shopping, organize social events, etc. I refuse to be a mother because all it'll do is double my current workload while my partner gets the benefits without the drawbacks. I think more women are realizing this and opting out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 05:25 PM
5	What would happen if men acted collectively? You can be alone and not be lonely. I think you'd find there's quite a large population of women over 50 who are single and enjoying life. For women who have their own homes and careers and can get sex whenever they want it, what's the benefit of them getting married? Marriage for women means another person to cook for, clean up after, share your income with; and god forbid he wants you to have his children which means you get to deal with painful pregnancy and labor just to become a full-time n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 03:42 PM
2	What would happen if men acted collectively? bitter_samsara Yikes, username checks out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 02:47 PM
8	What would happen if men acted collectively? Something like25% of (mostly Western, I'm sure) millennials are opting out of childbearing and marriage altogether, not just delaying it. With a growing Childfree movement, it doesn't make much sense to marry - even to women. Since women can get free casual sex through apps now, don't want to have children, and are more likely to support themselves, I predict women declining marriage more in the future, not men. I'm a 23 yo F, don't want children, make a great living and own my own home. I have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 02:44 PM
1	What would happen if men acted collectively? LOL! Willful "monk mode" or voluntary celibacy is where they are by their own authority. They enjoy that lifestyle so good for them. But I think the Braincel/incel kids are starting to feel threatened by their presence since the former are dying for a lay and the latter have sworn off. I appreciate their presence on reddit though, I'm glad they stick around. Some of the memes are actually gold and I enjoy their travel photos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 02:27 PM
7	What would happen if men acted collectively? Loses their shit about them? If anything, some are mildly annoyed that folks supposedly trying to better themselves and distance themselves from women seem totally stuck on making trolling memes, get this, about women. Hey MGTOW, how about y'all actually GYOW please?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 02:12 PM
1	LTR keeps bringing up other guys hitting on her Abuse? That’s just an example of when I’ve needed to tell my partner of another person’s advances in a way that’s not meant to evoke jealousy. It’s not always a shit test.	/r/askTRP	05/12/18 04:08 AM
5	World’s first sex robot for women launched complete with customisable penis, fake stubble and Brad Pitt’s chiselled torso Why buy the whole body when all you need is a dildo?	/r/MGTOW	05/12/18 12:44 AM
-1	LTR keeps bringing up other guys hitting on her I've resorted to this because there's this one guy at the local watering hole my SO and I frequent who will just not leave me alone. I've spoken with him multiple times, I've ignored him, I've asked the bartender to speak with him... to no avail. He's from a very conservative culture and treats his wife poorly by flirting and touching other women romantically in public; but he does respect other men I guess. I don't do it to make SO jealous, but it's gotten to the point where I have to say "babe…	/r/askTRP	04/12/18 05:19 PM
2	Do women ever really love men? Supply and demand, I suppose? Men are very easy with higher sex drives so women have the privilege to be choosy. But I think we're finding a vast increase in Childfree women in the West, and also spinsters. A woman will monkey-branch if she wants children (1 income doesn't really cut it for supporting children anymore), but if she doesn't (such as myself) I think there are too many downsides to extensive coupling or marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/18 04:19 PM
1	NAWALT? Umm... yes they are. The fact that you don't know what attracts or makes a good woman indicates you've never experienced it, so I know that at least.	/r/MGTOW	30/11/18 02:09 PM
4	Do women ever really love men? Women have the ability (not saying they all follow through, obviously) to fully care for themselves in the modern west. We also tend to have lower sex drives than men and tend to prefer masturbation (orgasm success is higher for women than with partnered sex). So then, other than wanting a second income or father for kids, there's no reason not to be a spinster nowadays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/18 01:46 PM
11	Do women ever really love men? This is the best answer on this thread. OP mistakes familial/blood bonding for romantic bonding. I unconditionally love all my blood relatives, I understand there's a biological imperative to protect your genetic line, but a romantic partner is not part of your genetic line, and sans children from the relationship, there's nothing to evoke that imperative to love and protect your genetics at all costs. I would no sooner leave my grandparents, parents, or siblings based on provisions, love, or be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/18 01:41 PM
11	Do women ever really love men? Sex can mean many things depending on person, context, etc. Both men and women can use sex to either express love or to experience that physical release, as you put it, with no emotions attached. Women can just as easily follow the line of action you put forth in your last sentence, satisfy that physical urge and go home to a loved husband and a cheating man would his wife. How do you suppose polyamory works where a hetero couple both have additional partners? All humans have the ability to sepa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/18 01:27 PM
2	NAWALT? Umm... yes they are. Im sorry that you’ve never had a romantic relationship with a wholesome, loving human being.	/r/MGTOW	30/11/18 01:13 AM
1	NAWALT? Umm... yes they are. This is reddit, after all. The "normies"/"NPCs" are out in the real world having successful relationships. You've got to remember that most subs are just echochambers and circlejerks. The vast majority of the population have no reason to seek out r/MGTOW and you're getting a biased, minority opinion on a specific subject. The memes are hilarious though.	/r/MGTOW	29/11/18 07:06 PM
1	XPost 2X Chromosomes - Translation:??? Hopefully that guy hasn’t been around the both of them since.	/r/MGTOW	25/11/18 08:27 PM
1	CMV: Sexually, women don't care about a man's career or wealth Maybe in more traditional societies. I pay more of our expenses than my partner does because financially that makes the most sense, as I make more money than him and have more assets. To me, it'd be a huge turn off to be a "kept woman" such as a SAHM or lower-earner. I think I would feel like I had to grossly compensate in other areas of our relationship to achieve equal partner status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/18 06:25 PM
1	Serious Request for a Feminist to Answer this Question Men generalize women and women generalize men. The human brain utilizes generalizations as a cognitive function that can help or harm judgement and decision making, depending on the situation and how homogeneous the subject/topic is. It's natural but a bias we need to be conscious of. You could argue that you generalized, yourself. "Feminists... when speaking about men, always, always, always speak..." You did not say "some" or "most" as you suggest others should do, therefore implying "all." So…	/r/MGTOW	19/11/18 05:32 PM
1	Revelations concerning sexual history are a major turnoff You're running game just as much as she is but somehow find it unacceptable for her, but not you? Don't be jealous of what's already happened, there's nothing you can do about it. Also as you'll see, women already hold the keys in this society and she can open/access almost any lock (dick) she wants. That analogy doesn't hold water anymore when 80% of women are only going after the top 20% of men.	/r/MGTOW	16/11/18 08:01 PM
1	I had a really good laugh. I cannot post it on facebook because it counts as hate speech nowadays :\ Apparently it's Native American.	/r/MGTOW	08/11/18 07:05 PM
3	Rules regarding sleeping around in a relationship That’s the “exclusivity talk.” And as far as it goes, best practice is to either both be exclusive to each other or to agree that neither will be exclusive. Super straightforward and keeps communication open.	/r/askTRP	08/11/18 01:44 PM
1	Kids are overrated I would've put the obligatory "/s." No, I'm 100% serious. More time, more money, less obligations.	/r/MGTOW	07/11/18 09:05 PM
1	Kids are overrated Welcome to r/childfree. It is an awesome way to live.	/r/MGTOW	07/11/18 08:37 PM
4	What are some of PPD's most striking failures to see nuance? The wall thing always seemed silly to me, because with high divorce rates we're seeing more women aged 30-45 (many with children) emerging from divorces and having a much more successful time dating then their ex-husbands. Also, women are aging a lot more gracefully now that they are more educated, put off kids for longer, and have less kids in general (multiple childbirths and child-rearing in general are probably the biggest causes of stress that age women prematurely). And in that vein, I fee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/18 01:30 PM
3	friendzone at uni If she “friend zoned” you, she’s not sexually attracted to you. It’s a dead end, move on to another girl.	/r/askTRP	26/10/18 09:52 PM
-1	Women don't have any real troubles in life Wrong sub, friend. There's a lot of generalizing that goes on here, just like any other ideology-based sub. You've got r/TwoXChromosomes on one side and on the other side you've got r/MGTOW. Both are just echo-chambers.	/r/MGTOW	23/10/18 06:35 PM
-1	My friend sent me these screenshots she got from a random number. Oh I thought this was MGTOW, not Braincels. Honestly, you just sound bitter, not independent and self-assured like I assumed this sub was about.	/r/MGTOW	22/10/18 10:04 PM
1	My friend sent me these screenshots she got from a random number. There must be thousands (100,000s?) of more incels on this planet than previously recognized.	/r/MGTOW	22/10/18 08:57 PM
11	My friend sent me these screenshots she got from a random number. Happens all the time.	/r/MGTOW	22/10/18 07:25 PM
19	My friend sent me these screenshots she got from a random number. r/niceguys	/r/MGTOW	22/10/18 07:24 PM
1	Ladies? Is this true As a woman all I need are the first 3 things on the men's list and I count myself the luckiest girl on the planet. You can keep that 12" dick, too; my cervix doesn't appreciate being slapped like my ass does.	/r/MGTOW	19/10/18 04:06 PM
1	Stolen from a dif sub but this is mgtow related - guy is getting 22 years for something woman get praised for. He chose to have sex and accept the consequences, that was his 50% say/agreement. If men could gestate a fetus, you could do whatever you want with your body including abortion. But you can't so either live with that or be abstinent.	/r/MGTOW	17/10/18 03:58 PM
1	Stolen from a dif sub but this is mgtow related - guy is getting 22 years for something woman get praised for. It's literally all about consent. Sorry men can't get pregnant, that sucks (not really, I'd consider it lucky), but body autonomy is still a thing. Wrap it EVERY time, or monk mode. Once she's pregnant she has 100% control over what happens.	/r/MGTOW	17/10/18 03:55 PM
1	idiot question : WGTOW ? WGTOW are a thing, they probably just aren't as vocal. I date rarely (in a very happy semi-LTR relationship right now), but when I'm single I just enjoy life as a very go-with-the-flow, adventurous person. I'm 23, own my own home (bought when single), have a very successful career, childfree mindset, anti-marriage. The man I'm with makes me feel like the luckiest person in the world, but because of the non-quantifiable qualities he brings to the table (i.e. intimacy, companionship, etc). We spli…	/r/MGTOW	16/10/18 04:51 PM