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#JustLVMThingsWkndwhorechata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:24 PM
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LEVEL UPWkndwhorechata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:06 PM
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Wkndwhorechata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:23 AM
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FDS HUMORWkndwhorechata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:50 PM
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PICKME CULTUREWkndwhorechata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:17 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTWkndwhorechata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:31 AM
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#JustLVMThingsWkndwhorechata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 03:58 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKWkndwhorechata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:59 PM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶Wkndwhorechata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:18 PM
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STAY WOKEWkndwhorechata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:17 PM
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FDS MOVIES & TVWkndwhorechata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:25 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEWkndwhorechata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:24 AM
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Just want to add! I appreciate that your husband is speaking freely about feeling emasculated because it’s real and better than pushing those feelings down and/or pretending to be woke. Sounds like you got a real one sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:36 PM
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Barbara Corcoran admitted that when she started to really make money she tried to play it off as an error to her husband when they were doing taxes. After a few years she couldn’t pretend any longer because the number was getting ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:35 PM
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Thank you for bringing this up because I didn’t want to contest it, but real talk: he can be high value and be emasculated because of our society. I think we would have more HVM if we socialized less 🥴 just a weird theory I have that if we had to live alone and self-sufficiently on a private island (a postal worker to delivery the groceries) we wouldn’t run into issues about who washes the dishes as much lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:30 PM
16

Lord, thank you for keeping me single… until there is a ready and willing (willing-to-work-on-things) high value man 😐🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:24 PM
8

What? I’ve just learned to cry myself to sleep at an earlier time??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:43 PM
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Honestly, it's just a mindset shift. Like, there IS hope out there. Like, hopefully next time you'll find a guy who's margin of error is only $5K of the salary he's lied to you about. -______- Laughing about it helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 03:17 AM
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Adding that I knew someone for 6 years (and he was in a group of friends of mine) and we lasted 3-4?? months of dating and he treated me the worst of anyone I've dated - gaslighting, emotionally beating me down, etc. Honestly, sometimes the "friends" you have around you are no better than coworkers who are just networking and putting on airs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 03:15 AM
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He’s right. One in a trillion…. Yeah that’s a fun way to say nobody lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:01 PM
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:( And now I have to go through life thinking about tear ducts being called eye holes. *face palm* His brain is not whole...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:15 PM
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I cannot with picky eaters, but you know what’s worse for me… people who throw away their left over food. One is quirky (and draining) and the other is wasteful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:08 AM
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I called it out because I’ve been on the receiving end of this too! It’s like LVM always have to win in ANY way. Any tiny way. Honestly, if that ex really cared about me, cared for me, and wasn’t insidious… he would have just been like, oh, we should sign you up for a new credit card so you can start accumulating points (here’s my referral link 🤣😅) dinner’s on me. … this is what dreams look like when you’re grown 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:29 PM
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I was wondering if there was a third date because she says he "outsmarted" her - which is an interesting way of describing his insidiousness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 08:00 PM
67

So he also accumulated credit card points. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:58 PM
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Intelligence is a double edged sword. And it sounds like you have the ability to see things clearly, and analyze them for what they are. And your friends try to change the narrative to what they would like to see, not what actually is. Your friend's reaction shouldn't have been "Holy shit" it should have been noting how right you were and how wrong she was analyzing that simple non-gesture a man made. You noted it, you wrote about it, I wonder if it's crossed her mind at all and if she's explori…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 04:12 PM
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This was online? Phishing* 🤪😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 12:01 AM
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>Made me realized how truly shallow people are. I could never trust that they wouldn't leave me the minute I gained weight, cut my hair short or anything else that might happen to my body that made it "less attractive". This was my exact same thought and sad realization when I lost 80lbs at 20 years old and turned into a thin, extremely attractive woman - I hated it.All of a sudden my jokes were funnier, my company was delightful, everything I did or didn't do was right. Edit: My personality has…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:32 PM
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Side note: Why is LinkedIn like *this*?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:24 PM
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SOOKIE WAS THE REAL MVP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 07:21 AM
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But her mom was a pickle too Let’s make this a thing. 🥒🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 07:21 AM
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I didn’t know this was a thing, but for a good amount of years I’ve met men who I’ve sworn up and down that they just want to be their girlfriends. Nice to know I was picking up that energy correctly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:21 AM
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👆💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:07 AM
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Find me a man who masturbates to FDS. 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:46 AM
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Nah, it'll go limp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:44 AM
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That's funny. Pretty sure that's exactly what does it for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:43 AM
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If roles were reversed... she'd be dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:36 AM
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Look at us Fem Dominants. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:14 PM
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Just look at it as a spectrum. You’re both!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:14 PM
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BAHAH well said! Also an INTP and an Aries with Cancer rising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:12 PM
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So your family pay only the men for their work and not the women. Someone find me a fainting couch - I can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:26 AM
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She’s afraid of being alone and isn’t being totally vulnerable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:13 AM
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My jaw dropped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:28 AM
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Strike through "AUDACITY". It-s the TRANSPARENCY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:22 PM
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That’s my biological dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:17 PM
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Um, * gulp * “if he wanted to, he would”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:09 AM
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Oh geeze. I need to stop saying ‘I thrive in chaos’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:02 AM
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I blame a lot of it on that sweet, sweet hormonal change when you're just a teen. Man, those emotions are so intense and feel so valid. But then you have to rationalize and realize it's human chemicals and your mind that are playing tricks on you... and that you don't actually know this person. 🥴 Bless Genny is somehow they ever happen to go out together because he will sorely be let down by her (as a person not a fantasy).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:53 PM
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This shit is one of the few things that terrify me. Why I can't allow myself to go on YouTube (wanted to start a channel over 10 years ago), but then scrotes found out what city I lived and became obsessed. I can't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:48 PM
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They're not even friends. It's some girl he was in the same class with. He's in love with the idea... of this 16 year old girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:45 PM
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Not me twirling my pubic hair 🤭👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:30 PM
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👏👏👏 Great energy. ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:55 PM
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Ugh, so so so true. Ugh. I can only unlearn so much. 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:47 PM
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If this is an awareness campaign for 3D porn 👏👏👏 Because I had no idea it was a thing. Here I was thinking this kid was 3D printing dildos or sculptures of people having sex. Speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:52 AM
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hapPENIS*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:48 AM
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Just because I make more doesn’t mean I have to pay more Have you met Mr. Tax Man? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:32 AM
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One of the worst kind of men. The weird mixture of a crybaby and needing to be a macho big spender. 🤢 Spends money on electronics on himself, his mama, and his family, but WEIIIiiiRrrDdddD that he’s not spending money on his wife. This is probably where I’m going to lose upvotes, but it’s okay. I just want to say that if I HAD to pick between the one of the lesser evils of men - I would be choosing the man who cheats (the guy who still provides, and buys guilt gifts, and drives the kids to schoo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:26 AM
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There are going to be people in your life who are also going to make bad emotional investments and financial investments. She's hiring two birds with one stone. Here's the thing. You never know if this is the road she needs to take. This could be a valuable learning experience. You don't know where her end goal is, what her trajectory is. Que sera sera.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:41 AM
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That was my first thought. She's only now about to start OF? Did she only recently hear about Bitcoin mining as well? I think focusing on the fact that this isn't actually going to be profitable should be enough. OF is going downhill and there isn't new money to be made. If anything try to sign up to the next potential big money maker. Also, what does success mean to her. Sis needs to start a vision board lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:38 AM
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Imagine if she invested in anything else other than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:09 PM
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It's the *fucking leave me alone* for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:55 PM
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his brother came over and made a comment Oh, so it's a family trait. Get outta there. Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:19 AM
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I'm pretty sure it's the incels who are like the Taliban (if we're going to be comparing a group to them)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:05 AM
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You're being generous. I was thinking it looks like a man enjoying a day out with his granddaughter and great grandson. 🤭😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 02:29 PM
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To save money on take out too, let's just cook at home. I have a great idea: I'll get naked, and you put some raw meat on my body so it can cook because MY BLOOD IS BOILING!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 02:22 PM
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100%. She's definitely trying to control the narrative: there's peace in controlled chaos. But damn, she's back not being in control of the chaos. She just needs to leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:24 PM
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Because she's not going to be invited the second, third, and umpteenth times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:17 PM
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The benefit of the doubt only has downsides. It will ruin you and your credibility lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:15 PM
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🦋🦋🦋 Is this me controlling and successfully manipulating him into submission? No, it's not. Don't worry. 🤭 THAT'S NOT what's going on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:42 AM
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That's what stood out to me. ✨flashbacks✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:14 PM
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She was born in 1775 and saw how the world worked, and had been working. She dissected men and here we are 200+ years later, many of us not actually needing men to better our lives though some of us still being pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:25 AM
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What is going onnnnnnn these days!?! This is insane. He’s telling her to be self-sacrificing when she doesn’t need to be. Thankfully, it sounds like she grew up well off and so she knows that she (and her future family) can have it all. She has just been allowed to watch after his kid for the day. Babysit. A job high schoolers do. And now he’s reprimanding her and causing needless drama for choosing the wrong car for her life or for his life. Because all I hear is that it’s his kid. He could dum…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 04:50 AM
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I, too, have been objectified for my old soul 🙄🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:31 PM
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😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:51 PM
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Starbucks lobbyists waking up with something to battle today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:05 PM
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Exactly. He wants to appear like the good guy with the bitchy woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:40 PM
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The limit does not exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:13 AM
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I used a John Lennon song lyric in my HS yearbook. What a shame it was finding out in college about his disgusting and real personality. So many issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:47 AM
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And for the biblical folk: treat others as you would like to be treated and when vetting men... Choose the ones who treat you as you treat others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:14 PM
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That’s just straight up deceitful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:39 PM
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Same, same, same. If I had the ‘right’ body everything on me would be backless - it’s 100% my aesthetic. But I always have to find the ones that have a bow in the back that covers the bra band if it’s super backless. Off topic, I’m currently in hell with all these crop tops and my long torso. Why are button downs getting shorter and shorter? What the heck is going on 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:03 PM
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Yeah, same here. I’ve actually purposely avoided it because it felt like I would be doing it to solely please a man, but as I’m getting older (and saggier 😂) I’m coming around the idea. I still go braless in shirts when I’m hiking and my breasts like to sway into my armpits and clap together and swing back to my armpits. It’s quite the show!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:08 PM
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I see you positively reinforcing her positive reinforcement and I'm here for it. 👌😎 Love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:01 AM
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The grass is always greener where you water/mow it 💚🌱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:58 AM
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Don't habits start forming after 1-2 months? If this was the olden times, this guy would fast for 4 days and start courting a woman and marry her within MONTHS. This dude is now living a lifestyle and has no reason or motivation to change. He's waiting for a bangmaid, but also likely feels like he doesn't need a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:54 AM
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On a side note.... Can we just for one millisecond talk about how this dud has absolutely no game? What does he have going on for him (besides two Tinder profiles).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:49 AM
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JOKES ON HIM - I naturally have very saggy boobs even at the oh-so ripe^ age of when I was 21. Edit: reworded, older than 21 now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:46 AM
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Sure, if you wanna get "technical" 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:45 AM
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Jeff Bridges I fucking LOVE Jeff Bridges. He reeks of HVM - It's like I can smell it through the screen. And I've never been of fan of Ryan. He seems like a tool. He gives me Ben Affleck vibes - that same loser-but-has-a-lot-of-money-but-will-never-be-good-enough-moody-unambitious-tool kind of dud. Edit: want to add *coward* to the list. It just feels right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:59 AM
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but their beauty doesn't keep them safe. 👌👌👌 Ok, queen! Snap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:53 PM
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Beautifully said 🥳🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:52 PM
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✨✨👌👌👌👌✨✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:41 PM
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”When you point one finger, there are three fingers pointing back to you." 👉 You point to someone and call them clingy, well let’s look where those three fingers are pointing and perhaps we’re emotionally unavailable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:39 PM
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🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:49 PM
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Yeah, she effectively subsidized his meal to allow him to go on more dates. … and she had to live that experience sober!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:46 PM
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💥💥💥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:39 PM
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I know I'm not ready for a relationship because my first thought was to tattle and call his momma. 😛🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:21 AM
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👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:28 AM
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I want to scream UNBELIEVABLE! but this whole bullshit situation happening is so believable. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:13 PM
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The obvious answer is the "boyfriend", but she wants to give him the benefit of the doubt 🙄. The ONLY other persons it could be is if they're living in a dorm and some nutjob who's close to her maliciously did this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:06 PM
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Thinking about how I haven't encountered the phrase not like other boys 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:40 PM
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Thankfully(?), he was lazy about hiding it. Worst case scenario is what a lot of guys do: placate their partner by unfollowing and making a show of it, and then having a fake/burner account that the partner doesn't know about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:23 AM
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😂😂👌👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:30 PM
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There are 10 people on the show - it's called Married at First Sight and the 10 individuals were selected and matched by "experts". This post is more anyone who has been watching because it's a full season that wrapped up last week and the reunion episode was last night. There's a lot of editing, nuance, and details to go into it. But to sum it up, the reason why I'm posting about him specifically, is that he is quite covert about his negative behaviors... unless you follow FDS principles and/or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:59 PM
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Well that escalated quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:35 AM
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Let's have a moment of silence for the sit down she's having with her pickme mom, who is advising her on how he cares, and how she's been with him for so long, and to break up now after 30 would be crazy. You're doing great, sweetie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:20 AM
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Yeah, this. My money is on OP never hiring a cleaner for the house. There's something comforting and familiar about living and suffering in a filthy house from childhood and that's not going to change without therapy and mindfully making a change every day to freak the fucking chain. It's hard. And it's harder for hard personalities. But this is a very real post with very real nuances and that's why therapy is the answer (above my pay grade lol). But, I love that you have been making things work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:22 AM
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To be fair, it really shows that it wasn't the wife and the six kids holding him back, as he thought. It was him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:54 PM
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Speaking of God... TREAT OTHERS HOW YOU WANT TO BE TREATED !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:13 PM
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This reminds me of a trash reality show (Married at First Sight). A husband, who wasn't attracted to his wife, said that he feels more attraction to his wife when she does the dishes. MORE ATTRACTION WHEN SHE DOES THE DISHES I --- 🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:15 PM
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Why don't we have a saying or something like this? Plenty of us turn dirtbags and losers into husbands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:24 PM
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That's amazing. I, too, stan. Her kissing Luke Wilson at the end wasn't missed lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:14 PM
29

The unnecessary gymnastics he did to get to that conclusion... was silly :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:24 PM
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As a woman who is down right hilarious... I do know this. I make jokes on top of jokes and you can see the blood draining from his face... (before anyone says it - NO it's not going to his dick!) :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:12 PM
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- rainbow - The more you know. - rainbow -
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:09 PM
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In their defense, that's even more vile. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:34 AM
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Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:17 AM
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Yeah, it's important to VET and not see things through rose colored glasses. I'm always thinking: who IS this person? And I'm thinking if I've met a similar personality that I wasn't attracted to and what I thought about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:19 AM
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When I'm not here, I hide away in reality tv trash subs like Married at First Sight. They'll never find me there! Hahah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:27 AM
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There are PLENTY of "cool" girls that would be into his lifestyle. No really, plenty of alternative women who would be interested, but they're probably driving somewhere as we speak. My money (nOt tO mAKe it ABouT mOnEY 🥴) is that it's a sketchy van. Bro needs to ham it up. Make it truly livable with a toilet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:08 PM
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I would happily go for a ride in his van and start singing 🎶 down by the bay, where the watermelons grow 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:00 PM
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Maybe he can park it in her driveway. And when they need a pee break they can hop inside. 🤙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:37 PM
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Only you ladies can call a billionaire a LVM and I'm here for all of it. It's really been only incels or pickmeishas who think highly of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:27 AM
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Chef's kiss. Even better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:45 AM
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OP's post and this entire comment section is a HORROR SHOW. 👁️👄👁️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:18 AM
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Tell me he's a Pisces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:16 AM
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It's the half eaten 'gift' of candies for me. 😂 It's honestly their way of making a gesture... But not appearing simp-like. Oh heaven forbid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:14 AM
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😂 Seriously! My chest is pounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:07 AM
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I stopped reading after the title and "we're in our late teens" 😬 Five words in. Dreadful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:22 PM
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Men simp for other men. 🎤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:47 AM
7

Oh snap. This. 👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:33 AM
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Men in secret: adultery with pregnancy. Women in secret: building foundation of wealth for the children. The audacity is NOT in secret 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:21 PM
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I hope for one day to be as admired as video games are 😍🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:12 PM
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I'm really trying to imagine a situation where I would have to rely on my young son to cook if my future husband dies. Cannot compute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:37 AM
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🙏🙏🙏🙏 I am enamored with your sleuthing. 😭😍 Ah, the logical sex at it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:41 AM
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Yeah, people just try to make themselves feel better by using this term or other ones like "best friend" or the best one "my person". 🙄 It's to make it sound more serious. Whatever. Also, I also had an espresso late tonight. ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:11 AM
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They way this post started... I thought you were going to say therapy is your hobby and that's the baddest hobby that few men bother with🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:33 PM
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Exactly! What a world we live in where we make less and then need to stretch our wallets for botox, fillers, tummy tucks & implants, laser, etc. It's a rigged system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:17 AM
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I just laughed. Why does the second option complain to us at how bad they are at manipulating women. I fucking can't. 😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:52 AM
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I'm reading too much into the roach comment. Apparently "roaching" is a dating term that basically suggests someone is breadcrumbing you and is hiding another partner. Idk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:38 AM
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WHAT THE FUCK. THAT DUDE IN THE PROPOSAL VIDEO FROM LAST YEAR WAS ~ 38-39!?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:31 PM
5

Real. Pickme gleam. If anyone wants footage of what they looked like to their narcissist abuser... Just take a look at their clips. He has a shit eating grin from spoon-feeding her compliments to emotionally manipulate her and she has a shit eating grin for chowing down on those compliments thinking she has him wrapped around her finger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:57 AM
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I'm patting myself on the back for spotting red flags in his interviews. I would have kicked him to the curb immediately. These reality shows are such a good way to analyze good and bad relationship behaviors (yes, with a little armchair psychology on the side). Love 'em!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:53 AM
4

Unfortunately, I've had to break up with many many men after having sex with them too soon because they were so easy to bed. Give a girl something to look forward to, yeesh! Well, on to the next one... Here's hoping he has the decency to wait unlike the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:29 AM
19

Yeah, this read as a woke dude who is writing satire. Yup, you got us... HVM is a man with money to spoil us and not one other attribute to mention. 🤦🕵️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:11 AM
19

Zero effort was made. He didn't even buy the ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:01 AM
25

I think this should be its own post. This is what it means to move in with a man before marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:46 AM
7

Ahahahahaamazing. Watching this tonight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:20 PM
2

Reads phoney. But there are a lot of real stories that read like this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:16 AM
34

Unfortunately the lawyer is the protagonist and antagonist of his movie and his women and roommate are just the pawns he controls. Unfortunately, the dude your dating might be a good guy, but he's getting influenced by his friend too much. Weak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:14 AM
2

Thought it would be fun(ny) to see if I could get you dolled up**** is how I read that line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:06 AM
3

.... S(h)ame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:56 PM
39

Sappy simp bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:49 AM
130

We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. And one more line to add to that quote: we suffer alone. Edit: Thanks for the award. 🎺 It's a sad song..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:31 PM
38

I am the one wowed by him. wooooooooow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:14 PM
72

SAME happened to my mother. Antidepressants, told her it was in her head, after years and years a new female doctor found out it was autoimmune disorders. One of them is called myasthenia gravis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:37 PM
17

Two sides to every story. She clearly has a lot of resentment (and it's not just about the shoes/socks, chores, 40lb of weight gain, etc). I don't know how you reverse resentment. Honestly, for me, you can't... they should have talked (and took action earlier) so now it's over. It sounds like she's saying, "jump" and he's asking, "how high" - and that's toxic because she's likely decided that he cannot jump high enough. Time to call it. Time of death. 👩‍⚕️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:24 PM
10

Gosh, it was great reading this and all the comments this morning while I was stretching. Good day. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:26 PM
24

Happy birthday, if it is 🧁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:22 PM
68

Female Dating Strategy: Don't Date Men. The End.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:46 PM
42

He said she wasn't even chubby so I'm sure "average" is code for "what's expected" aka thin. This woman is most likely thin, and above average and this is how he describes her. Average. She's no filtered porn actress, she's average.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:04 AM
95

What, like it's hard?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:46 AM
21

IRL, he would have adjusted the volume to be less (not even muted).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:25 AM
17

Swipe right if you want encouragement. Nah. Come to FDS if you want encouragement. A great support system is important and... hard to find. What a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:16 PM
7

He's a writer? A fictional one, I see. BECAUSE BABY BOY IS SPEWING SOME BS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:10 PM
6

Let it all out. Write it down, punch a pillow, SCREAM as crazy as possible because no one is around to judge you anymore. YOU ARE FREE from her controlling ways. You know she's a LVW, a product of her environment, internalizing things that have been told to her (some validated by your dad?), and now the shit is going to you. But you sound like a strong, FDS woman and are ready to break that chain of weak minded thinking. 👑😌 YOU GOT THIS. ❤️🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:03 PM
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Instead of elite dating apps, or women-reach-out-first apps or whatever apps, it would be really cool for apps to start requiring users to pass a basic background check. Of course, that's not what gets you new user sign ups and investors hate that 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:05 PM
54

Imagine if his reasoning for moving in together is to avoid paying child support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:00 AM
52

Men: This isn't a dating site, it's a hook up site and you're stupid to think otherwise. Also men:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:21 PM
21

What a lousy ass. It takes so little time to see how worthless these dudes are. Thank God lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 09:06 AM
38

They're probably his main chicks who cook dinner for him the other days. And since they behave so well they get pampered too! They get to have his third girl's cooking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 09:02 AM
57

Exactly this. Even the way she speaks, so submissive - she wants this life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 09:01 AM
21

The fact that he knows whether she does or doesn't have family money is a 🚩 How did THAT conversation come about within a month of dating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:04 AM
26

THEIR SELF-ESTEEM BRACKET I am cackling! This is so wrong and oh soooo right. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:01 AM
24

Absolutely. It is a "spacious" apartment afterall. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:57 PM
7

Not to be a weirdo, but why doesn't he just park at a meter and get the parking ticket? That could save him ~$20/night. Yes, this is what I decide to comment on. 💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:52 PM
120

I KNOW you're hungry I'm crying 😂😭 He must be so hungry competing with her on their hunger strike. First person who mentions food should usually pay and he's trying to avoid it like the plague. She should 1. Dump him because she knows who she's dealing with. Communicate that he's not paying. SIIIIKE. She knows that he knows which is why she doesn't want to bring it up... The jig will be up and she thinks she's still getting something out of this terrible deal. Stash a few protein bars for yourse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:15 AM
55

For me, that was the worst part. I really like sitting back calmly and letting them answer and continue the silence until they try to string more words together. He didn't just wake up from a coma. He knows. We know. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:46 PM
69

All the while his attitude is: c'mon bishhh y u Killin my hustle n vibe? 😕🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:40 PM
10

Floating away now. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:53 AM
76

She coMMUniCAted. What went wrong?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 10:10 AM
13

Too dark? 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:19 AM
51

I believe this. I've seen plenty of FB posts of friends who have struggled with ED and how caring/supporting/what a rock their boyfriend is through their journey.... Of consistently weighing absolutely nothing and not gaining a pound. Bruh, he's not helping you. The mom is helping you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:04 AM
63

Our traumas always attract the perfect people to finish the job (to destroy ourselves).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:00 AM
13

Will have sex 4 bed 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:27 PM
17

He definitely is swiping crazily on Tinder while texting her to secure a lay just so he has a place to stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:26 PM
32

This man belongs to the streets. Because he is, in fact, homeless/ without a home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:25 PM
53

That's great. He's putting you down while also putting his wife down (because he knows that she has stretch marks). Two birds, one jab.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:45 AM
25

There's no easy fix, you've gotta change how you think about shame - embrace the shame of people/friends laughing at you... And then laugh it off. Don't let people's perceptions keep you afraid to change or admit failure. Then you're losing. Don't feel the need to prove people wrong! This mentality might be affecting you professionally too. Give it some thought. Sometimes the solution is just not telling people some details. Or telling the right people, some people, the details. 💕 I like to spot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:11 AM
101

We are born alone and we die alone. We also give birth alone and we die alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:45 AM
45

Love me! Pick me! PAY ME! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:32 PM
9

Anyone else suspicious how she broke? 🧐 I smell control and anger issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:54 AM
9

How many dolls did he have to purchase for the reception?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 03:59 AM
13

The begging is strategic. They're putting themselves in an inferior position on purpose to bait and switch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:49 AM
18

Hahah I was going to guess Moroccan/Tunisian with a little of that French aspect. They really try to amp up the romance through text 🕵️‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:47 AM
14

He said those examples "inspire" him 😂🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:23 AM
12

My NV dad always says I should get a "real job" eventhough I've always made more money than him. I don't need to have the sit down talk with him... Not once in my life did I think he was a strong, valuable man and I'm sure he picks up on this. Don't hate the player (dad), hate the game! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:51 PM
23

Yeah, unfortunately in his mind you end up looking like the lazy one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:39 PM
9

And just like that, ✨ A Star is Born ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 09:50 AM
14

She knows they have the "same intentions" and he's different after 2-3 dates? ... There's definitely alcohol involved on all these dates. 😂 But ya know, sometimes you just know? 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:58 AM
9

What sucks is that a majority of people who get into partnerships like this is because it feels familiar to them because they grew up with a parent who criticized their appearance, behavior, or whatever to appear more "normal".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:03 AM
38

Truly how you know it was written by a delusional, entitled, never been married (not by choice) 43 year old man trying to court a woman 10 years younger and failing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:52 AM
3

I am so thankful that whenever it was on tv I rolled my eyes and changed the channel. "Praise be" 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:39 AM
21

Yeah, it was fun for a while. I actually just submitted to have my Snap account deleted after not using it for the last couple of years. I'm not even 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:08 AM
8

Times is tough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:39 AM
6

Okay, is she bragging because that kitchen is messy? As a woman she should do a better job. Now let me go back to playing video games. - said by every LVM looking at this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:48 AM
8

What a quality conversation 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:32 AM
15

On the flip side... Non-American men don't see themselves changing or "growing up" after marriage or settling down. I chalk it up to wishful thinking on their sad lives that somehow (even in a negative context) American men are hoping for a savior to shake up their life and have a wife make a man out of them. I had an American/Eastern Euro guy say something along the lines that he found it off-putting that girlfriend's cook for boyfriends when they should ONLY start cooking after marriage. In wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:01 PM
6

Ah, so it's based on my past with my boyfriend. Will watch 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:49 PM
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Of he thinks that's a favor... We already know what the relationship looked like 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:17 PM
45

Yeah, she's picking up on something. Maybe how LV they both are. She's blindly having way too much confidence in him never being able to do something deranged because... they've been dating for 8 years. 🤦 Nobody knows they are dating/married to a pedo. Better to be safe than sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:15 AM
34

He wants a humble woman? He should be a humble man :o * faints, crowd catches me *
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:55 AM
2

Just out of curiosity, were you shy talking about sex with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 02:29 AM
43

I think at one time it was spicy and liberating Right. Those were the couples that actively rebelled. They both said FUCK YOU to marriage. But what's happening now is that everyone is jumping on this bandwagon (bangwagon?😂) and it's another way men are taking advantage of women who are independently working their way to marriage. NO ONE realizes they are a placeholder until it's too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 10:09 PM
16

Yeah, this took me back. I can hear the groan he made. It's difficult being with someone so constantly bothered by life and offers no gestures or solutions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:15 AM
0

Ah, thanks for the summary - I'll skip this article. I'm a huge introvert and really confident. And people always assume I'm extraverted. Why? They associate it with confidence and being able to have strong communication. Not so, not always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:15 AM
11

So listen up: this means that this LVM who pumped and dumped and then bragged about it to a mutual friend... Wants a HVM who makes him wait for sex. Woweeeeee. I hope he gets picked? I don't know what to say 😂 What HVW would want to be with him knowing he did/does this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:49 AM
4

It's the having sex in their maritial bed for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 10:13 PM
24

It's because she isn't "fiercely trying to be independent" and she's "femanine".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:55 PM
32

Yeah, it's a weird world out there. Someone injecting themselves and their kindness into your life should be met with side eye. Especially when kids are involved. Hopefully he only made that lay naked in bed proposal to the mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:33 PM
3

I have to admit that I also throw gay slurs his way because when God made him he sprinkled a little homophobe. Gotta poke him where it hurts. I'm glad you're out of that situation, but what a black hole of a family. ☹️ No one is ready to change (especially not the dad... He knows he's got a sweet deal). I feel bad for the son because he doesn't even have a shot, he's absorbed his dad's personality and I'm curious how he views his mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:12 PM
30

Yeah, my LV father doesn't know the term, but lives by the idea that he ain't no simp. Goes above and beyond helping and serving his buddies, but doesn't lift a finger at home where it counts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:00 AM
2

Why is the song Copacabana playing in my head while reading this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:50 AM
24

I think it's because we don't want to be confused with pickmeishas. We don't want to become our mothers. There's this strong belief that we need men and their money. So some of us have forged a new path (fighting against this propaganda) probably in a field dominated by men and we want to make it crystal clear that we're not wooed by money... WE ARE THE DECISION MAKERS. TBH. I am one of those women who have a hard time having a guy pay for me and that's because I don't own my feminity and becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:58 PM
18

Did he even play with the baby? Did the baby just lie down all day... Great way to get a flat head. Maybe he fed the baby. Whoopdedoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:13 PM
2

I told my wife and mother of two who works as a nurse "to pound sand" 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:40 AM
42

"First they're sour then they're sweet!" Trauma bonded to sourpatch kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:29 PM
2

If only all guys could communicate this well! Makes it so easy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:06 AM
92

My aha moment came when I arrived home to a post it note that said "wash the dishes". I was dumbstruck for two reasons: The audacity My previous ex-boyfriend would use post it notes to write loving notes, affirmations, and would also fold up the post its into origami and hide them for me to find in my apartment and car. I dumped him a couple of weeks later when I asked him to walk our dog together and he told me that I could do it myself. And then I repeated that I can do it by myself and I can …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 12:06 AM
14

Ahhhhhhahahahahahahahahahahagahagagagahhhha That is a shit birthday you had, but I fucking amazing badass story of your birthday. Wow. Sagittarian queens love life and that is not a man to love life with. Happy birthday. Keep doing you ✌️✌️✌️✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 11:00 PM
7

Wow. Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 03:49 AM
26

Right! Because it's also a very specific type of Asian woman: small, frail, domesticated, dependant not a well-built woman who wants to be treated well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:39 PM
6

Sex and drugs are something a lot of people don't feel comfortable opening about with their peers, therapists or doctors. They might be assuming that you're shy or have shame about expressing it. On the flip side! My OBGYN was surprised that at 19 I wanted to try the Nuvaring because she said that a lot of women don't feel comfortable inserting a both control in their vagina. I told her I was shocked because if I'm having sex and a man is putting his fingers inside me why would it be uncomfortab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:01 PM
20

I would love to see his creativity shine. He would probably spread out his one gift. Night one: you get a piece of paper. Night two: you get lead/ink Night three: you get an instrument to hold lead/ink Night four: an eraser Night five: you get to see him start his drawing for you. A teaser! Night six and seven: a blur of smoke and mirrors Night eight: he does the most decent thing and fills up your car gas tank and has you leave with some dignity. Fly away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:38 PM
24

Thankfully he isn't Jewish. Imagine him "hand making" 8 gifts. I'm cackling just picturing it 😭🤦 (Also even for Christmas... One gift is 🧐)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:18 PM
34

EXACTLY THIS. Her intuition and feelings are telling her something isn't right and she turns to mom... Who (not knowing better herself) GASLIGHTS her and reinforces what her fiancé told her. Depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:14 PM
8

Make him a handmade present. Makes jack-in-the-box crank motion next to fist 🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:10 PM
19

This is why pimps have to exist. Because disgusting men will go to a prostitute and then not pay up or will beat them. They can't even do prostitution correctly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:27 PM
32

I can vouch for this. Unfortunately and fortunately I fuck like a man (for lack of a better phrase). I've had to deal with an insanely high sex drive so I've been aware that I can't go loving everyone I love on. You'd think guys would love it. I make it nice and easy. They love the drama. They love dramatic pickmes so they can feel superior and in control. Also, all this talk about guys creepily telling us that we're in love with them supports Why Men Marry Bitches because they like a colder wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:23 PM
29

> I am happy to discuss anything with anyone Hi Jim. Would love to discuss celibacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:30 AM
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The ONLY silver lining I've had while dating (in reverse) is that by date 5 when we're both way too comfortable with each other, relaxing on the couch, arguing about driving to pick up food and then ending splitting the GrubHub bill for Burger King... I'm like woah, I'm living in the future. This is what we'd look like in 5/10/25 years... AT BEST. * Slaps self * I need to get out of here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:27 AM
28

As soon as I read the title I cringed knowing someone would bash the Cheesecake Factory 😂 Those avocado egg rolls are to die for! Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:39 PM
14

I agree with this. Labeling a man as HV prematurely is exactly the problem we've had in the past: not going into the situation with unbiased, open eyes. The term HV in this space was to create a point of reference and standard not to replace romanticized nonsense we tell ourselves. The reason why it's difficult breaking up with a LVM is because we once thought they were great, amazing, worthy....high value but they were not. We just told ourselves they were. ✊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:51 PM
34

Begging for the photo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:21 AM
6

"who gives a fuck about an Oxford comma"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:40 PM
14

That sounds almost too considerate for him. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:52 AM
6

Real recognize real. Hello, fellow aries 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:53 AM
19

So hilariously... I always feign interest after I break up with them for this reason. I always pathetically ask to be friends and ask how they are doing. 😂 It seals the door shut for eternity. I sleep wonderfully. 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:20 AM
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My grandparents who live alone together have been cutting each other's hair. They both have dominant personalities and are HV without a doubt. They don't overthink things - there are things that need to be done and so they do it. Bill Belichick vibes of "Do Your Job". My parents on the other hand... My mom has been begging my father to cut his hair for months. She's a pickmeisha for sure and he's a LVM. After making her jump up and down a bunch, he finally allowed her the privilege of cutting hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:59 AM
6

This was me up until 20. Finally settled for a guy to have sex with and then settled for another guy to have a relationship with. I don't mean "settled" in a horrible way! I just mean that I thought I needed to have some internships before starting my career. I learned nothing in both cases. 😓😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:45 AM
4

Just like men, we like to feel needed. It makes us feel like we're in a more secure relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:30 PM
3

Hopefully she breaks it off with him. I think she's still being delusional/hopeful that he'll see that this is the moment to change things around and step it up... But I bet all that's about to change is that he's going to order fast food for his dinners in addition to his lunches now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:41 PM
14

There ya go. It's just putting on a costume/mask for some people. Everyone has a different ethos and you've got to be conscious of that. I'm willing to be his ethos is probably: all the world's a stage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:33 PM
52

Trying to hoover you back. It's the only kind of vacuuming LVMs do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:57 AM
4

I don't have work relationships like this. Can't relate 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:19 AM
4

I will never forget that scene 😭 Straight up repulsed and just leaves him. It also makes me aware of how he handled that situation (because of the world he knows) and how a woman would handle it (possibly shut down and internalize the feelings of disgust) if she had a bunch or just hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:11 AM
10

Same. We talk a lot on this sub about the frog in boiling water example, but our water has been boiling for hundreds and hundreds of years. If ANYTHING, this movie spotlights how ridiculous and frivolous some 'expected' things are in our society. Why am I not seeing men in short-shorts with a little slit? Why don't men get their chests waxed and leave a little landing strip? Why aren't women getting their pussies licked under the table or getting road head?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:36 PM
18

If you remember to come back and tell me what you thought about it I would love that ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:24 AM
19

This scrote probably pays for OnlyFans, but doesn't treat his gf to anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:33 AM
98

Totally. She is just so convenient and so independent! Look at the good wife carrying her load with 50/50 bills and... Carrying his load since he ejaculated 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:29 AM
31

This could have easily happened to me. I would be feeling vulnerable and devastated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:26 AM
12

Facts. I like to trim when I use a pad for my period. About to go back to menstrual cup and I'll see what my hair wants to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:24 AM
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PLEASE go to Netflix and watch I Am Not an Easy Man // Je Ne Suis Pas un Homme Facil. It's probably the only film I've seen that goes into some crazy nuisances of what is expected of our sex/gender and what it would look like if roles were truly reversed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:20 AM
14

It's the height difference for me. 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:12 AM
1

I'd blame the crocodile. Then I'd blame the society (gathering from this snipet it's probably patriarchal) she lives and has to survive in. It takes a village to raise a child and... Destroy one. They are all at fault and none at fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:14 AM
4

I want to say the bridge is online dating. The bridge is what makes us easily accessible to the other party. Without it, the effort and creativity falls on the individual and you get to see who really shines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:55 AM
6

One more comment to make: what is it about self-inflicting punishments? Why does she incredulously proclaim that she's never going to bring up marriage again. What a goofy thing to say. Is that to punish him? What is the opposite of an ultimatum because she did it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:26 PM
6

What a fucking loser. I can hear the fapping sound intensify in his pea sized brain when he's introducing people to her as his wife. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:23 PM
6

29 and stopped dating in 2015 except for a few dates with two men. Doing my own thing very well and if I happen to bump into someone as amazing as me... I'll consider it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 08:52 PM
7

The hot ones don't do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 08:46 PM
13

Speak for yourself! Meow! Inserts Super Troopers reference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:57 AM
27

You know who's an incredibly funny HV comedian who will hopefully never fade away? Tiffany Haddish! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:45 AM
3

👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:03 PM
4

I don't know what's worse: a man who's looking for an independent woman or a man who's looking for someone who isn't independent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:00 PM
10

Has she been crying?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 08:08 PM
4

How does it not relate to the post about men disrespecting strong and powerful women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:32 PM
5

And not a man nor a toilet to be found! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:43 AM
61

I laugh because I have treated a LVM to a date with a coupon 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:19 PM
75

You know what makes a weak man feel powerful? Having power over a powerful woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:17 PM
129

I should have never asked This is what stood out to me too. So you can still live in your delusion? For what? It's about qualifying (vetting) a man and getting the real, hard answers. The truth shall set you free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:06 PM
34

Scrotes will literally shit themselves before stepping into a restaurant. 💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:49 PM
146

All you have to do is start farting with them and BOOM joke isn't funny anymore. 😬💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:43 AM
18

It's hilarious. I've done some stupid, insane, shameful, embarrassing, unconventional, radical things and I own it. Because what is life if not living!? But sometimes... when I pass a mirror I just look into my eyes and the thought of how I gave my LVM friend of four years a chance and BAM my body goes cold. Sometimes I cry. I'm more aware of the kind of sick people who roam the world (and that's a good thing 🙄). Other times I can play some good music, dance to it, and laugh it off because that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:52 AM
75

He's ride or die 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:31 AM
5

✨GOALS✨ 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:31 AM
31

It's a Catch 22 and I live in it. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:35 PM
3

Just like with everything - tread carefully. Your intuition made your ears perk up when he said this for a reason. Keep vetting. He could be trying to tell himself that he's relaxed (maybe that's why he does self-help with mindfulness). Worst case scenario is that he could be framing himself this way so that in the future when you come to complain to him he can throw it in your face that you're being crazy/not relaxed like he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:21 PM
21

Reading the first line tickled me. I've been letting my upper lip hairs exist during quarantine because I'm by myself and I'm wearing a mask whenever I have to interact with people.... Except for the other day. I was working outside in the garden and a neighbor came up to me and I realized that his little attraction to me was nowhere to be found. And he did flinch looking at my little whiskers!! I could not stop laughing internally the whole damn day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:56 AM
2

I have been a victim of this lie too 🙋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:55 AM
3

March 18. Pisces man. CHECKS OUT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:42 AM
10

Truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:30 AM
38

Either that or its about control. I need to embroider this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:30 AM
18

Felt the same way. Workaholics is pretty much a spin off of Jim's personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:19 AM
23

That part where she wrote that he reflected on it... GIRL. This is CLASSIC LVM/NVM BEHAVIOR. What he's doing is pointing out his shitty behavior in case she was too stupid or insecure to realize that it wasn't a good proposal and that she should expect more. I bet you right after he said that she appeased him. "No, baby. Isssok. As long as I got you we're good! 😍" Why do we appease men. Why do we appease men when they call themselves out? He's basically popping out his booty wanting to be spanke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:18 PM
116

I read this a while back and internalized it and was shocked st how many people here called him a HVM. He saw her as a beautiful, shiny object to be won. He's no better than red pillers. He worked to get that trophy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:48 AM
10

Whoever has been doing the PR for MEN has been doing a phenomenal job and needs to be terminated immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:40 AM
5

.... So all these years of my NV father calling me a parasite is projection. 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:01 AM
38

That was my first thought. 😏 Fish is nibbling... Now slowly reel him in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:44 AM
76

A guy I dated for a few weeks just messaged me "hey 🙂" on Facebook. We went out in 2013.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:43 AM
3

So tell me witch, what was his sign? 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:56 AM
38

Ah, the old bait and switch. Try and switch it back... He won't let you and will let you know your place in his mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:30 AM
26

Wow. He's got a pretty sweet deal going, doesn't he. 🖕 I don't trust him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:27 AM
3

A punch hole card. How apt. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:06 AM
2

I will tell my daughter this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:42 AM
14

$100 for me because i'M nOT liKe OtHeR giRLs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:50 PM
9

That's a whole lot to unpack on the first date. Pseudo-intellectualism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:10 PM
32

It's been years since I read this and I remember word for word what I read. Horrendous. THE AUDACITY. He got played by the pickme-actress nurse. Similarly, John Lennon's first wife would bring his slippers to him and he would abuse her. Then was satisfied in a toxic relationship with Yoko.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:22 AM
45

Patrick Baitman lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:16 AM
75

I hate the reality of this 🤦 but it is reality. I'm actually, genuinely, sincerely a chill woman and it bites me in my big ass. I end up having to break up with every dude I date because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:01 AM
6

I just let out a big wistful sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 06:08 AM
3

Why are men great 'til they gotta be great?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:14 AM
24

Right. They want to know you want to go on a date with them. They don't want to actually go through the hassle of the actual date. Ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:12 AM
16

Monologue both times. Same energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:17 AM
186

She better not be going on a free walk date in the park!! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:15 AM
11

Considering she's come from an abusive relationship, I think she swapped happiness out for safety as one of her main priorities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:40 PM
35

But lions be lion (lyin').
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:21 AM
11

It's the thin lips for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:20 PM
21

His scote chill vibes annoys me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:14 PM
6

This is actually one of my main must haves in a man when I'm vetting. I'm bilingual, completely fluent, and I'm waiting to see if they're interested in learning my language to get closer to me and my grandparents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:21 AM
2

You lost me at ENGAGED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:30 PM
13

That's amazing! Like the comment before mine, it's nice to know that your mom came around, albeit a little too late. And amazing that you took the initiative and we're a curious kid! My mom still believes that I won't get a worthwhile guy if I don't wear feminine skirts, clean, and peel potatoes quickly (I always stumble and drop one 🙄).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:20 PM
5

There's a lot to unpack here 🤤😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:07 PM
5

I'm speechless for once. There is a lot to unpack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:05 PM
2

Good theory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:07 AM
16

Mic drop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:43 AM
22

Great. I learned something new right before heading to bed. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:39 AM
22

Thank you! That was it 😂 They're from the past 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:59 PM
86

I'm still cackling at that one post from a while ago about a LVM who was evading the kids question and answered by saying ~that was a long time ago~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:33 PM
15

I don't know why any woman would want a man who's treated their former partner the way they know he did. THIS. I've dealt with many a men who have played with the idea of being with me in the exact subtle way OP mentions. They see I'm warm, they call her cold. They see I'm independent, they call her needy. They see I'm adventurous, they call her a stick in the mud. Well, sir, what are you doing with a cold, needy, stick in the mud!?!? That is all I'm shouting in my mind. This is how you're speak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:25 PM
41

Thanks for putting in the work hahaha. I was about to when my ears perked up that his twins are 16 years old. He's 40, withheld information, he coughed it up, and now is refusing to talk about it some more. What a gem. He's looking for an easy life, pickme, let him be 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:00 PM
19

Right? Missed opportunity. Second date is in a couple of weeks: he comes over to her place with his laundry and she does it for him while cooking him dinner. Ace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:06 AM
53

Yup. Tested positive for covid 13 days ago and went for an in person "date" today. I hope she tested negative?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:05 AM
8

And Dum Dum David.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:39 AM
110

Again, this is the courting stage??? You're so gay with your android. Come over. Don't be sensitive. Let's fuck. Bro?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:49 AM
5

Are you making sure you add an appropriate flair to your post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:05 PM
4

I cackled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:03 AM
7

I hope she asks him for cash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:03 AM
19

Scorpio lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:44 AM
8

That 2008 recession, man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:39 AM
34

Going for a walk with no endpoint in mind is SYMBOLIC OF AN UMAMBITIOUS LVM. You'll be walking in circles for the rest of your life 😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:42 PM
6

I am RILED up thinking about how delicious broccoli is 😂 I'm going grocery shopping to load up on parsnips tomorrow because I fucking crave their deliciousness. 🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:00 AM
1

It's funny. I'm okay with this profile, but I'm gonna bet he's reaching with how smart and rational he is. Would go on a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:19 AM
2

I'm going to start a thread soon. I'm pretty unemotional and logical and have a robot monotone voice to match. Letmetellya, men fucking LOVE the ability to gaslight and scapegoat women who appear emotional. With me, I'm no fun... and make their peepees feel small(er than usual). 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:17 AM
23

Ain't that the truth. "You said we were going to the movies!" "I didn't realize you really wanted to see that movie. It's not even your style of movie that you like. You probably won't even like it! Better that you didn't bother. "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:48 PM
6

Love 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:23 AM
2

Followed. Awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:10 PM
10

My goodness. Where is his pride? 😂 I think he's too stupid to realize he should be embarrassed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:14 AM
10

He directly asked you if the place was pricey? Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:43 AM
2

Freudian slip: perused! 😭🤭 Used she was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:31 PM
32

Read that in monotone. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:59 PM
32

She's a working doctor DURING A PANDEMIC and they decided to do something a little frivolous for their anniversary (she might feel a little guilt about it) and he wants to make sure it's not in vain! Thank you, Lori 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:57 PM
11

He's sooooo worried that he's planning ahead 4 months from now? Wow. What will he do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:41 PM
3

Intelligence rarely gets in the way of an inferiority complex! How many smart little crows are hitching a ride and pecking us down because they feel less than. We are a symbol! 🦅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:34 PM
34

This is why we shouldn't pick and mate with a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:08 AM
7

This is like when a child angrily cleans his room and screeches "are you happy, mom!?" in a huff... and it's like HELLO, THIS IS FOR YOUR BENEFIT. DONT,'T YOU ENJOY HAVING NICE, CLEAN THINGS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:22 PM
5

So much yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:58 AM
-6

Oh, daddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:51 AM
4

The cigar is a nice touch to these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:25 PM
14

Gamer chairs around 400 bucks and I don't see a complaint from a woman that her boyfriend spent that money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:46 PM
15

I'm tickled with excitement imagining the future women will have and what their lives will be in a matriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:44 PM
0

Sorry, not sorry, but I can't disagree with him. He's referring to pickmeishas who put up with LVMs. And I bet he isn't a prize and has made his now wife out up with some LVM bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:40 PM
4

He's a generous man. 5 cardboard boxes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:32 PM
3

The delusion. I'm guessing he wants his exact life as is now, but with a wifey and 5 kids. Someone break it to him that he wants a sugar mama who can hire a nanny and hopefully a surrogate to push out those kids while working hard for the money. Or is he ready to struggle renting an apartment/house with 5 kids helping him clip coupons?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:30 PM
28

Madame Gina from Porco Rosso :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:21 PM
44

Predators will be predators 🤷 As an independent woman I know I attract LVM who want to hang/ride on my coattails. It's sad. You think you've found a confident man who is supportive of your independence, but it's a ruse. They want your money and power it brings. If it isn't looks, it's money that they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:47 PM
36

It's almost better being delusional 😪 No wait, it's not. 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:47 PM
3

They're in early stages dating and he yo's at her? Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:51 PM
1

That's the way he would encourage some attraction and chemistry on his part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:48 PM
2

YOU TAKE RING. I TAKE NAME. caveman gibberish continues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:39 PM
8

audience faints
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:06 AM
10

And yet, the see us as children and are exponentially more attracted 🤦😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:07 PM
5

"the lower the level of involvement, the lower the minimum age" Sex is happening... There's still sex at the lowest and highest point of involvement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:35 PM
3

I love it. I think I'm going to add "I'm joking" too 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:31 AM
3

Exactly this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:22 PM
23

WHAT IS UP WITH THAT I've gotten that request by the second time I'm in bed with them. The answer is no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:13 AM
63

🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:13 AM
36

I like how we all know an Asian dude didn't come up with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:17 PM
12

So his big move to woo her is to invite her over back to his nest to play video games? A+ 1st date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:47 PM
1

I want a girl to giggle at everything I say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:06 PM
5

I say he's 5'8-5'9
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:59 PM
3

Seven months... SEVEN MONTHS!? YIKES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:25 PM
11

It's wild that LMV will acknowledge and submit to HVM, but not HVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:46 AM
11

I've noticed this in dating when a LVM exposes himself by talking about how he's jealous that women just have to flip their hair and get whatever they want. iiiiirk what. Are you jealous of that woman... All women? Are you in a competition with women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:45 AM
12

"At least it had sheets on it" 💀 the bar is so low. And to top it of, in my situation, he did not put sheets on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:41 PM
3

I had sex with a scrote at my own place only to find out later that he sleeps with his mattress on the floor... With no sheets. NO SHEETS. NO PILLOW SHEET.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:37 PM
18

Sad. She could be a HVM and not submissive or crazy, but just didn't get him well enough to know that he needs this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:29 AM
8

SERIOUSLY. 🎵 Feeling blessed. Never stressed.🎵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:32 AM
54

This is my morning exercise. It really gets the heart pumping. 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:50 PM
6

That's beautiful! Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:30 AM
14

How do we feel about April? And April and Andy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:01 PM
36

Wow. 👏 Truth hurts. About 10 years ago I went on an aggressive weight lost journey - lost 80lbs in 1 year. Why? Because I was a virgin and I knew my weight was the one thing stopping me (and I was right). But it's a slippery slope of being self-critical and trying to feel good enough. I gained the weight back because I was over it and my mental health was getting bad for once. She's probably going through that similar thing like you pointed out. Chasing something and feeling less and less worthy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:40 AM
55

I remember when I liked Khloe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:45 AM
38

I can't imagine he was overly kind, doting, considerate in any way during the majority of their relationship. She settled probably for someone who she felt like she needed to prove her worth for. Trauma, man. Pickme trauma 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:25 PM
115

100% Normal people don't do this. He also probably has a fucked up privileged mindset that eventhough he grew up with money he believes that people (ie her) need to work hard to make money and do what they have to survive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:21 PM
3

Yeah, and guys who "open up" about EXCLUSIVELY about their sadness, and past, and exes... Seem oh so NON THREATENING. But they still have the ability to hurt and take no prisoners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:54 AM
1

Oh, Zach 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:49 AM
12

It's bullshit or a fun way of evading the question by implying they think little of it. I'd ask them right back. If they try to be flippant I would just start poking to see if what kind of marriages they are familar with growing up. As homework you should think of an answer of what marriage means to you only to throw it in their face and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:28 AM
3

I thought it was a half eaten chicken nugget 😂 Same 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:10 AM
3

It's sounds like you're at a standstill because he's also not willing to compromise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:09 AM
36

Someone needs to reduce their salaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:16 PM
2

Regretting the splash of milk I put in my tea this morning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:15 PM
15

RIGHT? I think it's a great example of a man making an unreasonable request over and over and over again like it's okay. How many REASONABLE requests does she make and it's met with the same sympathy she's shelling out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:14 PM
13

GLARES!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:10 PM
5

Please, my first relationship was when we were both 19 and in college. He couldn't stop stating his preference for younger women, ideally 2 years younger. And how he didn't like I was older, 3 months older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:05 PM
14

In my mind it's why am I putting up with this garbage person. Why is my mind bending over backwards when he's not special, he's just another garbage person who doesn't go to therapy and doesn't respect me. Let me roll the dice. Let me roll the dice again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:03 PM
11

They give them to guests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:18 AM
45

Who? Pedo Picasso?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:06 PM
1

Totally. Like Allison Mack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 09:42 PM
96

Marie-Thérèse Walter, Picasso’s young lover between his first wife, Olga Khokhlova, and his next mistress, Dora Maar, later hanged herself; even Roque eventually fatally shot herself. “Women are machines for suffering,” Picasso told Françoise Gilot, his mistress after Maar. After they embarked on their affair when he was sixty-one and she was twenty-one, he warned Gilot of his feelings once more: “For me there are only two kinds of women: goddesses and doormats.” Marina saw her grandfather’s tre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 09:23 PM
3

I'm commenting to save this post to go back to it. Boy do I have a list, but now I have to bid farewell and wish myself sweet dreams 😴 because I'm going to bed at the time I want to (12:37am) without being bothered, and it'll be in the nude without a side eye from him and without a worry that one of my boobs will end up on his side and another one on the floor. Ultimate comfort over here 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:40 AM
3

So a lot of Boston ~females~ in this sub, eh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:13 AM
2

🤦💀💀💀🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:12 AM
63

Either way, he's a breeder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:10 AM
1

Easier to vet though!! Though, I think technically it's called entrapment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:16 AM
29

Add to the list teacher and nurses. I worked in sales all my life and that is a boner killer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:15 AM
14

LET ME PACK THE PICNIC!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:28 PM
1

I really need to stop replying after 2am. Geeze. 🤦🤦🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 01:42 AM
12

Happy to report that Mulan was my favorite Disney movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:17 AM
27

I think we run into the same situations here when women are asking what to do about their boyfriend-by-title. We say leave, they defend. I think therapists play offense and through cOmMuniCAtion you are now actively engaged and mindful in the quality of your relationship. So hopefully you realize you're communicating to a wall, to someone who doesn't care and who hasn't cared. And that's when you take back your power and leave. I think the future will be filled more with life coaches instead of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:57 AM
8

Like you said, and I'm with you on this, pros and cons of either stance. I'm conflicted. My radical (pickme) opinion is that I would not loOoOOooove to know that my boyfriend asked every single online woman for a real first date and paid for it. At the same time, I appreciate that he treats women well and equally. Positively it would show me that he was in pursuit of a relationship orrrrr maybe he knows to do the dance and is more than happy to pay for a woman to eat with him. Anything and every…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:52 AM
16

💀💀💀💀 Jokes on you. Barney has a strong hang up on females that only want him for his money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:33 PM
9

WHAT THE HECK CONVERSATION IS THIS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:25 PM
57

"WAIT TIL THE CLUBS OPEN UP" is exactly why dating right now is a bad idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:15 PM
21

The real estate equivalent of this is winning at a foreclosure auction: I won! I paid the most 💰 of allllll these other people! Whoopie! I made it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:18 PM
24

You're fucking amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:55 PM
12

Here's an upvote for your troubles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:17 PM
16

Right. How about this: you'll feel used if that's all you're offering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:13 PM
26

Exactly. I'm DEFINITELY not going to 'panic date' (like panic buying) because the future is up in the air. The future is never promised and if the world was ending... I'm not going to spend my last moments dating/worrying/posting about a negative-no-value-nobody. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:36 PM
14

I was just thinking about this the other day. Instead of appreciating her body and your body it's like they appreciate neither? They really want to build a gf, but they still wouldn't be happy. I've been with many men and each one of them different than the other (taller, my height, very obese, rail thin, really hairy, practically hairless, tan, pale, muscular legs, chicken legs, barrel chested, broad shoulders) 😂😂😂 AND THEY ALL LOOKED PHYSICALLY WONDERFUL TO ME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:10 PM
13

This is exactly what I think about too! Did you tell her all these awful things directly or just as bad were you memorizing her body and criticizing it? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:58 PM
30

I'm sure her depressing pickmeisha way IS THANKS to her father who feels that way and she's adopted his disgusting way of thinking to get acceptance... And the next guy's (who picks her) acceptance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:46 PM
3

I want to know more context. Are you meeting him at a restaurant and he brings up wrapped flowers, are you meeting him at his place and they're wrapped up and he puts them in a vase? It seems fishy to me. Why would someone present me with flowers for a few hours. Curious if he's regifting them (or even "innocently" regifting them to his mom).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:06 AM
3

Hopefully you're clueing your therapist on this! 0 to soulmate in every relationship isn't ideal. I hope you take the time to read the handbook and let it sink it especially about how you see yourself and your mentality. You've known him for ages, have history, he's just getting out of a serious relationship and acknowledges it, your first(?) time not going 0 to 60 and having an open set up, during a pandemic where you're looking for normalcy.... Sounds like you're setting yourself up for an ent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:53 AM
2

This might sound ridiculous, but the fact that nothing else is abbreviated except for SOZ AKA SORRY IRKS ME. 🚩🚩🚩 Type. It. Out. Say it. Say. Sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:19 AM
-2

she asks timidly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:13 AM
25

I think it's hilariously brilliant that you are having a better conversation WITH YOURSELF than these fools.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:56 AM
19

I was really hoping hoping the comment section would be exploding, but alas... HVWives not telling us the secret sauce of the zodiac. Happy full moon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:11 AM
8

Most of my exes are aries and I'm an aries and can confirm on the easy going/ no drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:09 AM
11

What is this mf's zodiac sign 😂💫😭😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:47 PM
9

You're a DUDE and he's a DUD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:58 PM
2

Ahaha but I'm betting it will be 😂😭 They're so complicated hahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:57 PM
12

Can you start another sh*t & giggles thread, but for married or serious HVM!? If it's all Geminis... I swear.. 🕵️‍♂️🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:12 PM
9

As an Aries woman, I've never been truly disappointed with Aries men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:10 PM
6

No lies detected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:07 PM
14

So two weeks ago maybe that was true? And he's now "talking with" at least you. He should absolutely still be updating photos and his description to see what's working or rather, what isn't working. This isn't vetting. This is self sabotaging. Have fun on the date and keep your mask on and your eyes open.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:35 AM
61

I'm realizing that there are interview processes that are more difficult to get through than... 🤐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:46 AM
26

I was watching Roman Holiday last night and the main character (Audrey) was boasting about her cooking and cleaning skills, but she just hasn't had the opportunity to prove it. A timeless classic, for sure. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:08 AM
9

But no woman "falls for" this. It's a ruse that everyone is agreeing to not acknowledge sex directly, but every woman who is going to meet up with a guy at his place at 2am after a club closes knows what's up. Women really fooled men. Men think that we want to play video games? Haha FOOL. We want out casual sex too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:16 PM
85

That gets me thinking that if it wasn't for society and matchmakers actively matching couples (and their families) the population of India would be a lot less. Oh the poor women who were forcibly matched with LVM and had to have their babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:56 PM
40

Nothing is free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:44 AM
12

You have one life to live and if you had it your way you'd be living a better and happier one. He's holding you back and he's holding himself back from having a quality relationship. I'm happy you've had a great previous relationship! Hindsight is 20/20 and you will laugh about the loser he was and will always be since he has little ambition to have a good partnership.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:45 AM
80

8 words in and I knew exactly where this was going. Stone cold truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:17 AM
16

Shit. ✨💫✨ The more you know.✨💫✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:45 AM
4

I appreciate that. I am almost always by the book and I understand that all is fair in love and war. She was going to lie and deny, deny, deny, and gaslight him if he didn't actually see it in his own eyes. Two wrong don't make a right, but at least 2 wrongs can lead to divorce instead of her cucking him. Ugh! To cheat in your own home, in the bed you share!? God. Plenty of poly people even have a second bedroom for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:32 PM
18

I was about to inform you that you can't be platonic roommates with a neck beard... But then I clicked your link and you are well aware!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:04 AM
34

I told a guy that he was annoying and stopped talking to him. 6 months later he thought he still had a chance. How?! The chase is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:07 PM
32

Have we noticed how the bulk of men who like a strong, independent woman are not strong or independent themselves? I'm not interested in men who want an independent woman (who will do everything for me and pay the bills) 🧐😏 I see what you're doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:12 PM
7

💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:07 PM
59

Why do all my exes look like this lion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:22 AM
33

Wow. This really makes me think about how I sucked the souls of my exes. That's just the shell of a lion. Keep up and keep it up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:21 AM
77

Someone astutely asked: "How were you friends with someone for 5 years that you just don't like?" His response: "Friends is fine. Dating is a no. She’s the type of person to expect her boyfriend to buy her Birkin bags, pay her car insurance, and give her gas money just for driving over. Which is just absolutely not my type. Friends is cool. We usually hang once every month or two and drink or smoke and just talk about who we’re dating. Before Covid we just went out clubbing together semi-regular…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:19 AM
98

"I know she took a huge risk trying to seduce me" Getouttaherefool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:52 PM
8

Yeah. I had a guy brag about being friends with his ex. One day he randomly pointed out that she was texting him and waited for my response (it was stone cold, like ok, and?) and then muttered "don't be jealous". I stopped seeing him after that. Few things I could seem more pathetic than that. I'm secure. His testing, wanting me to be jealous, and potential triangulation in one small 30 second conversation nailed the coffin for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:43 PM
10

Already follow her on IG 😉 Thanks for sharing this with me and everyone! Will subscribe now on YT and will be clicking away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 06:46 AM
12

So you're around 18 years old and how old is he? How does he have such strong and negative opinions of women, his ex, speculative simping and gold digging. Sounds exhausting, I'm glad you're relieved of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:34 AM
14

Yikes I'm hungry. I could go for a cheese danish. 🥐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:19 AM
146

He's LV/NV. Rose is gold. WITHOUT A DOUBT SHE IS HIGH VALUE. Her communication, boundaries, and unwavering character sold it for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:08 PM
6

Same. We were friends for 4 years before I decided to give him my pussy twice and it was like a relief for him that he wouldn't have to put up with hanging out or communicating anymore. Like, he upgrades to just sex, none of that "bullshit boyfriend stuff" 💀👀 And I'm over here thinking we're gweat fwends 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:49 PM
50

DEAR HUSBAND, please consider how she must feel! How can she ever look at you the same way as well? SHE GOT DICKED DOWN REAL GOOD by a stranger. 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:56 PM
19

We agree that it was something stronger than benedryl, right!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:55 PM
9

Hahaha he IS and well said. Outside of FDS context he just looks like the ultimate caricature of a shell of a person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:22 PM
97

"What do you expect?" THAT mentality/attitude right there is a perfect example of how guys effortlessly put the blame back on you and repeatedly let themselves off the hook. You fell for it, it's not my fault you're gullible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:15 AM
42

GAWD. THE PICTURE OF BEN LIKE THAT IS ON FUCKING POINT IN THESE SITUATIONS. GAWD DAMN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:11 AM
53

Audacity! Does he think she's beneath him and is embarrassed about what you think... Or is he interested in hooking up with you and doesn't want this hook up to ruin his chances?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:08 AM
21

Just ask him if his tongue can still stay hard. That is such a cringe scene. I wonder what he was expecting as a reaction from you. Is he into being humilated? Dude has given up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:48 AM
10

Ehhhhhhh. You're kind of acting LV yourself. Though your feelings are valid, you half ass canceled/postponed just an hour before your date and then strung him along for another 20 minutes to then officially cancel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:42 AM
16

The only good thing about this guy is that he's transparent. He wants out . . . and she should leave the door open for him to go. It's the worst when you're in the thick of things because you're focused on making things work and trying to have a successful marriage, but it takes TWO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:58 AM
9

WHAT. I HAD AN EX COWORKER ASK ME TO "LINK" AND I HAD NO IDEA WHAT THAT MEANT SO I IGNORED IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:13 PM
5

Why isn't he owning up to what he did? I would be feeling ashamed and scared that the baby could have died because of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:09 PM
2

Same. Sorry that's been your experience too. I'm genuinely chill and low maintenance and it has not worked out for me AT ALL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:44 AM
3

And clearly you are chill and low maintenance AND SHOULD BE REWARDED FOR THAT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:32 AM
2

I was about to ask. Have any women ever picked up boyfriends from the airport?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:31 AM
6

He is grooming you to make you feel like it's an inconvenience (20 minutes... IT'S NOT). DON'T let him make you feel like it's "too much" or it's a "favor" it's a simple task and he doesn't want to do it. Is he going above and beyond anywhere else? Or is he coasting and looking to do the bare minimum. I'm annoyed. Oh, and the next day you can Uber yourself to my place, or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:25 AM
3

It's an Amazon Prime Exclusive. Its written by the same writer as Gilmore Girls - so very Lorelei-esque. It's about a woman in the upper east side living the dream in the 1950s - her parents are loaded, she found a rich husband early in life, has two kids... Except she realizes that it's not all she wants. She wants a career, and to be a stand up comedian and is willing to go against the grain. Show is hilarious and about her journey and the quirky stuff she gets into (think I Love Lucy). Some p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:42 AM
2

My heart crack 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:27 AM
15

Yeah, I'm sure it's on his calendar every JU-LIE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:22 PM
11

Funny. Top left guy is the only one who messaged in the morning. Good to know he at least gets up early! Top middle guy looks cute! Shame with the message. RIP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:47 PM
29

Haven't seen this episode in over a year, but just the other day it came up with my mother. We got into a big family argument against my dad, once the dust settled she came to me silently and we exchanged a look. She says, "What have I always told you?" I screamed, "DON'T PICK A WEAK MAN!" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:22 PM
3

Haven't read it, but it's all about what type of personality you work well with and are attracted to. I agree with her. If you're a dominate/assertive/successful lady you would have a 'balanced' partnership who ideally wouldn't be competing with that or you and would he should sit down, shut up, and listen. But that dynamic comes with a slew of problems which is why we're against it. There are tops who like tops, tops who like bottoms, bottoms who like tops and no bottom likes bottoms :) Feminin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:11 PM
82

I will always recall my first love 10 years ago. I told him what I thought was the most romantic thing I or anyone else could ever say to another, "I love you. Not because I need you, because I want you and want to be with you". It did not go over well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:18 PM
18

Ugh, delusional is right! Old dude denying himself reasonable love with someone in a reasonable age range orrrrrr pining over someone 20 years younger to win over.. to prove to the few friends he has that he's still got it. (It = at least one mental disorder).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:57 PM
26

I am the table. 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:07 AM
1

GET OUT OF THERE. How are you feeling about yourself? Demoralized, for sure. You invited this person to help you in life, no? To support and lift you up (geeze, fuck hyping that's long gone)? He's not pulling his weight. How is he thanking you, complimenting you, appreciating you!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:17 AM
1

And him always bringing up the ex. Dude loves triangulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:12 AM
2

Chances are his ego is helping him get to where he wants to be in life. He's just not going to be appreciative about it. Better to be his friend in the meantime and have him pick another girl to use. Then in (x) years after he's finished his residency in who knows what state - you'll have built a friendship. No loss there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:01 AM
4

This is called a risky investment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:58 AM
31

I think dude was trolling. He probably gets off on getting women worked up over shit because HE'S BORED. NEXT. And he's successful with women who don't practice JADE. To avoid crap, circular conversations don't Justify, Argue, Defend or Explain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:43 AM
23

How many men can proudly say: I don't play video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:10 PM
2

This reminds me of when I had a sales job as a cold caller.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:09 PM
5

Mooommmmmmm, you're embarrassing me ! ! !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:19 PM
2

LVM are that sick that you pit your dating prospects against your waifu. Triangulation in different dimensions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:26 PM
16

Yeah. "I mostly go to friends".... as opposed to going to bars. MEH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:16 PM
6

There was a movie of a couple trying all the kamasutra positions in hotel rooms, and it was perfectly fun and sensual. I wish I could remember the name. I'll go back to this post if I remember. I think tantric and kamasutra explain it the best. Connecting and blending and shifting energies. Being comfortable. Touching every part of eachother's bodies just to explore, not because it's suppose to be sexy. Mhm!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:20 PM
-3

This is really, really great! *squeeeaaaallllll* *slaps self* Good job, homie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:02 PM
18

Agreeeeeed. An amazing relationship isn't built on a silver tongue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:01 PM
2

I believe this. Any chance you suspect him to have BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder). How you described him in the bullet points made me do a double take thanks to my similar experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 07:13 PM
19

There's a theory, proposal, experiment, testing, evidence... But that damn conclusion... Where is it!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:01 AM
35

And to be talking about this ex after he's been in a successful marriage for eeeerrrk 10 years!? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:16 AM
1

True as it can be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:41 AM
34

This is an excellent example of men setting up a woman for pickme behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:37 AM
8

That's amazing. And it's totally justified because he's telling you who he is: your enthusiasm does not make him enthusiastic. Neexxxxxxt, asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:33 AM
1

You know where there's nuggets there's gold and gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:29 AM
9

I do this! It's like reverse visualization! Instead on visualizing/fantasizing about my husband and I making breakfast together, but really he does all the cooking and I watch, we both laugh and laugh, he puts on some music so we can do a silly dance while something is finishing in the oven.... (Almost got distracted there, geeze)... I reverse visualize the reality and how he wouldn't acknowledge me, would be playing videogames the whole time, and after I make myself/us breakfast he just takes i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:18 PM
14

Ditto. When extended family asks how I'm still single (I'm, like, really pretty 😂) I almost always say, "I suffer from migraines and I don't need anymore headaches". I get a good cackle from seasoned women. They know. I speak the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:09 PM
8

10000000% The ones who are vocal about wanting an independent woman are usually not providers themselves (or they could be, but don't want to be).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:41 PM
6

The audacity. pikachu face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 12:41 AM
12

Why is that worse in my mind? Storytime: my first love and I decided that he would cum on my face. We had spoken about it before so there wouldn't be any surprises. Even 10 seconds before it happened he asked me if it was okay and I consented. Bam, it happened and to my shock I was immediately horrified and mortified. Frozen. He just as quickly ran to get a towel and we started wiping me off and he just keeps saying "never again" and "sorry". The fantasy of degradation (what a phrase 👀) and real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:57 PM
13

THIS. I also like to sit down in the bathtub and exfoliate myself, have a steamy shower, then lay in bed naked and wiggle in between the sheets and it feels so damn good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:45 PM
5

Apologies on the flair. Didn't know which one would fit best. I've seen a lot of comments of LVM mooching off of pickmeishas. I'm posting this because I've been there. Just a reminder that a man who knows he has very little worth (no money, no power, no status, no beautiful woman, etc) and is a misogynist will try to get MONEY, POWER, AND STATUS over a FEMALE. I haven't indulged FDS with my stories yet. But in my mid 20s I was dating a LVM 7 years older. I worked part time and he worked full tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:40 PM
31

It's a non-stop disco Bet you didn't know, Bet you didn't know, Bet you didn't know It's a violent pornography! Choking chicks and sodomy! The kinda shit you get on your TV!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:08 PM
4

Same with LinkedIn. 🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:43 PM
19

"and get really down to earth"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:15 AM
7

How can we contact the mods to UPGRADE THIS WOMAN'S FLAIR BECAUSE 👏 SHE 👏 IS 👏 NO 👏 FDS 👏 NEWBIE. 🤘🤘🤘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:55 PM
26

NUMBER THREE IS MY LIFE'S MISSION. Helping the next smart woman make her decision a little quicker. 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:01 PM
15

Sounds like you have solid intuition and social skills. Don't ask a lame dude for advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:52 PM
2

Hahaha I was hoping you'd find it amusing! Back to the original post - I did not find his why vs why not impressive. You're texting mr. I-want-to-be-cool low effort guy. But I'm thinking you're already seeing that plus he isn't fun lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:37 PM
2

Y tho?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:52 AM
16

He had ONE job and he messed it up. If you keep him around for longer, you should always remind him that he doesn't know how to woo women. I hope you draw yourself another bath tonight and use the handheld showerhead 😜 No texts will make you feel as good haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:50 PM
15

He probably sees her as high value and he's not worthy of her. And that might be the extent of their relationship. She keeps him at armslength (so he never gets to learn the real her, just the 2D version) and he's chasing the validation he needs from her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:45 PM
17

100%. This isn't textbook negging, but after he got that picture of your naked body in a bathtub there was a fork in the road: 1. Compliment you and make it sexy OR 2. Veer to anywhere else. I would have felt deflated and reminded myself to just enjoy my fucking bath that he just almost ruined. I would have not texted after that and he probably would have changed the subject.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:41 AM
13

He loves that I don't have much experience/haven't dated in 3 years Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:05 PM
1

Got it. Understood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:28 PM
3

Sorry! One more thing! These guys are not about negging AT ALL. It's all about the making you feel special and desired. It's refreshing. A few rolls in the hay maybe is what you need! Maybe it's some therapy sessions. Maybe it's some sex therapy with your husband (think Meet the Parents yoga tantric sex).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:27 PM
1

Yeah, when you're feeling yourself and then someone comes by and makes you feel like the DESIRED woman you are. Itsa good feeling. Are these things that you're talking about with your husband at all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:21 PM
3

Keeping it short and sweet: there's a reason why this guy has a bunch of women around him like a cult leader... because he is one. He has honed his craft and so he's basically a male escort. He's the hetero-male equivalent of a petite, submissive, giggly female with small hands and big boobs. I've been with a few of these guys as a single gal and have had an AMAZING TIME. 5 stars. Didn't even have to leave money on the night stand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:07 PM
5

If you want to be on his level of mean (which is what I've done in the past when I see gaslighting)... In your specific situation after he calls me emotional I would say: Ok, if you want me to be really honest I'm not hurt, I'm embarrassed by you. You think you're acting so cool in front of your bros in your group text, but they think you're a joke and probably laugh behind your back. It makes you look bad and then me look bad. Your value is plummeting, just FYI. Guys like this care a lot about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:55 PM
9

Yes to everyone who has commented! Also, since she has been friends with him for a while... She could be playing games with him and manipulating him into putting more of an effort. Especially if she was the mistress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:48 PM
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Everyone is going to say block him. And block him :) But so far these are just words. He's bottom of the barrel picking and his words are a little cringy/desperate, but his actions are not courting. He's at a low and he's still not buying flowers, trying to really woo you. NEXT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:58 PM
20

I can't even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:46 AM
18

Are ya winning, son?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:02 PM
16

Yeah, I think she's told herself that there is worse (and there is) and she is grateful to have a guy at home playing games rather than one who goes to the pub and then club with his pals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:01 PM
2

Upvoted. But she won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:56 AM
17

WOAH WOAH WOAH. HOLD UP, LITTLE LADY. I jest :) But seriously, hold up! A bunch of comments sound like yours. Girl in the video reminds me of myself and how I think. Yeah, it's sort of victim blaming... But it's also about having agency. Rarely are our LVM getting a prize after they leave us. Rant: Yeah, he wasn't into you and didn't want to invest in you because... You were a pickmeisha. Weren't pickmeisha enough! He wants someone he doesn't have to work for. He likes feeling needed, so he goes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:59 AM
3

Happy cake day! 🎂 You got it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 09:47 PM
6

SAME. I made the mistake of telling a guy that I owned a condo and his attraction grew tenfold. Well, it wasn't a mistake, I was able to see him for the mooch he is. So LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:59 PM
2

We've unfortunately all been there and know what it's like. I asked because I'm thinking how I used to think and I would have paid for it too. 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:56 PM
3

Maybe he likes sucking on athletic mens feet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:53 PM
2

Tell me he paid for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:52 PM
10

🦋 Is this gaslighting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:58 AM
7

No way. Troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:50 AM
38

I've bought little black dressed for $200-250. What a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:09 PM
15

*not the best mentality to have in dating and in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:51 AM
21

"I was lucky enough" 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:48 AM
45

I like this. I like this a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:21 AM
49

💯💯💯💯💯 He wasn't being a HV and generous man, was he? He's keeping a spreadsheet. 🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:17 AM
13

You're creating an abusive dynamic in this relationship now. Sounds like he's not trying to take power from you, control you, dismiss you and put you down... BUT YOU ARE. Who is this dude? He's an interested party. Who are you!? An amazing woman hopefully and he is hopeful to get to know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:35 PM
40

Has this sub talked about how she met her husband? That's a FDS story if I ever heard one. 😍🤓👏💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:04 PM
31

So he's confirming he keeps dating pickmeishas... Who stay with him while he incessantly talks about OP?! Greeeeaaaaat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:53 PM
9

👏👏👏👏 applause for even recognizing and analyzing this feeling within days!!! And within a month of a 6 year break up. It sounds like he did not break you. 👏👏👏👏 You must be a very self aware person and want better for yourself! Love it. I agree with everyone else who says therapy (good online ones during covid) because they'll help you navigate potential hiccups and potential trauma bonds. The only reason why I don't say go with your gut is actually because of trauma bonds. Your gut will tell you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:51 AM
10

I'M DYYYYYIIIINGGGG HAHAHAHA. I've also coughed/sneezed during sex while I was a little sick or had allergies and his peen just popped right out. +1 for the prison strip search. That will now never leave my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 07:44 PM
1

Real question: sunrise or sunset?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 07:29 PM
9

There's gotta be a good powerful word for scrotes specifically like that. Mooch-gold-digger. Misogynistic dudes are always mooch gold digging. Their way of sticking it to the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 07:02 PM
71

YES. Been there once for a brief moment and I was like wait a seconddddddd 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:38 PM
58

This is amazing. Yes! One question I ask myself because I would like to find a HVM to have a family with: Is he listening to my concerns (or is he dismissing, escalating, stonewalling, gaslighting, being thoughtful, being deep)? Is this how he will respond when a child has a concern? Will this response bring trauma into this child's life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:52 AM
10

I just made a weird connection in my mind that our dating mindset is the sex equivalent to struggle porn. It's obvious that men like a struggle or a challenge because they feel LV and not worthy and so this is what victory looks like to them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:27 PM
2

I would just tell him to go put the charger up his butt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:19 AM
170

And ain't that the truth about women's bodies - becomes property to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 11:46 PM
1

mic drop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 08:12 PM
110

The fact that I was worried about being attractive enough is now laughable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:20 AM
13

100% starter wife. I thought the exact same thing when it happened. What's scary to me is if he never had his big break and she happily stayed with his mediocre ass. SAD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:22 PM
2

He poisoned it. He poisoned something you love(d). It's hard to know how to fix your brain. I've been in your shoes - where my brain was almost so easily broken for so long (PTSD-like) and honestly, the only way I got through it was poisoning the abuser in my mind. And I mentioned this in another comment in the thread, but you don't know if he was using you or someone else to triangulate her. You have to cut the poison where it's coming from originally. It's not about the work out (it is, but) i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:44 PM
3

Just fell into this thread and my grandmother says the EXACT same thing to me! House, job, dogs, sleeping in. WHAT'S BETTER THAN THE SIMPLE PLEASURES IN LIFE. LOVE YOUR BEAUTIFUL LIFE. Also, happy cake day to us!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 08:39 PM
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