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I skimmed, but it appears the data is taken exclusively from Tinder and Hinge. Which is lunacy because these are where people primarily to hookup, not for deep meaningful long term relationships. And so these Sherlocks have determined that men are willing to hookup with almost any woman (sometimes almost anyTHING), and the women on these apps are slightly more selective. Something common sense could have told them for free. I hope no taxpayer money was wasted on these inane studies. Now why men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 02:25 AM
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A picnic?!? How pretentious. Is he too good for a simple walk by the local dump?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 07:40 PM
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Yes, something which he takes no responsibility for despite being the one holding the gun as well as a producer of the movie in charge of hiring everyone including the prop master. He's also infamous for a rant directed at one of his daughters by a prior wife in which he called his minor daughter a fat pig among other things. The recording was made public but somehow it didn't hurt his career. He's a disgusting excuse of a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 11:18 PM
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Not sure if this is a man running an OF and exploiting/trafficking a woman by using her images or an actual free woman who has been so traumatized and damaged she has taken on the misogyny instead of getting appropriate therapy. Either way, no thanks on this steaming pile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:07 PM
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On the one hand, men who fall in love with and send money to only fans accounts are idiots. On the other hand, it irritates me that this is just yet another way men exploit women and children - the women disrobing for the camera aren't even profiting from onlyfans, they're just hired help, or more likely human trafficking victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 10:52 PM
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I loathe it almost as much as "he put a baby in her". Ugh, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 12:13 AM
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TIL Nice Guys (TM) are ENTITLED to “females”. Not having an easy bangmaid at your beck and call is worse then than being killed in war. Seems like some quality morals there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 05:14 AM
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is this a for sale post? What kind of raving lunatic posts that inane story in a for sale post. Someone dodged a bullet here and it wasn't this cretin. If in fact there was an engagement at all and if in fact the woman in this story isn't currently locked in his basement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 03:27 AM
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If a guy is negging you, he has just told you everything you need to know about him. If it’s online, just block and delete. If in person, I just make eye contact with a surprised/condescending kind of smile and then leave/turn back to my friend or whatever I was doing. I would never give a man attention for negging. These depraved scrotes crave attention, don’t waste your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:16 PM
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Any man who uses the phrase "put a baby in [a woman]" in any way is letting you know he is irredeemably low value, misogynistic, and pure trash. No reason to waste another second on him or analyze what his neanderthal brain was attempting there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:13 PM
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Not having sex with a man is taking advantage of him?? What backwards pickme hell is this woman living in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:52 PM
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He chose the safe friendship over the passionate love because his "true love" was a bad person. Fine. But he also made that choice for his wife too, while lying to her all along. Notice in his entire word salad he doesn’t show any regard for taking away her chance at true love. What a selfish weasel. ETA - Not even getting into his definition of true love, which as dating-adventures points out below, was clearly unhealthy. I'm just saying he made sure his wife never had a chance at real love and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:16 PM
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Women whose standards are so low they will say yes to walk dates and were not into this fellow. That's all we need to know about his dating energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 11:39 PM
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stop. dating. abusive. men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:02 PM
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The delusion is only exceeded by the sheer entitlement, but the honesty is refreshing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:43 AM
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Agreed on your point. Also it was five men and two “females”. What a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 10:19 PM
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OLD is just so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 08:38 PM
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What a coward - he could at least send her an anonymous note.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 10:48 PM
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Don't forget men who target vulnerable/pickme single moms to get to their children for sexual abuse and/or trafficking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 09:42 PM
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Yeah, work kinda does suck. But the insidious thing about being a SAHM is that you're giving up your most important career building years. Working retail, or starting to climb the corporate ladder - it sucks. But making it into management or building up your own business leads to making more money, becoming more valuable, having more autonomy and flexibility. So it sucks a lot less after awhile. Women who exit the work force in their mid twenties will never make up that lost time. If they ever w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:14 PM
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It's happening and it's absolutely sickening, depraved, and evil. There is already a movement to re-label pedophiles as "Minor Attracted Persons" (MAPs) and treat it as another orientation and say there is no shame/culpability for those who have this orientation. Did your reading indicate anything we can do to fight back against this pervasive evil? Obviously calling it out whenever/wherever we see it and refusing to associate with known perpetrators and their supporters is step one but what els…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:59 PM
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I agree, those were examples of lazy gifts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:20 AM
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He didn't do that accidentally, it was on purpose. It was a passive aggressive dig at your dietary choices. He could have gotten you flowers, jewelry, a stuffed animal, a potted plant, a candle. No, he went out of his way to get rainbow colored cookies. It wasn't laziness, he knew exactly what he was doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:50 AM
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can you please elaborate on trauma informed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 11:10 PM
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The fact that she thinks there’s anything sexy about being degraded and abused is an indication that she desperately needs therapy. She’s not mentally well enough to assert any boundaries, so it’s no surprise that she’s just not sure how to react when someone tries to kill her and rapes her while she’s unconscious. She thinks this is love?!?! Devastatingly sad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:19 AM
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Notice the usage of the passive tense. The man receives, then the children receive. But who is doing the work/action? She doesn’t even get a mention in the sentence about HER labor. And she cooked the meal too. But no mention. Hope she gets a few bites of her work product in between cooking, serving, and cleaning up. Also, he can have that disgusting mess of fried food, hope it contributes to his early death so his wife finally gets a little peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:21 AM
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Please report the entire conversation and whatever user info you have on him to both the FBI and Discord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 07:23 PM
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Malnutrition in the older population (specifically men) is a real problem because they come from a generation of no life skills effort related to domestic work. I fixed it for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 07:16 PM
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I was trapped in a miserable marriage because I’m such a great dad I stayed for the kids’ sake. I took quality parenting to a a new level as I sat on the couch and drank bottles of liquor. FOR THE KIDS. Also I screwed their nanny. Again, not my fault. He’s an embarrassment to men. I think less of Jlo for being with him now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:17 PM
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Sir, this is a Wendy's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 09:27 PM
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Cut that sh** off at the pass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 08:05 PM
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So true. And teachers putting quiet girls next to the rowdy boys in class to calm the boys down. It's exhausting living your life tiptoeing around trying to make sure a man doesn't get upset. And then they call women the emotional ones - pure projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 11:29 PM
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I agree the "understandably furious" comment was heartbreaking. Who would get mad at someone for having to use a restroom?? How do women get to the point of being so broken emotionally that they are ok with that? He has her thinking that she ruined the hike when in fact, he did. ​ There were just so many red flags in that post! She thinks she has to learn to love his outdoorsy lifestyle since she wants to marry him. He pushed her to drink water to the point of throwing up. He ignored her multipl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 11:26 PM
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Too comfortable for whom? Is women's comfort being alone making scrotes and the patriarchy uncomfortable? What a travesty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:28 PM
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Honestly shouldn’t we be doing that anyway??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:46 AM
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We have got to stop glorifying struggle love. Young women feel they must “work on the marriage” meanwhile their husbands are pure trash and clearly not ever going to improve. As an outsider you can see it so clearly but these poor women are completely hoodwinked and feel trapped. Their husbands are deadweight- anchors and these women are martyrs going down with the ship. What a fantastic update, I just wish more women would get out and get out faster, or avoid these LVM altogether. Thank goodnes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:03 AM
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Thirding the DMannose, it works really fast on a UTI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:46 PM
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Wow, you’re a lawyer and a strong independent woman... I’m so proud of you. Your mom is a loon and just doesn’t have her priorities straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 02:28 AM
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Notice he says she’s working full time in an unrelated field, “mostly just for the benefits.” He wants it that way, he doesn’t want her succeeding or earning real money, just wants her to stay busy at a dead end job that doesn’t threaten his ego. Yet he can’t afford to support the family alone or provide health care. What a complete loser. I just hope she realizes it before she becomes even more successful so she won’t end up paying him alimony when she inevitably leaves this selfish, petulant a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:38 AM
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Also men: if you take away our access to porn and prostitution, we’ll have no choice but to commit violent sex crimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 03:17 AM
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Oh sorry, I didn’t take your meaning correctly. Yes, it’s a phrase used in the UK. https://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/as-happy-as-larry.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 11:58 PM
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The poor soul who made a til took video telling how she tried to propose to her boyfriend/baby daddy on her birthday but he went out and refused to come over to her decorated house after he went out. So she and her toddler cleaned up all the balloons and then she said it’s ok, she’s happy as Larry. It was heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 11:42 PM
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Her tricks would be great for parenting a lazy ten year old. But a grown man?? What a sad waste of energy and time trying to trick this loser into pulling his weight around the house. If he had any respect for her, himself, or their relationship, he’d be trying to build a happy life and home with her. Instead he’s trying to see how far he can push her and how little he can invest in their life together. Embarrassing all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 06:51 PM
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I thought the same - no doubt in my mind he is manipulative and abusive after reading his "notes" saying he wanted to keep this private within "the family".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 09:15 PM
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It's just so good isn't it? "I am not going down like that."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:40 PM
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No worries, he won’t get anywhere near the finish line without a woman picking him up out of the gutter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:04 PM
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Please enjoy this alternate ending for The Giving Tree - now with healthy boundaries. https://www.topherpayne.com/giving-tree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:03 PM
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She helped this unemployed, broke loser recover from his car accident, paid his medical expenses and rent, and then she got him a job. And this is how he repays her. Edit - and these are just the things he recognizes and admits to! Imagine what else this poor woman has done for him that he’s not acknowledging here. She lifted him out of the gutter and now he looks down on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:26 AM
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I totally agree that Joey is terrible, portrayed as a sweet innocent child, but also total womanizer. Not sure the other two are any better - Chandler - porn addict, repeatedly cycles through Janice, wasting her time as he pursues, uses, and inevitably dumps her. Uses his childhood trauma as a reason to fail at relationships instead of getting therapy. Ross - obsessive, controlling, jealous, had to be medicated and removed from the workplace due to anger issues. But worst of all, he completely a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 03:19 PM
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Agree with you but this is true for all women, of ANY age, regardless of inclination toward children/child-free. A man who is worth my time will recognize my value and act accordingly. Anything else is not just wasting my valuable time, it’s subtracting value from my otherwise amazing life and likely preventing me from meeting other people who will add value to my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 04:37 AM
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omg not sure which of these people looks more foolish. Him for his deplorable behavior or her for expecting him to change. Hope sis wises up and doesn't have a third kid with this loser. Or at least takes down this video which shows her address on the paperwork sitting in front of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 05:45 PM
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Her friend isn't successful because she had a baby at 24. She's successful because she didn't make marrying a loser a higher priority than her own career, and she kept grinding to make her dreams come true. The saddest part is this woman thinks her life is over at age 32 and doesn't seem to realize she has 50 more years to turn things around, to do the grad school and/or career thing and leave the useless man where he belongs, on the floor with his boxers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 05:40 PM
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As if by living in the house rent free he has somehow contributed to the increase in equity. I see he doesn’t mention all the cleaning, decorating, maintenance, and upgrades he likely hasn’t done either. Parasite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 04:23 PM
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Of course I respect her boundaries... but here’s all the reason why I’n justified in not respecting her boundaries. I can’t even with men anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:14 PM
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Is this guy named Brad and does he live in Texas? Because I think he and his mom were recently featured in tiktok vids. He uses a lot of words to say he is entitled to casual hookups and is mad women aren’t rolling over with their legs in the air. And his mom isn’t even embarrassed. So sad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:07 AM
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yes! And sharing strategies for keeping their women under control with drugs. Sheesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:15 PM
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Not even dinner, he changed to that line by the end but in the beginning he told on himself: he’s asking random women on Facebook to get a drink with him. Embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:48 AM
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Why wasn’t he brought in for questioning? At the very least he should have been arrested for stealing her van. More bro cops protecting abusers?? It’s just sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:08 AM
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I didn't even watch the whole thing but I already caught Brian in two lies at one point he claims that he hit the curb because Gabby grabbed the wheel, later it's because she was attacking him. He also claims his id is in the car, but turns out it's been in his pocket the whole time. I skipped part because I couldn't listen to that weasel anymore. Now I'm up to just past the one hour mark where the cop takes Brian to his free hotel stay (while Gabby is referred to a truck stop where she can driv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:42 PM
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Bradley is A GOOD BOY. A NICE GUY. He doesn’t have to show this in his behavior since both he and his mother have told you it’s true. He is entitled to sleep with this gorgeous woman and she is obligated to put up with his lies and rudeness. It’s only FAIR. His friends and his mother all agree. If she is lucky, Bradley will allow her to work (until he murders her or cheats on her, or both), but only part-time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 03:24 AM
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I'm hoping for the same. The radio station is https://www.hot933hits.com/shows/mornings/ but I missed the live version and don't see a recorded version available anywhere. I'm invested now, I have to hear the Mom's voicemails!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 06:59 PM
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Exactly! These men believe that they are entitled to women, they are more fully human and have more rights than women. It's so sad to see women begging for help on reddit relationship forums - help me understand his selfishness, help me communicate to him that I'm deserving of basic respect, help me not resent him for abusing me. We don't need to understand or communicate with or fix men that don't treat us well. These are impossible goals. The only answer is to be independent and avoid these ty…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:56 PM
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This right here. No HVM is making sexual comments/jokes/innuendo in the first interactions. It's a clear indication that he has no respect for you or himself and nothing good will come of this person. He's shown you exactly who he is. No need to waste a single second further at that point, just block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:38 PM
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Buys luxury brands and expensive electronics for himself and his family while she gets a budget ring and no honeymoon, makes her feel bad for having $10k in debt while lying about his own $40k debt. And when confronted, cries and implies that SHE is a gold digger. And of course there’s a 7 year age difference, he couldn’t trick anyone his own age into marrying him. Throw the whole man away sis, there’s nothing of value here. I hope she can get an annulment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:10 AM
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It may have started as a complaint about racism but it's moved well beyond. Any woman who has any complaint about anything is now called a Karen to shut her up. She's entitled to nothing and has no power. All she had before was the ability to talk to the manager or call the cops, and now she can't even do that without being insulted for the crime of being female and not sitting down and shutting up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:25 AM
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"fall into our trap and bring up commitment themselves" "I'm happy to continue using him for money, driving, companionship, and fun" "I met a man in May who I had sex with for 1-2 weeks " / "I haven't had sex with him since our initial meeting in May and he's never pressured me." I'm not convinced your post and intentions are genuine. I don't think women need to pretend they want casual relationships and or pretend to want casual sex in order to trick men into marrying them which I think is what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:36 PM
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Pure wisdom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:25 AM
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We're cool with exploiting sex workers until Sep 30. After that we're going to need to project an image of morality for business reasons so bye bye sex workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:14 AM
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This whole diatribe reads like linked in spam. Pure self-promotion even the author doesn’t believe. Just click-bait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:31 AM
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exactly - the man is literally a Prince, heir to a kingdom, and Low Value AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:46 PM
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A comedian did a parody interview as a flight attendant in this incident and I can’t stop laughing at it!! https://www.instagram.com/tv/CSJrcPFn4Iy/?utm_medium=copy_link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:46 AM
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The thing that bugs me the most is how Charles seemed jealous of how popular she was. She was good at her job as a royal and wanted to make a positive impact on the world. She outshone him in every way and instead of realizing how much good they could do as a team, he acted like a petty, jealous, selfish cheating weasel and expected her to sit back, shut up and take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:23 AM
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He can go on a first date, order a meal, and complain and pout to his date but not make a simple correction with the waiter? That’s not anxiety, that’s a lazy, manipulative man testing a new date to see if she’ll be a pickme and willing to do all the emotional labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:38 PM
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So true. Imagine intentionally wasting the time of people trying to prevent suicide. It's a special kind of selfishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:55 PM
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He almost gets it, but then covers his lyin' eyes and refuses to cross the finishline. Excuse me sir, did WE create a society where harassment and assault against women is commonplace, and often celebrated? Or do MEN perpetrate these acts of violence so frequently, with the implied and/or outright cheering support of their brethren, that it's just common sense for women to be on their guard all the time? And is it SAD for YOU big man? Boo hoo, please have a performative tissue for your performat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:21 PM
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This should be tagged “wholesome content”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:27 PM
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Keep in mind that he was the one bothering the sweet quiet girl; OP stopped it. Not sure I’d call that mean even if she did call him a bad name in the process. edit - shoot this was supposed to be a reply to the comment "Ngl this post seems unnecessarily mean..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:35 PM
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Tell me you’re an abusive, controlling freak without telling me you’re an abusive, controlling freak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:42 PM
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So glad he has finally spoken up about her controlling behavior and negative spirit. This man clearly is not just incredibly self-aware, but also has a kind, generous, loving heart and his way of speaking is just so attractive. Surely she will be thankful he has laid out these easy steps to a happy, harmonious marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:35 AM
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Thanks for your feedback! I'll be sure to give it all due consideration, Mr. Misogynistic Weasel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:48 AM
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He won't LET her take the baby and go stay somewhere else? And she's following his rules and subjecting her babies to this? WTH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:15 PM
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Thanks for the link!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:35 PM
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a. If this were true, it would still be atrocious and morally wrong to let a subset of women and children be victimized to save the rest of women from violent men. b. It's clearly not true, because there has never been more accessibility to porn, free sex and paid sex, and there has been no corresponding decrease in violent sexual assault. It's not enough for violent men. They don't rape due to lack of access to sex. They rape due to their own violent selfish desires and a complete lack of moral…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:07 PM
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Did she say why the assaulter wasn't kicked out of the pool? Even if they didn't witness the assault, it sounds like he didn't deny it and they did witness him swimming too slow in the fast lane. That is so frustrating. She said she had to leave, which I assumed meant she felt she had to leave for her own safety since the assaulter was staying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:44 PM
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We already knew from the age gap he had no respect for her, now he is making sure his friends know as well. And she is the one feeling like an awful girlfriend??? What kind of power does this scrote have over her common sense? Making a woman feel guilty for not wanting her explicit photos enlarged and hung on his wall? Exposed to everyone he invites over, including her co-workers, not to mention the print shop employees. The only thing she should be doing is pretending she's fine until she can g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:34 AM
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Can you imagine being attracted to a man so useless he is spending hours/days salivating at the window like a dog? Much less being jealous of this subhuman's attentions? And then admitting it in open court? OMG the mortification.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:20 PM
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Excellent questions. It makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:33 AM
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Yet another man who feels entitled to have his peepee serviced. It's exhausting. I'm assuming he didn't actually serve her with legal papers, but I wish he had so it could be shared with his clients now, along with her affidavit regarding the state of his hygiene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:30 AM
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How many of the many men who go totally off the rails (of their own volition), and hurt others get pushed into conservatorships - none. Bieber, Tiger Woods, Johnny Depp - all still in charge of their own lives. They might go to "rehab", but they don't lose their freedom or their money. Only women get railroaded into conservatorships. And women are usually pushed off the rails for entertainment by antagonistic, misogynistic press vultures. Not just paparazzi, even so called serious journalists li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:25 AM
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Walk around a food court as a first date, LOL. doesn't get much more low-effort than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:04 PM
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I hope you instantly blocked and deleted this freak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:58 PM
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This is 100% unarguably true. It's so sad to see women staying with abusive men "for the sake of the children" when any child would be so much better off far away from an abusive man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:23 PM
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this is all 100% true. Be courteous, have a friendly chat about non-personal things. But it's not their business and no good will come from them knowing what your boyfriend does for you, buys for you, where he takes you, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:15 PM
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Die... and leave behind motherless children who are still under the influence of the LVM and his relatives, perpetuating the cycle of misery and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:59 AM
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The video she made is on her instagram. It's literally exactly what the article says, just a short video of their own rude comments, including bragging about sexual assault, their laughter, and her addition of statistics. I heard they may have dropped the ridiculous lawsuit but haven't seen confirmation. The best part: these fools and their $15 M lawsuit brought a lot more attention to her video! https://www.instagram.com/naturalcarpentry/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:01 AM
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Hair style training mannequins are creepy, but tricking unsuspecting women into coming over to your house by pretending to be a hapless idiot - that's not creepy at all. Worse than a walk date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:52 PM
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This is infuriating and yet, not even surprising. Men who feel entitled to their vulgar behavior and also don't wish to be called out on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:30 PM
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Wise counsel here. This is the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:14 PM
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EDIT - OP messaged me and said her comment was deleted for lack of flair, my mistake. I apologize If I spoke harshly, and hope OP stays safe. Looks like OP replied to me and then deleted it. The notification I got said she was "even going to let her friend park a few blocks away." Not sure what else was on there. Sis, please get it together. I don't think you're seeing clearly here. Protect yourself. Don't go over to the house of an abuser. And don't blame your friend for caring more about you t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:07 PM
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excellent plan. My only complaint about the woman's reaction was that it would hurt my throat to scream like that. Problem solved!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:43 PM
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Your post on another forum indicates that your bff refused to drive you over to the abuser's home in order for you to break up with him and you feel betrayed by her for this. Honestly, that seems reasonable and wise. You don't owe an abuser anything, much less risking your safety and that of your friend. I would never knowingly deliver a friend into the hands of an abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:35 PM
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I don't think it's fake, there was a post here last week about a gynecologist saying this has happened multiple times to her patients.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:28 PM
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I just threw up in my mouth a little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:51 PM
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interesting that the article (and perhaps the study, I haven't read it), only hypothesizes that the reason is women are trying to perform good wife role. It doesn't ever get around to the obvious conclusion - perhaps the husbands are actually the cause of the additional work. It also never ties in the many studies showing married men are healthier and happier and more successful in their careers than non-married men (while the opposite is true for women). It seems obviously related - exhausted w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:17 PM
19

This guy was so pathetic. In the comments he stated (I'm paraphrasing here) that he could get his high rank back by playing for a few days against lower ranked players but this would be boring, therefore his tantrum was completely justified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:27 PM
2

It's improper cleansing in the shower, a dirty towel, and also buildup on their clothes. If you don't wash your clothes properly, stank gets stuck in the fibers. Then their body heat warms up the clothes and releases the odor. It can also be from living in an unclean home (especially with pets), or body odor from a junky diet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:30 PM
5

Your friend saw what he said to you and she's upset with YOU? That's not a friend. He seems like a violent psychopath and she's encouraging it. I'd stay the heck away from both of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:06 AM
3

His feelings got hurt. So she's supposed to pretend this is not revolting so he can continue to spread his filth without getting feelings won't be hurt. What has happened to men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:50 PM
17

Calling it dating is tricking women into thinking there is a possibility of a long term future. Let's be honest. Men are looking for commitment-free sex, with a side of free emotional and physical labor, for as long as is convenient for them. Bonus points if this bang-maid will pay their rent and buy them video game consoles. Why are women signing up for this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:44 PM
3

Where is this? Isn't the guy in the neon vest a security officer? Why isn't he doing anything??? I really hope this video is being used to identify and arrest these little thugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:01 AM
8

Courtney was SIXTEEN at the time that Chrissy sent those tweets. WTH???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:18 AM
5

"it's not worth buying an entire pig just to get a little sausage"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:40 AM
15

Yes, definitely a wedding ring clearly visible at 0:10. It appears someone is married to this loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:32 PM
10

ermagerd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:12 AM
3

The most attractive form of hobosexual - the selfish, demanding, and entitled hobosexual. Hope she words her concerns very carefully so she can hang onto this prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:10 AM
7

don't do it! I did it and I regret it immensely. I am still married and I have children. I don't want anything to do with my husband's family of origin and frankly see no need to share a name with my parents either. I wish we had created a new meaningful name for our family. If my husband had refused that, hyphening the kids' last names would be my second choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:43 PM
2

You should report that little weasel to HR. It's one thing to make a mistake. It's another to whine when you ask him to simply correct his mistake. But to then to make these statements - it’s gonna be hard to find a guy like that/you’re gonna be alone.” And he said I seemed “hard to satisfy”. Report that conversation straight to HR and get it in his record because it's incredibly unprofessional to speak like that in the workplace and you know this is a pattern with this pathetic manbaby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:13 AM
13

These two things are highly correlated - the low value woman who will dump her friends for the man is always going to have a low value man who treats her like garbage. Part of a LVM's arsenal for keeping a woman is isolating her from her friends and family, her career, everything that was good in her life and gave her a support system. On the other hand, a high value woman has high value friendships and attracts high value men High value men understand and value a woman's friendships. HVM are no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:05 PM
32

It's a patriarchal catch 22 - the woman can't win and the man can't lose. He allocates to her the responsibility to both unconditionally accept and simultaneously improve the faulty man. I propose a new radical paradigm - how about if faulty men take responsibility for improving their own lazy selves? K thanks bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:41 PM
95

Third date at a sandwich shop? How romantic! /s No thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:46 PM
13

Leave. Us. Alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:15 PM
128

They think women owe them sex, household support and emotional support. They literally think that random women on the street not giving them sex is a form of violence against them. Absolutely warped, entitled victim mentality at every step.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:14 PM
11

While I maintain a healthy skepticism of male advice and motives, as we all should, this video is full of truth bombs. No lies detected here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:05 PM
10

I love to see posts like this! So happy you're here and even happier that you are changing your life for the better!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:18 PM
31

I wish there were some stats on how many men commit suicide due to their own actions about to come to light - e.g. getting caught as pedophiles or embezzling or some other illegal and immoral activity. And of course their suicide methods are more successful because they choose violent, messy ends, with no regard for who will find them and be traumatized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:34 PM
48

This story enraged me, both the murder and the reporting. I saw headlines calling the murderer her "suitor" and describing this as a "love triangle." Then you read the actual details and it's clear this was a loser she was just trying to be nice to. He found out she had a boyfriend, so he murdered her. Remind me again how we're supposed to let them down gently so as not to hurt their feelings? The only reason this is being sensationalized is that her boyfriend witnessed the murder and then went …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:12 AM
11

Weird how some women's version of empowering feminism looks like degradation, mistreatment, and pandering to men's every disgusting wish. Funny how that happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:58 PM
30

I quietly packed up my stuff and left. I owned my home before we met, never sold it and not renting it out anymore, so had somewhere to go. I didn't say a word. This is how a Queen leaves. Whatever else happened, when you had had enough, you left with dignity. You're only 31, you have plenty of time to build a life you love and I have no doubt that you will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:15 PM
3

vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:11 PM
9

"Obviously I need to confront him." There's something she obviously needs to do and it's not confront this parasite. It's GTF away from him. So sad he's damaged her so much she can't even see it. Once again, a woman thinks she can communicate a loser into treating her better. She can't. He would if he wanted to. He doesn't. It's exhausting and demoralizing just to read about this, I can't imagine voluntarily living in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:53 PM
8

If there weren't an actual child victimized by this entitled loser, it would be hilarious. He needs iMmEdIaTe HeLp like he's going to get an emergency injunction or file a kidnapping charge or something. The part that got me was when he said "If I had known she would be like this suddenly I'd have requested off or asked to come in earlier." So it wasn't that he was forced to work, it was that he chose to work late, knowing it was going to put him over 2 hours late to pick up his son. He thinks h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:31 AM
57

Classic male responses here: He says she can't take a joke. He deflects and accuses her of something else. He is is angry at her. HE is angry at HER!! Classic pick me response - I love him, my feelings can somehow make him into a decent human being despite all evidence to the contrary. The fact that she even bothered to confront him instead of going home, changing the locks and tossing his belonging outside...Is there any hope for women in this world?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:33 PM
3

I don't get it, what makes her think he didn't sleep with this "girl"? I mean like what level of denial do you have to be in to say well he hid his phone from me, texted another woman while in bed with me, keeps photos of her on his phone, lied to me about going on a trip with her, stayed in a hotel with her, lied about all of it to me until I caught him but probably he's being honest about not actually having intercourse with her. I'm sure getting married will solve all this. How many lies does…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:05 AM
2

Yes! Focus on yourself, grieve the end of your dreams for that relationship, heal from it, and build a life you love. You will look back and be so proud of yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:50 AM
28

Oh FFS. Beyond the screaming double standard here, he's clearly making this up to punish her for something and/or to lay the groundwork for blaming her for his cheating. He obviously knew she wasn't a virgin when they married, she has a son. I just hope she doesn't have kids with this scrote before she comes to her senses and leaves him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:11 PM
32

So their mental health issues can be solved by (a) seeking therapy, doing work to improve themselves, (B) hiring a prostitute or (c) committing mass murder. HMMM, obviously (a) is too difficult. I wish I could do (b) but it's illegal. Guess my only remaining option is (c). It's also illegal but it's just the logical choice. Once again, men blaming women for their own inadequacies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:57 PM
1

My boyfriend wants to impress our friends and restaurant servers without actually having to put in the work of providing, so I let him commit credit card fraud and pretend he's my hero. ICK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:51 PM
19

I can't think of anything on earth that would make me want to put up with a low-effort scrote like this. He knows she wants a romantic, thoughtful proposal if he cared one iota for her, he'd have already done it. If the bar is this low at the beginning of the relationship, will he even get off the couch at all after a decade or so? Imagine raising kids with a loser like this. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:10 PM
16

This sounds made up. Could your family be fibbing here? If it’s not, I’d try to get a journalist involved since you have no personal contact with the school or the girls there. I’m sure someone could write a great article about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:24 PM
18

Yikes, that is a really good point. And would explain a lot, including stepmom’s nastiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:46 AM
41

I think this was linked here recently? Anyway I found it interesting both times. The interesting part is that he already thought he did feed the dog. He would have said they were 50/50 on this task, or even more 90/10. He never thought about all that goes into it. He still wouldn't do it right. Which is typical - men think they're doing half or more than half of the work and they're just intentionally clueless about what the work actually is. And the footnote at the end: "Simon would like it not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:55 PM
5

I'm glad you're not responding. That message was disgusting and threatening. Keep copies and take whatever precautions necessary for your own safety. Keep blocking him everywhere and if there is any other contact, go to the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:50 PM
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Hell no. I would be extremely concerned about this beyond the wardrobe. Your daughter didn't stand up for herself and didn't want you to stand up for her. Why?? What is she experiencing over there? Is she telling you everything? so he won’t be triggered to be sexually inappropriate with her. It sounds like this is something that has happened already??? Screen shot these texts, along with a description of the man's support of this position as well as anger at the thought of daughter wearing a tan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:37 PM
49

I've only watched the trailer but all I could think was why does he keep touching her when she clearly wants to get away from him? Oh, because he's a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:22 PM
8

Thanks for posting this reminder for the OLD future victims. If your standards are so low that you will accept a walk date, this is what you can expect. Low quality texts and low quality sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:12 PM
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Um, what is "took it out on me". You can't just throw that in casually and not explain. Did he hang up on her, did he punch her in the face? Oh nevermind, let's just talk about his reasons and how she can help and support him. <eyeroll> On the other hand, I guess I'm thankful she realizes this is not healthy or normal. Some women aren't even there yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:23 PM
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Woah, talk about taking no responsibility for his own unprofessional, unethical actions! This sounds very threatening. I hope you forwarded this message to his former employer, it will confirm for them that they did the right thing and dodged a major bullet. If you haven't already, please file both the original complaint and a copy of this message with your state board of pharmacy (or whatever the equivalent is if you're not in the U.S.). This guy shouldn't have access to humans at all, much les…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:35 PM
11

I feel like it's totally ok, if not a social good, to shame people with disgusting habits. Farting in women's faces, pooping outside toilets, not brushing your teeth, anything else that shows disrespect for your own health or dignity or that of others. Calling it a kink or a fetish does not make it sacred. Let's call it what it is: disgusting, degrading, unacceptable, and deserving of shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:14 PM
8

Man doesn't care about your pleasure - deal breaker. Age gap - deal breaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:52 PM
6

Yes! I wish more women would remember who the fuck they are!! Love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:50 PM
19

Just another MGTOW, but also completely obsessed with hating and controlling women. Sad waste of a life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:51 PM
39

KINDLY. He says it KINDLY. Vomit. Throw the whole man away sis, he's worthless to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:48 PM
106

Absolutely this. Tinykittenteeths, please report this post to the proper authorities. We can only hope they do something, at least put him on a watch list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:41 AM
12

Just who is dehumanizing whom here? The woman who waits to get to know a man before having sex or the guys that are only using women for sex before dumping them? This fool actually says it's dehumanizing not to let men dehumanize women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:25 AM
3

Brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:30 AM
7

You're so right, it was truly disgusting for him to push her to talk about that (in a work environment no less). The man is the governor of New York and thinks it's totally fine to pursue employees 40 years younger than him. WTF?!? And the classic non-apology apology - it's their fault for taking his sexual talk seriously - that's super normal office banter. I customarily kiss my co-workers too. That picture of him with his hands on the woman's face just skeeves me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:02 AM
6

In all fairness, imagine the horror of being alone with a LVM's low value thoughts for two solid hours. It's pretty frightening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:55 AM
6

Oh FFS. This dustball deserves nothing. I really hope Juliana shares this with everyone woman in the church to make sure everyone knows there is an entitled potential predator on the loose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:21 AM
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I read what you wrote, including the part about not getting an apology. I respectfully disagree with trying to reason with LVM for any reason. I don't think they're going to change how they treat you or any other woman because you rationalized them into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:48 PM
2

Thank you for the laugh, that is just comical. Has there ever been a man with a weaker opening line? Your response was absolutely perfect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:37 PM
23

I think your thoughts and concerns here are very valid but if I may offer a different strategy for you to consider. If a man you are dating treats you in a way you don't like, let him know you don't like it, once. No need to bring his kids into it. You don't need to justify it, rationalize it, prove your theorem to him, whatever. You just let him know that's not acceptable to you. If he cares about you, he'll change it immediately. If he doesn't, no discussion necessary, just ghost him or at mos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:31 PM
6

Sweet and supportive? Makes her feel loved and special? This poor woman is completely disconnected from reality. She still believes in the potential of this relationship vs. the actual evidence right in front of her. He literally contributes nothing to this family. He doesn't pay for anything, doesn't do any chores or child care, can't be bothered to change a diaper or pay attention to his own child. If that weren't horrifying enough, he's also borrowing money from her and making messes for her …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:28 PM
2

Women getting degraded and victimized with accompanying violence and disease for mens' enjoyment and mens profit has been happening for centuries and is apparently no problem. Women cut out the middle man and start degrading themselves for profit in the safety of their own homes, suddenly Amro becomes the caped crusader of morality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:59 AM
60

I just threw up reading that. So wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:20 PM
57

“He hasn’t been notified yet.” I’m not into stuffed animals or arcade games but I am really loving that update. Imagine having an ego so large you think you can tell another grown person what to do like that. The scrotacity!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:39 PM
5

Wait, it gets worse. I saw this one and the same user had posted a few days pripr that she was in a hotel with her "boyfriend." IIRC, they were a previously online/LDR that had only gotten together in person in this hotel for 2 weeks and also were visiting his friends, a married couple. She overheard him talking on the phone to his friends saying that things were "rocky" and other negative stuff. So there's further evidence, even though it's obvious from the venmo request alone, that he is about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:52 PM
31

Wut? It worked out well for both? She's a bangmaid with a stylish wardrobe. A slave. This is human trafficking with nice clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:26 PM
30

That’s what got me too. Dismayed. It’s both ridiculous and ominous at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:21 AM
8

32 year old men are immature. Not selfish, just immature. But women amazingly mature the second they become 'legal'. I'm just so sick of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:48 AM
8

i bet sleazy men at work google their female coworkers like this hoping to find nudes Even if you don't put nudes out there, your sleezy mco-workers will find a way to objectify you. Apparently just having a drivers license photo is enough for these scumbags. https://www.wired.com/2012/02/cop-database-abuse/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:13 PM
2

I gotta say, I have never been randomly surfing the web for wholesome activities and got slapped in the face with full frontal nudity of the young women I know. Also not sure why he's googling to find instagram photos instead of searching on instagram. His pathway to this surprise discovery is pretty contrived. But then he didn't just notify his GF (of 2 whole months) like a concerned adult would and then leave the rest up to GF to deal with as a parent, he also advised her "if she's going to do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:09 PM
55

Meh. Not sure what you find fascinating here?? She's young and stupid and already pretty boring. Lots of 20 year olds think they have the world figured out and their frontal cortex isn't even fully formed. Let's check back in when she's 40, exhausted, broke, her smocked dresses are tight and her unremarkable husband is on his second or third affair. Maybe then she'll value respect and independence and want more for her daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:29 PM
14

'ExPeRtS say hell yes' to having sex with someone when you don't even know if he brushes his teeth or cleans himself regularly. You don't know yet if he's a serial cheater, has mommy issues, or can't be bothered to clean up his own hovel. 'Experts' want you to make yourself your most vulnerable to a total stranger. I can't think of anything less empowering or sexy. Pass me with these 'experts' and their misogynistic, dangerous advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:36 PM
2

same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:31 AM
3

Yikes this reads like satire. I don't understand why her statement of forgiveness, which was coerced in front of relatives and a pastor, didn't induce a lobotomy to make her forget my betrayal and untrustworthiness. We proceeded with the meeting without her and decided she will quit her job? I don't understand why she didn't let me confiscate her car keys? What in the fresh hell? Was this posted on a cult forum of some kind?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:02 AM
1

'problems and a weird smell'. Preach it Queen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:04 PM
3

Just so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:44 PM
3

OK Kitty baby made me throw up in my mouth. But then the stick figures are making me laugh so hard! A grown man drew this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:42 PM
14

Hilarious - that's a whole lot of words from someone who "don't deal with bases chicks like you." Translation - Paul is butthurt. He has no respect for the fact that a woman might just have a right to her own opinion. He actually thinks he can logicize/insult you into changing your personal preference for being child-free and you should take his advice, I guess because he appears to be male? Side note, he's hatfishing, in a backward cap no less. Does anything scream manchild more than a backward…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:40 AM
1

I agree, the word partner implies 2 people in a partnership, working together to build a life together. Similar to a partnership in the business/tax world - 2 people working together to build a business. Boyfriend makes more sense in the scenario described.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:47 PM
4

I absolutely love your response, it was perfect. Seriously could not have been more perfect. It's not just that he feels threatened by your full life compared to his likely empty life, and probably thinks women's lives should revolve around a man, not their own interests. It's also that he feels entitled to comment on it in a patronizing way - in a group therapy session no less?!? The absolute audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:59 AM
10

"Looking for a sidepiece with low expectations so I can cheat on the mother of my child."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:21 PM
18

Going nun..... I'm deceased.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:25 PM
6

this was my take on Untamed as well. I'm not sure if it's that the happiness feels forced or if I just like my wisdom from folks with a little more seasoned experience I guess. She seems to be making it up as she goes along. And it really makes me nervous to see her jump right into a new marriage and bring her kids along for the ride. I also have a natural distrust for people who put excessively personal details of their marriage on instagram so that may be part of it. It all just feels like a p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:19 PM
78

And every tv show where the hapless slob sits on the couch while his gorgeous wife handles everything in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:16 AM
14

Do report it to the German authorities if you can figure out how to do that. But don't tell women who have liked his photos as you can assume they're all pickmes just like that doctor and who knows if they will tell him what you are doing and you'll become a target. It's sad that you can't warn these woman but you can't. Unless you can figure out who his wife is - then definitely share a screenshot with her anonymously!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:08 AM
1

This made me laugh so hard. This guy and his 170 other incel followers staying up late at night circle-jerking about how to keep their imaginary women from wearing pants or having bank accounts. Excuse me, not pants, trousers. This slays me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:58 AM
9

He left pee on your bathroom floor? So glad you are rid of this leach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:26 PM
4

Valentines Day at Burger King?? What did I just read???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:18 PM
3

Why are men such assholes[?] about women's muscles?? Fixed it for you. But to answer your question, I think it's a combination of their insecurity and the entitlement they feel to everything about the owned objects they see women as.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:48 PM
29

Sadly, they're almost always degrading/objectifying you behind your back to other men even as they're friendly to your face. I've heard so many stories lately of women who thought they were good friends with guys for years until suddenly she was in a vulnerable spot and he hits on her, or worse. There was a post here just the other day of a woman who broke up with her boyfriend, was feeling down, so two guys she thought she was long term platonic friends with thought this was a good time to swoo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:58 PM
12

Rather bold of this scrote to think there's a line forming here. I'm sure fat girls and black girls are quite disappointed not to get a chance with this hideous man and his equally hideous mustache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:40 PM
44

She thinks these are good friends even after they admit they have discussed behind her back how much they want to get in her pants and now while she’s vulnerable they’re going to pressure her into a threesome. FFS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:47 PM
15

I don't believe in the death penalty but cases like this make me want to re-consider my principles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:34 AM
40

yep - the article even says that he knew her prior to the murder. That's not a coincidence I can believe in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:34 AM
60

Oh he absolutely hit her on purpose. The article says "Lewellyn and Sutherland were known to each other but the nature of their relationship remains unclear." What are the odds that this sick loser happens to accidentally run down a jogger and he happens to know her? This isn't something that happens. And then instead of calling an ambulance, he loads her up in his truck to molest her, buries her body and then goes about his day? My God the depravity, the pure evil. This poor woman and her famil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:32 AM
9

I have never heard of this. Why is this a thing? What are they trying to prevent? Is there some rash of people divorcing and then regretting it? Modern day slavery is exactly what this is. Forcing people to stay married. My word, every time I think we've reached maximum misogyny, I am proven wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:41 PM
12

I have second hand embarrassment for this woman and I can't even see her face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:04 AM
13

I'm disgusted by the depravity but I'm elated by the happy ending!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:57 AM
3

The "all good" would really bother me. He asked a question, you answered in good faith, he's not even interested or interesting enough to fake attention to your response. He appears to be checking off items on a PUA list or something. Ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:19 AM
19

and barnyard animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:47 PM
10

They assume any woman who gives them any attention wants to sleep with them because that's all they think women are good for. But then to come over and complain to you - that's some next level entitlement. UGH so glad you are beyond that phase! You deserve better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:31 PM
1

What a vicious crime - valuing your own peace. How dare we.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:04 AM
5

Poor Sis wasted a year on this fellow, communicating and treating him how she wanted to be treated. He showed her exactly who he is and exactly what he thought of her last year but she didn't want to accept the truth. RIP to that year of her life. Hopefully she will wise up now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:08 PM
75

LoGic and CoMmuNiCaTion. I just hurt myself rolling my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:36 AM
16

This is the way. And save the evidence for suing him later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:53 PM
5

Revolting. The daughter won't say when the relationship started - she's protecting this pedophile from statutory rape charges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:43 AM
5

I feel like the demands for communication with uncaring men is much more harmful than "irritating" the bull. At best, it puts the responsibility on the woman to teach basic relationship/life skills to a grown man who should know better. But even more concerning, it puts the woman in a vulnerable place because she's dealing fairly and expecting the same honesty back. She's thinking if she just worded things better, said it nicely or respectfully or a few more times, he would understand and change…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:40 AM
10

That's horrible. I'm so sorry you went through that. No child or woman should have to experience any of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:19 AM
74

This makes sense to me. If someone takes your money by threat of violence, deception, or coercion, it's still theft. So similarly sex under threat of violence, deception, or coercion is all rape. However, I don't want to minimize the greater atrocity of violent rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:02 PM
56

so wholesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:53 PM
10

Yikes, sounds horrifying. So glad you got out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:45 AM
6

Man: manipulates everything and everyone he possibly can World: oh he's ambitious, high EQ, relational, successful, CEO material, a real man's man. Any problems he may have are probably a woman's fault and whatever you do, don't kink-shame him or have expectations. Woman: tries to make her own choices or set personal boundaries Men: She's not giving men everything they want? She's not offering free no holds barred sex? What a selfish, manipulative bitch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:36 AM
12

Even if only 1 in 10 are doing the actual raping (which I doubt), the majority of men are part of the problem. What about the men joking about rape, threatening rape, getting off to rape videos, or turning a blind eye? The men doing the grooming, the fathers abandoning their children leaving them vulnerable. The men taking advantage of womens' history of being assaulted to control and manipulate them. How about the male cops not investigating, the male prosecutors not prosecuting, the male judge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:27 AM
126

You don't owe anyone anything. Your body belongs to you, treat it like the temple it is. If a man asks for anal or BDSM or nudes - nope on out of there sister because he doesn't respect you at all. AT ALL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:12 AM
6

It's not really about the ring, if you love the family heirloom then that's great. It's about the effort he is putting in. Did he put effort into the proposal to make it special for you? Does he plan things and do things he thinks you will like just for you? Is he treating you with kindness and respect and generally looking for ways to show you (and the rest of the world) that he values you? A nice ring is one way for a man to show he values the woman he is proposing to. But there are thousands …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:02 AM
51

Let's start with the fact that this man took the engagement ring back from his ex-wife after the marriage ended. Tells you all you need to know about that scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 09:11 PM
14

The backwards baseball cap over a bald head and flannel shirt just scream successful businessman in the making.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:20 PM
16

What now? I want to be supportive but I don't understand what's happening here. Why is this person in your life? Why are you cleaning up his messes for months?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:14 PM
109

Ugh, this goldigging cretin sounds exhausting! So glad you have put him behind you (you have already ended it, right?). You deserve so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:44 PM
33

WOMEN talk too much and are too competitive and make meetings take too long. Not men, WOMEN. Wow talk about being disconnected from reality!! Projection much???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:55 PM
4

No advice, just want to say my heart goes out to you for what you have suffered. You're amazing, you're valuable, you're worthy of kindness and respect, and you're doing the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:43 PM
3

Oh FFS. So sorry this free service isn't up to your standards, please feel free to grow up and deal with your own laundry anytime you don't like the way the laundry fairy does it. Once again, a lazy man makes a mistake and then blames the woman in his life for it. It's exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:52 PM
14

WHAT?? How does this happen more than once? If it's happening on the regular, why isn't anyone from the hospital stopping it? Why are the other male veterans in the area not stopping it? Women vets should not have to put up with harassment like this!! I'm so sorry you have to deal with this crap just to try to get healthcare that you have a right to. And thank you for your service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:48 PM
15

HE acted distraught and made HER feel guilty for HIS inappropriate side relationship! She's worried that SHE has ruined things. This LVM is a master manipulator. This is why you don't beg a man (or anyone) to make you a priority in their life. If he wanted to, he would. If you have to convince someone, it's not worth it. It will never happen. He is manipulating her into doubting her perfectly rational feelings. Her mistake was talking to him and expecting him to change as if he didn't realize ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:57 AM
3

Imagine the lack of character of someone who is only attracted to weak people and brags about it on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:48 AM
53

All hail the queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:46 PM
2

Imagine bragging about cleaning for hours, yet your place still looks disgusting, and your girlfriend who is willing to hang out with you that filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:43 PM
7

Hannah made a wise choice. She knew he would react badly to rejection. He can't even take it from a fellow dude. Classic entitled scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:40 PM
12

And why do women hate men? Usually because of actions perpetrated by men (e.g. assault, harassment, etc.). Why do men hate women? Because the woman just wants to be left alone, didn't give the man and his pee pee enough attention, etc. The man's train of thought seems to be hey women aren't giving me enough sex. My pee pee is lonesome. I guess could become someone worthy of their attention, improve myself, start treating women like human beings worthy of kindness and respect. But that seems like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:29 PM
114

Once again, FDS doing the Lord's work. I love to see it! Notice he deflected the question. So it's ok for the porn industry to pay for fake articles posing as legitimate psychological advice....because they have to fight off pesky religious groups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:30 PM
12

WHAT???? omg this is disgusting. Shouldn't these be statutory rape cases at a minimum?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:09 PM
8

Imagine what would happen to the GDP if these slutty men (and slutty wannabes, aka incels) sent 1/4 the time on their careers that they do objectifying women, strategizing how to get more women to have sex with them, negging women, complaining on the internet about women not instantly dropping their panties in front of them, etc etc ad nauseum. Not only would their personal financial situations skyrocket, it would jumpstart economies all over the world!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:22 PM
27

And afterward, calls you his crazy ex and blames you for his emotional issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:17 PM
22

However, the ultimate comeback to a man is quite simple. When a man asks you, 'but what's the point of getting married, I don't believe in married, etc'...You simply say: "I want to get married. It's important to me." THIS RIGHT HERE. It's all that matters. It's important to you. If something that is important to you doesn't matter to him, there is no need to waste a single additional minute on him. No need to justify it, no attempts to convince him, just nope on outta there because he isn't the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:08 PM
3

I'm looking for a moissanite ring, any suggestions on where to find a good selection?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:10 PM
2

huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:24 PM
7

Just to clarify, while he was married with two kids. It was so gross and clearly abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:21 AM
6

What a delightful opportunity! I was just wishing I had a gangster that I could cook and clean for, and as a bonus, he will also allow me to give him BJs? But wait, there's more ladies - in addition to bringing his gargantuan backpack of audacity to the table, this homeless scrub is also going to allow me to host him and his fellow gangsters for "balling up" sessions. Just what my home needs, I can't wait to experience that. And this photo, it just draws the viewer in. The gun, the (super straig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:58 AM
2

What does he think, he can manipulate her into marrying him to avoid him being embarrassed in front of this family? And he still can't be bothered to get a ring and propose in a half-decent manner? At least there's some hope for this girl, realizing he has put no effort into the biggest decision of their lives and does she really want a future with someone like that? On the other hand, she came to reddit to discuss it instead of moving out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:48 AM
7

His buddy knew this was wrong but acted as wingman anyway. Buddy could tell they were uncomfortable and stood there anyway. I mean at least he told this scrote he was delusional but why even go over there and participate in it??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:30 AM
3

I don’t understand the relevance, but regardless I doubt he would have married Monica, she was just a convenient plaything for him. She was practically a child - an intern vs the president - nothing but sexual harassment and abuse of power there. Just leave may not be an option for everyone, but it was and is absolutely an option for HRC, she has money and political capital of her own to make a very successful life for herself. Especially now, why does she stay with him? Makes me wonder if he ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:40 PM
4

Yes. She hasn’t merely tolerated Bill’s repeated cheating and raping, she has doubled down by helping to hide his crimes and viciously attacking his victims to keep them quiet. It’s supremely evil. I would have had so much more respect for her if she would have left him and made it on her own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:30 PM
10

Poor Randy, all he wants is a sex slave who sacrifices her career for him and lets him make all her decisions right down to the type of exercise she does and music she listens to. It's so SELFISH of women that he hasn't found this yet. Randy needs to spend less time crying out to humanity on the internet and focus his energies on inventing time travel so he can go back to the 1800s, before women started voting and thinking for themselves and such selfishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:33 AM
5

Millions of happy wives have been cheated on and abused but they fought for their marriage to work. What in the ever loving delusion is this clown about? I would argue that the number of women who have successfully "fought for love" and turned a cheating, abusive man into a decent husband is much closer to 0. But hey, thanks for the permission to stay single if we don't like the particular brand of misogyny and misery you're selling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 12:32 AM
7

That i deserve to be treated with respect and know my worth. THIS all day long. Well done, Queen. Go forth and build a life worthy of your wonderful self, you deserve it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:00 PM
5

"I tell him please let me eat" and "he makes me cook for him". She's going to bed hungry because he wants the food off her plate? So she comes to reddit for some advice on how to communicate away this minor problem in an otherwise fantastic relationship... before she dies of malnutrition?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:03 AM
31

that is exactly what they are doing. Recently a woman posted a screen shot here where she had replied to a question there about porn with information on why porn is bad. The moderator told her he was not banning her for her opinion on porn "per se", but he was banning her because she also posts on FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:45 AM
6

True, but still higher than the odds of finding happiness with a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:24 AM
2

I love a story with a happy ending. Lots of red flags may have been ignored along the way (he lives with mom at 25, GF bought him a PS5, etc.) but she handled the ending like an absolute Queen. No need for discussion, communication etc. Change the locks and put his stuff on the porch. I absolutely love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:12 PM
22

It's part of the LVM handbook - manipulate a woman into putting up with him, even though it makes her miserable. Gaslight her, make her think everything is her fault, convince her only the man's feelings matter. Guilt trip her into staying. So glad you are on a healthier path now, you deserve so much better! UGH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:47 AM
1

One of the comments says he has a poop fetish. I didn't even know that was a thing but it does explain things, even if some mystery health situation caused a mess like that, there's no excuse for not going to the doctor or making her clean it up. So now the poor woman is his mommy, cleaning up poopy messes and worrying about his health, while he watches porn in the bathroom and smears poop everywhere. Sounds like quite a lovely life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 09:41 PM
4

So glad for you to get out of that nightmare. Stay strong, and build a wonderful life for yourself. You deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 02:52 AM
72

On what planet is it not ok to say to your husband hey I'd rather you didn't sex up your childhood sweetheart while we're married, mmkay? The whole never met the family, doesn't trust the husband, has no money for a plane ticket, getting a visa for a long stay in another country thing is giving me serious Sally Field "Not Without My Daughter" vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 02:44 AM
69

That's some pretty cheap woodwork and carpet for a "7 fig" fellow. Knows he will bring nothing to your life other than angry diatribes, poor grammar, and regrets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 02:31 AM
29

How come google can do an image search and find the exact same image anywhere, but these techies they can't prevent something they've already removed from being re-uploaded? There are hashtags for under 18 but they can't use those same hashtags to find and delete child porn? It's almost like they're not really trying. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 01:10 AM
12

I love my wife very much and she will do anything I ask. If we didn't already know how little he values her as a person, we do now by the words he chose to describe what's most important to him about her. I feel sad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:15 PM
16

What a delightful batch of karma. Although it must have made it harder to enjoy being right when you had to walk for 2 hours next to a screeching manchild as he soiled himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:01 AM
41

Ugh that sucks. There should be a special category of anulments for LVM showing their true colors after marriage!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:28 PM
23

And here again we offer up for your reading pleasure: Yet Another Man Wasting a Woman's Time. After the third date he decided not to see her again. He claims it's because of the offering to pay half but who knows what the real reason is. Then she asks him out to brunch. So he goes out with her, knowing he's not very into her, just for the heck of it and to see if she will pay and he can get a free meal (and likely, some free sex), with his bonus planned gotcha zinger to show his virtuousness. Ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:25 AM
2

"found out that day just how tough I am" WUT? You were too afraid to defy your husband and ask the cop or the gas station attendant to call an ambulance for you? Or a cab? Or use a payphone at the gas station? What about at the hotel or campground where you were staying? I don't understand women like this offering their "wisdom" to others when they are unwilling to hear their own advice, staying with the same abusive man, continuing to risk their own safety and sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:05 AM
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She's not even dumping him, just doesn't want to live with him to avoid future evictions. Who are the "friends" saying she is unreasonable here? She should dump them along with the manchild!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:05 AM
19

Keep a spray bottle filled with water to spray in his face when he misbehaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:47 AM
29

It's not your views on porn per se, except it is totally about your views on porn which HE didn't like but had no logical argument against, so instead of engaging you with an intellectual discussion, he looked at your post history and found a different way to shut you up. That's some serious misogyny for a so-called feminist forum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:44 AM
11

I hope you have a safety net (cash, transportation, and a place to go) for when he comes home in the likely event he is physically abusive to you. Good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:49 AM
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I can appreciate that you want to share this lesson and you're certainly wise to state you should have left the first time. I hope you make it out safely. However, it is an important part of the story that you left out - that you are still in the middle of this situation. If you want to wonder why you can, that's up to you. But you don't have to allow it to affect your decisions. It won't help you or get you anywhere. It truly doesn't matter why he's an ass. What matters is that you get yourself…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:23 AM
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With all due respect, you are still married to this man. You are not in a position to give out advice that you have not been willing to take yourself. No one should put up with this garbage for one minute. Your comments indicate that you're reflecting, wondering why he does this, trying to understand alcoholism, etc. It doesn't matter why he does this. It just matters that he did it. So leave, for your safety, your sanity, your dignity and your future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:59 AM
17

Q: Where do you get your confidence? A: I just pretend I'm a mediocre man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:58 PM
15

Women's drama = expecting respect, kindness, basic decency. Men's drama = porn induced sex problems, filth, laziness, violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:28 AM
13

It KINDA turned her off. I think it's ok to be the woman who says public defecation is beyond the bounds of acceptable date behavior. How is this not something we as a society can all agree on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:36 AM
13

"What do I do, how do we fix the problem?" Well Sis, you don't. He doesn't seem to think there is a problem. In fact, while he was willing to accept oral from her, he didn't even offer to try give her pleasure in any way. So what magic words does she think the internet can offer her to make this man start caring more about her than his porn addiction? Four years. She has invested 4 years into this porn sick loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:23 AM
3

The Depravity. That was shockingly invasive, and he's two feet taller than her (not including his hair). I wish she would have kneed him in the balls. I hope he and his buddies filming/posting this will be arrested for assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:51 PM
2

GYM DATES?!?!? What did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:48 AM
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So glad this poor fool clarified that she doesn't have an issue with porn. Um honey, you SHOULD have an issue with all of this. But don't blame the wifi router. Blame the pornsick loser you chose to have THREE children with and your low standards. The saddest thing is that she has body image issues and zero self worth and she doesn't realize he knows that and he's doing this intentionally. Otherwise why talk about it so much to her, leave it on her phone, and ask for a framed poster for Christma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:36 AM
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Naturally, when a man wants something, he decides it's a woman's responsibility to provide it! And he's totally mis-using the word date. They don't actually want to take women on dates. They want free prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:26 AM
9

She threw the wrong turkey out. Also, who cooks an entire turkey for one ungrateful lazy waste of space? I feel sorry for the woman but she is just flat out delusional. The leftovers may have been her breaking point, but it's really just a tiny part of the problem. She thinks she can talk or shock this loser into behaving like a responsible life partner. She's planning to build a house with him? She doesn't realize why he's on his phone in the bathroom?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 12:49 AM
5

You are not well. You need help. Your child needs to be with someone safe that can protect and care for him/her. Please reach out to someone in your life that can care for your child while you get treatment. Needless to say, that someone is not your boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:27 PM
3

I takes so much courage and strength to accept constructive criticism and level up like you are doing. Thank you for taking care of yourself and for posting this to encourage others. It's so inspiring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:20 PM
11

Walking up to a total stranger and asking them personal questions is so socially unacceptable, rude and entitled that it doesn't warrant a polite response. Only a man with no respect for women would do this. A cold approach "are you single" presumes that you owe them an answer and that if you're single, you're available for them to take. Neither is true. They only do it because they think if they do it 100 times, maybe a few women will actually take them up on it and have sex with them. It's not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:40 PM
3

HE explodes into a sputtering psychotic rage and threatens to put HER in a mental hospital... only a man would have the audacity. This is such a good lesson in never sharing your vulnerabilities with any man. This loser is using her private medical diagnosis to try to control her and he has also told his friends and family in an effort to convince them he is the hero and the victim, and they then try to brigade her into taking him back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:39 PM
3

I'm 2 months behind on the rent, my car was repo'ed, and my checking account is overdrawn. I can't take care of myself, much less my wife. What should I do today? Go out and get a job, work my "side hustle"? Or perhaps instead I shall hack into my wife's bank account and then get on the internet to complain about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:34 PM
6

It's not choking, it's strangling. And this woman needs a therapist, STAT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:19 PM
7

This is where all conventional relationship advice completely fails women. She will be told that she needs to be more secure, be a better communicator, always look her best for him, analyze him why he's doing this... barf. When in fact, the only thing she needs to do is ask herself why on earth she would ever want to date or even be around someone who behaves this way. He's doing it to manipulate her. He already knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:13 PM
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Treats his office as very professional, wife can't "stop by". Also keeps thousands of bottles of urine and 40 disgusting shirts there. Monkeys keep a tidier house. Wife did the right thing, the only thing. Can't fix this level of scroteness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:31 PM
27

yikes, what did I just read? They even discuss drugging a woman with morning after pill / abortion pill without her knowledge. How is that up on a public forum for FOUR YEARS? I mean I know it's Reddit but still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:36 AM
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This woman is fantastic but WTH is wrong with the dudes on that forum turning themselves inside out to try to defend this guy? Why would anyone want to date someone who is actively pursuing other women (either in fact or as I suspect, lying about it)??? She's the one who dodged a bullet here, as evidenced by this guy going full metal psycho when she broke it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:17 PM
7

Only possible use it to save it and regift it to your MIL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:26 AM
1

Just leave. You don't need his permission, agreement, or understanding. You'll never get those anyway. Never. Don't tell him in advance or give him one last chance to improve his atrocious behavior. Just make plans for another place to live, pack your stuff up when you know he's not going to be there (have a plan and friends or hired movers to make it fast), and after everything's done, meet him in a safe place and tell him "this relationship isn't working for me." But definitely don't tell him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:42 PM
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I will not rest assured that this will be kept confidential, Phil. This whole thing is sketchy AF, starting with the "interested to explore the subreddit" - not exactly a professional sounding research study. However, it was very generous of Phil to give you permission to not be interested. Because that's the man's prerogative - to decide when we are allowed to be interested and when we're not. Sheesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:36 PM
7

Totally true, but I would add that it's someone they think is going to make their life better. Otherwise they'll just cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:53 AM
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Patronizing, insulting, gaslighting, defensive projecting, a sorry-not-sorry non-apology, plus a bonus 'not all men' all in the space of one paragraph. Well done sir!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:51 AM
7

Fantastic article and really insightful as to why LVM don't like FDS. So accurate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:03 PM
13

I'm glad you ended it with this guy, but if I may be so bold as to suggest an improvement, when he asked you out for Sunday, but never named a time or place, and didn't reach out on Sunday at all, you had your answer. Just block and delete. There's no pros anymore at that point, just one big con. By texting him any further, even once, you're teaching him that it's ok to treat you like that, that you have time he can waste. He doesn't deserve you or your time or your texts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:01 PM
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I really enjoyed this little story! I hope it is all true. I was surprised though that (a) he was honest in that he just didn't like her getting attention and (b) everyone in his life and on the internet told him he was being a jerk. Regardless, I just love a happy ending!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:22 PM
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Tyler wants someone to spend a lot of time with him, have sex with him, listen to his problems and keep his secrets, and make his life good (consistently). However, this lucky lady should not ever expect him to act like he is in an exclusive relationship, be loyal or take care of her needs. Why would anyone ever waste their time on this Tyler? Why??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:06 AM
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This a good example of how setting boundaries in dating allows you to both avoid the behavior you find unacceptable and see how much the man actually respects you. Even if he doesn't agree with or even understand the boundary you have set, he will be happy to respect it if he respects YOU. His reaction here showed you everything you needed to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 12:09 AM
2

yes, we need updates on this Clown Festival wedding! Perhaps a tuxedo t-shirt for the groom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:42 PM
12

Ugh, so so many red flags there. I really hope you have dumped him, you deserve better Sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:36 AM
12

He's not your type. You deserve way better! Time to move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:27 AM
2

It rhymes and it's true! This should be a nursery rhyme for young girls to sing while jumping rope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:56 AM
56

Societal standards are the only thing restraining this dude from raping every woman he sees. Not morals, integrity, or a respect for women's basic humanity and autonomy. Just societal standards. And this scrote feels that this is something he can and should share publicly to get sympathy as the burden of being restrained from rampant rape while surrounded by these human fleshlights is a bigger burden than childbirth and menses. What dystopian society have we found ourselves in???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:06 PM
12

It's so condescending. Nice of him to give her permission to do the leveling up she's already doing without him. Sheesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:17 AM
5

I like to think it's her Castle. He brought the fried chicken and the gun show to impress this Queen on her way to Target.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:53 AM
2

What happened next folks? Did he: (a) Apologize profusely, order her favorite meal delivered, air out the house, clean up the mess, and begin carefully reading the instructions and planning tomorrow's meals. (b) Heat up a hot dog for himself and plant himself on the couch, leaving the mess for her to clean up. Choose wisely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:38 AM
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This got me as well. He thinks he is in a place to be LENIENT. He thinks he is GENEROUS. He's cheap and clueless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:59 PM
2

Yep - that's the giveaway that it's a man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:17 PM
3

Just what the world needs, someone to help LVM trick more women into one night stands. Hope she's tracking these volunteer hours for her future Presidential Medal of Honor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:06 PM
3

Your take is that the problem here is there's only one of this?? Wut??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:01 PM
4

Ladies and gentleman, I hope you are sitting down. We have found a real Super Hero here - on top of allowing her to do all cleaning, laundry and cooking, this man GIVES HER MASSAGES. (Translation: he demands nightly sex from his exhausted live in maid.) And this 100/0 split of household labor is so guilt-inducing that he has made all the effort of posting on the internet to find an easy way to ease his poor befuddled conscience. Please offer up your best suggestions for quick and easy ways he ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:57 PM
10

Porn use is common, but it is not normal and it's not a part of a healthy sexual relationship. Men are not more visual than women, that's another lame excuse. And please, please, please don't post your own naked pics, this isn't the way to feel better. Instead, think about what you want your life and relationship to look like. Set your own boundaries. If you don't like dating a man who looks at naked pictures of other women, you don't have to. That's a normal, healthy boundary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:49 PM
4

This is just gross all around. Gross that the kid is being excluded. Gross that this loser runs around having children with multiple women but isn't man enough to support them and take them on vacation. Can you imagine being attracted to that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:32 PM
5

Exactly. Don't exclude the stepkid. Exclude the good for nothing man. From the vacation and then permanently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:26 PM
19

The sheer audacity of men is only overshadowed by their entitlement. They believe they are entitled to women's bodies, thoughts, physical labor, emotional labor, financial support and control, etc. For thousands of years this has been legally true. Although we now have legal rights, the old mentality is still reinforced by the majority of the media/culture/entertainment industry - all of which is run by guess who: men. Why would they ever want to give up their power to oppress us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:24 PM
5

I take a similar approach but I don't like to play dumb for a man, ever. I will do a neutral, concerned expression and ask "why would you say that?" and continue that way...he says it's a joke, "why is that funny to you?" Like I'm concerned that there's something wrong with them. Because something is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:08 PM
7

OK weird, I had the impression he was dishonestly saying his family was wealthy but he wouldn't take their money on principle, but now I can't find where I read that. Sounds like it was true anyway! Nothing wrong with coming from a poor family but that's no excuse for being low class. What stuck out to me the most in your story is that this guy was just all over the place with his LVM behavior. He sounds frankly unwell, mentally. And the cut up fruit was the topper!!! Thank goodness you had the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 05:15 AM
2

Spoiler alert: coworker is actually a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:05 AM
6

So glad you leveled up, you're on your way to Queendom without that loser dragging you down. Curious though, did you ever meet his family? I'm thinking that they in fact did not have money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:49 PM
50

This should be taught in high school. More important than almost any other subject IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:51 PM
9

The big story here is clearly the illness and him preventing her from getting appropriate medical care (and then making the post about his feelings, still not really concerned about her). But near death experience aside, let's say she wasn't sick at all. He still admits that he made her make dinner for her friends on short notice after a full day of work plus overtime. He "scolded" her for starting the dishes early instead of performing like a trained monkey to entertain his friends, until said …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:59 PM
6

Um? Die maybe? Ha. I was thinking there was no solution here but you have hit the nail on the head. Preferably with a large insurance policy in place first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:40 PM
16

She almost died due to his selfish behavior and she says it's fine? Honey. It's not fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:05 AM
8

The title itself takes away the responsibility of the men. It's written in passive format so the swimsuits are doing the action, not the men. WTH?? It should read "Men see women in bikinis as objects to be used, scans confirm."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:00 AM
7

Thank you for sharing, I love a happy ending!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:21 PM
15

I'm horrified for her, she's clearly been driven over the edge by this loser. But I have to ask what's up with the Pastor, the Bridesmaid and the cheering moron filming this? None of them felt the intrinsic cringe? No one has enough compassion to stop this trainwreck for her sake?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:38 AM
1

First of all, this would never actually happen, it's as imaginary as it is insulting. However, if it were to happen, I'd take it and give it to a hard working cashier on my way out the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:18 AM
13

according to this article, his longtime girlfriend is the mother of his other two children, but not this child. "Porscha Henderson, Sidney’s long-time girlfriend and mother of two of his children. She told police she is not the biological mother of Sayah, but has watched over her most of her life since Sidney has full custody. " That article also says that he placed Sayah in her car seat, but did not buckle her in. He says once he turned on the car and AC, he realized he didn’t have his phone an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:50 AM
15

Exactly. The friends feel bad for HIM, but not for her, the person who caused it by insulting her publicly and even had the gall to say she was lucky to have him. What on earth?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:27 PM
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