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| 1 | Men showing emotionBeing vulnerable when you have low self esteem and insecurities comes off as you projecting your baggage onto your partner in the hopes that she will become your crutch to tell you everything’s okay and that is toxic and codependent and very unattractive. On the Flip side having self worth and confidence And feeling secure in yourself is attractive to the opposite sex when you display vulnerability because it’s not coming from a place of Lack, neediness and desperation…. Instead it’s coming from… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 10:18 PM |
| 6 | What very subtle things can make an otherwise attractive guy come off as creepy?Can’t help but feel sorry for how fucking stupid some people are, zero social intelligence, glad you had them escorted out! | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:50 AM |
| 0 | Messed up tonightMessage me | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:29 AM |
| 2 | I tend to attract black girls. Does this mean anything?Would really love to know this answer, Would also like to know if all white men do well with black women in which case you would have your answer | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:25 AM |
| 1 | I uploaded photos with friends in my story, and she replied with “There’s missing a photo with me 😔” What can i respond to that?Love where your heads at! How long have you been working on yourself!? And are you where you want to be and if not what is it your lacking that you are currently working on!? | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:21 AM |
| 3 | I uploaded photos with friends in my story, and she replied with “There’s missing a photo with me 😔” What can i respond to that?I love the vibe of that “let’s go snag a photo then😉” so laid back and chill | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:20 AM |
| 10 | Why do people insist men who have negative attitudes and misogynistic beliefs can't find women because of it when there are so many women who fall for disrespectful and bad men?I think it really comes down to realizing that women aren’t perfect and they have trauma that shows up in there subconscious gravitation towards men who are terrible on paper but fit that mold of what there early childhood experiences showed them a male relationship figure was either by observing the dysfunctional nature of their parents relationship or countless other influences…. The result is they say they don’t want a certain type but subconsciously they feel they only deserve the guy that i… | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:19 AM |
| 2 | I uploaded photos with friends in my story, and she replied with “There’s missing a photo with me 😔” What can i respond to that?We gotta plan this photo shoot right now! I’m thinking in front of a McDonald’s for the setting, you can be dressed as a clown and I’ll be dressed as myself and both of us will be holding the same handle on the Happy meal as we pose for the picture! What day works for you? ⚠️Use with extreme caution | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Accused of rape last year and haven't been able to recoveri applaud you for opening a thread of conversation as impactful as this one! shit isn't real to people until it becomes real and im so sorry you had to go through that accusation but im sure you learned so much from the process and i would love to hear what wisdom you took away from it all | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 03:46 AM |
| 2 | What exactly is "approaching"?approaching is simply creating an opportunity for that person to experience you! | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | would you still pursue ifthat is a very subjective question based on your level of interest and morals | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 12:46 AM |
| 0 | Can you recommend me romance movies that helps me get an idea how to make out from talking stage, initiation phase, to actually doing it?if you are over 18 message me and I will help you | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Not getting eye contactyeah you can supercharge your eye contact by -getting sun -drinking pomegranate juice -abstaining from Porn/masturbation/orgasm -taking ice baths for 5 minutes -taking natural supplements for testosterone -working out -stretching if you do all this you will start getting way more people looking at you and you will have a more intense power in your eye contact, of course eat clean and hydrate | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | This sub is putting women on a pedestalyou said your experience level is a newbie, glad to hear you are on your journey but your perspective is going to change several times over as you grow. if you have a specific question for me I would love to answer it or if you want to private message me I will work with you because you seem to have real potential and a hunger for the truth. I've been doing this for 9 years and I've been on multiple different sides of the skill spectrum. would be more than willing to impart some wisdom | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Missed opportunity but she still talks and shit testsnah your good, when you see her in a couple weeks just turn up the amount of attention you give her and own it... its this half in half out shit that is killing your chances. if your goal is to close her then you need to keep your same chill non needy vibe but give her more attention making it clear that you want her and then you have to move her to an isolated area so that you two are alone and then go for the close but don't expect to get laid if you never get her alone | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Guys who disconnected from the SMP to focus on themselves. Did it help you in your seduction?great question, in 2018 I went into a degree of isolation and cut everyone off socially to focus on myself and in that time amazing growth happened but your mind will try to keep you there because its safe. once i felt my levels were up I started a group chat with all my friends and started organizing monthly parties and it took my mental health to the next level and my game is on another planet now but its dangerous because you can easily stay trapped in isolation if you don't work to get out. … | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 06:46 PM |
| 5 | Talk me out of this; Taking one girl to another girl's showDo it. This is your swag, don’t self neuter. Do it for the reference ! | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 10:09 AM |
| 0 | What’s about Body Language?The self is always shining through So you can be aware of what might be considered negative body language and then become cognizant in the moment of you doing it and stop it and make the proper adjustment but I feel there are more important things you could put your focus into during an interaction that would yield more dynamic results such as being fully present in the moment and focusing on the other person and less on yourself and how your coming across just that intent alone will make a more… | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 10:07 AM |
| 1 | I learned from YouTube pranksTheir is an Art to approaching and I agree the best interactions are the ones with soul in it. That being said the words not mattering is displayed with these YouTube pranksters saying ridiculous things and getting good reactions but there is a level higher than this that could turn these approaches into a greater chance of success because I’ve been on both sides and I’ve had the goofy approaches get the number but go nowhere and I’ve also had approaches turn into a deeper connection and not jus… | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Met girl at bar. Got number. Invited her out to dance with some friends. She mentions she's bringing friend + dateI don’t have any money for you | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 07:20 AM |
| 2 | I learned from YouTube pranksYour absolutely right you have to assume a collaborative frame and assuming she likes you conveys confidence and I love how you touch on the social intelligence aspect to be able to read her reaction and show a response that says your not oblivious to how she’s feeling! This is all solid foundation stuff and I’m curious how your success has been? I’ve been on the path of mastering social skills for 9 years. In the very beginning I would do these direct approaches where I would just walk up and s… | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 07:20 AM |
| 1 | I learned from YouTube pranksHahahhaha I love that! Whatever energy you put into it will open up so many new possibilities! Do you ever do these type of cold approach tryna get a number interactions? | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 07:14 AM |
| 0 | Met girl at bar. Got number. Invited her out to dance with some friends. She mentions she's bringing friend + dateDepends what your capable of ! Depends what you make it Depends what you can handle | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 07:00 AM |
| 4 | What do these women want?What are you gonna do about it? What’s your plan and how do you improve? | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 06:56 AM |
| 1 | girl ignored advance but continued with convoWhat’s your question !? | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 06:52 AM |
| 1 | I learned from YouTube pranksYeah your definitely on to something with the paid reactions and not posting the blowouts ! To me though I always noticed that their vibe had a subtle advantage in the sense that they knew they were approaching for the overshadowing goal of making content and that helped them not have such a desperate vibe of wanting the number which I think is super key and ultimately one of the Pros to take away from it! Approach like your shooting content! | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 06:51 AM |
| 4 | What are some nicknames I can use to tease her?I’d form it around an inside joke. Or I would take something she says or does all the time and make her name after that Or make the name out of her first name and shorten it somehow The point is it will carry more weight and uniqueness than a name like boo | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | What are some nicknames I can use to tease her?Let me ask you this, what would you want to call her | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Suddenly not showing intrestThere is no wrong way to game but there is a right way | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Most of the advice here is either too broad or too specificMighty hit me with a question! Tee me up and let me see if I can deliver some grade A advice for you! | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Should I ask her out?Yes ask her out but this time invite her to something your already going to be doing. Also start increasing the amount you see her and chat with her at work because this will get you to develop a relationship with her | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Confidence and GameYeah it’s true, you trigger them when they know you got options | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Most of the advice here is either too broad or too specificWhat’s your biggest problem and I’ll give you advice that is Spot on | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Your social skills are better than you think, just listen to your body.Bro that ability to instantly hook the person your talking to and then leverage that attraction into one night stands and fWB is an awesome skill set and a testament to your level of mastery over social skills! That’s interesting that the area your working on is in the realm of deeper connection, do you feel this is because you don’t want someone to see the “real you” and the. Potentially reject it ? | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Your social skills are better than you think, just listen to your body.That’s such a great point you make about trying to fill the silence with hyperactivity and I agree it’s a beautiful thing when you can just sit in complete control in the silence and not be afraid of it! This dialogue helped me to better understand that what I want is a range of both with calm and centered energy as my base sprinkled in with high energy expression like you originally said! Appreciate you helping me come to that conclusion ! What do you feel is your biggest strength in conversati… | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Your social skills are better than you think, just listen to your body.Well said and yeah fidgeting has a vibe of its own that is a turn off ! You’ll find with everything it’s a balance never to much of anything! | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Your social skills are better than you think, just listen to your body.But see here’s the funny thing when your High value and come from abundance and your vibe is oozing high self esteem you can get away with murder and that includes being an entertainer and still pull so when I say you might want to try moving more when you talk I’m really speaking for the guy that wants to tap into the deeper level of authenticity in what he says and help him communicate it better and from my own experience I’ve noticed that getting out of your head and into your body helps you … | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Don’t know if she likes me or notAssume she likes you always! Why wouldn’t she, you have a ton of value to offer! And if you feel like you don’t have shit to offer then work on yourself until you fix that negative self talk | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 03:31 AM |
| 6 | Your social skills are better than you think, just listen to your body.Is there a reason you prefer standing still? I ask because I’ve noticed that when I kind of move around and Become real animated and expressive with my hand gestures when I talk I become more captivating and in turn I can see her body language loosen up and it becomes like a dance of energy where in contrast when I stay still it’s still good but I feel like a statue and of course it all depends on situation but for me I view movement as a tool in my belt that I can use | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Will drinking help me talk to women?The trust you’ll gain in yourself for entering those high stress situations of socializing and navigating them sober until you gain the reference experience to be more relaxed in them will be worth so much more than any results you’ll get while buzzed because essentially you’ll always be giving your power away to something else and you’ll lack that spark of energy in your vibe that says hey this is me no crutches, personas, facades or gimmicks….. and women love that magnetic vibe it’s so High Va… | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Don’t know if she likes me or notWhat can I help you with man, | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Your social skills are better than you think, just listen to your body.So do you prefer standing still when talking to someone or moving around | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Date with girlwhat does man to woman mean?? | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Date with girlDon’t set a goal of kissing her on this date, it will put you in your head and make you overthink instead just focus on being present in the Moment and Authentic! Let your vibe seduce her snd when that energy feels right have the courage to go for the kiss but don’t try to think your way into that kiss or make it feel like a failed night if it doesnt happen because those outcome dependent needy vibes will bleed through and get sub-communicated to her…. Instead just focus on your vibe being diale… | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Date with girlwhat was your intention going into this date what outcome did you desire that you loomed over the interaction ? | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 07:24 AM |
| 3 | I’m exhausted!to sit with the feeling and ask yourself why you are feeling that way. keep following the trail of why's all the way to the true root cause and insecurity then realize it isn't a rational reaction to fear whatever is holding you back and then reframe and zoom out and reenter ready to just live the moment and have no care about the outcome! live for all those that can't and be brave in love. a little kindness to yourself and recognizing and celebrating your wins, however small goes a long way too… | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 07:14 AM |
| 2 | I’m exhausted!I think you have a unique skill set, your ability to merge sets is powerful. i used to do this when i would go to clubs. i would get the guys who had vip tables in vegas to let me come chill with them and drink their bottle service if i brought girls back and when they would agree i would head out to the dance floor and just ask girls hey you wanna come chill in th VIP with me and my friends.... it was effortless and win win! I've also used this at local bars and the success is always in marveli… | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 07:06 AM |
| 2 | First time approaching a girl.nicely done! | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 06:54 AM |
| 2 | I’m exhausted!be proud of what you accomplished, you merged sets and were gaining social value in the place by befriending other guys, should of brought more people into your group grew it even larger, you assumed you were the odd man out instead of assuming everyone loved you. regardless i still think you did amazing and if you feel drained then go home and do day game tomorrow which will be more your chill vibe, no loud music | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 06:49 AM |
| 1 | How often do women approach men?All the time, you just have to learn to recognize the signals… women will use proximity to show interest, they will put themselves around you or find reasons to start vague conversation. It’s your job to recognize this and follow up | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 03:48 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Unless your worried about her being assigned to a different building and disappearing over night, I would see no reason to rush a work flirt, those are best to slow burn, every time you see her have an interaction and this will build the desire overtime then since it’s at a place you work this also acts as a vetting process to see if she really is into you so that when you finally do ask her out you know 100% she will say yes! I have successfully done this Same technique multiple times and it wo… | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 09:28 PM |
| 5 | What is a good way to meet a lot of women?I get comped rooms in Vegas at the Venetian if you want to go! Looked it up and it’s in September! Let’s plan it! | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 06:23 AM |
| -2 | The concept of alpha/beta/sigma males is bullshit. Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labelsThose labels apply to the dynamic of when your in the presence of a man who could beat you to death with his bare hands and take your woman and there would be nothing you could do but call the cops….. in our current society it is making those dynamics not as obvious but they still exist | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | We had an amazing time together on our first date, had a great kiss and today she sent me a message that she found out that she's still not over her ex. What do I do?All’s fair in love and war | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Women are biologically programed to orbit an alpha. Cold approach is not necessary.Your describing proximity and I enjoyed your post | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/21 01:46 AM |
| 0 | If giving a woman head was openly on the table, no ambiguity, what would your success rate be?It will especially work on vanilla girls they feel judged the most | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 10:47 PM |
| 0 | If giving a woman head was openly on the table, no ambiguity, what would your success rate be?The whole point of pre framing it as your fetish and what turns you on Is to give her the ability to participate in the act without feeling judged because how can she feel judged if this is What your into and get off on…. Instead she will feel complete freedom to completely let go. If your vanilla and don’t feel comfortable saying it then don’t do it, because it will be missing the most important thing which is authenticity and owning it. If you make it seem awkward or wrong then she will go bac… | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 10:27 PM |
| 0 | If giving a woman head was openly on the table, no ambiguity, what would your success rate be?Put the spotlight on yourself to take the judgment and pressure off her. You’d have to say this is your kink and your fetish and you’ve been looking for someone you feel comfortable enough with to have that experience with that includes expecting nothing in return and then she can be more open to agreeing because your the one with the fetish not her. But obviously you need to develop a baseline of attraction | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Fuck the gameYou as an entire person I could level up. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Finally managed to kiss a girl at the clubBoys boys we have to get along! Ask me any question and I’ll give you the actionable advice! | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | What isn’t making sense?Toasted waffles great name!!! That’s awesome your understanding everything! No better time to learn these social skills than right now why every one is regressing in their ability to engage with others! I can only speak from what I know of fashion and my hope is that it will help illuminate something for you moving forward! I’m sure you know but in case you don’t the clothes don’t make the person, vibe is everything and when you wear something so long as your confident and free flowing and comfo… | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | What isn’t making sense?You already have the abundance mindset, you just have layers of social conditioning and trauma covering it up and that is why the process for you would be to start structuring a routine of daily disciplines that will help boost your mental health and get you to show up at your full potential and once you consistently live this way the layers will begin to calm off revealing more and more the abundance mindset and for those layers that are more difficult to shed we would work on facing them head … | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 11:21 PM |
| 2 | What isn’t making sense?Love your message! Dying to know what it was you didn’t want to argue about!! Lol I see what your saying, everyone will have a different view point and perspective of what the “correct” way is and your opting out of that entire discussion and just saying the only thing that’s important is taking action. I agree taking action is pivotal and at that consistent action. But if you measure success by a couple rubrics which could be the amount of time it takes you to reach comfort and confidence and t… | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 10:57 PM |
| 4 | What isn’t making sense?Well what jumps out to me first is the setting you are choosing to meet women in. Bars and clubs can be very difficult for someone just starting out because of the competition of other men combined with the fact that in those settings it’s genuinely the people having the most fun and relaxed/free flowing that women gravitate towards. So What I recommend is a two part process the first being that you start approaching women in your day to day life, that could be at a store or a park or a communit… | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Remember this KEY factor on your nights out. Don't be like this guyPick up Artitst | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 01:00 PM |
| 2 | What isn’t making sense?So it sounds like you have the approach and vibe side of game down, that’s great! How is your ability to pull and close ? My intention of posting this was to find out what areas people need a deeper explanation of and then I would unpack it for them, if you have any questions I’d love to see if I can help! | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 10:42 AM |
| 3 | FUCKING COWARDI recommend mastering mental health while simultaneously learning the ins and outs of social interactions and all the subtle nuances. I can teach you everything but this process takes time and if your looking for overnight success then I can’t help but if you want true transformation then I can lay out the process for you Hit me up on a chat | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 09:52 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]The goal isn’t to not get nervous, the goal is to live that moment! Get snazzed up and let her feel that authenticity of you wanting to meet her! | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Gym watchingAppreciate your feedback! Gyms are tricky, when I started out in Pickup there were two camps the first said don’t hit on women in gyms or at ATM’s and the second said do it all for the reference experience! I’ve come to learn from my own personal experience that just being genuinely social and free flowing is the way to go because of how many opportunity’s and doors it opens ! | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 09:17 AM |
| 3 | Gym watchingI didn’t read it man but when it comes to the gym take a networking approach instead of a direct approach. The networking approach means you make a connection with men and women at the gym in a fun social way. Everyone craves connection and if you quickly introduce yourself and compliment them or make a comment then you can now say hi to them next time you see them and over time you will be able to have multiple people at the gym that all know you and this will be social proof and will demonstra… | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 05:45 AM |
| 18 | Remember this KEY factor on your nights out. Don't be like this guy“The self is always coming through” Damn that was beautiful and the first time I’ve ever heard that ! Laughed at the “PUA is messy” Thank you for the post! Now I will say that there almost is a benefit for some guys to do the whole fake it till you make it incongruent facade approach because it gives them an opportunity to get some wins and take the pressure off themselves of inexperience but the danger is when they stay in that realm to long and don’t ever make the switch to focusing on mental … | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 05:14 AM |
| 16 | [deleted by user]Hahahahhahaha | /r/seduction | 11/11/21 07:32 AM |
| 0 | [FR] 8hr+ daygame marathon, indirect openers, high hook rate, not closing sets.Really enjoyed the read, your passion and dedication is obvious and success is inevitable! If you want me to give you some advice just message me! | /r/seduction | 11/11/21 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Probably the best cheat code I've ever foundI dig your character and would be more than willing to start a friendship! Message me if you want to talk game and if you ever need a comped room in Vegas I got you! | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 11:05 PM |
| 7 | my girlfriend becomes very submissive and feminine around meHahahahhahahah and the name too 😂 | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/21 03:21 PM |
| 0 | So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the marketSolid lineup, keep building that roster and don’t forget to utilize the bench too, always keep a couple in the bullpen warmed up at all times and if you ever get bored of all the girls in your roster just invite all of them over at the same time without telling any of them and bring a couple guy friends over to enjoy the show. No limits | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 05:50 PM |
| 2 | I did more in one year than I did in 5 years relationship.Your self awareness and commitment to slow growth is powerful, you get it. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | I did more in one year than I did in 5 years relationship.Has this new found perspective on life and being given you the ability the cold approach strangers? The only reason I ask is because if you truly don’t care what others think of you because you derive your self worth from within and know your value then you should be able to approach but if you can’t then that’s your ego tricking you into believing it’s non needy but is just wearing this new perspective on life at the surface while the roots are still deeply tethered to insecurities that keep yo… | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Being a passive person will get you absolutely nowhereI didn’t even read your full post, just wanted to say that I could be mute and still pull. Literally not say a single word | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I don't really know how to flirtWell flirting is when two people feel that sexual tension and decide to play with it, decide to stay in it and hold the tension instead of going out of there way to break it in fear of crossing a line or just being plain afraid | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | I have no ability to get one night stands/ same day laysIs your problem in getting a date or in closing? If it’s closing I can help you if it’s getting a girl to go on a date with you then your going to need more than just what a comment can give | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Intimidating = Attractive, or... not?In body language you can send friend signals or foe signals, if your sending out closed off, danger vibes then women’s subconscious is going to naturally give her a foe signal. You need to read up on friend signals in body language to make yourself more receptive Then you need to play around with tonality to engage her but as far as everything else like what your saying sounds good because your putting your intent out there so you can focus your self improvement on the sub communications and get… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Intimidating = Attractive, or... not?Well let me ask you this, what would your game look like if you took the ability to talk away, how is your presence.... I’m wondering if your intimidation is coming from your body language, or if it’s coming from your tonality and words. We can adjust both but we need to know where your losing attraction and coming off to much to say yes to. Granted 2 women isn’t enough to make an assumption like I just did but for sake of your question we will go along as if the problem is intimidation and let’… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | The endless pursuitHahah love it, cheers to you as well! | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Intimidating = Attractive, or... not?I’m gonna send you a chat, I want to get into where your at on this journey as well as some current sticking points you might have and see if we can unpack them and get to some deeper understanding. I’ll also share my journey with you | /r/seduction | 09/02/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Intimidating = Attractive, or... not?Oh damn I like the way you said that! Shows me I still have some playing left to do!! Well said | /r/seduction | 09/02/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Intimidating = Attractive, or... not?It’s a beautiful game and I didn’t mean to sound like I’m in a constant state of peace but rather I have moments where I feel that peace, that contentment with just being and in those moments I breath a little deeper and exhale a Little slower! By no way do I have it mastered but the beauty is in choosing to pursue mastery but knowing it isn’t necessary to have the peace that is inside all of us. Sometimes I lose hold of that peace but it’s always easy to get it right back when you get out of yo… | /r/seduction | 09/02/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | My friends girlfriend giving me f*ck me eyesDon’t forget that women are extremely skilled in the art of seduction. She’s seducing you, and her intentions could be for some very manipulative, selfish reasons. You have to realize there’s a very real chance that she could be doing this because she enjoys the secret, she gets a feeling of power knowing she’s making you have thoughts of her and making you want her even though she’s with your friend. She’s getting you right to the edge and if you cross that line she now has the ability to bring… | /r/seduction | 09/02/21 08:52 PM |
| 1 | The difference between Self Improvement and Pick UpSounds like the circus was in town that weekend! Shooters gonna shoot, nice lay man. You see there are very few things that truly test you in this life, and through those trials and hardships you meet yourself. Martial arts will test you, endurance events like running a marathon or iron man will test you, going through the navy seals recruitment process will test you and countless other pursuits will test you but all of us here found that similar test in pickup. And through it we learned to meet… | /r/seduction | 09/02/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | I don't really know how to flirtDo you ever feel sexual tension with them? | /r/seduction | 09/02/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Intimidating = Attractive, or... not?For me it’s not a numbers game, it’s a vibe game. Sexual tension is everywhere man, if you do the work to like yourself and like what your about then you can attract women and at that point game becomes just leveraging that attraction into whatever you want it to be, the people who treat game like a numbers game are just guys who found a niche where they are willing to take massive action in approaching to get a couple results. They will learn and grow from this, it’s just one piece of a bigger … | /r/seduction | 09/02/21 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Intimidating = Attractive, or... not?Self awareness is a very elusive animal, but I can say the fact that your even asking these questions shows you are on the right path. The problem with self awareness in my own experience is you have to ask extremely difficult questions and realize the most times there is a deeper underlying reason beneath the first conclusion you come to. And it’s uncomfortable to have to really question yourself in why you do what you do but the truth will set you free as they say. I think you need to first gr… | /r/seduction | 09/02/21 07:38 PM |
| 6 | Intimidating = Attractive, or... not?I wouldn’t give that intimidating philosophy any real consideration, just because if you start planting seeds of doubt that aren’t really fact based then you will begin to act differently resulting in a self fulfilling prophecy. Instead just focus on good solid game and continue asking girls out ! | /r/seduction | 09/02/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I don't really know how to flirtSo you have a lot of female friends and you hangout with them often ? | /r/seduction | 09/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Women that “like sensitive guys?” Its a trap!Hey if you ever want to work out some sticking points I’m free to bounce a question off of anytime, have 8 years experience and complete freedom in my love life | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | how would you handle this shit test?Change the subject and never answer it then when she replies to your new topic of conversation, respond and also throw in your witty response to her previously asked question of murder. Shows your not reactive and falling into her Frame and shows you respond on your terms. | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 07:10 AM |
| 1 | How do I show intent without kissing the girl’s ass/ putting the girl on a pedestal?Being able to do whatever you feel like unapologetically and not fearing the outcome or her opinion of you is what will be the foundation for your attractiveness. Now add in some calibration and charisma with a dash of social intelligence and you have someone who can show intent without ever coming off needy | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 06:44 AM |
| 5 | Women that “like sensitive guys?” Its a trap!Have you ever done any introspective work to make peace with your insecurities? That journey of becoming at ease with emotions of yourself that normally would bring you mental turmoil allows you to live more congruently with what game try’s to teach. But with all that being said learning how much you want to show of yourself to a partner is your decision and this last relationship was an opportunity for you to learn and grow and that sounds exactly like what your doing so great job ! As long as … | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Sex but without being identified as a virgin?You’re the man! | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | FR: Chain of thoughts while I approach as a newbieMy first advice would be for you to sit down and clearly define your path and purpose, your vision and goals as well as your values and philosophy’s because all this will be the guide that helps you know who you are. Right now your going through life and basically throwing yourself up on stage every time you approach a social situation, the anxiety or stage freight your feeling is because you don’t know your material... knowing your material gives you confidence, knowing exactly who you are and … | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | FR: Chain of thoughts while I approach as a newbieAbsolutely no problem at all my dude! I have 8 years experience, ask me anything and I’ll tell you everything I know | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 09:08 AM |
| 1 | FR: Chain of thoughts while I approach as a newbieLooked it up and it was episode 422 on the rich roll pod and the guys name was Todd Herman | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 05:16 AM |
| 1 | FR: Chain of thoughts while I approach as a newbieI hear a sports psychologist talk on the Rich Roll podcast about how he coaches top performing athletes to create an alter ego, and that requires you visualizing you are the essence of another person you view is capable of success and channel that feeling and embody it so when you make your approaches you are no longer the one approaching, your alter ego is approaching and what this does is allow you to rise to the occasion and gives you permission to be better. It differs from fake it til you m… | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 05:12 AM |
| 2 | You just gotta shoot - express yourself!So glad I watched this, reminded me of why I started all this in the first place 8 years ago You got a new subscriber! | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Self confidencePowerful list brother, I’d love to network and get to know you since you are displaying some very high achieving behaviors and those are the type of people I would like to have in my corner! Send me a message and maybe I can be of value in some way and we can get to know each other ! | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you set premise later if you couldn't set it early on in the conversation?I don’t understand the question, are you asking how to initiate sex? Is this a question of how to escalate physicality? | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | FR: Chain of thoughts while I approach as a newbieThis was a beautiful insight into the mind, if you don’t mind I’d like to give you a powerful piece of advice that I have never personally tested but I think might work very well for you | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | im happy even tho i get rejectedGood for you! That self awareness is awesome. I get the vibe you pick what aspects of game you want to take on and I Corp are based on an image awareness of yourself and what works for you which quite frankly is a much more powerful way of going through this process ! All to often people try to learn something on here and then go and half ass execute it because A. They didn’t fully understand it and what it’s based on such as the psychology behind it and B. They beat themselves up afterwards for… | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 05:48 PM |
| 2 | im happy even tho i get rejectedInteresting, yeah it’s amazing how much people make and female want to be around confident charismatic people so great job! The reason I asked you if you bring it up in approaches is because sometimes when a girl you approach is super nervous it can help to calibrate and make a statement like that to take the attention off of her but it’s been so long since I’ve done it I was curious what the younger generation does ! | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | im happy even tho i get rejectedThat’s awesome man, do you ever bring attention to your nervousness in your approaches ? Do you ever say “sorry I’m a little nervous” or anything like that? | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Sex but without being identified as a virgin?Tell her to give you head, after your hard lay back and tell her to get on top, this lets her do the work and gives you time to kind of get the feel for her. Once your ready you can thrust from the bottom for a little then roll over and now your on top of her in missionary. Do that position for a little just feeling the moment, then place both her legs on your shoulders and enjoy that position until finally telling her to turn around and take her from behind. Don’t forget to wear a rubber and do… | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | So hurt so much painDid you try asking her out? | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | the more I read and learn about game, the more I realize it's all about confidence...By the way if you’d like to buy my class it’s 29 dollars and you can make the check out to daddy | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 10:25 PM |
| 1 | the more I read and learn about game, the more I realize it's all about confidence...Your speaking from your perspective, and your words show how naive your perspective is. Your ROI comment makes it sound like you think there’s something worth investing in more than yourself... the only bet I make is on myself brother, you need to double down on that instead of trying to chase girls | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 10:23 PM |
| 2 | How to handle this shit test feel like I don't have a good comeback?Interesting article thanks man! I take it you incorporate a degree of mastering psychology into your game, that’s awesome! I think a lot of answers to becoming great are found in the deep understanding of psychology and not just the loose altered down version we often find on here | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Just one question: How the hell do I stay out of the friendzone???You have to fuck your way out of the friend zone | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Advice from my grandmaGrams understands the power dynamic | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | More important than how another person reacts to you, is how you choose to react to them.Very true | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 09:04 PM |
| 3 | To those who have no problem approaching strangers, why? What do you tell yourself/don't tell yourselfI know the psychology of what they could feel from being approached by a stranger and I have enough social intelligence and experience to be able to pivot, redirect and adapt to just about any direction the interaction needs to go. I took the time to clearly define in my life who I am and what I’m all about like my purpose, passions, values, vision, goals and philosophy on life which helps me stay centered in who I am when approaching and feel a deep rooted value that isn’t dependent on her appr… | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | How to handle this shit test feel like I don't have a good comeback?“Because that’s how I decide who I want to fuck” | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | the more I read and learn about game, the more I realize it's all about confidence...Hey if you have something against the game community and self help community for exploiting people who are desperate and needy and selling them on the idea of becoming better then I’m not here to try to argue for those people because there are corrupt people who pedal hope, just like there are televangelist who prey on the hopes of people for monetary gain I just wanted to open your eyes to a bigger picture, that is operating outside the limitations of game and seduction. I wanted you to see tha… | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | the more I read and learn about game, the more I realize it's all about confidence...If you need any help with whatever part of the journey your on I’m here for you just send me a message or we can get into right here! I’ve been doing this for 9 years and love it just as much now as I did back then | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | the more I read and learn about game, the more I realize it's all about confidence...My point is yes it’s simple, it’s as simple as I like you, do you like me, okay boom hooking up But the wisdom that lies underneath for those willing to become better extends far beyond anything to do with getting a girl | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | the more I read and learn about game, the more I realize it's all about confidence...Everything is simple if you want it to be. The atom bomb is as simple as splitting the atom but when you dig deeper there requires mastery in mathematics and molecular biology and physics and nuclear physics And those groups require more knowledge to know them until your all the way back to a kid learning to read only to realize you don’t want to create a bomb in the first place but instead create world peace | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | the more I read and learn about game, the more I realize it's all about confidence...There’s levels to these things and when your at the beginning your perspective only allows you to see the level in front of you. If you’ve never approached a girl then your level is exactly what you said, if your level is getting girls back home but not being able to close then your level is not in meeting women but int pulling women and closing them. Which is a whole other world of logistics and architecting. See having confidence (or faking it) and knowing what to leverage confidence into so t… | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Dating game plan for a 30 years old student?Tips would be get that first approach out of the way then analyze where you did good and what needed work, then focus your energy on learning why you did that thing wrong and how to do it better then feel confidence in knowing you improved through gaining knowledge specific to your situation and then approach again and soon by structuring approaches as a way to improve your approach game instead of actually caring about the results, you take a lot of pressure off yourself in the beginning and as… | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Seduction or not?We are human so we will feel fear and anxiety and every other emotion but through gaining knowledge in all areas you begin to find it easier to stay in control of your mind, you find it easier to be present and you find it easier to let go. For me seeking knowledge is going to be a life long pursuit of self mastery. There’s always another level to reach. The areas I pursue are mindfulness, psychology, neurology, fitness, diet so basically everything that is the human body and why we do what we d… | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Is foot fetish wierd thing? Ladies?A Fetish isn’t a deal breaker in most cases but the insecurity you project of shame around it is felt by your partner and that can be very unattractive, so the answer is you gotta own who you are and if that’s something you want to be apart of your relationship you have to present it in a confident way, with sex most things are better when done from a position of confidence since judgments in the bedroom can be a block that prevents your partner from fully letting go so the main takeaway is if t… | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Seduction or not?Practical example would be I used to think a girl liked me, one day I looked for indicators of interest like proximity, if her eyes were locked on mine when we’d talk with dilated pupils, touching during conversation, nervousness around me, open body language, tonality that’s trying to build rapport and when I saw most of these things I asked her out and we dated. Fast forward I then realized the key is working on yourself and not getting hung up on all the analyzing and once I mastered myself I… | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Seduction or not?Anytime | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I(21 M) stop giving off boyfriend vibes?Excellent writing! If nothing else bedazzle some girls with it in the form of texting once in awhile if you enjoy putting your thoughts into words because I think it’s unique and def tasteful when done well & you do it well my friend! That being said if you want fun and casual then you need to be a closer. Fuck first then talk about how your lifestyle doesn’t allow you to be available for serious relationships because your 100% dedicated to your path and purpose of becoming successful but enjoy … | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Seduction or not?You’d have to know how to read people is one answer and the second answer is engage the person in conversation and use elicitation techniques to get them talking, the same way the cops get people to confess without even knowing they were being strategically led down a path you can get someone talking by not directly asking them questions but using various techniques like asking them to give an opinion on something you noticed and in stacking several innocuous questions together you can see the r… | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | How do I(21 M) stop giving off boyfriend vibes?Your a good writer, a lot of emotion and feeling/authenticity is conveyed in your paragraphs. My advice to you would be play around with embracing your ability to communicate so well. In a world where most people can’t write as good as you and then choose to fake high value through unavailability, I would argue that you should try a different approach! You should just put yourself out there completely and the value isn’t in what you say or how little you say but the high value is in being able t… | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Any tips to not be nervous around girls?Anytime ! | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Seduction or not?Operating in the realm of assumptions is low value, the goal is to get to a place of not being needy. Clearly define who you are and what your path, purpose, vision, values, goals and philosophy’s are then work towards becoming that clearly defined version of yourself. Take action and really go after life. It’s in becoming better that you gain the power to not care if someone likes you or doesn’t, because you know your value and you know you can attract others. Through confidence you can get to … | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Any tips to not be nervous around girls?Damn your good! You know I took a speech class once and the instructor said the way to not be nervous is to know your material inside and out... through preparation comes confidence. We can use this in life by Becoming the expert in yourself, know exactly what your about, your likes, dislikes, passions, purpose, values, vision, goals and philosophy’s If you take the time to really figure out who “you” are, you can then talk about yourself when with a girl, talk about your life or views or passio… | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 05:08 PM |
| 3 | I think I'm done chasing womenYour 20, you have time on your side Youth is power. Leverage time to your advantage. Become the best version of yourself in the next several years and put women in the back seat for now. Once you become a dynamic person who can clearly define his purpose, vision and values then you’ll have a life that reflects that drive and character and then when you meet a girl she’ll not only be attracted by the way you live but also by the way you don’t need her to feel value and you’ve created value in you… | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Any tips to not be nervous around girls?Your nervous because you want it to go well, your invested in the outcome because you like her and want to be with her, this translates into you becoming your own worst enemy because now your putting up a wall between you and her of self consciousness. The good news is you talked to her, and your mind saw that it wasn’t that bad, that means you’ve neurologically begun the process of rewiring your brain to be more able and willing to take action in the future when it comes to talking to women so … | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Seduction or not?People can be manipulative by nature without even being fully conscious of this pattern in themselves, You answer this by learning your psychology, if you know what’s going on inside your head you can better analyze situations because you won’t be so swept up by calculated actions to evoke a certain response. Authentic people carry a since of authenticity in everything they do, the devils in the details... become aware of the body language and fine mannerisms to better understand if someone is a… | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 04:34 PM |
| 3 | How to motivate your mates to put themselves out thereI would tell the lads that you are going to approach for the group but there job is to be fun and high energy when you bring sets back to the table to meet them, the vibe is about fun and making memories not about the girl and by you taking the burden of pulling sets back to your table it loosens the boys up and makes for a chance that you all can really bring the party vibe and get some girls caught up in your wake | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 04:31 PM |
| 5 | Being overly invested in a relationship in which the other person has little investment is a surefire way of killing it.When your truly confident You can say whatever you want and act however you choose with out any worry and she will still be attracted because your confidence and unapologetic honesty combined with how you carry yourself shows her you can replace her, even though you say she’s your world she knows you have options. So don’t get hung up on what you should say or be afraid to show to much interest and instead act any way you feel like and if she’s not with it find someone who is | /r/seduction | 08/11/20 12:16 AM |
| 3 | I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to.Super cool metaphor I dig it! So true too, we are all at our core a product of all of our experiences And the way some of the toxic experiences impact us need to be worked through in order to ever achieve true peace ! Thanks for the recommendation, I’ll download it | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to.You posses a wealth of knowledge... anyone who has been in game for that long has an immense amount of value to give to people. Clean yourself up and make your passion and purpose helping others who are lost find and understand game through your teachings much like you did with your friends. You are a thinker and have a powerful, intellectual mind so find happiness in taking your 12 years of study and helping students of yours find true confidence and self esteem. If you do this what will happen… | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 02:55 PM |
| 5 | I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to.What’s this book about bro? Love a good book suggestion! | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Pickup is a ladderTurn a ladder to a chair and sit upon your throne | /r/seduction | 02/11/20 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Do older men typically have the guts to approach younger women or do they get scared of the creep factor?Your good man ask away, just keep there best interest in mind and only approach if they are in a safe environment but that’s a universal rule for all ages because we ain’t tryna get tazed | /r/seduction | 14/10/20 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Children's course 101See this is what I disagree with, you can and should show affection and express how much you like the girl your with. But everything about you should make her feel like you are desirable to other women -your personality and social skills -your physical health and style -your drive and passion -your overall vibe and non neediness It’s like be a romantic and enjoy being in a relationship but just always know you can replace her and trust me she will know it to but the never letting her know is jus… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/20 02:18 PM |
| 8 | Guys I fucking did it.Big dick energy baby she couldn’t resist! Good job man! | /r/seduction | 04/09/20 12:40 AM |
| -10 | I just picked up a cutie in the Walmart parking lot!! (Cold approach Story)you've done good brother! | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How do I deal with inexperience?i can help, message me | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Vegas this SaturdayYeah I’ll let you know how it goes! And if you decide you want to come out for a weekend I can meet you there and put you up in a comped room and we can gamble and run game ! Craps is my go to man I absolutely kill it every time and immediately go and waste the profits on roulette ! Lol but I love all gambling’ Never really took advantage of the club and pool scene when it was open, I’m 27 and the last time I went to Xs was when I was 22 but the game back then was great I was a machine at approa… | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Vegas this SaturdayThanks Martin! Yeah I usually go once or twice a month for gambling but since this trip is with a friend I decided I’d dust off the old cold approach skills so my plan is just get numbers in the day to link back up with later in the night and at night I’ll transition to pulling back to the room but as long as I run sets with high quality game I’m gonna be happy! That’s awesome you used to live out there! I have comped rooms at Red rock and Southpoint because logistics is everything lol | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Need help regaining my ability to talk to girlsEvery pound you lose will sky rocket your confidence. Hit those weights like they are the most important thing in the world ! Mental health is key and little changes across the board in your life for the better add up quick to feed a confident mind | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 02:00 PM |
| 2 | An embarrassing question.Energy and vibes have a lot to do with where your at mentally in the moment and if you are thinking about being perceived as creepy then in that moment you are closer to sending a vibe of creepy for the simple fact that it’s even crossing your mind and influencing your body language in subtle ways like a blank stare or nervous uneasy energy. Solution is to drop thinking about being creepy and start thinking and visualizing yourself being a refreshing break and joy in peoples boring days ! | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Bunch of tryhard coomersThe package your wrapping your confidence up in is very negative, all the same success can be obtained but in a way that doesn’t harbor negativity but instead spreads magnetic energy and good vibes.... the root of all this attraction is simply knowing your worth and once you have that you can be the best version of you unapologetically... I’m just speaking from experience the facade of being to cool for school is a drain on your mental health Instead be able to laugh at yourself and still pull g… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Can you give me some critique on this "approach" I made?Reverse engineer the approach from her perspective... there’s to many factors that work against her to make it unfavorable for her to take the “ball you put in her court” and act on it... it’s your job to become a master at easing tension, creating comfort and a clear path to your desired result.... at no point do you want it in her control because that translates a lack of control from you. If you want something go get it... if you half want something stay on the wall and just yell... I will sa… | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 02:14 PM |
| 3 | 10 Lessons I Learned From My GF Cheating On MeEveryone has to learn at there own pace, and this seems like it’s going to really make you progress. Next time though just end it man, don’t get caught up in the negative emotion of proof checking and calling her ex boyfriend... | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/20 01:38 PM |
| 11 | Former “he’s nice but he’s just my friend” guy summing up what I was doing wrong.If by ugly you mean fat and acne and bad hygiene then you can put in work to improve that But it will require discipline and pain. After that all you need to do is set out on a path of self mastery and self love If you put in the work to understand psychology and improve your verbal and nonverbal skills then you’ll have a new perspective that isn’t desperate or needy and your life will be happy pursuing other things than women for validation and self worth because you will fully accept the perso… | /r/seduction | 22/05/20 04:16 PM |
| 110 | Former “he’s nice but he’s just my friend” guy summing up what I was doing wrong.Hahahaha nice man just keep getting confident and learning everything self development but most of all learn how to control that beautiful brain of yours and you’ll have anything you want in life | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Get soberI chose to go completely sober because for me drinking was my social crutch and I abused it. Once I got sober it changed my life dramatically because I had to learn how to be social with friends without having drinking in common, I needed to learn how to be someone who can have Fun in the moment and not need the day to revolve around getting buzzed.... it taught me discipline and strengthened my relationship with myself. That coupled with working out and a new positive perspective On Life and I’… | /r/seduction | 20/05/20 10:33 PM |
| 2 | You new guys are seriously misunderstanding the point of seduction.Well written | /r/seduction | 20/05/20 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Best way to respond to rejection is by NOT acknowledging itQuarantine has us changing the line up and dusting off the old roster ! I’m guilty too and just had a lovely date last night full of cuddles and laying my head in her lap while she plays with my hair! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/20 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that you should be already good at socializing with women before you even think about cold approaching?Every one who gives advice is biased to what has worked for them, so your friend saying don’t approach until you can socialize with women on a friend level is asking you to waste precious time learning and let me tell you that you learn quick in game from beginner to results... it’s the mastery that takes time but the results come almost instantaneously. For example one day you never approach the next you do that’s a massive result that will boost confidence and begin the self development toward… | /r/seduction | 14/05/20 01:55 PM |
| 21 | A Man's Worst EnemyThis is extremely true, a comedian said it best... “I don’t trust anyone who hasn’t wasted five years of there life to a drug habit” that being said OP is a beauty for this content, great stuff! | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/20 05:21 AM |
| 0 | It scares me sometimes how good I amNatural only in the form of looks, but at 5’8 not at all tall and always athletic but not until recently muscular. Although I was funny & talkative in school the second a girl would come around I would go silent... then I learned seduction & game and it all changed very quickly once results started adding up. | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 01:22 PM |
| 2 | It scares me sometimes how good I amHahahahaha I love it ! No need to fear I’m not that guy anymore !! | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 06:52 AM |
| 1 | It scares me sometimes how good I amWhat part are you having trouble swallowing? | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 06:34 AM |
| 1 | What’s the difference between seduction and charming?this was dope | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Can you actually "win someone over"? Literal seduction?plant a seed then water it | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Guys who were late bloomers, how did you change it around?I can guide any man to success by unlocking his mind fuck everything else its all in the mind | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Guys who were late bloomers, how did you change it around?hahahhaahhahahah this comment made my night ! | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Overcame fear today..Yeah women I’ve asked several of my approaches later in the relationship what they thought of me randomly walking up to them and asking them out and they all say something along the lines of how much they loved it and they prefer a man who does that (good game) rather than) Someone who cat calls and is creepy and stares Plus think about the validation you give a woman by approaching her, she can’t help but feel good that a great guy took the time and courage to talk to her | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 01:22 PM |
| 0 | How Are You Getting Dates During This Pandemic?Lowe’s check out line cashiers I’m telling you!! | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 05:53 AM |
| 4 | Unshakable Frame Control - What Having Your Shit Together Can Really DoSpot on about mental health, it’s like a cheat code to life If I had to pick one word that has more power than any other it would be perception Because literally everything in life is just how we perceive it. I actively reframe every day to be grateful for life and turn what I once perceived as negative emotions into positive Really glad to see you post this because this is exactly the spark that could change someone’s life forever ! Keep going man your mind is taking you places in this life | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 05:51 AM |
| 0 | Cold Approach after the LockdownLowe’s check out girls all day... trust me just hit them with the, “you seem really cool, what’s your number and maybe we can go out when this is all over, I’ll text you” | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Overcame fear today..RIP the legend | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 05:24 AM |
| 5 | Overcame fear today..I’m so fucking proud of you! This made my weekend ! And even though she said she was busy, it’s important to know how good that probably made her feel to be approached for a date, I’m certain she will have a smile on her face every time she thinks of it Now time to keep this momentum up ! If you have any questions PM me I’ve been in the seduction business for 8 years | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 05:21 AM |
| 3 | If you were on vacation and surrounded by strangers you would never see again would you still be unable to approach?That’s an interesting point because now that you mention it I remember stupid people too! That’s why I don’t promote game that says go out and be obnoxious and draw attention to yourself, although I respect the mental freedom to get yourself to that point and how acting like that is a fast track to brain reinforcement that shows you don’t have to care what other people think, but once you get to a point where you love yourself and develops true confidence then the seduction techniques and vibe y… | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | If you were on vacation and surrounded by strangers you would never see again would you still be unable to approach?The inability to approach metaphor was to highlight the fact that the deeper problem was there ego... all the answers are out there to fix yourself I provided the right thing to look up instead of getting lost in a sea of content. I need them to start questioning why they feel the way they do and trace it back to the source. No one ever said seduction and game should be universal for everyone to master... if the mental wall is to much to break down then this isn’t the path for you... I’m not her… | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 04:38 PM |
| 2 | If you were on vacation and surrounded by strangers you would never see again would you still be unable to approach?There you go ! Are you a daygame guy or night life ? | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 07:27 AM |
| 4 | If you were on vacation and surrounded by strangers you would never see again would you still be unable to approach?I know my worth, I know my value If someone says that to me it doesn’t phase me in the slightest, I’d probably think he was on drugs or suffering from a mental disorder. Being reactive is a very weak trait, I would recommend always being above reacting to emotions, stay rational and hold frame This isn’t faking confidence I’m speaking of this is true confidence and when you live life like that you have energy coming off you that everyone picks up on the second you walk into a room And living lik… | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 07:19 AM |
| 1 | What to say!If someone asked you to get up in front of a class and give a presentation you would freak out and not do it because you wouldn’t know what to say But if you didn’t care what the crowd thought and you love yourself enough to not need other people’s approval then you could walk up there, calm and say hey they asked me to come up and speak but since I didn’t have time to prepare anything I will go ahead and start with introducing myself and then meeting all of you... I’ll then tell you guys each a… | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Guys who made significant changes to their dating/social life, what were the main changes you made?Im gonna wrap up the quarantine in deep study of this, very interesting recommendation ! thank you for the value!! | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 05:05 AM |
| 1 | How to Accelerate your results in Game? (Part 2/2)big value thanks | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 04:59 AM |
| 6 | The Power Of Teasing - Building Major Sexual Desire In WomenI agree, there has to be a balance ... you have to have desirable traits and display them before you become unavailable but what you need to understand is this technique is to establish power and higher value but a majority of men are perfectly happy being equals with there love interests or submissive to her and have successful relationships... it all depends on who you want to be in your relationship and if your living your truth or just settling. I have women that Im dating extremely interest… | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Test me, ask any question about seduction...you have to work on your communication skills and body language because proposing taboo ideas such as a foursome requires planting a seed and fostering an environment of non judgment and exploration in the pursuit of mutual gratification... use seduction and pickup skills to go out and meet several women via cold approach pickup, once you have sexual relationships with multiple women going and they know you are actively dating other women because you made that known early on begin to over the co… | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Things no one told you to do on a datethis man closes. great advice | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 04:12 AM |
| 7 | The Power Of Teasing - Building Major Sexual Desire In Womenhe's simply saying that the person with the most power in a relationship is the one that needs the other less.... and power is attractive if you are always available and always eager to please it sounds good on paper but from a psychological stand point it is unattractive in the early stages of a relationship because you come off as needy and desperate, whereas if you put your path and purpose and the pursuit of your passions first in life and weren't always available this would build attraction… | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 04:09 AM |
| 35 | The Power Of Teasing - Building Major Sexual Desire In Womenhahhahahh comment section is a gold mine right now! | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Test me, ask any question about seduction...everyone has to eat regardless of the weather outside so you can find people in a grocery store setting or coffeeshops but depending on the time of year I would recommend going to your local community college or university and approaching women on campus, its a safe environment and people are more apt to be social and open to a conversation and it will keep you out of the elements ! I did most of my early years of cold approach almost exclusively at my community college and it was amazing perfec… | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Guys who made significant changes to their dating/social life, what were the main changes you made?any book recommendations? I like where your mind is! | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 03:27 AM |
| 4 | Guys who made significant changes to their dating/social life, what were the main changes you made?that sounds like a rampage of a night! awesome commitment to the game! | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Seduction in the workplaceThe only cap that hurts is the lie you tell yourself, Period. But I must admit you earned my respect by sticking through this war and delivering good ass comebacks! That last one caught me off guard I thought it was checkmate but you pulled another one out of your ass & Im sure there’s more where that came from lol I was arguing my weaknesses, I should of been more clear before posting this because it is a dangerous game to mix your sex life with your professional life so your original comment w… | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Seduction in the workplaceWhere’d the all caps go? The only thing that runs on more than my sentence is your mouth But I get a lot of satisfaction watching you respond because it’s like a front row seat to the mind of someone who’s soft Go get tread lightly tattooed on your wrist so you can remember to stay in your place every time you jack off | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Seduction in the workplaceI read your message and I already know exactly what type of guy you are.... your response was predictable down to the white knight stance you took with McDonald’s and attempted shots at my stats but failed to see that my stats reflect my transparency because I have nothing to hide I’m at piece with who I am and I know my worth I promote mental health and I suggest you find it Pussys not everything will be the comforting words you tell yourself right before bed. Cute response buddy, I like the al… | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Seduction in the workplaceWhy are you choosing not to ask out a colleague in your career field? If it’s because you have other options that’s respectable... but if it’s a fear based reason that your justifying with “only people who work at McDonald’s can fuck colleagues” then you will be the in the group that goes through life justifying not taking action because they believe there being self righteous When I can sit here and confidently say that any career field you name Will have people who take action and get what the… | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Seduction in the workplacethe funny thing is you can start implementing proximity to send the message that you're interested and find excuses to start chatting her up, then with frequency, duration and intensity of the interactions all being high and sexual tension building more and more over time I'm confident you could easily plant a seed of seduction and watch it blossom right before your eyes, only this time you'll be ready to harvest that sweet bud | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Seduction in the workplaceI see what you mean about not being linear, that's a good point and I've also had flings of passion that went nowhere sexually but I still see the value in the experience I got from them and as far as thinking of what could of been, its that pain that will make us take action when another opportunity presents itself but your a better man for not breaking up a relationship with kids involved | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Seduction in the workplaceI hate to say it but your making a convincing argument that you could of fucked her | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 05:24 AM |
| 0 | Seduction in the workplacei was more descriptive in my post about specfics to my situation but the moderators removed it, its still on my page though if you were interested to clarify i wasn't in the friend zone with the women, there was no comfort... it was sexual tension and light hello how you doing playful banter with looks shared across the room when we would catch eyes and by the way i would carry myself there was desire being built and when i knew i had the green light to cross the line the ask each one of them ou… | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 04:54 AM |
| 2 | How to properly learn from rejection?love the nick name ! lol good to be here !! | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Texting Game : I need help...its hard because you care, you care because you don't want to mess up...you don't want to mess up because you seek her validation and approval...you seek that because you gain your self worth from other peoples opinions of you instead of your self option of you...also know as self esteem. you boost your self esteem and you begin to not question your actions and instead just take action. you get to a place of high self esteem and confidence a thousand different ways and the person who goes down a… | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 02:30 AM |
| 2 | How to properly learn from rejection?do you cold approach? how did you get this girls number ? if you give me all the context i can help you! PM me | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 01:36 AM |
| 0 | If you CANT get up and sing karaoke in a bar full of strangers then you need to ask yourself, why?The social butterflies you know that can tak in front of crowds but suck at dating don’t have a core confidence and true love for themselves that silences insecurities They suck at dating because they care what people think about them and have no power in a relationship because they need the woman more than she needs him, they’re vibe is desperate and needy Your friends who have stage freight, are crippled by anxiety because they don’t have a fundamental belief that they are enough and that othe… | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 01:11 AM |
| 2 | 8 years in... Any questions?I need a little clarity, are you texting as just friends and you want to progress that into asking her on a date or are is this a number you got from cold approaching and want to set up a first date over text? The same rules of face to face game applies to text... don’t seek approval or validation, don’t be needy or desperate, say what you want and own it, spread good vibes and energy and don’t be afraid to tease and flirt.. push pull!! People will say you have to do this or that with texting bu… | /r/seduction | 30/04/20 01:44 PM |
| 3 | 8 years in... Any questions?Thanks for the great question! Take it easy ! | /r/seduction | 30/04/20 01:29 PM |
| 5 | 8 years in... Any questions?when you entered into game the first time you were outcome dependent, you needed the results because you were alone and had no path or purpose, not having a path and being dependent on outcome makes you desperate and needy which in turn messes with your self esteem because you question your self worth and the vicious cycle starts to perpetuate its toxicity on your mental health and progress and true change becomes extremely difficult... fast forward and you let go of all of it and chose to seek … | /r/seduction | 30/04/20 05:32 AM |
| 1 | 8 years in... Any questions?Yeah test it out and that world of online game is a mystery to me so you got my respect for facing it head on! But do me a favor and stay in touch with the side of you that is social with everyone face to face and isn’t afraid to introduce himself to a woman he finds attractive just to see where it goes and not expecting anything from it Because that’s a man with options and a man with options is a powerful man | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACHWhat’s up man, do you have any questions regarding game!? | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 09:42 PM |
| 5 | 8 years in... Any questions?Game tells you to be confident And says approach... now when you in fact take the leap and approach what that does is something called brain reinforcement, your mind sees that you survived and that it wasn’t as bad as it seems so it gets a little more confident and the fear of approaching starts to become less and less. I’m telling you that while all of game theory and it’s tips and tricks are great, they become much easier to implement and use when you work on loving yourself in conjunction wit… | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 09:38 PM |
| 3 | 8 years in... Any questions?I grew up on MySpace/Facebook but the girls that came from that were because of my social status back in high school days and being popular, not because I had game in fact I didn’t hook up with even a fraction of the girls I could have if I had known game theory back then but after I got into game I pulled a girl off an app called shout and it turned out to be an awesome hook up relationship but I was still gliding off of being higher value in the since of having a car and just being more popula… | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 09:14 PM |
| 6 | 8 years in... Any questions?Yeah absolutely there was, if I started fresh right now I would approach game from a personal psychological evaluation stand point in the sense where After every interaction and cold approach with woman or any social interaction at all in my entire life I would go and break down every emotion I felt and trace it back to the source And fix the root problem For example you brought up approach anxiety And yes I have dealt with that a ton but if I was in the beginning of game 8 years ago I would of … | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | 8 years in... Any questions?I’ll look into launching a podcast!! & I’ll treat it just like game, free of outcome.. not trying to prove anything or take anything just trying to give value to others by hosting a platform for people in the same trenches battling inner insecurities to discuss how to come out the other side with a new perspective on this one beautiful life we have to live! Thanks for making my day with those kind words bro, you’d be The Godfather of the channel! | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 04:48 PM |
| 2 | 8 years in... Any questions?Excellent advice man, I’m only familiar by name and general theory with those concepts and eager to consume all knowledge surrounding areas of mental health! but you are years ahead of the curve if you are already realizing that game stems from a place of self love and that true self love comes from mental health. That’s what is so awe inspiring about game is that it’s literally an ecosystem consisting of thousands of moving parts... that are all interconnected to make up the version of you that… | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 03:09 PM |
| 2 | STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACHAnyone that needs a little more in depth breakdown pm me I’ve been a student of game for 8 years and I’m so massively grateful for everything it’s allowed me to give myself in the areas of self esteem and social confidence And currently my journey with game has lead me to seeking out the psychology behind all the core concepts and really getting to the deeper root of why you get nervous in certain situations and just a better overall fundamental understanding of behavioralism and inter-gender dy… | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 02:00 PM |
| 1 | When I'm working towards a purpose, it's hard to get jealousBeautiful man! Power of purpose right there I completely agree that life becomes so much brighter when you’re pursuing your passion | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 03:22 AM |
| 9 | The Second ArrowThe first thing I’ve heard in awhile on reddit that really blew me away... awesome content man, great post! | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/20 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Deleted RSD Julien compilation VideoI used to watch RSA’s videos back when PIMP was released and a little while after, is the content they put out now worth watching? | /r/seduction | 28/04/20 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Difference between conversation and seduction? Give me examples of what you would say when seducing.All these responses and not one reply from the OP Do me a favor and work on your self esteem first before you play around with seduction You wouldn’t be worried about coming off as desperate if you truly believed you had value to offer and that is why I recommend you pursue self development techniques more than seduction techniques because oddly enough what’s most seductive is someone who knows there own worth and doesn’t need anything from anyone | /r/seduction | 26/04/20 05:47 AM |
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