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30dirtyfingers/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:16 PM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:18 PM
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yep, thats why i dont want any. Its not an easy job, but it is somewhat rewarding watching children develop and grow, knowing you played a part in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:44 AM
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you very easily advocated for both men and women's rights in one post.....and i doubt it took long.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 12:14 PM
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Other things you might have done to give it away. Im not saying that if a girl likes you, she will hit you. Im saying that if a girl hits you, outside of the context of a fight, theres a good chance she likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 12:13 PM
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not thinking through is probably the most common reason for why a women hit a man. I think thats one of the reasons why its not reciprocated. Also, context matters. But she still hit him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:13 AM
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women hit men with no consequences all of the time. Ask any male in here if he has been hit by a women and he will likely say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:12 AM
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basically. He brought this on himself, I dont feel bad for him. Learn from your mistakes and move on. But this is evident that "believe all women" is bullshit. Nobody is that credible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:08 AM
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Every girl that I have had any physical interaction with (yes, that means sex) has hit me before we had sex. Thats how I knew she liked me. From that point i escalate until we are having sex. Works everytime. Sadomasochrist gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:05 AM
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HA! its funny cuz its true. Thats exactly what I thought when I read that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:01 AM
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I have never been in an abusive relationship to that extent and im pro TRP. I have had women try to throw the exact same logic that Amber threw at Depp, but I recognize the bullshit and dont play. The audio sounds like things I have heard women say to justify why a guy is "less than a man" and it is usually when she is defending her toxic (femininity) behavior, trying to make the man responsible for how the situation played out. The broad has no accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:47 AM
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wasnt that hard, was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:40 AM
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So, basically, she has been lying to him for the entire relationship about things she KNOW are important to him. If she didnt KNOW the information was important to him, she wouldnt have lied about it. Not only that, if she lied about those things so early in the relationship, what else will she lie about going forward? Can her word really be trusted? I mean, shes been lying from the beginning. Also, she cannot call him out on any lie he tells because then she would be a hypocrite, and now she re…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:35 AM
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Nope, thats her business, not mine. If she cant get it together, I move on. If she is aware enough to identify that she has baggage and manages them, I will stick around. Otherwise, im on to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:22 AM
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Thus TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:14 AM
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Thats why your always improving and you spin plates while in a LTR. Automatic dread. Also, if she's not that into you or she cheats, at least you werent wasting time on her cuz you been busy. If she is into you and doesnt cheat, she will be more into you if your spinning plates and always upping your SMV. Win-win.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 09:10 AM
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yeah, its not as good. Dante doesnt dish it out the way Patrice did.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 09:01 AM
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They use guys for other things that they want, so it seems both parties are capable of using each other for their own selfish desires. Also, men have to genuinely be attracted to women to care about what your saying. So technically, women should feel bad about using a guy as an emotional tampon without reciprocating what he wants. Check.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:57 AM
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I would argue that if they are "the one", then they would want you back....otherwise, they arent an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:40 AM
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Not to the same extent but yes, a confident woman is attractive. As men, our primary attraction to women is their beauty so confidence isn't necessary. That being said, I prefer confident women. Low self esteem and no confidence tends to be a waste of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 12:44 PM
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Yes it's true, there is someone out there for everyone, but the world is a big place and there a billions of people out there so, yeah I think so. As a matter of fact, by mathematical logic alone, there are hundreds of people who will fit the profile of "the one".....which means there isn't just 1 person out there for each of us. Now actually finding that person is another story. Also realize that people change over time so someone who is "the one" for you when your 18 may not the "the one" for …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 12:37 PM
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They dont do that shit in NY either. I asked.....they laughed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:39 AM
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Men experience both of those outcomes, internal rage or lashing out. Both of those are negative and dont lead anywhere positive. Also, i have seen women do both. Not as often because I RARELY see women get rejected because I rarely see women approach. Most girls I ask say they have never approached a guy (I mean actually approach and chance getting rejected) so its not as likely to happen. The reason why it seems like so many guys lash out is because that many more guys take a chance than women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:33 AM
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That does happen. Quite alot actually. But I think that men who approach often do so because they have gotten past the "whats wrong with me" mentality so they are able to shrug it off easier. Experience is the deciding factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:28 AM
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not only that, she could be having a bad day, focused on something else, could be a lesbian, could have a boyfriend or be married. All of those are reasons outside of the guy that could apply to the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:21 AM
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yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:14 AM
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Nothing I couldnt get from a guy friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:13 AM
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How does a woman make a house into a home? None of those things are exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:06 AM
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yeah, but only temporarily. Gotta get up and get started eventually, so the laziness is just decompressing time for me. She doesnt complain because when im not lazy, she sees me much less.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 10:25 AM
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Not exactly sure because it varies from person to person, but If your overweight and having trouble orgasming or not orgasming at all, your weight could be contributing. Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:21 AM
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Its the same as women saying the guy is gay when he rejects her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:50 PM
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I repeatedly get that offer from girls. Not buying it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:49 PM
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Its the equivalent of men getting violent and starts insulting the girl IF she rejects him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:48 PM
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Not true, it takes a toll on your body. Its already hindering you (generally speaking, not specifically you) in ways you dont want to admit, if you notice at all. Anything from muscle or bone aches, joint pain, headaches, inability to orgasm, hormone inbalance, sleep apnea, insomnia, labored breathing, lower back pain, upper back pain, numbness in extremities, mood swings, excessive sweating....just to name a few. Furthermore, for every decade your body is in a certain condition, that harder it …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:44 PM
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IF you can genuinely keep that mindset when you are with 8s and 9s then it will probably happen natrually. You have to keep in mind that the 5 didnt have a 8 or 9 mindset so your gonna have to contest with that.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 12:56 PM
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Its been my personal experience. Funny that I didnt recognize the pattern before because I figured "its probably just the broads i meet". Then i found TRP and strange enough, like 80% of what I experienced with women were right there like it was from a text book. Hell, when I meet women now, almost everything TRP said she (women) would do, she does. I cant help but grin to myself and think "textbook......"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:10 PM
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Nope. Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:05 PM
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Not in the sense that you are asking because what we are attracted to how she looks and how she looks is the most prominent reason we will sleep with you. In most instances, that is the only criteria we need. The fact that a man doesnt pursue a women he is sexually attracted to speaks volumes when you consider that we are the ones that are "suppose" to approach women, because if the only reason we dont approach her is because we are already in a "relationship", that means I made a conscious deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:16 AM
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agreed. What do I want with a girl who doesnt know how to give a blowjob? Im not that concerned with n-counts because im concerned with her and I right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:33 AM
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Nope, thats just a female friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:28 AM
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I think this goes both ways honestly. As a guy, I do it to encourage her and communicate that I like what she is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:18 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:44 PM
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Because thats how it works in theory and not how it actually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 12:55 PM
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Nope, still wouldnt get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 12:54 PM
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Talk less about yourself and more about her. Dont let her know everything about you. Talk but say nothing (this one is tricky). Take some time to answer, even when in front of her. I tend to give myself 5-7 seconds before answering some questions (thats the amount of time a saumrai would take to make a decision). Be consistantly inconsistant (any pattern you develop with her, break them just because). Talk about other girls but vaguely and NO NAMES. When you tell a story, be vague with its time …
/r/askTRP24/01/20 12:48 PM
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I like this. Tried it with LTR and I get mixed results. Lately, its been a no go getting her to wear anything for me. I stopped saying anything and took away attention. Just today she texted me that she could dress that way for me for my bday but I said no thanx. Im sure if i applied your compliance test early in the relationship I doubt I would be in this situation.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 12:33 PM
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I wouldnt let that effect my confidence ENOUGH to not hang out with him. Thats just the way life goes. I would imagine the same thing happens to girls when 1 is more attractive than the other. Not hanging out with him because of how girls treat him as opposed to u is a bitch move, you are not a girl. Stand on your own and dont let his presence intimidate you. I have a friend like this. 6'2, muscular, dreads, obviously gets alot of pussy (first time I saw him, even I knew he gets alot of pussy). …
/r/askTRP24/01/20 11:32 AM
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exactly, treat it all like a big joke...i mean her relationship with you. You should be laughing at everything she says and NEVER sweat anything that comes out of her mouth. Dont put too much stock into what she says: her: your the best sex I've ever had. you: lol My plate does this at times and when she needs dick it happens more and more often. It either backfires (Agree and amplify, amuse mastery) or it does nothing because I dont give her a response to work off of. I learned that when I dont…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 11:02 AM
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I can agree with OP. I was a late bloomer and had to work extra hard to get anywhere with girls. So much so that I still doubt myself despite the obvious signs I get. I guess im still more beta than I would like to be. I absolutely love when other guys look at the girl im with because its a sense of validation to me. That some of my relationship qualities (as great for relationships as they may be) will be misinterpreted as "beta" and thus will lead to her losing attraction to me. I actually lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:05 AM
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same. No hard feelings, just that I need to move on to someone who is that attracted to me because otherwise, I know how this is gonna go.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:21 AM
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my gf fluctuates back and forth like this. I pretty sure its my fault though. The problem is that she either cant identify it or refuse to acknowledge it. Sad part is that im starting not to care either way and I know where this will go...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:16 AM
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Nope, not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:07 AM
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No, because she will treat you like a safe option and not someone who she actively wants to be with....which, in most guys experience is less passionate sex, disrespect and less effort on her part. From what I have seen and been told by girls, the safe option doesnt get her juices flowing partially because she see him as a safe option. I would imagine that the same is true for a girl if the guy isnt that into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:51 AM
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yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:46 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:42 AM
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Talk about timing......I was just debating with myself (hamstering) about applying this to a broad I just exchanged numbers with. She is down to grab a drink and Im looking to escalate if it feels right but I know it will come up. I knew the answer but was afraid (loss of frame) that she wouldn't be down (outcome dependent) when I mentioned gf. I know what I must do. Appreciate the reminder.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 02:00 PM
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The sad reality is that they cant help it any more than we can help being attracted to someone who we arent physically attracted to regardless of all the logical reasons we should be attracted to them. Its like a switch and there is no in-between it seems.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 08:53 AM
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Her dressing sexy, being sexually adventurous, being social and having fun together, staying in shape. Also, talking. The more I talk to her, the better I know her. The better I know her, the more I can pull out that inner slut and takes things to another level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:13 AM
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As long as it doesnt come with health risks and actually makes her feel better, Im all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:07 AM
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https://i.pinimg.com/564x/04/0e/d2/040ed218bc59483e0e792f9ebb0292ef.jpg
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:48 PM
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There it is....to most guys it doesn't matter. I know what my role in the relationship is and I play it whether she plays hers or not because this ship would sink otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:53 PM
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I never see what I do with a girl I like as a waste of time because I enjoyed spending time with her enough to actually do it, outcome independent. If u gotta drop her, look at it as though it gives you free time to meet new and more amazing chicks.....I mean, if your actually meeting other chicks ( I didn't say sleeping with other chicks, although I'm not saying it's wrong ...). I feel like learn so much that it's never a waste of time if her and I got past the second "date".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:04 PM
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Because the 39 seconds after we do, we see another girl we want to have sex with and for some strange reason, the woman your in a relationship with is usually against that. It limits our opportunities and our opportunities are usually based on our confidence and capabilities. The thing is, because guys have to go get a woman they want, any woman we see is potentially just a conversation away from sleeping with us. Most women wait for the guy to come to them, so the goal is to make a relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 03:54 PM
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Amazon...that makes it easy to remember
/r/askTRP14/01/20 02:05 PM
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So its disrespectful to talk to women because im not being honest with my intentions? As if women dont know why men come and talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:51 AM
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It is, but you know whats ever harder? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNi4YnbRsV8 ​ your move....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:42 AM
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I do my best to avoid hitting women more than I do to avoid hitting men, which by default means i dont treat men and women equal (its true, im such a sexist). That being said, your friend is right..."mess with the bull, you get the horns." With the exception of children and the elderly, no one has the right to put their hands on you without your consent and if they do (women included) are subject to the consequences. We are all suppose to be adults here, and if I have to treat you like a child, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:36 AM
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True but i would trade all of those to keep the government out of my relationship.....and I do by not gettng married. Those benefits are not worth the risk if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:09 AM
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Well, I think the first thing to address is whether or not either person wants the child. Sounds harsh, but not everyone wants to be a parent and not everyone wants to be a parent with THAT person. So Woman wants baby, guy doesnt. I think the woman is well within her right to have said baby provided she doesnt obligate the man for support. Guy wants baby, woman doesnt. This is a bit trickier because she would still have to give carry it to term and give birth, which she may not want to AND it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:54 PM
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because otherwise, you can get arrested for driving without one. You can still be in the same kind of relationship without the marriage contract. Also, in NYC, police have the legal right to lock you up if they ask for ID and you dont present it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:17 PM
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basically. I dont plan to get married, but my commitment is renewed every damn day. I dont need the government to cosign my relationship for it to be real, the fact that I honor it makes it real. Not only that, its really just a contract. The real value is in the eyes of god (if you believe in such) or in your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:12 PM
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word up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:07 PM
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Posts like these remind me to keep my shit tight. Im sure im not the only one who slips up now and then and this post help to tighten my frame and mindset. Plus, its always cool when someone else gets it and posts their experience. Helps to solidify the RP ideas and break apart the lingering BP ideas. Post appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 11:52 AM
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Nope, they are just as ridiculous as any other broad.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 11:40 AM
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I have a friend who told me how disgusted she was when she found out her bf cried when they broke up the first time. Yeah, she got back together with him, but that didnt last.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 06:43 AM
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I dont go to my gf for emotional support, I will not get anything effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 06:40 AM
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I dont think it is, but I can see the potential issues. That said, let her go out. Replace her when she plays herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:49 AM
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Having sex with alot of women takes work. Having sex with alot of men takes no work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:48 AM
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Nope, shes trying to make you jealous. Shit test. You ignore. she will move on to someone else come back to you because he bluff didnt work. either way, apply the same strategy and accept the results. You can go get another girl, she aint nothing special, especially if this is how shes acting. Its telling of how she will act in the future. Are you willing to deal with her when shes like this in the future? Because im willing to bet this is her go to behavior for when shes pissed at you.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 09:45 AM
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Yep, nothing new here. Thats one of the games shes gonna continue to play, regardless of what you tell her. She gonna do what she wanna do. Just wait until she trys throwing other guys attention to her in your face.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 09:40 AM
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word son
/r/askTRP07/01/20 09:38 AM
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I cant make anyone feel anything. I CAN influence your feelings heavily, but I cant choose how you will feel. If my boss looks at me and says something about needing to improve my job performance, I might feel anxious or stressed because I might lose my job (true) BUT what if i was looking to already leave my job because I was planning to leave anyway? Where is the anxiety and stress? There wouldnt be any associated with what my boss just said. YOUR feelings are based on what YOU previously expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:36 AM
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I can agree on all of those things. I have been in situations where I was accused of potential rape the day after because the girl "didnt think i would stop if she said no". Despite the fact that she didnt say no, didnt protest or resist, didnt push me away, was knowingly in the house with other females and as far as I could (then and now) comprehend, enthusiastically participated in sexual activity. I dont think legal involvement was on the table, but I was furious that this girl would put the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:59 AM
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extrapolate what exactly? need clarification before I put my foot in my mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:05 AM
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Raped when unconscious and cannot fight back....ok, we can agree on that. Groomed by older people into having sex...statutory rape. Tricked into having sex under false pretenses.....well, thats a tricky one. That happens alot and both men and women are guilty of that without breaking a law, thats just dishonest. Cant and shouldnt be considered illegal because there are many degrees of dishonesty. I agree on the spectrum, but coercion is more of a "bending of the will" while rape is more of a "fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:04 AM
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not an excuse when it comes to standing up for yourself because what is the alternative? Guys learn this early in life....stand up or get pushed around.....no one, not even women like or even sympathize with this. Speak up or get stepped on. A closed mouth doesnt get fed. A million and one quotes for this exact thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:50 AM
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He should listen and understand, but 2 things: 1) people shouldnt kill, rob, hurt, steal, cheat, lie either, but they do anyway. Thats why there are countermeasures such as laws and police, because people dont always do what they should. How often have you NOT done something you were suppose to do? You must be a shitty person for not doing what you were suppose to do. 2) If someone pressure you to jump off a bridge? What about putting your hand in fire? Or what about pulling a fire alarm? How ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:45 AM
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actions speak louder than words. If you dont want to have sex, you dont have sex. Once you are being PHYSICALLY forced, now you have entered the realm of rape. I hope at this point violence from the female should begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:26 AM
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And there we go.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:22 AM
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She wanted to be an actress so bad that she was willing to trade her integrity for it? Thats fine by me, but then both of them got what they wanted and its not rape. I cant think of anything I want so bad as to have sex with someone i really dont want to.....especially enough to claim they raped me afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:21 AM
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So, the feelings of one person negate the intention of the other person? So because a woman may FEEL coerced means Im pressuring her into doing something she doesnt want to do? Am I the only person who understands that feelings are subjective...as in how you feel is an internal thing that influences you.....not me. Does it count if what I said (with the intention of pressuring you) doesnt make you feel pressured? Is that coercion? I keep getting the impression that women cant speak up for themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:15 AM
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you cant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:01 AM
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Doesnt matter what she was looking for, she still wants sex and shes gonna fuck. Its best not to lead her on, but not a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:58 AM
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Yeah, as a guy, I cant afford to have this "loser" mentality. Im not attractive because other attractive people think im attractive. If im not interested in you (and to degree, even if I am), you opinion of me doesnt hold much weight because I know who I am and what im working towards. Your validation means nothing when you mean nothing to me (and to a degree, even you do do mean something, your validation may not).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:56 AM
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Red
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:48 AM
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lmao good luck to her i say. She will soon realize how terrible of a mistake that is (in like 95% of the cases). also, there phrase "women are born rich and men are born poor" comes to mind. Yeah, we have to work for everything we get as men, but you learn how to be a man in the process. And men (the ones who worked to be the man) is attractive to all women. That which you have that is attractive to women, you will always have. That which women have to attract you will fade as you build yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:48 AM
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Not at all. Most lesbian relationships I know of personally involve domestic abuse of BOTH partners by the other. Very seldomly are the police called (again in my personal experience) because its just 2 women in a "lovers quarrel".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:41 AM
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I also equate this to guys expecting girls to function the way men function because "we are all the equal and the same". Its like expecting a care to fly. Granted, it is a vehicle to get you from one place to the next, but it want built to do what a car does, so expecting it to function that way is asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:38 AM
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Im not getting married. Nothing in it for me and financially dangerous. Gf not happy about this though. And as much as other people (older, married women, young girls, very few men) argue about its pros and cons, no one has ever given me a good reason as to why I, or any other male, should get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:31 AM
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Thats the thing, you dont have to have money. I know plenty of broke guys with plenty of female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:29 AM
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Only women and men not successful with women will tell you your being immature. ​ ​ Those same girls will be attracted to you and those same guys will watch everything you do and criticize.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 09:27 AM
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Appreciate the field report. I dont take girls to clubs because its been ages since I went, but I wouldnt have a problem doing it....mainly it would give me an opportunity to see IF this would happen. I refuse to act out of fear and if i had the misfortune of having to deal with this, I next the girl. No big deal. Life goes on. Shes just a girl anyway. They are replaceable in my life IF this is how they behave. NEXT! My plate likes to shit test me with hypothetical "other guy" encounters and I s…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 09:09 AM
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Basically, he said nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:43 PM
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I think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:11 AM
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I dont think social media is the culprit, just a vehicle. There were problem way before social media came about, but it does exasperate insecurity and stir up FOMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:11 AM
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More attractive. An attractive body will make ANYONE more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:09 AM
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Lets put it this way. You have no way of ever knowing if those things are true so dont put any stock in them whether it is to believe her or not. Dont let words that arent confirmed by actions sway you, they should always be taken with grain of salt. My plate swears no one as ever fucked her the way i do and that I have the biggest dick shes ever faced. Now I can believe what she says, which will fuel my ego, but I cant tell if shes lying or not, so I dont really care about what she said. We all…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 07:02 AM
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Not saying that they are ugly, but they are not as attractive as they appear, and they know this...otherwise, they wouldnt be wearing make up. I doubt most people wear make up to diminish their looks. Its not shaming though, I couldnt think of a reason I would actually tell a girl that. I dont gain anything from it and it's only purpose would be to be hurtful. But i do keep this in mind when a girl tries to imply im not attractive enough for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:51 AM
1

Likewise. We can find plenty of evidence showing what you say to be true. However, there is waaay more evidence of them not doing so. What was the point of your statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:35 AM
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Im not gonna lie, I did think you were female a few times in the threads....my mistake. Apologies. While I am not saying that his experience is 100% how it goes down, I do think that there is some validity to the narrative he is explaining. I have heard it to a degree and I have had other guys ask me in confusion if I was told the same as well. When it comes to metoo, I stated that because the narrative about believing women about their experiences with men has been insisted upon recently, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 03:28 AM
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Well, its coming from his experience, which, in the current social climate, is the slogan of choice that is being thrust (#metoo) upon society. And much like I cant refute your experience with men, I cant refute his experience with women, especially if I have heard a few of those things myself being told to myself and other guys at one point or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 12:00 PM
2

I think what he is saying is that before you call someone ugly, remember you may only look the way you do because you put face paint on to hide the parts you find ugly. So in essence, you are ugly as well, and you know it because you plenty of time and energy hiding behind paint and other tools to look attractive (snapchat filter).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:53 AM
1

really? I must have murdered plenty of women then. Not only that, any of your male relatives who have SO are probably murderers as well, give your statement. Im willing to bet most guys have been rejected by a women at least once, moderator included.....so we are all murderers. What about when I make eye contact with a woman and she looks away with no sign of interest? I kill her too? Lets see, what other men can I remember exist? Im pretty sure the sizable chunk of them have been rejected by a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:48 AM
1

If we are gonna "believe women", why not believe a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:41 AM
2

Agreed, i wouldnt care either. Most girls (and a sizeable percentage of men) dont have hobbies. But it sounds like shes working to improve herself. Stopped watching useless reality TV and pointless instagram and decided to do something productive? Thats a chick that gets my respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:39 AM
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I find the opposite to be true for me. The longer (and better) I know them, the easier, more often, and more objectifying I am. But thats probably because I know them better and thus, what gets them horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 06:00 AM
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Past 30, had no urge. Dont now. Although, I wonder what I will do when im older. I might get bored.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 05:35 AM
1

If she does that, she will learn to use people for her own motives and care very little about them, just like Mary did in the show.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:03 AM
2

Delete contact info. All of it. Unfriend on social media. Find new girls to hang with. If she hits you back, dont answer for a day and when you do, keep it short. Use the other girls to keep you busy. Hell, use the other girls to help attract other girls. I found that when I was in this situation (not exaclty, but recoving from oneitis), I would get myself into wilder shit with wilder women in order to build new crazier memories to overshadow the ones I had with her. It worked. Dated other chick…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:00 AM
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I say go for it. WHEN she doesnt actually give you the pussy, you will realize how hard shes playing you....correction, how hard you have been playing yourself.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 10:54 AM
2

true, this show would never have made it to air and all the actors and actresses would be cancelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:15 AM
1

If it was blackmail, how did he find the tape? I get the impression that it was in their home. She could have informed him of what happened without going into full detail IF she had any intention of being upfront. IF she was having adequate sex (subjective, I know) with him then this probably wouldnt be such an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:13 AM
1

But then wouldnt "not yet" communicate exactly what you meant? No didnt communicate that because when you say no, that means no. So if you said no, but meant not yet, then you didnt say what you meant. 1) So you said "no" but HOPED he would understand that as "not yet". You didnt say what you meant so you cannot expect him to understand what you meant if you didnt say it. 2) So you hoped, but didnt expect him to actually understand what you meant. 3) yes, that response was to you. Im not sure ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 09:54 AM
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True, but I doubt they would wait until the 50th time to do something they could have the first 10 without my knowledge and just disappear I wouldnt be able to find them. But whether its the 1st or the 50th, if they steal im still partially to blame due to my part in the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 09:32 AM
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Been in this situation and had to explain to the girl: If you dont mean what you say when you say it, how am suppose to know when you do mean what you say? Should I go with what I think/feel you mean as opposed to what you actually said?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:38 AM
1

but doesnt "no" mean "no" and "not yet" mean "not yet"? If they dont actually mean those things then: why did u say that expecting him to interpret otherwise? 2)how did you expect him to interpret this otherwise (context maybe)? 3) what if he was wrong and thought you were playing "hard to get" or being "coy" 4) If you said no but didnt mean it this time, is that how I should interpret it next time? When shouldnt I take your words at face value? When should I take your words at face value?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:36 AM
1

Why does writing that make you feel ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:31 AM
1

I learned not to ask my gf what she wants when it comes to presents. I either get her what I want to get her or nothing at all. Anytime I ask her, I immediately regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:17 AM
1

Girl flew me to her state half way across the country. Picked me up from the airport. Went to grab food and sat across from each other, within 10 minutes, she has her foot in my crotch. Drove back to her place where she lived with her parents (we were young) and snuck me into her window. Hid me in her closet when her mom came into the room asking questions. Told me when it was time to come out of the closet and she was already in bed with lingerie on. Climbed into bed and proceeded to touch her.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:15 AM
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Well, trust usually takes time. And then, I dont trust everyone with everything. If i bring a girl home for a ONS and I wake up with some of my stuff missing, sure she is a thief....but I trusted her way more than I should have and thats on me. I made that decision to trust her AND I was wrong. That doesnt mean I stop trusting everyone either because thats just as bad as trusting no one ever. And you not trusting anyone really only affects you. If thats what you feel you must do, do you boo boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:08 AM
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partially, yes. Sure they should not have robbed you. But you trusted the wrong person too much. They didnt make you trust them, you decided to, and you got burned. You have to take responsibility for your part in the matter (actually you dont have to do shit....case in point here) or you will always fall victim to something because people are not always nice and law abiding. Its up to you to protect yourself and your stuff. Everyone else is busy doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:56 AM
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key word: SHOULD
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:49 AM
1

YES. THEY. ARE. I dont think I ever used slut in a derogatory manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:48 AM
0

I think i love you....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:43 AM
1

thank you. You madam are taking responsibility for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:43 AM
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if the consequence was him leaving and not liking her/giving her attention, no. if the consequence was him attacking/physically hurting her, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:42 AM
1

So why do women divorce? Could it be because men are far MORE LIKELY to cheat? ( https://www.forbes.com/sites/adambarsouk/2018/10/05/evolution-may-explain-why-men-are-more-likely-to-cheat/#66c95b75b1ae ) Could it be that men make awful husbands? Whatever it is, it surely isn't because of money. Could it be that marriage didnt turn out the way they expected?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:39 AM
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When you take a girl out on a date, your buying her time. If shes not willing to go out with you if your not spending money, you are buying her time. Guys are used to this already. Its probably why alot of guys dont have such a bad impression of prostitutes and escorts. At least with them, your getting what you pay for. ....and, in a few cases, maybe even a little more....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:32 AM
1

I have had girls offer to clean my place. Not all but a few. Usually decline tho. God knows what they might find....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:29 AM
2

agreed. This is great.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:26 AM
1

RAW. AS. FUCK.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:24 AM
1

I usually say yes. Let them decide if they want to engage or not. If she does, I immediately knows she DTF. Also, whenever she starts blaming you, remind her that she made her own decisions here, just like you did.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:22 AM
1

Its more about the lying than the cheating when it comes to men and women and really, its more about the rationalization of said cheating.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:18 AM
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Loved it. Leopold Butters Stotch is the man Basically, any time you have to spend money on a girl to get her attention, you are paying for pussy because she wouldnt be going out with you unless your spending money and that sentiment has officially made this interaction a transaction and at that point, I want a return on my investment. Infact, if you do not have sex, all you paied for was an opportunity to have sex. No thanx, I like to get my money's worth. Unless she is paying for you, your buyi…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:13 AM
1

I go thru this alot and this is how it usually goes: me: something or another them: did you just say something or another? me: yeah them: do you really believe that? me: What I mean is (proceed to explain what I mean to make sure everyone understands my what im saying). But lets assume I meant what you believe I meant......so? them: well, your a terrible person. me: So you think im a terrible person....im ok with that. NOW (yes, i do interject with that kind of exclamation), assuming you are cor…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:01 AM
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You cant. And its just a shit test. Would you tell your gf that you are having dreams about an ex? Why? What would you gain from it? What would you lose from it. How would she react? Apply all of those questions in reverse and see what your answer you come to.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 08:49 AM
1

Women are born rich. Men are born poor.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 08:45 AM
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I wouldnt really call that abundance when you consider what she has to do to maintain.....a therapist and medication.....which im sure plenty of people are using as well. But when you lifestyle (not a medical condition) is leading to you needing medication and therapy, its evident that said lifestyle is self destructive and and abundance of self-destructive tendencies are not something to aspire to in my opinion. Shes gonna need meds and "someone to talk to" for the rest of her life. Im not enra…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 08:41 AM
1

I doubt it was truly the beard but I find that women at terrible when it comes to communicating with men so we will never really know. But yeah, maintain frame so that this shit doesnt even faze if (when) she pulls some off the wall nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 08:30 AM
1

I used Do It Now app works great when I remember to log my progress
/r/askTRP31/12/19 08:03 AM
2

You have obviously never been pressured by NYC homeless people. Fuckers can be relentless. Had a guy try to convince me that he need $20 to catch a cab because his 4 yr old son was hit by a car and he needed to the hospital ASAP. Well I have been in said situations with gay men who wanted fuck me AND not one time did their tactics result in me doing anything sexual or anything I didnt want to do. I went to his house (not recommended, I knew what he wanted before I got there, I just wanted to see…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:59 AM
1

Plenty of homeless people pressure me into giving them my hard earned change EVERYDAY. Is it wrong? No because they are not forcing me to do anything. If i give or not is my choice. The push and pull only works IF the person (in this case, the girl) doesnt want the guy to leave and DECIDES to give in to get what she wants (attention). She doesnt have to do anything, the guy is only going to leave and take his attention with him. She can live without that. In fact, she can find another guy to giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:09 AM
1

No. And if so, there is more than 1. On a planet with this many billions of people, you think there is 1 out there for you? By mathematical logical alone this is not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:05 AM
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It taught me to see women for who they are and not for what I was told they are. Which, is really a tenet of feminism, isnt it. I treat mean for who they are so I should do the same for women. No more putting them on a pedastal. No more of that fairer sex bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:59 AM
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its no different than breaking up with someone if they cheat. The threat is to withdraw attention and leave IF you cheat. If what TRP advises is coersion, so is threatening to break up if your SO cheats. Not sure how that is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:56 AM
2

yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:51 AM
1

Plate. That is all.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:42 AM
1

DR
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:31 AM
1

Few months ago I was talking to a plate and said something fucked up. After a few minutes of grilling, I apologized because what I sad WAS fucked up, I will admit. Later that night she hits me with "Dont call me tonight, I will talk to you tomorrow." and then immediately afterwards, I got a "As a matter of fact, dont call me for 2 days." My response was "So, I apologize earlier for something wrong I did and this is your response? By pushing me away more? Ok, have a good night." didnt call her fo…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:19 AM
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Was just talking to a girl about this. I simply said "If we were to get married, the only thing I get out of it is you having my last name......what else is in it for me? More over, if you dont have my last name, no one knows your married, so why would I bother to marry you if your not gonna tell everyone your with me?" She quickly decided (fuck what she says, watch what she does) that MY last name would be the only one she would take. She had to step into my frame because she had no logical rea…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:57 AM
2

Started taking cold showers a few months ago. After getting out of the cold water the first 4 times, I burst into laughter because it wasnt as horrible as I always perceived. I mean it still sucks, but waaaay less than I thought it would. I now find myself laughing when my plate shit test me most of the times and when im actually shaken (never let her see that), I feel like im managing the discomfort alot better. I hadnt thought of the 2 being related, but I can see the logic.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:50 AM
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She felt like shit because she wasnt sure if you were gonna be as discrete as her, it seems to me. She felt better after you confirmed that her actions would stay between you and her. Sounds like anxiety.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 12:35 PM
1

exactly that.....shit
/r/askTRP27/12/19 12:33 PM
2

Then you are being upfront and honest about your intentions. And I would encourage you to avoid any guy who isnt upfront and honest about his intentions. That being said, I know that minds can change (your or his) and that is something that has to be reconciled between the two involved. But holding someone else responsible for your decisions is shitty. I dont respect women or men who do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 06:49 AM
1

I have multiple friends who have had them with success (friends, sister, aquaintances who needed a shoulder to cry on). Multiple friends who have used plan b with success. Multiple friends who have used condoms, IUD's, Depo shot, sponge, etc. They work most of the time. Nothing works 100% of the time, condoms included. You can also, y'know, have these conversations about sex where you are aware of the other person's position. I have refused a few advances from women who already told me they didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 06:30 AM
2

Side chick is crazy, but she knows the deal. If she aint with it, she can leave, no hard feelings.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:18 AM
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yeah, i have had to call bullshit on a girl rationalizing how she only had sex with 3 guys when in reality it was 5 and a chick. AND THEN she tried to rationalize that I was the only guy she "really" had sex with because I (supposedly) fucked her exponentially better than the other guys, because I was able to go more rounds than they were. None of what she says really matters because they are just words....and its easy to say that to the guy you are currently fucking so I dont put too much stock…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 06:16 AM
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And dont get me wrong, im not so disillusioned to believe that everything works the way its suppose to. Im pretty sure there are places where an abortion isnt as readily available as it should be nor are they done a properly as they are suppose to be. With that said, im pretty sure that if the majority of women didnt want to have a baby after their primary form of birth control failed, they would exercise alternative options. Condoms are not the only form of contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:55 AM
1

What im saying is that she can complain. Because she has the physical capability to open her mouth and voice her disdain is her right. But we have the right not to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:50 AM
1

In some states. So my example should be relegated to the states that abortion isnt accessible? How many states are those? What are you basing your statement on? Birth control isnt 100%. Well, if your that afraid of using birth control because its not 100% effective and abortions are not easily accessible, maybe you shouldnt be having sex with so many excuses so readily available. You can just not have sex. I actively dont have sex with any girl that is against any means of birth control outside …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:46 AM
1

Yes they are and no they dont. Where are you getting your information from?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:39 AM
4

yeah, dunno how i missed that. Thanx
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:54 AM
2

what makes anyone think "average" means anything with regard to sexual attractiveness? i cant understand the thought process. and who told you all "the average guy" meant some statistical average? when regular people say "Average" as a lay term they dont mean some mathematical or statistical average, they mean common everyday person i see Average- a number expressing the central or typical value in a set of data, in particular the mode, median, or (most commonly) the mean, which is calculated by…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:20 AM
4

It was, but his post wasnt exactly polite either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:17 AM
8

yes, please. Do us the favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:15 AM
1

actually, a man created baby formula, so we dont actually need women to nurse children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:12 AM
1

bridges, tunnels, safety equipment of all kinds, sunglasses, mass transportation, fire, penicillin, acir conditioning, refrigeration, heating, insulation, clothes, cups/glasses, glasses, the internet (ok, a women created that). Me solves problems all of the time. Granted we created problems too.....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:11 AM
1

you know, men could raise children as well. We just need women to birth them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:07 AM
5

no we didnt live in egalitarian societies for most of history
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:05 AM
5

Nothing is 100%. Doesnt matter if you believe in abortions or not, they are still available and effective. Stupidity. Whats her excuse for allowing him to have sex with her without a condom? If you're having sex raw then children are a highly likely possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:03 AM
3

apparently not the rights she already has.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:01 AM
2

what is ME
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 08:58 AM
3

Men cannot be trusted to take care of their children or women have children men dont want and then use the state to force him to take responsibility for something he didnt want Pick one because both are a reality. Once upon a time, if a women got pregnant, she had to have the baby and the baby had to be take care of, so it makes sense for the state to obligate the man if he wasnt responsible. But we dont live in that time anymore, so for the men who say they dont want a child when a women gets p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 08:55 AM
6

If men took over all of women’s rights and freedoms It would quickly devolve into mass child rape, terrorism, and murder because the biggest strongest male sociopaths would take over and force everyone’s subjugation and all sorts of abuse would be normalized. There’s no way only women would end up victims of that kind of subjugation, grown men would be trying to fuck little boys and would probably cover for one another and there wouldn’t be anything you could do about it. Isnt that what feminism…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 08:41 AM
1

Its all I heard growing up. Guys that primarily want sex from women were terrible. Of course, thats primarily what guys want from women, so it leads us to being dishonest from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 12:51 PM
2

I have heard about that but never saw it. Then again, I may have to increase my porn consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 12:40 PM
1

or the woman is bigger and more to feel. But wow, never thought of it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 12:39 PM
1

yep, thats my gf. Everything she knows about sex is because I taught her. She told me that I should figure it out. Dunno if that was because she had no clue and or if she actually wanted me to figure it out (inexperienced me didnt identify this as poor communication skills, at the very least). Im willing to bet she had pretty mediocre sex with me for a while (I on the other hand had great sex with her) , which I take no responsibility for. I have learned to be a bit of a mind reader as a result …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 11:43 AM
2

Assuming your given instructions. I never was, had to figure it out myself through porn, the internet, pletny of reading and most of all, practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 07:13 AM
1

yeah, but fear for her safety? That i dont see.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 07:10 AM
1

True. Signs that she is interested cant be relied on because what females consider making a move is pretty much shit, so its up to us to do it because you feel like it. I get you.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 07:09 AM
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I did too. Laughed for quite a bit. But seriously, this is good advice fora friend of mine who has a sadly high pitched voice. I know its one of the reasons he has terrible luck with women.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 12:54 PM
2

And what exactly did she believe was gonna happen in terms of her "safety" now that you were reading the redpill? I have yet to read anything violent on towards women on trp. I rarely see violence towards men (maybe im just not seeing it). I wonder what caused the break up. None of my business, sure, but im willing to bet TRP played a hand in it.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 12:52 PM
1

sure, if im not busy otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:39 PM
1

I mean im pretty sure im interpreting alot of signs wrong.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 12:34 PM
1

just because something looks fixed doesnt mean it actually. His jawline didnt change at all, just how it looks changed....which is your perception. He still has the same jaw, nothing changed from his perspective. Not so simple for men to hide flaws a women. Granted they can wear make up and clothes to accentuate their positive qualities, but the flaws are still there and unless you do something about them, they will always be there and you will know......which will undermine his confidence (whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:33 PM
2

Because when we realize that all that work was useless, we stop
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:01 PM
1

Wait a minute This post was about men not making themselves attractive to women and now your saying (to be more specific) that the average man cannot make a woman orgasm consistantly. This is proof that this post is irrelevant and a waste for every guy to pay attention to. You cant even keep your point straight. No wonder it seems like guys cant listen (which isnt true, we can, its just that we quickly realize the mistake that is. My relationship got much better when I listened less to what my g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:01 PM
6

reading body language takes practice. Which means plety of sex in order to practice reading body language. As does eating pussy. Lots of practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:49 AM
1

basic mathematics....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:46 AM
7

basically. Most women I know either think they are so great that their flaws (most of the time their weight) are irrelevant in comparison or they know their flaws and are gonna do something about them (again, usually their weight) but never care enough to actually put in the needed effort. And then both complain when the world doesnt go their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:42 AM
3

I think its alot harder to discern context, tone, sarcasm, etc. over txt, which makes communication a bit trickier.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:37 AM
1

A haircut cant fix a jawline. It can be perceived differently due to the shape of his entire head looking different, but its not actually different at all. Your shoulders can be made broader If you hit the gym and lift with that purpose. And yeah, that is exactly what women do, cover flaws. And I gotta admit, they do a hell of a job with make up and the right clothing so good on them. Since most of them dont actually work out (because most of them dont have to in order to get some sort of male s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:35 AM
1

yeah this happened to me and I fluctuate back and forth sometimes. what did it for me? a plate? I did alot of redpill shit before i got a plate (redpill suggestion) and alot of it worked but I noticed the responses I was getting fluctuated. Once I got a plate a year ago something happened....my perspective changed. Either results with my LTR become more consistant OR I gave less of a fuck because I had another girl to deal with. Either way, the results were positive for me.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 10:09 AM
4

you suspected potential branch swinging and broke up. year later she see you around and apologizes for what she did because what you 2 had was special and hopes that you will wake up and forgive her... Soooooo, your suspicions are confirmed. She was trying to branch swing and you figured it out and broke u with her. And now she wants YOU to wake up and forgive her. For what?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:56 AM
1

No, they are not suppose to do anything. My statement was merely on observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 09:50 AM
2

Yeah, shit tests all of the time. never gonna stop, expecially if shes hot. Get nice and cozy with them. Lets put it this way. Shes your LTR? That means to her, you repeatedly pass her shit test to the extent that she sticks with you (unless your truly that beta and shes using you). Which means to me that you have the right stuff to pass her tests within you. Unless you have been putting up a front the entire time you met her, you got this. She knows it. Shes just testing to see if you know it. …
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:48 AM
1

Literally, exactly what im doing here 95% of the time. Read (I go to school for a masters degree) Stretch/workout (mainy stretching and calisthetics, no weights at work) Meditate (fuck watching the cameras) Sidebar (all day) I take these 8 hours and do with said restrictions.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:30 AM
1

A few times I picked up on DTF signs, but not often. what am I missing?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:13 AM
1

yeah, im not doing that. Im not going to an amusement park just to take pictures and not get on rides. That's a waste of my time, energy and money. No thank. Now if shes going to do all of that without me, bye. Have fun wasting your time.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:05 AM
3

You eat where you want to eat. She will interject her opinion (maybe) but you decide without her. For alot of girls, making a decision is a bad experience because there are so many options and there the possibility that she might not make the right one. Sooooo, instead of just doing it, she relegates it to you.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:03 AM
1

but plenty of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 09:01 AM
1

So feminism isnt for men? At all? I (as in men....and apparently not all men know this) knew it. I mean, that is what I was told, but deep down (and not that deep) I always knew it wasnt for men. You hear that guys? Its not for us at all. Its not for women and men to be treated as equals in society. Feminism is It is about women being able to express the sexuality freely, but I thought that applied to men as well....as in you dont have to be the traditional male in order to be considered a man, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 09:00 AM
1

Lmao i didnt think of that part, but now that you mention it, yeah....the irony is amazing.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/19 08:51 AM
2

I noticed there are VERY few women responding to this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 12:38 PM
1

huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 12:27 PM
1

When it is said that feminism is for the equality of the sexes. That sounds like its looking out for the equal treatment and advancement of men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 12:23 PM
1

yep. next.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:47 AM
2

Only the cheating ones
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:26 AM
1

bingo.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:25 AM
1

Yeah they do IF that guy is worth it. But saying that destroys the narrative that society has done its best to beat guys into submission with, making it true for the few who buy into it. Its just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:23 AM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:19 AM
1

I would date a current lesbian if I we were attracted to each other. No need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:19 AM
1

why would I do that? I have goals to chase, women will be picked up in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:18 AM
1

Doesnt matter who designed the costumes to be skimpy, the person wearing it decided to put it own knowing how skimpy it was and that it would garner attention. And your right, people can be sexually interested and still respectful.....AND they can keep those thoughts and comments to themselves.... ....but they dont have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:04 AM
0

Oh, she can complain, but the guys who took the pictures (and apparently some people here) dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:55 AM
2

If you dont want to be looked at, dont dress in a manner that will get you attention. You have the right to dress however you want AND I have the right to look at whatever catches my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:54 AM
1

if she was actually raped, then no, she didnt deserve it. No one deserves to get raped. However, the girl agreed to be in a picture and no matter how you spin it, her boobs are part of her and as such a part of the picture. If she didnt want that to be a possibility, she should have declined. Furthermore, she was at ComicCon? In NYC? How many pictures of her were taken without asking her? She went to an event held in public. And I have worked where the event is held, your picture/video is taken …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:53 AM
1

Was talking to my plate yesterday. She asked about an app on my fone that i didnt want to discuss. I vaguely explained it to her with alot of "something like that" and "kinda". She said she still didnt get it. The next thing i said was: "Its not even important". Huge smile immediately grew on her face and she says "Did you just check your bitch? I think you just checked me. Oh shit! You just checked me like your bitch. Damn, I wanna fuck you." Honestly, i didnt think what I said was checking her…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 11:02 AM
2

this guy... this guy has the right idea
/r/askTRP19/12/19 10:43 AM
2

Soooooo........ ...your sister is shit testing you and your failing. She shows you and you get upset at them for her showing you? I dont see how this is any different than any girl showing you that she gets attention from guys.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 10:42 AM
1

yeah, definately not the same thing but I didint have anything else to use in my example and i did compare it to eating pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 10:26 AM
1

The longer you choose to stay mediocre the harder it will be to reverse and the longer it will take to get where you want. Its like your digging yourself your own grave. Eventually, it will be too deep to climb out of and IF you do (cuz most people, especially women, dont) you will realize you missed millions (literally, when I look back, i realize how many opportunities I knew I wasnt capable of taking advantage of) of opportunities. Your call though...
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:42 AM
1

very much so. You recognized that the mere fact that she didnt pick up sent you into a tailspin because of what she COULD be doing and all she was actually doing was being at work. Our minds are a powerful thing. That was an overt sign that you were not ready. Been there before.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 07:29 AM
1

yeah, thats kinda the moral of all of life. Learning as I watch him go, taking notes and asking questions. But its kinda a "chicken and an egg" thing because I dunno if he was redpilled before he started doing that or if he became redpilled as a result of see how that worked. All I know is that it works and it creates a positive feedback loop.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 07:26 AM
1

No, I actually like it. I see her (incredibly pornstar-like) naked body all of the time. Wrap it in different wrapping paper changes it up. Plus I know she went through alot of trouble to feel sexy and part of that is for me so I appreciate it. It does get in the way sometimes. I have to be mindful it sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 07:12 AM
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i find that shit funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 07:09 AM
1

A naturally more redpilled friend of mine said he never breaks up with a girl (especially if she cheated). He just proceeds to make her a plate without notice and fucks other girls until she gets tired of it and leaves. He said it usually takes a while though.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 07:01 AM
3

I could see my plate doing this. But I already know if she did, it would be because she wants me to fuck her for being "disrespectful". The shit eating grin on her face gives her away.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:58 AM
1

Shit test
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:55 AM
1

Couldnt figure out why she was going hot and cold on me. Sex is great and abundant for a few months. Then drops off for a while. Asked her what was up a few times (this worked in the past. Asked her why she wasnt sucking my dick as frequently as before and if something was wrong and she said no and she started again) and she wouldnt have an answer, as if she wasnt responsible for her part in our sexlife dwindling (typical). I told myself that if it happened again, I wouldnt ask her and deal with…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:41 AM
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agree and amplify
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:29 AM
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Thats because its usually a break up that drives us here. Once here though, we quickly learn that theres a good chance she broke up with you because you were about the woman. And its not that TRP will prevent breakups. You just learn how do deal with them while you pursue whats more important. I didnt get here after a breakup, im still in my LTR.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:27 AM
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yeah, its a work in progress. No one is that guy overnight. Theres always trial and error.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:23 AM
0

Very true. Its not something to bring up while having sex and its definately not something you should try without talking first. I dont see blowjobs the same though. Its such a common thing that I expect girls to give them just as much as I expect to eat her out. If either party isnt down with something that common, I believe its up to the uninterested one to speak up. I dont assume someone isnt into oral sex if they dont speak up and say so. Likewise, I dont assume someone isnt into anal sex if…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:22 AM
1

Very true, and I would imagine your opinion would be a part of the conversation about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:07 AM
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The only way i know that shes done it is if shes told me. The only way I know she liked it is if she said so. If she did it and didnt like it, there would have to be questions (like how often it was done, why would she do it if she didnt like it, etc). I am very opposed to people doing things they dont wanna do when it comes to sex, so how she answers those questions will determine where things go from here. The reason is because of my earlier post. How often have guys heard "I dont give blowjob…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:18 PM
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If a women does like anal, then why on earth would she not do it with her partner? Thats why TRP says that if shes done anal in the past, unless theres a good reason for her not doing it now (medical condition, didnt like it in the past but did it anyway, etc), she doesnt perceive you as valuable enough to do it. There could be any number of reasons why and we are not mind readers, so if she doesnt give a good reason, the only thing you can assume is that she doesnt like you enough and you shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 11:08 AM
1

yeah, I can see that being the case here. That did go through my mind, but assuming he was actually looking for advice, I answered. Also, I saw a few comments about him "taking care of his responsibility" and couldnt help but chime in with some "objective reality". Your response reminded me that I wasnt crazy.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 11:01 AM
1

likewise. I sometimes get irritated with women (the whole lot of them) because of how they act (shit tests). When I talk to my plate (only have one), she throws shit tests like she breathes......and I pretty much pass them all and its actually fun because I know (based on her responses) that she has never encountered a guy like me...and im not doing much more than maintaining frame, amuse mastery and lifting....pretty much just the basics. Its like im a drug to this broad. She makes great practi…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:23 AM
2

I like that you said that reminds us all that we can always get better.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:14 AM
2

Your assuming they have a gun (possibly) and that they are a decent shot (very unlikely). However, its either fight or flight. I wouldnt recommend squaring off against 8-10 opponents because you WILL get your ass kicked (been in these situations before, read earlier post on this thread), there is no getting around that unless you have a gun (knife wont cut it.....see what i did there?).
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:08 AM
2

Dont answer texts for a few hours (4-6) and then get back to her. If your gonna talk through txt (I know TRP says not to) make sure you take hours to respond sometimes so she gets the impression that you have other options. In my experience, if they actually like you, they will come sniffing and when they do you draw them in. It has worked for me quite a few times.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:04 AM
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Uh-huh. you, me and everyone here all see the possible writing on the wall. Let her do what she wants and get rid of her once she does. She played herself while trying to play you. If shes that dumb, your better of without her. Edit: Ok, I take that back, dont get rid of her, but plate her immediately, without telling her (she basically plated herself). Fuck other girls and let your LTR break up with you. If she doesnt, win-win.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:58 AM
3

Did what you said here once. Was hooking up with this older girl (I was 23 and she was 28). First time she came to my house and we had sex. Second time, she invited me to her place (been there before, but family and friends were there).....it was lent and no one was home. Now, im not catholic so I have no idea the significance of lent but according to her, she had to give up something for the time and she decided to give up sex (but she invited me to her house, right?). So here I am, at her hous…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:54 AM
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have a plate that is dominant. Its shit tests 24/7 with this girl but i have managed to get her to step into my frame by laughing off and upping her attempts (A&M). She even gets to the point where she starts laughing, I think its because I call her out on it but maintain a playful yet stern vibe about it. Its become a game where she tries to get me to submit (step into her frame) and I double down on my decision (strengthen my frame). She claims she gets wet from the back and forth, so its at t…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:38 AM
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yeah 8-10 is an ass kicking waiting to happen. No training in the world is gonna put you on top of this situation outside of long distance sprinting.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:25 AM
1

yeah, no point walking into fire if you dont have to. Been in this situation a few times and its best to just go about your business as confidently as possible (you will be scared shitless) because showing fear is exactly the sign they are looking for to pounce. Be prepared to fight no matter what (even if you give your shit up, theres still a good chance they will physically attack you). I know its a cliche, but everyone will respect you more if you stand up for yourself....you and them, trust …
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:22 AM
1

Thank you sir! All this shit about taking care of his responsibility is exactly that...shit. This isnt the dark ages. So because she got pregnant, he has to be a father? Women have the right to choose pro life or pro abortion, but men have no say? Sounds like OP doesnt want to be a father and thats all it should take. If she didnt want him around, she damn sure would not be contacting him.....she would have said baby and get on with her life (with said baby). But apparently she wants to be a fam…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:15 AM
1

...he wouldnt understand the complexities of her job... What exactly does she know about steel work?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:00 PM
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Not sure what world you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:49 PM
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is that because men dont wash dishes as well as women or as much? So technically, my gf doesnt function as a human being as well as I do because I wash dishes (and cook) more than she does. I also go to the store more often, take out the garbage more often, etc. So shes less of a basic human being than I am? Never thought of it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:47 PM
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see previous replies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:09 AM
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your words, not mine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:09 AM
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ur words, not mine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:09 AM
1

Agreed. Thats y i ONLY do it IMMEDIATELY after we showered. But i heard a story from a friend where that didnt make a difference. His dick smelled like shit for days he said.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:51 AM
1

So it would be more accurate to say that women can get laid by men who are considered unfuckable. But your still getting laid. Kinda how men can get laid with land whales Still takes work on our part. Most guys have to pay for it. All guys pay for it. Anytime a guy takes you out on a date we are paying for sex...even if we dont get it, we paid for the chance. We have been told that we would be paying for sex since we were born. So yeah, we have no problem paying for it because we are paying for …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 11:04 AM
1

it is. NYC women are savage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:45 AM
1

Most girls arent actually trying. They are complaining that they cant get what they want with the level of effort they are putting into it, which most of the time is very little or in ineffective areas (my gf works ar crocheting and knitting....neither of which get my attention). go on a redpill page and look at how much work those guys do to get better at approaching and attracting women. And then realize that they have resolved to do this work for the rest of their lives. These guys literally …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:43 AM
1

Redpill mindset isnt socially accepted and yet every redpill guy gives zero fucks about that. Sure women might nor feel comfortable acting hot. You think those heavy weights guys pick up are comfortable? You think approaching girls and getting rejected is comfortable? Think none of this comes with insecurity and self consciousness? Guys on this post....how many of you started out comfortable? how many of you just breeze through interactions with women without insecurity and self consciousness? N…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:35 AM
1

Nope, it aint that difficult for women to get laid. All they really have to do is put it out there that they want to get laid.....some guy is gonna take that offer. Its difficult for them to get laid by guys they want. That part takes work. Work that women dont really care to do because "some guy" is gonna try to sleep with her regardless. Most guys have to work at getting laid by any girl. Just approaching a girl to get laid is work. Imagine what he has to do to work past the rejections he is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:25 AM
1

again, a characteristic. Im starting to think you dont know what the work 'think' means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:59 AM
1

Thats more of a characteristic about me than what I may be thinking. But thats like me saying "I know something about every girl on reddit.....they were all born." Pretty general and shitty statement to support that my arguement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:57 AM
1

i never thought of it that way. I guess the music can kinda immerse them in the moment if they arent already.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 07:47 AM
2

same here, dont really see the appeal. That being said, I do anal to give the girl the feeling that she belongs to me when we are fucking. No part of her is off limits to me. Ass included. Its more of a mental and psychological fuck than a physical one.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 07:46 AM
1

not so simple with inexperienced girls. They cant tell you what they want to eat most of the time, telling you what they want in bed is like chopping wood with your forehead....TRUST ME. You kinda have to give them what you want to give them and gauge their response. Dont ask for permission, ask for forgiveness (maaaaybe) My LTR didnt know she liked her hair pulled until i did it. She mentioned the fact that I pulled her hair (didnt say not to do it, although I was prepared to apologize). Wasnt …
/r/askTRP13/12/19 07:44 AM
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thats not exactly true. They will. Alot of them are dying to find the "right" guy to do it for (of course, the right guy is the guy who MAKES her WANT to get on her knees). But they know they dont know what they are doing. They are gonna need alot of encouragement and patience on your part, IF you think its worth the trouble (I posted above about it not being your obligation.....plenty of people are bad at sex, WOMEN INCLUDED). Of course, keep in mind that as she gets better, her ego will go up …
/r/askTRP13/12/19 07:38 AM
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nope, not my job. As a guy, during sex, im doing 80% of the work. I have my orders. I know I need to bring a gun to a duel, i dont show up with no bullets (might be a terrible analogy, but whatever). Im not opposed to it, but its not my job. Its her job to keep you wanting sex and if shes bad at it, then she better be willing to put in extra practice to get good. Not my job to teach her a damn thing. Its her job to be good at it if she wants to keep me around. Too may girls out here for that.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 07:33 AM
1

Seems pretty basic and standard advice. Thanx.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:50 AM
1

really? so what do i think?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:46 AM
1

your right, its suppose to be sleeping beauty. My fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/19 06:45 AM
1

Everyone thinks their theory is more real. To say that guys think that negates the fact that women do the same thing. So much so that its kinda pointless to say because its (once again) a generalization and shitty attempt to save a bad arguement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:44 AM
1

agreed, count down has been initiated....
/r/askTRP12/12/19 10:10 AM
2

It really isnt. Young people really think shit it new. Its all been done under the sun. Most things are just a variation of whats already been done.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:07 AM
1

According to women......
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:04 AM
1

women always forget this part.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:03 AM
0

Your talking to the wrong guys. As long as your not treating him differently because you make more (because in my experience, women tend to look down on you when you make less than they do) I dont see an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:58 AM
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and this is what A-Buff-BBC-Black belt was saying before. Generalizations and shitty attempt to save an a bad arguement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:56 AM
1

every guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:52 AM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:49 AM
1

dont see how you miss washing your face, its got skin on it just like the rest of you AND you can feel when your face is dirty alot of times. Ear wax i can see being over looked. Fingernails are different thought. I agree they should be cut, but people tend to forget or put them on the back burner for later.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:46 AM
2

I pray this is a comedy skit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:41 AM
2

you sound like my gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:39 AM
1

yeah, i dunno how the non-deodorant thing works. A broad at my job says she only showers every 3 days if she hasnt done any physical activity. Shes 100lbs and doesnt sweat much. Not sure if that makes a difference but she never smelled less than pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:37 AM
1

I can understand the coffee and smoking needing to deal with teeth and breath afterwards. I can admit, it usually slips my mind to use mouth wash after I smoke because I already brush teeth 2 times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:35 AM
1

From what I have been told, isnt there a water bill to be paid every month? I thought thats what the "yellow mellow, brown down" saying came from. It meant to only flush when something other than urine was in the toilet because every flush cost $
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:29 AM
1

I get that. Theres nothing wrong with liking or disliking spanking, its just ur preference. I was commenting on the article. I do it because she asks me to and it doesnt take away from the experience for me. Im just saying that spanking, choking and things to that extreme have always been requested by her, not me. It goes in line with what the article is saying and its not saying its bad or good, just that it has been his experience, similar to mine. In my experience, it wasnt a man pushing porn…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/19 09:25 AM
1

and somehow, adopting children as a single man isnt possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:17 AM
1

Tell her you dont have the money. Its you money. You spend it how u want to. If she doesnt like it, she can either pay herself or leave. If she pays and complains, she can leave. If she withholds sex, u get it elsewhere without being bitter and if she doesnt like that, she can leave. Either way, you will have more money in your pocket......with either a new girl or the old one. The choice is hers. You already made urs....NO MO SPENDING!
/r/askTRP12/12/19 08:43 AM
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I kind of get it. Spanking and choking are not something im into. I mean, i dont mind because its not really hurting her, but its not something i get off from, its always a request. Hell, outside of a playful slap on the ass, I only spank my gf when I know shes aching for it. "Books tell you how ancient cultures feared the power of a women's sexuality..." I used to wonder why Adam bit that apple. Now I understand.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/19 08:29 AM
1

I assume its always banter, just like shit tests.....everything is a shit test as far as im concerned. I assume everything is banter because if it wasnt, your not gonna waste my time with bullshit passive-aggressiveness. That is to say, if your not going to confronting (maybe a better word is address it) me about it, it wasnt important enough for me to perceive it as anything but banter.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:57 AM
9

I think the true answer is hormones most of the time. I wrote a whole thing about a Snow white analogy, which i think is perfect, but all in all, its really just hormones. They are the reason for most of female insanity.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 07:52 AM
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No, shes nuts. Shes definately nuts. But the thing is, is that they are ALL nuts. all of them. Your LTR. Your plate. Your sister. Your mom. Your grandma. Her sister. Her mom. They all are. There's not a single sane one in the gender. Accept it for what it is. However, its not their fault. They r just built that way. Owning your shit is the answer but it wont stop her from being crazy. In my experience, her behavior changes to get me to change mine BUT if my behavior doesnt change, she changes he…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 07:48 AM
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Wow, thats a hell of an response. Given the way she responded to you not wanting to be in a relationship, I think this is more than fair.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:16 AM
1

Well, that depends on the the guy and his ability to pull it off. Have seen it work on experienced and inexperienced women based on the experience and/or his ability. Sometimes it worked flawlessly and other times it failed miserably. Nothing is absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:07 AM
1

yeah, he has alot of useful knowledge, but seems too extreme for me. I get what he is saying though and he has been at it alot longer than I have, so I can understand asking others who are more experienced than yourself about his approach. I got the same impression that you did. I listen and understand but i dont follow alot of his advice.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 11:01 AM
3

Then its a step most guys should make before getting into a LTR, y'know, just to make sure he is confident and/or emotionally intelligent enough to "handle" the woman. Which means it should also be a prerequisite to getting married, given that it is such a useful guide and men are so inept and controlling. TRP will teach them to not be so creepy Oh and that confirmation bias you spoke of? Works well for confidence or at least a "fake it till you make it" strategy (recommended strategy in many se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:27 AM
2

yeah, pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:44 AM
3

Good shit. Thanx for the great example.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 06:11 AM
1

Ooooooh fuck that bitch!
/r/askTRP11/12/19 06:07 AM
1

nope, let her figure it out. She knows what she did. Most importantly, did u get ur stuff?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 09:01 AM
1

Just because people here would consider you a sexist prick doesnt mean any of them are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:31 AM
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No, i agree with you. Im just saying that when Melissa Thompson recorded Weinstein on her laptop and used it as evidence that he "raped" her, im sure she didnt get his consent....why would this woman think that because pictures of her were taken without her consent will make a difference at all if it didnt make a difference for Weinstein. except because shes a woman, the double standard would have worked in her favor.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/19 09:58 AM
1

Next. The bitch doesnt even exist from this point on. No hard feelings though. But your more likely to run into girls who know a little bit more than you to help you out. First time there I danced with 3 different girls just by asking if they wanted to practice. 1 said no.....i think. I cant remember, she didnt exist to me after that.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 09:53 AM
5

yeah, hard next.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:55 AM
1

yeah, i keep hearing about this relationship from women (who, surprisingly never had this kind of relationship EVER) but have yet to see them. All of the ones that were close where like that from the woman's perspective. Talk to the man and you hear a different story. Of course, the husband is usually aware of the relationship he wife says they have....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 04:06 AM
0

yeah, im not into choking, but have been asked repeatedly to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:59 AM
1

i took classes here and there for years but nothing ever stuck. Had a friend teach me in a club while the music was playing and that helped a bit. It wasnt until about september when I really got into it. Salsa is tough so take it one step at a time and practice alot. Free classes are great because you gdet to dance with alot of different girls. Tell them you are just learning and they will help you out. Beware of the really good dancers though, some of them dont like beginners.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 02:41 AM
3

You dont break them up, you become sure a better option that she breaks up with him on her own. Not your fault she likes you better. This is how life goes. But also AWALT. If she will do that to him, she will do it to you as well....just a matter of time.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 02:24 AM
9

quite sure Weinstein was video recorded without consent as well. Doesnt change anything.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/19 02:17 AM
3

Kung fu. This includes alot of sub hobbies such as sword/knife/spear/weapon fighting, wrestling/grappling/locking, weapon maintenance, etc) Salsa/ tango lock picking
/r/askTRP09/12/19 02:04 AM
1

Well, i dont think it makes you a bad person by itself. If this becomes a habit though, it would be hard to argue that you are not. Hitler was a bad person, i dont think this puts you on the same level as hitler though. But it happens. Always has, always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:51 AM
4

Assume it is. If she doesnt respond in kind, shes either bullshitting or your about to teach her a valuable lesson for the next time a guy says this to her.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:49 AM
2

Dont keep a relationship. She waited until you 2 were together for 5 months to tell you this? Sounds like she was relying on you feeling guilty about breaking it off instead of being up front.....and your falling for it. No respect for you man, sorry to say. Had a similar situation like that. Pretty sure she wont view what she did as wrong and will try to paint you as the bad guy for ur response. Or it could be a power move to gain control of the relationship. Either way, drop the bitch like she…
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:45 AM
1

maybe not like that, but in a certain light, it is. To what degree is on a case by case basis. Its like alcohol. Its a drug, but then again so is heroine. Now you might not think of drinking as drug use, but alcohol is a drug nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:39 AM
1

Thats for each individual to decide and live with. But nothing is without its consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:34 AM
1

didnt say it was ok, i just said it works. We as people in a society (and even outside of one) use other people all of the time. U, me and everyone who participates in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:32 AM
1

yep, they were insecure about their height
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:54 PM
3

sound like shit tests to me
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:13 AM
2

I feel like your responses were very agree and amplify. They all seem like good responses to the comfort tests they threw at you.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:12 AM
1

I dunno about you, but I level up all of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:56 AM
1

basically. Women that never had to approach a guy dont and wont understand this. Also, a woman's main strategy is manipulation so all of a sudden its wrong? Or is it only when done to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:52 AM
1

Am i missing something here? We as people use other people all of the time. Its call capitalism for a reason (to capitalize over someone or something).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:50 AM
1

Unless you have some sort of mental of physical disabilty, i have no sympathy for femcels or incels. Life sucks for the majority of the worlds population, which means its gonna suck for most of us if we let it. If thats what you want to get out of life, by all means. But if thats your choice, i dont feel bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:44 AM
2

As guys, its best not to ask about your partner's exes, it never leads anywhere productive. Every girl i have been with asked about the previous girl and exes and it always lead to them being jealous (which worked out for me) I dont ask any of them about previous guys or their exes unless there's a contextual point to it because it doesnt benefit me, her or the current relationship. Always leads to negative emotions. If she decides to tell me, she can but I aint asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:41 AM
1

You are somewhat right, your not gonna be any more attractive to hot chicks. What it will do is decrease your anxiety when it comes to sex and approaching women so that you can talk to hot chicks the same way you talk to women you are not sooo attracted to. It will lower the pedestal just a bit everytime, provided your moving on from ugly chicks to hotter ones quickly. You will still have to increase your value in other way to be attractive to hot girls, but your leveling the playing field in yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:36 AM
2

Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:28 AM
1

and those are the consequences of operating in this manner. You feel shitty as a result. But t does work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:26 AM
1

no, it works. Provided the necessary steps are taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:25 AM
1

Not saying you should. There are consequences to operating in this manner. But it will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:24 AM
1

well, you have to approach and know how to talk in order to get a date to be a bf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:17 AM
2

Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:16 AM
2

Right, men don't like being emasculated. Its not a problem for us to date taller women because taller women don't emasculate us with their height, its more of how they feel about being shorter than them. Its like with tall girls. Guys don't really care, but the girl is usually insecure about standing out. In my experience, unless the guy is insecure about HIS height, it was the girl's insecurity about their height difference IF shes taller. Short guys who aren't insecure about their height would…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:14 AM
1

My LTR called me bro before we were a thing. Thats when I knew I wasnt going about this the right way (no escalation on my part). Plate im spinnig calls be "bro" all the time, but its just part of her speech pattern. She was raised with all boys and when they joined a gangs, she had to maintain a masculine frame to keep all the guys from trying to fuck her (they tried though, at least thats what she says...) Shes pretty dominant but submits to a stronger frame (her first bf and me). All is not l…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:39 AM
2

yeah been meaning to grab a copy, but I have been busy. Thanks a bunch.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:33 AM
2

New York City. Home of some of the most savage bitches on the planet. Guys, yeah, im shorter than most guys. Im not gonna lie, there are times when I FEEL that most girls wouldnt bother with me. Then I start talking with girls and making them laugh and I see the IOI's pouring out of them. But the fact that you brought up other guys' height gives me the impression that its more about how you feel about being shorter than girls, its about how you feel being shorter than everybody. Like somehow, yo…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:29 AM
1

im 2 inches taller than u, i would say thats pretty close. I do pretty good but admittedly would be doing better if i applied approached more. In LTR and one plate. Flirt with and game plenty of girls on a daily basis, but barely follow up do to being so busy. Finances pay a heavy role too. Your biggest adversary is your issue with your height. All girls like tall guys. Fortunate for u and me, most girls are short. The girls who are taller will shit test you about ur height. If your not bothered…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:01 AM
1

What kind of success story are u looking for? im 5'7.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:55 AM
1

Well, your here.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:21 AM
2

I have seen that raise a guys SMV. Girls figured there had to be "something" about him to garner such a passionate response. Girls are ridiculous.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:20 AM
1

I sure hoped i didnt have to fight him, and I didnt. But if thats how its going down, thats how its going down. And he probably would have tossed me like a rag doll but you cant be afraid of an ass whopping. Take your lumps and move on with a lesson. And a lecture when I mustered up the courage to come talk to u because I thought you were pretty and potentially get rejected, taking a major blow to my self esteem and confidence? No, I daresay I wouldnt listen and would walk away instead. Annoyed?…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:40 AM
1

yeah man. Maybe you do look stupid. But you (and all of us) have looked stupid before. Its bound to happen to everyone at some point in time. Learn to handle it now and you will never be embarassed. Infact, your lack of embarrassment (full IDAGF mentality) will make you stand out, because you dont let others perception of you control you. So props for keeping your word and making a fool of yourself.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 06:23 AM
1

The most confident thing to do is not give a fuck. You played a game, made a bet and lost. Then you kept your word and it was recorded. So what? Then again, I didnt see the video.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:24 AM
1

It never left. There a kids killing themselves over being bullied.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:20 AM
2

No they should not be shamed. They are only looking out for their safety and future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:15 AM
0

lmao good one. Yeah, im at work so excuse the typos, but You can only spread an STI if your not using a condom. Same with children, no kids if condom is used (unless broken). So, men who fuck around dont spread diseases and leave children they make IF they use condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:12 AM
5

Started taking cold showers. I. HATE. THE. COLD. But this is a challenge to over come...
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:01 AM
2

yeah, I dont see how she damages your image if shes drunk and unruly. Apparently, shes upset you slept with her sister and didnt beta yourself as a result.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 10:59 AM
-1

Only if the catch an STI from not using condoms and spreading it can you spread STI by again, not using a condom and only have children if you came in the woman which, for the third time, is from not using condoms. Otherwise, men so fuc around dont spread diseases and leave children they make.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:57 AM
1

I remember one of the first times it happened and I remember vividly thinking "wow, so this must be what its like to be a woman". It was a bit much, and it came put of (seemingly) nowhere very quickly. Trust me, I get it. Thats why there are ways to do these things properly. And touching (too soon) is a sure way to put the girl in a bad place, so I would advise against that. BUT I already stated how bad that is. And it has happened in the context that you stated, exactly like that. ( I was in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:48 AM
1

You are absolutely right. And If that was your response, then thats your response. You have every right to respond however you want. Whether I like it or not is not your business. See, its great being adults communicating as adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:21 AM
1

Anyone has the right to ask anything they want, it is a free country last i checked. Just like you have the right to curse him out or even ignore him completely. However you respond, they dont have the right to physically touch you. I have been approached by muscular gay men for sex......i live in nyc, shit happens at least one a month. Does it make me uncomfortable? Kinda. But he has the right to try, over and over again. And i have the right to deny him over, and over again. My comfort is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:18 AM
1

We can strike up a convo without asking for sex. I do it everyday. But when I want to "approach' a woman, its likely because I find her sexually attractive and will want to sleep with her. I can make my intentions known from the beginning or i can do after a while or i can do it at the end, its up to me. She doesnt get to decide how I approach her, she decides her response. I assume no male has every approached you without asking for sex, your first sentence gives me that impression. That is unf…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:50 AM
1

Well, You offered reasonable explanations of why a woman might want a divorce WHEN the man is at fault. You did not offer explanations of why a woman might want a divorce outside of the man being at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 11:29 AM
1

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 11:12 AM
-1

doubtful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 11:11 AM
13

You havent internalized it yet because its just knowledge right now. Once you experience some of the things talked about, you will understand much better.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 10:51 AM
3

That was on purpose. If you let it get to you, ur playing right into it. Im sure you have much more important things to do. As a matter of fact, the fact that she needed to post something like that is a red flag to me. Im pretty sure u dodged a bullet on this one.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 10:50 AM
3

yeah, agree and amplify. her: "Wow, he introduced himself to me almost the same way you did" you: Wow, guess you found a new friend to explore, I know how that is lol Dont give her anythig concrete to work off of?
/r/askTRP03/12/19 09:59 AM
2

Im not surprised about that, like you said, common knowledge. What is surprising is that women found unattractive men's advances "harmful"....as in a detriment to their health. If somebody finds a guy attractive it’s not a fact it’s just attraction? Idk what you mean Attraction is not a fact....2+2=4 is a fact. Your attraction to someone is subjective to what you like. If a man approaches a woman, her attraction to him is what determines whether or not she considers it harmful. That is literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:52 AM
1

And you have that right. Just like I have the right to approach you to find out. Im free to try and your free to say no. We go our separate ways and get on with our lives. Your not in control of what your offended by but you are in control of how you respond and behave in light of said offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:36 AM
1

Well, the study stated that women perceived these advances as "harmful", not unwanted. Harmful and unwanted are 2 very different things. If #metoo is about ending sexual violence, than anything "harmful" can (and we have seen) and will be considered violence. I can take it even further. Sexual harassment is ANY unwanted sexual advance, request for sexual favors or other verbal or written communication or physical conduct of a sexual nature....(i could go on, but i think we get it). So if i appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:31 AM
2

This is actually true. I have dont it and wondered why she was more into me. They love the show of emotions but I think they love the fact that u can control yours while they have such a hard time with theirs.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 08:01 AM
1

better now than later. Mistakes were made. Lesson has been learned....
/r/askTRP03/12/19 07:52 AM
1

also nice
/r/askTRP03/12/19 07:51 AM
1

nice
/r/askTRP03/12/19 07:50 AM
1

If shes boring, save all of your talking for when you see her. Keep the fone for logistics.Your gonna have to keep yourself amused with this one.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 07:50 AM
1

I very rarely block anyone, I just erase their number. If they call back, I ignore and call another girl to keep keep me from calling her back. It usually goes 2 ways: 1) she stops contacting me and its over 2) she keeps trying to contact me and I give her a weeks or so. When i do talk to her and she brings it up (cuz I wont and will keep the previous week a mystery) I tell her I was just busy or my fone broke (deflect) and change the subject. The kicker is when I tell a story about something th…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 07:48 AM
30

Agree and amplify. Or, fuck other girls on the side so that when she cheats, its not as hard hitting because u did it as well. If your not gonna cheat, at least give her reason to doubt your faithfullness.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:44 PM
4

Was she blowing (black) guys while you 2 were together? If not, she was just being a girl. It wasnt your turn then. Your fault for thinking she was a unicorn. She had a high paying job, came from a good family, cooked for you and everything....BUT....shes still a girl.....just like the rest of them. You forgot that. Size queen? You do know that not every black guy has a huge dick, Whore? they are all whores for the guy who knows how to pull it out of them... The only thing i could say is to make…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:43 PM
0

a normal guy is staying that. And it DOES apply to both men and women. But from the prospective of a straight guy, women's words have a way of bypassing my shit-o-meter, so I have to be extra diligent. Women and men are not much different from each other, but we are different enough for their to be alot of confusion and fuckery when it comes to dating and relationships. Thus....here we are (that includes you too). And how are women treated as "other"? I treat men as men and women as women....unl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:35 PM
2

Could be either one. Had a girl that fit your description tell me the same thing. Dont put too much stock in things like this anyway. I mean, dont call her out on it (and if you do, do it playfully) but dont take it to heart either. Remember: Fuck what she says, watch what she does.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:28 PM
3

YOU. SAID. WHAT? I agree with what everyone is saying, that this situation doesnt require you fight.... but u called him sir.... The girl is a moron, but how else did u expect her to respond when u called that guy sir? Gonna be hard to gain her respect back (hell, u kinda lost mine) but it may be harder to gain your own back. Again, I agree that this isnt a situation you should be eager to fight in, but at least stand your ground. If a woman doesnt feel safe around you, she will be dryer than th…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:21 PM
-1

Normal men as in not exaclty high value or low value? Those guys are the average and no, im not talking about those guys because thats not what we were talking about. There are more of those guys than there are high or low value men. And seeing as how I am a normal guy (not exactly low value but damn sure not high value...yet) we do think these things. And no, women are not aliens....they are women. Just like men have a similar nature to each other, so do women. Saying that the manosphere is tox…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:07 PM
1

I agree 100%. I dont think most people go into relationships with the intention of it turning out that way. Infact, I would dare say no one is looking forward to that (but here i am on reddit, so im sure someone will prove me wrong). No one wants to settle and we are all doing the best that we (think) we can. Me included.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:55 PM
1

Well, its not that men look better with age, its that we become more attractive IF we spent those years cultivating ourselves. We are not prized for physical looks so, being less physically attractive as we age isnt as drastic as women because, we didnt look that amazing to begin with (except the ones who do). And the proof is in the actions of women when said men are older, we dont actually need (or believe) what you tell us. Actions speak louder than words. Fuck what she says, watch what she d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:45 PM
1

I agree that looking better will help every man and that dressing well shows that a man gives a damn about himself.....that applies to everyone. BUT, men value a womans looks way more than a woman values a man's looks. There are other things about him that will play a bigger role in his attractiveness than how he looks and dresses. Those things are more important to woman than how physically attractive he is. Its similar to how there are plenty of things that will make a woman attractive to men,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:25 PM
1

lmao i understand what your saying, if he want to talk to you, he better come correct if he expects a positive response. Otherwise, its not up to you whether that rando actually decides to talk to you, thats up to him. You decide what happens next though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:07 PM
1

That depends.... did you have to spend that money to make her feel special? If your answer is yes, then my answer is yes as well. I wouldnt say whore though, i would say prostitute/hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:58 AM
1

Just because a woman feels special doesnt mean she is. Likewise, just because I make a woman feel special doesnt mean shes actually special to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:50 AM
1

And yet, despite what they USED to be told (because, feminism), they all have the opportunity to have sex with lots of different men.....and most dont anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:08 AM
0

Yeah, i dont see why you had to explain this, its pretty basic math and biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:05 AM
2

If those same guys put that same energy into themselves and forget about women, women will be knocking on his door looking for him. This is exactly what those guys should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:02 AM
1

The middle east is NOT a world where women have equal rights. Isnt a mental health issues are are related to genetics. MGTOW is about Men Going Their Own Way. It is specifically about anti-women. Not everyone in the "manosphere" is a part of MGTOW. The rise of Hating Women's Rights is correlated with the rise of Low Value Men. That's because the high value men know to ignore what women/feminist SAY and watch what they do...which is sleep with medium-high value men because for all the toxic mascu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:59 AM
2

I had a similar thought when I was in 6th grade. "If women want to sleep around, why would I discourage them by calling them sluts/whores? I would much rather be one of the guys she hapy to sleeps with."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:47 AM
2

No, but thats part of the point. He doesnt need to wait for eye contact with them because odds are that they already know who he is and odds are they are gonna say yes. Not only that, IF she says no, im sure he moves on to another broad just that quickly, because he can always get another...im sure theres a line...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:38 AM
1

But thats not the "make-over" that men need to do to get the girl after failing, that works for women because our primary attraction to them is their looks. Their attraction to guys are looks, but there are more important things to a girl. Looks are primarily important to us guys. The movie your referring to would have that same guy become a different person almost in order for the "make-over" movie to be true, not just a physical make over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:35 AM
2

Theres nothing wrong with that. In fact, we dont decide who we are attracted to, either attraction is there or its not. But the point is that sexual harassment and #metoo are based on women being uncomfortable with actions guys make. So all it takes is for a women to be uncomfortable with you approaching her in order for her to claim you sexually assaulted/harassed her......a sexual context isnt even necessary because its all based on her opinion.....nothing factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:23 AM
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The paragraph is just a summary of the results of the studies below giving evidence of the statement known as the abstract. And according to those studies, you would be less offended the more attractive the guy is to you. I think the point OP is making is that approaching a woman and propositioning her for sex, whether directly or indirectly (asking her out, complimenting her, attempting to get phone number, etc.) CAN easily be considered sexual harassment JUST because the girl isnt attracted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:19 AM
2

negative. You think Leo Dicaprio worries about whether the girl will give him the time of day BEFORE he attempts? Do you think he gets rejected because the broad didnt see him and give him an invitation first?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:09 AM
1

What i think he means is that #1 happens so often to women that are turned off by it, except those times that you mentioned. The same thing can happen to a man, but because it happens so seldom, we are very rarely turned off by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:05 AM
1

but it doesnt mean he is not interested in her, its just means that alot more to deal with and it all needs to be taken into consideration, mainly for her well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:03 AM
2

That because the male make over required is about much more than looks. That journey makes a very boring movie. Its the reason why the journey guys take is of no interest to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:00 AM
1

Had a girl tell me that when a girl is cheated on (her included), its such a blow to her self esteem, she has to feel better about herself before she can leave, which requires her to stay and treat her man like a king to validate herself. That way, when (she meant if) she leaves, it hits him harder.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:45 AM
2

Men with a high n count are considered players. Women with a high n count are considered sluts (general opinion, not exactly mine). But here's the thing, Its not easy for a guy to sleep with alot of women....that shit takes work. It is, however, easy for a woman to sleep with alot go guys.....that takes no work at all. So men with high n counts earned them while women with high n counts didnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 06:17 AM
5

Why would you move back in? Didnt you say both your mom and wife started respecting you after you moved out? Do you think things will be different? Why? Taking the tougher road garnered you respect. Its not just you, that what happens when men step up.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:30 AM
5

Assume (cuz you dont know) that she doesnt know about your plates and keep doing what your doing. If it becomes clear that something is up, address it and let her tell you what her issue is. Dont mention plates until she does, I wouldnt bring up the posts because that shit is a trap and will only put her in an advantageous position (unless your really, really good enough to flip the trap on her). I didnt read anything here about you 2 being exclusive so she has no right to expect exclusivity fro…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:26 AM
1

Word!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:27 AM
1

No, thats not women approaching. Thats women putting themselves in your line for sight and attempt to get you to approach. An approach usually requires the possibility of getting turned away. Its no different than a guy who approaches a woman but doesnt ask her out. HE DIDNT APPROACH......and we all know that. I dont treat woman any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:19 AM
1

Terrible in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:15 AM
1

yeah, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:13 AM
4

Its no worse for men, we just dont care that much. Not only that, loo at gyms and places of physical fitness....what is the ratio of women to men? Im willing to bet there are more men there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:12 AM
2

Oh please
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:04 AM
1

Listen, I mean actually listen to what he is saying......he's not wrong.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 05:42 AM
1

I dont think your an asshole for not bringing up that conversation after 6 months. If im not the one who wants to get married and have kids, its not my responsibility to bring it up, its yours if thats what you want because its what YOU want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:46 PM
1

No, his experience is pretty accurate in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:39 PM
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Im pretty sure this was all a generalization. Just like your statement about sex not being worth it unless the relationship commitment is met.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 12:33 PM
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You (as in us) overall. Its not just how we look. Its how we act, how we respond to pressure, how we deal with the good times, how we deal with the bad times. How we deal with her. How we deal with other people. How we deal with problems. How we deal with money. How we deal with ourselves. They are evaluating everything. And it is all filtered through how it makes HER feel. She needs to know that shes getting the best option she can get and when they FEEL like your not the best option, they will…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 06:49 AM
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Hair, make up and nails are a form of art. Any women who takes the time to learn how to do them properly them earns the respect they deserve for it. But let's be real, most women don't go as far with hair, nails and make up to the extent that it could be considered an art form. Men hi or anything that requires hard work and effort and discipline. The work you put into doing them are irrelevant to us, but we appreciate the end product. Much like you don't appreciate the bone crushing weight we li…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:04 PM
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U can buy yourself a month, just don't put up with her shit in that time. Withdraw attention, up dread and buy your time without trading your integrity. Never let her know your real plan tho. Patience grasshopper.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:43 PM
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Everytime ur busy and answer her call, your stepping into your frame. She knows ur busy and does this to see if ur gonna cater to her whims. Ur losing
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:40 PM
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If ur actually doing the sport, it's a hobby....otherwise your just watching. And I'm sure there are plenty, you just have to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:34 PM
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Aside from video games those are not basic. You also took the first half of that statement without considering the second half. Video games fall into the category of superficial drivel (I play video games too...) that equate to nothing so they quailfy as basic IN MOST CASES. Unless your just going watching and spewing stats, sports equate to something. As do cars/motorcycles. Though I agree that most people are basic in general
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:33 PM
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No, but looks are our primary and major indicators. Alot can be told by a persons looks. Not everything tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:29 AM
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Yep, i dont to it so much. Then again, there are plenty of times i pay simply because that the kind of guy I am. If however , im with a woman who thinks "men should pay for women", I fall back on the fact that they just made this relationship transactional and I will now be expecting a payout for my investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:04 AM
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Nope, nothing wrong with sexually objectifying women. Glad we had this talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:00 AM
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Because we have to be. And necessity is the mother in invention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 10:45 AM
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This only applies if shes interested in the guy. I kid you not, I was on a thread a few weeks ago and a guy asked if it was ok to talk to a woman he found attractive in the street and 90% of the people said not to because it would make her uncomfortable. I got compared to a rapist because I told him that its fine to talk to women in street if he wanted to. Now I agree with you, but plenty of women will actually be afraid, which is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 10:45 AM
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Because most girls are into the same things. And most of them are superficial drivel that equate to nothing substantial.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 10:36 AM
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subtract outdoor activitites with pokemon go and beer with alcohol and you have my gf. And im willing to consider make up a hobby because hell, it is a form of art, but cant say she has any hobbies herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 10:34 AM
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Women do this because its what would work on them if the roles were reversed. Its like how we think that if we are attracted to how women look , then making ourselves more physically attractive is enough to get you laid, which we know thanx to TRP, is not.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:22 AM
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This is good. It's that the alpha guy is valuable enough to not offer things she hasn't earned i.e. boyfriend material. Could you please elaborate on that.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:58 AM
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nope, doesnt matter if its a shit test. You treat it like a shit test anyway because its just bullshit from 2 broads anyway. It matters very little in the grand scheme of your life. Try to get laid, thats all that matters.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:52 AM
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i concur, but it is his opinion....
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:47 AM
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I work over night.....
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:43 AM
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Take what you can from this situation and more on. Most people dont have the mental strength to think for themselves, let alone understand your master plan.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:42 AM
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I always looked at those a shit test for guys who may be considered short. Its an easy way for them to try to test you. I dont put any more into it than that as it will try to infect my frame.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:41 AM
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A non TRP friend and I are on the same path, learning and attempting to master multiple disciplines. It definately gets tough to keep up the necessary training to get "good enough" at most things. We run the risk of stretching ourselves too thin when it comes to absorbing and retaining information. My advice would be to try to focus on disciplines that have multiple skill sets to perfect or things that are closely related to each other so that learning one thing helps you perfect other things, l…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:39 AM
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Also, cocaine can eat at the calcium in your body, primarily your teeth, so be warned..
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:20 AM
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Well, when you wait for someone else to do something, you are at relegated to reacting to them, which is a form of following and not leading, which, as I type this, explains quite a bit about male-female dynamics. Good talk sir.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:03 AM
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And thats your defense? How many other things do guys complain about that you dont just roll over and do? Combine that with the fact that this is exclusively for Ypur and his future well being? Doubtful once again. You dont have to tolerate the side effects of unwanted pregnancy or abortion OR STI (because the other forms of birth control dont protect from STIs) if you use a condom. You wanna know what feels even worse than condoms? Not having sex at all. Infact, all of those other forms of birt…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 05:59 AM
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Women actually think that making eye contact with you from across the room or standing around you until you notice them and approach them is an actual "move". So I wouldnt put it past OP example girl to think that her low risk-high reward maneuver of not calling is a "move" on her part. Except that doing shit like this doesnt work......in any situation in nature....except with human men and women and its up to the men to pick up the slack for womens of rejection and poor communication skills. I …
/r/askTRP22/11/19 12:12 PM
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doesnt matter, its still effective support.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:39 AM
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Also, there's a name for women you have to pay to have sex with. Love it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:24 AM
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not as much as having a kid.....when you dont want one....with a girl you dont want to have a kid with.....who may or may not make a sizeable chunk of your future miserable because she FELT LIKE IT? They dont suck that much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:21 AM
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EVERY TIME I HAVE SEX
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:08 AM
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So, women are on birth control for the enjoyment of men? So that we dont have to wear a condom, which is for our and your safety? Your willing to jeopardize your health and possibly get pregnant for me to nut inside of you.....for my enjoyment? Doubtful. From what i know (experience and studies), sex without a condom feels exponentially better than with for women so your not doing it for us. Sounds like a justification for men to pay for your dinner. And since we are on the subject, if there are…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:05 AM
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Yeah, had a girl tell me that, but if you were cheating or planning to cheat, this is how it would be anyway, right? And if she finds out, is she not gonna be mad? Im pretty sure she will still be very upset, just that she wont break up with you.....but TRP already told us that, so what exactly is she saying except confirming what we already know?
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:57 AM
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Back up validation is right. And its putting her relationship in jeopardy, to which she doesnt seem too concerned with. Shes attempting to call your bluff...
/r/askTRP21/11/19 10:44 AM
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Personality and dressing well don't get u laid, they just increase your odds. Knowing how to get laid gets you laid and if you say you have slept with alot of girls, whether it's true or not, you will be perceived as someone who knows what he's doing, liked by women enough to sleep with and can lead the interaction to sex. Girls are attracted to that (field tested and confirmed by other guys and girls), it's preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:35 PM
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That reminds me of when a few childhood birthdays. My bday is in february and on my 7th bday, I was told that no one in the family (absolutely no one, I was told) had any money left because they spent so much on everyone for christmas so I wouldnt get a present that year. The very next bday, my sister and female cousin got presents on my bday because the adults didnt want them to feel left out. I do however recall both of them getting presents on their bday though and I didnt (funny how no adult…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 12:51 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNi4YnbRsV8 Tell you what, when you can honestly say that your in a worse position than him, u can complain. Until then, get the fuck to work.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 12:29 PM
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This comment here is what we should all be aspiring to, as it leads to everything else we are here for.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/19 03:32 PM
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Sorry to hear. I would imagine you had a hard time getting your life back to normal, or as normal as you can get it after something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:01 PM
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Yeah, I learned this watching women's reaction to their men's emotions when the man wasnt around and have concluded that my negative emotions are not to be shared with her (any of them) because for all of the emotional support she has from me, I wouldnt get the same understanding from her. Last thing I want is my SO "mothering" to "support" my emotions and lose attraction for me. Apparently emotional support and attraction are inversely related in women's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 11:28 AM
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If most (which is more than half) were like that, do u really think we wouldnt control you? There are more men in the world than women and if we are SO violent and wanted to control women, why arent we doing that? Men killing women? Sure. We are on average more aggressive, more violent, stronger, bigger, more confrontational. And all of those things you ladies mentioned are terrible and as a man, I cannot fathom why they thought this was alright, but they do and they are a defect and should be p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 11:09 AM
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I like this response too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 10:58 AM
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I like this response.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 10:58 AM
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You know, she could say shes not into it up front and if they cross the line, find a more respectful person. You ever get mugged? It makes you want to never leave your house because anyone you cant see can catch you from a blind spot and mug you (again). Never leaving your house is not a reality most of us can live with, so we leave the house and ready ourselves just in case it were to happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 10:55 AM
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You know, I never thought of it that way, thats exactly what my gf does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 10:48 AM
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no more or less filthy than womens' places. Lets not assume all women are clean, neat and organized, because its not even remotely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:47 AM
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Cuz she cant get his attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:41 AM
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Maybe its not, but it seems that there are women to are open to it, so its good for them. If your not open to it, its not good for you. Most men are not interested in women who are so afraid of men that someone walking up to and talking to u is an extinction level event.
/r/seduction14/11/19 10:53 AM
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Thank you! Your the type of women I was told the world was full of. I was starting to lose hope.
/r/seduction14/11/19 10:51 AM
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....or depression, or personality disorder, or bipolar disorder, or are triggered, or somehow cant cope.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:26 AM
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Not sure, but shes playing you and she knows it. Shes knows what ur inviting her over for and she gets there and "isnt in the mood"? The fuck? Stop inviting her over. Im willing to bet she will invite herself or attempt to get you to invite her over, either way, stay strong and dont give in....she aint giving it up...especially if you dont check her. And when i say "check her", i mean in a "matter-of-fact, im not upset but im not going for it, emotionless" kinda way. And then dont call. If you e…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 12:16 PM
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Stop letting her come over.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 12:02 PM
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It may be the ultimate form of commitment, but it doesnt mean you will get a full commitment. And then, people can decide not to remain committed half way through, so......
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:49 AM
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Neither, life sucks for everyone, regardless if your a man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:47 AM
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yeah and facebook and instrgram and snapchat do the samething when it comes to life....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:43 AM
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I became angry and accepting WAAAAY before I found TRP. TRP just helped me understand the things I couldnt figure out and as a result, im much, much happier with this knowledge. Anytime a women does something TRP says AWALT, i just smile and do my best not to judge her too harshly for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:41 AM
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....and lied to....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:39 AM
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really, its has only enhanced the possibility for me. I understand things alot more now, get upset alot less, am less insecure about things i cant totally control, more confident and patient, just to name a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:37 AM
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....huh.....sounds like modern feminism....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:34 AM
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Women, equally have no fundamental understanding of men, so its not one-sided. Of course, they all say the do, but when you look at how women act towards men, its clear they dont. There are somethings neither of the sexes will understand about the other simply because we cannot "walk in the other's shoes".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:24 AM
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the mantra is just to practice having an abundance mentality without the abundance....that will come in time IF i work on it. Meanwhile, I have to make do with what i got and what I got is an abundance mentality deficeit.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 05:34 AM
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I personally dont mind how shes dresses (then again, i cant see how shes dresses) as long as its not too much.....though thats very subjective. I honestly wouldnt mind but i dont care for the "you have no say in the matter" statement. You actually do, have a say, u can dump her for trying to play you like that. No hard feelings, just like that. Definately dont show her your upset about it, shrug it off, soft next and go about your business. She will come around to inquire why (she will KNOW it w…
/r/askTRP12/11/19 07:51 AM
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It does. Very much. Good job fleshing that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:38 AM
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solid answer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:38 AM
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Of course, very few things are 100% so i must speak in general terms. Most of those issues are not due to porn but issues with the guy's use of it. One guy's attraction to asian girls overshadowed his attraction to his gf. One guy loved big boobed blondes and his wife didnt fit that description. One guy was sexually stimulated than his girl so there was an incompatibility. None of those are because the guy is more interested in porn. If these women fit the mold that their man wished for (and its…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:33 AM
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I think that MOST of those women are rationalizing why their husbands arent having sex with them instead of looking at themselves as possibly the issue. Speaking as a guy who watches porn and has sex, porn is a shitty substitute. If men are ignoring their wives sexuality for porn, then those wives have bigger problems and their husbands not sexually desiring them is a result of it. There are plenty of scenarios where the husband is doing just that: ignoring their wives for porn, BUT im willing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:28 PM
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thank you because the idea that men prefer porn over actual women is stupid. If a women gets turned down for porn, she has alot of work to do....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:10 PM
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Respect her for not wanting to get married? sure, y wouldnt i? Im not getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:07 PM
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I was right with DriedUpPlum until the disdain for TRP reared its ugly head, but im not surprised. I used to think feminism was about basic respect but then I stopped listening to what I was being told it was about and started paying attention to what it actually showed it was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 06:15 AM
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Women dont have such high standards for men because deep down , behind the make-up and the clothes, the fake smiles they know they how much bullshit they are themselves, thats why they settle. If that werent true, the majority of women wouldnt be in the condition that they are......same goes for men. Sure women are more attractive but men get more stuff done. The problem is that most men dont understand how much bullshit women are, we are conditioned to believe that they are our "better half" wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 06:02 AM
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Nah, teela was all over his shit. Her father (man-at-arms) had to keep her at bay. The Sorceress had a thing for him too.... Funny how i remember that as soon as i read your comment...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 05:47 AM
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Very true. Shit gets easier when you realized this because you realized that you have to carry the burden, you dont really get a choice. Thats why men rule the world.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:39 AM
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It's also a major blow to our confidence, which is the very thing we use to talk to women or do most things. Kinda hard to move on when that part of you is shattered, hell, your not even yourself without it.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:50 PM
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u can still be an asshole in jail. Probably gonna get shived, but you were an asshole till you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:31 AM
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assuming he is subpar AND assuming that she can find AND keep a man with more resources and better genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:16 AM
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yeah, but you cant step into a females strategy just because its easy or "cuz they do it". My guess is you would respect yourself a little less.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 10:52 AM
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Not only that, you must have really had an impact on that girl for her to spend her time and energy spreading rumors of that caliber to your friends (who, if they r really your friends, will know shes bullshiting) just to get back at you? Shes hurt. Its like when you stop fucking a girl and she says "your dick is small anyway" or "you never made me cum". Its a defense mechanism at play because she has nothing in her arsenal and shes shooting blind. You win. Bet you can fuck her anyway.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 10:49 AM
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A post a few weeks ago mentioning that it had more to do with the psychological effect. Your less likely to approach when u can always forego the uncomfortableness and just go home and jerk off. And something about less testosterone but the former holds some sort of truth for myself.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 03:31 PM
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Like most things in life, it is a tool, how it's used is what determines whether it's good or bad.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 03:25 PM
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No, I agree with mr_smoogs, thats exactly what it means. It's what I mean when I say it, it was certainly what was meant when it was said to me....maybe not what I thought was being said initially, but when I wasn't being defensive and was actually listening to what was being said.....that's what I was being told. It may not sound the nicest, but I would challenge that anyone who 'needs' to be told nicely with is immature. I would even go as far as to say that even if what you say is correct and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 11:42 AM
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Agreed. Had to explain this to a guy a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 11:19 AM
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She did, didn't she?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 11:15 AM
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And many women value resources to the point of borderline or actual gold digging. See how everything you say about men has an equivalent about women? That's called balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 11:13 AM
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I'm willing to bet he was like that before the children were born.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 10:56 AM
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It's legal to get a vasectomy at 18, but doctors are hesitant if he/she FEELS like you will change your mind. So yeah, slytherlunevis pretty accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 10:44 AM
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Because it's the biggest deciding factor to us. It may not be for women, but that's how it is for guys and it's non negotiable, much like women's feelings. It's not the only thing that matters, but our attraction to you is first and foremost physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 10:18 AM
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highly doubtful that its game over for men, infact, it will make getting laid easier.....much like feminism did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 12:52 PM
1

I think that just makes you unlikeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 12:52 PM
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For women i think it comes down to mostly the experience. IF the experience is good, then the sex was good, regardless of other shortcomings, overall it was good. The thing about "beta bux" is that her attraction to him isnt going to last because he isnt really alpha, its an act and eventually it will be found out. Attraction will wane and she will find interest in other men. If you are alpha, then you maintain the things that she found attractive to you because those things are part of who you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 12:41 PM
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But women arent after dick, that shit a everywhere for them. Confidence, is our currency and it waaaaay more valuable than vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 12:21 PM
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I have a friend who this happend to. The broad decided to keep the baby even though he told her that he isnt (and he really isnt) in a position to take care of a baby, financially and time-wise. She FELT that he should, so she had the baby and proceeded to tell everyone that he abandoned her. Cue the shunning from society.....dirty looks, baseless accusations about comments or things he did that were "offensive", attempts to get him kicked out of school.......all by women....some of who never me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 12:15 PM
1

For the same reason women are so against cheating. Cheating does the exact same thing. Women resent it just as much as men resent hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 11:41 AM
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The laws are gender neutral but only in theory. We are all aware of how things go in court when it comes to divorce and children, regardless of what the law says, and it aint gender neutral. Wasnt until 2014 that New Jersey decided to write their laws to be applied more gender neutral by giving strict guidelines about how this should be handled across the board (because although alimony is gender neutral in theory, in practice IT IS NOT). Yet there are women (talk show topics, articles, vidoes) …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 11:40 AM
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17 states where cheating is illegal but its seldomly enforced.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 11:22 AM
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Just because they looked honest doesn't mean they were. We can only know so much about the inner workings of there relationships. If it seemed like it was honest it's probably because our fathers and grand fathers were redpill, while we are still learning to be. Also, women had different options so things will be different. Stay the course, the redpill has not failed me yet and has gotten me through alot. Remember to always be single in a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 02:11 PM
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Make up is hard, at least when u do a good job it is. From what I can tell, the object of make up is to either look like ur not wearing any or to look very different. Most girls that do their own are barely touching the surface of the art.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/19 12:06 PM
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Agree. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying to avoid sleeping with drunk women because it COULD be considered rape. I highly encourage it, to a point. I do it as well but understand the potential consequences of ur actions, it is a thing that could happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 11:50 AM
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Assuming that's true (cuz I hear that statistic, but never looked into it myself), that do any mean I should put myself in that position because most rape cases never convict.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:36 PM
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I spent the majority of my childhood babysitting other peoples' kids to the point where i didnt have much of a childhood. Went to disney world once at 15 and even that was babysitting (for the record, I was over the idea of disney world by then), so I can do without giving up a chunk of my life for someone else. Didnt date, no hobbies, no extra curricular activities, didnt get to hang out with friends until sr. year of highschool all because I was busy......babysitting. Spent the majority of my …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 12:14 PM
1

Thats how I feel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:02 AM
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Have a female friend that always said the samething........until she got pregnant and THEN wanted a father for her child. Swore she didnt need a man to do things and now shes looking for a "father for her daughter", so go figure.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 09:59 AM
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True, however u can be found guilty of rape. Not that u will, but it can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:07 PM
2

so are women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 11:29 AM
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but that scenario is real. If you and her are both drunk ane have sex, she is well within her rights to accuse you of rape and you will be charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 11:25 AM
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yep. Get this through your head as early as possible. Your life will be much better
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 11:17 AM
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Because thats what she has to believe in order to get herself through the day.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:06 AM
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I actually DO NOT disagree with you. I checked out femaledatingstrategy yesterday and read through a couple of posts. What i found interesting was that it is EXACTLY how I was raised to view and treat woman. Then something happened....I started actually meeting and going out with them. Turns out, most woman behave more like TRP says and less like FDS says, to my dismay. I had to swallow TRP and learn to be the guy I was raised to believe women didnt want to be with in order to achieve reasonable…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 11:04 AM
1

Nope, we rarely care about your job or how much money you make. There are exceptions, but as others have stated, its more about your effort than anything else.....like you learning computer skills.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 11:24 AM
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Wanting to be better and actually doing things to be better are 2 different things. Most people want the first without doing the second, which is why most people dont actually get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:17 AM
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1) yes, this is manipulation, but he made those decisions of his own volition. Her fault, but his problem. Same goes if this was an older guy and younger girl. 2) age doesnt matter. U can be manipulated by someone younger than you, but again....their fault, your problem. 3) Sure, being a guy, I can say this can happen, I know it coulda happened to me. If the guy has any redpill conditioning (and he should), it wouldnt though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:34 AM
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This is a big part of the reason and guys dont want to talk about because it reeks of insecurity that women will try to shame men for. The more guys you have had sex with: a) the higher the chance that Im not your best lay (and everyone wants to be their SO's best lay). If im not your best lay, odds are you will not be as satisfied as u could be and there's a higher chance that you will go cold (dead bedroom. We ALL know couples that dont have sex anymore and honestly, thats most guys biggest fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:11 AM
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I save every post that has advice I know will come in handy in the future. Im listening to these guys....
/r/askTRP29/10/19 05:24 AM
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Try it and find out. Keep what you read about women here in the back of your mind for the next 3-6 months. See how long it takes until you return.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 05:21 AM
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decent save. See, you still got a shot
/r/askTRP29/10/19 05:06 AM
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Make yourself an attractive target. There are women literally everywhere and each of those women are a viable candidate. On line at the supermarket,on your way to work and pass them by all of the time. When your out doing your own thing (gym, hobby, school, etc) women are there too. The trick is learning to interact with them. Moreso, learning to interact with them to attract their attention. The money, the job, the hobby, the mission.....thats all about of you and shouldnt be about a woman in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 05:01 AM
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If she was 12 and behaving exactly like this, how would u feel? how would u respond? \ Honestly, all of her behavior is inconsequential, meaning, outside of your feelings about you and her interaction, her actions/words dont carry enough weight to effect you, like throwing a rock at a tank (ur the tank). Dunno what TRP would say, but sometimes I gloss right over things they say that I dont care to respond, just make a statement or ask a question immediately after she says something to you, as if…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 10:52 AM
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In the process of doing that as we speak. Whats funny is that girls are usually the ones who help me identify the follies in my upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 05:31 AM
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I like the way you think. This way, every time she asks a question, its time to game her. I have noticed that when certain girls ask me a question, its like they are anticipating "tingles".
/r/askTRP28/10/19 05:04 AM
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yeah, thats what i thought....its a form of preselection. Woman swear they are grossed out by it, but notice how women talk about him and act in his presence.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 04:59 AM
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If she did all of that, your winning, so to speak. Give her a cordial whats up, and freeze her out......unless she comes to you. Tease her and move on when she does. The rumors shes spreading to your friends fall to shit when they see the 2 of you interact and shes doing all of the chasing. Dont let anything she says or does effect you in front of anyone and handle it when your alone. you GOTTA maintain frame if you wanna see this through, whether you want to sleep with her or avoid her.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 04:54 AM
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Tell her u blocked her by mistake....say you meant to do it to someone else who "INSERT LEGITIMENT REASON HERE" to recover and dont do that shit again. Just because ur not fucking her now doesnt mean ur wont be fucking her later. If she contacted you, shes still down to be gamed. Your not out of the running yet....
/r/askTRP28/10/19 04:46 AM
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Shes trying to gain leverage by making you jealous. If you stick to TRP tactics and watch that shit fizzle. I realized that its a common female weapon and if shes trying to wield it against you, its because she is trying to get an emotional response from you......and then she will use it against you. Dont fall for it. Agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 04:41 AM
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Understand that if you give in to your feelings for her as much as you FEEL like you should/want to, she will lose interest, TRUST ME, I literally watch this happen with a plate of mine but due to our extensive history, I can get it back pretty easily when i mess up in that way.....then i have to keep it up to regain the balance of IDGAF and comfort. Not exactly easy to do, but part of the frame is not giving a fuck if she likes it or not.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 04:38 AM
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I see the mentality ur operating under. Thanx for the insight.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 08:05 AM
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and those are the guys you actually like and will go out with/sleep with (not u specifically, as i dont know you, but women) and he wont have to spend a dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 08:30 AM
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And with that said, you just made the date/interaction a monetary transaction. How is this not prostitution? Dont get me wrong, im all for prostitution if thats what you want to do. Do you and dont hurt nobody. But prostitution nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 08:28 AM
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Then why go at all? Not blaming you (though i do appreciate that you took responsibility for your part in this), but I would imagine you (or I) would avoid those situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 08:19 AM
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to be honest, that people pleasing behavior is annoying, especially when woman do it because it gives us guys a false sense of the situation. I would rather you say no when you mean it than to say yes when you dont mean it. At least then I can approach this are 2 consenting adults and not 1 adult (me) and someone who looks like an adult, but I have to treat like a child I have to baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 08:06 AM
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Im starting to apply this mentality, shes not worth the time if shes not enthusiastic about it. Sooner or later shes going to resent doing what she was "pressured" into.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 07:51 AM
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and what happens if that doesnt work?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 07:40 AM
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I find it interesting that in #3, you compared a guy choosing to be homosexual to a woman choosing to be with a guy she doesnt really like. Not sure how those 2 are comparable. We could challenge lonely men to turn into homosexuals to increase their odds of finding a partner or casual sex, but they do not want men and this is an absurd solution, but this is just as absurd as telling women to date undesirable men. #4 was about woman having the right to complain about their position, then doesnt t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 07:33 AM
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me neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 10:12 AM
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not true, As scary as it sounds, I know a guy whos married a decade yet, never had sex with his wife despite his attempts. Too much of a wuss to look elsewhere or break up. Didnt believe it myself until he told me and I looked at him the the misses interact with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 10:07 AM
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next because she cant keep her story straight. I usually dont tell girls why they were nexted, but I would in this case and I would stick to it. Shes gonna deny it but just say no thanks and keep her nexted.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 11:16 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/ Here is the answer to all your questions. One black guy to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:18 AM
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You should be trying to sleep with other girls, you should at least be flirting with any broad that comes your way, just to keep your game up. If your gf cheats, you know you have plenty of other options, all her cheating did was free up your time to really sleep with other girls. Also, if you sleep with someone else, you will feel less hurt when/if she does. You will just chalk it up to karma and move on.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 08:51 AM
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Well, because I am well aware of why I refer to it as plate spinning and I know it doesnt come from a place of negativity, I am OK with you being wrong, especially since you didnt bother to understand beyond your own knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:30 AM
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So, because I refer to casually dating multiple women at once as "spinning plates", I'm dehumanizing women and it's for ego reasons. Funny how you decided my reasoning for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:13 PM
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Ah, got it. Thanx
/r/askTRP17/10/19 11:07 AM
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U don't decide when you hungry, but u do decide when you eat. Likewise, you don't decide what you have a taste for, but you decide what you consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 09:27 AM
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What could u learn more about? U definately wouldn't learn more about multiple sexual relationships with women from men in LTR, UNLESS those men spun plates at one time. Just because you dont like the terminology doesn't mean there isn't any knowledge to be gained.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:54 AM
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Not true. I use the term plenty and it's called that for a reason....it's not just a random term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:51 AM
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It is, dare I say, sexist for her to assume that women who don't align with her values are defective. Good call purple pill woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:47 AM
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That's a loser mentality. One which will be the reason u (not u specifically) will never have to wonder about buying a Porsche or a Ferrari. Also, plate is not a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:35 AM
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Plate spinners spend very little money on spinning plates because it gets expensive if they did. If she's not gonna spin for cheap, move on because she gonna sap resources and another plate (of equal or similar value) WILL spin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:29 AM
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Creepy isn't a word I'm familiar with outside of communicating with a female, most guys never use that word between ourselves. Rapey fits that description as well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:21 AM
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Well done sir
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:14 AM
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https://youtu.be/28gvMM8KXm4 Fast forward to 1:03 for the relevant part. God bless this man's soul, R.I.P.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:06 AM
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Not true. Plenty of older women who are attractive to men, but those women take alot more care of themselves. Also, we will not want to cheat when ur 30, we will always WANT to cheat, but will we?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:59 AM
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I have found that the more of a "bitch" a girl behaves, the more submissive they tend to be, it all comes down to (as usual) how you make them feel. The "bitch" attitude tends to be a front.....just a wall that needs to be scaled and they are really just waiting for someone to climb it and avoid all of the traps she put in place. If u can make it over that "wall" and remind her that u can do that whenever you want, your in. And when your in, it's like having a tiger that bares its teeth at every…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:24 AM
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Links are broken
/r/askTRP17/10/19 07:01 AM
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I like the honesty here
/r/askTRP17/10/19 07:00 AM
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I don't think it's intentionally manipulative, except for when they actually Do it to be manipulative, which I don't think is always the case. I think they say it genuinely wanting to "talk about something". I don't think they do it with the intention of causing us to second guess ourselves. I think it manipulates any guy who seeks her validation into thinking he did something wrong and he starts second guessing himself. I still believe it's a shit test of sorts.....like if u don't let if phase …
/r/askTRP17/10/19 06:45 AM
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Wait, did u just say that if a woman has sex with an unattractive guy (in her opinion) she has been raped by him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:10 AM
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Because for the majority of our decisions are not based on feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:07 PM
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If men complaining about racism and sexism is sound like whining to you, what do u think feminism is to us?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 12:59 PM
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........so?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 12:00 PM
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Should be, dosent mean it is. Alot of times, the unit is her priority, to the extent that her offspring are cared for. It's one of the reasons TRP is against serious relationships with single moms. The "I'm looking for a father for my son/daughter" women see u as a means to an end, but it's hard to discern that in most situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:10 AM
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Very true. Her kids are the most important thing to her, even if she married to the father....imagine if he's not the father. I don't blame her because her kids should be her main priority, but if I don't blame her, she can't blame me for not wanting to get involved in being the third wheel meal ticket.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:44 AM
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That's true. Damn near every single mom I know swears the guy changed when they had kids, but honestly, the guy was like that before kids were involved, the women never paid attention, or didn't care until a child was around....and then, it's the guy that's irresponsible...... repugnant!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:39 AM
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Yes. Not to them though because their kids are usually the best thing that's happened to them and to believe that having the "best thing that happened to them" makes them less desirable is insulting to them. I dunno if they genuinely believe it doesn't or they refuse to admit this because society lies to them and because "it takes a real man to raise another man's child" horseshit, but I never get a good response when talking objectively about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:29 AM
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Mine ltr got better as I became dominant. Didn't know it was a thing girls liked until TRP. Now that I'm more dominant, every girl I come across responds more positively to me. LTR swears shes not submissive and the very next thing out of her mouth will be something putting me in the decision making/dominant role. Even girls who were previously more dominant around me have responded to my dominance, which tells me I'm doing something right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:20 AM
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Not true, I'm not near that percentage admittedly and I see IOIs often. Just today, an older chick was staring at me while walking through the park. She was with another girl and when she saw me looking directly at her, she kept eye contact until I broke it. If I was actually attracted to her, maybe I would have approached her, but I was busy. Then again, it could have been because I was holding a sword in my hand, but ....assume attractiion, right?
/r/askTRP14/10/19 05:44 AM
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Boy or girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:59 PM
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I'm not even into chocking, but I do it if a girl request it. Doesn't take away from me or the experience, so if that's what she needs to get off ..... Furthermore, I think the anger guys exhibit is due to the fact that we were sold a lie by society, our parents, the media (not their job to steer us in the right direction though) and everyone else about how to make ourselves attractive to women. We watch some guys succeed with women and then are told (by women) that it's not what they want all w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:07 PM
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Ok, I can get behind u on that to a degree. Im from NYC and J.Lo isn't special here, PLENTY of girls from the Bronx will give J.LO a run for her money (her hometown). In terms of looks, she's not that impressive outside of the fact that she takes care of herself. And with that said, I date girls who were below an 8 as well as 8s and above. I think that depends on your own smv as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 11:44 AM
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That's cuz it makes them look lazy, which further makes them insecure. As guys, we know that we do 80% of the work during sex so unless a girl has used a strap on, they have no idea what it takes to pound them to their satisfaction. Those abs do more than make u look good. Most girls don't understand because they don't have to.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 05:13 AM
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I would tell her that u agree that getting tested before hand is a good idea because u don't want to catch anything from her either. If her response is the dame, tell her that it only takes one partner. I would go get tested and not mention it again....soft next....until she brings it up again ( to see how interested she is)....hell, I wouldn't even contact her once I got tested. Soft next until she shows interest again. Either she's with it (and she's serious about the test) or she ain't ( and …
/r/askTRP11/10/19 05:04 AM
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What exactly is an 8? Is an 8 to one guy and 8 to every guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 01:03 PM
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Dont
/r/askTRP09/10/19 12:31 PM
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But how many of them have been trained to fight. Physical fitness lends itself to fighting ability. Training in anything increases your odds significantly in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 01:47 PM
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Poor strategy on the little guys part. Fighting is 50% skill and 50% luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 01:45 PM
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No, but smaller people do have a lower center of gravity that, if learned to use, can be very effective against larger people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 01:43 PM
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Ahh, perhaps I misunderstood u. Apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 11:07 AM
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It took alot of practice ( still going) and honestly, I learned alot of it from her. She didn't exactly tell me what to do, but I was able to figure alot of it out by recalibrating myself to what she responded to and alot of STFU (TRP advise before I knew what TRP was). Best tool in my toolbox. Keeps u looking alpha. If nothing else, it prevents you from looking beta with the right body language.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 08:16 AM
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If he's creepy. Not only that, at 30, I'm way better practiced at talking to 20 year olds because I have been doing it for more than a decade. Sometimes, I know exactly how the conversation is gonna go purely because a hit ton of conversations have gone that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:54 AM
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He wasn't good enough for her....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:47 AM
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Then it's a low risk investment to invest in maternity leave and a high risk investment to invest in young men, due to the nature of ur industry. So they go with what's in their best interest. It's usually the other way around but there are always exceptions to the rule and this is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:44 AM
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Had a plate who would do this to me just to get a reaction (admittedly). When I didn't seem phased, she got upset. Said it was a complete mindfuck, which got her wet just from the thought of me not reacting like I cared (again, admittedly).
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:39 AM
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PERFECT! On so many levels.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:34 AM
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SMV is all about perception, so maybe they r just perceiving you as higher SMV. Keep doing what ur doing and don't let on that ur market value isn't as high as they think.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:29 AM
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They will try, but if u maintain ur frame and follow redpill she will fall in line.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:27 AM
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Because they go into competition mode just because they saw a good looking girl standing next to u on a crowded train, so they think we operate like that too. And to be fair, that works on plenty of guys, just not the ones they actually want because odds are, those guys have enough options to not act out of fear (or scarcity mentality, if u will). I jest, but honestly, it's think they got it from another woman, in a magazine, online or in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:14 AM
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And that is exactly what I mean. U further expressed what u wanted me to understand because I originally didn't "get it". When women flirt, their "first move" is usually something no one picks up on. If they want it to be understood as flirting, it is encumbent on them to further express what they want men to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:07 AM
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No it's hard, even if u throw away the tv. And u have 18 yrs of it. Terrible 2s, hormonal teenage years, etc. It's hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 07:36 PM
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Huh? I don't understand what u mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 07:34 PM
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Well, OP didn't ask about statistical proof or objectiviy. It was specifically about experience and preference, which is nothing more than anecdotal anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 01:11 PM
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There is actually a mathematical formula for what is considered beautiful. So technically, it a subconscious thing completely out of our control. Furthermore, just like women don't decide what traits they find attractive, men don't decide what is beautiful. It's completely subconscious for both sexes. We don't choose what we like, we like what we like
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 01:02 PM
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It may be fair, but it's a waste of time and energy....for everyone, especially the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:58 PM
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It may not be fair to the employee, but look at it from the employer side.....why would they I nveat more in someone who does less? Ur right, it is a consequence, but it's not of being a mom, it's of being less of a investment risk. I do t see how this is not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:56 PM
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It's the truth regardless of whether u want to hear it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:23 AM
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I laugh everytime someone (always a woman) says " I didn't think it would be this hard..."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:21 AM
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I find women to be more hypocritical then men due to their "feelings".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:12 AM
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If I want to communicate something to someone and they don't understand, isn't the burden on me to help them understand by further expressing and explaining? I mean, IF I did want to be understood. Girls suck at communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 10:52 AM
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But she did make the first move. She looked at him with "ask me out" in her eyes and he didn't see it. I'm pretty sure she mentioned another guy that was interested in her, to motivate him to ask her out also. And last but not least, she wore his favorite color lipstick and eye shadow so that when he looked at her, he would profess his undying love for her. What do u mean she didn't make the first move?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 10:48 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 10:42 AM
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Because they don't want to work out. I agree with them that how a guy looks doesn't matter, but how you look says alot about you. Girls like muscles, they are hardwired to (not all, but damn near) because it is a display of strength which is a display of power. What I think they mean is that how we shouldn't put as much emphasis on our looks as women do because it's not what they are mainly attracted to us for. Women are better looking than men by design, it's why we like them. They like us beca…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:01 PM
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Agreed. U can decide not to use past behaviors as an prediction of future behaviors, but that's not being realistic. Assuming past behaviors are a 100% predictor of future behavior is equally not being realistic. The answer I land on is: Make your prejudgements, but be open to the fact that you could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:58 PM
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No it ain't, women date older guys all of the time. And yeah, older guys are usually more attractive to women IF they have spent their time wisely. In their 30's, they are physically more fit, more financially stable, have more character and better equip when talking to women simply because they have spent time getting better at doing so. Women might not be as physically attracted to an older man, but the older guy who spent his time getting better wins over the physically attractive guy most of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:54 PM
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True, I guess I should have used the word judge.....ok, let's try again. Based on OP logic, u can't judge what a man is like based on how he has treated women (that includes rape, physical, verbal, mental abuse) In the past. But then, people can judge whatever they want...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:22 PM
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If she's getting beaten, it's because she allows him to....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:15 PM
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I agree with you here. A woman will treat a man she likes and respects different than a guy she just respects. And this is why TRP exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:13 PM
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Wait, so if one person A cheats on person B, it's person B'e fault? I agree B probably didn't help the situation, but it was completely A choice, and as such, her fault for cheating. By the same logic, it can also be argued that person A picked a partner who didn't "do it for them sexually" and as such, it's person A's fault. So if I cheat on my gf, it's her fault because she didn't inspire me not to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:10 PM
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I don't totally disagree with you on that, but...... ...based on that statement, women shouldn't complain about how they are treated by men because that's the behavior they inspire.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:05 PM
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How u treat someone is completely your choice, unless you have poor impulse control or are an unlearned child and therefore are not responsible for your actions. So basically she (cuz the OP was about how a woman behaves) should walk all over him because he allows her to? By that same logic a guy (cuz now I'm equating the same behavior to a man) who beats his significant other should continue because she allows him to beat her by not setting boundaries.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:38 PM
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Fairly certain both guys have plenty of plates and their SO know what the deal is. Neither of those broads are getting better, so be the main chick and appreciate the fact that he puts her first and keeps everything else out of sight. Had a plate explain this to me. She said she needs to maintain the appearance that she is the only girl even though she and I know that she isn't. That she would respect my time with other girls so long as she comes first and that I don't flaunt other girls in fron…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 04:45 PM
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Break his ankle. Use a bat. Where I'm from, people have gotten shot for less.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 04:02 PM
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And then Anthony Bourdain killed himself admittedly due to Asia Argento. Brad Pitt has a complete mess on his hands with Angelina and the kids (we all say that in the tabloid articles posted for years). Half of your examples don't support your statement. It's not that a woman has to be a virgin, but the theory is that the more partners a woman has, the harder it is for your relationship with her to succeed. I dunno how true it is and a girl's n count has never been an issue to me because I prefe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 09:55 AM
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Why don't women just buy men's razors then? And my gf uses my aintperspirants whenever she wants ( I use degree). Haircuts r crazy though. According to my gf, it's due to hair length and hairstylists. I offer to cut her hair with scissors to shorten it before the stylist to lower the price, but she says no.....go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:26 AM
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Unless it's part of your uniform, women don't have to wear make up, they chose too ( and I appreciate it). They make a conscious choice to wear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:11 AM
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There is a level of intimacy that is automatic with sex because you are sharing a part of yourself with someone that u don't share with alot of people....even people u have known ur entire life. During sex, you are revealing a part of yourself to another person of ur choosing, a part of yourself that you heavily guard with extreme prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:27 AM
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Yeah, no that's wrong. Ur telling me I don't want the mass majority of woman because of cultural expectations? What cultural expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:14 AM
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I had a girl get upset when I referred to her as a woman, she said it "felt" lik I was calling her old. Plus, girl is easier to say. Also, I tend to consider any female my age or younger, as a girl, regardless of how old I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 02:23 PM
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They can't because attraction is not negotiable. In my experience, those masculine traits that women find desirable are the traits that get them going sexually, for whatever reason. They need this to genuinely want to have sex with us. It's not a choice. It's like when us guys see a beautiful woman. It's not our decision to want to fuck her, that decision is made before we finish looking at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 01:29 PM
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So am I. U have to intake more calorie....that was my problem for years. Try a protein shake once or twice a day. The one I use is 1200 calories in 24 oz of water. It takes 2 scoops for that, so I do 1 scoop twice a day in 12 oz of water each. Combine that with eating 3 meals a day and u will see a difference. I'm getting comments from people who are me regularly.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:37 AM
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My goal is mass. I'm fairly strong for my size due to years of working out and incorrect calorie intake (learning as I go) so I tried alot of exercises that I don't do anymore. I guess this one is worth a revisit but again, mass is my goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/19 02:34 AM
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I get what your saying but I tend to use chit chat to further escalate. True you can't fuck her over the phone, but I have fucked due to my txting game. I have gotten laid more time over txt than cold approach. So I don't think it's a hard rule. I also dont think OP should follow my advice on this one though, cuz it seems u have the better plan.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:31 AM
1

I don't include overhear press in my work out because I have repeatedly injured my shoulder in the past. I'm pretty sure I was doing it incorrectly, but everything is trial and error in the gym, right. Is this exercise really necessary? I do incline bench press and shoulder press regularly and quite a few of the other exercises. I will implement it in my workout if u guys suggest it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/19 10:26 AM
1

yep, im my case, she is e.g.1
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:17 AM
1

I mean, you should be the one who decides if the baby is born because its your body and you have to go through with it.....if you want to. But just like you can opt to not go through with it regardless of my wishes, i should be able to opt to not be involved regardless of your wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 11:36 AM
1

"Usually a boy who makes you feel special. He makes you feel like you are the only girl in his life, when really you are just one in 100. They flirt with other people, not just you. They talk to you all day, then the next day they ignore you. They send you mixed messages, and your not sure whether he likes you or not? You can't keep your mind off him, even though you know your nothing to him." None of those actions means a guy is a player, what is means is that the girl (or guy) is caught up emo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 11:22 AM
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From my understanding, its from a lack of dominance and masculinity it self. One girl specifically told me that she becomes the dominant one in all but 1 of her relationships because the guys get comfortable and stop putting in work. They allow her to lead and take responsibility for the relationship. Basically, she becomes their mother, which she despises. She cant submit because they dont give her someone to submit to, which she made a point to say. Eventually, because shes the one handing mos…
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:07 AM
1

No it is not, look up the word. It has a negative connotation about being dishonest, but just because you are a player doesnt make u dishonest. Now, there are plenty of dishonest players, I will agree with you on that. That would be like saying that a girl who has had well off/rich bfs is a gold digger. A fair assumption, but not exactly true. When a girl asks or says that im a "player", I know what she is asking. Now I may have had numerous casual sexual partners, but im up front about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 10:46 AM
1

Well, what about the highly above average with corrupted morals? Or what about slighty above average with a well placed sense of morals? Players get a bad rap just like sluts do. Just because someone is a player doesnt mean he (they) are doing anything immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 10:04 AM
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everything i say is a generalization so there will always be a "not me" (i did the same thing in my comments about sluts) but the truth of the matter is that players are better at this than the average guy because they have much more practice, which means alot more success and waaay more failures. And that disgust you talk about? Yeah, there are plenty of guys who have "done" this enough times to slip below your radar or lead you to a different feeling altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 09:50 AM
1

Very. Gotta know when to hold them, and know when to fold them as the song says.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 05:50 AM
1

lmao yeah, key word being appropriate. Sometimes, im not sure if i should bother getting upset or chill out.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 05:49 AM
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See, i dont think promiscuity is bad for either sex, but I do agree with OP statement. Being a player (for lack of a better term) is hard while being a slut (again, for lack of a better term, im pro-slut) is easy. You dont get points for taking the easy road because of exactly that, ITS EASY. This is why men look at sluts with disdain (generaizing), they are taking the easy way out of things. Its also why women (secretly) admire players. If your a player, you are successful with women (for bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:45 AM
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yeah, that goes for both positive (branch swinging for example) or negative, but i think negative emotions have a stronger effect. Its a hard cycle to break. I look at each struggle as an opportunity to get stronger, because the negative thoughts never stop creeping in, we just get better at overcoming them. But you have to let yourself feel them without giving in to them just because. You would be surprised at how much girls gush over having control over your emotions because they simply cant o…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 05:28 AM
1

Girls call guys their "best friends" all of the time, it could mean a few things but it could definately be a red flag. I have been the "best friend" a few times. While I wouldnt next them just for that, I would keep an eye on her behavior towards him. Honestly, I would wait till her red flag behavior rears its ugly head and let that be the reason you move on. It will happen eventually and if not, well, i might have something worth paying attention to. my 2 cents anyway.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 05:22 AM
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Emotions are a weakness when you let them consume you and you do negative things as a result of them. They are not bad in and of themselves, but can result in bad things. Gain control over your emotions to the effect that, you feel them, but are not run by them.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 05:11 AM
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Maybe so, but just like he should have chose to have slept with a pro-choice woman, she should have chose to sleep with a "I will let you decide the future of OUR lives" man. In the current climate, it seems that women are afforded a choice in this matter, while men are afforded a consequence. Could this possibly be because men are usually the aggressors and as such, getting picked up, liking a guy, and having sex with him means that all of these things happened against her better judgement, as …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:08 AM
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yep, this is what i was getting to. It happens and takes a while before people do something about it, if at all. But they stay for a while, hoping they can make it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 10:31 AM
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deadbedrooms are relationships where they didnt have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 08:09 AM
1

I think its the sense of accomplishment that comes from meeting a challenge. A challenge causes you to grow as a person. The phrase "nothing worth having comes easy" explains this perfectly. The greater the challenge, the more prestige is associated with conquering it. You appreciate something more when you work hard for it because you have earned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 06:33 AM
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I think it because a challenge causes you to grow. When something challenges you, a part of you that feels inadequate....like your not good enough, but with enough work, u can meet that challenge and earned whatever it is that comes with it. Your a just a little better than you were before. Next time that situation presents itself, you will know what to do because you know you are capable. Its similar to working out. There is a sense of satisfaction you get when you accomplish something you had …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 06:24 AM
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thank u. Dunno what the fuck this question is about.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 06:04 AM
1

Uh huh, until their are children involved and then a man's presence is pretty much necessary. "it takes a real man to raise's another mans's child" didnt come out of nowhere. It came from women thinking they didnt need a man to raise a child (and really, they dont, much like men dont need women to raise a child either) until they have a child and realize how valuable a man is. And trust me, i know plenty of single mothers and it never fails. It's always "i dont need a man to take care of my chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:26 AM
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But he shouldnt be forced too. It takes 2 people to agree to have sex (otherwise, its rape), but for some reason, it takes 1 person to decide the future of 3 people? repugnant
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 05:38 AM
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Knew about him as a comedian for years. It wasn't until I stumbled upon the black Phillip show, after he died that I began to see the light. He showed me the path to TRP. Before that, I was shooting in the dark, hoping to hit something.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:44 AM
1

It all came from sun tzu. Don't waste time and energy on things that won't get u anything. Paraphrasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 07:54 PM
1

No, not anymore. Not worth the aggravation. Plus it puts me in a defensive mood and I can't game women as well, so it's inefficient to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 05:46 PM
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U sir, took the word right out of my soul. I used to be that guy. I don't think anyone here understands that this is the answer right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 03:09 PM
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Lmao because of my job, yeah I do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 03:04 PM
1

Agreed. Shorter guys are at a bit of a disadvantage, but only as much as we make it and no one asked her anyway.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:23 PM
1

I think muscles give the perception of strength and in turn, power. Also, guys are more confident and appear more masculine when they are more muscular and working out boosts ur self esteem. So all in all, yeah, I think women prefer a guy who is a bit muscular.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:23 PM
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I know where he gets it from, its from hearing all his life and online that girls want a tall guy. That all depends on how he percieves his height, much like you. There will be girls that are turned off by out height, but most girls are shorter than us. The whole height thing is so she feels safe and protected by you. Its also cuz most short guys are self conscious about it or dont know how to hold frame around taller guys.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:53 AM
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Find another "Uni" t go to. Like anything else, if 1 girl isnt interested, another 1 will be. Keep approaching though, that experience will serve u will when u go somewhere else.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:00 AM
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Girls say the damnedest things....... 1) I dunno what she looks like, but i do know that ur constant improvement is getting to her because it makes her feel like the lazy sack she probably is (assuming based on most women). 2) Could be her way of manipulating u into thinking "she like me just the way I am....she special." 3) It could even be that shes being honest and doesnt like too much muscle. That could be the MO of the last guy and shes trying to avoid the same mistake. Either way, its ur c…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 09:56 AM
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High school? I say shit all over where u eat. ur young.....u can recover from anything that happens in this stage of ur life. Learning is the most important part and this is the perfect place for that. Sidebar the shit out of urself and apply what ur getting from there. Not everything there applies to every situation in life but with trial and error, u will see what works all the time, what works form u and what doesnt work at all.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 09:51 AM
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Nope, just another SHI TEST. In fact, because ur below average height, women will assume your self conscious about it (cuz if it mattered to guys, they would be) and attack it, to test ur frame. You have let it seep in and become part of your frame. I know this because im 5'7 and have to purge that thought every so often. Women are way more self conscious then we are so their issue with height is: 1) due to how she feels others will look at u 2 & 2) her problem, not urs. Look at it this way, ur …
/r/askTRP13/09/19 09:48 AM
1

this sounds about right
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 06:47 AM
2

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 06:35 AM
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sex is never worth the wait, its just sex. Feels just as good if it was the first day or the 365th day. If she makes u wait, shes not feeling you enough. If shes feeling u enough and u make her wait, she will find someone else.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 06:33 AM
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Its not really money that attracts girls (unless shes a gold digger), its the character of the guy who has the money. That guy is good looking because he can afford expensive clothes, haircuts, etc. Hes powerful because he can throw is money around and get shit done. Hes has abundance mentality because he knows he has the money to buy whatever he wants. His money makes him confident. So women are attracted to him. Same goes with status. Its the confidence that he has due to his money and status …
/r/askTRP13/09/19 06:28 AM
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yeah, theres alot of info in there but i found there was 2 problems: 1) It kept me in my head for quite a while. Now, i read it before i even tasted TRP and i probably wouldnt have read it if i met them in the reverse order. 2) its pretty abstract. It has stories of seduction being applied, and maybe im kinda stupid, but it took a while for me to actually understand it. It has alot of insight, but if your a beginner, there is alot better resources for you for now. But thats just my take.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 06:11 AM
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Yeah, I think that would start my grinding my gears as well, but here's how I explained it to her:. I'm the best thing that's every happened to u (cocky, I know) so if those guys attention is more important than mine, go right on ahead.....". I will just replace her ASAP. I know I can get another girl of equal or higher value than her, I'm not losing out on anything here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 01:04 PM
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OP didn't mention internet feminist, he mentioned feminist as a whole. And the reason being is that most women are feminist so it would be wise to listen to their opinions. Except it's actually not wise because their perspective is just that, their perspective. They have no idea what it's like being a guy. No woman does. It wasn't until TRP that said "if u wanna learn how to catch fish, don't ask a fish, ask a fisherman" that I, and I would imagine most poorly advised men, "fish" give aweful adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:58 PM
1

imagine playing Monopoly and finding out half way through that the rules u we're playing by aren't the rules at all. Now u still don't know what the rules are, but u do know that they are wrong because u have been losing the entire game. Eventually u find the rule book and there are pages ripped out but, that's all u have so fuck it. So, u start to look at the rule book, u start to realize why u have been losing all this time. Oh, and the game is timed and u don't know how much time u have left.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:49 PM
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I don't mind at all, in fact, I'm more concerned with what she does in that situation because if she's a attractive as I know she is, male attention is inevitable. As long as my attention is waaaay more important to her than anyone elses, I guess im good. Dunno if I'm explaining myself thoroughly enough, but feel free to ask for more clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:36 PM
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unless u made it look easy, I would have made the same (or similar) comment, male or female because that probably to a hell of alot of work. Can u truely say u understood exactly what he meant by that comment? I can think of a few different ways I could have meant that.....not all of them are negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 10:41 AM
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Funny, it didn't seem cruely and pointlessly mean for her to completely ignore me at the time. So now I'm suppose to feel bad for her poor judgement? And the only reason I tease her about it is because she has no answer as to why she did it. Just shrugs her shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 10:29 AM
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I dont percieve any bitterness in OP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 10:50 AM
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Just because shes in ur head, doesnt mean u have to sit there with it. I made a plate of a girl i had a crush on for years. I even told her how i felt. Never stopped me from pursuing other girls. In fact, it made it easier to get rejected and not "give a fuck". Even got into a ltr and my former crush is my current plate and knows about my ltr. u cant control how you feel, but u can control what u do as a result of how u feel.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 10:40 AM
1

"its fine......."
/r/askTRP11/09/19 10:36 AM
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"u know whats rude? telling someone that they are rude" watch the hamster wheel spin
/r/askTRP11/09/19 10:34 AM
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yeah, its true. That fragile male ego thing? Its only fragile when its based on nothing substantial. Most women's egos are based off of male validation or the feminist ideology.....none of which are substantial. Tell a woman that she isnt beautiful and amazing and watch how they respond.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 10:33 AM
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I wouldnt take that to heart. My gf always told me she loved guys with accents, which I have absolutely none. She said IF she was single. if she was single, she would have a different perspective i would assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 10:26 AM
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It will be harder than you were accustomed to. If your close to what you were before, then it wouldnt be that much harder for u now. The baby will make things interesting and age is certainly a factor, but that depend on how those years have treated you....rather how u treated urself those years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 10:23 AM
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yeah, the prime motivator for guys are looks and sex. sure, many things can make you more attractive, but it comes down to looks/sex appeal. For men, the decision of whether or not we would sleep with you is made before we finish looking at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 10:19 AM
1

ur first 2 sentences made me laugh very hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 10:15 AM
1

Not true. For every decade your body is a "certain way" it becomes harder and harder to change it. The older you are, the harder it is to lose weight if you have been around that weight for more years than not. Likewise, its hard for older people to put on muscle as their bodies arent used to having.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 10:14 AM
1

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 10:08 AM
1

No, women (in general) already does that when women complain that guys prefer "skinny little things" as opposed to a "big, beautiful woman" or the more modest girls being upset with the "party girls". So basically, the ones complaining are the ones who arent getting the results they want , mostly the ones who refuse to do whats necessary to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 10:06 AM
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Thats funny because the first time i met my gf, she literally blew me off. I accompanied a mutual friend of ours to meet up and give something to her. He didnt introduce me, so i took it upon myself to say hi. She looked me in the eye, looked me up and down, turned her head and proceeded to talk to my friend as if I didnt exist. Now, i couldnt beat her off with stick. However, she swears she doesnt remember the incident nor cant she, for the life of her, understand why she would ever do that to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:58 AM
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So basically, this story doesnt apply. Not trying to be mean because Im glad you figured it out. My gf was a late bloomer as well (went from "body of a 12 year old boy" to "body of a pornstar" over the summer, and before i met her) except she never really learned how to dress, but decided tank top and tight jeans was an easy go to. Shes still awkward sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:49 AM
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Very true. Men may become physically less attractive as they get older, but much older. As men get older, we have the potential to be more experienced, more educated, more financially stable, better looking through working out (body building takes years) and access to better clothes and haircuts, have more personality and are more confident in ourselves. All things that women desire in men. All things that require time to aquire. Women, on the other hand, only have to wait until puberty to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:42 AM
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yeah, but she still wants one. And in my experience its hard for them to keep that man if hes of any quality. Highly independent woman tend to have the "i dont need a man" attitude that soon has her single again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:31 AM
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Im not understanding. Are u saying he was sexist for offering to help you because u are a women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:23 AM
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Nice. I was taking a looooong time trying to put this to words, but u summed it up beautifully.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:13 AM
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cuz its not important to me how tall the girl is, unless shes on her knees...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:08 AM
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in a calm manner and a shit eating grin that says "u r completely irrelevent to me, but im gonna us this to entertain me and learn u something
/r/askTRP11/09/19 09:04 AM
1

The guys I knew who wanted to settle down early didnt have much success with women where as the guys who did have much success with women didnt want to settle down early. I think it comes down to experience. If you are successful with women early in life, you are more aware of what is expected and if you want that life. If you are not successful with women early in life, you will think you know what is expected of you and you think you want that life. At least, thats what i have noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 07:57 AM
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yes, and thats why men who sleep around are praised in society and women who sleep around are considered sluts (in the bad way, not the good way. I love me a slut). For a woman, its easy to sleep around, for a guy, it is not. It takes work and skill and once you aquire those skills, your not gonna hang them up that easily. Those men are far and few in between AND im willing to bet that they have weaknesses all over them. No one is that perfect and if they were, they would be arrogance about it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 05:28 AM
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True. I would bet my left nut that neither my plate or my ltr love me unconditionally, that if i wasnt the man that I am TODAY, they wouldnt wanna be near me, let alone love me. Their actions over the years have proven that time and time again. And I have known both of these women for more than a decade. Sure, theres a level of unconditional love, but that love is equivalent to seeing a strange child skinning their knee.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 05:13 AM
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set a goal and reach it. Start small and work your way up to bigger goals. The more you accomplish, the better you will feel about urself and the more capable you will feel. The more capable you feel, the more you will want to do because you have more confidence in yourself.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:44 AM
1

Dont enter her frame. If you feel it was trivial, it was trivial. AND DONT LET HER TEARS AND SADNESS SWAY YOU. Women are sad and cry all the time, for trivial reasons that even they know are trivial. Either she will come back around or she wont and she did you a favor.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:41 AM
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"women are born rich, men are born poor, in that, everything men want from a woman, she already has at birth while everything women want from a man, he has to go out and get for himself." I think women know (subconsciously) that in order for them to be attracted to us, in order for them to get "those feelings", they have to feel like we are "better than them" in a sense. This leads them to want to be liked by the us and all of the "beta" behaviors that women exhibit. Its funny how as men we are …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 11:38 AM
3

had to explain this to a friend yesterday. Men take care of women and children. women take care of children. children take care of themselves (not even pets).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 10:44 AM
2

I maintained tension in my ltr for more than a decade. Without writting an essay, heres what I did. You have to be your own man. Whoever you were before you met her has to always be around. If you read the side bare or read enough posts, you would notice that RP has your basic blueprint. That being said, make sure that sex is a pretty normal thing in your life. Not just having it, but talking about it, making jokes, watching porn without actually ingaging in sex. Complimenting her sexually (look…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 11:03 AM
2

Stoicism is to keep a handle on your emotions. Positive emotions are fine, its the negative emotions that need stoicism. And the stoicism is really so that you dont over react emotionally.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:55 AM
1

I can easily pose you the same question. What exactly do women bring to the table? Here's an actual answer: Because, despite what the media says and how alot of women FEEL, most women (especially once that have children in my experience) KNOW exactly how what a man brings to the table. I agree that feminism and technology has made male roles obsolete, but most women dont want to fill "men's roles" in society, except calling the shots (and everyone wants to call the shots). My gf can put together…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 10:51 AM
1

you say "no" and change the subject.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 07:36 AM
1

Handling her attitude is probably foreplay for her and shit test and the guys that can handle that will be able to hand her when she gets out of line, which is what shes looking for. Ur gonna need a pretty solid frame in which your dominance is always present and it is always gonna be tested by her words and moods. Dont let them sway you at all and she will think you are the shit. Remember, dominance, not control.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 07:20 AM
0

Yes we do, but its not that simple. We all know sex is fun. Sex with a "slut" is ultimate form of sex for guys. All guys know that girls have a slutty side to them.....the side of her that is so enamored by him that she doesnt know the word "no"......the side to them that she expresses when shes with a guy she genuinely likes and is attracted to and cant help but submit to....a guy she wants to be a total slut for to show how much she likes him. All guys also know that a girl will have the kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 09:55 AM
1

There was nobody, it was a shit test to see how you would respond.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 08:38 AM
2

In my experience, the response is a shit test....hell, her attitude is a shit test. The purpose is to weed out the beta in guys by getting under your skin and cause you to break frame or she is naturally more aggressive/dominant than most girls around. She sounds like the type of girl who has been told shes a bitch and uses that to keep "guys who cant handle her" at bay, but its really a 24/7 shit test on autopilot. Maintain frame and respond with dominance and she will get wet and slip into sub…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 08:37 AM
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she matched with you just to say "you arent gonna get any real matches" ? yeah, shit test. Why else would she waste her time? She could have easily spent that time matching with guys shes attracted to but she choose to spend it on something that doesnt peak her interest? Bullshit. Shes probably bored (and as such, boring) or doesnt know how to open.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:58 AM
3

You usually have to do something that requires alot of/hard work to gain a mans respect. Im sure we (or most) of us respect Selena Williams for her tennis skills (ignoring that incident where she lost to a man and had a fit....im not very familiar with the incident any further than i mentioned). Even if she cant beat a man pro male at pro tennis, most of us dont hold her to that level for us to respect her. Most women dont do anything worth respecting by men's standards. Sleeping around for a wo…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:51 AM
2

yeah, he is how i got here.....RIP
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:18 AM
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yeah, some of that guys advice rubs me the wrong way. He has some good points though, and im still new to TRP so its a matter of weeding out whats bullshit and whats actually true
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:09 AM
2

Yeah, realize lifting is a life long habit, its gonna take a few years to get where you want to be, and where you want to be will fluctuate as you progress. Lower back pain can hinder deadlifts and squats if ur lower back isnt strong enough (and most peoples arent) and you wont be able to lift heavy enough weight to see any gains. I used this exercise to increase lower back strength. https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&source=images&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjNreKUg7fkAhVkdt8KHebMCkkQjhx6BAgBEAI…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:07 AM
1

think it all comes down to 2 things. The females intentions and what buttons the guy is able to push. If he pushes her sexual buttons, she may response in kind and do sexual things with him that she didn't intend to do. I think that's how girls (and please ladies correct me if I'm wrong) end up doing things they didn't intend to do because neither men or women are immune to their emotions getting the better of them. I think most girls feel more comfortable having sex in relationships because guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:03 PM
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When they feel entitled to things they didn't put (adequate) effort into gaining (nice body, well paying job, respect, people to be nice to them, attention). I have no problem with women using their femininity to get things for themselves, but expecting something to be done for them because they are a girl is disgusting and lazy. I lose even more respect when they are genuinely upset that something didn't workout for them just because they are female.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 11:24 AM
5

Start preparing to move out because she will never be ok with this. It's the main reason guys leave the parents house anyway
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:55 AM
3

And if men didn't do it, women would have and we would still be exactly where we are ( relatively). Alot (and I mean alot) of trial and error. Alot of terrible decisions. Alot of lives lost. And yet, here we are because "men" did all of that horrible shit. It's what they call a double edges sword, or the phrase "u take the good with the bad". Male aggression is terrible, until it kills that lion that was sizing u up for it's next meal. We are all amazing and aweful. It was men who did all of tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 11:44 AM
1

So she gave an IOI, just wasn't the one u we're expecting.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:55 AM
1

So? That is a response to ur question and her statement, all in one word.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:53 AM
1

Remain single in ur LTR. When ur with her, ur her bf. When ur not with her, ur single. Maintain the life u had before her by continuing to do all the shit u did when u met her. Trade going to game bitches to hanging out and drawing her into ur frame sometimes. Be consistently inconsistent and she will always feel like she had to work for ur time.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:08 AM
2

When u realize that he has no idea how to do turn u on, talk to u, touch you, taste you, have sex with you, deal with ur moods in a way that increases and maintains ur attraction and respect....you will realize why. It took me a while to realize why older guys are attractive to women. It is a bitter pill to swallow before I had the experience. And theres a reasonn why the more girls I sleep with, the more likely I can sleep with another girl. EXPERIENCE. And you don't get that without ALOT of tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 06:49 PM
1

No
/r/askTRP25/08/19 02:14 PM
12

Exactly. I wouldn't say it's disrespectful to u, but childish and reeks of poor communication skills.....typical female bullshit. It's a shit test. I pass by soft nexting her and her poor communication skills. She don't contact you, u don't contact her either......2 more days longer than her actually. And remember, that ur single in the meantime....
/r/askTRP25/08/19 12:09 PM
2

I actually enjoy conversations like this with girls because it just reinforces my frame and TRP.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 11:19 AM
15

That picture explains every question I had about her while reading (and trying to understand) the article.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 11:05 AM
3

If u have ever been rejected, u understand exactly what is being out on the line. Get rejected and then go approach again. U tell me if it's the exact same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:59 AM
1

Are you me? Cuz that is exactly my LTR except she's not sad all of the time.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:30 PM
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I agree. She's and alpha widow and isn't easy to handle, which she admitted herself. When she smells a too much beta, she she starts shit testing automatically. My natural response is to not react and soft next which she, again, admits drives her wild because she feels like I have an owners manual about her (her words). When she explodes, she always crawls back IF I maintain stoicism with enough comfort to show that I care but not enough to submit....and we can end things. I'm pretty sure I'm no…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 12:04 PM
2

Ur too focused on getting bitches. TRP is about becoming the man u wanna be. That guy just happens to be very attractive to women, but they r not his priority. Look at the best version of ur future self. See that guy? Aim to be him, not to get girls.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:45 PM
1

A simple " I'm not" usually does the trick.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:41 PM
1

That's a hilarious analogy
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:36 PM
15

My plate explodes if I don't exhibit possession over her. She says it keeps her feeling wanted but I learned here that it's her way of keeping me emotionally invested in her. So I "claim" her when it comes to me and her but don't hold so tight when she talks about other guys.....THAT gets her mind hamstering all the time.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 12:20 PM
1

Women absolutely make the first move, they r just really shitty at it. Now, I'm quite sure they (I'm generalizing here) feel like what they are doing is enough, but if I (the guy she's "making a move" on) don't pick up on it, then she did a shitty job of communicating her interest. No different than if I'm interested in a girl and (make and actually move) approach and talk to her, if she doesn't pick up that I'm interested, it's my fault because I a shitty job of communicating my interest. Furth…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:12 AM
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I like to tell people the story of how my gf and I first met. The story doesn't paint her in a good light and because of the stark contrast in how she treats me now vs. then, I find it to be a funny story. However, when ever I talk about how I felt during that interaction (never negatively cuz I'm always laughing during the story), she starts crying as though I'm telling a humiliating story about her when this is a humiliating story about me in which she administered the humiliation (doesn't wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 10:32 AM
1

I have cold approached in the pass with success, just not often and I couldn't tell u what I did exactly except approach, flirt, ask for number (should just told her, but I was ignorant at the time) and it all worked out. So I guess there were alot of of things already in place that I didn't have to work through. Basically, I just got lucky.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 04:21 PM
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One is my ltr. the other i think is breaking. she came back twice already but i dunno about this time. Its a toss up in my opinion, it could go either way and u have to be prepared for either
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:16 AM
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Maybe. She may (and dont bet on this) enter your frame and decide she doesnt care for marriage. I have clearly stated to every girl that I will not get married and I have had 2 enter my frame and decide that "they really dont need to be married". I think it depends on how much higher your SMV is than hers. Keep in mind that there are plenty of other guys that will marry her and thers a chance she will be willing to settle for one of them. Heres the catch though, if she does that, shes expecting …
/r/askTRP16/08/19 07:39 AM
1

I like the way u put that. Im pretty sure I have done that before, glad u pointed out the problem with it.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 07:23 AM
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Whenever I read about cold approach, I think "im not ready for that yet" , but then i realized that I have cold approached quite often in the past but I rarely remember them because 1) they never turn out successful and 2) the rejection doesnt stress me out I still rarely do it because i still feel like im not ready, but when I actually do, im not nervous, talk pretty casually and following the rejection doesnt seem to phase me. Its like when I see a girl that im going to cold approach, I can vi…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 07:21 AM
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I struggle with effective maintaining the results of passive dread. Sometimes, doing everything (seemingly) right and other times, i can tell im fucking up all based on her (their) reactions. I started doing this before i found TRP and was surprised when i found out i was mostly in-line with its principles before we (me and TRP) met. Theres still plenty of work to do, but I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. My issue is the way my ltr dresses. She has an amazing body for someone who NEV…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 07:02 AM
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I was raised in church as well and alot of times, its a shit show behind closed doors. First thing to realize is that there are ALOT of people fucking each other in the church, an abundance of infidelity and statutory rape. This may sound extreme, but try escalating with her. In my (limited) experience, most girls have a nympho side to them, it just takes the right guy to coax it out of them. Keep this in mind whenever you see a female (older ones included). Church girls are known for being "not…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 07:10 AM
1

yeah, and my gf prefers guys with accents, which i have absolutely none of. I get what you mean though, I rarely seriously approach women taller than me but it has happened.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 06:34 AM
1

but swears feminism is bullshit
/r/askTRP15/08/19 06:32 AM
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my gf says she will not submit to any man and hates when women are called submissive......while shes getting on her knees.....
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:52 AM
2

But then, all people have the potential to be dangerous as well. Including that statement in the list is like including the statement "all men breathe". Its absolutely true and imagine how long this list would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:50 AM
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Agree. You cannot seduce somone who doesnt want to be seduced. They will see right through it or think their way out of it and the seduction falls apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:40 AM
1

Ur actual height is just fine (taller than me), its ur confidence thats not tall enough.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:59 AM
1

I have no idea what any of u are saying
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:57 AM
1

Yep, on going shit test it appears. Gonna keep happening until he checks her. And even then......
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:55 AM
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do ur thing and dont let their opinions sway you too much, if at all (sometimes u gotta let it sway you to get what u want....SOMETIMES). I would imagine it sucks for them to have to pull hair from their mouth, but its happened to me a few times (girl shaved, but hair was growing back) and it stop me none.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:54 AM
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yeah, this was what I would have done, open her friends, you may have liked one of them more or found out one of them could have been useful for non club situations. Plus, it would show that ur comfortable in your skin no matter the environment or situation.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:51 AM
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It doesnt matter, their opinion of my height (5'7) was not requested or cared for.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:45 AM
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my impression is that its more masculine when there is hair. As a guy, i prefer women to be smooth so i can get all up in their business, but i guess the pubic hair makes them perceive you as more masculine. Its interesting to me when im shoving my cock in their mouth and they have no problem with the hair. Also, none of the girls are heavy into feminism. Dunno if that mattes.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:43 AM
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I tend to have a hard time with the punishing part. I get to withdraw attention, but should I make it seem like my attention is withdrawn because im busy or should she know its because I disapprove of their behavior? The one plate im spinning (alpha widow) says i should bend her over and fuck her after we get into a verbal "altercation" as a punishment. This was how her "deceased" alpha handled it and she submitted and loved it according to her.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:38 AM
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good call. Imma keep this in mind.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:32 AM
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most girls i messed with preferred hair, only a few wanted me to be smooth
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:29 AM
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U said u were literally shaking, which means you actually did it. GOOD SHIT! Now for step 2, talk to someone. Saying something to make them laugh without expecting anything will make just talking a piece of cake. U dont have to say something that funny, just a slightly amusing comment. They dont even have to actually respond, they just have to hear you. Also try just talking to anyone, anywhere you do business. Supermarket cashier, guy in the store asking you if u need help, security guard, poli…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:10 AM
3

I like this one
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:03 AM
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i slowly started finding trp principles after being in my ltr for a few years and it has improved quite a bit. And this guy is right, continue to increase smv and be willing to walk away. But also, flirt with everyone. Men, women, children, the elderly, dogs, cats, chickens. To me its all practice because im always gaming my gf (direct and indirect compliments alot, touching/ass slapping when i walk past or whispers in her ear, sexual text message conversations starting 2 days before I actually …
/r/askTRP14/08/19 06:54 AM
1

Once ur eating that way by habit, it will happen naturally and u just increase ur calorie uptake from then on. The trickiest part for me is going from eating the average amount of calories to eating 3000 calories a day. Thats alot more eating than I am used to, so it took some time for that to become my normal eating range.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 06:16 AM
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Redpill doesnt see women as "bad evil creatures that are nothing but wetholes/emotianally stunted children". We do however understand the nature of women (and come to understand our own nature) and not disillusion ourselves into believing what we are told just because someone told us. We dont put women on a pedestal and treat them like princesses because we view women as equals and not as superiors. We reject the notion that we have to sacrifice our lives for someone who doesnt value the same th…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:44 AM
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thats what I need to work on, pushing the sexual boundaries
/r/askTRP13/08/19 07:46 AM
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DONT EVER LET IT BOTHER YOU. And even if it does, she better not smell it on you. Blow that shit right off. Just say ok and roll over and go to sleep. U flirt with every girl u can to keep ur confidence up and keep raising your SMV (should be doing this all the time, no matter what). You keep up the attention (sexual attention is fine....kiss on the cheek, ass slap, flirting and teasing, complimenting) but when she initiates sex, MAKE HER WORK FOR IT or blow it off as if shes not really coming o…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 07:45 AM
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Trust me, its alot better to have girls hamstring over you than it is for them to know all about u. Girls like to be immersed in their emotions....even better if ur the one inspiring those emotions. A Bullet proof man sound like the "real man who steps up and takes care of other men's kids" (im not saying it makes u a chump but it SURE AS SHIT doesnt make u a "real man". Dont let them manipulate u like that). I dont think its necessarily bad to talk about ur emotions just dont let them control y…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 07:28 AM
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Ignore and move on to something else.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 07:09 AM
1

he was trying to get laid, who among us hasnt "scrapped the plan" for some potential pussy? Im less likely to do it now that i understand TRP (although, TRP would tell me to stick to the plan in order to maintain frame so i can get the pussy later), but im sure there are situations where the rules can be bent. As long as he didnt BP himself in the process of getting trying to get laid, wish im luck.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 07:07 AM
1

I have heard the "can I use your bathroom" line works to get in the door. I have also heard that getting her to talk about her place and later the "gimme a tour" line works because its all in concext.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 07:03 AM
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My gf didnt like me pulling her hair......till she got used to it and now loves it. The thing is, she didnt tell me she liked it, I had to figure it out by trial and error and gauging her response. I understand why your asking her and analyzing what she says because shes giving u the most effective feedback you can get, her experience. Take the time to explore her body and how she responds to certain things you do. U will know when u do something right by the involuntary response you get (sounds…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:55 AM
1

U havent been at it long eough
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:45 AM
3

yep, female nature. I used to wonder why my sister would do it to me.....now I know.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:42 AM
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Shes a woman and women do this, regardless if its your mom, sister, aunt, cousin, lesbian best female friend, vague female aquaintence, homeless lady on the street....they all do, its how they gain and maintain power because the only power they actually have over you is the power u allow them to have over you. As a man, your aggression, anger and ability go get violent is dangerous to women. The only safety from those are for u to submit to her. She wont be happy, but she will be safe from you..…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:41 AM
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get to the cops first, explain what you just told us and HOPE someone will give u good advice going forward. The only way to really protect yourself in alot of theses situations is to get ahead of it.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 05:59 AM
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yeah, u can absolutely drive a woman nuts in a good way. Just keep in mind that they are nuts to begin with, so all ur doing is pushing her over the edge and they love the fall, it allows them to be immersed in their emotions. Careful though, that good nuts can shift to bad nuts very quickly .
/r/askTRP13/08/19 05:57 AM
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Agree, I would ignore. If the shoe was on the other foot, you would be considered a jealous beta and she would lose respect for u and sexual attraction for you and when that happens, sex goes with it (good sex anyway) and she wont be able to explain why she feels different......she just will and you will be the one who suffers for it. Also, her jealousy is a problem about her, not you.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 05:43 AM
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I dont think u should dump her. I say use her till ur done and let her dump u when shes tired of getting treated like shit and realize its not gonna change and thats cuz of her......but dont break up. If she asks you what she did, tell her "you know what happened, dont play dumb" and leave it at that, dont tell her any details. Let her go through the emotional back and forth about how and why this is happenig and whether to stay or go. When/If she breaks up with u, in a slightly (just slightly) …
/r/askTRP12/08/19 10:59 AM
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Interesting. This is exactly what I need right now
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 07:59 AM
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Ignore the fact that she was angry and contact her when you want to, pretending she wasnt petty and mad at all. I usually play from the "your childish anger doesnt even register on my give-a-fuck radar and I will pretend it didnt happen because thats what ur childish behavior means to me" angle without saying it.....usually disarms them and brings us back into my frame. If she remains upset, I will walk her into confronting me about what she is upset about and then I step-by-step explain the wha…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 07:57 AM
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When a girl tells you when her period is looming, shes willing to fuck u. They dont divulge the info to everyone
/r/askTRP10/08/19 07:28 AM
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lmao this happens to me. Once i finish, I immediately start to think about the blunt I wanna roll or food
/r/askTRP10/08/19 07:12 AM
1

Slowly? Im thinking a "no? ok. Hey i just got busy, lemme call u back!" and then just dont call back.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 07:10 AM
2

what would said "cheap attempts a free validation" look like?
/r/askTRP09/08/19 05:11 AM
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It could be because ur scared of rejection that u aim low or it could be that u actually find these girls attractive. If its the first, u should probably look into it. If its the second, fuck it, you gotta make yourself happy first, you gotta be you own mental point of orgine. If ur not happy with a skinny (i dont prefer them too skinny, feel like imma break them). It will be hard to be confident when your not attracted to who your with. I know its harder for me to be genuine if i dont genuine t…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:27 AM
1

Because they are perpetual children.....teenagers, if u will
/r/askTRP07/08/19 08:01 AM
1

Such is life pre-redpill and post redpill awareness. Just keep building from there. It will take a while, but small victories. Lift!
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 07:57 AM
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Dont lie, tell them. Girls are more upset that u lied to them. She would much rather u tell her the truth, that way ur doing something together...lying. Not only is it a bonding experience, but u get to play into the "we shouldnt be doing this" theme and that gets them wet. now, heres the catch.....she might not be with it and u might lose the pussy, but u gotta be willing to lose the pussy to get the pussy.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:36 AM
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lmao if that works, Im stealing it
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:32 AM
1

80% of the worlds' population in fact. So if u dont got it, ur the weird one
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:31 AM
1

Just because u have feelings for someone, doesnt mean u cant have feelings for someone else. Sometimes life doesnt go the way u want, no matter how much u try. Do urself (and probably her) a favor and go find another chick to get on top of. U may not forget about her, but u will have more chick to remember.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:28 AM
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Meet the parents. If u come off as trust worthy to them, they wont think twice about u and their daughter....then u can get to what ur really planning. Just make a comment about how her parents appear to think ur a "nice guy", which was "all part of your plan". Dont bring flowers, IMO, ur mum is (probably) unconsciously trying to "beta" u. But IF u do, make sure ur subtly undressing her with ur eyes as u give them to her, she will pick up what ur putting down.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:16 AM
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I agree. Rollo said it best: "its all a shit test. The way they look, their attitudes, what they say...shit test." I have watch the biggest bitch pre-sex, turn into a submissive slut (her words) mid-sex and into a purring kitten (again, her words) post-sex.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:12 AM
2

I too, can confirm
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:07 AM
2

I also agree with this.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:03 AM
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Even if this is true, there are better ways to achieve that and if this is the route she choose to take, then she has alot to learn about communication and this was a rough lesson she needed to learn. Bravo for teaching her and not falling prey to your first instinct. Dont play a game if your not willing to accept the consequences.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:00 AM
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lmao I concur. If u didnt send that text, this would be a different post . U inspire us to stay the course sir
/r/askTRP07/08/19 06:55 AM
1

Usually, yes. And usually, most girls arent as repulsed by large numbers as they are intrigued by his ability to get such large numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:51 AM
1

I get what your saying and your right, I do tend to take it too far sometimes....at least according to her. She swears im always sweet-talking her and im always touching her to show her attention to balance things out.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 06:48 AM
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Im the same way, have facebook but barely use it, no instgram or snapchat either. They dont have to know everything in your life. I have friends for 20 years that dont know things about me cuz I dont tell them said things. Just pick a topic and always exclude it from your conversations/interactions with them. If they happen to find out later and they ask "why didnt u tell me", the perfect response (cuz i have done it often always with success) is cuz it didnt pertain to you.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 11:24 AM
1

yeah, had a plate say that when I say we are friends, it hurts her. From what I can tell, its the way her hamster brain can tell that you still like her. If u dont get upset, you dont care according to their logic. She might complain, but its because she has no way of gaining the upper hand that shes used to applying to the other guys and she hates it. I try to engage her emotions when she does that with amuse and amplify or redirect but I dont get upset (and if i do, she never sees it). I event…
/r/askTRP06/08/19 11:01 AM
2

agreed, if she actually said "u can massage me but not my but" then shes definately thinking about it and now just put it in ur head, if u werent already thinking it. Its like the "I will go to your house/u can come to my house, but we r not having sex" shit test. It almost always means that sex is on the table
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:50 AM
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before "talking to girls" (cuz we talk to girls all the time), i started off with old people......they will talk to anyone. Then i moved on to children....well, making them smile by doing something weird or funny when they look at me and i look at them.....mothers sometimes took it weirdly. Guys were never an issue, but I started opening guys in random scenarios just to get used to talking to strangers about stuff. I then applied all of that to girls....start with 5s and 6s and before u know it,…
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:42 AM
1

she would have to know that he bedded alot of girls.....not something u can tell just by knowing someone. Also....and this is only my experience, but I have yet to see a girl reject a guy only because he was very experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 10:21 AM
1

Not directly, infact don't say it. Make her feel it with ur action....unintentionally :)
/r/askTRP06/08/19 01:12 AM
1

I understand, but worrying about it leads to a beta mentality.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:54 AM
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Theres a fine line between over confident and arrogance. Avoid arrogance (most of the time, sometimes it will do the job) and u should be fine. If ur really that concerned about being perceived as over confidence, talk less when u feel like ur about to make a confident statement. Otherwise, there is no such thing as to much confidence.....its a shit test.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:45 AM
1

In a world of 7.53 billion people (approximately half of which are women), how could there be just one? By mathematics alone this is impossible.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 07:38 AM
1

yeah, redpill is full of that and he has every right to want that for himself, he has every right to pursue that as well and he may just find a girl who is a virgin to settle down with. If he has bedded alot of girls, that experience will come in handy when he beds a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 07:29 AM
1

Dont care about her cycle, unless it means i cant fuck. When we first got together, she stayed home when on her period because she didnt want to say anything that would put our relationship in a bad place. Now, she tells me a few days before it comes, signaling to me to "get it while its hot". Any other change, is irrelevant. Just find something else to do those days that remove you from her presence.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 07:06 AM
1

"yeah, and u love it" or "thats what it takes to do u the way i do" the second one only works if u fucked already but both are effective.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 11:11 AM
2

in what reality is someone who looks in good shape not attractive? The only women I know that dont like at least somewhat muscular guys are chick who know those guys wont sleep with them, so they reject them first by saying those guys arent attractive. Your friend is a chump, who probably is too lazy to lift himself and seeing you do it with results makes him feel self conscious about not having such a body. Keep doing your thing. Any broad who isnt attractive to the body type ur working towards…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 10:39 AM
1

There is no shortage of virgins out there, there are thousands of new ones (i.e. someone turning 18) everyday, everywhere. If ur complaining about finding a virgin to marry, I dare say you arent looking in the right places. And there are pleny of women who want to have sex with one guy for the rest of their lives (assuming the marriage lasts that long) so finding one wont be difficult. Also, I didnt read anything on this thread about marrying a virgin....I could have missed it tho, its a pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:29 AM
1

Thats because in order for a guy to be good at sex, he has to have had practice (quite a bit infact) and I have yet to find a girl who had "good sex" with a virgin if she wasnt one as well. Manual, oral and penetrative sex requires practice (and a decent amount might I add) from a guy in order for it to be good enough for a requested encore from the girl....unless shes a virgin too. And I have met such men (not many, but a few). They had a hard time getting a gf or keeping on once they did. Coin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 10:29 AM
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I can understand what ur saying, I prefer one gf at a time as well. U do however need to keep constant frame and spinning plates keeps things in perspective, keeping u in line with redpill in order to keep ur life in line with redpill, which in turn keeps u in frame consistently. I haven't found a definitive answer, as I notice myself slipping across the line into bluepill zone with my gf every once in a while and have to quickly jump back over, but by then, there are consequences to pay, which …
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:54 PM
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I think its more that she hates the effect u have on her, meaning you make her second guess herself and/or she breaks rules she put in place for you in her own head. Whatever your doing, keep it up
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:25 AM
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I remember being asked this question and I immediately thought back to Rollo's rule. I proceeded to follow the rule (cuz thats what we do), but no dice....she kept insisting. So I finally caved (bluepilled myself), but 1) it took 20 minutes of her begging and 2) I made my answer as vague as possible... her: how many girls have u slept with? me: well, technically, we didnt sleep her: u know what I mean me:..... her: tell me me:..... her: come on me: ..... her: pleeeeease.... 20 minutes later me: …
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:07 AM
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