So as im making this post obviously it irritates me. She like many women loves taking pics. Some do with iphones, some take little selfies here and there which i think is innocent enough. However she loves (hobby) to take reallyhigh quality pics with DSLR of everything. Does day trips for it etc. It feels like nothing we do is for tue enjoyment of the activity itself, more that the fun for her is the pics she can take and then be done. I havent had many LTRs so i have no idea if women are just like this...