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Yup. My key dating advice for any guys on online dating. Happy hour drinks or coffee. Always offered to pay since $20 max risk was absolutely nothing compared to dinner. Honestly tho 90% of girls offered to split anyways tho
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/22 02:30 PM
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Sunk cost fallacy. You can stay with her and be forever unhappy and ruin the one life you got, but ohhhhh you get to keep your stupid fucking house that has that beached whale in it every day repulsing you from being able to enjoy it anyways. Or you could pull the band aid, lose half your shit, still be richer than most Americans, and be FREE. Freedom is happiness and that combined with time (you only have a little of this left) are the two most valuable things on planet earth. What’s the point …
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:36 AM
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Yeah no doubt he’s going through a rough time or that you’re putting in effort. Sometimes you can only lead a horse to water. But if you’re not content with giving up on your friend and continuing to try, more power to you. Just make sure you focus on making your interactions as productive as possible. Don’t ask “why” questions but ask “what” questions to help open him up more. Create winning streaks, as in, when he comes to you with a stupid idea that he’s excited about, ensure that you support…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:34 PM
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-friend has brain dead baby -friend has an unfulfilling shit marriage -friend starts acting out at work -you “It MuSt Be BeCaUsE iM sO aLpHa” Your friend is acting out because his home life is crushing him. Instead of thinking of him as an adversary, think of him as someone who is struggling. Ask if he’s doing okay, if his mental health is okay, is he financially doing okay? You don’t owe him anything, since you’ve paid your debts, but maybe this isn’t you guys butting heads but instead it’s you…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 03:15 PM
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Depends. If you look like a cool in shape guy in your pics, they’ll take it that you’re rich too. If you are skinny fat and wear glasses, it’ll kill you.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 03:10 PM
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Good work. You realized this was a clear boundary for your ltr, understood that you have one-itis and that this will only enflame your current insecurities. A girl who breaks obvious ltr boundaries doesn’t respect you and aren’t really worth trying to fix the relationship over. Once i cut whores like this out of my life (for ltrs), my dating life improved dramatically and the caliber of woman i dated improved as well. Sadly everyone pays the piper in a break up so expect to be sad for a couple w…
/r/askTRP20/01/21 10:02 PM
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Need to know more about what you want out of the military... job training? College money? Something to get your life back on track? Career/money? Health insurance? Adventure? An escape? Im an officer and pilot in the national guard (RE: reserves) but I’m AGR (full time/active duty status). There’s a lottttt of benefits joining the military, but to fully exploit them (because trust me, they’ll get their pound of flesh out of you), you need to know your end goals and make a plan. Reserves are not …
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:22 AM
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Getting a dog is a miserable idea for a single guy still on the come up. I fucking love dogs and grew up with them, but i could never imagine my 20s with one holding me back from all the traveling and going out i did. If you’re a homebody and reallllly committed to spending tons of time with it for 13 years straight, i guess go ahead, but if you’re doing it because you’re a little lonely or something, don’t be a pussy and just go make a friend or something.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:04 AM
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If you’ve already let it get this far, you already lost. Similar to bar fights, to get yourself in a situation like this, you’ve already been instigating to a degree (even if you’re in “the right”). Learn to read a room/your audience before babbling your retard opinions and learn that you don’t always have to one up/be right in every discussion. There are two female SOs in my friend group. They are fun to party with and they’re my friends’ wife/fiancé so they’re not going anywhere but they both …
/r/askTRP09/01/21 03:43 PM
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Gotcha. Still rough and you’re justified in your feelings since you would think the person who’s supposed to promise to love you forever would work harder on keeping the relationship up. Unfortunately like most people, she doesn’t want to communicate or put in effort and instead has all but given up by the sounds of it. This leaves the ball in your court, which you can fix it, but it’s gonna be rough. You’ll have to internalize that it really is your fault to be able to forgive her and how you d…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/21 06:00 PM
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That’s a good question. If there’s resentment that deep it may be impossible to get over. I remember getting cheated on and staying with that girl. Dumbest decision ever obviously. No matter what she did i would always have those feelings come up and couldn’t get over them. Which resulted in her cheating on me again and me finally coming to my senses and dumped that whore. Being free from the relationship gave me what i needed to get over those feelings since the person they were associated with…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/21 02:51 AM
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I didn’t mean it as disrespect, but young men are usually to emotionally immature and lack the discipline to not learn most shit the hard way, myself included. Yeah it’s going to hurt, even if you knew she wasn’t wife material, you still had emotional investment and regardless of how it ends, both parties always pay the piper at some point for the break up. You just got stuck with the added feelings of rejection, inadequacy, and all the other shit you feel when someone cheats on you even if ther…
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:39 PM
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Wow. Talk about lucky. She actually told you about it and didn’t make you board the flight that was free anyways? And she even talked shit to you afterwards to make sure you wouldn’t be led on to try and be a beta and chase her afterwards? Slam dunk win for you. You get an easy free breakup and you didn’t have to do a thing. Here’s my advice that Im sure you’ll ignore cuz you’re young: -go no contact, block and remove her from everything. Talking to or seeing her again will never contribute in a…
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:51 PM
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Honestly it sounds like all is not lost if you act ASAP. The first hurdle will be the hardest, and it’s becoming outcome independent and shedding the anxiety you have over her lack of attraction towards you. This is something you can only do with high mental fortitude and resiliency and by gaining confidence through lifting and doing things away from her that make you more attractive objectively, also things like gaming other women. Once you let go of the fear, and she starts to sense it, throug…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/20 04:55 PM
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What do you mean by too comfortable? Farting on you or flirting with other dudes/disrespecting you? Those are not the same.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 09:41 AM
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So you had basically zero social experience and now that you finally have some confidence and jumped out of the nest you’re failing?! Shocked pikachu face. Welcome to learning. Social dynamics are extremely complex and if you’re not a natural, they take yearssss of practice to be decent at. And now that you’re older you don’t get the batting practice that someone in high school or college gets while they’re sorrounded by their peers. Experiment and learn. Accept your mistakes and learn from them…
/r/askTRP26/09/20 09:38 AM
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I agree with most of what you’re saying. No clue if they’re sleeping together since showing up early to a job you care about isn’t auto banging. I’d more say his paranoia is out of control and will lead her off regardless. Get off the drugs. Take your licks during and be stronger. Stop being jealous etc.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 10:42 AM
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.... are men naturally driven or opportunists. Or are we also lazy and pieces of shit? Each woman is diffeeent just like men.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 11:28 AM
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In shape and good looking? What’s the problem? You just are too scared to talk to people? My only advice would be stop trying to just talk to girls and start talking to everyone
/r/askTRP07/09/20 09:44 AM
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Grass is always greener. Most women wherever you go are going to be boring. In the US when i was single, it would take on average 15-20ish first dates to find someone that actually peaked my curiosity. For two reasons, everyone forgets that most of the good girls are taken and even when single only stay on the market very shortly and girls just don’t really have to be that interesting to succeed in life as long as they’re like a 6.5 or better. Only thing i enjoy about America is if you’re in a b…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 12:50 PM
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The mental gymnastics you’re going through are world record setting. It’s over. It’s been over. She lives with you, tells you she wants to fuck another guy to your fucking face, and then proceeds to talk to him for HOURS A DAY on the phone. The man she told you she wants to fuck. And then she goes on vacation with this man!! She doesn’t give two fucks about you. Has negative respect for you. I could go on. This is pathetic. I understand ending a relationship like this isn’t easy, but unfortunate…
/r/askTRP10/08/20 03:06 AM
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“I want girls but i don’t want to PlAy GaMeS”. You build attraction by playing the game. It’s biology and there’s no way around it. Same reason why birds dance and so on... First off on talking to women in general, you need more practice. You’re obviously extremely boring to be getting those types of feed back comments. How to not be boring? Talk about fun things, don’t take yourself or your conversation seriously. On a first date or first encounter, don’t talk about boring job interview questio…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 07:28 PM
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You’ve been brain washed your whole life that girls are “allowed to have male friends, deal with it” when in reality, almost any relationship I’ve ever seen where the girl has too many male friends goes to shit. If her social circle has men it and that’s all it is, then i wouldn’t see much of a red flag. The most trustworthy girl i ever dated had a friend circle that was probably 60% male. The difference? She didn’t engage them privately all the time. No daily snap chats. No private phone calls.…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 09:26 PM
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That was from 22-28. So 6 years, 5 girls a year while i was essentially single most of the time. I also worked at a bar which didn’t hurt but early 20s post college wasn’t great. It mostly came in spurts. My main point is that you have plenty of time to have mediocre sex with drunk 6-7s if that’s what you felt like you missed in college
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:06 PM
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While yes, there are a few guys in college who crush it, just like most people who brag, your perception of what they actually did is far above what they actually did. Reminds me of when i talk to my group of pro poker player friends. Always talking about the big scores and never about the nights they lost 10k. I had the frat experience in college and at the end of the 4 years i banged like 13 chicks (i had a gf for a good amount of time in there too, so i guess it could’ve been higher in theory…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:42 PM
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Save the evidence. And for the love of god, don’t ever respond to another message of hers again in case that guy comes after you.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:07 PM
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Married to one and have been a couple times. Some good tidbits already here. I would just add that just like any place, learn the language as best you can. If you’ve already learned another Latin based language, especially Spanish, Brazilian Portuguese while different, is much easier to learn when you already are familiar with learning different rules. Brazilians are awesome fun loving people. Super fun place to visit. They have some crime problems but if you keep your wits about you, and do som…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 08:28 PM
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Depends on level of commitment. Guitar is pretty easy after the first few months of grinding and even that rock smith game on PlayStation is actually not too bad after you learn the basics. Piano is more complicated IMO but you can do a lot more with it. If you enjoy rock music, guitar is awesome because it’s relatively easy to find the music for it online and learn how to play your favorite songs.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:24 AM
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Sounds like she was already seeing him before she even met you, no? You moved in and she decided to swing to you, right? Was she supposed to be celibate until meeting you and then as soon as she met you (while you admittedly weren’t committed to her) just vaporize every relationship she already had on the spot without knowing if you were even the real deal? Now if you’re upset that she is the kind of girl that has multiple relationships at the same time, that’s a different story. Was this the on…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 05:26 PM
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Believe it or not, the human male can last longer than a few months without pussy. Take all that wasted energy on this attention whoring slut and instead focus it into working out and focusing on your career. Your future wallet and dick will thank you.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 08:08 PM
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I just purchased the food lab by serious eats’ kenji Lopez-alt. It’s a great book for beginners that takes the time to explain WHY he does things and even does experiments to show why he came to conclusions on why you do or don’t have to do common myths and trends. Alton brown is probably my favorite and old good eats episodes are all over YouTube and great watches. He recommends another older book over kenjis, but he put the food lab as his second which is why i decided to go for it since it’s …
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:03 PM
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BN=battalion and BDE=brigade. If you’re in the navy/coast guard/airforce, all i meant was the next higher echelon. I’m lucky enough to be AGR in Phoenix but i remember being in lower Alabama for a year and a half and it sucks. Literally only other service members to hang out with which is cool but can be exhausting. Keep your head up man, it gets better
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:56 PM
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Yeah that’s pretty intense and i would imagine he probably wasn’t prepared to deal with helping with something so traumatic in real time. And of course, not all are created equally. while I’m fortunate enough to have not really needed one, my BN chaplain is the shit while our BDE one i would probably skip for something like this. Try reaching out again and if he’s no help, don’t be scared to request speaking to a different chaplain.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:19 PM
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While it sucks that you’re probably stationed in BFE, since for whatever reason that’s the only place military bases exist, realize that you have a 1000 resources in the military. Does your unit have a chaplain? If so, talk to him immediately if you’re not already. Obviously your command knows you’re in hard times since they approved your leave, but maybe it’s time to open up to your NCOIC/commander and let them know that you’re struggling. Chaplain and any non shitty commander should be aware o…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 04:37 PM
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Your problem is you expect to be 100% over someone you were obsessed with in a matter of months. Brain doesn’t work like that... for my college ex who was similar though only a solid 8/10, it took years to truly get over her (tho we did some on and off again after). You can’t keep comparing everyone to her especially just the positives. Just casually date for another year or so and eventually that obsession that’s locked into your brain with chemicals will subside. Take this time to develop your…
/r/askTRP07/03/20 05:21 PM
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You infer in one of your comments that you weren’t “privileged” due to poverty. While it’s true, the rich get to coast through things and are afforded more mistakes as they age, if you’re in America, jumping up socioeconomic classes is pretty easy as long as you work at it from a young age. Don’t have money for college? Then make sure your grades or good or use the military, or go to community college while you work. Don’t have any networking? Join clubs, groups, whatever via school or the inter…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 02:56 PM
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As a current commander, assuming you’re in the US, document everything for a month. Then have a third party look at it to make sure you’re not just losing your mind being a whiny bitch. Assuming someone half intelligent agrees with your complaint, open door your commander and say the next stop is an EO complaint. If i found out half my unit was jacking it on their cell phone while one joe did literally everything i would be livid if it wasn’t for just some new guy initial hazing. That’s a nuclea…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 03:18 PM
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Cuckkkkkk
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:27 AM
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Stupid? No. Outside of having a body builder body i have what you have and double the money almost. And I’ve already done some traveling (Brazil twice, Africa, japan, Europe, Peru). I’m engaged to a girl that is as close to a unicorn as possible. I’m 30. And i still have thoughts of dropping it all, including the chick. That being said, i don’t have the looks you do so while i never had girl issues, i swim in a sea of 6s and 7s when I’m single and remembering my last single period of a year, mos…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:12 PM
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Had you said 9-12 months, i would say improve yourself and see if you can fix the dead bedroom by not being a cuck like you have been. My guess is that inadvertently you dried up her vag in some way. While this problem can be fixed, though only by some, you have no chance of fixing it in forty days. And once you get married it’ll get even worse and your lack of results will just leave you continuing down the path that dried out the pussy in the first place. Im about to get married in the next fo…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 06:56 PM
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No, you’re fine doing what you’re doing but don’t get mad when a girl decides no on a clear fuck date. She’s clearly a hoe. But doesn’t want to be one for you right now. Take that for what it is
/r/askTRP24/12/19 12:20 PM
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Sadly there’s no cheat code to being cool. It takes time and work. It’s the one thing about TRP that I’ll die on the sword for. The rest is all opinion but this is the one tenant that will always ring true even in a blue pill society.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 06:06 AM
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Find one that isn’t broken. They exist. Make yourself valuable and vet until the right one comes along. Get your heart ripped out and try again. This is the same thing girls think about hot guys.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 06:04 AM
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“Tragic”. What does that mean? Your mom die or did you lose a close fame of COD? Assuming it’s something like the prior, grieve. Let it out to a close family member or friend. Time heals all wounds and two weeks isn’t enough for something truly tragic.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 06:01 AM
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So you didn’t invite her “to do something”, you invited her over to your house to fuck and she either doesn’t like you or has some self respect. Gauge which it is and proceed from there.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 05:58 AM
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To girls, it’s like Pokémon cards. Gotta catch em all. Obviously if she’s getting to the point where it actually ruins an experience than you need to lay down the law, but “doin it for the gram” is a way of life now. My girl dies if we don’t get great pics of whatever we do. To the point where it can get annoying. But whatever, i like drinking myself stupid and playing video games when I’ve got the time. Who’s to judge as long as its not for nefarious reasons?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 05:53 AM
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Sadly there’s no easy cheat code for “more energy”. You can’t super sayan charge and just learn how to talk. It takes experience. Putting yourself out there, and life experience are the two ingredients to a conversationalist. I remember being a fucking loser my sophomore year of high school (not a big one, but def not cool) because i would try and talk a lot. I would also fail a lot. Thankfully because i worked hard at sports, and learned a sense of humor through failing at talking to people so …
/r/askTRP24/12/19 05:49 AM
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My girl is back home visiting family in another country. Saw some old girlfriends she keeps in touch with. Gets blacked out drunk for the first time without me in a long time. You know what she does? Face times me non stop telling she loves me even while puking in the toilet like a dumb drunk bitch. You know what she didn’t do? Suck some other dude’s dick. Remember that, what she did is inexcusable. 100%. As she gets old and her titties sag you’ll become a rich grey fox banging girls hotter than…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 12:07 AM
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Does she add value to your life? Do you still find yourself crazy attracted to her? Does she treat you with respect, and keep your balls dry? Do you consider one of your best friends? If the answer to all of those are yes, then why end something just because some people say you’re supposed to bang as many girls as you can? Ride it out until one or more of those aren’t a yes anymore. Then be prepared to eject without hesitation. As long as you don’t stay around if she starts withholding sex, or b…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 12:56 AM
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Your GPA sucks for a 16 year old. Stay awake during class and give a shit. Then go lift some weights, but do so safely. Learn good form, don’t start too heavy. Learn how to not injure yourself. Then go out and have some fun with your friends. Talk to girls. You’re 16, you only get one run at high school. And while high school ain’t shit, if you already studied and did your homework and worked out, it’s time to blow off some steam in a responsible way (stay away from drugs).
/r/askTRP06/12/19 04:15 AM
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Read your detailed comment... yeah man, not texting a girl you’re fucking (that isn’t clearly just a NSA booty call) for ten days will drive anyone away. Even as the guy i would be kind of like wtf if i was interested. Her mini tantrum in the car ride was her trying to express her dissatisfaction with your obvious lack of wanting to be anything serious with her. If your intention was to not progress into an LTR, then you did a great job. Feelings will always get hurt but she took it somewhat wel…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 02:22 PM
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Thanks, now that i don’t feel like vomiting reading your post (as much), here we go. First off, the girls that your looks are good enough for are not dating athletes or sugar daddies. Those are hot girls. Not a league you’re within telescope range of yet. Next, quit being such a defeatist cuck. All of the bad shit that happened in your life is YOUR fault. The choices you made led you to all of these outcomes. The good news is, while you have sucked for the last 4 years at making any decent life …
/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:41 AM
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Rewrite this post without saying “twas and maybe I’ll consider responding with advice.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:24 AM
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3 girls a month is about as high as you can get. I think i was on about 1 a month (though my smv probably wasn’t as high as yours assuming you’re telling the truth) and that was like a full time fucking job. Always having to line up first dates during the week. It was exhausting mentally. My current girlfriend who is obsessed with me doesn’t even deplete that much energy from me. Like others have said, you’re burning out, and you even pointed out the biggest problem, dating apps force you to con…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 12:11 AM
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“I don’t get why she would want to stay in contact with me” i know autism oozes from this sub a bit, but you are aware that maybe, just maybe.... she likes you? Believe it or not, girls are capable of liking guys, even while on vacation. Is that gonna stop her from sleeping around? Who the fuck knows, this sub makes you think that every girl who goes on a vacation is just going to get laid. I wouldn’t worry about it though. Just text her if you want, and don’t if you don’t. It’s that easy. If yo…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:13 AM
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Do they give you hours? Work with your student schedule? Pay you decent? Do you enjoy your day at work vs despising it? If your answer to all those questions are yes, why would you quit? If you’re planning on going to college and getting a white collared job, no reason in seeking out manual labor. My brother worked at McDonald’s when he was in high school and still banged chicks. I worked at target and it was nice though as soon as the 8th loser cart pusher quit i had to do that shit during brut…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:21 PM
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What country? I’m actually doing the same thing in a few weeks so maybe i can give some insight. Just like any trip out of the country, do your own research. Find out what is the cool stuff to do there and what’s over rated. Once you do all that, just tell her that’s what you want to do and ask if she’s on board. We’re only in my gfs home town for 3 days and then we’ll be traveling to some beach towns and a big city, and while she of course knows shit way better than me, i still did my own resea…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 03:52 PM
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I feel like there’s something you’re leaving out. I was a manager at a bar for years, and while our stuck up girl bar tenders would rage at just about anything directed at them or shit tippers, they would never be mad at a regular for no reason. Not that i don’t believe you, but is there something we’re missing here? Do you tip really low to her (even if unknowingly), could one of these girls you tried banging complained to her, did you ever try and hit on her or say something inappropriate prio…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 03:21 PM
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Jesus Christ i had to stop reading half way through your post. Água com gás is not something to fear ordering. An adult male orders his drink and is okay with it. Only insta-fags care what others see when he gets a drink.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 09:12 AM
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There you go. You have a good plan. And yes, don’t you dare allow her to have that kind of legal leverage over you. Within a year or two of the common law thing (idk your local laws) just be a fucking man and have the talk with her. The talk that she’s going to move out and you are not going to have a common law marriage or a real one until the time is right. Don’t be mean, and give it to her easy, but be assertive and don’t budge. She will resist, and cry and throw a tantrum. But she’ll come ba…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 12:00 AM
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It’s just the little hormones in your brain going crazy. I believe you feel the feelings you feel, but remember, they’re all chemical and at that age, they influence you much more than they do for someone like me who’s 30. Also, she’s 19 and you’re 20. At that age, you’re basically just a retard who’s allowed to not live at home anymore. While it’s cute to fantasize, realize that you are wayyyyy too young for any serious thoughts of those things. You both have about 5-7 years of growing up still…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:54 PM
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Why are you living with your girlfriend in your parents’ basement? That sounds miserable. Does she not have a home? Parents of her own? Other than that, my advice on LTRs is, if it’s going great, and YOU are happy, and fulfilled, why change it for NOW? Because some weebs on the internet told you you have to have an N count of 43 before you’re a real man? If she treats you right, is hot, puts out, and you are having fun, why would you go and fuck that all away? Don’t worry, you’ll naturally fuck …
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:15 PM
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Yeah dude, quit being a fag and dump the bitch.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 11:50 PM
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Definitely a scam. Either what one poster said about charging you a fuck ton for drinks or a you’d find an isolated area with a huge dude to strong arm you for money or both combined. Good on you for taking those safety precautions. They’re as much for you as they are the girl too. I never let a girl come to my place or go to hers without meeting in public first. No sane/real girl wouldn’t either.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 05:28 AM
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How far you in your career path? Are you good at it? Does it pay well right now? Do you enjoy the actual work? No need to switch a good career path to be “more manly”. I would be a professional masterbater if it paid well enough. Do the job you want, and that will make you some money. You’re the one who has to do it 8+ hours a day, not the stupid girl at target that watches you unable to tie something on your car that you wished you could’ve impressed (nobody could give a fuck about this btw). I…
/r/askTRP25/12/18 10:50 PM
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Why would you waste your time dating someone who would make you doubt if you’re even dating before a vacation. She’s not stupid and knows what she’s doing to you. Let’s even go out on a limb and say she’s just doing this to punish you and not so she can cheat/will not cheat. Why the fuck would you date someone who you feel like doesn’t want to see you as much as them anyways? Start dating girls that reciprocate the attention you give them and have some self respect. I learned the hard way dating…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:50 AM
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What this guy said. Kino isn’t going 0 to 60 in five minutes always. For a beginner like yourself, who’s struggling to read the sexual tension right, just start really slow. If she’s into it, she will linger whatever you’re touching or even push into it. From there just keep going. Put your hand on her leg/arm after a joke, something tiny like that. It’ll always give you the intel you need to proceed. She doesn’t recluse? Cool, now put your arm around her, put more of your hand on her leg/higher…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 06:09 AM
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Your mistakes should haunt you forever. Theyre called experience and lessons learned. You just unfortunately learned harder than others. Instead of viewing your faggotry filled past as a weakness, view it as a strength. Started from the bottom and now you’re here. And all because of you. Let it motivate you to continue on the path. Let it keep you vigilant but also don’t allow it to make you jaded and not appreciate and enjoy your current success.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 05:58 AM
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You’ve never talked to a girl before. So what should your first step be? Talk to girls. Don’t talk to girls to try and “game them”, just talk to them like you would any other friend. Don’t set the expectation that you have to fuck this girl. Probably best you just get the idea of fucking her out of your head for that matter since you’re starting from such a remedial level. Just aim to make friends with some girls so you can get desensitized and realize they’re not that scary. You’ll get friend z…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:34 AM
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You’re allowed to have boundaries. But if you don’t ever enforce them, how is anyone to know? If it’s not one she’s willing to understand and accept, you’re probably just not that compatible. I’m very upfront with all my girlfriends on my views on relationships now that i finally understand what i want in one and have seen what allowing them to walk all over my boundaries causes. Don’t be scared to tell someone what you want/expect. Just don’t be a whiny bitch when you do.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:44 PM
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Not a shit test. Sounds like she moved her whole world to try and follow you out West. She either wants affirmation that you intend on staying with her as to not waste her time (comfort) and is just homesick/throwing a little tantrum, or she really just doesn’t want to be out West. Just let her figure out what she wants while being her rock. If she decides to go back east, be nice and understanding but let her know it’s over. Much better to let her follow her own path than drag her down yours, a…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 05:45 AM
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Because you were her backup plan. She’s treating you exactly like a girl treats an orbiter that has you 3rd on her rotation of dick. She either found a hotter tinder fuck buddy, or a boyfriend. Even if that boyfriend is lower smv than you, sometimes newness>better. And if you have an LTR, why are you not hitting that on one of these nights instead of constantly inviting this 6/10 over for what seems like every night?
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:59 AM
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Could you apply dread and win her back? Assuming you’re actually somewhat of a catch, yeah probably. Is it worth all of that work for something you should be getting naturally? Probably not. I don’t know how many girlfriends you’ve had and not saying I’m some old sage filled with wisdom, but after 4-5 LTRs and plating a bunch of others in between, the one thing I’ve learned is that you shouldn’t have to work that hard for respect and affection and common decency. If you are (which happened to me…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:31 AM
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“But would she not fuck Brad Pitt on the first date..” i understand the logic behind this, but if what you’re saying is really true, that she seems to be super into you, etc, it’s a bad usage of this in my opinion. That phrase is meant for you to stop wasting your time if you’re rationalizing her crumbs of attention to you for genuine attraction. No one here can determine if she’s really that into you besides you. My current LTR took a month before she gave into sex. I wasn’t really that concern…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:57 AM
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Yeah cut that shit out. I am obsessed with my new girlfriend but we keep it to weekends only and an occasional week night if we have time. I get wanting to see each other all the time (tho you’re having the opposite problem), but you need a few days to miss each other and you’ll have more to talk about. Keeps shit from getting stale. Either get busier, or be honest. Say you like spending time with her, but sometimes you need a night alone to recharge. It’s not like you’re seeing someone else ove…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:24 AM
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Ah that’s how my college roommate was. Super shy and withdrawn and people started calling him awkward rob. Didn’t help that he looked awkward like a fetus too. You’re going to have to just put yourself out there at parties. Just start opening random groups of people and finding out stuff about them and make connections from there. Find something they want to talk about and run with it. Key is to just be funny. Always making jokes about stuff, not in a way that’s meant to be against the person yo…
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:29 AM
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What do you do that’s weird in particular? You have weird hobbies? Watch anime? Play weird video games? Play yuh gi oh? Or are you more socially weird? Like always saying things that embarrasses your group in front of others. Do you dress weird? Are you super skinny or fat/bad looking? Need to know what kind of weird we’re talking about before guiding you to fix it.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:54 AM
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Oh i absolutely agree. That’s why i brought up the autist thing. I have a friend that’s a total liability. He’s a great friend and i love him but when he’s hammered and around girls it’s pretty bad. OP said he’s weird, so he must be being outcast like your example.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:51 AM
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Why don’t you just ask them flat out why they excluded you? Maybe you’re more of an austist than you think you are and you’re doing something weird/dragging the group down. I never leave friends out of plans unless it’s specifically the ones that aren’t great with girls when I’m getting to know a good clique of girls so they don’t scare them away but would never not include them in anything else.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 12:09 AM
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Depends on what your objectives are and what your current credentials are? How old are you? Do you want to be wealthy? Just have a cool/fun job? Something stable? Trying to travel? I bar tended/managed at a night club/bar for about five years while in the army national guard until i got through army flight school and now i do the military thing full time. Both career paths offer very different benefits which are probably obvious and not worth diving into but they’ve offered a nice balance to my …
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:02 PM
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Yeah, having sex with someone you actually like is always better. Problem is, that usually involves at least to some degree an emotional connection. In my experience it’s always way better with some girl i have one-itis for (even if it’s just a tiny bit). Which is the price you pay if you want sex like that. Key is to balance that one-itis and not let it get the best of you and make you a little Bitch. That’s just me though, maybe others here have jaw dropping sex with chicks they could give a s…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:02 PM
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Jerk off, take a deep breath, and then remember that she wasn't yours, it was just your turn, and that turn has ended. Just like it will with like 100 more girls over your life time.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:02 AM
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She probably just got drunk and passed out/was having fun with her friends. If you’re still having sex a lot and the relationship is good, i doubt she cheated on you, but regardless, fuck that shit. Not responding while you’re out drinking and ghosting is unacceptable. By being in an LTR you both officially agreed that you’ll be considerate of each other’s feelings and give a shit. Living together heightens those expectations even more. Complete lack of respect for you, she knows her behavior lo…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 04:34 AM
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Well, she just said it first then, right? And i agree 100% with your comment. Good luck.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 05:38 AM
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Of course but since every one knows one, maybe it’s not just an exception. Like i said, i don’t mean failures at life, just that not pretty dudes also get chicks.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 05:06 AM
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I would preface your post with that because most people on here come for actual help, so they assume that’s what you’re asking for. But i only asked the question cuz my advise is fuck yeah i would date one.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:56 AM
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I mean, i know some ugly ass dudes that slay. But like i said, outside of their face, they’re 10/10 so yes. I think you get it.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:54 AM
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Work results. As in you always get the job done and then some. Produce results. Achieve.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:46 AM
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Just walk away. Yes, know how to fight just Incase, but unless someone is targeting you relentlessly or trying to rob you, etc, you should be able to deescalate or leave immidiately. It’s never worth it unless you have to for self defense. Just happened to me this last weekend in Vegas. In a club, dancing with the group i came with, some dude bumps into me hard, i didn’t care since it was crowded but of course he did and gets in my face out of nowhere. I say I’m sorry and want to move on but he’…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:33 AM
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I don’t mean overall mediocre, just that they’re not dime pieces but they’re in shape/cool/rich/etc.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:26 AM
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This. Just because you read TRP doesn’t mean you have to be r/iamverysmart and way too cool for school.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:25 AM
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Just like for bars/restaurants, it takes 10 good reviews to make up for 1 bad one. Stop being a douche and produce and you’ll be forgiven. Just like in pro sports, everyone forgives a winner.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:23 AM
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What they probably mean is if you’re not a 6’3 Achilles looking dude, you can still crush. But you must make yourself look the absolute best your genes allow. Add a kick ass personality and life to that and you can kill it. There’s a reason why mediocre dudes all over are still dating girls hotter than i am sometimes (not that I’m awesome but I’m sure you get what i mean). Basically don’t make excuses. Just go out and execute.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:19 AM
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Are you asking just for fun or actually dating one?
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:14 AM
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I agree with above but to add, as you talk and joke make sure you’re touching her. You should be touching her arm or leg every time there’s a connection made and as long as she reciprocates, keep going. If she shys away, then don’t go past that point but keep up until she’s comfortable. And if it’s reciprocated, once you lock eyes, have a silence, literally take one hand, put it lightly on her face and draw her in for a kiss. I’ve literally never been denied a kiss following those steps. She’s o…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:06 AM
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They do matter. Just make yourself look the best you can, lift, dress well, get a good haircut. Thank the heavens you’re a guy and you don’t need a brad Pitt face to complete the package.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:02 AM
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Depends on your feelings? It takes a lot to take the plunge to say that, and in my opinion if it’s the first time it’s said, and you feel the same way and she DESERVES it, you can reciprocate. TRP sometimes makes it seem like you’re not allowed to acknowledge you like a girl, but some of the best emotional highs I’ve ever had plus sex have been after a good mutual L bomb dropping. Butttt if she’s not deserving, and hasn’t earned it then a smile and a kiss are all she needs. Make her earn it if s…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 04:00 AM
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Fuck, i was here a year ago. With a beautiful unicorn. First girlfriend ever that truly treated me like i deserved and looked the part to boot. For months i felt like this and thankfully i had my older brother who is super RP call me out and say for the good of the girl i had to end it. Your advise is spot on, stick to the script. She’s going to beg and bargain and it’s what it must feel to have one of your own children to beg for mercy but by the end of the convo you feel like a weight has been…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 01:24 AM
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Gotcha. Yeah this sub makes it seem sometimes like you’re supposed to give your girl zero attention and treat them like shit so you can assert your dominance. If you’re past the blue pill cuck stage of your life, a better guideline is to give 75-85% of the attention she gives you. You always give slightly less but never to an extreme degree that makes you look like a dick if she’s been nothing but nice to you. Tough call since i don’t know how often you communicate or how you fight but yeah igno…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:04 PM
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That is super toxic behavior. And a major red flag that can also be the result of projection. I would verbally set and explain your boundaries once and after that soft Next. It’ll only get worse if you allow her to keep inching her way to every password in your life.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:27 PM
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Agreed. Did she do something that isn’t a big deal and you’re being a little bitch, or did she do something fucked up to some degree and to what degree did she fuck up?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:21 AM
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Sounds like a comfort test since she feels the need to keep saying why she was “really pissed off”. Without seeing your actions it’s hard to tell if you acted like a shit head or not. Did you ignore her at said party? Or talk to other girls more than her to a reasonably annoying degree? Self assess. If the answer to those is yes, eh maybe you were trying to be “too alpha” and being kind of shitty towards what’s reasonably expected out of you. If that’s the case, don’t drop some huge apology or s…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:04 AM
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Welcome to life every dude in the world minus your real friends and family will be trying to fuck your girl. Because we all want to fuck everything. Ignore, stop caring (i get it, you will, shit even I’m annoyed for you) and just act like nothing ever happened. Being butt hurt has never worked out for anyone ever. Man or woman. Cut him out but don’t make a scene of it.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:04 AM
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Risk vs reward. Is your face in it? Probably not, so what do you have to lose? No girl would ever just post a video of themselves blowing someone unless it was for fame or money. She probably is just into you and wants to see it. Believe it or not, every once in a while you are cool enough to have a girl want to watch you banging her. And even if your face is in it, just crop that time out and send it to her.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 07:59 AM
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You only live once. Don’t blow it. Take the plunge and go after a real dream. Do it 100% and don’t ever take no for answer. Took me 6 years to get mine and I’m in no way out of the cellar yet if i want to keep progressing in my career. There’s enough socially funded safety nets (assuming that you live in a first world country) that even if you fall on your face a time or two, as long as you’re smart and driven, you will succeed. Watched my cousin burn his super high paying actuary pharmaceutical…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 06:37 AM
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28 year old single guy who dumped my unicorn girlfriend last year. And I’m talking true unicorn status. Hardest thing i ever did. I to this day am curious if i can ever find someone who would be as rock solid as a true partner but I’ll give you two different points of view. For me, i think I’m just too young. I!!!! Did not want to get married or start a family yet. I loved her and she was fun but she was ready for that stuff and i wasn’t. As perfect as she could’ve been, i would’ve resented her …
/r/askTRP12/04/18 06:23 AM
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Make connections, don’t dominate conversation. Best thing i ever learned when i used to bar tend was how to talk to anyone about anything. I ask them a question about themselves or whatever sports thing is going on and see what they have to say. Then i say something about me that relates and ask them a deeper question to get them to open up. Actively listen. Rinse and repeat. I’m very dominate in my social circle when it comes to conversation but that comes with practice. Start small with buildi…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:52 AM
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Prince has a great answer but i would like to also attack a different angle of your problem. You’re 20. Literally at the height of emotional turmoil for a man/boy. Your brain is developing still and you and all your friends change at will. It’s an exciting time in your life, but you also hit hard emotional points that you almost can’t explain. You’re just emotionally unstable. And i don’t mean YOU are. I mean 20 year olds are, i was a high octane train wreck at 20. One minute regretting breaking…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:45 AM
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Guy above you seems pretty spot on. “I tell it how it is!!!!” “I keep it real dawg!!” Sounds like you’re going a bit overboard with how “alpha” you’re being. I’m the AMOG of my group and talk a gang of shit because that’s how i like it and my friends mostly love it, but I’ve crossed the line quite a few times and had to give myself the reigns and even apologize some times for taking a joke too far that clearly upset some people. Don’t act like you’re above your friends with your Newfound indepen…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:35 AM
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The whole beta provider thing is probably right. But also, smart girls know that guys (just like girls) want what they can’t have. A girl with true game will string you along only giving you a little more each time to get you to really like her before you bang her and make you think she’s always that difficult. If she’s saying “oh because i realllllly totes like this guy, I’ll not be my normal whore self and put out on the first date” she is beta buxing you hard. If she is always like that, then…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:25 AM
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You win some, you lose some. If they’re blowing you in the car on the first date, guess what? They’re doing it with everyone else too. As in they’re seeing other guys while you’re getting your foot in the door and maybe one of these poor saps who’ve been on it for a while are wifing them up to hopefully stop her from slutting around town.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:22 AM
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Just keep it real with her. Don’t promise that you’ll try and make it work with her overseas, etc. Your relationship is over. Say it’s been a good experience and you’d like to keep seeing her until you leave and hold frame. Like all girls, she’ll try and “change” you and convince you she’s the one and give you all the sex you can handle and you can stay honest the whole time. When she cries, just be nice and pass the comfort test but don’t lie. You don’t have to. She isn’t going to go anywhere w…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:18 AM
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I’m sure tons of people here have had luck, but i never ever let an internet stranger into my house without first meeting somewhere first. Risk/reward just isn’t there. And don’t ever meet a girl and her “friends” just by yourself. A first date is already enough of you putting out your best for one person, now you have to spit game to two at the same time? And like others have said, poor girls love to smoke for free
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:14 AM
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If your buddies get good results in the gym, work in with them. If not, go on r/fitness and look around there for routines. As someone who’s also in the army, my one piece of advise would be, don’t forget to run. So many people lift a few times a week and forget that come six months you’ve got another record apft and the run for most is the hardest to max. You’re obviously enlisted, so remember that your pt test scores matter for promotions. But to answer your question more directly, my lifting …
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:09 AM
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As an active duty aviation officer in the army, i feel ya. I’m responsible for so much, and my days feel like a pure sprint and i just got promoted into a position that is way above my experience level because I’ve been working at a sprint killing it. But it sucks, I’m almost always under water at work and there’s never a true light at the end of the tunnel. First key is keeping yourself healthy. Working out and eating right and most importantly, sleeping. If i don’t get at least 7-7.5 hours of …
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:00 AM
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Wtf... if you’re from a third world country, all of the first worlds are upgrades. Don’t be a TRP incel and think just cuz there’s cucks in some countries that everyone is like that. I’m American, so obviously I’ll be a fan for here but any developed country will net you a win if you’re smart AND hard working. You can cherry pick something wrong about anywhere but if you’re from an area of low economic mobility, anywhere else is a huge victory for you. You can always move away after you gain exp…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 06:05 AM
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A lot of good answers here but i would add that people just want what they can’t have. I had crazy one-itis if the gods for my whore of a college gf that i could never tame while i ended things with a real unicorn of a year and a half because it ended up being so “easy” i never had to work for it and i kind of got bored even though she was probably even hotter than the college one. I would advise you to get over yours though because she sounds like a nut job and won’t do anything good for you.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 11:06 PM
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Your attitude is awful. You’re going in there with the mindset that you have to bang out every chick in the first date or it’s a complete failure and she has no interest. You’ve read too much TRP if you think that that’s going to happen every time. Yes, if you’re a 10/10 and have amazing game then it’s possible to get close to that but most of us just aren’t. Work to get as close to that as possible but setting these expectations on a date is probably throwing off your game and girls can smell i…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 02:50 PM
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If the issue is really that rare, it could be for numerous reasons. But assuming that she wasn’t physically ill or having mega period cramps or something outside of you physically making her just not want to be intimate in general, it always comes down to you failing to maintain attraction. Like the above said, if you’re not in prime shape, make sure you’re back in the gym. Worst thing you can ever do when this happens though is act butt hurt or like you care, that dries up the pussy so fast, an…
/r/askTRP25/12/17 03:44 PM
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Not all frats do that to you. The "top tier" ones will that get all the hot girls but if you're good looking like you claim, just the networking of a lower frat will get you all the girls you need/want. I joined a house that didn't haze (well, when it did, it was all fun stuff) and it made college the best experience of my life. They weren't "top dogs" on campus but we still had plenty of girls over, all my boys weren't douche bags like in the other ones, and my networking circle grew to about 1…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:16 PM
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Bill burr explains it in my favorite way... it's like trying a cake, as a man, you're just sticking your finger in cakes. Isn't really that gross at all. But imagine as a girl having to take that cake and shove it up your vagina every time. He says it way funnier than me but I think you get the point. But really, since men have been the ones in control for so long in history that I'm guessing that's primarily how this view has been going along for so long and is in every culture out there. Is it…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:06 PM
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90% of all first dates I go on, they offer to split which I usually take them up on. For the other 10% i usually pay because I just dont really care enough to make it a big deal. But I don't care because I always go out somewhere cheap for a first date. A bar for a drink or out for ice cream and a walk. If she really thinks I'm a beta Bucks for buying her a milk shake, I guarantee you wasn't gonna fuck me anyways. Never use the first date location as a means to impress them with how much of a ba…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:10 AM
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Nice. Yeah I remember breaking up with girls when I was younger and I would do what you're doing and feel awesome for a few weeks while my brother who is much older would try and say that I'm not over her yet. I of course was like whatever, and like always, he was right and it would eventually hit haha biggest thing is to be careful with alcohol and make sure that your career/school and the gym don't fall by the wayside when those bad feelings finally hit you. Seems like you have a good handle o…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 04:14 PM
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Good for you man. Confidence is really all you need out there. Do be aware though, you're not over your gf yet. You dated for two years and both parties always pay the piper emotionally no matter what you do. Not trying to be a downer, but when you wake up in a few weeks hung over or whatever after not getting laid for a few weeks and getting shot down the previous night by a girl you were interested in, is when it'll finally strike (obviously I just made that up but I think you get what I mean)…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 04:10 PM
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You're allowed to want a girl friend if that's what you like. Relationships are usually much more fulfilling and satisfactory when you actually go for the LTR vs. plate route. BUT, oneitis is the usual result of having only one girl. Attempting to be a "good" monogamous partner and focus on one emotional connection with one person completely rids you of that sweet abundance mentality that helps to keep you from becoming billy beta at the first sign of trouble. The biggest fear we usually dig our…
/r/askTRP02/05/17 02:07 AM
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Dude. You were with this chick for 8 fucking years. It's going to take a little bit longer than a three months of hitting on chicks at the bar to get over it. You're obviously in the most sever part of the breakup too where you're bargaining for her back, scared shes banging other dudes, etc. We've all been there, you just gotta suck it up and drive on. No, do not take her back, you've already scuttled the relationship and it'll never be the same. Keep at it in the gym, it'll help. Block her off…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 01:31 AM
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It takes about a week to get any exposure on those things. You forget that you're in a pool of thousands of thirsty guys, so odds are you didn't even show up on anyones thing to even let them swipe you. When I swipe on tinder I'll usually get 5 or so matches, sometimes even more and I'm nothing special. Make your first pic a good photogenic picture of your face with no sunglasses or hat. Then the rest just you doing cool shit while still looking photogenic. And have something nice and simple wri…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 01:25 AM
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I think you've honestly done everything you need to already. You're going to stop being friends with him which is obviously the correct move since he's a piece of shit friend. As for the girl thing I wouldn't tell her to stop talking to him. People love what they can't have, and ordering a girl around verbally doesn't ever end that well. What I would really like to tell you is to nuke the relationship because your girlfriend should never be having emotional conversations with some other dude beh…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 01:14 AM
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Yeah I've actually been thinking about taking that picture off there so when I do meet up with someone I have a little more mystery/something cool to talk about.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:54 PM
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Yeah I totally get what you mean. My big passion is flying but unfortunately there's nothing but books at my house for that. Maybe instead of cracking out all the cool travel pictures I have while on the date I'll say they're on my computer just so I have something haha thanks for the input.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:35 PM
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Coming from the guy who posts he has trouble getting laid. Irony indeed.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:10 PM
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No just your comment added nothing to the conversation other than you think you're better than me. Which maybe you are, but still, what was the point of posting other than trying to talk shit like you're some awesome internet super hero?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:08 PM
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That's what I kind of figured. This sub annoys me sometimes with the type of advice it sometimes solicits. I by no means need TRP but use it as a tool when needed especially to keep me grounded but sometimes the neck beards come out and act like every girl you see at a Starbucks you can just fuck close if you read the sidebar enough. Good point though, it's kind of what I'm lacking at the moment is a good reason to transition the date to my place. I used to play guitar a ton in high school but k…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:05 PM
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So if you don't have sex every date you're not allowed to post on here? Yeah, you're a fag. It's all about learning from mistakes and improving. Not humble bragging about which waifu pillow you blew your load all over last night.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:02 PM
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I mean I make it come out naturally and does end up being pretty cool since it's not just pictures of me but pictures of things like jaguars and other animals in the rain forest that I took. I do see what you're saying though and it is an issue I have with first dates sometimes where it turns more into a job interview than a date.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:00 PM
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I mean I never really payed for much more than a drink and all hung out for 3-5 hours so I kind of doubt that.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 06:58 PM
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Yeah I was normally a first date is kind of a screener kind of guy but now I'm starting to see I should push a little harder. That's been my second date move is to just ask them to come make dinner at my place but like I said earlier in my post I'm just getting my feet wet into it with tinder and I'm not used to actually striking solid easy dates off it to ask them over. Almost seems too forward but from the sounds of it I should just go right to it.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 12:40 PM
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Lol dude. You met some girl on Instagram. To her you're nothing. Just some maybe that can also maybe a source of validation. Tinder/insta/bumble/etc is a numbers game man. Remember this, even the greatest baseball hitters of all time only hit .300. And online dating is cancer. You did it fine not letting her disrespect your time like that but after that she obviously didn't care. No big deal, but get used to it. Being single and going for online type dating will keep you mad if you can't hack th…
/r/askTRP25/04/17 11:59 AM
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So I actually felt that quite a bit through all of them. My question then is for some random tinder girl I can just invite them over on the first date? I've always felt meeting someone online you usually grab a drink or coffee before moving that fast but if it's that easy then I should just move to what you're saying. Like tonight we hit it off well but I just didn't know how to transition over to getting her to my place which I've done before on first dates but only once with a tinder date vs s…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 10:56 AM
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Nope. Two were probably the type that would and I failed hence the lessons learned portion. I personally am not a great first date super closer but yeah I'm not proud of it. Not mad though since not every girl is a slam dunk gonna bang her type but I'm super rusty and honestly just don't have that great of game. I've closed like that before but getting back into it I was way to conservative and didn't push as hard as I normally can. The FR was more of a lessons learned thing for myself to reflec…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 10:49 AM
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awesome post... OP, feel happy someone cares about your miserable life enough to write something like this out. He's right on every front. quit being a fag and go live! Have some fun, quit being so worried.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 10:04 AM
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Yes and no. Girls are super self conscious and hate being rejected. But usually what it comes down to is maybe you were too "douchy" or brag hard. Idk but that's just my guess. There are girls out there that will not try with you becusse they think you're a player or whatever
/r/askTRP25/04/17 09:56 AM
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just kidding, I think I figured it out
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 09:45 AM
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Just got a message from the auto mod saying I forgot to add a flair? I don't know what that even means, but hopefully this gets posted. If I need to do something else, mods, please tell me where I fucked up and how to do whatever.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 09:34 AM
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I agree 100% on all your points. I think what OP was upset about though isn't that he can't get them to put out on night one, but that he finds out a few years ago there was guys that she would put out night one for. Therefore thinking his nice little girl is actually kind of a hoe or being self conscious wondering why he didn't get that treatment while others did.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 03:20 AM
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My body shudders at the mere thought of the 2015 super bowl here in Phoenix where I worked 8 straight open to closes (was the bar next door to the stadium pretty much). I definitely won't miss those type of hours once I finally switch careers.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 04:55 AM
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You're over thinking things. Being a head case. You forget that in college, everyone is absolutely hammered 24/7, a cool senior in a frat in a college town may as well be a millionaire rolling up to the club in a lambo, and at 19-22 everyone is just plain old retarded with their decision making. 3-5 dates in a regular out of college atmosphere is just fine lol I mean yeah, we all would love to close on the first date and I'm sure there's guys out there that can do it, hell, even I've done it a t…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 04:19 AM
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No age limit. Unless you're super old or something. There's guys who work at the bar I do who are like 40. It was my full time job just by complete chance and dumb luck. I don't work at a college bar though so our age demographic of clientele ranges from 21-40s usually sometimes even older than that since the area is event driven. But if you're under 35 and don't look old you'll be fine. They just want someone who is reliable, a hard worker, and won't steal shit. Bar tending those prime shifts a…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:04 AM
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Then it'll be the crowd you're looking for. I'm guessing you moved to a new city after college? That's what I did as well so I know the feeling.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:56 AM
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The change from beta to Casanova doesn't happen overnight lol just like anything it takes a lot of hard work and experience. Just an example, I used tinder a few years ago for like two years and maybe came out with 4 mediocre dates the whole time with no sex. Now spool up to right now and this is my second week after re downloading it (was in an LTR until then) and I have 4 dates lined up for this week, which two I have already gone on. So what's the difference between 2014 penguin and 2017 peng…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:54 AM
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Manager at a bar/nightclub here. Just walk up and apply. Preferably on a Monday/Tuesday when the manager will in during the day handling orders and handling payroll. Explain to him you want to and can only work weekends and are willing to start at the bottom and work your way up. Bar back is usually where they'll throw you. It'll take a long time to make bar tender if that's what you really want and bar backing blows. You just run around stocking stuff and carrying heavy things around. Both of t…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:47 AM
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Best answer here^
/r/askTRP19/04/17 09:18 PM
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Yeah, you actually did everything just fine. I'm recently single and have been firing up tinder again for the last two weeks and I'll give you two examples. First girl, ask her out and says she's got work (totally believable since she was a nurse and I didn't know her schedule at all) but says she should be free over the weekend. Weekend is coming close and I see if she's free. Nope, she's going to another city with family or some other made up excuse but doesn't attempt to reschedule. Nexted. G…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 08:09 PM
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Yeah, quit being a defeatist ass loser and go fix your failure of a life. Jerking off and playing video games only gets you so far. Your brain craves social satisfaction, especially from women. It's literally our entire construct to try and breed. Not saying there's not more to life than girls, but to just give up on them because you're all woe is me, is going to leave you dissatisfied emotionally and physically. It's not easy to go from neck beard fat loser to alpha porn Star. Plenty of guys I …
/r/askTRP18/04/17 08:26 PM
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Comfort is for girlfriends. Not girls you haven't banged. That being said, in college I was always super nice still to the girls that came around to our parties but not "r/niceguys" nice, just being a good host kind of nice while still being my normal shock value humor extrovert self and I did pretty well. I know this sounds cliche but just be yourself. I don't try and force myself to sit there and be stoic because it's just not who I am. I much prefer to talk about things with a ton of passion …
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:41 PM
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I don't know anything about sleep apnea but if I don't get at least 7 hours or so my day is pretty fucked now that I'm 27. But at 19 I could go out binge drinking until 330 am, wake up for army rotc PT at 530 and crush through my whole day and go out again that night. You shouldn't be this tired. So I would agree that either your sleep is messed up or you're missing some sort of vitamin/nutrient. My high school girlfriend became anemic from not having enough iron and she didn't find out for mont…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:23 PM
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Sounds like you already know how to handle this one. Keep her as a plate and never upgrade. Don't entertain conversation about her ex and all should be fine.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:19 PM
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I get why you're worried, if the invite was just lip service so she didn't have to feel bad about going, then obviously don't go, but if it was genuine (only you would be able to tell), then go out there and have fun.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:16 PM
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What everyone forgets is that no matter how cool and alpha you think you are, if you really liked the girl, it's going to take some time to get over it completely. The connections in your brain are too strong to just die off because you bang some slut on tinder the next week. I lost my college girlfriend for this very reason and used to have a pattern of that behavior you described. Now that you have fully accepted that you have this problem just next time stay aware of it. My last relationship …
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:07 PM
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Ding ding ding! Now you're getting it. I know exactly what you mean by this post because I was the same way in college when still inexperienced. Me and my most long term ex broke up because I was being a beta and she stopped having sex with me/talking to other guys. But once we broke up and she "never knew if this was the last time she would ever see me" after we would hang out again she would put out more than at any point before in the relationship. We all want what we can't have, apply this t…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 03:49 PM
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Your cousin is a prick. Even my non best friends know better than to do anything that disrespectful to my girlfriend of 3 fucking years. I would either confront him or stop hanging out with him. Slapping your girlfriends ass and giving weird butt knee massages is not something your family should be doing to your girlfriend. It's fucking weird. As for your girl... I would agree with what everyone is saying that she seems like an attention whore but my question for you is how receptive of this is …
/r/askTRP17/04/17 03:44 PM
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So she planned a trip before dating you and likes you enough that she wants you to tag along? What's the problem? That's literally exactly what she should've done. And you've only been dating a few months so she doesn't really even owe you that much seeing as the trip was already planned. That being said, your decision to go should be based on if you actually want to go and will have fun. Or are you going to be salty and butt hurt around these new guys? If you're going just because you're scared…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 03:29 PM
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Well lifting/getting in shape equates to confidence. So yeah I would agree.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 07:53 AM
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All that matters is do you look good (in rp's "lift" suggestion). Is your workout making you look like a fit ass mother fucker? Then keep at it! Is it not? And you're still kinda skinny fat or mooshy looking or small??? Then lift! Lift just means get your fag ass in shape. Look like a strong ass alpha mother fucker. No one cares how you do it, fuck, if sucking dick gets you looking buff than go for it. But seriously, lifting will gain you muscle mass which after dieting correctly and so will mak…
/r/askTRP16/04/17 05:44 AM
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Oh I'm sure you're a cool dude, my point was more that this is what HER subconscious is viewing you as. I would start with the side bar and read there where it talks about those two things. Like others have mentioned, the married sub will have better advice since I don't know the first thing about implementing this stuff when there's a bunch of toddlers in the mix. I would chalk up your issue to just allowing the behavior to go on too long without it being checked and now it's gotten out of hand…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:34 PM
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Value is perceived, not absolute. Currently she feels that her value is still higher than yours even though you're right, a jobless single mom to two isn't much of a catch. She doesn't operate on logic though, her hardware runs on emotions. And her emotions are telling her right now that you'll slave away for her and accept weeks of no sex while you give her money. Pretty much being treated like a queen. 6'1 and 175 seems pretty light so unless you're ripped with like 4% body fat, it's time to g…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:21 PM
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Moved this comment under the one I meant to respond to
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:20 PM
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You haven't mentioned your looks once yet when people ask. Are you ugly? Fat? Skinny fat? Money only gets you so far, a girl this hot will probably need the whole package if she's really that big of a head case especially seeing as you don't have very tight game which is why she doesn't respect you. Get your fat rich ass in the gym. Get a personal trainer if you need it seeing as you probably have the money. Stop doing all the housework if you're already the breadwinner. You've set a terrible pr…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:03 PM
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Yeah you should be over it, though to be fair having your girl kiss another guy in a club right there infront of you is about as big a pounding as your ego can get. Just keep your head down and keep at it in the gym and work/school and it will pass. It always passes. Stay out of any of this manufactured drama as well. It won't help you one bit. Sounds like you know what you're doing just upset you're still feeling this way. Some things screw people up more than others I guess.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:01 PM
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How long did you date and how long ago did she smack face with another guy? Sounds like you're doing the right things to get over her but if you dated for a long time and this was recent you just need more time to fully heal. Takes a while for your brain to purge out those deep emotional connections you made fully.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:47 PM
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Be an adult and ask her to meet up so you can exchange your shit. You both have each other's stuff so you both have something to lose if one of you is a Jerry sprinter type cunt. Just text her asking if she can meet when you're free to get your stuff back and so you can give hers back. Don't talk at all about the break up or your feelings even if she baits you into it. Be cordial, and just get your shit back. Then never talk to her again because she's a flake. You don't deserve a flake, so dont …
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:43 PM
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Be aware though, you will feel the break up pain too, just for guys it's usually a little bit more delayed especially when yourethe one who pulled the trigger. But don't let it get you down, just keep up with it at the gym and your career until it passes so you're in prime position once the breakup pains finally pass.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:38 PM
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Sadly I just had to break up with my almost unicorn esque girlfriend myself. She literally did nothing wrong, not once in almost a year and a half and had the perfect upbringing conservative values to back it up. But once the feelings left me, there was no getting them back. I started to lose them a few months ago and it progressively got worse as I became more annoyed by her and finally my brother had to share his opinion that I just wasn't into her anymore and it was time to move on. You made …
/r/askTRP12/04/17 04:58 PM
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Omg.... why does no one ever listen???
/r/askTRP12/03/17 08:10 PM
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I'm in as well though have never had to deal with this specific type of incident. Bad news: she is having your child (unless I read that wrong) and you'll owe her money for it for 18 years, your discharge papers now don't help you get a job, your BC sucks. Good news: 20k is a lot of fucking money in most areas and could help you find a kick ass lawyer to help with the divorce, you now know that she is an awful human being and can separate from her ASAP, you're only 20! You have most of your life…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 05:46 PM
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Yeah, remember that every pound extra you have equates to an extra pound you have to lift during a push up. On a pt test I can knock out 80 no problem at my nice 165 pounds, but if I was 200 I would probably be doing 20.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 04:47 PM
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You're right. You're not their first priority or they found someone better. Assuming they're hot, it's not really that big of a deal. Lots of girls talk to multiple guys at a time when single. You putting plans so far in advance is setting them up to flake because girls have no sense timing or foresight. They may be genuine in wanting to accept your offer to hang out but come Saturday, 8 whole days later, she forgot she had plans for her friends birthday, is just not in the mood (for you), or an…
/r/askTRP11/03/17 04:45 PM
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How do marine brain cells die? Alone. What do you call a marine with two brain cells? Pregnant. Lift and lose weight. 3-4 sets of 10-15 reps on the bench should get you up in no time. I'm saying lose weight because people who can only do 20 push-ups tend to be fat since that's pretty low for a guy. Eat right. Your body needs good fuel to recover itself and get stronger. These all sound obvious but if you can only do 20 push-ups you're not doing some of them.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 04:37 PM
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Sounds like a good start at least. Getting in shape and going for a new job should be enough to keep her off your mind. Crippling oneitis is hard to break and in my experience it took a few heart breaks and let downs before I fully shook off being able to get that feeling for a woman. You have to just accept that you'll never be with her and move on. At least you have good male friends which probably shows that minus you being bald and fat, you're probably pretty cool on at least some level or t…
/r/askTRP11/03/17 04:31 PM
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Yes, there are good women out there. Hardest part is having the experience and foresight to sift out red flags when they come your way. My college girlfriend was for the most part awesome, and I had a oneitis of the gods for her. But in the early stages of the relationship I missed super obvious red flags that would come back to haunt me. Even to this day she hits me up behind her husbands back because it's just who she is. You need to find women who don't party and think that being a slut is wr…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 04:58 PM
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This right here. You win some, you lose some, and I would dry up my girls pussy any day over fighting fucking cops lol he hits the nail on the head, you could've handled the situation much better to basically spin it against them while still giving up the chairs. I'm a brand new military pilot and had the army pay for all my college too and the amount of fights I've backed down from are too many to count because of what a criminal charge (especially involving alcohol) would've done to me. It's g…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 05:32 PM
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Spent the night at a guys place when she had her own dad there for a ride??? You'll never know what happened but I would dump her immediately. That's at the least extremely disrespectful to you and a slap in the face in my opinion. One good lesson from TRP is to never put up with this kind of treatment, you don't deserve it and there are so many other girls out there. Anyone mature enough for a committed relationship knows doing something like this is a huge no go.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 05:40 PM
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No, sleep is paramount to your health and mental growth. That study that we all get taught that says sleep is better than an all nighter studying is for real. Your brain needs to recharge to reclaim what you've learned and your body deserves the rest. That being said, my main point was, don't sleep in for 10+ hours because youre a lazy piece of shit. Once in a while because you went out and had a good time is okay, but aim for 8 hours and get the fuck up and do your thing. I used to bar tend and…
/r/askTRP01/01/17 03:38 AM
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DONT MARRY HER DONT MARRY HER DONT MARRY HER DONT MARRY HER I know how much it makes sense to do so, but fucking wait. She'll bitch and moan, as willl both your families but just be a man and say that your relationship doesn't need the added stress and that your first priority is the child and forming a healthy relationship with the unexpecting mother. Stick to your guns at all cost, once you marry, on top of child support you owe her half your shit. Man the fuck up, and help raise the child and…
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:27 AM
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Eating right and working out. Low carb diet. There are no "freebees" in nature unfortunately.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:21 AM
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I graduate from flight school next week and didn't want to burn leave since I can sell it back and will need the money for my next career endevor (I'm only part time military). I'm home alone, drinking beer and smoking cigs for the first time in a while watching football and playing video games. Figure this is my last chance to just sit here and let myself go for a night before moving back home and gearing up for another year grinder of learning pilot stuff, but this time being poor since I have…
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:17 AM
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Caveat to that, don't let a girl derail these plans. If they would like to tag along for the ride, cool. But if they ever want you to compromise on this stuff before children and you're ready, cut them off. I've seen so many dreams die off due to marriage. Both men and women.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:09 AM
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PLAN YOUR CAREER. That is the first and only thing that should be priority for you right now. Sounds like you have the world by the balls and should act accordingly. Take a job some where you want to live, move far away if that's what you want to do. Stay in shape. Your early 20s is the one time in your life that most doors are truly still open for you. I'm getting out of military flight school and had to decide what I'm going to do when I graduate (still need a civilian career since I'm only pa…
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:07 AM
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Is your question that you know you're going to break up, so you would like to do it now, preemptivley? Or is it that you don't know if you could handle a LDR?
/r/askTRP01/01/17 01:59 AM
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Withholds sex, withholds attention, dresses in a new sluttier way to go do shit without you, doesn't invite you to things that it would seem normal to invite you to, "goes to sleep" super early and stops texting you by 8PM when that's not normal, or "fell asleep" when she texts you the next day, Is out drinking without you more than normal, texts guys that she normally does, All the shit that makes sense. Girls aren't easy to read, but they're also not "that" hard to read either. They do the sam…
/r/askTRP01/01/17 01:57 AM
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Just a friend? Or do you want to bang her?
/r/askTRP01/01/17 01:52 AM
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It's the woman's version of r/niceguys. Their whole life they've been worshipped (if they're pretty) and you've not only thrown that trend on tilt, but if you truely are ignoring, you've shattered it. Just a tantrum. Take it as a big compliment.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 01:41 AM
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Getting up early is so key. I was a bar tender before heading over to a military flight school (tho I was part military and still will be when I get home) and don't have to wake up until 9:30am at the earliest if I was the opener and I could be still drunk from the night before. Hell, I even made more money usually when I was hung over like that. But being here at flight school for the last 1.5 years and waking up as early as 3:30am for months at a time, I now wake up by 7 at the latest if I was…
/r/askTRP01/01/17 01:39 AM
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Exactly this. The one thing ALL of us are miserable at is admitting something is our fault. Much easier to blame and project on others. Hell even I still do it from time to time when I'm embarrassed of some failure of mine. It's why denial is the first phase of grief or whatever
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 01:53 AM
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You're right. Absolutely not necessary. I did join a house but they didn't haze, and anything we did do was more fun than anything. But if you want easier access to hot bitches and be sorrounded by more alpha males, it's not a terrible choice. My friends in those "top" houses absolutely cleaned house. We always had girls but they looked like the playboy mansion compared to us. Looking back I totally don't regret my choice since I joined for my friends and not bitches anyways since I don't have a…
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:43 AM
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Your mom is not setting up a date, she's setting up a marriage. I'm going to guess your Jewish? That being said you mention she wants you to move back home already. Does she want you to quit school or just go to one by her? Is the school by her better? When your mom holds the coin be careful but at the same time don't be scared to set boundaries. Her holding that money over your head is already causing a covert contract which will either force you to move back home against your will or cause her…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 01:27 PM
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Stop being so insecure and making posts trying to get us to validate things that you don't need us to validate. Yes, of course you can play some fucking madden with the boys once in a while. No need to worry what some of the community thinks of it as long as your time wasting hobby is well under control and you've already got a high SMV. Same thing with people trying to validate other things that go against certain principles, don't follow every TRP thing like it's the Bible, just use it as a to…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 04:26 PM
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And how so?
/r/PussyPassDenied24/11/16 08:35 AM
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As even a TRPer I disagree with this. I think the punishment should just be normal perjury. It is a lie, like any other. While my emotions side with you as a man, and even with an understanding of how easy it is to make this claim, the crime prosecuted should be the crime committed.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/11/16 07:10 AM
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Believe it or not, good women actually exist. That being said, they're usually not found on tinder. Just roll with it and have fun, stop stressing so much, you're already fuckig her, that's the hardest part. Just don't put her on a pedastool or let her take precedence over other priorities.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 04:50 AM
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TRP rarely recommends for you to get professional help from counslers so when it happens like it has on this post, don't take it with just a grain of salt. If you mean what you posted you are well beyond the scope of this sub or any Internet forum in general. You have some sort of real mental condition and it deserves the proper remedy, which sounds like professional therapy and possibly medication. We recently saw someone here on base kill them selves and it's brutally sad to watch, guy just go…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 09:59 PM
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I've dated a similar type of girl. So sweet and so nice when I met her then admitted she used to strip, then that she actually did still go in 2-4 times a month. Still would take a hit of ex at the stripper job here or there and was a total hippy. Used to be a lesbian too even lol I had a great time for the few months we spent together, she was super nice and whenever her friends or brothers were around me they were super cool to me. Then one day she ghosted me... obvious she either relapsed or …
/r/askTRP16/11/16 10:00 PM
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It gets much better with age. Experience helps you avoid the bad ones and how to attack certain situations the "right way". It's not so much that you have more feels than them, it's that as men, were not as equipped to manage them when we finally do get some. Girls have been crying and bitching since they were born, you've felt those emotions with this girl and when someone died and that's about it. Experience will help you be able to harness those as well. Find solace in the fact that as a youn…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 09:41 PM
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Yeah PTSD doesnt have to come from physical pain. Emotional distress can cause it. A few guys I know have it, and some never even were in the thick of anything. They probably got it from emotionally constantly being on edge in a combat theatre and not being mentally capable of handling. No fault of their own, just their brain couldn't deal with it as minor as their situation seemed compared to others. Yeah never physically harm anyone, unless it is in self defense because you or someone else is …
/r/askTRP16/11/16 08:15 PM
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PTSD doesn't happen because of just some skank making you upset, it comes from your brain being traumatized especially over an extended period of time. While no single act she ever did should've caused this, if this went on for the course of years, it may have. Maybe PTSD is a little strong of a potential diagnosis, but like I said, some cheating hoe shouldn't keep you hung up more than a few months. Especially with you having dreams that stir you into such a state it prompts you to make a post …
/r/askTRP16/11/16 07:28 PM
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Jesus Christ, never. Ever. Date army girls. I'm at flight school right now and I am not exaggerating one bit, every single girl here who has a bf or husband not here has cheated. And these girls are supposed to be fucking officers, not your run of the mill slutty enlisted chicks. But they're all whores. Though I don't blame them, you even said it yourself 1:200 ratio pretty much. You seem like you're suffering from a mild form of PTSD. As gay and embarrassing as it sounds, getting cheated on lik…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 04:38 PM
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Number one tell for me is how good she is in bed. My slutty ex was the best I ever had, but she was a sloot. My current one is 29 and had been with three people ever before me and didn't even have her first kiss until 20. Couldn't believe it (or that she had a stretch of three years in between that where she was single and didn't even kiss anyone) until we had sex. She was scared to do anything besides missionary and I've had to train her ever since. Made it obvious she was telling some form of …
/r/askTRP16/11/16 04:01 PM
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I'm leaning a bit more towards this. If he's practically living at her place (dumb move) he's set the precedence that they may as well be married as she's doing all this wife type stuff and even buying him an iPhone. Though this is a covert contract and not okay, it seems that OP let it get out of control and now she's finally reached her breaking point of the covert contract. Resentment is hard to come back from. And she clearly is starting to resent him. I don't know enough about their money s…
/r/askTRP15/11/16 06:03 PM
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You're right, she may have been telling some form of the truth or maybe even the whole truth. But now that the trust has been betrayed you'll never go back to it being the same anyways. You made the right decision. Now make sure you stick to it. As for your friend, I have no idea if he's telling you the truth or not. Sounds a bit shady but that's a judgement call on your part. Good friends are hard to come by so don't nuke it unless you have proof. And if you're a baller he shouldn't be able to …
/r/askTRP13/11/16 09:57 PM
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Not allowing you to see her phone at the instant of request when you had a legitimate reason to verify is an auto hard next. She had something to hide. Dump her now and save yourself the pain. I usually like to play devils advocate here to try and keep this place from sounding like an echo chamber of 4chan'ers but this is a clear and cut case.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 09:42 PM
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Yeah, in most cases they don't deserve an explanation, but I feel her actually going through something horrific like that at least grants her a chance to see what the results of her actions will net since they're due to an actual event, but I agree. Odds are slim.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 10:00 PM
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Sounds more like comfort test than shit. I can be pretty cruel to my gf sometimes with how relentless I am making jokes (nothing too bad, but I do sometimes forget when to pump the brakes). Your girls response is similar to what I usually get when I hurt her feelings because she feels like she cares more and that I'm just being mean. My girlfriend is also much more on the sweet and conservative side of the spectrum vs the bitchy slut type that needs a lot of mind games to keep around so that may…
/r/askTRP07/11/16 07:45 PM
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I took a full shot of police grade to the face once, worst hour of my life. And then I forgot to wash my hands and body before peeing afterwards and got some in muh pee hole.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/11/16 10:55 PM
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There's probably two things dragging you down here. First off, you've let this sub make you paranoid because it's an echo chamber of "they're all whores! They all cheat! My wife of 20 years just cheated on my with my brother, stole my kids, and half my shit!". This initial paranoia, or awakening, is necessary for those who came here truly ignorant of how a lot of women are and still believe every girl they date is a unicorn. But if you already have a grasp on this and weed out red flag riddled w…
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:56 PM
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Most guys are like this. While I'm also a cocky douche to my girlfriend, it gets elevated to 11 with my close friends. She just doesn't get my sense of humor as well as my best guy friends do so my jokes and conversations have to differ. She's great in her own way, but just like all girls, we have a different type of bond than me and my homies do.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 03:40 AM
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There ya go! Though this one seems obvious to us on the outside, for a young guy who's just starting to get his new found emotional side battered on, you're gonna be an idiot for a while. Only experience will lock your frame down as solid as you read about here. But good on you for listening to the advice here. At 17 this is hard advice to swallow since you probably haven't had a chance to have sex much (or maybe ever) and have no idea where the next one is gonna come from. Never let those thoug…
/r/askTRP29/10/16 12:10 AM
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Hormones plus alcohol equal crazy. Assuming you know she's faithful and all, she's probably PMSing or something. My girlfriend is the shit but we had to get the morning after pill once and she turned into a raging crazy bitch for a few days due to the hormones. Like legit insane woman. Brush it off and move on. Now if this issue persists, then the cheating comments may be more accurate. If she goes back to normal today and so on, you're good.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 07:50 PM
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My god this is cringe worthy. Demote to plate immediately unless you developed one-Itis for her, then hard next immediately. And this is coming from the guy who tries to slow down on Internet hard next advice but this is just too much. She goes on dates with a guy she "used" to fuck! Do you want cuck stamped on your forehead?? You should be pissed off a girlfriend would even have the nerve to ask such a question. I'm pissed for you actually. She's a disrespecting bitch. I hope that was harsh eno…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 02:08 AM
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Lol yeah if done while not whining like a bitch it can be okay, just make a joke of it. At the worst (assuming he's truthful about how great every other aspect of the relationship is) she did it on purpose to get back at him for all the dread he's been laying and probably forgot about it because girls are immature. I remember for the longest time ever my ex had this picture of her and her ex on her photo wall from high school. I finally asked who he was (even though I knew) and she freaked out n…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 09:52 PM
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Always go with your gut. When something doesn't seem right, it's because it usually isn't. Could you have pussed out on some grade-a never been touched tight beautiful little virgin pussy that you could've drank from it's so fresh? Yeah, possibly. But I remember one of my best friends (tho the living embodiment of the 40 year old virgin) bang out some Asian not that attractive rave chick who was obviously fucked up in the head and she later killed herself and it kinda fucked him up for a month o…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 09:45 PM
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I would agree with the BPD, but these are also symptoms of projection when a partner cheats on another. Take that with a tiny grain of salt though since I have no idea what the scope of your relationship is outside this or if it would even be possible for her to at the moment without you knowing. Just throwing that out there since I've seen these same things in cheaters as well. Assuming she's being genuine though it seems like it's the whole abandonment issues thing like others are saying. Suck…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 09:13 PM
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Don't do dinner as stated above. Honestly, if she already likes you, it doesn't matter what the fuck you do as long as it's fun. The fall idea above is baller, girls love to be all over you when they're scared and the only thing they like more than money is pumpkin shit.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 11:16 PM
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Welcome to your early twenties. They suck lol. I wouldn't sweat living with your parents, in your situation I would do the same. Just focus on the main goal at hand, get that degree. It will be the ticket to your freedom. As for your girl, without really knowing what's going on, I couldn't tell you much. Sounds like she just doesn't know what she wants to do and is scared of committing. Which I don't blame her for, Full time military is no joke, you WILL get deployed, having a good family life i…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 01:36 AM
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Why does she dread it? Toxic command climate? Not training her in her actual job (a common problem in the guard and reserves). Doesn't get along with anyone? Out of shape and dreads having to do PT? Drill can be pretty gay some times and everyone bitches about their military job but it shouldn't be something you dread though.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 12:44 AM
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That's what I kind of figured. Sucks because of course you don't want her cooped up in the house alone bored AF, but at the same time there's always a slew of thirsty guys who are willing to just "be friends" and hang out since she doesn't know anyone. Maybe she can join some type of women's club around town? Even if it's something as lame as a book club at least she'll have some chicks to chill and drink wine with.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 12:39 AM
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Sell your soul to the government? Lol. What's there to be mad about? She's a self starter and instead of relying on others to help her succeed she took her future into her own hands and sounds like a bad ass chick to me. If you really need to be put at ease, what is her MOS (what job does she specifically do). I'm also in the Army and will at least be able to give you the skinny on what to expect even if she was deployed.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 11:48 PM
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Unfortunately getting over any girl takes some time, and in your circumstance it's going to take a long time. 5 years seems a little much, though I do remember going on and off for 2 years with my college ex, who even cheated on me, after we broke up and even while dating the best girl I've ever met right now I stilllll get tempted to respond some times when she hits me up. I would say therapy if it's really keeping you from connecting emotionally to girls. Sucks man, sorry for your loss and I h…
/r/askTRP01/10/16 11:44 PM
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Sounds like a nice girl. Why doesn't she have some female friends though? My girlfriend usually spends one night in with her family, and one night out and about with her girlfriends if I'm not around. She shouldn't be hanging out with guys alone ever really in my opinion unless it's part of your already established mutual friend group.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 11:32 PM
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Saying you can't game girls at a bar because you're ugly is a cop out. My flight instructor is fat and bald and has more game than me and my other young good looking partner student combined (Blackhawk pilots). Yes, lift is the big one, but that's because a good physique will help curb whatever ugo face you say you have. Make sure when you go to the gym you're really hitting it hard and not just going through the motions. But the lift lift lift shit isn't just about your body, they're also imply…
/r/askTRP01/10/16 10:26 PM
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They get it all the time? Kobe and patrick Kane just to name a few. But usually when they fuck with non celebs which is why you won't see jeter or DiCaprio get hit with it.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 08:29 PM
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To add to this, whatever you chose to start, make sure it is something that spars all the time. Punching the air will not help you. If you're in a larger city, it should be pretty easy to find a good MMA gym to join. You'll get your shit pushed in for a good year or three in whatever you choose, but don't let that discourage you. Took me all four years of high school before wresting finally clicked. And like someone else mentioned, unless absolutely necessary, don't fight. Always try and diffuse…
/r/askTRP01/10/16 07:44 PM
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Hes completely correct. The only thing I would add is you screwed up by already thinking she will cheat. I know RP is an echo chamber of "all women cheat" but you've got to get that mind set out of your head when dating girls. Could cheating happen? Absolutely. But will thinking about it everrrr help you? Fuck no. Do yourself a favor and stop worrying about it in general. If she cheats down the road, so what? You dump her and move on. Every girl I have ever dated that I preemptively tried to sto…
/r/askTRP01/10/16 07:04 PM
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Military will give you the most bang for your buck in terms of free job training and free college afterwards That being said, fuck all those other branches, join the coast guard. You'll be treated the most like an adult, and get stationed in awesome places. And this is coming from an army pilot. My brother was a coastie and his quality of life outshines mine by far (though he is out now). But the other branches aren't bad, I would just stay away from the army and marines and don't go infantry un…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:11 AM
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I agree. Probably just upping it by one point. Though there are places with those types of chicks around. Scottsdale and Tempe, AZ are littered with 8s everywhere. It's almost unbelievable. But what sucks is that there are also that many good looking guys out there too so you still gotta be on your A game to even have a shot.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 10:05 PM
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Just normal anger phase. I do find myself more easily disgusted by women still but it also has helped me appreciate the good ones a lot more. Also, if you spend too much time here you put yourself in an echo chamber and also have a heavy confirmation bias towards any interaction with women. A lot of men suck too, because a lot of people in general suck. Use this time to focus on yourself until the anger subsides a bit more and focus on attaining relationships with groups of friends that aren't g…
/r/askTRP18/09/16 04:33 PM
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Holy shit. Brb, going to buy a good web cam and learn how to look good jerking off.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 10:23 PM
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Something always overlooked, emotional wounds take time to heal. Yeah banging out some hot chicks right off the bat will help ease it, but you'll still get hit with after shocks until it is fully healed. Everyone has to pay the piper, girls included, which is why when you go no contact after a break up you almost always get hit back up by your ex to some degree.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 03:05 AM
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How do you avoid it? Age old advice of "don't stick your dick in crazy"... I'm no pimp macdaddy, but out of the 30-something women that I tricked into letting me poke them with my penis, none have ever even considered it questionable that what we did was consensual. But, assuming you can't always deter those who are cray cray like that, vs those who are just normal crazy, don't put yourself in questionable situations. I.e. don't bang some chick who's obviously drank way over her limit if you hav…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 05:32 PM
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I get your point and don't disagree completely. I just personally at that point (7.5 years later with everything going "perfectly") would rather have just let my suspicions die back then because knowing the truth of a mistake someone made so long ago wouldn't net me anything too positive at this point. But I do also see the point in knowing because once a cheater always a cheater and knowing what someone is capable of is quite valuable. Though I also think that while rare, some people really can…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 12:13 PM
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Yeah I agree with this. You decided not to double down on your original hunch when it happened and now you bring it up 7 years later? Ignorance would've been bliss at this point. But you can't go back in time so I guess that advice is useless to you. The only bright spot in this is that it seems like she truly repented for her prior mistake. This is the time to get selfish and evaluate what you really want out of this and what will make YOU happy. If you can't ever get over the betrayal, then cu…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 11:15 PM
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Even the best hitters in baseball only hit .300. Just forget about it and move on. Always have back up plans when setting up dates for the first time so you're not left hanging when the inevitable happens.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 11:09 PM
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He brought back a podcast with him and drew actually. Though he does talk about handy work wayyyy too much like he does on the Adam corrola show. Not as good as loveline in my opinion though.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:38 PM
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Throw away wallet is the only thing I can think of that would've helped. Buy a cheap ten dollar wallet and put $20 in there in smaller bills (to make it look full) and some of those "credit cards" they mail you all the time as ads. I've had to use it once ever, and it worked chuck it down and just bolt the other way. Carrying a gun and learning self defense are good options if there's no way out but always run first, your safety is much more valuable than your dignity/money. Just imagine if that…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:25 PM
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Adam Carolla is the tits, I listen to his podcast daily.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:20 PM
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Push pull as in what you mentioned at the bottom of your comment. If she can't even take the simplest jokes she may just be a wet blanket or your tone/inflection is a little too serious and not playful. Like you should end it with a smile and a smack on the ass, not just super serious and leave it there. Battle of who cares less is just that, literally who in the relationship cares less. And you should always be on the side who cares less, it's who has the power.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 02:02 PM
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Remember, TRP is just general doctrine to be applied as necessary. Not to be followed to a T in every situation. My girlfriend lovessssss when I give her affection and positive attention. But she's also not a western girl club slut. That being said, still don't over do it and remember to add an element of push pull. Even in a case like yours, the power battle of "who cares less" is always in effect. Just in your case you're allowed to care a little bit more than others. Mine isn't insecure but s…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:20 PM
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This! Assuming you haven't talked to any one in general most of your life if you've been celibate this long in life outside of your core family friend group. You can look up PUA stuff but really, just whenever you're next to another human and anything remotely commentable comes up make a comment and start a conversation. Even if it's a two sentence conversation and you part ways you need to learn how to talk to people in general. And while you're in this phase of redeveloping your social skills …
/r/askTRP07/08/16 01:24 AM
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Make sure that lawyer has experience with military divorce too. Look around for personal recommendations. Also, don't fucking cheat until its final. And like the above said, don't let there be a clue that you want a divorce until you are all set up and ready to go. You being the man puts you at a huge disadvantage (even with your pretty even status) so the element of surprise will help you. Also have a plan for somewhere you can stay when she gets back in case it is you that gets the boot from y…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 07:21 PM
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Girls don't dish the "hot" compliment out very often to begin with to guys' faces in the first place unless they're drunk or whoreish. I'm 5'9 and about 170-175, 190 is where you really want to be before cutting to look "ripped". When I was at 180 I got compliments on looking bigger and it was good, but looking at a mirror I know 10 more pounds would've put me right where I would want to be. Sounds like you're making good progress though so keep it up. Also note that being on the shorter side of…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 05:37 PM
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Well back in the day women couldn't just "explore themselves" sexually for so long and get away with it meaning that more of the male dating pool was "taken". Now that they can bang as much as they want without too much repercussion, they can stick to the top 20 like you said. I don't just blame it on feminism though, I really do think that beta/video game nerd males have just gotten worse over time since there's no more tough love any more. Hell, I'm glad I got bullied a little bit my freshman …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 03:27 AM
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Usually very conservative but they can be sluts too. I'm dating someone from a very similar culture (though different religion but similar region of the world) to Islam and I'm in the US. If you wanna marry the chick you would have to convert and even then the parents will most likely never accept you. If you are just looking to fuck then who knows. My gf is almost 30 and I'm the third person she's ever slept with even though she goes to clubs and stuff and while she'll kiss a guy while single s…
/r/askTRP03/08/16 01:22 AM
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This. Though the anal sex and three way thing she may never do with you or anybody because she's just not into it (I mean I wasn't a fan of my gf sticking a finger in my ass and though she would never ask for it a mmf three way is a definite no go). Although if these are specific things that you really want you may have to look elsewhere. But for the not looking sexy/fucking like a porn star stuff dread is your best bet.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 08:41 PM
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She's trying to ditch you, move on and learn
/r/askTRP20/07/16 10:39 PM
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Seriously, out of the 30 something girls I've been with, only three or four total have been attractive with a low boyfriend only n count. Hell, even my current girlfriend I had to dig up from a different race/culture to find what we here would consider desirable. I would estimate only 10-20% of girls are decent now a days though I do think our view may be somewhat skewed because we do forget to mention that a lot of the desirable LTR type girls are usually taken and not available on the market f…
/r/askTRP17/07/16 08:33 PM
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All depends man. But if you have a nice full time job don't accept a busser job. Just be upfront about your work situation and if they like you they'll bring you on. It's a who know kind of business or it's a "that guy is a super hard worker and awesome" kind of business. But like I said its so fun, just if you get hired don't get lost, there is no future for you in that industry
/r/askTRP17/07/16 07:55 AM
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I've only worked for one company at two different bars of theirs, so my experience is quite particular, but from what I saw in my three years in the industry it is similar every where. Yes... and no. Becoming a male bar tender at a night club is a fucking grind if you're starting from the very beginning of the restaurant/bar career track. Your best bet is to get a job as a bar back any where that's busy and will take you. Work your ass off, and when given your chance to shine, don't fuck it up. …
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:50 PM
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As an ex night club bar tender and manager in a big city, you are shockingly kind of spot on with a lot of this. I never got to fully dive into the real depths of party world due to my boring world other military job but oh man, whenever I would go out with my work friends and get a taste of what their "party world" was compared to what I was used to in college, it was eye opening. Like shit you would see out of movies some times. I finally understood why these guys were content with being lowly…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 11:47 AM
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I would argue that women have a version of this too, but it's all on looks. Fat ugly women have it the hardest in my opinion as far as how society treats and ignores them. Though I would also argue their problem is the easiest to fix, just workout and eat right and get back to being pretty so life is easy again. But back to your overall point, yeah, don't be low tier and don't bitch to girls about your real problems. I'll tell my girlfriend all day about how little shit is stupid and annoys me i…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 12:54 PM
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You just moved to a new city, and you get to be single without even having to be the one to do the breaking up?! What a fucking girl!! She hooked you up. Now you get to invest time into making new guy friends in your new city and not being that lonely guy who's only friend is his girlfriend. Best part is, whenever you decide to have a new gf you can pick one still in her early 20s! Catch and release man, catch and release. I'm an LTR kind of guy myself but after a few more years you would've got…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 02:42 PM
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Add some bacon to your breakfast too if you want. Fat and protein are good. High fiber containing carbs aren't bad either. Veggies are always good. Download my fitness pal app if you have a smart phone. It's a great start to tracking your nutrition since you can literally search or even scan the bar code of everything you eat and it'll pop out your daily totals for you.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 07:15 AM
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I'm no nutritionist so take this with a grain of salt. First off, you don't need to shop at whole foods. There's a reason it's also nick names whole pay checks. It's good, and if you can easily afford it then hell yeah but if not, stick to regular cheaper places. I'm personally a fan of not eating carbs and the keto diet. Basically no sugar or grains of any sort which will keep you under 50 net grams of carbs a day. This puts your body in a state where you're burning fat for energy and not using…
/r/askTRP09/07/16 02:41 AM
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Eh chances are you'll never recover. She's going to hold this over you from now until forever most likely and while you can be understanding for right now, your patience will wear quickly and then you'll just start being a dick when she whines. I would call it off. You fucked it up yourself, there's not much going back from this. I would just apologize and break up. It sucks but trust me, it'll be easier this way in the long run.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 12:38 AM
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I like this answer best, because it brings it around to the fact that you do it too. Let's be real, if your girlfriend all of a sudden lost the ability to have sex with you, you would be out before I could finish this ramble of a mobile post. And I would argue you can get girls to really connect with you and like you for who you are while still having their other agendas just their "love/affection" must be maintained where as your mom would just love you because you were the clump of cells she p…
/r/askTRP09/07/16 12:35 AM
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If you haven't already, cut out alcohol and sugar. Those may be holding you back quite a bit. Sounds like you're doing good work so far, just make sure you keep busting your ass and eating right. Proper diet is key to get rid of that excess fat. But like others have said, 10-12 is what you're aiming for. Lowest I ever held was while wresting in highschool but that was at around 7 and that was not easy at all. I could never do that again haha
/r/askTRP09/07/16 12:29 AM
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Look in married TRP for that kind of advice and you'll get more married guys to chime in. But my advice, do whatever the fuck you want. Will your life be easier and stress free without a wife and kids leeching off you? Well of course, but I also know plenty of people who are happily married with kids too. I still don't know what I want because I'm only 26 and my girlfriend wants all that stuff sooner than later, and she's the perfect candidate but I'm struggling with knowing that it's just not t…
/r/askTRP09/07/16 12:24 AM
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Depends on age and scene. In a college town and under the age of 22? Yeah you are, everyone uses that shit. If you're an adult in the real world, then no. Facebook hasn't gotten me laid since college. But in college it definitely didn't hurt.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 07:02 PM
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I would say 75/25 split. My current girlfriend I checked her phone once a few months ago and it had nothing whatsoever. Even the guys that had texts on there were all nothing I could even pretend to be mad about. Felt like a d bag for checking, but at least now I know she for at least now isn't being a whore. But My college ex? Oh sweet Jesus I don't even want to get started. I know three or four more girls that would never do that shit but that's out of the ~35 I've been with. It's rare, but ho…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 12:22 AM
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Pretty much this. But you've gotta get the fear of cheating out of your head. It will ruin you and has already ruined many before you. Your goal is to maintain a level of attraction that keeps her from even wanting to in the first place. Being insecure will not help you with that. That being said, still be aware for the signs if they do arise. First one usuallllyyy is a reduction of sex and the others this guy mentions. If you see those either dread or dump the broad pending on how mild/severe. …
/r/askTRP08/07/16 12:10 AM
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A lot of good answers here already but I'll add a little bit. You can be "in love", and there's nothing wrong with it as long as you follow the RP guidelines to maintain that attraction. BUTTTT.... do remember by taking this route, this route that will give you some great emotional highs that you can't get anywhere else, there will always be an equalizer and every one (even that girl your sophomore year who cheated on you with the QB of the football team) eventually pays the piper. I've never ha…
/r/askTRP01/07/16 04:22 PM
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So you're getting bullied... Happened to me when I was a freshman in high school and looking back at it I wish I had just stood up and socked him right in the face even if I would've gotten my ass whooped. But there was no real consequences to our 14 year old 130 pound selves throwing down right by faculty in the cafeteria. But now that I'm 26, I'm thankful every day that I literally walked out of the pool and the apartment complex like a little bitch when some douche bag marine wanted to fight …
/r/askTRP30/06/16 11:14 PM
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Yeah, which is a sign of a lack of impulse control. A lack of control when around said friend. My college ex would do the exact kind of stuff with her slut friend and she ended up cheating on me a few times down the road. I think someone else mentioned it in this thread, do also remember that one red flag is not what you should end your relationship on, it's when they add up. So take a step back and try to objectively look at her from a pros/cons point of view and see if there's any red flags yo…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 01:30 PM
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The tattoo by itself isn't that big of an issue to me, I know plenty of sluts with them and I know some really good girls with them. But having a slutty friend who also has influence over her is the real issue here. I've dealt with this type of friend before many times and it's just more trouble than it's worth. My current girlfriend has zero slut friends and I actually enjoy when we hang out with them. don't know why I ever put up with that shit in the first place. Sounds like she rarely sees t…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 03:29 AM
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Within one hour of your post, you have even the top contributors telling you exactly what it is. I really hope you're strong enough to take the advice here and listen and not just brush it off only to be devastated later when she cheats again. Like others have said, she traveled a whole fucking hour away to spend the wholeeeee day and night with some guy and had a sleep over with drinking. No bull shit pants half down story needed. I'm appalled you didn't break up with her when she even mentione…
/r/askTRP25/06/16 08:39 PM
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It will definitely happen. I don't care if it's a guy or girl or if they move on to wifing up kate upton, everyone always has to pay the piper in a break up. At some point she will miss you and since we can now affirm she has no loyalty, she will come crawling back probably while in a relationship still. Be prepared. Because you will want her back when this happens most likely even if it's just a little. Once you're finally separated from her, block her number/fb/everything and delete any way fo…
/r/askTRP06/06/16 12:23 AM
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Rush if you want, depends on what school you go to though. My school was all Greek so it helped out. Join a fraternity that gets hot girls or you will just sit there for four years resenting your newly acquired loser "brothers" for always scaring away girls. Doesn't have to be the "top" house and if they seem like you won't like them or are ass holes feel free to try somewhere else. I joined one that was more in the middle but I joined because the guys I knew who were already gonna be my best fr…
/r/askTRP03/06/16 08:21 PM
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Do what this guy is saying. Literally just act like it never happened. Work already sucks enough as it is, don't let it be the place where you have to have your girl on your mind the whole time too. It becomes suffocating.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 01:26 AM
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Lean for sure. I'm 5'9 and when I'm 180 with that body fat I look pretty fucking good. As with anything girls are gonna have their own preference but I've never seen a girl shoot down the lean "cut" look.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 01:04 AM
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Ah okay assuming your side of the story is right (there's always another side), I feel ya man. That's fucking brutally annoying. Nothing worse than losers from work who are beneath you trying to mock you. I would just try and ignore it and instead of trying to redish it back out to them, just try and win over your allies and neutrals even more. And for the ass holes, just start acting like there's no beef between you and be Normal coworker nice to them. It'll make them so mad if they genuinely t…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 05:50 PM
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I don't know what pointing at me means, but I'm going to assume it's a good thing lol
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 05:40 PM
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Haha sidebar of course... But I'm not one to go to for books, I've never read anything except for "the game" and that was for fun. All my learning was through a grueling awkward stage that lasted from middle school until senior year of high school. Just keep putting yourself out there. What you said sucked, but at least you tried so that's a start. You'll have plenty of cringe moments that you'll look back on and want to give yourself a wedgie for before having some success. If you're just start…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 01:38 AM
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Gotcha. I was more trying to get at that most girls won't up and visit you if you're far at all unless she already is on your nuts. In my experience if you want to try and pull something like that off you'll have to game her and build the attraction some more first. I've done it a few times before though so if I was you I would just lay in the weeds until your next opportunity comes. Good luck
/r/askTRP21/05/16 01:33 AM
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Such a perfect way to say it. There's a reason why people's girlfriends like them so much more before marriage/kids. She gets to hate something and your her release from it vs the other scenario where YOURE what she gets annoyed with and has to vent it out to someone else or whatever. I've always been a little confused on what exactly I would want the mother of my future children to do (if I decide to have any) and I think this kind of made it click for me
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 09:52 PM
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Fuck em. I was stuck being the manager to a bunch of whiney 21 year old server girls at a night club for a couple years. Some of them worshipped me, others thought I was prick because I actually made them work. But at the end of the day I guarantee you that they all would throw me under the bus anyways if it benefited them and if push came to shove. If your work performance is good and you're having a good time there just let it go. I remember one of the bar tenders tried to go behind my back an…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 08:52 PM
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Was there any build up in the conversation before that? Because asking a girl with a boyfriend out of the blue for HER to come out and visit you isn't going to work unless you used to bone or something and she probably just denied you if it was that dry.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 08:39 PM
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Oh yeah, that was pretty awful. When you first start talking to a girl never compliment her like that. Then you went on to even make it worse by saying she needs a man like you to compliment her which comes off as butt hurt and desperate. After she responded with the "I'm not little >:(" type response you should've just kept poking fun at her or something, not telling her her eyes are pretty. How old are you? And what kind of experience do you have? Because that all seemed pretty socially awkwar…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 08:36 PM
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Good advise, I would also add that a lot of these "decent women" out there tend to be in very long stable relationships making them that much harder to find single (most people don't dump their hot ass girl friend who also treats them right). So all that leaves you with is all the sluts and skanks with just a few of these good ones floating around. That's why patience is your ally in finding LTR caliber women.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 08:43 PM
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I would have to agree with this. Not only are mad people the loudest, but controversy sells. We love to hate villains, and on this sub it becomes the women who burned us. But there are other benefits than those highlights you mentioned. After realizing my past mistakes with relationships, I can truly now appreciate my current girlfriend because I see how shitty all the others have been to me and y'all. You see what wrong looks like so much that now you can finally figure out what right is really…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 04:13 PM
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Every relationship you have in life besides your own children should be "quid pro quo". If you aren't getting anything in return for the homework then just say no.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 04:28 PM
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Dude, baby face is money. Unless it's due to fat, then get unfat. I have one and I'm mid 20s, I've gotta keep it clean shaven for work too and it doesn't stop me at all. I can still hit on 19 year olds without looking like a creep but still go after 30 year olds. Best of both worlds.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 04:23 PM
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Straight up man... I'm at flight school with all "officers" and it still doesn't make a difference. Every single girl here who's learning to fly and left their man at home has cheated (of the girls I've met). It's insane. Good amount of the guys have too. I even had a chance to bang one who's husband was back home with her kid!! And her husband was enlisted in the army as well. I gave it a hard next out of my own morals and not wanting a GOMAR, but I'm sure someone else hit it immediately after.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 03:57 PM
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So a few years ago, I would've said "well I would want to go to Vegas with my friends if they invited me for FREE, so I guess I can't really expect her to deny the trip either", more mature and experienced me has actually had this talk with my current LTR about the topic in general and she was actually the one to bring up that there just are situations you don't put yourself in if you're in a relationship. You seem pretty young and I'm sure she is too, so naturally she's going to want to go with…
/r/askTRP11/05/16 09:46 PM
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Use TRP as a guide or doctrine that you apply and adapt to your own specific situations. Not a hard fast fix for every single thing that comes up. No, not every girl is "out to get you", out of the 30+ girls I've been with none were ever maliciously out to fuck me over and I can only think of two who went behind my back and fucked other people (that I know of and honestly one of those I deserved anyways). The real benefit of TRP is understanding their behaviors and how to keep the power struggle…
/r/askTRP11/05/16 02:31 AM
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Whoa, slow down for a second. 9 months and this is the very first time she's dissatisfied you? I think you over reacted. You realize you broke frame talking about it which is half the battle, but you still did it, which is bad. Never ever verbalize that like that, she didn't have sex with you because for whatever reason she wasn't that attracted to you for those two days (could be for a million reasons: you being a beta bitch, she was feeling sick/rough period, hung over, etc...). Whining like t…
/r/askTRP09/05/16 03:39 PM
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