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Damn, money is kinda tight but I'd still love to meet and have a beer with you guys. I'll see what I can do.
/r/seduction22/10/13 06:23 PM
1

Great FR guys, I'm really contemplating seeing you guys in NYC this November.
/r/seduction22/10/13 04:29 AM
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Just do it faggot.
/r/seduction14/10/13 07:58 PM
2

Check it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xVNqnAUN5mA
/r/seduction05/10/13 03:17 PM
6

Yeah, it was alright. Nothing mindblowing. There are better infield videos out there.
/r/seduction04/10/13 08:59 PM
-6

"Because my dick is too big." or "my wife won't let me."
/r/seduction30/09/13 05:15 PM
3

How in the hell do you get matches on Tinder. You're lying if it's isn't all looks in this case.
/r/seduction07/09/13 12:22 AM
1

Alright, I see your point. I've just met many guys who don't know where the limit is, can't accept rejection and just creep the hell out of everyone around them.
/r/seduction05/09/13 06:05 PM
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Yup, but respect that and don't try any "games" on her and try to "seduce" her.
/r/seduction05/09/13 03:02 PM
4

Damn son.
/r/seduction05/09/13 03:37 AM
2

I will upvote anything related to Mark Manson, good videos.
/r/seduction05/09/13 02:10 AM
2

Never heard of this, sounds interesting. Is the main character basically a mac daddy on the road?
/r/seduction23/05/13 09:48 PM
1

Nice guide, could you critique my profile? www.okcupid.com/profile/lasiyo
/r/seduction26/01/13 05:02 AM
1

But how? Can you elaborate more on this? I suffer greatly from this delusion. My self-esteem is shit, I over think things way too much, I often feel like a pussy in a lot of aspects of my life. And this all obviously lead to a sexless lifestyle. I can't seem to get my head out of the shitter. I want to be fit, I want to stop being so freaking needy with EVERYONE. I just get tired of people saying "just change your limiting beliefs man."
/r/seduction18/10/12 05:20 PM
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Hey Cajun, thanks for the AMA. Really enjoyed the one you did last year. Anyway, my question I guess has to do more with inner game and motivation/dedication. I've been going out for a while but I haven't got any results. I've recently got fed up with "gaming" and the "seduction community" as a whole. It just started feeling so fake, and going out with a couple of friends (who know about the "community" as well) to "pickup" chicks felt more like work than enjoyment. I usually went direct too, an…
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:14 AM
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Should we post our questions here? EDIT: I'll post it here anyway, just in case. Hey Cajun, thanks for the AMA. Really enjoyed the one you did last year. Anyway, my question I guess has to do more with inner game and motivation/dedication. I've been going out for a while but I haven't got any results. I've recently got fed up with "gaming" and the "seduction community" as a whole. It just started feeling so fake, and going out with a couple of friends (who know about the "community" as well) to …
/r/seduction29/07/12 06:49 PM
2

Keep trying to talk to people. Practice.
/r/seduction23/02/12 03:53 AM
3

"Everybody say FAAACEBOOOOOK!!" In a girly voice, always gets a laugh. I had a group of like 13 say it once, hilarious.
/r/seduction03/12/11 01:13 AM
18

What tricks? They're approaching and having conversations. A funny line here and there but there are no 'tricks' or 'routines'.
/r/seduction02/12/11 04:53 AM
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Yeah, I figured this would be an answer. I hear it all the time but I don't think people realize how difficult it is to change a mentality like that. It's like telling someone, "hey, just be more Canadian". I mean... How??
/r/seduction11/11/11 01:49 PM
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However you do it, ISOLATE. There should be a "you and I", a little bubble between you and her. Kissing her should be a lot easier if you guys are alone.
/r/seduction08/11/11 01:50 PM
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Mind blown.
/r/seduction05/11/11 09:27 PM
2

Awesome post man, if you've seen Drive you get a really good picture of how intense and alpha Ryan Gossling's body language is. He says like 6 sentences throughout the whole movie but his body language is so intense. One look from him will give you goosebumps. Check it out, great movie too.
/r/seduction30/10/11 05:04 PM
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No idea but I'm really curious too.
/r/seduction30/10/11 02:56 AM
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It's relevant because it talks about the same concept of limiting beliefs being "in your head." - The monkeys not knowing why they shouldn't touch the bananas is the same idea of men not approaching because they think they look "ugly" or "they're too short". Go and approach to see what happens as opposed to not approach because you THINK you will fail.
/r/seduction29/10/11 08:57 PM
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I agree. However, if you're new at this and you just started talking to women, then be careful not to eject too soon. Most beginner's tend to self sabotage themselves because they're scared of the conversation dying. So I would practice staying in set, and then learning how to properly end a conversation on a high note.
/r/seduction27/10/11 08:06 PM
1

Noted. You guys are doing a great job by the way.
/r/seduction23/10/11 03:10 PM
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"Doesn't matter what you say, but the way you say it."
/r/seduction20/10/11 01:19 PM
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Yep, totally agree. Once you can manage to approach you have to learn how to push things forward and be more sexual.
/r/seduction17/10/11 11:38 PM
2

Awesome dude, "Party In My Tummy" is the shit.
/r/seduction17/10/11 12:28 AM
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Hey man, thanks for the response. I liked the thumb wrestling 'routine' so I'll definitely use that in the future. I agree that it's definitely on me to keep moving the conversation forward, you're right. But I just hate 'plowing' whenever the girl is not giving anything back to the conversation. I'm not there to entertain them (like you said, it's not the Carlos show), if she's not responding at all, giving me one word answers then it's like talking to a wall. Fuck that. Usually though, if the …
/r/seduction15/10/11 09:43 PM
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How was the hotseat?
/r/seduction15/10/11 08:53 PM
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Hah that sucks man, similar thing happened to me last night. Met adorable girl on train, got her number as she was leaving the train and accidentally added like 3 digits. Shame cause we really clicked. Either way, remember that women are like busses; You might miss one but another one will come up shortly after so don't get hung up!
/r/seduction15/10/11 06:00 PM
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Well said man.
/r/seduction12/10/11 01:23 AM
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Damn, this is probably gonna be relevant to most of the guys in the community. Excellent article.
/r/seduction11/10/11 02:42 AM
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Hah, relax, I'm not going to "kino" my cousins or build jealousy plot lines with them. And since they know about the whole seduction thing they're very intrigued and eager to help out. Those are some great tips, I love the idea of them approaching sets (I was thinking of having them merge sets), occupy the obstacle, giving social proof. Good stuff, I'll see how it goes next weekend.
/r/seduction11/10/11 02:21 AM
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Damn, it's like we all fell into the twilight zone or something. SAME WEEKEND for me too. Approached and approached but couldn't get attraction at all. Something was off. I did get a number, but it flaked very quickly. Oh well, next weekend.
/r/seduction10/10/11 04:34 PM
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I think there's always 2 different schools of thought. Some say calling is so much better, others say that texting can be great too. Experiment with both. I think texting is a lot safer (and more fun), but that's just me.
/r/seduction09/10/11 06:28 PM
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Yeah, but still... Work out and dress nicely, looks do matter to some extent. Look good, feel good.
/r/seduction05/10/11 04:07 AM
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Hah, awesome man! Did you start out with something so people got the idea? Any good lines you remember? Looks like you had a blast.
/r/seduction04/10/11 10:03 PM
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I got another one, this is perfect for me since I'm mexican but you can still use it if you're not. To start up a convo after a few days. "Do you know the mexican word of the day today? Juicy. Hey vato, tell me if juicy the cops."
/r/seduction04/10/11 03:47 PM
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Can you give us examples on the compliments? I think a smile and thank you is perfectly fine. What kind of compliments do you get though?
/r/seduction03/10/11 05:26 PM
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Also, if she asks you "what are you up to?" I sometimes use this one: "Not much, just finished building my time machine. Want to do something yesterday?" - Careful who you use it on though, college girls eat it up, older women... not so much.
/r/seduction03/10/11 04:39 PM
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You're generalizing too much. Some are busy and they'll let you know, others will be blown away, others will be shy and surprised, you never know. So go and find out.
/r/seduction03/10/11 01:54 AM
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This is sort of annoying. There's no "better" way to approach. It's been said many times that your opening line doesn't really matter, and for some guys going direct works, for others indirect is preferred. It also depends on how you carry yourself and your personality. If you're a more aggressive guy, going direct can be killer. But if you're more down to earth and you're more comfortable at escalating slowly, indirect can be very effective too. The point is, find what works for you. I've done …
/r/seduction02/10/11 08:29 PM
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Awesome dude.
/r/seduction02/10/11 05:33 PM
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Seriously.
/r/seduction01/10/11 06:00 PM
1

Well fuck you ma- I mean, awesome dude!
/r/seduction01/10/11 05:57 PM
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That would be sweet, expensive though!
/r/seduction01/10/11 04:16 PM
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I saw like 20 last year.
/r/seduction01/10/11 01:38 PM
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Hah, gay guy. Of course. Do you have any pics? Sounds hilarious. And the slave trader sounds fucking brilliant (and ballsy) too. And yeah, I'm expecting guys to write random shit on it. But fuck it, I'm sure all sorts of people will take the chance to write random shit on me. I was also thinking of writing something on my back to start it off like: "You can write (on) me, you can write me all night long." Or I'll just wing it, we'll see.
/r/seduction01/10/11 05:41 AM
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I'm about to set up a Day 2 with a girl and this couldn't have come at a better time. The date would take place a few days from now so I would definitely need to rebuild attraction after the weekend. I'm thinking about texting her on monday - "Saraaah, I bet my weekend beat yours." Opinions?
/r/seduction01/10/11 12:05 AM
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I agree with what you're saying, but remember there's a fine line between a confident man and an arrogant man. Stroke your ego, but don't go overboard.
/r/seduction24/09/11 08:48 PM
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I think your question is very misleading. PUA ≠ dick. However, seeing as you're completely new at this I can see how you'd think that. PUA's are dominant and aggressive, but they're not assholes (well, not all of them). The difference is that they experience the freedom to say what they want in a very honest way. I'm still nowhere close to becoming the man I want to be, but looking back I've had massive improvements. I remember I said to a girl once: "You're pretty cool. You know, even if I didn…
/r/seduction21/09/11 12:52 AM
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I keep hearing about this. What kind of book is this? Is it just a compilation of posts from a forum? A story of a guy? A method?
/r/seduction21/09/11 12:24 AM
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The 4 Elements of the Game by Rob Judge and Zack Bauer will blow your mind. I just finished the first part (which talks about drive and being dominant/sexual) and there were so many eye opening moments that I feel I should give it a second read. I'm going to write a review on it when I'm done but I can already tell that this is one of the best pickup books I will read. GET IT!
/r/seduction21/09/11 12:08 AM
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Ok man, I can relate. I went through a very similar phase. I'll keep it short but I'm a commuter as well and yeah, it sucks. I've made one buddy (who I'm not that keen of, but he's the only guy I know here and he commutes as well) and a few acquaintances at bus stops, classes and the gym. Nothing more than acquaintances though. Of the acquaintances I made I've asked them about residence and pretty much all of them told me "you're missing out man..." and I agree. Let me guess, since you commute y…
/r/seduction20/09/11 06:22 PM
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Fucking awesome man. The girl that squeezed your bicep was probably VERY attracted. Be more dominant next time, don't even ask for the kiss. Just grab her hand, look into her eyes, smile and if she smiles back, then go for it. And don't mind me asking, but you sound like you're a good looking guy. A Jude Law and Don Draper reference in a night? You've got an advantage man! If you start being more dominant you will start banging chicks left and right errday! Seriously, I just got back from sargin…
/r/seduction17/09/11 05:51 AM
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Best tip I can give you is to not even think. Just do, if you start thinking "What do I say..." Immediately approach. Doesn't matter what you say at this point. It only matters that you open your mouth and start getting use to talking to women.
/r/seduction14/09/11 11:22 PM
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Oh man, you're in for a ride. Prepare to embarrass yourself numerous times and fuck it up with countless of girls. But remember that the more this happens, the less you'll care and the closer you'll be to becoming the man you want to be. Just be prepared and enjoy the journey! OH and right now, don't over think it. Send her something you would normally send. You don't need to look up "text game" or anything else if you're not getting consistent numbers.
/r/seduction13/09/11 11:57 PM
1

How old are you? I'm down to day agme in Union Square. I'm not socially awkward, but I'm not amazing at this either (see me FR if you want). I'm usually motivated to approach if I'm wiht someone too. PM me if interested.
/r/seduction12/09/11 08:38 PM
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Hahaha, yeah I skipped whenever the interviewer spoke. He was abysmal but there was still a lot of attraction between Kristen and Russel. He has a few other interviews with her. Check them out.
/r/seduction09/09/11 01:11 AM
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Check out this interview with Kristen Bell, she's clearly into him. Look at the hand holding at 1:09, this guy's good. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p6qtWGYDIwA I also heard he was a very shy kid when he was young, maybe it's worth looking into his autobiography.
/r/seduction08/09/11 11:07 PM
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Did you take notes or just watch it? Just curious cause I watched like half of it. And although it was very interesting, I just didn't have the patience to sit through hours and hours of a guy talking. I might give it another shot, note taking is probably important.
/r/seduction04/09/11 05:36 AM
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Whoa.
/r/seduction03/09/11 01:54 PM
2

You're in college, start talking to EVERYONE. Seriously, if you become the popular guy that everyone knows, girls will fall on your lap. And start being dominant and direct with the girls you're interested in. Be friendly but direct. College is perfect for this.
/r/seduction01/09/11 12:58 AM
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You stop caring about failing (rejection) once you failed enough times.
/r/seduction28/08/11 04:33 PM
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Going direct is a lot of fun.
/r/seduction26/08/11 03:32 AM
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She was ecstatic to say the least.
/r/seduction24/08/11 04:30 PM
1

He must have amazing body language. Fucking awesome.
/r/seduction24/08/11 07:48 AM
1

Holy fuck, this was actually super insightful for me. I've started to notice the different reactions I get from different type of girls by going direct. Thanks again man, and if you're serious about the drink and you live in NYC let me know. I'm always down to meeting people (and don't worry I wont annoy you with pickup questions).
/r/seduction24/08/11 07:47 AM
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NEXT, and sidebar.
/r/seduction23/08/11 10:31 PM
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You have to be clear that you're flirting. Tell her she's cute or whatever but make it clear that you're attracted to her.
/r/seduction23/08/11 09:49 PM
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Approach. Get blown out, get called out, embarrass yourself. But approach.
/r/seduction23/08/11 06:47 PM
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Hey Gareth, thanks a lot for doing this! I have 2 questions. What is your opinion on going direct during the night? I've been getting good results and I'm comfortable with it but have trouble going direct on mixed set and sets with 4+ people. Any advice? Age. I'm 21 and most girls I approach turn out to be 25+ and bust chops on how young I am. Is there a way I can turn the tables without being an asshole?
/r/seduction23/08/11 06:38 PM
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Tengo gato, los pantalones!
/r/seduction23/08/11 06:28 PM
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Yeah, I overlooked that. I still consider myself very new at this which is why I posted that, but you're right. Your post is a good way to start approaching women if you just started.
/r/seduction23/08/11 06:15 PM
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Sweet, do you have the clip by any chance?
/r/seduction23/08/11 05:17 PM
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I completely agree. I like your post EvaSylvestre, but to say to never use 'x' line ever does not apply. I go direct ALL THE TIME, and I always get great reactions. The most important part about it is body language and your tone of voice. But you can say whatever you want and still get good reactions. It's not about what you say, it's how you say it. Example from yesterday: 2 hot girls sitting on a table by the bar. I walk slowly with my beer held by my waist. Relaxed. Me:Hey guys... hate to int…
/r/seduction23/08/11 04:35 PM
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I'm glad you said this.
/r/seduction23/08/11 06:19 AM
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Why? He's not saying that life is meaningless, he's saying that people put too much effort in giving it meaning and try to find a purpose when in reality there is none. So there's nothing you should worry about. And it applies nicely to women. There are 3 billion women out there. You're hung up on one? Relax, if it didn't work, it didn't work. Don't force it.
/r/seduction22/08/11 04:15 PM
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And during night game as well.
/r/seduction21/08/11 07:36 PM
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Can I use your bathroom? Cool, simple. I just woke up to a text she sent me an hour ago. "So, I remember you dropping me off and after that... nothing. Sorry if was super drunk and thanks for walking me home!" Hmm... my response "I know troublemaker! =) It's all good. I had a great time. Hope you did as well." That's it. I don't know where to go from here. Suggestions? I hope I'm not annoying you with too many questions. EDIT: Nevermind.
/r/seduction21/08/11 02:44 PM
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They're comfortable. And sorry but are you trying to tell me you go out wearing a top hat because it's part of your regular fashion? Dude, a top hat at night is fucking awesome for attention. I'm actually gonna steal your idea, i bet you got approached like crazy. But don't come here and tell me that a tophat is part of your every day fashion. You wore it to get attention and you got it.
/r/seduction20/08/11 05:17 PM
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You enjoy it because of the attention. Just sayin'.
/r/seduction20/08/11 04:36 PM
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"Thank you :)"
/r/seduction20/08/11 12:51 AM
1

Don't sweat it. Don't even think about it.
/r/seduction20/08/11 12:19 AM
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Fuckin' a man. Keep on doing it!
/r/seduction19/08/11 08:31 PM
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You're misunderstanding what he means by action. Action = talking to girls.
/r/seduction19/08/11 07:53 PM
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That's so meta, but yeah.
/r/seduction19/08/11 07:37 PM
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Yep, I def. need to build more rapport before/after getting the number. She might smile and laugh in the heat of the moment but we become strangers again shortly after I leave. As for New Brunswick. Old Bay gets PACKED on the weekends with very hot girls. There's also a lot of jocks and AMOGS but it's still fun. Clydz is great too, but they have a little older people. Court Tavern's another one, with live bands and whatnot. But my favorite places are Clydz and Old Bay. If you're in your mid 20's…
/r/seduction19/08/11 07:37 PM
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"OMG! You are totally.....wrong! I am actually..." Nice, I like that. There are times when I get told "I'm so young." and blah blah, they make it sound like they're 'wiser' or whatever just because they're older. How can I turn the tables on that and use my young age to my advantage?
/r/seduction19/08/11 06:39 PM
1

Great point. Didn't think about that, that's probably why I don't get many responses from numbers. I get the number and immediately leave. I'll try to stick around a little longer after getting the number.
/r/seduction19/08/11 06:36 PM
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Sorry, but action without strategy is NOT worthless. You develop your own strategy by taking action.
/r/seduction19/08/11 04:35 PM
1

I would love to see texts that blew up on your face. Would clear out what you did right and wrong a lot better.
/r/seduction18/08/11 09:15 PM
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Holy shit AFCAdam is a Sedditor? PLEASE DO A mPUA IAMA!!!
/r/seduction18/08/11 09:09 PM
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Lol, i love how when a fat guy loses some weight and becomes healthy he has an "eating disorder".
/r/seduction17/08/11 02:08 PM
3

Who is RooshV?
/r/seduction16/08/11 06:38 AM
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Hey, whatever happens. Do us a favor and update us yeah? We could actually learn something from this in the sense of dealing with a "thumbs down."
/r/seduction16/08/11 06:32 AM
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Hey, "She's my girlfriend" was just a fun little thing they said. She didn't intend to cockblock you and I'm surprised you fell for it. Chicks do it all the time. Friend said the same thing. Noted. "Excuse me, I saw you walking by, and I just had to tell you I think you're gorgeous" Look at the other friend "You're very beautiful too, but I just got a thing for "brunettes"" or whatever. That's perfect. Will definitely use that. I want you to fucking do 100 daygame sets within a month. Oh god. I …
/r/seduction13/08/11 04:50 PM
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Hey man thanks for the reply. No need to drop this line. She pulls out a little shit test to get rid of you: Yep. Which she achieved. Tell them you're gay anyway and you totally like to go shopping for jewelry with them. lol, loved that line. No problem. Tell her you're nervous. Going in direct is not for the faint of heart. Why not try a situational opener? "Excuse me can you recommend any food in this place?" Something stupid and innocent will do and keeps you from tanking at the very beginnin…
/r/seduction13/08/11 04:25 PM
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I signed in to reply to this. Be careful man. I worked on my "inner game" for a while, reading all sorts of self-help. I later found out it was just a way to avoid the reality that I'm not getting women. Inner game without outer game is nothing and vice versa. Do both or you will fall in the pit of "self help" and keep hoping things will change. P.S. Personally, i'm done with all that Tolle and Psycho Cybernetics stuff (it's great tho). Going out constantly for weeks will probably help you way m…
/r/seduction02/08/11 05:04 AM
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NYC
/r/seduction22/07/11 08:42 AM
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"No... but my boyfriend is." I used that line last year, made out with the girl who asked me if I was gay.
/r/seduction12/07/11 12:52 AM
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Hell we don't even have to do night game. Lunch and day game is good enough if you're up for it. I'm 21.
/r/seduction10/07/11 09:14 PM
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Hey man, this is kind of random. But i live in the city too and don't know many people, would you be willing to go out one night and sarge?
/r/seduction10/07/11 06:47 PM
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How did you get started on pickup? What was one your biggest breakthroughs? What would be a very efficent way of learning pickup?
/r/seduction27/06/11 07:25 PM
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Keneth Cole 'Black'. Every day.
/r/seduction12/02/11 01:31 AM
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On the Road - Jack Kerouac?
/r/seduction03/02/11 08:46 PM
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There's a saying that goes: "Don't be dependent of anyone for your own happiness." I think it rings a lot of truth.
/r/seduction29/10/10 10:46 PM
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