ACTION

I say this after I've number closed everyday this week. Have a date today with a girl I number closed two days ago. Got 3 numbers last night, opened a beautiful girl on the street and venue changed her to a rave club where I kiss closed her. Yes, my first ever kiss close. I felt nervous going in, the old feelings I had a few months ago when I was nervous to approach. This feeling of nervousness is a good feeling because it means you're facing your fears, bordering your comfort zone and growing. I haven't felt this feeling in two months because I got comfortable with approaching and number closing and I stopped there, then I wondered why I wasn't kiss closing, well duh, I never took action to face my fears and grow.

So I leave you with these messages of experience:

  • Forget about all the routines and books, just go out and take action
  • You must take action for all stages of pick up: opening, kissing, closing, venue changing, sex. The girl will never take action, never wait for her.
  • Play to win, don't play it safe. Go all out. Either close or get rejected, don't hover in the middle between the two, because playing it safe is worse than getting rejected, not only will you lose the girl, but you don't know what could have happened, you won't learn anything, and you'll never grow.

So take action, and go all out, play to win!