3dbattleship Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they?	Discussion	3dbattleship	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 04:26 PM
11	Why should a woman get married?	Debate	3dbattleship	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 01:02 PM
11	Both pills: What do you think about women who don't wear makeup?	Discussion	3dbattleship	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/15 12:50 AM
10	Question primarily for RP, but BP welcome too: Are lesbians exempt from AWALT?	Question for RedPill	3dbattleship	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/15 05:07 AM
5	How do you calculate someone's n-count?	Discussion	3dbattleship	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 04:38 PM
4	Is hypergamy enforced by other women?	Debate	3dbattleship	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/15 01:40 AM
3	Q4RP: How much career is too much for a woman?	Question for RedPill	3dbattleship	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 07:17 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N?	Q4Men	3dbattleship	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 04:28 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	[Discussion] Is Red Pillers avoidance of women who are Alpha-widows or have high N-counts based on feelings of their own inadequacy? I don't buy it. I've LOVED being the first to do something with a guy, getting to experience something new together and having it be special. This applies immensely in a sexual situation. I know that I can't expect to date virgin men, but it's definitely a thrill to be the first at something, even if it means we have to get weird to find it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/16 08:04 PM
3	If girls don't want to be led, then why don't they ask guys out on dates??? The times I've been rejected were just normal rejections where they didn't see me the same way I saw them. It's not that they rejected me BECAUSE of making a move- but they wouldn't have made a move either due to not being interested. The surprise usually has wound up leading to an "I don't know" that transforms into a yes or no when they stop being flustered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/16 03:49 PM
1	If girls don't want to be led, then why don't they ask guys out on dates??? Unprofessional I hate this. As a girl who doesn't wear makeup, I don't see why it has anything to do with how good I am at my job. I wind up putting it on for interviews and just get annoyed that that's an expectation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/16 02:43 PM
4	If girls don't want to be led, then why don't they ask guys out on dates??? This, exactly this. I've made the first move in all of my relationships, but the typical response from a guy to being asked out is a deer-in-the-headlights state and confused mumbling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/16 02:32 PM
10	Blue Pill offers no alternative Not this thread again...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/16 05:40 AM
1	Playing "hard-to-get" is not snake oil It's the latter, for sure. I'll get a pretty bad oneitis and pursue and pursue and pursue and sometimes it works but most of the time it doesn't and just destroys friendships. Edit: Just read that link. It was an AWESOME read. I'm having one problem about how I'd apply it to my life, though, and it's that my "fuck yes" for people grows. I'll get that "fuck yes" for friendship LONG before the "fuck yes" for dating, and then once it hits, it's overwhelming. So since it's so easy for my "no thanks"…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/16 01:37 AM
1	Playing "hard-to-get" is not snake oil That's a really cool way of segmenting the population, and I've realized that I'm definitely a type 2. I need to figure out how to become more of a type 3; do you see these types as malleable?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 11:57 PM
4	The term "slut" must exist (within reason) And do you look down on them and find them repulsive for taking what comes easily?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 08:44 PM
8	The term "slut" must exist (within reason) That's actually my point. Clearly the standards are NOT based on how easy or hard it is, but are based on something else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 04:33 PM
9	The term "slut" must exist (within reason) This fell apart as a reason when in a recent thread I asked about gays and lesbians. It's hard for a lesbian to slay pussy, but she's still seen as a slut. It's easy for a gay guy to get a lot of sex, still not shamed for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 04:06 PM
2	Can you demonstrate abundance mentality without exploiting girls? He didn't specify it's the girl's morals. It could easily be against a guy's morals too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 02:25 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? PiV with zero orgasms Yeah, or oral that doesn't go to completion; it can still feel good and still very definitely be sex even if I don't come. One provided two numbers on her own, to separate PiV from "other" I think that's what I'm getting at with the range idea, although if you segment enough, you get answer #6. And yes, I'm assuming that all of the numbers are low here, as in my example the very maximum possible was 4. an answer quickly without second-guessing My only worry there really wou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 03:32 AM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? Ok, cool, I'm actually totally on board with that (and count some things that don't include orgasms as sex too). However, a bunch of places in this thread were people who didn't agree with us- and the world has even more. Which is why I think it's completely reasonable to give a range- to account for OTHER people's definitions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 01:58 AM
2	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? Ah. I just think very hard about pretty much everything (and come from a family of lawyers)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 01:51 AM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? What are your views on that? I can't tell if you think it does or doesn't count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 01:50 AM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? So you'd prefer response #6?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/16 12:50 AM
2	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? Well, I wouldn't date anyone who would just assume I'd do specific acts without asking, so I'd be better off without the porn addict anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 11:35 PM
2	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? So the girl in question, with one bj, one woman, and one "sex" would have an n that was "too high" for you if she was respectful of people's differing definitions? You'd rather her confidently say "One!" Or "Three!" But wouldn't accept the range? I'm assuming that all of the grey is due to definitions, not forgetting- assume she knows every sex act she's ever done and would be happy to tell you, but boiling that down to the "n" is what creates that range. It's clearly not a simple answer. Out of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 11:34 PM
4	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? I can't imagine why the gender of a previous relationship would imply a casual attitude towards sex. The false pretenses are entirely in their own head if they think that; a long-term relationship in the past doesn't mean you'd be ok with a completely different (and casual) act. It would be like saying "oh, you gave a blowjob to a boyfriend in the past, clearly you'll work a gloryhole because I saw girls who did both things in porn"	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 11:22 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? Well, given the disputes about definitions right here in this thread, looks like the difference between "one", "two", and "three" could require math in her head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 11:18 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? Ah, yeah, with me it's not like a canned story, I just tend to start talking and then don't quite know when to shut up	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 09:28 PM
4	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? See, I'm not sure I buy that argument for sex that was entirely within relationships. Because a threesome by its very nature is casual sex, and a girl who has zero interest in casual sex would thus have zero interest in threesomes. The guy who made that immediate assumption would be sorely mistaken. Part B makes sense though, I could imagine someone who doesn't believe in fluid sexuality being constantly insecure that a woman who had a previous sexual experience with a woman couldn't have grown …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 08:11 PM
1	What's your opinion on double standards? The picture of the woman kissing the kid grossed me out. I definitely don't see any of these situations where men were being molested as a "win", and that seemed like most of the list.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 07:46 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? That's really useful to know. I'm the type to overshare- as I mentioned in another comment, I've let SO's read my old diaries and see for themselves every detail about my past if they're interested- and I've never really thought that someone would assume I was lying for telling them too much. I definitely appreciate your template there and it's given me something to think about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 07:38 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? That wouldn't bother me, as long as you were equally forthcoming	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 07:21 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? That's... really sad. I know some people see sex as meaningless recreation, but I can't get into that mindset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 07:20 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? I'm interested, how is #3 hedging? Since she's put a cap at 4, would you assume that citing the range is sluttier than the maximum of that range?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 07:10 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? So I'd assume the answer you'd be looking for through that winds up being #6.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 07:08 PM
3	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? That's really interesting! In previous n-count threads, there were people who didn't count lesbian sex at all, which shocked me. I'm also kind of surprised that it's seen as a slutty thing if it was in a LTR; if anything, following the whole "gatekeeper" idea, it should be less slutty by taking more effort. Is your view that it's way more slutty than another cock a common one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 07:08 PM
2	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? This was definitely what I was looking for. I'm especially interested that you saw answer 3 as shifty, since I actually see it as the most honest other than 6. It invites conversation or a refinement ("well I define it this way" etc) and puts an upper bound on it. I also think it's interesting that you saw all of the detail in 6 as suspicious, given that that's how I tend to answer the question. And counting "maybes" seems like all it would do would be to raise the number, not soften it- and let…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 07:05 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? So which one's "the answer"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 05:25 PM
2	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? Ok, great. Then your definition matches. Lots of people on the previous n-count thread would not have counted bj guy. So there's clearly uncertainty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 05:25 PM
3	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? Ah, see I count oral as sex, so if I had the experiences of that girl and you asked me how many men I'd had sex with, I'd wind up saying "two men and one woman"	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 05:14 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? Ok, so looking at answer #6, what is her "objective" n?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 05:12 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? I agree, I wouldn't tolerate that answer either	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 05:10 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? I agree, I think #3 is the best if people don't want the depth of #6.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 05:09 PM
2	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? Ok, cool. Would there be problems if she said something like "three" but then your definition differed from hers later? (I.e., would you agree with her assessment that her experiences as listed in #6 sum to 3, and if you don't, would it feel like a lie if you later found out the details?)	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 05:08 PM
2	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? You're not understanding me. I stated that, but that's background information. Feel free to disregard it. I'm happiest with your last answer- that for any of the 6 responses, even the one in detail, that you would not believe it. Thank you for finally answering my question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 05:06 PM
3	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? That's actually how I like these conversations to go too. It's not hopeless. I've actually kept a journal every day since before I became sexually active, so not just every partner but every time has been written about. I'm happy to share any part of my past with a curious partner, and am honestly confused by people who think it's ok to have big secrets in a serious relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 05:04 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? But assume the premise, you ask and she gives you one of those 6 answers. Do you just assume they're all lies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 04:52 PM
2	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? Yes, the premise is that they're all true from her point of view (so her experience is fully encapsulated by answer #6). I'm guessing you wouldn't want to hear "It's none of your business" or "It's low". Would you be ok with "Between 1 and 4, depending on how you define sex", "Three", or "Three, I think"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 04:51 PM
3	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? The man in this scenario doesn't know that the answer is truthful. I'm giving you that window into the thought process first. The man only hears those 6 responses. My question is partially "Of these answers, which ones would you be more likely to believe."	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 04:49 PM
5	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? That's not at all what I'm saying. Obviously some women lie or are deliberately vague. And I think it's very important to ask and to be truthful. I'm a big proponent of both people going through answers like #6. I'm just wondering what you all think, and would want to say and hear. Would you see a difference between a girl who says "Three" and a girl who goes through each experience and says what she did?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 04:48 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? just fucking answer the question. So which of the answers I gave would be the one you'd want to hear?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 04:46 PM
1	How would you want a woman to tell you about her N? That's the premise here. Would this woman, having had only one cock inside her, and a maximum possible count of 4 under the loosest definition, have an incentive to lie?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 04:46 PM
3	Question for BP: What is so offensive about the Captain/First Mate marriage dynamic? Less assertive than me doesn't mean completely passive. Less courageous than me doesn't mean he's scared of leaving the house. Less intelligent than me doesn't mean that he can't read. Etc. If there's room for the women you date to be lower on these spectra than you without being the complete bottom of the barrel, why is that suddenly different for me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/16 11:08 PM
9	Question for BP: What is so offensive about the Captain/First Mate marriage dynamic? Hooray! I'll keep this body, though, since I'm pretty fond of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/16 10:49 PM
2	Question for BP: What is so offensive about the Captain/First Mate marriage dynamic? I try never to claim that I speak for most women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/16 10:47 PM
4	Question for BP: What is so offensive about the Captain/First Mate marriage dynamic? I see no rub here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/16 09:41 PM
10	Question for BP: What is so offensive about the Captain/First Mate marriage dynamic? Yes, I am. And when I'm single, I am. I prefer someone who can take that support function, and am sexually attracted to that. While I do tend to be attracted to intelligent people, I'm comparing them to the average, not to me. Someone way smarter than me would intimidate me. For the rest of the qualities, I actually prefer someone who is way less assertive and who is more emotional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/16 09:41 PM
1	How Common is the Knowledge of Hypergamy (among women)? I went to an all-female college, so I just recognize that everyone's experiences were just vastly different from mine	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/16 08:49 PM
12	Question for BP: What is so offensive about the Captain/First Mate marriage dynamic? Because I want to be the captain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/16 08:35 PM
1	Are feminists saving or ruining sex? Is it weird that I unironically think that sounds great?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/16 03:54 AM
1	Pill poppers, what's wrong with this picture I'm apparently not a "true gentleman" since I looked at the picture and had no idea what they were getting at until I looked at these comments	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 04:41 AM
2	Make Someone Happy No way, that's way too much pressure	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/16 07:56 PM
4	What evidence do we have to suggest that female sexuality is in practice narcissistic? As a woman with a double major in math and chemistry, I can say without hypocrisy that we do need more women in STEM. But not by starting at the college level, by exciting them about science as kids. I didn't grow up with Barbie dolls, I had microscopes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/16 03:39 PM
1	Question for Blue Pill women; Would you have casual sex with a man you KNEW was Red Pill if you sincerely thought you would enjoy it or were enjoying it? Or would his beliefs deter you? No, because I would not have casual sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/16 01:43 PM
3	The whole 'women want a man who can provide excitement' thing... Boring because she doesn't do interesting things? That seems to support the argument, not refute it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/16 07:20 AM
5	The whole 'women want a man who can provide excitement' thing... This is probably the first time I've ever agreed with you. I just go do things myself for excitement, and am baffled by friends who feel like they need someone else to go with them. If I want to go skydiving, I do it. If I want to go to the hot springs in Reykjavik, I go. It doesn't take another person to go do an activity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/16 05:44 AM
6	Would you treat this FTM as a man or a woman? Redpill and Bluepill answer Definitely a man, he passes 100% and I wouldn't know he was trans unless he told me. Although, aside from pronoun use, I'd like to think that treating someone "like a man" would be no different than "like a woman". I'd be friendly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/16 05:04 AM
3	Feminists and Blue Pillers, in a round-about-way, are the ones who hate women I see option 1 as the only reliable option. If you want something done, you have to do it yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/16 04:58 AM
1	Why do single moms receive so much praise? Psh, only that long? How about until the kid graduated high school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/16 08:33 PM
2	Do feminists deny orgasmic attachment? I never fake anything in bed for fear of teaching bad habits. It causes problems, though, because it's virtually impossible for me to orgasm and partners tend to hurt and take it personally. They don't believe me when I say that it doesn't matter to me, and that the emotional experience of sex is what I want. My boyfriend has begged me to fake it, many times- but I just can't. I did once, felt awful about myself, told him immediately, he actually thanked me for doing it because it made him feel …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/16 08:23 PM
1	I don't agree with the wall He said "from party to suburbia". I definitely know people who from childhood have been dreaming of their white picket fence and two kids who never went through an experimental phase.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/16 08:13 PM
3	Q4RP: An incel-curing pussy fairy posted on r/confessions. What're your thoughts, red pills, MGTOWs, and incels? Yes, but equally wrong for the men to do it. Intentionally inflicting emotional pain is wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/16 04:41 PM
2	I don't agree with the wall So for women who never party, do they hit the wall at 12 with their first crush?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/16 04:38 PM
1	Women: Can a man have a partner count that was too high for it to be a dealbreaker? True, I've never understood people seeing someone in a movie and wanting to have sex with them. I can clearly see that some people are -prettier- than others, but that doesn't translate to me actually wanting them in a sexual way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/16 07:42 AM
3	How many of you want kids and do you think that affects which pill you are? I've never been really interested in having kids. I can't even keep a plant alive, I don't want to deal with a human.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/16 06:30 AM
8	One of the things RP gets most wrong about women and relationships in general. You're missing the memo that now that they're earning more money, they don't NEED a beta provider.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/16 09:26 PM
1	Women: Can a man have a partner count that was too high for it to be a dealbreaker? Absolutely. Kissing is a huge deal to me too. Making out with lots of girls would also feel like it was trivializing intimacy to me. Because of that, my kiss count and my n-count are nearly identical- quite low.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/16 03:55 PM
1	Women: Can a man have a partner count that was too high for it to be a dealbreaker? I'm sorry, you're not going to convince me that two people being naked and holding each other, breathing each other's breath and listening to each other's heartbeats isn't intimate. For someone to be able to do that and have it be meaningless means that they have different emotions surrounding the act than I do, which I'm not ok with. I want (and have!) someone for whom it's the other way around- sex implies intimacy, but intimacy doesn't imply sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/16 12:07 AM
1	Women: Can a man have a partner count that was too high for it to be a dealbreaker? Even more so because of his "for fun" experiences. Using my previous analogy where I see it like saying "I love you", I doubt you'd think that it would help the words be meaningful to girl 101 if he said "Oh, but with the past 100 I was just kidding." For guys, sex is not necessarily about saying "I love you". NAGALT. Most are, but I'm looking for the outliers. They exist, and it's pretty easy to vet their views on sex. They're the ones who don't see "getting laid" as a goal or as a symbol of th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/16 04:08 PM
27	Are you aware that most RedPillers are outwardly normal people? How do you plan to screen for these guys? Yeah, that was where I would have completely noped out too. Stonewalling is completely unattractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/16 03:33 PM
1	Women: Can a man have a partner count that was too high for it to be a dealbreaker? really bad consequences I'm not worried about the -consequences- per se of a man I love having treated intimacy casually. I'm not worried about cheating, or divorces, or anything like that. My concern is entirely about the concept of taking the vulnerability and closeness out of sex. To me, it's special. Hell, to me, kissing is special. I don't understand people making out with strangers or "for fun". It's vulnerable. It says "I'm putting my feelings out there and you're sharing them with me and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/16 03:05 PM
1	What do Red Pill men bring to the table (and what do you expect women to offer)? Yeah. Trust me when I say that coming out in the other direction is just as awkward as the first time. I think there are still a lot of friends and relatives who think I just went back in the closet, because they'd accepted me as a lesbian so fully- but they're wrong. Others think I'm some sort of traitor to the cause, or was just experimenting (really hard to be "experimenting" with a 3ish year relationship and then another 2ish one but whatever). My boyfriend understands and isn't worried. Ple…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/16 12:50 PM
1	What do Red Pill men bring to the table (and what do you expect women to offer)? Well, the bugs I'd kill for you, but I'd probably wind up just catching the rodents and releasing them outside. Would that work? :-P	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/16 04:45 AM
3	What do Red Pill men bring to the table (and what do you expect women to offer)? Thought I was for a few years. Had two LTRs with great women, but it didn't work out, partially because, well, I'm not. Alas. Edit: Although I do tend to like pretty feminine men, in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/16 04:43 AM
1	Women: Can a man have a partner count that was too high for it to be a dealbreaker? I don't have one off-hand. But I know that someone who treats sex as a casual thing that they can do with strangers isn't seeing it as the deep, intimate, soul-melding activity that I do, and that's important to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/16 04:40 AM
1	What do Red Pill men bring to the table (and what do you expect women to offer)? I have to kill my boyfriend's spiders. It's kinda cute.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/16 02:12 AM
3	What's in it for the woman to be in a relationship with an RP guy? What they really want to do Oh yes, laundry thrills me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/16 11:14 AM
8	Wouldn't equal pay for both genders cause even more problems in dating? Don't drink wine. Don't own cats. Count me in as a woman who likes high wages and prefers to be the breadwinner. If women don't want to take on the high-paying job so that they can stay making less than their partner, that's their prerogative. I'm glad I have the option.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/16 02:11 AM
2	How does TRP account for the fact that making friends, forming a social circle, meeting single women, and getting a social life becomes a lot more difficult as you get older? I think your blind spot is that some girls just aren't receptive to cold approaches at all. It doesn't matter how smooth or attractive someone is, a stranger coming up and talking to me isn't something I want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/16 04:40 PM
1	[Question for all pills] How would you feel is someone had a crush on you? Truth	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/16 08:40 PM
2	[Question for all pills] How would you feel is someone had a crush on you? For sure; I've initiated every relationship I've ever had, and it works well for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/16 04:47 PM
1	[Question for all pills] How would you feel is someone had a crush on you? Awkward. I've always been awful at dealing with people who have crushes on me. I've tended to shut down and avoid the person entirely, regardless of their attractiveness. It's not a "creepy" thing, just an awkwardness thing on my part. I hope I get better at dealing with it in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/16 04:38 PM
1	Women: Can a man have a partner count that was too high for it to be a dealbreaker? Sure, done!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/16 04:34 PM
7	Women who said a man-whore (slept with 100's of women) was a dealbreaker - is that something you think he's obligated to reveal while dating? He's not obligated to volunteer any information that I don't ask for. He is obligated to not lie about it when I do. I do ask, because I want us to both know the story of each others' lives. I want to know about his awkward first kiss at summer camp, his first love. How she broke his heart and the rebound girl he used to ease the pain, and what he learned about life and relationships from the experience. His high school experiences, college. I want a grand timeline of his life, full of stories. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/16 04:32 PM
2	How is Intelligence on a woman "useless"? Your BMI matters more than your IQ. For your boner. OP is confusing your boner with her worth as a person. That's the discrepancy people are having problems with in this thread, I think. The line gets blurred somewhat when RPers go on about how women aren't valuable to society, which is no longer about their SMV.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/16 03:05 AM
6	Women: Can a man have a partner count that was too high for it to be a dealbreaker? All things being equal, 6 is WAY better than 300. I want someone who values sex as a sign of love like I do. In RP words, I want someone who can "pair-bond".	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/16 01:08 AM
7	[Question for Women] What advice would you give the man who is in this deadbedroom? I would say that the relationship is pretty much sunk- not because of the sex but because they're miserable and don't seem to care about each other. I would tell him to seriously look into a divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/16 11:13 PM
3	Debate: Who successfully has more casual sex, men or women? Woman here. Definitely not paying any attention to the conversations other people are having. I'm focusing on my food or my conversation, not the couple in the corner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/16 11:07 PM
1	Does the "masculinity crisis" exist? How do blue pill and red pill define masculinity? Right, I guess a nice juicy bonus just feels good because it means that the firm sees that I contributed, and that I'm on the right trajectory	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/16 11:02 PM
2	Does the "masculinity crisis" exist? How do blue pill and red pill define masculinity? I think you're right, it's not about money intrinsically (although money is definitely nice). Although, there is still something motivating about a giant bonus for good work. Maybe it's just about the validation that I'm providing value, although I get that a lot from the actual impacts of my work more than the check. I'll have to think more on that one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/16 09:33 PM
1	What would happen to women with analytical and scientific minds in a Redpill world? You're right that the turnover is high, but for the odd few who enjoy it, it can be a lasting career. There are partners who have been there 20 years. You're right that I don't know a lot with kids, although I recently met one at Bain who does. It's not impossible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/16 09:31 PM
1	Does the "masculinity crisis" exist? How do blue pill and red pill define masculinity? Ok, I think in a sense we're saying the same thing. I'm just saying that I like being paid for the meaningful things I do, and you're saying that you'd prefer to do those things outside of your job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/16 07:34 PM
3	What would happen to women with analytical and scientific minds in a Redpill world? Pretty much all of the female McKinsey consultants I know are married to other McKinsey consultants. It doesn't seem to have hurt them much at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/16 07:20 PM
2	Does the "masculinity crisis" exist? How do blue pill and red pill define masculinity? We've been talking about work as a concept, not some meaningless paper-pushing soul-sucking cubicle job. I get that nobody has an internal ambition to sit in meetings all day. I'm lucky enough to have achieved a career that lets me actually make a difference through my efforts, and that feels so much better than sitting at home ever would.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/16 07:05 PM
1	Does the "masculinity crisis" exist? How do blue pill and red pill define masculinity? I respectfully disagree. Idleness makes me miserable. I've had long swaths of free time and I'm not great at making them meaningful. I'll spend a lot of time reading, exercising, writing, coding, etc but nothing that makes me feel like I'm making a valuable contribution to the world. My work helps give me purpose. My work lets me test my mettle and compete against myself (and others, if we're being honest) to be even better. It gives me a sense that I'm doing something with my life. I just don't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/16 03:58 PM
5	Does the "masculinity crisis" exist? How do blue pill and red pill define masculinity? He saves the world and gets the girl, what more do you want?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/15 06:46 PM
1	Does higher status make you more physically/sexually attracted to someone? I think this question is hard because it's hard to pin down what status actually means in this context. A little later in the thread you asked about talent and intelligence, which are different to me than status. When I'm thinking status, I'm thinking fame and wealth, and maybe lineage (I'm having trouble figuring out where to put people like the Kardashians who are famous and wealthy but not classy- or, for that matter, talented or intelligent). In any case, fame, wealth, pedigree, class aren't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/15 02:42 PM
4	Does the "masculinity crisis" exist? How do blue pill and red pill define masculinity? You've got it all backwards. I have an internal ambition to work. I used to feel like I'd "have" to clean house. Now I've learned about the glory of hiring housekeepers. Bitching is useless, way better to actually do something about the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/15 02:33 PM
7	Does the "masculinity crisis" exist? How do blue pill and red pill define masculinity? Harry Potter?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/15 02:29 PM
3	Are successful average guys destined to date girls that used to sleep around with Chad? Kind of sounds like that Groucho Marx quote about "I wouldn't want to be in any club that would have me as a member."	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/15 01:53 PM
3	Are successful average guys destined to date girls that used to sleep around with Chad? Just because it hasn't happened to you doesn't make it ridiculous. That is exactly how my attraction works- to the point where I literally can't be attracted to strangers/pictures/celebrities. But once it clicks, my crushes are crazy powerful emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/15 01:52 PM
2	What makes us think a woman is promiscuous? Even if she's never even kissed a guy? I tend to think actions speak louder than words.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/15 01:38 PM
8	The Slut Test I think the biggest problem with this one is that she could have had sex in a totally crazy place- with an LTR. You'd want a girl to be adventurous in relationships, and assuming she had n=1 she still could have had sex on the top of a mountain or something.	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/15 07:07 AM
6	Beautiful BPLadies, what you would that you found I was a terper? I'd laugh and try to figure out if I'd seen you on PPD before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/15 04:35 AM
3	CMV: Women don't want to be loved. Women want to be dominated. I have never dated or slept with someone who treated me like shit. Try again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/15 06:18 AM
6	CMV: Women don't want to be loved. Women want to be dominated. No thanks. If someone tried to control me like that, they'd be on the first train to Nextville. I can take care of myself, thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/15 07:38 PM
2	Ephebophillia I actually think a 13 year old giving a blowjob to anyone is a problem. Yikes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/15 03:40 PM
5	Q4RP: What counts towards a woman's N? I know exactly how many people I've kissed, including onstage. It doesn't seem that implausible to me. However, I'm still in the single digits on that- maybe for others who've had more experience, they'd forget. That being said, I'm pretty sure that none of those kisses raised my n. That's an insane metric.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/15 07:48 AM
10	Q4RP: What counts towards a woman's N? Good to know she can avoid being a slut by using a condom :-P Edit: this made more sense when it said "bare" dick	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/15 08:38 PM
6	Q4Women: Men's heights I'm 5'4. My exes have been 5'8, 5'3, and 5'6. I don't see any relevance to height as far as my patterns of attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/15 02:50 AM
8	Are women oblivious to what constitutes average? That guy is well above average and probably has no problems finding what he's looking for. You know this, xem. You really should stop internalizing anything Ben says.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/15 07:23 PM
1	Women of PPD, rate these men: Jeb is the cutest of the lot in my opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/15 04:08 PM
2	Women of PPD...Rate these Men Wait, really? He's so... pointy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/15 07:47 AM
3	Women of PPD...Rate these Men Number 1- 8 Number 2- 5 Number 3- 2 Number 4- 4 Number 5- 3 Number 6- 7 This doesn't mean that that's the order I'd date them in- it would really depend entirely on what my actual interactions with them were. But on a purely physical level, that's my view.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/15 04:16 AM
2	So, I just saw this in the ASKReddit thread about awkward situations girls face. More like I fell in love with a girl and then assumed that meant something about me. I realized later that it didn't actually say anything at all about my personality, or about my "true self" or anything like that. I just fell in love with her personality and charm and the way being around her made me feel about myself, and we were in a relationship for a little over two years. I don't regret it- it was a great relationship- but it wound up not working out because we had definitely different pri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/15 03:03 AM
1	So, I just saw this in the ASKReddit thread about awkward situations girls face. Nah, I was pretty dead-set in it. I didn't wind up dating a guy until nearly four years later- a close friend who I developed feelings for over years and who has the furthest thing from a six pack. Try again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/15 02:23 AM
2	So, I just saw this in the ASKReddit thread about awkward situations girls face. Not a psychic, just well-read on the subject. Yeah, I can recognize "Do I look gay?" or peacocking from Mystery, the 5 questions game from Style, etc. If someone were coming at me without a giant furry hat or a line I'd just read verbatim, probably wouldn't assume they'd been following a guide. But the ones who rip material directly from something I've read? Pretty obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/15 02:21 AM
2	So, I just saw this in the ASKReddit thread about awkward situations girls face. In undergrad, I read a TON of pua blogs and books- not out of paranoia (at that point I thought I was a lesbian; no worries about being tricked by some guy) but out of interest. After reading The Game, I was just fascinated by that world and wound up reading Mystery, David DeAngelo, the rest of Neil Strauss's works, etc. When I actually DID catch someone using a Mystery opener, you'd better believe it launched into a discussion about Mystery- and he was shocked that I'd even heard of the guy. Af…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/15 02:08 AM
1	So, I just saw this in the ASKReddit thread about awkward situations girls face. Wait so now I'm special for NOT having dyed hair or tattoos? That's new.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/15 01:59 AM
2	So, I just saw this in the ASKReddit thread about awkward situations girls face. More like "I've read the book you're quoting", not "you're misogynist".	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/15 12:25 AM
1	So, I just saw this in the ASKReddit thread about awkward situations girls face. Wow, actually none of those other than college and Reddit apply to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/15 11:59 PM
0	So, I just saw this in the ASKReddit thread about awkward situations girls face. Presumably the kind of girl who wouldn't call out canned pick-up lines, that's all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/15 11:58 PM
1	Is desperation feminine? Username checks out, this one knows 'em.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/15 11:11 PM
0	So, I just saw this in the ASKReddit thread about awkward situations girls face. I have definitely responded that way to guys who used lines ripped straight from The Mystery Method. They definitely freak out when called on it. Not necessarily wishful thinking, just a different type of girl than you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/15 06:42 PM
5	Another 'Oppression Olympics' threads: I feel sorry for female incels. That must really hit the self esteem. However, have any of you ever had your flirtatious behaviour described as CREEPY with the implications that you were a rapist in the making? Probably true; guys who have turned me down as an adult have been much kinder about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/15 03:18 AM
7	Another 'Oppression Olympics' threads: I feel sorry for female incels. That must really hit the self esteem. However, have any of you ever had your flirtatious behaviour described as CREEPY with the implications that you were a rapist in the making? Yes. At about age 15, I was obsessed with a guy and he was not interested. He told all of his and my friends that I was a creepy stalker. It wasn't pleasant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/15 01:47 AM
3	How should women react when a man likes her, but she doesn't like him? And some women like artists. Some women like musicians. Some women like lacrosse players. Some women like writers. If what you're arguing is that most women don't like guys who are ugly and stupid and have no hobbies or interests, then I'll agree with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/15 11:43 PM
2	How should women react when a man likes her, but she doesn't like him? That sounds like a lot of hamstering to get back to what your original premise was. It sounds like anything a person could at all be attracted to, you would claim as hypergamy. Here's a secret- pick any two people, and each will be better than the other in some facets. It would be impossible to find someone who is better than you at everything, same for worse. So you're going to claim hypergamy in any pairing, and conveniently pick the talents that the man has above the woman as evidence of hype…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/15 11:21 PM
1	How should women react when a man likes her, but she doesn't like him? Not better looking, but a lot of fun. We played chess, and what really attracted me was whenever he would play a really clever move. The competition was pretty intense, and competition is sexy to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/15 09:21 PM
1	Just to clarify, the Cock-Carousel is not the same as a Vagina-Carousel. You cannot compare the two. I'm just really looking for what RPs opinion on it would be. If the label is based on how easy it is to get, a hyper sexual lesbian who manages to get 50 conquests would be lauded. If the label is based on women being devalued by the sex they have, the woman who racked up a notch count of 50 women would be ruined.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/15 08:42 PM
1	Just to clarify, the Cock-Carousel is not the same as a Vagina-Carousel. You cannot compare the two. Sure, but let's assume a lesbian who does really find sex important, and she goes out and has sex with 50 women. Is she a slut or a stud?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/15 05:59 PM
8	Just to clarify, the Cock-Carousel is not the same as a Vagina-Carousel. You cannot compare the two. Out of curiosity, does that stigmatize a gay man's cock carousel ride but glorify a lesbian who gets a lot of pussy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/15 09:23 PM
3	What was your parents' relationship like, do you think this factored into your beliefs on relationships and sexuality and if so how? I've learned that marriages have shelf lives. I'm bearish on the idea of a marriage lasting more than 10 years. But I feel like that's ok- that a relationship isn't a failure just because it ends. My parents have each had several, in my opinion, successful marriages. And I think that's probably what will wind up happening to me. I'm not set on the idea of one person for life, but believe that different people can be right for me at different times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/15 06:59 PM
2	The reason why it's a bad idea to marry a woman who's approaching the wall (or past it) is because they want to latch onto you out of fear, not because they're attracted to you. So should I be saying I've slept with .33 men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/15 06:17 PM
1	Would your rather..? F/25/unaligned Ideally neither, because I think sex with strangers is gross. If I had to choose, I'd pick option B because then I wouldn't have to deal with the actual grossness- but the reputational damage would still suck. Well, option A is immediately out because I have zero interest in threesomes. But 10s also generally aren't my thing- maybe I get intimidated. I like to be the pretty one in my relationships. Can I have one 7 who really loves me? Definitely great at oral. There's nothing tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/15 06:14 PM
16	How should women react when a man likes her, but she doesn't like him? A guy friend and I used to hang out a lot, often alone, sometimes in his room. He'd walk me back to my place after, but he'd end the nights with a fist-bump. I took the time we were spending together as an IoI and asked him out. He freaked that I'd misread his signals and cut off the friendship. How did that happen?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/15 01:13 AM
9	Topless equality would solve nothing voluntarily wear more revealing clothing on the bottom parts of their bodies, and this would still make them seem inferior to men. All I learned from this is that you think that hijabi are the most superior people of all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/15 08:12 PM
2	Why does it seem like all women are blamed for the actions of a few? She is capable of it. Pretty sure you're capable of strangling a puppy. Should I hide my puppy from you? AMALT?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/15 09:35 PM
2	What, if any, redpill tactics would work as a lady to a man in a LTR And she's saying she's the one with the higher libido in the relationship. That's not inconceivable at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/15 09:29 PM
1	Study shows wives' materialism effects both partner's marital satisfaction. Thoughts? He's a short Asian cellist, so I'm guessing that it wasn't about the typical smv scale. But they're in love. I can't predict the future either, but it doesn't seem like she's planning on going anywhere. Sorry to hear about your friend, breakups suck for everyone involved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/15 01:18 AM
2	Study shows wives' materialism effects both partner's marital satisfaction. Thoughts? Hard work, maybe. Money, no. One of my friends is a consultant and her husband is a musician. Not a famous one. Just doing what he loves. She makes roughly 10x what he does, and they're really happy together. They have enough money as a couple to do anything they want. I don't buy the argument that the man has to make more for a married couple to be happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 11:38 PM
1	If you were the opposite sex, what type of person would you be? Sure! It's been fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 11:20 PM
1	If you were the opposite sex, what type of person would you be? So I've actually probably got a decent perspective on this since I've dated women in the past. I think they'd respond pretty well. My first girlfriend I met through us both being in the science fiction club at my undergrad, and my second through mutual friends. In dude-3dbattleship world, I'd probably be meeting partners the same way as I actually have; through mutual interests or friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 11:11 PM
1	If you were the opposite sex, what type of person would you be? I've got a pretty damn good libido; in real life, me and my boyfriend have an awesome, frequent, and varied sex life- and I'm the one with the higher libido, so I'm already the one initiating a lot of the time. If it was higher, I'd probably still be doing that, but maybe would masturbate more?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 11:00 PM
1	If you were the opposite sex, what type of person would you be? I'm honestly not sure. I spent a lot of years with virtually zero energy due to untreated sleep apnea; I don't think testosterone would have been able to compensate for that in any meaningful way. An angrier me would probably just be a dick to people. Right now I already dislike most people but react to that with apathy. Maybe angrier I'd yell at them when at the moment I'd walk away. I think overall I'd probably be right in the same place I'm in now. I guess the gains would be easier; right now…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 09:22 PM
2	If you were the opposite sex, what type of person would you be? I guess I'd be angrier but have more energy. That's what's tended to happen with people I've known in real life who went on T.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 09:09 PM
1	If you were the opposite sex, what type of person would you be? Sure, we see that in any study about men or women going on supplemental testosterone. But again, it's trends. Who knows, maybe I've got high testosterone and that's why I ask people out, have an intense job, code for fun, and don't wear makeup. Or maybe it's just because you can't generalize a bunch of individuals into two oddly-specific buckets of stereotypes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 08:30 PM
2	If you were the opposite sex, what type of person would you be? I believe that biology influences trends. Personally, I can't relate to a lot of the traditionally female trends. Clearly it affects things like the ability to produce sperm, the tendency for colorblindness, and the tendency to bald with age. I guess if I became male, I'd be more likely to have those characteristics. However, even the "obvious" markers in my view are mostly trends. Take height. Clearly men are taller than women. But some women are 6'3". Some men are 5'0". So it's not a biologica…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 07:48 PM
4	[CMV][For Women only please] Men should treat women differently as opposed to other Men That sounds reasonable to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 07:43 PM
3	If you were the opposite sex, what type of person would you be? Yup	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 06:23 PM
2	If you were the opposite sex, what type of person would you be? Sorry, I'm female in real life	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 05:01 PM
13	[CMV][For Women only please] Men should treat women differently as opposed to other Men I'd argue that you should treat everyone as completely individual persons. You have to tailor your management style to the person you're managing. A shy guy could have the same negative reactions to orders as the women you've encountered. There are women who would rather just be told what to do. You just have to know your employees and what they need in a leader.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 04:13 PM
12	If you were the opposite sex, what type of person would you be? I think I'd be the same; introverted, career-focused, someone who brashly asks for what they want and doesn't deal with the bullshit. Someone who's obsessed with self-sufficiency and not needing others. In other words, RP would finally agree with my life choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 02:57 PM
8	Study shows wives' materialism effects both partner's marital satisfaction. Thoughts? So if a woman wants more money, she's damned either way? If she leeches off the guy, she's a gold digger. If she works hard herself, she's a shrew? Should women just not care about becoming financially secure at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 02:20 PM
1	What is the point of women hiding their promiscuity? Wow, it is all about the money for you, isn't it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 02:00 AM
5	Do Women Find the Male Body Inherently Sexy? You're not a weirdo, I'm the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/15 11:47 PM
4	Discussion: Share your honest views on the opposite sex. Gross.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/15 11:44 PM
3	What is the point of women hiding their promiscuity? Just wanted to address your bit about "or even initiate the sex". I've got a low partner count. But if I was really into someone who I was dating, I would have zero problem initiating sex. Just because a woman is proactive doesn't make her promiscuous. I initiated my very first sexual experience, with a partner I'd been dating a year, in college. The idea that a woman initiating is necessarily slutty is what forces guys into being the ones who approach.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/15 11:40 PM
1	Is it wrong for a company to be considered more successful if it has more women? In my view, a company's success is pretty much entirely based on its return to shareholders. I don't see how the composition of its staff has anything at all to do with that. Note: If it's a nonprofit, obviously it measures success by other metrics, but I can't see the gender of its employees being a factor there either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/15 07:37 PM
0	Would you rather have the state pay support for unwanted children (i.e. your tax money) or biological fathers? I was using "external support" to mean support that is provided by someone else; the premise of this thread. Without support freely given to you from either the biological other parent of the child, the government, or family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/15 07:04 PM
1	Would you rather have the state pay support for unwanted children (i.e. your tax money) or biological fathers? They're paid for by your money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/15 06:45 PM
6	Scenario for discussion regarding unwanted/ unplanned pregnancy Whoa, I never said anything about abolishing all laws. There are lots of terrible fathers. There are also some great fathers. There are men who love and want their children. That's all I'm saying. Men do not only stay with their pregnant SOs out of legal obligations, there are plenty who genuinely want to create and raise new life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/15 05:41 PM
1	Women of PPD...how often do you get approached by men? 18-25. 0 times, but I also haven't really gone out in public. I'm pretty busy. I'm still having a hard time thinking of any. I just don't really go to the places where that's a normal thing to do. Maybe a couple of times? It's probably happened more than I think and I've just been oblivious to intent. Was the man asking me what time the next train was an "approach"? I wouldn't really think so. Happily attached Totally happy not being approached- it would just feel incredibly weird to me. It's on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/15 05:34 PM
8	Scenario for discussion regarding unwanted/ unplanned pregnancy That's completely untrue; I have male friends who desperately want to be fathers. Infertile couples would take serious umbrage to that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/15 05:27 PM
1	Would you rather have the state pay support for unwanted children (i.e. your tax money) or biological fathers? I wouldn't consider your hired staff external. It's a reasonable option, and what I would do if I somehow found myself a single mother. But I'm surprised that's the go-to, since full time staff is very expensive and RP constantly complains about how they'd be financially crippled by the idea of child support. If you're financially stable enough to do it, great- but I don't see the average person as having that option.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/15 05:22 PM
3	Would you rather have the state pay support for unwanted children (i.e. your tax money) or biological fathers? That all sounds reasonable. Also sounds exactly like what a working woman in the situation would do; I don't see why being male makes you any more capable of that. Although I'm kind of surprised that hiring a nanny is the gut instinct here, because that's definitely more expensive than the child support that RP often says will financially cripple them. PS If a woman had responded that she'd "maybe date a single dad so they could help each other", everyone would be accusing her of trying to get a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/15 05:19 PM
5	Would you rather have the state pay support for unwanted children (i.e. your tax money) or biological fathers? Congrats, you're granted solo custody of a three week old screaming baby. How are YOU planning to take care of it with your full time job and no external support?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/15 03:00 PM
7	How did males acquire females during caveman days before language existed? Sounds like how TRP finds them today!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/15 05:43 PM
-1	And She Won't Get an Abortion: A DT Guide That would only work on a woman who actually does feel some sort of financial dependence to you. Even your "nuclear" option of just vanishing isn't a threat if she's got the money to hire staff to take care of the kid. Same goes for why it would or wouldn't be a career nightmare. But for the majority of women who aren't making 150k+, you're probably right that it's possible to manipulate someone through their emotions and fears into even doing something as drastic as aborting a wanted child.	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/15 01:17 PM
3	Question for women (BP in particular) - if gender roles are just a social construct, why is it that women never (rarely) find the courage to ask men for their numbers and ask them on dates? Doesn't count for what? I asked a guy out and it led to a multi-year relationship; does the whole relationship "not count"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/15 12:50 PM
2	Question for women (BP in particular) - if gender roles are just a social construct, why is it that women never (rarely) find the courage to ask men for their numbers and ask them on dates? I agree, and had a great thread about this a few days ago. It baffles me that more women don't ask because it's the surefire way to getting what you want instead of just what comes your way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/15 12:42 PM
3	Blue and purple pill women: have you ever been attracted to a man who for all intents and purposes was low SMV, particularly because he was nice, kind, respectful, honest and non-misogynistic? Have you ever been unattracted to a man because of his misogyny and manipulation? I can't even understand the concept of casual sex or a ONS, because I could never be attracted to someone that quickly. Same! I just don't get it, on a very visceral level. Just doesn't make sense to me why it would be appealing at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/15 04:19 AM
9	Blue and purple pill women: have you ever been attracted to a man who for all intents and purposes was low SMV, particularly because he was nice, kind, respectful, honest and non-misogynistic? Have you ever been unattracted to a man because of his misogyny and manipulation? Short, overweight, low-status jobs, poor, socially awkward for sure. Ugly is hard to say, because once I like someone, they BECOME good-looking in my eyes. I don't really factor my own attractiveness into it, I don't really feel like it's a competition. But, for what it's worth, I'm thin and next year I'll make more than everyone I've ever seriously dated will make combined. I've heard a lot of "you deserve better" whenever I'm in a relationship. But I don't feel like I "deserve" anything but so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/15 02:10 AM
1	The Rape Protection Squad ~An advanced, morden, Anti-Rape technique Other people have addressed a bunch of problems with this, but I've got one more. What about the case of an unconscious/drugged woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/15 12:59 AM
5	any bpers who think women can be as competitive as men? I'd guess that the average woman is less competitive than the average man. However, I think that individual women can of course be at any level of competitiveness- or pretty much every characteristic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/15 10:55 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I don't understand how people can be attracted to a profile, so I think there will always be people like me for whom that's not applicable	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/15 12:00 PM
3	Relationship Contracts So... like a prenup but before a relationship? When are you proposing people write one of these? Seems like really awkward first date talk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/15 10:01 PM
2	Fellow women of PPD, what have you done lately to remind your man/the men in your life that you love them? Surprise tickets to his favorite band's concert edit: Actually, that was a couple of months ago. More recently, got him a huge lego set he's had his eye on for a long time but it's been out of his budget to actually get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/15 08:28 PM
3	Is virginity really the golden standard for marriage? I agree with all of this. I was 22, and I waited that long not out of prudishness or out of unattractiveness but because I wanted it to mean something. I was only ready once it was really LOVE, and I think that's a pretty damn good reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/15 08:24 PM
5	Why are women allowed to have standards, but not men? I think either is pretty limiting. I always roll my eyes at people who think they can determine whether or not they'd find someone attractive by a checklist of things like height or income or age or whatever. I've fallen for such a variety of different types of people that it just doesn't make sense to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/15 08:19 PM
3	Sandwiches I don't think you're in a minority, although maybe because I'm exactly the same way. If I click with someone, they BECOME attractive even in spite of less than stellar looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/15 08:14 PM
3	This is what women find attractive in a man. I... Agree. Wow. Yup, that all sounds good to me. No "I'm an outlier" rant on this one!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/15 08:13 PM
0	Men: You are granted a magical power that makes you immune to rejection from women. Describe what your life would be like. I honestly don't get the point of going after the ones you didn't like. Isn't sex supposed to be a fun, nice thing? Why would you want to share that with someone who's bitchy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/15 05:30 PM
1	If a woman is withholding sex she isn't getting powerful orgasms That sounds awesome	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/15 06:00 AM
1	If a woman is withholding sex she isn't getting powerful orgasms Actually, guys can have a very different kind of orgasm too, it just requires prostate stimulation which a lot of guys are too squeamish to experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 09:14 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I definitely worry about stranger danger, but I honestly don't feel that kind of fear with a man that I trust. Sorry, we've got different views on this one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 08:40 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Oh, yes, perpetuate the world where you have to do all the asking and turn down a girl you'd otherwise want and could have had a good time with. Have fun with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 08:37 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I'm also guessing prehistoric humans probably didn't go on dates to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 02:43 PM
1	What would you think of a woman who wasn't a social herd person? There are introverts and extroverts of both genders. My thread yesterday about asking men out definitely brought out a lot of this conversation; lots of women do really freak out about being judged. But there were plenty that don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 02:30 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I'm thinking this through and I'm not sure it's accurate. When he says yes, he's saying that he wants me too, so that equalizes. But he's stepped into my frame; my activity, my plans; which means I'm actually more in control of how it goes. I can invite him to an activity that's clearly not an invitation for sex, whereas accepting his offer may then later involve rejecting his expectations. As someone who's only interested in LTRs, the first few dates are strictly nonsexual matters, and I think …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 02:25 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? That's really interesting. I've always invested pretty heavily in my skills- even as a virgin, I wanted to be very prepared and didn't want to rely on looks alone. I wanted to be really great at sex, and so I read voraciously. I'm surprised more people don't do that given how important it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 02:12 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Doesn't allow the man to invest his emotions into the interaction beforehand too That's really interesting. I hadn't thought of it that way, and I think that's probably true in most cases. I'm going to have to think about that more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 02:09 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Honestly, no. And the three people I've dated have all looked completely different, so I don't really think I have a physical "type". Although all of them have been incredibly smart, nerdy, and introverted- so I think I have more of a personality type. I like to have my brain challenged. Edit: No, I don't think this makes me "sapiosexual" or anything ridiculous like that. I'm just saying that it's a trend, not necessarily a requirement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 02:07 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? So true; I always wait too long and then I'm way too emotionally invested	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 02:04 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I just figured they were all in relationships with each other :-P	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/15 05:24 AM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Thanks! It's been pretty great having this conversation, and both you and your wife have given me fantastic, well-thought-out responses. So far, it's working for me overall, and hopefully others can figure out how to improve their strategies to get what works best for them if they're struggling. And hopefully guys will eventually get used to being on the receiving side of an invitation occasionally :-D (Although frankly, the awkward "sure" is still a yes, and is kind of cute!)	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 08:55 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Sure, not a problem! It's cool to see different viewpoints, definitely like hearing what you've got to say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 08:33 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Honestly? It's anyone, if they're a stranger. For me, attraction kind of hits me all at once after knowing someone for a while (it's never been less than a month or so). They'll say something funny, or we'll meet eyes and I'll feel a jolt, or we'll be having a deep conversation and something will just click like a flood of warmth over me. I've never understood people's attraction for celebrities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 08:32 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? It's still always people I know, because I don't find myself attracted to strangers. I'm just way better now at reining in my exuberance when I like someone; less staring, less obsessing. I do outright say the words, like "Would you like to go with me to see Wicked on Saturday night, I've got an extra ticket." The times it's been successful, it's usually elicited a stunned silence, followed by a timid "Sure" and a boggled look on their face. It's entirely LTR-based. I've never had a ONS, and I'm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 08:25 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Maybe it's just my weird quirk, but I can't imagine being attracted to anyone upon instantly meeting them. If some stranger, no matter how "hot" asked me out, I'd be put off. So my sphere is a lot smaller, because it only includes people whose personalities I've been able to gauge. I'm also pretty introverted and don't enjoy most social events. I guess that's why it's so important for me to make a move when there is someone I'm interested in- because it's rare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 08:12 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? That's a good point, that I'm seeing a bunch in this thread. Guys seem to assume that date = sex. I tend to assume that date = potential start to a relationship. Maybe that fundamental miscommunication is part of the problem. And go you on making that happen! :-D	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 08:10 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I've only ever asked out men who I had massive raging crushes on. Can't imagine wanting to go out on a date with someone I wasn't attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 08:09 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? (got super excited, set up the bedroom with candles and music, and otherwise made herself available) and she received a "hard" rejection from me in that moment That happened to me last Valentine's day. I'd set up everything amazingly, wore great lingerie, made customized candy hearts, had rose petals on top of the ceiling fan so that when it got turned on they went all over the room, and my boyfriend just wanted to sleep. It hurt. I cried. A lot. And then planned a great birthday surprise. Becau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 08:08 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Ah, thanks for the clarification. I still think that option C exists, of the girl who loves sex, but not with strangers or casual dates. (ie. Me)	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 08:03 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? The men I've asked out have been very respectful of my boundaries. I've never had sex outside of a committed relationship, and rarely felt pressured on a date. That's part of the vetting process- finding someone who shares the same values as I do about sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 08:00 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? When the woman approaches the man the man says "yay! Easy lay!" I think this would very much depend on the ask. I addressed this in another comment, but I'm definitely not expecting you to read through the >100 posts that are here now. Basically, I was saying there's a big difference between a woman asking you to go home with her at 2am when the bar's closing, versus a woman who only has sex within relationships asking you out for a dinner. I think it's pretty easy to be clear about your intenti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:58 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I honestly think there's a third option. I'm definitely not a prude; my boyfriend and I have a very healthy and active sex life, full of fun and variety. But, we didn't start until we were committed. That's been the case for my three relationships. I don't give it away "for free". If I were single again, there is zero chance I'd have sex on an entry-level date. But once I'm in love with someone and we're in a committed and exclusive relationship, anything goes. Luckily, if I'm doing the asking, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:55 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? They find it off-putting because it's unusual, and when something is unusual it's typically a signal that something is wrong. I like that view; that makes a lot of sense. It throws off the pattern they're used to, and so they wouldn't be prepared to respond.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:47 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I'm assuming she thinks through all the men she knows and picks the one who has the highest value to her, proven through knowing him casually for some time as an acquaintance or friend. After locking onto her target, she asks. I'd assume that's actually best for "the kids" (who don't exist yet, since she's not even in the relationship) because she would have found the very best person to have and raise them with instead of the randomness of who walks up to her and asks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:46 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I guess I don't care about someone being a "fighter". The guys I've asked out have primarily been the introverted nerdy type that I like. They've also been my friends before the ask, so I know plenty about their personality and have vetted them to make sure they're what I actually want before putting myself out there and taking the risk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:43 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? That's cool. I'm not saying that there needs to be a quota, I just hear all the time here that it's a thing that very few girls do, which just doesn't make sense to me from my personal experience. If I want someone, I go for it. That seems like it's the sensible strategy for anyone who wants anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:41 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? So are you agreeing that in this SMP, to get a good man without being pressured into early sex or P&D'd, the girl should be willing to do the asking? I think that sounds oddly... reasonable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:39 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Amazingly enough, for once I agree with you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:35 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Maybe she sits behind him in class. Maybe she saw him onstage in a community theater production. Maybe she spotted him in a Starbucks while he was immersed in writing a novel on his laptop. Maybe he was on the phone. People get distracted, I'm sure that there are lots of people you've seen but not noticed, and even more people who have seen you but have been outside of your field of vision. Alternatively, maybe you do know her, but think for some reason that she's unavailable because of a misund…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:34 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? This is really interesting, thanks for the well-thought-out comment. I've got another option though, that's more relevant to my experiences. When I'm asking someone out, it's not for sex. It's someone that I've already vetted as LTR material. Someone whose personality I've already determined is compatible, and who I'm already somewhat close to. Someone who can't just fuck and leave me, because they're already integrated into my life- ie, I've made the friendship happen first, and it would be a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:31 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? But let's say that fucking is DEFINITELY off the table for that date. Say, she doesn't have sex with people until they're in a committed relationship. Let's say you don't want to commit to anyone, you're just playing the field right now. I'd think at that point, even if you wanted to have sex with her, you'd turn her down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:24 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Oh, I know you're right about it. I definitely freaked a guy out once when I asked him out (he did later say yes, but it took him nearly a week to get back to me and I can only wonder about what was going on in his head the whole time). My real question is why. I think you might be right about them not knowing how to play the role- since they haven't had much practice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:23 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? But as /u/thegreasypole mentioned earlier, it doesn't make sense that a woman who targets someone would be more hypergamous than a woman who just takes the man who is assigned for her. If anything, the woman in an assigned relationship would be more likely to seek someone else than the one who got a choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:22 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? If it has often been for worse than I'm not feeling too bad about never approaching, lol. The "for worse" parts were mostly when I was really young, 12-16ish and I had a really bad way of dealing with crushes. I'd follow them around, "accidentally" bump into them, say really stupid things. I don't blame them for turning down the awkward weird girl who was far too emotionally invested! As I've gotten older, I got way better at asking people out in a non-creepy way. (Extra question - did you blurt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:20 PM
5	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Well, for starters, there's never a guarantee of getting laid. But let's assume that she's a good girl who doesn't ever have sex on the first, or even second date, and he knows it. I think there's still a huge benefit that he could get- spending time with her, companionship, and figuring out if they like each other enough to start a relationship. If you're throwing out all girls who won't fuck you on the first date, then you're limiting your pool of potential LTRs and ensuring that you only date…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:16 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? i think its already on its way out to some extent. Awesome, I hope you're right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:14 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I'm not up on my ancient sociology, but I still have a very hard time believing that a virgin could also be a whore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:13 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Then maybe it's partly to do with how I was raised. I've also been told from birth that I had to earn everything on merit and elbow grease. I actually think that's a great thing, and I feel bad for people who just expect the world to fall into their lap. If he would have sex with her, he'd go out with her. Really? I hear here all the time that standards are different for sex versus relationships. If someone you already know is asking you on a date, they're likely not looking for a ONS. It seems …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:12 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Because sex isn't necessarily the offer. I'm not really talking about people asking a guy to go home with them at 2am when the bar's about to close. I'm talking about your nice classmate saying "Do you want to go to dinner at 7pm on Friday". If men's standards are so different from sex to relationships, it's fully plausible that she's a girl that's somewhere between those thresholds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:09 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I guess I just don't buy that only people who say the words "will you go out with me" are 'active' and the people who don't are 'passive'. It's more complicated than that, imo. That's a very fair point. I was thinking about the scenario where you're asking someone who may or may not be interested in you if they'd like to go on a date. But you're right, there are ways of edging towards it that can be in that gray area. I guess I'm ok with timid men. I can see that if that was a factor you were se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:07 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? The first. Explicitly making a plan and inviting the guy of interest. Putting yourself on the line and making intentions clear. High risk, high reward. I don't think it takes away from that feeling of being desired. Getting a "yes" to that question is an exhilarating thrill, and makes me feel desired all the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:03 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I have never approached a man. NEVER. And through my teens and very early twenties there were quite a few guys that I had a crush on and I would have loved them to approach me. But despite a pathetic crush I still didn't approach. The idea literally makes me shudder. That's really sad. I honestly don't know how you could help it. Every time I've had a pathetic crush, the urge to say something has just risen and risen until it's torn through me and blurts out uncontrollably. For better or for wor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 07:01 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Right, they shouldn't necessarily be asking out the hottest guy, but the most compatible one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 06:56 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? men tend to freak but when approached by women. I'm definitely interested in this part. Why would that be? I know it's true, but it seems counterintuitive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 06:54 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Rejection sucks, for sure. It hurts. It's painful. But that's the case for men too, and somehow they manage to get past it. So should women- resilience is a good quality to have. asking men out means that the only immediately available metric for evaluation --looks -- is the one being used Only if she's asking out a complete stranger. If she's asking out a friend, a classmate, a former coworker, then that goes out the window and she's being evaluated as a whole person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 06:54 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? That sounds sad, and I actually feel bad for you that she's not willing to initiate even when she knows she won't be rejected (by you). Sorry to hear that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 06:52 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I think you could probably say that for men as well, not that it particularly matters. Alternatively, you could realize that people could turn someone down for any variety of factors. Maybe she gets rejected because the guy she asks is in a relationship, or gay, or only likes asians or redheads, or wants someone who is a fellow video game enthusiast to play with. Women get rejected when they ask guys out too, even if they "objectively" have the same level on looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 06:51 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I wouldn't say that's true. Because I very much don't even want to be approached by strangers. Call it pickyness, call it "oneitis", but in general when I'm on the market, there's a specific person that I want, and there isn't a substitute. I don't think that speaks to my SMV. (Although, by another thread, I've heard that being white, young, skinny, and from a coastal city means that I get to ignore all the "rules" anyway)	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 06:48 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? A female willing to take any guy assigned to her by an external source seems to me to be less choosy, and more open to other males.... Than a female fixated on one guy and hunting him down. For sure! That really boiled down a lot of what I'm thinking, and what puzzles me about this whole issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 06:46 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Welp, I've already got the branding of being odd from just about everything I do, so I guess this just goes along with it. I've never really been one for norms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 06:44 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? But this has nothing to do with sluts. A woman who selects a man and goes after him, and goes on to marry him and has a lifetime n of 1 is definitely not a slut. A woman who never asks a man out but says yes to 100 who ask her would be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 06:44 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Yup, for sure	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 06:30 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Ok, I can accept that explanation	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 06:29 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I'm honestly pretty selective. I tend to get a pretty severe "oneitis" and crush hard on one person instead of finding a bunch of people passively attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 06:29 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Always :-P Except in the "are you an outlier" threads where people tell me I'm totally normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 06:20 PM
5	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Hey, you're the one who just said "animals". Want to talk about bonobos instead?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 05:29 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Ah. In that case, she needed to vet the guy she was asking out to make sure he was really a good choice. The people I've asked out have so far all been friends first, so I've never had the worry of just being used for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 05:20 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I guess that could be a reasonable answer. That's not in my list of criteria, so I can't get into that mindset, but I could see where some women would prioritize that over other specifications.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 05:18 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Because maybe the headhunters are trying to recruit me into private equity but I'd rather do venture capital? Just because there's a slew of, even objectively high quality, things coming your way doesn't mean they're what you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 05:17 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? If I gave up after two rejections I would still be a Virgin Exactly! Me too. It took a lot of learning on my part to not turn into a desperate creepy stalker when I liked someone, and learned to ask them out in a way that isn't off-putting. My failures as a 14 year old shouldn't define my dating strategy forever, and I feel bad for someone who let that happen to the point where she's lost all ability to choose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 05:15 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? That's true. The first few times I got rejected were AWFUL. But you find someone new, and sometimes they say yes, and then it's amazing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 05:14 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Why? Because men aren't interchangeable. Because maybe you want that specific one, and can't mind-control him into asking you. I think it's very necessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 05:13 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? "if you ask guys out, you look desperate and slutty"-faction That argument actually makes sense to me. The person doing the asking DOES sacrifice some of the power, and can seem desperate if it's done wrong. I wonder now what the best way that a woman who wants a relationship with a specific guy COULD ask him out without risking that signal that she's desperate. (Slutty can easily be rebuffed by having a low n-count, not putting out right away, and being fairly modest.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 05:12 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I'd think the woman passively accepting someone's proposition would have lower standards than the woman who actively picks the one she wants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 05:10 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? That's a decent point that I hadn't really thought of. I guess you can prove SMV in other ways- I'd say a lot of female SMV is pretty obvious between looks and demeanor. Taking that to my job example, though, I don't think anyone faults someone for applying. I guess in a way it says that you're "not good enough to be recruited", but I'd say it just makes you look choosier- that the companies recruiting you aren't up to your standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 05:09 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I guess I could see how fear could control someone like that. But the upside of being accepted by someone I'm really interested in is the dream, and you can't get that without putting yourself out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 05:05 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Hyenas would like to disagree with you :-P	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 05:04 PM
2	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? Headhunters call me pretty frequently, but they're often not for jobs that I feel would best fit my interests and skills, which are pretty eclectic. I took a job once that was offered to me spontaneously because I was tired of applications, and those two years were pretty miserable. I've made sure to do a lot more research before taking a job since. With relationships, I've tended to ask out people who were my friends and who I liked and where our personalities clicked but who were generally too…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 05:03 PM
4	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I'd way prefer the chance of rejection to dating someone I wasn't interested in. Option 3 seems like it would only work on the wild off-chance that someone I was crushing on ALSO took interest in me and then asked me out before I got a chance to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 04:56 PM
6	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? That freezer full of meat is good for ordinary meals (acquaintances, friends), but for that one special meal (actually dating someone) you bet your ass I'm going to be down at the butcher's shop buying some lamb tenderloins. It's too important a decision to make based on the random stuff in my freezer. why go through the nerve-racking process of doing it? Because that way I know that I get what I'm looking for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 04:53 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I'm... glad she's happy? It just seems so defeatist to throw up your hands and say "I'm just going to wait for someone else to decide we should be together instead of actively making one of the most important decisions in my life".	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 04:46 PM
1	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? But likely had to settle for someone who was less optimal than someone she would have chosen if she got to pick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 04:44 PM
8	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I guess I just never got that "basic human instinctive urge" or any feeling that it's wrong other than that it's socially unusual. One guy I asked out a few years ago was definitely a little freaked out and didn't know how to respond- I'm pretty sure he'd never been asked out before which was honestly surprising to me. Like everyone else (of either sex), I'm afraid of rejection, but that shouldn't stop anyone. I'm afraid of flying, but I'm not going to cancel my vacation plans over it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 04:44 PM
3	Asking people out- why don't more women do it? Should they? I hope your friend doesn't become an entrepreneur or an actor. I feel like being able to face rejection is a really important skill for success in all facets of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 04:39 PM
3	Is Chivalry a hypocritical standard for modern females to hold for men? TRP vs BP Sure, I'd assume it goes both ways. The person doing the asking can get higher quality than the person waiting. It's like jobs, you can passively wait for a headhunter to recruit you, or you can figure out the one you want and apply for it. I'd guess for most people, the proactive option is going to bring them more happiness and more of what they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 05:13 AM
1	Is Chivalry a hypocritical standard for modern females to hold for men? TRP vs BP I actually think that's great. I know you're being sarcastic, but I love being the asker, because I know I'm attracted to the person. Sure, rejection sucks, but the wins when someone you like says yes can be incredible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 03:52 AM
2	Is Chivalry a hypocritical standard for modern females to hold for men? TRP vs BP It definitely makes sense to me that the person who does the choosing gets someone better than if they're the one who gets chosen. They're tailoring it to exactly what they want, whereas whoever asks you is kind of random.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 03:50 AM
6	Is Chivalry a hypocritical standard for modern females to hold for men? TRP vs BP Three or so years ago, I asked one of my guy friends out. He was very surprised but thrilled, and we've been together since. I think taking initiative is the best way to get the person you want instead of just waiting around!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/15 10:27 PM
2	Does Feminism require Big Govt to exist: TRP vs BP! Private schools?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/15 09:35 PM
1	If there is such a thing as "toxic masculinity" then surely there another side to the coin, "toxic femininity" how would blue pillers define it and what are some examples? Did you not read my comment where I said that in my view it's toxic when it hurts themselves? Toxic masculinity to me is when pushing yourself into the extremes of the male gender role hurts the man. Toxic femininity is when pushing yourself to the extremes of the female gender role hurts the woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/15 12:54 PM
1	If there is such a thing as "toxic masculinity" then surely there another side to the coin, "toxic femininity" how would blue pillers define it and what are some examples? No. It's toxic when it hurts the person themself. I'd say toxic masculinity would involve the suppression of emotions, a loss of work-life balance, and low self worth due to a constant need to prove oneself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/15 04:34 AM
1	If there is such a thing as "toxic masculinity" then surely there another side to the coin, "toxic femininity" how would blue pillers define it and what are some examples? The idea that to be feminine you can't be smart or successful. That you have to be a wallflower and wait for people to drop opportunities in your lap. Passivity, not being proactive. Femininity, at an extreme, turns you into an object to be acted upon instead of a person with agency.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/15 04:12 PM
3	"A woman's past doesn't matter." The food network has the right to hire or fire anyone they want. With that being said, I don't think her saying a racist slur outside of the show and years ago is a reasonable justification to fire her. But, just like you have the right to date whoever you want and I can think your reasons are dumb, private companies have the right to employ who they want and I can think their reasons are dumb.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/15 04:57 PM
1	When you belong to a group, once someone from the same group does something bad, you will be painted with the same brush as him I actually agree. I hate all labels and refuse to "identify" with any group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/15 11:05 PM
7	Is Daygame Cold Approaching Really Worthwhile? And are its Advocates Actually Sane? Seems like it would be a lot easier to join Meetup and find people you've got shared interests with instead of bugging random strangers who are just picking out their produce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/15 07:22 AM
3	Q4Womenpill: Have you ever purposefully led a guy on to get free lifts, gifts, meals and/or have an emotional tampon? Hell no. I'm always uncomfortable with free stuff although I oddly don't mind giving it. I'm way more prone to buy my friends things than to accept a gift.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/15 07:18 AM
1	Why do women freak out when their SO is discovered reading TRP material, but it's ok for women to be reading everyfeminism, Jezebel or SJW tumblr pages? I read both. Anyone who would try to limit what I read would not be around for very long. Knowledge is power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/15 07:01 PM
1	[Women] Are you considerate to his male pride? I think some healthy, non-personal disagreement can actually bond people. For example, my guy and I like different hockey teams. When our teams play each other, it's always a very fun, lighthearted rivalry. No matter who wins, the playful trash-talk is exciting, and we're clearly not REALLY arguing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/15 01:10 PM
4	Challenge 4 BP and Women: List every abusive and manipulative behaviour you think a woman can engage in. List which behaviours you belueve only women can get away with. 1) Yes, that is pretty clearly manipulative- in that case, the woman is knowingly using sex as a ploy and using the man. 2) No, not abusive or manipulative; just like you're not obligated to do something you don't want to do (for any reason) she's not obligated to do something she doesn't want to do. 3) Absolutely. That's awful and life ruining and devalues actual rape victims. 4) Not abusive, but definitely very selfish- I wouldn't stay with someone whose policy on sex was "my way or the highwa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/15 02:58 AM
1	TRP's Objections To Sluthood Are Pragmatic, Not Moral. TRP Does Not Fetishize Female Virginity. Ah, hadn't seen your edits. In that case, carry on!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/15 12:28 AM
1	Does Casual Sex Make People Happy? I've definitely had this experience too; I definitely overshare, but I think in some cases people can be really receptive to that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/15 07:58 PM
1	Does Casual Sex Make People Happy? In that case, I'm not sure anything can "make you happy"	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/15 07:54 PM
1	TRP's Objections To Sluthood Are Pragmatic, Not Moral. TRP Does Not Fetishize Female Virginity. I'd argue it's not just coastal cities. I'd say any wealthy large city would work; Dallas comes to mind, as does Chicago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/15 02:36 PM
1	Why do women lie about partner count? For once I actually agree with you. I think both people should know each other's life stories- everything from childhood to the current date, the stories of their first kisses, how they lost their virginity, every major relationship, stories about old friends... Communication is great, and sharing stories is one of the best parts of a relationship. There shouldn't be anything that either partner should need to hide from the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/15 01:51 PM
1	Question for redpillers: Why do some of you have such a problem with slutty women? Wow, I'm actually glad to for once see a redpiller saying that there are more qualities that matter for a woman than just her hotness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/15 01:48 PM
1	Getting the short end of the stick: The vetting process So you expect your future ltr to be the type of girl who would sleep with you after a couple of hours, but also have a low n-count?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/15 06:44 PM
1	Discussion: Is cheating ever justified? Also, how do you define cheating? Doctors can deal pretty effectively with chronic UTIs- was she taking nitrofurantoin after sex? It can be a miracle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/15 11:29 PM
1	Is this man alpha? Pretty sure if he was some thin bloke you'd have the same reaction	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/15 11:01 PM
1	Question primarily for RP, but BP welcome too: Are lesbians exempt from AWALT? And a lot of rp seems to agree	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/15 11:00 PM
3	Is open marriage the new AF/BB paradigm that feminists dream for? TRP vs BP discussion people! I'm not sure what she said that would make her not a good friend. I'd rather my partner tell me honestly that they wanted someone else instead of cheating, wouldn't most people??	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/15 08:33 PM
5	Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why? Yup	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/15 01:55 PM
13	Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why? I take sex very seriously, so to me it's something that should only be done with someone you love. If someone had a high count, that would imply an inconsistent view to mine and would be a red flag unless the person had changed a lot since that period. Male or female, I see nothing wrong with a late virginity and I see a promiscuous person as incompatible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/15 01:24 PM
10	Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why? ...are you living in the 1400s?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/15 01:19 PM
1	Women don't want to date pussies because they already have one. Men don't want to date dicks because they already have one. Just did, new post. Kind of excited to see what everyone else has to say on that one. (For the record, as a woman very happily in a relationship with someone I outearn, I definitely don't believe in AWALT either)	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/15 05:22 AM
1	Women don't want to date pussies because they already have one. Men don't want to date dicks because they already have one. So, yes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/15 04:57 AM
8	Women don't want to date pussies because they already have one. Men don't want to date dicks because they already have one. So do lesbians get out of every AWALT?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/15 03:33 AM
3	Do all women want dominant alpha males? I definitely agree, they're playing a numbers game. The question though was whether -all- women were like that, and even they would say no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/15 02:13 AM
3	The cuckhold relationship is a win-win for women. So... Spinning plates is great for the person in the middle? Sounds reasonable, unless you're seeking a monogamous, one-love, us vs the world type of partnership.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/15 01:17 AM
3	Do all women want dominant alpha males? You're probably about one craigslist post away from making your dreams come true :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/15 01:14 AM
11	Do all women want dominant alpha males? No. Some women are lesbians. Some like /u/coratoad like Asian virgins. Some like teddy bears. Some women are naturally dominant and like a submissive man. Personally, I haven't found myself attracted to the "chad" type. Some women are. I think even redpillers know that there are exceptions, which is why me and many of the other women at ppd get constantly told we're "outliers". Moral is, nawalt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/15 11:34 PM
1	What are your interests outside of the pillsphere ? Lifting, building robots, juggling, coding. Planning fun romantic surprises. Quit my World of Warcraft subscription a little while ago because it was destroying my productivity, but I've got a bunch of raid-geared level 100s there. I play too much Hearthstone though regardless, and I'm damn good at Guitar Hero and Rock Band. I've been working on getting into meditation and tai chi but it's kind of an uphill struggle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/15 02:29 AM
2	Fat Beta Husband divorced by Wife after she meets country music star one time. Wife gets restraining order for "emotional abuse". TRP vs BP explanation! She sounds mentally ill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/15 01:18 AM
8	Q4BP: Why is it not ok to slut shame women, but women player shame men all the time? Has your dick gained sentience? I'd hope you're choosing who you put it in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/15 01:16 PM
1	Having interests does make you more attractive as a woman That's possible. But i don't really care what others are really thinking about my looks, and I definitely don't put any real effort into it. When I have to wear makeup for job interviews etc, it always just feels weird to me. It's just not the sort of social value that matters to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/15 03:45 AM
1	Having interests does make you more attractive as a woman I don't want to hook up with people. Sex comes after love for me, and love comes after deep friendships. I'm not afraid of missed opportunities- if someone only wanted to be with me for my body, they're not someone I want to be with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/15 11:49 PM
1	Having interests does make you more attractive as a woman I think so. I don't really put a lot of value into how much people want to have sex with me. I value my accomplishments and what I do. I want someone to love me, but I don't really feel validation from people thinking I look hot. It just seems so surface-level and I'd rather someone think I'm great to have a conversation with than that my body looks good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/15 11:47 PM
1	The wage gap numbers are a misrepresentation, but the reason behind the wage gap is not. Well, for the foreseeable future, my job will have me flying out Monday mornings and back Thursday night, so I'd only be in wherever I live three nights a week. It'll basically be a storage unit where I do laundry and I'll be primarily living in hotels. I'm actually pretty happy with that arrangement as opposed to owning a house where you have to deal with it every time a pipe leaks or the roof needs fixing or you just need a change of scenery and don't want to look at the same walls all the tim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/15 11:45 PM
5	Having interests does make you more attractive as a woman TIL I'd way rather people find me interesting than "attractive", if all attractive means is fuckability	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/15 02:09 PM
1	The wage gap numbers are a misrepresentation, but the reason behind the wage gap is not. Speak for yourself; I think owning a house sounds like complete misery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/15 01:58 PM
6	The wage gap numbers are a misrepresentation, but the reason behind the wage gap is not. You keep talking about her spending your money. If she's working hard at the office like the premise, she has her own money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/15 01:57 PM
3	The kids vs marriage dilemma That's actually a valid point about the mom. I was assuming that the mom also had a career, albeit a "mommy tracked" one with more flexible time. If she's a stay-at-home mother, expecting her to take care of the child all on her own with no source of income and just magically find a flexible job does seem cruel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/15 01:01 AM
3	Discussion: what's your guys thoughts on the comment with regards to rape and consent? It's completely possible for a drunk person (of either gender) to be raped. It's also very possible for a drunk person to have sex and have it not be rape. Regrets aren't rape, but someone forcing themselves on someone passed out is. It seems pretty simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/15 11:53 PM
5	The kids vs marriage dilemma If he didn't have time for the kid while he was married (sacrificing it for work like you mentioned), what makes you think he'll have time for the kid when he's single? The kid gets out at school at 3, are you there to pick it up? I'm not saying men aren't capable of parenting, but in your example where a man sacrificed time with his kid for work, it doesn't seem feasible to think that he'll suddenly have all that free time when he's divorced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/15 11:45 PM
1	Sex, Money, Social Status, Relationships Female Absolutely, I'm in an LTR with someone who makes ~20% of my next year's annual income, and it doesn't bother me at all No problem, I love spoiling him! Absolutely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/15 08:21 PM
3	Is curiosity about his romantic past an ugly trait in a woman? I actually found talking with my boyfriend about our life stories, which included all of our respective relationships, to be an incredible bonding experience. I don't see why people assume someone's past is "none of their business"- I want to hear about what shaped someone I love, and to tell the about mine. Sharing the stories of our first kisses, of what high school was like, of our first crushes and heartbreaks, how we met the people that then became hugely influential in our lives, tales of …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/15 06:07 PM
1	question for both pills: Do women try to control men with sex? That guy could edit whatever sample would best prove his point. I don't have red hair, but I know someone who does. That doesn't prove that everyone has red hair. Most people know a lot of people with varied experiences, so they're likely to know someone who fits most stories.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/15 01:50 AM
5	For RPW: Does nonsexual cuddling affect your attitude towards your partner? Well if ALL you did was cuddle you'd probably die within two weeks of dehydration :-P And the bed would get pretty gross without showers or bathroom breaks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/15 01:45 AM
1	For RPW: Does nonsexual cuddling affect your attitude towards your partner? Me and my boyfriend switch off since we both love holding and being held!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/15 12:50 AM
9	For RPW: Does nonsexual cuddling affect your attitude towards your partner? no cuddling until after sex. There is zero chance I would ever have sex with someone who wouldn't cuddle me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/15 12:49 AM
8	For RPW: Does nonsexual cuddling affect your attitude towards your partner? Cuddling is vital to my relationships! It makes me feel loved and cared for, and lets me show the same to my partner. If cuddling only happened with sex, I would probably feel like sex was all he wanted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/15 12:47 AM
2	question for both pills: Do women try to control men with sex? Mostly due to the type of women who read PPD	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/15 12:41 AM
6	We really need to start talking about NO-WALT. I believe in SWALT. Some are, some aren't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/15 12:39 AM
5	New Infographic reveals 20% of college aged students have had over 26 partners, 9% have had 20 or more One Night Stands. ...yes. If you exclude the bottom 20% of your population, your average is definitely going to be higher.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/15 12:15 PM
9	New Infographic reveals 20% of college aged students have had over 26 partners, 9% have had 20 or more One Night Stands. Their study excludes virgins- you can see that in the bar graph of how many partners people have had, where the lowest number is 1 but the totals add up to 100. So yes, I think their numbers are surely high for all college students- at best, accurate only for sexually active college students.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/15 02:25 AM
7	Are women the 'gatekeepers' of sex, and can have sex whenever they want? Whoa. I actually have no idea what you're talking about. What I'm saying is that a girl who is awkward isn't going to be getting casual sex. She's not going to be at the party on Friday night, she's drafting Magic: The Gathering or reading in her room. If somehow she's in a public place and gets hit on, she won't realize the guys are hitting on her, and if she does, she won't know how to respond in a positive way. Or she'll freak out because a stranger is talking to her at all. Not everyone is a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/15 07:56 PM
8	Are women the 'gatekeepers' of sex, and can have sex whenever they want? Or, as continuously gets forgotten here, very introverted or socially inept.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/15 06:05 PM
2	Q4RP: How much career is too much for a woman? I wholeheartedly agree! I honestly don't care about what the people I date make, and I have that freedom by earning myself. I wish more people thought like you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/15 09:55 PM
2	CMV: male attractiveness peaks in the 20s, not the mid-30s/early 40s like TRP claims. Yeah I'm definitely one who prefers cute to hot!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/15 06:31 PM
6	CMV: male attractiveness peaks in the 20s, not the mid-30s/early 40s like TRP claims. Mid-20s here, still think Brad's younger is way better looking than the older one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/15 01:56 PM
1	What's your opinion on the gender gap in the tech industry? Nah, just treat the women who want to work on the rigs well	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/15 11:48 AM
2	What's your opinion on the gender gap in the tech industry? Actually, one of my best friends is a woman who worked on an oil rig for a few years doing sediment analysis. They definitely exist, although she was the only woman on the rig.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/15 03:24 AM
6	Q4RP (but all can answer): Do men send women mixed signals too? Why would I want to date someone who looks down on me? I definitely wouldn't want a "superior" guy because I wouldn't want us both thinking I'm "inferior".	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/15 01:17 AM
1	Why should a woman get married? Well in the event of a divorce, if they're the primary breadwinner, they lose as much as the typical man would.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/15 08:51 PM
8	What's your opinion on the gender gap in the tech industry? Because it's a fine line between saying "there are less women who are interested" (true) and "all women are worse at coding than men" (false). The women who are interested and talented, and who have earned heavy-hitting jobs at Google or Valve or Blizzard or wherever aren't worse at their jobs than the men. But with a little slip of wording, the media could easily seem to imply that they are, which would cause a justified shitstorm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/15 06:31 AM
16	What's your opinion on the gender gap in the tech industry? As long as there isn't anything stopping a talented female coder from getting those jobs, we shouldn't be worried about the overall percentages. There are less women who want to do it, that's all. I'm sure in some cases there is actual bias keeping women from entering, but I'd guess that's far from the norm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/15 06:21 AM
1	Q4RP: How much career is too much for a woman? I judge my careers relative to my peers; I'm going to want to be doing the best work and making the top bonus, etc, and it won't really matter whether my coworkers are male or female for that. Edit: Oh, it's late, and I'm tired. Just realized you meant judging my career versus my SO's career. In that case, whatever. I'd rather make more so I don't feel indebted or trapped or bought. I actually kind of agree with your guy requirements there, if my belly's full and I'm satisfied, his career is irr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/15 06:11 AM
2	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? Nope, just a hobbyist grand-romantic-surpriser!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/15 03:54 AM
2	Q4RP: How much career is too much for a woman? Well, I think most people complain about missing out on things they want because of their job. A lot of guys I know wish they had more free time for hobbies or friends but have demanding jobs that they keep for the money and advancement. I don't see why it's different for a woman to wish for better work-life balance than for guys to wish for it. It's not going to happen, but most people complain about their jobs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 11:45 PM
1	Women of PPD, do you feel the same "I would fuck that" sensation that men do? It's actually really weird which ones wind up sparking. It's definitely not the most attractive ones from an objective point of view. It's never the people I expect. There was one friend that I'd known for 4 years, had no intention of ever dating, didn't find attractive, and then at one point it just clicked. I tend to not have very many friends, and sometimes I confuse friend-love feelings for romantic-love feelings and it's something I've tried to work on. It's bad because when, like now, I'm …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 11:42 PM
1	Q4RP: How much career is too much for a woman? That sounds ideal, I'd love to make enough in my 20s to retire early. Unfortunately without hitting the startup jackpot it doesn't seem likely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 09:11 PM
4	Q4RP: How much career is too much for a woman? Oh. Well, I still don't feel like relationships show worth for me, because that's not actually an accomplishment. Aren't you proud of your accomplishments?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 09:07 PM
9	Q4RP: How much career is too much for a woman? Well now I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not :-P My sense of worth definitely comes from my works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 08:54 PM
6	Q4RP: How much career is too much for a woman? I actually completely agree with that! It's important to take responsibility for your actions and make reasoned choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 08:06 PM
7	Q4RP: How much career is too much for a woman? Should he quit his job on the spot if you asked him to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 08:05 PM
2	Q for both pills: what obligation to women have to dress modestly, and what obligation to men have to not sexualize how women dress? I can't see that outfit being appropriate in any workplace setting, or an equivalent outfit for men. It's just professional to dress conservatively when you're at work, not as much an issue of sexualization. I'd have an equal problem with someone wearing a graphic t-shirt to work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 07:21 PM
-1	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? I would say that all of the women who have a job that progresses are career women. That is, pretty much all of them except for the barista, since that's more of a temporary job than a career. Maybe this would be better suited as a top-level thread, because now I'm interested in where people would draw the line. You're essentially saying that a woman with any of those jobs could be either a "career woman" or "not a career woman", and that still confuses me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 07:13 PM
1	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? So it's possible that the management consultant would be more dateable than the barista?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 06:58 PM
1	RP Ladies, would you date a single dad? A single dad could easily be receiving child support or government aid as well. I don't think you can make that assumption without additional information.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/11/15 06:19 PM
2	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? Alright, here are ten women. Which ones fall into the "career woman" designation and which ones are dateable? Assume they're all equally physically attractive, and the same age (say, 25, but don't let that be the sticking point.) Starbucks barista, making $15/hr Kindergarten teacher, 30k/year Call center agent for Carmax, 30k Communications/PR for PepsiCo, 55k Financial analyst at Bank of America, 65k University of Miami chemistry associate professor, 70k Pilot at Delta, 80k Software engineer at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 05:41 PM
4	Question for Women: Has a man you initially found to be physically unattractive to you been able to win you over? Absolutely yes. I fall for people who are my close friends, and there's just a moment in the friendship where something clicks and they become attractive. It usually baffles my other friends, who will ask "what do you even see in ____?!". I've never really gone for someone conventionally attractive, and never made a friend in hopes of it turning into something more. Who I wind up attracted to surprises even me!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 05:24 PM
3	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? I think it's more that asexuals are looking for someone with a specific trait (not wanting sex) whereas omegas are looking for someone more generally compatible. I think they'd have more luck finding friends and potential romance with something like meetup to find people with common interests rather than a forum where people whine about not getting sex all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 04:43 PM
4	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? Well I think that the problem is that incels/omegas aren't looking for other incels/omegas. Asexuals ARE looking for other asexuals. So a place that gathers asexuals is way more likely to set up good matches than a place that gathers omegas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 04:34 PM
3	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? Not at all. As I said in another comment, there are places where these men congregate and where she should start looking if she does want to date. For example, asexuality.org and their forums, and their meetups. Just because she has a rare thing she's looking for doesn't mean it's impossible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 03:59 PM
4	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? But the lucky part is that she doesn't just have to stumble across one. There's places like asexuality.org where they congregate online, there are meetups. Just like anyone who's looking for something specific, there are places to go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 03:04 PM
3	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? It really should be! Planning romantic surprises is so much fun and I'm sad that many people don't seem to have that drive to do it. I do them way more often than just Valentine's Day, but Valentine's Day is the one day of the year when it's socially acceptable to go way over the top about it! (For a fun tip I did the year before, rose petals on top of the blades of a ceiling fan creates an amazing effect when the fan is turned on! I also hung rose petals all over the room with fishing line and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 03:03 PM
6	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? No, I'm encouraging her to find a man who shares her values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 03:00 PM
0	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? What about the people who treat me neither like a goddess nor a child? Who will treat me like a comrade, a true friend, a sparring mate, and a partner-in-crime?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 02:57 PM
1	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? An awesome point. I actually think the best relationships are where nobody "approaches" but where the people know each other from a common activity and realize mutual attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 02:53 PM
2	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? Won't go after you if you play up your homeliness Absolutely true. I don't experience all of this daily cat calling and approaches that women tend to complain about, and that's because most of the time I'm in a hoodie and no makeup. I find I get treated way more equally the less attractive I look outwardly. I save the sexy clothes and makeup for when I want attention- in my bedroom, alone with my boyfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 02:48 PM
1	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? Wait, so you don't want a woman... with a job?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 02:43 PM
2	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? In my experience, Valentine's Day has always been the time for both partners to provide grand romantic gestures and gifts! For last Valentine's Day, I gave my boyfriend a computer game I wrote that was based around our relationship, significant places to us, and one of his favorite novels (he loved it and spent a few weeks playing it before he beat the game!) and sent his favorite chocolates to his office. I definitely don't think it should be a one-sided holiday!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 02:41 PM
5	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? OR. DATE. ASEXUAL. MEN.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 02:35 PM
7	Q4TRP: How can I get men to see me as an equal? Or she needs to date an asexual man. They're rare but they exist and I think she'd be much happier with one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 02:32 PM
4	Women of PPD, do you feel the same "I would fuck that" sensation that men do? No, I don't see strangers that way. But I also don't care about a potential partner's "money status" or "alpha traits". I just fall for my best friends, with alarming regularity. -shrug-	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/15 04:51 AM
2	How would you educate young people to help prevent rape? I agree that both sexes love it. And I agree that the girl isn't "giving away" anything. I don't think sex should be seen as something shameful or dirty. I think it's important as an expression of love and intimacy- closeness, not "sloppy". I guess in that sense I don't care about anyone "getting laid", I care about sex as a vehicle for sharing deep emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/15 04:16 AM
3	If your SO/Spouse told you that if they would have met you in college, they wouldn't have hooked up with you, how would you feel? Unless she didn't hook up or have ONS's in college at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/15 01:07 AM
1	If your SO/Spouse told you that if they would have met you in college, they wouldn't have hooked up with you, how would you feel? That sounds totally reasonable; I wouldn't really want someone who was hooking up or having ONS's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/15 01:06 AM
7	CMV: Most men don't care about their partner's N count, and some men find a high N attractive. That goes both ways. As a woman who puts a lot of value on sex, I'm not interested in a guy who "spins plates", has one night stands, or otherwise takes a cavalier attitude to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 07:52 PM
2	CMV: Most men don't care about their partner's N count, and some men find a high N attractive. Or simple introversion. I don't want to hug strangers, why would I want to get naked with one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 07:50 PM
5	How would you educate young people to help prevent rape? I'd think teaching them that it IS a big deal would be the reason that drunk sex counts. It's a big deal so it's not something to take lightly or do while drunk. Exceptions apply- if you're with an LTR and decide to sit in your room and get drunk for the experience of drunk sex, that's way different than picking a stranger because you're drunk. Anyway, sex is important, don't trivialize it by doing it drunk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 05:43 PM
0	What struggles do men and women face everyday? I agree; honestly the only thing that would bother me would be something too big that it's painful; which for me is right around average. I'm pretty petite, so I'd want someone to match. Then again, I've also dated women in the past so I know sex can be great even with no penis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 02:25 PM
1	What struggles do men and women face everyday? I still think that absolutely everyone should define themselves by what they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 02:16 PM
1	It pisses me off how many things women do to themselves to look sexy The only time I wear makeup is for job interviews because someone decided that looks "professional". Or costumes, but for some reason I'm guessing peeling zombie faces isn't what you're complaining about. And I'm not going to wear shoes that hurt. In any case, I agree that those things are pretty ridiculous as expectations, but if some people like it, who cares? Don't like it, don't do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/15 11:18 AM
6	Is intelligence a sexually attractive quality in men? Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/15 08:00 PM
1	CMV: Women under-report their N-count, while men over-report their N-count. Does that mean I should start giving my number as 1/3 to 1.3 people (depending on definition) so that you can appropriately extrapolate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/15 01:20 PM
3	CMV: Women under-report their N-count, while men over-report their N-count. And even peck kisses! Would not do that with dad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/15 01:15 PM
1	CMV: Women under-report their N-count, while men over-report their N-count. I feel like this was one of the most contentious parts of that thread I made; whether kissing does or doesn't count. Whether it requires tongue to count or not. And then it starts going in weird directions; if I have to peck someone in a play, does that add to my N? Am I one n sluttier the night the understudy comes on?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/15 01:05 PM
2	CMV: Women under-report their N-count, while men over-report their N-count. See that seems to be an odd metric because, for example, I don't kiss my dad on the cheek, but if someone kissed me on the cheek I don't think I'd add that to my n-count. That also depends on the family- I know some people give relatives closed-mouth pecks on the mouth, but that definitely isn't something I'd do. Would my number include those, but the person who is more kissy with their family not include those?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/15 01:03 PM
6	CMV: Women cannot understand why MGTOWs don't want to get married If you've attracted someone to you who is primarily interested in your looks and money, then yeah, they might be shallow people who would leave when you don't have that anymore. I think that's one of the reasons I don't wear makeup- I wouldn't want to draw in someone who is attracted to a front I can't keep up. I want someone who loves me for me; and that person isn't going to leave over stress.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/15 12:58 PM
2	CMV: Women under-report their N-count, while men over-report their N-count. If someone keeps a daily journal, it's possible they could have an accurate count. I've been journaling since before I became sexually active; I could hypothetically go back and find exactly how many TIMES i've had sex within my relationships. It doesn't seem totally implausible to me that someone could have a record of the people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/15 02:59 AM
12	CMV: Women under-report their N-count, while men over-report their N-count. So if I learned one thing from the thread I made a few months ago about how to calculate n-count (https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3aav5r/how_do_you_calculate_someones_ncount/) it's that nobody has a clue what counts, and everyone disagrees. There were guys who counted kissing. People who only counted opposite-sex behavior. People who only counted PiV. People who thought anal counted differently depending on whether or not the girl was also having PiV. People who thought certai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/15 02:03 AM
1	Local feminist says "you are either for all women getting abortions without conditions or you're a prick." 80 Likes on my Facebook, how does PPD respond? And that's not right- we should be fighting against those kinds of restrictions too instead of retaliating by going after abortions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/15 12:21 PM
1	Q4RP: What core RP views do you personally endorse? Which ones do you have some doubts on? How does it daily affect your interactions with non-SMP women, and what preliminary judgements do you make in your own mind about them? Sure, I think it's because they're only measuring worth as fuckability, not as how much they can contribute to society. But then again, they also tend to value a man's worth by how many women he can have sex with, and I think that's a pretty lousy metric for worth too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 08:50 PM
2	Q4RP: What core RP views do you personally endorse? Which ones do you have some doubts on? How does it daily affect your interactions with non-SMP women, and what preliminary judgements do you make in your own mind about them? Maybe we're just going to have to agree to disagree on this one. What spurs me to have sex is getting closer emotionally with someone I'm in love with. In 2 of my 3 LTRs, reproduction wouldn't have even been possible because they were female. Reproduction clearly wasn't influencing the drives- closeness and intimacy was. I get that people have sex for different reasons, and maybe even most people ARE having that view- but viscerally it just doesn't click with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 07:10 PM
1	Why do women, particularly feminists, not feel a debt of gratitude to men? Thanks! I actually do those things, and appreciate your reformulation!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 07:04 PM
1	Alpha or Asshole? Ok, maybe most women would be more into it. I know that for me, I don't tend to get "swept up in the energy", I tend to feel overloaded and claustrophobic when people are getting rowdy and excitable. But then again, I don't go to parties, and I'm staying home for Halloween by choice. Extroverted, cocky, overconfident people just don't gel well with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 06:16 PM
1	Q4RP: What core RP views do you personally endorse? Which ones do you have some doubts on? How does it daily affect your interactions with non-SMP women, and what preliminary judgements do you make in your own mind about them? We're overpopulated, none of that is relevant to today's society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 06:14 PM
5	Why do women, particularly feminists, not feel a debt of gratitude to men? Sure, but we were talking about the concept of external value. Many of the projects I work on never get seen by anyone else; games I write, robots I build, endless business plans for startups that aren't viable yet. I don't think external validation is a good reason to do things- but I also think that recognition for achievements is way more meaningful than recognition for existing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 06:13 PM
9	Why do women, particularly feminists, not feel a debt of gratitude to men? I believe my value lies entirely on what I can accomplish and the good I can bring to society. I'm not even sure I ever want to have kids- but I know that I have value and your naturalistic arguments aren't going to shake that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 06:11 PM
2	Q4RP: What core RP views do you personally endorse? Which ones do you have some doubts on? How does it daily affect your interactions with non-SMP women, and what preliminary judgements do you make in your own mind about them? Well I think "basic worth" is different from SMV. Two women of equal physical attractiveness may have equal SMV, but the one who runs a chapter of the American Red Cross is doing a hell of a lot more for society than the waitress, and I'd argue she has more worth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 03:17 PM
14	Why do women, particularly feminists, not feel a debt of gratitude to men? Why not go out and build/invent/conquer something yourself? That's my plan! But redpillers tend to tell me that even if I invent something great, my value will still be far more measured by who I marry and if I have kids than those accomplishments. Whatever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 03:10 PM
4	Why do people think sexbots will cause "further" societal decrease? The sexbot issue is seriously overblown. I don't care if a guy owns a fleshlight, a realdoll, or even a sexbot- that would be like a guy who was upset at a girl for owning a cat and giving it emotional love. It makes no sense. It's not another person, it's not cheating, and it's not going to replace human interaction for most people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 03:07 PM
3	Alpha or Asshole? Ick. He lost me at his weird stripper dance at the beginning, and just got more annoying as he kept breaking the fourth wall and calling out specific people in the audience (and even bringing one up onstage!). Now, I don't really like stand-up comedy, so I probably wouldn't even be in that audience, but if I was, I'd hope to be far in the back, completely unnoticed, and would in no way want to meet that tool afterwards. Maybe he's a good person and is just portraying a stage persona, but the sta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 03:05 PM
1	Post a picture of what you consider to be an "average" and "hot" person of the gender you are attracted to. Fair enough! Definitely a different strokes kind of thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 04:16 AM
2	Q4RP: What core RP views do you personally endorse? Which ones do you have some doubts on? How does it daily affect your interactions with non-SMP women, and what preliminary judgements do you make in your own mind about them? I've learned that being supplicating reads as needy and desperate when dating either men or women. It's just not a successful dating strategy no matter who you are or who you're trying to land. Everyone likes a little challenge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 04:15 AM
2	Q4RP: What core RP views do you personally endorse? Which ones do you have some doubts on? How does it daily affect your interactions with non-SMP women, and what preliminary judgements do you make in your own mind about them? I would challenge that. You need both partners to create a kid, the woman isn't inherently more worthy. And a woman who is either infertile or voluntarily childless doesn't seem to me to have less worth than any other woman. I'm going to value someone by their accomplishments, not their ability to add yet another mouth for this overpopulated world to feed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 04:10 AM
4	Post a picture of what you consider to be an "average" and "hot" person of the gender you are attracted to. I thought for a second that they were the same girl	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 04:04 AM
2	Post a picture of what you consider to be an "average" and "hot" person of the gender you are attracted to. I feel like that septum ring drops her hotness a lot	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/15 03:56 AM
0	"Beta Bucks" Guys Get Laid, Too--Shocker Oh I get that other people do (enjoy touching strangers), I just don't have that impulse and find it icky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/15 05:06 PM
-4	"Beta Bucks" Guys Get Laid, Too--Shocker The idea that I'd see someone random and be ok with even kissing them, much less sleeping with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/15 12:21 PM
-2	"Beta Bucks" Guys Get Laid, Too--Shocker Gross.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/15 12:11 PM
2	"Beta Bucks" Guys Get Laid, Too--Shocker I think she's meaning if he's so shy that she hasn't even physically seen him. It's hard to notice the guy in the back of your lecture hall!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/15 12:05 PM
1	"Beta Bucks" Guys Get Laid, Too--Shocker Pretty sure that means I've literally never met a chad. How rare are these people I'd allegedly fall instantly in love with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/15 12:00 PM
2	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? I actually think the only dick-related problem would come from one that was too big. I don't like pain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 11:20 PM
2	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? Yeah, in my defining n-count thread a while ago, lots of guys weren't even counting sex between women in her n-count, which shocked me. Tons of dick-centric n-count definitions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 11:17 PM
2	What are the reasons for female sexual fluidity? Can queer women be fucked straight? I've just tended to fall for my close friends in the past; gender hasn't played into it. I don't really viscerally understand the concept of sexuality aside from as a subset of someone's "type". Some people prefer red hair, some people prefer women. Since I don't find strangers attractive, and my ltrs have been incredibly different from each other, it's hard to know what my type is other than "nerdy", which has been a common thread.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 11:09 PM
3	CMV: a lot of male feminists are in it because they mistakenly believe in a sexual utopia /r/conspiracy is that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 11:03 PM
1	CMV: men would rather be friendzoned by a hot girl, than be with an average girl. A smart woman wouldn't associate with any man who was just trying to "acquire" her pussy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 11:00 PM
1	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? Ok, then no worries about equally not wanting someone who isn't into it either :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 08:42 PM
1	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? I guess he should come settle it. Hey, /u/pembayliss, do you ever want to tie up or spank your wife?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 07:57 PM
2	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? Some bisexual women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 07:26 PM
2	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? As I've said in a few other comments, if he doesn't want an activity, it's fine to exclude it. What I'm taking issue to is the idea that he'd nix someone for -trying- something, because then he's going to only get the people who aren't interested in being exploratory. Like Atlas was saying earlier, there's a difference between "having a fetish" (totally fine to exclude in my book) and having non-vanilla sex sometimes. And what's worse is if he's trying to exclude anyone who has ever experimented…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 07:23 PM
2	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? Sure. If he literally never wants to take part in an activity, then it's fine if someone who's done that activity is excluded. But it seems more like he'd be saying "I don't want a man who's been pegged, because then they're less husband material... but I want to then peg him to prove that I can make him do what I want."	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 07:19 PM
4	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? So after your first, it's all downhill from there?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 07:17 PM
4	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? Then we're in agreement. He said it was a dealbreaker for someone to have even TRIED non-vanilla sex. That was my problem. I have no problems excluding people who have fetishes- it's a huge problem if someone needs something specific to have sex that the other person isn't interested in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 07:17 PM
2	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? Actually it doesn't. Bisexuality =/= nonmonogamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 06:45 PM
1	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? If he said he wanted virgins, I wouldn't be having this argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 06:44 PM
4	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? Sure, maybe. But I want someone who shares my view that sex is something special, not just a physical release or a quest for validation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 06:36 PM
2	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? just trying to clear up where the confusion may have come from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 06:34 PM
3	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? How so? In an example I gave in another comment, what about a woman whose first sexual experience was with a long-term boyfriend, and they were together for many years. Is the fact that they had a varied sex life an indicator of character? Or is it only an indicator of character if they break up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 06:28 PM
2	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? Sure. But if you're with a woman who has and vows to never do those things, even if she's turned on by you, she's still probably not going to want to start doing those things with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 06:26 PM
3	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? Sure, but you're still looking for a sort of purity within sex as a sign of "character". You're telling me a guy never wants to feel the thrill of doing something dirty with his wife?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 06:24 PM
3	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? I'm not arguing with the lesbian/bisexual/group sex parts of it. All of those involve another person, which means that it's not something you could do within your relationship. What I'm opposed to is the setting of arbitrary boundaries for the sexual outlet within a relationship. If two people are close and in love, it doesn't make sense to be prudish about acts, and it limits the scope of things the two of you can do. He's essentially looking for someone who has put up a whole bunch of walls an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 06:23 PM
4	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? I think you essentially expect mothers to be asexual. That fits nicely with a virgin mary archetype, but also is the fastest way to /r/deadbedrooms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 06:14 PM
3	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? Long hair is the best!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 06:10 PM
4	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? I think he's talking about HSV1 and you're talking about HSV2.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 06:07 PM
8	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? Ah, the old "no true BDSM". He said he didn't want anyone who had tried BDSM. Light bondage is right there within the acronym- pretty sure it counts, even if it's not extreme enough for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 05:01 PM
6	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? Who's talking about sluts? Imagine a girl whose n=1. She got into her first relationship at 19 and had her first kiss with him, and then at 20, finally lost her virginity to him. They break up after four years together. At 23, with n=1, she's back on the market. But, in their three years of sexual activity together, they didn't want to just do the same thing every time. Somewhere mid-year two, they started experimenting with blindfolds and feathers, spanking, tying her hands to the headboard wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 04:59 PM
5	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? I guess it depends how we're defining BDSM then. There's a wide swath of activities between a light slap on the ass during doggy style and flesh hook suspension.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 04:30 PM
7	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? Sure, if /u/pembayliss is fine with lights-off missionary forever, power to him. I just don't think that he is. Every system is perfectly designed to achieve exactly the results it gets. He's designed a system to capture boring girls. If he wants those results, his system is perfect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 04:28 PM
3	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? I don't want to feel like I owe someone something, ever. I don't want to feel like my affection has been bought- I don't want to ever feel like I love someone for what they can give me. I want to be with my partner because I want to be with them, not because I need to be for some financial reason. I never want to be afraid to leave a bad relationship for financial reasons, and I don't want to feel trapped. Finally, I want my status in life to come from my own hard-earned accomplishments, not who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 04:26 PM
9	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? What I'm saying is (unless you've found a virgin) that if you're ruling out everyone who's worn a blindfold during sex, she probably won't be willing to do it with you. If she's sexually active and has only had completely vanilla sex, that's probably because she doesn't want to. Her boring sex life will probably continue on through your relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 04:02 PM
2	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? No partiers / heavy drinkers No strong religious convictions I want to earn more than my partner No Asexuals / severely repressed sexuality No people with interest in casual sex. If they went through a phase and realized that it makes them feel hollow, fine. If they would still even entertain the idea of taking home a stranger, next.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 03:59 PM
8	What politically incorrect dating preferences do you have? No women who had ever had "unconventional" sex (i.e., sex with a woman, any kind of threesome, tried BDSM, etc.) Do you want starfish sex? Because that's how you get starfish sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/15 03:47 PM
1	Her n-count is just the top of the iceberg Ah, I was thinking more along the lines of acts, not people, like "I always wanted to try oral" or "I always wanted to try role playing" or "Blindfolds sound fun". Would you agree that if the unresolved fantasies are based on acts instead of people, they become opportunities instead of red flags?	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/15 04:08 PM
1	Casual Sex...Questions for Women No No No; I think it happens to other women because they pick party boys instead of ones with real shared interests and compatibility No, and I don't know if or why that happens to people. Around age 19 or so- before that I thought I was asexual and had no desire for dating or physical contact at all. Late bloomer I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/15 12:40 PM
1	If you had control of the government now, what would you do about the incel problem? As I hear in every thread other than the "are you an outlier" one where they said I was totally normal :-P	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/15 01:52 AM
6	Her n-count is just the top of the iceberg I'm confused about why unrealized fantasies are a bad thing. That sounds like your opportunity to swoop in and make it a reality. A virgin especially will have unrealized fantasies- do you think virgins never think about sex?	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/15 01:10 AM
1	If you had control of the government now, what would you do about the incel problem? Sure, there's definitely a dumb pop culture trope. I definitely don't think pop culture is a good reference for much of anything, and I try to avoid it as best I can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/15 12:59 AM
1	If you had control of the government now, what would you do about the incel problem? Well then, I guess I'm not people. I don't feel any type of gut level reaction to someone who doesn't have sex, male or female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/15 12:51 AM
1	Do young women feel certain they'll find love? Usually no. Sometimes I think it would be cool, and kind of a milestone life experience; but the rest of the time I realize that I'm barely capable of taking care of myself, and I don't think I'd be a very good mother. I definitely wouldn't right now- I can't even remember to water plants, much less take care of a human. I might grow into the idea as I grow up. But even then, I'm pretty introverted, and I'm terrified of the idea of having someone in my space all the time. I may value privacy too…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/15 12:02 AM
2	Perks to approaching: You know you like her. I think that's exactly why I've done all of the asking for the relationships I've been in. I'm not going to date someone I don't care deeply about. Since it takes me more time to get to a level where I'm willing to date someone than it takes other people, I need that head start. So I ask. Doesn't seem too hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 09:27 PM
1	How do you feel about nightclubs (anyone can answer this...but it would make sense for RPers to answer)? Yeah, I stay away from normal parties and bars too. Just not at all my thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 07:38 PM
1	Do young women feel certain they'll find love? True, it doesn't make it hurt less at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 06:40 PM
0	How do you feel about nightclubs (anyone can answer this...but it would make sense for RPers to answer)? I've never been to a nightclub, but there's nothing about the concept that appeals to me. I spent my 21st birthday alone in my bedroom with one glass of orange juice with a splash of vodka in it, which I didn't finish because I don't like the taste of alcohol. I don't like high heels or the types of dresses people wear to nightclubs. I don't like loud music or crowds. I don't like nonchoreographed dancing. I don't like talking to strangers. I don't like being hit on. I can't see a good reason wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 06:28 PM
7	Do young women feel certain they'll find love? No, I've never been the dumper. Edit: Prior to my current relationship, I had a tendency to be very needy. I would try to keep my partners by supplicating; gifts, elaborate romantic gestures, general pedestaling. It overwhelmed them in a very bad way. Now I still love buying my boyfriend gifts and cooking and making him great things, but it's way less desperate, and I have interests and a life outside of him as well- it works a lot better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 05:10 PM
2	Do young women feel certain they'll find love? That actually sounds like an amazing solution	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 03:47 PM
8	Do young women feel certain they'll find love? Woman under 30 here. I don't believe in a soulmate, or one true love forever. I think marriage tends to have a roughly ten year shelf life. I have love, and I think I'll continue to find love in the future when I need it, but I have no illusions about any of those loves lasting forever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 03:08 PM
1	If you had control of the government now, what would you do about the incel problem? There are plenty of people in the world to keep the place (over)populated. There aren't that many people who can make great scientific discoveries. The second is far more valuable to a continued society than the first. You're far exceeding your biological "directive". The man who discovered the polio vaccine surely created more children than he ever could have himself by enabling others to get to reproductive age. Imagine a kid whose parents have dreams from birth that he'll become a waiter, but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 12:38 PM
0	If you had control of the government now, what would you do about the incel problem? No, if you name serial killers, it proves that humans have the capability to kill, which is true. Humans also have the capability to become great without sex, which was what I was saying. I don't equate instinct and higher pursuits, I equate greatness with higher pursuits. I think a life is far more meaningful from higher pursuits than from basal ones. No favors needed, happy to look like an idiot to you. You look like an idiot to me, so the feeling's mutual. I post here for fun and because I ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 12:33 PM
1	"Hypergamy" is common sense; it is the male lack of it that is unusual. unless she wants to pay of my truck for me So you're looking for your beta bucks? :-P	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 12:54 AM
1	Serious question for everyone: Do you lift? I don't affiliate with a pill. I'm in fantastic health, I lift 3-4 times a week (additional "exercise" comes from the 5 flights of stairs I climb 5ish times per day getting to and from my dorm room). I mainly do the basic three lifts, as well as hip thrusts, rows, and curls, but I'd like to get into olympic style lifting. I'm 100% satisfied with my body- I'm the only woman I know who doesn't hate any part, and I'm not concerned with my weight. With that being said, so that nobody accuses me of b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 12:34 AM
0	If you had control of the government now, what would you do about the incel problem? Nope, not planning to stop posting anytime soon. And those three examples prove everything- there's more to life than getting laid. You can become a great scientist, a great artist, a great writer- and make contributions to the world that don't involve your penis. Your brain is so much more important than your cock will ever be, and that's one thing I wish that RP would realize more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 12:26 AM
2	If you had control of the government now, what would you do about the incel problem? My life means way more than sex. There are some great people who died virgins; Isaac Newton, Nicola Tesla, (possibly) Andy Warhol, Hans Christian Andersen. They definitely had meaningful impacts on the world- and would be no greater men for having screwed someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/15 04:27 PM
2	If you had control of the government now, what would you do about the incel problem? If you think the only thing you were born for is sex, that sounds incredibly depressing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/15 03:23 PM
2	If you had control of the government now, what would you do about the incel problem? Because saying "I've never gone to England" or "I've never had chocolate" or "I never learned to ride a bike" aren't insults- they're just experiences someone hasn't had yet, and at best opportunities to open their world to something new.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/15 12:19 PM
3	Does a higher/adventurous sex drive in women usually correlate with promiscuity? Yes, actually, I'd say it does. When I'm not in a relationship (or about to begin one by having developed feelings for someone), I don't have any desire for sex, mostly because the idea of sex without love repulses me and there isn't a person I love at the time. Touched the actual penis of a guy with any part of your body Cool, so my n=1 by that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/15 12:25 PM
6	Does a higher/adventurous sex drive in women usually correlate with promiscuity? I'm strictly interested in monogamy, and have never had sex outside of a committed relationship. But I LOVE talking about sexual topics; I've got first editions of both of Kinsey's books, I'm interested in the psychology of sex, I love hearing about people's relationships. I post here regularly, and started the thread about how people calculate n-count. I'd say I have a high sex drive- I initiate with my boyfriend well more than half the time. We've got sort of an anything-goes policy with what …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/15 02:05 AM
7	What is the proper way to interact with and think of women? I think thoughts about any group of people are limiting, especially if you ever want to interact with them. If you assume every black man is going to mug you, you're missing out on some potential friends and colleagues. It's your choice; you could stay away from black men entirely and then it probably wouldn't come up. But when you interact with one, if you're constantly on alert that he's going to assault you, you're never going to be able to get particularly close. So I guess my answer to ques…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/15 01:51 AM
2	Should men avoid initiating contact (intended to lead to sexual intimacy) with a woman, and simply wait for the woman to take the lead/indicate interest? Now THAT is a great cock.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/15 01:47 AM
1	CMV: Obtaining a bride from a poor family is a good thing You picked someone because they were hot, and you plan on locking her in your house from her teenage years until she's dead. How is someone supposed to develop that way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/15 01:45 AM
1	CMV: Obtaining a bride from a poor family is a good thing It's not love to lock someone in your house and buy them shiny things. The dragon guarding the princess in the tower isn't the hero of the story. Would you learn to speak her language? Or would she be completely unable to communicate with you too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/15 01:44 AM
2	What is the proper way to interact with and think of women? I tend to fall in love with my close friends, and then the attraction comes after that. It hasn't seemed to depend on gender, and I've dated both men and women. But I'm hesitant to say I'm bisexual as an "identity" because it's not meaningful to me and I don't find strangers of either sex attractive. The idea of sleeping with anyone who isn't my SO at any given time is completely repulsive, male or female. The idea of even kissing a woman completely freaks me out in the same way as the idea of k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/15 01:42 AM
2	CMV: Obtaining a bride from a poor family is a good thing But she's really becoming your slave, not your wife. It doesn't even sound like you'd love her- what's she really getting out of this deal other than being fed and housed like a pet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 11:47 PM
1	CMV: Obtaining a bride from a poor family is a good thing If pretty and virgin are the only characteristics you want, then go for it. But I can't imagine wanting to spend the rest of my life with someone I didn't know, doesn't speak my language, and doesn't have any real redeeming qualities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 11:44 PM
9	What is the proper way to interact with and think of women? I don't interact with or think about the men I know any differently than the women I know. There are awesome and terrible people of both sexes and I just take people on a case by case basis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 11:39 PM
8	If you had control of the government now, what would you do about the incel problem? It really shouldn't be. I don't consider it one, and I wish the world would follow me on that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 11:36 PM
5	What is a woman to do if she doesn't desire a relationship, but still has sexual needs? That seems fine, but a lot of redpillers seem to expect a completely devoted girlfriend that they can next at any moment. And they want to be on the pedestal while doing everything they can to keep her off it. As long as both people are equally invested, I'm not having a problem with it. Although I do think there's such a thing as taking it too far, for example in extremely codependent couples.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 11:34 PM
1	If a woman is too afraid to say or answer no to certain sexual contact/acts, should she be having sex? I would not think a person is mature enough to have sex if s/he's not mature enough to talk about it. If I weren't comfortable saying no to someone, I wouldn't put myself in a position of being alone with them. I'm not saying that anything that happens would be her fault; it would really be more of a miscommunication than anything where someone was blameworthy. But if she can't say no, in my opinion, she can't say yes either. So being in that situation is inherently a bad idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 10:34 PM
1	redpillers: if women made more effort, would that change your views on commitment? Or unless she's legitimately not interested in constant socialization. There are, amazingly enough, people with other priorities than meeting people. There are people who hate being around groups of strangers. There are people who don't like loud places. They're not all autistic, they're just called introverts, and I'm pretty sure you're just not considering them people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 01:52 PM
1	redpillers: if women made more effort, would that change your views on commitment? So anyone who's not a club slut is autistic. Got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 12:58 PM
0	What is a woman to do if she doesn't desire a relationship, but still has sexual needs? I think so!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 12:57 PM
1	Should men avoid initiating contact (intended to lead to sexual intimacy) with a woman, and simply wait for the woman to take the lead/indicate interest? Ew. To both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 12:56 PM
1	Should men avoid initiating contact (intended to lead to sexual intimacy) with a woman, and simply wait for the woman to take the lead/indicate interest? I have literally never heard the word ostentatious used as a compliment. It brings to mind someone who thinks he's all that because of his money. Also even if he wasn't being a dick about it, I'm the type of person who would feel inadequate if I had way less than my partner. Since I'm not mega-wealthy, dating someone who was would make me feel in debt, or lesser, and I'm not into that. I'd way rather it be at most equal, at best with me having the ability to spoil him somewhat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 03:51 AM
3	Should men avoid initiating contact (intended to lead to sexual intimacy) with a woman, and simply wait for the woman to take the lead/indicate interest? I prefer being the pursuer, but I also wouldn't want a man with an ostentatious air of wealth and status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 01:04 AM
0	What is a woman to do if she doesn't desire a relationship, but still has sexual needs? Because RP only wants LTRs with women whose top priority is their relationship, at all time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 01:03 AM
2	What is a woman to do if she doesn't desire a relationship, but still has sexual needs? This girl doesn't sound like the type of person who would ever be "owned"	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 12:52 AM
1	redpillers: if women made more effort, would that change your views on commitment? I never said that the introverted girls were ugly or fat. Some are, for sure. But just because someone's not out at the parties doesn't mean that they're ugly. who are pursuing chad, sleeping with him and then expecting guys to one day give them commitment. So you admit that your advice is only valid for the promiscuous girls who are actively looking for alpha men? For the rest of us who are attractive but not fucking perfect there's the ugly and fat chicks Not at all. But there's the girls who …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/15 12:32 AM
1	redpillers: if women made more effort, would that change your views on commitment? I think you're generalizing the behavior of some extroverted party girls onto all girls. The girl in the armchair in the back of the fourth floor of the library reading Dostoyevsky, the girl crushing a Friday night Magic: The Gathering draft tournament, and the girl in her basement making robots aren't sitting around waiting for Chad. They don't get hit on daily. They may or may not be wanting relationships, or do when they meet the right person- which won't be at a club, because they don't go t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/15 09:16 PM
1	redpillers: if women made more effort, would that change your views on commitment? The only benefit men get from relationships is sex Untrue, and a really depressing worldview.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/15 07:21 PM
2	Do women actually have an obsession with having a children akin to the male sex drive, regardless of the consequences, finding it difficult to represses this instinctual drive? God no. Children terrify me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/15 12:27 AM
2	TRP mistakenly applies male thinking to female behavior. Actually, for me... yeah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/15 02:26 AM
1	TRP mistakenly applies male thinking to female behavior. What I'm saying is that absolutely everyone falls into category 2 instantly. Somewhere over the course of knowing them, the people I've wound up dating I've come to see as attractive. But in all three of my LTRs, there was a long time of ZERO attraction first. Not a "huh, maybe". An "I'm not interested". And then over time, something changes. I've never been drunk either, so I wouldn't have more categories even if I did have your three :-P	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/15 02:26 AM
7	TRP mistakenly applies male thinking to female behavior. That just literally isn't how it works for me. I've had friends that I've known for years, thought through most of it "I'd never want to sleep with this person" and then WHAM something clicks and I find myself attracted. I honestly don't understand what it would feel like for that to happen with someone I didn't know. But I do recognize that on this issue I'm an extreme outlier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/15 10:38 PM
8	TRP mistakenly applies male thinking to female behavior. I still don't understand the idea of knowing within 5 minutes about whether I'd have sex with someone. If I had to make a snap judgment like that, the answer would be no every time. I am definitely not speaking for all women here, but for me, it takes months of knowing someone before I'm close enough to them to start feeling that spark.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/15 10:06 PM
3	Red Pillers , what about men who are naturally submissive ? it's better to cast a wide net than go for a small group of fetishists Is it? Sure, you're more likely to find someone but not necessarily someone who makes you happy. I think if you're someone who is very appealing to a small group of people, it would be better to target those people than to change your offering to be more generic. Segment the population, market yourself to the niche. I think that would make way more sense especially in this case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/15 09:57 PM
3	redpillers: if women made more effort, would that change your views on commitment? Your therapist is dead wrong. Relationships work for the benefits of both parties, and relationship problems can come from anywhere. Also, I think it's on both people to be as good as they possibly can be to the other person- neither person should be allowed "shitty behavior", and neither person should be expected to take on the entire responsibility for the other person's happiness. Each person should be completely self-sufficient, both financially and emotionally, before being in a relationshi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/15 02:13 PM
5	redpillers: if women made more effort, would that change your views on commitment? I'm honestly sorry to hear that. It must suck to not be able to trust people and to think that people only care about you for what you can give them. I hope someone someday manages to break that worldview for you and show you what it feels like to legitimately be cared for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/15 11:56 AM
2	"["I don't think women are conscious. I don't think they have same consciousness that men do." I think the difference is learning "what" versus "why". A history type subject seems descriptive and limited- this is what happened. A science is exploratory- you learn the foundations of why things work the way they do and then you can discover new things about how the world works. So personally I value the sciences more than art history. But I also don't see that as gendered; there are men who study art history and women in biochem and I don't see either of them as being disingenuous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/15 11:53 AM
13	"["I don't think women are conscious. I don't think they have same consciousness that men do." ...what? If being alone is the opposite of being a woman, then I guess i just lost my woman card, 'cause I love being alone. The part I dread most about the idea of marriage is the fact that I'd have to have someone in my space all the time. Living alone rocks. No intellectual curiosity? Total bull. Lots of women are becoming research scientists, astronauts, entrepreneurs. Sure, there are lots of women studying pretty worthless majors (as are men), but at any school you'll find women in the chem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/15 01:52 AM
19	redpillers: if women made more effort, would that change your views on commitment? Wow, if all you're offering is the material goods, I can't see why someone would want to marry you either. I'd rather make my own money, hire a maid, and have both people share the child rearing and the feelings of family love. The way you're framing what you and she would have to offer would essentially be you hiring a live-in sex maid more than having a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/15 01:39 AM
1	What can a girl to to help her boyfriend, who has ED issues? Well, now we're just being silly. Last I checked, a mouth is a hole, and I'm guessing you're not arguing that a woman tongue kissing a man is gay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/15 11:14 PM
1	What can a girl to to help her boyfriend, who has ED issues? You're right, if her tongue goes into a vagina, it would be pretty gay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/15 10:19 PM
2	TRP doesn't understand how women can be attracted to more than looks because they themselves aren't attracted to more than looks. I have literally never gotten these "tingles" the first time I've seen anyone. So either I've never met one of these mythical chads, or in some women, tingles take time to develop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/15 08:58 PM
1	What can a girl to to help her boyfriend, who has ED issues? ...because a female tongue is super gay. </s>	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/15 08:25 PM
1	CMV: White privilege is a real thing (Video Discussion) I understand that it's true, but I wonder often why SJWs love "person first" language in this case, but think it's horrifying in other cases- see the people who rage against "people with autism" instead of "autistic people". Maybe I'll ask why in one of their subreddits one day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/15 08:16 PM
2	Does BP have any advice/suggestions on how to succeed with women? I really liked The Five Love Languages, and I've seen that referred to a fair number of times around here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/15 06:57 PM
1	CMV: The repulsion straight men feel when thinking of men sexually is similar to the repulsion women feel when thinking of fucking a man they are sexually repulsed by. I think you're right, although I tend to have trouble with the idea of sexuality as a whole, aside from a generalization of who someone is or isn't attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/15 03:59 PM
1	What SMV does a man need to be these days to attract a generic non-obese woman? General routine building; right now I'm doing something very similar to the 16 Habits excel spreadsheet except I've gotten more granular to make sure I also brush my teeth and wear sunscreen and stuff. But even once I've been doing something for a lot of days in a row, it never becomes habit or rote. It still takes effort every time. Unfortunately that doesn't work for bad habits- those seem pretty stuck. I'm on the internet all the time (although I don't use social media- it's mostly scrolling …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/15 10:53 AM
1	What SMV does a man need to be these days to attract a generic non-obese woman? Ooh I could use one of those!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/15 01:58 AM
5	If your daughter had fantasies about having sex with two or more men, and wanted to try it out IRL, what would be your response to her? And that kind of response is what closes kids off from talking to their parents and makes them get their sexual advice from the Internet. I think a way healthier response is to be open to talking about concerns teenagers may have instead of letting them get misinformation everywhere else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/15 11:33 AM
3	If your daughter had fantasies about having sex with two or more men, and wanted to try it out IRL, what would be your response to her? It really depends on the relationship you have with your parents. At 16, I was able to talk to my mom about anything, including sexual issues- and that's a very valuable resource for a kid. Way better than, for example, asking the Internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/15 11:31 AM
2	You gave 2 choices. A) Your parents choose, force you to date and sleep with, someone you are not physically attracted to. B) You die a lonely virgin. Which do you choose? Both include dying without the fulfilling experience, because the fulfilling experience wouldn't just be a penis in a vagina, it would be the merging of two people who love each other. In either option A or B, you're not getting that. So I would definitely choose to never have sex than to only have sex with someone I didn't love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/15 11:21 AM
1	The ultimate Red Piller would be an outwardly sex-positive, BluePill-approving, successful, feminism-loving, democratic, well-off, good-looking, plate-spinning, dude. Cool, thanks for the explanation!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/15 11:17 AM
1	The ultimate Red Piller would be an outwardly sex-positive, BluePill-approving, successful, feminism-loving, democratic, well-off, good-looking, plate-spinning, dude. What's the difference?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/15 02:03 AM
2	Question for Women: Do You Find Fat Men Sexually Attractive? Do You Burn with Lust and Passion for Morbidly Obese Men? Totally could. I've been very surprised by who I find myself wanting to be with. I think I'm not very good at separating feelings of deep friendship from love- every time I have a deep, caring best friendship I wind up developing feelings for the person a year or two down the line. So I think that if I managed to forge a close platonic bond with a "fat bastard", based on my past experiences I would probably wind up falling for him eventually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/15 05:15 PM
3	Question for Women: Do You Find Fat Men Sexually Attractive? Do You Burn with Lust and Passion for Morbidly Obese Men? What I was trying to say with the second part of my comment was that there is no physical characteristic that in someone I don't know would be sexually attractive. I don't find, as a class of people, brown hair or red hair or muscles or fatness or tallness or shortness or anything attractive as a group. I think I've felt these magical "tingles" maybe 5 times in my life, at times when I'm really emotionally charged with someone I love- say, an anniversary. I love sex, but it's not to satisfy some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/15 05:13 PM
7	Question for Women: Do You Find Fat Men Sexually Attractive? Do You Burn with Lust and Passion for Morbidly Obese Men? If someone I was already in love with got morbidly obese, I'd be immensely concerned for their health but still attracted. As far as strangers go, I don't find myself sexually attracted to people without knowing them well, regardless of whether they're obese or muscular.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/15 03:14 PM
5	Applied RP Theory: The case for LTRs with chubby girls I don't think he's saying to pick someone hideous- just not your absolute maximum. Someone a little lower down; the 6, not the 2. Unless I'm misunderstanding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/15 02:16 PM
6	Is hypergamy enforced by other women? Interesting article. What are your thoughts about introverted women with no friends? Are they different from their corresponding introverted men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/15 02:40 AM
1	Question for the redpills: Do bisexual/pansexual women who prefer the feminine have a different sexual strategy than "alpha fux/beta bux"? I kind of doubt that men want women who are "insecure, afraid to be sexual or express their sexuality, and always defer to the opinions of others" either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/15 01:35 AM
2	Question for the redpills: Do bisexual/pansexual women who prefer the feminine have a different sexual strategy than "alpha fux/beta bux"? I think the difference comes with what they do when they're not at parties. At home, in private, where there's nobody to cheer them on. With the same woman in an exclusive relationship for months, years. I think there's a pretty big difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/15 01:33 AM
1	True or false: We can tell a lot about the character and value system of someone who has a high number of sexual partners. That is something she did intentionally to cause harm, something you said you can't imagine. Yeah, I have no idea what in the world was going through her head when she thought that was ok. I'm 100% on board with it being a bad action. My point there was to illustrate that a bad action does not make a bad person. As for why she doesn't do it anymore, she didn't get caught or hurt by it, she just grew older and realized it was really shitty. I'm going to think on the rest of what you wrote; I'm a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/15 12:05 AM
1	True or false: We can tell a lot about the character and value system of someone who has a high number of sexual partners. I can't see why I would want to shank someone. I don't understand the urge to hurt others, even in revenge, because I tend not to get angry. I know that a lot of people do, but it confuses me more than wanting to slap a label on them as being bad. I had a friend once who would put tacks under the wheels of cars that took parking spaces she wanted, and I was aghast that someone could do something like that. But she grew up and learned from it, and doesn't do that anymore. People change. People gr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/15 10:17 PM
3	Do you think financial abortion is a realistic solution? That actually sounds... Oddly fine by me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/15 08:55 PM
3	True or false: We can tell a lot about the character and value system of someone who has a high number of sexual partners. I just don't feel like there's much that's immutable about people. I don't really think that there are "good people" or "bad people". I think we're all capable of all kinds of things, and I feel like I change a lot from day to day that doesn't give me a consistent sense of "who I am".	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/15 08:54 PM
1	True or false: We can tell a lot about the character and value system of someone who has a high number of sexual partners. Well, I'm not sure that I believe in the concept of "character", and I don't think sex is a positive or negative morally. But I do think that a high number, for either, reflects an attitude about sex that I don't agree with. I would only share my body with someone I cared deeply about- it's not a "fun" thing or recreation for me, it's an expression of love and closeness. Someone taking it lightly just isn't compatible with the way I view it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/15 07:33 PM
0	Do you think financial abortion is a realistic solution? I don't have any specific anecdata. Then again, I don't think I know any single mothers, but I'm pretty sure they exist. In any case, my question was a hypothetical about what you would believe should happen in that scenario.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/15 07:11 PM
3	Do you think financial abortion is a realistic solution? What if they don't live together? What about the case where a woman has a one-night stand with a stranger, gets pregnant, has the kid, and then a few years later the man tries to demand that she split the toddler's time (who he's never met) evenly between them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/15 06:20 PM
3	Do you think financial abortion is a realistic solution? I'm actually vaguely on board with this, especially in the cases where the biological father is irresponsible and would be a bad influence on the kid growing up. If a woman got knocked up by some clod that was not someone she had selected to really be a father for the kid, and then he was demanding custody (and therefore influence over the child's upbringing), I could see that as being very upsetting for her and not worth any money that he was paying. I'm assuming your "deliberate steps" include…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/15 03:47 PM
1	Are men more romantic than women? Yes. Those are exactly the sorts of things I do, spend months planning something grand to show my love. Sometimes they've been very appreciated, sometimes not. But I definitely have that drive, and it's exhilarating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/15 12:46 PM
3	CMV: Every woman despises weak low status heterosexual men. Even Bluepill women. Even feminist women. I don't have much to add here but I just wanted to add another female voice to people who like and appreciate xemnas and his posts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/15 12:18 PM
10	CMV: Women only like men for their wealth, status and power I think most people are indifferent to people they don't know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/15 03:48 PM
3	If no one cares about me being made involuntarily celibate, why should I care when women are involuntarily made to have sex? Have you read the manifesto? I don't really think you'd have that view if you had. His problem was very clearly his tendency to give up the second anything got difficult, and it was far removed from women- although they were an easy target for blame.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/15 03:44 PM
7	If no one cares about me being made involuntarily celibate, why should I care when women are involuntarily made to have sex? He also was very upset because he didn't win the lottery (that he felt he was destined to win), had once been too short for a roller coaster, and didn't become a professional skateboarder after a few months of practice. Should he have gotten all of those things too, just because it made him crazy that he didn't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/15 12:11 PM
1	If no one cares about me being made involuntarily celibate, why should I care when women are involuntarily made to have sex? Or, as in your metaphor at the end, "just buy some food."	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/15 12:00 PM
1	Are you an Average Joe or a Basic Linda? You could definitely be right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/15 03:24 PM
1	Are you an Average Joe or a Basic Linda? Oh. Ok then! Maybe it's the sampling bias here, but you're the first person to say that. Usually it's all "All girls party, AF/BB, girls want providers, girls don't do STEM, girls have no ambition". And unfortunately, a lot of the people I went to undergrad with kind of lived up to that; the norm there seems to be living with their parents and watching Netflix all day, or working as a barista and dying their hair pink. I guess that, along with my not really having friends (and honestly not reall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/15 01:55 PM
1	Machiavellian Personality Test Mine was 65; seems reasonably normal for around here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/15 12:18 PM
2	Are you an Average Joe or a Basic Linda? Not the woman you're responding to, but another who HATES the idea of financial dependence. For me, it's a couple of reasons. 1. The easy answer of not wanting to have someone else making the major financial decisions in my life. I like the freedom I have to buy what I want, when I want, without scrutiny- and if it's my money, I get to keep that freedom. 2. I love achievement, and I love to win. I want to make a lot of money, because to me that's showing that I have value in society, that I've c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/15 12:15 PM
1	Are you an Average Joe or a Basic Linda? Sure. If people are talking about girls at college, and I mention that when I was in college I was at a women's college, a math and chemistry major, and never went to a party or had a drink of alcohol, then I'm no longer suited to comment on the college life because mine was so different. When I talk about how I'm unsure if I ever want to get married or even live with someone because I like my independence, that's seen as very weird. If I do get married, I want and fully expect to be the breadwi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/15 11:58 AM
2	CMV: If a woman confides in me, it means she doesn't respect me I still, respectfully, believe that there are some women who will sleep with people that they find physically attractive but who they don't like as people they would want to hang out with or have a conversation with. What comes to mind easiest is the stereotype of the dumb jock. I don't see it as respect if a woman is sleeping with a man whose intelligence (or other personality features) she's looking down on. She just liked his body. I saw this a lot in college, although between women since I w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/15 11:49 AM
1	CMV: If a woman confides in me, it means she doesn't respect me I'm not sure that finding someone sexually attractive implies respect. The existence of /r/trashyboners seems to prove that- guys finding girls physically attractive but also trashy at the same time. I'd assume many women have something similar, where they find someone attractive for their body, but think he's dumb or trashy or an addict or something where they wouldn't have respect for him. Just because they like your body doesn't mean they respect you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/15 04:39 AM
1	Are you an Average Joe or a Basic Linda? Every time I make a post with an anecdote I get immediate responses that my experience is well outside the norm, so I'd say I'm far different from average. Not better or worse, just different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/15 04:37 AM
1	29 year old woman hurt her boyfriend cares about her high partner count. Gets told her sleeping with 17 men makes her 'average'. I assumed it was 17 piv plus the 20 foreplay, which would make her number more than double.	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/15 04:06 AM
1	Thought experiment for BP: If Elliot Rogers and that Oregon guy got unlimited access to pussy, do you honestly believe they'd still shoot up places? Exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/15 01:08 PM
2	Thought experiment for BP: If Elliot Rogers and that Oregon guy got unlimited access to pussy, do you honestly believe they'd still shoot up places? Right, forgot about that part! And then he complained about how he didn't get more attractive despite all his efforts! He honestly expected instant gratification from absolutely everything. That manifesto is such a good cautionary tale to me, because as I look at how he gave up on things he had potential in, I think "maybe I should stick with things longer". I honestly think his main problem was that lack of pushing through challenges, not in his dating life but in everything else. When his frie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/15 11:39 AM
0	On the internet and in society, who has lower status, male "incels" or female "sluts"? As one of those women who said recently that I prefer lower n-count men, I just wanted to point out that I have zero problems with virgins. I'd guess most of the women who share my worldview also don't- what we have a problem with is the anger and loathing for all women that comes from people who self-label as "incel". Why would we want to sleep with someone who hates us? Lack of experience isn't the problem, it's attitude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/15 11:23 AM
2	How exactly does the blue pill think we can educate men not to get falsely accused of rape? Interesting. I guess I can see that, but then again a lot of the things that people do for validation (particularly about their bodies) are things that make me feel slimy. And generally, it's seen that way around here too; girls getting called out for attention whoring, posting selfies, going to clubs in skimpy outfits. People tend to see validation-seeking behavior as evidence of insecurity, which makes it surprising that men are aspiring to that behavior as a goal. Also, for me (as someone who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/15 12:55 AM
11	CMV: It is hypocritical for a man to be promiscuous but prefer a non-promiscuous woman for long term relationships. I think it's time for another "what makes a girl a slut" or "can Indian men get white girls" thread :-D	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/15 12:39 AM
7	Thought experiment for BP: If Elliot Rogers and that Oregon guy got unlimited access to pussy, do you honestly believe they'd still shoot up places? Elliot Rogers spent a lot of his manifesto complaining about the constant rejection he got. But not just from girls. He's furious at the Jurassic Park ride at Disney, for rejecting him for being too short. He got angry at the lottery, for not making him a winner when he was "destined" for it. He quit everything he started at the first sign of failure, and assumed even girls who smiled at him wouldn't be interested, so he didn't talk to them. If he had unlimited access to pussy, he probably would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/15 12:30 AM
2	How exactly does the blue pill think we can educate men not to get falsely accused of rape? I appreciate the well thought out response, and I think it helps me somewhat understand your point of view better. I do still have trouble understanding the appeal of casual sex, and I just viscerally don't get how your "bad" experience still wound up being good for you, but I guess I'm just not wired that way. I'm still squeamish over an understudy I had to kiss onstage, because the idea of being that close to someone I didn't know freaked me out. Intimacy is vulnerable, and I can't see it as b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/15 12:15 AM
7	An attempt to explain the "Slut-Stud" dynamic and debunk accusations of "hypocrisy" I'm not playing a game, I'm finding a partner. Prefer what you want, I'll still prefer low count men (all else being equal) because I take sex seriously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/15 10:59 PM
1	Discussion: Are modern American women of lower relationship value than women of the past? sorority sisters There's your problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/15 05:15 PM
3	How exactly does the blue pill think we can educate men not to get falsely accused of rape? Ah, to me, I see many more risks than just being falsely accused of rape. You could wind up giving the girl false hopes and turning her into a clinger. You could find yourself wanting more and get rejected. She could be the best you've ever had by leagues, and you spend the rest of your life chasing the dragon only to be disappointed by future lovers. You could have a bad experience; maybe she's terrible in bed and since it's a random thing has no incentive to try. Maybe you can't get it up, and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/15 03:47 PM
2	How exactly does the blue pill think we can educate men not to get falsely accused of rape? If you hold that view for both men and women, then we are in complete agreement :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/15 01:25 PM
2	Blue Pill: What weight should we give to someone's past experiences vs. who they are now? Ok, good, glad we agree that women can have sex with someone they're attracted to and have that be a positive thing. Looks like you're going to need to revise your earlier criteria, because they no longer match your argument. At what point in a relationship does it become ok to you for a woman to have sex and not be considered as bad as cheating to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/15 01:20 PM
2	How exactly does the blue pill think we can educate men not to get falsely accused of rape? I know you're being facetious, but I'd say knowing the person you're sleeping with is actually a good idea for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/15 12:17 PM
5	Blue Pill: How does a man go about creating a potential relationship out of thin air? I'd say asking her out that soon could backfire. Ask her out when she seems receptive to it. Even if a guy was cute, if he asked me out after barely knowing me, I'd say no. (Back when I was single). If he waited a while and got to know me, and I realized that I liked him too, I'd have been much more open. Other than that, awesome advice- pretty much how I've gotten all of my relationships, just at a slower and more comfortable pace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/15 10:55 AM
2	Blue Pill: How does a man go about creating a potential relationship out of thin air? That's a really depressing worldview, which I definitely do not believe is true. Not everyone is attracted to the same things. There's no way to rate people in a way that everyone would agree. One man's 4 is another man's 9. If you're only attracted to very conventionally attractive people, it may be harder to find one that's interested in someone who isn't conventionally attractive, but I'd guess that has to do with putting herself into the societal expectations more than anything else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/15 10:51 AM
3	Blue Pill: How does a man go about creating a potential relationship out of thin air? Or that, on average, less attractive men are the ones using okcupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/15 10:45 AM
1	Blue Pill: What weight should we give to someone's past experiences vs. who they are now? Because your categories for something being cheating are that the woman is attracted, and that sex happens. I said that can happen in a marriage, and your response was that sometimes attraction isn't present in a marriage. That doesn't address the times that it is, which still satisfies your three rules- unless you're saying that no women are ever attracted to their husbands.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/15 01:32 AM
1	Blue Pill: What weight should we give to someone's past experiences vs. who they are now? So if a woman is attracted to her husband and has sex with him, that's cheating and bad. If a woman isn't attracted to her husband but has sex with him anyway, that's fine. Got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/15 12:16 AM
3	Blue Pill: What weight should we give to someone's past experiences vs. who they are now? The one who isn't drunk at the end of the night.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/15 09:29 PM
2	Blue Pill: What weight should we give to someone's past experiences vs. who they are now? ...those three questions could be answered "yes" even within a married couple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/15 09:27 PM
2	Blue Pill: What weight should we give to someone's past experiences vs. who they are now? "She's attracted. Penis enters vagina." pretty much describes all sex. So all sex is cheating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/15 09:26 PM
3	How exactly does the blue pill think we can educate men not to get falsely accused of rape? I'm not familiar with the particulars of one specific case well enough to take a stance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/15 08:32 PM
7	How exactly does the blue pill think we can educate men not to get falsely accused of rape? No, by that logic I'd be saying "don't rape people". Ps. Throughout the thread, people have been worried about being accused by women they didn't even have sex with, so your argument is kind of at odds with the others on your side.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/15 08:32 PM
3	How exactly does the blue pill think we can educate men not to get falsely accused of rape? Ok, please, tell me how I can avoid a false murder accusation? A false theft accusation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/15 08:17 PM
3	How exactly does the blue pill think we can educate men not to get falsely accused of rape? No, my original response was to have sex with people who are thrilled to have sex with you. If that's too high a bar, I'm sorry for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/15 08:06 PM
3	How exactly does the blue pill think we can educate men not to get falsely accused of rape? Never talk to anybody, never leave your house, constantly film yourself with a time stamp so that the jury will know exactly where you were at all times. Is that the level of crazy you're looking for? Because that seems like where the goalposts are now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/15 08:01 PM
10	How exactly does the blue pill think we can educate men not to get falsely accused of rape? Well, if we're going to go by extreme outliers, the girl who never leaves her house could have her house broken into and get raped. You're never 100% safe, but you can mitigate the problems. If you avoid grey situations, you're likely to be fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/15 04:48 PM
7	How exactly does the blue pill think we can educate men not to get falsely accused of rape? How about... Only have sex with people who are excited to have sex with you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/15 04:05 PM
2	What would YOU do? You're old enough to be her dad. That's red flag enough for me to say bail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/15 07:17 PM
1	How would you define being respectful to a woman? No, you've just set the terms you're ok with, and are clearly incompatible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/15 07:10 PM
7	CMV: Cat Calling Yeah, the only time I've ever experienced cat-calling was when I was visiting a middle-eastern country for work, and I was covered head to toe except for my face and hands. It definitely isn't about who is wearing the most revealing clothes, although I found that my colleagues who didn't cover their hair there got it worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 02:21 PM
2	BP Women: if you are not interested in sex when your partner tries to initiate, do you feel that you do not owe them an explanation as to why you are feeling that way? I think a healthy relationship should be able to discuss anything. If one of us wants sex (usually me) and the other doesn't, our typical response is "I'm not really in the mood for that, but I'm open to being convinced" and then the one who wants it more will try to get the other enthused about the idea. But if it's really "NO" then there's an underlying reason that we'd need to explore (like the time he'd hurt himself on a zipper and definitely wasn't up for play until it healed. It was a simp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 02:13 PM
5	It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There \| VICE \| United States I'm happy dating "down". If I'm in love with someone, his career or education literally doesn't matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 12:09 PM
4	Q4BP: Where do you draw a line on manipulation? Personally, I despise the way marketers manipulate people to buy a whole bunch of stuff they don't need, chasing some image of "cool" or "belonging". I wish that there was a lot less focus on consumption in our society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 12:07 PM
9	To turn a PPD question around: Women, if your fiance told you that you cannot have his name when you marry; how would you feel about that? That's cool, does he want mine?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/15 11:40 PM
4	Keeping your maiden name I like the way my name sounds, the syllables and emphasis etc. It actually rhymes. I wouldn't want to change my name unless I happened to marry someone whose last name sounded as good with my first name. So no, I definitely would not want to be 3dbattleship Clooney.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/15 09:47 PM
2	Q4BP Women: What ways have you ever wronged a partner and how did you make it up to them? Fine by me!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/15 03:40 PM
5	Q4BP Women: What ways have you ever wronged a partner and how did you make it up to them? No way. McDonalds is gross, and not something I consider food. I'll go to the nice place myself (or take my boyfriend if he's in town!), eat what I want, pay for it myself, and leave Chad staring aimlessly into his McNuggets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/15 02:43 PM
10	Q4BP Women: What ways have you ever wronged a partner and how did you make it up to them? I think it's manipulative in a bad way if you're evoking a negative emotional response, which is what I think a lot of people criticize about RP. If you're making someone feel insecure, that's bad. If you're making someone feel loved, that's good. As long as it's sincere- if you're making someone feel loved just to stab them in the back while they're more vulnerable, that's bad too. I guess it comes down to sincerity and intention. If your actions are intended to hurt the person, either now or d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/15 02:40 PM
7	Q4BP Women: What ways have you ever wronged a partner and how did you make it up to them? I know you're being facetious here, but I hardly think that me buying my boyfriend chocolate is anything like cheating :-P Ps Wouldn't a real "chad" not need to buy a girl dinner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/15 02:36 PM
5	Q4BP Women: What ways have you ever wronged a partner and how did you make it up to them? Can't claim to speak for bp, but if your definition of manipulation is "doing an action to intentionally evoke some emotional reaction in another person", then it wouldn't be a bad thing. Of course, that then means that every time you give a birthday present or send a sweet text message to make your SO smile, that's manipulation. I don't define manipulation that way, but if you do, then sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/15 01:58 PM
3	Q4BP Women: What ways have you ever wronged a partner and how did you make it up to them? That sounds like what I do! Apparently red thinks it's manipulation, guess we should stop spoiling our men :-P	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/15 01:42 PM
5	Q4BP Women: What ways have you ever wronged a partner and how did you make it up to them? Sure, if I'm manipulating him into feeling better and less hurt, I think everyone's in favor of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/15 12:11 PM
7	Q4BP Women: What ways have you ever wronged a partner and how did you make it up to them? I've accidentally hurt his feelings sometimes with things that I've said. In the case I remember most recently, I realized he was hurt, apologized, bought him his favorite chocolate that I had delivered to him (we're long distance), and then dressed up in what I know he likes very best and had a sexy Skype call. He felt much better. It's my usual strategy when I screw up; sincere apologies, food, sex. Edit: and I remember what I said/did, wind up writing a long-winded reflection on it in my jour…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/15 11:27 AM
1	How to calculate n-count? But by your metric, the woman who's never had piv could have anal sex with 5 different guys before becoming as slutty as the woman who does both with her LTR. That seems like the opposite of your intention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/15 05:31 PM
12	Is a college degree in women a red flag ? That's a lot of assumptions about the college experience. I'm a woman who double majored in math and chemistry, and didn't drink a drop of alcohol or go to a party in the four years I was there. I can see how people who take it as a four year party haven't gotten value out of it, but that's the same for the men as well as the women who waste their four years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/15 05:12 PM
1	How to calculate n-count? So let's say a guy is a virgin, and his first sexual experience is doing his girlfriend in the ass. He's now had .5 partners. A week later, they have piv, so he's now at 1. The next week, they do anal again, and whoa, he's now at 2.5! It doesn't really make much sense to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/15 01:52 AM
1	How to calculate n-count? I was saying that each act was with a different person in this hypothetical scenario	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/15 05:31 PM
1	How to calculate n-count? Hooray! Tell those sexless incels who haven't had PiV that the bar for not being virgins is way lower than they thought!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/15 05:02 PM
1	How to calculate n-count? Well, if he additionally made out with two women, I'd say he cheated 10 times. My definition of cheating does not match my definition of sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/15 05:01 PM
1	How to calculate n-count? So a woman who has had intercourse with two men, had oral with one woman, was fingered by another guy, humped a girl's hand without penetration, and gave three blowjobs would have an n-count of 8?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/15 03:30 PM
1	How to calculate n-count? Ah, I somewhat get you. But "Touching penis" still seems limited. For example, if he's fully clothed but stimulates her with his hands, that seems like it would count for you. Not to mention women who have had same-sex experiences, no penises involved. I think your theory needs slight revision, but is overall pretty decent :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/15 03:12 PM
1	How to calculate n-count? I mean I just generally tell people "between 1 and 4 depending on what you count" and let people make their own decisions about what's meaningful to them. If they go "ok, four" that doesn't make me feel any worse about myself. Should I be saying "between 1 and 6" to include the two boys I kissed in middle school? Edited because I thought this was referring to a comment I made about virginity in another part of the thread that had no actual relevance to this comment. Edit 2: Did you edit yours to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/15 02:04 PM
1	How to calculate n-count? He'd have the same reaction if you were making out with the guy in the car, but few people here would say that added to their n's. If a guy was going around saying his n was 20 because he'd made out with 20 girls at parties, pretty sure he'd be laughed at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/15 11:49 AM
1	How to calculate n-count? So, just to be clear, to you virginity is lost by handjobs?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/15 11:47 AM
3	Have you ever known an obese man that was successful with women? I'm dating one of those! They're great, and I'm always so baffled when TRP claims they don't exist or need money to succeed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/15 12:38 AM
-1	What is "Romance?" I tend to defy the cultural expectations tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/15 11:04 PM
6	What's your opinion on how staggeringly unequal the contributions of sexes are to society? Do you use a computer? Thank Ada Lovelace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/15 01:22 PM
3	Why should a woman get married? Many of my college friends are now married and have kids. I saw a bunch of vibrant, interesting people become essentially their husband's domestic servants. They spend all day at work, and then all evening catering to their husbands, and lost track of their hobbies, interests, and friends. It's terrifying. I don't intend to stay a wage slave. I don't have aspirations in middle management forever. I'm shooting for the top.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/15 06:14 PM
2	Why should a woman get married? I think I'm ok with the risk, to be honest. I'm much more scared of not making a good living, of not fulfilling my potential, and of having my identity be subsumed by a relationship than of being alone. I also feel like I define "high quality" in a far different way than most people do. I'm also not sure that I want "to raise a family", and would definitely be feeling worse if I was in a marriage and feeling that kind of pressure now. I guess one of the things I've realized is that it's importan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/15 05:49 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? Even better	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/15 01:12 PM
3	Why should a woman get married? What if the woman makes a lot of money and has a stay-at-home husband?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/15 02:12 AM
1	Why should a woman get married? Welp, guess I don't even need to think about it then because I'm already doomed to be a spinster for life :-P	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 11:38 PM
2	Why should a woman get married? I think you mean that the higher earner has more to lose- earlier in the thread was someone's aunt who was screwed in a divorce because she was the breadwinner. In any case, the finances aren't what bug me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 10:48 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? Thanks!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 09:09 PM
2	Why should a woman get married? I love spending time with him, I just think I'd have a bad time being -forced- to spend time with him (or anyone) like in the context of living together. The idea of not being able to have a space that's mine and alone time is what freaks me out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 09:09 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? See, that's kind of what I'm asking. I'm not sure what it means particularly to me, since I'm squeamish about the idea of cohabitation, already have regular sex, and don't particularly want kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 09:07 PM
4	Why should a woman get married? Well, this sounds like it's about to get theological. I believe that purpose is something entirely self-created, which I just realized that you don't. You seem to have a really deterministic view of the world, and that some people are put here for the purpose of teaching others lessons. I'm not religious, so this argument isn't really holding water to me. If it's not coming from a religious background, can you explain why you'd feel like some people are destined to one thing or another instead o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 09:07 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? You make your own destiny. The idea that some people should just give up because they're not "destined" for greatness is anathema to everything I believe in. RedPill spends their life teaching people how to date the prom queen, to fight that "destiny", so I'd think you'd be on board with me here when I say that if you're living in your mom's basement and working at Burger King (barring severe disability), you're not living up to your potential. Why wouldn't it be a wasted life to sit in bed watc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 06:55 PM
4	Why should a woman get married? Right, I definitely think she went about things the wrong way. If she honestly didn't want a man but wanted a kid, then a sperm donor and a nanny would have been fine. Since she DID want a man, she definitely went down the wrong road since she sees him as completely expendable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 06:50 PM
3	Why should a woman get married? There's a big place in the middle between "all women are only golddiggers" and "no woman would date a man for money." Some women do. I, personally, think it's gross.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 06:00 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? Ok, I think we've hit a fundamental disagreement here, then. I don't believe that some people's "purpose" is to "get a shit job, live in mom's basement and play video games." I don't think anyone is destined to failure, and I do consider that a failure. I think less than half of your list are aspirational goals, and I definitely don't consider them all equal. Why would anyone want to improve themselves when they could just say "Oh, my purpose in life was just to be a bump on a log, so I'm not go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 05:59 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? Well, the reason I assumed sons were more important was because if they had girls, then their "purpose" in your eyes would just be to make the next generation. Whereas sons would be the ones, in your eyes, responsible for building society, for innovation, for improving people's lives, etc. I'm not trying to tar you as anything. I think that our purpose in life is to improve the world, not just to procrastinate that improvement to the next generation. If you're claiming the only people who can im…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 05:07 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? Both sound pretty icky, in their own ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 04:55 PM
0	Why should a woman get married? What if her children are women? Then is their only "lasting impact on the world" to have sons? Involuntarily childless people are different, I think. They're people who actively want children, but can't. That's tragic, that there's something they value so much that they can't have. But that doesn't mean that people who choose not to have children would be eaten up by it in the same way. edit: PS, I don't think that a career/job is the only path towards making a difference. Great artists, philoso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 04:54 PM
2	Why should a woman get married? Pretty sure I missed a /s somewhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 04:44 PM
2	Why should a woman get married? So, just to get things straight, you think that it's more impressive for a woman to have a kid than to become a CEO? Good to know. Second, is the idea of a possible failure to reach the goals a reason not to try? If you never take risks and only take guaranteed successes, then yeah, your life will be mediocre. And, to finish, there's no reason for me to cut my boyfriend loose. I love him, and he loves me, and we're both very happy in our relationship. We bring each other a lot of joy, and we're …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 04:42 PM
4	Why should a woman get married? Wow, that's insane. She can kill her own damn spiders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 04:30 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? Well, with all due respect, I'm the OP, and plenty of people have had some really insightful responses about what I think- and I have even more to think about now after reading them. A response like yours just closes discourse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 04:29 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? Well, you were saying that women find their life purpose in their personal relationships, and that they should be with a man who is responsible for them. I was assuming that their life purpose wasn't just to be his domestic servant, and so I figured that somewhere in your worldview, that purpose was motherhood. If I was mistaken, I apologize. I don't think anything less of women who become mothers, but if a man came to you saying that his whole ambition was to have a kid, you probably wouldn't t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 04:27 PM
7	Why should a woman get married? I'm pretty sure there are plenty of single 25 year old male investment bankers who are miserable because they're spending 100 hours a week with their nose to the grindstone, doing immensely stressful work and not even getting the time to spend their hard-earned money on the things and experiences they want. But sure, only women can be stressed out by their jobs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 04:19 PM
2	Why should a woman get married? Wow, that was a really interesting read. Although, I think one of her major complaints- that the husband's best purpose is to take care of her kids so that she can get a break sometimes, would be even better suited by hiring an au pair. That would probably make her life SO much better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 04:13 PM
4	Why should a woman get married? To be fair, most of the men that I know in those careers are also incredibly miserable. Edit: I'm not sure yet what my "life purpose" is yet, but it's definitely not just to be a mother. I know I can be so much more than that, and I'm excited to really make a difference to the world in a bigger way than being "someone's mom".	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 04:09 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? That sounds amazing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 04:05 PM
2	Why should a woman get married? Ok, so essentially, if we assume the woman has a successful career (say, investment banker, consultant, or lawyer at a top 3 company in the field), the definition of being screwed up is just being unhappy and aimless?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 04:04 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? But what if I don't want kids?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 03:47 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? What constitutes a screwed up life to you, in that case? I get it with respect to bad career decisions or something like alcoholism, but my career is fantastic and I don't touch substances. What would screw up my life by not being married? I have a lot of bad personal habits as I mentioned in another comment (ie waiting a month to get around to laundry, having a sink full of dishes- mostly things a maid will fix once I bother to hire one), but I wouldn't call that a "screwed up" life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 03:47 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? There definitely isn't anything abhorrent about him; his house is immaculate, he takes very good care of himself. It's possibly closer to the second; I often go to bed at 6pm without dinner in the clothes I wore all day because I'm exhausted, only to roll out of bed in the morning 5 minutes before I have to leave with a quick brush of my hair and a change of clothes. I have trouble sleeping with light or sound. I'm a messy person, clutter everywhere. I spend a lot of my life working on becoming …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 03:40 PM
5	Why should a woman get married? I think you're projecting a lot onto a pretty simple statement. I wholeheartedly love my boyfriend. If we broke up, I'd be devastated. I do a lot of things for him; I spent almost a year writing him a computer game with him as the hero for his birthday, I make him his favorite foods whenever we're together, I put a TON of effort and love into the relationship. I keep a diary, and my entries are almost entirely about him. You are dead wrong about me not caring. I don't think needing some alone ti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 03:09 PM
3	Why should a woman get married? I think you're being somewhat pedantic about the word "should". You seem to think that "should" always implies morality, and that the pills are completely amoral. But there's definitely things that the pills believe that people should do, whether or not it's a moral issue. Men "should" lift, as an example that's pretty universal across TRP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 03:04 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? I've seen that happen a lot of times. And I see it in myself too, and that's what really terrifies me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 02:55 PM
2	Why should a woman get married? I do love my boyfriend, but the idea of living with anyone just seems awful. I was terrible at having roommates in college and moved into a single room as fast as humanly possible. I love sleepovers, but if he were actually in my space all the time I feel like that would be really claustrophobic. I like your point, that we should just do whatever we want regardless of society, and I definitely agree that the state can butt out. Society and the world's (and my family's) expectations don't seem to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 02:35 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? Eh, if I for some reason got afflicted with them but didn't want the man part of that, there's always sperm banks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 02:32 PM
2	Why should a woman get married? Thank you, that was actually really insightful and gave me a lot to think about. I see a lot of marriages where the identities really DO absorb, especially as my friends keep getting married and keep becoming entirely different people. I guess the trick is figuring out how to not have that happen, if I ever do decide that path is for me. It's definitely not for me now, it might be in a few years (although I'm leaning towards not) but if it ever is, I'll want to make sure that it's a marriage lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 02:31 PM
4	Why should a woman get married? Wow. I think you're missing some of my point. It doesn't matter the status of the guy, what I don't want is to be dependent. If I was married to a multimillionaire who owned the house we lived in and bought me expensive things, that would completely freak me out. I don't need a husband to be my new dad. I definitely never want to ask for money or permission to buy things. In an LTR, the most I'd want him to make would be equal to me, or I'd start feeling like my affection was being bought. I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 02:26 PM
1	Why should a woman get married? Well I'm also kind of objecting to the "live in the same house and have a life together" part even more than the papers part. But I'm definitely in agreement with your sentiment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 02:19 PM
2	Why should a woman get married? Sounds good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 02:17 PM
4	Why should a woman get married? Well, that's why TRP think they don't date down- I'd say that a woman already in an LTR that's "down" wouldn't suddenly lose the attraction because of a ceremony and some papers. Clearly this guy's aunt wasn't dried up by it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 02:16 PM
5	Why should a woman get married? I'd say pretty much all of society thinks that it's weird when a woman doesn't get married. I think even TRP would think there's something seriously wrong with a woman like that. What power does a man hold when he can no longer be "the gatekeeper of commitment" and dangle that over her head? What kind of woman doesn't want her "beta bucks"? It may not be a moral prescription for women to want to be married, but it's certainly seen as an expectation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 02:14 PM
3	Why should a woman get married? Somehow, I actually didn't think about the possibility of a married couple living separately- although I think that probably destroys the point of marriage. But it's an interesting thing to think about. I definitely like the point about hospital decisions, although while my parents are alive I'm ok with them having that decision. And the point about losing my job makes sense, although that still scares me in a dependency type of way. Hopefully, what would get me through in that situation would b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/15 02:10 PM
1	Everyone optimizes, but only women are hypergamous. I think you're over generalizing. I mentioned in another thread that I would rather be alone forever than marry someone I wasn't attracted to, and it got a fair amount of agreement. I personally can't get into the mindset of someone who would marry someone for the manipulative reasons you're claiming, and I think a lot of women would stand behind me on that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/15 02:41 AM
3	CMV: PPD Women are Not Representative of "What Women Think" Sure, I don't claim to speak for all women. As long as you don't claim that the girls in field reports speak for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/15 02:30 AM
3	How can some men be okay with marrying/being in a relationship with a non-virgin girl? Would that count to you if your next girlfriend had done that with her last guy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/15 01:07 PM
4	RP: In what ways do you conclude that a woman is promiscuous? Fruity girly cocktails, I think. What slut would be sipping on a strawberry daiquiri?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/15 03:46 AM
3	RP: In what ways do you conclude that a woman is promiscuous? I'd change your "knowledge" about party drugs to personal experience. I took a bunch of biochem courses in college so I definitely know a lot about them and how they work, but haven't taken any!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/15 12:49 AM
5	[Debate] Women of PPD, how does it feel to be told that you you 'secretly' think/feel/behave in ways because of X by men? Kind of baffled, honestly. When people say that all women "secretly" want to be riding the CC, it's just so far from my experience that I'm confused. It's like if they were saying "All women secretly want to lick the seats on public toilets" and I just think "Well, I don't want to lick toilet seats. Ew." and realize that they honestly think that I do. Also, the idea of then settling down with someone just for money freaks me out too. I grew up in a family with a messy divorce, and I'm so incredi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/15 01:30 AM
1	Do you guys realize that a lot of us sometimes hate the fact that The Red Pill works as well as it does? Yeah, I don't think that would excite me to be honest. I can't get in the mindset of seeing a stranger as a sexual option. I don't even really find strangers or celebrities attractive, although I can recognize "Yeah, Ryan Gosling is better looking than Steve Buscemi". But then again, I can recognize "Emma Watson is better looking than Lena Dunham" without seeing her in a sexual light either. I just don't get "the tingles" from strangers. But I recognize that's a personal thing, and most people a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/15 01:16 AM
1	TRP dread vs. TBP standards. I'm just saying that your argument was "you can't hurt it because it's mine" and that that seemed silly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/15 10:42 PM
5	are BPers, feminists and SJWs mostly humanities majors? Math/Chem here	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/15 01:09 PM
1	BP Men: Would you date a woman that weighed more than you? BP Women: Would you date a man that was shorter than you? Of the four people I've dated, two were shorter than me. Not a problem at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/15 11:26 PM
1	RPers are former "nice guys" trying to better themselves, but still haven't lost their "nice guy" logic about what women are/what women want. I'm pretty sure these are different women saying these things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/15 11:05 PM
1	Playing with your wife. To me, walking around the house with just a shirt on -would- be normal!	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/07/15 02:38 PM
4	a womans role in the world I'd way rather just not marry than marry someone I wasn't attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/15 09:26 PM
0	How do hobbies and interests fit into TRP? I agree, I think the battlebots are in a different category of hobby because it's actively doing something as opposed to passively consuming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/15 08:42 PM
2	TRP dread vs. TBP standards. Speak for yourself, I love it when my boyfriend tells me when something is hurting him so that I know how to fix it. If he just got distant, how would I know what was wrong? I actually really like it when he's open enough to tell me that there's a problem, what it is, and how it makes him feel. Ps Vulnerability can be VERY sexy too. It doesn't repulse me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/15 08:20 PM
1	TRP dread vs. TBP standards. How can I hurt your face? Isn't it your face?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/15 08:16 PM
1	question to RP: do you believe the women that post here? I agree. Clubs seem like zero fun to me, so I don't go. Maybe that's why I'm missing out on that whole cc thing. Edit for clarity: definitely don't think the cc would be fun either. "Missing out" was a little dash of </s>	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/15 09:16 PM
1	Blue Pill Women: Do you prefer men with less traditionally masculine personalities? Having dated people shorter than me, I think you should go for it! It's honestly not the big deal people make of it. Kissing still works. Sex still works. Long, soulful eye contact over dinner still works- I promise you won't just be staring at the top of his head. I have no idea what makes girls think that a guy's height matters so much, especially when everything else is a good match. ...I'm actually not entirely sure why it matters at all, but I know I'm the aberration there. Anyway, I'd say …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/15 04:37 AM
1	In your personal experience, what are some traits of promiscuous/high n-count individuals? Not every couple is destined for /r/deadbedrooms	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/15 09:43 PM
2	In your personal experience, what are some traits of promiscuous/high n-count individuals? Actually, I'd probably say they fuck less. Finding constant new people is probably less overall times than a couple has sex if they're living together and it's easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/15 12:22 AM
1	Women, what are some quick things men can do to make themselves more attractive without resorting to TRP? Long-term things? Definitely. Girls flip over Alton Brown!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/15 11:56 PM
1	how many people have you had sex with? I usually say 4, counting everything where a genital was touched (aside from say, gynecologists) even over clothes. The thread I made gave arguments that said, by different people, that my number is either 1, 2, 3, or 4 depending on different people's definitions. (Aside from the one guy who said that it's any time I did something that would have been cheating if I'd been in a relationship at the time, in which case I've kissed three more people and cuddled romantically with two more that wouldn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/15 01:25 PM
1	The Art of Whore: Why Betas Marry Leftovers At which point she says "Can you quiet down? I'm never gonna get a 40 on the mcat unless I figure out these ideal fluid flows" and you go back to the club where the easy lays are :-P	/r/TheRedPill	25/06/15 06:18 PM
2	Are video games a good hobby? Most guys, even the non-nerdy ones, love girls who can game. Fit/attractive gamer girls are pretty much every male gamer's wet dream. Gaming is one of the many areas in which women get to have the best of both worlds. I'm not so sure about that; I feel like even for women, gaming can be seen as a waste of time. A thin, cute girl who spends all of her time on World of Warcraft (see: me in college) is pretty much seen as a loser too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/15 06:26 PM
1	The Art of Whore: Why Betas Marry Leftovers Who the heck is approaching a studying girl at a library??	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/15 12:52 PM
1	Who should pay for dates? It's pretty catastrophic to a lot of men too. But it's something that's gotta be done. Facing rejection is part of learning, and then getting someone even better to say yes! It's silly that more girls don't see that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/15 08:29 PM
2	Who should pay for dates? I was the initiator in both of the LTRs I've been in; what can I say, I'm choosy! Why should I wait for the person I want to ask me out, when I can just as easily do it myself? And yeah, the first time, I'll definitely pay if I asked. And now, in a 2 year LTR, we just switch off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/15 08:26 PM
1	Who should pay for dates? We tend to alternate; "I'll get lunch, you get dinner" or "I'll get tonight, you get tomorrow" etc. It works pretty well! That way we don't have to deal with multiple credit cards out, and nobody's really counting pennies but it probably winds up equal over time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/15 08:19 PM
6	The Art of Whore: Why Betas Marry Leftovers I think he was meaning that she had the choice, and chooses not to go out and party etc. The college girl at the library instead of the frat on a Saturday night.	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/15 01:09 PM
1	How do you calculate someone's n-count? But assuming a hypothetical situation where that happened, like if he stayed fully clothed and was just playing with her	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/15 08:24 PM
5	What A Typical American Girl Faces [h/t /u/thedeti] I'm kind of in the "finding myself" phase where I'm not ready to have my identity become "wife" and where I still want to figure out where my life is going and what I want to do with it. That being said, I can't imagine ever wanting to have casual sex or gangbangs or even traveling much at all. I'm learning to code. I'm reading books. I'm lifting weights and developing healthy habits and learning to be more productive with my time instead of wasting it on World of Warcraft. I don't think "findin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/15 05:16 PM
3	How do you calculate someone's n-count? The second one kinda just seems like him having close female friends, so I guess the first would be worse. But that would probably change if it was one woman that he was in love with but just didn't sleep with; that would be a legitimate threat and solidly worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 10:23 PM
0	How do you calculate someone's n-count? And the girl who'd kissed no boys would be best of all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 10:20 PM
1	How do you calculate someone's n-count? In not sure which would be worse, but I wouldn't count an emotional affair as an addition to his n-count :-P	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 09:00 PM
1	How do you calculate someone's n-count? See our discussion about kissing in an earlier comment :-P Is your n the number of people you've kissed? Another commenter mentioned emotional affairs too, and that gets even messier!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 08:48 PM
1	How do you calculate someone's n-count? So to stay appropriately wife material, should the woman deny her husband anal to avoid becoming slutty and thus less attractive to him? Would it impair her ability to pair-bond with him in the way that sleeping with an additional 1.5 people would? Not making fun of you, just trying to explore the idea :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 06:33 PM
2	How do you calculate someone's n-count? So the cock carousel is a state of mind, not a number?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 06:00 PM
1	How do you calculate someone's n-count? This is a pretty cool way of looking at it, thanks for putting the effort in! My one concern with your method is, if I think of the redpoll ideal; that of the woman who is a virgin before marriage and then does anything he wants (presumably including anal), this would put her at a 2.5 which seems high for the devoted wife archetype. Would the context of a long-term relationship change it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 05:57 PM
0	How do you calculate someone's n-count? There was just a huge thread talking about people's n-counts from people who definitely cared, making limits like "no more than five" or "ideally 0-2"... Just trying to figure out their mentality of what they're counting in that :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 05:40 PM
3	How do you calculate someone's n-count? Ah, I'd count that as cheating so I guess that's a definition argument for later! Where would you draw that line?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 05:18 PM
7	How do you calculate someone's n-count? Ooh, so my n is the number of guys I've -kissed-??? :-P	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 05:10 PM
1	How do you calculate someone's n-count? Ah, so for you touching other genitals counts, but not being touched? (Ie guy fingers a girl, his count goes up by one, hers doesn't?)	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 04:58 PM
1	Why is "Slut-shaming" such a bad thing now, especially towards feminists and Blue Pill minded people? Two years and counting with the current one :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 04:30 PM
0	Why is "Slut-shaming" such a bad thing now, especially towards feminists and Blue Pill minded people? Ah, yes, because my friends are super appreciative when I do things like write them a custom computer game for their birthday or fly them across the country to see their favorite band in concert or secretly ask their mother for recipes they loved as a kid and then make them when they're feeling blue. For a friend, those sorts of things are too much effort to expend- it feels like a burden that they feel obligated to reciprocate. For people in love, they're a joy and seen as really sweet. I have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 04:03 PM
2	Why is "Slut-shaming" such a bad thing now, especially towards feminists and Blue Pill minded people? I feel sorry for you if you think the only good thing about a relationship is sex on tap. What she loses is someone who knows her well, loves her, talks to her about her day, shares interests with, someone she can devote attention to, someone to surprise and delight- someone who makes her happy and who she can make happy. Starting over and building that kind of trust and love takes a lot of time and effort and isn't just easily replaceable like sex is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 02:08 PM
9	Why is "Slut-shaming" such a bad thing now, especially towards feminists and Blue Pill minded people? Actually, the majority of bananas you buy in a store ARE cloned from one banana plant :) Bad example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 02:02 PM
3	Why does TRP demand what it won't ask of itself? So wait, should they or shouldn't they sleep with the losers? The position seems pretty inconsistent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/15 01:15 AM
3	Why does TRP demand what it won't ask of itself? But then how would they keep their n-count low??? :-O	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/15 08:47 PM
1	CMV: Women love unconditionally, whereas Men are only capable of conditional love That doesn't really match my experience. I'd honestly feel intimidated if I felt that my partner was "better" than me, especially if I felt like I wasn't good enough to take care of myself without them. For me, being the "worse" partner would scare me and just make me feel inadequate, which isn't really conducive to love. Ideally, we'd be equals, both self-sufficient and apathetic to status- but if I had to choose, I wouldn't want to be constantly in second place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/15 08:47 PM
3	Do you guys realize that a lot of us sometimes hate the fact that The Red Pill works as well as it does? Easy way to stave those men off- don't wear makeup. Same concept applies. Edit: I don't have anything wrong with women who wear makeup, I just don't wear it- and amazingly enough, deal with a lot fewer people hitting on me who don't know me. I think that's a huge plus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/15 04:39 PM
8	Do you guys realize that a lot of us sometimes hate the fact that The Red Pill works as well as it does? I really don't think that's true. I'm an introvert. I hate parties. I barely tolerate people for the most part. The idea of being alone with a stranger, much less having sex with one, carries zero appeal. It takes a lot for me to want to be romantic with someone, and in my few relationships, has always come out of slow-building deep friendships where I had zero attraction to the person when we met but it developed over time. I don't think I'm unique; I think there is a fairly large set of girls …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/15 01:01 PM