46n2arejustaheadofme Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Kissing guide for beginners? Pay close attention	/r/seduction	19/04/15 05:08 AM
11	Sarah Silverman Admits She Made Up a Wage-Gap Story, Then Calls Critics ‘Maniacs’ This reminds me of that time Sarah Silverman raped all those puppies. It's totally convenient to my worldview guys!	/r/MensRights	16/04/15 04:14 PM
2	Is this how Eye Contact Feels Every Time? Think of this as a support group for guys who aren't great at interacting with women romantically. We were all in your shoes once. Some people will try to make you feel bad for trying to improve yourself in this way, ignore them, pity them, they can't get beyond the idea that seduction isn't about tricking women into having sex with you.	/r/seduction	16/04/15 02:24 AM
1	Is this how Eye Contact Feels Every Time? It feels intense at first, but after awhile it becomes the default and you'll notice the impact it has on your interactions. Something I've noticed: successful people generally are great at eye contact.	/r/seduction	16/04/15 02:00 AM
190	Married 1 week and put on solitary. Isn't isolation a textbook characteristic of an abusive relationship?	/r/MensRights	15/04/15 08:31 AM
62	Hillary Clinton 'to announce 2016 presidential campaign' - Get ready for cries of "SEXISM!" whenever she gets criticized. Well as we all know, women would be the primary victims of a war with Iran because their husbands brothers and sons die in wars. Those soldiers never have male family that will miss them, and certainly they aren't the primary victims just because they were subjected to death as a direct result of the war. Being a primary victim=(vagina-power)/(political agenda)	/r/MensRights	10/04/15 04:33 PM
10	Don't forget, in the US a woman is entitled to sue the father of her child for child support even if conception occurred as a result of a criminal act committed by the woman. But women are, like, totally oppressed and stuff! Is this really a flip side exclusive to women? The same thing is happening here, except the offender is the one who got pregnant. No matter the gender of the victim or offender, it really goes without saying that the victim shouldn't have to pay child support, and the offender should lose their parental rights.	/r/MensRights	04/04/15 05:21 PM
37	Don't forget, in the US a woman is entitled to sue the father of her child for child support even if conception occurred as a result of a criminal act committed by the woman. But women are, like, totally oppressed and stuff! Well, according to the feminist worldview, minor threats to the availability of birth control or abortion and having your resume taken less seriously by employers (this was based on a flawed interpretation of a study but I digress) is oppression by the patriarchy. But having genital mutilation be legal based solely on your gender, having to register for the draft because of your gender, your gender being punished more severely for the same crimes, your gender being assumed guilty in cases of DV,…	/r/MensRights	04/04/15 05:15 PM
2	Female university teacher destroys feminists claims in a short video She's had articles published in AEI, and a variety of publications. She's a centrist if anything.	/r/MensRights	30/03/15 12:47 AM
2	Just Feminism. MRAs heap praise on the occasional egalitarian feminist that gets notoriety (Christina Hoff Sommers comes to mind), and are critical of feminist policies and ideas that are harmful to men. It's pretty reasonable when you are criticizing aspects of an ideology, rather than hating a gender. Most of the bad press that MRAs receive is a product of poor public opinion on the idea that men aren't completely privileged and women aren't oppressed, and the subsequent media effort to smear the MRM as miso…	/r/MensRights	26/03/15 07:37 PM
1	Just Feminism. I actually misunderstood your post originally, I thought you were saying you identified as a feminist and didn't like how you were treated here, not that you identified as an MRA and didn't like the way you were treated outside this sub, my bad	/r/MensRights	26/03/15 05:32 PM
2	Just Feminism. What about my post espoused hatred? The fact that your response to a post asking why you think you shouldn't have to defend your position is "I'm done" says a lot about you.	/r/MensRights	26/03/15 04:38 PM
4	Just Feminism. Why shouldn't you have to defend your position when you claim allegiance to what many of us have know first hand is a hate group? [Edit: misunderstood the person I replied to, he's not identifying as a feminist] People are going to ask you questions and for evidence of your claims, they might even point out that you're wrong about something, if you don't like it you can find the door. The fact that you don't understand how an article about a woman can be about men's rights shows you don't really…	/r/MensRights	26/03/15 04:07 PM
2	Just had the shortest date in my life. I'm only in my mid 20s and even I can't date people that young. Go for women out of college figuring out their careers, you'll find a better fit.	/r/seduction	21/03/15 03:48 PM
1	Is there a single feminist who accepts the fact that men are on average worse off than women according almost all statistics measuring the quality of life and discrimination? Christina Hoff Sommers is a feminist. Other feminists just love her.	/r/MensRights	20/03/15 02:21 PM
23	Refuting this "feminist" narrative about how men can't be compromised in comic books. Pretty cool [X-Post r/tumblrInAction] TIL "stripped of all agency/power" and "fully a victim of the Joker" (the words used by the person actually being refuted) is the same as "crying out of fear." As if the original premise that showing a female crying out of fear is somehow wrong or that male characters are never shown crying out of fear.	/r/MensRights	18/03/15 07:32 PM
1	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. Yes, and the quality that is similar is given in the context. In this case, the severity isn't what's being compared.	/r/MensRights	16/03/15 01:30 AM
1	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. Maybe in your imagination.	/r/MensRights	16/03/15 01:08 AM
1	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. You feel that including rape in a list is wrong and undermining it's severity no?	/r/MensRights	15/03/15 11:43 PM
1	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. How so? What if I said this: Women can be affected by a variety of actions, such as rape, cat-calling, stalking, or other more minor offenses. Did I just say that rape and other minor offenses are similar in severity just because I grouped them or even mentioned them in the sentence? Or did I just include them in a list of things that can happen to women? Maybe the former is true in feelz> realz lala land.	/r/MensRights	15/03/15 10:34 PM
2	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. Am I denying that he grouped them, or pointing out that the way he grouped them doesn't imply that he's "undermining the severity of rape" as you so eloquently put it?	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 09:48 PM
1	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. I'm sorry if English isn't your first language, but if it is you're wilfully misinterpreting what was said, a liar, or very stupid. You can't back up your argument further than pointing out they're in the same list, which as I've pointed out abundantly isn't a valid point.	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 09:22 PM
1	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. I quoted it to you already. Don't call it nonsense it's just hyperbole for comedic effect. It's damn true that regardless of facts, figures, studies, if a woman is raped, or cat called, or oggled, or has anything minor happen to them, it trumps everything. ... regardless of facts, figures, studies, if a woman is raped, or cat called, or oggled, or has anything minor happen to them, it trumps everything. ... if a woman is raped, or cat called, or oggled, or has anything minor happen to them, it t…	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 09:14 PM
2	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. You've managed to blame overt oppression of men by people in power on men in general, despite the fact that abolishing selective service and the draft wasn't discussed seriously in the US until after women could vote, and it still didn't happen. The only way to do this is to ignore the fact that the majority of men have the same amount of political power as women now, and that historically, most men also had little to no political power. Furthermore there is no evidence that politicians act excl…	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 09:06 PM
1	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. You're being wilfully obtuse here. There is nothing wrong with including rape in a list of "things taken more seriously when they happen to women." There's no argument.	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 08:18 PM
4	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. Goddammit. Can't we just once have some reasonable discussion without someone actually undermining the seriousness of rape or some other bullshit, I mean, I understand your point and upvoted because it contributed to the discussion but come on, don't put rape up there with other trivial bullshit. Looks like outrage and misrepresenting the person you replied to. You just can't help yourself can you?	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 06:41 PM
3	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. You misrepresented his post, plain and simple. Listing things together does not on its own imply anything about the relative severity of the items grouped, and in this case is clear that's not what he is doing. This isn't a case of us interpreting a post differently, it's a case of you making outrage with no cause. You're creating ragebait out of nothing by claiming he's implying that rape isn't severe when he's done nothing of the sort. That's fucking low. Hence why you're a lying piece of shit…	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 06:00 PM
7	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. Grouping something with less severe things doesn't imply they're the same in every circumstance, context matters, and context is the enemy of bullshitters (like you), in this context the grouping wasn't to show similarity, it was to give examples of things which are taken more seriously when they happen to women, you just want him to be saying that. The context and intent of his post is extremely clear, claiming it's wrong to group things of different severity or that it implies similar severity…	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 05:08 PM
3	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. It's damn true that regardless of facts, figures, studies, if a woman is raped, or cat called, or oggled, or has anything minor happen to them, it trumps everything. Where is he saying rape is a little thing? You're getting downvotes for lying and backpedalling.	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 04:49 PM
6	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. When did he undermine the seriousness of rape? There's nothing wrong with grouping rape and other less serious things when the point is that when it happens to women it's taken more seriously. What you just did is referred to as moving the goalposts. So please, let's stick to your first claim, where does he undermine the seriousness of rape?	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 04:40 PM
14	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. He was stating that things that happen to women are given more attention regardless of severity, hardly unreasonable, doesn't undermine the severity of rape. You wilfully misinterpreted the person you replied to.	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 04:10 PM
5	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. Wait wait wait, sexism against men isn't as bad when men make the laws? Do you actually believe that? So the victims, because of guilt by association, are culpable for their own oppression, because they share the gender of their oppressor? It's lovely that you think the idea that women aren't suited for war is even close to the idea that men are suited for should be forced to fight in war. How horrible to be spared from the pleasures of war.	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 04:08 PM
4	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. The person you replied to never said women didn't earn things because they have advatages though. Why not respond to the points he actually made?	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 03:58 PM
7	No Female Privilege? 4chan post. Has the usual hyperbole, but the argument is totally valid. I think you're right.	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 03:53 PM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate So in your mind you didn't just make a blatantly false statement? So... you're insane?	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 10:34 AM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate You are a liar kiddo.	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 10:26 AM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate So you can link to that comment then?	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 10:23 AM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate I'm literally drowning in your evidence. You're a joke.	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 10:16 AM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate Sure bud	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 10:15 AM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate Yeah unlike all the other MRAs, you're a special snowflake.	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 10:09 AM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate You're a mouthpiece, nothing more.	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 10:05 AM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate Context, the enemy of bullshitters everywhere, I'm sure you'll provide evidence with your claim, just like all your other posts, right?	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 10:04 AM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate You're not an MRA, you're a feminist alt account. It's clear everything you think is within the frame of "how is this about women."	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 10:01 AM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate I wouldn't stress it, /u/TRPACC is a repeat troll here and has lied routinely on this sub, or just really likes his false narratives, because his posts routinely use the same false talking points and a skewed interpretation of events to fit his narrative. Any guesses to what the main account does?	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 09:59 AM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate You keep saying we. You do realize more than one person uses reddit right?	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 09:50 AM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate Apparently the part about all this starting with the "teach men not to rape" signs flew right over your head. It was never about giving women unsolicited rape prevention tips.	/r/MensRights	14/03/15 09:43 AM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate I've had this same bullshit discussion with you before, you are very wrong. Pointing out that adults have the capability to reduce risk to themselves by altering their behavior is not the same as claiming they deserved it because they didn't alter their behavior. The goal is hopefully to prevent crime in the future, and nobody was issuing any unsolicited rape prevention tips before the whole "teach men not to rape" bullshit started. When people suggested that taking steps to protect yourself is …	/r/MensRights	13/03/15 10:21 PM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate The inmates formed a group called "prisoners against rape" and discussed rape in prison and outside, and the permissive attitude towards rape. The film itself never defines "rape culture" but I think we can agree it's when a large group of people condones of rape, a culture where rape is normal. And for the US that only happens with regards to prison, and US policy and towards child sex slavery (primarily boys) in the middle east. There are also microcosms of victim blaming and protecting rapist…	/r/MensRights	13/03/15 09:59 PM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate Rape culture is a term originally coined to describe the prison environment that turns a blind eye to rape between inmates, as well as society's view of rape in prison as deserved punishment. There are certainly other places that share qualities with American prisons, but if we're talking about the US, the only real tolerance of rape applies to female on male rape. Of course you might bring up that some police labs don't test rape kits diligently, or that rape accusations rarely result in convic…	/r/MensRights	13/03/15 07:42 PM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate Welcome to post modernism	/r/MensRights	13/03/15 07:25 PM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate Wilfully obtuse you say?	/r/MensRights	13/03/15 07:25 PM
1	Help With Rape Culture Debate Ever consider that the people you consider uninformed that disagree with you may actually disagree with you for other valid reasons? If you label everyone who has a different viewpoint as "not doing their due diligence" and then refuse to even back up your position (on rape culture and on how MR approaches the concept) then you're not contributing to the discussion. That's the kind of thing that gets down voted for good reason, because you make yourself look like a close minded, obstinate person…	/r/MensRights	13/03/15 07:24 PM
2	Help With Rape Culture Debate Due diligence = agreeing with you?	/r/MensRights	13/03/15 05:22 PM
3	Help With Rape Culture Debate In other words, you're not willing to put forth the effort to support your argument, but you're willing to explain why you shouldn't have to support your argument?	/r/MensRights	13/03/15 05:09 PM
4	Help With Rape Culture Debate I'll translate that: IT'S NOT MY JOB TO EDUCATE YOU SHITLORD! Seriously if you aren't willing to defend your argument you have no argument.	/r/MensRights	13/03/15 03:20 PM
4	“Half of Domestic Violence Victims are Men”… “No domestic violence shelters are dedicated to us” \| Finally a Toronto news agency that doesn't call it "controversial" How are those ideas patriarchal? I think you are talking about restrictive traditional gender roles, which aren't promoted by either sex exclusively. So let's not kid ourselves, calling that "patriarchal" is just an underhanded way to vilify men. You know, like referring to people who think it's acceptable to steal and who commit theft "niggerarchal." So if we're talking about restrictive gender roles, and the people that advocate for them, you can see why calling that "patriarchal" is a load of…	/r/MensRights	11/03/15 09:57 PM
2	Was about to make a purchase tonight until I saw the bracelet of the lady behind the counter. Cancelled my purchase and spoke to the owner over the phone, who was unaware of it and not onsite. She was reasonable, and it appears some more professional attire will be in order at their company. Really reddit is a form of abstract porn	/r/MensRights	09/03/15 12:23 AM
38	Was about to make a purchase tonight until I saw the bracelet of the lady behind the counter. Cancelled my purchase and spoke to the owner over the phone, who was unaware of it and not onsite. She was reasonable, and it appears some more professional attire will be in order at their company. That box you use to type comments on reddit and surf porn can also be used to access various informational databases throughout the network known as the internet to find useful information about a variety of topics. But since you asked, it's the counterpart to misogyny applied to men.	/r/MensRights	08/03/15 03:41 PM
2	Should men have the right to opt out of child maintenance payments IF they wanted an abortion and the woman decided to keep the baby? My reasoning was that if both parents know of the pregnancy and make their choices while abortion is still a viable option, neither should or would be responsible for the child. If the father isn't notified but would opt out he shouldn't be on the hook at all (no surprise child support requests). If he does know and changes his mind later, he should have to assist with paying for part of the hospital bills and cost of infant care (because the mother carried the child thinking he was on board). A…	/r/MensRights	07/03/15 07:10 PM
5	Should men have the right to opt out of child maintenance payments IF they wanted an abortion and the woman decided to keep the baby? I think a common sense law would work this way: The mother is obligated to inform the father of the pregnancy asap, and the father then has the option of opting out of fatherhood at any time before the third trimester plus maybe a one month buffer (equivalent of an abortion for the father, but the mother has an extra month to decide what she wants to do based on the father's decision for practical reasons). If the father doesn't opt out before that date, he's on the hook for helping pay for deli…	/r/MensRights	07/03/15 04:54 PM
16	To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. A devil's threesome should be 3 straight guys, and the devil forces them to have sex with each other.	/r/seduction	07/03/15 02:51 AM
187	To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. Don't drink too much. People get focused on liquid courage to get rid of AA but if you're drunk you aren't going to learn anything and improve, it's a crutch, and it can make you sloppy and unattractive very quickly.	/r/seduction	06/03/15 05:26 PM
1	Cutting the bullshit surrounding issues with male babysitters, the Berkely Parents Advice team host some bigoted opinions. Imagine Berkely saying "I don't trust black men around my children - these days you can't be too careful!" We should applaud anyone who exercises common sense and decency, even if it should be the standard, because as we all know, they're risking the disdain of their hateful peers for doing so.	/r/MensRights	05/03/15 04:07 PM
4	I can't believe people think we don't need a Men's Rights Movement. This needs to be added to the sidebar	/r/MensRights	02/03/15 05:10 PM
6	How do you make girls aware that you have other options? Don't tell them directly, just say you're meeting a friend or busy and that you can meet another time. You can espouse abundance mentality by not being needy, by having genuine alternatives to female attention which you find validating (hobbies, a career, w/e), by not getting hung up on sex or dates with any one girl.	/r/seduction	28/02/15 05:13 PM
3	The right to plead not-guilty All the evidence they had was circumstantial unfortunately. They could prove that something decomposed in her trunk, and that there was hair from something dead similar to her daughter's hair, and that there was chloroform in the trunk, and that there were suspicious internet searches, and she made up an imaginary nanny that she told police was responsible, etc. But they didn't have blood, fingerprints, witnesses, surveillance footage, etc, and that's the kind of concrete evidence you need to co…	/r/MensRights	28/02/15 03:59 PM
10	Men working with women for true equality With an AK47	/r/MensRights	27/02/15 07:47 PM
15	Patricia Arquette just mentioned the falsified pay gap based on gender statistics in her acceptance speech at the Oscars. No employer having employees subject to any provisions of this section [section 206 of title 29 of the United States Code] shall discriminate, within any establishment in which such employees are employed, between employees on the basis of sex by paying wages to employees in such establishment at a rate less than the rate at which he pays wages to employees of the opposite sex in such establishment for equal work on jobs[,] the performance of which requires equal skill, effort, and responsibilit…	/r/MensRights	23/02/15 01:43 PM
1	Women’s rights prof arrested for beating up boyfriend on Valentine’s Day Identify as male... to anyone confused: a "real" man is just a man, which in modern society means anyone who authentically identifies as male, yes that excludes people with penises who identify as women, and includes people with vaginas who identify as men.	/r/MensRights	21/02/15 06:05 PM
3	Got my shirt in: ) #meninist If you look at what feminists say, maybe. If you look at what they do...	/r/MensRights	14/02/15 10:46 AM
3	Got my shirt in: ) #meninist Feminists are totally for equal rights. Like that time they got the selective service requirement for men repealed. ...oh, they didn't...well, surely they are trying to, right? Oh, guess not... Well, surely they worked to get the Duluth model discredited so that domestic violence could be approached by police in a more egalitarian fashion. ...oh, they didn't? My mistake... Well, even though they aren't trying to get rid of the model, they surely didn't support it's creation and widespread implem…	/r/MensRights	14/02/15 08:57 AM
77	Got my shirt in: ) #meninist Yeah, it might tarnish the amazing reputation that we've earned from our detractors.	/r/MensRights	14/02/15 12:51 AM
1	TIL that if a 35 year old woman has sex with a 14 year old boy and gets pregnant, he despite being a minor will have to pay her child support. Start 3:42 Relative privation.	/r/MensRights	11/02/15 05:13 AM
22	TIL that if a 35 year old woman has sex with a 14 year old boy and gets pregnant, he despite being a minor will have to pay her child support. Start 3:42 How would you feel if we cut off women's Clitoral hoods because men and women think it looks better? It would be insane.	/r/MensRights	11/02/15 02:12 AM
44	TIL that if a 35 year old woman has sex with a 14 year old boy and gets pregnant, he despite being a minor will have to pay her child support. Start 3:42 People with botched circumcisions or who die from the procedure would probably disagree, but you can be jailed for failing to pay child support so there's that. Imo, all of these things are major issues.	/r/MensRights	11/02/15 02:09 AM
8	Woman jailed after 11th false rape claim in a decade. Who is anyone to say that one is worse than the other? Imo, I'd rather be raped once than dragged through a criminal trial, spend years in prison, have my reputation ruined, job prospects ruined, be alienated from my family and friends, and forced to register as a sex offender for the rest of my life. Just a thought exercise, what's worse, if someone rapes another person, or if they lock them in a room for years instead? And that's just a single aspect of the issue.	/r/MensRights	09/02/15 03:34 AM
1	Found in my girlfriend's dorm Wow, I didn't realize I was invulnerable to mugging when I walk home late at night. Maybe I'll tell that to the guy that almost broke my nose and tore a bunch of ligaments in my shoulder when he tried to take my wallet. I take cabs home now instead of walking, but I guess I'm just stupid because I have nothing to fear because I'm a male.	/r/MensRights	27/01/15 12:00 AM
2	A pro-male focus is the way. Anti-feminism is a waste of time. Yes, because maybe that should not be the goal. I don't expect you to understand why this is nonsense. When the main obstacle to improving the rights of men is that most people think men don't have issues or that their issues don't deserve attention, or that MRAs are misogynists, challenging the narrative is the first step. Maybe the goal should be ensuring a good future for men regardless of the method. "maybe the goal should be to help men without criticizing feminism. " and now we're at squar…	/r/MensRights	26/01/15 05:45 PM
2	A pro-male focus is the way. Anti-feminism is a waste of time. I've seen a few concern trolling posts by new users the past few days, ignore and move on	/r/MensRights	25/01/15 11:41 PM
2	A pro-male focus is the way. Anti-feminism is a waste of time. And is there anything wrong with that? When our goal is mainly about challenging narratives and educating people, criticism of the dominant ideology behind that narrative is paramount. Of course we both know what you're doing here, it's called concern trolling, you can go ahead and fuck ofd because we've seen it a thousand times before. "Hey guys all you do is criticize feminists" "Yeah, there's a good reason for that criticism" "Hey guys all you do is criticize feminists" "K..." So again, kindl…	/r/MensRights	25/01/15 11:27 PM
3	A pro-male focus is the way. Anti-feminism is a waste of time. Well, it's good that I didn't say "being an MRA only means opposing feminism in cases where it's harmed men" then eh?	/r/MensRights	25/01/15 10:18 PM
6	A pro-male focus is the way. Anti-feminism is a waste of time. Being an MRA entails opposing feminism in cases where feminism has tangibly harmed the rights of men. There's nothing else to it. Saying "hey guys let's focus on helping men not opposing feminism" is nonsense and indicates you don't really know much about either.	/r/MensRights	25/01/15 07:16 PM
2	Seddit, Im abroad and need a kick in the butt I went traveling in SE Asia for for months, met a dutch girl and fell in love, then she broke my heart. I even made a long post about it here and everyone who replied was like "what are you sad about, I'd kill to fall in love while having an adventure in a foreign country." This sub is an awesome source of support. Then I met another dutch girl about a month later and she fell in love with me. She's visiting me in the US now and we couldn't be happier. So, I'm going to try to help you feel bette…	/r/seduction	25/01/15 07:11 PM
2	Let's talk about embracing affirmative, enthusiastic consent - or not. In your example the posts are saying it wasn't rape. So you are making yourself sound pretty stupid. As for the concern trolling, you can fuck right off.	/r/MensRights	25/01/15 06:35 PM
24	State tells Detroit man: Pay for child that isn't yours or go to jail! Isn't debtors prison specifically illegal in the US?	/r/MensRights	23/01/15 10:07 PM
1	So a post on /r/cringe caught my attention street harassment (as defined by wiki as "any action or comment between strangers in public places that is disrespectful, unwelcome, threatening and/or harassing and is motivated by gender" leads to women consistently feeling unsafe. Holy shit, it's happening. Just so you know, most of what is included in that definition is definitively NOT street harassment. Do you actually believe that if two different guys approach the same woman, say the exact same thing, and do the exact same things, that o…	/r/seduction	20/01/15 12:13 AM
1	So a post on /r/cringe caught my attention Why not be the change you want to see instead of making a bunch of vague criticisms that hardly represent the sub so you can claim some sort of moral highground? You sound like a cunt.	/r/seduction	19/01/15 09:09 PM
2	So a post on /r/cringe caught my attention "Creep" is a nebulous term that to many people means "person that I don't find attractive that is interacting with me instead of crawling into a hole and waiting to die."	/r/seduction	19/01/15 09:06 PM
49	So I was doing some paperwork for my daughter... "A suspect is a person who may or may not have committed a crime but is under investigation. If there is a black person in the vicinity, we usually consider them the primary suspect."	/r/MensRights	17/01/15 07:41 AM
1	Somehow, too many women have fallen into the belief that Wife Always Knows Best. There's even a phrase to reinforce it: "Happy wife, happy life." That doesn't leave a lot of room for his opinions, does it? I think you're giving him too much credit. edit: And just so it's clear, the situation you outlined would still entail a "strong correlation" in both directions, but not within a certain range of values, but the correlation wouldn't apply at that range of values in either direction. Saying X correlates to Y except when X is below a certain value, means that Y correlates to X except when X is below that value.	/r/MensRights	14/01/15 05:00 PM
9	Somehow, too many women have fallen into the belief that Wife Always Knows Best. There's even a phrase to reinforce it: "Happy wife, happy life." That doesn't leave a lot of room for his opinions, does it? Research has shown that the wife happiness correlates strongly with the husband's, but that the reverse is not true. You do realize that's impossible, right?	/r/MensRights	14/01/15 03:26 AM
1	Female coworker entered the stall three times while I was in it. I reported it and they asked "how is this sexual harassment?" The person I replied to said it wasn't sexual harassment, my b	/r/MensRights	12/01/15 07:28 PM
2	Female coworker entered the stall three times while I was in it. I reported it and they asked "how is this sexual harassment?" So if they were unisex, you'd feel the same way?	/r/MensRights	12/01/15 05:23 PM
2	Female coworker entered the stall three times while I was in it. I reported it and they asked "how is this sexual harassment?" If it was a locker room or changing room instead of a bathroom would that change things for you?	/r/MensRights	12/01/15 04:25 PM
73	Female coworker entered the stall three times while I was in it. I reported it and they asked "how is this sexual harassment?" I would like to see a case where a man bursts into a woman's bathroom stall that's not deemed sexual harassment.	/r/MensRights	12/01/15 04:23 PM
1	Got flaked twice, though she had her reasons. I'm not taking it personally, but how should I proceed? The legitimately busy aspect isn't what matters, it's the fact that she did it twice without suggesting another date/time. She's either socially retarded or uninterested.	/r/seduction	02/01/15 04:39 AM
1	Got flaked twice, though she had her reasons. I'm not taking it personally, but how should I proceed? I'd give it one more shot at asking her out, with a specific date and time and activity, and if she says she's busy and doesn't suggest another date, she's either socially retarded or uninterested, and you move on to other girls who are interested and socially adept. There's your compromise, as opposed to just moving on immediately. A man who values himself isn't going to sit around waiting for a girl that plays games or is trying to use them for attention. It's called "abundance mentality" and …	/r/seduction	02/01/15 04:37 AM
2	Got flaked twice, though she had her reasons. I'm not taking it personally, but how should I proceed? She hasn't flaked though. If he can schedule a date then it would be flaking.	/r/seduction	01/01/15 04:29 PM
4	Got flaked twice, though she had her reasons. I'm not taking it personally, but how should I proceed? So... where's the part where she flaked on you? Sounds like she rejected you, flaking means she skipped out on a scheduled date. You asked her out twice, she said she was busy and didn't suggest an alternate date BOTH times, which is pretty revealing without knowing much else. I'd give it one more shot at asking her out, with a specific date and time and activity, and if she says she's busy and doesn't suggest another date, she's either socially retarded or uninterested, and you move on to other…	/r/seduction	01/01/15 04:27 PM
4	Year in review: Changed my life, repaired my relationship with my brother, and "tried new things." Thank you so much, Seddit! And people think seduction is about tricking women into having sex with you, if they bothered to look at the sub they'd see that the majority of us seek to improve ourselves and our lives, success with women is simply a symptom of living an awesome life and taking care of yourself.	/r/seduction	29/12/14 01:52 AM
1	SheTaxi, the women-only cab service is struggling to find enough drivers, especially at night: Men are more likely to take jobs that require work on weekends and evenings I asked her if she knew other female cab drivers, she said there were about 20 of them she knew iirc	/r/MensRights	29/12/14 01:39 AM
2	SheTaxi, the women-only cab service is struggling to find enough drivers, especially at night: Men are more likely to take jobs that require work on weekends and evenings Lived in NYC 5 years, took literally hundreds of cab rides. I saw one female driver during that period.	/r/MensRights	28/12/14 11:10 PM
16	SheTaxi, the women-only cab service is struggling to find enough drivers, especially at night: Men are more likely to take jobs that require work on weekends and evenings I think abercrombie and fitch classify some of their staff as models for a similar reason.	/r/MensRights	28/12/14 05:57 PM
48	SheTaxi, the women-only cab service is struggling to find enough drivers, especially at night: Men are more likely to take jobs that require work on weekends and evenings Which is why they now classify their servers as entertainers. Physical attractiveness isn't a bona-fide qualification for being a server, anyone can do the same job regardless of how ugly they are, but it is a bona-fide qualification for an entertainer, so they can get away with only hiring attractive young women as wait staff.	/r/MensRights	28/12/14 05:49 PM
37	SheTaxi, the women-only cab service is struggling to find enough drivers, especially at night: Men are more likely to take jobs that require work on weekends and evenings Hooters had to settle a few lawsuits regarding their hiring practices.	/r/MensRights	28/12/14 05:20 PM
3	First date handbook He probably put camera in the lady toilet! Very nice!	/r/seduction	11/12/14 10:08 PM
7	So this is what the Feminists at my school are up to And the people who negotiate higher wages tend to be men.	/r/MensRights	04/12/14 06:59 PM
0	So this is what the Feminists at my school are up to I'm pretty sure differential pricing like that is illegal under most circumstances.	/r/MensRights	04/12/14 06:58 PM
7	There's a 4 year old boy from Florida who has been court ordered in a landmark case to be circumcised, explicitly against his will. Please sign and share this petition to show the judge you disagree with his his decision. Let's give this kid his body back. [X-post r/Intactivists] So, FGM would be ok for sanitary purposes?	/r/MensRights	10/11/14 07:31 PM
7	There's a 4 year old boy from Florida who has been court ordered in a landmark case to be circumcised, explicitly against his will. Please sign and share this petition to show the judge you disagree with his his decision. Let's give this kid his body back. [X-post r/Intactivists] I'm pointing out that if someone tried to justify it for sanitary reasons, they'd still be regarded as unreasonable, but with circumcision it's considered a valid reason by many.	/r/MensRights	10/11/14 06:13 PM
85	There's a 4 year old boy from Florida who has been court ordered in a landmark case to be circumcised, explicitly against his will. Please sign and share this petition to show the judge you disagree with his his decision. Let's give this kid his body back. [X-post r/Intactivists] So enjoy your dick cheese. You hook up with guys that are so lazy/unsanitary that they get smegma, and try to blame this on having a foreskin? Girls get it too, yet people who support FGM because of that are considered crazy.	/r/MensRights	10/11/14 04:36 PM
19	For anyone seeking closure on the "10 Hours of Walking..."-debacle, this user perfectly describes how the original video downplays harassment and modern "feminists" have shot themselves in the foot with it. I think it also depends on the person, and if I were a girl most of those guys would make me feel comfortable. If you were a girl, or anyone for that matter, and had anything between your ears besides sawdust, you'd probably stay the fuck out of Harlem as well. They're not the kind of guys I would associate as being innocently interested and harmless Oh I get it, it's only innocent and harmless if the person doing it is attractive.	/r/MensRights	08/11/14 03:44 AM
26	For anyone seeking closure on the "10 Hours of Walking..."-debacle, this user perfectly describes how the original video downplays harassment and modern "feminists" have shot themselves in the foot with it. Let me get this straight...it's only friendly to say good morning to people I find unattractive? Like, if the person is attractive and I try to initiate an interaction with them and part of that interaction is sexual in nature, it's no longer friendly and innocent, it's now "harassment?"	/r/MensRights	08/11/14 03:25 AM
3	Mother Jones Editor tweets #GamerGate: "It would be funny to play pinata with the bodies of white straight men who hung themselves" Now you're just embarrassing yourself, I've voted independent every election I could vote in. I doubt you could wrap your head around why someone who is socially liberal and fiscally conservative wouldn't support any major party.	/r/MensRights	31/10/14 10:59 PM
5	Mother Jones Editor tweets #GamerGate: "It would be funny to play pinata with the bodies of white straight men who hung themselves" You're not an idiot, you're fucking insane.	/r/MensRights	31/10/14 10:56 PM
5	Mother Jones Editor tweets #GamerGate: "It would be funny to play pinata with the bodies of white straight men who hung themselves" You mean being liberal? I think people like you are the problem with politics.	/r/MensRights	31/10/14 10:52 PM
5	Mother Jones Editor tweets #GamerGate: "It would be funny to play pinata with the bodies of white straight men who hung themselves" This gets better and better, because you don't even know my political views, and are assuming I'm a Democrat.	/r/MensRights	31/10/14 10:44 PM
4	Mother Jones Editor tweets #GamerGate: "It would be funny to play pinata with the bodies of white straight men who hung themselves" I have a feeling you know very little about politics.	/r/MensRights	31/10/14 10:36 PM
5	Mother Jones Editor tweets #GamerGate: "It would be funny to play pinata with the bodies of white straight men who hung themselves" Thank you for making my point. Not all liberals are democrats, you're an idiot.	/r/MensRights	31/10/14 10:28 PM
5	Mother Jones Editor tweets #GamerGate: "It would be funny to play pinata with the bodies of white straight men who hung themselves" Dude, you're a fucking idiot.	/r/MensRights	31/10/14 10:23 PM
5	Mother Jones Editor tweets #GamerGate: "It would be funny to play pinata with the bodies of white straight men who hung themselves" Pot, meet kettle.	/r/MensRights	31/10/14 10:12 PM
7	Mother Jones Editor tweets #GamerGate: "It would be funny to play pinata with the bodies of white straight men who hung themselves" In what way does being liberal necessitate a lack of support for men's issues? Oh, I get it, politics are black and white for you, no room for nuance when you're an idiot.	/r/MensRights	31/10/14 09:56 PM
4	I will no longer be voting democrat because of the feminist war against men. Nothing I say and no data I present will change your position. You might change my mind, can you address his points?	/r/MensRights	31/10/14 11:30 AM
1	Men's Rights isn't the appropriate title. DULUTH MODEL NOT REEL! Feminism is an ideology of hate against men (and sometimes women as well). The MRM opposes Feminism, an ideology. If you can't see the difference between opposing an entire sex, and a faulty, hateful ideology, you have some learning to do.	/r/MensRights	27/10/14 02:47 AM
1	Due to psychological issues, I have decided to remove myself from hookups/pickup/dating I've heard of this but never tried it, I'll definitely check it out. Thanks	/r/seduction	10/10/14 11:25 AM
5	Due to psychological issues, I have decided to remove myself from hookups/pickup/dating I've already been in therapy for a few years and you're totally right, there's a stigma against going to therapy which can be pretty harmful, but it can really help you out.	/r/seduction	08/10/14 01:22 PM
4	Due to psychological issues, I have decided to remove myself from hookups/pickup/dating I should have clarified, I have no intention of stopping my social life at all, just recognizing that for now I should shift focus away from women and towards my own life, because of my issues. Time that I've put towards escalating with women and dating, will now be put towards improving my life and learning to love myself.	/r/seduction	08/10/14 01:08 PM
6	Was opened at the mall by a cute 40ish lady, had no idea she was trying to pick me up until after I waved her off I borrow my sister's kids occasionally for this reason. Jk, I think they're fun to take care of because they remind me of my brother and I, but a young guy with 2 kids definitely starts up some interesting conversations, when I clarify they're not my kids it gets even better.	/r/seduction	07/10/14 08:36 PM
3	The Uncomfortable Truth: Men and Suicide the idea that one more child could exist like me is the one thing that keeps me from killing myself That same mentality got me through adolescence. Whenever I'd contemplate suicide, thinking the world wasn't worth living in, part of me remembered that if I die, who is going to help the next kid in need? 13 years later, I finished my WFR cert and I'm doing my EMT cert, so I can be exactly the kind of person who can help people who need it.	/r/MensRights	07/10/14 06:50 AM
14	Date brings friend along with her, has this happened to anyone else? What are the "right" reasons then? This post reeks of shitty moral high-horsing, are you seriously implying a guy who asks a girl on a DATE should just accept her bringing her friend along? Switch the genders (something I doubt you're capable of) and you'll understand that this isn't just her "bringing her friend" it's a way of making it a non-date. Also the implication that she needs to bring a friend because he might be dangerous is stupid. They're meeting in a public place, if she's that conc…	/r/seduction	04/10/14 05:01 AM
0	SJW: You keep using that phrase, I do not think it means what you think it means [Meta] I think it really boils down to the idea of "social justice." Rather than actual "justice" (a criminal convicted of a crime, for example) an SJW seeks to punish another person with "social justice" which can mean quite literally anything. Disagree with someone who thinks that using the term "cunt" to describe a person with deplorable behavioral characteristics who happens to be a woman is sexist, and all of a sudden you're a misogynist, that's SJW territory. Thinking that being a straight white …	/r/MensRights	01/10/14 06:48 PM
4	Real meaning of creep confirmed I've said this before. Creepy=being unattractive+not crawling into a pit and waiting to die alone	/r/MensRights	14/09/14 03:40 AM
4	Cenk Ugyur "MRA's won't stop crying" while mocking rape and domestic violence against men. I would phrase it differently. If one partner's desire to not have sex for any reason is causing the other partner who does want to have sex to feel dissatisfied, then the only options to make both of them content are to resolve the situation or to separate. Considering that many of these relationships are monogamous, sex, or lack of sex, is a major concern in what is a sexual relationship. If a partner's desire to remain in a relationship is greater than their desire to not have sex, so they ch…	/r/MensRights	12/09/14 06:26 AM
2	Cenk Ugyur "MRA's won't stop crying" while mocking rape and domestic violence against men. There is a point where "pressure" becomes coercion, and at that point it becomes rape.	/r/MensRights	12/09/14 06:19 AM
1	How I met an awesome girl and blew it (cringe ahead, beware) I'm not even sure why I did the trip tbh, I guess I wanted to "find myself" however cliche that sounds, and this experience was part of that discovery. I made a mistake by not having an up front discussion about what my expectations were and seeing if we were on the same page. That discussion happened way too late and by then I'd already left. So I guess following her was in line with the purpose of my trip in a weird way, it was a hard lesson to learn, but nothing I can't handle.	/r/seduction	05/09/14 02:50 PM
2	How I met an awesome girl and blew it (cringe ahead, beware) You're right, naive would be a better word, I'm obviously not stupid or I wouldn't be having this discussion would I, and now I've learned from that mistake which makes me a stronger person. I need to learn to be more honest and direct about these things, and trust my gut more.	/r/seduction	05/09/14 10:48 AM
1	How I met an awesome girl and blew it (cringe ahead, beware) In hindsight, I think it was a bit stupid of me to assume she'd understand that I was really into her, even though is said I really liked her and cared about her, and then decided to keep traveling with her, because it was really sudden and she didn't put it all together until a few days later. It really was something that warranted a more direct discussion on its own, instead of assuming so much, which is why I got my hopes up.	/r/seduction	05/09/14 10:09 AM
2	How I met an awesome girl and blew it (cringe ahead, beware) That really resonates with me, I probably could have said something like "Hey, I know we just met, but I really like you and can see this becoming more than just a hook up if we spend more time together, and that's what I want to do." At that point, she would have to be honest and explain that's not what she's looking for.	/r/seduction	05/09/14 09:59 AM
3	How I met an awesome girl and blew it (cringe ahead, beware) In this case the indicator probably would have been when she said she doesn't have sex easily, I guess I should have just stopped there and said I wanted to go to sleep.	/r/seduction	05/09/14 09:10 AM
1	How I met an awesome girl and blew it (cringe ahead, beware) How exactly do you do this while also escalating?	/r/seduction	05/09/14 08:50 AM
3	How I met an awesome girl and blew it (cringe ahead, beware) Thanks that means a lot to me. I'm great at introspection, but I think I need to trust my gut more when I'm looking outwardly.	/r/seduction	05/09/14 06:04 AM
1	How I met an awesome girl and blew it (cringe ahead, beware) Well, we got the the point of both being naked and grinding on each other in my room, I fingered her and ate her out once, we showered together, etc, but never any sex. She said she doesn't have sex easily and I think she had some trust issues. I was hoping to escalate more once we started traveling together but by then she'd already lost interest. I think in her mind it was just going to be a fling and when I told her I was coming with her she got a bit freaked out.	/r/seduction	05/09/14 05:09 AM
3	I just got messaged by a mod on 2xchromosomes saying it was banned to discuss rape culture hysteria and its harm on victims, assumed I was male. What a toxic place, how is this a default? I think it's just a way of expressing frustration and disdain, but I agree that it doesn't always add to the discussion. But I don't see anything wrong with having a place to vent.	/r/MensRights	29/08/14 02:20 AM
1	Saw this on Facebook today. Focus on the real issue. Rapists might be like you, but they aren't like me, or most people. They aren't like "normal guys" because the majority of men do not rape people. People who aren't rapists, men and women, don't share general responsibility for rapes committed by other people of that gender. Nobody is actually responsible for stopping rape in the general sense, not even the police, and most are already implicitly committed to doing so on an interpersonal level by not raping people, and reporting actual cases of …	/r/MensRights	20/02/14 01:59 AM
5	Saw this on Facebook today. Focus on the real issue. "Hello fellow American. This you should vote me. I leave power. Good. Thank you, thank you. If you vote me, I'm hot. What? Taxes, they'll be lower... son. The Democratic vote is the right thing to do Philadelphia, so do."	/r/MensRights	20/02/14 01:45 AM
18	How to deal with really pushy girlfriends? Both women and men generally do whatever they can to avoid confrontation in a social setting. Being direct, honest, and assertive in this situation can only benefit you. In this case, her friends were cock-blocking her, I see it all the time. It's the "stick together and nobody gets laid" strategy. It's never talked about as explicitly as that, because that's not everyone's goal, but that's what it is in essence. Barring a group of perfectly attractive guys that approaches all of the simultaneou…	/r/seduction	13/02/14 05:24 PM
1	CNN leads college rape article with woman who claims to have been raped by boyfriend of three years after breaking up who 'pressured her.' There's a certain line that is obviously crossed when you go from threatening to break up, to threatening to commit suicide.	/r/MensRights	10/02/14 05:50 AM
1	CNN leads college rape article with woman who claims to have been raped by boyfriend of three years after breaking up who 'pressured her.' But is threatening to break up with someone for not having sex with you rape because they don't have any other friends? That's not coercion. Although it is a totally fucked up thing to do.	/r/MensRights	10/02/14 04:13 AM
4	CNN leads college rape article with woman who claims to have been raped by boyfriend of three years after breaking up who 'pressured her.' Actually pressuring someone into sex, in the absence of coercion or force, is not rape. That's why we have forcing someone to have sex with you by coercion is rape, to cover cases where a person is actually forced to have sex non-physically. "Pressure" is just a catch-all excuse for regrettable decision making, and is not the same as coercion.	/r/MensRights	10/02/14 04:07 AM
24	CNN leads college rape article with woman who claims to have been raped by boyfriend of three years after breaking up who 'pressured her.' Reminds me of a girl who after multiple months of dating said she initially didn't want to have sex with me, but did anyways because she thought if she didn't I would treat her differently. She's right, I probably would have, we were hooking up already, and after a few weeks if we didn't have sex I'd probably move on and inevitably stop talking with her or hanging out as much. How anyone could conflate that with coercion is beyond me, people do some things they don't want to do for friendship al…	/r/MensRights	09/02/14 07:21 PM
2	[FR] Date to K-close from a beginner Lots of projection here.	/r/seduction	09/02/14 07:42 AM
2	[FR] Date to K-close from a beginner Sometimes the only way to gauge if it's a genuine flake or not is whether or not they suggest another time and eventually follow through.	/r/seduction	09/02/14 07:41 AM
3	[FR] Date to K-close from a beginner Demonstrate value Engage physically Nurture dependence Neglect emotionally Inspire hope Separate entirely Note: Dennis Reynolds is a bad role model for non-sociopaths.	/r/seduction	09/02/14 07:39 AM
2	[FR] Date to K-close from a beginner You seem to be describing rape, not seduction, in your hypothetical example, when did we start taking about having sex with people who don't want to have sex? Also you're projecting a bit.	/r/seduction	09/02/14 07:31 AM
2	[FR] Date to K-close from a beginner You have to be a troll but you aren't...lol You already used the words creepy to describe ever trying to have sex on the first date, and dirty mother fucker to describe a guy who would, and you aren't shaming sexuality? Wtf am I reading? Yeah, you have to be a troll	/r/seduction	09/02/14 07:15 AM
3	[FR] Date to K-close from a beginner You literally just said in response to me saying you should do what feels comfortable, by saying you shouldn't have sex on the first date. You are literally making a rule and applying it to all situations. And I quote just like any first date if you try to have sex it's gonna seem creepy desperate And its going to make her uncomfortable! Better to get a little kiss or two in on the first date, and have many dates with sex, than a one night stand. That's literally you saying any first date where …	/r/seduction	09/02/14 06:57 AM
5	[FR] Date to K-close from a beginner Lol, you don't know shit if you think one rule should apply to all situations. Lots of girls are open to sex on a first date, it depends on the situation.	/r/seduction	09/02/14 03:25 AM
12	[FR] Date to K-close from a beginner Really it's best to just do what feels natural, there's no need to f-close or not f-close, it depends on the situation.	/r/seduction	08/02/14 10:01 PM
41	What are we really talking about? I'd add the "not as bad as" fallacy to this, wherein an issue's relative severity is used to determine its worthiness for attention and priority for addressing. For example, the fact that FGM can be relatively more severe in some cases is used to derail any conversation on MGM. It's never "they're both bad but MGM is still legal so we should work on that." It's "MGM isn't nearly as bad as FGM, talking about MGM, or even calling it MGM and not circumcision, is demeaning to victims of FGM." The la…	/r/MensRights	08/02/14 09:04 PM
8	Your suffering is "lesser" than mine, the same tired message, you matter less When you see the "not as bad as" misdirection call it out then and there. They are using the not-as-bad-as tactic to misdirect this discussion in their favor, when it has no bearing on the discussion. The RELATIVE, SUBJECTIVE severity of something has no bearing on how justifiable it is, or how worthy of attention it is. Only the OBJECTIVE, FACTUAL qualities of something matter when discussing it. The Armenian genocide resulted in less deaths than the holocaust. And yet it is quite obvious how f…	/r/MensRights	08/02/14 08:21 PM
1	The 18 year old girl who hit and killed 2 kids in a pile of leaves, then drove off and covered up the evidence will not serve any jail time. Her boyfriend on the other hand gets prison time for helping to cover up the evidence. That seems pretty clear cut then, thanks	/r/MensRights	03/02/14 02:40 AM
2	Anon attacks the core of radical feminism In cases where feminism, or any other person or organization, is a direct barrier to equality or awareness I think pointing that out is necessary and helpful, and that's not the same as blaming all of men's issues on women.	/r/MensRights	02/02/14 05:29 PM
7	The 18 year old girl who hit and killed 2 kids in a pile of leaves, then drove off and covered up the evidence will not serve any jail time. Her boyfriend on the other hand gets prison time for helping to cover up the evidence. Before we get all up in arms about sentencing discrimination, the crimes are different, she went to trial and he took a plea deal. While it's true that they went incredibly easy on her relative to the boyfriend, from a legal perspective, she isn't guilty of hitting the children on purpose, and the laws requiring a driver to respond aren't as serious as laws which make it illegal to destroy evidence. What I don't get though, is the boyfriend was only knowingly destroying evidence if he knew she h…	/r/MensRights	01/02/14 08:11 PM
20	Tyler (RSD) awesomely handles a white knight douche I had the opposite reaction, I was an AFC at some point but I was never this much of a douche thank god.	/r/seduction	31/01/14 08:57 AM
10	Men being alienated from the family through brainwashing is a tangible thing. Yeah my mom spent a few years right after her divorce when I was 7 brainwashing me to think my dad was a child molester and that I'd been raped. Seeing as that didn't happen the situation was quite confusing for be, she reassured me that I didn't remember because I'd repressed the memories. Eventually I figured out she was lying, my dad got custody, and it became apparent she was mentally ill (or a persistent bitch). Over a decade later and I'm still in therapy trying to fix the damage that cunt…	/r/MensRights	26/01/14 06:50 PM
5	[FR] How I Escaped the Friend Zone Had to do the exact same thing to a girl I had been dating while studying abroad. We came back and she just wanted to be friends. I said "no" because I was too attracted to her to do that in an emotionally healthy way for me. It hurts but you need to know how you feel and move on of they don't reciprocate, that's the only way to do it and not go crazy. Stay strong man.	/r/seduction	26/01/14 04:49 AM
3	I’ve been the target of the seduction community multiple times (as have my cute friends) and I’ll answer any questions you have. AMA. "What would you do if a random stranger came in and shot this place up" ಠ_ಠ	/r/seduction	26/01/14 12:35 AM
1	I’ve been the target of the seduction community multiple times (as have my cute friends) and I’ll answer any questions you have. AMA. that's not a neg either. That's validating. I was trying to find a way to make being tall a neg, her example was being called a "giant" which is...well I'm not sure how he expected that to go, but that's not a neg. Having known some girls who were tall they had an insecurity about how everyone assumes tall girls are athletes or models, seeing as OP was an athlete and tall, I was giving the model angle as an example. "You're so tall, why aren't you a model?" might be a little closer to what I was…	/r/seduction	25/01/14 10:21 PM
1	I’ve been the target of the seduction community multiple times (as have my cute friends) and I’ll answer any questions you have. AMA. Can you give some specific examples of some of the PUA techniques you've seen and had used on you? What did he do/say? Who were you with and where? How well did he pull it off? What was your reaction?	/r/seduction	25/01/14 10:14 PM
3	I’ve been the target of the seduction community multiple times (as have my cute friends) and I’ll answer any questions you have. AMA. That doesn't sound like negging at all... It's supposed to be more subtle.	/r/seduction	25/01/14 06:49 PM
4	I’ve been the target of the seduction community multiple times (as have my cute friends) and I’ll answer any questions you have. AMA. It's been repeated here multiple times that negging is really only for 9s and 10s, who are approached constantly and are used to pushing guys away, otherwise you're really just being rude to a stranger.	/r/seduction	25/01/14 06:27 PM
2	Denmark may soon be the first country in the world to issue a ban on non-therapeutic circumcision There aren't any conclusive studies on sensitivity, and there shouldn't need to be, we already know that the foreskin plays an important mechanical function in intercourse and contains a large amount of nerve endings. As far as degrading the appearance, it's an opinion at best, but when we are making that irreversible decision for others, hope diss that opinion have any bearing? Furthermore it leaves scars, which would be hard to argue improve appearance.	/r/MensRights	25/01/14 12:49 AM
2	Non-neediness is a very important attribute to have and to convey. buys its better to BE something than to be NOT something. What is a synonym for non-needy? If the root issue of neediness is a need for validation, a fear of being alone, or a lack of emotional restraint, I'd say the opposite of those characteristics would be being content with yourself, be independent, and keep your emotions in check.	/r/seduction	24/01/14 09:43 PM
1	Denmark may soon be the first country in the world to issue a ban on non-therapeutic circumcision I wouldn't worry about it unless you start getting UTIs or it's hard to pee, or if retracting is straight up painful or impossible. Lot's of guys don't retract fully even when erect.	/r/MensRights	24/01/14 08:07 PM
1	one-in-one-thousand-eight-hundred-and-eighty-seven I think a big problem is that quantifying how many incidents go unreported is difficult. I've seen surveys which attempted to do so, but a survey can only measure what people report, and the wording used is often ambiguous or too inclusive, easily open to misinterpretation, etc. While it's a step in the right direction, there are limits to what can be said honestly about unreported crimes in general, which is why these stats are so controversial here.	/r/MensRights	24/01/14 12:41 AM
0	So i got a girl's number. Okay i didn't. "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." - Wayne Gretzky	/r/seduction	23/01/14 08:19 PM
1	I made a poor quality men's version of that dumb feminist comic... They don't understand that there already exists several points where what was once just hurting someone's feelings becomes illegal, it's the point that they physically touch you (battery), take/damage your property(theft), threaten you seriously (assault), contact or follow you after you protest (harassment, stalking), or defame you publicly. Until then, it is absolutely fundamental that our society maintains freedom of speech, no matter how despicable. Free speech is the fact that some neonazi …	/r/MensRights	21/01/14 07:56 PM
10	Men are not to blame (from /imgoingtohellforthis) Not to mention the whole bully:victim scenario is MUCH more complicated. I was a bully in a grade school to some kids, and I was also bullied heavily by other kids. However I was bigger, so my bullying tended to be more physical, whereas the bullying I received was more psychological. What's notable is that while I was bullied by both guys and girls, I never physically bullied any girls. It's not as simple as one kid deciding to be an asshole (well, it can be) but oftentimes it's a kid displacin…	/r/MensRights	21/01/14 07:40 PM
1	I Honestly Didn't Think it Would Work [FR] Depends on the circumstances (what country? Big city? College town? What kind of bar? Age?). Also it's kind of a prerequisite that you are attractive to women in general. This definitely could work, and it could also result in a blowout, at least he can sleep well knowing he took the shot.	/r/seduction	14/01/14 03:48 PM
8	Another case of woman treating her son like a defective girl I went even further than childhood. I enjoyed paintball and pellet guns well into my teens, spent weekends hacking trails with machetes, regularly got into drunken scuffles with friends for fun, play gratuitously violent video games, etc. The closest I came to having any anger issues was when my parents tried to ban me from paintball because it was "too violent" and I struggled for awhile because it as a great way to get exercise, practice teamwork, and learn technical skills (built my own gun).…	/r/MensRights	14/01/14 01:12 PM
-1	These went up in my school... imagine the backlash if genders were swapped... Make your own poster: If you oppose the Reich you're a race traitor! Same reasoning no?	/r/MensRights	09/01/14 05:37 PM
8	These went up in my school... imagine the backlash if genders were swapped... Feminism was very much a sexist movement from the get-go. Attributing a lack of rights for women to men in general, while ignoring that men by and large suffer the same kind of problems, is sexist. Ignoring that many of these issues had more to do with wealth and corruption than gender, and blaming a single gender for widespread societal inequality, is sexist. While it is unfair that women didn't have the right to vote at all, it's not fair to say that given the political climate of the late 19t…	/r/MensRights	09/01/14 05:35 PM
90	These went up in my school... imagine the backlash if genders were swapped... Even if the MRM wasn't more egalitarian (which it typically is), we simply don't claim to be the solution to women's issues. At it's core, the MRM wants equality between men and women and focuses on places where men are disadvantaged for being men. While we are concerned with preserving women's rights to bodily autonomy with things like abortion, we don't focus on that as an issue, we focus on men's reproductive rights (or lack of) as a major issue. The Feminist movement routinely claims to be t…	/r/MensRights	09/01/14 05:20 PM
16	How to start the Tinder-date Make sure you lock your door, especially the reversed locks so she can't escape. Then just use the implication.	/r/seduction	08/01/14 06:16 PM
1	This restaurant had 2 bathrooms - one was unisex, the other was women's Forgot to add that, generally there are way more guys who drink tons of beer, whereas the girls are scarce and not drinking much.	/r/MensRights	08/01/14 06:07 PM
64	This restaurant had 2 bathrooms - one was unisex, the other was women's Many dive bars I know have lines for the men's bathrooms, because they are all drinking copious amounts of beer, while the girls aren't.	/r/MensRights	08/01/14 02:32 AM
2	Feminism and abortion, how it affects Men's Rights While it's true that abortion can affect families, and ideally should be a decision that is made with good intentions after having a talk about it with a supportive family, bodily autonomy for the individual is extremely important. Women should have the option to abort a pregnancy within reason (late-stage only for medical issues for example). Women shouldn't be forced to give birth just because they became pregnant, we have the resources to make sure that only children that are planned for are …	/r/MensRights	06/01/14 07:58 PM
8	More gynocentric goodness from r/relationships. Brace your jimmies. They're gonna be rustled. A human being maybe not, bit a responsible and honest person yes. There was no expectation for her to get an abortion or keep her pregnancy secret, the expectation was that because she was infertile, having sex without protection wouldn't result in pregnancy. That expectation was apparently false for some reason which we really don't know. When that happened, the only person in that partnership with that information deliberately withheld that information from the other, even though that informat…	/r/MensRights	31/12/13 09:00 PM
5	College told me men can't be raped and tried to discredit me Yeah, because I only have an erection when I want to have sex, I've never, ever, gotten an erection unless I was 100% horny and willing, never at any other time, ever. Hell, we might as well consider an erection automatic consent. /s You aren't worthy of the air you breath, you are quite figuratively a piece of shit, a pimple on society's ass. If you killed yourself with a tire iron, people would shrug and say "coulda been worse, he could have died painlessly."	/r/MensRights	30/12/13 04:28 PM
1	MGM (Euphemistically called "circumcision") It definitely can restore some form and some function, but it depends on the amount of tissue missing among other factors. A man who has lost most of his frenulum and foreskin will not be able to restore those structures in the same way that a less severely cut man could. Having a mucous membrane instead of a keratinized layer of skin, and having the gliding action of the foreskin are both major improvements.	/r/MensRights	28/12/13 06:12 AM
3	MGM (Euphemistically called "circumcision") I'm currently restoring, but it's not equivalent to regrowing a foreskin, it takes a huge time investment, and results aren't consistent by any means, although it's definitely a major improvement. There's simply no way to restore the thousands of nerve endings severed in MGM.	/r/MensRights	28/12/13 05:55 AM
61	Virginia man serves four years in prison for a false rape conviction, is found to be innocent and released, still remains on sex offender list and is on probation How? Because he was male and she was female, and it would offend so many sensibilities if we entertained even the possibility that someone would lie about something as horrible as being raped, or the idea that a person accused of any crime, including rape, shouldn't be convicted without conclusive evidence. Tldr: The penis is evil	/r/MensRights	28/12/13 02:59 AM
5	"Male Privilege" Homeless doesn't necessarily mean living on the streets, it's a state of having an irregular living situation. If you don't have a house/apartment/hotel room that you can stay in at night regularly, you would qualify as homeless. This includes people who use homeless shelters regularly.	/r/MensRights	27/12/13 04:27 AM
4	"Male Privilege" The first three are actually true, more women attempt suicide, men on average get paid more (for a variety of non-discriminatory reasons) and men are the majority of homicide victims and murderers. How they extrapolate that to mean that men aren't facing problems by killing themselves more, working harder and more dangerous jobs, or committing and being victim to violent crime at higher rates is a mystery to me.	/r/MensRights	27/12/13 04:22 AM
12	"Male Privilege" Actually he described the trends pretty accurately. I think anyone who harms themselves is crying for help, but men generally tend to use more direct methods of self-harm. Women generally attempt suicide as a cry for help, men generally do it to kill themselves. This doesn't discount the severity of self-harm or suicide for men or women, or imply that it's manly to kill yourself or womanly to cry for help using attempted suicide.	/r/MensRights	27/12/13 04:16 AM
2	"Male Privilege" What's the difference between a claim of universal male privilege and a claim that all men receive unearned social benefits for being men?	/r/MensRights	27/12/13 03:55 AM
9	"Male Privilege" Could you name a few of these privileges? Or one? Like my conditional right to vote? Or maybe my exemption from federal laws to protect the bodily autonomy of minors? Maybe my lack of parental rights in case of accidental pregnancy? Should I go on?	/r/MensRights	27/12/13 03:26 AM
29	"Male Privilege" The concept of universal male privilege is harmful to men everywhere, yet widespread. Contradicting this claim that men are privileged and don't face major hardships for being men is central to the debate of men's rights.	/r/MensRights	27/12/13 02:33 AM
3	MGM (Euphemistically called "circumcision") As a guy who experiences sensation issues due to being circumcised, you can avoid people who are ignorant and find a mature girl who understands male anatomy, but you can't regrow a foreskin. Just trying to make you feel better, most women I know wouldn't care either way.	/r/MensRights	27/12/13 12:22 AM
11	MGM (Euphemistically called "circumcision") You do realize why they want it not done to infants right? Adults can modify their bodies as they wish. I'm assuming you had it done because it was medically necessary and/or a well-informed and personal decision. You could have opted for other therapies but chose that solution. It's a personal choice, doing it to infants is removing that choice and a violation of human rights to bodily autonomy. Routine removal of the foreskin in infants is simply not medically justified, it's cosmetic.	/r/MensRights	27/12/13 12:19 AM
13	A woman should never hit a man Basic rules of engagement: don't attack anyone, defend yourself or attempt to escape accordingly, contact police in the event of a crime, and don't involve yourself with people who violate you physically through violence.	/r/MensRights	26/12/13 08:13 AM
7	Get ready for a storm: Father sets self, son on fire at school playground after bitter divorce battle I really hope you are being sarcastic, but you didn't put a tag, how are we supposed to know?!?	/r/MensRights	26/12/13 07:26 AM
1	How to deal with texting on a date? Point out that you think it's rude and ask her to stop politely. If she continues, pay the bill and leave. Don't arrange another date, give time to people who respect you. Would you text during a date under normal circumstances? No? Well I'm assuming you are a self respecting individual, part of having self respect is not tolerating other people treating you worse than how you would treat other people, and removing those people from your life.	/r/seduction	24/12/13 11:21 PM
2	Real talk? You are calling him a racist by implicating him in benefiting and promoting structural racism by being white. You realize that's racist as hell right?	/r/MensRights	24/12/13 08:14 PM
4	Real talk? A feminist is simply someone who promotes the equality of women and men. You are thinking of an egalitarian, feminism is much more nuanced than that and has multiple faces, not simple at all. Some feminists are egalitarians as well, some are not. Example: if you don't think being made to penetrate is rape, you aren't an egalitarian, but you could be a feminist. If you think that there should be more female CEOs, but not more female construction workers, you could be a feminist, but not an egalit…	/r/MensRights	24/12/13 08:02 PM
6	Real talk? But sometimes there really is racism or sexism behind it. I think an overarching point was that sexism and racism are really just words used to make insults targeting a specific race or sex seem worse than insults which target people for other features, even though they really aren't in any rational way. It wasn't to point out that sexism and racism don't exist at all, just that they shouldn't be considered worse than other kinds of speech that is intended to hurt someone, because ideas of racis…	/r/MensRights	24/12/13 07:10 PM
1	Real talk? Like badgering a kind soul to suicide? His name was Earl Silverman.	/r/MensRights	24/12/13 06:45 PM
7	Real talk? I didn't expect the police to instantly protect me, in fact I knew that the police would almost certainly not protect me, hence why I didn't go to them. He said you were in a protected class (LGBT is a protected class in the US, not sure where you live) and your sarcastic response was that he was right (that you are part or a protected class) and because of this the police responded instantly (your irony implying that the opposite was true, that you are not a protected class and the police didn'…	/r/MensRights	24/12/13 06:41 PM
2	Real talk? It wouldn't bring me any peace to do that, I'll stick to therapy and building my own life, spinning my wheels to get justice wouldn't be healthy for me right now.	/r/MensRights	24/12/13 06:25 PM
4	Real talk? are you denying that the prejudice+ power lie is promoted by feminists, even though they didn't invent it?	/r/MensRights	24/12/13 06:20 PM
4	Real talk? You do realize it's sexist and racist to imply that currently living white males are somehow responsible for the actions of any other white males right? Tldr: keep toeing the feminist party line, it's doing so much good for your mind, obviously. Edit: and b the whole v prejudice+ power thing was made up by feminists so that only white men can be racist or sexist. It's a lie, racism is prejudice against a race, sexism is prejudice against a sex. A minority or LGBT person can be racist and sexist,…	/r/MensRights	24/12/13 06:02 PM
1	Real talk? Don't feed the troll guys	/r/MensRights	24/12/13 06:00 PM
14	Real talk? And when I was sexually abused by my mom I was ignored because I was male and should learn to "get over it" because I want actually raped. Unlike you, I actually contacted the police, you seem to have this false notion that being a protected class means that police instantly come to protect you, and not that you are actually protected more under US law than a straight white male. 10 years later, I still have to deal with the attitude that I should just get over it. If I was female and it was my …	/r/MensRights	24/12/13 05:58 PM
2	"Gender equality, yeah..." [Turn off annotations for best viewing experience] You do realize not everyone in the military performs combat or heavy lifting roles right? There are thousands of ways women could contribute to the military that would not compromise the ability of our front line troops by lowering our standards.	/r/MensRights	22/12/13 10:11 PM
2	"Gender equality, yeah..." [Turn off annotations for best viewing experience] The issue is that the discussion was about sexism, not hypocrisy, although I understand that's what you were bringing up, which a lot of people missed. If her ideology is one of traditional gender roles, she didn't say enough about her own plans in life to determine if she is being hypocritical, maybe she is planning on being a housewife and popping out kids. But she is definitely being sexist, which goes hand in hand with her potentially traditional outlook, though maybe not a hypocrite.	/r/MensRights	22/12/13 10:07 PM
4	"Gender equality, yeah..." [Turn off annotations for best viewing experience] He probably used his shitlord mansplaining to info-rape their minds.	/r/MensRights	22/12/13 10:02 PM
2	"Gender equality, yeah..." [Turn off annotations for best viewing experience] We can still discuss how their draconian moderation and strict requirement of discussion within a feminist framework is pathetic, but you are right that it's really none of our concern, it's their echo chamber and there's nothing for us to gain from exploring it.	/r/MensRights	22/12/13 10:00 PM
12	"Gender equality, yeah..." [Turn off annotations for best viewing experience] Don't forget that feminism is going to solve all men's problems. So no need for an MRM, just discuss issues within the feminist discussion framework, that it's your own fault because you were born men and implicitly support the patriarchytm. Also, you can't actually talk about men's issues, because they aren't as bad as women's issues, so we'll deal with our stuff first and then get to you. Geez you were already in power since the beginning of time because you have a penis, can't you be patient …	/r/MensRights	22/12/13 09:58 PM
3	"Gender equality, yeah..." [Turn off annotations for best viewing experience] I think sexism isn't the best term because it can be a social phenomenon committed by individuals, as well as an institutional phenomenon. Since the 40s great strides have been made in ending some forms of institutional sexism, while embracing others. Since the 40s you could argue that social sexism is still going strong, and you could also argue that short of illegal discrimination or another crime, social sexism cannot and should not be legislated against because of the first amendment. You ca…	/r/MensRights	22/12/13 09:54 PM
5	The first time feminists have ever been outraged about false rape claims.... False accusations made to police are really the only ones that can be punished legally, libel and slander also if you can prove it. That doesn't mean that other types of false accusations are not morally wrong when the goal is to harm an individual. In this case, false reports were used to take down a system that was completely open to abuse. See the difference?	/r/MensRights	21/12/13 04:45 AM
11	The first time feminists have ever been outraged about false rape claims.... Error of equivalence, a common underhanded debate technique. The false reports to occidental are not equivalent to the false accusations of rape made to police. The latter would be hard to use in a morally justifiable scenario because of the potential harm a false accusation can cause to that person specifically, and the lack of other morally justified effects. An anonymous online report in this case has a much lower potential for harm to anyone specifically. In this case the potential harm of k…	/r/MensRights	21/12/13 04:33 AM
1	CNN: Should false rape accusers be sued? So it's essentially the difference between a hung jury and the jury unanimously deciding the defendant is not guilty?	/r/MensRights	19/12/13 12:02 AM
19	CNN: Should false rape accusers be sued? The burden of proof for any crime is the same "height," prove to a jury of peers beyond a reasonable doubt that the accused committed the crime they are accused of.	/r/MensRights	18/12/13 10:23 PM
9	CNN: Should false rape accusers be sued? Evidence can be fabricated Your problem with punishing false rape accusations is that evidence of a false accusation can be fabricated? How does that logic not become apparently flawed when you apply it to any other crime? Shouldn't we avoid punishing anyone for a crime because the evidence could be fabricated? That seems like nonsense. So why would it hold true for false accusations, where evidence can prove beyond a reasonable doubt that the person indeed did make a false accusation? It's not …	/r/MensRights	18/12/13 10:20 PM
11	CNN: Should false rape accusers be sued? So the criminal charges associated with a false accusation would be filing a false police report, obstruction of justice, tampering with evidence, etc. depending on the circumstances. You could also sue the person who made the false aviation for damages. That's basically what happened with OJ Simpson, acquitted in the criminal trial but lost the civil suit. Less evidence is needed for the civil trial iirc.	/r/MensRights	18/12/13 09:00 PM
22	CNN: Should false rape accusers be sued? Because a person isn't a false accuser just because the person they accused was acquitted. An acquittal is not evidence of a false accusation. Since so many miss/ignore that point I'll repeat it: an acquittal is not evidence of a false accusation. It never has been, and it's not suddenly going to be. These people are trying desperately to rationalize not punishing false accusers, often through outright lies and mental gymnastics. Genuine victims of any crime have nothing to fear from a system th…	/r/MensRights	18/12/13 07:44 PM
39	CNN: Should false rape accusers be sued? You can sue anyone for anything...criminal charges for a false accusation are entirely separate. Civil and criminal cases are handled differently.	/r/MensRights	18/12/13 07:20 PM
1	Two college students (male and female) have sex. The next day the woman writes to the man: "I had a wonderful time, but I'm sorry I led you on, I'm not ready for a relationship". One year later: She files a charge of "non-consensual sexual contact" through the college disciplinary system. In that case they'd lose their job, not exactly a legal repercussion.	/r/MensRights	18/12/13 03:13 AM
2	Two college students (male and female) have sex. The next day the woman writes to the man: "I had a wonderful time, but I'm sorry I led you on, I'm not ready for a relationship". One year later: She files a charge of "non-consensual sexual contact" through the college disciplinary system. It's probably mandated by their position, certain jobs require you to report any suspected crimes. How is that unconstitutional?	/r/MensRights	18/12/13 02:04 AM
9	Wikipedia censorship at its finest. The conversation was shut down in 52 mins. You know, I've been a Wikipedia contributor for awhile now, and I usually focused on wiping vandalism, badly/wrongly/unsourced info, etc. from controversial articles. I'll have to take a look at this one later today.	/r/MensRights	14/12/13 01:16 PM
5	European Human Rights report says Israel killing Palestinians is bad 'because it creates widows, who then struggle' - no mention of the men, who are dead. Death is sweet compared to hunger and cold.	/r/MensRights	13/12/13 07:37 PM
2	Old but good: Feminist lesbian lives 18 months as a man, realizes "Men don't have it better than women" If I said to a girl "I think you're sexy let's hook up" is that sexual harassment?	/r/MensRights	13/12/13 06:44 PM
2	Old but good: Feminist lesbian lives 18 months as a man, realizes "Men don't have it better than women" If men face the same sort of public treatment at all, and not all women face this public treatment, then it's not male privilege, it's not even a privilege, it's a cultural trend, not being hit on is a product of being unattractive and in an environment where it's unlikely to get hit on, not a product of your sex. In your mind, a black person being accepted in a certain setting where white people feel uncomfortable is "black privilege" when in reality it's a social privilege.	/r/MensRights	13/12/13 06:32 PM
3	Old but good: Feminist lesbian lives 18 months as a man, realizes "Men don't have it better than women" Just so we aren't confused and working with the same terms, male privilege differs from personal privilege or being privileged. Male privilege refers to the social theory which argues that men have unearned social, economic, and political advantages or rights that are granted to them solely on the basis of their sex, and which are usually denied to women. A man's access to these benefits may also depend on other characteristics such as race, sexual orientation and social class. According to you:…	/r/MensRights	13/12/13 05:13 AM
3	Old but good: Feminist lesbian lives 18 months as a man, realizes "Men don't have it better than women" In these cases a single counter-example is all that is necessary to disprove a claim of male privilege. Do humans have a right to not be harassed in public? To an extent. Is that violation of rights tolerated legally for a single sex? Nope. Do some males receive sexual harassment in public? Yes. Not an example of male privilege.	/r/MensRights	12/12/13 08:22 PM
10	Men: Never felt invisible before? Try talking to wedding vendors with your fiance. The price of agency is responsibility. Nobody held a gun to your back and made you buy a diamond engagement ring, or get married, or be pushovers while planning the wedding. Society may expect those things, but conflating societal expectations of behavior with victimization is a stretch, then everyone would be a victim. You don't have to pay for dinner on the first date, or buy a girl drinks, or buy her gifts. Just because you might be rejected by more women for not doing so doesn't mean you are…	/r/MensRights	12/12/13 02:37 PM
5	Shit like this pisses me of. The negative image of MRAs portrayed by some media and ignorance of men's issues is being discussed in this thread. What do you think reddit is for?	/r/MensRights	12/12/13 05:15 AM
2	Old but good: Feminist lesbian lives 18 months as a man, realizes "Men don't have it better than women" But do they have the opportunity to wear comfortable clothing? I wish I could wear T-shirts and sweatpants all day but I don't because I'd look like a schmuck. Outdressing other people is a fundamental way of showing financial status and enhancing attractiveness for both sexes, but as long as nobody is being forced to wear certain types of clothing, what society pressures people to do is irrelevant. That's what agency is. Society may be unfair in that way, and we can work to change that by not j…	/r/MensRights	12/12/13 02:59 AM
5	Old but good: Feminist lesbian lives 18 months as a man, realizes "Men don't have it better than women" Those first three apply to men also, but it's not discussed. Having a fear of being raped is different from being at risk of rape, and this distance is attributable to biological differences, not society condoning rape. Clothing choice isn't really a benefit either, you aren't required to wear uncomfortable clothing, yet both men and women choose to do so.	/r/MensRights	12/12/13 02:28 AM
7	Shit like this pisses me of. It's completely justified when we are discussing an issue exacerbated by feminists, and by posting to this sub they are already raising awareness.	/r/MensRights	12/12/13 02:25 AM
4	"Society Tells Men That Friendship Is Girly. Men Respond by Not Having Friends." There really no reason they can't, I think it breaks down to preference. Most girls I know, even most guys I know, would not be willing to get a "cheap" haircut. I go to the Russians down the street. It takes 20 minutes and costs 15 bucks.	/r/MensRights	12/12/13 12:59 AM
5	"Society Tells Men That Friendship Is Girly. Men Respond by Not Having Friends." I understand your viewpoint because you are seeing this in black and white and omitted the parts of my post which were inconvenient to your worldview. First off I'd like to point out that race/ethnicity is a far less objective characteristic than gender. While men and women have distinct biology, people of different "races" don't exhibit nearly as much variation as people of different sexes. There exist some practical and acceptable reasons to segregate based on sex which don't exist for race. S…	/r/MensRights	11/12/13 11:02 PM
4	"Society Tells Men That Friendship Is Girly. Men Respond by Not Having Friends." When I say arbitrary, I mean discrimination for the sake of discrimination, and not for a practical reason pertinent to your business. For example, a restaurant which only serves white people doesn't have a good reason for race discrimination, it wouldn't hold up, mostly due to societal views of racism. A spa or gym which hires only female/male staff in customer service roles and is exclusive to women/men would have a practical reason for doing so: they want to create an environment where their …	/r/MensRights	11/12/13 10:43 PM
9	"Society Tells Men That Friendship Is Girly. Men Respond by Not Having Friends." I'm not sure what your point is, barber shops cut hair and beards, they don't style hair, most women simply can't use their services. If a short-haired woman went to a barber shop for a trim, she wouldn't have any issues, although it would be out of the ordinary. You don't think a private business should be able to discriminate based on gender for non-arbitrary reasons? You'd be against male/female only privately owned gyms, spas, pools, etc, even if there is a genuine reason for discrimination?	/r/MensRights	11/12/13 10:09 PM
8	Old but good: Feminist lesbian lives 18 months as a man, realizes "Men don't have it better than women" I can honestly say that I've personally never encountered any upsides to being a man that aren't rooted in biology (upper-body strength, pee standing up, can't get pregnant). I'm racking my brain to find a single example of me getting better treatment than someone else for being male, and I'm failing.	/r/MensRights	11/12/13 09:35 PM
223	Sexual Assault quiz is a little biased... Proof of rape culture. Smile rape is one of the most common forms of rape. Do you really think you are entitled to just make whatever face you want in public?	/r/MensRights	09/12/13 05:30 PM
8	Roxanne Jones unfairly attacked for daring to caution her son about false rape claims My Mom was a manipulative woman and a false accuser, I have no idea what warning signs to look for so I have to be really careful.	/r/MensRights	03/12/13 10:12 PM
1	Circumcision and ED / premature ejaculation I use what's referred to as a "tugger" which is basically a rubber cone that you place over your glans with a metal loop on the top, you pull your foreskin over the cone, then place another hollow rubber cone over this, which holds your foreskin in place. Then you put tension on the device with a strap attached to your knee or over your shoulder, or weights. I use it when I sleep, at a desk job, or if I'm just around the house. There are also manual techniques you can use.	/r/MensRights	02/12/13 10:21 PM
18	Kissless virgin here, how do I stop that from keeping me down? I'd bang him so hard...oh wait	/r/seduction	02/12/13 06:48 AM
1	TIL I am oppressing women without even knowing it "Some Siths deal in absolutes" doesn't have the same ring to it.	/r/MensRights	02/12/13 12:32 AM
13	Circumcision and ED / premature ejaculation I definitely experience this to an extent, if I don't take care I'll either get off relatively quickly/rapidly, like I feel too sensitive and exposed, or I'll get "over the hill" and then it's difficult to orgasm and I lose sensation. The fact that most of the pre-orgasmic pleasure I get from sexual contact is from what's left of my foreskin wrapping over the base of the glans briefly, I'm inclined to think that sex would be much more fun intact. The fact that I'm currently restoring and have go…	/r/MensRights	01/12/13 05:06 AM
1	You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started? To each his own. I only use the occasionally, like if I'm watching a movie on my bed and cuddling with a girl I haven't kissed before, she's into it, but also nervous. Telling them you are going to kiss them undermines that nervousness. In those cases just going for the kiss will work, but can also seem awkward depending on the timing. In other circumstances I just go for the kiss. I like to think of outer game as a toolbox. Sure you can use pliers to twist off a nut, but a wrench would work bet…	/r/seduction	30/11/13 09:39 PM
1	You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started? It's awkward if you do it awkwardly, like anything else you read about outer game on here... what's your point? You could go into any thread and say "that sounds awkward" and if that technique is executed awkwardly of course it will seem awkward. You are completely ignoring the context under which you'd use that technique, which requires some inner game, being outwardly attractive, and having confident delivery. I've never had a negative reaction or an awkward response, every time they either sm…	/r/seduction	30/11/13 09:15 PM
21	“A drunk woman can’t make correct decisions, but apparently, drunk men turn into Einstein when they get drunk.” Quit raping me with your logic.	/r/MensRights	30/11/13 04:50 AM
0	You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started? I'd agree with you if it didn't work, but it does, so I don't.	/r/seduction	29/11/13 11:22 PM
-2	You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started? Look at her, say "I'm going to kiss you now" and then kiss her briefly. Pull away and act as if nothing happened and go back to whatever you were doing or talking about.	/r/seduction	29/11/13 07:28 PM
34	Women hits man, plays the gender card and says he's not going to hit her, the man hits her and she tells her friends to call the police. Depends which state and if it was his house.	/r/MensRights	24/11/13 12:07 AM
15	Huffpo writer Charles Clymer to publicly debate Paul Elam Mainstream feminism embraces patriarchy theory...it's not a stereotype that feminists blame men for the world's problems, it's a well-established aspect of feminism.	/r/MensRights	23/11/13 04:05 AM
2	Now environmental decline is man's fault too? Oh, the penis emits so many pollutants. THE GUN IS GOOD, THE PENIS IS EVIL!	/r/MensRights	20/11/13 10:38 PM
22	Three schoolgirls who falsely accused a California teacher of being a "perv" who touched them inappropriately have been ordered to pay him $387,000 for defamation. The ringleader of the group, who was 11 years old at the time, must also pay punitive damages. Any sources? The claims you are making are incorrect. You're trying to separate deliberately false accusations from unproven legitimate accusations. Such distinction does not exist in law: you cannot prove intent without a confession. Actually such distinction does exist in law and it relies on evidence, it always has, specifically because you can prove intent with a confession or by looking at electronic communications. I even stated explicitly that a confession is one of the few ways to prove …	/r/MensRights	18/11/13 10:50 PM
36	Three schoolgirls who falsely accused a California teacher of being a "perv" who touched them inappropriately have been ordered to pay him $387,000 for defamation. The ringleader of the group, who was 11 years old at the time, must also pay punitive damages. A lack of tangible evidence of a crime isn't evidence a false accusation though. I agree the court of public opinion where the accused is named and shamed by the press is where a ton of avoidable damage can occur. Anonymity for alleged victims and criminals should be required.	/r/MensRights	18/11/13 09:18 PM
4	Three schoolgirls who falsely accused a California teacher of being a "perv" who touched them inappropriately have been ordered to pay him $387,000 for defamation. The ringleader of the group, who was 11 years old at the time, must also pay punitive damages. For an accusation to be false it means no crime occurred, not that the alleged victim misidentified the alleged rapist. Furthermore a lack of supporting evidence isn't sufficient to prove a false accusation, you need evidence that the accusation was false (confession, text or email records, witness testimony, etc.). In cases where there isn't enough evidence to prove a rape or false accusation, nobody should be convicted of a crime.	/r/MensRights	18/11/13 09:00 PM
77	Three schoolgirls who falsely accused a California teacher of being a "perv" who touched them inappropriately have been ordered to pay him $387,000 for defamation. The ringleader of the group, who was 11 years old at the time, must also pay punitive damages. That logic ignores the fact that you'd need evidence of a false accusation (with no crime having occurred, not just the wrong person being accused) to prove they were lying. Not getting a conviction is not evidence that the accusation was false. Punishing false accusations had no bearing on genuine accusations. Hence why it's delusional. Apparently innocent until proven guilty shouldn't apply to accused rapists or to accused false accusers in the eyes of these people, at least they are consisten…	/r/MensRights	18/11/13 08:56 PM
0	Norway to introduce new regulations on male genital mutilation ("circumcision") by April 2014. Total ban on under 18 MGM a good possibility! People don't need to hear very acutely in a modern world, we should remove the outer ear to prevent ear infections. I had mine removed and it's way better, we should do it to infants before they'll remember it. Also I wouldn't want my kids to be confused that they have ears and I don't. Seriously people with ears look like weird elephants, so gross.	/r/MensRights	14/11/13 01:04 AM
2	Rush Limbaugh says single mothers are "semen receptacles." Daily Kos commenter insists this terminology was "swiped from MRAs." I'm sorry, what? Well, technically if they are mothers they were probably semen receptacles at least once in the past. That's not really part of the MRM discourse though, more like a scientific fact.	/r/MensRights	13/11/13 12:11 AM
3	At Sarah Lawrence College, a white lesbian accused a black male of rape, then writes a 'poem' alluding to lynching True, college internal judicial systems have different burdens of proof, and the court of public opinion is a fuck-all.	/r/MensRights	12/11/13 10:38 PM
14	Norway to introduce new regulations on male genital mutilation ("circumcision") by April 2014. Total ban on under 18 MGM a good possibility! About damn time someone lead the way. Religious freedom arguments are just desperate willfully ignorant and sociopathic people grasping at straws. Western society has already established that your freedoms generally end when they start impeding the rights of others. Religious freedoms should not extend anywhere near removing healthy tissue from infants of either sex for ceremonial purposes, yet an exception is made here for the bodies of male infants. Federal law on the US already bans FGM, not …	/r/MensRights	12/11/13 10:30 PM
6	At Sarah Lawrence College, a white lesbian accused a black male of rape, then writes a 'poem' alluding to lynching Good thing the jurisprudence tends to err on the side of innocent until proven guilty.	/r/MensRights	12/11/13 10:18 PM
14	At Sarah Lawrence College, a white lesbian accused a black male of rape, then writes a 'poem' alluding to lynching Whoah dude calm down we don't want any trouble here.	/r/MensRights	12/11/13 10:17 PM
17	NY dad deemed unfit for not taking son to McDonald's Unless the kid was actually malnourished, which I doubt, letting the kid be hungry for a bit and not get McDonald's like he wanted is so far from neglect or abuse.	/r/MensRights	08/11/13 07:54 PM
2	r/MensRights: THANK YOU. My uncle was released from prison a few hours ago after his daughter returned from hiding demanding and getting (for now) a guardian ad litem. Could not have done it without you! I think PAS can definitely happen to an 18 year old depending on the circumstances, it's just not as common because older children tend to be less impressionable.	/r/MensRights	02/11/13 05:32 PM
5	Does fear of STD's impact your game? This is simply not true. Both types have extremely similar characteristics, and can occur as cold sores or genital herpes, and we are seeing a lot of crossover. Many people who have it never have symptoms. It can be contracted even if you wear a condom. The kind of sensationalist information that you are spreading here, and the social stigma it promotes, are much more harmful than any of the very manageable and rare health affects associated with herpes.	/r/seduction	29/10/13 09:05 PM
25	Does fear of STD's impact your game? Herpes is extremely common and you can contract without any sexual contact. Simplex types 1 and 2 are pretty much identical, and crossover between oral and genital infection is becoming more common for both types. It is not screened for in routine STD tests and most people never have symptoms. The stigma surrounding herpes is more harmful than actual herpes.	/r/seduction	29/10/13 06:49 PM
0	Don't like the truth? Downvote and move on, no need to provide any counterargument I just looked, and couldn't find anything mentioning brigading in the side bar. It wasn't my intention to encourage brigading, and I'm aware that Reddit has an official policy against brigading from certain subs, so this should definitely be added to the sidebar explicitly if it isn't there. As for crosslinking, I missed the discussion about that rule, was it with regard to brigading?	/r/MensRights	27/10/13 06:17 PM
6	I need some advice. This sounds exactly like me and my ex, we eventually broke up for many reasons. Personally, this kind of ignorance is common and if the person is willing to learn, it's ok, but if someone is that stubborn and inconsiderate as to disregard your feelings and the reasons for your position, they aren't the kind of person I'd want to be in a relationship with.	/r/MensRights	26/10/13 09:59 PM
81	Feminist Jaclyn Friedman slams MRM "And make no mistake: anti-woman hate is the defining feature of the MRAs..." Not to mention pickup artists are seducing women, they aren't raping them. Seduction is a game that both sexes play.	/r/MensRights	24/10/13 08:16 PM
2	This was the only bathroom... Cum box	/r/MensRights	21/10/13 04:07 AM
6	No better than Misandrist Feminist. What you are doing is called caution/concern trolling and it's just sad. Firstly, this subreddit has users with a variety of opinions, some probably are misogynists, it's going to happen with any.large user base. Secondly, you provide no evidence for the claim you are making. Link to any misogynist comments that are getting a ton of upvotes. The onus is on you to provide that evidence. Until then, upvote constructive posts and downvote non-constructive posts. Concern trolling serves no purpose.	/r/MensRights	12/10/13 08:01 PM
1	Female Day Care Worker Arrested After Having SEX With INFANT How is "raped" ambiguous? Sexual contact without consent is pretty straightforward. "Had sex" is ambiguous in that it includes any sexual act that could be considered rape in other circumstances (oral sex, forced penetration, being made to penetrate), without making it clear that this was definitely rape.	/r/MensRights	10/10/13 07:38 AM
24	Marvel comics offering STEM scholarships to encourage young people. Oh but fuck boys who read marvel comics.. it's girls only. Clearly? How so? It could very easily be due to a number of factors completely unrelated to institutional bias such as personal choice, individual qualifications, etc.	/r/MensRights	10/10/13 07:33 AM
12	I'm probably not the first to come up with this, but aren't a lot of feminist concerns really just humanitarian concerns arbitrarily applied to females only? I've never heard an MRA state that rape isn't a problem, or that IGM isn't a problem, or that institutional discrimination isn't a problem. The MRM asserts that these problems affect men as well and deserve attention. Feminists routinely disregard infant MGM, male victims of rape, and institutional discrimination against men as societal problems.	/r/MensRights	09/10/13 08:13 PM
6	I was happy to see this in my Health class text book. Pressuring someone to have sex multiple times during a date, despite the other person objecting directly to sexual contact, then accusing them later of being homosexual (there's nothing wrong with being homosexual, be let's not pretend that accusing a straight person of being homosexual to other people in a Western high school setting isn't harmful to that person) is definitely sexual harassment. A similar scenario would be a guy pressuring a girl incessantly to have sex, then upon being rejecte…	/r/MensRights	04/10/13 08:19 AM
0	I was happy to see this in my Health class text book. She was torn to shreds, by a legion of bears, while locked in an arena.	/r/MensRights	04/10/13 08:12 AM
17	European group to vote on whether to call circumcision ‘human rights violation’ Thank you for illustrating the mentality behind why circumcision became prevalent in the US	/r/MensRights	03/10/13 07:26 PM
69	European group to vote on whether to call circumcision ‘human rights violation’ Just to clear up some misinformation in this thread. The foreskin contains thousands of nerve endings, and is one of the most sensitive parts of the male body. It plays an important role in intercourse by forming a linear toroidal bearing around the shaft and glans, making penetration easier and reducing friction, while providing sensation through stretching and internal rubbing of those nerve endings. It is not "just some skin." Circumcised are missing an important piece of their anatomy, many …	/r/MensRights	03/10/13 04:39 PM