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if you just approached them at the bar , when they not dancing and talk Well to be honest I never thought about doing that, I will try to do that, it's even better because they are not in their group (even thought that approaching them in the group is more "alpha") sounds like you are disqualifying girls so you don't feel bad for not approaching. You are probably right. Maybe Im disguising my likings as insecurities, and if it's a casual thing I shouldn't worry much about how they dress up as lo…
/r/seduction19/09/19 09:10 PM
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To be honest I don't care about her anymore, but trying to make her jealous would make things more interesting and give me more motivation to talk with other girls. About the time to reply, yeah I know, that would be the time that would take me to reply when we were having a good Convo and I had nothing to do (I have to change that) but when I was studying or just busy with other stuff I would reply after 20-40min. I'm aware of the more I talk the faster I run out of things to say, to the point …
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:13 PM
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She will probably try to be in contact with me since we are going to the same party. I will try to talk with other girls but I'm still new to this (I have full confidence but I always take a step back because I don't know how to act). I will try to ignore her(texts) unless she tries to talk with me IRL(because she might have better looking friends which I can talk with and I don't want to hurt her feelings). About being needy... Yeah probably, mostly because I don't have anything to so these day…
/r/seduction16/05/19 01:47 AM
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Because here people just go out on Thurdays, and also I never went out a night solo, I always go with my friends. Thanks for the motivation!
/r/seduction15/05/19 10:03 PM

well, the only reason I asked her number was to prove myself that I could get a cute girl's phone number. Hope I have balls to that again tomorrow :)
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:44 PM

so i just straight ask her to go out or do i start to talk with her first?
/r/seduction09/05/19 08:44 PM
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How can I explain this. I'm only 17, but isn't illegal in Portugal to drink if you are 16+, it's only illegal to bar owners to sell alcohol to people under 18, but yeah, I'm not an adult. Thanks for the help. My only problem is where I live, there is nothing called "date" (of course it exists, but no one does it, only couples). I didn't kiss her because I'm still don't know what really happened, also there was her friend and other people that I knew. About the title, I wrote it first, but when I…
/r/seduction23/05/17 06:14 PM
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What is the end goal? For some, just stop PMO is enough, but believe me, it isn't. The "end" goal is to improve everyday in every aspect possible (socially, educartion, everything that is good), so there isn't really a end goal besides becoming your best possible. what if I already decent self confidence? Having self confidence is just a small part of what you get from NoFap, so, if you already have some, besides making this easier for you, you will get more. I assume actual sex is ok? If you me…
/r/seduction20/05/17 09:01 PM
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I could explain, but there is alot to say about NoFap. I highly recommend checking NoFap subreddit, yourbrainonporn site and also, I wrote some reports of my experience on NoFap, so you can always check my profile. So, here is a brief explanation of why you should avoid PMO (porn, masturbation and orgasm). First, when you PMO, your brain releases dopamine (what makes you feel rewarded/happy) as other drugs do like cocain, etc... but also decreases your testosterone level, which is what makes a h…
/r/seduction20/05/17 08:08 PM
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This may sound stupid, but stop watching porn and masturbating. Check sites like yourbrainonporn to know what are the effects od both porn and masturbation and everything else you should know about and NoFap subreddit to get some help getting over that addiction. 200 days ago I was a really shy guy (among many other shitty caracteristics of what a non-attractive guy is) and I was depressed aswell. Now that I stopped masturbating I feel so good and have so much self-esteem that Im kinda popular n…
/r/seduction20/05/17 08:33 AM
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Thanks! I hate texting, I only do text when they send me a message to me first, so, not doing so isnt really a problem.
/r/seduction20/05/17 08:09 AM
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I never did it before, but I cant explin how she was into me. I never asked some girl on a date, i dont know when to do, what should I ask her and how to ask her.
/r/seduction20/05/17 01:01 AM
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Ask her out like what? My first language isnt english, so idk what you ar saying by that. Also, I spent an awesome night with her because firstly I wasnt giving a fuck about her in the satr of the night, the she was really into me.
/r/seduction20/05/17 12:38 AM
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I will, I hate it. Btw I spent a night with my friends (and her). She spent the first part of the night trying to talk with me, and every time she tried that, anyone else was trying to have a conversation to me aswell, so I would only reply to the my friends instead of her. I wasnt giving about her, and I left the group for one hour or so to be with other people (I didnt want ro spend the night with drunk girls). After that I went back to be with them and I was already drunk. I dont really remem…
/r/seduction20/05/17 12:35 AM
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Ahaha, calm down. First, thanks, secondly, as I said, I havent texted girls for a long time, so thats why I fucked up in many things, and Im happy to learn with my mistakes. What other details do you need?
/r/seduction19/05/17 07:03 PM
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To be honest, now I realised that was the problem thanks!
/r/seduction19/05/17 04:49 PM
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What do you mean "league"? No girl is out of your league if you want to. Just think (and which is true) all girls, no matter what, are above your league, so forget that "league" thing...
/r/seduction16/05/17 07:07 PM
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I already did, I was just trying to figure out my fail.
/r/seduction13/10/16 09:39 PM
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I don't talk with her by SMS or something, I usually meet her in real life. But thanks
/r/seduction11/10/16 07:26 PM
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This one of the best things I read for a really long time.
/r/seduction10/10/16 06:03 PM
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You know what? Fuck it, let things just happend, when I feel brave to do it, I will talk with her.
/r/seduction06/05/16 09:45 PM
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So, what I should say to her? How do I approach her?
/r/seduction06/05/16 01:57 PM
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But I'm really shy and we don't have too many friends in common to have a reason to talk with her. Also, I don't know if she looks at me just for no reason or because she might think that I'm Ugly or something
/r/seduction05/05/16 05:26 PM
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Yeah... It's true... Thanks...
/r/seduction02/05/16 09:31 PM
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So, how do I get out of the friend zone? I think that I'm on the friend zone mostly because we don't see each other... Also, how do I ask her to go like to a park or something, without looking like a needy and awkward? Also, I never wasted my skills to get another girl, because since I don't see the girl that I was talking about too much, I don't care if it knows that I'm looking for another girl
/r/seduction02/05/16 08:56 PM
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I'm half in half out, because we used to act like a couple. I used to touch her hands/face, we talk about each other problems and many other things. We never kissed, but one day we got drunk (I know, I'm only 16, but in Portugal it used to be legal until a few months ago) together and we spent that night together, just each other, not too far of our friends, and later, she took me really far from anyone, and the she lay down on my shoulder (I know that doesn't mean anything, but I was so drunk t…
/r/seduction02/05/16 08:33 PM
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