So this always hits me when I'm in clubs trying to hit on some girls.

  • How do I get more in the mood if im not enjoying the music?Most of the clubs here only have shitty music playing, that I don't enjoy, so I'm never in the mood to dance.I try to have fun and probably wrongfully I drink more just to see if I enjoy it more.The only times I tried to hit on girls were when I enjoyed the music that it was playing (probably one of the weirds things you read here lol).
  • How do I stop being so specific with girls?This is so stupid. I really like girls that dress well (like I always try to do, and that is something that girls always tell me, even though I just like to be dressed like this), and even worse, I prefer when they dress more in a conservative way, but it's really stupid because I try to hit on girls during the night in clubs, not at Sunday school...This is so stupid to the point that sometimes I think about talking with some girl in the club but I hesitate just because of the way she is dressing. (Also, the more I think about it, probably it's my insecurities hitting).
  • How much alcohol is to much? Also, should I even drink alcohol?Even though I said before that I drink to "get" more in the mood, me and my friends also challenge each other to drink or I really enjoy drinking.Probably being sober helps me think what to do or what to say, but being kinda drunk helps me be more chill to talk, and get in the mood that everyone (and the girls that I try to talk to) is.

Thanks for your attention, in 2-3 hours I will go out to clubs and stuff, wish me luck ;)

EDIT: I forgot to add this. For some reason after I have the first "rush" of doing something that made me "anxious" makes me want to do more and more "risky" things. I just have a hard time to get that first "rush"