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For sure. Control your lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 11:41 PM
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Most lawyers are narcissistic as they come. I agreed with my EX and left it up to lawyer to draft orders and he still leaves stuff out to try and cause conflict. And charge you more money because we are not going to court
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 09:51 PM
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She has had 4 dicks in a month man.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 06:13 AM
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No kids man easy street just walk
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/24 11:19 AM
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Speak through lawyers only !
/r/MensRights21/04/24 05:44 AM
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Common sense mate. Date someone with out kids. She will get alimony out of you top mate.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 01:12 AM
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No sir not yet. I have read a lot the only time I seen it was the court made a barrister pay it because he could afford to pay it however it was only a short time and the women was middle aged.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/24 07:18 AM
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That is bad. But true.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 10:08 AM
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600k AUD
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 10:48 PM
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Man your a dick head. Pull out or don’t have sex
/r/MensRights16/03/24 06:24 AM
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No
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 06:23 AM
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Man she is trouble let the co worker have her man. Clearly she is a fruit cake and will make false accusations to get what she wants.
/r/MensRights12/03/24 08:13 PM
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True man. I am going solo and knock shops when I need it out
/r/MensRights02/03/24 03:40 AM
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What state you live in man ?
/r/MensRights02/03/24 12:59 AM
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Man that’s rough. I don’t know what to say to you. Pull your self out of that hole. One thing I have learnt is no one’s cares man. I have had my accountant rip me lawyer , wife , false allegations , etc. learn to not give a fuck. This society is riden with feminism. Change your number etc
/r/MensRights02/03/24 12:57 AM
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Why would you do that !
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 08:01 PM
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Imagine being married to that.
/r/MensRights23/02/24 10:02 PM
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Take the first step towards your goals. Take it as though you have nothing and work up from there. If you get money after it invest it and if you get to see your kids bonus
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 12:15 PM
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Start a business
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 05:25 AM
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The minute mine alienated my son from me when I got home one day because I wouldn’t do what she wanted at that point I hated her without question to the point I vomit when I see her. She is now an alien in my opinion. I filed the following day.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 11:28 PM
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Fuck man, rough
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/24 09:17 PM
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Man don’t do it . I won’t be I won’t even live with one ever again. I prefer to be the 3rd wheel much better
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 09:02 AM
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What is a NP?
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 05:59 AM
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Is it a trial ? Have you had mediation ?
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 05:58 AM
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It happens to me yes, the court calls it high conflict personality and sides with her.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 09:51 PM
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Or the courts
/r/MensRights10/02/24 08:57 PM
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Perhaps can help you financially leading into the divorce to get a better outcome for you
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/24 06:37 AM
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Get a financial adviser first
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/24 06:22 AM
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Man I am in AUs same here man. Family court is a business who rip off the man. I got mediation and if I don’t get what I want I’ll represent my self . Understand the court is full of egotistic narcissistic ( high conflict personalities ) to put it as a so called compassionate term catch my drift money hungry people who could not get into a higher court who make decisions on your life. Be careful what heading you put on here man. Let me know how you go representing your self
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/24 11:03 AM
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Man stay away dude.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/24 10:50 PM
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Yeah man I am currently in proceedings watching my assets dwindle away. It’s a dirty business. I have plans once it’s over and will never get hitched again. I am happy to be the other man
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 09:25 PM
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Before dipping your toe into the pool be protected if you have assets. I am yet to do it. I actually would feel better if I was a 3rd person in a relationship
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 07:58 PM
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Man. Love is a load of shit mate.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 10:17 AM
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It makes no difference. The court is against you already . Get a financial adviser before you do anything even before you contact a lawyer trust me
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/24 11:36 AM
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I think mine is going to be like that
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/24 02:27 AM
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Ditto man
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/24 02:27 AM
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3 rounds fuck me ? How much that cost ? Was mediation for property as well ?
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 07:54 PM
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Mate I got 4 houses my barrister saying I get 70% will see. My ex says exactly the same as yours
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 08:53 AM
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Gove them the death penalty
/r/MensRights28/01/24 07:29 AM
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Man. Same as me man. I bet she pays fuck all and claims the world ? Mine has a business which of course is now negative earning and wants to claim my assets after 6 years relationship. I offered her a paid off house she knocked it back as she didn’t like the area. Her image to her so called friends is more important than anything. I see my son once every two weeks. I’ll keep it at that because the lawyers will Keep you on the system promise you the world and her the world. I have had false aqusa…
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 04:12 AM
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Bunch of narcissistic money hungry pricks. You get your arae fucked by all get passed around the room. What ever you don’t send text messages or emails to her. If you need anything yell out. I am at mediation stage.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 03:59 AM
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Terrible business the family court
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 03:40 AM
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Common sense
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 01:15 AM
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Your lawyer is a money hungry prick like all lawyers. Lawyers are not financial accountants / advisors. Please speak with a financial advisor
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 09:26 AM
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I think in Saudi Arabia it’s over in one day. I wish
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 07:18 AM
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Correct. Exactly like mine. Mine has an education agent business which is negative income of course and wants to go after my assets which was before relationship. We got mediation coming up. My barrister says I’ll get 70% because they are mine before marriage. We shall see. They will push you to get more days with your kids because it creates business for them. Just ignore it and get out of
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 05:53 AM
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Understand it’s war mate !
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 05:30 AM
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Man it sounds the same as me. I only see my son once every two weeks because of all the false allegations etc. Understand the family court is a business not an emotional support group. It took me a year to learn this. It sounds your wife is the narcissist. You need to shut off the emotions be prepared not to see your kids if you so bonus. I have copped every allegation under the son expect for child abuse hence why I want only one overnight per fortnight. I filed for divorce and it does not matt…
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 04:48 AM
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Lucky you don’t have kids. I have kids with a narcissist
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 12:22 AM
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She is a narcissist. Don’t even meet up with her. Fuck her
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 09:45 PM
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Don’t do it man. They will accuse you of such
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 06:57 AM
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Sounds like she is on another dick mate.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 08:08 AM
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Yeah man Same here in Australia supposed great southern land
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/24 02:32 AM
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Man I am from Australia I thought we were worse off. I am going through hell man feel sorry for you
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/24 01:35 AM
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So essentially the man can easily become a bum
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/24 01:02 AM
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Take your drivers licence ? I thought our laws are bad
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/24 01:01 AM
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Why is it bad to married in California ? Left side politics or ?
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 10:40 PM
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I am the same age. Struggling to see my kids the whole lot
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 10:39 PM
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I see your point. The land I own is massive and that was my dream hence why I am trying to hang on. Are you in Australia ?
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 08:11 AM
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Ok. If a court order says it will be sold if she can’t take on loan her self ?
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 07:43 AM
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What is it in the US? If she had no assets ?
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 07:42 AM
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Australian
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 02:13 AM
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My barrister said I’ll get 70% yet he talks of spousal maintenance.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 01:17 AM
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It will be binding agreement so I belief once that is in stone she can’t go back to court
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 11:57 PM
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Yeah I have 4 properties. I keep one sell the rest she keeps the proceeds of the 3 which is around 60% of the pool. It’s not my fault she goes negative in the business to get maximum CS. She can’t get a loan she can get a job. You think the judge will see that fair ? She had no assets at all before marriage these are all mine in a 3 years marriage total 6 years all up relationship
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 08:07 PM
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Great info thanks. It will be 2 years not when ever. So it must be worded in the orders no spousal maintenance or is that something I have to bear even I pay child support ? It feels like My lawyer works for her since she is self represented. He was talking spousal maitnence I only earn 80k AUD rent is $500 pw I take home $1100 pw take away CS leaves $890 take away rent of $500 $490 minus food and bills leaves not much all. I am currently I am at mums yet to rent my self. Scared Do you know anyo…
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 08:03 PM
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Thanks. I am just concerned after orders she cries poor after that period
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 06:15 AM
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Thank you for your input. Hade you been through divorce ?
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 05:01 AM
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No I filed I just want to keep that property I could not give a shit about her at all. I see your point it is my dream and she wrecked my dream not inhance it
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 04:34 AM
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Do you know if she could have cried destitute against that order ?
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 04:23 AM
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CS child support ? Can she renter court anyway even after a clean break ? Few years down the track and we have both moved on ?
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 04:02 AM
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Well that’s the question: if the child is at school and consent orders say if she can’t take on the loan her self it will be sold and she collect the proceeds. So if a court order says this then this should be set In stone. I am worried that if I go this way can she take me back to court and try to get me to keep paying the loan? She can get a job if her business fails?
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 03:55 AM
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Just under this comment ?
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 03:37 AM
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Plus I already pay child support
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 03:37 AM
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Because that is my development dream ! She is saying her business is down hill which means that she can’t get rent or buy a house and my lawyer is talking of Spousal maitnence / alimony I am earning less then 100k AUD and live with my mum. This is so dark it’s beyond words
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 03:35 AM
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Welcome
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 04:14 AM
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In Australia works a little different. Currently for me about to go to mediation my lawyer said because it’s a short marriage of 3 years and total relationship of 6.5 years I will get 70% because it’s all mine before the relationship. I have my son 1 night per fortnight reason being because she is bat shit crazy it’s quicker to finish that way. ( lawyer won’t tell you this they will play your emotions ) I’ve been abused the whole lot false accusations, I have had stomach operations due to stress…
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/24 09:46 AM
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Just like divorce
/r/MensRights19/01/24 05:31 AM
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Out of curiosity what % of the asset pool did you get and how long married ?
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/24 05:23 AM
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I hear ya. Currently I live at mums again hopefully after lawyers and her I have money left over to got my own joint
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/24 05:22 AM
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Man I won’t either. It’s a business now not a companionship anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/24 05:07 AM
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Yeah mediation is coming up so hopefully
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/24 02:10 AM
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I think the lawyer will space it out feels like it anyway
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/24 02:10 AM
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In 2097
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/24 02:09 AM
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Unfair system
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 05:22 AM
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Been there mate had operations due to stress lost many properties false accusations the works. Man that so called bloke she is with will end up bashing her. Hope your kids does not care the brunt but unfortunately this family court ( more like women’s court ) sucks and is in fair system based on the 1950’s
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 05:21 AM
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Yes a little. I think the best thing you can do is forget everything start again because the so called family court pushes you to do it. I accepted I won’t see my kids again no money no friends anymore is a bonus . Get that way of thinking and do not care about stuff. I worried my arse off had 6 operations on my stomach to remove pollips due to mental abuse over the years. So fuck her off !
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 05:18 AM
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Man I hope this happens to mine. I offered mine a house with a little 50k mortgage she knocked it back claiming negative in her business to get maximum child support. Absolute nightmare
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 03:07 AM
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Man perhaps forget the kids friends everything. It takes a little while getting used to. I lost all as well and got abused alienated from my son the whole false accusations and all. Move on. Start a business do something constructive.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/24 07:22 AM
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You sound like a women
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/24 08:20 AM
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Small price to pay
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/24 08:00 PM
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Did not know that existed ? How much is it ?
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/24 02:23 AM
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Your lucky
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/24 02:21 AM
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600k
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/24 02:21 AM
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Basically if you get married and she treats you like dirt be prepared to lose everything you have including your kids. If you want to see your kids you will lose all your money as well. So get protected first with assets don’t be a dumb ass like I was. It’s no longer a marriage it’s a business same with the family court / business. Just like getting your car serviced you pay pay pay. The family court a full of vultures and feminists all taking your hard earned life away including your so called …
/r/MensRights23/12/23 03:03 AM
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A lot of single mums here man lol I wonder why
/r/MensRights23/12/23 02:55 AM
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60%
/r/MensRights23/12/23 02:53 AM
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Yep I hear ya going through it
/r/MensRights23/12/23 02:52 AM
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I am in Australia. Currently going through it myself. Mine is from Vietnam married 3 years defacto 3 years total 6. Got 4 houses she has contributed nothing. She has a business which has unbelievably gone from positive 100k per year to -150k in the space of 1 year. Accused my of bashing her and treating my kids badly all false of course. I’ve been told I will get 70% however 70% of what left after all the bullshit we have to go through and do in the so called family court business. Remember the …
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 02:04 AM
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