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Man make sure she actually did it and you’re not just being overly jealous or controlling. At the end of the day who cares, chicks come and go, they are replaceable.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 09:34 AM
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My man that is a COMEBACK
/r/seduction22/01/20 04:27 PM
1

Don’t, wait for them to message you.
/r/seduction16/01/20 09:09 AM
0

Nice job
/r/seduction16/01/20 07:54 AM
0

Talk to her, if you enjoy the conversation invite her for coffee. See what she’s looking for if it’s casual invite her back to yours.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 03:50 PM
1

Also masturbate, masturbate, masturbate.
/r/seduction15/01/20 03:33 PM
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Not necessarily a bad thing, if you enjoy other things there’s no reason to force yourself to do something you don’t like. Hell it may even be a blessing, think of the millions maybe billions of people pursuing sex when they could use the time to further their careers.
/r/seduction15/01/20 03:32 PM
1

It’s 2020 everyone be cheatin
/r/askTRP15/01/20 03:27 PM
24

Also remember that women respond to confidence, body language, security and charm and that can make them attracted to you even if you aren’t amazingly attractive. Lots of good looking girls go home after alone or with their friends after a night out because no one hit on them.
/r/seduction15/01/20 03:10 PM
1

Meeting someone in a casual setting and having them be friendly definitely does not mean they aren’t a motivated savage when it’s crunch time. Context.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:50 PM
3

Ngl idk how much money you can make with a fitness and girls blog. Like would I read about some jacked dude taking about how big he is and how many chicks he fucks in Brazil, hell no. There’s already too many cunts out there trying to give advice. In the short term it Sounds like a good plan but will run aground real quick without a way to fund yourself going forward.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:45 PM
2

Bigtime. Build up comfort by meeting her in a safe public place and talking.
/r/seduction17/10/19 04:25 PM
7

Keep her interested by setting a day and time to meet and saying I’m really busy but I’ll see you then. The best way to have a good texting game is to not play the texting game. Logistics only imo.
/r/seduction17/10/19 04:18 PM
3

In the sea of fades and short back and sides I think it’s cool to stick out with long hair.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 04:11 PM
18

There’s alpha needs and comfort needs. He fulfills her need for comfort and security, someone to go on cute dates with and take couple pics and say I love you.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 03:57 PM
1

Just think in a years time will it matter if you talked to her asked her out and she says no. The answer.. probably not.
/r/seduction17/10/19 03:53 PM
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On the border between a yes and a no in terms of someone they would date
/r/seduction17/10/19 09:08 AM
3

Mate, have you read the game. Opening a group is a hard thing to do, you have to be able to entertain everyone and get everyone on side. It’s hard but I have pulled it off once. You get everyone’s names ask what they all do, what the occasion is then pick one and ask some deeper questions. If you are at a bar very early in the piece establish impermanence ie my friends want to leave, we are going to another club to dance, I’m going home early I have an exam this week. This can also spark efforts…
/r/seduction15/10/19 04:07 PM
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Confidence of any type implies a reason for confidence to those with whom the confident person is first meeting. The viewer of said confident person would observe the confidence and then start presuming reasons for this confidence that would indicate a high value ie money, status, good at sex, career success etc. Not only does it imply high value but also a sense of mystery, what makes them so confident. Mystery is another very attractive trait.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:56 PM
5

As a horny youth I dabbled with girls of questionable attractiveness as I yearned for sexual experience. Now I hold myself to higher standards.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:50 PM
1

Hahaha that’s great and original
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:46 PM
1

She was drunk and horny on the night, she woke up and regretted it and doesn’t want any more. I’m sure every guy has done the same to a girl that was bordlerline. It’s hard to accept that you are borderline. However use it as motivation to improve your looks and hop safely over the border into “unregretable” territory.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:45 PM
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Bruh, it’s only weird in your head. Get over the “weirdness” and just do it. If she wants to go on a date she won’t say no.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:41 PM
6

The simple fact is there are a lot of factors outside of your control that make a chick want or not want to fuck you. Maybe she was on her period, maybe she was recently raped/assaulted. It really shouldn’t matter to you. The whole mindset of trp is, if you get rejected move on and use it as a lesson. Be honest with yourself, how could you improve, how could you do better. Try and take lessons from the experience. Next time you get the opportunity put your newly learned lessons into practice and…
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:39 PM
1

An alpha would assume they were, a beta would be too nervous and anxious wondering if they were looking at him like that and subsequently miss the chance.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:55 AM
1

Thotty narcissistic chicks rarely text first. If you’re American then that is probably her. So yeah not giving her that attention is for the best. Text when you want to bang or let her come to you.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:28 PM
1

Was she drunk, alcohol gives girls confidence they don’t usually have when it comes to pursuing sexual desire. Another answer could be she was just busy/inundated with men she genuinely forgot or was too busy to contact you.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:21 PM
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If you have read the sidebar you haven’t internalised it. The whole point of TRP is to find a woman that adores you with no red flags etc and if you can’t find a woman like that increase your SMV (monk mode, gym, get a tan, teeth whitening, skin care, fashion, game etc) Another deeper TRP principle is that being masculine, stoic and especially important here RISK TAKING are masculine and naturally attractive traits. You are exemplifying beta traits by being afraid to take risks and caring if she…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:13 PM
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It’s clear you are new to TRP. You should have shown her that her moving out doesn’t bother you, encourage it even. If you do move out, break up with her and watch the spark in her grow for you even more. If the relationship is not enjoyable you owe it to yourself to break it off
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:02 PM
1

Bruh just gotta force yourself to keep the eye contact and smile
/r/askTRP30/04/19 09:43 AM
2

She’s not gonna do that man just cover your ass
/r/seduction19/04/19 04:21 PM
0

It’s only depressing for betas or short ugly dudes. Try not to be either.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 03:42 PM
1

You already know the problem know try and find a solution.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 03:39 PM
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Q1. The stage doesn’t matter if you are getting sex that’s all you need to worry about Q3. You are gonna hurt her by breaking up so accept this and focus on getting it done quickly and succinctly rather than doing it without hurting her.
/r/seduction19/04/19 03:37 PM
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The availability of online connections has paradoxically disconnected everyone in the real world.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 03:34 PM
2

I have experienced this, I have been rejected by girls who are not much but also banged girls who are hot. The world works in mysterious ways.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 03:25 PM
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Chicks can have mindblowing orgasms with fingers and tongue, if you are so focused on pleasing a women learn to do that well. Focus on the modifiable factors rather than unmodifiable ones (dick size).
/r/askTRP19/04/19 03:16 PM
1

Fuck that bitch. If you are always the one who has to fuel the positivity you’re gonna have a bad time. You can’t be the positive one all the time having to battle her bad moods. You deserve a chick who will always be positive an happy around you.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:03 PM
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This is one of the fewer posts that sways from attacking beta males with a “she is too good for me/I need to treat her like a princess” attitude, rather this post hints at the fact that these attitudes are so engrained into our current feminised society that these attitudes aren’t from any inherent action by the men but rather a product of the society they are in. One of the deepest social evolutionary mechanisms is the drive to fit in, to copy, to be part of society and act like others do. Goin…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 02:32 PM
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The real issue here is that you let a silly butt judging contest get to you, to the point where two years after you are still trying to change yourself to impress the girl judges. Let it go man I’m sure there are higher yield used of your time that butt building.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:23 PM
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It may feel like you’ll never change but be assured that in time it will pass.
/r/seduction17/03/19 10:24 AM
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Bro just fucking don’t do it. Keep as a plate focus on fulfilling your life with career, hobbies, exercise, friends and family. Women are just for sex. If you want unconditional love just get a puppy. You are are too young just don’t get into and LTR.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 08:25 AM
1

“Yeah and you love it” “Yes and you’re a bitch we have so much in common” “Yeah I’m the asshole that’s fucking you” Or you know could always pull a hard ignore.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 04:11 PM
1

Threatening suicide is the attention seeking ace card I have been most often dealt by chicks.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 04:05 PM
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The fact that you have to precede scientific facts with “misogyny alert” is sad.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 03:58 PM
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I think you should be allowed to follow a slightly less sexual pathway: get a number, go on three dates (split bill) and then bang and turn into a fwb. Then from fwb go to a relo if she doesn’t show any red flags. That said If you are a high enough quality man you can get any girl into FWB. Assuming there are types of girls who don’t like fucking and that u are missing out on them is ignorant of AWALT. A girl that u think you could only fuck after going on dates Chris brown could probably fuck a…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:30 PM
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Be friends with them and see what she does. Highly likely she won’t do anything a
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:23 PM
2

Touch her bum
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:22 PM
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If she’s worried about u cheating she either a) thinks your SMV is so high that u can easily get other bitches and might dump her for a hotter bitch b) she doesn’t like u anymore and she’s choosing any excuse to dump you
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:21 PM
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Just say I only have time for a casual fling. If you’re saying you want to be friends I’m not interested.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:18 PM
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I kind of agree with the anti social media thing. But I have banged girls on Snapchat. Snapchat is good because the messages disappear so there is no evidence when ur girlfriend goes through your phone ;)
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:16 PM
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Just say: I don’t have time for flakey chicks. Tell me when you’re free or I’m not keen.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:14 PM
2

The meat isn’t real meat. The trans fats and saturated fats will give you atherosclerosis a coronary then a heart attack and lead to an early death. Not to mention how calorie dense it is. Making you fat, which gives you high blood pressure, diabetes which all will speed up that pending heart attack.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:12 PM
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Feminists don’t touch it because it goes against their agenda. A feminist would never check the privilege of another female. They only check the privileges of men. It sounds like you are surprised that feminists are ignorant, hypocritical and have selective attention. Get used to it my friend.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:09 PM
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Don’t go to Mac Donald’s you fat fuck
/r/askTRP11/03/19 02:56 PM
3

Set goals and don’t give up on them. Make a plan to achieve them and do shit toward them.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 08:54 AM
1

A Pussy attached to a hot girl is 100x better than my hand, feelings or not.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 02:37 PM
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I think there should be a distinction between emotional investment and time investment. You should definitely put 0 emotional investment into a girl, but yes as far as Time and effort go they are investments; pussy is the dividend.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 07:05 AM
1

Anyone know if schick razor company has pulled some shit like this??
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 02:28 AM
1

Isn’t the whole point of TRP is you’re not supposed to invest anything. You work on your SMV until they come to you isn’t that the whole point??
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 02:26 AM
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I don’t give a shit if some feminised journalist decrees that masculinity is toxic. I’m still gonna keep being a stoic, competitive, aggressive and dominant male. I hope that all the switched on men of the world will continue to uphold masculine values and keep alive what it means to be a man.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 02:23 AM
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It’s actually so shocking the number of women that do crazy manipulative things to men. This is good advice, have your camera ready and make sure you can prove beyond reasonable doubt that you are the innocent party. The legal system is stacked in favour of women. Honestly the risks of a LTR and kids are so high these days: no wonder they call it TRP on hard mode
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 06:30 AM
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The point of red pill isn’t to label yourself as feminist or red pill. Red pill is a way of being, a set of actions and behaviours when it comes to the sexual market place. Clearly believing that women are equal to men is not a red pill idea, TRP is founded on the inherent gender differences.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:22 AM
1

Yeah it is a lifelong dream and I kind of shit on it
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:13 AM
-2

She has tried to kill herself before because of a similar thing
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:47 PM
1

If she tried to kill her self because I wouldn’t apologise I think that shows she has some emotions toward me.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:47 PM
3

What is the real reason?
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:28 PM
1

Yeah turns out that was bullshit, she was just using it as blackmail to get me to apologise.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:28 PM
1

What is BPD?
/r/askTRP13/01/19 08:06 AM
1

No
/r/askTRP12/01/19 07:38 PM
12

Shit man what if she kills herself.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 07:19 PM
1

Are you basically saying I don’t have any talent. Fucking great advice.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 07:16 PM
1

Could you elaborate on that last point I don’t know what you mean.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 05:28 PM
1

I start to hate myself if I don’t go to the gym for a while. It’s my sense of responsibility kicking in.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 06:01 AM
3

Chicks enjoy sex way more than men do, they have a body part (clitoris) that has no other function besides pleasure. They get horny too and when you add alcohol (which for many anxious and insecure women is an aphrodisiac) and you add a decent looking guy throwing himself at her (of which there are plenty cause every bloke is hitting on girls at clubs these days) you get sex.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 02:25 AM
1

I agree BUT don’t follow your gut, follow your head. Rational decisions always.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 02:22 AM
2

If you “let her invite you and see where that goes” there is a 90% chance that nothing sexual will happen between you. Take the initiative, be the dominant force in the encounter and ask her out.
/r/seduction25/12/18 02:21 AM
0

Tell her to get fucked. DARE anytime she raises the issue in the future. Punish her by withdrawing your attention every time she does it.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 02:21 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP24/12/18 01:52 PM
1

Yoga or swimming are good and low injury risk. Tennis is fun too.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 01:52 PM
3

People are super friendly when they are on ecstasy which she probably was given she was at a rave. Wait a couple of days for the ecstasy hangover to wear off then ask her out.
/r/seduction24/12/18 01:27 PM
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No sugarcoat, real talk. Don’t put so much value on fucking girls. It’s only slightly better than masturbating, yet 99% of your self worth is derived from women. That’s not healthy. Focus on your career, hobbies, fitness and health and it’s sounds like you have some good friends. At the end of the day solid friends will help you more than a woman ever will. Once you fuck a bunch of women you realise it’s not all that fulfilling. It may be hard to see it from my perspective but take it from me it…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 07:15 AM
12

Men are romantics pretending to be realists, women are realists pretending to be romantics.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:19 PM
0

Don’t be a bitch it’s a plate. You don’t get sad because you drop a plate you just clean it up and get anew one.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 10:44 AM
6

The whole point is that LTR is red pill on hard mode. The positive stories are rare because LTR’s are fucking difficult.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:00 AM
1

You’ve got all this shit going for you but you act and project the SMV of a hobo. Get some self- esteem, get some big dick energy and start gaming chicks and developing a rock solid frame.
/r/seduction08/11/18 04:32 PM
2

Ask her to add you on Facebook?
/r/seduction07/11/18 06:17 AM
1

THis is so dumb read the sidebar material
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:57 AM
4

Unless you believe that you can find another girl as hot as her you never will. You have one-itis. Abundance mentality doesn’t apply to just quantity but also quality. There is an abundance of beautiful women in the world believe that.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 02:40 PM
7

Be aware of your inhibitions, consciously suppress them when sober and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 02:31 PM
4

Frame of mind, everything you say and do should come from your confident frame of mind. When you start saying beta blue pill shit it comes from a different frame of mind. Holding frame refers to saying and acting in a way that is consistent with an alpha frame of mind and not doing or saying anything that is outside that frame either by adopting the girls frame or having a weaker frame.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:26 PM
2

Geez I would not want to be the one to tell her that. Girls are insecure enough at the best of times. If sex is all your after maybe opt for some scented lube and just bear with it, that is if going downtown is a necessity.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:18 PM
2

You don't need to recover. Realise emotions are a temporary response that will go away in time. Take this as a learning experience and apply the lessons you've learned to the next girl. Be a shark, don't look back just keep swimming forward.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:02 PM
7

Stoic when times are tough, fun and exciting when times are good.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 09:00 AM
1

Women are predictable so you should be able to game them all perfectly and get sexual release. That’s not a bad thing, the only thing you need women for are their vaginas so now you k ow that you can streamline your interactions to get what you want and get back to more important things (health, fitness, friends, career)
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:44 AM
5

No ones an incel there are just people at the low end of the SMV spectrum. Start improving yourself and your SMV and learn game and the women will come.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 04:40 AM
2

You might feel like you don’t magically levelling up. But man I went from kissing pretty average girls to regularly banging a model. Trust the process, have a growth mentality. Always get better and have confidence that you can achieve your goals.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 05:43 PM
1

You don’t need to deal with this. You are doing the right things. I don’t get called a gentleman yet plates face lights up when I take my clothes off.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:29 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:28 PM
1

Swallowing the pill means accepting that height has a lot to do with it. So if you are aware that your height puts you at a disadvantage you aren’t a blue pill. It also means accepting yourself and becoming the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:27 PM
1

I live in Australia and RM Williams leather boots are the go.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:26 PM
1

“Acts of kindness to get into a woman’s pants” Have you even read the sidebar? Have you even swallowed the pill?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:24 PM
1

Meditate. 30 minutes, sit in silence, try and calm your mind. You’ll find afterward your ruminations and worries just go away.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:18 PM
1

If you have read the sidebar you would realise rushing into a relationship is the least of your concerns. In fact it shouldn’t even be on your priority list at all. You think you want s girlfriend but you really just want a pussy to fuck.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:16 PM
2

Society is feminised. Don’t get angry about it, if you aren’t in a relo hoes being hoes means you get sex.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:02 PM
2

Describe your meditation.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:02 PM
1

Practicing kino everywhere is good practice. If you have to think about how to do kino just in a pick up sense you haven’t mastered it. If you naturally do it in all contexts (game or otherwise) then you have truly internalised and actualised kino game.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:57 PM
3

Because they are tactics they can use to get what they want. Due to feminisation if society and hamstring they get away with it (in their own eyes and in the eyes of society).
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:54 PM
1

Realise there is an abundance of hot girls out there. Never think you won’t be able to do better. Have an abundance mindset.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:52 PM
1

Everyone who says that having a healthy sense of self worth is bad are FEMINISED. They are jealous beta men or women trying to bring you down so they can trap you.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:50 PM
1

Don’t overthink it. Your mission is not a successful high paying career it is to teach, hike and paint. Know your mission and pursue it to the fullest of your extent. In terms of interacting with women. You want sex, if she gives sex good if she doesn’t next. How to get sex involves being alpha. But being alpha is hard and money gives you value and power which helps with the alpha element. Never pay for her shit, if it’s a dealbreaker for her then next; not worth your time. Relationships are NOT…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:46 PM
1

The second scenario you are describing usually happens with uglier women. That’s how they act when they already are convinced you are of high value and they perceive their own value to be low.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:44 PM
1

Meditate, 30 minutes of meditation works wonders for calming the mind and getting rid of lingering thoughts. I kid you not. Do yourself a favour and try it, it’s only 30 minutes you have nothing to lose. But you have everything to gain; power over your own mind.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:42 PM
3

Won’t make a difference, she says you’re a whore but she still wants to fuck and is attracted. I wouldn’t worry. Just own it, you are a man who attracts a lot of women and likes a lot of sex. Just say “yep I’m the most expensive whore in the country and you’re getting a free ride 😉”
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:40 PM
0

If you have ever been you would know for things like depression it is very useful. Therapists can help you become resilient, have high self esteem and deal with negative emotions. All of which will increase your career success and success with women.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:33 PM
3

Being 150% in 1 thing vs 80% in 5 refers to big stuff like career, having kids or relationships that involve sacrifice. For TRP you should be 150% into your career because that is what will maximise your value. You can go 150% in your career and still lift and game. Lifting and game really are just better ways to use the time you aren’t working.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:31 PM
2

Will they? If they want to preserve the relationship they would be stupid to admit that. If they admit it either they admit defeat and expect to be dumped or expect you to forgive her.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:28 PM
-2

No I don’t. I feel like I am a high value absolute catch of a man and I believe that women check me out and look at me because they want to fuck me. Even if that isn’t true that’s what I’m thinking because my frame is so strong.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:23 PM
2

It comes from a very strong frame. You need to have a high value and freakishly confident frame to put the shit test into context. If they say you’re a little short you’re high value frames shapes it into something that reflects your frame e.g “if I were any taller I’d be far to good for you”
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:21 PM
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You know your frame is weak. There ya go. There are two ends of the spectrum gay vibes and aggressive vibes. I walk around with purpose, aggressively even. I have a look of purpose that is intimidating and brooding. It’s all about body language. Start practicing better body language. Start going to the gym, get a bigger more dominant looking body. Work on your vocal pitch, lower is better. However keep being cheeky and charming with what you say, it can be good to get through womens defenses.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:18 PM
2

Practice Like any skill you can’t expect to be good at first. You will be bad at first but just keep trying to come up with things to say after the fact at first and you’ll get quicker and quicker before you know t you’ll be coming up with them on the fly.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:11 PM
1

Yeah, dread is just how high value men act naturally. You call it dread, some would just calling it not giving my time to someone who’s gonna waste it.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:01 PM
-4

I’m no expert but something like “I’m not ready to use the L word yet”
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:58 PM
3

You don’t fix a broken plate that’s the point
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:52 PM
27

That could be a comfort test not a shit test
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:43 PM
0

What other strategies
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:40 PM
1

Yep not caring about women and instead caring about yourself is the endgame. Indifference and abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:16 PM
16

Man the whole point of TRP is that you are too valuable and too busy doing your own thing to give a shit if someone cancels. If you were truly indifferent to her coming in the date you would have just sent her a quick text cancelling and moving on to the next thing.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:15 PM
1

I was going to make her pay for her half after the meal
/r/askTRP03/09/18 04:43 AM
1

Know where the cameras are, remind them assault is a crime and that you will send them all to jail for a very long time if they lay a hand on you.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:56 PM
10

They aren’t ignoring their hints, the shit you are doing is just working and making them obsessed with you.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 06:18 PM
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Part of being okay with approaching and gaming women is accepting the fact you have to make them uncomfortable. Accept that, relish it and flourish.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 04:40 PM
1

Don’t overthink, how would you respond if a friend said this? Pretend it’s just banter and comeback with something funny, detached humour minimises her concerns and being her concerns out of her frame and into yours where you don’t really care about her or what she thinks.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 04:08 PM
2

If your plates are jealous of each other and fighting all you need to do is sit back and reap the benefits.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 02:27 AM
38

Much better to suggest a fun thing to do and then use number as a necessity. For example Ask them if they like coffee, you know a great cafe and she should get a coffee with you. She says yes and you ask for the number to organise logistics.
/r/seduction16/08/18 02:24 AM
2

Who cares, it’s your parents. Put up with their rules while you live there or move out.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 04:27 PM
1

I disagree with this. Yes, the struggle is real and the best things in life come from doing the difficult things. However seeing the positive side of everything and having a confident, positive attitude gives you the best chance of pulling off risky and difficult endeavours. On another note coping with failure leads to depression. Depression is simply not productive, we should all want to build power and increase value. Sitting at home negative and depressed is not powerful nor is it conducive t…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 04:44 PM
1

I got banned from r/sex for telling a guy to leave his slut girlfriend after she sent nude pics and sexted another guy.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 04:37 PM
-14

You live alone and have what sounds like a decent paying job. I have no job and live with my parents. Appreciate what you take for granted. If I were you and had a house to myself and the means I would be fucking a different chick every night, going to bars, working on my game and slamming pussy in my bachelor pad left right and centre.
/r/seduction29/07/18 04:36 PM
0

Yes and no. Whilst men are wired evolutionarily to spread their seed with as many women as possible, this means yes we may desire to have sex with a lot of women. However this "spreading seed" instinct means that we aren't that choosy and will often date down. Women are not wired to have sex with a lot of men rather they are wired to pick the best possible man and stay there (until better comes along). If you define hypergamy as opportunistically choosing the best mate possible (resource and sec…
/r/askTRP29/07/18 04:34 PM
2

Stop asking question, take responsibility, use your initiative
/r/seduction29/07/18 02:02 PM
1

look at top posts all time
/r/seduction29/07/18 01:34 PM
3

You don't have power to lose. You have everything to gain, which makes you a blank slate. Practice the material on here, get out of your comfort zone. It will be difficult but just because it isn't easy doesn't mean it isn't worth doing.
/r/seduction29/07/18 01:17 PM
3

The advice is good but the problem is that people don't actualise it fully. Look at RSD tyler on youtube, he is a balding ginger with a dad bod and he picks up hot chicks. It's like going to the gym, anyone can build muscle and get a shredded physique. All the information is there online it's just that it is difficult. Most people aren't ripped because the advice is bad, it's because they don't have the willpower to go to the gym consistently, do the correct exercises and diet effectively. Same …
/r/seduction29/07/18 01:11 PM
1

Well there is your answer, easy fix. Start practicing these and don't let rejections get you down as you can't be expected to pull it off on the first try.
/r/seduction29/07/18 12:47 PM
1

Every girl is different and copying an exact conversation is a lot of effort and probably not useful given that you will be texting a lot of different girls in your life. A less specific, more adaptive approach would be a better priority. There are a plethora of those on this sub. An easy one is DARE don't DEER. Deflect, Amusedly agree and absurdly advance, Repeat, Exit the convo. Never Defend, Explain, Excuse (make them for yourself) or Rationalise. Keep the convo light and don't give too much …
/r/seduction29/07/18 12:45 PM
1

Are you opening confidently and do you get her full attention? Do you compliment her? Do you stimulate conversation by getting her talking about herself? Do you playfully tease her? Do you kino escalate? Do you try to close? It sounds like you aren't doing any of these things, it sounds like you aren't confident and that you aren't taking risks.
/r/seduction29/07/18 12:34 PM
2

You can’t dump a plate, it’s either broken or it’s working. If broken you simply get another.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 10:21 AM
1

This is genius
/r/seduction29/07/18 08:47 AM
3

Brooding off to the side of the dancefloor would not have got any attention at all.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 08:23 AM
5

It's a club, literally everyone was on the dance floor.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 08:22 AM
5

2 of them were 18 and I can guarantee they didn’t go home with some 30 year old who refused to dance.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 06:59 AM
7

The answer is that men of high value act in a carefree, fun and confident manner especially around women. Employing that behaviour tricks the woman’s mind into thinking you are of high value thus she will be attracted to you.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 07:20 PM
8

Yeah there’s kind of an unspoken understanding that a lot of straight girls go to to this club because the entry is cheap, has a more positive/less threatening vibe and it’s a good atmosphere (or so the girls say).
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 07:07 PM
1

SHe literally asked for a promise of respect with a time frame
/r/askTRP28/07/18 04:33 AM
1

What about the “promise of respect” ultimatum
/r/askTRP28/07/18 04:28 AM
7

I haven’t done anything over the top, she got upset because I didn’t reply to a text for 7 hours. When she said she was upset I refused to apologise to her and said that her emotions weren’t my responsibility.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 04:22 AM
2

Women simply don't, the world is the way it is, accept it and learn how to successfully navigate it.
/r/seduction27/07/18 09:03 AM
5

You can be attractive through status, dominance and confidence. All three attributes are part of game.
/r/seduction27/07/18 08:53 AM
1

That’s a defeatist attitude, work on yourself: hit the gym, practice good grooming and style. If your game is good enough it doesn’t matter what you look like.
/r/seduction27/07/18 07:15 AM
2

Game chicks in real life, texting only for logistics.
/r/seduction27/07/18 07:12 AM
1

Type is another term for attractiveness, if you aren’t a girls type she is just saying she isn’t attracted to you. If a girl says you are her friends type she is saying that she has estimated the two of you are of comparable levels of attractiveness.
/r/seduction27/07/18 07:04 AM
1

Read the sidebar: women and respect are lagging indicators of value
/r/seduction26/07/18 04:21 PM
3

AWALT all women will want to and if they get the opportunity will ride the CC
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 02:25 PM
1

If she doesn’t smile back she might not be interested
/r/seduction26/07/18 02:04 PM
6

You don’t have to fuck her if you don’t want to.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 02:03 PM
1

Short answer: game who you want who cares what people think
/r/askTRP26/07/18 01:21 PM
1

Routine(good diet, regular exercise, grooming, socialising) and good decision making should sort your depression out.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 01:10 PM
1

This is just straight up good advice
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 12:06 PM
2

She's just friendzoning you, if she was interested she would have fucked you that night and not brought up her SO. In no way shape or form is she bringing her SO out for a drink to compare the two of you. Move on.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 11:56 AM
3

You can be confident and straightforward, only you are confident and in straightforward way lying and manipulating. Thats exactly right her imagination is far more powerful and gives her far less ammo to use against you than disclosure of cheating.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 11:48 AM
4

Don't get it twisted son this is a case of AWALT, all women are capable of this behaviour given the right circumstances. Thats why you never settle down with a chick who hasn't ridden the CC because she will at some point, the question is do you want to be the one cheated on?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 11:40 AM
101

This is an interesting idea: to make up the most value maximising reason for breaking up with your ex even if its not true. Will definitely be using this one cause lets face it "because she cheated" is the least alpha reason possible
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 11:30 AM
3

It goes without saying that practicing and trial and error will result in a better individual strategy than thoughtlessly following the orders of a reddit commenter. Being as good looking as possible and having a good body are important because they demonstrate value without having to say a word.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 11:28 AM
2

go on the seduction subreddit, read the book "the game" or better yet practice
/r/askTRP26/07/18 11:24 AM
9

Yes modern feminism is actually concerned with the female sex getting MORE power in society at the expense of men. There is no point having a rational discussion about feminism because women aren't rational and it is a waste of your time to rationally convince them otherwise. Feminist arguments are based on everything but rational logic and empirical evidence, we know this. By publicly acknowledging and arguing with a feminist you enter into their frame which totally undermines any logic, eviden…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 11:23 AM
2

Girl's can have hobbies when they are young and single, but as they get older and remain single their biology takes over and their hobby starts to become "finding a man to have children with, reproduce and lock down security and provisions for the rest of their life before they become too unnattractive (due to age)" Women that do manage to lock down a kid don't have hobbies because they are too busy looking after said child.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 11:11 AM
0

be concise speak clearly, loudly and with a deep tone never let yourself be interrupted and if you sense an interruption turn up the volume and dont stop talking if you are thinking of things to say try making fun of people, be a dick for some reason it makes people laugh with you and listen to you
/r/askTRP26/07/18 11:07 AM
1

texting is for logistics, asking "how to tell a guy your flirting with him" means she wants advice from you to use on another guy she's not interested
/r/askTRP26/07/18 11:03 AM
4

"clingy, needy, jealous, paranoid, somewhat controlling": thats literally everything TRP teaches you not to do because its unattractive to women. As for your trust issues, you don't need to trust anyone in fact don't, trust only yourself. Jesus christ man you are exhibiting way too much emotion here, you shouldn't be falling for women you should be spinning plates. Who cares if you hurt people emotionally, bird's emotions are not your responsibility. You push away good women because you are too …
/r/askTRP26/07/18 10:38 AM
2

Stop being jealous of other men, life is too short to be jealous Work on yourself, work on your own game. Who cares if women talk to your friends, theres no reason why you can't bang hotter women that you approach if your game is good enough.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 10:32 AM
3

Next time you lock eyes try giving her a smile.
/r/seduction26/07/18 09:59 AM
6

Next time you lock eyes try giving her a smile.
/r/seduction26/07/18 09:58 AM
2

If she's grinding on your dick then she will likely not reject you, grab her hips and spin her around then catch her so that she's facing you. Make heavy eye contact whilst grinding front on, she should return the eye contact, look at her lips, she should look at yours as an indication of wanting to kiss. If all this happens just lean in and kiss her. EASY!
/r/seduction26/07/18 08:05 AM
2

Yes I agree, male actors in that time period did tend to be a lot more stoic, un-reactive, cool, calm, confident, concise and unafraid to speak their minds.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 07:42 AM
1

Stop thinking so much. Stop being so afraid of rejection. Be confident, look her in the eyes, smile, speak clearly and ask her to hang out... easy!
/r/seduction26/07/18 07:39 AM
1

Where I live at the coldest part of winter a jumper and a waterproof jacket over the top is all you need. 3-4 layers max. Take the layering as an opportunity to exhibit your fashion choices.
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:20 AM
1

You show interest sexually through risk taking behaviour (trying to flirt, kiss, bang her) but because you aren’t interested romantically you can do all this in a risk free way which will increase your confidence and chances of success.
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:10 AM
1

After you improve your value
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:07 AM
1

Imagine how a gay guy would say it
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:04 AM
1

If we didn’t check our instincts then we would naturally act needy with a woman we were emotionally attached too. Like you said this is a turn off.
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:02 AM
1

You want to progress to being good at game? Then its not energy spent on nothing its energy spent on practice. There is no magic fix to being successful at game instantly it takes practice. You need to change your goals, they should be about improving your value as a man, who cares what people say if you focus on increasing your value the girls and respect will come. Hell if you get girls it will skyrocket your respect and value in the eyes of your fellow man.
/r/seduction25/07/18 11:09 AM
3

Well start by practicing better behaviour and body language. The best practice is experience. Stand up straight as tall as you can, chest out shoulders down, don't look down when you walk. Make more eye contact and in time start making eye contact with pretty girls and smiling. Start talking to people, randomly and all the time. The more you talk to random people you will learn what to say and what not so say through trial and error, using how receptive they are to you as feedback.
/r/seduction25/07/18 11:01 AM
2

Basketball, all it takes is: you, a ball and a hoop to practice. Added benefit is that in most western countries people congregate to basketball courts in order to play so you won't have a hard time finding a pick up game. Could also join a gym and take up fitness/bodybuilding as a hobby
/r/seduction25/07/18 10:52 AM
3

Read: how to win friends and influence people, 48 laws of power. Confidence is exhibited in three ways: words, actions, body language. Analyse your words your actions and your body language and see what you could be doing better.
/r/seduction25/07/18 10:49 AM
3

Call it what you want if you kino escalate the result will be the same.
/r/seduction25/07/18 08:02 AM
4

Look at the girl, if you are attracted to her identify what you find attractive about her and simply tell her. Hey you have amazing blue eyes, you have a great smile, your physique is great it might be awkward at first but it has to be awkward for a while to get to a point where it comes naturally.
/r/seduction25/07/18 08:00 AM
1

Have a conversation, make eye contact, smile at girls.
/r/seduction25/07/18 07:56 AM
1

Nothing wrong with leaving the convo early - it’s actually a power move Focus on establishing an inside joke or reoccurring joke in the conversation that you can bring up in the first text. A lot easier to get replies this way as it’s already fun and playful. What you don’t want is an opening text that is cold and confrontational.
/r/seduction25/07/18 07:54 AM
5

What you don’t want to do is get them to mention mundane details about her day to day work. With any woman ambitious or not, make it fun, make it playful and make it unique. Something you could say is “alright fashionista, in your expert opinion how is my outfit tonight” She might take a look at you and say “good” to which you could playfully say “I was expecting a more in depth analyst from an expert” Then she might actually take a good look at you and critique all of your outfit, it gets her t…
/r/seduction25/07/18 07:48 AM
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This post is very true, even if a man is an 8/10 he probably won’t receive any compliments or affirmation of his attractiveness unless he asks a woman, do you find me attractive. That’s why it is important to believe In yourself, belief that you are attractive and carry around a sense that you are attractive and valuable when approaching women. You need to belief this without being told because as mentioned before as a man you simply aren’t.
/r/seduction25/07/18 07:36 AM
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