As i look back over all the interactions with women in my life there is this amazing dichotomy of women I was interested in and women I wasn’t.

The funny thing is before learning about seduction, the way I was treating the girls I didn’t like was how I should have been treating the ones I did.

If ever I am unsure how to act in a situation with a girl now I think: how would I act if I had another hotter girl and was not really interested in the girl in question.

Almost every time this line of thinking produces the best result.

You don’t talk to them too much because you aren’t that interested - fosters a sense of mystery and gets them intrigued

You don’t get nervous around them - you are more confident and speak clearer, engage in more eye contact

You aren’t afraid of rejection - you try more risky things like flirting and kino escalation.

The way you naturally act with someone you are interested is in fact the opposite.

You want to talk to them all the time, you get nervous and are afraid of rejection.

This is a catchall technique that I use in my interactions with women and could be useful for you.