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8765four/r/RedPillWomen01/10/22 10:37 PM
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ADVICE8765four/r/RedPillWives27/02/23 07:33 AM
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I can totally relate! Also yesterday I saw on r/askmen something about what kind of emotional load do men have to take on. The bulk of early answers was listening to their partners (negative) talk! It really hit home for me. First of all, know that what you feel or say IS important - never diminish your own needs. I think it's lovely what others wrote about the opportunity for him to care for you. However I am aware that I might complain beyond my partner's limit. And I don't always have girlfri…
/r/RedPillWives29/05/23 05:24 AM
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Thanks for posting and congratulations on your success! I'm kinda new and exploring so this encouragement means a lot to me. I guess I'm up to the part where I make myself do it, even if I don't feel like it - the hardest bit. Your post encourages me to not give up and to keep going. Thank you, and best of luck going forward. 🙏
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 10:01 AM
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Thank you. Much appreciated.
/r/RedPillWives07/03/23 10:37 PM
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Thanks for a serious reply. Yes I've come to a similar conclusion since I posted. I know there's not much I can do - we can't change others. I hope that if I feed my own self-love and happiness, some of it will rub off onto him. After all, he is my husband, I love him, and I want him to be ok. I guess my question to rpw was in the context of how we treat our men: with trust and respect and faith that they are the leader. These things are more difficult to do if we see them not at their full pote…
/r/RedPillWives07/03/23 09:44 PM
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Ok so I can accept it that there's no way I can do anything to make others change. But how about "in the meantime" for me? I guess that's why I'm checking out rpw... I want to do what is in my power to make this thing drive forward. I see there is 'stfu'. And the other golden rules?
/r/RedPillWives27/02/23 11:15 AM
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That totally makes sense, thanks! (I am new to all this so appreciate your oft repeated lessons)
/r/RedPillWives27/02/23 10:00 AM
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My challenge was to smile and nod to something I considered boring! And I do this unwillingly because it means encouraging more. I don't think I'm doing so well so any tips please throw them this way!
/r/RedPillWives21/02/23 05:33 AM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 07:07 AM
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Thanks. I clicked on the above link to 'For women only' but found it goes to to chapter 2 +loads of comments. Does it stop there? I'm really keen to read the whole resource.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/23 06:13 AM
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In line with last paragraph: not gaslighting! Thanks for the concern.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 11:00 PM
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It is possible I have picked the wrong husband but more it's up to us to make the best of it. I won't be getting divorced over this!
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 10:56 PM
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I am looking for this! Was hoping to find some suggestions here at rpw. 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 10:55 PM
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Thank you. Definitely empathy is not in his repertoire! I try to model it but I have to also lower my expectations here. I'm learning the thing about 'we can only control ourselves, not others'. You're right though, flaws do make us human.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 10:51 PM
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No, it's been swept under the carpet. Unfortunately it's a common theme, which is why I'm trying to excavate to see if I can do anything differently.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 10:48 PM
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Thanks - the link is very useful.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 10:46 PM
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Thanks. Unfortunately he doesn't want to do any counselling.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 12:51 AM
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Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 12:50 AM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 11:08 PM
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What are some things you tell yourself when you get angry with your man?
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 11:08 PM
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I totally agree with all of this. The way I feel at the moment, it is either the eyerolling (very bad!) or secretly having a condescending attitude about his beta-state (I don't say it out loud). BECAUSE he is beta at the moment, it is a turn-off, and it does not inspire me to help him improve. I want to change my mindset and the way I view him, so that it makes sense for me to act positively. What are some positive ways you view your man, despite his many fuck-ups?
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 10:45 PM
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Thanks. I agree with this and I know the the next step is the changes I need to make in my behaviour towards him. My question was how to inspire myself to do so, when all I can see in front of me are things that are rather UNinspiring...? The reply about remembering the things I married him for were helpful, thanks. It was more these kinds of ideas that I was after.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 09:40 PM
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I'm a beginner here. Sincere question: how do you get past the resentment about him being beta, to start implementing these steps? Like, the resentment / eye roll of being married to a beta didn't exactly inspire me to want to do the work. I need a pre-action explainer here. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 06:09 AM
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This is interesting, thank you for the course of study. It's my first taste of RP - so far, so good!
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 01:08 AM
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