| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 42 | Help me [20f] learn how to flirt with guys | 90860008 | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 06:13 AM | |
| 16 | Thoughts on dating men without fathers | DISCUSSION | 90860008 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:41 PM |
| 15 | Not wanting something serious | REMINDER 👑 | 90860008 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:07 PM |
| 14 | Should I drop this guy? | 90860008 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:28 AM | |
| 11 | Someone help me NOT text this guy | 90860008 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:53 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 19 | Opinion | Consent is not enough. We need a new sexual ethic.Literally hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 06:47 PM |
| 58 | If he can't plan a date, he isn't worth going out with in the first place.The second description is also spot on. My ex did not want to plan anything despite being generous with spending and paying for everything. He was also insecure and started showing some red flags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 05:49 PM |
| 26 | Don't Miss Out On YouI needed this after a recent breakup. He was a good guy but I saw red flags and it was not going to work out in the future. Thanks for posting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 11:58 AM |
| 73 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorIt’s always the trump supporters that go for us 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Check-inForgot to respond to this. I went out with him once more which was actually the best date we had had. We were supposed to go out on a fourth date which he never confirmed bc think he’s over me after I got annoyed at him for something lol. I will FOR SURE not go out with him again 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 12:26 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-inLMFAOOOO TRUEEEEE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Check-inI went on a second date with a guy I posted about here. I noticed he’s a bit less consistent w the texting, mind you I have been very busy and he knows that. The date went well but I have noticed some things. He follows a lot of girls on insta, not models just regular girls, he does seem to make his job a bit more important than it is, and he kind of slouched in his seat during the date so that my leg touched his (I just moved my leg away). Not sure if I should continue BC he’s generally been ni… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:49 PM |
| 58 | Weekly FDS Check-inJust went on a date with a dude from hinge. It went pretty well and the convo flowed smoothly with no rude or sexual comments from him. We will see how this plays out!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 05:18 PM |
| 36 | Ah, the classic “Passive Reciprocation”I get what u r saying. I had some friends tell me to ask a guy out bc “it’s empowering” 🙄 luckily I’ve ingrained into my head that if he wanted to, he would 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:36 AM |
| 5 | Is there a benefit to not adding men on social media, to "keep the mystery" and require them to invest time and effort into getting to know you? What are your thoughts?I think it depends really on what you have on your Instagram and how much access you want to give them to your life. I personally add guys I’m talking to for quite some time or taking somewhat “seriously” from old just to vet them further in terms of lifestyle, friendships, etc. many of them also have their full name on their instas so I use that to do a deep search on them lol. Whereas when you look at my Instagram, there aren’t many full face pictures of me, nothing “incriminating” such as sex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 01:32 AM |
| 16 | This is why I don't scroll through libfem subs. They always have to put other women down for wanting a special moment to be special.They love getting the least lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Check-inI am trying to get back on the dating game. I’m on OLD and go to the gym pretty frequently. I have seen this cute guy at the gym and thought he kept looking my way for the past few weeks. It’s at the point where we smile “hi” to each other. Based on some friends advice (which I would never take but they dared me and I can’t pass that up lol) they told me to start a conversation with him. I made a small comment to him about the condition of the gym….. and this man was like “yeah”…. Someone pls dr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-inWait I don’t get it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 11:50 PM |
| 165 | Another reason why coffee dates are a waste of timeTotally.. who wants to waste an hour dressing up for a coffee date?! And even if u put aside the effort women invest in looking good, I genuinely feel weirf w coffee dates bc I can drink it up in 10 mins. Like what am I gonna do after that 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 05:02 PM |
| 15 | Never take your freedom to choose to avoid LVM for granted. My heart is broken for our sisters living under Sharia law.That mf is not in his 40s. He can rot in hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 04:52 PM |
| 2 | GREAT ANSWER TO "WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A MAN?"Yeah it’s pretty generic. I feel like dudes use this to determine how they should act w you… like if they can get into your pants right away or not. The guys that have asked me this have asked me out but I just want a response that’s generic so as to not give away exactly what I’m looking for so they know how to “act” if that makes sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 08:25 PM |
| 8 | GREAT ANSWER TO "WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A MAN?"What about when they ask what brings you to this dating app? For those who do OLD?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone else had this pop up on their Instagram feed being promoted by influencers? I don't even really know what to say. It appears to be a new dating app with a "bedroom feature" where you select your preferences.LMAO idk why I found this so funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 11:25 PM |
| 19 | Loyalty through cruelty is not ride or die.LMAOOOOOO this is it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 10:17 AM |
| 8 | Update on moving cities for dating scene: I realized I'm not moving cities because I'm obsessed with men, I'm moving because I'm obsessed with ME.That’s a good way to put, I remember seeing ur post and thinking hmmm maybe moving just for dating is not the best idea but now I see where you come from. The dating scene where I live is literally trash…. I’m giving up on finding someone but I do like the area a lot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on dating men without fathersFrom what I’m observing now, the dude seems to not be able to express himself which is annoying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on dating men without fathersI can see how this can happen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on dating men without fathersYeah… the guy I was kinda into told me his mom was dating a bum lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I don’t know anything about this family. But this video is absolutely heartwarming.I can’t believe someone would say that. Screw him honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 01:24 PM |
| 6 | Don't be a pickme, even men won't like you. Credits: https://twitter.com/finegodmother/status/1410316385545330689?s=20im ashamed to say i used to be like this.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 12:25 AM |
| 6 | Stop centering your life around menThat’s something I’ve seen about men. They put themselves and their interests first which is why I think they have such a nonchalant attitude with dating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 09:19 PM |
| 36 | My gynecologist told me the REAL reason she shortens IUD strings- it's because men try to remove IUDs with out their partner's consent.Men really are so fucking gross. One guy took of his condom while I was drunk under the excuse that it broke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:05 AM |
| 3 | I truly hate this YOLO attitude. As if women should be celebrating being in debt and having sex with toxic men. Just no. Invest your money in stocks, a vibrator and a hobby. You’ll be much happier.She literally has the most toxic tweets lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:05 PM |
| 15 | I have no words..... bruh 💀 this was painful to read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:22 AM |
| 15 | Why is every man on Hinge competitive about “everything”? Oh, to be so vapid and simpleminded. Must be nice!Why tf do they love to use that profile question damn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:25 AM |
| 1 | How is it that, in an age of supposed "dating equality," women still get the short straw?Nice!!! Enjoy it!! 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:19 AM |
| 21 | Had to share because it made me crack up! Can’t even offer to but me a whole meal!Chili’s 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:52 AM |
| 27 | How is it that, in an age of supposed "dating equality," women still get the short straw?Pls let us know more about the convertible.... really have been wanting a car lately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:49 AM |
| 23 | Why “50/50” is so often still unequal...As a junior project manager, I agree. This crap is annoying.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:45 AM |
| 15 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.HAHAHAHA I love the way you call it the Tok 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Learn your limitsWhat book is thi? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:54 PM |
| 3 | SeX PoSiTiVe writers in mainstream media are honestly the WORST and LEAST qualified people to be giving sex advice most of the time.I can’t believe I used to listen to her podcast.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 03:50 PM |
| 3 | All the best for 2021!Happy NYE! Wishing everyone the best of luck 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 02:03 AM |
| 5 | 🙄🙄🙄 wayyy too much /sLMAOOOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 02:17 PM |
| 11 | Let’s all remember that acceptance is key !Yeah this is how I interpreted it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020This is literally how I feel...like there is no purpose to anything anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 10:37 PM |
| 11 | The level of disrespect from this LVM was astronomicalSo sorry about your experience:( take time to recover and focus on yourself 🧡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:23 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020I think you might be right omg 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 07:08 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020I have a male friend I’ve know for around 3 years. He’s always been nice but we hooked up twice. The hookups didn’t go too well from my end since I got uncomfortable at the thought of sleeping with a friend halfway through them but we have continue talking just as friends. He still texts me often and now says he wants to take me out on a date and would like to start a relationship with me (we haven’t hooked up since I last saw him in early October). He knows me on a personal level and has always… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 06:34 PM |
| 5 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!I’m so glad you are all continuing off reddit! I was just wondering if there was any way we could help out with the website build. I know it takes a lot of effort to make the site and I’m not trying to be critical but I think there are some things about the user interface that can improved and I would like to help if y’all are fine with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 06:00 PM |
| 6 | TO WALK AWAY OR TO CONFRONT?If it’s a profesional situation where the other perso. Is at the same level then confront in a polite way just to get things out in the clear but romantically I personally do not do that because I don’t like them having the satisfaction of making me feel bad. I’m more of a block and move on person even if I do think about them often and stuff because I don’t want them to think they have power over me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:16 AM |
| 30 | What’s the thing about FDS that you struggle the most with ?Where do you find multiple people to date at once? I literally have no luck. I barely get hit up by guys and when I do it’s literally just one so I can’t keep a roster lol plus I’m off dating apps bc mostly everyone there is trash lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020Yess I’ve been working out quite a bit lately! Trying to get the booty gains right now haha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020Thank you! I’ll keep this quote in mind! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 02:24 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020Lately I’ve been feeling in a rut and lonely. I haven’t talked to many of my friends since quarantine started since a few are unresponsive and I just don’t want to bother them at times but something that is really bugging me is lack of male attention. I am trying really hard to change my previous mindset from before FDS and haven’t been talking or dating anyone this year at all. I’ve gone through periods without consistently talking to anyone but would still go on Tinder and stuff. Now that I am… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 03:56 AM |
| 27 | Pretty much all of r/relationship_adviceLMFAOOOOO that accuracy 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 05:06 PM |
| 13 | Level Up Check-In: what have you done lately to improve yourself?Consistently going to the gym around 3-4 times per week, focusing on growing my glutes, traveling with some girl friends, and trying out more restaurants around the city where I am currently living at for school before graduating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 05:22 AM |
| 6 | Level Up Check-In: what have you done lately to improve yourself?Good luck! You got this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Someone help me NOT text this guyI just got a new phone and none of the things I sent for. Previous conversations got on it so I’m good lol 👌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Someone help me NOT text this guyOh I definitely deleted his number and the conversation but I still have the number on a screenshot I sent to a friend a while ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Someone help me NOT text this guyI really like this tip thank you! I kinda do want to block him but I also feel bad since I’ve only ever blocked people who have truly done me wrong in the past and I feel like he didn’t do anything wrong specifically... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:36 PM |
| 6 | Leveling up is my main focus right now.I am also a first gen college student going to a really good school which is what allowed me to go there for very little cost. It’s great that you are focusing on yourself now! I am doing the same thing since it’s my last semester and I’m taking from dating since I don’t want to get attached to anyone and then leave. My education has definitely been worth it..I had a great college experience despite the challenging studies and met really amazing friends! Keep thinking about your personal goals a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 03:49 AM |
| 10 | Feelings are not facts. Be mindful about your feelings and learn the wisdom to know when to act on them....and when not to.I needed to hear this...I’m currently feeling bad about ghosting someone a week ago since I’ve been in that position and know crappy it felt. Also the fact that everyone around me is getting cuffed is not helping LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 06:28 PM |
| 3 | What advice would you give to your 20 year old self? As a young woman,in terms of dating,self care,mental health etc?What’s k drama? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 02:11 AM |
| 4 | Any FDS book or movie/show recommendations?The movie is also really good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 03:23 AM |
| 16 | I just received a text from someone who destroyed my heart 4 months ago.Something similar happened to me but I responded with another guy’s name thinking it was someone else. Guess that hurt his ego and I haven’t heard back since 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Only on special occasions😉 (meme by BinchCity via Instagram)Lmfaooooo this made me laugh too hard 🤣😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:02 AM |
| 1 | I created a Spotify playlist with all your recommendations.No lames by summer walker | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 04:59 AM |
| 18 | Should I drop this guy?You’re right I needed to hear this. I find dating so hard bc I typically don’t like OLD and am not really on it and wanting something serious during my last semester at school seems impossible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:38 AM |
| 3 | it feels like I've been lied to all my lifeIf you have any resources you could share that would be helpful! Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 02:42 AM |
| 6 | it feels like I've been lied to all my lifeHow did you undo your inferiority complex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 03:10 AM |
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