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It's cute and tragic when "You're a keeper!" and "You're husband material!" are meant as compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 06:02 AM
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+1 for this comment thread I scoffed at this at first: your guy friends, do they make you feel as good and loved and as great about yourself the way a woman you value and think highly of can? But it sounds like you get it now. Enthusiastic sex with a woman I value is highly validating. A very powerful feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 02:38 AM
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The millenial guys you argue with on the internet are big fat vealpen nerds. The rest of us realize how stupid this shit is, and find something else to do, eventually. I always took "Chad" to be the male "airhead" type. Dumb as a brick, but naturally handsome and fit, and endearing in a doesn't-know-any-better kind of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 09:20 PM
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Where I live, the women I know actually say "He has NO game!" as an insult. Game is a real thing, as are social skills. Women actively recognize it. Futhermore, nobody dominates a room based on how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 02:30 PM
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You're right, I see now I misread your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 07:02 AM
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Because some men are able to capitalize upon such liberated female sexuality, that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 06:55 AM
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Rich people, just like Gates and Zuckerberg, need to put some of their money to helping others. In 1997 Bill Gates invested $2 billion to start the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, which now has an endowment of greater than $40 billion. This past December, Mark Zuckerberg invested $3 billion to start the Chan Zuckerberg Initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 06:54 AM
1

I'm not really understanding the connection you're trying to make between the alpha male caricature and nerd culture. However, I totally get what you're saying about pop-culture nerds vs. classical nerds. It's been a dilution of classical nerd culture. Classical nerds do not or simply cannot purchase their nerd-dom. Whereas pop culture nerds, their nerd-dom comes out of a box. I think this has everything to do with the rise of the internet, the video game industry, and the proliferation of "ente…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 03:08 PM
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The links you have posted are showing the connection between more frequent sex and better health. Not marriage and better health. But it is easy to understand the train of logic. And that eHarmony link has at least as many (legitimate) warnings against marriage as it does in favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 04:27 PM
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Prostitution and other sex work should be legal. That way guys could get the immediate physical satisfaction they want/need, then move on to pursue more worthwhile things. And there would be far less complaining on the internet because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 02:37 PM
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If Djokovic ate and trained like a powerlifter, he would look like a powerlifter. It's that simple. There's a world of difference between world-champion lifters, tennis players, distance runners ... and everyday people who just like to lift, or play tennis, or run a lot. One does not have to be genetically predisposed to a sport or training method in order to enjoy the benefits. You're using perfectionism as an excuse for not even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 02:10 PM
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Both Djokovic and Murray are professional tennis players; of course they're skinny. That's the kind of body you get when you play tennis your entire life. It isn't hard to understand. Your body adapts according to the stresses to which it is subjected. Yes body types run the gamut, but if you can deadlift 200kg you will look like someone that can deadlift 200 kg.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 08:35 PM
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Sometimes we have to do things more than a few times to see the rewards. It could even be said that the more rewarding something is, the more one has to work at it. If you just plain don't like lifting, that's fine. But your conclusion that "lifting is pointless for most guys" isn't legitimate - or rather it's more your opinion than fact. It's far more likely you were doing something wrong in terms of programming, execution, or diet instead of some crazy genetic factor that you didn't make any g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 03:20 PM
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Yes, men are the romantic sex, not women. We know this. RP knows this. Stacks and stacks of books have already been written and published about how women can separate men from their wealth. You're way behind. BUT I strongly advocate for legalized/decriminalized sex work because it would be better for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 02:17 PM
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Rhetorical: (of a question) asked in order to produce an effect or to make a statement rather than to elicit information. Meaning, I'm not actually looking for an answer. That isn't the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 01:48 PM
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That question is only ever asked as a rhetorical question to my single(ish) female friends. And it's always preambled by a conversation about the "type" of man they're looking for. Asking that question to a woman I'm trying to have sex with would be stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 10:00 PM
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You've never lifted a barbell in your entire life, have you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 09:44 PM
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lol
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 01:36 AM
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As long as dicks and smartphones exist, online dating will never die.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 03:46 PM
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He probably isn't pursuing women in a socially acceptable way and/or he probably doesn't have normal social habits. Or if the man is blatantly physically unattractive, that's probably why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 02:10 PM
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And thousands upon thousands of words continue to written about how to not appear horny and desperate. The point I'm making is that men should not be ashamed to feel that way in the first place. Men should not be ashamed to pursue the sex and intimacy that they want. (Within in the realm of consension)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 08:22 PM
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Yes that's exactly my point. You get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 08:17 PM
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Consider not opening your post with shaming language. Cool guys have options because they maintain a relatively low level of emotional investment. There's nothing wrong with preferring a casual sexual relationship over a more serious one. It's about meeting women that are interested in the same kind of relationship you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 02:58 PM
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Get outta here with this bullshit. Looking for sex doesn't mean you're desperate; it means you're horny. It means you have a sex drive and you're trying to get your needs met. There's nothing wrong with sex, or wanting sex. A man should not be ashamed of his appetites.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 02:30 PM
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I really like RP as a descriptive system. I don't really like RP as a prescriptive system. Or, I think the use of RP as a prescriptive system is rather limited. True optimization of the system is best achieved through direct experience; the basic system must be tweaked or modified.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 11:40 PM
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Alphas are emotional. Rather, alphas are unhindered in the expression of their emotions. Look at most any mammalian species that lives in groups or packs with a social hierarchy. Gorillas or wolves, for example. The alpha male gets to act out and NONE of the other members do shit about it. Alpha male gets angry? ... beats the shit out of whoever is around him. Hungry? ... Takes food from whoever is around. Sad, upset? ... Same deal, alpha male makes it clear by some means. Alphas express whateve…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 02:35 PM
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You are confused, and you are confounding the argument. You went from the subject of nursing as a profession ... now to people who are nurses. It's two different things. Yes there are nurses who are "average" people but that doesn't mean nursing as a profession is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 07:54 PM
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Just another young person that has led a very sheltered life thus far.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 07:40 PM
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Mediocre students do not get accepted into legit nursing programs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 07:36 PM
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The next time you are in any hospital's emergency room, I want you to go tell the ER nurses how easy their jobs are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 02:24 PM
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Hey the chubby ones are among some of my best plates. Dat eagerness to please ...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 01:54 PM
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heavy lifting Pssshhhh I will always have a job as long as you keep packing away the cake there, chubbo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 01:46 PM
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"Non-negotiable" meaning that there is no "kind of" or halfway getting pregnant and having kids. A couple is having kids together or they're not. It isn't like deciding what to have for dinner or what to do this weekend. Of course there would be lots of discussion about whats really on her mind. Is it really the issue of children or are there other anxieties such as you described: about the relationship itself, etc. Maybe she wants kids but not with me? It's important to figure that stuff out. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 05:20 PM
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I give free tutoring for undergraduates at the university I attend, and at the local junior college. I also enjoy volunteering for Habitat for Humanity. It's fun, rewarding, and I like helping people who are trying to help themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 02:42 PM
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All this flair bullshit is stupid and unnecessary. I don't feel the need to self-identify with RP. Marriage, probably. Open to it, but it isn't necessary. 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 02:03 PM
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1: At this point in my life, I would not enter into a LTR without knowing her attitude regarding having children. There's no way we wouldn't talk about it first. 2: Probably a dealbreaker. I want kids, and if she changes her mind then that's going to be a problem. It's non-negotiable for both people. 3: Different scenario. Does she actually want children? There are other options: adoption, surrogate, fertility treatment, etc. If she's infertile and actually doesn't want children, then see 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 02:35 AM
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These leftover men will pack up and take huge risks because they have nothing to lose. If only! I'd argue that leftover men will continue further down the path of being "vegetarian." Instead of getting out there and taking huge risks, they'll withdraw from society and into porn, video games, recreational drugs, etc. Promoting risk-taking and frontier mentality would be a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 03:32 PM
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This entire post could be reduced to "know what you want."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 03:12 PM
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The big mistaken assumption here is that 18-22 year-old women are the preferential target demographic for ALL older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 02:11 PM
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Puppies are total chick magnets
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 04:09 AM
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oh man just wait till those baby rabies kick in
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 01:07 AM
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Military? Jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 12:53 AM
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Well the inverse isn't strictly true, either. Guys that pick up women frequently and easily don't suck at networking/selling themselves.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 10:14 PM
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And "traveling." Don't forget traveling.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 09:38 PM
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In the U.S. we have prioritized material wealth and profit over humanity. It started in the 1980's. It was fun for awhile and the baby-boomer generation has benefited the most, but it turns out it isn't actually worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 05:14 PM
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Despite OP being a troll, the clever man will realize self-love is an important aspect of his frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 03:25 PM
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I know I responded to you, but I was referring to the comment above yours. Can't tell if the marsupial is trolling or srs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 03:00 PM
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Perhaps the ugly or chubby girl has no intention of LTRing you, hmmmmm? There's nothing wrong with it as long as both people are on the same page. Don't shower her with promises of love and commitment, if that isn't your intention. Be as honest as you can about your own intentions: not looking for anything serious, just casual and fun. Some women are actually down for this. No, you don't literally have to look like an underwear model, either. A note regarding semantics: thinking of people as "st…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 02:48 PM
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Lol'd so hard I fell out of my tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 02:25 PM
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I worked construction as a carpenter for 5 years during my 20's, including 4 of those years as an apprentice. It was one of the most valuable and formative times in my life, and I'd recommend something similar to any young man that doesn't have much going on in his life already. Construction work is brutally physical, aggressive behavior is openly admired and rewarded BUT you still learn to work with a team to accomplish things that wouldn't be possible individually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:41 PM
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Where in the world did I say that 16 year-olds should be sleeping with 30 year-olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:11 PM
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A garage full of tools that are beat up and ugly, a barbell setup that includes old ugly iron plates ... yet these are among the most valuable and useful things I own. Pretty shiny electronics, clothes that go out of style will be replaced, and donated or recycled. The same is true for people. Some of my coworkers and colleagues may not be considered conventionally attractive, but they're still good at what they do for the most part, and we accomplish much together. Their value isn't based on wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 08:44 PM
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You got me really fucked up if you think I'm clicking on some One Direction shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 04:32 PM
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The women in this sub that so vehemently disagree with all things RP, I've noticed, tend to sound particularly unattractive and/or undesirable when they describe themselves. And that isn't a value judgement. Ugly things can be good and useful, and pretty things can be terrible or useless. What I'm saying is, if you're not an attractive/desirable woman, then you're not even within the demographic RP is trying to describe. Of course you don't resemble RP descriptions. The age question is relevant …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 04:26 PM
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I misspoke when I said it's pretty much the one and only question. If she's hot, the next question is: how old is she? Because we've got 21-year-olds in here proclaiming they've got it all figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 03:45 PM
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The minimum thresholds for attraction are largely the same for all men. Personal preferences diverge after minimum thresholds are met, but even then ... guys generally agree on who's hot and who's not. Beautiful women know they're beautiful and aren't coy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 03:41 PM
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It sounds like a troll, but it's pretty much the one and only question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 05:12 AM
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Are you hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 05:08 AM
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Ya
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 01:34 AM
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The best don't need it, the worst can't use it, and the rest may or may not actually improve?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 01:22 AM
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Because bisexual and lesbian relationships are the same as straight/hetero relationships. PBI you make some great points some times ... and other times what you say seems to be so completely incongruous with my own experience and observations. The bi women I know have no vested interest in me becoming someone they are attracted to. When they go for a guy, the dynamics fit RP descriptions to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 04:52 PM
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To guarantee men that they can keep looking good enough to attract very young women years into the future is wrong. If you'll notice, I spoke to that point in the last paragraph of my OP. And there is yet more to be said, of course. But you're absolutely right: there are no guarantees. LTRs and marriage ... I have to admit ignorance and deep deep confusion here. I am so confused as to how long-term attraction works for women, and why. Initial attraction comes before LTR and marriage, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 02:30 PM
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the fact remains that his age was a dealbreaker. And I never said age isn't or couldn't be a dealbreaker. I'm not sure which part of my post could be interpreted that way. Perhaps this young woman went home that very night and pleasured herself to the thought of laying with the dashing Mr. Arthur, hmmmm? I'm being facetious, but what I'm saying is: it's a falsehood to believe that this young woman's attractions are necessarily static. What she is or isn't attracted to at 22 may or may not be the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 02:16 PM
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it is just not the case that an attractive guy will be able to get any woman he wants regardless of his age or hers. No where did I say that, or anything like that. No one man will appeal to each and every woman. I still get my share of rejection, of course. Do you believe this 22-year-old suddenly found your husband unattractive after she found out his age? That he went from fit and handsome one moment ... to unfit and ugly in the next moment? OR ... do you believe that this young woman was gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 06:20 PM
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I admire your patience and diligence in this thread. The person you are responding to is working very hard to protect their beliefs. It's blatant ageism. The big mistaken assumption here is that 18-22 year-old women are the preferential target demographic for ALL older men. Which is not true, not even close. My personal target demographic is right around 25: definitely in the 23-27 range. The same is generally true for my friends and peers ... it's rare for any of us to actually pursue the 18-22…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 02:42 PM
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Ladies of PPD: Sexy Santa 2015, Hot or Not? 1 2 3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 02:05 AM
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There are several things going here. Maybe I can help explain. It's not at all surprising to hear the younger women here don't find older guys attractive. That is indeed the typical response from women under 25, based on my personal experience. It's normal. And I'm not about to tell anybody who they should and shouldn't be attracted to. That would be silly. That said, let us observe and think very carefully about what's going in this thread. Look at all the word associations on the topic of dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 01:47 AM
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This is the point many of the younger women here seem to be missing. While it's true there aren't many 20-something women hooking up with 40-something men .... it's also true there aren't many 40-something women hooking up with 20-something men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 10:59 PM
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Your sexuality influences your opinion in this case. And if you don't actually have sexual desires for anybody or anything except perhaps yourself: I would say that your opinion is poorly informed. You say that you know what most women find attractive because you discuss with them. "Birds of a feather flock together." Are your friends also asexual autosexual? Because the women I know are straight or bisexual, and date and hookup regularly. The men they fawn over in public and in private are typi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 03:41 PM
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At 35 I appeal to a far wider cross-section of women than I ever did at any time in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 02:49 AM
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Aren't you an asexual autosexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 02:48 AM
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I genuinely wonder what planet you are living on, OP. And you're confused about the meaning of the word "platitude." "Dress well" and "get a haircut" is concrete, actionable advice. There are no moral judgements or appeals to emotion in those statements. I don't understand how you could interpret that as only feel-good non-advice, as actual platitudes often are. And I just plain disagree with you based on my own personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 02:15 PM
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Yeah my buddy has been with the same girl since high school - nearly 20 years now - and he drinks himself to sleep every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 01:24 AM
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I'll likely watch it when it hits Amazon on-demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 11:39 PM
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I like this post because we could swap the male/female identifiers, and it would still be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 06:20 PM
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I refused to go see the new Ghostbusters because I generally don't see any of the modern remakes of old classics. They're never as good as the original. The credits of the original Ghostbusters read like an all-star list of 80's movie excellence. I mean, I can't think of any trio of modern actors - male or female - that could match the on-screen chemistry of Bill Murray, Dan Akroyd, and Harold Ramis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 05:50 PM
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You've been dating for like 5 minutes and now you've got it all figured out. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 04:51 PM
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Prostitutes as a group do get tested for STDs more often than the general population of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 02:12 PM
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You're way off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 01:57 PM
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Yeah I think it has to do with the OP acting like a jackass, more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 01:52 PM
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older prostitutes obtain lower fees. If you're paying attention, you'll notice I'm not arguing against that. I even agreed with that in my OP. What I'm trying to say is: yes the young and hot ones demand the very highest rates BUT there's so much demand for good pussy out there, that the older ones still do numbers. You seem to be flying off the handle at the idea that older prostitutes can still make lots of money. The evidence is the fact that older prostitutes actually exist, and actually do …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 01:08 AM
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Where did I tell you who you should and shouldn't be attracted to? I didn't. That would be silly. Fact is, somebody is paying for the older ones. Who? You already answered your question, actually. It's the 50+ guys that are going there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 12:41 AM
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As a halfway decent dude in his 30s with a good salary in a big city Yes I know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 12:34 AM
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cool stry bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 12:29 AM
2

So are you actually into sugar dating or na
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 12:25 AM
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Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 12:16 AM
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I'm more familiar with the pay-for-play community (P4P) than I am the sugar-dating community, but maybe I can shed some light here. I think it's important to differentiate between earning potential and actual earnings. In P4P, the women with the very highest earning potentials are young, hot, and intelligent/educated/witty. It's true. But there are many many older gals that still fill out their entire schedules and actually earn lots of money. They still have all the clientele they can handle. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 09:43 PM
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It is essentially prostitution, but there are different conditions and limits because the expectations are different. A sugar baby isn't the same kind of gig as being a street-walker. That said, I'm not familiar with that particular sub and I don't know the rules there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 09:09 PM
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You're in good company then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 09:04 PM
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Sugar daddy / sugar baby. Men paying for an ongoing relationship with a (typically) much younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 08:57 PM
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Laughing at you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 08:34 PM
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This sounds like a half-measure. Just go visit a prostitute or a brothel. Where I live, there are also plenty of "massage parlors" that offer happy endings; pretty much brothels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 05:59 PM
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You really think this kind of shallow ranting counts as "dissection" of a topic? Is this the best you can do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 05:21 PM
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Another reason why we need to bring back brothels and legalized/decriminalized prostitution. If a guy has taken the opportunity to have all the raunchy sex he likes before settling down (as far as his wallet will take him, anyway) he's going to be far less insecure about the (past) sex life of his partner. This is related to abundance/scarcity mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 05:32 PM
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A lot depends on your definition of "average." He's gonna have to be an approach machine until he hits paydirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 04:01 PM
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I don't get it. Submission doesn't equate to trust and trust doesn't equate to submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 03:29 PM
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True and truer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 05:34 AM
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loading.gif It's like asking me to divide by zero, or something. Does not compute. Like I sniffed a bunch of blow or something? I can't feel my face... One train of thought is that love isn't something you go to willingly. That only a fool would actually seek out love. Like an ocean wave, it picks you up and carries you. Maybe something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 03:05 AM
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It's just sexual strategy. You don't have to agree with their politics or "lifestyle" choices. You do you. There's all kinds of peripheral RP thought/philosophy that I'm not congruent with. But as far as sexual strategy and the SMP, I'm with it. That's all that matters to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 02:48 AM
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Yeah, I could. I'm not that far gone. Depths of human experience and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 02:38 AM
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You kid is a weirdo because they're a virgin at 18, or because they're asking you how to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 02:31 AM
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Except that good captains don't tolerate shitty first-mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 02:25 AM
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I thought I was in love with my ex, but looking back it was more a combination of desperation on my part and just plain "caring about her" like a family member or a pet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 02:22 AM
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The short answer is a simple "No." RP does not attempt to explain homosexual or same-sex interactions and relationships. Some individuals apply RP that way, and may find similarities and parallels, but that's not actually the original intent or design.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 05:25 PM
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Yes, really. Where do you think I met your mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 03:38 PM
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Don't sleep with anyone you wouldn't want to live with for the rest of your life. I feel like this would set him up to either be a sexless, frustrated virgin for years to come ... or enter into a series of back-to-back failed LTRs for years to come. It's gonna improperly skew his views on sex, or LTRs, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 03:06 PM
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Ignore reality? Are you kidding? You really think a manicure is going to make-or-break a woman's opinion of a man? Furthermore, do you really think a manicure is a major hindrance in getting laid, in general? It's just another item on the list of 1001 things that women say don't like when imagining their "perfect" man. But will instantly forget about when presented with an actual, sufficiently high-value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 02:39 PM
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Son, wouldn't you like to visit a Mexican whorehouse before you hit campus this fall?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 04:52 AM
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Women prefer beta behavior for long-term relationships News at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 02:18 AM
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You don't have a point to make, other than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 09:13 PM
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Yes, I could ...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 08:10 PM
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I'm not nearly as attracted to Emma Watson and Taylor Swift as I am Zoe Saldana and Rosario Dawson, or even some (lower status, gasp!!) women I follow on IG.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 02:51 PM
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I know, that's on purpose. It illustrates the point that men getting manicures doesn't actually matter that much, it's just another detail. A manicure doesn't add a whole lot to a man's sex appeal, but it also doesn't detract very much from his sex appeal, either. Women that want to fuck Khaled but think men who get manicures are less masculine are probably more than willing to give Khaled a pass, because of the money fame and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 01:25 PM
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Yeah, but it's weird when one person has a sex life and the other doesn't. That's an imbalance that can be awkward. If both people have other sexual/intimate outlets, then it's no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 03:02 AM
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No joke, every time he's in here getting a mani: "It's the key to success!" Every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 12:52 AM
1

All of these morons need to take a look at DJ Khaled's snapchat. That dude is at the salon every week, and he's rolling in pussy. Fat fucker, too ... doesn't stop him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 12:33 AM
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"I had to go through a lot of frogs to find my prince :-)" Frogs? Excuse me? And a recent conversation about online dating, how a friend of mine likes to meet her first-dates at the beach and she's usually wearing sunglasses. The guys ask her to take off her sunglasses, usually dropping some come-on line or whatever ... and she complains about having to take off her sunglasses, and how corny and dumb their lines are. Making fun of a couple of guys specifically. Like, what the fuck? Of course a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 09:53 PM
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And a pimp takes advantage of that damaged/vulnerable dynamic. Sorry, not trolling, maybe I'm missing your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 09:03 PM
1

Huh what. Refer to the Mickey Royal link and the American Pimp movie I mentioned already. Both contemporary examples of pimps and pimping. Not to mention the scraggle pimps I see in the neighborhood I live in. Maybe we're talking about different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 09:00 PM
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No doubt some pimps are conventionally attractive. But I would say it's an exception, similar to the male population in general. Look at the Mickey Royal link I posted in this thread. Watch the movie American Pimp. Look at those guys ... Some are fat. Some are just ugly. Not studly underwear models. The cars and clothes and apartments and clubs only pick up after the pimp has established himself. That money doesn't come from no where. He's got to have a stable of prostitutes to even get to that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 08:57 PM
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Wait wait wait, Lamar Odom had a laundry list of problems and addictions before he ever showed up to that brothel. He brought his addictive/destructive behavior in there with him. I understand brothels and the sex work industry in general are anything but clean and sober. But liking to "party" is different than being so hardcore addicted that you've lost the ability to be productive, along with anything resembling free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 08:43 PM
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To the rich person that doesn't have to work at all, the contractor making 100k/year is desperate for money. To the contractor, the fast-food cashier making 18k/year is desperate for money. To the fast-food cashier, the person rooting around in the garbage to recycle aluminum at $2/pound is desperate for money. Point is, it's only a matter of perspective separated by degrees. Furthermore, some prostitutes really do make six-figures annually from what they do. Some don't have pimps and are quite …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 08:27 PM
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Read any book or article, watch any movie or show about pimps. They will always say, across the board, they don't want their women addicted to drugs simply because it's bad for business. That's not to say it never happens. Who's really going to believe everything a pimp says, right. But pimps understand it very well that these women are their employees. If they can't turn tricks because they're dopesick or fiending, well then they can't make money. And she's no longer useful to the pimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 08:14 PM
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Seriously, I can't even. Not in that format. I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 08:10 PM
1

But pimps are not commonly sleeping with the prostitutes. Are you sure? How do you know? Mickey Royal refers to his prostitutes as his wives, saying that they all live together in the same house. Pimps can get sex from their women whenever they demand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 08:05 PM
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Game. The answer is Game. Manipulation. I could understand how a man's looks might be the most-valued thing from a feminine perspective. But from a male perspective, the one thing that will take him the very furthest is what's between his ears, and what comes out of his mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 07:34 PM
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Of course. The same could be said of any working person. Why would she choose prostitution, specifically? Then, why wouldn't she choose to prostitute independently? Edit: Why is she giving her money to her pimp?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 07:16 PM
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How do you explain the phenomenon of pimps? How can conventionally unattractive men, with little to no money or resources, convince women to abandon all good sense and logic, to rent out their sexuality to total strangers in exchange for money, only to turn right around and give all their money to their boo/daddy/boyfriend/husband (pimp)?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 07:12 PM
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Girls and women with "only" or a majority of guy friends, I've found to be mannish. Mannish in appearance, or mannerism, or personality. Or all 3. Which is fine ... go ahead. I'm just not attracted to mannish women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 06:57 PM
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that basket especially shouldn't rely on someone who isn't you. That is certainly what I mean. Multiple options, multiple opportunities is key. And if your female friend witnesses you picking up women on your own, she's way more likely to recommend you to her friends. I suspect we may agree on a lot, just that we're promoting or emphasizing slightly different things. I see a lot of apathy and "woe-is-me" from guys in this sub, and the cure for that is action. Action and empowerment is what these…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 06:47 PM
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Yes, having female friends is a good thing, not a bad thing. RP ain't changing shit, though. One hang-up that I've run into with my female friends is that I don't really share their sense of humor and nonchalance about dating. They're a lot more experienced with dating than I am, generally, so it's hard for me to relate sometimes. I understand a lighter, more casual attitude is actually a good thing, so that's something I'm working on. But some of the things they say do sound shitty, and I'm lef…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 06:30 PM
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...the fact that you have to be a million bucks to get into category #1 if she's bad and her friends are too. Most guys are something lower than a mil, they're just not charismatic and fun enough to be that guy. This. The only way she's hooking you up with her friends is if you're obviously a desirable, high-value guy already. Women that try or have tried to hookup their anxious, sexless guy friends usually see them crash and burn. It's also a bad idea to make female friends for the purpose of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 06:18 PM
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Ask yourself, are you doing what you're doing because you're trying to generate attraction in your friend? Or are you doing what you're doing because you want to, simply because you're friends? That's one way to differentiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 05:59 PM
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I'm not one of the guys you're referring to, but I wanted to respond anyway. I've no notion of the long-term trajectory of this sub. I only duck in and out for a few days periodically. But in the past few days, I've noticed a lot of self-loathing from the incel crowd. If an incel ever wants to get his love life off the ground, the self-loathing is something he's going to have to get over. Or at least get a lid on it. Also, the guys you are referring to, OP, probably have a lot of anxiety issues.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 11:31 PM
1

Start like a butterfly ... finish like a bulldog eating oatmeal. That's what I always say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 05:10 PM
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It's like attractive, socially well-adjusted people are attractive and socially well-adjusted ... or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 06:06 AM
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"Women are better than men" Please, let's not. zzzzzzzzzzzz Maybe there's some worthwhile argument there, considering fewer males are actually necessary for propagation of the species. I'm just not interested in arguing that, and it's still a digression from my original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 05:09 AM
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I'm being facetious, of course. I'm aware there are women that can do all of the above, with a smile on their face even. I might disagree that you're not rare, though. Endangered species, perhaps? I think, if I guy is going to get into a LTR to begin with, it better be with his own personal unicorn. Men should be picky with their commitment, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 12:05 AM
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Such is life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 10:57 PM
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What would you do with one if you caught one?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 02:57 PM
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No, mostly because I really hate the "in" part of the term "incel." Involuntary? Please. Only in the most extreme cases of disfigurement or dementia.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 02:49 PM
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Cold showers, slap battles, spicy food? What kind of a pussy are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 02:40 PM
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Written by a woman that hasn't dated since 1982. But that's alright, Tomassi has been married for quite awhile as well. As I said already, if you're arguing to equalize the area under the curve such that men and women's total SMV is equal over their lifetimes - pretty much what that article is arguing in-favor of - that's fine. And that wasn't my point to begin with. That article also points out a five-year-lag for men relative to women, which is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 02:17 PM
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If you're saying an argument could be made for extending women's peak SMV, that's fine. I know some women in their 30s, 40s (a couple in their 50s), that are certainly still killing it. But that's not the point I was trying to make. It's about the timing. Men's SMV begins to climb later in life, comparatively. Just because he's having trouble getting laid in college doesn't mean all hope is lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 04:18 AM
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7 weeks ago I did 100 in a row. Haven't done any since then ... so, probably half that much, right now. And on second thought, there are some climber chicks out there that I find attractive, and they're buff. Still not my physical ideal for attractiveness, but ... just talking about dating? Sure, totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 03:32 AM
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Beat me in a race? Sure. Plenty of hot track-and-field chicks out there. Push-up competition? Probably not. I can do a lot of push-ups; if she could beat me she would have huge arms and shoulders, which I'm not attracted to. However, there are a few women I follow on IG that can certainly squat more than I can (but they don't bench more than I do). They're totally hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 01:40 AM
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As I mentioned above, opting-out of the "old" traditional path of marrying young and having children, usually in favor of pursuing higher education and career prospects. Which is fine, I have nothing against higher education and careers for women, mind you. If that's what you want, go for it. But it turns out that if one neglects the skills and traits that make for a desirable wife or husband, and that's the kind of relationship you want at some point ... well you may find yourself very confused…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 12:05 AM
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Yes, that's how I've become familiar with the "Americanization" effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 11:52 PM
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That's interesting because I'm really attracted to Ethiopian/Eritrean women, and darker-skinned women in general. I'm fortunate and happy to live in a culturally diverse area of the US, with many immigrant communities including Ethiopian and other Africans, Arabs, Asians, Central and South Americans. It's true that some of these cultures preserve traditional wife/husband roles and promote the skills and values that come along with these roles; however, it seems that things can change within only…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 11:44 PM
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The good ol' U. S. of A., of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 11:10 PM
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I come from a land where feminism has been entrenched for decades and generations. The few women who actually care about either cooking or cleaning are wifed-up readily. We are left with women who are primarily concerned with bottomless mimosas and eating dessert first, if it doesn't involve their careers and educations. Cooking? Cleaning? Pshaw to that. Our women joke and practically brag about how their apartment smells, they have a huge pile of laundry 3 weeks deep, and how broke they are bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 11:00 PM
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Duh. Or rather, it's not necessarily "easy" in college. Look up Rollo Tomassi's model of SMV. Women's peak begins in their teenage years and runs through their 20's before decline; whereas men's peak begins around 30 and runs through their 40's before decline. Hence TRP's advice to young men: don't get married, don't have kids, spin plates into your 30's before even thinking about an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 10:16 PM
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Good topic, and some good responses already. I'll offer an answer: As far as RP, the end game is power over your own sex life. Power to generate sexual/romantic options and fully experience your desires. Achievement of a sex life that is completely fulfilling to you. (Edit: achievement of a fulfilling sex life on YOUR terms, not anyone else's.) Whatever that looks like, whatever that may be. Whether it's short-term spinning of plates the rest of your life, or a harem of FWBs, or one monogamous L…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 05:17 PM
1

I am a huge fan of John Muir, but that dude never got laid.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 04:32 PM
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Meh. As a few others said already: the only guys that will forever drop-out of the SMP in favor of VR technology, are guys that aren't (never were) competitive in the SMP anyway. A woman might have a relative or weird co-worker that's a VR shut-in, but other than that, women in general won't even notice. The guys here wringing their hands and imagining some kind of Matrix-style existence are sub-beta lunatics with a poor understanding of the most basic physical principles. You can't get somethin…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 04:40 PM
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Create a VR dating site/app to take advantage of the men. Create a VR surrogate boyfriend/attention-giver site/app to take advantage of the women.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 03:55 PM
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Implying that the hypothetical guy doesn't know any women he considers worth pursuing, already? You're bumping into "pussy on a pedestal" territory, here. Women are just people, after all. There's no such thing as "The One" either ... just good ones and bad ones and ones in-between. Men are much better-served by playing the numbers game.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 10:36 PM
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Though I still take issue with that message, it's different and much better than "wait for the right person." Specifically, "pursue a woman" ... is quite different language than "wait" for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 10:16 PM
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Then, what do you mean? When you say, "wait for the right person" ... what do you actually mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 09:46 PM
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Because telling men to "wait" for their sex life to happen is among the worst advice, ever. Patience is indeed a virtue, but that's different. Men are poorly served by passively waiting as if they were standing in line somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 09:28 PM
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If you already have (and always had) a completely fulfilling sex life, then TRP isn't for you. Straight up. I mean, why bother? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 02:52 PM
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If I could reach through the screen to slap you, I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 04:20 PM
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Welcome to the internet. You must be new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 04:14 PM
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What the fuck do I look like as a 35 year old man playing fucking Pokemon ? I was literally living in the woods over the weekend, came back, and everybody lost their fucking mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 04:48 AM
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You're right, men aren't obligated to feel any particular way about women. (An argument could be made for women to whom we are directly related, but that's a digression.) We largely can't control our thoughts from moment-to-moment, only our actions. Perhaps my point is: I've found empathy to be a useful tool in relating to women, and has helped me to regulate my behavior in a favorable way when approaching and expressing interest. It's helped me to get more dates. Reacting poorly to rejection wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 02:16 AM
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The women in your life (if there are any), try talking to them about their personal dating experiences some time. Ask them if they've ever experienced violently aggressive or stalker behavior from a guy. You might be surprised. Literally, all of the women I have talked to about the subject have experienced such behavior at some point. Some have really terrifying stories. That kind of behavior is something completely outside of my own experience as a man. Understanding and empathizing with women …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 04:43 PM
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You're going to have to explain what you mean by "courtship." Frankly, the idea of classical courtship is laughable in the arena of modern dating. Creepy NiceGuyTM behavior, etc etc. A man should never ever fear being labelled as a player. That's some male slut-shaming bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 04:16 PM
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Yes there are women that like well dress men, but those are the few not the majority. Yeah you wouldn't believe how many times I've heard "I really like dating guys that dress like shit!" from my women friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 02:39 PM
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Squats respond very well to reps in the teens (13-19 reps). It's good enough for Dorian Yates and it's good enough for me.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 02:20 PM
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A beautiful woman with nothing, is still a beautiful woman. A man with nothing, is nothing.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 02:06 PM
1

Best comment in this whole thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 03:20 AM
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Thank you for saying what needs to be said, without pulling punches.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 02:29 AM
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In some ancient cultures, being fat was a positive indicator of fertility/virility. There is plenty of variation in natural levels of body fat across our species; some people are naturally leaner or fatter than others. This means, therefore, the genetics to retain higher levels of body fat were successfully passed down. In more recent cultures, being fat signals an abundance of resources, and that you're wealthy enough to not have to work (manual labor). You have more than enough for yourself, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 01:46 AM
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I do think cosmetic surgery for men will become increasingly more common in the US. That said, I disagree with your theory that plastic surgery is the end game of RP. If we're speaking of RP strictly as sexual strategy, then I would say the end game from an individual man's perspective is a sex life that is completely fulfilling to him. And a fulfilling sex life will vary from man to man: marriage/LTR, or plates his whole life, or banging hookers his whole life, or all of the above, etc etc. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 02:24 PM
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I can give myself huge orgasms, trust me. But you have no idea what it's like to have this kind of sex drive. And if you actually equate masturbation to sex ... then we're at an impasse. I don't know how to make you understand except to say: seek out better sex. Good, healthy sex elicits a physiological response in men that masturbation can't re-create. There is such a thing as too much birthday cake. Too much masturbation can negatively affect a guy's ability to have sex. This causes a feedback…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 05:57 AM
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Two possibilities exist: You are too stupid to realize that your ex is trying to hook up with you again. In which case ... bye. or You do realize your ex is trying to hook up with you again, and you're down for it. In which case ... bye. In either case ... bye.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 11:18 PM
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I didn't say I wanted to be a woman. I don't want to be a woman. I do want more easily accessible options for sex and intimacy as a man, not as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 06:54 PM
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No. I'd like to experience the kind of easy, abundant sex life that I perceive women to have. However I won't pretend there aren't unique risks and challenges that come along with that kind of sex life, or being a woman in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 07:08 PM
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God I hate pop culture nerds. Classical nerds FTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 03:34 PM
1

Because smooth, hairless skin feels better to the touch than skin covered in hair. Better for where ever you happen to put your mouth and tongue, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 08:20 PM
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What other people have said already: soldiers are not inherently alpha, and being a soldier will not necessarily be conducive to developing alpha traits. By the time you've applied (or been drafted) to the military, you're at least 18 years old. You've already developed a basic set of personality traits that you will carry around for the rest of your life. The tier-1 operator types are certainly more alpha than the average schmucks emptying latrines or pushing paper every day. But the elite guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 03:03 PM
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What you're describing sounds like dualistic mating strategy. Alpha traits inspire sexual tingles, whereas beta traits inspire long(er)-term bonding. Women value both kinds of traits, yes. Here I would say that all women are different, and how much and exactly which traits a particular woman values will vary, depending on the individual woman and blah blah blah ... but - as a guy - just front-load your alpha traits. Most of us need to work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 02:47 AM
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If your frequency is zero, then the quality of your partners is also zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 07:35 PM
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Sarcasm aside, the underlying point I'm trying to make is that prostitution and men who visit prostitutes are significantly more prevalent than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 04:22 PM
1

Clearly we live on different planets.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 03:16 PM
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I'd love to see statistics on this one and I would love to see studies on that. You wrote those words in this thread. I understand you're not going to believe a random internet story. I don't blame you. An alternative is hard data: studies and statistics. But I'm telling you, any studies or statistical data that may exist on the subject cannot be considered accurate. I'd make a bet: take any 5 random, straight, sexually healthy guys between 30 and 65 and I would bet money at least 1 of them has …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 03:06 PM
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That is extremely interesting. Is that just based on your personal experience? How many men do you know that have done this? I'd love to see statistics on this one, I would have never imaged that to be the norm. and That is super interesting, I would love to see studies on that. Excuse me if I can't believe your random anecdotal fish story :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 02:28 PM
1

Seriously, this thread is garnering some of the most naive and ironic responses I've ever seen from the anti-RP crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 02:16 PM
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You're kidding yourself if you're expecting studies or statistics that are anywhere near accurate. It's the same problem as studies on the prevalence of drug use/abuse: people lie, and lie a lot, actually. Especially if it's something illegal. If studies on john/prostitute interactions even exist, the results are wildly skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 02:03 PM
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The world's oldest occupation. And ITT: people who are short on direct experience yet long on opinion and judgement. Some of the highest-SMV guys around see prostitutes. Pro athletes, for example. Pro athletes see prostitutes all time, and in extreme cases may even pay a 5-figure retainer to employ a prostitute exclusive to them while they're in season. Some of these women really do earn six figures a year, they aren't trafficked, or doing anything against their will. Some of these women do have…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 12:47 AM
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Your opinion is so hilariously uninformed, it's obvious you have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 12:11 AM
1

The grammar in your first 3 sentences is so bad, I don't even know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 02:00 PM
1

Best post of the thread, right here. It's something I've been thinking about a lot lately, realizing my own dents. Thinking about what I need to do to fix them, and what I'm really looking for in a relationship. Emotional support is a big one. Lack of emotional support is a major reason why my last relationship ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 04:02 PM
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They branch swing from man to man, often never staying single for too long or at all. They use cheating to get out of dead relationships. Tangential, but I've been thinking about this a lot recently. I don't know any straight women who are actually 100% single. I don't know any women (18-50) who aren't at least 1 of: Married Have a boyfriend Have 1 or more guys they're "on-again-off-again" with Have 1 or more guys they hook up with regularly
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 02:36 PM
5

Fuck yeah. Score one for Team Man. Thank you for all your hard work.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 10:13 PM
2

Being honest with ourselves makes it easier to be honest with others. And being honest with others make it easier to be honest with ourselves. It's a feedback loop.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 05:01 PM
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I thought most people around here would like that the access to sex and relationships would be easier and more equally distributed. I'd genuinely like to hear more about this. How might it work? For all RP likes to talk about SMP/SMV, sexual attraction and romantic interest actually isn't something that we can directly control and distribute like some commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 04:44 PM
0

Alpha Bux muthafuckaaaaaaaaaaa
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 04:59 AM
1

Time isn't an illusion; human perception of time as linear is the illusion. All moments past present and future already exist, but that isn't how we experience it. We experience one moment after another, instead of all moments simultaneously. Change is very real. There is an entire scientific discipline dedicated to the study of physical change: it's called chemistry. If you want to keep sitting on your couch feeling sorry for yourself, by all means ...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 09:14 PM
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Hm. I disagree with you that this article is wrong. I think this article confirms two things: Spinning plates is a good thing. Dating many different women is good and useful when it comes to LTR selection. Women have no idea what the fuck they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 04:24 PM
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You're getting disagreement so far, but I think you're right about something: Women are the prime selectors in the SMP. Women hold the power in the current SMP. And you're right, there's a lot of anger and angst tied to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 11:08 PM
1

My definition of virginity is the same as yours, so my opinion probably agrees too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 04:21 PM
1

It's funny because you said: If you're attractive, then you can get an attractive man to commit to you. and I'm pretty sure women marry men they find attractive. But now you're saying: There's more to sexual attraction than just looks anyway. One hand you're saying "It's really that simple!" And on the other hand you're saying "It's not that simple."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 02:48 PM
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RP doesn't deal in "should." Some women prioritize sex a whole lot. Others very little. And goalposts shift. Women should deliberately think about their intimate/romantic priorities in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 11:43 PM
1

I think there might be a misunderstanding of what "BF" means here. You mean body fat. Not boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 08:25 PM
2

Why a 1-10 scale and not a 1-3 scale? Everything is 1-5-10 anyway. And I'm disappointed to see a porn habit weighted equally to a prostitute habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 08:14 PM
5

Pro sports. Particularly American football and baseball. Touching and embracing is common. But yeah, in day-to-day life, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 08:06 PM
1

I have a neurological condition which affects my speech. Sometimes I can speak clearly, sometimes I can't. I've developed a whole bunch of anxiety because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 03:19 PM
1

Do you have a disability?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 03:06 PM
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There's a lot of misunderstanding and ignorance on both sides. As evidenced here. Personally speaking, it's not about who has it "easier." It's about recognizing the (huge) differences between the experiences of men and women in the context of dating and relationships, comparing notes and information with other men, and acting accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 05:15 AM
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I think this is the best answer. Closest to the truth, anyway. I've known women and young girls to fixate HARD on a particular guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 03:56 PM
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Huh? Young boys share the same attractions as older men: tits & ass & a pretty face. Beyonce, Rhianna, Nikki Minaj, the list goes on ... if older men are attracted to these women, so are young boys. Girl bands that make music targeted at young girls usually frame it in an empowered go-girl kind of way. Maybe I don't understand your point. Or maybe young girls are simply bigger consumers of pop music than young boys, and pop groups target their audience accordingly ($$$).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 03:40 PM
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Small correction: universities actually do care if their students graduate or not, because higher rates of graduation mean more $$$$. However, "competency" (not to mention excellence) has taken a back seat, even in some STEM programs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/16 03:51 PM
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This is one of the most convincing opinions that I've read regarding Models. You've convinced me to read it, now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 07:31 PM
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Furthermore ... are there not Euros on TRP and throughout the manosphere?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 06:27 PM
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as long as you are still confident, assertive and hot Next time on As The Hamster Wheel Turns...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 06:23 PM
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I'll take "Things women tell their beta orbiters" for $1000, Alex. And repeatedly observed as false through first-hand experience. Cool and intelligent women can like big meatheads, too. Why are you prescribing women's attractions for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 05:52 PM
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You're saying all the same things mothers tell their sons and women tell their orbiters. The punchline is, all kinds of women are attracted to masculinity a.k.a. macho. Even the intelligent, cool, down to earth ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 05:31 PM
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Yeah that's totally worse than attracting no women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 05:10 PM
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DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER Pem, you understand completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 05:06 PM
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Come on. Simply being not-fat, dressing adult basic, and having basic hygiene isn't good enough and you know it. If you're average, you don't stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 04:02 AM
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Well, the Maasai of Kenya and Tanzania, for example. A large portion of Maasai are pastoralists and still practice polygyny. Now, that study doesn't really link a man's number of wives to his land holdings or size of his cattle herd, but the study does clearly link number of wives with his age. It's not unreasonable to assume a man accumulates land and cattle as he ages, and these resources support his ability to have more wives. But it should also be noted that at least the first marriage or 2 …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 03:28 AM
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Ambition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 01:21 AM
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Usually the dude with the most land and cattle has the most wives, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 01:10 AM
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That's making a killing ($$$$) on both ends of this bullshit. Genius.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 01:10 AM
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This. Some young women really do have a fetish or fantasy or preference for older guys. If you're a guy at the right age and you fit enough of their physical preferences, you really don't have to do a whole lot to score.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 03:48 PM
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Insecurity on their part. You hurt this 25 year old girl's ego. She has to bring you down a notch or two to convince herself why she's really better than you and didn't want you in the first place. It doesn't stop. The chubby basic 30-something women I reject get upset when they figure out I hook up with 20-something women instead. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 07:50 AM
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I didn't get laid until I was 23. The first girl I slept with, we stayed together for almost 9 years. I was desperate, we moved too fast in the beginning, and we stayed together too long. I'm 34 now, and we broke up a little over a year ago. I'm glad to have moved on. You can get better, but it won't happen by itself. It won't happen without effort on your part. Nobody else can give you the life that you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 07:25 AM
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Uh. Buddha was a prince for the first 2 or 3 decades of his life before embarking on his path. He attained enlightenment after banging tons of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 07:02 AM
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Replacing the concept of "The One" with hypergamy/AWALT is one of the healthiest things I've done for myself recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:46 PM
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From time to time there are comments about taking anabolic steroids or other gear. Usually kinda joking but also kinda not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:02 AM
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Not anymore ... what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:52 AM
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The women in my social circle date engineers and doctors, and hook up with almost whomever they feel like whenever they feel like it. These women are school teachers, middle management, grad students, etc; i.e. less than equivalent in terms of salary and social status compared to the men they are dating. I, on the other hand, don't get to date models, cheerleaders, or doctors or engineers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:49 AM
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You get to bone other women or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:37 AM
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The conduct of an institution such as a large business or university isn't equivalent to the personal conduct of one single person. It's not a legit comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:28 AM
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I wasn't talking about Japan or an Asian country at all. I was talking about here in the U.S. But OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 08:13 PM
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I think a lot of women are simply imagining their boyfriends/husbands/crushes doing it. This is the crux. Yes, of course women say they desire provider traits in men they are already attracted to in some other way. However these provider traits do little to nothing to generate attraction in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 04:33 PM
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Asian women fetishize white guys just like Asian men fetishize white women. Particularly if they weren't born here (the U.S.). The difference in experiences comes from all the same things that have been and continue to be discussed in this sub (hypergamy, women date/fuck upward, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 04:21 PM
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Rational. She's hot, we're attracted, there's no mystery why.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 03:38 PM
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At some point we drop good/bad labels, though, and either accept the game and play it, or cash out altogether (MGTOW). Good/bad has no bearing on hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 03:37 PM
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Yes, men certainly do make (bad) decisions with their little head. Guilty as charged. There are major differences in how it plays out. I really think that's the main difference, and where a lot of the angst comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 03:43 AM
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Shut up and go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 02:48 AM
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It's that the RP shoe actually fits, and she's scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 02:45 AM
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Consider the context of sexual/romantic attraction, instead of purchasing a car or deciding which university to attend. In the context of attraction, women tend to be influenced more by feelings and emotion, and less by logic and rationale. The bad-boys, the party guys, the bodybuilders, the pro athletes, the players ... these guys may present every red flag in the book in terms of husband/father material, but yet they have a certain something which inspires desire and attraction for plenty of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 02:41 AM
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Then why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 02:15 AM
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Yes I like seeing my therapist. It's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 07:26 PM
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You need a fucking psychiatrist for this shit, not the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 05:05 PM
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Nobody cares what you think. TRP is not for you. You're repeating the same complains that have been voiced for years already. Nobody cares. TRP is not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 05:02 PM
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That's true, but that's not the same point. Point is, a man shouldn't fear being labeled as a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 02:51 PM
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Hits too close to home, eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:29 AM
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Generally speaking, a man's attractiveness or desirability isn't diminished by promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:25 AM
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I know you've labeled yourself as blue pill, but the way your attraction towards men works is very accurately described by red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:14 AM
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Whichever one wants to fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 11:58 PM
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Original sources, secondary sources, tertiary sources, whatever. If you're happy and fulfilled following some other advice from somewhere else, go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 03:23 PM
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The concept of there being one "special person" out there for you is a lie. A Disney fairytale far better suited for little girls who dream of Prince Charming. There are good ones and there are bad ones and there are ones in-between. Aside from the women in your family, no particular woman is inherently worthy of special treatment from you. Forget about pursuing any particular woman. Discover and pursue your own ambition, and follow it to the end of the earth. Put your best foot forward day afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 04:23 AM
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You can't build a winning game plan around an x-factor, though. It's not reliable or consistently reproducible. For many guys, if we stare at a given woman long enough often enough, we'll find something about her that we can focus on long enough to bust a nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 06:52 PM
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Fat girls feel bad about being fat girls, and want to stop feeling bad about being fat girls. Therein lies the choice: develop healthy habits to lose the weight (difficult, requires work) or ask everyone else to stop making them bad for being a fat girl (easier, little to no work). It's a matter of choice between implementing difficult changes to improve your quality of life vs. not changing shit. Guess which choice is more appealing? The Barbie thing is overblown. It's just a ploy to sell more …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 04:55 PM
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Online dating and hookup sites are rock-bottom wholesalers of dick. Chances are, the tindrwhales are already banging a dude or dudes that meet their criteria of "physically attractive." The tinderwhales are already getting their minimum sexual needs met. So they're there in hopes of reeling in "The One." And since they're already banging an attractive dude or dudes, The One better be at least as attractive as their hookup - because why in the world would they settle for less?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 04:25 PM
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In a sense, I agree with you. TRP presents a general model for attraction, dating, and romantic relationships. A particular woman may or may not correlate well to this general model. It's important to differentiate between "women" and "a woman": in discussion, those two get confounded around here all the time. It's also important to distinguish between single men and women, and married/LTR men and women. RP applies differently in either case. Strictly speaking in regards to hypergamy, my own exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 03:55 PM
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That's some fucking bullshit with Equinox. I had no idea. $3k+ can get a good rack and iron inside your house. WTF.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 03:33 AM
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Assless chaps it is, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 02:02 AM
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Holy shit your second paragraph is one big ass run-on sentence. The tindrwhale is already banging some absbro, that's why she wanted to know. There are limits to the amount of dick a particular woman actually wants - so if absbro is already in there, your abs better be at least as good as his, or else why would she trade up?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 01:34 AM
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When it comes to sex, dating, and romantic relationships ... physical attraction is Priority 1, 2, and 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 01:11 AM
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Yeah but are they hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 11:04 PM
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Yeah that will totally work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 11:02 PM
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Bill doesn't whore himself out as Dan does. They don't have similar interests or lifestyles. If Bill wanted to go full Bilzerian, he could.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 10:48 PM
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according to the OP According to the OP: Please use your local real life guys/girls as a barometer; movie stars, post-menopausal women and 3rd world lepers don't count for this. And I'll copy and paste OP's comment from elsewhere in this thread: ...I don't want to get into some idiot debate about whether someone would f*ck grandma. When we do discussions like this, most people know full well which women i'm talking about, but there's always one or two who decide to be Capt. Obtuse about the whol…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 09:42 PM
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K thx
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 05:42 PM
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No. of qualifying women "Qualifying" meaning as according to the OP. Not the very young nor the very old.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 04:57 PM
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You're repeating all the same lines fed to boys and young men when their mothers want to make them feel better. Expecting someone else to bring meaning and wonder to your own life is a losing battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 04:02 PM
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Undoing the concept of "The One" and replacing that concept with Hypergamy/AWALT is probably one of the healthiest things I've done for myself recently. AWALT is useful for destroying unhealthy fixation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 03:53 PM
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Yeah that crossed my mind as I wrote it. Not true. I don't believe that, which is what I meant when I put in "(I mostly [but not completely] believe this)." Even the word "worthless" isn't accurate. "Not worth it in the context of personal relationships" would be more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 03:20 PM
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Honestly, yes it's because of looks. Criteria for "would bang" is different than "would walk down the street holding hands with / would be comfortable introducing her to my friends with."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 07:46 PM
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Male. Tomassi-colored so I guess that looks like Red. 110%. But seriously, between 3/5 and 4/5 - 60% to 80% - of qualifying women I see on a day-to-day basis I'd have sex with. Less than half of the qualifying women I see around me I find attractive enough to really want to approach. Probably 1/5 or 2/5, so 20%-40%. Roughly half of the qualifying women I see around me I'd go out with if asked. Something like 2/5 or 3/5, so 40%-60%. My access (or lack thereof) to casual/NSA sex influence these re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 07:29 PM
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Pffffft. Fuck that noise. You're asking the wrong question. Would she ever date me, a white man? That's the question. I don't give a fuck about some twitter account.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 07:00 PM
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Are you getting more prolonged eye contact now than you used to? The women you are getting eye contact from, are they hot? Hotter than they used to be? When you do approach, what is the typical reaction: receptive? More receptive than they used to be? That's how you know if you're making progress. Don't rely on being approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 06:30 PM
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I didn't say it was new, I said it was a good example. A good example because it's honest and succinct. I just don't know many women that are that honest or perceptive about their own behavior. I'm trying to give you a kind of compliment here, but if you'd prefer I call you a fat solipsistic retard, I can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 05:21 PM
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Once you reach some baseline level of physical attractiveness, the individual preferences of women begin to diverge and a man's particular traits start to weigh more. Women are visual. Don't believe otherwise. And, as you know, a particular woman may (will) move the goalposts on who/what qualifies for her attraction, depending on her wants and circumstances. Just forget about women approaching you. Eye contact. Eye contact is the indicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 05:12 PM
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It's gold because it illustrates the disparity between the experiences of men and women in regards to sexual/romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 04:31 PM
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This is fucking gold. There you have it, ladies and gentlemen. "I can remain a lazy slob and STILL get laid." This is everything in a nutshell. But I actually appreciate that you're able to be that honest with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 04:23 PM
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It would be hot air if it weren't for the fact that modern attraction, dating, and relationship dynamics are described quite accurately by RP. Observed as accurate via first-hand experience. RP has given up on expecting actual change from women, and makes the point that if you want change then it must start from within.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 03:37 PM
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There's a distinction between inherently worthless as a person (I don't believe this), and worthless in the context of any relationship other than a sexual one (I mostly believe this). It's not about looking her in the eye, it's about looking yourself in the eye and knowing that she isn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 03:13 PM
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I get more attention/IOIs from women now at 35 than I ever did in my 20s. And over a much wider age range. So I wouldn't want to have my 20s looks back nor do I have any plans to settle down, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 02:59 PM
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Ah yes. Another smurfette-type without a clue. Alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 03:19 PM
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So? If you really think about it, all many of our consumer choices in westernized society boil down to which corporate statements and marketing campaign(s) you trust or don't trust. And advertisers across the board leverage our neuroses and insecurities against us in order to make us buy more shit. I purchased both of Tomassi's Rational Male books. They're relatively cheap paperbacks. I could have just as easily gotten all the same information for free on his blog. Tomassi actually discusses why…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 04:52 PM
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Women are attracted to powerful, high-status men. Women are attracted to displays of power and status. Of these powerful, high-status men to whom a particular woman may be attracted, she doesn't want to feel inferior. She desires to be included as part of his in-group. However, as day-to-day modus operandi, single guys are better-served to believe that there is nothing special about women in general nor any women in particular, other than those he is directly related to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 06:03 PM
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Dude, we don't need men to survive anymore. You're getting downvotes along with some debate, but in a sense you are right. As women's opportunity and agency proliferates (educational, economic), those same features for men are devalued in the context of attraction and relationships. A man's ability to provide a baseline standard of living becomes less of an influencing factor when women have more agency to achieve it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 05:12 PM
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Because this sub is mostly populated with socially-isolated internet morons who have no fucking idea what it's like to actually be a healthy, well-adjusted person. Leave this sub for a month, come back, and everyone is arguing the same shit. It's like no time passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 02:24 AM
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A removal of bottom-tier males would have to be accompanied by large-scale destruction or degradation of infrastructures for the OP's theory to be observed as true. There would have to be a real threat to the lives and livelihoods of women at large. If we simply removed bottom-tier males from the lives of women living in typically westernized, wealthy, industrialized countries - and everything else about their lives remained largely the same - it wouldn't at all happen as the OP proposes. Instea…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 06:34 PM
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Thank you Rollo and Niko. I look forward to listening to more of your podcasts addressing specific topics. Ironically, as soon as I finished listening to this podcast, I watched a short talkshow segment about women freezing their eggs for use later in their life. The universe is hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 05:53 PM
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Contracting pussy would be prostitutes and sex workers. Even contracts have defined terms and conditions. Getting married is like ... it's like getting married to pussy. There's no way out.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 04:01 AM
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If you're compatible, you stick together for the good and forfeit that temporary fun. This is the sticking point. The defining features of compatibility can and often do look/sound significantly different between men and women. This is where RP takes up and attempts to warn socially inexperienced men against getting roped into relationships that suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 04:53 PM
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No, because a man's SMV isn't based solely on his looks. Not by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 04:03 PM
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i wasn't speaking of physical attraction, but the sexual comfortability the woman feels towards the man. This may apply to individual women, but does not apply in general. Rather, it would be a foolish mistake to think this applies in general. Some (many?) women will do all kinds of freaky shit during a ONS with the right kind of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 03:34 PM
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This post is so stupid and myopic it must have been written by a woman or a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 04:29 PM
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Because he's a retard. An internet troll in the flesh, saying the dumbest and most outrageous things possible just to get a reaction. Completely unfit to actually lead the country. Multimillionaire? Fine. Marry supermodels? Fine. Hold elected office? No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 03:36 PM
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These threads suck because people only ever post pictures of celebrities. Of course people who's job it is to be in the public eye are going to look good, at most any age. There's a diner I frequent for breakfast. There is a certain waitress that is definitely over 40 - likely over 50 - and she is smoking hot. Tall, blonde, nice figure, and always sweet and friendly. I silently lose my shit every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 04:53 PM
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Such a myopic point of view. As if a romantic relationship were the best or only avenue for feeling love. Fairytales. You're writing as if being attractive were something exclusive of confidence and game. They're all closely tied together. A confident man is attractive. Game helps him capitalize on being attractive. Successfully gaming women feeds a man's confidence and boosts his attractiveness. What's truly humorous about this post is that you're playing directly into the RP narrative that onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 02:13 PM
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Because getting sex as a man - casual or otherwise - actually requires deliberate effort and work, usually. Women just have to show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 01:51 PM
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Women don't initiate because they have their options thrown at them. They've never had to deliberately think about what they're really attracted to. That's why many women appear to have no idea (rather, cannot articulate) what they want from men and relationships. Women don't initiate because, for many, the act of a man approaching defines her attraction. The act or thought of her approaching a man is actually a turn-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 11:51 PM
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There are few contributors on TRP that are actually worth reading. Of those that are worth reading, they usually have their own blog or something. Yes it's RP, but it's still reddit, which has a certain general user-base.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 11:31 PM
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What do you do when it's your own father that is henpecked and utterly deferential to his wife/your mother? Kinda fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 02:58 PM
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Been dead for 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 04:00 AM
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A strange analogy I've been thinking about: It's like pizza. I can remember the best pizza I've ever had. But that doesn't mean I'm going to go running off to that one pizzeria every time I'm craving pizza. Maybe it was in a bad neighborhood. Maybe it's thousands of miles away. Maybe the pizzeria has burned down, or changed ownership. What I'm saying is, I don't forgo all pizza forever because I can't get that one "best" pie anymore. There's still lots of great pizza out there which I still enjo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 11:59 PM
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There was a discussion about "JBY" about 2 weeks ago. The concept of "the right person" or "the one" is straight up poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 11:12 PM
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Well he's feminine-looking enough that I'd let him blow me, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 07:52 PM
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... women really are way more socially awkward/inept than men, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 07:42 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/FTC00ct.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 07:24 PM
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And I'm not really trying to argue your point. Your point is legit. To be a player, a guy has to have some attractive qualities. Of course. What I am trying to say is that a guy being labelled as a player does not hurt his prospects in the SMP in general. That being known as a guy that dates/dated a lot of women actually adds value. And that being inexperienced is actually a worse fate for guys than is being labelled a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 06:20 PM
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Suppose I told you I'm a 30-something guy that's slept with n-number of women. Pick whatever n-number sounds reasonable or normal to you for a 30-something guy. Now suppose I told you I'm a 30-something guy that's slept with 1 woman. Or even 0 women. Is your response or perception of me any different? My argument is that a guy with an abnormally low n-count provokes a primary response along the lines of "Something must be wrong with him!" Whereas the same guy with a reasonable/normal (or even hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:56 PM
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Well, you get used to it after awhile. What really sucks are the conflicting or mixed or incomplete messages we get. That guys who are able to control/suppress their libido - "be nice" "treat her with respect" - those are the desirable ones. While the guys who act on their libido more frequently - the "players" and "dogs" - are somehow wrong and less desirable. Yet in practice, it's the players who actually get what they - what we all - want. It's the players who actually get attention from wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:52 PM
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I understand. I wasn't necessarily accusing her of anything. We're all aware that the Grand Canyon exists, but we don't really get a sense of the scale until we are standing in front of it. Which is what I think she's expressing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:27 PM
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I have been looking at men I never found attractive and finding little things about them that are attractive and thinking "he'll do... HE WILL DO." You're starting to understand. Now consider this as your default state beginning from puberty and lasting for decades. For most guys, if we stare at a woman long enough/often enough, we will find something about her that we could focus on long enough to bust a nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:16 PM
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The hell are you blathering about? Just be yourself, the "right one" will come along? Poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 03:49 PM
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Have some imagination will you? Possible the dying man may not have all his mental faculties in his old age. May not even recognize anyone at all: family, friend, or foe. Pick one of many age-related afflictions (Alzheimer's, dementia, etc.) Whether anyone is there for him or not doesn't matter. Possible he doesn't end up on a "death bed" or withering away at all. Fatal accident, drug overdose, murdered. Car accident, eaten by a shark, dies in his sleep. Pick something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:42 AM
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In 20 more years, he will be on his death bed, withering away in a retirement home for years on end. When that day comes, in his final hour, he will have no one. This is a vindictive, myopic view based on a position of fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:46 AM
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We must cover our dangly bits out of social convention (backed by laws), and environmental considerations. Jeans and tshirts are good enough. Of course not all jeans and tshirts are equal, but still ... Go beyond "good enough" and set yourself apart from other men. Why not? Improving your dress is one of the major things that women will readily notice and respond to positively.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 03:32 AM
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Even birdwatching and winetasting can end up being useful and provide for some unique experiences. Travel, scientific uses. Being a sommelier is a thing and the wine industry is big $$$. But stuff like Dr. Who trivia, anime, video games ... yeah, not useful. Your identity and passion is defined by someone else (someone else's creative product). Trains no useful skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 02:19 AM
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Good enough isn't good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 02:12 AM
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Something about dating a pregnant woman seems wrong at some basic level, but I can't explain why. Just seems inappropriate.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 01:53 AM
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Holy crap. That article is pure crystallized solipsism. No clue that other, way shittier outcomes for single mothers exist and are common.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 01:43 AM
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X
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 07:48 PM
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Some of the most prolific manosphere bloggers/writers are married or in an LTR. They have a lot to say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 06:23 PM
1

Can't even remember the last time I cried in public. Decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 04:52 PM
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I believe that when most women see a low status heterosexual man what often runs through their mind is the ways that he could improve himself I think women often approach things from a frame of improvement if they see a low status man From personal experience and observation I find this to be untrue. I've been conditioned to believe a man, to be a good romantic/sexual prospect, should be a finished product. Few to no people (men and women) actually want a work-in-progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 04:49 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? They both fucking suck and they both make shit music. Drake is feminized. All I really know about about Chris Brown is he slapped Rhianna around a few years ago. If that's all the rap/hip-hop you know, you need to step your life up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 03:44 PM
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if the pursuit of casual sex is actually causing more problems or making your life worse than if you just had a mutually fulfilling monogamous relationship, I might tell someone "Why don't you try a different strategy then" or "Have you ever thought about dating someone?" I mean, its so easy!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 04:20 PM
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Thinking about problems doesn't lead to solving problems? What? Isaac Newton invented calculus and classical physics ... on accident? By coincidence? My homework doesn't complete itself. I think what you're trying to tell me is thinking has to followed up with action in order to make change. You're right, I'm not satisfied with the situation. I can't create siblings or paternal cousins for myself. I could get in touch with my maternal side of the family; they're basically strangers though, and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 03:43 PM
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It's something I've been thinking about a lot lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 02:24 AM
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I look in the mirror, and I see a dead end. I am the only child of my parents, the only child on my father's side, and I was intentionally isolated from my mother's side. I am 30-something, single, and I have no children. I dropped out of high school and worked as a carpenter for a long time. The economy took a dump in 07/08, and I went back to college at 28 to eventually graduate with a BS in Chemistry. Now I am pursuing a master's in engineering. Most of my friends are drug dealers, thieves, g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 11:08 PM
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Anyone that keeps a box of animal excrement in their house ...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 07:22 PM
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I'm in business ... transactions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 07:08 PM
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A man, and for the same reason(s) you would want to be a woman. Why would you ever want to be lukewarm?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 04:05 PM
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Pffft. With the medical/cosmetic surgery advances of today? A few minutes in the chop-shop and you're good to go!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 04:03 PM
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Na that shoe doesn't fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 03:53 PM
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I think "JBY" is a shorthand or oversimplification of the entire quote. JBY gets thrown around carelessly when the person giving the advice cannot or will not articulate much else. It's easy and simple and common to hear. Also I think it's important to understand who most often receives that advice: young people, young guys mostly, young guys that actually don't have things quite figured out. The average teenage or 20-something guy that spends his free time playing video games and trolling the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 06:40 PM
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There is actually something to the "Just Be Yourself" advice. It's actually good advice. It's just that there's a whole lot more to be said, though. A whole lot more to be understood before that advice is actually useful. There's a Jon Krakauer quote I really like that I think about a lot: I think if you're lucky in life, you have something that [you're] passionate about and good at, maybe. You gotta figure out who you are and what you are, and what you're here to do. And that's a lot harder tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 06:24 PM
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From personal observation, increased promiscuity in women really leads to high-SMV guys that are getting laid anyway to have a couple new plates to spin/numbers in their phone. You're right, there is no trickle-down. "Not afraid to go after what she wants" begins with the premise that she actually knows what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 06:06 PM
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God, Trump is such a pussy. Idi Amin, Pol Pot, Manuel Noriega on the other hand ...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 03:52 AM
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Now you're getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 10:02 PM
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SMPs are relative. You're already discussing that elsewhere in this thread. The SMP in Portland is different than the SMP in Boise is different than the SMP in Miami Beach is different than the SMP in London is different than the SMP in Sydney is different than ... Therein lies much of the answer. Edit: Also it depends on not only the location, but also on the manner of approach/hook-up. If you're hooking up through dating apps which are known for facilitating casual sex, then being a body-build…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 09:09 PM
1

Freddie Gibbs all day every day
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 05:03 PM
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He's on some classical/opera shit now, isn't he? I deleted all my Danzig library after I heard/saw an interview. Holy shit what a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 04:47 PM
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I wasn't sympathizing. I can sympathize with people that have some severe physical deformity. Other than that, the "in" part of incel is horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 03:46 PM
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Game. The answer is Game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 03:37 PM
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$, sure. Except you have to start somewhere. How does a pimp get his very first ho? Even then, neither of them are pulling down 6-figures every year. How does a pimp expand his circle from the first ho? True, some prostitutes are drug addicts. However, truly successful pimps actually guard their women against drug dealers and drug addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 05:16 AM
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Look at any real-life pimp. These guys aren't handsome. Some are downright ugly. Yet they get certain women to do the most ridiculous shit. How do they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 04:50 AM
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Marv was an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 04:46 AM
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I think the relative numbers of men vs. women working those jobs are more pertinent than the absolute number of those jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 07:19 PM
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she asked if she could work from home, a practice that was touted as a benefit at our company but rarely put into practice. This is a slippery slope. It sounds like the company was never prepared to deal with people actually wanting to work from home. at the time, I put my trust in HR and upper management. Doomed to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 03:42 PM
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Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I'm a broke and borderline homeless grad student If some sugar ma wants to treat me I'm all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 04:24 AM
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A dog will return your affection way more consistently than any human being.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 08:50 PM
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Na, go ahead and dismiss my advice if it isn't useful. I don't care. From the outside looking in, it sounds like you fit all too well into her beta-provider slot. Just don't allow yourself to be cornered.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 08:03 PM
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She is a plate. Maybe she is a good plate - perhaps a really good plate, even - but still a plate. She is not a unicorn; she is not "The One." Have a relationship, then. But leave yourself an escape. Don't get married, don't have kids, and be prepared for the fallout when the breakup happens. The desire to have/not have children and the manner in which they are raised ends up being one of the most-often cited reasons for LTR breakups. A couple of the most empowered, staunchest childfree women I …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 07:41 PM
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I don't see you asking/answering the most important question. What do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 07:13 PM
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Vanderbilt University’s “Healthy Masculinities Week,” organized by the Margaret Cuninggim Women’s Center. ............. The most hilarious part? Based on my recent internet activity, the AdChoices link running Rogue Fitness ads.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 05:11 PM
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Right. Or the same thing said a different way: being their Prince Charming, their Mr. Perfect. Being the man that is everything they want, and nothing they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 03:43 PM
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A more honest social dialogue about the consequences. An honest and open dialogue that discusses that while you can go ahead and have sex as much and as freely as you like, you are not exempt from the consequences. Go ahead and have your casual hookups while you pursue your education and career; go ahead and reject less-than-ideal guys along the way; go ahead and neglect your health; go ahead and reject the social norms of feminine beauty; go ahead and neglect the skills and habits which are tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 05:37 AM
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The bartender has no children. And no intention of having children. The other guy is very well-liked by his peers and is pretty much the antithesis of a tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 07:44 PM
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Over the past ~60 years, women have become the prime sexual selectors in the Western world. Figuratively speaking, men live and die by the whims of women in the SMP. If that's losing the dating game, I'd like to hear their definition of winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 07:04 PM
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Eh ... prison life and free life are very different. Different enough that comparison of the two is ludicrous. Men fucking other men in prison has at least as much to do with dominance and status as it does sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 03:13 PM
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Uh. Fitness aimed at women is a huge business. Zumba, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 02:44 PM
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I recently made an acquaintance: he is basically a PUA, except that he's never heard of a PUA. He is an approach machine, sexually aggressive, and he lives to fuck women. Lives for it. He doesn't really have any other interests. He is a bartender. I have another friend, he has trouble/bad-luck with women when it comes to dating and romantic relationships. He is a PhD, an engineer, and he likes climbing mountains. He is climbing previously unclimbed peaks in the Himalaya right now. Which man is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 02:33 PM
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I cannot defend TRP as a subreddit, because there is a lot of crazy shit that goes on in the comments over there that I cannot ever abide. It's a locker room, and I don't need a locker room right now. That is why I turned to The Rational Male. Tomassi still writes some crazy shit, but it's a more mature and comprehensive treatment of RP concepts. Concepts like hypergamy, The Wall, the sexual marketplace (SMP) and sexual market value (SMV) ... I would gladly reject this stuff, but I see it demons…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 03:04 PM
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I think the issue is much larger than gender dynamics. I think it has a lot more to do with social isolation, and internet addiction. The fact that a person can effectively insulate themselves from what used to be "normal" interactions and experiences; and instead, escape into their own personal echo chambers. We're at the point where, for whatever crazy beliefs a person may have, somebody somewhere is probably writing/blogging about it already. You can find validation, for better or worse. Beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 08:35 PM
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That makes sense. See, we're thinking from two different contexts here, hence the disconnect. There is a long and twisted friendzone rabbit hole we could travel down, but we already know where that goes. Some guys do have a conscience, though. Edit: Those guys tend to be less sexually/romantically experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 04:32 PM
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Only watched a few seconds of the video because I don't actually have any interest in sexbots, I just wanted to see the freakshow. I appreciate your and Atlas' responses over there. It's given me something to think about. Any real response on my part would come off as angsty or "man-splaining." There is enough of that around here already. Not all women in a FWB/NSA relationship are doing it against their will though, are they? There are two women I know personally that get to have their cake and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 03:29 PM
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Hm. The high-value/desirable men seem to be enjoying it. And the women banging them seem to be enjoying it, for now. I understand that "sexual liberation" or sex-positivity for women doesn't actually lead to more men having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 04:36 PM
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Dick is cheap, I get it. Women seek love - aren't getting it - but sexual prospects are plentiful anyway. Men seek sex - perhaps love as well - but neither of those prospects are plentiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 03:40 PM
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I have a lot to say about life and dating the SF Bay Area, because I was born and raised here, and lived here continuously for most of my life. There are far more straight, single men than there are straight, single women. For some reason I can't clearly identify, I constantly disqualify myself as a suitable dating/romantic prospect for women. There is some degree of social anxiety tied up in this. The recommendation for women to move to the Bay Area to "find a man" is funny because the reality …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 03:25 PM
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Have you ever in your life worked on a construction site? A multi-story high-rise building, for example? You don't know what you're talking about. These jobs demand a degree of mobility, versatility, and human intelligence that won't be common among machines for at least 100 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 02:37 PM
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You're right about that last part.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 06:23 AM
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Central and South American cultures have the tradition of hyphenated last names, and that's with a strong undercurrent of machismo, so ... eh? No big deal. I understand how it would be 100x easier for a woman to keep her maiden name for professional reasons. Edit: Furthermore, if you think about it, children taking the last names of both parents are actually taking the names of both grandfathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 01:35 AM
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Hm. I find a feminine presence to be pleasant and enjoyable, actually. Not just in terms of sex/intimacy, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 07:10 PM
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I wasn't deliberately trying to disobey, it's just that I haven't quite decided yet. I'd be open to the mods assigning flair to me, if they felt like it. More interesting that way. I'll respect the rules accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 06:55 PM
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The guys in my peer group, some of them have teenage daughters. That thread is funny because there is absolutely no appeal you can make to an angry father's .38.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 02:23 PM
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I was just going shitpost for shitpost. I'm 34 and I'm a grad student, so I get to spend a lot of time around college-age people. The women still show interest. But I'm not fat or bald or have bad skin, and I don't hit the clubs. And there are plenty of slovenly 20-somethings around, men and women. Have you seen a 30-something clubgirl?? Yeeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 02:18 PM
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Because you're a pedophile, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 05:39 AM
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Climb a mountain. Build a house. Fix a car. Freeze. Starve. Get injured. Living a sheltered life is the worst thing you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 01:11 AM
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Everybody here is still missing the point. Once a man passes a certain minimum threshold for attractiveness, his looks give progressively diminishing returns. Your game and status start to weigh more after that minimum threshold. Men do hold a minimum threshold for attractiveness in women, but the difference is that a woman's looks still weigh more beyond that threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 03:08 PM
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We should also understand that we're talking about reddit, here. By nature that's already skewed a certain direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 02:53 PM
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No. I'd say it's unwise for anybody to pursue higher education that isn't 100% serious about finishing their program. I'd say it's unwise to jump into a program that you're not actually interested in. I'd say it's becoming increasingly unwise to pursue degrees/certs that don't provide a large amount of leverage in the job market. I'd say it's important to set your priorities because, for the most part, you can't actually "have it all."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 02:42 PM
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Why does TRP have to do everything for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/15 04:30 AM
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I have no interest in your politics so I have no interest in seriously guessing. Your flair is pink/purple so it's probably mixed. I barely follow U.S. politics so, naturally, I follow even less of other countries. When it comes to politics (domestic as well as international/global) I think there is much to be understood by following the money. Following financial markets and economics is on my "should be doing" list.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 07:53 PM
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I think you will find RPers tend to deviate from those generalities moreso than BPers. I don't agree that someone's flair tells you everything about their politics. For elected officials, my voting record is all dem. For legislation, my voting record is mixed/independent. I will probably vote for Bernie Sanders in 2016. Like a typical American, I know very little about the domestic politics of other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 02:20 PM
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... and in yet other species, mate selection is based on pure physicality, and not at all on "looks." The male that can run/pursue faster, further, for longer; or straight up dominate and kick the crap out of other males; they get to mate. Anyway, I'd say the last sentence is true. Giving some extra attention to my dress and grooming over the past few weeks has returned positive feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 02:03 PM
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It's just that the threads/comments we've seen from FA'er types over the past few days all start out with preemptively disqualifying certain types of women ... then launching into some rant about how upset they are over being preemptively disqualified from the SMP themselves. The irony. Some prostitutes are very attractive, and I think if some of these FA'ers would get over themselves and the social stigmas attached to the whole thing, they could benefit from having some good sex. The encounter …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 07:55 PM
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Prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 02:05 PM
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Prostitutes are people, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 01:11 AM
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You will not find the answer anywhere on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 09:47 PM
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They have devices for that now, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 01:26 PM
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Fuck no. Sex is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 01:23 PM
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So, in order to determine whether you are a data-point that supports or doesn't support the idea in the OP, we have to know how you valued sex, women and relationships, and if this was associated with your ideas of success, self-worth and/or identity, when you considered yourself BP. If you could share that, that would assist me. Simply saying it is of no relevance without saying what those values were is putting the cart before the horse, in this case. BP/Pre-RP, I still placed a high value on …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 02:48 AM
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It's like learning to fly an airplane. Because you understand how a plane works and the physics of flight, doesn't make you a pilot. You have to get out there and log flight time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 03:56 PM
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Now you're starting to get it. Life is bitter. That's the jedi mind-trick of the cold approach. "I'm attracted to this woman but I'm not going to let it show." If you're unhappy with something about yourself, why wouldn't you change? If there's something out there that you want, you have to go out and get it. It won't fall into your lap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 03:53 PM
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Anecdata suggests women hate on other women waaaaayyyy harder than men hate on other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 12:11 AM
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You understand your OP, even with the edits, is vague. That's why we're having a hard time giving useful answers. However, this paragraph seems much more clear and answerable: So, in order to determine whether you are a data-point that supports or doesn't support the idea in the OP, we have to know how you valued sex, women and relationships, and if this was associated with your ideas of success, self-worth and/or identity, when you considered yourself BP. If you could share that, that would ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 02:46 PM
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I'd agree with both your bullet points. RP for me is about addressing the last part of the first point. Dissociating my personal worth from women a little bit and learning not to fixate. I think assigning an entire worldview - and all the details associated with one - to whatever color "pill" someone chooses isn't a great idea. I mean I think there is some fairly frequent deviation in the particulars.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 01:23 AM
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The average 20-something dumbass over on TRP doesn't have an inherently more-developed worldview, though. We could extend that to all of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 10:29 PM
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I am the Queen of France.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 10:08 PM
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There are no repercussions. All reward, no risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 07:57 PM
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Wake me up when there are websites for women that want to date/hook up with fat guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 07:27 PM
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After thinking about this, Great sex is priority #1
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 09:03 PM
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It is possible to be highly educated in your field of study, and still have a poor understanding of nutrition. Or just not care very much. I see plenty of that from both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 03:44 PM
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Ok. Suffice to say I don't understand or agree with those definitions. We all know how much women love clingy, emotionally out-of-control guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 03:31 PM
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Attractive woman: not a couch potato. High degree of physical activity. Strong work ethic. Arousing: the kind of body and personality that usually goes along with the above habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/15 02:49 AM
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Add 1 set of 15 per week, and in 3 weeks you're doing 105 every day. For lifting, consider starting with Mark Rippetoe's Starting Strength program. The book is worth the read as it's a manifesto on why barbell training is superior for the novice lifter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 08:45 PM
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Your assignment of beta characteristics is wildly wrong. Calm, even temper is an alpha trait. The man who exudes calm and confidence is an alpha. This all ties back to stoicism that RP talks about. Being emotionally unsteady and easily swayed is a beta trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 08:35 PM
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If you're starting at 0, there's no need to go to 100 right away. It's probably better not to. I started at 40 per day a month ago, and each week I added 10, and now it's 80. Tracking your progress is fun because you can plan out where you should be/will be in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 03:20 PM
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You're still looking at this with yourself (or women in general) as the priority. As if a woman's attentions were the end-all be-all goal. An alpha isn't charismatic and aggressive for the purpose of attracting women. An alpha is charismatic and aggressive to get what he wants out of life. You've already told us you've dated and fucked alpha(s), then you went on to settle down with a niceguy beta. You claim that you prefer beta qualities. Nobody here can prescribe to you what you're attracted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 02:23 PM
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"Alpha" isn't a binary state. And it's not necessarily a static, absolute condition. You've dated the Alpha, you've fucked the Alpha. Game set match.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 04:40 AM
2

Gym/regular exercise will improve your sleep pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 01:04 AM
1

80 every day in 4 sets of 20 Add 10 pushups per day per week
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 01:00 AM
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Pushups, jog, eat, school, grocery shopping, tend my garden. Creature of habit during the week. I have to be. I function way better when I impose structure and discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:29 AM
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Of course. But I don't identify with TRP as a sub. It's like what /u/CisWhiteMaelstrom said. After awhile you don't even think about "maintaining frame" or whatever. Either stuff passes your bullshit radar or it doesn't, and you address it accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:18 AM
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If you're just a booty call then you will be treated that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 09:21 PM
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ITT: White people. Zoe Saldana and Rosario Dawson are 9s in my book. The only reason I can't rate them a 10 is because I don't know them. The only thing that differentiates a 9 from a 10 is personal preference/compatibility. Once upon a time I would have rated myself a 6 or 7. Since then I've pegged myself down to a 5. After reading the comments in this thread and others the past couple of days, I have no fucking idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 08:52 PM
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So many freaking out that you might rate these guys an 8, but I think it's legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 02:08 PM
2

P90X more skinny fucks DYE deadlift? No? I will break you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 05:12 AM
1

Rushed into a LTR during the "lust" phase. That relationship lasted waaaaayyy longer than it should have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 03:55 PM
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Go full taoism. She's gonna take this trip, and she's gonna do whatever she wants. You may or may not ever see each other again. It really doesn't matter what you want. You are powerless to stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:20 AM
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I meet very few 18-35 women who know how to cook. Not only that, they will practically brag about it. Like its cute and endearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 11:51 PM
1

Now this is all starting to make more sense. You actually do get approached, but you're not attracted to the guys that approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 11:04 PM
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Romance was all about me doing shit for her, and her just kind of being there. One reason why we broke up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 06:45 PM
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Ha. Na she's got dudes throwing their dicks at her already, she doesn't need mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 03:48 PM
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White man, in your city. Black women are my personal favorite. I'm attracted to all races, actually, but the women I most frequently drool over tend to be dark-skinned women. Black women fuck the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 03:25 PM
1

An acquaintance miscarried her pregnancy a couple of years ago. She was really upset about it, and took awhile to get over it. She had a lot of support in the process. She and her husband conceived again and she carried to term with no problems, and they have a newborn son. Sounds like this guy's wife might still be hung-up about the miscarriage. 5 years since is awhile, though. Sounds like this guy might not be ready for fatherhood, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 03:08 PM
3

Not to mention if their kid has emotional or developmental problems, such as autism. Could get waaaaaay more than he bargained for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 02:25 PM
1

Stop putting your dick on a pedestal and fuck them. Or don't. Jesus christ.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 04:48 AM
1

Everybody wants to fuck and date up. I mean, if the opposite were true that would be stupid. Gender doesn't make a difference. It's that women actually have more success doing that than men do, in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 04:41 AM
0

Read anything on the subject written by Rollo Tomassi. Edit: Looks and Game are not independent, either. If you are so hung up about your (lack of) looks, then that affects your confidence which is a cornerstone to functional and effective Game.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 05:03 PM
8

You're right that those factors are not all weighted equally. You're wrong that looks count the most. Game counts the most.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 04:55 PM
2

Don't get emotionally invested into a fucking website.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 03:46 PM
5

Male SMV = Looks + Assets + Game It's defined as such in multiple places.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 03:42 PM
2

This is the kind of bullshit you need to figure out BEFORE you get into a LTR. Don't fucking kid yourself that it doesn't really matter.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 03:34 PM
1

Male SMV = Looks + Assets + Game
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 03:25 PM
0

Men have to work harder to achieve an SMV perceived as equal by the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 07:40 PM
1

Fuck that 99.9% bullshit I keeps it 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 06:40 PM
2

It's generally true. Women want to fuck and date up, not sideways. Certainly not down. And they get to because guys and testosterone and the thirst is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 06:26 PM
1

I don't understand what you're trying to say. Which part is delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 06:08 PM
1

Women's appearance occupies a much larger fraction of their SMV versus men's. It makes sense that women would spend more time on their appearance, because it counts for more. Except my anecdata disagrees with that, even. I pay more attention to my workouts and diet than all of the women that I actually know, personally or casually. And I post far less about it on social media, to boot. Edit: While women may have to work harder to maintain their SMV, it's harder for men to actually build their SM…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 03:37 PM
1

Something something RP thinks it's all about the Benjis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 02:56 PM
0

Nope, try again. The panacea lies within, not without.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 02:55 PM
1

Enjoy sex with women that want to have sex with you. Forget about pairing up, forget about the Madonna. Don't pedestalize, this isn't a fairy tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 02:51 PM
1

Princess schmrincess. I'd like to be able to date sideways on a consistent basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 06:24 PM
3

I've been conditioned to believe that approaching women is strange and wrong, and to not worry about it, because "the right one will come along" and find me. That's the conditioning I'm trying to undo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 05:48 PM
1

Wait, what? "Improve issues in stead of making them (worse)?" You want men to improve the lot of women? As if women can't or don't control their own behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 05:11 PM
4

I can not watch any TV or similar media for a month, and I'll still be attracted to the same types of women. The desire will still be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 04:47 PM
3

Because actively trying to attract a certain type is what got us here in the first place. It's a waste of time, even unhealthy in the extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 07:28 PM
5

Yeah, veganism and copious amounts of weed will do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 07:19 PM
2

Genuine desire is non-negotiable. For women and men. However, attraction is a little different, I think. Logic and rationale tends to influence male attraction. Emotion tends to influence female attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 04:34 PM
1

First off, I really sympathize with men and the role they are expected to take in society. It's hard. Congratulations, you picked the worst way to open. Next time, dispense with the attempt to placate and just get to the point. Except it looks like you don't really have a point to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 04:11 PM
1

To your first question: No. The women who actually want to fuck you will still want to fuck you no matter what you're labelled. 2nd question: Don't make women the center of your life. Put yourself, your wealth, and your status above and before any woman.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:25 PM
1

I don't know because I have not read the ebook (I probably should). I didn't know such a thing existed, actually.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:10 PM
3

No, more people wouldn't be monogamous. More people would lie about being monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 04:55 AM
3

I am slowly reading The Rational Male. Presently on Chapter 5 and the section about navigating the sexual marketplace. It's been a great read so far. Liberating, even.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 11:27 PM
1

A boat is a hole in the water into which you throw money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 11:08 PM
1

What the fuck are you talking about? Yeah, you have to socialize in order to meet people - some of them women, some of whom may want to have sex with you. No shit! Thanks for the deep insight. Using fiction in attempt to support your presented facts is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 11:06 PM
1

Pffftt. Not even hoping anymore. That line of thinking is useless and even damaging to single guys with little-to-no sex life. The Rational Male teaches this. Not to say that there aren't empathetic people out there, or that women in general are incapable of expressing empathy. But "hoping" and seeking-out "the One" is not a healthy mindset. Prepare for the self-interested behavior, and be pleasantly surprised when people act in ways contrary to that. Curbs or eliminates feelings of entitlement …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 04:40 PM
0

Didn't read every single word, but ... The only thing you can ever truly expect from others is for them to act in their own self-interest. People put themselves first. Men and women. I am never surprised when I see or hear of people acting in their own interest. However, in practice there are plenty of instances when people actually do act outside of their self-interest. Every day I see people helping and giving to others, however large or small the gesture, however large or small the benefit to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 01:33 PM
-2

If their input and discussion isn't useful in attracting the types of women you're actually interested in, then it doesn't make sense to be here from a pragmatic standpoint. We're here trying to work through some shit and undo some hangups in an effort to get better. I just hate to see us waste yet more time on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 02:17 AM
1

There are less white people in general in the San Francisco bay area. At least proportionally. Much of the white population is older and/or paired-up already, therefore the population of single and dating-age white women is yet smaller. Therefore, there is a premium on their SMV. There are a lot more white people in Texas. The bay area is concentrated with high-value, high-net-worth people anyway. Very competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 01:51 AM
2

If you're not getting anything useful from this sub ... there's the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 01:29 AM
3

No. Any woman showing up to this knows the deal ahead of time. And Shady is an ultra-high-value guy, so women will show up. If I did it, then it would be creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 04:46 PM
1

It's funny because saying... Women are sweet and caring and will let you in their group even if you don't let them in yours. ... actually doesn't mean anything. It's the same kind of blanket statement about women that some folks hate so much when it comes in RP flavor. I think it would be far more genuine to say: Some people are sweet and caring and will let you in their group even if you don't let them in yours. Some of these people are women. Some of these women may or may not be interested in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 08:07 PM
1

Not an attempt to change your view here. But, I have a deep-seated fear of rejection. So I almost never approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 07:41 PM
1

Celibate until 23, got into an LTR with that first girl which lasted way longer than it should have (almost 10 years), no sex for about the last year of our relationship. I supplemented with prostitutes. Finally split up about 7 months ago. Current dry spell, about 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 07:23 PM
2

Is this the kind of advice we can expect from the sub that's supposed to put TRP out of business?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 07:05 PM
1

You're a little off. It actually goes deeper than that. Tomassi explains how the concept of "The One" and "Oneitis" in general can be very unhealthy and lead to some bad hangups. Particularly for single guys with little-to-no sex/dating life that wish to change for the better. He also breaks it down in the context of LTRs. If you haven't read it already, I recommend it. I think some of Tomassi's language is intentionally subversive, so I'm guarded for that, but there really are useful concepts a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 04:46 PM
2

Health and longevity? Preventative medicine? Improved performance at your favorite sport? Simply liking what you see in the mirror? Naaaahhhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 05:47 AM
1

"Success with women" really isn't the endgame here, is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 01:40 AM
1

All pill shit aside. If you only do 1 thing, quit drinking. Start there. Find something healthy to occupy the time you would have spent drunk in front of the TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 01:19 AM
2

I think he meant, throw out some authors or titles. Not name names of entitled 14 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 12:35 AM
2

I just started The Rational Male. Deconstructing the concept of "The One" is powerful stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 12:23 AM
8

Women whom I consider to be about equal to me in attractiveness, aren't attracted to me. Women whom I consider to be less attractive than me, are attracted to me. It makes me wonder if women actually want an equal as an SO; or, do they really want a superior (in terms of SMV); or, perhaps my perceptions and appraisals of attractiveness are totally skewed. What if I told you that lifting and getting shape isn't primarily about impressing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 01:55 PM
1

Casual sex and relationship prospects are the gauge for your SMV. Maybe not a concrete unit of measurement, but it is real and *perceptible feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/15 03:55 PM
2

First, you have to decide if an LTR is really what you want. If you actually don't want an LTR, none of this matters. It's not about settling. It's about prioritizing. The higher your SMV, the more numerous and outrageous your expectations/demands can be. The lower your SMV, the fewer and more modest they must be. You have to think carefully about what is truly important to you. You won't figure it out all at once. Your priorities will probably change with age and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/15 03:44 PM
1

My roommate is unemployed, lazy, unambitious, with some disgusting personal habits. He's also a "bodybuilder." He has a girlfriend. She's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/15 03:06 PM
3

Consider that - in the US, anyway - we have a culture that celebrates stupidity, and mocks or fears intelligence. If a child's parents don't value education and intelligence, aren't proactive in their child's education, then the classroom is little more than a daycare. What I'm saying is, the standard model for K-12 education is terrible at meeting some kids' needs, particularly during middle and high school years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/15 02:40 PM
2

Na. When it's done properly, our BBQ game is on point. I will kill for good brisket.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/15 01:51 PM
2

It's possible I broke this girl's heart at the time. Maybe she has a story about the asshole that dumped her just because she wouldn't sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/15 03:58 AM
4

Show me someone that doesn't consider themselves at least a little freakish, and I'll show you someone that needs to take a good long look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 04:24 PM
2

she gave her heart Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 03:04 PM
9

It's funny how fast the religious shit goes out the window. The mutual friend wasn't even more attractive than me. But he was more sexually experienced and had more game, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 02:48 PM
15

When I was in high school at 16 I had a girlfriend a couple years younger than me. She went to a different high school, a Catholic school. She was very attractive and got attention from all kinds of men, even at such a young age. Anyway, we "dated" for awhile, spent a lot of time together, made out a lot and ran a few bases together. However, when the subject of sex came up she shut me down and said she was saving herself for marriage. I wanted to have sex, she didn't. Eventually I figured out I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 02:30 PM
1

Yes, it's worth it, SMV be damned. Do it for your health. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 04:57 AM
3

No. We're all fucked up somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 04:22 AM
1

Also, if you deal cocaine and Ecstasy for a few years, that will really help. Oh there's the punchline! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 04:17 AM
2

Why would I date someone who I feel nothing for ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 07:05 PM
2

Got a couch I can lay on? Mother is passive-aggressive, father is just passive. Both are overprotective, and I'm an only child so that makes it worse. They were good (perhaps great) parents during my early childhood, but my mother was (still is?) a self-proclaimed man-hater. Both mom and dad are faaaarrrrr out of touch with my generation, and things fell apart during my adolescence and teenage years. The way they grew up is worlds different than how I grew up. Neither of them made much effort to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 02:27 PM
2

The Rational Male was recommended to me by a poster on a different forum. I've ordered it, it'll be here on Wednesday.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 12:35 AM
15

Peer group validation is extremely powerful. If your wife's peers find you to be attractive, that affirms your position as an attractive man/husband, which in turn affirms your wife's attraction to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 04:22 PM
4

At 34 I'm just now grasping how fucked-up some of my parents' interactions with each other are. I would never ever accept the way my mother speaks to my father sometimes, if I were married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 02:40 PM
1

Good. Primary education for girls and women is correlated with all kinds of good things. Improved health, decreased poverty/increased lifetime income, etc. Education produces inroads for better jobs and careers. In general, everybody should vote (with a few exceptions) but they should vote according to their own beliefs, not according to advertising.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 02:14 PM
2

Men can displace and replace other men, also.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 01:59 PM
1

Shut up. Put down the controller. Turn off the TV. Go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 01:55 PM
3

Either way it just adds to the fuck ton of mix-signals men have to deal with. This. I actually enjoy "the chase" for a little while, and if she's actually shown some interest in me. But lately it's become apparent that I'm prone to misread a woman's behavior. So the blinders go on. It's not about me playing hard to get. It's about protecting myself, focusing on making myself a better person, and learning to self-validate rather than rely so heavily upon validation from someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 04:25 PM
3

No. And stop using fiction to try and explain real life. Some (many? all?) TRP tenets were around before The Red Pill forum, before the manosphere/pillsphere, and before the internet. TRP just organized and assigned (dumb) names to stuff that was already happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 03:42 PM
2

I truly hope this guy revisits this article in 5 or 10 years to let us know how their marriage is going.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 03:10 PM
2

Speaking only for myself, it isn't the n count that actually matters. It's all the baggage that (likely) comes along with having a high n count, and the type of personality that leads to a woman having a high n count. That isn't to say all women with a high n count always have a bunch of baggage. And that isn't to say women with a comparatively low n count cannot have a bunch of baggage. A "high" n count is also a relative term here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 02:28 PM
1

Prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 11:43 PM
2

Romance novels? Really? Something I dislike about TRP and PPD is using fictional examples to compare or relate to real life. It's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 03:52 PM
1

It's a good place to go for a boot to the ass. Sometimes a boot to the ass is necessary. The signal:noise ratio is (or was) terrible, though. But, it's been several months since I've read much there in earnest. I think the mods have been trying to improve things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 02:17 PM
5

This. Call me anything but "nice," please. Courteous, respectful, pleasant, etc. When she says I'm "nice" that equals "Oh god, she hates me."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 02:36 PM
1

I'm very active myself, and I'm most attracted to active women. Women with a deep interest in some sport or athletic pursuit. Their physical appearance usually reflects their interest, and they usually have a favorable BMI. It's not really about what the actual BMI number is. Rather physical ability, compatibility, and the kind of personality that often goes along with someone dedicated to an active pursuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 05:58 AM
2

We are intelligent, but we can't outsmart some of our most basic instincts. Romantic success is indeed a major factor in fulfillment. In some cases, so much so that (lack of) it can overshadow other successes. Particularly if you're older and haven't experienced much romantic success.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 06:11 PM
2

The reason I am confused by this is because I totally misread the situation. We hung out a lot, shared some great experiences and conversations. I thought she was attracted to me by some of the looks she gave me, and the content of some of our conversations. Seemed like a good fit. Finally revealed I was attracted to her. She shot me down. Now she won't talk to me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 05:07 PM
1

I've not and probably will never "accept everything in TRP." Because it's based on generalities, the exceptions to which are numerous and varied. I've found TRP to be more useful for understanding things which have already occurred, but quite poisonous if I let it dictate my day-to-day interactions. Endgame is a house on the beach in Central or South America. Surf, hike, climb until I drop dead. A fulfilling LTR would be great but it isn't requisite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 04:23 PM
5

Recently I was rejected by a woman who I thought could be the right one for me. That's why I'm here, because I'm upset. This thread is interesting because I checked many or all of the boxes the women here are listing. I mean, she literally told me I am: intelligent, funny, chill, fun to be with, attractive. She also told me she's never thought about me as a sexual partner. Joke's on me, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 03:38 PM
2

Women have no idea what the fuck they actually want. 99% chance the "smart, HB7+" girls are still banging at least 1 shirtlessprofiledude on the side.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 03:25 PM
2

I needed this post. Saved for posterity. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 06:25 PM
0

If you'd care to tie yourself down before you even experience your max potential SMV ... have fun.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 01:45 AM
0

Similar situation here. Fresh out of an LTR that lasted almost a decade. If I could do it over I would have dumped her after 6 months. I can't understand this sub's fixation with LTRs. Dudes under 35 shouldn't even be thinking about it.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 04:15 PM
1

Women have no idea what they want. Many can't tell the difference between definition and actual size.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 07:50 AM
8

Except that tinkering with engines actually might result in something tangible and useful.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 07:41 AM
1

How about "never get married"
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 07:37 AM
2

Some of the best put-together profiles get 100s of messages per day, depending on the site. Then who knows what kind of wildebeest is really on the other end of that profile.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 07:29 AM
4

To paraphrase something I read here in TRP a while ago: online dating sites are rock-bottom wholesalers of cock. It's fucking stupid and a waste of my time. MUCH rather public approach then use social media to keep the plates a'spinning.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 07:41 AM
6

Haha. Bitch, your best ain't that great!
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 07:35 AM
4

Leave my tools out in the rain, you're getting your ass chewed. Fuck that.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 04:07 AM
3

20/20 hindsight Her SMV was probably higher than Smith's at the time he was trying to get with her. Now a decade or two later, after Will Smith has proven himself to be a successful actor and pop icon, his SMV is much higher than hers ever was. And now she regrets it. I get this shit now with women I grew up with.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 01:03 AM
1

Atlas skipped legs day? Pussy.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 12:51 AM
4

More than once I've been straight up told by women, "My man can't compete with you." You are always being evaluated by your woman (or women). If you let yourself slide, if you want to make your relationship with your woman my responsibility ... I'm fucking your girl every time.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 06:55 PM
2

"Intellectual equal" ... fucking please. You can get intellectual stimulation from anybody: man, woman, child, animal ... many many different sources. I can go to a museum, art gallery, conference, or internet message board and get intellectual stimulation. You can get sexual fulfillment from far fewer people. If you're in a relationship but not sexually fulfilled, what the fuck is the point? If you're holding out for "an intellectual equal" you're going to be sorely disappointed every time. And…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 06:39 PM
2

150 fucking posts and not one of you assholes has mentioned cunnilingus? Dumbasses. Learn the fucking trade and eat pussy.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 07:04 AM
1

You're still complicating this shit. It's actually simple. This other dude was banging the shit out of your girl. It's got nothing to do with intelligence, or what she thinks is attractive. He entertains her more than you, fucks her better than you, and that's it. The best advice is build a bridge and get the fuck over it. Forget about her.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 03:52 AM
2

Start with your physical health. Identify your health goals and get on a program that will get you there and that you will stick with. Improving your health will in turn improve your mood and disposition, and might even help you to get off the antidepressants.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:53 PM
2

... and if I dump my shitdemons all over a woman, she's gonna next the fuck outta me. I'll never see daylight. Yet the second she thinks I'm a good candidate, here comes the fucking tidal wave.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 06:16 AM
2

Amazing how much buttrage there is at even the thought of some hypothetical cheating SO.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 04:50 PM
2

I guess it is pretty easy to get ducks to eat bread, isn't it.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 05:28 AM
16

Oneitis. Avoid that shit. That's it.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 05:09 AM
1

I think #1 is more like: left to their own devices, most women are actually boring.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 03:03 AM
-5

No I'm not gonna flex for you. The fuck is your problem? Lookin's fer free, touchin's gonna cost ya.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 02:47 AM
1

If you complete a 4 year program (or better) without a fuckton of debt, you're coming out ahead.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:03 AM
2

The higher education adds value in terms of professional prospects, but little to no value in terms of being a wife and mother. That's where the confusion is. As someone already mentioned upthread: solipsism. Since women value men with higher educations and improved career prospects ... men must also value women with those things, right? Haha. You're absolutely right, I can't fuck her PhD. I have my own graduate degree anyway, the fuck am I gonna do with hers? And is someone in here bitching abo…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 01:55 AM
1

If a girl is not good looking but intelligent, will you invest any time on her?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 01:04 AM
3

This sub sits a weird crossroads on reddit and the internet in general. We get literally all ages from teenagers all the way up through the 50+ crowd. We get foreveraloners, PUAs, sedditors, men's rights advocates, and more. The experiences are wide and varied. It's what makes this board so interesting, but also contributes to a less-than-ideal signal to noise ratio. It's up to you to sort out what's useful and what isn't. There is a lot of anger. A lot of that anger comes from guys who have sur…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 12:46 AM
3

I am the rock that will remain unmoved by your waves of bullshit. Go ahead, try.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 12:14 AM
1

What would a brown guy in the USA need to have the same amount of success as say a high SMV white guy? You won't. You never will. Sorry, but that's how this shit is set up. Being white in the US gives you a jump-start over non-whites across the board, and you remain at a premium. All other things being relatively equal, the white dude will have a higher SMV than the brown dude. That isn't to say the brown dude can't have success, or can't pull some of the same women, or can't pull his "ideal." Y…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 12:01 AM
2

Dude it's just satire. GLO is just trying to spur critical thinking and discussion, not actually advocating going out and doing this shit.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 11:37 PM
5

Funny there are some here trying to tell you that you're wrong. A few years ago I might have argued with you, too. Fuck that. The #1 qualifier is looks. Why bullshit? If I'm not attracted, it doesn't matter if she's the pizza girl or a PhD, she's not getting in the door. A close #2 is sex. I think some of the posters disagreeing with you have never had their brains properly banged out by some pretty tight thing. If #1: I'm attracted, and #2: The sex is good ... then, holy shit, I'm coming back t…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 10:39 PM
4

Yes marriage has nothing to do with wealth or status. At all. Nope. None.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 08:22 PM
5

You're acting like looks don't matter yet you're qualifying very interesting career, and education with Cute/hot girl If she's fugly or terrible in bed, who cares. Why would I want to commit to that?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 08:18 PM
2

If you're already established as an orbiter it's tough to climb out. Of course she doesn't like it, you're not her puppydog anymore. Don't worry about it. Next
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 06:56 AM
2

That's the problem. Personally, I wasn't working from "I'm going to kiss this teacher's ass to get ahead of everybody else." ... I was working from "I like this subject and enjoy participating in class." But that behavior is perceived as being a teacher's pet regardless of a student's intentions. As a kid or adolescent it's difficult to understand why. Of course it is highly variable, and my anecdotal experience isn't representative of the whole.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 07:58 PM
1

Public approach mentioned by a couple others is probably your best bet. But, consider expanding your box through fitness. Group exercise classes, outdoorsy stuff, climbing gyms. Find something that doesn't immediately sound like it sucks and give it a shot. You might find what you're looking for, or you might not. At least most of the women I've met that way are fit, and some of them have interests other than their cell phone and shopping.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 04:53 PM
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What? Being the kid that always raises his hand and has all the answers is a sure-fire way to make yourself an outcast in some K-12 schools. That's how it was for me, and my schools weren't predominately black by a long shot. A celebration of stupidity exists in some peer groups, unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 03:44 PM
3

Wow, tons of responses. In terms of entertainment, gaming is probably the most economical form there is. However OP, you're absolutely right. "Gaming" is simply sitting on your ass for extended periods of time. That is not useful to anybody.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:44 AM
2

Fantastic piece of technology. Lots of bullshit peripheral time-waster shit that you don't really need, though. It's not the gadget, it's the social media bullshit. Consider facebook/IG more like a personal resume or art installation and not so much a way of actually keeping in touch with people.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 02:10 AM
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if I was looking for a old soul that's her. Oh fuck ... please. Do you know how often I've heard that bullshit? Means they think they're sssooooo different from everyone else nobody really understands and blah blah blah. Been there, done that, OK place to visit wouldn't want to live there. Sorry. Anyway ... give it a couple months if it hasn't been that long already. Let the newness wear off. Then re-evaluate.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 05:33 AM
1

Great sex is great. Seriously, it's as important to a guy's health as eating, lifting, sleeping, etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 05:19 AM
2

Just don't marry a whore with a n count higher then 1. yes she may be a bad lay, but she wont leave you. Fuck that. Sexual satisfaction is what it's all about. Otherwise, what's the point?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 03:39 AM
3

I have no idea what you're trying to say with this post.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 09:22 PM
3

Not getting multiple random women pregnant is cornerstone to plate spinning, moron. How do you not understand that? I do want to find one ideal women. Just get the fuck out.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 02:56 PM
0

Good post, and some good replies. I think both strategies are valid depending on the situation. Sometimes you have to take what's in front of you. Holding out for someone else's promise leads to disappointment every time. Take the money and run. On the other hand, as we mature, we do have to contemplate the long view. If you've lived 30 years, you wonder where you might be in another 30. Sure you might be dead by then, but ... you might not be. I mean, I plan to be a strong and productive 60-som…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:36 AM
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What the fuck does he think 2 or 3 baby mommas are gonna do to his "six figure income" ...? Dumbest shit I've heard in awhile. Don't get the chick pregnant, dumbass.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:03 AM
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