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A_Laf/r/askTRP29/08/14 12:23 PM
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An alpha wouldn't command respect. He just wouldn't tolerate disrespect.If he's a friend of yours it's probably his attempt at joking around even though it's annoying. "You're adorable", "Don't flatter yourself", "Love you too", "Buy me a drink first" all work. You're showing his childish behavior doesn't bother you and you're spinning some humor into it and taking away the effect. If it's to the point where he's being a prick and not just joking around...why do you hang out with him?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 03:41 PM
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Not at all but do yourself a favor and don't bring it up especially if you're with a chick.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 12:59 PM
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Clearly it's something that was bothering her and it seemed like she wanted you to talk sense into her which you did. You're 100% right that she shouldn't have worried since it didn't involve her. It seemed like right before she left she realized how stupid she sounded. From the post alone I don't think it's something that needs addressing in terms of disrespect (unless there's a lot more). If she's on your case when you get home by all means address it but I'd personally ignore it and let it ro…
/r/askTRP19/09/14 05:04 PM
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Know what I loved in high school? Tech Ed because we built shit, blasted heavy metal and screwed around. We created things with our hands, worked as a team and were proud. It was a group of young men who could connect on making things with metal, wood and whatever else we had. There were hardly any women who took it (which wasn't that big of a deal) and it lead to complaints that they weren't welcome and intimidated. Know what they got rid of my senior year? Tech Ed because it was "unaccommodati…
/r/askTRP19/09/14 02:18 PM
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Confidence is key. You don't need the perfect opener. A simple "hello" works wonders. Push/Pull once you know she's into you otherwise it'll backfire ad she'll move on. Constantly increase SMV and neither of these will be an issue.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:52 PM
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Is she still talking to you and acting a little bitchy? Most likely a Shit test. Is she throwing a drink (or right hook) in your face, ignoring you or walking away? Rejection.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 04:55 AM
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The best response is no response. If she comes around great if not move on. Have other plans? Good. Don't set your night aside for her.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 04:52 AM
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Is her vagina worth more than your friendship with the dude? If no, then don't go for it. If yes, then slam away.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 04:49 AM
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If you're in an LTR she shouldn't be afraid of you. She should be afraid of losing you yes, but she should have a comforting feeling towards you as a strong leader and protector (Captain/1st Mate dynamic) not one of fear. It's good that she's afraid of you leaving because it shows that she's attached to you but if one of her NEEDS (not WANTS) is not met and you're in an LTR it's up to you as the leader to make sure they're met. Gotta have a little give or she might walk. Maintain frame if it's s…
/r/askTRP19/09/14 04:45 AM
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Women pick up on fake shit. Don't act alpha and high value...BE alpha and high value. They'll sense it.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 04:33 AM
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People on here tell guys to next a girl if she's not giving him what he needs. This applies to women too. If the captain isn't taking care of the ship and the first mate has to take charge, it may be time to find a new captain.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 04:31 AM
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You asked for a cuddle buddy and she's right; that's what she has a dog for. If you'd said you wanted a fuck buddy I'm sure she wouldn't have given the same answer (I hope).
/r/askTRP19/09/14 04:26 AM
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Don't explicitly say that to her. It's all in your actions. If she's acting like you want her to, do nice things for her. If she's not, then don't.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 09:04 PM
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Increase SMV enough so they'd be stupid to not contact you again. Lift, eat right, dress right and do everything imaginable to increase yourself as a man. What it came down to is that on day 2 you didn't give her enough vagina tingles that she wanted more.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:11 PM
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A relationship should be built out of alpha traits with beta traits sprinkled on top where appropriate. The alpha parts keep the relationship stable and build the foundation while the little bit of beta you throw in there (flowers, poems, gifts and shit) let her know that you don't just keep her around for a power fuck when you're pissed. My GF loves flowers so what do I do? I buy her flowers when she deserves them. If she's a bitch and disrespectful she sure as hell doesn't get any. You need to…
/r/askTRP11/09/14 03:18 PM
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If she insists on disrespecting you and you have clearly stated that her behavior is inappropriate (and she refuses to correct it), don't be afraid to walk. However, if you say that you're leaving, actually do it and don't make empty threats which will lead to more disrespect and continue this toxic cycle.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:11 PM
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Please, please do not send that text. That will do much more harm than good. It seems like you actually like her as more than a vagina with legs so you want her to trust you. I get it. Tell her that you're going to the party and you'd like her to go. If she does go then awesome. If she doesn't go then no big deal. Either way, do not let this mind game she's playing fuck with you. You're not trying to win her affection. Se needs to understand that there are other women that you can always go with…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 11:59 AM
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She will only treat you as poorly as you allow her. If you want to take her back, then do it. You showed her that you have no problem walking so you need to stick to it. If she acts up again, boot to the curb. It's up to you. You will only revert back to the old ways if you let her walk all over you. If she doesn't like you being alpha, find someone who does. What makes you happy? Figure it out and do it. Don't be in the relationship for her, be in it for you.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:21 PM
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Nicely handled. You decided what you want out of it and aren't settling for anything else. Next time set your frame earlier and don't get suckered into being an orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 03:01 PM
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As long as you know that the pedestal can be taken down at any time use it to your advantage. Keep up the good work brother.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 09:19 PM
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Careful about having the same fate as her last BFs though in terms of her not putting out. She may sound perfect but you don't join an LTR to not have sex. Don't be afraid to NEXT if she stops putting out. Never, ever, ever compromise your own goals and needs that extremely for a woman. A little compromise in an LTR is necessary but you need to choose what's acceptable. I'm not going to talk sense into you because you may be making a decision that works for you. I'm glad that you've found a woma…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 09:10 PM
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"There is no ONE. The ONE that you found is one of many that is compatible with you...There are some good Ones and there are some bad Ones but there is no ONE." -Rollo Tomassi Enjoy your time with her but don't think that you can't live without her. That's a slippery slope to much heartache. Remember, you're not lucky to have found her...she's lucky to have found you.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 01:49 AM
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I believe that MGTOW is a choice based on their goals in life while buffering is something that somebody does because of a fear of rejection. Is MGTOW a form of buffering? Perhaps, but by no means are all MGTOW (or most for that matter) that way because of a fear of rejection.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 01:39 AM
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Becoming content with who you are leads to no movement forward and improvement on who you are as a man. If you aren't moving forward and improving yourself you will slip back into the old you. You go to the gym, increase SMV and have a social life because since you've taken the red pill you know that the alternative is completely unacceptable and their absence will only make things 10 times worse. My advice if things don't get better is to keep doing what you're doing in terms of improving yours…
/r/askTRP30/08/14 01:28 AM
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Hmm you're right. I guess I'm spending too much time trying to prevent being beta and less time stepping back and being alpha about it. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 07:49 PM
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Stronglifts 5x5. It's a good beginner strength training program. Lift heavy, stop eating processed shit and do a bit of cardio 3 times a week. It's a decent workout routine that'll work wonders on your fitness and confidence.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 11:54 AM
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