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This makes no sense cause 70% of the sidebar is just the mini version of the rational male unless he ripped literally all of it from his manosphere peers? I do however get shitting on him because of this convention scam though..
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:16 PM
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Honestly still haven’t gotten out of this. My n count is still low but it’s hard not to be bummed and discouraged about shit like 80/20 and SMV ratings. True shit bro
/r/askTRP13/09/19 11:27 PM
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you mean like a suspicious look? like "are you actually cool?" lol it just feels like your implying you're not used to talking to cool girls but I can see how it can come off as a smooth playful sort of exchange.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:16 AM
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I kind of get what you’re saying. I feel the same thing rn. TRP made you realize how your value most likely isn’t that high and that it’ll take time before it’s at a better place. What everyone is trying to say is that you should appreciate where you are now despite that, keep grinding, and talk to women anyway. 3 year Monk mode without social skills will probably just make you the same awkward weirdo who’s just buff with nice clothes.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:51 PM
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I think he’s referring to how women date up while dudes are happy with most girls attention regardless if they’re hotter or lower on the scale. The average guy still needs to grind to get the same attention as the average female. 80/20 rule type shit. Yeah that’s the way it is but it frustrates me every once in awhile. Gotta keep pushing
/r/askTRP03/01/19 10:46 PM
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Yeah that seems better. This is my first date since TRP so I’m trying to work on escalating. I should start setting up dates In a more open ended way? Good advice!
/r/askTRP29/12/18 06:28 PM
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How did you get started investing. I’m going through audio books about stocks but it still feels a bit complicated
/r/askTRP10/12/18 11:07 PM
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This. At least text her the day of saying “it was nice meeting you” or something then set up a date later. Cuts down on flakes
/r/askTRP01/11/18 07:16 PM
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I originally though dread game was just implying through words or actions that you have options/ will leave them at anytime. I mean acting closed off for a bit might just cause them to distance themselves. Is it more so just taking away affection to the point they miss it so they then try to act more positively toward you to make it up?
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:29 PM
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Would you also say it’s a matter of ego? The fact you simply can’t get her cause she doesn’t see you as attractive? It’s a ridiculous mindset to dwell on but I feel that’s where a lot oneitis comes from.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:45 PM
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I always felt they wouldn’t take even innuendos seriously. Like they’d think it’s another joke. I need to try them anyway. Plus I’m really bad at IOI reading. Ever since I was in high school I just write off everything girls do as “she’s just being nice”, especially when I got friend zoned once. I still have problems facing rejection. Thanks for the advice!
/r/askTRP22/10/18 07:48 PM
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First attempt cut them some slack but second you gotta walk and either they give a shit and try you back or they don’t. I learned that the hard way a little while ago. I can’t even completely judge them because I’ve done the same thing once or twice. They don’t want to hurt your feelings or make shit awkward. Either that or they’re gripping on to their “I’m such a great person by not hurting his feelings and instead lying and leading him on! I’m such an angel n.n” self image.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 05:39 PM
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Last time I got a flake I just went silent and deleted her number. It was after like 3 attempts at meeting up. At some point they’re just saying there not interested covertly and wasting your time instead of being honest about it and saying not interested.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 05:17 PM
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I don’t have all the answers man. I’m still lost in my flaws and insecurities myself. I wish the world was like Disney or a rom com but it’s not. Do what you want with what you know. You sound like a high value dude. Either find your semi “close enough” unicorn or just fuck hoes get money. That’s it.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 04:15 PM
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Not really. Girls don’t care about what you’ll be but what you are rn. What I’m saying is men love beauty and feminine softeness but women love strength which is attached to masculine energy which is about molding and getting shit done. You’re in anger phase man. I’m sure it’ll probably pass. Like I said I feel the same but women do love, but they can’t love a slob with a heart of gold. At least the douchbag has strength. Just like YOU can’t get with a loyal fat chick (cause she’s not beautiful …
/r/askTRP14/10/18 03:55 PM
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OP I feel the same way. I get depressed thinking about human connections i thought I made with women only to be left or rejected simply because I wasn’t enough of a strong hot man at the time. It’s a dark red pill. I’m still dealing with the effects of this realization. But what’I think he’s saying is that there are women who will love you despite their hypergamous nature and even fight off most of that nature as long as you stay on your shit. If she loves your strengths enough you can show a we…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 03:38 PM
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Oooh that’s cringe. If you care about him a lot you could try to explain in “blue pill terms” why his behavior is such a turn off. Other fish in the sea, you’re being needy, this isn’t healthy etc.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:13 PM
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Why do girls fuck/lead on guys despite having BF?! Yes I read the sidebar and know bitches cheat for chad, like the validation of being hit on , etc. but what’s the point if they KNOW OP is hitting on them? Then they wait till shit gets heated to bring up their BF? I know it can just be one big shit test to get through but what’s the point of them having a BF? Lol it just makes shit hard for OP, the girl, AND her BF when she could instead just be single and ride the CC without attachments instea…
/r/askTRP01/10/18 06:22 PM
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Where you live? Lol I’m in the south but honestly l almost never see Hispanics so I don’t have a lot of reference and tbh I have no idea what most white girls think of me. I’ve only attracted a few in the past. I’m extremely attracted to them but I feel I need up my SMV more to attract them back.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 02:27 AM
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Was the guy she cheated with an 8 or above? Isn’t it hard to branch swing if the next guy isn’t above or on the same level as the previous?
/r/askTRP27/09/18 02:21 AM
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I just started this week but yeah you’re right. I was using smith machines the last few months but now I’ve switched gyms and I’m doing strictly free weights. Definitely feel the difference cause I had to go way lower plus my form was off so I’m fixing that too. Ive gained about 8-10 pounds since May/April but i would be much more if my diet had more calories so I’ll have to fix that. My diet has the right foods but I definitely need to eat more. As for my squat I just used 155 because that felt…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 11:18 PM
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Lol am I suppose to have said “I do 2 plates for 5 sets of 5?” I was saying that in comparison to guys who don’t go to the gym at all. Lol But thanks anyway I guess.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 11:24 AM
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145 used to be my one rep max but now I can do it for 5x5. I haven’t tested my one rep since April but now that I have gym buddies to spot me I might try it again. As far as squatting and deadlifting does that naturally improve or do I need to do more sets and reps?
/r/askTRP08/09/18 12:05 AM
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Honestly, just look up top post and you’ll find a couple.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:50 PM
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HOLD THE FUCK UP... THATS DENISE HUXTABLE!!! Lol put some respect on her
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 11:45 PM
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Lol I said this in regards to the “girls just want to have fun (as long as you lift).” Amused mastery and “girls just want to have fun” is the basis of frame and being an overall fun person to be around. You can’t just be a stoic piece of cardboard all the time. Feel me?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 10:49 PM
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Yes RDJ’s personality helps a reg body guy. But Pratt got with Ana Farris while he was chubby on Parks and Rec. KEEP IN MIND... ask a bitch if she rather have funny buff boyfriend or just plain buff boyfriend she’ll probably go with the funny one because he’s fun to be around. Girls just want to have fun. You can be funny all you want if your jacked enough with strong frame (which Pratt has along with status).
/r/askTRP29/08/18 09:59 PM
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I’ve got the same problem. Though I will add that Chris Pratt is jacked (high SMV) and RDJ has that “I’m the shit” vibe going for him. That confident presence sort of vibe.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:17 PM
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This is actually pretty reassuring. It gets frustrating and feels as if you weren’t “perfect” enough for them or you just didn’t say the perfect line. But sometimes girls just aren’t attracted despite your best efforts or just don’t see what they’re missing. Maybe even being asked out and approached makes them feel intimidated. Oh well, their loss.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 11:07 PM
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Correct me if I’m wrong, But if she verbally says no you have to stop (due to #metoo era). But if OP was more dominant during foreplay he’d be good? Like does steady escalation and push pull work on ASD combined with 2 steps forward one step back? My blue pill self is terrified of coming of rapey. Lol
/r/askTRP23/08/18 10:58 AM
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Isn’t his whole conversation just validating her? Correct me if I’m wrong but I thought all pull with no push was a bad method because it just boost her ego. Then again she said he was hot so I guess game doesn’t matter as much. Good lesson.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 06:52 PM
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I’ve got the same problem tbh. Sometimes I think it’s me covering up the fact I can’t provide a lot of value outside of humor. It’s like it consumes 70% of everything I say.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:17 PM
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Sounds like you have oneitis. She isn’t interested in you at all and it seems like she just wants your attention as an orbiter. The validation of you texting her and shit. Drop this girl. Straight up next her. I know it’s tough, I DEFINITELY know what it’s like, but she’s wasting your time. If you want a better understanding, then read this post. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/93ty5m/your_comfort_zone_oneitis/?st=JKUGVPO5&sh=8ea03fba
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:41 AM
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I think I took her text as more of a confirmation text rather than something to initiate on. I guess I took the wait a couple days before contacting thing too seriously. I just don’t want to go back to needy like behavior of the past ya know? Plus I’m not usually boring with text but again I don’t want to be seen as needy or as a entertainment orbiter anymore. I’ll just have to recalibrate and find balance. Thanks man
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:48 PM
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True. I didn’t build a lot of attraction in the interaction but I thought there was a basic level of interest due to her asking me questions and at least being enthusiastic about getting my contact. I’ll try a bit harder in the future to spark stronger investment in person. Then I’ll text the day of a reminder of the interaction. THEN open a couple days later with a date pitch. Maybe even make it on the spot. It just sucks because that seems so small a reason not to get anything back. Oh well. B…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:14 PM
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No. Lol I guess I asked as a warm up to the date pitch and to see if she was in a decent mood. Should I have just went for the pitch?
/r/askTRP14/08/18 04:54 PM
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I was honestly surprised after reading the Rationale Male because it literally is more than half of the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 03:54 PM
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“Friends With Benefits” A comfort test is like a shit test but instead of testing how strong your frame is it’s testing how safe she feels around you. Whether or not you’ll leave her (pump and dump) or whether or not you care about her at all.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:55 PM
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That’s right. I guess I went into the interaction completely forgetting all the above cause I wasn’t expecting shit out of it which I guess is somewhat good. I’m perfectly capable of doing all that and have in the past but integrating IDGAF into my personality 24/7 is something I need to work on. Do you usually pitch dates the day you get numbers or do you wait a couple days? Edit: I will add tho I’ve never sat next to a date in the past because I thought I would make them feel claustrophobic or…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 10:44 PM
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I’m dealing with a oneitis right now. Partly because of scarcity, boredom, and validation. Holding strong to no contact. Consciously I know she was just using me as a texting attention orbiter for when she’s bored (I’ve asked her out multiple times but just got weak sauce busy excuses with no alternative. Even too busy to talk on the phone??? HA!) Thing is a part of me wants closure, for her to just say she feels nothing for me but that’s just the validation seeking beta bitch inside. I’ve alrea…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 07:29 PM
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Dude you’re most likely a 6. Prob a 7 with gym and an 8 with clothes and status. If you have to ask it’s not that high.harsh shit
/r/askTRP01/08/18 11:15 AM
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In the sidebar there’s a link to an SMV counter. Can’t remember where exactly but it’s literally in the sidebar
/r/askTRP01/08/18 11:03 AM
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When I read the post I didn’t get a defensive vibe from the girl, like often times they try to flip it back on you like their flakiness is ok. I totally get what your saying though and appreciate it. I just used to end up falling into a girls frame back in the past when they’d get defensive about their excuses for flaking and I’m trying to fix that. Thanks Edit: thought you were OP. Still solid advice though
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 11:27 AM
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Great post! There was a good post awhile ago along the lines of “Stop Using Your Words To Cover Up Your Neediness”. Basically to ghost and withdraw attention when she fucks up, not verbally acknowledge it. Sometimes I honestly want to call girls out on their shit (flakiness, bullshit excuses, etc.) but it could come across as frame breaking. Example: Guy: you’re honestly being flakey Girl: (SHIT, this guy just called me out on my bullshit behavior, better flip it on him) “WOW, Ive just been busy…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 11:16 PM
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Finding TRP is a bit bittersweet. On one hand I was relieved to finally have answers in regards to why shit is the way it is. On the other the shock/regret of past beta mistakes when looking back on my life felt embarrassing and the long road of self improvement and reprogramming ahead felt daunting. Still kind of does. 20+ years of walking in the dark to find the harsh yet revealing light.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 02:52 AM
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How long have you stuck around during this period? Ive read some post about turning things around but that creepy feeling of being that unwanted annoying guy is what turns a lot of people off from cold approaching. Takes strong frame
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 10:16 PM
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Definitely sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 05:01 PM
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I just started reading TRP but I found him right before finding TRP. I think he’s good for beginners because his advice shuts down the natural needy tendencies of most BP guys. Plus game advice can be hard to come by without gimmicky crap. It’s vanilla game but it’s a start. The sidebar is great but it lacks game knowledge imo.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 03:33 AM
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The whole “you’ll never get (insert desire here) until you don’t want/need it anymore” thing is still fucking me up. That’s life I guess lol
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 03:25 AM
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Rick doesn’t really have a mission. Plus he got hard oneitis for a chick and almost committed suicide over her. His frame is strong asf tho so there’s that. But no. Lol
/r/askTRP26/07/18 03:15 AM
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How do you become outcome dependent without essentially lying to yourself? No expectations from life I mean. Approaching females or trying to get that promotion... pretending like you don’t care about the positive outcome of the actions you take? I get things like frame and stoicism center around being strong enough to accept any outcome given with positivity and knowledge that you’ll be fine regardless but it’s hard to mask negative thoughts, desires, and needs. It’s hard not to fear those nega…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 09:12 PM
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Tbh I kind of understand that. You’re right but at the same time you have to measure her up while initiating. Maker her qualify a bit. That’s what “you’re the prize means”.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 06:02 PM
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A month ago I saw the Light Switch Effect and BB Orbiter Theories demonstrated by own GRANDMA! Lol it was funny yet a bit sad. Imagine the sweetest woman in your life demonstrating AWALT right in front of your eyes.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 02:57 PM
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But where’s the line here? Amused mastery and humor are 2 great pillars of frame, flirting, shit test passing, etc. I see the point in this but where do you draw the line? I do recognize using jokes as a crutch is lame but humor is still important. I think using it with outcome dependence on making others laugh is that line.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 02:25 AM
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Exactly. But what I’m saying is girls make time for something if they see it as highly valuable (work, school, Chad TC). Look up a RP post called “You’re Not Her Top Option”.... She can say how much she misses you or how busy she is all she wants but most likely her interest level isn’t that high otherwise she’d give you a day she’s free with a time. She’d try her absolute HARDEST to find time in her schedule to go out.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 12:33 PM
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I’m actually going through the same shit. Action speak louder then words. Think about it like this... if you were a Zac Effron, Brad Pitt looking billionaire how busy would she really be?
/r/askTRP14/07/18 11:15 AM
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If anything I feel you could have just not gone. Or did you not know she would expect you to pay for dinner? I’m legitimately asking in terms of frame control and etc.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 11:27 AM
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Read this post. It’ll help you out A LOT! https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8uvmk7/youre_not_her_top_option/?st=JJ72NQJY&sh=184c642b
/r/askTRP04/07/18 12:02 PM
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“You know my Name” -Chris Cornell. Janes Bond Cadino Royale theme. THE MOST RP song I’ve ever heard.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:16 PM
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Damn I needed to hear that. Good comment!
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:39 PM
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Good post! I gotta say I’m only half way done with the article you added but it’s already helping me tons. It should be in the sidebar. Masculine theory is great but unless you master your control over investment (which I’m weak at) then obviously you won’t get anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 05:47 PM
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This was a pretty good read. It was well explained and executed in a easily digestible manner. I’d like it if you provide an example line to polarize away from yellow light.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 04:40 PM
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What’s the Best resource for game besides the few nuggets in the sidebar? I just started reading Book of Pook today and finished Models last month but I’m looking for things that address push pull, negging, LMR, “tingle talk”, etc. more in-depth.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 07:25 PM
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Lol women are naturally red pill.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 04:23 PM
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What was the name of the book you briefly mentioned you read?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 08:44 PM
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Damn I didn’t think of it as a shit test. Lol you’re right. I’ll know next time. Appreciate it
/r/askTRP03/06/18 08:28 PM
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Yeah it’s long but I’m trying get everything out. Probably should’ve just asked 3 question in under a paragraph.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 04:22 PM
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Thanks again for the comment. Im going to try not to come off as being defensive but maybe I am. I’ve been lifting the past month and a couple weeks since discovering the pill. Even Bought a gym membership so I have financial committment to not pussy out. I mentioned it the second line in my post but I should have went into more depth. Ive been doing a program given to me by a body builder friend focusing on muscle gain. My bench and squat are still in the low to mid 100s but climb by maybe 10 p…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:36 PM
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Lol yeah I’m lifting. Gained about 2-3 pounds of muscle this month which I’m proud of, just in a social rut. Will be hitting up sidebar again. Really I’m looking for game improvement overall.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 03:07 AM
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I had to stop and look up what those acronyms meant but yeah I’ve been thinking about getting no more mr nice guy as my next book. How is it? After reading models it seems like it’d be another variation of it.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 03:04 AM
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Thanks I appreciate the advice. I haven’t really had an outlet for my struggle so it’s nice to just get it out there. I agree with your take on this and I’ll try to cut myself some slack. Rome wasn’t built in a day right?
/r/askTRP19/05/18 10:52 PM
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