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It’s also a bad message to young girls growing up today with tons of rights and privileges. Then they go out into the world with a chip on their shoulder and treat men awfully.
/r/MensRights26/07/26 10:06 PM
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Or there’s excuses like oh she has anxiety or had emotional issues. They would never give me the same benefit even though I’ve been open about mental health issues I had in the past such as ptsd and anxiety. I did the work and continue to work on it in therapy but the women at work just complain and don’t make any changes to their life other than one I know.
/r/MensRights05/07/26 06:09 PM
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You’re right. My mother was very abusive and it wasn’t until I went to therapy in college that it was identified. College was less brainwashed then though. It left me unable to survive in the world, have an identity, form bonds with men, and also to be available to women in how they need.
/r/MensRights17/06/26 12:21 AM
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I grew up with a man hating mother who tried to raise and mold me by severely punishing any masculine trait I had. She didn’t let me play sports, be physical, wanted me meek and polite, and taught me to place women on a pedestal. This was such a disservice. As much as I respected and treated women well, they found these traits unappealing. Most are drawn to the risk taking confident male who does manspread and take up space. To this day women I meet want to be provided for, feel protected, and b…
/r/MensRights16/06/26 01:39 PM
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I know women who say the same. I think it’s a given that a relationship involves sexual compatibility.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 07:39 PM
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Almost every young woman I’ve known has had help moving up in the workplace and especially at university. If she’s remotely attractive even more so but I suppose feminists would blame men for that. Still it’s an advantage and one they openly use.
/r/MensRights13/06/26 06:22 PM
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I said no to the last woman I dated and she showed up to my bedroom at night and straddled me.
/r/MensRights02/05/26 12:37 PM
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Yup. These women are psychologists and I work as a behavioral therapist under them. I was telling a friend about it today and he said “well men say the same things.” They do not and my time in academia was similar where they would hold men back because we have all the power apparently. They’d then promote their girlfriends or women who weren’t as interested or hard working
/r/MensRights02/05/26 01:09 AM
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I had a coworker who got promoted to being my boss say I hate all men in a meeting right after we had to do a sexual harassment and cultural sensitivity training at work. One of the examples in the video was a man saying something like this about women and it was considered bad. Nevertheless, no one batted an eye at her comment and it was just accepted.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 05:25 AM
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There is no HR. The one who makes those decisions is a female therapist who loves that boss and protects her girls as she says.
/r/MensRights13/03/26 11:46 AM
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It’s all woke who work there except for one other guy. You’re right.
/r/MensRights13/03/26 11:45 AM
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One of my bosses at work openly said she hates men during a meeting and no one batted an eye.
/r/MensRights13/03/26 09:10 AM
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She said rich guys would use 100 dollar bills and let her keep the change to impress her.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 07:07 PM
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This isn’t social media but dating part in real life and part from apps.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 04:27 PM
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One girl I work with who’s “independent” says when she meets men she expects money. She went to a bar a few weeks ago and came back with 800 dollars from guys buying her drinks and letting her keep the change.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 04:25 PM
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Awesome! I’m going to be a vampire!
/r/MensRights11/03/26 04:07 PM
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Yes. That happened with me a few months ago. I dated a therapist of all people who wanted to know all about me then weaponized my vulnerability. She began to ask me to be more controlling and aid I wasn’t man enough because I didn’t get jealous. I refused to be toxic.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 04:06 PM
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You’d be called not a man, an incel, or many other derogatory terms. However, if you’re hit they’ll still hook up.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 04:02 PM
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Thank you so much for saying this. You’re completely right and the things she was saying were dismissive at best then extreme examples for laughs. I have two autistic coworkers who are delightful. We work helping neurodivergent kids socialize. No one does it all alone and having more understanding and compassion helps.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 09:25 PM
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I had to deal with this in grad school where the majority were female professors telling us about what men feel. I was one of two men in the class. We’d raise our hand and give our perspective and they would just say “no!!l
/r/MensRights05/03/26 04:58 AM
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😂
/r/MensRights05/03/26 04:57 AM
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Could you imagine if someone took a mocking tone to a women’s suicide problem?
/r/MensRights05/03/26 12:31 AM
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At work last week a girl just openly said she hates all men.
/r/MensRights19/02/26 07:42 AM
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I was raped by a family member at age 12. She was heavy and I was little. People knew but protected her claiming she was mentally ill. She used objects to penetrate my anus and would take me to the bathroom to “bathe” me. I had a sociology professor in college say that men couldn’t be raped because we have to get turned on and all men like sex. It’s cruel and hateful to say so.
/r/MensRights12/02/26 08:44 AM
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I noticed this in grad school and in the entertainment industry. I was in classes with majority women and women professors who could complain yet not realize that there were so few men.
/r/MensRights31/01/26 12:45 AM
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The woman who made the comment is now trying to sleep with one of the dads even though she has a boyfriend l.
/r/MensRights16/01/26 01:14 PM
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Exactly. They don’t even acknowledge how it’s inappropriate and hypocritical. Men aren’t seen as people.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 07:53 PM
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Haha! Wow. Thats brilliant
/r/MensRights15/01/26 05:41 PM
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Haha! His name was Maxim. One woman said that was a condom.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 03:42 PM
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Right! I even had a professor do that in class. I was annoyed at all the wasted time.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 03:41 PM
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Well I ran into this guy through some friends and he was happy to be banging a teacher. He wasn’t the most sensitive type and liked getting a good grade. It was just funny that when I brought up having a radical feminist teacher who denied men could be raped be instantly asked where did you go to undergrad? He had heard her say things like that.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 06:42 AM
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Right! This woman was a radical feminist. I found out years later that she slept with her student.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 06:03 AM
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I had a sociology professor in early college tell me men couldn’t be raped or sexually assaulted because they all like sex. This was in 1999 though and I’m sure attitudes have changed. When I told her I’d been assaulted and molested as a kid she said as a guy I was lucky.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 05:57 AM
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Exactly! I had a job at Barnes and Noble where a manger kissed me. When the district manager found out she began to cry and blame me because I was a guy and must have initiated it she said. I was the employee and in no position of power. Women watch out for each other only.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 05:54 AM
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Most guys I know are respectful enough not to say things like that in front of women out of courtesy but most women don’t care about how they make men feel. I’ve also been sexually assaulted and when I bring up things I’m uncomfortable about physically I’m called gay. The women I’ve dated this year have been so rapey.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 05:52 AM
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I have a mini device as well as a pen camera.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 05:48 AM
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I used to treat beautiful women like guys preventers I’d be mean to them. It drove them nuts because men never did that. They often even saw it as a challenge to try to hook up with me.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 02:56 PM
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I was sexually abused by a woman. I’m a sociology class in college the professor said men cannot be raped or sexually assaulted because they love sex. When I brought up what happened to me she dismissed it and aid I must have liked it.
/r/MensRights30/12/25 01:50 AM
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Thank you so much for your kind words. Yeah, I’m almost a month out of that situation and it left me questioning myself a lot. I tolerated slot because for a while it was nice to be seen even if it came with a little chaos and pain. I won’t do that again.
/r/MensRights30/11/25 10:39 AM
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I feel very invisible. Any displays of affection or kindness that come my way are held on to so tightly. It’s not healthy and has gotten me into abusive relationships. Time to do my own thing.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 10:49 PM
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Yeah. I recently broke up with my ex who has borderline personality disorder and she would rage and have outbursts in public but because she was a 5 foot tall woman no one would consider it abuse. It wasn’t until my therapist called it out and began to worry for my safety that I took serious steps to end it. My mom was often violent with me in public and no one would help.
/r/MensRights15/11/25 09:05 AM
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That’s why I would read old novels from different eras where masculinity wasn’t taboo. My ex used to want me to join book of the month or other literary clubs but it was all the same themes.
/r/MensRights15/11/25 07:23 AM
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The woman was disabled and played vulnerable. She painted me as a trouble child even though I was quiet and never got into trouble I stopped speaking and checked out. I became twitchy and weird.
/r/MensRights13/11/25 08:16 PM
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I was assaulted by a female family member as a child but no one cared and any time I brought it up through life and to authorities they scoffed and believed she was too vulnerable and that I was an unruly boy.
/r/MensRights13/11/25 12:26 PM
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I just dated a woman and eventually did an intense search on her and found out she was in prison and was going to do live and had her sentence pardoned because she was going back to school to be a therapist. It didn’t change the fact that she continued to harm people she just got smarter at how she did it.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 02:45 PM
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Won a Pulitzer
/r/MensRights12/11/25 06:12 AM
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I just broke up with a woman who I found out was about to serve life in prison and has a history of hitting exes. She already defamed me on Facebook. I felt for her she had a tragic past but had a diagnosis of psychopathic traits and would slip out of reality. She could completely ruin me. My therapist and all my friends kept calling me texting saying to go no contact and that they were worried about my safety. I hope I’ll be ok.
/r/MensRights10/11/25 09:44 AM
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So interesting. Humans just are really predictable sometimes. We’re really just smart apes. I remember reading Guns, Germs, and Steel. In it the author talked about studying isolated tribes that hadn’t had contact with the modern world to get an idea of how relationships often played out historically. Often a man would kill a woman’s husband and she would just end up marrying her husbands murderer. It commonly was just about an exchange of resources.
/r/MensRights09/11/25 09:43 AM
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Yeah it’s wild. A woman I dated fit two months called me effeminate essentially because I wasn’t jealous or controlling. Yeah, I’m not becoming an abuser to fulfill some shallow view of masculinity you have. I have to admit the break up hurt. I’d been to intense therapy for over a year to become a better person only to be met with requests to act like a human wallet, a walking flesh dildo, or just gay for being respectful.
/r/MensRights09/11/25 09:38 AM
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I’ve been sexually assaulted with things like groping and forced touching or kisses because I never developed boundaries or if I did object I was called gay by adult women. The stats have to be more than 1 percent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/25 03:29 AM
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No, but she wanted me to tell her what not to wear, to be jealous of other men or she didn’t feel loved, to tell her not to go out to clubs, to take harm physically for her, and to tell her what to do on weekends.
/r/MensRights21/10/25 10:05 PM
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It’s not just the bedroom. It was me making decisions, telling her what not to wear, what men not to talk to, to pay for everything, and to be the stoic rock while she became more child like.
/r/MensRights21/10/25 05:26 PM
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Oh at first it was nice.
/r/MensRights21/10/25 02:46 PM
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I was forced into sex acts by a female adult family member including anal penetration with an object and forcing tough play with genitals. I was told by a sociology professor I could not be raped because men always like sex.
/r/MensRights21/10/25 02:29 PM
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Not at all. I have nieces and nephews and being child free has allowed me to fiocusbin myself and a partner as well as continuing to posture my dreams.
/r/MensRights18/09/25 03:23 PM
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I’m 46 and child free
/r/MensRights17/09/25 08:07 PM
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Yes thank you for asking . I’ve had slotnof sulport this year.
/r/MensRights05/09/25 11:33 AM
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A dare I went on over a month ago comfortably exclaimed that it was totally fine for her to have sex with a 17 year old. She was 45.
/r/MensRights21/08/25 03:23 PM
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I was briefly homeless and would attend support groups. All the women had access to help or a man to take them in. Us men had nowhere and only each other but there was little we could do.
/r/MensRights03/08/25 07:50 PM
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Yeah, but they refuse to talk to men. If it’s a male teacher or doctor they won’t listen to them. They repeat misandrist sayings. It’s a concern.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 04:52 PM
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What if she said she hates black oeoole?
/r/MensRights01/08/25 10:29 AM
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It came from my mom too who hated men. Sucks. It fucked me over as she lashed out at me as a kid for just being a boy. The cycle continues.
/r/MensRights31/07/25 03:15 PM
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It’s my niece she’s a kid
/r/MensRights30/07/25 07:43 AM
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Haha! Her dad passed away last year and was an asshole. So yeah it’s a single mom who told her awful things about him.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 02:09 AM
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Thank you for saying that. It was very frustrating and so prominent in grad school.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 01:45 AM
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I try to be a good example. I support her and her sister and play with them. I lay out the good qualities in men and remind her of her masculine tendencies.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 09:59 PM
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My 12 year old niece is like this. She says awful things about men. She always says she hates them openly.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 04:02 PM
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I had an experimental cinema class that had nothing to do with gender politics or the male gaze. The professor began to talk about a man she liked who was 20 years younger and very successful. She then lectured a class of all female except us 2 men about how men feel. She said we don’t like to be pursued and don’t want to be asked out. We spoke up saying we would LOVE it if a girl asked us out. She shut it down and began to say how men make women wear makeup and fuel the cosmetic industry. None …
/r/MensRights29/07/25 02:06 PM
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I don’t think she thought through the male on male assault but she said with women men always want it.
/r/MensRights27/07/25 01:30 PM
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Uh oh! I feel threatened!
/r/MensRights24/07/25 02:52 PM
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Wow. I can totally relate to this. I was also raised to be used and be so nice that women could harm me. I went through a hyper sexual phase and now I’m kind of sexually shut down. I ended up with girlfriends who would take advantage and be abusive and didn’t have the ability or confidence to set my boundaries. I’ve also been in therapy and have worked on it a lot this year.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 02:49 PM
3

She brought it up when talking about me too. I mentioned how Asia Argentinio was an advocate but was caught pursuing a minor.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 02:44 PM
2

A girl did something like this to me. I was in a long term relationship. She took me to her place she was crying about how poorly she was treated by her sister. She showed me her dad’s vodka collection. I drank alot as she was crying she grabbed me and kissed me. I didn’t want to but I also had trouble saying no whe I was in my 20’s.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 10:09 AM
130

I noticed this a lot growing up. Entry level positions and early management were dominated by women.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 08:25 AM
8

To be fair she also said at the end of the date that she wants to line up all Latinos in Miami and shoot them herself. I laughed she replied I’m not joking.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 04:40 AM
11

Good times.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 04:39 AM
48

I’ve mentioned this before but in the detransition Reddit it’s almost all female to male trans men who found out that it sucks and are now going back.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 04:31 AM
14

I’m sorry to hear that. It led to years of frustration for me and feelings of resentment and injustice. I learned about the hypocrisy of women early on.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 04:23 AM
9

Haha! Yeah and it wasn’t particularly clever either but a threat it was not.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 03:37 AM
25

I was molested by an older female family member and this tracks.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 03:33 AM
86

That sounds kind of rapey.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 03:02 AM
1

Yeah. When I told people in the 80’s and 90’s about the female family member who molested me people got mad at me and said how dare you say that about her. You must be sick!
/r/MensRights24/07/25 02:44 AM
16

It’s weird that I was penalized and messaged by those in charge and it was labeled a threat. Crazy. You’re right though. Women are human too with all sorts of flaws and imperfections. I don’t understand why we need to treat them like gods or children.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 02:40 AM
1

I read a lot of world war 1 books. In All Quiet on The Western Front this is addressed. Where the men watch the women talk about the war and go on with their lives as the men return unable to live normally again in society.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 01:42 AM
13

I got out of a 20 year relationship that broke me down last year. I’ve been getting more confident and feeling like myself. My therapist suggested I start dating. The past three weeks of dates have shown me some entitled horrible humans.
/r/MensRights20/07/25 02:58 PM
27

When I was 17 my girlfriend pressured me to she sex before I was ready. We went to catholic school and I had very conservative parents. She threatened to tell everyone I was gay or that I did something to her if I didn’t go along.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 08:16 AM
341

If you check out the detransition subreddit it’s almost all trans men who go back to being women.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 04:23 AM
4

Although wearing a my husband beats me shirt would be funny just to see people’s reaction. Or a my wife eats me shirt.
/r/MensRights12/07/25 08:28 AM
6

Im going to make a cold medicine commercial where instead of the guy being an effeminate shlub, he is a talll Latin heartthrob. He gets a cold and tells his wife “bitch get me some cough syrup!” Then fucks the maid while the wife gets in the car.
/r/MensRights11/07/25 02:32 PM
11

Fight my girlfriend?
/r/MensRights10/07/25 05:27 AM
20

I was 17 and came from a dismissive abusive home. It took years before I could better assert my needs. Nevertheless, I never fought I said she was on her own if she provoked someone.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 05:20 AM
1

She absolutely is.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 04:52 AM
3

Really good point. This woman basically objectified men the way she would criticize men objectify women. Psycho.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 04:29 AM
2

Haha!
/r/MensRights10/07/25 04:27 AM
1

lol. I’ve been trying to just focus on someone’s personality more but I should not entertain plan and crazy for sure.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 04:22 AM
2

Thank you for saying this. I’ve met a lot of amazing women in person who got to know me this year in support groups so I was optimistic that maybe these attitudes weren’t so prevalent. She was repeatedly asking me if I would fight a guy. If I’ve been in fights. Of course I have but I don’t seek them out. That made her begin to berate me and call this conversation a bad experience with a man.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 04:17 AM
3

You’re right. I’m just so shocked at the irrationality and cognitive dissonance in so many women over 40. Especially in this era of gender non conformity and all the social movements they claim to support. I’m still just an object to be thrown into danger and a wallet. She wasn’t even beautiful just very plain.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 04:07 AM
6

Thank you. This exchange really soured me. I have been seeing so much entitlement from women who aren’t even that great themselves. I reported her for abuse but I doubt the app will do anything.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 04:04 AM
2

LOL. I should have. I reported her for abuse though when she kept asking me if I would fight a violent man. If I could fight will I fight. I told her I always protect the people I care about and have fended off psychos. I prefer to deescelate and avoid those situations. Did she want me to beat up an ex or something?
/r/MensRights10/07/25 04:03 AM
4

She totally became aggressive at the end. I asked her if she’s had bad experiences with men and she said I’m having one right now.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 03:57 AM
6

You’re so right. I don’t get how an almost 50 year old told woman who went to Berkeley could have such limited and outdated views on men.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 03:17 AM
16

I didn’t read all the way down her profile. My mistake.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 03:09 AM
28

Love this!
/r/MensRights09/07/25 10:05 PM
147

My first girlfriend in high school would do things like this. She never feared retribution and would just say my boyfriend will kick your ass! We were at a TV show taping once and she kept pulling the hair of the guy in front of us because she thought it was ugly. After we broke up she sent her new boyfriend to jump me. She never had any consequences.
/r/MensRights09/07/25 08:53 PM
3

I met guys in a me tal health support group and there were practically no resources for us. They had to try and beg family who would just tell them to man up or ignore them. The women often had boyfriends, dates, women’s shelters, and free therapy resources. We will always be protective of hurting women it seems.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 05:05 PM
2

Yeah, that’s something I didn’t consider. There’s definitely a whole business model of making money off trauma and keeping some people trapped in a cycle. It took me a while to find someone who knows me, helps me identify my strengths, builds me up, and pushes me to take small steps towards larger goals. I went through a few female therapists that were terrible. One was an older woman who was trying to convince me that I had multiple personalities. Then, during the session she had me read a book…
/r/MensRights29/06/25 10:46 PM
7

I’m glad my female therapists cares about straight men’s issues. She’s even starting up an all male support group/ therapy session this summer for free.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 05:45 AM
1

ABSOLUTELY. I went to two elite schools in humanities and for the arts. The professors who pushed the most propaganda ended up sleeping with students then promoting them to roles as professors all while complaining about men abusing power. They would also claim to know how men think and make wild assumptions as well as generalizations.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 09:02 AM
1

My Filipino brother in law was forced to get a circumcison at age 16 because his parents thought it would be more acceptable in America. That’s brutal. He couldn’t walk right for weeks and his sister (my ex wife) laughs about it to this day.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 08:57 AM
1

You’re right. I should have specified but I didn’t remember the species either chimpanzee or gorilla. My bad.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 10:11 PM
14

In primate circles the males work together while the women band together and shun one particular female in general. We share about 98 percent of our DNA with them.
/r/MensRights23/06/25 07:08 PM
2

It was two guys. Another didn’t do anything.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 05:50 PM
9

It’s true. In college my girlfriend cheated on me for some thug she met. She sent him to jump me. I was beaten by 3 guys on campus who didn’t even go tot he school. People just watched. Afterwards, no one cared when I sought help from the police, professors, and friends.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 04:41 PM
10

I found out years later she was sleeping with her students.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 08:17 PM
5

I’ve had some bad experiences. She apologized years later when she went to rehab. So it goes.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 08:16 PM
5

I appreciate you saying that. I dropped out for a while after that. It was after I broke up with a long term girlfriend who sent her new boyfriend to jump me. It was a tough year but I went back and did really well a couple years later.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 05:46 PM
17

Such a great point. They usually end up getting upset or deny the stats whenever I’d prove a point. I loved debating this stuff in my 20’s now I don’t bother. I nod and move along as if I’m speaking to a child. Luckily, I’ve met women who aren’t delusional. They’re rare but exist.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 04:21 PM
45

I had one that claimed that men had no physical biological advantage in war, fighting, or sports. It was all based on how society raised women. She kept using Billie Jean King as an example. I eventually just kept reading her in class saying you don’t want to be here do you. You really want to be having babies so badly. She actually cracked up.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 04:58 AM
99

Haha. I tried that too. I pointed out how the class was mostly female too and all my bosses were women. It was dismissed as not representative of the majority of situations. Total bull.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 04:56 AM
202

According to her views only men could be sexist because they have all the power.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 04:18 AM
393

In a college sociology class my female professor said men can’t be raped because all men liked sex. I told her I was abused as a kid and don’t like being touched by most women. She said I wasn’t being truthful and no one in the class spoke up.
/r/MensRights18/06/25 03:13 AM
4

In college the professors would deny men had any physical advantage and that it was all because of how women were raised.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 05:40 AM
3

Yeah, she ended up being very abusive and even had her new boyfriend jump me with another guy and beat me up during college. I was young and had no idea women could be abusive because my mom told me only men do that.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 05:59 PM
2

My first girlfriend pressured me into having sex at age 17. We went to Catholic school in the 1990’s. She threatened to tell everyone I was gay if I didn’t which would have caused me a lot of harm.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 04:41 PM
48

I always thought women would be more understanding and was hurt to find out I’d be treated with aggression
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/25 08:55 AM
3

If you look at the detransition subreddit it’s almost entirely female to male transitioners who go back to being female.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 06:07 AM
13

No. She became old and feeble and no one would ever assume what she did was real.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 11:02 AM
49

My mother was a female predator. People knew people did nothing and protected her.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 12:00 AM
16

In college 2 of my female professors dated their female students then promoted them to positions in grad school and helped them become professors too. Then wildly enough my 42 yea told wife wife eventually cheated on me with a younger woman who was 24 and her employee at a school. No one did a thing or complained about any of these situations.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 03:37 PM
10

Every problem every book we read highlighted that white males were the cause of all the world’s trouble. In French class for example, we had to read an essay about a bill of rights for women that a French writer composed so I used her language to write a funny essay about how women can then pay for me and open their own damn doors or something like that. The teacher actually found it funny and I wa lucky enough that she sympathized with what some young men go through.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/25 06:01 PM
32

Went to college and made a lot of friends. I even ended up meeting the person I married but the classes were so anti male and biased that it was harmful to a lot of young men’s self esteem. I was lucky to have professors who let me debate and call out the bullshit of certain misandrist positions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/25 06:31 AM
-12

I like that my nieces and nephews saw a body building magazine and are now terrified and disgusted by muscles. I prank them at night by putting body building magazines under their pillow.
/r/MensRights20/05/25 08:26 PM
8

They usually just say it’s that women are more developed and mature than men. No matter what age difference it’s the man who is inferior.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 12:38 PM
7

Yet we’re called less sensitive
/r/MensRights15/05/25 11:39 AM
3

I can so relate to this. My girlfriend would do the same. The first week we were together we were at a TV show taping and she began to pull the hair of the guy in front of us because she thought it was ugly. She expected me to fight him and when I didn’t she called me gay.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 11:56 PM
40

It’s been pretty crazy to see how quickly my sister started dating after her husband died. It’s only been a few months and she is already in a committed relationship.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 11:54 PM
24

My ex girlfriend was notorious for this. She had her new boyfriend come to my college campus with a friend to assault me. No one helped and all anyone was concerned about was me not getting revenge on her.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 10:16 AM
12

When I studied Japanese cinema it was explained that the strict gender roles confining men is why there is a lot of popular gender bending mainstream media like Ranma 1/2
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/25 06:58 PM
42

I went through the same thing after giving up my dream career. My wife of 20 years cheated and filed for divorce once her career took off.
/r/MensRights08/05/25 10:07 PM
33

This happened to me too. I was in a sociology class in college and the professor said men can’t be sexually assaulted because they all love sex. I raised my hand and told her I was molested as a child and forced into sex as a teen. I said I don’t like people touching me without permission. She said I was lying. I dropped out of college for a while after that. Later I found out she was having sex with male students.
/r/MensRights07/05/25 03:12 PM
4

Yeah, I feel judged when I play with or babysit my goddaughter and godson who are Filipino. Since I’m not I get a lot of confused reactions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/25 06:28 AM
1

Yeah, my partner was jealous of my friends and the fact that I was emotionally intimate with them. Over the course of a decade she fought with me any time I made friends. So I stopped.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 02:40 AM
1

That’s horrible. It makes it hard to want to be vulnerable and care about a other person again.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 02:39 AM
1

It’s not about curing the trauma. Just accepting that I won’t always be stoic and have all the answers.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 02:38 AM
15

Finding the right group of friends who don’t do this helps a lot. It’s been a while but in the past I had groups of male friends who only lifted each other up.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 11:22 PM
6

Women will trash men’s friends and destroy men’s belongings and be cheered
/r/MensRights23/04/25 09:14 PM
11

I sometimes hate how it’s just expected of me to be self sacrificial and put myself in harms way to protect a woman who otherwise demeans me and claims I’m inferior
/r/MensRights23/04/25 12:25 AM
-3

I’d say being an attractive woman puts you in celebrity status.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/25 08:14 PM
28

Around 2001 a long time ago. The professor ended up dating a student too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 08:36 PM
37

Not to mention holding your keys in your hands won’t do shit.
/r/MensRights20/04/25 03:18 PM
96

I was sexually abused by my mother too. I was in a university class where the professor said it wasn’t possible for men to be sexually abused because they always like sex. It was the last straw of being dismissed by women for me. I became depressed and dropped out for a while. Men should be able to talk about this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 01:47 AM
5

At UC Irvine 2 female professors dated their students then promoted their girlfriends to teaching positions and gave them recommendations to the grad school. Everyone complained about predatory men but no one called these women out.
/r/MensRights17/04/25 10:11 PM
9

I was raped by a woman as a child and Ina university class I was told by the protest there’s no way I could have been raped and that men always like sex.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/25 05:32 PM
4

I was raped by a woman when I was 11-12 over different instances. As an adult women have sexually assaulted me by groping my genitals or forcing a kiss.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/25 05:08 PM
16

I had a female manager at a job kiss me. Then when I turned her down all the women and superior managers blamed me because as a man I must have been the initiator. She was just a victim even though she was my boss.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 05:30 PM
2

Deliverance
/r/MensRights13/04/25 09:26 PM
19

Yes my mom and sister were
/r/MensRights13/04/25 06:13 PM
24

Yeah, I was raped anally with an object by a woman as a kid. Women can oppress.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/25 04:37 PM
94

I was mugged and beaten severely before my sister’s wedding. My parents were mad that I ruined the wedding pictures for her. That’s one of many examples where they favored her well being over mine. They paid for her college and protected her in every way and I was told to be a man and fend for myself.
/r/MensRights12/04/25 07:15 PM
4

I’m currently benefiting from therapy but Inhave a great therapist who is interested in men’s issues. She’s even trying to start an all male free male support group for trauma survivors.
/r/MensRights08/04/25 12:48 AM
3

When I was at an elite graduate school they were only open to hiring female teachers.
/r/MensRights03/04/25 05:42 PM
23

I was raped by my mother as a child. She would use objects to penetrate my anus. So yeah.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 02:29 AM
9

I was molested by a woman. The cops gave her a pass. This was in the 1980’s.
/r/MensRights07/03/25 06:07 PM
3

I was raped by a woman as a kid. Shit like this used to bother me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/25 07:18 PM
17

I was raped by a female family member and people like Rogan are the reason I never could get help or go to therapy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/24 09:34 AM
21

It would make you miserable too. You lose yourself and no longer recognize the man you've become.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 09:55 PM
3

Get her to admit some of this in text so you have some proof
/r/MensRights28/07/24 06:33 PM
3

My 73 year old mother in law gets harassed trying to walk. There are men who will fuck anything and it does affect women's egos.
/r/MensRights26/07/24 05:59 PM
0

Are you ok being alone?
/r/MensRights26/07/24 05:58 PM
4

Well, women tend to be more child like and demanding.
/r/MensRights26/07/24 05:34 PM
1

If you bring biology into it you will get harassed for stating facts. Then there's the women who claim that girls have the same libido and that guys are just animals. They don't understand or care to try.
/r/MensRights26/07/24 05:29 PM
1

That's true. I lost a lot of myself and the things I used to like. I had to suppress a lot of my good qualities that others liked because my wife was often uncomfortable with me having other friends. It got to a point where I couldn't even listen to my own music, write, or watch what I wanted. Everything I did was wrong or had to be a certain way. I began to doubt everything about myself. It's been hard to reconnect with my likes since I've been someone else for her now for 20 years. I begin to …
/r/MensRights08/07/24 05:32 PM
1

True. When I was better looking it was much easier but I still felt all the pressure of everything I had to be as a man beyond looks. So it was never really easy to find a good partner but I'll miss having girls approach me or flirt.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 04:35 PM
4

I agree. I'm just feeling the loss right now and dealing with health issues. I have degrees but my disorder has made living day to day difficult. I'm getting better and trying to reconnect with myself and rediscover what I'm good at. I was abused for years and doubt everything I do now. Hooefullly, I'll keep going, get stronger, and find some work that I can handle until I find something that I really care about again.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 04:33 PM
3

I'm proud of you for surviving that. My parents were narcissists and my sister is currently killing her husband with the constant demands and drama. What they do to your head is incredibly violating and wrong. No one deserves to be with a covert narc. It drives you crazy and no one believes you.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 04:30 PM
3

I agree with you. I was constantly walking on eggshells and the higher part of my brain knows this is better but I have a very lost feeling and disconnect from who I used to be.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 04:29 PM
2

It really is. Like men can't be people and they expect something unreal.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 04:28 PM
2

Exactly! As a human I'm wired to want that kind of support from a partner but I had to be perfect all the time. In fact the more I did and the grander the gesture the higher the expectations became. Suddenly, if I didn't get her a spaghetti dinner one night when she craved it, it was a catastrophe. I became worn out and eventually couldn't maintain everything.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 04:27 PM
1

Thanks man. I just wonder now is this how it will always be.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 04:25 PM
1

I'm sorry you're going through this too. I'm optimistic some days but yesterday and this morning it's been hard. Things feel bleak as I get older and wonder if I'm still capable of doing more or if anyone ever cared. Other days, I focus on the fact that I have total freedom now but worry about being alone from now till I die. I'm capable of being extremely introverted.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 04:23 PM
1

lol, thank you so much for the support but how am I am aristocrat? The ownership? I had to fight for years to get that and have to watch my back with a sneaky father who stole a lot. It doesn't help when I've had difficult family since I was a kid. These people would have no problem killing me or letting me die for profit. Still, I'm choosing to focus on what's good right now.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 03:19 PM
2

That's how I used to fee before succumbing to this relationship 20 years ago. I lost a lot of the self soothing independence that I used to have in order to take care of her and my aging parents. They all became abusive and I became a shell of myself and felt bad about myself every day. It's getting better but some days like this morning I get hit with that feeling that I'll be alone like when I was a kid and abandoned. I'm getting slowly back into music and Bobbie's that used to comfort me but …
/r/MensRights08/07/24 03:14 PM
3

You're right. It can be harder to open up emotionally to new friends but I'm giving it a chance. I met a guy months ago who wanted to hang out every day but he was a bit controlling and managing ocd which made him quick to anger. We helped each other out but I began to worry about red flags. I just need to find the right people and some work that I can currently handle that won't kill my soul.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 03:09 PM
2

Yeah, it's been hard while the depression and ptsd I had were st their peak but it's getting better. I went to some support groups but it seemed like others were dealing with too much of their own weight and had such little time.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 03:06 PM
6

That was very true for me too. I lost myself trying to be everything she needed and even though she was physically present I couldn't get warmth or support when I was having a hard time.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 02:58 PM
2

Thank you for this. I'm trying to find joy in simple things around me. I do have a small apartment that is in a building that I half own so I'll have somehwere to live rent free while ai recover. I hope therapy and self care will get me through until I find a new purpose.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 02:57 PM
19

What would have happened if he defended himself? Are we supposed to just take it?
/r/MensRights25/06/24 07:00 PM
9

Women always mock me when I talk about being sexually assaulted.
/r/MensRights25/06/24 05:49 PM
2

Exactly
/r/MensRights25/06/24 05:43 PM
11

Even then some will just say that all men are awful and indoctrinate younger girls into man hating. It's toxic.
/r/MensRights25/06/24 05:43 PM
2

Don't they also say that women are just as sexual? Women cheat for the same reasons. Don't they think women ever disconnect emotionally? Men don't have emotions apparently.
/r/MensRights25/06/24 05:42 PM
12

I've said it before in this sub but I'm tired of being silent. I was molested by a woman as a kid and sexually assaulted as an adult. When I reached out for help people got mad at me.
/r/MensRights24/06/24 04:56 PM
3

I was raped by a woman and when I'd try to speak about it people get mad and say how dare you say that it's not true.
/r/MensRights20/06/24 04:45 AM
5

I was thinking of studying to become a therapist but I worry that I'll have to agree with a lot of propaganda that's harmful to me and others. I pushed through grad school in 2009 as extreme feminist thinking began to dominate our classes. Professors began to make biased claims using their personal lives and poor choices as "proof" that all men are terrible. I don't know if I could go back to that.
/r/MensRights18/06/24 05:06 PM
16

I know! It's hard to believe anyone cares about men when such laws have been in place since the 1990's. Mandatory paternity tests could protect men but the government doesn't want to have to pay for the kids since something like 10-30 percent don't know they aren't the father.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 07:48 PM
21

If you sign the birth certificate then find out you're not the father you are still liable for child support.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 07:45 PM
14

How can we escape it? I don't necessarily want to live my life alone but I can't have anymore people make or female harassing me, insulting me, or claiming I had some sort of privellage when I had to work harder than every woman I know. I had to sacrifice for my wife, sister, and mother and it was just expected. It hurts when society lies to me and degrades me for being supportive of all the women in my life. All of them abandoned me any time things became difficult in my life. I'm not a person …
/r/MensRights17/06/24 06:33 PM
9

I read that humans are biologically wired to be protective of women and children. We react in a protective way to soft cute and vulnerable types typically. The claim that most men are oppressors or rapists is so false. When my sister or girlfriend got violent with me. No one defended me instead they pulled me aside to make sure I wouldn't retaliate.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 06:30 PM
13

Yet they take no responsibility for anything
/r/MensRights17/06/24 06:28 PM
24

Even if a child is not your blood and you get a dna test you still have to pay.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 06:27 PM
17

I bet this will be conveniently left out of college courses.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 06:27 PM
34

Tell that to my father and brother in law who mocked me for working and scraping my way to graduate school instead of fighting in the mindless Iraq war.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 06:18 PM
3

I also heard that it was largely a publicity stunt and her opponent needed money. That could be just speculation though.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 02:42 PM
13

I was raped by a female family member and it's people like your friend that made it impossible to talk about for over 35 years.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 03:56 AM
121

I married the most rational woman I know and her emotional outbursts and reality bending shocked me.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 01:56 AM
43

Incel!!!
/r/MensRights14/06/24 01:56 AM
90

So biology suddenly matters? They denied that men typically have more muscle mass at UC Irvine. They said Billie Jean King disproved it.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 01:55 AM
2

It was awful hearing feminist professors say things like that. One in particular was a total hypocrite and was stalking a 20 year old filmmaker (she was 45) and she wouldn't take no for an answer. She kept saying men are intimidated by a woman who asks a guy out. There were only 3 guys in the class and we all said we'd love to be asked out. I said maybe he's not that into you.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 03:22 PM
2

I'm so sorry. I've been through the same thing on Reddit and in real life when I was seeking help. It's made me cynical and I feel like there will never be justice. So women can go ahead and rape and they get a pass and excuses from society.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 03:16 PM
1

I learned at a young TV age how disposable I am. It wasn't good for me to know my family was willing to sacrifice me. My father never even served in the army and my sister was showered with affection and protection.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 11:45 AM
79

The government doesn't want to pay for kids so they even make men who are proven not to be the father pay child support.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 05:01 AM
2

How gross. Are they that desperate for attention? They'd attemptive to revictimize someone to appease some hatefuln women. Glad I've never known any.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 10:52 PM
14

Me too
/r/seduction11/06/24 06:22 PM
29

My mom absolutely destroyed my life. Other women knew she was molesting me and burning me with cigarettes while not allowing me to play with kids my age or anyone for that matter. She was given a pass because she had a stroke when I was born and no one wanted to get involved.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 06:20 PM
1

He's a male he must have done something to deserve it right? Did he call her a female or make her do dishes?
/r/MensRights11/06/24 01:26 PM
3

Thank you so much for reminding me about this. In college I had a solid group of friends and was pretty independent in thoguh t and lifestyle. No matter what happened or if I failed I was welcome and heard by them. You're right. Very right. Thanks for letting me know I didnt deserve any of that. I blame myself a lot for giving the wrong people power over how I feel about myself. Yesterday was hard. I had to lay next to my soon to be ex wife. Yet another woman who cheated on me after 20 years and…
/r/MensRights11/06/24 01:26 PM
4

I'm so proud of you man! Therapy helped me in college and it's helping now during divorce. I have a female therapist and even she agrees that the expectations are bullshit and that I haven't been treated well by the women in my life. Maybe I should find a male thoguh. I don't feel like female therapists focus on male specific needs because they never loved it. It's hard to talk about sex for instance and how women have perpetrated awful sexual shit (including rape) against me and that I began to…
/r/MensRights11/06/24 01:15 PM
27

Also they just throw their boyfriends or a white knight to get punched for them. Usually they use gossip and false accusations to hurt you.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 01:34 AM
6

It's bizarre denial but I've met few who would admit the truth. The ones who do enlist usually have a chip on their shoulder and want to outdo the men but at least they try.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 01:32 AM
1

That's so kind of you. I really appreciate you saying that especially today. It does become disheartening to constantly be silenced. I was just thinking about how introverted I've become when I used to make a living expressing myself. Part of the reason was being married to a feminist and working in female dominated environments. They'd be shocked when I spoke about my life and get angry then they'd go on to say worse or make graphic jokes when the reverse would be unacceptable. I wrongly assume…
/r/MensRights10/06/24 11:40 PM
2

lol. He threw away all those gems.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 10:34 PM
5

Thanks so much thanks to all of you for understanding. I can see how I've come off as a bit of a complainer but I'm still going through the harm caused and have to see the people who hurt me this week. This is the only place to vent. So I appreciate being able to express it and hopefully move on.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 10:33 PM
2

It's delusional and it depresses me that otherwise intelligent people buy into it. It's worse than when reality TV and Ricky Martin became a thing. What a womanizer!
/r/MensRights10/06/24 10:31 PM
2

My Lebanese family tried to send me to the civil war front at age 12 because I was a boy. To this day they call me gay for choosing to live and take care of my mother.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:19 PM
6

Me too!! As well as askreddit and AITA
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:17 PM
3

Me too. I've been banned from several Reddits for being a part of Men's Rights. I was called sick and disgusting for caring about men. They didn't care that I equally helped LGBTQ groups.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:17 PM
2

Men aren't people nor do they deserve mental health resources. Ask any man seeking help at a psychiatric hospital. A friend I made was sent away to make room for two young women and even in his social circle and family the focus was on the women's well being.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:16 PM
3

Unless it's two females. I saw this happen in grad school a few times.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:13 PM
1

Two female professors at UC Irvine when I was there in 2004 dated and promoted their students. No one said a thing. It wasn't seen as abuse because women couldn't be absuers.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:12 PM
1

Amen
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:11 PM
0

You just made a sexist statement towards women that could get you in trouble at the workplace and academia. Husband correcting a woman? Men are stronger? Even though men are biologically physically stronger this isn't acceptable to say. It hasn't been since at least 2004. I used to use biology in my papers to better describe and understand gender dynamics and I got major pushback and harassment for merely stating men biologically develop more muscle mass.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:10 PM
3

Since they say men are violent rapists you think they'd want them to be mentally healthy
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:07 PM
2

My girlfriends were enabled to yell hit and act crazy jsit to get their way. It broke my heart.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:07 PM
2

I regret my mother teaching me to treat my dad this way. I grew out of it but everyone else would start getting mad at me for changing.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:06 PM
2

They're not even shy about it
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:05 PM
1

Proud of you
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:05 PM
3

I get attacked all the time for taking about being abused so I just shut up for years. Even when it's not a major issue having feelings is often seen as pathetic. When I withdraw and hold everything in it just ends up making me sick then they complain that I'm too detached.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:05 PM
15

My sister does this kind of thing and even when caught people believe her the next time. It makes me sick but being pretty and being able to act can go very far.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 06:01 PM
47

This is where you get called a woman hater for wanting women to risk their lives. Remember that you're not a person to them.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 05:59 PM
13

DM's I just blocked him but a part of me always wants to create better understanding and communication. I've been dealing with the people who gaslit and hid everything this week and I suppose I got a little irked. There's nowhere to talk about this stuff and if you do in person you become a target at work and in relationships. This is the only place and to be attacked here was frustrating.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 05:21 PM
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Yeah I will. I just needed to vent I suppose. It gets frustrating not being able to talk about my life. People ask questions then get angry when I begin to mention the horrible experiences. I shouldn't have let it get to me but I'm dealing with family that is gaslighting me this week and I'm more frustrated by the people who believe them. Also, how most society dismisses such things and doesn't like the unpleasant truth of what some women are capable of.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 05:19 PM
2

Now some men's lib dude is messaging me saying I should shut the fuck up and I'm having a big pity party. There's nowhere to talk about what happened and it bothers me.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 04:15 PM
1

It's gotten exponentially worse and has become mainstream. Now you can't even debate any aspect of their viewpoints without retribution. Also, a lot of ignorant people just parrot what the professors say with critical thinking or reality testing. Academia became lost in a fantasy and intellectually dishonest.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 02:35 PM
2

I never understood that and I was naive. They mad fun of me when I was a "loser" then hated me when I theived or became confident. At best they tried to use me but usually tried to sabotage. No one believes because they have such a nice exterior. It was eye opening and it made me never want to mention good things in my life to anyone. Lesson learned but there's no justice and I hate being a victim but I had to accept it and move on.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 10:19 PM
3

You nailed it. I never thought it was about envy but as my career took off and women began to like me she lost her shit and began to have to "win." These people were supposed to care about me but were cowards and snakes. I'm glad we're away from them and I hope you'll be ok.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 09:58 PM
2

I was banned for 7 days for referring to a group of women as females. I was told it's offensive to use it as a noun and I feel like the mods completely missed the point of my post. I was taught to use the word female in school and it is hard to break that habit at my middle age. I don't mean to offend anyone but it's weird having ordinary language policed so harshly without considering intent.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 09:37 PM
2

Oh man! My sister tried to kill me in the bathtub and continued to harm me into adulthood using gossip, sex, and drugs to turn my support group against me. I became so disappointed in people. I'm not happy that you went through something similar. This morning I was agitated thinking abo it how no one believed me and how she still lurks out there on social media poisoning people with false stories about who I am. She told everyone that I was molested but what she doesn't say is that she was one o…
/r/MensRights08/06/24 07:41 PM
2

I refused to see myself as a victim for so long and I definitely refuse to be one now. I did have to acknowledge that I was victimized thoguh before I could address why I was hurting all the time.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 07:25 PM
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Thank you so much for saying this. I can't express how incredibly kind and helpful your insight is. I'll keep all this in mind moving forward. I'm in therapy and getting transcranial magnetic stimulation to help heal. I'm learning red flags to watch out for but more importantly I was to make sure that I'll be capable of love, trust, and be able to tend to someone's emotional needs. Right now there really is too much hurt still. I get flashbacks of what happened as well as mistakes I've made. Hop…
/r/MensRights08/06/24 07:21 PM
3

Haven't you heard of the healthcare gap for women. It's your fault.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 12:13 AM
3

True and now this post is taken down.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 10:53 PM
2

And now this post has been taken down. This post was taken down.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 10:53 PM
1

Now this post has been taken down.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 10:52 PM
1

Thank you. I'll ask and hope for a response. I'm doubtful it'll be productive. Just being a member of this sub has gotten me kicked off other Reddits like r/ask.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 10:52 PM
10

What did he do. He must have deserved it. Was he uncircumcised? That's probably why.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 05:53 PM
11

I'm with you too. I was really extroverted before graduate school being treated like trash while still doing well academically. Then my wife cheated and betrayed me for being a man. She's with a woman now and has become misandrist. I've dealt with shitty treatment since I was a kid just for having a penis.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 05:52 PM
2

I'm with you man. Im feeling this way now. My wife cheated on me and still I'm expected to keep supporting her. There's no support outside of this sub.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 05:51 PM
3

Thank you. I worry I may not be well received there either but I'll give it a shot
/r/MensRights07/06/24 05:49 PM
8

Here
/r/MensRights07/06/24 05:48 PM
14

Right. Or they flat out vilify and try to shit you up
/r/MensRights07/06/24 05:48 PM
1

This post was taken down and likely I'll get banned again. It can't be upvoted anymore. I don't see anything offensive about it.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 05:22 AM
8

Sorry I responded to the wrong post. It was in 2004.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 01:14 AM
8

Their names were Bliss Lim who dated a woman with the last name Steimer, then there was Kelly Wolf who dated Steimer. There's one more that isn't coming to mind now. It was on the film studies program in 2004.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 11:23 PM
1

Damn. This post has been taken down too. I likely will get banned.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 11:05 PM
2

Gettin' horny now!
/r/MensRights06/06/24 11:04 PM
2

That's awful. I had the same happen in other subreddits. Apparently advocating for men makes you part of a hate group.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 08:01 PM
2

And if you try to message and ask with all sincerity you get no response.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 08:00 PM
0

I think I'm done too. I've had too many bad experiences. A lot of people don't think for themselves and follow whatever trend or cult is currently circulating.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 08:00 PM
2

Last I checked we were mammals but some people can't accept that.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 07:58 PM
13

8 days ago.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 07:58 PM
3

You're totally right. Unfortunately my talents led me to fields that were female dominated like academia and the arts. It really fucked with my emotions. Luckily I spent most of my youth doing actual work in the real world and I knew there was more to life than the bullshit they spew. They're harming young men and women but could care less. They live in a fantasy where their theoretical beliefs supersede reality testing.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:31 PM
2

You really can't. How can they say women are more mature or empathetic because they're not.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:29 PM
3

I'm sorry you've had to deal with it too. It really cost me a lot and changed the trajectory of my life having women do shit to me and be patted on the back. There was a professor when I was 19 who said men can't be raped and that all men love sex. I told her about unwanted sexual advances and she said Iust have liked it. The she proceeded to pick on men who do exactly the same thing. No one spoke up.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:28 PM
2

Yeah, I started doing that after grad school because I no longer wanted to explain things to indoctrinated people. A lot of what they teach at these so called elite schools is wrong and has become accepted as the norm. It made me feel crazy for a while and I left a job I loved but I feel more at peace at least. It's tough when the person in charge of your future or well being has immense bias because of your sex.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:22 PM
2

lol! No way. Really?
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:19 PM
3

It was a post I made. The mod took it down and all I have now is the screen that says it was taken down. I no longer have access to the original post. I wanted to screenshot it when I made this post so everyone could see exactly what was written.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:19 PM
3

Well, I wasn't referring to trans women. So I guess I should say those assigned female at birth? They'd have a problem no matter what word I use I suppose.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:13 PM
3

I should. I just worry now about being attacked outside of Reddit anytime people ask questions about my life.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:12 PM
5

I'll female your face!
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:11 PM
2

This post or the one that was taken down because all I can acess anymore is the screen that says it has been removed.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:11 PM
8

I'm grateful for that. I worry about my nephew.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:10 PM
2

I'm surprised because it's crazy, abusive, and had become the norm at least in higher education. It's made it hard for me to exist in workspaces that I was skilled in. I moved on but when I was younger it made me feel crazy. It turns out I was always right and should be alone or at least around those who can use reason.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:09 PM
8

I just don't understand. Don't any of these women have dons, husbands, nephews or anyone they want to protect? Is it a cult?
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:06 PM
2

I'm going to encourage my 16 year old nephew to date my grandma because she's lonely and horny.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:05 PM
47

At UC Irvine 3 female professors promoted their girlfriends and they became professors. It was wrong and no one would say anything.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:03 PM
2

Why are you bringing up science!?
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:02 PM
50

Pull yourself up! Work harder! You're lazy! I had a suicidal friend who was mistreated at a mental health clinic because cute girls showed up and they became a priority. He's still in the pits and he has no one to help because "he looks strong."
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:01 PM
6

You'll be falsely accused
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:00 PM
19

My brother in law was circumcised at age 17 due to his ignorant mother. I can't believe he tolerated that and still loves her.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 04:43 PM
1

Also, are you Lebanese or just interested in Phonecia?
/r/MensRights06/06/24 04:36 PM
8

The me too commment was about me discussing being abused by females and instead of focusing on the topic they find some way to demonize me by targeting language or by focusing on a tangential issue. I should have been more clear. Sorry!
/r/MensRights06/06/24 04:33 PM
15

Very Orwellian. Whenever I'd mention the control of language I'd always be insulted or dismissed. In the end it's their loss being so detached from reality while mindlessly parroting something they heard somewhere.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 04:29 PM
22

It was on this subreddit too. I worry about shit like this happening at the workplace or somewhere else where it could harm me.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 04:28 PM
7

It was on this Reddit
/r/MensRights06/06/24 04:27 PM
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I saw an episode of Married at First Sight at my doctor's office and the women were mocking uncircumcised men. They were disgusted and behaved like they were some other species. So genital mutilation is required for men to be seen as worthy.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 04:27 PM
3

No one believes me. I have a photo from childhood that shows her dressing me up before she was about to violate me. Unfortunately I have a sister who was involved and she has been spreading rumors about me. I also have text proof from my father admitting he knew but chose to abandon me leaving me with the rapist. Right now I bought 2 hidden cameras and I need to emotionally brace myself while gathering evidence. I don't know if I'll ever feel ok if I don't pursue this as a lawsuit. The other pro…
/r/MensRights06/06/24 12:34 PM
3

As someone who was raped and held hostage as a child then abandoned, this disgusts me but I've grown to expect it. I had a very hard time feeling sympathy for the average girl's troubles because so many women knew and chose to protect my abuser.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 01:25 AM
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Right! So many "progressive" women called me a f@g because I didn't try to have sex with them. They didn't care about my trauma.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 01:38 AM
30

Then they use their kids as an excuse.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 04:25 PM
4

I'm so sorry you went through that. It sucks how hypocritical women can be when it comes to men's feelings. My ex wife is a school administrator and she also take shit about IT and most of her male coworkers. The admin at her school is all female except for one guy.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 04:23 PM
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Ah, I see. You get the point of my post though right? It's weird how some people fixate on the language used and use it to try and insinuate misogyny. They used to say are you a female or male didn't they? I've used female, woman, and girl interchangeably without any negative intention.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 03:46 PM
7

If I saw something they will get revenge or spread rumors. I've been through this before and it's smarter to be more reserved.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 02:49 PM
5

Thank you so much for doing that. Please do let us know what their opinion is. I just worry that I'll be gaslit and told that it's not true.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 11:01 AM
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They also hire and promote their girlfriends when they're lesbian. It happened a lot at UC Irvine.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 12:20 AM
7

The thing is most jobs require at least a bachelor's now. So it is a scam unless you're the type who can start a business.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 12:18 AM
10

It doesn't help that they gaslight and attack men daily in lectures. They dismiss the emotions of the young men in fields like the humanities where compassion is supposed to be a theme. Then it even bleeds into bio and medical majors.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 12:13 AM
37

There may be documentation of my boss at Barnes and noble kissing me. However when it happened I was blamed.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 11:24 PM
6

What would happen if she was accused of sexual assault. Nothing. The guy would still be blamed. I complained about my girlfriend hitting and cutting me in class when I was a senior in high school. All the teacher did was say you must have done something.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 06:18 PM
3

Another woman who doesn't think for herself right here
/r/MensRights22/05/24 04:28 PM
6

I think you're on the wrong forum.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 04:28 PM
1

5! She stole money from me and won't take accountability. She justifies all her bad behavior and says but I have 5 kids!
/r/MensRights22/05/24 11:50 AM
2

If they were an old school genuine feminist I would have in the past. My wife got very into third wave feminism and she became quite cruel. Anything I felt was a "stupid male emotion" and my interests and passions became associated with "toxic masculinity." Women could do no wrong. I was molested by a woman and even that wasn't enough to show that women can be evil.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 06:22 PM
25

They'll get angry, blame men, then indoctrinate the next generation of young girls.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 08:43 PM
9

They also refuse to accept women are human and have are capable of as much selfishness as evil as men. They also are very competitive with each other.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 08:37 PM
2

This disgusts me.
/r/MensRights15/05/24 05:44 PM
16

Very well said. I just get frustrated when I'm in a relationship or working with women who mistreat me then gaslight me saying I have privilege. I had to work, charm, study, and fight my way to my position and yet my girlfriends and sister always had support and sympathy. They weren't forced to move out at 18, Indisnt have a partner to pay my bills or emotionally support me, and even my mother would choose feminism over her son's well being.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 08:20 PM
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I had a buddy tell me this years ago. I didn't believe it until he fucked a couple of men's wives. It's true. They don't see the husband that is working to provide for them very much, then they get attention from new men.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 08:17 PM
6

It's impossible to maintain peace in such relationships. You'll always be wrong.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 08:16 PM
1

I'm in Los Angeles so...
/r/MensRights08/05/24 04:54 AM
2

Good times
/r/MensRights07/05/24 06:23 PM
1

I will do that. I signed up for a few events but last week I was not ok at all and didn't go. I'm checking out some more right now. Thanks!
/r/MensRights06/05/24 07:20 PM
6

Ok this is a great man/bear post. Lol
/r/MensRights06/05/24 07:10 PM
2

I hope I can start seeing it that way. I was independent and self motivated all my life until I began to achieve my dreams and realized that I was always alone. I didn't have real parents, they repeatedly tried to give me away then a lot of abuse. I refused to let anyone define who I was. I became very attached to my wife. It's been 20 years and I began to feel more and more inadequate and she was controlling and isolated me. I don't see with my conditions and the crazy fear, despair, and hopele…
/r/MensRights06/05/24 04:24 PM
2

II appreciate that. Yeah! Send it to me in chat or even right here. I'm quite slim right now (I don't eat maybe because of the depression) but I do have a layer of fat around my abdomen and some on my chest. I can fix that! I worry more about how my mental state has been for years after being abused for 30 or so years. I had to move back home after grad school to take care of my aging parents and a lot of bad shit happened. I was prone to depression already and the head injury worsened it. Anywa…
/r/MensRights06/05/24 02:13 PM
3

I've been spending time with my ex wife's nephew and some 20 year olds when they need me. There good guys and I want to protect their hearts and self esteem as well as their physical health.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 08:34 PM
4

That's true
/r/MensRights05/05/24 08:32 PM
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I need to remember this. People would call me selfish or insult me when I was completely drained didn't even remember who I was anymore and very depressed. Why did they even want me there? You're right though when I'm ok I'm incredibly present and supportive.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 08:27 PM
1

YES! Thank you for saying this. I'm feeling regret lately for not sticking to my guns and caving in for the first time at age 33. I'm 45 now and have always been frustrated with peoples flock mentality. They follow things without thinking for themselves. People follow bullshit trends and spew hate because of some new trend. I almost went nuts after grad school hearing professors and the media give thoughtless narrow minded points to manipulate people to support their selfish agenda.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 03:44 PM
1

I'm
/r/MensRights05/05/24 02:25 PM
1

I hope so too. I hope they won't crush other boys like they did to me and a few friends. One of those friends died from abuse and neglect. He had tourettes syndrome and was treated like shit. Another friend is majorly depressed and maybe has other undiagnosed issues.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 08:32 PM
2

How is stating an objective fact about someone considered discriminatory? Maybe if someone was hitting on a woman but just stating she's pretty? Will this be enforced for women too? When I worked with women they had graphic conversations about male co workers and they had no problem touching men or calling them ugly.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 04:40 PM
8

That or they invade it and alter it. Wether it's comic books video games or anything else that was largely a male audience, girls come in then demand it be changed into something whimsical. There are guys who are obsessive fans or filmmakers for example that are very passionate. They find a voice and a safe space and they usually are the ones who built everything. Like how the NBA has to cave to the WNBA's needs. There would be no WNBA if it weren't for men.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 03:00 PM
1

So true! I was thinking that today. My wife left me and it hurts but I also feel very relieved. It was a full time job and I no longer recieved thank yous but constant criticism to do better and more. To be there for her to make sure she's happy and entertained. A part of me fears being alone but maybe as I fill my life up with things I haven't been able to do I'll feel better.
/r/MensRights27/04/24 08:53 PM
1

I thought people would leave the popularity contest after high school but it persists. I'm with you man. My wife of 20 years just cheated on me and girlfriends in the past were always looking for more and were quite mean. They don't consider men's feelings and will invalidate you. They will compare you to every hot successful guy and leave you when someone better arrives or if they're bored. I was ok alone before and I'm trying to adjust again. I can't do the popularity thing either. When I had …
/r/MensRights27/04/24 06:36 PM
1

They do it though. It bothered me when professors wasted class time to blame men for beauty standards. No accountability.
/r/MensRights27/04/24 03:41 PM
1

I've been attractive and ugly at different points in my life and you're totally right. I was treated so much better by everyone when I looked good. Being shunned or ignored by people you want to be around really does hurt.
/r/MensRights27/04/24 03:16 PM
1

Think so? Many lives their entire lives projecting them.
/r/MensRights27/04/24 03:05 PM
1

Even then, a lot of guys still hit on them.
/r/MensRights27/04/24 03:03 PM
1

I need to be more like this. I should know what I want and not waste time. It's just as hard to have a good relationship with an overweight girl as a fit girl.
/r/MensRights27/04/24 03:02 PM
4

I hope that's not true because it really is a violation of a man's rights. You can't go scooping semen without consent. Gross!
/r/MensRights27/04/24 02:43 PM
3

How interesting. I recall a friend telling me this years ago when I noticed that a lot of seemingly unapproachable beautiful women were really nice.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 07:39 PM
7

Why would you assume I'd be angry? I like to hear different points of view. I agree with your preference statement but it's also that my feminist family and schools would always say it was only men and that men have unrealistic beauty standards and make women anorexic. One professor blamed men for the cosmetics industry without acknowledging women's free will or accountability. I was also surprised that a lot of guys I thought were assholes and some high status guys were very open to dating any …
/r/MensRights26/04/24 02:30 AM
6

I know!! But in college and grad school the humanities refuse to acknowledge that or that men's gaze or looking at women's body sexually is wired into our DNA. It's in all primates. Blaming men for testosterone and a biological drive to pursue a mate is insane. It would be like blaming them for having a period.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 02:25 AM
6

Man I feel the same way. It bothers me how accepting men are of women all shapes, sizes, and careers but men are criticized to the minute detail and held to impossible standards. A lot of otherwise kind hearted women are incredibly superficial.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 02:17 AM
4

You also will have to be a high earner yourself. The Indian girls I knew were quite critical but I suppose most women are these days.
/r/seduction25/04/24 03:33 PM
20

Nurses truly are
/r/seduction25/04/24 03:32 PM
2

So there's little you can do?
/r/MensRights25/04/24 03:25 PM
0

Do men love vaginas so much that they will support these laws?
/r/MensRights25/04/24 03:25 PM
7

What privellage!? Women have periods! Women get pregnant because of men! It's all mens fault! Now stop mansplaining so she can fuck little boys! Women can do anything men do better!
/r/MensRights24/04/24 09:47 PM
2

I go to a weekly support group and someone is transitioning and I thought the same thing.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 04:26 AM
48

Feminists will still deny it but so it goes.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 04:22 AM
8

They already can do anything we do and have support and perks for jobs with low female populations. They can be masculine or feminine.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 04:20 AM
1

You're right. People will say it's hyperbole but sometimes I feel like I'm in the twilight zone.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 03:21 AM
1

Thanks for understanding and for the support. It has driven me crazy and caused me to feel I crasily isolated and sometimes like I will never trust anyone again. I'm having trouble caring about peole and myself. I'm in therapy though and Lutron got all together. Thanks again!
/r/MensRights24/04/24 03:19 AM
19

True. My wife and I started by wanting to be equals in the relationship but she totally began to resent not being pampered
/r/MensRights23/04/24 02:15 PM
1

I tried to stick to my unfaithful wife for this reason
/r/MensRights23/04/24 02:13 PM
2

True. The girls either want to be part of the gang or suddenly feel power that a stupid guy is whining. They don't feel bad when a soldier dies because men cause war and men are supposed to fight for women or they're cowards. Guys will agree so the girls will still like them. So is that just it?
/r/MensRights23/04/24 02:37 AM
5

I'm sorry but the woman is the victim here. Accidentally saying the wrong thing is way worse than a gash on your face and a scar for life. Don't you realize that she needs to be 29 or else!
/r/MensRights22/04/24 07:20 PM
3

Well you've just reminded me that there are caring people out there. That means a lot. Thank Thanks again. It's incredibly comforting to know that I can reach out.
/r/MensRights22/04/24 02:12 PM
2

Thank you I needed to hear that. Unfortunately, not because of assault but because of growing up being abused for 30 years while being forced to serve family I don't feel that I deserve love at all. When it does come, I feel like I need to do everything to hold on to it.
/r/MensRights22/04/24 02:10 PM
2

Impossible to get a defamation suit against something like that
/r/MensRights22/04/24 02:01 PM
3

I worry about retaliation too
/r/MensRights22/04/24 05:35 AM
3

I appreciate it.
/r/MensRights22/04/24 03:58 AM
3

Thank you for saying that. I'm glad to know there are women who don't objectify us either. It broke my heart to have professors and close female friends victim blame me for years.
/r/MensRights22/04/24 03:57 AM
0

I appreciate it! By the way we should hang out! Do you like money?
/r/MensRights22/04/24 01:00 AM
4

I'm so sorry you're going through this because it should be illegal. My catholic high school girlfriend threatened to tell my abusive homophobic father that I was gay as well as the whole school if I didn't have sex with her. That was my first time and ever since sex has felt like something pressured or that I have to do. Years ago my sister told my conservative middle eastern bosses that I was closeted gay. They didn't renew my contract and it cost me my dream job. They shouldn't be able to sab…
/r/MensRights22/04/24 12:58 AM
1

Like dental floss fine?
/r/MensRights21/04/24 11:11 PM
4

I appreciate you saying so. I was sensitive kid and a lot of that led me to not feel like a person. I lost self respect and began to fear many peoples lack of empathy.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 11:10 PM
1

There were no boys drafted pre 1970? They were alive in the 1970's and it affected their lives.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 11:05 PM
1

No boys drafted?
/r/MensRights21/04/24 10:27 PM
2

Jesus. It's dystopian. So is the answer to never marry women and don't spend money on them? I was able to find a wife that paid for everything once we graduated college but were divorcing after 20 years together so I hope I avoided feeding into all this. It's just going to be lonlier going out there knowing the mentality of many females.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 10:27 PM
8

That's so fucked up. My mother molested me and they said the same. I would debate feminist professors in college but they refused to believe I didn't like it. Just today I was telling a cousin for the first time and she got mad at me and won't ever like me again. She'll then tell everyone that I'm a crazy asshole who disrespects his mother. Then more isolation.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 10:24 PM
0

Oh shit! Thanks. I'm stupid .
/r/MensRights21/04/24 10:22 PM
8

This is such an interesting take
/r/MensRights21/04/24 07:09 PM
12

That's so vile. How can they expect endless sympathy from males when their attitude is so hostile. What's wrong with a men's shelter!? The men there can totally relate more to what women go through.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 07:00 PM
18

The female gang mentality wins over your own son
/r/MensRights21/04/24 06:31 PM
7

As a disabled boy growing up there was nothing but insults and criticism. Few bothered to be supportive.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 06:30 PM
7

I feel that it will never change. The attacks are always one sided with no ability to defend oneself or get support.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 06:28 PM
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?
/r/MensRights21/04/24 04:52 PM
2

I really appreciate you writing this. Your perspective is well thought out and protects everyone. I agree that if we want to discuss and prevent sexual assault altogether then everyone should be held accountable.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 04:51 PM
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Not to mention that most men don't report incidents. I get that there is less physical threat from a female but that doesn't excuse the behavior. If poor boundaries and creepy behavior are so vile to women why would they enable the behavior towards men? Because we're not people who deserve to live?
/r/MensRights21/04/24 04:49 PM
2

Not in the 1990's
/r/MensRights21/04/24 08:50 AM
2

But they've never had this much power over our lives.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 03:16 AM
5

I used to do this. I treated women as equals and held them accountable. Soon people started calling me a misogynist for not wanting to be completely emotionally screwed over.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 05:59 PM
3

I've been sexually assaulted by women. Would I get the same protections? Most people will say I'm lucky a women wanted to touch me.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 05:53 PM
16

And we are expected to make more money and support them or we aren't a real man. God forbid you think for yourself.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 05:47 PM
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They'll say things like women have to spend money on makeup and clothes or other things that they chose to do then blame men. I never realized that many women don't grow up or take any accountability.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 05:45 PM
6

It's hard being a sensitive and rational person when I've had a lifetime of women abusing power then playing victim. My sister and mother used their protected female status to make false accusations and get sympathy while they were in fact the predators.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 05:40 PM
12

It's like an addiction that infects young generations for life.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 05:38 PM
1

My family is middle eastern. They see women as inferior and limit their rights. How can they support that?
/r/MensRights20/04/24 03:59 PM
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It's been getting worse since 2004 at least. In college every class would vilify white males. I'm not white but I see how awful it was for my vulnerable white friends.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 03:58 PM
2

So they're victims because men die younger!??
/r/MensRights20/04/24 03:50 PM
2

Ahh! Dear lord. The world is crazy. Thanks for sharing this. Sometimes learning more and more facts about how screwed up things are makes me feel more hopeless. It's impossible to discuss it with people who are informed too.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 03:46 PM
1

Yet men aren't peole right? We should be stomped down to make way for those who don't have penises? It's been like that my whole life with women. There's no empathy or understanding of how men feel or that they are dying for them.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 03:53 PM
1

So we can't be human? I've been that guy for my wife of 20 years and girlfriends before that. I'm 45 now and feeling the weight of years and years of unexpressed emotions.
/r/MensRights17/04/24 02:32 PM
1

Mostly it's for emotional reasons. I'm just realizing that I've had a lifetime of striving and succeeding on my own. The only time anyone cares or wants to be around is when I have tons to offer. It would be nice to have a supportive warm partner so I'm not doing everything alone.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 02:11 PM
3

Funny because I've never dated a model and my wife and previous girlfriends never wore make up. I loved who they were. Feminists are extremely superficial and envious.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 01:19 PM
3

This answer is misogynistic
/r/MensRights13/04/24 02:19 PM
8

Yup. They call you incel
/r/MensRights13/04/24 02:19 PM
3

Absolutely. I always was frustrated at how my girlfriends were so easily influenced by the internet or their friends.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 08:53 PM
3

You're completely right. From now on I can't limit myself for someone who says they love me.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 08:50 PM
2

Yes. I was very lonely and foolish. I needed to get out of an abusive home and I found temporary safety with her.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 08:49 PM
6

This is so true! It became hard to constantly read her facial expressions and body language.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 08:48 PM
5

I wish I knew this when I was younger with my first girlfriend. Women love gender norms and expectations when it doesn't apply to them.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 03:54 PM
1

Especially when it's based on valid experiences like from my own mother, sister, teachers, girlfriends. Being insecure means your shit. Don't many people feel insecure around someone they adore?
/r/MensRights12/04/24 03:53 PM
80

My wife didn't want me to take a high paying job for fear I'd leave her. She promised to be the primary bread winner. While she did so it for 5 years before and a little after the pandemic she couldn't see me as a man and felt unhappy because she made more and paid rent. Then she cheated
/r/MensRights12/04/24 03:17 PM
14

Boys I know got kicked out at 18. The girls could stay as long as they needed.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 03:15 PM
2

My mother sexually abused me in the 1990's. When the cops came they let her go. She continued to rape me for another 2 years.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 10:23 PM
1

I was always confused at why my parents wanted me to go to the military so much. I was a straight a student and the best writer in class but it wasn't manly enough. The military guys I knew were drop outs who wanted to fire guns.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 10:22 PM
2

I never understood how bigotry is allowed if it's against white boys. I'm not white and can see how my friends got bashed for decades jist for existing. It's funny because most women I know prefer white men.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 08:21 PM
3

Immigrant men are treated as sub human shit
/r/MensRights11/04/24 08:17 PM
8

Women pretend to be sexually open minded unless it's a man
/r/MensRights11/04/24 08:16 PM
5

This was from a male critic who somehow felt the need to mention "incel" about them multiple times.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 08:15 PM
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I got so tired of protecting my girlfriend. She would provoke strangers then say my boyfriend will kick your ass.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 07:37 PM
5

I had this debate in grad school. No one cared.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 02:14 AM
2

They'll stalk you and ban you from other Reddits too.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 06:42 PM
9

It's wild how women like my wife feel that they are the authority on male anatomy and sexuality. Bizarre and egotistical
/r/MensRights09/04/24 08:55 PM
4

You sound like a smart and emotionally mature guy. I'm glad there's dudes like you living a fulfilling life.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 08:50 PM
24

Yet if you complain about the same treatment as a man or genuine harassment it is dismissed
/r/MensRights07/04/24 08:56 PM
16

This is the first time I've heard of her but it's clear she just wants to provoke people for a reaction and is playing a character to get men's attention and support. She makes simple comments about issues that make lonely men angry. I met a lot of people like her in art school. They will take up a cause that had nothing to do with them for attention and money.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 10:41 PM
1

My father is still harassing me and spreading rumors. He stole a million dollars from me and I'm now homeless. It's hard to forgive right now.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 07:32 PM
1

Thanks I will google it! Also, yeah I know my dad did because I saw medical paperwork and my aunt and mom would talk about it in secret but I overheard. My father also would never take no for an answer and he was sexually inappropriate with me too.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 07:02 PM
2

Great points! It's so hard to prove and identify until it's too late. I'm still frustrated that my sister stole from me and gaslit me while abusing me. Even when I tell people they make excuses for her and say get over it or you seem ok or it's family!
/r/MensRights03/04/24 06:58 PM
6

They do it all the time everywhere. We're not seen as whole people.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 01:51 AM
1

It does! Especially on hard days when I'm all alone.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 01:48 AM
2

Will you pay? Why not at this point.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 01:36 AM
7

Thank you' I'm glad to be here even though I get harassed.
/r/MensRights02/04/24 09:08 PM
12

What do you mean? How about the women who raped me and sexually assaulted me. My aunts and my mothers friends knew but never helped me.
/r/MensRights02/04/24 09:08 PM
27

My father was absent and abusive. He made my mother hate men and she tried to groom me into a woman pleaser. My dad tried to give me away twice and when he couldn't he tried to kill me. I found ways to avoid him or to always have another person in the room or he would beat me badly. So I think that's a big part of it but everything I was told in school reinforced male negativity and the media now is off the charts misandrist.
/r/MensRights02/04/24 09:06 PM
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You're absolutely right. You should be a psychologist! Yeah, my father was abusive and absent. He raped my mother and she began to take it out on me and indoctrinate me. I was often isolated by her and my sister. It took a lot of work but once I got into my late 20's I finally met some guys who were empathetic and didn't give me shit for being so clueless but helped me enjoy male friends. Real friends that is people you can be intimate with and share everything. I had guy friends as a teen and t…
/r/MensRights02/04/24 09:04 PM
5

This is so true and if you try to explain that men are different they shout you down or call you a misogynist.
/r/MensRights02/04/24 01:05 AM
2

I used to get mad when women touched me without permission. I had ptsd and it was uncomfortable but everyone would get mad at me for not letting her touch me.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 11:36 PM
2

I've had so many women do this as well as grope my genitals because "all men want it" and they are just harmless little girls. What are you gay!?
/r/MensRights01/04/24 11:35 PM
6

I was never allowed to mention being molested by a woman. I would get insulted or shunned. They'd say shut up you're a misogynist.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 04:47 AM
8

So it's a cult
/r/MensRights31/03/24 06:47 PM
2

Completely true and it broke my heart I thought female friends would be shot it they acted like a cult. Men can't be abused by women or you deserved it. They don't care even when they know the facts. It made me afraid of relationships for years.
/r/MensRights28/03/24 07:50 AM
3

YES! It's happened to me. A sociology professor said a man can't be raped and she said I must have wanted it, why didn't I fight?, you can't be raped if you're aroused.
/r/MensRights28/03/24 01:33 AM
3

I've felt like I've seen this hypocrisy for 30 years. My older sister would dress sexy knowing guys would hit on her then she would make fun of all these losers who aren't good enough.
/r/MensRights26/03/24 05:40 PM
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I was told that I couldn't be raped because all men like sex by my sociology professor in 2004. When I was a kid I tried to tell adults that I was being molested but no one believed that a teenage boy didn't want sex.
/r/MensRights26/03/24 05:26 PM
1

Wow. So it's gotten that bad. It's sad because I want a woman to love me for me. Whenever, my looks fade, or when I cried when my mom died, or when I took a lower paying job for my sanity, my wife and previous girlfriends would mock me or see me as less of a man. What does my career or aging looks have to do with being a loving partner. Women complain about being objectified but I've received even worse objectification since I was a kid.
/r/MensRights25/03/24 05:30 PM
2

This too. Being a husband meant I get to have no boundaries. She gets to look through my phone and bust into the bathroom but she could decide at anytime to create new boundaries because men are toxic.
/r/MensRights25/03/24 05:25 PM
1

I know right!? Another great point. Why doesn't logic ever work on women?
/r/MensRights25/03/24 05:22 PM
2

This is a great point. I've asked girls in college that. They say they're better than use her ask for help and a head start. They are treated much more delicately their entire life while men get shot on from childhood to death.
/r/MensRights25/03/24 05:22 PM
1

If that's the case then why do we give women all the power financially and sexually? Maybe equal wages were a mistake.
/r/MensRights25/03/24 05:20 PM
2

Ageed
/r/MensRights23/03/24 08:23 PM
2

The hard part about female friends is when they get a boyfriend. I know they'll stop hanging out.
/r/MensRights23/03/24 08:22 PM
12

I'm so sorry that happened. That hurts. Building your own life and wealth only to have a woman screw with it and feel entitled to it.
/r/MensRights23/03/24 03:11 PM
2

Not anymore but now it makes me wonder if that's what most females feel when their male friend cries.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 03:43 PM
2

Ya, I soon lost respect for her.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 03:43 PM
1

I hope so because my family demanded that I get over it. I had a complicated relationship with mom and it left me feeling very sad and conflicted. She abused me yet I still loved her because she was my mother.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 03:42 PM
29

I don't want to hide my emotions anymore. It's sick to not allow me to cry when my mom died or when I was really sick.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 04:30 PM
66

One of my female friends kicked my buddy out of the car because he started crying after a really bad date. He was a virgin and the girl humiliated him.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 04:29 PM
7

They want the benefits of equality without any of the responsibilities.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 05:44 PM
77

Yes! It was so depressing to know that women didn't see me as a person until I had someone else liking me. It was even worse when I was married. Girls were wayyy more interested than before.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 03:10 PM
1

Oh man, what a kind thing to say. Yes! Some of my films were on this topic but they aren't online yet. The only real film that I have on YouTube is a experimental silhouette animation that's more like a metaphoric music video.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 05:50 PM
2

Jesus. This is going to get bad down the road. Good points. As long as there are men who won't have a backbone this won't change. I tried to stand up and fight for abused males in graduate school but no one cared not even men.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 05:06 PM
17

This shit is Orwellian.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 06:42 AM
27

Absuive women use this to get people hurt. My ex girlfriend told her new boyfriend that I was making fun of her and I got beaten up buy 3 guys. Fuck white knights.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 06:35 AM
1

Good point!
/r/MensRights07/03/24 06:32 AM
2

White Knights are toxic. They actually get guys beaten up and cast out just to get laid.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 06:31 AM
2

YES! That was so hard for me. I had to argue things that were untrue or not my thoughts. I had to just repeat what the professor told me with no critical thinking or I would find out what the professor thinks and argue that. It was stupid.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 06:30 AM
11

True. It just depresss me sometimes. I had to get away from academia and the work I find now isn't as fulfilling but at least it's safe to think freely. Why do women attack the very men who are their supporters? They don't fare or see us as people and use our compassion to fuck us.
/r/MensRights06/03/24 08:20 PM
10

Excactly! I'm glad you understand. Some of the things I heard and saw were plain hate speech. One guest presenter gave a speech claiming to know how men think. She showed a film about a guy who starts dressing like his girlfriend. Her thesis was all men secretly want to be women. The class applauded. No man stood up to speak. I did, but was dismissed and ignored. In what word does the claim of a 27 year old woman with only a undergrad degree in studio art have any validity? She didn't study biol…
/r/MensRights06/03/24 07:59 PM
11

Jesus. The hard line feminists refuse to acknowledge their damaging bias to bits and girls. This doeent belong in universities.
/r/MensRights06/03/24 07:55 PM
5

I wish I'd done that. I could have documented more.
/r/MensRights06/03/24 07:54 PM
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But when you debate with them how can they not understand? It's abusive and unacceptable to me. It didn't used to be like this.
/r/MensRights06/03/24 07:54 PM
6

Right!? They keep claiming girls need support in schools but it's not true anymore. It's are falling behind more and more and the system jsit tells them to fuck off or go work and join the army. They wonder where all the men are with college degrees as they crush their hopes before their 18. God forbid you're a smart male student because you will be gaslit and targeted for having a penis.
/r/MensRights06/03/24 04:15 PM
3

Only in movies. The protect you violently guy will also be aggressive at home. My father was and my brother in law as well as classmates.
/r/MensRights05/03/24 05:27 AM
5

That's a good point. If you make time for them you can't make as much as your competitors apparently. It makes me think that they don't like us as much as what we provide. Also, why are we always compared to their friends husbands? They would lose their shit if you compared them to another woman.
/r/MensRights05/03/24 05:26 AM
10

Good point. My wife of 20 years just met someone younger. I'll likely be in the unmarried group from now on.
/r/MensRights02/03/24 03:22 PM
1

That was on a joke sub
/r/MensRights01/03/24 06:03 AM
9

Good point. Thankfully I'm not hung up on any superficial requirements. I just want a caring partner.
/r/MensRights29/02/24 07:38 PM
1

So true
/r/MensRights29/02/24 06:22 PM
42

It's true. I got very depressed being a nice guy who was used a lot about 15 years ago. A friend taught me how to be narcissistic to get what you want. I was disgusted but it works. Now I'm kind of depressed again because about how much of human behavior and attraction is unconscious and can be manipulated by being an asshole. I want to be myself and be kind and thoughtful while having a partner who actually loves me not a series of behaviors and achievements. Behaving in a self absorbed and bei…
/r/MensRights29/02/24 06:17 PM
13

It's depressing. Especially if you've had a bad childhood then your cast off into a society that could give a fuck and wants to use you. The one soft spot was the dream of a woman who would love me but in reality it's very conditional and you cannot be vulnerable.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 07:59 PM
2

It but only drives me crazy but its harmful in schools and at job sites.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 02:49 PM
34

Cosmetic
/r/MensRights28/02/24 02:48 PM
5

I needed and still need help because I was being absued by a woman and now she is using gossip in social media to defame me. No one gave a shit and my cousins even protect my abuser because they feel bad for her. They say well she is as abused too.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 02:47 PM
2

Right!! Then they complain to thrI friends or have an affair because she deserves better!
/r/MensRights28/02/24 02:46 PM
58

He was coming from the Philippines but a doctor in Bakersfield, CA did it. I just don't get how every woman I mention this to doesn't see it as a big deal or even see it as embarrassing to have your mom and sister involved with what your dick looks like. Like, he can't even talk about his sister's period without getting smacked.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 02:45 PM
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They were coming from the Filipines. She felt that he needed to be American and circumcized. He loved and trust his mother and sister who humiliated him after. He couldn't run away because he didn't know anyone yet. Eventually he did meet a girl and get out thoguh. Most women who hear about this don't care at all. I felt crazy trying to defend him because no one saw it as a big deal or invasion of privacy .
/r/MensRights28/02/24 02:43 PM
6

I feel the same. My former friend used to hang out with married women because they always eventually got bored and disrespected their husbands. They get used to being entitled to attention and a standard of living that competes with the I family and friends. Where is the love thoguh? These girls think a man providing is not a big deal at all and that he has tii on because he's a man. It doesn't matter that it's sexist.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 01:34 PM
20

So your solution towards sexualizing a femlale minor is to sexualize a male one? That's progress to you? The Olsen twin and Britney count downs were gross too. I had no idea why media figures were so openly being rapey. It surprised me that women who claim to be morally superior engaged in the exact same behavior with no accountability.
/r/MensRights27/02/24 03:43 PM
8

This all sounds like someone constantly trying got convince us that women are better. The kite someone tries to sell me something the less I believe.
/r/MensRights27/02/24 03:05 PM
106

Remember how Rolling Stone did a magazine cover with him and the title barely legal whe he became 18
/r/MensRights27/02/24 03:38 AM
1

Yes we respect every janitor and bus boy
/r/MensRights26/02/24 11:16 PM
3

It's weird because most male modes and famous actors are 5'9"and under. I think average and shorter guys tend to be more symmetrical and look better in clothes. You think they'd appreciate that.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 08:55 PM
3

Soon they will want you for doing your own thing
/r/MensRights24/02/24 12:10 PM
2

It's time to free women's nipples
/r/MensRights23/02/24 05:43 PM
37

This is why being in a feminist echo chamber is harmful. So many of the things feminists state don't hold up to real wod testing. Do many feminists even know working class women?
/r/MensRights22/02/24 04:22 PM
1

Yet women lie and say being objectified or gazed at makes them weak. Men pay all their money to look at and spend time with women simply because of their looks and our drive. We're slaves to it.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 10:22 PM
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Why don't feminists ever see this point!? I used to tell them in college that implying that they have no control over situations or that they don't have agency is calling women weak.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 10:09 PM
1

You're so right. It's depressing because I like having g a partner who is my peer and equal. My first long term relationship ended because I gave her everything and she lost interest after I had nothing left to give. She also didn't see me as worthy because I would cater to her needs. Now, my wit of 20 years is doing the same. I gave up a career to help her get hers going. She succeeded with my help and connections then years later lost respect.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 05:25 PM
2

Oh fuck him then. Not everything is oppressor vs oppressed yet thats all college kids talk about these days.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 05:06 AM
1

Worse than BTS?
/r/MensRights21/02/24 05:03 AM
2

I suffered through shit like this at the hands of my sister. She actually has encouraged me to kill myself and even tried to drown me in the bathtub when she was 15. Everyone would eventually see her cry and protect her.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 05:02 AM
5

Didn't women flip out about trans ladies in their bathrooms
/r/MensRights21/02/24 04:59 AM
4

Me either man. In considering pursuing legal matters but im afraid to go against a woman. No one believes or cares. It could all be e turned on me. I hate feeling like a victim.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 04:57 AM
1

I wasn't rescued from an abusive home but my sister was because they said I'd be ok I'm a boy. I continued to be molested and beaten for almost a decade. People knew but everyone said you're a guy you like it or you're tough can't you stop a woman?
/r/MensRights21/02/24 04:54 AM
6

I made the testicle argument in college. There's endless footage of guys getting ghost in the bits for laughs. America's funniest videos had a bit shot every week. Imagine if we laughed at baseballs hitting tits.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 04:53 AM
3

It's sad but true. Humans can't separate their ego from facts and reality. I've worked with theee professors who refuse to look at or acknowledge evidence that goes against their bias especially if it's about their sex or race .
/r/MensRights21/02/24 04:50 AM
12

I like your attitude though. You're right and I don't see why we should walk away with our tails between our legs. We do need some men to challenge laws just like women did.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 04:44 AM
7

And the gaslighting that comes with it.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 04:43 AM
0

This is how vigilante justice ends up happening
/r/MensRights21/02/24 04:42 AM
13

My wife was Adria proud of her. Were getting divorced.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 04:39 AM
0

Men are causing the female loneliness epidemic dude
/r/MensRights21/02/24 04:38 AM
3

Humans are social creatures and while I don't revolve my life around any relationships anymore, I realize that I'm happier when I have good friends and a supportive girlfriend.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 08:47 PM
3

You still get screwed in divorce and if you destroy the relationship prepare for public attacks and false accusations that will be believed without evidence.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 06:02 PM
2

Good point!
/r/MensRights20/02/24 04:50 PM
17

I know! Right? It drive me nuts when otherwise intelligent women would refuse to listen to how it feels for us. They use facts to support their arguments beautifully but then shit doen facts that explain why things work the way they do. I was telling professors in college that young men are being isolated and dismissed in the humanities. If they didn't write papers about gender to it would be ostracized and prevented from discussing real issues. These men will succumb to poverty or die eventuall…
/r/MensRights20/02/24 04:49 PM
21

So why is it acceptable to lie and harm men every day? I feel bad for kids growing up today.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 04:37 PM
9

Because our private spaces and rights are often invaded using the argument that women do more than me and that women are just as physically capable. It's been indoctrinated in universities and the law. Also, how do women refuse to acknowledge any of this when it's reality?
/r/MensRights20/02/24 04:37 PM
6

Does that allow women to defy logic and facts? Is it hard to recognize that men do a lot to give women the rights to pursue greatness? How does a woman feel proud enough to bash men when she was given a head start?
/r/MensRights20/02/24 04:35 PM
2

I'm 45 but I look younger for now. I should save money and go.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 02:59 AM
2

Thanks so much for saying this. I'm glad I was able to eventually understand that it wasn't my fault but I felt very crazy for a while like how could so many people be blind or careless.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 07:52 PM
1

It was a male student. I met him two years later at a coffee shop. We were in a group and both mentioned having her as a professor. I complained about how she said all men love sex no matter who the woman is they want her because they love all sexual touch. He laughed and talked about how she seduced him and they had aes for a while. He was a good looking guy and very charismatic but he was 19 and her student.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 05:27 AM
1

Really? How is it boring or lonely. I'm genuinely asking. Have people been harsh on your looks or have people been generally awful to you? Also, I imagine hormones can make one's mood change and become more intense than usual. Testosterone make us incredibly driven and can be a drag when I just want to focus on a task.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 01:27 AM
1

What a kind thing to say.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 06:04 PM
2

True. Sex tous and sexual expression for women is celebrated. For men it's deviant. So dumb.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 06:03 PM
1

She had no idea. She thought I was making it up to justify masturbating to women. As if that's a deviant thing. Meanwhile she was fucking one of her 19 year old students.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 06:02 PM
1

It's crazy. They use objectification to get what they want. Also men look and women like being looked at. They get upset when their looks fade and women who transition to males often realize how invisible men are.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 06:01 PM
2

Is it really true about Singapore ?
/r/MensRights18/02/24 05:59 PM
2

I feel you! Growing up in the 90's made me into a guy who was crapped on constantly. I was fed female perspectives only. When I was in my 20's I needed to understand what being a man is. I was forced to see everything from a feminist perspective. I wasn't allowed to understand myself or how to interact with other men out in the real world. It really limited me. I began to read male stories and I began to like being a man. My girlfriend and some professors got so mad. Like I would read Raymond Ch…
/r/MensRights18/02/24 05:59 PM
1

I know right!! They can't conceive that we may think differently. It's so self absorbed.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 05:55 PM
1

I was working at a book publisher where it was 90 percent female employees. They'd come up to me and brag about how they were able to get a lot of guys to make out or fuck them. They saw it as validation and acted like it was hard. A man has to be a complete stud to have a high body count. He needs charm, looks, status, a great personality, he needs to lead and make the first move, he has to maintain the woman's interest, and he better have a good job (or lie about it). A woman just needs to exi…
/r/MensRights18/02/24 05:54 PM
2

It's crazy because they cannot understand without ur experiencing it and they refuse to put themselves in a man's shoes. They see us as less than and that our only job is to support them. We don't have needs or rights.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 05:49 PM
1

It's insane and wrong.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 05:48 PM
2

Seriously. Something bad is going to happen and the rational will have to pick up the pieces. Although, it seems like rational people just hide.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 05:47 PM
1

True. It's just lame that a lot of smart and talented guys end up being cast aside and having to work menial jobs while the less qualified thrive. Some of us find a way to change all those talents into private enterprises but men are surely being cheated.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 05:46 PM
3

You're absolutely correct. I dropped out of college around the year 2002 because my sociology professor said that men can't be raped. The entire class agreed. They said all men love sex and they have to be erect to get raped. I was molested by a female family member and I didn't desireto get sodomized with an object. I raised my hand and told her that I was violated by women and that she was making many incorrect generalizations about young men today. Everyone in the class saw me as a freak. I r…
/r/MensRights18/02/24 05:45 PM
8

Why does the system deny common sense when it comes to men. I think in this case they'd rather have the guy pay for everything than actually pursue justice. It saves the government money.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 02:04 AM
21

Fuuucccck! How does a person not explode with rage at that. I don't know how I'd handle being that man.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 02:03 AM
1

If I were to tell them all e awful abusive things my wife did they'd rip me to shreds. This shit has gotten very cruel and out of hand. I had sisters growing up and lots of female friends. They have been absolutely dehumanizing to men. That's saying it kindly. It makes me sad to lose that childhood dream of receiving genuine warmth and understanding from a woman. She pretends or only cares so long as I have something of value. Everything fades with time and so will her affection.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 01:45 AM
4

They said this to me as well as man up and get over it after I was repeatedly molested by a female family member. My sister was rescued I was left to die or join the military.
/r/MensRights17/02/24 04:38 PM
1

Why was this post taken down?
/r/MensRights17/02/24 04:12 PM
4

I was going to be trafficked as a boy. I would have been raped by middle eastern men. No o e every brings it up and it's a deep secret that I can't talk about because women become dismissive.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 08:05 PM
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My sister would take advantage of the fact that guys can't hit her. She knew what she was doing and would often pick on a random shy or unattractive guy. She's hit them and mock them then she'd tell her violent husband or my father that the guy was harassing her.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 08:03 PM
1

You're so right. The lack of resources and people thinking they are virtuous for making social media posts but in daily life behave dispicible to struggling men.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 03:50 PM
2

My wife cheated on me when I began to have hip issues. I couldn't walk as well for a year or two before I had surgeries. She began to feel like I was less of a man and not as safe as a protector. It made me seem old even though I was 39. Then came more chronic illness and she became fully invested in her affair. I'm finding a place to move out now.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 03:44 PM
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Seriously. She's harmed so many people b it plays vulnerable now she's a narcissist heroin addict with 3 kids and an absuive husband. I foolishly felt bad for her and she fucking robbed me.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 06:29 AM
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This is so fucked up and harmful to boys growing up. I know this from growing up ful with abusive sisters and left leaning schools. You end up have major confusion and self hatred.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 02:42 AM
1

This is so overlooked that it's cruel. Men are treated as objects now and their blind to see it because it's not pleasant to their ego.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 02:41 AM
1

Somebody please do an AI image of penis pontifications.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 02:40 AM
2

I can't believe they are still saying this. It's ignorant shit. In 2004 a male classmate told me Billy Jean King proved women are just as strong. How scientific is that?! One single case of a rigged tennis match vs provable statistics and demonstrable repeatabile experiments. It's denying reality and it's unsafe to send small girls out there believing that their bodies are just as tough because it's not true.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 02:38 AM
2

True. The relationships my friend had seemed to lack a length of more than a couple of years. Men are also just so much more physical and sexually driven. I'd go to gay bars with him and the overt sex everywhere was crazy. Everyone was having fun. It seemed cool.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 09:11 PM
2

I wish I was gay sometimes
/r/MensRights15/02/24 08:49 PM
12

Isn't that racist too. They would say so if the roles were reversed.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 06:15 PM
8

This is crazy. So basically it's enslaving men to be single or marry and support a Swedish woman.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 06:15 PM
2

I'm so glad you're sharing this truly. I also told my wife that I wasn't exactly a hyper masculine man and I'm non binary in how I perceive myself. She lost interest and cheated. My high school and early college girlfriends also lost interest when I wasn't like the other guys that they said were pigs. They either don't know what they want or lie a lot.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 06:06 PM
1

Women accuse men of hyper sexuality but I feel lien all women talk about and pursue is sex. They learn to enhance sex appeal as early as 10 years old then as they get older it's all about judging appearance and assigning value to people based on their relationships.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 04:30 PM
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Thank you so much for saying this. It really has gotten worse and worse. I went to college at different points in my life between working full time. I didn't have the sheltered view that teachers fed me anymore because of real life work experience and relationships. From 2000-2004 the male perspective began to be seriously challenged. Then around 2010 whe I returned to grad school it was hateful and destructive. One particular famous female professor began to mock me for having a dick. The whole…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 04:28 PM
1

They're actually doing better than men. Men aren't going to college as much and workplaces cater to women. Media caters to women, men cater to women, universities only support women's studies. We now have a generation or two of boys without proper support that have been indoctrinated.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 02:26 PM
1

What an anonymous coward
/r/MensRights15/02/24 02:23 PM
1

Why does no one care? We treat our boys like shit and encourage them to hurt themselves in the military while girls get an education and moral support.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 02:22 PM
5

You're so right. No one cares about our young boys. They destroy their self esteem as a male and try to make them into servants to sex and women. Everyone needs love so they know an indoctrinated sap can be a provider and an opponent to masculinity for life. They made me and a a lot of my friends hate themselves for being male at a young age. I found some awesome male peers in college but a few of my friends did not. They are getting old and have been screwed by every female they get close to. M…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 02:12 PM
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No kidding! I can't understand how women don't see the inconsistency there. A man doing that in front of kids would be beaten up. Like women wanted to "free the nipple" as if thats some important cause. Yet they say we jsit see them as body parts. I think I was ok when women admitted to showing skin, wearing makeup, and wearing seductive clothes as a way to attract attention. They want to be seen and they get depressed as they age. If they didn't want to be looked at why all the Botox and Kardas…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 02:00 PM
4

As you should. To be clear, I hate when anyone does it. I hated when my dad would try to tel my mom how to be a woman.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 01:58 PM
7

You're so right. I was going crazy studying the humanities side by side with science. The female professors were straight up being dishonest. One sociology professor said that men can't be raped because they have to get hard. I was sexually abused by a woman so I spoke up. They entire class harassed me for talking about my experience. I dropped out of school soon after because between the professor and my girlfriend at the time I was being constantly berated for being male. I went back 2 years l…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 01:57 PM
5

Seriously! It's bizarre that they think women are the default and that men can just "control" their biology. It's like asking a woman to stop menstruating.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 01:53 PM
5

Yeah but where is logic, honesty, and fairness? When did they forget that men helped them and still help them. Once women get any power they tend to abuse it, deny inconvenient facts, and destroy anyone who thinks independently.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 01:52 PM
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I was screaming and complaining about this as far back as 2004. I was called a misogynist and cut off from groups of friends and professors for saying this. Everyone knew but no one wanted to upset the girls. No one had a backbone and here we are.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 02:28 AM
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Oh it's because men aren't human to them.
/r/MensRights14/02/24 10:55 PM
3

Some of these women need a mirror too. Like they want a 6'5'' fit millionaire but are 55, out of shape, and have 3 kids. You could temper your expectations or maybe just meet someone you like being around?
/r/MensRights13/02/24 01:52 AM
1

I wasn't lucky. My mom was a pedophile. I had night terrors and panic attacks until age 14. Before high school, we got a Cocker Spaniel Labrador mix. It was the first time I felt love and it was from a dog. The next time I had a panic attack she ran into my room to help me. I felt joy seeing her and I never had panic attacks again as long as she was there.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 09:43 PM
1

Most girls say so what that's what men are for. They see it as a male privilege and obligation to die for them. That's probably why they like Titanic so much.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 11:11 PM
2

We're forced to fight wars and make sacrifices every day for women. If we don't we can be beaten up, arrested, or emasculated publicly.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 11:10 PM
1

Make sure she's on her period
/r/MensRights11/02/24 11:09 PM
2

You're right. I had a friend in college who would hang out with married woman so he could fuck them. He told me that women always get bored of the guy who's paying for everything and they are emotional so they begin to feel a bond from all the time they spend. He to be begins to do everything the husband can't do. I didn't believe him at first but it does work. He fucked my sister.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 11:07 PM
6

I like how women say things like men are too insecure to date a woman who makes more than them then they talk about guys being losers for not making as much.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 10:01 PM
1

Yeah true
/r/MensRights10/02/24 04:02 AM
1

I think that was Jesus or Mike Tyson.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 01:25 AM
4

Good advice. I'm getting back into playing guitar and learning piano composition. I'm hoping to get back to making short animated films but I need to find some work that doesn't isolate me so much. One thing at a time.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 10:41 PM
2

I hope I can find an apartment that will allow a dog. Thanks for the reassurance.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 09:21 PM
10

I wish I learned this as a teenager but I didn't have a male figure around. You're right. It's made me less ambitious though. I'm more focused on surviving and finding moments of joy. My family and especially my Navy brother in law used to pressure me to go to the military to prove my manhood. Right. He lost an arm jumping out of a humher during training. I also didn't agree with the Iraq war and was a straight a student so I had options. I feel like everything about being a man involves shuttin…
/r/MensRights09/02/24 09:20 PM
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Well, even then it's all fickle. I had the money, I was working with famous people, and I'm not worried about dick size but eventually a girl gets used to you and begins to compare you. I was stunned to see how my female friends all became interested in me when I was succeeding. Now that I have health issues my wife begins to cheat. My sister did that to her husband, my friend's girlfriends aren't much different. Guys don't do that.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 06:51 PM
6

That's the perfect attitude. Before I got with my wife I was much more balanced. I could take it or leave it but eventually I really needed someone to love me. I was abandoned and abused by my family and the only love I ever received was from her. I tolerated a lot of shitty behavior because of it. The thing is how are men supposed to be healthy if their emotional needs can't be met on a relationship?
/r/MensRights09/02/24 06:48 PM
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You're right. I'm in therapy. It helps as well as me reconnecting to things I like. I'm just never going to feel ok with someone only being with me for what I can do. Skills eventually become dated, careers change, and looks fade. I'm just going to get a dog.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 06:46 PM
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Yes. It's over and she doesn't care. She got what she wanted from my career and the famous people I used to work with. I'm 45 now and she's seeing her younger employee. I found that with a lot of women they do not want you to have needs.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 06:44 PM
1

That is really sad. Most guys would treat me as weak or a freak for being depressed. I was deeply ashamed of being molested by family. I would protect myself from the truth by disassociating. For a while, I would blend in by acting like the assholes who taunted me.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 05:10 PM
1

Yeah, good point. I used to make jokes but these days I could get fired.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 02:57 PM
2

Haha! Seriously. I forget their names but these two guys have been writing papers to university peer reviewed journals and using Mein Kampf and other fascist rhetoric. In one case they replaced "Jew" with men. The papers were approved and well received. These are elite universities that are indoctrinating a generation.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 02:56 PM
4

It becomes a form of bullying. My first girlfriend in high school pressured me to have sex or else she would have told everyone including my abusive dad that I was gay. I was just a shy kid.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 04:26 AM
3

I know! Why does this never get called out?
/r/MensRights09/02/24 04:25 AM
1

Amen
/r/MensRights09/02/24 04:24 AM
5

I think it's more that socialization. I think it's biology. Women need to be looked at to procreate and keep the species going.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 08:21 PM
3

They could just say that and most of us would accept it just fine. I'm annoyed with all the gaslighting. It becomes mainstream accepted as truth.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 08:19 PM
14

Haha. I actually had 2 hot girls in different groups demand I make out with them because I never showed interest for years while all the other guys were openly lusting. It was weird that my indifference made them want to have me or win me. They didn't want a relationship. It was confusing to me. How petty to want what you can't have just because a man decides you are out of his league.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 08:18 PM
19

God forbid that you behave exactly how they ask you to behave.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 08:15 PM
37

Yet, if you were to act like a stereotypical guy and glance they would scream toxic masculinity! So a man looks he's bad. A man doesn't look he's gay and the girl is insulted if he's straight. What the fuck?! Look at me don't look at me!
/r/MensRights08/02/24 08:14 PM
2

It's fucked up. I know circles of female friends have always done this but now it's mainstream and accepted universally. Even young men hate their own sexuality.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 04:57 PM
6

I mean, I understand how scary guys can be especially when angered or drunk but most men I've met in my life actually just want someone to love them.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 04:56 PM
14

The male gaze has been used to trap us and turn us into sacks of sperm and lving wallets for females. They then flip this around and call me pigs for looking. It's all biology. You cannot separate the male gaze from the man. It's in our dna and the species wouldn't procreate of men didn't look. Its hateful to place this burden on a person merely for being born a male. It would be like making women cover their bodies or making menstruation shameful or illegal. "Men look women are looked at" -John…
/r/MensRights08/02/24 04:44 PM
11

True. Although no matter how attractive you are some woman or gay guy will eventually deem you a rapist for developing feelings for someone.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:12 PM
2

Yes! Thank you for saying this. I get this reaction from therapists, clergy, family, my wife, my friends. It made me feel crazy for years. Now my sister uses gossip and defamation. It cost me my whole life. Because they are women, my l and sister just cry or say they are sooo sorry and people call me an asshole for not getting over it.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:11 PM
2

Right! I somehow assumed they would understand but they see it as weak or that you're taking away their narrative. Only women have the right to be a victim.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:09 PM
1

I had nowhere to go. I've been working since age 13 to survive in one way or another while being shit on.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:07 PM
1

I was surprised at how protected it is in the workplace. My female bosses say the grossest shit during work hours.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:06 PM
3

Thanks for saying this. I was guilty in the past too. I was competitive with all guys but now I'm helping out by going to NAIMI meetings. I found one guy doing worse than I am and I've been there for him the past month. There's just too many guys emotionally struggling which causes financial issues which then causes homelessness.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:05 PM
1

I suppose that's what I was thinking. When o was doing well and I was younger suddenly a lot of women wanted to be with me. I remained honest and faithful while my wife shopped for younger opportunities. It's happened with my other relationships where after 3-20 years they get what they want and decide to go wealthier or younger.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:03 PM
1

Interesting and good take.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:00 PM
1

Why was this post shut down?
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:00 PM
10

My sister does this and just gives bullshit apologies years later. She does nothing to repair the harm to the victims and everyone forgives her because she "apologized." This just emboldens her to do it again.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 12:50 AM
9

Something like this happened to me where my mother molested me and the adults acted like I was a pervert. In high school a girl I was dating threatened to tell my violent abusive homophobic father I was gay unless I had sex with her. It was coerced and no one believed me then either. The woman is always seen as the victim.
/r/MensRights04/02/24 05:19 AM
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I'm worried about the effect this wil have on women
/r/MensRights02/02/24 09:07 PM
3

So why is abuse normalized and encouraged for females?
/r/MensRights01/02/24 02:49 PM
40

She's going to be the first female president. Even relatively smart women seem to think it's wise to listen to Taylor because she must be doing something right in their opinion. They ignore all the awful shit and how she looks down on girls who aren't pretty.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 04:01 AM
6

Agree but women tend to be immune from accountability.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 09:46 PM
1

It's also that they are free to switch faces if men were to try to act feminine or enter a female space they will be harshly rejected or called names. Men are strictly bound to a specific role.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 09:29 PM
2

My mom sister and wife slut shame
/r/MensRights29/01/24 08:22 PM
28

Yup. My feminist parents put all the effort and money into making sure my sister was educated. They said I'm a bit I should go work. It took me twice as long to finally graduate and pay for my own college because that's what men do apparently. Then college is loaded with professors saying us men are privileged while the coddle every female opinion.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 03:07 AM
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It's true. They give bad advice for males. They don't account for a lot of male specific problems and mindsets. Still it's often better than nothing.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 03:01 AM
46

I was raised by feminists and treated women as they said they liked being treated. Most girls called me f@g. When I got fed up and became selfish they loved it. They liked it when I didn't give a fuck about them.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 11:56 PM
8

Every generation of female raises her daughters to be even more feminist. They tell them men are predators for existing and that they were oppressed even if they marrried wealthy and were pampered. Few mothers today experienced the kind of sexism that existed pre 1980's. So these young girls are born with this indoctrination and a chip on their shoulder. They want more for women even thoguh girls today are born with more privilege and opportunity.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 03:10 AM
2

This has happened to me since I was 13. Lately I'm wondering if I should just behave in a toxic manner so they stop calling me f@g.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 11:17 PM
308

Women voted for Ryan gosling. They love him. The movie wasn't that Oscar worthy.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 02:08 AM
2

I'm the same. It sucks because I'm pessimistic about any future relationships. I'm getting older and wondering if I just need to be ready to stay alone.
/r/MensRights24/01/24 07:58 PM
8

I was indoctrinated into this thinking when I was a kid from a single mom. It was bad for me in so many ways and robbed me.
/r/MensRights24/01/24 04:35 AM
3

Ouch. What right have they to decide what a boy's penis should look like. You can permanently damage a kid.
/r/MensRights24/01/24 01:56 AM
16

Time to get a sex change
/r/MensRights23/01/24 10:53 PM
10

True
/r/MensRights23/01/24 10:52 PM
12

Just like Laura Bush who killed someone's in a car
/r/MensRights23/01/24 10:52 PM
1

How dare you read and use citations. This is about how you make women feel. Learn to listen to women. Don't read or think critically. None of that makes money and you need to make babies and feed your lady.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 08:16 PM
15

If your abused no one believes you, no one cares how you feel, you have no value without a high paying job and great looks.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 08:11 PM
24

Damn. Yet they say nerdy or unfashionable guys are creepy. Guys usually don't use gossip.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 07:04 PM
14

Holy shit. I'm so sorry. I grew up with a sister like that who is still harassing me. She found a navy guy too. She has gaslit him for 10 years. She's a pharmacist and now manipulates him by giving him fentanyl. She told him to take it for bone pain from getting injured in Iraq. She calls his mother and posts on Facebook shit about him and gets everyone to pick on him. She sexuallans physically abused me growing up then told my father I was hitting her. To this day my father hates me be the thin…
/r/MensRights23/01/24 07:03 PM
14

So true!! Women place so much value on sex. They decided if someone is of value if they are able to get sex. They use sex to get their financial and emotional needs met and if a guy isn't interested in it they call them names.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 05:47 PM
1

Oh shit. Good points. I hope those asking for examples read this but I doubt they will.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 05:45 PM
3

You met my sister?
/r/MensRights23/01/24 05:42 PM
2

Show your emotions. Get called weak or have the woman say I don't feel protected by a man who cries.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 05:38 PM
2

Like women pretending to take birth control or poking holes in condoms.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 05:33 PM
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They'd make false accusations if you reported them or they'd get all the females to harass you.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 11:54 PM
27

Have you seen or heard any media since 1990 thats doesn't?
/r/MensRights22/01/24 09:23 PM
17

I don't make sex jokes but the guys I knew who would talk about it got shunned. I was friends with an all girl group and the shit they'd say was off the charts. I was hanging out once and they were watching sex accidents in the ER. A reality show about hospital trips because of sex. I really wanted to make jokes but they sure as fuck did a good job.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 09:19 PM
22

That's cause they don't trust you.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 08:48 PM
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No I'm annoyed a their immature attitude.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 08:47 PM
31

Seriously. This is such a typical tactic.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 08:47 PM
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You sound like a rapist. No one mentioned cornering. Is that what you think about doing? Also, I worked in small closed spaces with girls who cornered me.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 08:45 PM
1

Says the misogynist
/r/MensRights21/01/24 10:53 PM
6

Liar! Your skin is too flawless!
/r/MensRights21/01/24 01:33 AM
9

Disgusting
/r/MensRights21/01/24 12:43 AM
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None of my girlfriends wore makeup. I loved them as they were. I also never had to wait for them to get ready and they tended to be less superficial. Most of my guy friends just wanted a companion who was comforting and supportive.
/r/MensRights21/01/24 12:42 AM
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Jesus. How is that justified at all? I've never understood that lack of empathy from women. They really do not see us as people. I wouldn't care if it wasn't so accepted by society or so prolific but it's made working around women depressing. I had a job at a book publisher for example. It was mostly female. The amount of daily harassment and toxic advice they give to other women is astounding. My boss would advise these girls to cheat on their husbands and to steal money because they deserve it…
/r/MensRights20/01/24 09:08 PM
1

My mom would do this to my father and I.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 06:21 AM
2

This is a great question. Why do I feel so scared to ask things like this?
/r/MensRights18/01/24 05:12 PM
15

I was raped by 2 women and sexually assaulted by more than 3. I was just taught women aren't capable of absue.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 08:22 PM
5

I had a boss who was really cool. It was at Barnes and Noble books. We hung out and kissed on Christmas break. At work she became posessive of me. She said she loved me. She was having girl talk with the higher managers and she said I kissed her. Most importantly, I was her employee and I had gone through a painful break up. I was vulnerable at the time but people saw it as weak. The next day, the regional manager approached me crying. She said how dare you do that to your manager! She said my m…
/r/MensRights17/01/24 05:53 PM
1

Wow. Again women say hair lol yourself. You aren't entitled to feelings. I'm just going to transition at this point so I can express myself. We've become like Islamic nation where you can't joke and men who show feminine traits are forced to get a sex change or shit the fuck up.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 01:28 PM
1

Until it's not. All you have to do is wait for the trans to change. If Taylor Swift suddenly said something like gays harass me, they would hate gays in a second. Shit like that happened in high school and today everyone acts like their in high school.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 01:17 PM
30

I gave everything to my wife for 20 years. She cheated because she was a lesbian. Not my fault.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 01:11 PM
3

True. A lot of preachers have a very limited understanding of scripture. They haven't even read translations of the Bible or the researched the text. They pick and choose and artfully tell the crowd what they want to tell them. As children we called bullshit and were right.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:34 AM
1

Yes and to be perfectly honest I'm in therapy for that reason too. I was picking abusive women because that's all I knew.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:30 AM
3

She has become a religion to young white women.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:10 AM
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Then they say all men do bad things. It's the charismatic super attractive men that juggle girls. They would want to change him or think they were special enough that he wouldn't do that. Meanwhile there's a bunch of honest good enough looking guys who aren't as flashy that get overlooked and called names or friend zoned. A lot of this talk of male toxicity would stop if people evaluated their values and understood what to look for in a a partner outside of money, status, and abs.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 11:26 PM
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It shouldn't be. That's selfish of a trans person. I completely understand how they want to be seen as their gender but just because someone is a male doesn't mean you can be dishonest. I suppose they fear a lack of approval or violence but how can they not see it as withholding truth? Men are more likely to be violent to someone who was born male and didn't disclose.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 03:54 PM
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lol! Unfortunately, I didn't have a dad and I followed my sister and mom's advice based on celebrity bullshit when I was very young. It was a lot of superficial bullshit that made me neurotic. Thank god I'm rebellious.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 03:49 PM
8

My mother in law told me that the two times she did jury duty, she knew the man was guilty right away. She has intuition she says. I'm getting scared of being around women.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 07:59 PM
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Also, Taylor swift is really harmful to women.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 07:50 PM
1

This is great advice thank you! Now let's see if someone like that exists in Los Angeles.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 07:47 PM
1

I was never believed no matter how much I tried.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 05:46 AM
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It's true. Being an asshole exudes confidence. It even works on dudes. Women have told me they don't feel safe around men who are too sensitive. My mom and sister would laugh at sensitive men on television.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 03:03 AM
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It really is. My sister who is a pharmacist and should be logical uses emotion to make a lot of stupid clinical decisions. My wife and formerly long term girlfriends would eventually be swept away by something other than her current boring life no matter how good it is.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 02:57 AM
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So there wil never be an end to it. How are men the problem again? Well, soon I won't have women in my life and I can stop worrying.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 02:55 AM
2

This would have shocked doctors in the 90's. They very much were concerned about things like sex addiction in males and now it overlooked.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 01:35 AM
12

I worked in at a super progressive book publisher and the women did not treat the effeminate guys well. They focused on this one guy named Nick who was a 6'4'' lacrosse player. The whole time they shit on guys like him to his face but Nick would just smile then fuck them later.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 01:12 AM
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That's what I needed to hear from a father. Thank you. I'm going to read this and use it to keep focused and calm when I feel low. I can't express how much I appreciate you taking the time to write with such clarity and detail what I see to hear right now. The thing is at around age 35 Inwas already struggling with mental illness but I was a successful filmmaker. I followed much of your advice and it's totally spot on. I did my own thing with conviction and discipline daily. People were drawn to…
/r/MensRights15/01/24 01:09 AM
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The ones that don't can still get married or date. They aren't excoriated for being single moms or working women. There is no way being a house husband with no job would be accepted. Women even criticize men who hold their baby shirtless. Men can't work around kids without suspicion. Women don't respect or value any of these men and more importantly they abuse men who step out of line.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 12:36 AM
8

True. I gave everything to my family and to help my wife. All that mattered to anyone was that I was achieving and making money. I became very depressed around age 35 because of it. I'm still struggling 10 years later.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 11:28 PM
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As a rape survivor, no one cares if you're a man who was raped. They find it funny or offensive.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 11:24 PM
30

Silence
/r/MensRights14/01/24 11:08 PM
30

As someone who had to leave an abusive home this is very troubling. The message is you should die. Homeless or mentally ill men might as well be shot because were not people. We are only laborers and wallets.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 11:05 PM
9

I'm saying that to be politically correct. I didn't study gender theory.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:14 PM
2

It's so true. I've examined where my fractured identity comes from since I was a kid. I understand the frustration of not feeling like a man after what happened and how I was an orphan who didn't have a male or female role model. My sister used my story to start a business to encourage traumatized people to transition. She abused me as a boy and loves to emasculate men. If I followed my "family" or the media, I would have butchered myself and there would be no one around to help me. They made th…
/r/MensRights14/01/24 06:26 PM
1

No no my balls are bitter I'm dry.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 05:31 AM
3

Thank you the memories are just coming back and I need to complie proof against my father who is a terrifying man.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 04:29 AM
1

I work around them. It's usually ok but a few are toxic.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 09:02 PM
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I'm leaving this week hopefully. I needed time to find a place to live.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 07:25 PM
6

I tied to talk about it on the detransiton subreddit but I got banned. I'm trying to just get help and find the truth. Doctors also follow the trends in society. We don't have enough research to really identify what teansgenderism is and where it comes from.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 07:08 PM
5

I've heard of transmaxxers doing this. Sometimes I can't blame them. Some of those guys are short and not the best looking. As a male that means decades alone unless you start a band or something but even then. When you see them dressed as females, I can see how society would totally treat them better.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 07:06 PM
2

They seem to go back and forth on this. I had a gay friend who would make all sorts of declarations about male and female brains. People would listen even though it had no science backing it. Then college was filled with a lot of bullshit and denial.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 07:04 PM
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After graduate school, I felt hopeless because I was at the top of my class and ready to become a professor but by 2012, you had to think exactly as they do and I was often shit down for being male.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 07:03 PM
4

It's disturbing because I'm not being banned from Reddits for posting here. It dystopian to see how information is being controlled and that people are being manipulated.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 05:51 PM
5

Except most women especially on social media demand that. You're absolutely right though. It happens when you don't balance your life and attachments. Therapy can help with that. However, young women especially can be brutal to men who really just want to be loved because they don't fit society's expectations.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 05:16 PM
1

Yeah, my wife began to cheat and my first long term girlfriend called me a faggot.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 05:02 PM
5

Not to mention girls bullied and shunned me for reading comics and now they like it superficially and are more interested in the merchandise and e socia aspects of fandom. Cosplay??? Sexy super Hero costumes. Then they pressure the comics to change. We get female hero's who can never fail because misogyny.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 05:01 PM
10

This is a narcissistic abuse tactic. It makes you feel better by bullying and scapegoating someone else. You make them inferior while you feel good. It's a move of an insecure person.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 12:54 PM
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Often, they don't even really participate and they never built those fan bases. Women were never the primary demographic of comics and video games still are male dominated.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 12:52 PM
3

That would drive me fucking crazy to get fired for speaking the truth. Now fucking textbooks have that insane logic. I feel like the word makes no sense.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 02:45 AM
1

Thank you. I'm in the US. I've been seeking therapy now that I finally have good insurance but most I've been getting don't treat such complex trauma. There's little support. Even if I find therapy I may not be able to afford it long term.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 12:07 AM
3

It's how in college female professors promoted their girlfriends into the administration and faculty. Slowly the goal of college began adressinng white men and women's point of view only. They would prey on male sympathy so they could diminish young men's self perception.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 09:43 PM
2

lol! You're so right. Thankfully, I worked and was able to pay for college. I had a few amazing professors and friends take an interest in me. They helped me find that light. However, JoJo's Bizarre adventure would have been easier.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 06:44 PM
1

Yeah. It's true. Social media made everyone more superficial and narcissistic. The entire world became like high school all over again with bullies and popularity contests. The same goes for men though. We try to be all the things women desire and some have taken extreme measures.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 06:32 PM
2

Thank you for the kind words. Thanks exorcisms for reminding me to be patient with myself. I've been very self critical and it's keeping me stuck. Therapy helps!
/r/MensRights11/01/24 06:29 PM
1

University really hurt me. The academic jobs soon became filled with hate. You have to think one way only and it's not healthy. I've experienced it dating and at work as well as family. It's pretty consistent among women in Los Angeles.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 06:09 PM
1

Yeah, I do think some of the angry anti feminist males have not developed nuance in seeing how gender roles play out. I was taught to expect better from women and that men were the problem. Eventually, I realized it's just a human thing. I don't agree with the extreme rhetoric that goes on in male and female spaces. I'm just seeking understanding g and truth while I manage to peacefully live my life.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 06:07 PM
1

You're right. Why was this post locked down?
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:26 PM
3

True! It was Orwellian to see the ideology completely flip like that. Soon, intelligent women began to buy into that without question. I used to live in a home full of women and I've forgotten how easily they got caught up in some trend without critically thinking of the consequence.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 04:00 AM
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Wow. This is so similar to my story. Thank you for loving him. My mother sexually abused me and when my dad found out he blamed me and gave me away. He later came back because an aunt gave him money but he was a violent dangerous man. He held me at gunpoint once because he thought I was acting gay. My first girlfriend helped me feel loved for the first time. I was quite attached but I didn't really act like a guy and I wasn't attractive and she wanted more.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:56 AM
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My parents were mentally ill. They had the emotional range of a 3 year old. It was terrifying yet they still felt that they were good parents. My father brags to this day at age 73 how much he did. It's delusional and most people lie to themselves so much. I see awful parents every day and hope those poor kids have other adults to help.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:10 AM
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Thank you so much for loving him. My first girlfriend may have saved my life by showing me love for the first time. My mother sexually abused me as a child and the only thing that helped me learn to love was being loved by my first few girlfriends.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:08 AM
5

True. Why is that overlooked? They say that women can be warriors yet they say men only cause war.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 02:49 AM
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First. My post is not those other posts and I fear that you may be misunderstanding the intention of this post. I feel like men and women are misunderstanding each other more than ever and part of it is that there is a lack of empathy about how men feel. Even now you write dismissively of male emotions. I'm a vulnerable person and I can admit that. If you want to know anything about how males feel and care at all about any male in your life then it could help to jist understand what it's like to…
/r/MensRights11/01/24 02:47 AM
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What are you taking about? You're being dismissive and emotionally abusive. That's not welcome here. If you want to actually discuss anything with empathy then I'm sure many of us would be happy to share. Be kind.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 02:44 AM
3

Don't fat name the chauvinist.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 02:38 AM
2

Thank you for this. I used to argue something like this in 2004 at UC Irvine and it actually was accepted by feminists. They were still a little empathetic then.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 02:36 AM
3

True. Like cave men.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 02:32 AM
5

For various reasons when I was younger I began to completely shut down sexually. I saw how my mom and sister would use seduction to manipulate men. I was so paranoid in high school that when girls asked me out I felt that they were trying to use me. It was unhealthy for me to shut down emotions and needs that are essential for a man but I didn't want to get hurt anymore. It was hard enough at home and I needed support not seduction.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 01:40 AM
3

Oh shit! Thank you for this article! It could really save me heartache in the future.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 12:55 AM
5

I had a woman grab my dick at a coffee shop and just say ooops! in a cute tone.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 12:01 AM
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I feel that way too. They're not telling young people the truth. It's been passed down generation to generation at least since the 1970's. Growing up in the 1990's in Catholic school I felt bad for existing as a male. I was so ashamed to be a boy and I didn't want to grow up into one of those monsters the feminists in my family talked about. Needless to say it was terrible for my identity. I just want the genders to be equal as possible but we seem biologically programmed to be more protective o…
/r/MensRights10/01/24 10:55 PM
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It's true. My sister did that too in a way. She began to pretend to fight for trans rights and started a business. She made money while mocking these men in transition. You would never know even if you were her friend for years. It's her actions and what she says to those close to her that reveal her true feelings. I feel like women hop on trends a lot. Sometimes those trend are political or they hurt people. I bet in years the body positivity movement will be blamed on men once those women get …
/r/MensRights10/01/24 08:19 PM
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Mine too. My mom was a pedophile and would abandon me. My father wasn't a nice guy but he did fine whe she was gone. When my father found out about her molesting me no one would believe him or me.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 05:56 PM
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How do people not see the demonization of men as hate speech? Females call for death of men then they pop on Taylor Swift and they think they are all her.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 05:52 PM
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I haven't gone after my sister who did this because she could just call me the abuser. In a couple days I'm calling social services on her because she text me that she gets drunk and high and needs help with her kids.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 03:34 AM
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So true. It's when they're constantly chasing you that they remain attentive and want the mystery. I was friends with 2 very attractive girls for almost 10 years. I never made a move but remained a fun friend who had other girlfriends. I never showed interest in them because they were way out of my league and I didn't want to compete with all the rich men. Both eventually wanted to at least make out with me because they couldn't understand why I never made a move or leered at them. They needed t…
/r/MensRights10/01/24 03:17 AM
1

Thank you! I just never imagine she would have the time to write back but it's worth a shot! I'm checking her social media now.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 02:17 AM
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I've noticed how many girls don't strive as hard as guys when they're young because they just don't have to. They know they can get guys to buy stuff or just marry a lonley guy and divorce. No one cares if you're injured or depressed as a guy. Go to work or go to war and shut up they say!
/r/MensRights10/01/24 01:29 AM
1

So true. Good luck telling them.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 01:27 AM
1

Oh I never watched that. I'll check it out. Do you think she is easily reachable? This is actually a great idea because I'm just starting therapy and alot of painful memories are coming back. I don't currently feel up to the task of making it but if she can use my story I'd be grateful.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 01:23 AM
1

It's true. I escaped the Middle East to get away from that and her it is again. No jokes.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 01:23 AM
1

Sweet! I'll gladly do that.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 01:21 AM
2

I agree. It seems there's more and more shallow people today.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 03:51 PM
3

But also those corporations make decisions based on women's demands and what attracts them.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 06:54 AM
3

It's really illogical and it slowly began to creep up into the beauracracy at formerly open minded schools. It made me really sad because the university is where I used to be able to speak freely and let opposing views be spoken no matter how uncomfortable.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 06:26 AM
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I should. I used to make more metaphoric stuff to avoid the controversy and attacks on my personal life and now I am free. Hopefully I'll get better this year and feel safe enough to begin to speak up. My family is still around and I need to be somewhere safer away from the community.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 06:23 AM
2

They also make them eat and take ozempic
/r/MensRights09/01/24 06:20 AM
3

On shows like Survivor, the women would often complain and bicker instead of work together.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 08:01 PM
6

I've heard about this from doctors! They know what the nurses are up to and hook up with them.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 07:58 PM
3

That goes both ways. Better dressed men are preferable to women.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 07:48 PM
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Right. We don't bitch and if we did we'd get verbally abused. They also haven't worked those tough and sometimes humiliating physical jobs that men have to do. They're insulated and have not been taught empathy or they have been harmed unfortunately. I grow tired of irrational accusations going to school and work all the time. It's even affected my marriage to a previously sensible woman.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 07:38 PM
5

I agree
/r/MensRights08/01/24 07:36 PM
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My professors had so much vitriol for men. They held talk in class how men make try 'em wear heels and have bad backs. They talk about how large the makeup industry is and say it's run by men. Not true.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 07:34 PM
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As if everyone deserves a top tier person. I agree about guys. Most of my guy friends just want a companion who can love them.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 07:33 PM
1

Was just asking advice but true
/r/MensRights08/01/24 05:58 PM
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They indoctrinate young men into being fighters and earners but don't care about their emotional states. We push them to make money, buy shit to impress girls, and fight wars then they wonder why men are so "toxic." No empathy and no plans to help boys just hate.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 04:05 PM
2

I might just have to walk away. It bothers me sometimes and a part of me hates revenge but this is something else. It's made me feel so weak and ashamed for years.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 02:54 PM
1

She sent me a text saying she is on drugs and neglecting her kids. Should I make an anonymous call to social services?
/r/MensRights08/01/24 02:52 PM
1

I do have a text from her that says she is using drugs and wants me to take her kids.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 02:51 PM
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They already did. I wasn't able to speak up. She is a pharmacist and now has kids. I'm a single artist with mental illness.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 02:50 PM
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I wish men didn't need to have so much of a sex drive. A lot of them enable the special treatment to get laid. They hire cute girls wayyy before a guy too.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 09:53 PM
3

Again, imagine the reverse
/r/MensRights07/01/24 09:22 PM
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What sucks is that people like my sister took and took from men to succeed. Now she says men held her back.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 08:29 PM
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God forbid you even hiccup on a date and give her the ick
/r/MensRights07/01/24 08:28 PM
6

I had no idea
/r/MensRights07/01/24 03:46 AM
4

I went through the same. My mother tortured me physically sexually and emotionally. Women protected my mother and few would even believe me. Some would watch as she'd insult me and burn me with cigarettes. I was friends with girls in grade school but after puberty they became distant and often cruel. After a decade of abuse by my mother sister and a mean girlfriend, I began to hate myself. Then I saw how much support my violent girlfriend would get just for being cute. She got hired for jobs tha…
/r/MensRights07/01/24 03:45 AM
1

Good point. You're right.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 03:19 AM
1

I'm sorry you're so hard on yourself. I'm biased because my best friend growing up was gay and he'd pick apart everyone's flaws and he'd throw a tantrum if I wore certain colors. I forgot that we would meet gay guys regularly who were pretty down to earth.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 03:17 AM
1

The covert narcissists are truly dangerous and so hard for most people to spot.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 02:41 AM
2

They'll call you a queer or not a man of you say that. Some will say you want women to get hurt and are a misogynist.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 03:15 PM
4

A standard narcissist move
/r/MensRights06/01/24 03:14 PM
7

So true. My guy friends are actually not so harsh on anyone's appearance. Women and gay guys obsess over every single pore or imperfection on your face or body. The anti body shaming movement keeps blaming men but it's other women who are competing that mock overweight women.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 05:50 PM
1

Also, men now can't use words to defend ourselves. Our speech is being controlled punished and mandated. Women can say anything sexist and I've had women sexually assault me at work. The managers always said I'm the man and I could easily have pushed my assailant away. I was too scared to put my hands on her. When I tried to speak all the women defended the manager who sexually assaulted me. I also began to realize that I've been so conditioned by school and media to see women as incapable of pr…
/r/MensRights05/01/24 05:48 PM
2

Thank you so much for your kind words. My sister who I was very close to would openly brag about how much she could violate a man and get away with it. I wouldn't have believed in sadistic women had I not experienced it and seen my female friends get revenge on men that annoy them. Sometimes they just bully a shy guy, ugly guy, or a confident successful guy just to bring him down to their level. I was hesitant to watch Jordan Peterson videos but when I did, I was surprised at how common sense hi…
/r/MensRights05/01/24 05:43 PM
1

It's so true. It used to be other women would keep this girls in check or shun them. Now everyone piles on or dismisses the male victim. I don't understand why having a vagina means that you can't see men as also vulnerable.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 07:34 PM
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In what way?
/r/MensRights04/01/24 07:31 PM
0

So gaslighting and lying to human beings that happen to have a penis is ok. Nice. People die because of this.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 07:26 PM
2

I've seen this happening since the 1990's. I was always blamed by teachers for being a man. I couldn't believe how rarely girls were held accountable. I started to get depressed when a sociology professor said men can't get raped. I told her how I was raped for years as a child. It was by a female. The shitty professor said you're a man you liked it. All men love sec of any kind was her point of view. Years later I found out she was sleeping with young male students.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 06:39 PM
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I've been considering that. Like a sponsor might be able to help with my day to day lonlienes and tendency to give up trying anymore. It's just that some of these groups really worship alcohol and still can be very narcissistic. Sometimes when they talk about the things they did or compete about who was the bigger drunk it turns me off. I used to have trouble with the higher power concept. After a decade of being held captive and sexually used and once I experienced the cruelty of human ego and …
/r/MensRights04/01/24 05:42 PM
2

It's dehumanizing yet it's widely accepted. Women say the right thing but behind your back or in private will admit they would never trust an abused man.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 01:30 AM
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Yes. I have been trying to find meetings or something. I went to a NAIMI meeting and the men there were not doing well and had little time to speak. I had a friend before who supported and sort of fathered me. I see now how it takes time and someone to be supportive every day for a while before anyone can get bettter. There are no shelters for men, the men who go to mental hospitals are treated more harshly than the women, and I'm currently being abused and I can't find help. I could die here. I…
/r/MensRights03/01/24 11:40 PM
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Or comrade
/r/MensRights03/01/24 11:32 PM
3

I was sexually assaulted by a woman and my girlfriend almost broke up with me. This woman grabbed my penis and shoved her lips in my face. As a man I was uncomfortable making a scene about it. People would call me gay when o complained about touchy women.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 11:26 PM
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Femsplained. That's a good way to put it. If you even check the male survivors of abuse Reddits they're mostly empty. I called some hotlines and it's no help. I've had to accept since I was a child that no women will care. They want an undamaged man and they see you as emasculated or dangerous if they find out about the abuse. The abusers also begin to tell people that you are they abuser. When you're a man everyone believes the women especially a mother.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 11:24 PM
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My sister for example. She fucked my boss at work then told everyone I was sexually abused by my mom for years. How do you think that worked for me? BPD women are protected but not men.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 07:51 PM
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It's here as well as the Idiocracy
/r/MensRights03/01/24 07:50 PM
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They've been indoctrinated. I was too until people told me I was being abused. Feminists will protect a female pedophile to control the narrative. I had to watch my aunt and my English teacher tell me to keep quiet. My whole life I've been ashamed of sex and ashamed of myself for existing. Females will laugh and continue to emasculate me when I talk about it. Not all, but most. They don't teach young females to put themselves in other people's shoes including men. They do not see us as people. I…
/r/MensRights03/01/24 07:50 PM
5

True. I warned all my horny guy friends but they all get like they could never be taken down by a woman. Foolish pride.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 07:46 PM
2

Why does being pro female have to be anti male? This confuses me especially now where we have nonbinary people who are technically still male. Do they get a voice at least?
/r/MensRights03/01/24 07:46 PM
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So wrong. It's funny when I tell them my mom raped me. Yes including penetration. She was mentally ill and wanted to destroy my fathers only son. Dad was not a good guy but I didn't deserve this. My whole life I've been depressed and alone. All I can do is keep working and studying but I'm not sure I'll make it. I've finally begun speaking about it. I'll keep telling my story even as bullies tell me to shut up. Once my current depression eases I'm going to start my own projects to help men. I ma…
/r/MensRights03/01/24 07:45 PM
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I agree. I've been silent most of my life which led to more abuse by women. I was never able to speak about what my mom did to me.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 07:41 PM
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The husband is now addicted to fentanyl and has no desire to stop. I have warned him about my sister for years and I used to check up on him. However, my sister has told him lies about me and I grew tired of angry explosions and false accusations. It's a way of life for my sister. Maybe the guy is just an addict using my sister. Either way she should not be giving him fentanyl to control him.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 07:40 PM
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This! This is so fucked up. It's the reverse of what used to happen to women and now they have no compassion for males going through h e same thing. There were lots of men who helped sexual abuse survivors. Few women will have anything to do with a man who says he was assaulted. I even had a professor at college who said I wanted it. Fucking disgusting.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 06:56 PM
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That is so fucked up. Why do we never hold women accountable? My mother was a pedophile and my sister had a history of abusing men. Every time as a young boy I'd ask my moms friends to rescue me but they were staunch feminists. My aunt, the Catholic Church, and teachers would say I must honor my mother. I overheard them though talking in another room. They knew I was being abused but didn't want an abused male growing up in their house. Hey said I was going to grow into a dangerous man.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 06:54 PM
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To be fair, a couple of girls in high school and female teachers were kind. However, the girls who were nice would end up seeing me as weak.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 06:37 PM
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Right! They often use men or a large group of militant females. Some of these women were hurt by men and feel that you deserve it. My mom taught me to hate all men as a child so that included me. I know the mindset of theeee women and it's like a gang. They will not accept reason. You have a dick? You're bad.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 06:31 PM
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I'm so sorry but I completely understand. It's like you can never speak about it without people mocking you. It emboldened people lien my sister to abuse all men. She is currently poisoning her husband and I can't say anything.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 06:02 PM
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I studied at two universities with mostly females and it's a lot of idealistic talk. They know they have to sell their value so they can keep students coming back and doing their bidding. A lot of these females were my friends and weren't bad people but they had 0 respect for men. We were sex toys to be locked and compared to other men. They say they don't need men because there is always a man there to take care of their needs. There's a lot dumb horny lonely guys. So as much as I loved my educ…
/r/MensRights02/01/24 09:26 PM
2

Because the government wants men to pay. Zut Alors!
/r/MensRights02/01/24 09:16 PM
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The problem is the idiots voices become mainstream values.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 09:14 PM
1

They just want you to fight their wars.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 09:12 PM
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I'm so sorry man. Don't worry she is an off with an alcoholic and she is superficial. Hopefully someone here can help you with legal advice.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 09:09 PM
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My sister is so charming but she is clinically a psychopath. It's terrifying because no one will believe her male victims. She now is slowly poisoning her husband with fentanyl
/r/MensRights02/01/24 09:06 PM
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Good point. I can think of so many insults to spew back at her but I'm too old and tired. Someone make fun of her bull nose ring please. That's not an ick??
/r/MensRights02/01/24 09:05 PM
1

He probably feels ashamed but this is not a real mine. I'm ashamed to say there were times when I behaved arrogantly when I'd meet someone I wronged. I hope I've been forgiven for that but this man is wrong. Do they seem like they want a real relationship with you or just a show for the public?
/r/MensRights02/01/24 09:03 PM
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The thing is around most company you can't. They will lose respect for you or assume you deserved it. I agree about therapy but if you're poor it's expensive. I've been in and out of therapy over the years and I would recommend it to everyone. Like right now it's 100 a week for me and it's not even the kind of therapy I need. Everyone jsit says go work go work go work. I never is a chance to figure out who I am out of a relationship.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 08:59 PM
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I had a regular job and then I went to UC Irvine to study in the humanities. You wouldn't believe the number of women and men who have no idea what real work or real value is. I was one of them at times. I became so resentful that jsit because I was a man I was not supported. I worked humiliating jobs and studied all the time to get somewhere where they look down on real gritty work. Needless to say, I kicked all their asses because I didn't need breaks or parties. I was motivated and focused an…
/r/MensRights02/01/24 08:42 PM
1

Then generations are indoctrinated and they can't think outside their worldview. They have no sympathy for men. I didn't when I was a kid because of what school taught me.
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/24 08:38 PM
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Since men want to fuck women they allow everyone to be gaslit. It was clear that there was no wage gap at least since the 1990's. Every female in my school ended up better off than the males. Some of the males are even dead.
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/24 07:36 PM
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This is so true. When I'd reach out to female friends in grade school about my bully they'd develop a crush on him. I'm high school I told my best female friend that a guy was making rude sexual remarks about her and she ended up dating him.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 07:34 PM
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What a shitty thing to say. Have you ever been suicidal or falsely accused. You are a pariah and no one will love or care about you.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 05:36 PM
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Me too man. Why do we gaslight people and say women aren't capable of harm. My sister bullied me and bullied her husband to suicidiality. She would tell everyone his darkest secrets.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 05:33 PM
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When I was 19 my girlfriend of 3 years cheated. Her new boyfriend didn't like that we had classes together. She got mad at some joke I made and she sent him to jump me with his buddies after class. All my friends met up with me later to tell me not to hurt her. They said I was a guy I could take a punch. No one cared if I was ok or needed to go to the hospital. People just watched when it happened.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 05:19 PM
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People protect female bullies. They sympathize or say she's not doing it now is she? Then she does it when no one's looking or tells some white knight to come beat you up for no reason.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 05:16 PM
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I'm going to pull my remaining hair out.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 10:39 PM
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Haha
/r/MensRights30/12/23 11:48 PM
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So true! And it causes issues. Like my wife didn't know about nocturnal emissions or that men can be sexually abused.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 11:42 PM
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Is there sand in your vagina cum dragon
/r/MensRights30/12/23 10:39 PM
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This is happening to me. I feel so worthless and forgot who I was.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 07:31 PM
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I agree. It frustrates me when college professors would say ignorant shit with no statistical support. They base it on their narrow minded experience and few women give a fuck about how a man feels.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 06:15 PM
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Between 1997-2016 UC Irvine had 4 female professors in relationships with students. At CalArts 2004-2009 professors had relationships all the time and it was praised as progressive and not abusive because only men do that. This was their attitude.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 07:20 PM
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Anytime I mail a post like this it gets shut down.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 04:44 PM
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Thanks for letting me know. I used to assume that women were the kinder of the two sexes but really women just hide their feelings better.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 04:44 PM
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This is happening to me now. I gave up everything for her. She now is wealthy and bored so she cheats. I'm working on trying to afford a large but I'm stuck here for the rest of the month.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 04:43 PM
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Yeah, my feminist mom and he friends tried to save me by destroying my self esteem. They made me a doormat to be used by women. These Sam feminists knew my mom was sexually abusing me and they protected her. She was mentally ill and it was apparently my fault for being an unruly boy.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 04:41 PM
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I just found out my wife of 20 years is cheating a while back. I'm hesitant to meet women and I hope it's not as bad as I seems. Who am I kidding it's gotten worse and worse since the 90's.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 12:31 AM
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Why is a hateful mushroom obsessed woman trying to pretend to care about men's lives.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 02:38 PM
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Jeez. It's quite awful to be hated just for existing.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 10:56 PM
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Yeah so oppressed they get priority hire and get to marry up divorce and marry higher up until she's fucking the president.
/r/MensRights06/12/23 07:21 PM
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Thank you for this. I'll check it out and tell my friend. I grew up mostly alone or in an abusive family system so it's very possible that I don't understand when I'm being abused.
/r/MensRights02/12/23 06:54 PM
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For the most part but I'm realizing she thinks I'm happy all the time because I have to be silent. It's also from work. I was passionate about academia for decades because we could challenge anything and speak freely. Lately everything has been warped and the focus is not on actual change or the pursuit of truth but it's everyone patting themselves on the back for being born a particular gender while shutting down the language of another gender that has a penis at birth. It feels dystopian and 2…
/r/MensRights02/12/23 09:06 AM
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I was not allowed to grieve my mother or time to process my sexual abuse. Keep working keep studying be a man. I was alone in all that and I'm finally in therapy at age 45. The suppressed emotion was killing me.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 06:49 PM
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Me too. My mom and sister did and people especially women knew. They forced me to lie and told everyone I was a sexual deviant. I was 11 years old and they didn't stop until I got bigger.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 02:00 AM
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More proof that those open minded delicate ladies could give a fuck if you kill yourself. She actually said it was a gun problem not a male lonliness problem.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 01:27 AM
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Injury at home or work. For instance I broke my hip, I was in mind numbing pain waiting for surgery. I was told to move furniture because I appeared like a lazy man. Same at work my mother died and I heard about it and I was not treated well.
/r/MensRights26/11/23 01:33 PM
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Thank you! It may be past the statute of limitations for police.
/r/MensRights26/11/23 07:54 AM
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Yeah but at work they can't be avoided and if I get sick or need a moment to clear my head due to a brain injury, I get attacked. You sound like you're telling me to enable abuse. I see the human in them daily. I took care and saw the human in the woman who sexually abused me. I just don't understand why it's ok to assault an injured or sick person because he's a man and it's allowed or at least tolerated in workspaces and is prevelant in daily interactions. Also it's promoted in mass media.
/r/MensRights26/11/23 07:52 AM
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Thanks! I'm in Los Angeles actually but support is hard to find. Even the support groups I've gone to don't have many resources and they don't meet often.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 09:41 PM
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I've been through 30 years of this. I was surrounded by feminists who would destroy me because I was a boy. They had no problem using physical force and sexual abuse to show me a woman's pain during intercourse.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 09:39 PM
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Good point. It was tough in college and in my feminist workspace. Even if you got sick it was like fuck you! Aren't you a man? Man up! Get over it! Then it happens to them and it's your fault. Thee were times I couldn't hide my pain or disability. A boss or my sister would begin to harass me talk about how I'd never survive childbirth or getting my eyebrows done. Go fuck yourself lady! Ima person who made sacrifices for your gender and all I get is contempt and loneliness. I'm getting a dog and …
/r/MensRights25/11/23 09:36 PM
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I KNOW! I worked with women who laughed about men dying in war. They said that's what men are supposed to do. Not I madam. I needed my education. I didn't want to waste my potential or youth just to prove I'm manly.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 09:33 PM
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Also the good men were treated like shit and ignored. The Alan doll in the Barbie movie is supposed to be one of those "good" men. They deem you weak and unfuckable. They want that tall aggressive guy to sweep them off their feet. They need a man that other women envy and they don't bother acknowledging any of their poor decisions.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 09:22 PM
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So true
/r/MensRights25/11/23 09:19 PM
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It confuses me how a group that claims to empower women and to get equality can't stop talking about men, can't stop trying to control our speech and thoughts, and will not allow us to have male only spaces. They can't stop focusing on men. I think they know they are inferior and are angry.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 08:33 PM
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Every generation of females gets indoctrinated further and becomes more entitled. They restrict our speech and perspective now. Having a beard or penis makes you a predator. Did any of these women have father brothers or even a cousin they loved?
/r/MensRights25/11/23 08:30 PM
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The truth
/r/MensRights25/11/23 08:29 PM
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Tel that to t he women and government who use social media and entertainment to create harmful legislation. Mass media is very important just ask Donald trump and Hitler who both mastered film and television in politics.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 08:28 PM
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Women will send their man to war to die but not their pets.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 06:24 AM
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They also don't let you talk about it or about what we men experience or how we see things. They interrupt the conversation to tell you what you're thinking. They are so narcissistic that they think everyone thinks as they do.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 06:19 AM
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Also, I behaved exactly how my feminist mother taught me around women. They called me queer, ignored me, and wouldn't talk to me. I worked hard on myself and my hobbies alone for a long time. I started ignoring them and insulting them. Suddenly I was desirable. Fuck that.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 06:16 AM
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They also are allowed to assault you. My high school girlfriend coerced me into sex before I was ready by threatening to tell my catholic school and abusive father that I was gay.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 06:14 AM
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Yes! Please everyone intervene if you see a harmful mother. You don't even have to get involved yourself call someone to help the kid. The times I did see someone tell my mom to stop, it reminded me that I wasn't a bad kid and that I didn't deserve that.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 01:09 AM
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Good luck working with them. I'm trying to find a quieter job away from it all anyway.
/r/MensRights24/11/23 10:37 PM
5

My wife refused to help me find a counselor for years. She also threw out my medication all the time because she didn't want me to be a drug addict. Those were Just SSRI's like Prozac. Also if you tell them that you had to go to war and your life was ruined due to injury, they jsit say so what that's what men are supposed to do. They often leave their man can't make as much money due to disability. I've seen it all the time. Fickle.
/r/MensRights24/11/23 10:34 PM
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HahahahhahahahHAH!!
/r/MensRights24/11/23 10:32 PM
5

Oh yeah. I used to go there but it kept me stuck and triggered. Thank god I have a therapist now. I'm doing CBT and another therapy next week to separate the altered intrusive thoughts. I just need to be around people that I trust and learn how to identify those who are untrustworthy.
/r/MensRights24/11/23 10:31 PM
1

I've worked with women in power and they often would give up the position to do something more fulfilling because life is short. That's actually a smart decision. They gain status and wealth then go on to pursue their dreams. Why waste your life in a stressful office job if you have wealth and want to find love or travel? Men often feel srstisfaction from competition and CEO types tend to be greedy and obsessed with winning. Status and wealth tie a lot into a man's self worth too.
/r/MensRights24/11/23 10:29 PM
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EVERYONE rushes to help those girls and gives them a safe space to rebuild their self esteem after injury. I couldn't get to an abuse shelter because I have a penis. I've given everything to my mother, sister, girlfriends and wife only to be always told it wasn't enough. Also I hate guys who harass women for expelling in a stereotypically male space or sport. However, women like Danica Patrick or Anna Korbekova (not sure of the spelling) can go into a sort like nascar and EVERYONE pays a crazy a…
/r/MensRights24/11/23 10:24 PM
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I have proof. Go away.
/r/MensRights24/11/23 10:17 PM
15

Maybe not around you. I've lived with women since I was a kid.
/r/MensRights24/11/23 10:16 PM
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Thank you so much for saying that. You're absolutely right and even when I'd share stories women would attack me and say how dare you say that! "You hate women" they'd say when I'd bring up being abused by my mom or sister. They were too pretty and appeared so sweet when people where around. Alone they had free reign to hit, sexually violate, and emasculate. They were feminists who hated my father so they justified harming me. I told adults for years. Women saw my mother burn me with cigarettes …
/r/MensRights24/11/23 10:16 PM
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I'm so sick of dealing with this in workplaces and the world in general but people will listen to a handsome idiot way more than an educated and experienced average guy. I say this as a former handsome idiot. I noticed when I lost weight how much more attentive people were. When I had a good career former girls who weren't interested suddenly believed my every opinion was true.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 09:19 PM
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Not true. Academia for instance. I was on track to be a professor but they no longer wanted men and my female friends with lower grades got hired for their gender. Also, that means men work harder.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 04:08 PM
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I followed that advice and got hurt badly. Now I'm 45 and all my work, time, and money went to my wife who eventually could not be pleased. She cheated and I'm stuck. I was better off when I took care of myself and followd my dreams. It's just that I had been alone for 10 years and met a girl who was very intelligent and cute.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 03:09 PM
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Oh shit. My first girlfriend was Filipino and she emasculated her father daily for not being rich. The dude had a nice home in Burbank,ca not a mansion but a great place to grow up. Her dad was a really nice guy but was broken down and began to have heath issues. She hated me for being middle eastern. I've had good experiences since but you're right. I forgot how often on Facebook or instagram Filipino women would ask me for marrriage to get citizenship. Women's expectations are extremely unfair…
/r/MensRights21/11/23 11:40 PM
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Nope. 👎
/r/MensRights21/11/23 10:24 PM
1

I'm considering moving there for this reason. I've met Thai, Filipino, and some Latin women actually like men
/r/MensRights21/11/23 07:24 PM
1

I'm pretty liberal
/r/MensRights21/11/23 07:23 PM
8

I feel for you. I've been banned from a couple subs for asking advice about being abused by a woman. Banned!
/r/MensRights20/11/23 03:46 PM
2

I wish all you good dudes do something nice for yourself today. No one else will.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 03:44 PM
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like action movies where they are always smart and right. The villain can never get the best of her because women are perfect. All women are perfect. Those women who murder their husbands or kill their children, it was just depression or a man made her do it.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 03:42 PM
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Absolutely. I was at Uc Irvine around 2004-2009. Men were allowed to speak at first but it was mostly shut down by females using emotion and insults. They refused to see other's perspectives. Soon those females became professors. Two of these professors were lesbians. These girls promoted their girlfriends to be professors too.Eventually it was mostly female professors forcing an agenda. They began to deny reality, they blamed the U.S. for 9/11, and they would convince themselves that they could…
/r/MensRights20/11/23 03:35 PM
2

I still feel guilt because my family in Lebanon to this day refuses to see me as anything other than an infidel. By staying in America at age 12, I made sure my sick mother didn't die and I studied and worked. I was homeless at times but I eventually saved up and applied to UC Irvine. My family became enraged about me studying in America, so they got revenge by cutting me out of a trust fund worth over 2 million dollars.I've been targeted my whole life by these angry Lebanese with no minds of th…
/r/MensRights20/11/23 03:14 PM
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Any criticism of a woman could be called misogyny according to many women. They've gone power crazy.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 03:51 PM
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you though. you are a piece of meat to be used as cannon fodder. The females in my family wanted me to be a child soldier in Lebanon during the war in the 1980's. I ran away from home. it was the best choice of my life.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 03:32 PM
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Absolutely! Just don't dare say it to any woman in a position of power or you'll get false accusations.
/r/MensRights17/11/23 03:29 PM
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It actually caused me a lot of harm. I was forced to hang out with some fucked up dudes because I have a dick. I was better off some eventually.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 09:58 PM
1

I was around radical feminists in graduate school and they are very deliberate in their shifting rhetoric. I can't believe I was brainwashed as a kid to support them.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 04:06 AM
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Good point
/r/MensRights16/11/23 04:04 AM
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I'm sorry you're wrong. I graduated from UC Irvine and CalArts. Women were prioritized and many would use their looks to get ahead. They were not smarter than the other girls or the males. Like you they dismiss men. They say you're a man you'll have opportunities. I was abandoned at age 12 after being sexually abused. I suffered through so much to get to where I was and most women will say I'm privileged. People helped my sister but no one helped me because they were afraid of an abused boy. Whe…
/r/MensRights15/11/23 08:31 PM
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You haven't met any UC Irvine professors. They very much did say that. They'd always say Billie Jean King proved that women are stronger. They also mention childbirth.
/r/MensRights14/11/23 10:11 PM
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So interesting. Thanks for posting this.
/r/MensRights14/11/23 08:05 PM
2

Wow since the Dawn of time. I've been hurt by at least 5 women and have been assaulted and my reputation smeared. Not be woman helped me when they say my mother abuse me or when they heard about my mother sexually abusing me, they blamed me. I was a 12 year old man according to them. All men want it. They get to decide what happened to me and how it felt.
/r/MensRights14/11/23 08:05 PM
2

This is so right.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 06:18 PM
3

My wife of 20 years now does this too. I'm leaving her.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 11:21 PM
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It wasn't an argument. Don't make assumptions. It was a good natured reply that was in agreement. The mods took it down.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 08:51 PM
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It's wired how women say men are sex obsessed when all they seem to value is how much sex a man can get or not
/r/MensRights06/11/23 01:47 PM
1

You will be used and discarded. You'll be respected as a military guy but some people will think you were too stupid for college. Women assume it's to ur duty to protect them even as they pick fights with strangers because you're their weapon.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 01:31 PM
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I'm seriously considering going that route. I've had casual flings, dates, and been in a relationship that ended after 20 years. I can't imagine spending all sorts of money and trying to impress yet another woman who will eventually find a more successful guy to compare me to. I just want some companionship and affection.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 01:29 PM
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They flip out if you even say girl
/r/MensRights14/10/23 05:50 AM
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Absolutely correct. At least one guy is standing up and making jokes. I used to say that in college and I'd get harassed constantly.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 09:58 PM
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They only want the privellages not the responsibility.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 06:01 PM
1

Luccckkkyyy
/r/MensRights13/10/23 02:52 AM
3

My mother did that to me. It made me completely easy to manipulate as a child then as I learned about the world I was lonely and behind everyone socially.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 02:52 AM
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Lol!
/r/MensRights13/10/23 02:32 AM
1

They wish for all men to go away. The butch ones want a fresh supply of young minds and bodies.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 02:31 AM
2

It's strange because certain people who claim to be compassionate and empowering or progressive thinking end up being the exact same bigots they hated. Like encouraging peple to identify with a race and gender just creates more "constructs" to divide us. It's asinine.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 02:28 AM
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Yup. That's why women were emboldened to assault me on the past. If I told an authority they'd say it's not possible.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 11:50 AM
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It's fucked up. The reverse could never happen. I had a few short friends and didn't realize how cruel women could be behind their back. Now it's not so hidden.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 08:01 PM
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They often will be rude, sneer, insult you, or outright ignore you if they have a self absorbed personality. Today with instagram and dating apps more girls than ever feel like many guys are too ugly or low status for their special perfect selves.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 08:00 PM
5

I've ranted before but my wife of 20 years did something like that with a young girl she was mentoring. I still can't understand the lack of conscience.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:57 PM
2

Good point. I'm so tender and gentle when I fuck myself.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:56 PM
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She writes like an unemployed victim blamer. We as men say we're lonely and they say you deserve it. I miss having a caring female around but it's too hurtful right now and I'm tired of trying to get them to at least be considerate. Treat us at least how you'd treat your male dog.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:14 PM
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Lol, I'm glad to know this. So is the whole internet now indoctrinated?
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:12 PM
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I also agree there are women's issues but male issues are much larger now. Women forget that it was men who pushed them to get the right to vote. Women voted for Donald Trump, a very low percentage of males are billionaires. Men do not get special treatment at college or work but women do. Lastly, the invade male spaces and indoctrinate young people onto beleivong hate is ok based on gender and they hate trans women who could be their allies. It's all about control and if men die then so what. T…
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:12 PM
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Lol Right. It's completely dehumanizing. Male problems affect women so don't have problems and don't ask the person you love the most for support if she has a vagina. The narcissism is unbelievable. I had a feminist mother and aunts. They knew I had been raped by my mom but it was too inconvenient to help me because I'm a boy. Man up. Fucking no compassion and fake compassion for other women. They would not hesitate to betray a fellow woman for something they want.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:05 PM
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Oh that's fine
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:02 PM
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Too true. It doesn't matter how much you've given or how masculine and supportive. They will always get upset at their man expressing feelings. They literally say to listen listen don't interrupt! Then they don't let you speak or say that's not true as they begin to berate you to all your friends.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:01 PM
3

Good point. Thank you.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 06:59 PM
3

Lol!
/r/MensRights08/10/23 06:59 PM
2

It's also not that men work harder because they have to. They have to support a woman and men can be very ambitious, sometimes don't want kids, and our whole value from society is how much money we make or our status. Women don't have to be ambitious or work hard to move up. They can and do flirt play vulnerable or sleepy their way up. Also, most women want kids and relationships more than a high powered career. CEO's on psychological tests have high dark ties qualities meaning they often don't …
/r/MensRights08/10/23 06:58 PM
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Oh absolutely! That's why I posted this. No matter why she seems to respond with anger about anything men need. Again men aren't people. Some of this ideology is dangerous for women and men. The mental gymnastics involved to avoid any responsibility is palpable. They don't see men as people. They flame young men today for gender roles from a century ago. Men were bound to gender expectations too like fighting world wars or working tirelessly only to be told its not enough.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 09:45 AM
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I have read that most CEO's are psychopaths or sociopaths. That's what makes them able to step on people, lie, and manipulate.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 02:52 AM
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😅🤣😊
/r/MensRights08/10/23 01:17 AM
6

I forgot you could do that.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 01:17 AM
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Well, you useless man it's because your testorone filled brain can't comprehend a woman's superior intellect. That's why they have to yell insults and never ever are wrong. Only men can be wrong all women are perfect.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 01:17 AM
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They claim to want equality but they can't take accountability listen to a male perspective and accept it as valid. This whole article has hints of misandry and dismisses men having emotions or loneliness. Dating apps and hypergamy crush young men and they say man up. When you do man up they scream misogyny. They wouldn't hesitate to ask you to protect them. Their argument is that white people's grandpas were mean so I deserve it. Bullshit, my family wasn't from America and the women are treated…
/r/MensRights08/10/23 01:12 AM
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I had a woman harass and call me awful names. I kept reporting her but nothing yet. I'm afraid to talk back to her due to Reddit.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 01:02 AM
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By the way it's your fault.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 01:00 AM
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I keep getting harassed in my messages. Nasty stuff too.
/r/MensRights07/10/23 10:38 PM
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Yeah, I read in a later article that she didn't mean it the way it came out and after elaborating it wasn't as bad or she didn't want any backlash. However, a low body count is often something don't like in a man. It's bizarre.
/r/MensRights06/10/23 08:21 PM
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You're absolutely correct. He's a recovered addict. Active addiction notoriously makes people behave narcissisticly. I guess that's what I meant. I used to drink a lot. When I would drink I'd act much more narcissisticly and it worked with women. It was my guy friends who warned me that my artificial swagger wasn't very kind.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 01:38 PM
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Very true. I've worked with celebrities and actors and part of what makes them successful is a delusional belief in themselves. They think everything they fee or think must be true. Total fantasy to keep them moving forward.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 04:30 AM
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What do you mean? I had sex with multiple women while acting like a Narcissist. As a kind husband of 20 years and before the fucking around I was in a committed relationship both lost respect because I was too available. It gets taken for granted.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 03:36 AM
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Me too. I was acting for a while when I was living in an abusive home. I learned how to act tough and be charismatic. I want to read about the evolutionary explanation! It reminds me how were all just animals. The dark triad people do succeed in life at the cost of their soul. I felt crushed by my circumstances and it took too much energy to constantly be "on." I kind of just want an equal and a companion not a worshipper or a novelty seeker.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 01:07 AM
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Very interesting. Very true but my lord it's a nonstop game being married.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 12:37 AM
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Very good point. I allowed myself to be shamed and it he'd me back. I'm still working on undoing the brainwashing.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 09:35 PM
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Thank you. That's good advice. I'm secretly looking for a place to stay. I took photos of a journal she leaves out. She writes in front of me and just places it on her nightstand. Considering she's been at it for a year and she was pretty invasive of my private space, I didn't feel bad. Next is to photo her texts in case I need it. She's breaking her employment contract and that could be favorable to me. It's just so hard to do these things to someone I love.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 09:01 PM
1

Once again insults and no point
/r/MensRights04/10/23 06:28 AM
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I married a very reasonable woman who I thought was logical but she was just holding back emotions. I found that she only responds to emotions and is easily manipulated. She is cheating with a 29 year old that is her employee. I had 2 long term relationships and a few flings but it's always an endless unrealistic pursuit of wants, attention, gifts, support, and career success or it's your fault.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 06:24 AM
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Yes. Now we're not man enough if we don't break our psyche by ducking until women are just replaceable glory holes then blame men.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 06:09 AM
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I'd think positively of someone who had 4. I bought into the idea that men have to fuck every thing. My parents even pressured me to have sex so people wouldn't think I'm soft. It was depressing.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 06:06 AM
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Hey you lovely nice person. It was autocorrect and only people who have nothing to say attack a persons grammar. Yes I am an immigrant you xenophobic ass. Also Dianne is not a common spelling. The name Dianne is of Latin origin you ignorant troll.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 04:15 AM
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Just today a female took over for Diane Feinstein
/r/MensRights04/10/23 03:49 AM
1

Me and another guy with narcissistic parents were depressed because in college. He dropped out and I was getting good grades but severely depressed. We didn't like each other but began to talk. Over years we became pals and would help each other attain goals. I found out how selfless some people can be. Eventually we grew to a community of 40 people who would hang around and talk at cafes or restaurants: We were young though and eventually people got marrried, hooked up, broke up, and one died.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 03:05 AM
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I forgot how much that helps. I may even attend coda meetings or any meeting where people are trying to better themselves. I'm introverted so it's hard but I just need some kind people around again.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 03:01 AM
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Me either. I got a therapist on college who helped but basically said yeah you got fucked over by your family. Then I got a concussion 4 years later and no one would help. It was an invisible injury and few believed I was unable to think clearly because I could still socialize one on one. I ended up getting married so I could see doctors but that's ending now. I hope some of the good fellows here will give us some good advice. You're not alone man.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 02:59 AM
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I was like that as a teen. Very optimistic about my classmates but many of them became quite abusive and my date to homecoming died of an overdose in a park leaving her two kids behind. My point being we were all lied to. When I attended Cal Arts the professors hated men and it was ok to blame white men for their bad decisions. Women were sleeping with women to get positions too.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 02:51 AM
1

Shocking
/r/MensRights04/10/23 02:47 AM
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All you can hear is your own voice. Thanks for spewing venom to a complete stranger. I know what's true and so do many other witnesses. Good day
/r/MensRights04/10/23 02:47 AM
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I deleted posts that were causing random women to harass me.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 02:46 AM
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No but thanks for accusing me without knowing me and for making assumptions.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 08:41 AM
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Oh man. I just might but I also might lose my mind listening to their mental gymnastics.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 01:48 AM
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Wow great points. Thank you for taking time to write this. This is great advice for anyone who needs to get away from harmful relationships.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 01:48 AM
4

I never understood that either. I had a gay friend and he HATED trans women. He saw them as emasculated men and as a gay man he didn't care for women. He found them to be frivolous.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 10:39 PM
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That's what it felt like going to graduate school for English. There were only 3 guys and they wouldn't listen to us about how we feel about our own bodies. They claim to always know what we're thinking and it's always something bad. They attack and hate and refuse to believe things like biology. They say things like men can't be raped and all men want this or that. They deny that I was ever abused too.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 10:03 PM
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Well I mean how do women expect to solve any of their issues when they are focused on scapegoating and censoring others language. They'd do it to women who don't parrot their opinions or language too. They'd instantly call me a misogynist for asking the most benign question. Like I just literally asked politely what words I can use as a synonym for "women" without hurting anyone. They said "you're not a creative writer, Reddit isn't a creative space." One person said she didn't like censorship t…
/r/MensRights29/09/23 09:14 PM
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Good point. Very true. It's like how wealthy people may have waaay more than enough for many lifetimes but feel oppressed when taxes rise.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 07:12 PM
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I'm going to keep asking innocent questions to them. Like I'm asking what word to use as a synonym for woman. I don't want my writing to be limited. I refered to a specific "girl" I knew and they became enraged. The thing is the person I was referring to was 16 and not an adult so I said girl. Then I said female and they said I was misogynistic for talking about women that way. I'm asking now for suggestions and I bet I'll be attacked. I want to be able to communicate and ask legitimate question…
/r/MensRights29/09/23 07:05 PM
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It was just called "women" and when did it become a sin to get a female perspective. What did men become scapegoats and pariahs. So many young women hate men too.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 06:54 PM
2

I was in a similar boat with my mother. I finally found a photograph catching her in a lie and showing she was sexually inappropriate. Not enough evidence so I was molested for another 4 years.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 06:45 PM
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It's just human nature right? It's been my experience that at some point 10 or 20 years later if not way sooner the females get what they want financially. Then at some point they want more or don't feel the same infatuation as they once did and blame the guy. They get divorced own the home and move on.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 04:15 PM
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I like how you see it. A part of me is kicking myself. I had a bunch of momentum and drive before I began to sacrifice my prospects to make my wife happy and have more time together. Before I settled with her my perseverance, discipline, and work ethic made me succeed after 7 years of being a workaholic. At that time 4 girls or so wanted me to go out with them, respected me, and a few didn't mind if I had a steady girlfriend.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 03:40 PM
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I know right! When did it become alright to treat men like this. I've encountered it a few times even from a boss at work. The district manager found out and began crying saying I led my manager on. Sometimes I feel that women's emotions no matter how smart cloud their sense of reality. More importantly there's never accountability and of a girl wants to touch you she knows she can. A psycho girl I met threatened to tell my catholic school and my parents that I was gay if I didn't finger her. Th…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 03:23 PM
2

My mom passed away after years of me taking care of her. It was a conflicting feeling. Yeah there's not much hope or anything to look forward to. Does my situation make you happy or amuse you?
/r/MensRights28/09/23 03:09 PM
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I'm so grateful. I hope I can find help and legal advice. Thanks for helping!
/r/MensRights28/09/23 03:07 AM
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The kindness of Reddit users like you continues to suprise me. There will be lonely days and possibly months ahead and been being to talk is immensely helpful. Thank you.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 03:04 AM
2

Amazing man. Thank you for such clear legal advice. I'm in California which highly protects women. I took a photo of a diary she has been leaving out that shows she had digital intercourse and that she knows she's abusing her power as her boss. Oh that's the other thing, I could get her fired or seriously demoted as well as reprimanded. Her family has known me for 20 years and will not like that she's a lesbian. I have leverage but I sometimes don't have the heart to hurt people. That has to end…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 12:22 AM
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Thank you. I needed to hear that. I'm older and disconnected from myself for now. I'll take what I've learned and patiently move forward. It was a lot of lonely years so I'm looking for a job that doesn't encourage me to isolate. I appreciate the help.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 11:36 PM
2

Yes exactly. They can take half at any time for any reason. Shit they could get he's dteauma or a stroke and have their moods change. They'll blame you for things and have nothing to lose.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 10:38 PM
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Yeah I did this and she was never satisfied and now is cheating. She thinks I don't know. To be fair I had to leave a violent home and we were young. I had nowhere to go and no father and an addict mother. I was finally loved for a while but now I see I didn't need her for that.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 10:35 PM
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I was just beating myself up right now so thanks. That's great advice and I'm taking little steps every day and I have medication to help me sleep and to treat panic attacks.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 10:34 PM
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Thank you for being understanding. I was doing ok for a decade of my life so I'm trying to remember how that felt. I have doctors that can help me with issues now. Part of the abuse was not allowing me to se doctors at all for 24 years of my life. I rebelled and went to college (which is a bizarre thing to have to say) and at the university I began to finally see a counselor.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:42 PM
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My aunt knew about the sexual abuse but she was probably afraid of retribution. She didn't call the cops though and she is 85 and hasn't helped me a bit. My mother's friends began to notice my mothers sexual comments about me. She would speak about me like a lover. They distanced themselves. I never understood it before because it was just my mom and I felt her fiends were rude. Now it makes sense. Thanks so much for saying that. I forget and don't give myself credit for pushing through and gett…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:38 PM
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I have never touched a woman first. The most I've done is get close to her face when talking. All my girlfriends initiated the first kiss. On the other hand, I've had women and gay men kiss me without permission, grab my penis over my pants, or threaten to spread damaging rumors of I don't have sex. I'm embarrassed to say that I had no idea what abuse looked like for years.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:03 PM
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Very true. Then those false state get angrily shoved in my face totally gaslighting me. There was a point where I was telling people females can't be as users because I was young and that's all I was being told. I began to disassociate from my own memory.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:59 PM
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YES!! Absolutely. You're right. I went to Catholic school and because of the out of touch religious teaching and constant scapegoating of males, it had a bad effect on everyone. Two girls got pregnant, 2 guys died, most of my male classmates did not attend college, and 95 percent of them are poor. A few girls got pregnant of course but most married middle to upper class husbands and at least half got a degree.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:25 PM
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I was born in the wrong place and time. I'll be ok now but my life was totally derailed. I was a good student too so I think she wanted me to never leave. I rebelled at age 20 (I could not get away financially and as an immigrant I didn't know anyone). I worked at a cafe, got a scholarship, got into UC Irvine then kept going making films at CalArts for my MFA. I used everything that happened to me as motivation and it fueled creativity but after 15 years of grinding I began to get very depressed…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:22 PM
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Right. Also I mean that woman violated all my holes. She was angry at my dad for a lot and she wanted his son to pay. Men can be violated to dominate or emasculate. It was feminists who would say rape is not about sex it's about power. It was true in this case. She was also completely alone due to bad behavior. I was all she had to praise or punish depending on her mood. Also, to get graphic men do have an anus and women hve fingers and dildos. Men can be penetrated as I unfortunately discovered…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:15 PM
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I'm in Los Angeles. I spoke to someone at RAINN but they did t have much time. I was in denial about it for 30 years and I can't talk about it. Sometimes I tell women that I can relate when they speak of feeling used or objectified. They get mad like I'm speaking wrongly about a woman, that I'm taking attention away, or disproving their blanket statements about how abuse works.I've said it before but professors I looked up to would say it wasn't possible for me to have been violated or they laug…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 05:54 PM
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It hurts me when women dismiss this. They assume guys have some amazing life. I had 2 friends die and they were not treated well by their mothers and chose women like them. They didn’t get to live to the point where they healed. I just don’t understand the animosity women have towards us. Things have gotten better and better. They are doing better than us in college yet it’s not good enough. We men must support all of their needs. How can half the world be this insensitive?
/r/MensRights27/09/23 05:15 PM
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It’s so stupid. Even in conversations with reasonable people they often dismiss awful behavior in a particular woman or they justify with you must have done something or I even got the your a guy you liked it. A professor once told me men could not be raped. When I spoke up she said if felt good you liked it.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 05:09 PM
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Yes, and it took a long time to not feel responsible. She made it hard for me to trust people and destroyed my self esteem. My entire life has been spent playing catch up and trying to not burn out at work.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 05:06 PM
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Oh shit! That’s what it was called. Can I search for that online or should I go and just ask around. I brought this up because I was checking CODA but also couldn’t find a male only meeting this week.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 05:01 PM
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I know! Sometimes I just want to be treated like a person as an equal. That happened in college a lot where women would brutally dismiss a guy if there were more than 3 girls together. Then they begin to give attitude. I don’t get it.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 05:00 PM
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You’re really kind to take the time to say that. You’ve always been helpful and I appreciate it. My parents knew how to manipulate people. So they would do crazier and crazier things behind closed doors because who would believe it? Then as I got depressed and was showing OCD symptoms in school it made people think I was broken and made people believe I must be delusional. It’s how they would gaslight me though. They’d say how could you say that about to your mother? They’d assume I was being a …
/r/MensRights27/09/23 04:53 PM
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LOL I know right!?? When did we lose common sense. I started seeing it in college. Fucking no one would think for themselves. They just repeat something they heard from someone they think is smart. Don’t get me started on how the generation was raised on “reality” TV and now useless celebrities make decisions for them. I just can’t deal with it.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 04:48 PM
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Thank you so much for your support it does help. My moms sister and her friends knew too! They saw her dig her nails in me and burn me with cigarettes. They didn’t want to expose a fellow sister. Mom continued until I could defend myself at age 17. I remember that day. She grabbed a hammer that was on the table and came towards me and was about to strike me when I grabbed her arm and said “no”! She then threatened to call the police on me. She had me held legally and financially. We were immigra…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 04:41 PM
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God, even going to therapy gets you called a pussy. I had to hide therapy from my wife and I was right. When she found out she felt betrayed
/r/MensRights27/09/23 04:35 PM
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I’m just tired of being lied to about it. I’m also depressed that half of the human population lacks empathy for the other half. Women sell themselves as compassionate but are quite self absorbed. It’s sad because i enjoy female company but now all I can see is that I’m just being used all the time. I give my time which is my most valuable resource, money, and sperm only to know that she could have one temper tantrum and destroy me.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 04:21 PM
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Well I was checking out Coda and there was women’s only and then a general meeting. So it’s just a group of girls who decided to hold meetings for women? I did meet a nice fellow at an AA meeting 10 years ago. He saw me sitting alone and asked some questions. Then he told me him and a few guys organized a male only meeting. Ok, that’s not so bad but when I check the schedule online for Coda there’s nothing. It’s hard getting hep when there are so many barriers and it allows shame and procrastina…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 04:18 PM
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Yeah that would be great. I found one in Los Angeles years ago but it was just a few dudes from AA who noticed guys were reluctant to talk about sexual abuse or domestic violence in front of women.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 04:12 PM
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My hypocrite feminist 44 year old wife who mocks men just just got caught having sexual texts and sex with her 29 year old female coworker. She said she’s ashamed of behaving like the patriarchy but is unwilling to take accountability. These girls every week complain about this behavior in men and expect me to excuse it and move on because men aren’t supposed to feel things. Women say they want an emotionally available man but what they mean is someone to dump all their emotions on.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 02:57 PM
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Sorry to hear that man. My sister would do things like that to guys. I would warn them but she’s pretty. You didn’t deserve that just for wanting to live your life. I’m glad it was only 40 days but that must have felt so long.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 05:53 AM
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Wrong!! Men held her back
/r/MensRights26/09/23 07:53 PM
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Thanks man. Some people refuse to believe it and others just don’t really care they jsit pretend.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 09:14 PM
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True. I kept our family together. More importantly I was good at writing and would read a lot and for good grades. None of that or me being mature or respectful mattered. Especially when people are young they take it for granted.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 08:18 PM
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My mom didn’t teach me about male sexuality. She called me a sinner because she didn’t understand things like erections or nocturnal emissions or how we kind of stink during puberty and we know it. More importantly she taught me that female is better and made me think of women as superior always. It led me into doubting myself in relationships. For example I was being abused by my first girlfriend because she threatened to tel the school I was gay if I didn’t have sex. She would grab my hand and…
/r/MensRights25/09/23 08:15 PM
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It’s true. My mom raised me to kneel to women and I would be taken advantage of.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 08:10 PM
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My mother was an abusive hypocrite and feminist. She bullied me for being a boy and even would make me behave like a girl at home or else. She made me sensitive and held back my potential. It was harder to make male friends and girls found me effeminate. Every time I needed something instead of helping shed tell me that I’m a man man up and to go out there and be strong. I noticed a lot of college professors taking this stance with students too. They make it harder for young men to express their…
/r/MensRights25/09/23 07:38 PM
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My wife told me about this last night and I started telling her that men again are neglected. She would have none of it. Whatever.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 07:33 PM
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Not to mention it’s convincing men like your friend that our existence is problem and that women need special treatment.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:31 AM
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Yeah, thanks for caring seriously. Especially with young boys have some patience as they fail and learn. There’s no space for that anymore.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 06:28 AM
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I am working on it thanks. However, most people wouldn’t even believe if I told them.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 02:01 AM
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Yeah I am. It’s hard to think of where to live. Months ago I might have considered adding the girl to our lives. I’ve met her and she always acts weird around me. Also I don’t need to be the third wheel in yet another relationship. If the girl was interested in me as a person at all I might have considered it but I sense her jealousy and competition. I’m sick of that shit. I grew up in a home where we competed for love and I just want some peace and companionship.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 04:36 AM
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Your name is literally fugly
/r/MensRights20/09/23 03:35 AM
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I lived with 2 narcissists who made false accusations all to a time to hurt people. It’s their silver bullet to take down any man that they perceive as disrespectful. I would warn people but they were beautiful and charming then bang! Accusation! Gossip!
/r/MensRights20/09/23 03:25 AM
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It’s all over mainstream media. The wage gap must be corrected
/r/MensRights20/09/23 03:15 AM
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It’s not. How am I teenager. As usual I’m being gaslit.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 02:43 AM
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Thank you. I just really didn’t think she was the type but I need to learn who cares and who doesn’t.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 02:18 AM
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I agree. I don’t want to fuck all the time or think about sex. I know it’s merely monkey biological programming. I do enjoy it when meeting someone new and exciting or in a long term relationship maybe weekly. I just feel less distracted by visual stimulation and hormone overdrive and it is kind of peaceful.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 01:44 AM
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I need time to build a legal case. I’m taking photos and copying documents. I’m finding a place to live while seeing a counselor and a psychiatrist to get diagnosed. I have never had medical care since I was 24 or so. I’m doing a lot but leaning on some good advice and support here and elsewhere. I’ve been told not to leave because I would forfeit my property.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 01:24 AM
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Also you can’t read tone on this sub
/r/MensRights20/09/23 01:21 AM
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I’m trying to find out
/r/MensRights20/09/23 01:21 AM
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Your right. They likely don’t care since our friendship was never based on that. I was her biggest fan and supporter. She was going to move near me but that’s the exact opposite of what had to happen. I didn’t tell her my family was trash. The school we went to was prestigious and the kids there were so wealthy and had beautiful childhoods. Even the professors. They’d ad me questions about my past but they’d be horrified if I tried to talk about it.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 12:37 AM
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I hope so. I know the one who got an Emmy asked to hang out before the pandemic and the Harvard girl I owe an apology to. I disappeared on everyone 7 years ago to get out of an abusive home. The house was mine but I feared violence and my father had nowhere to go.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 12:22 AM
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Maybe but my portfolio is 10 years old and the industry has changed a lot. I also have a graduate degree and could teach but right now I hate the idea of public speaking. I will start contacting old friends in various industries but I’m ashamed. I was doing better than them and now they’ve won Emmy’s and my former close friend teaches at Harvard. I’m not sure they would respect me as an artist right now. It used to be everything to me.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 11:58 PM
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Truly they did. I had so much going for me too. I was working with famous people.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 11:52 PM
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One time I kissed my best male friend in a performance and my date called me a f@g and never treated me the same. The guys all laughed because they know I like women. I had nothing to prove to her.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 11:51 PM
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Ok. Yeah, that’s true. I’ve been realizing that I have no idea what love is because of having no father and a mentally sick mother. I tolerate everything and never defend myself. It’s hard to imagine the long road ahead of once again telling people about my long messy life. So it goes.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 11:49 PM
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Ok. Yeah, that’s true. I’ve been realizing that I have no idea what love is because of having no father and a mentally sick mother. I tolerate everything and never defend myself. It’s hard to imagine the long road ahead of once again telling people about my long messy life.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 11:49 PM
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Do you want me to kill myself?
/r/MensRights19/09/23 11:33 PM
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Support and development. I’m learning new things and getting different viewpoints. Don’t click on it.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 11:32 PM
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So true. I’ve walked different paths. When I worked blue collar and made money I it was you don’t have a degree or you’re not artistic. I got my degree and got into one of the top graduate schools in the world and then was called gay and compared to military guys.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 11:31 PM
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Thank you for saying that. My counselor is trying to get me to say that but it share to let go since I’ve known her 20 years. I know I’ll pick myself up. Part of me is eager to meet new people but Ive also become such an introvert.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 11:27 PM
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My mom used to do this so she could sexually abuse me. She would threaten to call the cops. She was disabled and a good actress and I’m a mess around people. I’m always nervous and awkward so it makes me look guilty as fuck. My sister learned from her and now uses it on her husband and children. I had to get away because I would be the next scapegoat someday.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 10:28 PM
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It’s true. I’ve had wayyy more women call me f@g then men. I’m not a very masculine dude. I had no father and controlling sisters. It is what it is and I’ve since understood why they say that. However, most women are hypocrites when saying they love their gay friends. They laugh at them and mock them to their husbands.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 10:21 PM
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Yup. She says she’s confused and isn’t proud of herself and wants to stay with me. She says she hasn’t acted on it but I have doubts. The girl is also in a long term relationship and doesn’t want to break up. I’ve said well one day they might break up then what. Basically, I’m being disrespected and a doormat but I have nowhere to go yet.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 09:15 PM
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Great point! You’re right and I’ve even forgotten what it means to want something. I need to examine what I want then really put everything I have into that goal. I’m quite stubborn and determined once I commit to something.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 08:35 PM
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Once I have some stability I might start something myself. I just don’t see many people funding such a thing so I have to get creative with how to pay for it. People see sad, injured, depressed, and poor men as weak low status. Their efforts of survival are mocked and their sacrifices never matter. Anyway, I might try or go back to college and become a counselor if I make it through. I work in film and animation. I love being creative and feel proud of my art but it’s beginning to feel trite. I …
/r/MensRights19/09/23 06:05 PM
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fuck
/r/MensRights19/09/23 05:44 PM
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I should've been more clear. My wife got Cigna insurance through her work and I can use an app to find counseling or meetings. It said there are meetings every day just not for men. Ive been here before but no one will respect or love a man who is down on himself or seriously struggling.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 05:43 PM
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