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Question For MenAgile_Vanilla_1802/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:20 AM
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Question For WomenAgile_Vanilla_1802/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:52 AM
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I hear your grievances, and theyre all valid. Here in America, men are demonized for everything they do. The left love to paint white men as violent criminals. The right paints immigrant men as violent criminals. You cant change how the world works, but you can change how you react to it. Thats the most control we really have over anything outside of ourselves. I would suggest learning about different philosophys like stoicism. You deserve to be happy brother, regardless of the fact the media wa…
/r/MensRights10/11/25 01:17 PM
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Dont bully me ill come
/r/EverydayMisandry10/11/25 11:35 AM
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Oh gotcha. So all red pillers are mass shooters. I understand your point of view now.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 07:26 PM
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The world is gray but you love painting it black and white.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 07:24 PM
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Again, i could pull up a list of terrorist attacks carried out by muslims. Does that mean it would be okay to say all muslims are bad.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 07:21 PM
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Im sure i could find one case of any group of people commiting violence for a cause they think is justifiable. Muslims commited 911 and killed thousands of innocent people. Does that mean we should vilify muslims and assume all of them are violent criminals. Thats called bigotry. This sub is full of those.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 07:11 PM
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The fact of the matter is that anybody who is willing to go out and kill innocent people is extremely mentally ill. You gave me one example of a mass shooter being a red piller, out of the literaly thousands of mass shootings that have happened since then. If you had to give me a percentage, what percent of mass shooters do you think are manosphere proponents.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 07:08 PM
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You can’t attribute one thing to mass shootings. Im sure it has more to do with the mental health crisis than anything. The manosphere wasnt popular till about 2020, and there were mass shooters before that.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 06:53 PM
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“Kill all men” was obviously misandrist but nobody calls out all the women that started that. Feminism has led to some egregious opinions as well but we dont vilify them like we do the manosphere.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 06:47 PM
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Im not “bitching” im mansplaining that i cant debate that topic with you because it will get removed.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 06:44 PM
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It all makes sense now. You’re right and im wrong. Your opinion invalidates every man’s opinion. There. Is that what you wanted to hear? I cant really debate that topic with you in this subreddit or my comment will be taken down. This isnt a place for debate, its an echo-chamber. Have a lovely day.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 06:37 PM
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So your past experiences led you to your current viewpoints on dating and relationships. Is it possible that his past experiences have also led him to his viewpoints on dating and relationships or are you the only one allowed to have an opinion.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 06:19 PM
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Shes not okay with who he is, but shes fucking the guy. Okay.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 05:36 PM
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I dont think you should try to change your partner against their will. Its one thing if hes vocal about wanting to change, but its wrong for her to constantly try to change his mind if he hasnt been vocal about it. She has to accept him for who he is or move on. She clearly wants to make it work, or she wouldve broken up with him already.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 05:32 PM
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Hes been red pilled since before they started dating. She obviously likes the guy, even tho hes red pilled. Your advice to her is to break up with her bf, who she obviously likes, because you disagree with him. Thats shit advice and you know it.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 05:13 PM
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“Here” as in Reddit. Clearly if they’re posting and asking for advice on reddit they want to better their relationship. You people turn any tiny disagreement into grounds for breaking up.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 05:11 PM
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People come here for advice to better their relationship, but the advice they receive is “break up.” How are you helping anybody.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 05:04 PM
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Team “just break up” is all miserable and single. They dont know how to deal with relationship issues, other than “just break up.” Thats their solution to everything.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 04:58 PM
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My question is why are you trying to change his mind or his beliefs? If youre with someone you should accept them for who they are or break up with them if you dont like who they are. People are a product of their experiences. Everything that has happened to him in his life has led him to his personal beliefs. Why would you try to change him. The best you can do is have conversations with him and try to understand why he thinks the way he does without getting triggered and taking things personal…
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 11:44 AM
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I think you should post this on r/askmen.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 11:29 AM
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Team just break up strikes again.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 11:25 AM
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I live with those thoughts as well brother. You are not alone. I cant imagine what youre going through, but i can tell you what usually helps me. We only get one shot at this thing we call life. Better to make the most of it because nobody knows whats on the other side. Are we all waiting to be judged or is there only silence on the other side. No way to know for certain. The only thing i know is we only get one opportunity to walk this Earth, and my objective is to leave it a better place than …
/r/MensRights24/10/25 08:11 PM
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/s
/r/MensRights07/09/25 10:38 AM
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I also gave another response, not sure if you read that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:37 PM
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I was asleep when you initially commented and i woke up to see someone replied to your comment with a response similar to one i would give. I just wanted to add my two cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:35 PM
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Who do you think would be a better candidate to date, a man who has been in 3 LTR, who knows how to be a boyfriend and treat his gf. Or a man that sleeps around with a bunch of women and has a past of serial dating then dumping these women after he gets what he wants. Its a rhetorical question but i hope you understand what im trying to convey.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:51 AM
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I could start with the obvious answer. Statistically, a permiscuous woman has a higher chance of having an STD. We can start there. I think part of the reason we find promiscuous women disgusting is lack of self control. If I had a million dollars and blew it all on gambling and drugs would that be attractive? That shows lack of self control and it’s extremely unattractive. Im trying to give an equivalent that would make sense. I think men are biologically hardwired to get the ick from promiscuo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:35 AM
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He said he was busy with work. Work comes before any woman. A person has no obligation to care if another person decides to exercise their options. An attractive person has options. We dont have to settle for someone who doesn’t understand that work comes before them. Honestly i think OPs friend did that man a favor by moving on. She sounds high maintenance and narcissistic. I would throw inconsiderate in there for more flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:56 AM
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Most men’s standards for women: be nice, dont look like jabba the hut, dont be a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:04 PM
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Im being generous. We know its less than 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:16 PM
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No but only 10% of men are tall, athletic, wealthy, and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:16 PM
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I wouldnt say loneliness, i would say resentment. But i get what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:58 PM
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Most men nowadays are completely aware of the options women have with social media and dating apps. Its very easy for a woman to get with pretty much any man she wants. That is why men find is disgusting when women sleep around with a bunch of men. Its not hard to do. All you have to do is ask, “do you want to sleep with me” most guys will not reject you. A good woman knows her worth and will not spread her legs for just anyone. As we all know something that is easy to do is not respected. That …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:57 PM
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80% of women are searching for 10% of men. Theres not enough men to go around. You will either have to be okay with being alone, or sharing. Or settling, but we know thats never going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:47 PM
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I am new here Thats the dumbest thing i ever heard. Do these men know prostitutes exist? You cant pity women into having sex with you. That is rediculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:59 AM
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Did i miss something? I dont understand. Is this referring to a specific post?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:38 AM
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Unfortunately this leads to both men and women ending up lonely. Women control who has sex, men control who has relationships. The victim complex will get you nowhere in dating. Asking for pity online is also not a solution. However, reddit and other online resourses is a great place for people to voice their problems and other people can try to give them solutions to their problems. Women had feminism as an outlet to voice their problems. Its time men create a similar space so we can improve ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:32 PM
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This is why i think spaces like this are important. You get to hear what people actually think rather than some rage inducing click-bait argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:41 PM
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Your original argument was that women dont go for taller guys. Which i disproved by stating that a lot of women have a height requirement on dating apps. You then moved the goal post and told me to get off dating apps and into the “real world” If that isnt moving the goal post, not sure what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:21 PM
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Do you ever or have you ever tried debating in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:11 PM
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You do realize most relationships start on dating apps? This is the real world bud. Keep seeing everything with your rose tinted shades. wake up and see the world for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:59 AM
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Thats a great point. The dissolution of gender roles seems like it was only for women, men still have to be men. Women can be or do whatever they want but men still have to be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:57 AM
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Easy to say when you have never dated women as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:21 PM
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My argument is that just because someone thinks and acts like theyre high value, does not make them high value. Do you think thats all it takes to be high value? Just confidence and thats it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:15 PM
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I know you were trying to make an argument in bad faith but i genuinely know the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:58 PM
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I think the answer lies in the thousands of years of killing things and other people to secure the survival of our species. Something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:57 PM
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Yes, oviously humans are flawed. Sometimes it nice to have your flaws pointed out so that you can work on them. Some people just get triggered when they hear something they dont like, and instead of listening to the substance, they become defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:57 PM
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When youre a kid you think adults know everything. You dont know any better. Some people figure out along the way that some adults are just as clueless as children. You cant blame someone for being given shitty advice, or being indoctrinated to think a certain way, especially if it started at a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:05 PM
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This is news to me. Did not know that, thanks for the heads up. Yeah i just figured, id rather live my life before i settle down to avoid FOMO when i do settle down. I had a lot of that in my first marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:42 PM
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Im already a father. I would like to have another kid but if it doesnt happen thats okay too. I take care of myself. I may not eat the healthiest food always but ive always been a healthy person. I exercise, i avoid alcohol. I smoke weed occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:28 PM
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I wouldnt mind staying home and taking care of the house and the kids, but i almost guarantee no woman would want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:09 PM
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Youre moving the goal post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:07 PM
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Me: Women should be able to stay at home if they want to, without being judged. You: why? Me: because people should be able to do what they want as long as theyre not hurting themselves or anybody else. You: but why should they not be judged? I literally just explained why. Because people have free will. In my country at least, not sure what monarchy or dictatorship you live in. I have better shit to do than go back and forth with you, especially if you’re just here to argue in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:56 PM
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Have you ever tried online dating? Most of the girls have on their profile a height requirement to even talk to them. Are we living the same reality? Have you tried dating women as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:48 PM
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I answered your question and you ask the same question. I have better shit to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:39 PM
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You’re arguing in bad faith and theres no point in even interacting with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:37 PM
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Because people should be able to do what they want, as long as theyre not hurting themselves or anybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:36 PM
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Im a 27 year old man. I could start a family when im 40 if i want to. Men hit their peak dating marketplace value between 30-40.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:33 PM
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Thank you for your insight. This is something ive thought about for a long time. Why is it female nature to be deceptive? I thought it was just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:23 PM
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I was questioning the absurdity of suggesting sex work is as hard as mining coal, in the form of a joke. Are we not allowed to have a sense of humor here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:18 PM
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I dont date, so no. No women have asked me to do that. The only woman ive done that for was my ex wife. I was making decent money back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:11 PM
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I think a lot woman say things they dont actually mean for brownie points. Virtue signaling. They want men to accept women at any weight, something you can control, but they only date men over 6’. Hypocrisy is their native tongue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:05 PM
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I am a 27 year old man. What 27 year old man makes enough money to support a SAHW.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:02 PM
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No. I currently do not make enough to support a SAHW.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:33 AM
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Can you elaborate or give an example? I think i know what you mean but i want to be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:42 AM
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You are dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:40 AM
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This is a great point. The pay gap is closing. Women are making just as much as men nowadays. They cant expect us to be the main breadwinner. However, if a woman wants to stay home if her husband can afford it, she should also be able to without being judged by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:37 AM
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Im kind of in the same boat, avoiding dating and relationships. For now, im currently trying to work on my career and eventually make more money so i can potentially start a family. Thats the end goal. However, for now I’ve withdrawn from the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:35 AM
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So for you, women are possessions, basically just objects that you own for the purpose of procreation and raising children. THIS is EXHAUSTING. Not even close to anything i said but if you want to interpret it that way, feel free. Whats another pissed off feminist in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:31 AM
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She can go have a baby with someone else. Im not the only one with sperm on this planet. Women can do whatever they want. However, if she wants to start a family with ME she has to compromise with ME.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:29 AM
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Im not playing this virtue signaling mumbo jumbo. I said what i said. If you want to purposely misinterpret what i said thats fine. Im not responsible for how you interpret my words. Im a misogynist according to you. Thats fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:27 AM
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Ah yess, everyone knows how hard it is to take a picture of your butthole and post it on the internet. Just as hard as mining coal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:23 AM
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Yeah, i agree. I hear a lot of women bringing up this point. I was mainly asking about modern men. Not so much our grandparents. We know men of that era did some degrading shit to women. But I dont like that men are held accountable for the shit our grandparents did. Can we get a break?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:51 AM
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I dont need help “radiating confidence” When its real you dont have to fake it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:45 AM
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Not sure how what i said was even remotely misogynistic. But hey, knew i would offend at least 1 person with my comment. Imagine having to stop and explain yourself to a woman like this 20 times a day. Exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:37 AM
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Not sure why you got so triggered. I said if she WANTS to have children she does not have to work until our child is old enough for school. Im not leaving my child at daycare for extended hours of the day. This is something i would discuss with her before having a child. Not like im going to wait till child is born and tell her “oh by the way youre not working till hes old enough for school.” If she wants to have a child, (i have 1 already so i know what its like) then she has to be okay with st…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:35 AM
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I guess i dont consume female dominated media. I only really use reddit and youtube.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:11 AM
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Do you ever wish the shoe was on the other foot? Would you be okay being the provider while he stays home
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:51 AM
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I think women should be or do whatever they want. I think most men nowadays agree, with the exception of the loud red pill guys. They are the loud minority. As long as youre not hurting yourself or someone else, do whatever makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:45 AM
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Wow. Being a woman sounds exhausting. I dont know how you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:36 AM
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Yeah i think that is ridiculous. If my woman wants to work, im all for it, as long as she’s contributing to the bills. Im not going to be paying all the bills so she can live rent-free. However, if she wants to have a baby, she has to stay home with baby till theyre old enough for school.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:33 AM
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Women have had the same voice, same rights as men for decades now. I want to understand your argument but it just sounds like men are bad and controlled women for free labor. If thats the case, how long before you stop beating men over the head for something our grandparents did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:25 AM
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I just did it because i thought it was the right thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:21 AM
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I think historically we were just worried about survival. Gender roles were a thing because that was what worked at the time. Nowadays women can do anything they want. I dont think anyone is trying to force women into dependency. I think if a woman wants to be a stay at home mother and put her family first, she should be able to as well. As far as the main character syndrome, can you explain or give me an example? I dont exactly know what you’re referring to. If its what i think it is, then most…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:53 PM
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Fair enough. I hear your grievances and honestly i know im not ready to date either. I need to work on myself first. I did the whole marriage thing at a young age and it didnt work out. Im going to wait till my 30s or 40s to start dating seriously again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:45 PM
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I have better things to do than go back and forth with you. Youre right. Laws are based on science and statistics. Not on morals. Im wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:23 PM
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You gave me a statistic on marriage, when were talking about splitting the bill on dates. Can i give you a statistic on banana bread and use that as “evidence”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:19 PM
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Again, im positive that’s not how it works. The government doesnt ask for statistics when theyre voting to pass a law. You are wrong. Why are you still trying to argue for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:09 PM
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Not sure how this has anything to do with the argument that women do not like going dutch on dates. You’re moving the goal post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:05 PM
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If our laws were based on science and statistics this would be another argument. Laws (atleast in the country im living in) are strictly based on morals. Do we live on the same planet? What country does a study to determine whether they legalize something or not? Are you AI?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:36 PM
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I only browse reddit while im driving so if you could keep your arguments short and concise that would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:33 PM
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Oh so the ad hominem attacks instead of giving a rebuttal. I think that means i won the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:41 PM
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Its easy to say, just dont be an asshole, when you have never dated women as a man. Women love assholes. Thats gotta be the worst advice ive ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:31 PM
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Its called being realistic. Some of us dont need to cope to know where we stand in the hierarchy. Not everyone is a winner. Some people are losers. Thats how the world works. Just because you think youre high value doesnt make you high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:29 PM
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I think a lot of men build resentment towards women from being rejected. They may not be conscious of it but it does happen. When men are low value they tend to get rejected a lot. Becoming a high value man takes time and effort. By the time that man becomes high value, hes already been rejected a million times. When a man becomes high value he has all the negotiating power. Theres one of him for every 20 women looking for a high value man. He knows he has options. Those women are basically disp…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:04 AM
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Theres average looking women that go 50/50 and still sleep with you afterwards. Where are these mythical women? Most women i meet will just ghost you if you make them split the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:32 AM
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Why would anyone do a study on a link between prostitution and male happiness? Your argument is absurd. Logically it makes sense that all the men who are seeking women for sex, not a relationship, would benefit from legal prostitution. The women would have weight lifted off their shoulders because men will likely be more interested in a relationship than just casual sex. Why would a man go out of his way to meet a woman and take her out somewhere if the goal is just sex, when he can just order a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:29 AM
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As a short man i do not feel one bit intimidated by tall men. The equalizer of men was created 1000 years ago and still legal to carry in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:13 AM
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