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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonWho's that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 11:58 AM |
| 10 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.As a 20-something that is rolling on the floor laughing, I concur | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 08:38 AM |
| 12 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.Omg. This guy thinks he's in a low budget telenovela. I picture him on the subway going to his dead-end job, daydreaming about sweeping a young woman off her feet in 20 years' time. He fantasizes about his idealized future self --rich, charismatic, in shape-- to cope with his present-time shortcomings and failures. Of course, the reason he isn't getting laid is not because of him, but his age. No accountability, no self-awareness, no knowledge on real game or the female perspective. Just a narra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Probably overthinking this but..Ahh okay. We talk a lot already. I'm mainly interested in the girl, but the sexy look he gave me the other day had me really confused for a sec | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Probably overthinking this but..Because apart from this he's been totally normal. So i feel like he looks at me for a bit longer once and my heads like "uhhhh what does that mean" when in reality maybe he was just zoned out lmao. Idk if that makes sense | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 10:45 PM |
| 6 | This is why we don’t do hike or walk “dates”…he proceeded to MAKE FUN OF ME, before I unmatched. DANGEROUS.Excuse me, what | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Two recent "dating" experiences.I just checked, it was the porn one and also splitting the bill 50/50 at a restaurant lol. If you watch porn at least pay my bills 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:10 PM |
| 18 | Two recent "dating" experiences.Yeahhhh :/ youre right. I find that tinder is just so practical!! And with my own vetting + the questionnaire I feel safe idk. Definitely would prefer to meet someone more organically though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:03 PM |
| 78 | Two recent "dating" experiences.Yeahhh thats what I thought too :/ which is why all the love and affection that he was showing me feel fake now?? Idk. I was being caring with him too but because I value him as a PERSON! Not as a womb or as a trophy or as the source of my feel-good chemicals. Idk:/ hopefully he'll be back to himself soon. His reaction has so put me off though, especially since he said there would be "no hard feelings". Also, i'd rejected him so many times before, idk why he had the expectation it would be diffe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:02 PM |
| 56 | Two recent "dating" experiences.Mistake one- I know ughh youre so right but I love him so much as a friend! We were friends before we dated Mistake two- omg hahaha that's a great idea. I got asked once if "hentai" was considered porn and i was like... 🤮 especially hentai brother | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Everyone in the comments was congratulating him. I'm so confusedIt's a type of logical fallacy. See here: https://thebestschools.org/magazine/15-logical-fallacies-know/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Everyone in the comments is congratulating him. I'm so confusedDone! Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Everyone in the comments is congratulating him. I'm so confusedOh no! How do I do that? Do I delete it and post it again? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:18 PM |
| 23 | Saying she post on FDS isn't an insult to me, there is a reason this is my main account IDC.Yes!! I've heard this one before. "She posts on FDS" [so let's disregard everything she has said up until this point and label her as Another Crazy Female as a cop out] 🙄 This is also my main account, idgaf. Men love to vilify women who have standards because it's easier for them to cope with their own low value. I don't mind putting up with [read: ignoring] those comments because it's frankly pathetic they take what other men say about women's subreddits at face value and cannot think for thems… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 12:59 PM |
| 11 | I can’t believe what I just found on Facebook! Most of the comments seem to agree with her. 🤡🤮What. The. Fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 02:23 PM |
| 10 | Why is it becoming increasingly acceptable for men to be unemployed, not in school, and video game/porn addicted?I agree with everything youre saying, but as a woman who plays videogames please dont compare them to porn 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 09:21 AM |
| 474 | The text that started it all … this is when I learned what gaslighting was …You don't get it. He watches porn to study human anatomy. No jerking off here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 12:49 PM |
| 8 | Where's the lie?I absolutely agree with the first post. The second one is kind of stupid though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:49 AM |
| 23 | If you fw straight men “only ok” is hella generous.I knowwww ugh. Like they all think theyre the exception too... i'll be like "its actually not that easy to make a woman orgasm" and theyll be like "nono but i know how to do it" like... no you dont Nigel!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:28 AM |
| 99 | Am I being used by my friend?She doesn't seem like a good friend. Stop prioritizing her. Having mental health issues isn't an excuse to use you as a therapist. That's what therapists are for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 05:44 PM |
| 85 | BrilliantI'm finishing my undergraduate in Psychology. I've been to multiple psychologists and psychiatrists. My dad's a doctor. One day this guy I was talking to goes, "So my friend was prescribed some pills. But only psychiatrists can do that. I don't know if you know the difference between psychologists and psychiatrists". I laughed and said "of course I do, I'm finishing my psych degree and I go to the psychiatrist" and he was like "oh". (Context: I'd told him this before, I guess he forgot amidst th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 04:49 PM |
| 8 | Fun fact? Kellyanne Conway's daughter Claudia follows the FDS way.No she's... she's making fun of the girl on the right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 06:48 PM |
| 5 | Casual Sex for Women is like Prostitution for MenI second this. I've had men mansplain about my own intentions, "the REAL reason you like casual sex is this". Like no, I just like a good fuck Jared. Go to bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 10:27 AM |
| 4 | Poetic justice 💋Not to be THAT person but, genuine question, wouldn't there be a conflict of interest there? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Suicidal thoughtsI'm so sorry this happened to you. Cognitive-behavioral therapy will help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 03:17 PM |
| 5 | Am I being oversensitive if I dont find stuff like this funny?Thought the same exact thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 02:25 PM |
| 31 | Share the most cringy date you’ve been on?What a ride. That's crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:47 PM |
| 10 | Lovely guy doesn't blame his gf for her getting raped. Oh wait no he does. And then dumps her when she needs him most. And lies about the reason of the dumping... woah. Just woah.I'm dumbfounded. The problem for him is not that she "drank irresponsibly" like he pretends it is, because I imagine she has done this before. He's angry because she "put herself in a position to get raped", and his vagina got used by another man. He is angry that someone has strespassed onto his property and he's blaming the girl for it. Wow, just wow. Also -- can we talk about the part where he says that "HE UNDERSTANDS THAT MEN SOMETIMES CAN'T CONTROL THEIR URGES?" Like hello? Are you an adul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag when a man says he likes the book Lolita?It's more about why he likes it. Lolita is my favorite novel of all time mainly due to the prose. Regarding the abuse - it's despicable and I hate Humbert. So it's not necessarily a red flag, but it could be, so make a mental note of it and look out for other red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 07:11 PM |
| 7 | The ultimate pickmeisha storyThank you for the advice -- I know! I'm not that person anymore. But regarding therapy, a year ago or so I told my doctor to please refer me to a psychologist, because my self-esteem was very very low, and he did -- the psychologist was a man and he was specialized in anxiety, and when I was explaining to him my struggles he looked at me like I was crazy and he didn't understand at all. I left the session crying. So that fell through. But yes, I will try again. Edit: oh, and he also told me that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 09:47 AM |
| 73 | High School Football player kills his pregnant girlfriend bec she didn’t get an abortion. #1 comment on Reddit? “I tHiNk mEn sHoUld be aBle to LegalLy Abort.” Honestly the scrotes are selfish and depraved beyond comprehension.You best believe l gave that one woman who clapped back an award | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 01:01 AM |
| 20 | The ultimate pickmeisha storyHe was real. His excuse was anxiety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 11:36 PM |
| 11 | Sharing my pickmeisha story because i want a good laugh and you do tooOh, do you want to hear the ultimate pickmeisha story? Brace yourselves. So I was supposedly in a long-distance relationship. I loved him with all of my soul. I flew to his COUNTRY to give him some gifts I had MANUALLY MADE as well as something very expensive I bought him that I knew he'd love -- and he said he didn't want the gifts and he didn't want to see me. LMAO. So I literally spent 2 days alone in a foreign country and went back home alone with the gifts still in my suitcase. But it gets … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 10:56 PM |
| 46 | It even says "choose me"Babygirl if he wanted to marry you he would've propooooseeddd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 01:58 PM |
| 13 | Is it just me or is this really rude? I sent him a study I found interesting about how gender plays out in school and he answers with this lol. Context: it's the first study I've ever sent him and we were talking normally up until this point. I never talk about feminist issues with him.Early teens........ He's 29. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 12:03 AM |
| 46 | BarfQuestion: What should we do then? FDS teaches us to not lower our standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 06:27 PM |
| 27 | How do you attract the man you’re interested in if you *as a female* should not pursue a man?You give him opportunities to pursue you. Apparently, both males and females pursue more attractive people than themselves on average. So, if you as a female don't do anything and only consider men who are actively pursuing you, chances are they're gonna be uglier than you. (If that matters to you.) So, this system rewards being proactive. But how to be proactive without seeming desperate, pick-me or without "doing all the work"? If you do all the work from the get go, it's probable that the dyn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 08:04 AM |
| 34 | FDS doesn’t mean not being a loving partnerporn sick limp dick baboon i HOWLED | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 04:53 PM |
| 5 | Proposal for a sticky: a non negotiable list of dealbreakers in husbands, fans, dates, boyfriends, etcMen who insult you. Stupid, irrational, crybaby, selfish, cold, lazy, crazy... Men who tell you "stop twisting the truth" "you're overreacting" "I never said/did that" etc Men who keep making promises but never pull through | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Am I being irrational?A chance for what purpose, though? Because I don't like having friend or romantic relationships with asymmetrical interest. It's annoying and emotionally tiring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 12:44 PM |
| 40 | Things should NOT be that hardNo need to cheat. Just leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 12:20 PM |
| 17 | r/Drama is where the bitter and angry men that we’ve banned gather to cry hot tears 😭So true. They try to shame us because they know they wouldn't be up to par. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Am I being irrational?Thank you senseiiiii | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 01:29 PM |
| 6 | Am I being irrational?Ikr?! Like I'm telling you how much I like you and you're really going to say you wish other women liked you when I'm in front of you... and not even acknowledge my words/existence... 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ Thank you. Sometimes idk if its in my head or if it's actually disrespectful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:39 PM |
| 4 | Am I being irrational?Got it. Thanks. You're so right. It's just that it's hard for me to see whether something is "objectively" disrespectful or it's just my interpretation, but I'll follow my gut. And nooo haha it was the same number, just a different phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Am I being irrational?No lies detected | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Am I being irrational?Hahahahah right. Most of the time, at least 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Am I being irrational?Sooo true... thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:35 PM |
| 7 | Am I being irrational?Oh wait for it..... I told him that actually we didn't need to call, and I told him what I told you I'd say. And he said he disagreed (LMAO - how is that relevant?). I also told him that I only kept in my life people who were really committed and he said, "Okay. I'll commit" and I was like boy what do you even mean... I don't do long distance lol. and then he said he HAD TO GO TAKE A SHOWER AND HAVE LUNCH (hes in the military so they have to follow a schedule but priorities, man). He said we cou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Am I being irrational?Good point. I hadn't thought of it like that. To be fair though, he thought I blocked him because my ex told me to, so in that case it'd make more sense that he'd call again. But still, you're totally right that he just likes how I make him feel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 11:42 AM |
| 5 | Am I being irrational?So, so true. I also think he relies a lot on external validation. And that I'm his little ego stroker. I'm gonna nope out of there so fast 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 11:40 AM |
| 4 | Am I being irrational?Thanks so much for the answer. I agree with you and I'm gonna block him. I said "Hey, I don't see much point in continuing to talk. I don't like long-distance things." And he said, "But it's only friendship. Plus, I'll go back to (my city). I think you're looking at it too pragmatically." He said he'll call me later because he has an exam now. I think I'll just tell him that I'm not interested in friendship, and that he doesn't add anything valuable to my life in this situation. That I don't wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 11:32 AM |
| 39 | Makes sense.And the child was STILLBORN... the effect that has on a woman... and meanwhile her "man" was having fun with someone else... crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 06:42 PM |
| 3 | A Persons Pill Color is Directly Tied to Their Native Socioeconomic ClassMy family is UMC and I second this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/19 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Am I right to stand my ground? [30m]Honestly I think you overreacted. She should have told you that she slept with him once, but there's no need to breakup with her over this. She is clearly apologetic and didn't understand it was a red line for you. It's not like she cheated. She was being generous and compassionate with a friend of hers. Plus, you were sleeping/living with her while the dude was there right? Just make your boundaries clear for future situations. It seems to me that in this case it's more your insecurity speaking… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/19 12:52 PM |
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