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You’re not being mysterious or you’re being weird. I understand her being upset. It’s kinda ridiculous. While I do agree having a mission should be your priority that doesn’t mean you can’t have other priorities. Just because she’s not first doesn’t mean she is nothing. You say this is a practice run, you still need to provide comfort and beta qualities in a LTR, if you want a successful practice run. Right now it’s seems like you’re trying to be so “ALFA” instead of being a male human being tha…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 11:40 AM
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Paranoia can be a factor in your dick itch remember that. It’s Schrödinger’s cat cat until you get your results. A good sign is that she got paranoid too. Not saying that it means you’re good, but if she freaks out too it’s a good sign.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 01:56 PM
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Guy checks at sexually attractive girl. Girl checks out sexually attractive guy. Guy overreacts making his girl think that the guy she was checking out is higher value. Where have I seen this story before?
/r/askTRP28/04/19 08:17 PM
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“Did you even fucking read the question”......lmaoooooooo
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:38 PM
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I have no preference. I’ll bench ins bench or in the power/squat rack. I spot my GF so if she’s doing legs while I’m doing chest I’ll do it in a power rack cause I don’t feel like walking back and forth
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:13 AM
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Never on squats, I’ve seen it happen. Dude was pissed. It’s happened on bench. You can come spot me, cool thanks, just don’t touch the fucking bar, I don’t have clips on for a reason.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:04 PM
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If someone touched me during a lift, I would be livid. I’ve got 400lbs on my back, you can fuck right off.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:46 AM
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You’re thinking about this too much.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:36 PM
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If you think about it from a different view he’s living rent free in a house where he probably gets sex. And he never plans on marrying this girl. Maybe he just doesn’t want to mess up a good thing.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 01:32 AM
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Very few can do that. I did for mine but because I was able to take her off the pedastal once she told me about her fun times in college after we had relations one time. After that it was kinda easy to get rid of the oneitis cause I considered her marriage material...but clearly she wasn’t. General advice is to cut all contact, hormones are powerful.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 08:20 PM
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He mentioned other factors as well....
/r/askTRP27/03/18 07:29 PM
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News flash: This just sounds like you’re managing a relationship instead of leading one. This is very common in the army where leaders don’t let competent subordinates actually do/plan things. It sounds like the same thing is going on here. You’re micromanaging and passing it off as “leading a relationship”. Let her have a say in some of things, then make a decision and coordinate with her and her wants in mind. TRP likes to think women are dumb and incapable. They aren’t, just in a relationship…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:21 PM
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I was in the same position, decided to pick a hobby that was interesting. At least to help me pick up girls or put on my resume, but it had to be cheap cause I was still in college. Came down to play guitar or learn Spanish. Picked Spanish. Changed my life, all the way to the fact that I even moved to Colombia. Opened opportunities for me in the states, got a Colombian Chick. What’s the point of why I’m saying this. Pick something that you’re interested in and run away with it. Could change your…
/r/askTRP27/12/17 10:30 PM
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Sleep on the ground all the fucking time. It sucks. Get a really good mattress.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 05:18 PM
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That's the thing if she doesn't care, then she doesn't care. That's it. If she wants to cheat, she will cheat. You talking just makes her work harder to hide it.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 08:47 PM
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These types of situations are where you go into the process knowing the risks and you act accordingly as they come up. This is the bread and butter of a true leader and to have a family/be a worthwhile man you have to be able to have this ability. I wouldn't say write her off, just be prepared to. Calm and collected with whatever happens. Put the ball in her court and let her play. If she shoots a bad shot, then she benched. She's scoring in the opponents hoop? She's off the team.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 08:08 PM
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AWALT is more a mantra to say that they have the capabilities of being like that. You are right, there are a lot of women that will remain loyal and are red pill and all that. That is true what we try to do is prepare for the lowest common denominator is saying that AWALT. In this situation, in my opinion, the right move is the move that you are comfortable with. She very well has no intention of sleeping with anybody over there, but she is saying that here and now. That's something that I know …
/r/askTRP01/09/17 08:00 PM
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While it may be illegal, it doesn't hurt to have as well as it could deter from making any false accusations.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 04:38 PM
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She never mentioned it because you were an option to branch swing, but since you polarized to quickly it gave her no choice but to admit she had a boyfriend. This is one of those instances where polarizing to quickly will have a negative affect.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:10 AM
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Well shit. That's probably the best response I've heard to a shit test in a while.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:08 AM
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never danced it.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 12:59 PM
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Colombian dance Bachata. I learned Bachata in Colombia.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 01:29 AM
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Your advice just helps him ignore the problem, not solve what's going on with him and that's the fact he was just boring. You saying "hard next" has an underlying message of "if she doesn't like me as who I am now then she doesn't deserve me". THAT is beta, trying to hide the problem rather than address it. Try not to just throw BETA CUCK around all the time by the way. Give some sustenance to you answers and create/open a dialog. You sound like an idiot just trying to "agree and amplify" when s…
/r/askTRP25/03/17 09:54 PM
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Back when I first came to TRP there was talk of Red and Green Flags. For my current LTR I used these qualities, but realized that it's not just about checking the boxes. I judge the quality of most women by this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3kgbn7/the_lengthy_red_flags_warning_flags_green_flags/
/r/askTRP25/03/17 07:44 PM
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Only insecure ones will. Most of the time they'll just make it SUPER obvious that they're attracted.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 07:40 PM
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Exactly this. I guarantee you if just look for her flaws then you'll start being sick of her shit too. My LTR is beautiful and guys try and get with her and I just laugh because they don't know how fucking annoying she can be. That mindset helps a lot.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 07:39 PM
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The fact of the matter remains is that she would rather do homework than hang out with you. Is it her fault? Not really, if I were bored and I knew I had work to do I would go right ahead and do it. Next time be so busy that she can't even think about homework. Girls, will destroy there entire lives to be with Chad. Girls will fail the course to have a good time with Chad. Sidenote: If you cared about her you would have an awesome time, then tell her to do her homework. This also helps you in th…
/r/askTRP25/03/17 07:37 PM
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This is terrible advice.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 07:33 PM
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Bachata. I love colombian culture, so I lived there, learned how to speak spanish, and now I'm learning bachata and I'll start salsa later.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 07:31 PM
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The only way you're getting away with being big and with fat on you is if your powerlifter type big.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 03:43 PM
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Yep, just say you got fired and you can move to venezuela. See if she's pregnant after that.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 12:04 AM
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it's my house so I'm going to sleep in my own bed.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/17 04:06 AM
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Absolutely, it's just the sleeping over at another place just didn't sit right with me. I have always got the desired affect just ignoring her as if she wasn't there for the night.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/17 01:18 AM
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Fair enough. And you did say it was a long standing problem so you were probably fed up. Still I was talking more of the not sleeping at home part.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/17 11:29 PM
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I get the point that you are making. My question is why go to such extremes in terms of reactions when it didn't seem necessary for the situation? Better said, Why go to a level of 7 or 8 with a situation that's a 2, when a three would work (while making your point)? I mean obviously it worked, there is a lot to go from that, but it just seems over doing it to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/17 10:50 PM
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Ok, you never been violent towards a girl, but I think you're extremely underestimating the lengths a girl will go to prove that you're the most abusive person ever (Hint: It's a lot). I'm not "probably right". I'm definitely right, cover your ass.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 05:13 PM
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Fuck her and those stupid plans with the girl. If you want a dog go get the goddamn dog, ya know? You don't need to get the dog with her. If this girl is like you say she is that you need to walk in to break up with her and whatever drama she pulls do not fall for it. Just leave, if it's volatile then just let it blow up. If you get violent though realize that you WILL be going to jail. I would take a camera with me to film it just in case she tries to ruin your life. Honestly, I would tell you …
/r/askTRP27/12/16 04:50 PM
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First time is enough for me to nope the fuck out of there. You know what I do with fucked situations? Drop them. If I bake a cake and it's flat and burnt, I don't try and fix this cake...I just start making another cake. The first time, but definitely not the last. She's escalating on you bro and she's getting ready to fuck you. Like I said, I would nope the fuck out of there. On top of that you're not in a good place either. You need to take care of your own shit first before you try and handle…
/r/askTRP27/12/16 04:32 PM
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although in all honesty I could do better (but I stay with her in part because I dont have any other options to run to for pussy. BP as fuck but...still..that's how it is at the moment) Contradiction Anyways, she's manipulating you. She's using that knife to keep you around. She's messed up and I suggest you get out quickly, she will fuck your life up, guaranteed. Every Time you fight and she is threatening to kill herself she manipulating and quite frankly it's a form of abuse. I would rather d…
/r/askTRP27/12/16 04:22 PM
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Yes, girls don't put themselves out there all that often. It's not like it's over and you can't recuperate, but now that she's been rejected she thinks you're out of her league. Most girls are not gonna try once they've been denied. Hit her up.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 03:45 PM
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If it's something legit, just be a human being and hug her. By legit I don't mean she broke up with her BF and now your consoling her. I mean say her mother died....then hug her, maybe say a few words if you're good at that kind of thing, if not then just shut up.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 03:43 PM
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I compliment on things that I like: Did she get dressed up real nice? Was that an amazing blow job? Was the dinner she made really good? Things like that. The thing is if you're like me then you may not compliment her all that often. If that's the case and you drop so random compliment she will melt because she'll be confused why you're acting beta. It'll go something "Why did you say that (with a smile)" At that point you can make up any reason you for why you decided to say it especially if it…
/r/askTRP27/12/16 03:41 PM
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I have noticed that a girl will appreciate the things that you do for her but not in the way you want it or expect it. The best way I have come across a girl appreciating what I do for her is acting how a king would act. Which, truthfully, has been difficult because I've never had confidence in myself. In other words, imagine a king doing something, but only because he feels like being benevolent. In that way I have found my LTR of 2 years to respect and appreciate the good things I do for her.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/16 09:05 PM
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vaya, la experiencia estuvo super chevere. después de mi viaje yo quiero ir a todo los países que pueden hablar espanol. Todos, el último país...España. Guarda tu plata ahora. Los aviones cuestan lo más.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 05:14 PM
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dios mio. todavía eres joven, bueno, cuando termine a la universidad, ve a méxico y vive allí por un rato. en 6 meses mi espanol fue mejorado muchísimo. Fue un experiencia muy especial. Quedate alli por un rato. aprenderá mucho, de verdad. He convertido mi computador en espanol, por eso tengo un teclado en espanol.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 04:57 PM
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They are I mean it's also the plastic surgery capital of the world. In the north of Bogota (the rich area) there are just so many beautiful girls but that's not even what makes them special. They are incredibly domestic. I don't mean that in "she's a dog kinda of way", but they are raised to make sure their man is fed, make sure the house is clean, my sure the kids are raised. Honestly, it was too a point that made me a little uncomfortable.I couldn't cook in the house when I wanted to, it was t…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 03:36 PM
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I wanted to learn spanish, I have a colombian girlfriend. I'm 22, went right after college it's very cheap to live there.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 03:29 AM
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In bogota, the south zone. With my girlfriends family hahaha
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 03:29 AM
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vaya a mexico o algo. la verdad es que no podía hablar ni escuchar. después? goddamn. no puedo escribir todavia jajaja
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 02:09 AM
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I just spent 6 months in Colombia learning spanish. Every single day I went out not really that confident in my language ability, but forced to improve and mistakes and all that. Keep in mind I'm also a guy who keeps to himself a lot. I just got back to the United States and quite frankly those fears that I've had about social anxiety have all but disappeared. It's one thing to be nervous and anxious, but I just spent 6 months going through a country and speaking a different language. Everytime …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 11:48 PM
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This response is a perfect example of cherry picking and quite frankly completely took out of context what he said.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 03:24 PM
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Been in Colombia for 6 months now. There is no hot water where I live. This shit deadass sucks. It's cold with no heat in this house. Cold showers are not for everybody.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 06:12 PM
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Damn just imagine that..."I don't even see you as a man". I'm working on not taking external influences but I swear I'd hit PRs in the gym if I heard that right now. You're not even a man.....bruh. She'd catch these hands and I wouldn't even be sorry.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 05:10 PM
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Not really interested in the science. Just go in lift heavy weight, get a good pump and leave. repeat with rest, meat and potatoes, and heavier weight. I like to keep things pretty simple.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 05:05 PM
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There is no reason that legs and core workout won't work....
/r/askTRP17/11/16 10:59 PM
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I just got done with 3 months of rest. I am a powerlifter so this was especially difficult for me because I love the gym. What I did was just pick up my spanish learning. Now I am almost fluent and now I'm back in the gym making the gains back.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 10:52 PM
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You're 13 in the 9th grade?
/r/askTRP17/11/16 10:48 PM
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Exactly, them girls need rock solid frame because they will fuck your shit up. When you bring out true masculinity though...watch them turn into a goddamn trophy wife, I swear.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 07:57 PM
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Any spanish chick for that matter....that temper is real. That attitude is really real....
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 07:32 PM
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" BUT throwing boiling water on another human being is completely inexcusable because you were feeling stressed." I really think you're really missing that part. OK, he got water thrown on him, but HOW DID WE GET HERE? Is she bat shit crazy? Maybe, but how tf was she so stressed that she resorted to that. Was the guy not paying attention to her enough? Boom, there you have it. Whether he cares about her or was nexting her whatever. But with his SMV and her SMV guys NEED to learn if they're ever …
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 02:49 AM
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"To the guys saying it's the man's fault I understand where you are coming from and it is a little bit his fault BUT throwing boiling water on another human being is completely inexcusable because you were feeling stressed. Quite frankly, these feelings were obviously boiling (no pun intended) for awhile. His job as the man of the relationship is to make sure his woman is feeling secure (within the confines of dread)." Yes, I stand by my point. With this explanation. MOST OF THE TIME, this actio…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 02:10 AM
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To the guys saying it's the man's fault I understand where you are coming from and it is a little bit his fault BUT throwing boiling water on another human being is completely inexcusable because you were feeling stressed. Quite frankly, these feelings were obviously boiling (no pun intended) for awhile. His job as the man of the relationship is to make sure his woman is feeling secure (within the confines of dread). As a top prospect in football he doesn't really need more active or passive dre…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 11:14 PM
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I always hated when people posted on Facebook "I can't sleep". Do you think the carpenter that is working 10 hours a day can't sleep? One good thing is that my sex drive goes up when I lift, but I'm usually passed out within seconds after we have sex.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 05:15 PM
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Yes, it's because alcohol lowers inhibition and inhibition is one of the biggest factors in adults when it comes to language learning. Another big thing with language retention is REM sleep. If you practice speaking but can't retain/remember then it's of little to no benefit. Also, again it might be fine in that moment, but then from the lack of sleep your mind is cloudy all day, the next day. Doing things you're normally used to doing is ok hungover or dazed. But tryna survive in another countr…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 02:50 PM
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Not wanting to drink and being around people who's lives revolve around alcohol is the most annoying thing. I'm in new country learning another language and I told them "I don't drink because if I drink the next day I can't remember how to speak spanish"...of course I was met with resistance. Standing firm in your belief is important. I still don't drink and refuse to do so until I get back to the states. I'm not opposed to drinking (I don't mind getting drunk one day out the week either) but if…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 02:03 AM
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You read that part wrong "The GF is good as fuck" not "a good fuck"
/r/askTRP02/10/16 03:40 PM
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Of course, but that bitch followed Pablo to hell and back. She only started to break away when she knew that Pablo was doomed and that was to save the kids. Quite honestly, if I were Pablo I wouldn't blame her one bit. Especially with how loyal she was...shiittt
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 07:15 PM
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So I'm in a "developing" country and haven't really noticed an extreme affect from cold showers. The only thing I noticed really is that it wakes me up. Since I'm here learning a new language it's very useful for that. Other than being alert...I don't really notice much more.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 04:08 PM
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I'm living in Colombia right now. As an American you're treated like a King. I don't like when people run around and do things for me, but here...they do.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:36 AM
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One mistake most people make is they seriously underestimate the amount of calories they intake. They always say "I eat a lot" but can never measure what "a lot" is. Well if you eat a shit ton of rice of course you're not gonna gain much weight. Once they start to track how much calories they actually ingest then they realize "oh wow I was eating a lot but it wasn't really calorie dense food."
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 09:11 PM
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Exactly, even a harsher sentence to further "help" her make the right choice.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 06:29 PM
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Yeah, just looking at the other side of the coin and what about the men in prison right now. If we were to enact this then those men would never be proven innocent. That's why I would propose a grace period.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 05:59 PM
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That's true, I would like to see a grace period (if this were to ever become law) to allow the women to come clean without the punishment for the wellbeing of those still in prison.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 05:57 PM
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And of course that is the other side of coin. My mind was thinking about the dudes already in jail or have their lives affected. For the sake of the guy I would have a grace period where you can admit to lying without punishment and then after that enforce a law where you charged equal or more.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 02:49 PM
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I was thinking the same thing. The only reason these girls come forward is that there is no punishment. If we give the same sentences more innocent men would remain in jail for fear (from the women) of the sentence she would receive.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:34 AM
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That's what I've been struggling to realize. That maybe she just isn't jaded like I'm making her to be. Maybe I'm damaged from the american culture and since she's from a hispanic culture (grew up there till she was a teenager) that i'm letting it affect me.
/r/askMRP26/08/16 11:02 PM
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Holy shit, you hit the nail on the head. With the TRP part I agree, but with this girl I want to break the cycle. Her mother kept her father away from her for the most of her life so the daddy issues/figure is a red flag. Through all this she still has way more green flags. I think the initial attraction was the lack of a father figure and me seeming like a father figure. The cheating? sorry that's a typo. I meant to say that an insecurity has been built up that I will cheat on her. I want to ma…
/r/askMRP26/08/16 10:27 PM
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Fair, makes a lot of sense. Can I get the mean answer to? lol
/r/askMRP26/08/16 09:49 PM
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This is partly my fault because it's difficult to put into words but what I'm trying to say is this girl is pretty much like your fairytale believing, genuinely sweet, tells me everything, wants to have this strong connection. I've given her a little doing things like teller her about my past and showing emotions (not like a little bitch but we've both have had hard pasts) and all that. What I'm saying is that I wan't to be MORE open with her, but I can't seem to due to trust issues. We get alon…
/r/askMRP26/08/16 09:37 PM
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No really understanding what you're saying. I lead, I get sex, I'm not being bitched at. I can just tell my LTR is feeling insecure because I'm not being as genuine or have much of connection as she is with me. I'm just wondering how to snap out (or work out of it) the mentality of "fuck bitches, get money, if she isn't sucking your dick then next her."
/r/askMRP26/08/16 09:32 PM
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I've only given effort to her.
/r/askMRP26/08/16 09:27 PM
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Not really that sad...just confused honestly on how to have a "first mate"
/r/askMRP26/08/16 09:26 PM
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Where in the post did I give a synopsis of TRP?
/r/askMRP26/08/16 09:25 PM
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Well exactly, I want to say that I'm very introverted more so and I can go out and be sociable and have a great time I just need some time to myself. The unfortunate part is that she's the clingy type of girl that wants to be around me all the time. With clingy comes an insecurity (that I've built) with me cheating due to dread game. I've gone to far with dread game and she feels insecure. No bragging but I'm tall, jacked, and decently attractive and girls actually come and flirt to me in front …
/r/askMRP26/08/16 09:22 PM
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I thought I implied this but I didn't want this post to focus on theory more than helping me if we are being honest. Here comes the hypocritical second part. I think TRP goes to far, it's good for breaking people out of weak habits, but there has to be a middle ground that TRP really doesn't advocate for. I spent a lot of time not trusting this girl and not even believing she was a virgin just because what the TRP has always said. Authenticity is very important and TRP teaches you the right answ…
/r/askMRP26/08/16 09:16 PM
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Yes, I have considered it and I am. I'm not really looking to identify the problem that I've already identified...I'm more looking for advice to get over it. To improve, I already admitted I'm the problem... Why am I in a LTR, because I want to be in a good relationship that fosters affection, a good environment for kids, and one where we can both enjoy the masculine/feminine nature of each other. Plus, she's just fun to be around. But I'm look for a solution, not trying to restate the problem o…
/r/askMRP26/08/16 09:12 PM
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This is exactly what happened.
/r/askMRP26/08/16 09:09 PM
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I know what I'm doing and what I'm saying don't match up. I'm to be more blue pill but I don't know how. More affectionate, not willing to just walk away at the drop of a hat. I'm failing the comfort tests, I don't want to just have the right answer for comfort tests but I genuinely want her to know XYZ when she gives those comfort tests. I don't think a LTR/marriage can work if the guy is 100% GOTW all the time...which I am.
/r/askMRP26/08/16 08:22 PM
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That night of course.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 01:53 PM
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It finally reached the end and stopped... I was just arguing with my LTR the other day about this. Honestly I let the emotions get the better of me and got a little angry, but she had been disrespecting for 2 days and I was tired of it. So we argued, I hit a sweet spot where I said exactly what you said in your post "Nowhere else in my life is that behavior tolerated, and especially not from an underperforming team member. They get performance managed, demoted, fired, and now, divorced." Then I …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 01:14 AM
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In general this is all his fault. He decided to descend into beta level and she's reacting the way we expect. "We can't get mad at a fish for being a fish"
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 06:15 PM
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Just checked out your website real quick. Great Stuff! I don't know if there is a way to subscribe, but I will be checking back.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 04:54 PM
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Exactly this. It's the same type of advice as saying "to be happy, just be happy". What people who have already reached that level fail to realize is that they have already internalized what makes them happy or in this case...masculine.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 11:52 PM
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"All women are crazy"
/r/askTRP17/07/16 06:16 PM
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I've done with a few times, it's ok if you have self control, but I know just one of these times my LTR is going to wrap her legs around me and not let go.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 05:50 PM
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The anger phase is a necessary place to start out in but it's destructive to be in for even a "reasonable" amount of time. The quicker you are in and out of the anger phase the better. Like ripping off a bandaid...the bandaid will still come off, the end result will still be the same, it's more of how long are you going to let yourself suffer to get to the same place. I give advice on and off of TRP, but very strategically. When presented in context of the problem that a close friend is having i…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 02:55 PM
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When I started to move into the acceptance phase I was so busy with trying to build a life that I just didn't have time to be on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 03:47 PM
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I like to look at it like Passive game and active game Passive game are the things that you do that make you interesting/attractive without you even purposely trying to seduce the girl: Lifting Hobbies Career Active game is when you're doing things that are intentionally trying to seduce women. That's self explanatory. There is a plethora of information on youtube and even in the main TRP page. You can search top links all-time and just work your way down.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 07:58 PM
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Let me be the first to say after a long hard week, a beer is well deserved. It's just that you have to sit there and take her suggestions and decide whether they're going to make you beta or not. The first mate offers the suggestion, you decide if it's the correct course of action then you execute...that's it. Now you're drinking might not have affect on your career or kids, but in a LTR you do have to take her feelings about it into consideration. That's the crappy part of being the leader. You…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 03:53 AM
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My response whenever someone is trying to AMOG me, I just look at them like I'm confused. Like in a way that says, "What made you ever think that you could get away with this?". It usually makes them confused because it's sort of amused mastery for men. My stature and personality helps with this though.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 06:41 PM
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When I realized that "you can't be mad at a fish for being a fish" that's when I came out of the anger phase. I just started learning how to be a great fishermen.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 06:38 PM
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Usually it's to get back at their dads if the father sees black guys as subhuman or not good enough. The more the girl's father doesn't like black dudes the better the sex will be.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 06:37 PM
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Car
/r/askTRP02/07/16 06:35 PM
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The best way I've been able to kill this attitude is by raising my ego. It took practice but I really began to internalize everything that I have going for me. How did I do this? I would literally sit down and think...I've got a career for advancement, I'm jacked, I've got a degree...blah blah blah. I just look around and think...holy shit I am awesome. Literally me being 6foot, 200 pounds, and jacked sets me higher than most guys around me. This type of thinking has allowed me to detach myself …
/r/askTRP02/07/16 06:34 PM
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This post seems a little hypocritical to me. Here you are saying that you want someone that "challenges you and doesn't bore you" but as soon as she brings up these points then she's all of the sudden wrong or a bad person or something. "Baby, you know that drinking hurts your body, and I want you to be strong". "All this drinking will hurt your ability to produce healthy babies" (RED ALERT lol). Listen you can't be mad at a fish being a fish. OF COURSE, she's thinking about children. She's a fu…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 05:52 PM
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She is pushing you into relationship behavior. If she is LTR quality that's fine. She is expecting this to become a norm, so if you're ok with that then you can let it happen (don't let the sex dwindle past what you want). In general, girls just love sleeping with guys. they like feeling safe, they like being comfortable. She sees you as one of those guys. No big deal.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:13 AM
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This is more a problem of your girlfriend's behavior rather than the guy. If you send an angry message to the boyfriend all that tells him is that: What he is doing is working It's going to cause you a rift in your relationship and cause you to break up What I suggest is if you are serious about your girlfriend is to tell her that this kind of behaviour is disrespectful to you and you will not stand for it. Since she wants to test the waters she can go ahead and swim in them. If she decides to p…
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:10 AM
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This is the only real answer
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:02 AM
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Continuing driving. Your girl likes nice cars, who doesn't? Only advice? Be the guy in the nice car.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:01 AM
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"Getting over you ex is just 5 fucks away" - Dante Nero Honestly, doing other things (as easy as it may sound) helps you take your mind off things. For example, I had some anxiety since my girlfriend hadn't texted me in a while one time. What did I do? I went to a baseball game, had a great time and didn't even think about my phone. It's just little things like this.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 12:58 AM
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Man what....not gonna lie, just read the TL;DR to see if the title wasn't misleading.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 01:33 AM
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My experience is that it's easy to fuck these girls and I only did it out of a damaged ego that I couldn't get them before or I didn't have the balls to do it. Each and every time I fucked a girl from highschool I always realized that they're still nothing special.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 02:22 PM
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I don't care and you shouldn't either. A lot of the times no response is better than any response because responding shows that they can affect your emotions in some way.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 02:16 PM
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Her: "I love your ass/legs, they look so strong. Do you think my ass looks good" Me: "It looks "ok, I guess". It's a shame that my ass looks better than yours, we need to fix that (said with a laugh/smirk). I'm gonna teach you how to squat and deadlift" Her: Really?! when?! Me: Now. Get dressed.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 02:14 PM
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You can still be red pill by mixing these straights. Red pill in my opinion is the KNOWLEDGE of relationship of sexual dynamics. If you know what you're doing and what is happening and you're acting beta on purpose...then you're not blue pill, you're just strategic.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 07:09 PM
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The only way it works is through sacrifice, especially if the girl has a career going on as well. Like I said, I put the ball in her court if that's what she wants to do, because she sees a future then that's her choice. I don't advise you to do the same though.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 07:05 PM
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The person that is mate-guarding is the one with the least power in the relationship because it shows that they are insecure in it. That person should always be the women.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:58 PM
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There's two ways to not alpha widow a girl; be beta, live longer than her. I'm in the same situation you are and a lot of guys will tell you that you are beta for doing the LDR thing and blah blah blah. In any case, I put the ball in my girlfriends court, essentially since she is infatuated she wouldn't mind a little sacrifice by moving out to me. Not move IN with me, just out near me. If she's not willing to do that, then it's whatever...break up with her amicably. She will be hurt but that's l…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:56 PM
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It depends on how he handles the shit test. He passively dismissed the shit test, comforting her after that would yield little results unless it's done multiple times. A more polarizing answer to her shit test then providing comfort, but then still leaving her in a little discomfort would go further
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 06:47 PM
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More often than not....you have a choice
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 04:57 PM
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This happens all the time so it's not very shocking. It will happen with friends as well. Deep down she doesn't really want you to stop. She likes how attractive you're becoming, but it is a shit test on your albeit, a weak one. What she is thinking is "This motherfucker is increasing his SMV and is becoming more attractive." How she responds can be affected by how you respond to it. A push towards the gym could get her in the gym with you. Or this could snowball into her make "serious" remarks …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 04:55 PM
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Complacency and indifference are two holes you don't want to be stuck in. Mainly, complacency in your life and indifference in terms of women being indifferent towards you. When I was growing up I always wondered why everyone isn't successful. In a simple philosophy all you had to do was give effort and learn from your mistakes to get better. At 10-15 years old this is what I thought you had to do in life (granted this is very simplified thinking). As I grew up I began to understand that not eve…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 07:08 PM
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The trauma you guys are talking about? Probably from having shitty sluttly parental guidance https://twitter.com/cutclear/status/734385144023261184
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 01:44 PM
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Didn't read the post, just the title. Answer: No Don't really care about your backstory
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 09:44 PM
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Before you ask, I always make it extra clear from day #1 that I don't want anything more than a hookup and casual fun outings. This doesn't matter to girls. I say this just so I'm in the clear morally for my own sake. Girls, just want to get their foot in the door. As soon as they do that, they assume you're theirs until told otherwise...even then... This theory has been discussed here forever though. It's also a way to keep the door open in the future for resuming as a FWB or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 11:53 AM
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Rule 1: be attractive Rule 2: Don't be unattractive
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 02:02 AM
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For the newer guys here, I was stating that silence is just that, a tool and like all tools should be used for the appropriate situation. Silence vs. no silence is the difference between using a shovel vs using a knife to dig a hole in some situations.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 06:33 PM
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One thing I like to do is to do a kind of push-pull thing. The thing is, I don't do it with the intent to do anything immediately. I've noticed that saying a genuine compliment and acting like you're floored by it e.g. "damn, you've got some beautiful eyes" (keep in mind that this kind of phrasing works for me) and then I just walk away or just go stone cold. Next time I see them, I can see them looking for any clues of me flirting or liking. They make it obvious. An important note is that I do …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 06:16 PM
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No, I am simply saying that some situations should be addressed and silence isn't the answer. By being silent, you make the situation worse. Like I said, "I'm going to assume that in terms of silence you were talking about things that aren't worth your time is what you should ignore or go ghost." You say, " A TRP man...blah blah blah" but this is forum is about those trying to become a TRP man, not those that are already there. Edited: It is a great post, I was simply addressing a different side…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 05:47 PM
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Anyone here would, but understand that staying quiet can also have negative effects. I'm talking in reference to situations where action needs to be taken, staying silent is very detrimental.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:58 PM
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This is very important to understand, especially for those who want long term relationships. One thing my girlfriend does after a long night of drinking is wake me up with coffee and a egg sandwich in bed. Even though I'm uncomfortable with eating in bed she makes every effort to serve me the best way she can think.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 02:03 PM
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I can agree with this to an extent. I have never seen something "get" to my brother. Just looking at him he has a stone cold demeanor all the time, but it's to a fault. I'm going to assume that in terms of silence you were talking about things that aren't worth your time is what you should ignore or go ghost. But, I want to touch on the other side of the spectrum. Going silent with a nagging wife/girlfriend, that is a legitimate concern is not smart at all. Back to my brother, his wife was const…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 01:59 PM
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Yeah, sure but when a guy like this gets cheated on "I can imagine"....I literally imagine what a guy with all this going for him looks like as a beta superstar. People like lebron james who are prodigies don't have time for girls in their youth, because they're always at practice so they don't know how to deal with girls until their first few months at college or in Lebron's case the NBA. I wonder if it's so easy for them to pull bitches, that when they get into a relationship? Is it actually h…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 10:09 PM
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Kyrie is literally what every girl asks for in their dream guy: Tall, 6 pack, rich, and even famous and he still got cheated on. It's not safe out here. The only reason I can imagine that a guy like this gets cheated in is because of the beta mentality, which apparently seems to not be that rare in superstar athletes. On a very similar note...Kyrie bout to drop 81 tonight.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 05:40 PM
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My #1 issue right now is focus. I'm working on it and getting better but what are some ways to increase my discipline on focus?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:17 PM
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Right? Every time someone mentions a great book here I have to put it in list. The list is growing faster than I can read.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 09:51 PM
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tip taken
/r/askTRP09/03/16 09:42 PM
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No, at first I didn't act all serious. Recent life changes and maturing has turned my focus to more serious issues.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 05:07 PM
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Fair enough. Rationally thinking, I was just telling her because I wasn't even thinking about it, thinking it wouldn't have been a big deal. Now, I realize that the game is always being played. I'm glad she did this now, now I can stay on my toes.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 04:34 PM
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The problem is the way I've been acting over the past few weeks. This situation made me understand it and now I'm correcting it.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 04:31 PM
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Ok.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 04:26 PM
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No, she's not. That crossed my mind, but she is way too transparent and open.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 03:57 PM
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After it happened, that was my gut reaction, before I would just laugh at it and be entertained by the fact that she is jealous. I think I just needed a second opinion.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 03:53 PM
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Ok.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 03:52 PM
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It's not a problem to have girls as friends, especially for social proof, but as you can see they are more drama than helpful. You want an example? Your current situation. Ok, but the rules are right there on the sidebar. You've have a point, kind of, but let this be your first lesson. My first guess is that she didn't want to admit that you stopped talking to her out of the blue, so she concocted this story. It saves her social proof.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 10:04 PM
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-First off, your best friend is not only a girl, but your ex? That's a bigger problem that you need fixed. -Second, this belongs in ASKTrp -Third, who cares? Say you didn't do it and leave it at that. -Fourth, introspect, and realize you might (you definitely do) need to read the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 04:51 PM
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Done right, she'll step her game up.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 06:49 PM
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You can see them go through the correct mental process of their gut biological reaction.....then get slammed by years of conditioning. "You want more intensity? Maybe your boyfriend should up his intensity maybe you should be more intense". It's like they know the advice but they're giving it to the wrong person.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 08:29 PM
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I don't know any girl that doesn't find a jacked guy attractive. Lift.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:58 PM
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You're right.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 01:38 AM
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Immoral fits, but amoral is what I was going for.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 01:37 AM
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The red pill is just a amoral guide to sexual strategy from the male's point of view. It not only describes the how to, but also goes in depth as to why it works. The process is slow, the same as how you can lift weights and won't see much of a difference after a week, but after two years you can look back and notice how much you have changed. Edited
/r/askTRP04/02/16 01:09 AM
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This is more of an underlying problem. If your girlfriend doesn't put out what time cause she is genuinely tired, that's fine, but if she's withholding sex then there's more here than meets the eye. I suggest dread game, then evaluating why she is withholding sex from you.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 01:07 AM
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A women's narcissism in my mind is just another shit test.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 04:40 PM
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Essentially this is the dichotomy in this entire sub right here. I had a problem not being able to close on a couple of girls lately and instantly nexted them. This sub teaches you about sexual strategy and all that but what it fails to elaborate on is sexual strategy in a relationship (other than manipulation and dread game). In my two years here I've seen a couple posts on LTR game and all that, but for the most part it's mainly talking about ONS and spinning plates. For those that aren't inte…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:36 PM
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But I should not be expected to believe her story just because it would be insensitive not to. You put this in the perfect way that I've had trouble explaining before in the past.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 11:18 PM
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I'm in a situation that only allows me to see my girl on the weekends. I can stay from friday afternoon until sunday afternoon/night. I usually leave on saturday midday saying something about work I have to do just to get away. Great chick, great potential, but AWALT and it is physically and mentally draining.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 04:39 AM
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For guys that already understand the game this is repetitive and annoying, but put yourself in the shoes of someone who is still trying to learn. They need examples like this. Yes, it is frivolous and just a normal interaction for guys like us that do this every time we see interact with a girl that we aren't interested in...but this is not written for us.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 03:10 AM
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This is my absolute favorite law. I keep on seeing it pop up on TRP and I love it because it is something I would struggle with. Not entering action with boldness was always holding me back: in basketball, in women, in my career, and even in lifting. Basketball: I have the talent to play at the NCAA D1 level, but my game was always hesitant, I would overanalyze, rather than feel the game out, trust my instincts and just GO! Now four years later I'm even better than I was my senior playing at a h…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 02:03 AM
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I've started to recognize this way of thinking with personality. There is a girl who is an absolute dime. She is in one of my classes, but you can tell she knows she's hot. The thing is...her personality just doesn't do it for me. I had no idea what it is about her personality, but we just don't "click" and she tries so hard to get with me. The irony is the harder I don't try the more she wants me. <----That part is just more TRP confirmation. Anyways, It made me realize that once you start gett…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 01:50 AM
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I started doing this about a year ago. I would always get a upset/disturbed when I saw girls ALWAYS on their phone. I'm in college so they're literally just looking down at their phone walking to class. So now whenever I'm out with my friends I always tell them to put their phones away and blatantly say something along the lines of, " Hey it's only awkward if you make it awkward." With my female friends like my roommates gf, I'll always slap her phone away saying the same thing, but also adding,…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 01:44 AM
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I saw a similar story like this when I first arrived on TRP about a year and a half ago. The differences in men and women in sports is astounding. While all my evidence is anecdotal it has solidfied my position on the matter nonetheless. My high school basketball team would regularly scrimmage the girls. This wasn't done for our benefit at all because playing girls is similar to playing little kids. (A little caveat girls playing against guys does get them a lot better. Just look at the best WNB…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:57 PM
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Any chick that goes on dates for money is just a prostitute with different wording.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 06:09 AM
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That's what is hard about psychology it's hard to quantify certain things. In general, women are more natural at reading language. A lot of women learn how to manipulate using BL, but the hard about quantifying this is the part of manipulation where...you're aren't supposed to know about it. Edit: wording
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 08:12 PM
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Women are more natural at reading body language, but it's still very subconscious. Some girls are more aware than others and realize they can manipulate.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 07:42 PM
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If you start to read books that are geared toward reading body language you start to be more cognizant of your own. Now I'm studying psychology with a specialization in kinesics (nonverbal body language) and one of the first books that was recommended to me was "What ever BODY is saying". It gets to the point where a simple gesture like reading someone crossing their arms can make you realize which way the conversation is going. Now, the problem that I ran into was when I became aware I started …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:03 PM
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I've had this conversation with my best friend multiple times where we both were interested in the same girl. What we have always done is accept that both of us want her and both try and go for her and let the best man win. IF it's a good friend no girl should come between that.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:24 PM
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I say that it is all contextual. Some people are the loud and outgoing type, some people are the quiet mysterious type. There is a time and place for everything. I've seen both types of alpha guys and a mixture of the two.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:20 PM
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Once you have taken the pill you start to see the message in between the lines. While it is her propensity for instant gratification that has her going back to the AF, we know that it's also because she can't resist her engrained biological nature. In terms of female sexual strategy she is close to winning. Fucking an alpha and having her beta raise and provide for them. I don't even get mad seeing these things anymore, I'm actually impressed that girls have been able to pull this off.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:18 PM
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The guy at the end was the most painful for me to watch. It's like feminists (and regular people for that matter) can't understand that innocent until proven guilty is what the court of law has based their philosophy. We cannot just "assume" that the person claiming rape is telling the truth because again you are innocent until proven guilty.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:13 PM
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I saw this the other day. The thing is at first I was thinking, "You know what? Good job for her, even though it is disgusting as fuck she decided to run an entire fucking marathon and push past some discomfort" then as I began reading further and she started saying some shit about how period shaming shouldn't be happening and blah blah blah. That's when I got disgusted because a girl did a hard thing and even though she did it she decided she wanted more attention and make the run more than it …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 01:36 AM
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I ran into the same problem a few months back with a girl. She was my date to a formal ball. She was coming from a different part of town and told her she could stay with me, but I have one bed and no couch, but she agreed to stay nonetheless. We were down to just underwear and she says, "I usually only have sex with boyfriends". In my mind I'm thinking, "This bitch did not just think she was gonna get naked in my bed and not have sex" but what I did was ramp up the foreplay and say, "let's just…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 06:49 PM
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The reason why it's called a unicorn is because unicorns in real life don't fucking exist. The "unicorn myth" won't get dispelled because the unicorn itself doesn't exist. The talking of a "unicorn" is important because newbies need to understand that there is no such thing.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 04:03 AM
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Yeah, I thought about that...but when it keeps on happening?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 03:56 AM
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I don't know, every time a girl says "I don't usually do this" before sucking my dick I'm a little surprised when she starts sucking the soul out of my dick.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 02:03 AM
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A lot of guys (even outside TRP) are starting to do this.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 01:54 AM
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"I just received a positive reply to my traditional "I didn't rape you" text." I just advised my friend to you this line whenever he hooks up with girls. He gets a lot of them and his latest one gave him the false rape scare. It's amazing that we have strategies in place nowadays to prevent a rape charge.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 01:06 AM
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Ahhh the old "I usually don't do this" line. I think this line is hilarious and each time a girl says it, I have to hold back from laughing.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 01:04 AM
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Improving is not only about doing the physical things, but it's a mindset as well. You were dealt a certain set of cards, so what? You have a small penis? All that means is you're going to have to work harder to become a sex god. You may think it's too late, but it's not. You're time limit is when you die. Now, for the actual advice: stop being a little bitch. You are complaining about shit and the only people that can complain and people will help are women and children. No one is going to do t…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 02:31 AM
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Now I run into this regularly. I've been passed up for promotion in three separate organizations because I was the best. My question is, how do I dumb it down a bit, but still have the mentality of doing my best?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 01:11 AM
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Solid, but just keep in mind the boss will drop you in a second if it would save the company sexual harassment suit. What you've done here is golden. In the future try out you tactics outside the office though.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 09:40 PM
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dormant symptoms?
/r/askTRP04/08/15 03:56 AM
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"unknowingly have anyways?" elaborate?
/r/askTRP04/08/15 03:30 AM
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Wait for her to come to you. It'll be easy to plate an ex because she's already slept with you but wanting commitment will come quicker than usual as well ESPECIALLY if you hit the gym hard and improve yourself. In my experience exes just come back to fuck and don't really stick around.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 03:28 AM
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-I play basketball (working on becoming semi pro) -Lift, I working on powerlifting and then later I want to get into bodybuilding -Video games, I don't care what anyone says I like to play video games but out of all my hobbies this one is lowest on the priority list because of how easily you can lose track of time with no benefits to you. I study spanish....fuck you I think it's a hobby -I shoot guns I drink...drinking is my favorite hobby
/r/askTRP04/08/15 03:26 AM
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I just bag it up. Red flags that signify slutty behavior is the only good indicator I have of possible previous STDs
/r/askTRP04/08/15 03:21 AM
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The average male knows how very little and is realizing that he won't be a sex god so he is settling for the first semi attractive girl that commits to him. I took the RP when I was 18. The only thing I can say I've done differently is invest time in myself. Self improvement but also having the time to self improve. I don't have kids or a wife all I have is school, working out, and working. So I can devote however much time I want to self improvement. The being able to sit down and study for hou…
/r/askTRP04/08/15 03:19 AM
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I'm still in college so that's where I meet them. They are about as vapid as they come at 18 years old, but I am very good at ignoring the stupid comments. Plus being 6ft, jacked, and a goddamn man I can pull it off cause now I'm the guy who's attention they can't get
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 03:13 AM
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That part about fucking a 21 year old I can definitely relate. I just last week fucked a 18 year old virgin who was horny as hell. Holy shit....that was the shortest I ever lasted.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 02:43 AM
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When I first took the plunge into the redpill I would do this with a tumblr account (I didn't follow anyone, it was just a place where I could blog my ideas) I go back and read it from time to time to admire how far I've come.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 04:08 PM
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There was a post on here awhile ago of a guy that doesn't show emotion to his girl. Not out of choice he just generally doesn't show affection and it was eating away at his girl. Then one day he hugged her and she practically crumbled in emotions cause she thought he didn't love her and all this BS. This is an extreme example but sometimes beta things can do wonders. Like MattyAnon said that's exactly how a girl will see it if she's attracted to you. Especially if you don't make a big deal out o…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 04:06 PM
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I need some clarification on this. Can you take melatonin every night? Are there any side effects? Will your own natural melatonin production suffer?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 11:53 PM
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"We spend most of our lives looking for the right woman, yet when we find her, we hesitate." No it's just that you think you're the right girl, but you actually aren't. Trust me I find a unicorn (which doesn't exist) shiiiietttt I'll propose on the spot.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 10:20 PM
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And those things are AWALT tendencies that should be taken literally. When I first got here there wasn't a clear distinction between what should be taken literal and what shouldn't. That was over a year and a half ago and this board has gotten better at distinguishing between the two.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 07:33 PM
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Thank you, just last week I was saying the same thing. I was downvoted, but I still believe in the same message. It's natural for newer guys to go an extreme and when they hit that anger phase to think "AWALT" and take it literally. This message helps clarify the message so you can understand and work through that stage faster. AWALT means that they also have the capability to be that given the right circumstances. A gun is harmless with no bullets but given the right circumstances aka ammunitio…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 07:07 PM
0

Who cares, at first I was thinking like you. Then I realized that it just makes it easier and it will continue to get easier the better I get.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 07:02 PM
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"I was fine with being at her local hang out (although reflecting back I should have set the date on my terms to maintain advantage)." No you weren't because you're STILL talking about it. What I'm saying is the reason why you made those mistakes is because you are constantly over thinking/analyzing.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 02:51 PM
2

Well same here I don't like showing vulnerability to women, but around women, no problem. Other than that I tend not to show vulnerability because most react the same...disgusted to some degree.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 02:48 PM
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I mean this sounds cringe worthy in its entirety. Some things you're making a big deal out of that you don't have to. She was at a local hang out? Yeah it's not ideal, but hey why not practice being able to make yourself comfortable in uncomfortable situations. The realisation? You hesitated cause you were over thinking it. I run into this situation a lot since I left high school in the 10th grade and now I came back to my old town. It's really not that big of a deal. Just brush it off as you're…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 05:32 AM
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First off this should be in AskTRP. Second, you sound pathetic. If you ever want to wonder why she left you just reread this entire post and you've got your answer. You're supposed to be a goddamn man and here you are complaining about how some bitch made you emotional. Feeling alone? go hang out with some people. Feeling ugly? Work on your appearance and hit the fucking gym. You're sitting here acting all emotional and shit and it sounds like when one of my plates is on her period. The thing is…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 01:34 AM
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The vulnerability thing is something that strikes a chord with me. Even if you look at my post history I had trouble trying to balance being stoic and being vulnerable. Only when I went out and started putting my personality to practice did I finally start to get the vulnerability thing. And girls fucking dig it....being the strong framed guy that has a soft spot for puppies and babies will have them loving you. The latter probably activating the "provider" mentality. Regardless, the dichotomy o…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 01:11 AM
1

It's funny that you say that because I was going to date this chick but I kept on putting it off. I had no idea why but something wasn't right. She had only been with one guy throughout high school and that was for 5 years (she was ahead of him one year so she dated him through her freshmen year of college). Anyways, she had all the stats that would make her a great LTR and literally the female version of me. Don't worry I didn't have oneitis, these are just facts. You would think by the way I'm…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 02:43 PM
14

Hit the nail on the head. I'm black and I use it on my black plates. They try and shame us hard for not wanting to date JUST within our race.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 02:43 AM
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"Your mother isn't caramel skin and up"....."I'm not trying fuck my mother"
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 11:12 PM
1

The conditions? If I know she'll never find me or I'm in a long term relationship and I'm sure that every day she has taken her pill.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 12:29 AM
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"Everyone admires the bold, no one honors the timid" - Robert Greene
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 11:10 PM
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I agree, but they shouldn't get rid of it, it should be amended. Too often like you said it's used as a filler word with no context. I understand now what it means, but a year ago when I was new to TRP I thought that all women are cum guzzling whores that will cheat on you no matter what. Now I understand that AWALT means that all women "can" be like that given the circumstances. Not necessarily that they absolutely inevitably do that. As a newbie it was confusing and it made the anger phase lon…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 08:06 PM
6

Great post. Especially the "Mental activity" section. The thinking/rationalization was so illogical that I had to stop and read it again to understand how the hamstering line of thinking worked.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 03:04 PM
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Should be in ThankTRP, but regardless you can do something awesome for someone and keep it a secret. You remind me of the bitches on instagram that do something nice for the homeless and then have to tell all their friends about what a good person they are.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 02:56 PM
3

People start listening when you start to mess with their: money, time, sleep, and food.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 07:22 PM
3

Earlier in my years I never liked the phrase cause it wasn't that catchy or dressed up in fancy words. Then I looked at it literally and began to follow the advice literally...it changed my life.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:15 PM
13

"Do the things you have to do, so you can do the things you want to do" -Advice from my father
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:24 AM
11

If there is a tingle in your balls that means you're about to get kicked- Dante Nero
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 12:58 AM
2

Just ask them...I always make sure I differentiate. When they ask me what my max squat is I say "I don't know Im at 275 5x5 right now and my 1rm day isnt for a couple of weeks."
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 12:02 PM
1

6 foot 200 Pounds. I started out at about 165 my junior year of high school now it's four years later. I get a lot of stares from girls now, at college parties I get more stares to go and talk to girls. More respect from guys, they're a lot less aggressive towards me and more friendly. Coupled with a bit of flirting girls do more things "to be nice". Girls are a lot nicer to you. You start to understand when girls talk about unwanted/unintentional attention. Sometimes I'll have my shirt off just…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:59 PM
1

A thing that helps me is to have an opposite attribute. I forgot the word for it, but basically if you're a big guy do something that doesn't fit the stereotype. So for us big guys are often thought of as dumb meatheads, so wearing glasses and being really smart is intersting.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:47 PM
2

It's gotten to the point where I actually think it's genuinely funny.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:32 PM
2

I reread my post and I see how you could get confused. What I meant was: If the top female is now where near the top male, what makes the female think she can finish ranger school if half of the cream of the crop males can't finish?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 06:26 PM
1

I agree that the strongest female is stronger than the weakest male, but that's not the context. These are guys are physical studs to some degree (and mental endurance studs) and HALF of them aren't making it through. What makes them think they'll make it through?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 06:09 PM
1

My ex just got engaged to a marine infantryman. Here's the kicker she's an air force reservist that's getting deployed in a few months and shes only been dating the guy for 5 months. I assume it's only been 5 months because she was calling to hook up only 5 months ago so it could very well be longer but that means she was cheating. My friends have a few theories. The most popular one is that she is pregnant and wants to get out of her deployment. Edit: I'm glad I escaped because she seems to hav…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 06:01 PM
1

She is not LTR/relationship "material", she is fwb "material". No one advocated for spinning plates. I just classified her as a lower status.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 03:18 PM
2

I'm not talking about fighting her or losing. I'm talking about grabbing her hand, looking her dead in her eye and telling her to stop and then removing her hand.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:15 PM
9

I'd have to get physical, I would just have to. No job is worth letting a girl (or anyone) do that and get away with it.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:19 AM
1

Lift. I've never gone wrong with a fitted plain shirt and some jeans/chino pants. I like to keep it simple, a girl will not sleep with me because I have a dope ass shirt. She'll sleep with me because of how I look in the dope ass shirt.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 07:54 PM
7

She's not marriage/LTR material, but she FWB material. I've been around girls like this. The ones that I've had sex with before are the easiest ones to get to cheat. My exes especially because "old feelings" come up and suddenly we rolling around on the bed, even if she has a BF. For some reason the rationalization is "well I've already had sex with them him so it doesn't really count" or whatever. I can guarantee she's fucking at least one of these guys. You mentioned "it raises some red flags"…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 07:52 PM
1

That's actually a really good idea and I'll probably take some classes before I head to BOLC
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:45 PM
16

Going through a divorce (ask any military NCO) will show you the light of how cold bitches can be.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 06:01 PM
3

I remember that documentary and the way she described the sexual drive of men was exaggerated...then I thought about it and it was spot on. The only thing is we have been conditioned to really suppress our desires, not only that we've lived with it from the age of 13 on so it's nothing new to us. For someone experiencing it all at once it can be overwhelming.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 11:05 PM
4

Go find an army sergeant who got divorced raped
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 02:22 PM
2

Yes, you need to ride the anger out. It is a necessary step in reorganizing your schema. Your preconceived notions about how the world works are going through a state of disequilibrium. Through this you will experience anger. What is important is how you cap it. That is how your views on society have changed after the anger phase. Personally, I have adopted a nihilistic approach to life. The only things I get angry over are the things I can directly control. I have taken the Serenity Prayer (it'…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 05:31 PM
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There are many variations: A young girl walking along a mountain path to her grandmother's house heard a rustle at her feet. Looking down, she saw a snake, but before she could react, the snake spoke to her. "I am about to die," he said. "It's too cold for me up here, and I am freezing. There is no food in these mountains, and I am starving. Please put me under your coat and take me with you." "No," the girl replied. "I know your kind. You are a rattlesnake. And if I pick you up, you will bite m…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:25 PM
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In my experience being big isn't the end all, just like you've observed. Being muscular or even attractive just allows you to get your foot in the door easier and more often. I see girls stare at me very often, when I talk to them they are more receptive, when I make crude jokes that they should get mad at...they don't (for the most part)Looking like you pull bitches is only part of the battle.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 06:38 PM
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Everytime I hear this story I keep on thinking she is doing this purely for that damn art grade and to get recognition in the art community for such a "moving piece". So basically I have this assumption this is all for her artist career
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 06:03 PM
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The theory behind it is that it makes it seem like more dates. I always enjoyed going to different bars in one night, especially if I'm having a good time. Staying in one place is kinda boring honestly.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 05:34 PM
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I was just thinking about this for the past week. Ironically enough I was watching a TV show and the girl in the show was chastising this guy because Chad always went balls to the wall with everything whereas Bill never did anything balls to the wall. I began to think of a few girls I have in limbo right now that have clearly shown interest, but in my mind there's a;ways some reason why I can't go after them "just yet". I realized two things: I wasn't going balls to the wall, I was being hesitan…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 05:19 PM
1

And if she really didn't want it she wouldn't have made a big deal.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 05:10 PM
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Typically girls don't want to be perceived as a slut in public. She isn't going to be ok with it so she can have some plausible deniability. Also inadvertent dread game.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 02:28 AM
3

What the fuck is your point?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 09:26 PM
3

My trolling experience is from twitter. There will be a guy like @SeanTheTerrible who will make a series of "nice guy" tweets and some clearly feminist shit just to get them riled up. The "misogynistic" tweets get backlash of course, but I remember a few months ago he started tweeting some shit about accepting girls as hoes and they shouldn't be judged and SJWs came out the woodwork thinking he had finally seen the err of his ways. Shit was hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 12:32 AM
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Relevant to the title https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uM4FD-8znn0
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 12:29 AM
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Lifting heavy is the one thing that always is able to kill my oneitis. The main problem I would have was the jealousy aspect and around that time I would get jealous I figure it's time for a nice heavy deadlift pr day. Three things usually happen: 1. I get stared at by girls, that's a confidence boost in and of itself. 2. I realize that I can move heavy ass weight. 3. The combination of just 1 and 2 makes me awesome
/r/askTRP09/05/15 05:21 PM
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There are, but just like you said they're taken seriously. What I have noticed is that after they're taking seriously they begin to make more outlandish claims and it continues to be taken seriously. I can only assume they either die from brain failure from the massive amounts of hamstering it takes to come up with these fairy tales or they're able to get out of the loop and just give up and live peacefully.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 05:04 PM
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My mission is to own a gym that the iron gods can be proud of and become a "fisher of men" in the sense of getting your balls back. As soon as I get enough experience developing alpha males. I will sire a son.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 01:33 AM
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You can read Jameis Winston's account of the alleged rape. He basically goes into explicit detail of what exactly happened, down to the minor sexual details. Comparing his account to her account I most certainly believe Winston.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 08:40 PM
3

I don't even want to start on the pussy pass in the military. Out of all the issues with feminism this is the one that gets me angry every time
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 11:39 PM
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I like how the first story out paints the guys advice "women love guys who are aloof..." as ridiculous, but IT WORKED ON HER. She literally said she was crying on the floor in love with this guy, but when he says that she hamsters it away.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 04:37 AM
3

The iron never lies to you, you can walk outside and listen to all kinds of talk, get told you're a god or total bastard. The iron will always kick you the real deal. The iron is the greatest reference point, the all knowing perspective giver. Always there like a beacon in the pitch black. I have found the iron to be my greatest friend. It never freaks out on me, it never runs. Friends come and go, but 200lbs will always be 200lbs
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:19 PM
15

This. I'm studying Kinesics (Non-verbal communication) as a concentration and this book is beginner gold material. FBI, cops, and military enlisted are gold mines of knowledge for learning body language. Most to all of the stuff they learn is from experience not from books. Military members are better at determining hostile vs. non-hostile.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 02:29 AM
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"The day you started lifting you realized you will be forever small because you will never be as big as you want to be." - The Brofessor
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 02:15 AM
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That last bit was cringeworthy. She made her choices, you owe her nothing. Go lift.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:15 PM
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That word is triggering. I was getting swolested the other day, playing volleyball outside shirtless minding my own business and these girls had the nerve to stare and even start making whistling noises. The nerve of them! to think that just because I'm shirtless means I want to be gawked at. We need to crack down on female visual/auditory harassment.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:12 PM
1

That's what I'm saying. Where as a guy wants a break because he truly wants a break or is trying let her down gently. Girls take breaks to test the waters, with every intention of going back in case things don't work out.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 06:22 PM
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It's funny because whenever I needed a "break" before it was genuine. I truly needed a break the stress of a relationship along with sports and school in my blue pill days was something I needed a break from. Of course it was unintentional dread game because she automatically equates this to her version of what a "break" means. I had found some new poon and wanted to try and see if it was worth it. Of course I didn't know this back then, but now I see it for what it was.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 12:29 AM
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There are two different goals for two different types of guys: AF/BB or AB/BB. You should indulge in the the first dynamic to before you even think about the second. As a matter of fact AF/BB should be your default until a girl has proven herself to be LTR/Wife material (I know marrying is looked down upon). The late great Patrice O'Neal explained in his stand up that every man needs to womanize before they settle down. This is the best summary I can get because trying to tell the joke wouldn't …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 04:07 AM
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On a different note, she's got some nice titties.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 03:55 AM
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While ethnicity plays a role in getting plates ie some girls are just not attracted to whatever race, your analysis is off base. There is a reason girls and guys tan. It's to get darker skin. While I do agree that looks matter to spin plates you missed other factors such as attitude, how well you dress, and running game. An ugly guy that runs a tight game can pull bitches. A guy that dresses well can drastically increase his attractiveness. This post all in all doesn't really help at all.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 01:25 AM
6

"Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k-VcA7C6meg
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 10:29 PM
1

You're girlfriend will forever be trying to turn you beta. That is her goal, to see if she can break you, if she can't you will be worthy of reproducing (theoretically).
/r/askTRP12/04/15 06:54 AM
1

LTR in uni is hard mode, but I'd suggest you do it for the experience even if something bad were to happen. Basically what you want to do is have act like you don't care, but notice if she starts picking up tendencies that she's getting emotionally/physically involved. Showing insecurities will alert her that you think your competition is better than you. Then she'll start to get curious if they're better than you.....cue hypergamy
/r/askTRP10/04/15 01:13 PM
0

I prefer the old "I don't usually do this" or "I'm not this kind of girl"...Oh, "We aren't having sex tonight" is definitely my favorite. Those are it to name just a few.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 09:59 PM
2

I lift and meditate
/r/askTRP26/03/15 02:34 PM
4

I haven't but I have a friend who tells this story about how he was talking with a group of people he knew. In that group there was this girl and a guy she was attracted to or something (I can't remember). She was going on and on about how she had only been with 3 guys and my friend knows her sexual history, like a good deal of it. Any ways she was talking about how good of a girl she was and how she only has had sex with jim, mike, and larry. My friend chimes in "wait what up ryan who you fucke…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 12:36 PM
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The arms being folded doesn't necessarily mean he beta or anything. It just means that he's in a defensive posture and he doesn't like what is being said.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:44 PM
8

The only thing you need to know is the two rules: 1. Be attractive 2. Don't be unattractive If you follow these rules it won't matter if you say she's got a nice fat ass as you passing by her. It will be a compliment and if she's attracted she'll take it as such.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:31 PM
6

This is one of the biggest things that I have worked on recently. I ask myself do I want it? Yes? Then I go get it. If a girl is treating me some type of way, do I want this? No? Then I put an end to it. It really is as simple as "Do I like what is going on?" and acting on whether to stop it or not.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:09 PM
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I play basketball extensively and just like anything you practice and do a lot, over time you stop "playing" and you start "understanding" the game. Anyone who has played at a collegiate level will understand the transference of mindset, but i digress. One of the lessons that I applied from basketball into my life is as a point guard you don't have to force anything. The more you force in basketball the more resistance you meet. The more resistance you meet the more bad decisions you make, turno…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:06 PM
36

"Mark Rudov", he's basically a white version of Patrice. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E007Zu00a-Q
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 04:52 PM
30

Watch comedy also to see the format of how they tell jokes. The most basic thing I learned is that you have to set the mood obviously, but have your story take a turn that wasn't expected.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 03:12 PM
6

Ugliest girl I ever had sex with was the best sex I ever had. All my average looking girlfriends have been wife material in all aspects except their body count was to high for my liking.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 10:00 PM
8

Time is precious. More importantly it's about the principle not the action.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 02:11 AM
1

That's been my whole thing for the last year now. I've been way to busy to busy focusing on my career and studying and having hobbies. My most recent example is when my friends were joking about masturbation I was wondering how they found the time. They looked at me bewildered and I explained to them that I can never find the time to masturbate and I didn't even think about it. Keeping busy keeps you out of those supplicating beta tendencies.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 04:24 PM
1

I completely agree and I was just thinking about this, this morning. Classes were cancelled allowing me to sleep in. I slept in until 11am and while no work or suffered I could feel myself "taking it easy". I usually reserve the weekends to do that. I'm glad I noticed so I could get back on the grind, but it's very dangerous and could have derailed me for most of the semester.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 07:06 PM
1

Lil Wayne is definitely hardcore RP. One of my favorite lines by him is "I think I love her, it was just a thought".
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 04:30 PM
2

If you think that's funny check this out: http://espn.go.com/los-angeles/nba/story/_/id/12287430/chris-paul-los-angeles-clippers-frustrated-techs-female-rookie-ref-not-her Backstory: Last night the clippers were getting technical fouls out the ass. For those who aren't familiar with basketball it's basically getting a penalty for unsportsmanlike conduct. After the loss Chris Paul is being interviewed and he refers to the fem...oh WOMAN referee as "her". What later ensued on twitter and through t…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 04:59 PM
4

I say that I like the natural look, but I genuinely mean it. For some reason I hate fake nails, eyelashes, and hair. It just grosses me out. The concept of nail polish is just weird to me (especially chipped). If it looks kept up I can deal with it though. Basically a girl thats all dolled up all the time signals to me that she really isn't that active of a person or doesn't do outdoor activities.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 04:48 PM
2

There's a lot of science and theory behind this, but it's very contextual(in terms of practical application). "What every BODY is saying" is a nice start. What you are looking for specifically is the study of Kinesics(Non-verbal behavior) and social psychologies. I'm in the process of getting a specialization in both and you start to become more aware of body language and what you doing to affect it and how to react to it. It's sort of like swallowing the pill. You start to see things differentl…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 02:11 AM
1

You've asked too many times. If a girl is busy and wants to hang out she will reschedule "Sorry im busy but how bout next monday?"
/r/askTRP19/01/15 04:03 AM
0

I'm no scientist, but could this be the reason that DNA test say 99% yours? or 97% yours? Or do they just say that for deniability if a second test were to be done?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 02:39 AM
3

Ok, at the basic level Extroverts seem to feed off the energy in social interactions and social engagements. For Introverts, this is mentally draining for them. To use introversion as an excuse is weak and a production of male hamstering. I for one have been described as a textbook introvert (through research and through people telling me). What my friends and plates can't seem to understand is how I still am able to be the leader of our social gathering or the life of the party if I'm this so c…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 02:49 AM
1

If she says, "I can't go this weekend I'm washing my hair" that's a rejection. If she says "No, I can't go this week I'm washing my hair...how about next weekend?" That's a set up for a date. Perhaps she doesn't have time or she just wants to read a book all weekend, who cares that's she not going THIS weekend. The important part is that she made an attempt to reschedule.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 08:32 PM
2

Just search in the main sub for "body language". Lurk and once you find what exactly your searching for it'll be easier to correct on a more specific level.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 06:23 PM
2

Can you elaborate on the "testing through deployment" aspect? This is my biggest worry. I don't plan on getting married, but things change. My idea was to test her by having my friends watch her, but then I realized they could very well just try and fuck her too.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:21 PM
2

There really isn't a lot of information to go on here, but look at your standing body posture in a mirror. Do you slouch? Do you tilt your head to far down? Are your shoulders hunched forward. Research correct posture and apply it. In terms of body language pick up a book and read on how to fix it. This question is way to broad to give you an all encompassing answering on a post in reddit. One book that I read was "What Every BODY is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-Reading People ". "Ho…
/r/askTRP15/01/15 01:59 PM
1

Read it again, internalize it. Of course she will look for attention elsewhere. She is a girl. Put yourself in an environment where you can show off these cool things. The dynamic of attention should be where she is borderline annoying you because shes texting you wanting to hang out.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 08:20 PM
1

Very well. Read the sidebar. Then head over to red pill books...read those and lurk on the main sub and practice
/r/askTRP14/01/15 08:16 PM
11

ha, I would've just said "If she wants to go with you, you can have her for free".
/r/askTRP14/01/15 05:29 PM
1

On top of this, girls will associate the good feelings with who gave it to them.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 05:28 PM
2

Looking at your history you obviously haven't read the sidebar and aren't very acquainted with TRP theory. LMR is "last minute resistance". If you want to know what it is and how to beat it. Search for it.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 05:26 PM
7

Nowadays it is normal, that doesn't mean I wouldn't have a problem. IMO she is just a plate at best. She's had multiple sex partners is my first deal breaker. Also, if a girl likes you enough she'll stop talking to all her other suitors or at least stop being sexual with them. You sound like you have a problem with it and in a LTR it's either "FUCK YES" or "no"
/r/askTRP14/01/15 05:09 PM
2

Take her out for drinks close to wear you plan on having sex. Kino, escalate, suggest she come upstairs for whatever reason, pass the LMR, Close.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 05:05 PM
1

It depends on your goal. If it's to get her in bed as quickly as possible then do the first option. I can see no reason why you'd have a "three date rule".
/r/askTRP14/01/15 05:02 PM
1

I was having a conversation with a girl and of course the age old debate came up "Why can guys be sluts, but girls can't?" Of course I didn't engage in the debate but in my head I was thinking of responses. The first one guys= gatekeeper to commitment/girls=gatekeeper to sex. This is reinforced in TRP constantly, but then I realized she would've just said "but guys beg me to get in relationships all the time". Which is very true. Guys nowadays throw away their only power way to easily.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 04:52 PM
7

Another way to help with this is to slow down your natural speaking speed. A lot of the time the reason why people say "um' and "uh" is because they are talking faster than they are thinking. So, in an effort for there thought process to catch up they use "um" and "uh". You see this most often in public speakers. This advice would be best summed up as "Think before you speak". This does hinder the confidence of the speaker because in essence you really don't know what you're going to say yet.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 04:31 PM
1

Being "used" as an emotional tampon is only not ok when it's something trivial like "Oh becky didn't talk to me today" or "Greg just broke up with me" and she wants to bitch about it. Something like a death in the family is of course her using for emotional support but not so much out of manipulation. I would just get her mind off of it and go do something fun.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 07:18 PM
1

You need to learn and read more. Have you read the entire sidebar? In high school it's different beast on getting girls. What do you think you've been doing that's been decreasing her attraction towards you?
/r/askTRP13/01/15 07:14 PM
2

Leave. There's never a reason why someone I am dating should be embarrassing me out in public. If she asks what's wrong, simply say "What you did was unacceptable" leave it at that and leave. Show no emotion, show no hint of embarrassment, but never take disrespect from a girl (or anyone for that matter). There is also another way you can handle this and that is just start flirting with other girls. She starts getting jealous? Don't even look at her, act as if you are searching for her replaceme…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:24 AM
1

Lifting will improve your posture tremendously. Working on your chest to "puff it out". Also, working on your back to pull your shoulders back so your chest sticks out more, you're not slouched over, and you stand more upright.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:15 AM
0

I was just about to start The Way of the Superior Man tomorrow. I've heard mixed reviews as well and I'm skeptical. What is NMMNG?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 12:16 AM
2

Honestly, it's all about talking with no filter. You can say just about anything if you've got a smirk on a just don't care. Once you start talking with no filter (not to be done in certain business settings) you'll realize how constricted everyone talks, because they're afraid of hurting other people's feelings.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 12:12 AM
1

The only thing I keep track of is when I'm trying to lose weight or gain weight. Even then I know the calorie count of everything I eat so I've just memorized it. I never track my workouts or have a planned set of something because some days you feel good some days you feel bad. I don't want to go in on a good feeling day and be regulated to 245x3 when I know I can crank out 1 or 2 more reps.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 03:17 PM
1

The only two girls I have as friends are 1. a self identified hoe 2. A friend-zoned girl that wants to get me into a relationship. The hoe is fun to talk to because once a girl has realized and admitted shes a slut she's got a "dude glazing". I mean she's literally said, "I'm attracted to assholes with big muscles. The other friendzoned girl I keep around because she has some reallllyyy attractive friends that she regularly sets me up with.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 02:50 PM
5

All of those plays were pretty good actually, except the Britney Griner block. Like you said not the caliber of the NBA, but definitely some good plays. Especially that no look pass.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 01:04 AM
70

As a high school team we regularly played against college girls teams to help them play at a faster more talented pace. We would regularly destroy them. It would get to a point that I would hold back in talent like saying driving in for a bucket just because it was way to easy. Honestly it was a waste of practice time for us. Let me put into context we weren't some top basketball team we were just local. We would also scrimmage the varsity girls every once in a while and us starters would just l…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 08:15 PM
2

Read the sidebar on the main Sub it should be labeled "shit test 101"
/r/askTRP03/01/15 04:06 AM
3

My father is a bodybuilder so I follow his routine while incorporating Squats and Deadlifts on its own separate day. I also do Plyrometrics for legs for basketball and military PT. Staying in shape really isnt a problem for me.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 04:00 AM
5

Listen to 'The Black Phillip Show" by Patrice O Neal. Then when you're done with that listen to The Beige Phillip Show. Their perspectives ESPECIALLY Patrice's (R.I.P.P.) are the epitome of Red Pill thinking.
/r/askTRP01/01/15 09:28 PM
2

It depends on the man. Most of us don't "date" garbage females if you're talking in terms of being exclusive. We spin plates. Since we're on the topic of garbage females I'm curious as to why your father would be the one disciplining you, as opposed to you beating the shit out of yourself (in this hypothetical situation of course) for cheating.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 01:01 AM
5

If you don't care about the relationship, then ignore it and her mentioning of it. Continue to escalate kino and all that. Close.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 12:55 AM
2

If you listen to "Let Nas Down" he raps about how the studio made him do that so it can be a radio hit. Some of the songs he does is to make money from the blue pill society, which is smart.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 04:08 PM
30

When he said, "You say your strong independent.....but you're taking alimony" the look on her face was absolutely priceless.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 05:48 PM
6

It's about honor and being a man of your word. If you have agreed to an exclusive relationship with a woman you have entered into a contract. Unless you are married this isn't a legal contract so the only thing binding you together is your word, your honor. We already know that most women are less than capable of the concept of honor, but as men we are expected to be men of our word. This goes further than sexual strategy and applies to life. For anyone to cheat it's going back on your word. So …
/r/askTRP27/12/14 05:28 PM
6

J. Cole has a lot of red pill wisdom in his songs. Not even just "fuck bitches, get money" but also how he learned his shit. Currently my favorite chorus of his: Nigga why you actin' like a ho? Know that I'ma ride for ya, either way it go Tell me, girl why you be stressin' me for time? When you tell me you love me, can't you see I'm tryna climb? Damn my nigga why you actin' like a bitch? If you scared to take a chance, how the fuck we gon' get rich? Come here baby why you always insecure? Hold o…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 05:18 PM
2

How would it go if when he asked "are you interested in target girl?" if you said "yes". Whenever my friends ask me if I'm interested in "a girl" I always say everyone is fair game.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 05:12 PM
10

A caveat to that is in a male space you're more likely to admit you are wrong to and the men are more forgiving. Male Space: "That aint right man!"..."Yeah you're right, my bad" and then you move on.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 05:07 PM
3

In the words of J. Cole.."Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved"
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 10:27 PM
6

Now, I'm on christmas break from Uni and I want to use this month to get a huge jump start on becoming fluent in spanish. Do you know the best method to do that? Classes, one on one tutors, software program?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 04:28 PM
12

I have a female friend that I consistently hang out with. (Yes, she is a friend and no I haven't fucked her because I friendzoned her and she hooks me up with her friends). I was hanging in her dorm room the other night with her, her best friend, and her hallmate. The topic got on male-female relationships and this is where I sat back and just listened. The one thing that struck me is how willing they are to just get free stuff! Dinners, movies, and other dates that require money! The real kicke…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 04:33 AM
3

To avoid the friend zone just simply "don't be friends". It's not that hard, make your intentions known. If she doesn't accept or doesn't find you attractive just move on.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 03:31 AM
7

The very first thing I thought about a minute in was, "Can I please meet your daughter?"
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 02:59 AM
6

I heard no excitement when those girls were being asked on a date. Also "Ok, I'll give you one date". I would've nexted in my mind right then and there.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 11:39 PM
10

The second paragraph really resonated with me because just recently I posted in AskTRP about what exactly "vulnerability" meant according to "Models" by Mark Manson. I always thought stoicism in a realistic sense meant never showing emotion. I tried it for awhile thinking that that was synonymous with frame, but it never felt right. Now I'm coming to the sense that showing emotion is ok and that's how you can truly connect with people, but it's the control of emotion that you must have. You can …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 01:55 AM
4

Squats AND Deadlifts. Gentlemen, heavy squats and deadlifts will have you reevaluating what's most important in life lol.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:11 PM
1

Thank you. You explained it perfectly.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 05:34 PM
3

Emotionally ready? How would one go about becoming emotionally ready?
/r/askTRP11/11/14 02:32 AM
1

I've done that as well. Like the MRA stuff only amuses me to a certain point when I'm bored. It's the personal connection I'm trying to make with the advice and being vulnerable I guess.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 02:23 AM
2

So, I'm in college and when I came back a bunch of my colleagues have been saying I'm way happier than before and they love it. I feel happy, but through this process especially going monk mode I've lost the ability to be vulnerable. This is a problem especially with girls though. I'm getting a lot of attraction from the opposite sex now and I have no problem talking to them making them laugh and whatnot and building in overall attraction but what I can't seem to do is mentally take the next ste…
/r/askTRP11/11/14 02:09 AM
6

The point of this entire manosphere is not for just women and picking up women. Even if be stagnate is fine for your woman, as a TRP male you should always be striving to improve yourself, for yourself. Speaking on what you "personally" want doesn't really apply here either because this is based off of generalizations so picking and choosing what you'd specifically want is of no help here.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:46 PM
2

Exactly. When I started lifting freshmen year of high school it was because everyone kept talking about how jacked my dad is (former body builder). We talked about it and then he took me to the gym, I hated it, but I wanted to be like him. I kept at it to make him proud and here I stand 6 foot 200 pounds and 12% bf. Lead by example.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:40 AM
3

"let's study together" is the equivalent of "come over and watch a movie" in college
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 06:13 PM
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At this point in my lifting career that sounds....disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 08:45 PM
1

That was the Chief of police I forget the actual title.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 01:47 AM
2

One of the myths is that it reduces fertility. I don't think that there are any solid long term effects that happen to everyone other than higher risk for cancer due to the chemicals.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 06:45 PM
1

Dealing with black women is the ultimate shit test IMO. Growing up with them I didn't like them because I was weak, now I like them just only if they're hot enough to put up with the immense shit testing. That's one thing black girls will do ESPECIALLY if they are not that good looking. They will shit test the fuck out of you. Back in the summer, I was in line for something being handed out to us. The black girl behind me started complaining about something really stupid and I just couldn't hand…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 06:28 PM
8

Yes, I used to think that I didn't like black girls from an early age because they were too aggressive. Turns out I was just too weak. Black women or the most confrontational women I know. Even my mom, is confrontational as hell. Dealing with her alone has taught me a lot (I still live at home so I get "shit tested" often).
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 08:36 PM
0

What do you mean "dancing by yourself" this is a part I struggle with at parties.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 03:37 PM
2

Just a little tidbit that happened last night which goes to show why I don't like working with some women in the military. Now there are a few that have their moments but are generally pretty good (I know only one in my company). I send an email to the battalion S-1 (they're in charge of announcements for the context of this example). I say "Hey! Can you make this announcement to the battalion tomorrow at formation: [Insert announcement here]. Very Respectfully, Air4ce1Jr She replies back with "…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 05:32 PM
1

I heard it was shoulder and back
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 11:47 PM
1

Just listen to Patrice O'Neal
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:07 PM
1

"A beautiful whore is like poisoned honey!"
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:06 PM
13

I like how she rattles off "'m a 21 year old college senior. I'm a straight A student taking 6 classes, I work three jobs and an internship, and I am recently out of a controlling, somewhat abusive rekationship." Like it's even relevant to the story.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:57 PM
2

If you look at the comments there is someone posting images of similar situations where women used their bodies to streamline a message. Here's one of the responses to it "...just because other groups did something almost identical in the past doesn't justify this advertising strategy." Holy Shit, this is why I avoid these type of people all together.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:07 PM
1

The problem is I live in barracks so I always have to go over there. Which sucks in terms of the power struggle. Not just with this girl but every girl.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 01:29 AM
5

That shit literally just happened this past week. I have a 4/10 fwb. She was constantly shit testing. She texted me to come over two nights ago. I said, "where are you living now?"(recently moved apartments). She replied, "Oh, I was just kidding". Hard nexted her right there because I'm not some toy and I have other girls. Knowing a little red pill knowledge I KNEW she would text me to reconcile and come fuck her. I woke up to a text this morning saying, "please, come fuck me". Since it was too …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 02:56 PM
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If a girl says something like "ABOUT 4 or 5 guys" or "AROUND 4 or 5 guys" it should automatically be raising red flags in your head. Every girl and guy (when it's a low number) knows exactly how many people they've slept with. So these key words like: around, about, or, something like. Anything that doesn't give a definite answer should be raising your first red flag.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 03:49 PM
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"If I were a boy I'd be courteous and remember to put the seat down" I never understood this one. Then why don't girls put the seat up when they're done? It's a task so miniscule that I don't even think about it, so why should I worry about your comfort over mine?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 01:30 PM
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"You'd think someone who never cries would be taken more seriously for the sentiment that his crying represents." Unfortunately it doesn't work that way,but it does work the other way around. When you cry, as a man, it's because it's something serious to you. So when you see someone cry, man or woman, you will generally think it's something serious. Woman cry for just about everything, so when they see someone else crying, they don't register it on as serious of a level.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 01:29 PM
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He's saying you need to analyze the context of the situation. What you're saying is true, but what we're trying to decipher is what if she truly "wants to wait". If she's only been with one other guy and it was her long time boyfriend of 3 years, it's pretty valid if she wants to wait before sleeping with you, in my opinion. This was posted to help us decipher the validity of her statement of "I want to wait".
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 11:30 PM
5

I've never seen the desire to have no responsibility for your actions so explicitly stated before.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 02:56 PM
1

I just think he was hungry...
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 12:19 AM
2

"What every body is saying" is a solid book that I've finished reading for my Social Psychology and Kinesics degree. If you type in "non-verbal communication" into google you can usually find the basics. A lot of learning this stuff is knowing the basics and then people watching and going out and applying it and practicing reading people. A lot of body language reading is also very contextual.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 12:15 AM
4

I want to get married because of religious reasons, but I intend to make it more of a gesture towards God and my wife. Keeping the government out of it as much as possible. Even with being in the military if you get divorced your spouse gets half NO MATTER WHAT.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:08 AM
-6

My stats were out of proportion because I usually used my leg day for plyometrics for basketball. mine were: 225 Bench. 185 squat and 225 dead, but my legs are fine cause of all the plyo I do. Now it's more proportionate but not everyone JUST lifts.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 05:15 PM
3

I get called that all the time. The "nice asshole"? Which is what I'm aiming for...being the "nice guy" who's assertive and gets what he's going for.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 08:24 PM
7

I found that part interesting because she started off the paragraph trying to say that her boyfriend is sensitive, but then that story led nowhere.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 06:11 PM
1

I never saw it as a bad thing to be a girls emotional tampon if she's my girlfriend or a plate that is LTR material. It's relieving to know that I'm emotionally strong enough for two people. The only time I don't deal with girls emotions is if I'm not sleeping with them or if I don't consider them LTR material.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 04:15 PM
2

He also could be masturbating too much. Sometimes guys get into a lull with too much masturbating because it's generally effortless and you don't have to worry about another person's needs.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 05:40 PM
1

I was in the exact same position you're in right now about 5 months ago. I did a couple things to get out of the funk of unhappiness. I sat down and truly thought about what I was unhappy about in my life. For me it was being lonely and not really putting my full potential or effort into my studies. Every time a friend asked me to hang out I'd make up some excuse. My life consisted of lifting and watching tv apart from school. What I did was remedy those isolated negative feelings I was having a…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 01:36 AM
1

If you're interested in more deciphering of body language/non verbal communication than check out "What ever BODY is saying". It's a great intro into reading body language. This is my field of study and it's the first book I read to get interested in it. There are also other books that focus on attraction and relationships as well.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 02:48 PM
8

Dont forget the "ask your PARTNER for permission to kiss"
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 03:49 PM
18

The irony because when I ask a female why they have to wear such skimpy clothes in the gym it's always "because it's comfortable" and "you have no right to tell me what to wear"
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 03:48 PM
4

I skipped over that stuff cause at some point they were using so many words that I don't even know the meaning of.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 03:47 PM
1

As a pretty much textbook introvert I like to do a lot of introspection. I realized something was missing in my life. I knew it had something to do with lifting but I just couldn't get a finger on it. One day I realized that the ideal was "self improvement".
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 02:08 AM
7

"Expect him to get up in the night with the kids" -Yeah no problem I'll pull my weight if she's working full time as well. "You know what, you have to work, too.......or you might be a stay at home mom. It doesn’t matter. You have stuff to do" -Nope if your job is to stay at home and take care of the kids then you're getting up all the time.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 06:40 PM
3

Originally I lifted for aesthetics. at 6ft 200lbs its started to get pointless then I switched my focus to powerlifting and I'm loving it.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 03:15 AM
1

Why are you sleeping on the couch? It's your bed. You don't have to be as sloppy just to prove a point. You can eat healthy if you want, you don't have to play these kind of mind games. I'd say you're on the right track though.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 03:12 AM
2

I've had two female 1SG and 1 Male. Both tried to be very passive aggressive. Male one was very good. Had a female commander which is the one I previously stated. Knew her shit and did her job well. Wasn't a bitch and she really didn't have to be firm, she did have a tendency to get flustered/frustrated though. I think she owes her leadership presence to her confidence.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 08:55 PM
8

If you made more money she'd really have no reason to complain.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 08:49 PM
-5

Having a female as your commanding officer or first sergeant is even worse. Not all the time of course, but I've worked for one female that actually did a better job than most males.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 04:05 PM
-4

I consider myself to be in transition to Alpha +
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 03:36 AM
-1

This. While in Italy I stayed with one of my friends for about two weeks once. His daughter is 15, she does act like a typical naive girl with the whole "love" thing, but when it comes to housework, not talking back, and cooking she is spot on. Italian is her first language but she also speaks german, spanish, and english. She's also a straight A student. At 15 she's already better than at least 70% of the girls in the US
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 03:29 AM
0

"always eager to add new tools to my arsenal for controlling my wife." Is where I stopped reading in your post.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 11:42 PM
1

Monk mode is the best especially since I'm still in school. I did it last year over the three month summer break and when I came back it was great to see the change in how people treated me.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 01:31 PM
3

Completely Relevant https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OT1PhUp2lNU His mindset towards motivation in inspiring.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 04:21 AM
2

Which one of the males in this video is not like the other? !!!
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:29 AM
5

Same I'm 19 and I'm cringing at the stuff I did for 5 years since high school. I couldn't imagine decades of cringeworthy moments.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 12:40 AM
1

this exactly. If you watch the show Louie then you can tell he knows exactly the difference between beta and alpha qualities. He chooses to cash in on the beta. He's made a lot of money doing it.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 08:42 PM
3

What also strikes me is why aren't guys allowed to go shirtless?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 08:39 PM
1

That's exactly how I found it. I was got nostalgic, watched the entire trilogy again and then....the rest is history
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 12:27 AM
12

From our point of view that makes complete sense, but from his point of view, why not run with his tail tucked between his legs? He's still got money, girls will still want to fuck him, and his business still remains intact. He'd be creating a hassle in his life for nothing. Just like arguing with a feminist, what's the point?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 03:20 PM
0

The majority of your compliments will be guys. The girls DO notice, they just don't say it. If you talk to them long enough it will slip out though. People stop to hear me talk now that I have a lot of muscle (I'm the stereotypical "big black guy") which in my profession (military) pays HUGE dividends.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 02:45 AM
1

What? If anything the black people I meet are always the easiest to garner respect or at least not to be openly disrespected. Even the ones from a lower socioeconomic standing, while they may not fit into a more corporate/temperance society, are some of the most alpha mindsetted people. Albeit, just like in "The Rationale Male", their alpha mindset is misplaced.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:27 PM
1

You do have to wade through the bull shit but honestly most of it is just capitalizing on what people want to hear. If you listen to the music that isn't promoted by record labels that the main stream artists produce then you can find what you're looking for. Even J. Cole on "Let Nas Down" told us how he was pressured into making "Power Trip" and that's not the kind of music he wants to make.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:20 PM
3

Last minute resistance. The last shit test a girl will throw at you right before you close.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 03:54 AM
1

I use to be like that before my GF left me for another dude. I took her back too and we hadn't even had sex yet. Not thinking rationally will have you doing dumb things and I was out of control. I'm very glad it happened though, because it opened my eyes.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 03:29 AM
17

Just decrease her to a common plate and know she's not LTR material. No sense on you missing out on sex.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 02:23 AM
3

Just google "Nonverbal Communication" and search for whatever you want: attraction from the opposite sex, business negotiations, or even casual conversations.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 09:42 PM
8

There's a lot on social psychology and kinesics that people can research on their own in this field. Playing with hair, Hair placement that reveals the neck, and even foot placement. One general rule is that the further away from the brain the body part is the less conscious control that have and the more subconscious cues will be given. For example if your in a conversation with someone and both their feet are pointed towards you then they are engaged in the conversation.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 06:14 PM
14

I'm interested to see more tests form other people.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 07:41 PM
1

It's really personal preference. In terms of just getting big hypertrophy is the way to go, but I found that a combination of both is the way to go. So Whatever compound I train for like Bench Press, the first half of my workout will be for strength. Then on the second half of the workout is focused on getting the muscle bigger. I was able to make phenomenal gains on a split like this.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 06:18 PM
2

The "nice guy(blue pill)" and the red pill "you just don't take shit when it comes by". THis is the equilibrium that I want as a man, but I don't know if it's sustainable in terms of relationships and not getting cheated on.
/r/askTRP11/05/14 05:51 PM
1

I was trying to spin this girl as a plate and I also thought she was a virgin. While talking to her I kept on repeating to myself AWALT AWALT AWALT. In my heart of hearts I didn't truly believe it, but I kept thinking it to remind myself. She just admitted to be (drunk of course) that she has ridden the carousel yada yada yada . At least this time I wasn't caught off guard and now I know she can be an excellent slutty plate.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 05:45 AM
9

I don't see where he was saying she was disproving TRP
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 12:58 AM
39

"Do what you have to do, so you can do what you want to do" - Dad
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 08:43 PM
1

Mentally I'm on a high, but physically I'm burnt out. So unless I get a nap in before class I can't focus.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 05:24 PM
2

Could you be a little more specific in what you'd want us to share? I'm only 19 so my middle school/high school BP moments are still fresh.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 05:22 PM
16

Calisthenics and running to wake up. Swimming and weightlifting to go to sleep. If you just want to be tired enough to go to bed, swim.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 04:36 PM
21

The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 02:03 AM
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Natural Selection
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 05:46 PM
9

I want children as well. I'm glad I found TRP when I did though (currently 19). It's made me realize that I would only have kids with a woman that basically has swallowed the pill as well. If that never happens I'm fine with never getting married/having kids.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 05:43 PM
9

1
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:59 PM
1

Good post. The problem I have, mainly, is finding what my identity is or rather finding what best suits it.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 09:03 PM
1

Do not admit to drug use UNLESS it's in your medical record for some reason (like hospitalized for an overdose). With the military downsizing and all they'll say it can be waived but they'd rather take the guy who hasn't done drugs to save the paperwork.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 04:08 AM
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You can also take a TRP lesson from lifting weights. Right now I find myself scared to do a few things. At first it was talking to girls, but I remembered two things: 1. I can pick up 350 pounds off the ground with my bare fucking hands. What am I scared of messing up with a girl for? 2. Each time I failed a 1 rep max did I stop lifting or care what others in the gym thought? No I regrouped trained and tried again. What's the difference in girls? So lifting kind of helped me there. The next fear…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 04:07 AM
1

I get what you're saying. Is it wrong to apologize when you do fuck up or just wrong in this scenario because you're trying to fuck her? I would've said something like "my fault" as soon as I spilled the drink. And then if she gave me shit for it then to maintain frame, but I don't see the problem in acknowledging that you did in fact spill. Can someone help me out here?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 05:10 PM
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It seems like every "I'm sure she's not cheating" turns into "I can't believe that bitch cheated on me!"
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 12:39 AM
2

I was always a natural "asshole" so to speak. My problem is the pedestal. More or less through many years of Military School I developed a command presence and I was also the Basketball and Football captain in high school. I got into a relationship through red pill techniques even those I was unaware I was using them. As soon as I got dumped I began looking inwards. I realized that as a kid I wouldn't care about girls. I would treat them badly and they didn't mind, as long as I hung out with fri…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 08:23 PM
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/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 04:28 PM
6

It's illegal for us to carry firearms on base inside the states. It does take MPs/Security Forces a little bit of time to respond just like the police in the civilian world.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 05:56 PM
12

I guarantee you that this is spot on accurate. Guys do it, but girls do it even more.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 11:54 AM
2

Please please please report back. If she gets physical (punching you in the face) There is absolutely no problem with physically restraining a women and literally throwing her out of your house.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 10:48 PM
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I find it extremely hilarious (and hypocritical) that a guy who just got divorced is telling people how to "love" or be successful at marriage. No matter how good the advice I will always stop at "My advice after a divorce following 16 years of marriage, by Gerald Rogers. Obviously, I’m not a relationship expert."
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 03:09 AM
3

I've always been asshole so my friends are used to it. I wasn't completely blue pill but my friends are way more red pill than me. I'm african american and giving into the stereotype a little, my friends are all about the whole "no bullshit, do what I want attitude". I always thought they were "ungentlemanlke". Man, what little I knew...
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 06:04 PM
1

Yeah, I see my grammatical error. I lifted six days a week, slept every night.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 05:51 PM
5

Some of them are actually solid "You will learn to like beer. I promise." Maybe not solid for girls though. "Put down your phone. Those status updates will still be there." "Call your mom." "Read good books. They never go out of style, and there are more out there besides “Pride and Prejudice.”" "Don’t be embarrassed about your dreams. People can’t help you if they don’t know what you want." "He does not have to check in with you." !!!1 "The fewer selfies you post, the more people like you times…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 04:42 PM
6

It was. /fit/ is nice to go and get a good laugh and that's about it.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 11:21 AM
5

I switch between workout routines. When I'm home I have more time to workout so I follow a ABABABx routine. When I'm at school I follow an AxBxCxx. The "x' being rest days. Generally if my workload isn't heavy then I'll do the first routine. What it stems down too is the first routine is A day- Chest, Shoulders, Back. B day- Legs and Arms. The ABC is this http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/wotw21.htm it's the second place workout. The only reason I workout 6 days a week is because I had ample enoug…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 01:06 AM
8

Don't mind at all.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 12:09 AM
65

I did this for four months May-August. I went into Cocoon mode. I already lifted, but for these three months I lifted (and slept) for 6 days a week and more intense than ever. I would only hang out with friends on Saturday night after my morning lift (Sunday was rest day anyways). Mentally I started reading a lot more and just extracurricular stuff for my major. When I went back to my university the first thing people said was, "Wow you got jacked." This was mainly from guys, but I later found o…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 11:51 PM
1

I have plenty of girls hold the door for me, but it's kind of common at my uni for someone to open the door, look back, and hold it or let it go depending on the distance. (girls included)
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 10:37 PM
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