Recently I've seen a lot of people commenting on the supposed hypocrisy of the ideas we state here at TRP. On one hand, we say that sluts are poor LTR/marriage material, and on the other we promote techniques to make women put out as fast as possible. There is no hypocrisy here, what you need to do is analyze the context of the situation.

When a woman says she wants to wait to have sex, it can be boiled down to two different reasons:

  1. It's her anti-slut defense, she wants to cover up the fact that she's easy as fuck

  2. She really does want to wait for sex

Most people here advocate that meaning 1 is the only meaning, and that's well-justified given the proliferation of hookup/ONS culture these days. However, there are also more LTR-minded women, more innocent women, and women who are smarter about their sexual capital out there. How can you tell the difference? You need to analyze the context, a skill that will serve you well throughout your life. Here are a few contextual clues that will clue you in:

Age: The easiest clue. The younger she is, the more likely she is to be number 2. Your age is also relevant, especially if you guys are both in college, (or for the younger guys here, high school).

Past sexual partners: This is harder to find out about, but equally important. It's pretty obvious, the more sexual partners she has had, the more of a pump and dump she is.

How much she talks about it: If she mentions "I'm not easy", "we're not having sex on the first night", etc., she's a slut.

Her friends: If her friends are sluts, she's probably a slut.

Where you met her: If you met her at a club or bar, most likely she's a slut. Nightlife is designed to provide endless validation to women, to the point where a 7/10 blonde with fake tits is going to get 10x more attention then all but the most rich and famous men.

On the topic of sluts and pretty much everything else that is said here, be capable of analyzing the context. There is no hypocrisy here, everything exists on a spectrum and as an rational person you should be able to gauge where a situation lies on the spectrum and be able to act accordingly.

Edit: People are commenting saying that I am missing certain possibilities like her trying to get more attention or force you to spend more time/money on her. Look, if she's had no/low-commitment sex, she no longer fits under category 2. That's all there is to it, if you want to pursue her make sure to escalate quickly and be ready to drop her.