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I feel like I was the same. That was until I actually decided that I should try to get to know a girl and see her as something other then just a chance to get a nut. Since then its helped me feel genuine feelings for the first time in a while and it feels good. I'd say give it a shot
/r/seduction08/10/15 07:53 PM
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It's what you make it. Any college you go to will put you in a position where you are surrounded by people you do not know. It is up to you to decide how you will approach that. My advice would be to meet as many people as you can.
/r/seduction20/10/14 09:51 PM
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There is nothing wrong with you, it is the same feeling every guy has. I feel as if you spend too much time studying pickup as opposed to trying to practice it. Since you already have a vast knowledge of what to do stop reading about it for a while. And when you are ready to go approach a girl, take a couple deep breaths and start walking. Do not think about what you are going to say or how you are going to say it as you are walking towards a girl, just focus on literally anything else, even you…
/r/seduction20/10/14 07:03 AM
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One tip I can give you is to not reference where you met them. Referencing where you met them could make you seem as someone who is easily forgettable. By giving her just your name makes it seem that you are more confident in the fact that she SHOULD have remembered you. It is a really small thing but it does make a difference
/r/seduction23/09/14 02:28 AM
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when you say you get physical with them, do you mean you are just reciprocating her physical motions or are you escalating? The constant issue I see in each one of your examples is that your confidence seems to fade after the approach. Considering all these take place in a bar/club, the key is escalation. These girls are there to get picked up so you have to show them that is what you are going to do.
/r/seduction19/09/14 09:09 PM
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Confidence will not come out of thin air. It sounds lame but you gotta have a fake it 'till you make it type of mentality with this stuff. Every guy has the image they portray and the image that they want to portray. Just get out there an try your very best to be that guy who you imagine yourself being, and make sure that every time you here that voice in your head telling you "this is not who you really are" you silence it. As for the alcohol issue, try just drinking a bit less each time and yo…
/r/seduction19/09/14 09:01 PM
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Since youre usually at a party and especially the fact that they're frat parties these girls for the most part are not looking for too much conversation. In a party environment escalation is key. Just keep getting slightly more and more intimate with the girl while talking with her ( remember it's not what you say but how you say it) and do not stop escalation until it is clear she is uncomfortable with it. But so long as you do it with confidence you will succeed my friend. Try it out and let m…
/r/seduction18/09/14 06:49 AM
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its will only sound desperate if you think it is a desperate thing to do. I'd say ask one more time and if you notice she is giving you a lame excuse then move on.
/r/seduction17/09/14 10:05 PM
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If she is shy then a good way to start out with her is through texting and once you feel she is comfortable with you ask her out again, if she is saying no consistently after this however I'd recommend moving onto another girl. good luck buddy
/r/seduction17/09/14 09:03 PM
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No problem dude
/r/seduction10/08/14 12:34 AM
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Not all are, but the insecure ones can be. Just like how some guys gain confidence in themselves by hooking up with multiple girls, some girls gain confidence by being able to keep one guy interested for a long period of time.
/r/seduction10/08/14 12:07 AM
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She's using you to attempt to validate herself. By you asking her out she feels wanted and by her rejecting you she feels powerful. Delete her number and remove her from your social networks. Move on to the next one bruh.
/r/seduction09/08/14 11:56 PM
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very true. the more time there is to think, the more time there is to think of excuses thanks (:
/r/seduction08/08/14 05:49 PM
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Thanks man really helpful advice. That is my current mentality, hopefully I have the balls to actually come through and meet my own expectations
/r/seduction08/08/14 06:05 AM
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There's nothing wrong with asking if they are single or not, as your story shows you never did receive a truly negative response. Perhaps asking the question in a more playful way could help. If you're nervous and stuttering at the beginning try taking some pressure off yourself by making your approach less serious. Even cheesy lines work better than people would think because they break the awkwardness of the situation.
/r/seduction17/06/14 05:16 AM
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Personally I think tinder would be great for practice but I feel like it could also halt ones in person game. I could see myself being out one night and it isn't going well and then just thinking to myself "well screw it I can just go on tinder later" and using it as sort of a excuse to not have to talk to any girls in person that night. That's just me though
/r/seduction17/06/14 05:08 AM
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