Starting university in the fall, any tips?

elttek99 · 2014-08-08T06:55:43+00:00

Learn the basics of strong, powerful body language. Invest in good quality, well fitted clothing if you haven't already. These two simple steps will enhance your social status immediately in the eyes of people who don't know you. It also creates a huge confidence boost just by knowing you look good. Always walk like you know where you're going/have a purpose. Walk upright and don't slouch or look at the ground. Be conscious of you posture. Confidence makes the man.
Meet/talk to/flirt with as many people as you can. Let go of your ego. Become a sponge and learn from others. "You learn more by listening than talking"
Try to leave your comfort zone frequently and seek new experiences. Try to take other people out of their comfort zones.
Take calculated risks and be alright with making mistakes. Regret is worse than rejection.
Have fun.

gridcitykid · 2014-08-08T05:50:28+00:00

If I could do it all over again, the one thing I would tell myself on move-in day: Talk to everyone. Everyone.

This doesn't just mean girls, it means literally everyone. Dudes that live close to you, classmates, professors, everyone. The networking you can do in college is incredible because you pretty much meet at least one new person every day. The connections become pretty useful a couple years down the road.

Once you're walking to class and saying what's up to at least a couple people on the way, you'll become the "how do you know so many people" guy, which is social proof through the fucking roof. From there it's pretty easy.

A couple other random college things:

Don't bring too much shit. Realistically you need zero things besides a laptop, your phone, wallet, and clothes. Force yourself to go do stuff by having nothing in your room.
Sit by and introduce yourself to the hottest girl you see on the first day of class. She knows zero people there, you know zero people there. You'll at least get to sit together for the semester and she'll introduce you to her hot friends.
You don't remember the nights you went to sleep early. Seriously. If someone invites you out, you go out. This doesn't mean do any less schoolwork than you would otherwise, you just have to manage your time and do it all during the day. You won't regret meeting more cool people the night before.

blownstang · 2014-08-09T00:08:54+00:00

Talk to people and be OPEN. Being open is something most aren't used to when stepping foot into college.

JustDoMeee · 2014-08-09T01:44:00+00:00

Here have this tip. Tips le fedora

MuchMouthen · 2014-08-08T14:10:34+00:00

Get a fake id immediately.

Join a frat asap.

Make friends with your RA if you can. You can use this to your advantage later.

Find older kids to hang out with (esp if in a frat type thing)

Find an alcohol hookup so you can be sure to get invited to lots of dorm parties. Pay for it if you have to. It will pay you dividends later. Even better, get a fake id (noted above).

Hit the gym. Bulk up / get into great shape.

Title	Starting university in the fall, any tips?
Author	Albanianmagic
Upvotes	16
Comments	12
Date	August 8, 2014 5:25 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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