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She could just want that, thats when you have to get the ability to see if its shit test or ir she is saying the truth in which case you have to respect her agenda and tell her your intentions.
/r/seduction10/05/19 12:47 PM
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I don't think so, nobody wants to meet someone boring as well as nobody wants to meet anyone that goes over the top, so find the balance even if it's uncomfortable until it becomes 2nd nature. Don't be so perfectionist or it will make you approach anxiety and incapacity to act. Step by step, sometimes with comfort other times with uncomfort.
/r/seduction08/05/19 02:29 PM
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acknowledging you disturbing her in the street is weird from the start but you did it because you found her cute (state of empathy) and after that avoid being weird
/r/seduction03/05/19 07:39 AM
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outside the places you dont meet them clearly
/r/seduction03/05/19 06:30 AM
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friendzoned
/r/seduction03/05/19 06:24 AM
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look 101 texting todd v on youtube
/r/seduction26/04/19 12:54 PM
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Who gave you my snapchat wink emoji
/r/seduction26/04/19 12:54 PM
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5 4 3 2 1 before thinking one, talk. Make sure you approach her in front of you or she will scared or creeped. Our brain likes countdowns.
/r/seduction26/04/19 08:52 AM
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Just be patient or it will backfire.
/r/seduction23/04/19 11:04 PM
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Some coaches in game have taught being direct as a form of confidence, but it is not even a way to convey confidence but neediness. By rushing things, you demonstrate 2 things: 1. You cannot read her signals about you being pushy 2. You do not have that many abundance because if you had, she would be the one chasing more and don't closing up. Just to clarify I'm not telling that I think you are like this 2 points, I'm just telling you what is conveyed to her when you are being too pushy. Anythin…
/r/seduction23/04/19 09:44 PM
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It can work for short groups or lonely, but not for large, for large you can be dominant but not as direct as you say because if they look at first your intentions they will be the first to pit the hot girl out of you, and make her think you are not worthy. Instead tou should focus mainly on geniunely being intesrested in whole group and in parallel showing interest to he, But first of all you have to win the opinion of the majority of the group or they will be your first enemies in terms of int…
/r/seduction22/04/19 08:39 PM
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Mm ok I didnt undesratnd you wanted help with that sticking points til now. I pledged to only approach really hot girls and only take number if I really connect with a hot girl, so easy approaches, when mediocre girls sit by themselves etc. are off the table. I also tend to do this, first girls I find attractive and only more with her if I think she is interesting or there is a connection. Everyday I approach at least one girl whom I already approached before, because out of 15 000 students and …
/r/seduction22/04/19 07:50 PM
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If you have any question tell me and I tell you how I do it
/r/seduction22/04/19 07:04 PM
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Ofc I'm oversimplifying a lot, but I don't want to lose time explaining all I do.
/r/seduction22/04/19 07:03 PM
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Is your approach based on lines or on behaviors?
/r/seduction22/04/19 07:01 PM
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My approach is just knowing the basic skills of game and social cues plus believing yourself is gonna be portrayed always. This video explains it. and if it clicks on you is so powerful you wont even need warmups I think. https://youtu.be/V9MDl4RC2_8 I don't use warmups, instead I do 5 second countdown and try to breathe through belly all the time to stay relaxed. I think your medium number of approach to date is pretty good, try to cut it down a bit progressively. Any more questions?
/r/seduction22/04/19 06:56 PM
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seems solid
/r/seduction22/04/19 06:31 AM
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I'm just telling you is strange that level of crushness and engagement with someone you only talked a few times... Therefore being needy
/r/seduction22/04/19 02:59 AM
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Everyone knows how to playfullytease and the use of irony since we are kids.
/r/seduction22/04/19 02:56 AM
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Its crazy how people overfantisize things nowadays and put over a pedestal because the things they imagine in their head
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:29 PM
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You are overfantazising, overthinking and being reeeeally needy. You can go talk to her immediately instead of bullshit social media little kids games. But I tell one thing: If you enter a relstionship in such level of scarcity, neediness and dependency it will affect you sooner or later. So I would recommend before trying any relationship or date, fix your problems with neediness and clinginess or it can hurt you and backfire in so many ways.
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:27 PM
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He has no game plus no acting skills :D
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:19 PM
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Connection is different than being cravy or needy of her. F.e. He still hasnt connected a lot with her as he says but he craves her, that's the problem. Ofc you can inmediately feel conection(although this not happens most of the times, it's built throughout the dates), but not even before making it.
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:11 PM
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Approaching
/r/seduction21/04/19 09:25 PM
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I can learn english through time and practice but you probably won't be able to game as it requires to throw your bad ego away and it seems you have a lot of it.
/r/seduction21/04/19 09:11 PM
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It is still better to try meet irl as you say than online for your skills and other few things, so at least you have that more clear than a lot of other people.
/r/seduction21/04/19 09:09 PM
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Overanalyzing, worrying too much, overthinking if doing or not first steps, thinking that she is a special one already. When a guy has more abundance, he likes the girl after some dates if he sees she has value, not even before having a date with her, see that point? If you get so caught without even having a date you are getting needy for someone you don't even completely know therefore is all fantasy in your head. Hope it makes sense, for me it does.
/r/seduction21/04/19 09:01 PM
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You are being clingy and needy already... and that is never good.
/r/seduction21/04/19 08:56 PM
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This is far better than the other, and is all tou need to know, simple and effective, without woo woo like Torero: https://youtu.be/7OZebLs6v7o
/r/seduction21/04/19 08:54 PM
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You have a problem, how would you react to someone saying hey can i help with the map? is like fuck that guy scared me, how dafuq knows im lost, has he been stalking me? Or hey the fishes on the water, wtf. The approach is done by conveying first that is strange that you approach, and second the reason why u did (you liked her style or whatever). No one approaches like they've been having a conversation of 15 minutes before. And then hating them as if you even had a relationship with them, super…
/r/seduction21/04/19 08:49 PM
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I tell you what happened probably. He is bored of his gf and as he doesn't probably have much girl social circle, he got needy from you after making out and now he wants to see where he can go with you. Nit only he is cheater, he also has 0 girls in his life and needy af. What we call a BETA. Do you want a beta?
/r/seduction21/04/19 08:45 PM
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You are retarded and autistic. You have ego problems and your approaches are strange af from minute 0
/r/seduction21/04/19 08:41 PM
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This is all you need https://youtu.be/7OZebLs6v7o
/r/seduction21/04/19 08:40 PM
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Pointing out that behavior is 1. doing that you are comfortable with that and you got her sign 2. sayed playfully and TEASINGLY can turn her more invested than simple and boring "the teacher bla bla bla"
/r/seduction21/04/19 06:10 PM
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Dunno why ppl downvoted tho. If you give this compliments when you thougtfully think them on the person without manipulation it is really good.
/r/seduction21/04/19 06:08 PM
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Teach them instead of feeding your ego because you are better than them. BETA
/r/seduction21/04/19 04:13 PM
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Worked for what? hahaha is pretty neutral as she didnt ask anything back. BETA
/r/seduction21/04/19 04:11 PM
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Idiot...Not only manipulative also needy, if you come back she will kick your nuts.
/r/seduction21/04/19 04:09 PM
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Just make a countdown in your head from 5 to 1, and in the one say hi to someone without scaring them. After this do the same but with girls you like. And as a punish if you don't do it you are forced to dance 30 seconds in the street. This is a good action method for pushing yourself.
/r/seduction21/04/19 03:31 PM
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Yes, she is clearly minimally interested. Go and introduce yourself saying that you noticed sometimes you 2 crossed eye contact and smiles.
/r/seduction21/04/19 03:26 PM
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Try to stay calm, dude. Seems she is already interested a bit in you, so calm your tits. For touching look "calibrated physical escalation" on youtube. For talking: speak emotionally rather than logical(women tend to be more emotional talkers), don't ask single ended questions, don't make and blast her with questions (it's not an interrogatory), talk anything that comes through your mind even if it's stupid, show your strengths, show your vulnerabilities, do "active listening" (search youtube), …
/r/seduction21/04/19 03:25 PM
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You cannot go to anyone without having a proper intro convo or small talk, is something he has to deal with anyways. And speaking emotional opens up people for more fun and interesting topics than logical convo. So I think my point on last commentary is pretty spot on.
/r/seduction21/04/19 03:11 PM
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I edited full comment dunno if you saw the PD. (It's so straight outta movies that if it works like that will make her melt for things been happened like that)
/r/seduction21/04/19 01:39 PM
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Don't go directly at home because even she had 100% sure she was going to fuck you then(which is not the case), the next time you would have needed to go a bit below the level of sexual tension and escalation than last interaction. Given the case, I would recommend this plan: Go take small brunch to a caffe, take a walk and invite her to your house and cook together or have something prepared. You can say her that you want to go to a caffe, small brunch, take walk and you invite her to lunch at …
/r/seduction21/04/19 01:33 PM
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Most of girls don't, believe I've met a lot of women and some of them told me they dont actually like it, when their ex did it they said they like it to not offend him, or they did it so they can send theirs without feeling guilty, but the fact of you sending them dick pic they don't like it at all. I also talk from experience, so don't be so offended if you also do... or I could say your ego is hurt for not being correct.
/r/seduction21/04/19 12:51 PM
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Last interaction she had to leave on a really high sexual tension or not?
/r/seduction21/04/19 12:48 PM
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Are you trying to make us feed your ego? Hope not. Anyways. don't ask for schedule normally, most of girls will see that as if you can adapt to her schedule so you are not that busy, making you a bit lower value, normally. In this girl can work as she seems she has a syrange schedul for work so she understands it. Ask her for a day you know or suspect she is mostly free (I wouldnt ask her again, just risk for a day, but say that you are going to do x if she wants to join you, that way if she say…
/r/seduction21/04/19 12:20 PM
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When social skills and game are overthought and overanalyzed...
/r/seduction21/04/19 12:13 PM
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Its a whole topic on pickup, search it on youtube I don't want you to explain everything. But basically, is complimenting her attitude or personality from time to time, a personality trait you like about her after she says f.e.: "I love cats because I treat rhem like my littoe baby etc", then you say to her I like that of you because it shows that you are a caring person. That way she feels invested more in the conversation, that you actively listen. But it has to be meaningful and that you beli…
/r/seduction21/04/19 11:42 AM
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Sex memes = pics?. I'm not talking about only nudes. Sex arousal with words should be done mainly irl interaction, but if you want to do it on text dont do it as direct as sexting(even if its not pics but direct sex things) instead tease with word in a subtile form and let rhe rest for irl interaction
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:38 AM
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Gonfor a leather shoulder bag or leg bag.
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:34 AM
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As WIA20xx said on his comment, is arookie mistake that women don't want on their inbox at all.
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:24 AM
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This is retarded
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:20 AM
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Exactly. Is completely idiotic and even sexting is, they don't like it as we men do. Teasing with words on a subtile form is more powerful as it leaves to open imagination and fantasy and they achieve further arousal.
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:20 AM
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All girls don't want you so sext idiots, they think it is really weird and that you only see them as meat. Even if they do it to you, I can assure you most of them don't want your dick pics back. Teasing with words is more powerful for them, because leaves it open imagination for them to arouse further than a dick pic.
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:19 AM
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a jacket with inside pockets and you distribite everything between it and your trousers pockets
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:17 AM
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First of all, you avoid the friendzone by doing things right, not by spending a lot of time with her, you can still spend a lot of time with her and still not be friendzoned if you do things right. Improve calibrated physical escalation, "qualifiy her", and search YouTube for mechanisms on building trust and comfort with her (so she can open up and try to get something with you). If she is really convinced out of her 4,5 years relationship she doesn't want anything, then you should respect her a…
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:16 AM
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For sure, but you have to learn social intelligence, social skills, game and empathy. If you think you can't do shit with your condition, you have ego and self esteem problem, check this next video, if the point he makes clicks on you, you will never see yourself as unworthy no matter how and that feeling will come through women as if you had higher value even if you tell them you have no job or career: https://youtu.be/V9MDl4RC2_8 Marni Wing Girl (YouTube) has a video(that I not remember the na…
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:10 AM
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That's pretty obvious but some ppl tend to forget it
/r/seduction20/04/19 06:17 PM
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For sure. But don't call them pussy man... is a bit mysoginistic although I know you didnt do that on purpose.
/r/seduction20/04/19 06:15 PM
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ok, but depending on the link I will not open it
/r/seduction20/04/19 05:13 PM
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What I told you should be more than enough... https://youtu.be/og1DZLKpJSY https://youtu.be/a5PyK_pMcoc https://youtu.be/jU8c-XWpgsc You have more than enough with all this, go and apply it or will be time lost watching it for forgetting it.
/r/seduction20/04/19 04:23 PM
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If you were able to accomplish that, forget about talking to them because you can still do that again at a party and make them come to you without you having even tried. If you now try to engage them they will think you don't really have more girls to choose from. So I would recommend keep dancing without alcohol, as it seemed to make results and don't worry about approaching them out of the party. If you want to do it, then organise or assist to a party, and invite them beforehand, and in that …
/r/seduction20/04/19 02:14 PM
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Go to jeremy fragrance YouTube channel he has a video for every specific needs on fragrances and colognes.
/r/seduction20/04/19 02:05 PM
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Sorry i thought you refer to this as shaven sideburns https://images.app.goo.gl/9KhswRsWVTQM1sWHA. Now I understand qhat you menat by side burns. they should be faded to the length of mid ear but not completely shaven as rhe photo as it only looka good on black guys. I didnt understand it well, srry I'm not native. Ofc sideburns should be shaved but no to the point of the photo I put before. Just faded at mid ear or entrance of the ear. Thanks for all the hate downvotes for me not understanding …
/r/seduction20/04/19 02:00 PM
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Is more about how you say or do things than what you say or do. There are no lines that will make her melt instantly, normally. https://youtu.be/sGYpGgAPURs https://youtu.be/s_0FnbSKXzA watch them in 2x speed and tell me if you need more.
/r/seduction20/04/19 01:27 PM
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I agree with you about looks for potential results but not for an excuse, as you can read in the anterior comment. I only saw the first image, now that I see it I think you need to build more muscle, maybe up to 10kg more, I would recommend 4 times per week of gym( 2 upper body 2 legs), buy a dumbbell for home up to 15kg on plates of 2.5 kg and a yoga mat( with this you want to do the days that you dont go to the gym do forearm workout at home in 20 minutes, the yoga mat for 6 days a week of ab …
/r/seduction20/04/19 01:15 PM
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thus video will help for your ego and self-esteem. problems that carry you over to eye contact https://youtu.be/V9MDl4RC2_8 He makes a solid point that if it clicks in your head will make you more confident. This used to happen to me and what I tried is practicing first with ppl I know well(family to finally female friends) then with girls that are not attractive at all, then normal girls and finally hot girls. You can also tell ppl or friends to make eye contact battles for fun. Also stretch yo…
/r/seduction20/04/19 12:59 PM
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that is a rlly good post
/r/seduction20/04/19 12:53 PM
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Girls are repulsed by shaven sideburns if it's done on white guys. On black guys. they think it's attractive. Ans beard will make his jaw less pointy. just look at Ryan Gosling when he is with beard or not, he is better off wirh beard or his mouth looks elongated and strange.
/r/seduction20/04/19 12:47 PM
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If it it's the club try to move your body dancing a bit towards their side, but really subtile like you are not. What you want to try is that they join you dancing first for a while then introduce yourself. Or go straight to them (only if you know clearly they want something from you) and confidently say "I noticed you are looking at me" and introduce yourself to whole group or only her. Outside the club, just do the same as I said in second point: "I noticed you are looking at me" and introduce…
/r/seduction20/04/19 12:44 PM
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First of all, for getting girls you don't need any shit. Believe me, you will start saying oh I need gym before I pickup girls, oh I need a job before i pickup girls, oh I need a private space or a house tonbe able to pickup girls, and then when you open your eyes you are 30,your excuses are over and the reality is sad. So start now. That said is obvious more attractive or fit, more results but not necessarily. By the photo I cannot see your body, by your face I can say you have oblong face shap…
/r/seduction20/04/19 12:38 PM
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Yes but he's not in that company anymore. I think his program is "The System". IMO hes the best on the field.
/r/seduction20/04/19 12:23 PM
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Do you have todd v, rsd max, rsd jeff, rsd sarah or bradicus programs? The only ones I want to hear about
/r/seduction20/04/19 12:22 PM
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Talk about feelings. F.e. explain your hobbie as a passion thing evwn if its nerdy. Show your vulnerabilities. Spike her emotions through positive moments, and neutral ones. Active listening is really rare on guys and she will feel good and soecial if you do it. Stop speaking logically and start doing it emotionally, I think you know what I mean. Sparking sexual attraction it can be by uust being confident, or not being embarrassed of showing yourself sexually, dancing freely, calibrated physica…
/r/seduction20/04/19 10:14 AM
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Then it could be she randomly add you because of fb algorithm (location, interests or whatever) showed her your profile and she tends to add everyone fb recommends. Or she is interested, just tell her by text, "It's a bit strange you added me, what do you want from me mysterious girl?"
/r/seduction20/04/19 09:59 AM
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"qualifying" her when she does soemthing or has a personality trait you like (search on youtube). Physical escalation. And most importantly active listening with feedback every now and then to her https://youtu.be/--m-L-1C280 Everyone is different. But generally, true confidence looks and style, for first impressions. Just engage yourself and your feelings, speak emotionally rather than logical, at the same time spark sexual attraction or interest or you will be friendzoned. Talk about anything …
/r/seduction20/04/19 09:56 AM
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Not funny but emotional. Making them laugh so much will make her see you are needy for her validation and that you are not someone to be taken serious. Instead center on all emotions: laugh, vulnerability, confidence, positive talk, small talk, void seconds of no talk etc, the thing is to go through the full spectrum of emotions not just laughter. And laughter is not the easiest as it requires ypu being funny ot coming up with funny jokes, putting too much pressure on you. The other way, you can…
/r/seduction20/04/19 09:40 AM
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Dont ask that kind of questions, it's not an interrogatory. Small talk and dance, until you get enough comfort between one and the other to talk about other things (remember no one goes to a club to have a serious or intelligent conversation, go to a pub or caffe if you want that, in the club is just dancing, having fun and keeping talk to a minimum). Small talk are always the first necessary steps to know someone, just remember to stop thinking logically all the time, and center on showing your…
/r/seduction20/04/19 09:37 AM
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But you have photos of yours she can recognize or it is just outta nowhere?
/r/seduction20/04/19 09:33 AM
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Say, "are you trying to flirt with me?"(in a funny and distended way) or just generally teasing sexually, this 2 combined will maker her feel sexual attraction plus make her see you as a challenge, therefor investing more on the interaction resulting in even more ways you can tease her sexually.
/r/seduction20/04/19 09:30 AM
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This video might help you, https://youtu.be/V9MDl4RC2_8 It explains how your ego is limiting you.
/r/seduction20/04/19 06:15 AM
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Guys with large dicks can hurt. Guys with medium dicks or large have to know also the moves in bed. Guys with smaller dicks have to be 1,25 times better in bed than the rest for compensation (only if its micropenis). Once you understand this, there is no insecurity as you can work to improve the moves and also because you see it's not that important as it can be solved in just a phrase.
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:31 PM
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I assumed it, but it doesnt even matter to be true, you coild answer the same substituting small for medium or large, is the fact that you say it with confidence and value.
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:26 PM
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By the way, using the phrase "hey, its the motion by rhe ocean" you are just telling her "hey i don't know how to deal with this shitty things tou say to me so I'm gonna say what everyobody says when they have small dick: Its the motion in the ocean" You need to be direct and confident with your words and what your value is even if you have small dick or not. This is more important than her saying shit at you, core and unstrikable confidence in your own flaws.
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:24 PM
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Just clearly say to her. "You have said this to me many times. I have small dick, yes. But im confident with it and with my skills in bed, do you realize asking this is rude right? IDGAF about it as I said but others can get hurt" Do it with chest up,.chin up, and truly believing it mainly not to trick her you are confident more for feeling yourself more confident by not giving a fuck about what she says. What do you think?
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:20 PM
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First of all, not everything is girls in this life it's just an addition (not even a 10% of your life I would say). Porn addiction is hurting you to see that. What is also not helping is your fucking ego thinking they will not help you better than the internet and more effectively, and not letting others like me help you see you are not going anywhere doing the same things and that you need to find a solution instead of crying. It's simple, or you go get help or at rhe point you are, you are not…
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:17 PM
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What did you do exactly when she said it.that 2 times?
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:10 PM
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do you even read? I said mostly happens online. Ofc it happens irl but looooooot less and that's because the reasons I said b4.
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:09 PM
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You know she probably didnt mean it, even she just turned her brain off andthrew anything from her brain in that moment without thinking it. Or on the flipside, she is crazy. For sure, you wouldnt have to accept gaming someone who is judging you and shit testing you all the time, but if she does it one time it's probably she didnt even thought about you getting hurt, because guess what? A man with confidence shoudln't give a f if he has a small penis or not, that's why she didnt even thought tha…
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:07 PM
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Go get help to a therapist, psychologist or pahyciatrist and tell them the complete truth without holding them anything back and make them see this is really important for you. Seriously do this along learning social intelligence and game. You should be more solid... not a crying baby in his 30s even if you are desperate or dont know what to do or even all the things that you do badky, you should still be solid and in one piece.
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:02 PM
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She is shit testing you, girls do that not only to people they like, also feiends etc, she is trying to measure your value as rhe same time she is relieving her insecurities by attacking others, in this case. Just say to her, Yes I have a small dick, but I'm confident with it and know what to do in bed. Or just ignore her. Dont take this seriously... You should now your value even if you have small dick not others tellimg your or making your value crumble with what they said...
/r/seduction19/04/19 08:57 PM
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Guess what I worked for having it and you can still do it. The only thing is holding you back is your mental state. You have missed a lot of good and bad experiences but skills are still build day by day. Guess what would happen if I decided to stay home, dont approach any girl, and beat my self steem up, then I would lose all my skills. So stop thinkings we have advantage you don't have becaue we are working to mantain them day by day. I feel like you entered this post to see if anyone agreed w…
/r/seduction19/04/19 08:46 PM
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Then ask her to confirm, that's totally different.
/r/seduction19/04/19 08:17 PM
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Then if she replies sorry I didnt see it srry, then either she is still has minimum interest on you or she wants you as an ego boosting puppy for chasing her. If she doesnt even answer then, you can say obviously she is not interested at all.
/r/seduction19/04/19 08:07 PM
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Don't even reply more, she will see you super needy even if she wants to go and didnt say it.
/r/seduction19/04/19 08:05 PM
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You got ghosted, just wait if she doesn't then the day of the game, say to her that you suppose she is not coming so.
/r/seduction19/04/19 08:04 PM
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You don't get rejected by learning game qithout making excuses and having social intelligence. Is not a thing most of us have born with, therefore you have to WORK for learning it no matter how hard it gets, believe me It will get better if you dont obsess over rejections sonmuch and focus on what you can improve
/r/seduction19/04/19 07:57 PM
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Then cut your penis crying baby.
/r/seduction19/04/19 07:55 PM
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You are making a lot of excuses. First of all, if you don't know shit you shouldn't be thinking your point is more valid that the one who does. I'm just telling you they will flake less than when you do a direct date, that's all. Here is how people your age date, stop making excuses lazy ass: https://youtu.be/CigqzSb8qLY Btw he has 36 and even he started before he is still good. If you started now then you have this other: https://youtu.be/6YHBylCxJSY
/r/seduction19/04/19 07:54 PM
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It is not the same, is more casual. If you don't see it either you are autistic or have a long way to go on social intelligence.
/r/seduction19/04/19 07:45 PM
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Man, not everything is fucking white or black.. I could tell you all you have to do but I don't want to lose more time with you as you seem to not understand anything I say. Just search youtube, but I can tell you these are really BASIC things if you still don't know how to do them. Watch a video about them and instantly apply it and practice it, if you don't do this you will have less knowledge and less confidence in your skills.
/r/seduction19/04/19 07:44 PM
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Furthermore, you are friendzoned by how you do things not by doing the things. That's to say, you dont get friendozned for making plans that you could also make to any female friend, you get friendzoned because on that plan or date you didnt convey physical escalation and didnt spike her emotions between other few more things.
/r/seduction19/04/19 07:28 PM
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Guys you are confused and don't even read well my comments. First of all, not necessarily you need to do the frienda things I'm just tellig you what you could do. Making a plan you lonely and make her join you is not tricking at all, for example, "I'm going to take a walk as all sundays, would you like to join me"? or "I'm clearly going to the club to have fun this saturday, would you like to join me?" she already knows you are lonely and she already sees that you don't need her to make the plan…
/r/seduction19/04/19 07:24 PM
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Not necessarily with friends... read better, you can do a plan and make her join you. f.e. buy clothes or go take a walk, as you will still do anyways.
/r/seduction19/04/19 07:00 PM
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Make a plan you are going to do anyways or with friends, and ask her if she wants to join. That way if she says no 2-3 times you CLEARLY know she is not interested, and also if she can't go you are not dependent on her for making that plan, making you seem less needy than making a plan specifically for her. Does that make sense?
/r/seduction19/04/19 06:36 PM
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Even the shyest of people talk in online more than IRL, so she is not interested. Look texting 101 of todd v in youtube, it will help you. Plus, don't be pushy, give her space.
/r/seduction19/04/19 06:32 PM
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This video will help: https://youtu.be/CigqzSb8qLY
/r/seduction19/04/19 06:02 PM
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Hypergamy only happens in online dating mostly, because they assume you dating them online have less confidence from approaching her irl making you lower value (add that to probably bad profile photos and bio, instead IRL if she gets approached she sees you as higher value because you had the balls to go and approach), so the only way to have higher value guys is by chatting with more attractive ones, because at least even if they have no confidence, they are attractive. And at the same time the…
/r/seduction19/04/19 05:51 PM
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I'm in only for todd v, rsdmax or bradicus programs, the rest of coaches I think they are woo woo and bullshit.
/r/seduction19/04/19 04:13 PM
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What is necessary to do...?
/r/seduction19/04/19 04:09 PM
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Dance freely, eye contact triangle (search youtube), pushing and pulling technique ( search YouTube) and physical escalation.
/r/seduction19/04/19 06:33 AM
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Just dance freely and the y will come to you Try to dance with them for a while
/r/seduction18/04/19 09:50 PM
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I think her and her brother are trolling you.
/r/seduction18/04/19 07:19 PM
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for texting only apply this video, simple and works: https://youtu.be/7OZebLs6v7o If tou straight ask for a date, 80% of times they will flake or ghost because she can see you as too pushy. for the girl I would say wait a week up to a month, if she dont answer she ghosted you, delete her number and block or she will come back later when her ego is down and wants a puppy around. why they ghost when they were flirting? It could be you did something wrong in terms of game or that she felt attracted…
/r/seduction18/04/19 07:18 PM
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Delete tinder, stop online dating and start daygame. You lose more time and improve less your seduction and social skills with online even if daygame it's uncomfortable, just don't be a coward and go for what you want. Now that you are 18 you can also go to clubs. So my advice is don't lose time with online and before you start daygame the better. I hope I would have started at 18 It would have helped me a lot.
/r/seduction18/04/19 05:54 PM
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Your photos are terrible go get a photographer for 50 bucks if online dating is your thing and learn what kind of photos get girls definetely not mirror shots (search youtube). My long term sdvice: stop online dating start daygame.
/r/seduction18/04/19 05:28 PM
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And what thing specifically you need advice?
/r/seduction18/04/19 05:25 PM
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For sure, just get over it and read the signs even before they are about to happen not when the ineraction is over. Is like when you do an exam and after it you see all the bad things you made bad on preparation. Also understand sometimes things just don't work
/r/seduction18/04/19 03:27 PM
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hope this works https://youtu.be/kOhxskhd2Zg
/r/seduction18/04/19 03:24 PM
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+1
/r/seduction18/04/19 03:21 PM
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She is tired of people telling her that. Don't do that instead say the same but saying this "You look confident with yourself you must be a model" that implies that you go further from all the typical comments people say to her, therefore tou are more original and interesting than the rest. Or you can also say "I bet all guys tell you if you are a model just by your looks" and stop there and engage convo by introducing yourself. That is the optimal way to approach her because everyone compliment…
/r/seduction18/04/19 03:20 PM
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ok, remind me or tell me so I can see it
/r/seduction18/04/19 03:09 PM
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I would like to know if this works for you when you apply it, I know it works for me and other friends I've taught.
/r/seduction18/04/19 03:04 PM
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You don't want it to be universal or typical at all. But since you need sometimes to say prepared lines. then prepare 2 or 3 that can be said to anybody but also can be appreciated on a special or unique way by anybody, that means that prepared lines cannot be typical(or universally known) and they have to seem you just came up with them for her specific case when you could have just prepared that before even meeting her but still can be meant to her because you truly find on her the same things…
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:47 PM
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More info and I will be able to help you with that. Otherwise I can tell you typical shit that probably won't be applicable or specific to your case.
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:40 PM
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I'm not telling universal compliments, for example, you have nice eyes or nive hair that is so universal and typical but saying "I like the way your hair is done and I think it looks good on you so I had to come here and tell you, my name is bla bla bla" see that is not universal I bet a lot of guys are not even confident in saying that not even she hears that a lot. Srry for my english, I explsin myself like shit. It is way inversed to what you say universal but you need something special that …
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:32 PM
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That is a crutch on the long time believe me I know what I talk about it has happened to many friends that have flaws in their game believing they have to lie about their value to go somewhere in the interaction, it will start to crumble, the lies will be detected making you with lower self esteem and the vicious cycle starts. I think you didn't understand the las part of the anterior comment.
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:26 PM
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Read the part where I said what to do when you don't come up with anything. Have 2-3 phrases prepared that you think are geniune and can be general for all girls and that you can mean it almost always without lying (like the ones I gave you). Change this 2-3 from time to time to avoid saying them like a repetition and that you don't mean it. The key thing is to mean it so if you for example have the phrases I gave you, almost always you approach a girl is because you like her style or the way sh…
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:20 PM
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With more info, 2 possible things: she just telling that to not hurt you she meand she has trust issues, and with that you have to demonstrate her to trust in you and HOW? look in youtube "Qualifying a girl" that will make her feel that she gained you but combine it with making her feel safe and saying it to her. Plus give her time I think it's more the first point than the second because it could be also ego tripping she likes to know you chase her so badly all that time and have tou there as a…
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:14 PM
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No you are not going to be successfull with job or not as long as you convey your value through other things but money or work. Some people think that that they can only convey value if they have all the requisites when that is not true and you can convey value with many ways without needing the work requisite or others, for example, being confident, having selection of girls, being socially inteligent and that you can read between her lines, an infinite etc where you don't need to apparent you …
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:05 PM
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Askwomen doesn't let you ask only to a certain group of demographics as straight women are. Go to askreddit.
/r/seduction18/04/19 01:59 PM
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By what you say I suppose this: she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, you are friendzoned for life because: After 3 months you did physicality or whatever you say you did, but only asked her out after a long time, when she already was considering you a friend. All this time that you cannot see that she just see you as a friend, she interprets it as you cannot read between her lines, making you ten times more friendzoned. So, by the things you said, forget about her being your gf as she frienzo…
/r/seduction18/04/19 01:50 PM
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Don't give compliments about just T-shirts, looks and clothes, that's typical, cliché and 0 emotions spiking. Instead tell them" I like how that T-shirt suits you ", "I just noticed that you put much effort on your style and I like that". The key, as you can see, is giving a compliment that is not so cliché and that is have some genuinity or specialty to it, so it spikes her emotions as she has never heard it before said like that. Just have 2 or 3 phrases just in case you want to approach and y…
/r/seduction18/04/19 01:41 PM
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He can ask her out for a plan with other friends, in fact, that's optimal, otherwise It would seem planned and that you are needy of her and you cannot even make a first step, instantly friendzoned. So I would recommend doing what I said in my anterior comment ASAP(assuming you have talked already many times), or if you do it later it will seem strange (she will think if you do it late: "why is he now telling me this if we only get to see us all this time in the work? he wants something"). And l…
/r/seduction18/04/19 01:27 PM
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If you are wondering if she is into you ir not... that means you are clingy and have no abundance in your life. But if you want to go further, my plan would be: I'm planning to go to the disco with some friends, would you like to join us friday night? If she only says no, she is not interested. If she says she can't then no problem, it's a plan that you still planned without her so It doesn't make you seem as dependent. Then next weeks you can tell her the same on saturday or sunday, and see wha…
/r/seduction18/04/19 01:25 PM
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WTF, don't pretend! Just tell them you are trying to know things about life and discovering yourself before you put yourself into work life, and that you plan having a work in 1-2 years but not now (if you really are doing that, otherwise I don't know what you are doing, if it's looking to the roof all day). All this say it only if you mean it, there is no need to lie or partial lies because lies are easily detected, sooner or later, even if it's only for a one night stand to a relationship. And…
/r/seduction18/04/19 01:07 PM
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From the best man in the field: https://youtu.be/7OZebLs6v7o Simple and effective. And remember approaching irl is better than texting. Texting is always just a mean to see irl if you don't do that they throw in the friend zone as they see you that you cannot make any steps forward, and on the flip side trying to engage irl when you didn't text that much is needy and pushy. So ultimately is about balance and not being needy.
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:03 AM
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Ask something about them instead, listen and keep going with that topic. Meanwhile you are listening don't think about what are you going to say next just try to relax by breathing in and out through your BELLY always (in extend it, out just belly inside. If you breathe through your belly without making your shoulders shrug it will make you feel more relaxed quicker. You can try this sometimes, even for sports is good as it makes more air to enter than normally.
/r/seduction18/04/19 07:45 AM
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And first of all, your theory is bad because if getting hookers gets you more result because you are less needy then that means you can have more and more woman that are not hookers available to you, meaning you wouldn't even need hookers. So I think you don't even get results otherwise you would have left this childish theory long ago.
/r/seduction17/04/19 11:56 PM
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And dont confuse "needing a girlfriend" with searching connections with girls even for one night stands and that's not having needy behavior that's just being human and caring that you have other human talking to you not a bot. What is needy is your behavior of needing hookers for feeling abundance and that you don't need anything more and why I think you think that? Because getting actually what you want without paying is more difficult and more uncomfortable.
/r/seduction17/04/19 11:50 PM
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Who said with a woman? I'm just talking about anyone: your friends, your family, workmates, etc I'm talking about meaningful connection with anyone. Don't be raged on me for calling you out you prefered the comfort of an ego developed by hookers than actually getting what you want abundantly and without being needy nor with hookers nor with woman
/r/seduction17/04/19 11:45 PM
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But most importantly, don't care about her in that moment if she decides to keep talking with him and not you. Go to the dancefloor without wsnting to know about her and without thinking about her all the night and engage more people, forget about her. And then if she reengages you can keep talking but don't expect her to do it, that way you will be happy in the night without needing her again and without thinking and worrying about her.
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:50 PM
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"I like billards because It's a sport I can understand well and for me it's adrenakine rush because not always I know the ball is gonna go in 100% times" one could have their reasons fir liking it. Heck I like billards when I play it lonely or with friends and not because girls are looking at us and I want to attract them but I like it fir it veing a fun sport to play. My point is a girl liking it is an addition but not a requirement. There is no way I'm gonna do an imaginary hobbie that 100% wo…
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:40 PM
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They smell cocaine dogs so fix that. I think you are being too desoerate for results and they smell it. Your first lines are so general and typical that that doesn't make them feel anything. Instead make them a geniune compliment (preferrably not looks). for example you can say i like your hair (too typical) by saying ,"i can sense u r a girl who puts much work on her appearance just by the way you carry yourself and I like that" then introduce you. See? that's being geniune. The point is to mak…
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:34 PM
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If the man that approaches is just friendly to the two of you and wirh no clear intentions on talking to her only (this almst never happens on a club) just be kind and friendly to him otherwise salute and ignore.
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:21 PM
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It doesn't matter if it is or not as long as tou like it, wtf! For example, I like to dance and so it happens that women like men who dance but make a distinction, I don't dance for attracting girls I do it because I like to feel my body in space and express myself through the music. That's the difference.
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:19 PM
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You are just justifying yourself for being a coward. You didn't discover the americas we all know sex and having a partner or relationships it's not the most wondeful thing in life. Real connections do matter more than sex or having a relationship and that is a thing you cannot get with a hooker
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:16 PM
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let anxiety go and start thinking for yourself. If every step you take you are not willing to risk and fail, the only thing you do is wating for perfect conditions (aka asking reddit) you'll never take action for yourself on so many things and it will make you feel depressed. It's called perfectionism paralysis or fear to fail something. Guess what next time you wanna talk to someone you like again and you don't want to fail you will ask reddit because you haven't build the confidence in yoursel…
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:06 PM
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Just take action with the same conclusions you found out but susbstitute hookers for fap and it will work the smae way
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:04 PM
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Don't do things because girls find more attractive than others... that's really beta and clingy yuks
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:01 PM
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You answered yourself. You showed no penis when she got touchy. And if some guys approaches just act like he is not there at all cost and don't try to take her out of there, just be nonreactive and if after 3-5 minutes she keeps talking to him more than you then just go to the dancefloor without telling her nothing. If she engages back after a while saying why did you go without telling her, don't answer and just start dancing with her. Don't get clingy over a girl or you will lose power and val…
/r/seduction17/04/19 09:56 PM
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For sure, that's the majority of men. Others we prefer to just take action and go for the things we want even that makes you feel awkward at any moment because at least if it goes bad you demonstrated yourself that you are not a coward.
/r/seduction17/04/19 09:42 PM
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First of all, by description I can say two things: 1. I hope you don't make them laugh to feel good yourself or waiting for them to laugh. That's validation necessity and they can smell it, and when they smell that they won't get further than friends because they see that you need their validation to have value making yourself lower value person. Other different thing is making them geniunely laugh without expecting any reaction 2. Physical calibration and action makes the difference of showing …
/r/seduction17/04/19 09:26 PM
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Most of guys are afraid to talk really beautiful women because it makes them feel like you have higher standards and you will judge them just by looking at them feeling that they are inferior and others are fraid to be awkward and avoid that feeling at all cost. This is solved by you approaching them even if it's to say hi because when they start to see you as normal human flesh they will open up and try to chat you and see you as a possible partner, if you don't do that they will be afraid to a…
/r/seduction17/04/19 09:14 PM
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