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| 4 | Attraction 101Because you were a shitty captain all those years. She thought she was getting Brad Pitt and Prince Charming mixed together, but got you instead. But I agree with you, it happened to me. Took about a year to get rid of the resentment. You need to focus on the sidebar, go back in your mind and untangle all the bullshit that’s in there. Stfu to her about your changes. Yes it will get worse before it gets better because she doesn’t believe it’s the new you. There’s no track record of you owning you… | /r/askMRP | 29/03/18 01:02 PM |
| 0 | 12 Laws For Life by Jordan Petersoclever | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/03/18 02:50 PM |
| 1 | How to balance work and wifeGet your head out of your ass. Don’t be scared of work. Take the promotion - there’s only so many great opportunities that come along in life. Dont fuck this one up. | /r/askMRP | 22/03/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | LTR cold after ovulationThat’s not true. You’re going to confuse the newbs with bro science. | /r/askMRP | 22/03/18 12:25 AM |
| 6 | LTR cold after ovulationShe’s probably just the responsive desire type like my wife. Her baseline is very low, and can seem cold and distant. Just game her kino, tease, etc. Fucks sake, don’t go full retard beta. | /r/askMRP | 21/03/18 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Should I post-nuptial“Captain save a hoe” in the house. | /r/askMRP | 20/03/18 05:40 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on love“unexpected love messages, notes, flowers, date nights..” Depends on her love language... /s | /r/askMRP | 18/03/18 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Estranged from wayward spouse (help)Well, you did cheat on her right? | /r/askMRP | 17/03/18 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Estranged from wayward spouse (help)“realized nothing is here for me in this town” Don’t you have 3 kids? | /r/askMRP | 17/03/18 05:35 AM |
| 3 | Giving her what she wants gives you zero points“... just reached the bar she set for you” Fuck yeah. When you got married, you signed up to be her Everything in her mind - just as Mr. Disney promised her. Unknowingly, you were being constantly judged on how you lived up to her standards and you didn’t have a fair chance since the beginning. Beta strategy is a rigged game. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Shit test or something elseOk dick. Like validation from momma is some cutting edge shit. Small dick syndrome fags are out today hahah. I see it as a lack of frame on his end. He’s a great provider at home but not leading from his frame. | /r/askMRP | 11/03/18 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Shit test or something elseShe doesn’t respect you. Are you SURE you wear the pants in your relationship? If not, start. | /r/askMRP | 11/03/18 04:54 PM |
| 7 | What does the ALPHA MALE want in ltr/ marriageDrain his balls | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/18 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Wife and the ExRadius x 2 x (pi) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/03/18 07:14 PM |
| 7 | Wife and the ExEither has a big rectangular dick or (8) six inch dicks. Wonder why he gives her orgasms! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/03/18 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Wife and the Ex“which on average.....” Equates to: Half the time he fucked her a lot better than you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/03/18 05:36 PM |
| 1 | FRAME Control - Work PresentationsBla bla bla humble faggot. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/03/18 03:36 PM |
| 2 | FRAME Control - Work PresentationsTons.. lots of cheesy transitions too. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/03/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | FRAME Control - Work Presentationsafter the red pill, I went down some deep rabbit holes. A lot of this comes NLP. Some say it’s bullshit, but a lot of it makes sense to me, I’m open minded. Look into it. People suck at State Management. Remember in the movie, the Gladiator, before battle he reaches down and scoops up the dirt, holds it in his hand, and then lets it drop out slowly. That’s state management, he is preparing for battle. I learned to do the same thing with presentations. From NLP, you can set an anchor which will l… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/03/18 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Ever try to start an online business when you're married?I was a pussy and either sat next to her or at the bar with one of the kids. Yes, there are usually 2 heads (unless you’re like the knights of the round table where there was no one in charge and were equals , no head of the table per say), but usually there is only one chair that is more dominate than the other one. The focal point. The center of attention. I also mean this not so literal. I mean the head of the table as the person who is holding the FRAME of the interaction. I lead the dinner … | /r/askMRP | 07/03/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Ever try to start an online business when you're married?Interesting. After I first discovered the red pill and mrp, I started for the first time playing the lead role in my own life, I waked around the house happy, teasing, rough housing with my boys, basically dgaf attitude, feeling a lot of better. I’ll never forgot that she was pissed and actually said “why are you always so happy now???”. Also, this gem -when I took over the head of the table at dinner time: “What, you think that you are special now, you think you are the king? ..”. I was such a … | /r/askMRP | 07/03/18 05:28 PM |
| -11 | Ever try to start an online business when you're married?Wanted to make another point: This post hit home with me. When my first ebook started selling on amazon, that’s when I told her about it. She was happy and very impressed and told her friends that I wrote a book and it’s selling online. Multiple times, her friends asked me how I did it - considering I have a full time job and have 3 young kids, etc.. Well, I’ll never forget the first time I tried to explain it. I told them I didn’t write it all in one sitting. I spread it out over the course of … | /r/askMRP | 07/03/18 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Noob Compliance Test questionClueless too. Looking back, it was clear that she friend zoned me from day 1. Pegged me for the beta provider I was... I’m almost 4 years in this summer. Take it slow, keep improving. I have 3 small boys, yep, they will know when the time is right. | /r/askMRP | 07/03/18 12:52 PM |
| 5 | Ever try to start an online business when you're married?“every minute the husband is doing work must always have a dollar return”. Or even a dollar multiplier! What mine would think. Look, Woman are fucking retarded, we know this. My wife watches house flipping shows and asks why don’t we do that? - since it looks so easy. Or even a house remodel show, after the commercial break, the room is completely done, and she doesn’t realize that the little preppy boy with the great fashion sense and cool safety glasses has an ENTIRE crew off screen that actua… | /r/askMRP | 06/03/18 10:35 PM |
| 4 | Separate trips“I don’t have a problem chatting with men” Faggot. | /r/askMRP | 06/03/18 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Separate tripsIn that case don’t do it. You don’t want to make her angry or cause a fuss - don’t make her pussy dry out. Let her go on her trip to relax and get away, as long as you continue to support and be her beta provider there isn’t a chance she’ll fuck Chad. Pure unconditional Love overcomes everything. //s | /r/askMRP | 06/03/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Separate tripsI remember those blue pill days of binary thinking ! Chatting a girl up = cheating. | /r/askMRP | 06/03/18 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Separate tripsStart small, doesn’t have to be a trip. Go out drinking one night, go fishing, get a hobby, play basketball/softball. Get your own hobbies and interests apart from your wife. | /r/askMRP | 06/03/18 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Separate tripsHighly recommend catch & release. | /r/askMRP | 06/03/18 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Cut the ShitYour Q&A format reminds me of how’s Athol Kays forum used to be.. you had to fill out the basic list of questions and answers before anyone would give you advice.. I read mmslp first and found his forum 4 years ago. That was my start. I would suggest implementing the same rules here - so we know what phase the person is in before we start giving advice....- but I like how we call everyone a faggot and piece of shit first ha ha ha ! It’s probably more effective how we do it. | /r/askMRP | 06/03/18 12:47 AM |
| 6 | Cut the ShitAwesome. I’d add one more question in order to really gage where the beta faggot’s mindset is: Write down, on scale from 1-10, your confidence level of cold approaching a hot woman, or any woman, to tell her you think she looks nice/sexy/hot and wanted to come say hi- and then hold a 5 min conversation without coming across as a creeper. Most faggots couldn’t even go up to her to say hi. Better yet, write down scale 1-10 on your confidence level of running some daygame with a number close. | /r/askMRP | 06/03/18 12:21 AM |
| 2 | I think I agreed to this with my wife for the wrong reason.Faggot troll | /r/askMRP | 03/03/18 06:07 PM |
| 2 | I think I agreed to this with my wife for the wrong reason.Start fucking plates. It’s over. | /r/askMRP | 03/03/18 05:58 PM |
| 1 | I think I agreed to this with my wife for the wrong reason.“Did I dig myself a hole here” Faggot. Chad already dug himself a hole in your wife. | /r/askMRP | 03/03/18 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Successful people aren't Demi-Gods with insane willpower and incredible productivity skills. They are normal people who understood the importance of the small seemingly insignificant daily disciplines. They understood how these disciplines leveraged with time could make them unstoppableGreat book. It should be ...considering it’s a direct rip off of everything Jim Rohn talked about 2 decades ago. Word for word. I’m surprised it had so much support in mainstream media. Jim Rohn was the man, this book is just repackaged and marketed to newer generation. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/18 02:31 AM |
| 0 | FR Wifes Birthday successForm ? No expert here, but they made mine better though. I don’t go past parallel. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/03/18 11:14 PM |
| 6 | Wife is Weaponizing Sex to "Win" an ArgumentYou are doing great, don’t fuck it up by asking her how she feelz.. her feelz are none of your concern. Don’t ask about how this is different Don’t ask about why she was mad Fucks sake, certainly don’t suggest a “talk” when there is a problem.. There shouldn’t even be a “problem” if you start acting like King Dick. You gave her some predictive programming there suggesting there will be an upcoming problem. Less talking. More doing. | /r/askMRP | 02/03/18 10:06 PM |
| 7 | Wife is Weaponizing Sex to "Win" an Argument“never be sitting or have down time around her”. Yep. Talk about a negative feedback loop. That was one of my problems too. I was a sitting duck around the house and she would just unload on me. Only defense was to engage in verbal intercourse- which is a losers game. Rinse, repeat. It’s easier to dodge a target when you are ALREADY moving. | /r/askMRP | 02/03/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Handling comfort tests of pregnant wifeYour hormones or hers?... | /r/askMRP | 02/03/18 06:09 PM |
| 5 | Handling comfort tests of pregnant wifeYou weren’t being tested. She just fucked you. If, during the next day, she turns into a nagging cunt and treats you like a piece of shit that you are, that’s a test. She’s testing to see whether or not you are still the MAN that she fucked and if she made the right choice by fucking you. | /r/askMRP | 02/03/18 04:37 PM |
| 7 | Handling comfort tests of pregnant wife"Jon would smash her as well” Some creepy shit right there. STFU. Her complaining about her body wasn’t a test. Just because you discovered about shit and comfort testing doesn’t make Everything a test now. Don’t feel the need to respond to everything. Do Nothing is okay. If she’s being good to you, be the OAK and give some comfort. Read up on comfort and shit tests. | /r/askMRP | 02/03/18 04:22 PM |
| 4 | Unspoken medium/hard no during sex, along with "you're so handsome"...Ha. I knew he was a cuddler ... | /r/askMRP | 02/03/18 01:16 PM |
| 10 | Unspoken medium/hard no during sex, along with "you're so handsome"...“I'll be kissing her body”.... Your initiations are weak & timid and come across as creepy as fuck to her. That’s why she clams up, clinches her jaw, and stares at the ceiling. Don’t make it a Lifetime movie. I used to have soft, kissing, caressing touches too, it’s creepy as shit. Stop it. She doesn’t want that. Be a fucking man and take that pussy. Your pussy. Don’t listen to a Fucking word she told you. Don’t over think it. Don’t get in arguments about the baby routine again. Let her handle b… | /r/askMRP | 02/03/18 12:58 PM |
| 6 | Women think 80% of men are below average attraction wise.“Everytime I start exercising hard, she really tries to get in the way, fighting my efforts...” This! So true. My wife started baking brownies and making ice cream at night time and constantly offering me shit. Even my MIL started doing it. Also tried to shame me for wasting so much gas money driving home during lunchtime from work to go work out.... - my work is only 12 miles away from my house. Ha. Their best interest to keep us Beta. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/03/18 07:30 PM |
| 2 | FR Wifes Birthday successHopefully 3 blow jobs.... That came from the Golden ratio - .618. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/03/18 03:24 AM |
| 1 | FR Wifes Birthday successYes , running is great. I’m just making fun of the dad bods I see jogging... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/03/18 02:04 AM |
| 1 | FR Wifes Birthday successAwesome. I totally quit jogging for cardio, but play basketball twice a week. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/03/18 01:33 AM |
| 3 | FR Wifes Birthday successDon’t won’t to turn this into a bro science post. But I was skinny and doing strong lifts but kept my eating habits the same. Didn’t know about the eating part and it fucked me up. So instead of seeing gains in 3 months, I lost like 20 pounds! And got smaller! I wasn’t eating. Nothing like your wife telling you that you look skinny after lifting hard! I got a lot stronger, but didn’t know the other side about eating a surplus. So I started completely over, did the exact same work out but this ti… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/02/18 11:41 PM |
| 2 | FR Wifes Birthday successI trained so hard for cross country in high school i managed to get two stress fractures in both feet. Fucking stupid. Running melts your muscles away and give you a belly. I was skinny and had a little pot belly. Retarded. Scam. I used running as therapy too during my beta years in a sexless deadbedroom. I would run at night time in my neighborhood and think and think and think and think about my pathetic life and worthless life. And look up at the stars and think “why me? Why won’t my little p… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/02/18 11:29 PM |
| 2 | FR Wifes Birthday successHa. Only hating because I was one but didn’t realize how fucking useless it was, fucked up my knees, and was a time suck, after discovering lifting. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/02/18 11:01 PM |
| 5 | FR Wifes Birthday success“Running 3 times a week”. - stopped reading. Wtf? Look into squats. Squats burn so much more calories than gay running. low impact works out abs takes less time releases testosterone not as gay as running manly (nothing like wife walking into the garage while you’re squatting 250lbs... tingles) lots of other bro science examples And I WAS a runner all my life until I tried stronglifts. The squat is so so so much more effective. Fat will melt off. Literally. I never “ran” in 3 years. Waste.of.fuc… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/02/18 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Question Regarding My Husband’s Treatment Of Our SonHa | /r/askMRP | 28/02/18 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Question Regarding My Husband’s Treatment Of Our SonSure that wasn’t Pen States motto... | /r/askMRP | 28/02/18 04:43 PM |
| 6 | Guess sometimes there's just a go planIt was a shit test and you failed. “ she loves me” - She doesn’t love you. Have you done any homework? She only loves the way you make her feelz and the resources you provide. There is no unconditional love. It’s all conditional. You should have AA the fuck out of this. You actually sat there and listened to this ? Ha Keep improving, 1 month for every year you were a pussy. At the end of that timeframe, then decide if she adds any value to YOUR life. | /r/askMRP | 28/02/18 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Question Regarding My Husband’s Treatment Of Our SonI wouldn’t pick up my son if he had the flu either. Parenting styles differ. I’m hard on my boys with homework and taking pride in their work, cleaning their rooms, I horse play, play rough, but also throw in comfort too. Just because I want to give them something I never had. My dad was tough on me too but gave me my work ethic - which is the main reason I’m successful today. But I always felt I could never make him proud of me, never good enough. So, I’m making sure I let my boys know I’m prou… | /r/askMRP | 28/02/18 04:28 PM |
| 2 | A Nice Guy LiesSidebar ====> | /r/askMRP | 28/02/18 02:14 PM |
| 1 | A Nice Guy LiesIt was a very gradual and very slow transition for me. I was king of the nice guys, very beta husband, I had her so high on a pedestal. I didn’t have AA comments or amused mastery in me. But after unfucking myself, lifting, going through the sidebar, I became happy, centered, for the first time in my life. AA just comes natural for me now. | /r/askMRP | 28/02/18 01:44 PM |
| 3 | A Nice Guy Lies“Of course she’s fucking hot...” smirk My beta days, no way I could pull off a type of comment like this. Now, it’s so easy and fun. Self amused. My wife actually points out hot chicks to me all the time now, it’s amazing how the dynamics (myself) have changed. Stop worrying what she thinks. | /r/askMRP | 28/02/18 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Text to go to counselingSimilar situation to mine - just subtract one kid. I almost had a main event at the 1 yr (+- month). But didn’t. Stand your ground. Don’t have another kid if YOU don’t want one. Don’t do it “for her” or “God”. Tell her straight up. Looks like you already did. You already have 4 ! Sounds like you missed out on some big comfort tests. I think that’s part of her crashing. But do you think that her new diet also could be a variable? You say that you are tired of the comfort tests. Dude, the cycle ne… | /r/askMRP | 26/02/18 08:57 PM |
| 0 | Job interviews and negotiating salaryWho ever says a number first loses. | /r/askMRP | 25/02/18 07:15 PM |
| 6 | Marriage Therapy today is like 17th century medicineNot being literally quiet, just not communicating Feelz with her. I think she is loving the kino, teasing, strong masculine presence, leadership, planning, and interprets it as “communicating” ... Goes back to law of polarity. She gets to be a little fun girl again once you start acting like a strong Dominate man. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/18 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Should I relent? Wife going batshit at minor changes.Keep up with the baby steps. Don’t not apologize for shit. Pass the shit tests. Also give her some comfort too, just a strong Oak hug, that’s it. No words needed. Stick to the game plan. Kino, lifting , teasing , leadership, fun, AA to pass shit test. Fuck her. | /r/askMRP | 25/02/18 02:15 AM |
| 9 | Marriage Therapy today is like 17th century medicineThe irony is that the other day she actually said “I love how we communicate now”... ha What she thinks is communicating is really the feeing of attraction.... perhaps? She didn’t need communication when she sucked Chad off in the foam party during spring break. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/02/18 09:32 PM |
| 1 | How should I respond?Same thing that happened to me. So you are in a great position here. | /r/askMRP | 24/02/18 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Should I relent? Wife going batshit at minor changes.Yep because I’m proud it. He needs to take an active leadership role. Telling his wife he IS handling shit around the house is his first step - before she needs to remind him of what needs to be done. | /r/askMRP | 24/02/18 08:38 PM |
| 2 | How should I respond?Yes, be gone more. Get more hobbies without her. But not in response to last night. I thought you meant avoid her. You sound like a good dad. Ignore the bitching. Is her SMV higher than yours ? | /r/askMRP | 24/02/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Should I relent? Wife going batshit at minor changes.You are about to get all the criticism you need from the guys. I’ll take it easy on you. She might be feeling the relationship dynamics changing (if you have been making some Baby steps) and she doesn’t like it. It’s part of the process, it gets way worse before it gets better. Why would she want it to change? It’s perfect for her: she gets the nice house, kids, nice beta husband as a chore boy who makes $200k per year, etc. She will fight you through the beginning phases. Did she have a point a… | /r/askMRP | 24/02/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How should I respond?Neither.. never be “nice” and don’t withdraw. Withdrawing will do nothing to her other than making you look butt hurt. Your SMV isn’t high enough to withdraw. Only 3 months in. What are you punishing her with? What value is being withdrawn in her eyes? Really? She’s probably glad that you leave her alone for once. Don’t act like it affected you. Be fun, playful, hopefully you made plans for the weekend, do that. Don’t just sit around all day. Spend time with the kids, build something manly, don’… | /r/askMRP | 24/02/18 06:56 PM |
| 20 | Marriage Therapy today is like 17th century medicineGreat post. Communication is a fucking lie we have all been fed. It’s bullshit. I used to try to communicate to my wife about my depression for years, and she would just absolutely berate me. I thought maybe if I tried to explain it in more detail she would just understand and help me.. nope. I didn’t see the connection back then, it only made her more bitchy and dryed out her pussy. And it also started fights between us. Never vent about anything , especially work. Don’t be one of those faggots… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/02/18 05:06 PM |
| 0 | How should I respond?You did fine. Sometimes you’ll strike out... you are only 3 months in. Don’t get butt hurt. Don’t bring it up. Keep doing what you are doing. | /r/askMRP | 24/02/18 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Undercard vs. Main EventI didn’t have a main event. I felt like it was close at one point- about 8 months in- because she wasnt coming along as I’d hope for... and I was getting a lot of IOIs from other women. But since I was a complete faggot before, I gave her time to come around, and she did. | /r/askMRP | 23/02/18 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Help me decipher this test before I fuck it upYep, the sex comes last. | /r/askMRP | 22/02/18 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Help me decipher this test before I fuck it upSlow your roll bra.. no where near the end of the anger phase. You’re only 3 months in a 18 month schedule (1 month for every 1 year you were married- if you even read the sidebar). I give you 24 months though, because you have a long history of being a fat emotional tampon in her eyes.. Yes, I was close to 40 too when I found this stuff, 10 year deadbedroom, nice guy beta, my anger phase took 1 year. It’s not her fault, it’s yours. You never had the skills or tools. Fuck it. Now you do. Work th… | /r/askMRP | 22/02/18 10:21 PM |
| 0 | Help me decipher this test before I fuck it upGlover also recommends to purposely go without sex for a month - which is retarded too. That books fails on those two suggestions. Stop reading it faggot. Time to read all the other books on the side bar. Over there: ===> Tons of material on here what to do if wife calls you during the day to vent. Don’t talk logic or offer solutions, just boo her villains and cheer her allies. Yep, that Susie is a little cunt, I hear ya, Becky IS a bitch! I can’t believe she did that! Ok babe, got to go, make m… | /r/askMRP | 22/02/18 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Booty call to wife?Be ready for me under the covers with no panties on... when I get home tonight. Ass slap and walk out the door. | /r/askMRP | 22/02/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with "no news" shit testOk I read your history. 3 years at this and she didn’t get on board? Seems like you did a ton of work on yourself (and on that hot plate of yours...), but what about at home ? Were you gaming her? Were you resetting the relationship slowly (in your frame and as you now as the leader)? We’re you building comfort too? Passing those comfort test or mistaking them all for shit tests? Is there something in her past you aren’t telling us? Is her main gripe about you now still is “all you want is sex” … | /r/askMRP | 20/02/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with "no news" shit testDesire or attention: On her part or your part ? | /r/askMRP | 20/02/18 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with "no news" shit testThere’s no time! No time to study! I’ll never get into Stanford! Chill the fuck out dude. You have all the time available to you. We all have the same amount of “time” that there is.. You can’t give a fuck about everything. There’s only so many fucks you can give. Choose which ones you give a fuck about. | /r/askMRP | 20/02/18 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with "no news" shit testI’ll have to look back at your previous post about your main event. Don’t know where you are coming from. If she cheated on you, all bets are off. Next her. But if you still have resentment towards and still pissed from her being a sexless cunt, read on. I’d say YOU have to end the stalemate and stop acting like a prick. -Not please her, but instead tease her, game her, flirt with her. -“Pleasing her” puts you into her frame. I can tell what mindset you still have - all about her. You are more p… | /r/askMRP | 20/02/18 09:52 PM |
| 5 | Dealing with "no news" shit testI was doing wood floor this weekend in my house, first room came out great, second room was tricky and had to do some prep work before I could really get started. Took awhile. She came in twice and couldn’t understand why I was taking so long and didn’t see any progress - didn’t verbally say anything but I know what she was thinking- she asked if I took her ruler; I pulled out my dick and said here’s a 7 inch measure... AA that shit. She left the room giggling and didn’t come back the rest of th… | /r/askMRP | 20/02/18 09:35 PM |
| 19 | Dealing with "no news" shit testI totally understand getting shit done and not wasting time on dumb shit. I’m a machine at work. But... are you having fun? Activity engaged when you get home ? Present? Can’t be radio silent all the time. Do some text game throughout the day. A little flirting. Check in with her from time to time if she is being good to you. Ask her how that conference is going? Or how is your day going? Ask her what color panties she’s wearing? Tell her to make your favorite dinner tonight. Seems like you migh… | /r/askMRP | 20/02/18 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Constant initiatingWhatever the fuck you want. | /r/askMRP | 19/02/18 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Constant initiatingThe Bull doesn’t care that cow doesn’t initiate. You need to be using kino throughout the day. Do drive bys too. By only using kino right before you initiate, you are telegraphing what you are really after ... | /r/askMRP | 19/02/18 03:09 AM |
| 8 | Constant initiatingYou do talk way too fucking much. You seem to have a problem with taking things literal. If you want sex, then have sex. Always be closing isn’t literal.. not the same as gaming or kino. If you were spinning plates, yes, always be closing. Fuck it, abundance mentality. It’s true Chad doesn’t chase, however, he also would fail miserably in a marriage because he is only one deminsional. Doesn’t have the correct mixture of alpha / beta qualities. A and B are on two different sliding scales. Stfu do… | /r/askMRP | 19/02/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Noob Compliance Test questionYou’ll have more drives home similar to this when you start seeing gains and getting IOIs from chicks. Take it slow. | /r/askMRP | 18/02/18 03:54 PM |
| 4 | Cuddling and sexShe didn’t need cuddles from Chad when he railed her on their one night stand back in college. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/18 08:24 PM |
| 14 | Does Red Pill work for gay/lesbian people?he is asking “for a friend”.... lol | /r/askMRP | 17/02/18 07:12 PM |
| 5 | Noob Compliance Test questionI read your post again. Take your anger out in the iron temple. Definitely anger phase right now. I get it. I was in a dead bedroom for a decade, sex maybe once every 3 months. Starfish sex. She wore the pants. I remember stumbling upon mmslp and thinking “I was blind, but now I see” like on Limitless. My anger phase lasted about a year. Playing it all over again and again in my mind: All those nights I couldn’t fuck my wife All the holidays I couldn’t fuck my wife All those vacations I couldn’t… | /r/askMRP | 17/02/18 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Noob Compliance Test questionStart with a simple “no”. Don’t go full Rambo just yet. 47 years old? Probably long history of being a pussy, right? If she gets pissy, don’t DEER and get butt hurt, just make fun of her , AA that shit out the ball park. This was my hang up too when I first get started, I was always a nice guy, catered to her every need, and never goofed around or was fun to be around. Start teasing her more often, show her that her mood doesn’t affect you. Ramp up the kino. It’s for you, not her. Once she start… | /r/askMRP | 17/02/18 05:19 PM |
| 2 | The Reasons for Oneitis and PMS from an Evolutionary Standpoint“Reasons for Oneitis” Probably right. So... “feeling in love” is just a chemical reaction to trick us into spreading our genes. Basically a mechanism designed to help us in the long term, but drys up pussy in the short term. Interesting. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/18 02:53 PM |
| 1 | LevelingI’m not familiar with poker, but I like your analogy. Similar concept in chess, easy to learn and play, but hard to learn to play good. The higher you go, the more subtle details and levels you start to see. Understanding brings more layers of complexity. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/18 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Lost my mojo...againWe all have a hidden self image and will always act according to it. Literally wired for it. We act in preprogrammed ways all our lives. Time to change the program. Sounds exactly what you need. Good luck. | /r/askMRP | 16/02/18 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Lost my mojo...againOk, I see now. You still sound like a troll to me. But if you aren’t, and you are serious then yes, keep plugging along. Judge your success by the action you are are taking,,, meaning your criteria for success should be if you are taking action. More importantly, As far as your low sense of self worth, you can never be better than your self image~ the picture you have of yourself in your mind. It’s basically software that operates like a thermostat. As soon as you deviate from the baseline setti… | /r/askMRP | 16/02/18 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Lost my mojo...again....And stop being a pussy. Seriously, what exactly are your lulls? Seems like you have that ass on tap. | /r/askMRP | 16/02/18 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Lost my mojo...againI was about to say his T levels. Looking back at his post history I see a red flag: His wife found MRP first and wants him to “check it out”. She must think he is pussy. However, he claims she fucks him frequently. Either a troll or his T levels.... | /r/askMRP | 16/02/18 12:48 AM |
| 13 | Lost my mojo...againSuccess doesn’t always go up in a straight line dude. You’ll have ups and downs, peaks and valleys,. But the overall trend will be up. Can’t climb a smoothe mountain. You need those divets and hold points in order to dig in to lift yourself up. Basic law of averages. To double your success rate, you need to double your failure rate. Keep at it. One day you will look back and be in awe of the person you have become. | /r/askMRP | 15/02/18 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Side hustle tips?Don’t actually believe that’s my real name do you ? Have about 30 different pen names. | /r/askMRP | 06/02/18 12:29 AM |
| 1 | What do you think? Shit test or not?Mmslp talks about these kinds of shit tests. Cute girl shit test perhaps? Anyway, good job on not jumping up every time she says so or catering to her every whim. Where are you in your map? I do make it a point to start her car on cold mornings and scrap off the ice for visibility purposes... she drives the kids to school. My job as the man of the house to make sure they get there safely. | /r/askMRP | 05/02/18 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Side hustle tips?$1700 / month. That’s an average. Some of my books are seasonal... and spikes in certain months. You have to pay taxes on that though. Amazon sends a 1099 to the irs on your royalties. | /r/askMRP | 05/02/18 11:10 PM |
| 6 | Side hustle tips?Ebooks are awesome for passive income. I’m on my 5th year and make a very good side hustle off of it. Very very good. One you write it, it continues to do the work for you...forever. You might have to edit it, rebrand -if you get tons of negative reviews, but it pays dividends-even while you sleep. Pick a niche with low competition ( the hardest part), work on ranking your website in google, and at the same time self-publish it in Amazon. You don’t even have to write the book, you can sub it out… | /r/askMRP | 05/02/18 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Why can't I be a superbowl alpha?Well said. | /r/askMRP | 05/02/18 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Back ScratchesGood advice from others. Don’t go in rehearsed. Retarded. Wait until it’s natural. However, If you ARE making gains and upping your SMV and she says “ what happened to your back? Your girlfriend scratched you again (with a wink)”....and you will get that response from her eventually... Then by all means AA it out of the park. Say “no, both girl friends scratched me” or “ your momma scratched me last night” ..ass slap , walk away .. doesn’t really matter what you say at the point because the tone… | /r/askMRP | 03/02/18 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Things got Worse and Better since OYS (field report)Don’t listen to a single fucking thing she has to say. You changed the dynamic and now she is afraid. Trying to get you back down to beta status. Like when I first started lifting hard, showing gains for the first time in my life, and my wife would complain that I was wasting gas money driving home from work during my lunch break to work out and I needed to stop (distance was 16 miles...) or when she tried to constantly bake cakes or brownies to get me to eat it. They try to sabotage you once sh… | /r/askMRP | 02/02/18 11:45 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with silent treatmentNot your wife? Go fuck plates. | /r/askMRP | 02/02/18 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Cooking - shit test.“Have fun with the chore play and cleaning schedule faggot”. I almost spit out my coffee, thanks man Prior faggot self did that too. Did I actually believe she would hold up her end of the deal...?? No, more shit just kept getting added to my list.. pussy kept getting dryer too. | /r/askMRP | 02/02/18 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Cooking - shit test.“In good shape physically- Long blond hair and attractive”.... Look like fucking Fabio? Don’t get butt hurt over some stupid shrewish request she made. | /r/askMRP | 02/02/18 01:11 PM |
| 1 | What I’ve learned from tracking my wife’s cycleYeah, that was a shit post I agree. Didn’t come out right. Law of averages. I need to regroup. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/18 12:53 PM |
| 4 | What I’ve learned from tracking my wife’s cycleI can see what you’re saying. You are like on level 10, I think I’m talking about levels 1-2 for newbs. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/18 04:51 AM |
| 9 | What I’ve learned from tracking my wife’s cycleYou missed the point.. once again. It’s not about her, not about using it because you are affected by her mood, not about being held hostage. It’s about using it as a tool in a tool box. Extremely important to newbies to Understand that she IS predicable, her emotions follow a cycle- as she goes her minstrel Cycle. She isn’t unpredictable as we were all lead to believe. To deny this is a massive disservice to newbies - just so you can act like you are taking the high road. It was very helpful fo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/18 02:27 AM |
| 2 | What I’ve learned from tracking my wife’s cycleIt’s a great tool in the tool box. For me it’s like black jack, it’s the only game where you can increase your bet when you know the odds are in your favor- double down, split- when the dealer showing a bust card, therefore you can minimize your loses and maximize your wins. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/18 12:14 AM |
| -1 | What I’ve learned from tracking my wife’s cycleGreat analogy about stealing baseball signs. I first learned it in mmslp. I don’t use any app though, just a little calendar. yes! always plan out vacations according to her cycle. Don’t necessarily change my approach, but fuck, I’m a numbers guy. I’m mindful of the day. Days 1-3: Let her bleed out. No kino, no game. focus on myself, lift hard. Days 4-6: I start upping the kino and game. I Always fuck her on day 6. Never fails. Days 7-10: increasing game/fuck whenever Days 11-14: full court pres… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/02/18 11:02 PM |
| 5 | So why do women shit test themselves out of a decent relationship ?It’s orgnaic for them. Women are very insecure, so it’s their way of pinging off the environment -like sonar- to find out whether or not you’re still the Man who is in charge. She needs to know if you are willing to go after what YOU want and if you are living YOUR purpose and have strength. But in a marriage or a LTR, one test is not enough, she is biologically programmed to continually shit test you in order to verify that YOU are still in charge. Only then will she know that all the Masculine… | /r/askMRP | 01/02/18 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Valentine's Day“I Hadn’t started thinking about v day” Get out this mindset. It’s a made up holiday. Continue to think about yourself for once in your life: lift, exercise, eat healthy, start new healthy habits, up your SMV, new hobbies. Keep it up. | /r/askMRP | 31/01/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Helping a friend?Yes mmslp. | /r/askMRP | 31/01/18 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Need Some Help Analyzing Wife's Offer For Duty Sex2-4 times per month and he is on dead bedrooms? Doing pretty good. | /r/askMRP | 29/01/18 09:45 PM |
| 4 | Looking for good reads on general PUA stuffIf you already know the basics, I would focus on cultivating a strong inner game. Just know who you are, be natural. Inner game crosses over to every aspect of your life , not just Game. I wouldn’t waste time trying to find that “one new trick” or “canned line” that will get you laid. Refresher courses: yes, RSD, read “day bang”, also look into the London day game model. Simple but very effective. | /r/askMRP | 29/01/18 09:39 PM |
| 3 | FR: Stick Up for Your FOPeople are programmed to save time and energy, so they assume shit, take the easy way out, and go with it, instead of doing the work and thinking how it might apply to their own situation. Field reports help out newbs and intermediate players. We need more of these to see the theory in practice, not just the skills and tactics but mindsets as well. I thought it was a good post. People, even the retarded, need to learn how to mine for gold and value in posts and ignore the rest. I could just repl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | The Razor’s EdgeYou suffer from depression ? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with you're wife speculating your presence at work?Easy play,, Just respond to shit like this with AA. Something like “I’m spending time with my side piece”.. keep it fun and playful. Sidebar =====> | /r/askMRP | 29/01/18 03:59 PM |
| 7 | FR: Stick Up for Your FOThere’s value in this post. Fuck the naysayers. Most of us are here because we were in deadbedrooms and were pussies all our lives. I used to avoid confrontation at all cost and a typical nice guy. I could easily see how this would have went down back in the day. Biff takes a drink of my wife’s beer, I would have laughed in a nervous beta kind of way, and said come on guys , stop it. Biff would have twirled her around, probably grinded that ass too.. she would be smiling too while it happened. I… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/18 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Argument - critique requestedShut the fuck up. Sidebar ===> | /r/askMRP | 28/01/18 12:39 AM |
| 0 | Argument - critique requestedFrom his post history and by the way he avoids her before he leaves the house, instead of slapping that sweet ass goodbye, I can tell he is Pussy. He’s only been at this for about 3 months but still avoids all comments about his frame or leadership, he simply refuses to answer them. It’s because he is 50 years old and he is still looking for the answer in a higher power (on a christian sub) for an answer... instead of going within. I was there and this is what I discovered: When you go within, y… | /r/askMRP | 28/01/18 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Argument - critique requestedGood, now edit your post again. Don’t fucking talk about coffee this time: Where are you in YOUR map? How long been at this? Sidebar? Sex life? OYS? I used to make the classic mistake in my beta years of saying “I’ll be back in a hour dear”.. and shit would come up and then she would get all pissy with me if I was “late” 1.25 hours instead of 1 hour. Next time you leave the house, try not giving a specific time you’ll be back, even if you didn’t .. still set the frame as if you are leaving to dr… | /r/askMRP | 27/01/18 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Argument - critique requestedYou have a Ton of work to do. Two comments told you that it wasn’t about coffee and addressed an underlying issue you with, and all you got out of it was that everyone is hung up on coffee. Sounds like anger phase. “I’m not her butler, she’s not treating me well, leaving the house avoiding her, avoiding our comments, finger fucking her phone, she doesn’t deserve coffee”. Have you been lifting? Upping your SMV? Where are you in your MAP? | /r/askMRP | 27/01/18 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Argument - critique requestedIT WASNT ABOUT THE COFFEE. You are avoiding again. You need to break this negative, resentful swirl of bullshit you are in | /r/askMRP | 27/01/18 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Argument - critique requestedLove it.. I say shit like this all the time now and she eats it up, never thought in a million years I could say shit like this to my wife. Not my princess... He is too early to pull this off, he has a deeper issue to handle first. No leadership. When she said that he doesn’t give a shit, she means he isn’t a MAN. It was a kick to his balls. By the way she recoiled back and raised her arms up in disgust, he repulses her. She sees him as a man child. I garauntee that she was in her bed waiting fo… | /r/askMRP | 27/01/18 04:59 PM |
| -1 | Argument - critique requestedYep, not about the coffee. About the lack of leadership. She is sick, right ? So... you left the house, didn’t check on her? Didn’t see if she needed something? didn’t tell her you’ll be out for a while at the competition? Just left quietly? Missed a chance for leadership. A captian always checks on the well being of his crew. Start acting like a fucking man who is in charge, stop avoiding her. If she was sick and treating you well lately, get her some fucking coffee or some flowers or something… | /r/askMRP | 27/01/18 04:35 PM |
| 2 | When you sober up battle for the frameHe needs to fix his mindset. Shouldn’t be doing this for her, but for YOU. | /r/askMRP | 27/01/18 04:02 PM |
| 1 | When you sober up battle for the frameIt’s a normal part of the process, you were drunk for so long, she doesn’t believe that this is you. It’s an act to her. If she insist on answer to why all of a sudden you are fixing shit, just say that you want it to look good. Don’t DEER. Don’t explain. Start upping your SMV and show more leadership, but be ready for the shit tests to get worse at that point - because she’ll feel the dynamic changing but doesn’t want it to... plow through this phase. | /r/askMRP | 27/01/18 03:39 PM |
| 3 | When you sober up battle for the frameThat wasn’t a shit test, she’s pissed off at you and full of resentment for all those years you were a fuck up. Treating you like a child. Keep at it. | /r/askMRP | 27/01/18 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Self-image is your key to a better life (Ch. 1 analysis of Psycho-cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz)Fuck no. You can’t go around saying this stuff. Mainstream advice is tuned for the masses - very low frequency. Wouldn’t sell anyway, not wide enough base. They would twist it and warp to the extreme and make fun of it. Like the red pill recently. Or mrp if it got out. The masses want to know who recently went on a rampage, who just took a selfie, who liked their photo, who just rocked their new outfit, etc. we are in the minority. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/18 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Self-image is your key to a better life (Ch. 1 analysis of Psycho-cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz)Cool. But I won’t even try to explain it. So much much much more than being positive. It literally changes your neural pathways, your brain changes connections and forms new ones. Dr maltz even says it in his book about this was the greatest discovery but he never went mainstream with it because of the out cry other doctors would have. He was a plastic surgeon who came up with this after dealing with his patients and noticed their personalities changed or not after the plastic surgery was done. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/18 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Self-image is your key to a better life (Ch. 1 analysis of Psycho-cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz)You obviously looked up Dr. Maltz’s book i mentioned in my last post. Thanks. If people do the exercises in that book, they can alter their self image and become a different person, literally. Top athletes do the exercises All the Time. That’s the secret. Verify this in Lenny besoms book. He was an Olympic shooter. That’s how they getto the next level. I’ve been practicing this for over a year. I overcame depression by using it, Overcame public speaking, so many other areas too. It’s also called… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/01/18 11:37 PM |
| 3 | The Razor’s EdgeI don’t think there’s a difference really. My own personal philosophy is that I’m not leaving anything up to chance. I make everything a study. Successful people wrote down how they did what they did in books. And to all free online , I rarely spent a dime on anything. Either my parents bought me the books or I found them online. I’m not getting to the end of my life and realize that I only lived one half of it,,, not from a lack of trying but from a lack of knowing. I didn’t know shit about get… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/01/18 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Under cover shit-tests?Great response. Looking back at the worse deadbedeoom years , when the kids were really young, I was right there with her doing all kinds of chores and helping out; executing like a champ but I was hen pecked and nagged to death every ducking day. She was ruthless. I couldn’t do anything right. And wasn’t getting pussy. But yet, when people would come over or we would go out, , I always had to hear the “you have the best husband in the world”. routine ... I was executing but not leading. I was f… | /r/askMRP | 20/01/18 10:27 PM |
| 2 | The Razor’s EdgeMy book? How to pass an engineering exam - to get your engineering license. I wrote one practice problem every fucking day for over a year and had a book at the end. My razors edge, not only was it writing a little bit every day, but everyone of my solutions referenced the engineering boards reference manual by page #. No other engineering study guide book out there actually told you what page to find the equations on. That’s how my book is different. The board let’s you bring the manual in duri… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/18 10:02 PM |
| 4 | The Razor’s EdgeI’m 40, I’ve been reading self help for 25 years. Started with Tony Robbins of course, Zig Ziglar, Jim Rohn (hands down the best there ever was for business and self development). I suffered severe depression all my life, so the self help was a form of motivating myself.... and I always got a pretty good pump up from it, but it was only temperory/ short term. You always go back to your baseline. Struggled all my life. But 2 years ago, after I found MRP and mmslp, I stumbled upon a book which was… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/18 09:52 PM |
| 1 | And now she doesn't want to go to the strip club.Improvise. Have her be the stripper for you. | /r/askMRP | 19/01/18 09:03 PM |
| 3 | The Razor’s EdgeActually, if you aren’t into the woo woo stuff, I’d say don’t waste you time. The razors edge is sort of out of place in his book because it’s so practical. Whereas everything else that he says and is in that book is for deep thought and more woo woo type shit. law of attraction, vibration, vacuum law of prosperity, changing your programming/ paradigm, etc If you think those topics sound like bullshit, don’t waste your time. If you want more practical application, read Jim Rohns stuff. The sligh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/18 08:46 PM |
| 2 | And now she doesn't want to go to the strip club.Haven’t been tracking her cycle? Reverse engineer it to the exact day to figure out what day her cycle was on. Mine gets playful days 14-17. Set it up for next month for the same time frame. Don’t ask her. | /r/askMRP | 19/01/18 08:36 PM |
| 9 | The Razor’s EdgeBob Proctor’s “ you were born rich”. You can find a free pdf online. He gives it away free. Warning. The Dude’s like 80 years old now, when you first listen to him (tons of videos on YT) or read his stuff, he’s kind of out there and woo woo, he’s into the law of attraction, etc. I had to revisit his work from time to time because it’s powerful if you can get over the magic of it all. He talks about changing your Paradigm and think and grow rich from Napoleon Hill. And it seems like he says the s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/18 06:20 PM |
| 1 | The Razor’s EdgeYep, I was going to tie it into MRP tactics but thought it was getting too long. Thanks | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/18 06:11 PM |
| 4 | The Razor’s EdgeOnce you see the Razor’s Edge in practice, you can’t unsee it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Is my wife crazy or am I going ramboWhen did you actually tell her that you made plans to go to your parents ? Hopefully not the day before or the day of ???? If that’s true than that’s where you fucked up. Great that you made plans without seeking her permission, but you need to give advanced notice dude , so there’s no room for bullshit. In the big picture, if you are new to this (leading), it will get worse before it gets better. Just keep doing what you are doing. She isn’t used to it and doesn’t want the current dynamic to ch… | /r/askMRP | 19/01/18 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Make post sex an intimacy reward for her.a bad Lifetime movie... Some of it is good: Rock hug is perfect to pass comfort tests Good to be scarce from time to time. Go out of town for work for a few days here and there. All the other shit is retarded | /r/askMRP | 19/01/18 12:14 AM |
| 1 | The effectiveness of the Five Love LanguagesPerfect then. Use her LL as a simple rewarding mechanism to get the most bang for your buck.... it’s fine tuning though. | /r/askMRP | 17/01/18 05:16 PM |
| 3 | The effectiveness of the Five Love LanguagesIf you read it with your wife , then you’re gay. She’ll hold it over your head any chance she gets... “ You didn’t speak my love language today, so I’m acting like a bitch today.. “ “ you didn’t get me a present this week, so no sex”. “ you didn’t tell me how beautiful I am, so no bj” yada yada yada. On the other hand, I’m all about using leverage (mechanical advantages) so yes know what her LL is and play that hand if she is being nice as a reward. By no means tell her. She just wants you to ge… | /r/askMRP | 17/01/18 03:58 PM |
| 15 | Red Pill HeresyFuck her, become a man for you. Your hamster is spinning all around her frame. | /r/askMRP | 15/01/18 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Sexual TensionDon’t know, don’t care. It’s sort like a field report really. If you get any value from it, well... good, if not , ignore it. I see this place as a locker room , dudes sharing what works vs doesn’t work. There’s theory and then there’s practicality. Learning the exceptions to the rules is what makes you great. You’ll start seeing all the different layers of complexity and become really awesome. If I’m flawed , tell me and than I can decide if it’s bullshit or improve my Game. Best just learn how… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/18 04:53 AM |
| 5 | [FR] The Styrofoam CupCool. Reminds me of something my friend did in college. He would go out with a coconut , with the top cut off. He would order a drink and put it in his cup holder (coconut).. instant conversation topic from anyone. If a chick asked about it, he had this pre made story about how were will on spring break last year and went on a an excursion where we had to climb a tree and see if we could get a coconut. Chicks loved it. Dude was ahead of his time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/18 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Sexual TensionRead nmmng then. Most of it will be for you. Couple sections in that book killed me. Yes, start practicing catch and release , along with your day game. Get some abundance mindset going on. Don’t cheat yet, you’ve been a pussy for a long time, that’s all she knows, give her chance to catch up, 1000 foot rope concept. Look it up. Start listening to “how to be alpha” on YouTube. Listen to RSD, sasha daygame, unlimitiable men, tons of shit. Sounds ridiculous I know, I’m forty years old with 3 kids,… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/18 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Sexual TensionYes, that’s what I’m saying. Extremely important in a LTR, where you have to keep gaming her all the time. AND she knows your history and all those Beta years. Kino can be sexually or just a hand on herback guiding her thru the doorway, or hold her hand at a certain moment, a brush of her hair , etc. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/18 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Sexual TensionLooking back, yes the depression caused it. I was stuck in my head. Was in a different world. I too never had a fuck like rabbits stage either before kids. I was her “nicest boyfriend ever!” Which means I doubled down on the niceness -thinking she would want to fuck more. Wrong. Totally wrong. It can change dude. Even after kids. My wife was low libido too... but there is no such thing as “low libido”. Stay out of dead bedrooms. I’m serious. Stop listening to anything mainstream. It’s all dumbed… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/18 01:28 AM |
| 7 | Sexual TensionLearn to have fun with her, with the kids, with yourself. Was just at the grocery with my wife and the kids. She opened one of the refrigerated doors to get ice cream.. I immediately drew a tic tac toe board with my finger in the condensation on the door and said “your move, bitch, “. Kids didn’t hear me. We spent the next 5 min playing tic tac toe! Funny loving, flirting, not giving a flying fuck what anyone thought. Pre MRP I would have been pushing the cart following my wife around the store.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/18 11:31 PM |
| 6 | Sexual TensionMore specifics: Learn about kino. Watch the videos. I never use to touch my wife at ALL. It’s awesome. Learn about shit test and comfort test. You can apply this Instantly. The shit test concept blew me away. It’s brilliant. You need to start passing her shit test immediately. Start becoming the leader of your relationship. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/18 10:22 PM |
| 5 | Sexual TensionMy confidence sky rocketed by cultivating a strong “inner game.” Suffering depression all my life , I was dead on the inside. Very shy too. Read and watch pua videos online about inner game. I use it at work when giving presentations. Used to be extremely nervous etc, now I really don’t give a fuck. I know who I am. The book “Day bang “ helped me become more social. Afraid to talk to anyone. But now I can start a conversion with anything. It’s awesome. Practicing the day game while at work. I kn… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/18 10:15 PM |
| 8 | Sexual TensionDude, I could write you a novel. First, I needed to unfuck myself and get my head straight. I suffered severe depression and I knew I had to take control it of. Got help. Then let go of all the resentment I had for her..great person , great mom, but all those years of her denying me, on vacations , etc, let it fucking go, started on a clean slate. 10 year dead bedroom will fuck with you. Skill building: Read All of the sidebar. I started with mmslp. Watch PUA videos online, work on my social anx… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/18 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Sexual tensionThanks. Glad a few people saw some value from it. I got reamed from some vets for posting this. A lot of hate mail too. | /r/askMRP | 14/01/18 04:15 PM |
| 0 | Sexual tensionIf they’re newbs, and they are on this site, trust me when I say they can’t get laid. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/18 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Wife Birthday AdviceMap = male action plan Look at books by Athol Kay. He wrote married man sex life primer,(mmslp) his best book imo. First book I read about this stuff and it blew my mind. Read that one first if you haven’t. Good introduction to this. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/18 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Watching her world fall apart post separation. MRP fixes the man, not the relationship.You WILL get pussy, but it may not necessary be from your wife. | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Sexual tensionHa. I knew what he meant. My point is that you can increase that momentum by ramping up more intense “checks”, more inputs, like a massive flywheel affect. At one point, it’s spinning so fast that it takes less and less inputs to keep it spinning and she is ready to explode. That’s been my game recently, instead of fucking in a random Thursday night, I double her spin for an epic session when I chose. There’s an ebb and flow to it. | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Sexual tensionDefinitely start with some light drive bys though. After a few months she was doing drive bys to me. It’s good feedback. | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Sexual tensionYep, didn’t mean to add the word “first” in there. Good catch. I had almost a year of internal unfucking myself before I saw improvement in sex. That comes last. | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Sexual tensionHa! Isn’t that how Superman tricked the 3 lords into getting into the chamber which depleted their energy in Superman 2 ? The one with Richard Pryor? | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 07:54 PM |
| 0 | Sexual tensionThe kino, teasing, push/pull, flirting, on off, constant gaming .....is the Rom Com asshole. It creates the Story. It’s called setting the stage. . Not taking about acting like hue fucking grant and be lovey dovet bullshit and fucking prostitues on the side. | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 07:43 PM |
| -4 | Sexual tensionTalking about the same fucking thing dip shit. I Didnt say for a long period of time. Yes , always be doing. I’m specially talking about ramping it up to create that unbridled sexual tension with her... just waiting for it to explode. Designed Specially for me... this weekend, it can be whenever the fuck you want it to be. Why are you “checking in” with your wife? let me know how that works. | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Sexual tensionHa. Now you are just confusing everyone 👍 | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 07:17 PM |
| -4 | Sexual tensionsuggest you give your love letter to her when she gets home from work today... and then go right into “ the Talk tm”. Panties will become instantly soaked when she reads how much you love her but would like to work on just one little thing..... | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Wife Birthday AdviceIt’s sobering looking back I know. I made myself sick few years ago after reading all this stuff and finally understanding what was really happening. I have young boys, you best believe they will know these concepts as they get older. Read “saving her best “ and “she’s not yours, only your turn” post. Hits home. It can turn around. Takes time to change the dynamic. Give her time to come around though, even after a year goes by, figure out the % of time versus how long you were a little bitch she… | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Wife Birthday Advicehttp://www.puaforums.com/general-questions/17282-why-there-wonderful-weird-power-being-asshole.html | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Wife Birthday AdviceTry expirementing with “asshole game” to see how she responds. Mine responds well, but yet, I was a complete pussy before. When we first starting dating in college, I got the classic “you are the nicest guy I ever dated”. Boy, I thought I was in .. I doubled down on that (niceness) - huge mistake. Rolled it on over to our marriage and dead bed room for almost a decade... thank god I was begging for sex on our 10 year anniversary because I found this place the next day. | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Wife Birthday AdviceSomeone read the sidebar finally ! | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 12:57 AM |
| 4 | Wife Birthday AdviceIt’s One of the biggest concepts I first learned here. I was always chasing my wife , always bending over backwards to meet her every whim, if only I’d keep buying her more jewelry, more vacations, new cars, stylish clothes, maybe she would fuck me...nope. Carrot on a stick. After implementing my MAP, upping my SMV, Getting muscles, dreading, now she is the one who pursues me. If she hadn’t upped her game, I was outta there. I actually gave her skittles this last Xmas and She loved it! | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Wife Birthday AdviceGoogle “be a skittles man” Or https://www.google.com/amp/s/heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/amp/ | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Wife Birthday AdviceIn her frame way too much. Did you work on anything since the last time you posted? | /r/askMRP | 12/01/18 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Anniversary IdeasIf she turns you down, ( I wouldnt know why.....?) draft up a love letter tomorrow for us to edit, and then give to her and then you can have the “TALK” !!! It fixes everything.. I heard. Also, when you finger her, do it with a “come here” gesture, lick her right nipple twice, suck left once, rub her clit in circle anti clockwise motion, it will make her squirt!!! I saw a YouTube video about it. Ask her first , though, to make sure she is comfortable with it. Good luck ! | /r/askMRP | 11/01/18 10:55 PM |
| 9 | BPP Reads the "Complete Marriage Counselor": Confirmation Bias galore in the belly of the beast“Chore Whore”. Oh my. Brings back cring worthy memories. In the midst of my blue pill beta husband dead bedroom days, my wife used to verbally rape me about how I NEVER helped her around the house. I was so accomandating that I sat her down and asked her write out a chore list that needs to be done... fuck I was so gay. She wrote out a thesis on several pieces of paper. Everyday I would go through the items one by one like a little bitch. hoping she would notice... maybe I get get sex! Ha. God, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Deconditioning the wife who is disgusted at your touch - 10 Levels of KinoWow, that's awesome. Have to look into that. I don't understand where the backlash comes from.sometimes. Red pill totalled changed my life, but i wouldn't say my wife will suck me off on demand. Lets not pretend that your life.is magically cured by implementing just the sidebar. You have to use it in practice. life isn't cured, but it's managed. Has my sex life vastly improved.by mrp? Hell yes. Has my outlook on life greatly improved? He'll yes. Has.red.pill sent me in an awesome path of self di… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/17 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Deconditioning the wife who is disgusted at your touch - 10 Levels of KinoI'm noticing this phenomenon everywhere now. My kid's cub scout master just emailed the entire pack about the "Rules" for our annual camp out next week. It's an annual camp out for 2 nights. It's always been great in the past. Instead of giving the basic rules, which everyone should already know-fucking common sense, he emailed this god awful long email with about 50 "rules" to follow. While it's all true and accurate, People started replying in grave detail to almost everyone of his "rules" and… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/17 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Deconditioning the wife who is disgusted at your touch - 10 Levels of KinoWe r on the same page. Totally agree with you. I just wrote a new post on how to actually do something which will probably get lots of mental masturbation comments. All because it doesn't feel good or necessarily agree with dogma sidebar. Totally different note, part of my red pill journey I realized that I'm very spiritual but not religious any more. 35 yrs hard core catholic. But now, i couldn't stand the constant arguments and debates in the church about the teachings and dogma, etc.. Come to… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/17 06:07 PM |
| 6 | 7 Principles of Magic (How to)Thanks, yep obviously don't just lie to her like a biotch. My point was once you are getting IOIs from women, this can fill in the gap until it happens in front of her being using a little "magic". Arnolds other law is to avoid the naysayers, idgaf about them anymore, this works for me, made it my own. Im 40 yrs old, happiest I've even been in my life. Not going to debate anyone anymore. Living my life on my own terms. Filter out what works for you and throw away the rest. like my response in th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/17 05:50 PM |
| 4 | 7 Principles of Magic (How to)Dude, not literally. Trying to convey to newbs to be actively engaged with present energy. Helping the coach throw passing routes to the kids at practice, small talking with the moms, being alive, playful, a fucking man. eventually the soccer moms will start looking for you, flocking around you and small talk, ask about school , homework, their kids, your kids, etc.. If u are good and game them, it can get flirty really quick. Can't believe that u help them with homework! Wow, u drop them off at… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/17 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Deconditioning the wife who is disgusted at your touch - 10 Levels of KinoI think It’s a good post man. This could have helped me when I first started out 3 years from a dead bed room. I had no concept of kino. I only touched her when I wanted sex and she would recoil. I didn't get it. She should "want" to have sex with her husband no matter what because I did the fucking dishes tonight.. like she wanted me too... But for seasoned MRPers.. I can see why this is getting backlash. Too much detail. I’m 3 years down this rabbit hole, it runs deep, I now see that people do… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/17 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Shut down wife down, Hamster Spins up.The bull doesn't care that the cows don't initiate. You fucked up dude. She actually initiated and didn't STFU. ??? | /r/askMRP | 03/10/17 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Taking over and getting my finances in order.Finance advice can be so fucking overly complicated… I’ve come to believe that it’s like that on purpose - to make it seem like you need to hire a finincial planner. These fucking clowns don’t know anymore than you do most of the time. 1) Do everything in the post below. 2) Don’t spend more than you earn. (Get your monthly income debts/credits balanced) 3) Automatic Millionaire Book. Read it. You need to max out your retirement plan and let compound interest do the rest. Compound interest is the… | /r/askMRP | 02/10/17 08:57 PM |
| 27 | AbundanceMy god, i saw the same construction worker with the same shirt yesterday. No fucking joke. Awesome post. Look, my red pill journey began 3 years ago, abundance concept has helped me tremendously. I start off each morning now with "abundance is my natural state".. I repeat throughout the day. Newbies, Look up "abundance blocks" online and how to get rid of them, unfucking believable. I see and feel the world in a different way now.can literally tell if someone is living in abundance or scarcity j… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/17 03:52 PM |
| 0 | Beware of Half TruthsLove it. Laughed out loud at the ending. Thanks. mastery ? Spergs around here think that the heavens and earth will open for you -if only you do that "one thing". Ha. Exactly my point. There is no "one thing". It's a gradient of things blended together. Dude, just fix that shit attitude and the heavens will open and ur wife legs with spread like the red sea, dude just be positive and see everything as a challenge.. And everything will be fine, dude, take some criticism all it it will be great fo… | /r/askMRP | 13/09/17 09:16 PM |
| -1 | Beware of Half TruthsGood comment. thanks. A little more thought than the "heavens and earth will open" if she likes you. | /r/askMRP | 13/09/17 08:34 PM |
| -1 | Beware of Half TruthsYou sound butthurt. Boo. Should lift more. It will help. | /r/askMRP | 13/09/17 07:30 PM |
| -2 | Beware of Half TruthsHeavens and earth fag, again ? Ha! great post by op i agree. let's just copy and paste more platitudes on every post we see: Another good point is that I'm not owning my shit , or how about my smv isn't high yet, or how about push pull. No original thought from OP. Bottom of the pyramid. | /r/askMRP | 13/09/17 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Best man speech?Yep, not about u you giving an epic speech. It's about them. Short, simple, from the heart. 99% of the people there will interpret it by the way it makes them feel and how it comes across , not on the actual words.. Assuming u don't talk about fucking the hoes and drinking , etc. Sandwich technique: Start out with something positive and congratulate them, then tell a little funny story bout the two of them, (how he missed her when he was out of town, how they first met, etc) and then finish it w… | /r/askMRP | 13/09/17 06:37 PM |
| -6 | Beware of Half TruthsOnly ass burgers mine through someone's post only to pull out one sentence to try to turn it into a general platitude we all know. Zero value added.. Average, mediocre thought process. she will move the heavens and earth?? Ha ha ha. Fucking retard. | /r/askMRP | 13/09/17 06:08 PM |
| -4 | Beware of Half TruthsI sense Aspergers.. That's a retarded comment dude. You must have all answers. | /r/askMRP | 13/09/17 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Asking for more assistanceThat was stupid. Why did u attempt to text about logistics ? And let alone.. trying to help her fix her problem? You just set yourself up for failure. She doesn't give 2 fucks about u trying to help her fix shit. Read up on text game. Only logistical texts should he about change in plans about whose picking up the kids after work. | /r/askMRP | 13/09/17 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Beginning the Journey... Wish me luck and set me straight! (warning: long)For this to work, u must go ALL in, none of this lets give it a shot crap. U r so nice and so far up ur wife's ass, she knows exactly what she has (a loving beta who will support her no matter what and who will never fuck another chick). Why should she ever change her behavior? Wife will act as shitty as u allow her. | /r/askMRP | 02/09/17 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Beginning the Journey... Wish me luck and set me straight! (warning: long)"i crave a freak in the sheets" Well, become a man who deserves to get a freak in the sheets. Right now, u sound like an emotional tampon. Lots of male hampstering. OP is correct, u r way too nice. Work on that first. Also, ur wife saying thank.u for cleaning up wasn't a test. Ur response really wasn't that bad either..next time just stfu. But u didn't get the response u wanted because she still sees u as BETA. Need to increase ur SMV, and lose the all loving husband attitude. For fucks sake, st… | /r/askMRP | 02/09/17 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Telling her what i'm doingDo you only have 1 car? Should have told her that "I'll be driving my car separately tomorrow - I have x,y,z to take care of after work, tell your sister I said hi.". Really, at this point, any kind of masculine push back or anything from your normal BETA routine you do or say WILL be met with yapping from her. Trust me. You have been a BETA pussy for a long time, she wants to keep that dynamic the same. I was one for 10 fucking years. I'm 3 years in. At first, it gets worse though. Keep this up… | /r/askMRP | 01/09/17 02:16 PM |
| 2 | How did you deal with MRP in the early days?I was in your shoes. Dude, try 10 years of a beta/pussy/dead bedroom and then finding this place, not 5. 10 years is a long fucking time to realize that you fucked up your life. You will turn it around, use the anger to unfuck your life (lift, side job, passive income, journal, etc.) I'm 3 years in, but my anger phase lasted about 1 year ! There was a great post (Parts 1 and 2) about a year ago in red pill about getting over your relationship PTSD. Perfect for you. See link below. Part 1: https:… | /r/askMRP | 31/08/17 08:31 PM |
| 4 | New to MRP, starting to understand the concepts but no idea how to apply them.U didn't talk about sex, frequently, or smv?? Do u have a MAP, working out, increasing ur SMV? Or just reading ? sounds like u r still in the beginning phases. Once u start this journey, it will get worse at first. Does for everyone. The dynamic between ur wife and u being a career beta (pussy) has been set in stone.. If she senses any changes in you she will despise it and attempt to crash and burn ur positive changes.... That's why u need to STFU in those infancy stages.. Why the fuck did u te… | /r/askMRP | 31/08/17 01:44 AM |
| 1 | [FR] And thus the novice was enlightened"Had the talk"... . Stopped reading after that. .Why the fuck are you talking? | /r/askMRP | 31/08/17 01:38 AM |
| 1 | New to MRP, starting to understand the concepts but no idea how to apply them.U didn't talk about sex, frequently, or smv?? Do u have a MAP, working out, increasing ur SMV? Or just reading ? sounds like u r still in the beginning phases. Once u start this journey, it will get worse at first. The dynamic between ur wife and u being a career beta (pussy) has been set in stone.. If she senses any changes in you she will despise it and attempt to crash and burn ur positive changes.... That's why u need to STFU in those infancy stages.. Why the fuck did u tell her to try anoth… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/08/17 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Dread-game may be the most important aspect of a Redpill LTR or marriage.that's right. My bad. The original book was titled "Bang" which focuses on night game, then the author wrote "Day bang" which focuses on during the day. Two completely different strategies, women have there bitch shields down during the day and don't expect an opening. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/08/17 04:57 PM |
| 10 | Dread-game may be the most important aspect of a Redpill LTR or marriage.So Golden right there ^ So fucking true. My wife is the kind who CONSTANTLY finger fucks her phone everyday, searching for all the facebook, Instagram, twitter, status updates from her "friends"... in order to "like" them, or see if someone "likes" her post. SHE FEEDS off of the VALIDATION of OTHER WOMEN. How could I not see this before, it's so obvious. Now that I know this, I use it to my advantage. I can be the best fucking dad and husband in the world, owning my shit, but she doesn't want to… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/08/17 03:32 PM |
| 33 | Dread-game may be the most important aspect of a Redpill LTR or marriage.You probably should have titled it "Field Report". I like it though. It’s good to review the basics from time to time. No one ever erected a statue for a critic. Ignore the naysayers. Any newbies lurking, for starters, your wife needs to see that you can flirt with other women. When I first knew I had to start doing this, I was scared to death. How do I actually flirt with them? What are the mechanics? I need an example problem so I can model and study it. It’s so fucking easy fellas. Just strik… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/08/17 02:43 PM |
| 4 | Spotting a CHAD through the OrbitersI understand what u r trying to do here, but this is whacked.. No one here fears CHAD. There is never talk of fearing him. You reach a point during this process where you realize that you can live happily by yourself or easily get another plate if your wife sucks off CHAD. I turned into a completely actualized man after 3 years of this, and I don't need my wife. I choose her because she adds value to my life. She is a great mother to my boys.. However, if she were ever to drain CHADS balls at th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/08/17 02:33 AM |
| 11 | [FR] Then and now - the difference a year or two makes.Good FR, Great work. When I first got married, I decided to rip up the existing fucked up carpet and install wood floors DIY. I faced constant shit tests from my wife about how I didn’t know what I was doing… It took me 2 full weeks working after work and she nagged the shit of out me. But looking back, I was a such a little beta boy, I was seeking her validation every 10 fucking minutes – asking her if thought the wood looked good "so fa"r, asking her if the wood looked shiny after I wiped off … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/17 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Tips for gaming other women when you're marriedHa. I totally misread ur post then. My bad. You can see where my mind is at right now. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/08/17 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Tips for gaming other women when you're marriedI'm not judging, thought your post could have been better though. I’m not at this point yet.. but here’s how I would approach it Married women are HIGHLY undesirable in society. -kids, she’s old, off-limits, old-fashion, not cool You want to communicate that she is DISERABLE, not some old married chick. Chat her up. Flirt & give some compliments. (how do you stay so fit after having 2 kids?, tell her she looks fucking great & sexy in that dress) Stroke her ego a little. She probably doesn’t get … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/08/17 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Advanced Chess (Field Report)I like that saying, thanks. Will use that. Finally someone who gets it. Advanced chess just means two players, both using computers , playing against each other. Didn't intend that my work examples were advanced, but just to illustrate a point. I use a computer partner in my side business self publishing books on Amazon, very successfull, the computer does the brute force calculations , searching for google key words, hits, searches, to get a feel for the number of people searching for this nich… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/08/17 09:58 PM |
| 2 | FR: Strategic Application of RamboI know dude.. I agree with you.. I really didn't mean you per say, just in general. I just made my 3 yr anniversary here... Life totally turned around...previous 10 deadbedroom. I am at same.point to think I can have it both ways too, but realizing sometimes I can't. I have to revisit the basics too. Awalt. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/08/17 06:25 PM |
| 5 | FR: Strategic Application of RamboOf course this phenomenon happens. WTF? It’s why married game is challenging. It never ends. Husband must learn how to keep gaming the same chick repeatedly, day after day, year after year.... This usually happens to me around xmass time, when I’m home from work for 2 weeks. I’m home 100% of the time, being a great dad, relaxing at home, spending time shopping together, going to family parties, hanging out with friends, etc.. But if you think that by spending time together, talking to her, being… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/08/17 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Advanced Chess (Field Report)What i was trying to say. Well said, thank you. I started off strong but my ending was unclear as i reread it. It's amazing and sometimes magical.. Maybe because I work with older men in my line of work. Guess it depends on your situation. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/08/17 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Retreat to your man cave!Good post. As part of your MAP, you need to do this. When first starting to practice day game during lunchtime at work (I was incredibly shy and knew I had to work on small talk, helped me out tremendously), I always had to warm up and it took awhile to get the vibe of doing it.. Really, this "vibe" I realized meant becoming PRESENT to the MOMENT, not being stuck in my fucking head all day. As an engineer, I'm always in front of my work computer staring at the screen or a set of drawings on my d… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/08/17 05:52 PM |
| 9 | Fast & Fun Field ReportAwesome dude. Remember: A woman who is attracted to a man will laugh at his dumb sexual jokes... but a woman who isn't attracted to a man will be disgusted by the same joke. Pre MRP, when out with friends, she would laugh at sexual jokes from the alpha of the group, but if I attempted to make the same joke, she would recoil and tell me that I was acting out of line. Now, I make sexual comments every fucking day, it's just part of me now. She needs to know that there is a man around the house who… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/08/17 03:19 PM |
| 3 | The Red pill is training wheels for betasGreat analogy because the rider is only supposed to use them until they have developed a usable sense of balance on the bicycle. Raising them higher as the child's skill increases. Training wheels that are installed too high and tight (like rigid RED PILL concepts) can become an obstacle to learning if they are adjusted incorrectly, because they prevent the bike from leaning (you need to get out there and FEEL the natural ebb and flow, the ups & downs, back & forth, good responses & rejections, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/17 04:27 PM |
| -1 | Marital Confidence Intervals and Probabilistic Stage SettingOn a roll dude.. Heavy reading for a Friday evening.. More like a Monday or Tuesday post.. But I like it. I need to read it a few more times. I heard a good explanation about OI from Nick Saban during an interview after a college game. He talks about not focusing on the outcome, but just on the systems in place. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/17 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with the stressed wife.ok, if you put it like that then I agree. I had flashbacks from about 2 weeks ago when a friend of mine was complaining about his bitchy sexless wife... He told me that they both took the Love Languages quiz together and he was waiting to see if it will help his situation.. but the outcome wasn't going so well this far.. I wanted so badly to reveal fight club to him, but decided not to... but that dam love language shit is a bad idea because it's another thing your wife will hold over you... Wel… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/17 05:05 PM |
| 5 | First Post, 4 Weeks In. Fucking Oneitis.Always carry her. Pick her up, twirl her around in the kitchen, Show her your strength, dance with her, spin around, Doesn't always have to lead to sex though. Pick her up and drop her off in another room for no reason just to fuck with her, grope her, and then leave to go check on the kids, pick her up on the edge of the counter, drive-by grinding, and then leave. don't wait around. When I first started doing this stuff - after 10 boring & miserable years- my wife asked if I was reading a book … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/17 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with the stressed wife.Good post. Women are horrible leaders, they get stressed out over the details & they don't want to know the details... They would rather wait at the finish line for the finished product. Only thing I don't agree with is announcing it to her or calling attention to what you are ACTUALLY doing. Just slowly take control of everything. If you announce it, you could possible be setting yourself up for failure.. or an opportunity for her to tell you didn't complete something on the list. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/17 02:36 PM |
| 11 | First Post, 4 Weeks In. Fucking Oneitis.Lot's of male hamstering in here. You are only 4 weeks in dude, chill the fuck out with all the emotional shit. Work on becoming attractive then... Don’t reinvent the wheel, Go through the steps. But do it slowly. Too much talking. More doing. STFU. Get out of your HEAD. You're trap in there. Get into the world. "I want so badly for her to be enthusiastic, interested and affectionate for me, but she is not because she is not attracted to me because I am not attractive." - I was there too.. 3 yea… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/17 02:08 PM |
| 15 | The biological step-mother.Fucking awesome post. "the most important factor in regaining the stable husbandmentality is simply to take over." - GOLD I realized actually this after 10 fucking years of misery in a dead bedroom. I read MMSLP and it felt like I got hit in the face with a 2x4.. That's when I envisioned the flux capacitor, which makes time travel possible and pussy wet.... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/17 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Men, Women, Children, and Dogs - Why I Treat My Woman Like Man's Best Friend - Part 2You're way too early to purposely fail her comfort test. That's why I said it was an advanced move in my other post. It wont create Dread, just piss her off. There's an apparent lag time too until she will start seeing the new you. -because she already knows your story (BETA retard) and has been with you for 10 years. You are predictable. But once the lag time catches up, then you can try purposely pissing her off. Passing daily shit test and a few comfort test here and there is like hitting sin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/17 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Men, Women, Children, and Dogs - Why I Treat My Woman Like Man's Best Friend - Part 2I was in YOUR shoes dude, That's why I was being blunt.. the point of MRP is not to just get more sex.... It's about tearing down your own limiting beliefs, rebuilding yourself back up with more empowering beliefs, and also doing the same with the relationship.- so you can get more pussy.. But this time, you are in control. We are all so much more capable than what we were lead to believe. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/17 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Men, Women, Children, and Dogs - Why I Treat My Woman Like Man's Best Friend - Part 2We have the same story. 10 year dead bedroom, horribly beta for 100% of the time! but I'm 3 years into this now... Deliberately failing a comfort test is stupid. You will be missing a perfect opportunity to reset the relationship...and that's the WHOLE fucking point of this! but now, you get to do rebuild it on your own terms and mold the relationship the best way possible-- with YOU acting like a fucking man this time, not a little bitch. Why would you NOT want to pass a "test" that you already… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/17 06:49 PM |
| 9 | Men, Women, Children, and Dogs - Why I Treat My Woman Like Man's Best Friend - Part 2SOLID: "I am married but I tend to follow the TRP model because my wife responds better to being treated like a dog or a child as opposed to a 1st-mate. " - I'm adapting this model too because my wife definitely responds better when I treat her like my dog as opposed to 1st captain. I've been taking the perspective lately that women are really like zoo animals. The have traits, relationships, and needs, but thier independence is truly a facade. You can pet them depending on the circumstances, bu… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/17 04:15 PM |
| 1 | FR – Qualities of a Good HusbandThere is always a next level.. thanks for reminding me. I've come so far and got really comfortable.. But you are right, I need to take it to the next level now, Fibonacci was mathematician who came up with a sequence of numbers which modeled the breeding growth of a population of rabbits. Each number in the series is the sum of the previous two numbers. It's also a betting strategy to use to take it to the next level -when the cards are in your favor (more low cards have been dealt which means … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/17 02:53 PM |
| 1 | FR – Qualities of a Good HusbandDamn, you summed it up in 2 sentences -what I was trying to say. Perhaps it could be called "maintenance drama" too. Before the part breaks or wears out (has an emotional outburst, gets pissy), you fed her hamster some food here and there, give her what she needs, but you get control & set the tone and tempo.. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/17 02:40 PM |
| 2 | FR – Qualities of a Good HusbandIt's just a tool in the toolbox. But a powerful tool. In my dead bedroom years, I NEVER gave her ANY negative emotion. I was always positive and easy going and a "perfect" little bitch husband. She was miserable and so was I. I learned how to incorporate the wind of emotions now. (after I unfucked myself)Stop small and get mad at stupid little things around the house, do it from a cocky & playful frame. She will laugh most of the time.. I do it all the time now. Every once in a while, really get… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/17 02:11 PM |
| 2 | FR – Qualities of a Good HusbandYou're probably right... It was a softball.. I was too busy to notice the giveme.. I wouldn't say I modulate my frame based on her cycles... I guess it's more like using it to double down when I know when the odds are in my favor.. Like blackjack, it's the only game where you can double your bet when you know the odds are in your favor..ie doubling down / splitting when the dealer is showing a bust card.. So you can actually maximize your bet during a high card count (more low cards have been pl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/17 02:00 PM |
| 3 | FR – Qualities of a Good HusbandI've noticed a pattern whenever I have long 3-4 day weekend with a holiday being home, or over XMass break or any holiday really. I always noticed my wife getting a little pissy toward the last day. Probably because I'm home too much, got a little too comfortable , not gaming as much, spending time with kids, being a good Dad, etc.. I'm enjoying my time off from work and taking it easy...not giving her any feelz. Well, my wife starts to get bossy and try to start giving orders.. So now, I start … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/17 02:36 AM |
| 3 | FR – Qualities of a Good HusbandI'll find the post on the red pill reddit where I first read about it. It talks about.giving her a wide range of emotions and why it works... Basically by understanding the theory of Faraday's law of electromagnetism. Kind of like feelings before logic | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/17 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Men, Woman, Children, and Dogs - Why I Treat My Wife Like Man's Best Friend - Part 1Do a search on the Red Pill Reddit for "Treating Women Like Dogs". It's from 2 years ago but explains exactly what you are describing. It's awesome. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/07/17 08:12 PM |
| 5 | This shit worksVeteran here.. This shit really does.work.. Yes, take.it.slow. Realize that like when gambling, when u r winning and on a roll it can feel like u can't lose. Just realize that u WILL face a lot of set backs- she will eventually see ur progress and the shit test will increase in frequency and intensity. Pass them with AM and AA. You are.changing the dynamics.of the relationship, in which she will sense, and will get really scared . My wife used to try to shit test me about about driving Home from… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/07/17 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Men, Woman, Children, and Dogs - Why I Treat My Wife Like Man's Best Friend - Part 1Awesome.. I'm definitely going to try this.. Curious, what other type situations did u try this? Thanks | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/06/17 01:38 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Simple and easy, but this stuff works.Yep! But what's EASY is also EASY not to do (Jim Rohn). Few fundamentals practiced everyday. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/06/17 04:57 PM |
| 8 | Stop Being so Fucking Logical (Stem Guys)Ha, yes and no. That's the crazy part, She's only 4'9" very submissive (now) and shy around people. On the outside we looked like the perfect couple, but had AAAF marriage. F in the bedroom. At home I was constantly shit tested.. Made it worst was that I was extremely beta and always compliant. Bought into the "if momma isn't happy them no one is happy" and "happy wife happy life" and "yes, dear.." Bullshit.. Muplity by 10 fucking years and 3 kids later, it got bad.. Really bad..So it wasn't the… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/06/17 10:37 PM |
| 33 | Own your shit to avoid her negative emotional intimacy"A wife trapped in a marriage to a husband she doesn’t want to fuck tends to be disrespectful, bitchy, and downright mean. He may be the nicest and most thoughtful husband in the world, but if he’s an unattractive chump in her eyes, nothing he ever does will be good enough. " This hit me square in the jaw. Pure gold. I was this beta thoughtful husband. Wish someone would have told me this when I got married. I was always home everyday immediately after work, sometimes got home before her, helped… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/06/17 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Kino (for Hard Case Newbies)Yep! thanks. Reminded me of something else: You need to start claiming (framing) that ass, and then ultimately that pussy, as your own.. -because it foreshadows the dirty talking you must do in the next step. - to level up. Once you established that her ass/tits/pussy is all yours, you solidify it via dirty talk during sex. The first time I told her during sex, "tell me that pussy is all mine" and she actually repeated it ..I was like HOLY FUCK. not my priceless?? I thought she was different/spe… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/06/17 04:42 PM |
| 14 | The Art of LearningOk, some tips for newbies: I won’t attempt to recreate the wheel, but just focus on the little things at first. The sex will come latter. Play for the long game. Don’t go off chasing the butterflies, mend your garden and the butterflies will come. 1) Time to create you a new life. Unfuck yourself. Get your head straight. be the lead role in your own life. Let go the huge resentment you have for her for not fucking you the past x years… today is a new day. Power of Now (read it). Never bring up t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/17 04:14 PM |
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