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I’m new to reddit so I don’t even know what an external IRL is. But you are right. I looked into it and it actually is me.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 11:01 PM
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Can I just ask. How did you deal with issues of fear ? I’ve seen his anger and vengeance and it makes me worry that he might come for me.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 10:40 PM
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It’s been an incredibly stressful time for all of us. I realized I was in an abusive relationship on Saturday and I’m where I am now and in a space of 6 days. Very grateful to my mom for sending me that ‘Signs of emotional abuse.’ Article because it validated my suspicions. But anyway. All is well. Thank you very much for the support. It is deeply appreciated.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 09:14 PM
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‘sometimes when an older man peruses a younger man, it’s because he wants a fan. And not a partner ‘ Damn, that is so true. That is exactly how I feel. I have decided to leave the relationship and I’ve joined a no contact ex Reddit. and I truly confident that I am well on my way out.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 04:23 PM
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Yea one I’ve come to realize abs accept that
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 04:17 PM
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Thank you. I’ve already gotten my hands on the book you recommended and I’ve started reading. Your comment about your ex jockingly saying he’s a sociopath made me remember that my my ex once jockingky said -‘ lol, I’m a hard ass right.... but you stay.’ But I’m making good progress. My intuition is saying I should leave and I always listen to my gut feeling. So I’ve decided to make a quiet and silent exit - im just going to say nothing. I’m just gonna ignore him. So I’m very eager to join the ex…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 04:05 PM
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Because sometime I feel like I’m crazy. I feel like I’m taking small misunderstandings and convincing myself and those around be that I’m being abused. I sometimes I genuinely feel like I’m crazy. And I believe that’s also a sign of abuse. Them making tug think your crazy. I’m sorry for responding 3 separate times. This is a challenging time for me. I appreciate all the help and support I can get. And often times I just need someone to talk to
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 11:04 AM
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Can you recommend any abuse subreddits that I could follow ?
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 10:58 AM
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Wow. This is such a powerful statement/ response. I will keep coming to back to it as a reminder of why I should just give up abs leave. Because that is what I’m looking for. I am seeking to reach a point where I realize that that me trying to change him is a hopeless situation. And then I just leave Thanks for the book recommendation. I will look and read into it. I really appreciate this reply
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 10:52 AM
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It’s hard for me because my partner does prioritize his work over me. He puts money over everything. He has a mindset that he is building an empire and nothing will get in his way. Not even his woman
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 08:18 AM
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Lol. I have a home, a very loving safe and happy home with my parents. In fact it was my mother who supported me and helped me see that I’m in an emotionally abusive relationship. I’m a qualified electrical engineer and I run my own business (which makes good money). So I’m not destitute without him. I was with him because of other benefits ( The guidance, provision and protection of a “captain” ) not because I needed him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 06:43 PM
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Life is challenging. Sometimes you think maybe shacking up with an older man is a good move because he’s experienced the challenges that come with life, maybe he can protect you and help you avoid them. Unlike being with your age mate, you are lost, he is lost, it’s the blind leading the blind. That’s one of the major reasons one ends up with an older man.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 06:37 PM
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Yes he is difficult, moody and complainy. He just isn’t temperamental. I’m not sure what you mean by frame but he has a small body frame.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 08:37 PM
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How are you surviving 😭? If my person doesn’t become kinder towards me I’m leaving him.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 08:32 PM
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Thank you fir this. It brings me hope.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 08:29 PM
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My first thoughts as I read your post was that your lack of confidence maybe a bigger problem than your actual looks. Looks are one thing, confidence is another. If you started to think of yourself as beautiful, carry yourself as though you were beautiful, love yourself as though you are beautiful. Your perspective on your ‘ugliness’ would probably change. Remember, people treat you the way you treat yourself. Try thinking of yourself as gorgeous and see how the world responds.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 06:40 PM
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I have just said a short prayer for you. God is with you. It will get better ❤️🙏🏾
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 11:11 PM
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This is already happening. In my journal tonight the word ‘abusive’ came up.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 08:50 PM
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Very relatable experience. My man was also having an off mood and I started worrying that it was because of me and we ended up in a big fight. From the experience I learned that i suppress many things so as to not ‘inconvenience him’ (My thoughts, not his words) and all that suppressing leads to me blowing up over small seemingly things. It’s challenging but the upside is that it brings to the surface things that need to be worked on in the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 07:47 PM
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After some thinking. I’m realizing that it is probably I who needs to change and take up more space in the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/20 05:45 PM
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I appreciate this comment. You are right, he is an alpha, and It’s insightful to hear from another alpha. I definitely don’t think I’d have money issues with him, but I’d definitely have freedom issues. I would not describe myself as a beta, I am just afraid of crossing respect boundaries. I have a fairly strong personality and have frequently bitten my tongue because I do not want him to feel disrespected or emasculated.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/20 05:43 PM
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Thank you. I appreciate this insight
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/20 05:36 PM
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You are very spot on by saying he wants others to change to his desires. He expects others to bend over backwards to impress him. It’s a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/20 05:35 PM
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He does not criticize me per say. He is just constantly correcting me. Sometimes I’ll have a good time something, an opinion or an idea but he’ll always come up with reasons why that won’t work and what he thinks is better. He really always believes that he knows best
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/20 05:30 PM
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Wow this response is definitely what I needed. It will help yo change my approach so as to not set myself up. I love it, thank you very much.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 05:54 PM
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This is certainly how I felt, but it’s almost like I do not trust my own feelings. It felt like I was convincing myself out of the love I say I want.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 07:23 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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